How to make an ENFP fall for you
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INTJ and ENFPs. ENFPs best match, ENFPs in love, ENFP in relationships, ENFP partner, ENFP commitment, INTJ in love with an ENFP, Myers Briggs compatibility, Dating an ENFP, Having a crush on an ENFP
Points in this video:
⭐1. Be authentic.
2. Feel comfortable/secure about yourself.
3. Want to talk about deep things, ideas, improvements, etc
⭐4. FREEDOM. Show your interests but don't always be there, give ENFP space so that they'll miss u.
5. Calmness.
⭐6. Have clear life-structure/ direction/ life-goals. Those will inspire ENFPs.
⭐7. Help them believe in themselves.
😉 seems like the characteristics of INTJs and INFJs
Why tho? INFJ needs an ability to wonder into their insecurities with somebody who cares. INFJ often focuses on a small amount of people and want to be around their partner with just some time for themselves.
Why even bother otherwise, INFJs want to guide but just as much - to be secure and safe, not always worrying abt whether we are authentic, confident e.t.c. enough. We already do this all the time, we need a break.
So no, one doesn't get a strong minded, self-sufficient INFJ without a goofy-clingy, fighting the world side of it. Otherwise it's just to much in exchange for too little.
Maybe these were the words used but idk, after watching it I felt like being alone might be better off than joining an adventurer like that.
For us to be aboard we need to see ourselves reaching the end together, bo matter the storms and hardships.
If it's not the case then it makes no sense.
Traits that draw me:
- depth both in ideas and emotions
- good listener
- can hold space with me
- can handle my intensity
- can have fun with me
- emotionally available
I have noticed my tendency to be more drawn to the xNxJ. The other part of the draw is differences that are complimentary in nature. It is possible to be drawn to other types. I notice I am not much drawn to T types as they seem to play their cards too close to their chest.
(ENFP)
As an ENFP 1w2 (yes I know this a debatable combination) I concur with the desire for xNxJ. N because it allows for us the connection of "seeing the patterns" and "reading between the lines" with another N. For me and this may speak to my 1 typing, J is like making up for lack of efficiency that comes with self discipline, organization, planning, etc that some of us can do, but at least for me is done super inefficiently. A J type is super desireable to me because it's almost like a motivating, pushing type that I need.
Being an ENFP 5w4, I don’t know why, however, I am somewhat usually drawn to xNFxs especially, then xNxJs and INFxs. It might be the best if he is an INFJ. INTJs usually seem cold and thinking types are usually not preferable for me because of the same cause you mentioned. INFJs are quite warmer and caring. But INTJs might keep your planning or thoughts in their schedule while making plans though it might not be seen at first and they may not express or inform you that most of the time.
I can hold backspace with you.
Let me see if I understand this correctly:
It has to be someone you look up to, who inspires you just by what they do, perhaps even leave you in awe. Preferable someone more calm and grounded, which could come from their certainty about where they're going, their direction. Their direction would also provide you space, as they gotta work towards it and not only spend their time with you.
Then, imagine that this person who you look up to, respect and admire is interested in you and wants all of you... Knowing that, you could let go completely and just be yourself. Now that sounds like a darn good recipe. I'd like that in a relationship
-An INFJ
You put it very nicely. Thanks to your Ni for that :)
Good conclusion, and I guess because you Infjs understand and value that is often why ENFPs are very happy with INFJs and the other way around
@J.O. Your comment hits home for me, the person that you describe sounds like who I aspire to be.
-An INTJ
@@darkrebel123 Mc Meme is been here for a while lol!
@@Mindimalist I see what you did there 😁 and yes McMeme has been lurking around these parts for awhile, I've been found out lol
Yes 🥳😁
-an ENFP
Ummm easy. Just trip them !!!! ... INTJ sticks foot out .. ENFP falls :p
LOL!!!
Then ENFP cheats on him.
Intjs are miserable creatures- enfp
@@24hrdiner I suppose some can be. I can't imagine all of them being miserable though. 👍
@@24hrdiner INFJs are waiting to intercept 😂
I like ENFPs so much that I can watch your videos without sound and still like them.
