britney codrington You'll get there sis! When it happened I was destroyed on the inside. Now I laugh about it all the time like "wow his sneaky dumb ass" lol
just wanted to know if u feel better bc i want to know it gets better i kinda feel like i need the proof i’m sorry if this is wierd i feel like i just lost the love of my life and it’s been hard to live my daily life and eat, sleep, even thinking. it’s all really difficult and i’m freaking out as of right now bc he hates me and i know he hates me bc he told me and then left me for my best friend i just need to know it gets better i’m so sorry if this comes off chaotic
@@andivoelkel364 Hey honey. It does, it really does. You said 'love of your life' of if it were so that wouldn't have happened. Know this is hard and a bit cliché but just focus on you. Go out...stop being cooped up in the house all the time, journal your feelings. Live *YOUR* life for you. What do you want to wake up to..work towards that. Cry, it's okay to cry, but always give yourself a cut off point. One day you'll feel good reaaalll happy that you moved on. When your depressed do a couple streches, I don't know what it is but once you start doing something physical the thought of them completely goes. Trust yourself, you've got this
"She didn’t take anything from me but a back stabber, a traitor & a headache & if he can be taken away from me that easily, you just took my headache away….Basically, she is a Tylenol."...What a FANTASTIC analysis Nu Mindframe: You are my HERO & You are Wise beyond your years! Thanks : )
Did we date the same person? I needed this video seriously. You are right it kills your ego. Deep down you know you aren't missing out, but its that abandonment and rejection that screws you up.
The secret to overcome such situation is to think that your value doesn't depends on the validation or acceptance of the other person. Obviously we'd like to be liked by the person we want but unfortunately is not that common.
Absolutely. Some dude left me for another woman with these parting words, "You don't want me or can't have me? You mean as much to me as a crack addict." Lucky lady, eh? Among other jabs such as... "Lose some weight, show me what I'm missing and masturbate to my Facebook pictures." "Your thighs are gelatinous." And my personal favorite... "Why should l come over? Are you going to be Scarlett Johansson or something?"
My ex husband would never cheat, we are married and I'm good to him,,,,, he cheated and lied about it when we're married, please don't say it will never happen to you, I hope it doesn't but it happened to me and I thought he would never do that
"When somebody leaves your life, it is because they no longer vibrate on the same frequency level as you. Y'all are not compatible anymore, and there is something better for you out there." When she said those words, I was emotionally triggered and started crying because it's so painfully true :( I follow her on Twitter, and I love reading her tweets and watching her videos as well. She's so wise and beautiful
Some people believe that. I've seen a lot of informal videos saying that's wrong. God might take people out of your lives occasionally, but it's definitely not God who's in charge of making people break hearts for another person. God is good and has set His own standards in this world. If people don't want to live by those standards, that's not God's plan.
My ex dumped me but he didn't leave me for anyone else, he just replaced me really really fast..like weeks after. I was still left reeling from the break up and he was lovey dovey with someone else, going on trips with her and posting it all over social media. I was so hurt but I worked on myself for a long time and eventually met my current partner who I've been with for 6 years. Him and her ... they broke up and he's currently still single probably because noone wants to real with his manipulative ways. I know this because he added me back on Facebook after they broke up. He tried flirting with me but nope, not happening because I love my man.
I was talking to a guy it was long distance and it was hard to see each other at the time and while we were talking he told me he had feelings for someone else I get out of the way and he immediately gets in a relationship with the girl. He called me outta the blue almost a month ago he came over told me he wasn’t in a “real” relationship and was gonna break up with her and like an idiot I F fucked hiM. I was creeping on his “girlfriends “ fb and realized he wrote a comment under a pic of them about how much he loved her, so I wrote about how I fucked him just a few weeks ago lol I think their still together but she’s an idiot 2 I told her the truth which is he was trying to cheat on her with me since the beginning of their relationship. Now he knows I’m not with the shits he’ll probably just find someone else to cheat on her with, but I promised myself I won’t check his stupid social media anymore ima just hurt my own feelings 🙄
Omg same! He broke up with me for valid reasons (on 25 october, we were together for 2 years and 2 months) but 6 days after he and his female bestfriend kissed, and some days after they became a couple, because they are a better match. Idk what to think..he would like to be friends and i would like too, but i have to get over him and honestly i'm scared that it will take a lot of time...
Dhairya Seth I understand you. I know why you feel like that. I am 52 and all my best years as a woman have been used up by 3 men I gave all I could only to be left after cheating, outside children that just has made me feel as if I been worth nothing to them, and my kids although they are grown now. I married almost 9 years to my husband no kids but history repeated on me. I am to blame because I just cannot seem to see through what I should and not have married men that would not respect me. I am smart in many things but not recognising and being able to properly identify a genuine man in the early stages so if I get through what I am going through I will be so happy to just wake up and feel ok not in emotional pain that I don’t want to try again. It feels like its too life threatening for me to risk living my life with someone again, if it would even be possible at my age after my husband has gotten his divorce from me 🙏🏼
If u dont leave a situation where u are getting the short end if the stick, God will remove them because he wants u to practice self-love (paraphrasing). This happebed to me, twice!
Thank you for this! My husband just filed for divorce from me because he had an affair with a younger woman. We were married 28 years! I gave him everything! I was faithful and a good wife. Well loooooong story short, she left him because she found out some stuff out about his past. Talk about bad KARMA! BAM! Now he has no one and our own adult children are happy he's gone. I forgave him and have let go. Our divorce will be final on January 2! I've already been asked out. I told the guy that I am not ready for a relationship until I get myself better and in a good place. So BRING ON 2019 FATHER GOD BECAUSE HERE I COME! I'm a new subscriber and love your attitude and advice! Thank you ✌🏻♥️🕊😊 P.S. I just went through and looked at your uploads and every single one is pertinent to me and my life. Wow, I am so happy I stumbled on and watched this video from you! That's GOOD karma! ♥️✌🏻
X2Y2 Awe, thank you for your kind words. I appreciate it. Life can sure throw us curve balls sometimes but I can throw them right back! Blessings and peace to you as well. ✌️🏻❤️🕊
Sorry to hear that. My gf got engaged to someone else while we were still together and did not tell me until August of this year. P.S I wish you nothing but love, happiness, and peace you definitely deserve it
When someone leaves you for someone else, someone you love it damages and destroys your entire being.. It can't ruin you forever if you can't escape it.. Your love is all those vunerable parts of you that you don't give to many.. You have to mean the world to that person to give that away and when that is betrayed.. It does leave you broke, it leaves you angry and bitter.. It just does.. Sorry isn't enough, trying to forgive isn't enough.. And its because you were cut to the core.. You're entire being is in flames.. Burning endlessly over the thought.. Its beyond just abuse.. This was your everything and they are telling you that they don't believe you are good enough.. It is considered one of the worse things you can do to someone for a reason..
in a relationship the partner that can share and display the most love is the better partner and probably individual. A healthy relationship should be two partners Competing to show their love to each other. Most people are competitive in many things but not in displays of love, and that’s sad
i learned a long time ago not to speak to anyone about what I am going through and because of that, I am dealing with it alone but your video gave me so much encouragement that the pain relents eventually. And when you said "God wont leave you hanging"... that was everything in this moment. Thank you.