Aww, thanks!! (I hope you listened to the video still haha)
@@Mindimalist yes I did :)
I am an ENFP, I had to stop at the begining to write this : YES YES and YES so true ! Authenticity is key to get us interested in u no matter what type or personality you have, I hate it when people act like someone else, or try to pretend they like what I do just so we look like we "have similar taste or interests", I can instinctively feel if they are truely into that or just trying to be someone they're not and I can't stress enough about how that annoys me. Like I am super open minded so no matter what your actual self is you can be sure that I will accept you, that's why there's no need for facades and to try too hard when around me.
Yessssss!!! That’s why I had to make a sort of long explanation about authenticity. Because it’s sooo important :)
Thank you for this. I’m an istp who is attracted to an enfp. I feel we have a genuine connection and I would like to pursue a relationship. After this, I feel I have a shot. Are istps and enfps generally a good match for each other?
@@jayaedo3200 Aww that's so sweet!
I can't speak for everyone because we ENFPs (or any personality type) can manisfest in different variants, but from my own personal experience yes it can work, I have an ISTP best friend, in fact it can work very well too, ENFPs are dreamers and ideas generators but they come short when it comes to making their visions/ ideas come true, ISTPs can complement the ENFP very well in that regards.
Plus although ISTPs are sensors when I talk to them sometimes they are almost like intuitives, which is really great because I can talk to them about anything including deep subjects and they would still be able to hold the conversation!! They can be cold sometimes which can be an issue when I am on my lowest mood but they make up for it by being drama free so after I calm down I just naturally comeback to them and talk things out, ISTPs are the coolest ppl to be around! The fact that they can do all the things that we struggle with with so much ease is amazing!! I was talking with my sister the other day and was telling her how I wish I had an ISTP or ESTJ bf because I find them very attractive!
This is my own perspective and things can vary from person to person, but as long as you're being yourself, the ENFP will appreciate you uwu
I hope things will work out for you!
@@Nesallienna thank you so much🥰
Yes, don’t be fake, don’t be a sheep, don’t be a manipulative user, don’t get into a relationship just for sex or money. Don’t lie or deceive. Be authentic.
When you said "give space" you're right. I think the reason for that, or so I've heard is that we are considered the most introverted of the extrovert types. My roommate is an ENFJ and she makes me feel like an introvert and wanna hide in my room, she can out talk me and that's hard to do.
Oh yessss! Great comparison! I actually think that ENFJs are great for ENFPs. Have you seen my video already about both types?: ruclips.net/video/tthj0RaIjDY/видео.html
I'm an ENFP and my husband is an ISFJ; I love him when he's being simple & modest. He also gives space for my creativity at home and doesn't matter if the house is in a mess. And whenever I'm full in my head he always calms me down with his gentle words and attention.
This is lovely!!! ❤️
I'm dating an ISFJ and he may not care about my junk ( because im an enfp who is more organized than he is) but he isn't really great at the calming down and definitely doesn't use gentle words lol. He's quiet and stoic and isn't encouraging with words, and doesnt give much attention . I think mine is an ISFJ jumper perhaps (SiTi). I love that you get to have that part of an ISFJ; you're so lucky.
My wife doesn't love me when I'm being simple.
As an INTJ, even if I into you, I still don’t try to do this.
You do not need to try, because you are those things!
As an ENFP, in this period I find really hard to have a crush on someone, not to mention being actually in love.
I tried dating some guys, I have people who write to me, but none of them is interesting enough to make me think about them in THAT way.
The last time I was in love was last year, exactly one year ago, and It was so intense; he was INTJ, and he was sarcastic, so future-oriented, sometimes an asshole but very pragmatic, logic, proud of himself.
But it ended up really bad.
I feel like I really miss being in love, miss someone, have a crush ecc, but I also think that I can’t force my feelings, if no one seems interesting maybe it’s because they’re not for me, or it’s not destiny that that person is gonna stay with me.
I’m an intj I feel similarly
You guys are a lovely headache. Lol .Intj female here ...I've been dealing with an ENFP man, and I have to admit this has been one of my hugest challenges. At the beginning, I truly believed he was unbearable, at the end I fell for him...then he left me! All was so crazy and pasional ...I ended up "devastated "mentally because I couldn't forget him... and he is like a butterfly... you guys! Are dangerous . Interesting channel anyway!
Im sorry to heard that..... i hope you are okay and well now
Amen! I cannot handle needy/clingy people, either as a friend or significant other. I will be there for your but I cannot be your the answer of for your life.
Yesssss!!! Best way to scare the ENFP = clinginess
@@AH--173 that's not been my experience. Every INFJ I know serves to be a compliment and encouragement to what I do in my life. Unless they're very young, or very immature, INFJs are not clingy.
Crystal Mullen agreed
Needy/clingy comes from Trauma. So you cannot handle people who've been traumatized. 😥
@@_Trakman There is no way to live in this world without experiencing trauma. Some of the strongest people I know are single moms, nurses, preachers, and E.R. doctors (just to name a few). Each of these categories have suffered great personal trauma but precious few of them look to the strength of others to perpetually be their strength and source for life. We all need help from time to time. We all experience seasons of trauma, but its those who learn to grow through it that I respect. Hope that helps.
Daamn now I really want to meet an ENFP! INFJ here btw
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My biggest thing is don't be TOO clingy.
The type I'm drawn to the most is definitely INTJ. Smart, funny, witty, not too emotional, isn't too reactionary to my emotions. I need a rock, someone that is balanced, even-keeled. An INTJ that never stops teaching me things is perfect. My best friend is INTJ, one of my first memories with them is when I asked them to learn how to play backgammon so they could teach me. They looked up the rules, learned, and taught me. I ended up beating them multiple times in a row.
INFJs have potential as romantic partners, they can be funny, and smart, and we speak the same intuitive language (same with INTJ), HOWEVER I often find them too emotional, and too clingy. Please if you are INFJ that likes an ENFP, don't gush out your emotions. Keeping pictures of my dad and me as a baby when we're not dating, when we don't even talk to each other every day, IS WEIRD. I literally had to point out to INFJ that they asked what I'm doing three times in an hour. Please, no. Just relax be yourself, we shouldn't be your whole world. This is my experience anyway.
Until this Day I was thinking of myself like I am some crazy, weird person with some vivid thoughts about person who I wanna be with. THANK YOU for saying to me I am not and showing there is more of People like me! In some way it gives me that Little confidence and feel if safetiness that we ENFP needs 🥰
Thanks for sharing, and you’re welcome!That’s exactly why I do this!!! ❤️🙏🏻😊
Your channel deserves more attention..you speak all that's happening in my ENFP mind!! Lots of love and best wishes!!🙂
Lovely to hear! I'll be posting more content for ENFPs for sure!!!
I think I understand what you mean, we are attracted to someone easily, but in order to make us fall in love and commit to you, that's super hard.
I can't count the number of crushes I've had on people before, sometimes multiple people at the same time, but I've only fallen in love once in my life so far.
Having many crushes is the product of Ne, I believe... but we long for someone who can deeply engage with our Fi. If someone gets there, they have our Ne attention for real and for the long haul :)
@@Mindimalist Exactly! Ppl who don't understand us may see us and think that we're unfaithful or players but that couldn't be further from the truth, I ve never gone through with a relationship where I didn't feel deeply connected with the other person.
Am I flirtatious? I guess I am since I talk to many people that I find interesting but that never lasts for more than 2 weeks if I don't feel the connexion, my morals won't allow me to mislead or use ppl for the sake of short term pleasure. Or if I am not sure about them.
That being said, the only time I fell in love with someone I gave that relationship my all, it ended up not working but while I was with them I litterally couldn't see any other men, like, no one other than that person existed in my eyes. I was very faithful and loyal to those feelings even years after we broke up.
If an ENFP drags things out then chances are they simply like you but don't love you.
@@Nesallienna oh yes!!! ENFPs when they love a person, faithfulness is guaranteed!!! That might not happen often, because we lose interest soon, but if our Ne and Fi are happy, they got us!!!