I had to learn this the hard way luv! It’s embarrassing when you are speaking about this to someone who doesn’t have your best interest at heart. And will run tell your business
The pain that I’m feeling, feels like there’s no overcoming it, like there’s no way out. But I know that I will conquer this, I will heal, and move forward because I’m choosing to grab back my happiness and my self worth. Thank you soooooooo much for sharing this video, I’m late finding this jewel, but the timing couldn’t have been more perfect! Again thank you! ❤️
This happened to me fairly recently...my ex boyfriend leaving me for someone else. He was gone AND got his new girlfriend pregnant when just a few months prior he had been talking about wanting to get married and have kids with me. I was devastated , and it took me a long time to process what was happening. I don't think I really came to terms with it all until I watched this video. You are relatable and wise and so real , and I so needed to hear your message. It helped me so much. Thank you for making this video!!
I sympathize so much with everyone's posts. My story is just plain weird. My Christian fiance of 2 years was professing his undying love for me, telling me to quit my job and move across the country with him, raving about the house he was going to buy to 'secure our future,' sending me hundreds of love stickers on messenger, then 24 hours later, more or less ghosted me for a woman he met at church. He called it God's will. He only knew her two weeks. He completely shut off the switch to my existence like a sociopath. I am in week 8 of grieving, and have suffered the most indescribable agony of my life. Our mutual friend tells me he has set a wedding date for this July. He is euphorically happy and apparently never asks our mutual friend how I'm doing, or shows any remorse. In fact, the only mention of me was that I was a 'mistake, a burden, depressed, a weight, not a woman of faith, and someone the 'devil used to sidetrack him' this past year. I loved him more than anything, and he jumped ship when he found 'a better package.' He was my best friend, my rock, my greatest supporter, and just like that he switched off his emotions. What makes it so cruel is that he played the game right up to the night before ghosting me. I never saw it coming. He was calling me his precious angel just hours before ditching me. Maybe if I owned a big ocean front home like her,, he would have stayed with me! I was loyal and good to him, but he made me feel like in God's eyes I was lacking. Pure scum he was.
@BB80Delta I am doing so well now! It's amazing what time and distance and educating yourself on abuse will do for your healing! I went to therapy for a couple of years and my therapist said she thought he most likely had antisocial personality disorder, ie was a sociopath. Thanks for your sweet comment! ❤
I can relate...ur story sounds like textbook toxic break up....It confirms that nothing new is happening...these kind of break ups will continue to happen til the end of the time.... totally resonates with me
When someone leaves you for someone else. And there ex shows up no need to argue or fight. Suck it up and walk away. It’s never easy but trust me you’ll save your face or shame if you get in a confrontation. Let it go
I love what you're saying! Big help. My Ex left me for someone else as well. I am tormented and saw the photos of her new boyfriend. I'm hurting so bad right now. Hurts like hell. Only been 1.5 months!!!
Tre Tucker for me it was 2.5 then he stopped really doing anything and broke up with me bc “our relationship wasn’t working” but my friends kept a secret from me that he was having dreams about Mia and wanted to be with her instead of me and now I’m just heartbroken 😭💔
I was dumped via text. Out of left field. No reason. No explanation, just "have a nice life." Well, I guess the reason was the other women. I hope they don't end up as broken as I am. Good luck to them.
You are so on point. Nothing will leave your life if it was meant for you. What's yours is yours. Plus we don't own people, we only get to experience them. You also mentioned surrendering and don't let your ego make you hold on to someone that wanted to leave. Give them your blessing and let Karma do it's work. The relationship was meant to teach you something.
I'm so happy you've found someone to reciprocate the love that your beautiful heart has to give. You've been through so much and is so deserving of a loving, respectful relationship.❤#neversettle4arelationshit
Thanks. My ego did take a hit. Realize I was too good for my husband. My ex and the woman he left me for are both are cancer survivors but they couldn't thank God for his mercies. Good luck to both of them because they need it!!!
Wow!! Going through this now. My ex cheated on me with his children's Mother and then dumped me and moved into her home. Despite, her treating him so badly in the past and cheating on him. Thank you for this profound, uplifting, motivating, inspiring video. My ex was too weak, to stand up to his manipulative, controlling ex. It's like that saying; "A dog always, returns to his vomit" Always, know your worth and what you bring to the table and never, ever settle for less than you deserve!!
In the beginning of the relationship where it was all new and fresh, he said that exact thing. Ofc, I say yes. Today, he broke up with me for someone else. It hurts knowing his heart is in another place. All I wish him is for his peace and to get what he wants out of life.
I don’t personally know you but I want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for the inspiration that you gave. Deep down words can’t really explain but I truly appreciate it 💝
"When somebody leave your life they no longer vibrating on the same frequency as you." I would have never thought of it that way! Can you do a video on ways to start your spiritual journey?
Unscripted and straight from the heart. So well said. Intelligently put with love and compassion for those who have “suffered” through an unexpected breakup. Much love back to you. You’re a true angel.
Wow this resonated with me so much it’s insane. I was the one who left because I knew something was off because the ex was still lingering and a week later, boom they’re suddenly back together. I am now realizing there is a higher purpose to this and this was a lesson to love myself more. Thank you so much for your reassuring words. God bless 💜💜
I'm applying this to a situation where for 2 out of the 4 years we were together, he told me that there was nothing there. Of course he was with her the moment we broke up. Thank you!
Wow ! This was so good. This video was made for me. I'm in tears. And you posted this when I found out my boyfriend gotten another girl pregnant . After 8 years with him and a miscarriage.. I still think of this every single day. And I'm still so upset at him about this. I'm upset at this girl too. It's been so hard just waking up and living through this. Thank you for posting this. Thank you so much
Thank you for this, my ex cheated on me with my ex best friend.(I’ve had loved her for 3 years)It’s been 1 and half a year already since it happened and I’m still lost in the pain. I lost not only my girl but my friend also and I was just lost and didn’t know what to do. I was facing depression, anxiety, insomnia, suicidal thoughts and everything was just messed up. I was filled with anger and pain. My self esteem and trust was lost. I don’t wish anything bad on her because my love is pure for her after everything but I know I don’t wanna be with her but that I want to learn to forgive and mostly forget so I can be at ease. This unease feeing been in my heart for so long and I used to use drugs to numb the pain but I’ve stopped and know that I need to improve on myself. Thanks for reading . .
same feeling brother and I don't know when and how I Will feel okay..can't show my tears to my family also otherwise they will be tensed..only God can help me
368 RUclips videos later I found yours. My God you are heaven sent. I’ve heard so many different approaches on how to get through this whole cheat/ breakup deal. After listening to your video... IT ALL MADE SO MUCH SENSE. I can’t thank you enough for sharing because I now see that I have been asking the wrong questions ( worrying about him) I needed to worry about me because this was truly out of my control and your not fully crazy until you constantly try to control something that is out of your control. The end of this video was dead on for me, “what if they are happy together? Or what if they break up “ it means nothing and it changes nothing!!! It just wasn’t meant to be and I need to forgive him FOR ME AND ME ONLY. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
I usually don't comment on videos but this is an exception because your advice helped me so much since I'm going through a similiar situation. I'm really hurt and upset even though I don't want him back. It's just my ego that's damaged and that I will have to build up again. Hearing those words from you gives me a lot of strengh to work on myself in order to have a better life with people who choose to be with me. Thank you 💕💕
My ex left me 4.5 mos ago and started dating a new woman a week later. We were together for 2 years. Its not an ego thing for me, i truly miss him and want him back.
A year ago I would rewatch this video every time I found it hard to deal with being left. This helped me so much to heal and understand why that happened to me. I want to thank you so much for sharing this. I can’t explain how much this helped me.
its 5 in the morning and i haven’t been able to sleep because i’ve been thinking about him. i dealt with him and his ex for 6 months and i know he’s left us both for someone else now. not only has he left me for his ex MULTIPLE times but now he left me for someone new. my ego is double hurt and all of my friends kept warning me about him. but i am so thankful i came across your video. my ego is my worst enemy. i really want to let it all go. thank you for this. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
🙁😕a month and 2 weeks into my first heartbreak turning 23, who woulda known I waited all this time for this? My outlook on marriage and families are so bruised, almost ruined..I didn’t know you could physically feel your heart shattered, I always thought it was a metaphor ...., Everyday it feels the same, and no matter how hard I wanna get out of it, the next person gotta deal with it, no matter how occupied I am , it haunts me this happened, I don’t believe time heals I think there’s something I’m not doing right, but I can’t figure it out... I just need out of this darkness so I can get back to life. What a waist of good woman 😞😔😢💔🚶🏿♀️
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Thank you for the video. This happened to me recently. I was dumped out of the blue, with close to ne explanations. She left me for a co-worker but didn’t find the courage to tell me… I found out a couple of days after that they got serious right after.. it hurt my ego a lot. Sometimes you realize who a person is only after they breakup. I love her, but it would be easier to hate her to move on. But that ain’t my way of operating. Your video helped me a lot. Thank you ❤
This video was exactly what I needed and it came out 5 yrs ago that's crazy smh advice is truly timeless. I'm doing shadow work now as we speak now that my relationship is over and learning a lot about myself. It takes it being over to see the toxic patterns we had with one another. I feel like I definitely poured too much into her unconditionally and not myself and like u, that's why our relationship had to end. Her leaving was gradual and I didn't see the signs 😕 My patterns were playing out and my accountability and arrogance were a key factor (not that it's justified that she strayed) but looking back it's understandable. When she cheated emotionally it really hurt bcuz the guy she did it with not only knew about me but just happened to be there when times were hard 🙄 Regardless tho it hasn't been easy but despite it all I understand that we weren't vibrating on the same frequency and had to separate. That made me feel so better about all this and I know everything is going to be ok ❤
Wow...this is my story. I thank God for you. I have been struggling so bad when he dumped me and all these months behind my back. I feel so betrayed. Now its time for my healing so I thank you so very much for sharing.
You probably never thought you'd help this mother of 2 in South Africa. You're so wise, thank you for this video. My Ex-Husband left me for someone i know. That was in 2016, i filed for divorce only last year 2019 and i'm only looking at healing myself now ❤
Thanks so much for this video!! It’s exactly what I needed to hear this! One thing I know in all of this ... she will NEVER find better! You definitely helped me today! I’m tired of being consumed by her and my pain! I definitely have had abandonment issues! Thanks again for pointing out that It’s all part of God’s greater plan!
karma works only when you are happy with your life and move on. If you still hang on the pain, karma will not work. So be happy and let them go. Karma will take care of them.
Firstly thank you so much for this super amazing video🙇🏻♀️ I’m writing this with tears in my eyes! Me and my boyfriend just broke up, the guy who was everything for me honestly, to be abandoned by such a great person if this makes sense :/Idk what is worse. It just happened fews minutes or an hour so I don’t really know what should I even think but pray and hope I get over this, got this faith through this video otherwise like you mentioned the break up just devastated me, truly felt like I died cause he was a part of me but all he had was a very small reason to leave where I was blamed, I’ve been suffering whole time (that’s what I made a mistake giving him mere chances) but this is the right to let go I’m sorry for whoever is reading this, this maybe too much just wanna say that I pray u don’t go through this and I don’t wish such breakups to my worsts enemies too. Felt like I was physically in pain but after watching this I’m quite relaxing and I just got the hope I can get over this Thank you 🙏 very much for this! Whatever you’ve said is something heaven!
I like how you pointed out that maybe it's possible you are to good for the other person that left you or deceived you because you vibrate on a higher level of pure love. They weren't being genuine to you. So it is for the best that person leaves you. Good way to look at it. Thanks!
You don't need people who don't need you. God is reserving a good man for you who is meant to stay in your life. No need waste any energy chasing after someone who lies and cheats on you. You are a child of God and God wants you to have the best of the best! Believe it !!!
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THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH FOR THIS!!! I really needed to hear this because I was 2 seconds away from driving by his house to see if another car was parked in his driveway, obviously only to hurt my heart again. My bf of 4yrs broke up with me for “blah blah blah “ reasons but the actual truth is, he’s actually now with an ex of a few months. Lame!!
KaeKaeNYC sis don't do it! He's not worth it! Put your time and energy into something that's going to beneficial to you. Driving by his house will only hurt you more,just focus on healing and maintaining your dignity.#womenempoweringwomen
Thank you for this video. I needed to hear these kinds of advice at this time in my life. I was abandoned by a long-time love -- he left me for someone else. I have been so devastated, feel so unworthy,, so ugly, not meeting someone elses' standards. Time for me to love myself, know that, indeed, I'm way too good for him.
Amazing advice girl. Have watched this after your tarot reading was scarily accurate where you said that there is a third party and unstable foundation. You are so positive and loving. Thank you 🙏
This happen to me 3 weeks ago I am still in pain... but In a week he unblock me on face book... I need advice should i block him on Facebook or let it be.
Thank you very much for this! I let go of my ex girlfriend/best friend of 2 years about a month and a half ago and it was such a hard decision to go from talking everyday to not at all. However i’m now seeing that it was for the best because we were incompatible! We would constantly get into arguments and become frustrated. We don’t match wavelengths anymore and we’re not on the same paths. All she wants to do is party but i’m trying to grow and spiritually heal and develop myself. The week after we stopped talking she got into a new relationship and i cried for a whole hour when i found out. It still hurts not to have her around sometimes and i do cry about it still, but I KNOW for sure that I made the best decision! I am moving forward ❤😄
This came at perfect timing. Everything you said resonated so deeply with me it hurt and made me tear ❤. I have to trust that god will replace the person who left me with someone better. In the meantime, I gotta focus on self love. I'll play this video when I feel really down. Thank you🙏
I just discovered your channel, and honestly I'm so shocked to find someone that speaks with so much truth and light on youtube! I'm looking through your topics and I'm SO happy I found your channel, I'm now focusing on my self-worth so that I don't repeat my mistakes with my ex. I don't want any more abuse, suffering, or lies in my life!