Thanks for sharing 😊
My ENFP husband has to "try it on" before he knows if he likes it. I am good for him because I can tell before hand if it/the person is going to bug him ahead of time. We were able to get him into two fields that change very fast so if he doesn't like what he's working on, he can at least tolerate it until that project is done. Then onto the next project. Once we figured that out, things got fun and easy.
Wow you sound like a great help for him. Are you an INTJ perhaps?
@@Mindimalist I studied both INFJ and INTJ very closely for about a year, along with INFP because you figure out real quick there is a "controversy" that doesn't need to be there, and I just don't "fit in" in INTJ land. When we moved, my new neighbor was a very clear INTJ and I could tell us apart very easily. So I am pretty sure INFJ. Of course, there is a big stink made about that too...but hey, I didn't design the program.
you should have millions of subscribes based on the content that you ae providing
Thank you! I’m persistent, and I’m sure I’ll make it far with the support of people like you!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed your video. I would agree, we are good at spotting fakes, be yourself. And yea the worst thing you can do to a ENFP, or at least to me is if I am given an ultimatum , I do like my options open.. :)
Paragon yesss, and someone who let us feel like we have our options open is what makes us want to commit and give ourselves to one person only! The ones who want to “cage us” from the beginning just create the opposite effect.
@@Mindimalist well said, I happened upon your channel when watching some mbti vids and I really enjoy it. I really like your insights. I feel like sometimes people don't always get us, it's nice to see others like yourself, I know at times I can feel sort of alien and although I get along with almost anyone I find myself craving deeper more intellectual conversation :). It's not always fun to have to slow down so much when talking to others, I hope you know what I mean. So that's when I watch some other ENFPs and muse on how much we are all alike in many ways. Wish you the best.
@@Lancer78x Getting along with almost anyone is very common for us. Still if we don't feed our Ne throughout conversations with others, I notice that we might feel a void, and lack of depth in that relationship.
Thank you! I get what you mean, I feel the same way when I read what you write, and the way you say it, it's like I get it and also I can see how I could also think and elaborate on a similar way. Lovely!!
Thanks for your videos! Greetings from an ENFP
By your definition - they haven't fallen for you - if they are able to live their life happily and independently, whether you decide to be around or go off for a while to be a free spirit - then I wouldn't say they have fallen for you. They enjoy your company, but they can take it or leave it and they won't miss you not being there, because there are enough 'other things' to keep them feeling fulfilled.
I'm thinking about that song 'Without You' by Harry Nilsson... 'I can't live.. if living is without you!' - That would be a person ENFPs would steer clear of.
If you like someone, and you can catch their attention (Which you most likely won't), you can show them what type of person you are, and they might fall for you or they might not. You just have to accept the outcome. If they don't fall for you - then it just wasn't meant to be. You can't force it.
I love this comment. It’s so true. You can’t force anything and you have to be yourself - that’s the message I hope I can convey with this video -. Being your most real self will attract the right people who are also the right match for you (but some people won’t feel attracted to you along the way and that’s also okay)
Howdy, ENFP here. I understand where you're coming from, but I wouldn't necessarily say that's true. Before you can have a healthy relationship, you must first be content with yourself. Aka, independent lol. So, I would say we (or at least I) look for someone who isn't with me because the need me, but rather want me. I want them to choose me even though they CAN live a happy independent life. And them not being around me doesn't mean they don't miss me but are simply balanced.
Now THAT is attractive.
So in summary y’all fall for INFJs basically lol
July Bay haha that’s a good conclusion. I think we do/
They are defo really cool.. ⚡
Absolutely!
I did.
Either INFJ or INTJ, but yes, mostly yes :)
ENFP here
I fall in love with soooo many people. It's so hard to determine who's actually "the one" because at least 20 have been "the one" lol Team Single For Life
Honestly sounds like ENFP + a dating app = choice paralysis to the maximum 😂
I (INTJ) am no more excited in catching an ENFP on Tinder, it feels impossible. xNTJs on the other hand? No problem getting a date, and a good one, at that.