I’d like to thank you for this video. I am healing from a similar situation for about 3 months now. Sometimes being in the thick of healing, you’re not able to articulate the lessons from such a painful experience. Your words are so empowering. Just know that you have made a difference in my journey. Have a great day ❤️
I have similar experience, and it drags for months till it ends, and i am very grateful that I actually am the one that he set free. I haven’t fully recovered from it but the pain is not stinging anymore. It gradually turn to mourn and hopefully this shall pass too, i meet lots of people and could actually see people’s intentions in the beginning clearer now. Thanks sweetheart for this video, makes me feel i am not alone ❤️
I have watched heaps of videos after a recent breakup and this is the best one yet! As hard as it is you must let them go and focus on yourself. Past issues can manifest deeply in a relationship subconsciously. Your analysis and advice on this subject is very honest and accurate. Thankyou xx
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Girl, this is so true. My abusive ex moved on at a time that I didn't know if I wanted him or not.. When I accepted the breakup, and I had to learn about how to have a healthy relationship, I took 2 months to recover, grow, and I met my current boyfriend. We're really happy and talking about marriage. Even though my current relationship isn't perfect, we are learning and growing into something better everyday.
I have been binge watching your videos and let me say.....You make so much sense, the way you break it down is eye-opening! we do better when we know better! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!
when you talk about wrapping your happiness up in someone else, it hits hard. I've been growing a lot for the past year, but my first relationship was very toxic and codependent and all of my happiness was tied up in him. After he left, I was devastated and thought I'd be miserable forever. It only took 6 weeks for me to realize how awful our relationship was, and he loved to throw my codependency in my face and to condescend me for being so clingy. but during our last conversation when I said "I'm the happiest I've been in months," he was so hurt he called me insensitive and acted like a victim... just makes me laugh now at how the things toxic people will put you down for are the exact things they need from you to boost themselves up.
Thank you SO much for this video. You've said SO many things, in fact EVERYTHING you've said is true. I can't even began to list them. I've always known them to be true but of course the heart is dragging far behind. I've also taken this path, I went to God, I acknowledged because I always knew that she was nowhere near right for me, and because I didn't show the self-dignity, self-respect, to go away and cut her off completely I let her blame me and walk all over me further until one day, months later, I finally got my head out of my arse and recognized things for what they are and stopped talking to her and cut her off completely and finally started to really heal. I'm not yet fully over the pain and anger, though mostly, and not yet at fully forgiving, I know I will be.
Sometimes it is NECESSARILY about somone new coming in. It's about u growing🌱 into a stronger,more self aware person 🥰. It's ABOUT you VALUING yourself & creating standards for yourself.
Your video meant a whole lot to me. BF of 10 years just cheated. And what your saying is so true. And I think its going to help me moving forward in the coming healing process
I agree with everything you said except for the time frame of getting over someone. When you invest yearss into someone it sometimes takes just as long or longer to get over it. Everyone is different & gets over things at diff. paces. I love this video because it's very relatable & true. Thank you
It’s funny how ppl go through the same things but at the moment u think it’s only you dealing with the misery. Thank s for the video.
Truth! 💯
So true 💯
Ye ikr true
So true !!!
😂😂true I am not alone
I can't wait to look back and laugh at my experience😂😂 cuz I'm not laughing rn 😕😑
britney codrington You'll get there sis! When it happened I was destroyed on the inside. Now I laugh about it all the time like "wow his sneaky dumb ass" lol
Are you laughing right now bby girl??
just wanted to know if u feel better bc i want to know it gets better i kinda feel like i need the proof i’m sorry if this is wierd i feel like i just lost the love of my life and it’s been hard to live my daily life and eat, sleep, even thinking. it’s all really difficult and i’m freaking out as of right now bc he hates me and i know he hates me bc he told me and then left me for my best friend i just need to know it gets better i’m so sorry if this comes off chaotic
@@andivoelkel364 Hey honey. It does, it really does. You said 'love of your life' of if it were so that wouldn't have happened. Know this is hard and a bit cliché but just focus on you. Go out...stop being cooped up in the house all the time, journal your feelings. Live *YOUR* life for you. What do you want to wake up to..work towards that. Cry, it's okay to cry, but always give yourself a cut off point. One day you'll feel good reaaalll happy that you moved on. When your depressed do a couple streches, I don't know what it is but once you start doing something physical the thought of them completely goes. Trust yourself, you've got this
Sasha- Kim thank u so so much ur a wonderful human and this comment made my day. ur a wonderful human ❤️
"She didn’t take anything from me but a back stabber, a traitor & a headache & if he can be taken away from me that easily, you just took my headache away….Basically, she is a Tylenol."...What a FANTASTIC analysis Nu Mindframe: You are my HERO & You are Wise beyond your years! Thanks : )
So true
Did we date the same person? I needed this video seriously. You are right it kills your ego. Deep down you know you aren't missing out, but its that abandonment and rejection that screws you up.
Probably even better off, but it's hard to see that in the fog.
The secret to overcome such situation is to think that your value doesn't depends on the validation or acceptance of the other person. Obviously we'd like to be liked by the person we want but unfortunately is not that common.
Absolutely.
Some dude left me for another woman with these parting words, "You don't want me or can't have me? You mean as much to me as a crack addict."
Lucky lady, eh?
Among other jabs such as...
"Lose some weight, show me what I'm missing and masturbate to my Facebook pictures."
"Your thighs are gelatinous."
And my personal favorite...
"Why should l come over? Are you going to be Scarlett Johansson or something?"
Omg yes! You described it so well. That’s exactly what I’m feelinh
"he wouldn't dare,, like he definitely wouldn't dare to leave me for this girl,,,,ya'll he left"
same
Same
She went back to him 😢
I had this same thought! Lol oops
My ex husband would never cheat, we are married and I'm good to him,,,,, he cheated and lied about it when we're married, please don't say it will never happen to you, I hope it doesn't but it happened to me and I thought he would never do that
"No one can take love from you, because love is infinite."
I felt that.
😍
lies
"When somebody leaves your life, it is because they no longer vibrate on the same frequency level as you. Y'all are not compatible anymore, and there is something better for you out there."
When she said those words, I was emotionally triggered and started crying because it's so painfully true :(
I follow her on Twitter, and I love reading her tweets and watching her videos as well. She's so wise and beautiful
Blacgoddess I hope you're feeling better, love! Thank you so much for watching💕
Venusessence me to omg it was awesome
Girl. This truth really hurt. Like I had to suck his d*ck for us not to vibrate on the same level anymore!
I held myself together when she said that, but when I read your comment, I lost my shit. 😢😢
God takes away what u need to leave...👌
Some people believe that. I've seen a lot of informal videos saying that's wrong. God might take people out of your lives occasionally, but it's definitely not God who's in charge of making people break hearts for another person. God is good and has set His own standards in this world. If people don't want to live by those standards, that's not God's plan.
OMG so true . Thanks
I do believe cheating to break anyone's heart is very dirty n rotten I have no heart to that to me its evilways
My ex dumped me but he didn't leave me for anyone else, he just replaced me really really fast..like weeks after. I was still left reeling from the break up and he was lovey dovey with someone else, going on trips with her and posting it all over social media. I was so hurt but I worked on myself for a long time and eventually met my current partner who I've been with for 6 years. Him and her ... they broke up and he's currently still single probably because noone wants to real with his manipulative ways. I know this because he added me back on Facebook after they broke up. He tried flirting with me but nope, not happening because I love my man.
Story of my life except, he married the girl !
I was talking to a guy it was long distance and it was hard to see each other at the time and while we were talking he told me he had feelings for someone else I get out of the way and he immediately gets in a relationship with the girl. He called me outta the blue almost a month ago he came over told me he wasn’t in a “real” relationship and was gonna break up with her and like an idiot I F
fucked hiM. I was creeping on his “girlfriends “ fb and realized he wrote a comment under a pic of them about how much he loved her, so I wrote about how I fucked him just a few weeks ago lol I think their still together but she’s an idiot 2 I told her the truth which is he was trying to cheat on her with me since the beginning of their relationship. Now he knows I’m not with the shits he’ll probably just find someone else to cheat on her with, but I promised myself I won’t check his stupid social media anymore ima just hurt my own feelings 🙄
Hope your happy.
Omg same! He broke up with me for valid reasons (on 25 october, we were together for 2 years and 2 months) but 6 days after he and his female bestfriend kissed, and some days after they became a couple, because they are a better match.
Idk what to think..he would like to be friends and i would like too, but i have to get over him and honestly i'm scared that it will take a lot of time...
I don't want anyone in my life.
I just want to give myself the best life can offer.
It hurts when they leave.
Dhairya Seth same boat... but if you hold your heart to yourself then the person that truly deserve won’t get it and you miss out on better!!!
Same here. I tried hard, I did my best to become better, I did everything. Not enough apparently. We’re just another brick in the wall.
Dhairya Seth I understand you. I know why you feel like that. I am 52 and all my best years as a woman have been used up by 3 men I gave all I could only to be left after cheating, outside children that just has made me feel as if I been worth nothing to them, and my kids although they are grown now. I married almost 9 years to my husband no kids but history repeated on me. I am to blame because I just cannot seem to see through what I should and not have married men that would not respect me. I am smart in many things but not recognising and being able to properly identify a genuine man in the early stages so if I get through what I am going through I will be so happy to just wake up and feel ok not in emotional pain that I don’t want to try again. It feels like its too life threatening for me to risk living my life with someone again, if it would even be possible at my age after my husband has gotten his divorce from me 🙏🏼
Me too
@@theexoticalaspielady My 54 years old ex leave mey she chose another man over me... I am 33, ans I was just sympatic to her...
They didn't take your man, if a man leave you, he is not the riht one for you, so that you can make room for the right one. thanks for them
If u dont leave a situation where u are getting the short end if the stick, God will remove them because he wants u to practice self-love (paraphrasing). This happebed to me, twice!
Sharon going through it now my gf got engaged while we were still together and she just told me a month ago. So I packed up n left
This is hella real. I am always fighting. Like hold on but then god is like No. this is awful
@@michelleborel264 I saw you on the other videos how are you doing now?
Thank you for this! My husband just filed for divorce from me because he had an affair with a younger woman. We were married 28 years! I gave him everything! I was faithful and a good wife. Well loooooong story short, she left him because she found out some stuff out about his past. Talk about bad KARMA! BAM! Now he has no one and our own adult children are happy he's gone. I forgave him and have let go. Our divorce will be final on January 2! I've already been asked out. I told the guy that I am not ready for a relationship until I get myself better and in a good place. So BRING ON 2019 FATHER GOD BECAUSE HERE I COME! I'm a new subscriber and love your attitude and advice! Thank you ✌🏻♥️🕊😊
P.S. I just went through and looked at your uploads and every single one is pertinent to me and my life. Wow, I am so happy I stumbled on and watched this video from you! That's GOOD karma! ♥️✌🏻
Texasgrrl 1223 Karma is always sweet and right on time😊🙌 Wishing you love and happiness in 2019. You deserve it💕
Nu Mindframe Thank you for your response and yes, I do deserve it. I hope you have a wonderful 2019 as well! ♥️🕊😊
@@Texasgrrl77 Life is too short. Inner peace and happiness all the way. All the best. :)
X2Y2
Awe, thank you for your kind words. I appreciate it. Life can sure throw us curve balls sometimes but I can throw them right back! Blessings and peace to you as well. ✌️🏻❤️🕊
Sorry to hear that. My gf got engaged to someone else while we were still together and did not tell me until August of this year.
P.S I wish you nothing but love, happiness, and peace you definitely deserve it
“Clearly he was not vibrating on my frequency because I vibrate on the frequency of love” 💪🏼 felt that in my soul
"do not see yourself through another person's actions" yes!
Hard truth
When someone leaves you for someone else, someone you love it damages and destroys your entire being.. It can't ruin you forever if you can't escape it.. Your love is all those vunerable parts of you that you don't give to many.. You have to mean the world to that person to give that away and when that is betrayed.. It does leave you broke, it leaves you angry and bitter.. It just does.. Sorry isn't enough, trying to forgive isn't enough.. And its because you were cut to the core.. You're entire being is in flames.. Burning endlessly over the thought.. Its beyond just abuse.. This was your everything and they are telling you that they don't believe you are good enough.. It is considered one of the worse things you can do to someone for a reason..
Exactly me
I needed this so bad, you’re an angel sent from above 😭
Ashley Navarro Thank youuuu💖 Glad it was helpful
Bless you improve yourself...
I’m a man going through this. Sometimes we act too macho and act like this doesn’t hurt or bother us but it does. Thank you for this video
Facts but what other choice do we have other then acting macho
in a relationship the partner that can share and display the most love is the better partner and probably individual. A healthy relationship should be two partners Competing to show their love to each other. Most people are competitive in many things but not in displays of love, and that’s sad
Neu bornchild It’s refreshing to see this comment because the only other thing I’ve been seeing is “the one who loves the least has the most power”
i learned a long time ago not to speak to anyone about what I am going through and because of that, I am dealing with it alone but your video gave me so much encouragement that the pain relents eventually. And when you said "God wont leave you hanging"... that was everything in this moment. Thank you.