U made me laugh so loud hhhhh
So accurate
ENFP here 😂
Haha 😘😘
As an infj this is so easy to follow
I love INFJs
Yeah Enfp like a lot of space until they're missing you or they need something and then they're calling you 20 times a day I think this is one of the worst personality types in the worst relationship I ever had with someone total walking contradiction selfish nature completely unreliable
Sorry to hear. Yes, there can be a lot of confusion because of the way ENFPs behave, even more, if they are immature. This video could help to identify better if the ENFP likes you for real or is just confused and not being straightforward about just wanting to be friends ruclips.net/video/jICa3q9fTqo/видео.html
@@Mindimalist I really appreciate that you didn't get offended at my reply and that you posted such a meaningful response to thank you I've been dating her for a few years waiting on my divorce and she has some personality issue like a borderline or something so this fight she doesn't remember we made plans for breakfast and she pretty much blew me off whole weekend to work on her house work called me late Sunday I was just pissed like she wants me to be in her life but because I'm not yet divorced she doesn't want to have me around your friends or her sisters so when things with them comes up I can't be included but then when she calls me and wants me to be available and if I can't it's end of the world this time she said she doesn't want this relationship anymore she used to say she could give me all the attention I needed but now she's saying probably she can't and it's too much she's done it's over
@@soulburning2000 PFff this person sounds like she has some serious issues. I don't think this is because she's an ENFP. There are messed up people with personality disorders and twisted values of every personality type, unfortunately.
I hope you find your way with or without her!!
😅😅😅
@@soulburning2000 I am sorry to hear that, this sounds like someone who is still immature and unsure of what they want, personality type has nothing to do with how good or bad a person is, as an example both Hitler and Jesus were typed as INFJs though they are from both ends of the spectrum, same goes for ENFPs or any other type.
If you had an issue with someone in the past its not right to project their image onto every single person from that personality type, there are good and bad people in every personality type like I said before, you just have to find the right match for you.
This is so spot on! That stuff about being attracted to those who are grounded and more focused etc. Very true. I recently started talking to an ISFJ and all the things that attract me to him - you just mentioned! Crazy haha, I'm so blown away.
I am an enfp and he is an enfp as well (I always thought he was introverted and other traits like more focused and responsible (he has become very wealthy now). What frustrates me the most is that he is not as expressive and talkative as I am, something that has made anxious because I have never known how to communicate better with him. It's been 6 long years that either I or he didn't make it happen (become a couple).
We talk every other three or four months. I am tired that he doesn't fully man up and accept that he loves me that much that he can never let me go (as sadly happens with me). I am a straight forward person and he doesn't. He just have texted me after a couple of minutes ago after two months of no contact with: "how is it going?!!!" I tend to reply with anger and then I regret it that he finally got courage to say something. He has everything running smoothly in his life while I struggle with almost everything and feel I have no one to rely on. Out all of the people in the world, I trust him he knows everything about me and at this point of my existence,I would expect him to be the leading masculine energy in my life. I am literally a hot mess while he seems like an intj...
I feel like I am living my own version of "pride and prejudice"... It's been 6 years... 😞
What can I do ?!!!
😭😭 the falling in love is so true like I made eye contact with this boy for 0.00000077 seconds and I love him now 😭😭😭 :(
1. Be an INTJ
2. ???
2. Be an INFJ
I fall in love INTJ since he said the second sentence! Haha
What took you so long? ;)
Great video! Good job! Agree with almost everything except the space. I personally do not like space from my significant other but that could only be me 😂! Good job again 👍
-ENFP-T
I agree with that, once we're in a real committed relationship we want to do everything together haha, well very few occasions we would long for our alone time. Here I mention the beginning stages of dating, just to clarify. Wouldn't you feel annoyed/wanting to run away, if the person is sucking your time and energy? (I believe that with the ENFP we reach the point of wanting to spend a lot of time together, in a natural way and need to come from ourselves) that was my point :)
@@Mindimalist thank you for clearing that up😊! Appreciate that, also if you ever wanna work on a video together even tho we have different niche, let me know🙂! Feel free to check out my channel
As a male Enfp I can relate on every of your points. Even tho I think it’s harder for a man wanting a woman who is so structured and authentic, because many woman still lives with old mindsets like being a housewife and doesn’t have any interesting plans for live and their development as a person. And many woman wants that for a man, being structured, organized etc. which is hard for an enfp obviously.