Milly C Hope you feel better soon❤
I had to learn this the hard way luv! It’s embarrassing when you are speaking about this to someone who doesn’t have your best interest at heart. And will run tell your business
You are a very
Smart Person
Honey ❤❤❤
The pain that I’m feeling, feels like there’s no overcoming it, like there’s no way out. But I know that I will conquer this, I will heal, and move forward because I’m choosing to grab back my happiness and my self worth. Thank you soooooooo much for sharing this video, I’m late finding this jewel, but the timing couldn’t have been more perfect! Again thank you! ❤️
This happened to me fairly recently...my ex boyfriend leaving me for someone else. He was gone AND got his new girlfriend pregnant when just a few months prior he had been talking about wanting to get married and have kids with me. I was devastated , and it took me a long time to process what was happening. I don't think I really came to terms with it all until I watched this video. You are relatable and wise and so real , and I so needed to hear your message. It helped me so much. Thank you for making this video!!
I sympathize so much with everyone's posts. My story is just plain weird. My Christian fiance of 2 years was professing his undying love for me, telling me to quit my job and move across the country with him, raving about the house he was going to buy to 'secure our future,' sending me hundreds of love stickers on messenger, then 24 hours later, more or less ghosted me for a woman he met at church. He called it God's will. He only knew her two weeks. He completely shut off the switch to my existence like a sociopath. I am in week 8 of grieving, and have suffered the most indescribable agony of my life. Our mutual friend tells me he has set a wedding date for this July. He is euphorically happy and apparently never asks our mutual friend how I'm doing, or shows any remorse. In fact, the only mention of me was that I was a 'mistake, a burden, depressed, a weight, not a woman of faith, and someone the 'devil used to sidetrack him' this past year. I loved him more than anything, and he jumped ship when he found 'a better package.' He was my best friend, my rock, my greatest supporter, and just like that he switched off his emotions. What makes it so cruel is that he played the game right up to the night before ghosting me. I never saw it coming. He was calling me his precious angel just hours before ditching me. Maybe if I owned a big ocean front home like her,, he would have stayed with me! I was loyal and good to him, but he made me feel like in God's eyes I was lacking. Pure scum he was.
Why do guys say shit like that when they just don’t mean it
@BB80Delta
I am doing so well now! It's amazing what time and distance and educating yourself on abuse will do for your healing! I went to therapy for a couple of years and my therapist said she thought he most likely had antisocial personality disorder, ie was a sociopath. Thanks for your sweet comment! ❤
I can relate...ur story sounds like textbook toxic break up....It confirms that nothing new is happening...these kind of break ups will continue to happen til the end of the time.... totally resonates with me
And they will break up AGAIN!!! She didn't love him. She only manipulates him
That's what they don't realize, they love it. It's so annoying
If they broke up once they will break up again 💯💯
When someone leaves you for someone else. And there ex shows up no need to argue or fight. Suck it up and walk away. It’s never easy but trust me you’ll save your face or shame if you get in a confrontation. Let it go
moving on & healing is something else but your videos are literally therapy to me! ❤️❤️❤️
I love what you're saying! Big help. My Ex left me for someone else as well. I am tormented and saw the photos of her new boyfriend. I'm hurting so bad right now. Hurts like hell. Only been 1.5 months!!!
Keep praying. I know it's very hard but, better is definitely going to come along.
Tre Tucker for me it was 2.5 then he stopped really doing anything and broke up with me bc “our relationship wasn’t working” but my friends kept a secret from me that he was having dreams about Mia and wanted to be with her instead of me and now I’m just heartbroken 😭💔
How are you now, bro?
Especially. when
they. don't. have
nerve to. tell. u
there. gone. .
I was dumped via text. Out of left field. No reason. No explanation, just "have a nice life." Well, I guess the reason was the other women. I hope they don't end up as broken as I am. Good luck to them.
How does someone look that perfect after a day at work. Wow
You are so on point. Nothing will leave your life if it was meant for you. What's yours is yours. Plus we don't own people, we only get to experience them. You also mentioned surrendering and don't let your ego make you hold on to someone that wanted to leave. Give them your blessing and let Karma do it's work. The relationship was meant to teach you something.
I'm so happy you've found someone to reciprocate the love that your beautiful heart has to give. You've been through so much and is so deserving of a loving, respectful relationship.❤#neversettle4arelationshit
Moonlit Balcony this hashtag is giving me life. Lol
Thanks. My ego did take a hit. Realize I was too good for my husband. My ex and the woman he left me for are both are cancer survivors but they couldn't thank God for his mercies. Good luck to both of them because they need it!!!
2 years after this was posted it pops up into my recommendations because this is what I needed to hear...Thank you so much.
Wow!! Going through this now. My ex cheated on me with his children's Mother and then dumped me and moved into her home. Despite, her treating him so badly in the past and cheating on him. Thank you for this profound, uplifting, motivating, inspiring video. My ex was too weak, to stand up to his manipulative, controlling ex. It's like that saying; "A dog always, returns to his vomit" Always, know your worth and what you bring to the table and never, ever settle for less than you deserve!!
She told me "you promise to never leave me?" I said I promise :) But then she left me :/
just like me, she said exactly the same words
In the beginning of the relationship where it was all new and fresh, he said that exact thing. Ofc, I say yes.
Today, he broke up with me for someone else. It hurts knowing his heart is in another place. All I wish him is for his peace and to get what he wants out of life.
The same thing happened to me!!!!!
Same she told me “I’ll always want you and always want to be with you” 1 week later she dropped me and found someone else
I don’t personally know you but I want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for the inspiration that you gave. Deep down words can’t really explain but I truly appreciate it 💝
"When somebody leave your life they no longer vibrating on the same frequency as you." I would have never thought of it that way! Can you do a video on ways to start your spiritual journey?
Unscripted and straight from the heart. So well said. Intelligently put with love and compassion for those who have “suffered” through an unexpected breakup. Much love back to you. You’re a true angel.
You Remind me so much of Toni Childs from Girlfriends! You're gorgeous💕💕
Ivy Garcia Thank you so much!💜
+Nu Mindframe dam you are fine
Yes she does.
Wow this resonated with me so much it’s insane. I was the one who left because I knew something was off because the ex was still lingering and a week later, boom they’re suddenly back together. I am now realizing there is a higher purpose to this and this was a lesson to love myself more. Thank you so much for your reassuring words. God bless 💜💜
I'm applying this to a situation where for 2 out of the 4 years we were together, he told me that there was nothing there. Of course he was with her the moment we broke up. Thank you!
“You’re basically a Tylenol” made me LOL. 😂😂😂 subscribed
Wow ! This was so good. This video was made for me. I'm in tears. And you posted this when I found out my boyfriend gotten another girl pregnant . After 8 years with him and a miscarriage.. I still think of this every single day. And I'm still so upset at him about this. I'm upset at this girl too. It's been so hard just waking up and living through this. Thank you for posting this. Thank you so much
Thank you for this, my ex cheated on me with my ex best friend.(I’ve had loved her for 3 years)It’s been 1 and half a year already since it happened and I’m still lost in the pain. I lost not only my girl but my friend also and I was just lost and didn’t know what to do. I was facing depression, anxiety, insomnia, suicidal thoughts and everything was just messed up. I was filled with anger and pain. My self esteem and trust was lost. I don’t wish anything bad on her because my love is pure for her after everything but I know I don’t wanna be with her but that I want to learn to forgive and mostly forget so I can be at ease. This unease feeing been in my heart for so long and I used to use drugs to numb the pain but I’ve stopped and know that I need to improve on myself. Thanks for reading . .
Khan Shamshar keep ur head up , u are not alone .
Same happening to me right now. Only option we have is to "bite the bullet!" Don't run from your pain!
same feeling brother
and I don't know when and how I Will feel okay..can't show my tears to my family also otherwise they will be tensed..only God can help me
I will be watching this a million times!!!! Now I see I was too good for him! Thank you again :)
368 RUclips videos later I found yours. My God you are heaven sent. I’ve heard so many different approaches on how to get through this whole cheat/ breakup deal. After listening to your video... IT ALL MADE SO MUCH SENSE. I can’t thank you enough for sharing because I now see that I have been asking the wrong questions ( worrying about him) I needed to worry about me because this was truly out of my control and your not fully crazy until you constantly try to control something that is out of your control. The end of this video was dead on for me, “what if they are happy together? Or what if they break up “ it means nothing and it changes nothing!!! It just wasn’t meant to be and I need to forgive him FOR ME AND ME ONLY. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
Not even half way through the vid and I know it's another superb analysis. I'm in this situation now. Removed myself yesterday...with tears.
I usually don't comment on videos but this is an exception because your advice helped me so much since I'm going through a similiar situation. I'm really hurt and upset even though I don't want him back. It's just my ego that's damaged and that I will have to build up again. Hearing those words from you gives me a lot of strengh to work on myself in order to have a better life with people who choose to be with me. Thank you 💕💕
thank you so much for this video... my fiance left me last night for someone else! watching you made me feel stronger
My ex left me 4.5 mos ago and started dating a new woman a week later. We were together for 2 years. Its not an ego thing for me, i truly miss him and want him back.
This is one of the greatest videos I have ever seen to get through a breakup.
A year ago I would rewatch this video every time I found it hard to deal with being left. This helped me so much to heal and understand why that happened to me. I want to thank you so much for sharing this. I can’t explain how much this helped me.
its 5 in the morning and i haven’t been able to sleep because i’ve been thinking about him. i dealt with him and his ex for 6 months and i know he’s left us both for someone else now. not only has he left me for his ex MULTIPLE times but now he left me for someone new. my ego is double hurt and all of my friends kept warning me about him. but i am so thankful i came across your video. my ego is my worst enemy. i really want to let it all go. thank you for this. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you lovely, I'm with someone now, we are not yet official, but he is willing to wait until I'm ready and i know God sent him to me.
Please make more videos on how to move on, how to stop being jealous, and how to be happy after someone betrays you.
🙁😕a month and 2 weeks into my first heartbreak turning 23, who woulda known I waited all this time for this? My outlook on marriage and families are so bruised, almost ruined..I didn’t know you could physically feel your heart shattered, I always thought it was a metaphor ...., Everyday it feels the same, and no matter how hard I wanna get out of it, the next person gotta deal with it, no matter how occupied I am , it haunts me this happened, I don’t believe time heals I think there’s something I’m not doing right, but I can’t figure it out... I just need out of this darkness so I can get back to life. What a waist of good woman 😞😔😢💔🚶🏿♀️
Thank you for the video. This happened to me recently. I was dumped out of the blue, with close to ne explanations. She left me for a co-worker but didn’t find the courage to tell me… I found out a couple
of days after that they got serious right after.. it hurt my ego a lot. Sometimes you realize who a person is only after they breakup. I love her, but it would be easier to hate her to move on. But that ain’t my way of operating. Your video helped me a lot. Thank you ❤
i love you are talking about Karma !! love it .. I wish Karma get him good somehow .. I am so freaking hurt !!!
This video was exactly what I needed and it came out 5 yrs ago that's crazy smh advice is truly timeless.
I'm doing shadow work now as we speak now that my relationship is over and learning a lot about myself. It takes it being over to see the toxic patterns we had with one another. I feel like I definitely poured too much into her unconditionally and not myself and like u, that's why our relationship had to end.
Her leaving was gradual and I didn't see the signs 😕 My patterns were playing out and my accountability and arrogance were a key factor (not that it's justified that she strayed) but looking back it's understandable. When she cheated emotionally it really hurt bcuz the guy she did it with not only knew about me but just happened to be there when times were hard 🙄 Regardless tho it hasn't been easy but despite it all I understand that we weren't vibrating on the same frequency and had to separate. That made me feel so better about all this and I know everything is going to be ok ❤
Love Grace n peace sister no one's taken unless they want to be taken stay blessed my beautiful sister Grace n peace
Wow...this is my story. I thank God for you. I have been struggling so bad when he dumped me and all these months behind my back. I feel so betrayed. Now its time for my healing so I thank you so very much for sharing.
Yooo when she said cut me off cold blocked me everything that’s what my ex just did left me for another girl! Smh I’m just waiting on his karma..
You probably never thought you'd help this mother of 2 in South Africa. You're so wise, thank you for this video. My Ex-Husband left me for someone i know. That was in 2016, i filed for divorce only last year 2019 and i'm only looking at healing myself now ❤
I’m going through a heartbreak right now and I needed to watch this thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
How are you feeling now!?
Thanks so much for this video!! It’s exactly what I needed to hear this! One thing I know in all of this ... she will NEVER find better! You definitely helped me today! I’m tired of being consumed by her and my pain! I definitely have had abandonment issues! Thanks again for pointing out that It’s all part of God’s greater plan!
karma works only when you are happy with your life and move on. If you still hang on the pain, karma will not work. So be happy and let them go. Karma will take care of them.
Firstly thank you so much for this super amazing video🙇🏻♀️ I’m writing this with tears in my eyes! Me and my boyfriend just broke up, the guy who was everything for me honestly, to be abandoned by such a great person if this makes sense :/Idk what is worse. It just happened fews minutes or an hour so I don’t really know what should I even think but pray and hope I get over this, got this faith through this video otherwise like you mentioned the break up just devastated me, truly felt like I died cause he was a part of me but all he had was a very small reason to leave where I was blamed, I’ve been suffering whole time (that’s what I made a mistake giving him mere chances) but this is the right to let go I’m sorry for whoever is reading this, this maybe too much just wanna say that I pray u don’t go through this and I don’t wish such breakups to my worsts enemies too. Felt like I was physically in pain but after watching this I’m quite relaxing and I just got the hope I can get over this Thank you 🙏 very much for this! Whatever you’ve said is something heaven!