As an INTJ I just started dating an ENFP and I'm very happy, so there's hope.
As an INFJ, I would like to offer Mario kart and pizza on a Friday night 👍
"old mindset"? lmao. Being an housewife isn't a thing about not improving, actually it's the opposite. Its understanding that thats what you love for you and your family, Einstein. Being clever doesn't make you automatically smart, remember that.
What if one just supplied the ENFP with a coloring-in book and a box of animal cookies?
Would that be a winning strategy?
Thomas Carlyle wrote "The wise man adjusts himself" (so is somewhat inauthentic) and there was this character in Twain's "The Prince and The Pauper" who helped the Prince get back to his station with some make-pretend (inauthenticity), ergo ENFPs fall past wisdom's assistance to the juicy beating heart of the individual, i.e. The Core Values.
ENFP dating ground = Nuclear Plant.
If God Almighty were to advice a plan to snag fairest ENFP He'd point to some plutonium as if it were a lollipop.
Works like a charm.
Omg this made me laugh with understanding and think deeply both at the same time. Fantastic quote btw
@@elypelowski5670 I'm glad someone enjoyed it.
Hahahaha! Either could work, so true. The colouring book or the cookies.
Or the (explosive) lollipop.
I get your point with authenticity. And to some extent I even agree with it. But indeed I was talking about what feels authentic according to what the ENFP feels is authentic. Don’t forget the Fi factor there 🙃.
Always nice reading your comments btw :)
😅🤣😅
I'm a ESTJ my ex was ENFP so we didn't sync. I'm now happy and solitude .
I feel really bad when I realise that there are very few people who REALLY understand us. Even if you say INFJs or INTJs have all those features, they are also rarer even than ENFPs.
Hi, I'm an INFP and I love ENFPs uninconditionally, with all my heart ❤️ I love your intensity and ideas, the way you laugh, your positive energy and your feelings and your chaos, all. I love all of ENFPs. I have an ENFP sister and ENFP friends, and you ALWAYS light my heart, and I feel a warm energy in my soul around you that makes me truly happy. It's crazy the synergy I feel with ENFPs. Your really deserve to feel understood and validated because you're all damn adorable genious 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 Heyyyy, I have an INFP sibling brother too, though he becomes silent and makes a stupid face for half an hour with me when I sometimes make chaos in order to distract him by drawing his attention from his device, but he feels the security and have the most faith on me than rest of the family members, which I really love. 🥰
@@smazynashiya8234 Lol that's really cute. I guess every INFP is different but I can't be on my device when my ENFP sister is telling me stories, it's really entertaining to me. In my case it's the opposite, there's more probability of her being distracted in the phone than me, I'm more aware of spending time in the real world and I use every opportunity to have meaningful interactions (when I'm not drained obviously).
I understand where you are coming from. I am an INFJ; took me a long time to come to the realization of who and what I am; I call it "being comfortable in my own skin". Once I realized what I am, I made the vow to always be true to myself. I came to understand also that with me, having a lot of friends is NOT as important as having QUALITY friends; sometimes less is more and life can always be quality over quantity.
Hah! It sounds like I am exactly what an ENFP is looking for. Form an orderly line, please! ;)
LOL INJT, we are so odd we can mostly only match up with the "universal donor" personality. I am doomed :)
Please help me. How do you flirt with an ENFP girl? Is telling them straight up front that you like them a bad idea or even a good idea? I once had an ENFP crush who definitely showed some interest, but I waited to long to make a move(INTJ) and she had moved on within a couple of weeks lol.
it deppends on the person n the situation we're not all the same but i can tell u that we don't like to wait we're pretty impatient so if she showed interest just go for it or she'll think u don't like her that way n move on. alsooo if u guys r already friends then just tell her straight up front that u like her if not don't lol n try to spend time with her first.
if u followed wat i said n it didn't work out, i'm sorry for ruining it 😂🤣🤣
@@thatbee1106 ty
@@thatbee1106 so true! We are impatient. At least I am 🤣
You need to Need advices only her can offer, ask her out for fun activities you never tried by yourself, spot what makes her smile and find a way to reintroduce it in the future in the form of a gift. Handmade is ❤
Be genuine about your feelings about her straightforward but non agressive and ask her if she could imagine something between you.