I like how you pointed out that maybe it's possible you are to good for the other person that left you or deceived you because you vibrate on a higher level of pure love. They weren't being genuine to you. So it is for the best that person leaves you. Good way to look at it. Thanks!
You don't need people who don't need you. God is reserving a good man for you who is meant to stay in your life. No need waste any energy chasing after someone who lies and cheats on you. You are a child of God and God wants you to have the best of the best! Believe it !!!
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"Before I take my eyebrows off" haha haha so funny 😂
THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH FOR THIS!!! I really needed to hear this because I was 2 seconds away from driving by his house to see if another car was parked in his driveway, obviously only to hurt my heart again. My bf of 4yrs broke up with me for “blah blah blah “ reasons but the actual truth is, he’s actually now with an ex of a few months. Lame!!
KaeKaeNYC sis don't do it! He's not worth it! Put your time and energy into something that's going to beneficial to you. Driving by his house will only hurt you more,just focus on healing and maintaining your dignity.#womenempoweringwomen
Thank you for this video. I needed to hear these kinds of advice at this time in my life. I was abandoned by a long-time love -- he left me for someone else. I have been so devastated, feel so unworthy,, so ugly, not meeting someone elses' standards. Time for me to love myself, know that, indeed, I'm way too good for him.
Nothing wrong with getting philosophical. Philosophy literally means lover of knowledge or wise thought. Fantastic video! Incredibly valuable ❤️
Amazing advice girl. Have watched this after your tarot reading was scarily accurate where you said that there is a third party and unstable foundation. You are so positive and loving. Thank you 🙏
Girl this video was like a medical help. Thank you.
We must know whether their presence is a curse and there absence is the blessing Time will surely tell!.
this is great!!! can't wait for your new channel. I just ended a 8 year relationship.
This happen to me 3 weeks ago I am still in pain... but In a week he unblock me on face book... I need advice should i block him on Facebook or let it be.
Me too
Thank you very much for this! I let go of my ex girlfriend/best friend of 2 years about a month and a half ago and it was such a hard decision to go from talking everyday to not at all. However i’m now seeing that it was for the best because we were incompatible! We would constantly get into arguments and become frustrated. We don’t match wavelengths anymore and we’re not on the same paths. All she wants to do is party but i’m trying to grow and spiritually heal and develop myself. The week after we stopped talking she got into a new relationship and i cried for a whole hour when i found out. It still hurts not to have her around sometimes and i do cry about it still, but I KNOW for sure that I made the best decision! I am moving forward ❤😄
This came at perfect timing. Everything you said resonated so deeply with me it hurt and made me tear ❤. I have to trust that god will replace the person who left me with someone better. In the meantime, I gotta focus on self love.
I'll play this video when I feel really down. Thank you🙏
I just discovered your channel, and honestly I'm so shocked to find someone that speaks with so much truth and light on youtube! I'm looking through your topics and I'm SO happy I found your channel, I'm now focusing on my self-worth so that I don't repeat my mistakes with my ex. I don't want any more abuse, suffering, or lies in my life!
I’d like to thank you for this video. I am healing from a similar situation for about 3 months now. Sometimes being in the thick of healing, you’re not able to articulate the lessons from such a painful experience. Your words are so empowering. Just know that you have made a difference in my journey. Have a great day ❤️
So mature and so young to have gone thru so much! Please don't stop making videos, this kinda of voice needs to be continuously heard
I have similar experience, and it drags for months till it ends, and i am very grateful that I actually am the one that he set free. I haven’t fully recovered from it but the pain is not stinging anymore. It gradually turn to mourn and hopefully this shall pass too, i meet lots of people and could actually see people’s intentions in the beginning clearer now. Thanks sweetheart for this video, makes me feel i am not alone ❤️
I have watched heaps of videos after a recent breakup and this is the best one yet! As hard as it is you must let them go and focus on yourself. Past issues can manifest deeply in a relationship subconsciously. Your analysis and advice on this subject is very honest and accurate. Thankyou xx
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This is the best video on this subject I’ve come across. Thank you! Thank God you made this video
YES u r exactly rt! the rejection & ur hurt Ego is the main thing u gotta get over. but YES ur SELF WORTH is Everything!!! ❤U! 😊👋
Girl, this is so true. My abusive ex moved on at a time that I didn't know if I wanted him or not.. When I accepted the breakup, and I had to learn about how to have a healthy relationship, I took 2 months to recover, grow, and I met my current boyfriend. We're really happy and talking about marriage.
Even though my current relationship isn't perfect, we are learning and growing into something better everyday.
Young lady you are very wise
I have been binge watching your videos and let me say.....You make so much sense, the way you break it down is eye-opening! we do better when we know better! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!
when you talk about wrapping your happiness up in someone else, it hits hard. I've been growing a lot for the past year, but my first relationship was very toxic and codependent and all of my happiness was tied up in him. After he left, I was devastated and thought I'd be miserable forever. It only took 6 weeks for me to realize how awful our relationship was, and he loved to throw my codependency in my face and to condescend me for being so clingy. but during our last conversation when I said "I'm the happiest I've been in months," he was so hurt he called me insensitive and acted like a victim... just makes me laugh now at how the things toxic people will put you down for are the exact things they need from you to boost themselves up.
You hit the nail on the head!!! I totally forgot about our vibrational frequencies being in alignment!! Thank you so much for the reminder!
Thank you SO much for this video. You've said SO many things, in fact EVERYTHING you've said is true. I can't even began to list them. I've always known them to be true but of course the heart is dragging far behind. I've also taken this path, I went to God, I acknowledged because I always knew that she was nowhere near right for me, and because I didn't show the self-dignity, self-respect, to go away and cut her off completely I let her blame me and walk all over me further until one day, months later, I finally got my head out of my arse and recognized things for what they are and stopped talking to her and cut her off completely and finally started to really heal. I'm not yet fully over the pain and anger, though mostly, and not yet at fully forgiving, I know I will be.
You’re amazing. I appreciate you sharing this because I’m hurting and this helps.
Sometimes it is NECESSARILY about somone new coming in. It's about u growing🌱 into a stronger,more self aware person 🥰. It's ABOUT you VALUING yourself & creating standards for yourself.
I been crying all night and u literally just stopped the pain like nothing❤.
Facts, facts, on top of more facts.... you are so good at what you do, you have helped me on my journey. Thank you, Much ❤
You're welcome! And thank you for watching💕
“You’re basically a Tylenol”. That was a classic line!
Your video meant a whole lot to me. BF of 10 years just cheated. And what your saying is so true. And I think its going to help me moving forward in the coming healing process
melanie coetzee 10 years and same situation. He broke up saying we need to focus on career & started dating someone else.
Damn I needed to hear this. Thank you for the video. It’s been 6 months of pain for me and this really helped me understand how to get past it.
I agree with everything you said except for the time frame of getting over someone. When you invest yearss into someone it sometimes takes just as long or longer to get over it. Everyone is different & gets over things at diff. paces. I love this video because it's very relatable & true. Thank you