If you don't know how to express your feelings you Can tell what you saw about her that nobody saw that fired you up.
ENTJ here! Trying to understand ENFP 😉
Same
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@@Russianboyz95 Haha! I mistyped myself initially. I'm definitely an INTJ.
@@intj1782 haha, yeah I feel it's easy to mistype as your extroverted counterpart.
Sounds good, where can I find one?
To all the ENFP ladies here, what's your thought/experience with an INFP male? (INFP here)
My thoughts on the ENFP - INFP synergy are in this video: ruclips.net/video/V2cWHGliWTI/видео.html
I must be the only INTJ that gets upset every time I speak with an ENFP acquaintance of mine. The amount of condescension is palpable. I sincerely do not comprehend why he continues to contact me. I feel like doing a door slam next.
My dad is INTJ and I know I annoy and overwhelm him often. Just remember that ENFPs can't read minds and just need to be TOLD how you feel. I know that may be easier said than done, but if you care about this person, communicating your feelings verbally is the most effective method to get through to them.
I don't feel so bad for it now, you can't help it if you like all those people lmao
New to your channel. Sounds like you would pair well with INTJ?
Absolutely. I have great relationships with INTJs in my life. There's a video where I explain how I know INTJs behaviour so well: ruclips.net/video/EY-nxJrC-18/видео.html
She described an INTJ. 😂
Seems like ENTJ would be the best match.
What are signs that an ENFP is interested in me and if so how to approach her?
Did you check this video? ruclips.net/video/jICa3q9fTqo/видео.html I talk about that here.
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I'll check it out.
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@@acharich haha I hope you took those notes correctly!! ;)
In your opinion, which is the better match for an ENFP, and INFJ or an INTJ?
I can’t give an absolute answer here, because there are many types of ENFPs as I explained in the video, based on their enneagrams, education, cultural background, so I can only speak for myself, I think that INFJ seems to be a better romantic match over INTJ (but both are great matches it just depends on what you need honestly) :)
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or ENFJ even
sounds kinda hard for an infj to do majority of these
Amazing
Pro tip:be a infj
How would someone even know you are an enfp? most people haven't even taken that test and not someth9ing that is regularly asked
Nah, not too rare. It's a pretty well-known test.
You've already fallen .... Lololol 😜
How do you mean?
I love her accent 😂😂😅😊❤💚
You’re very kind. Thank you 🙃
ENFP here
SIMPLE NO SENSORS ,NO INTJS
It’s not easy
Haha agreed!
Hi my RUclips friends, you might also want to check out this video: Signs that an ENFP likes you or not - Dating
ruclips.net/video/jICa3q9fTqo/видео.html
Hot and cold, fickle, will "accidentally" lead you on. Want to have deep conversations but shallow connections with everyone. No thanks.
If you dislike ENFP’s so much why then are you watching so many of my videos as if you were trying to learn more about then?
I personally don’t spend my time and energy on things that I don’t like or want. It really surprises me.
It’s pretty masochistic to be honest. Ugh.
My goodness! Nearly four minutes of waffle before you get to the point!
Could you not find a kinder way of stating your opinion? You do know you're talking to a person right? How would you feel if someone commented this abrasive on something you posted? Just something to think about...
Yeah, I could have made that part shorter, but still, I thought it was needed. You can always skip parts, and press forward.
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@Indigo Rodent Exactly!!!!!!! Basically, people who don't like our style and the way expand on subjects (or get lost in subjects lol), are free to go to another channel where this doesn't happen :)
@@Mindimalist I thought the video was fine, this guy is probably a sensor with no Ne. He'll never "get it". Lost cause. I'm an intj, keep doin your enfp thing , don't listen to the haters and the losers
Total bs. Who doesnt like authentic, confident People??
Well, then move on to another channel instead of spilling your poison onto others peoples work 😜😘
No one 😉
- INTJ
You'd be surprised. Some people just enjoy the fun of unraveling someone else. Think of "the bad-boy" aesthetic for an example.