I just want to leave this here: Just because a woman is laughing doesn't mean she is interested or comfortable. Many laugh out of nervous reaction, or other reasons. So do not take that as a sign she wants to talk with you.
I read that there's a theory that women laugh in these cases as an attempt to lighten up a scary or uncomfortable situation. It's learnt behaviour that helps with survival.
I never understood why pick up artist act like women are some other species. They act like they are explorers on National Geographic describing animals.
Yes, either on purpose or just because they’re so socially unaware. Some are starting from before the basics as an adult, they’re reciting lines but don’t have the tools to read the person they’re reciting to. How do you help that person?
@Lalogue The guy in that video was showing how it shouldn't be done. But this was taken out of context. Do you know the name of that guy? He has made a response video about pewdiepie's reaction.
This isn't cringe, it's straight up terrifying, never go up to a girl, essentially corner her and start asking where she's going, super duper red flag.
+ if you come up to a girl in the street and she goes away because she doesn't want to talk to you : don't follow her and continue to talk to her. Just fuck off.
The weirdest part of this is the fact that they still upload their worst failed attempts. I suspect they are aware that cringe videos get a lot of clicks...
No kidding, that one guy was sexually harassing/ assaulting that one woman and he thought he was being smooth. Seriously revolting and utterly repulsive.
@@nekminute5206 if your a man, I have to say that your opinion is invalid because you’ve never felt fear and threatened by men who are “harmlessly flirting”. If your a women I’m glad you’ve never felt that fear and threat but please understand that your experiences don’t define every other girls. I’ve had a few guys approach me and I am scared because I’m small and weak and if a man just so happened to have intent to kidnap or harm me he easily could, I fear men when I walk at night and that is completely valid, and you need to understand that men are predatory especially recently.
dude these guys are just creepy, that is not a mentallity of a "pick up artist" at all, thats a mentality of a construction worker harrasing woman, just saying
As much as I hate myself for unable to talk with women. I'm still proud of myself for not being like this. This is so uncomfortable for them and I would die if someone do it to me.
“Im not used to people being mean to me” You mean you’re not used to people politely putting up boundaries? Probs to those women for standing their ground!
That one guy who was saying the girls were “mean” and that they made him “depressed” is guilt tripping them into going on a date with him and that’s so wrong
@@TheCuriousConservative is it the notebook that’s like that? Where the guy says he’s going to let go of the carousel if she doesn’t go on a date with him?
The problem with “pick up artists” is the fact that even if the women rejects the dude or just doesn’t seem interested they just keep harassing them to the point that the women feel uncomfortable and unsafe. Makes me so mad like dude she’s just not into you. 😩
If a guy is actually confident he will respect that the girl isn't interested and respond with "ok have a great day" and move on. When you keep trying to "change their mind" it just feels if desperation and that's what make it so cringey
"I just got up the confidence to talk to girls, I was talking with my therapist for a long time..." Did your therapist not also tell you handling rejection well is important???
Some people in the comments don’t understand that women will smile and laugh with these men (who are almost always standing over them or cornering them) purely to be polite and not upset the potentially dangerous stranger that just approached them. They are, in reality, very uncomfortable and don’t have a way to exit the interaction so they have to play nice. Keep in mind that when women are hit on by strangers, some of those strangers follow you or get aggressive when you don’t act the way they want you to - something as simple as “please leave me alone” can trigger defensive reactions in men who think they’re entitled to women’s attention. This is something every woman has dealt with, as well as young girls hit on by older men who don’t know how to protect themselves in those situations.
This one time my friends and i was dancing to this festival and this dude came and was asking me questions. at first it was fine but he kept asking when i wanted to dance with my friends he started asking where i live, how old am i and mind u, he looks 40 and i was 16. i kept looking back at people trying to ask for help without asking for help and one of the guys got the signal and grabbed his shoulders and started talking to him. I took the chance to leave and stayed with my other friend. I do not know how to turn down those as politely as possible without them acting out.
Facts. A man will beat you or kill you if you slight their ego. You never know who you are dealing with until it's too late. Even the quiet ones that appear to be sweet. They'll be the ones that will be passive-aggressive and come out of no where. It's frightening especially if you're under age.
This! Like you can obviously hear how the laugh is awkward laugh. I've had old men making stupid jokes to me to impress me and i've been like "Haha..." even tho the joke was very creepy and gross.
These videos are EXCELLENT examples of what an uncomfortable but friendly woman looks and sounds like. A big give away is the short curt answers like she clearly doesn't want to talk to you and you're not starting a conversation if all she does is give one word answers to your constant questions
every newbie should listen to this man, my first time i talk to girl my friend told me just treat them as if they are my friend and all thats really helps me back then.
This! Treat them fairly, like you would treat a friend, be genuine and have fun. That’s all there is to it. It also is very important to be sincere. Never force a friendship or relationship.
It's a seminar, it's kinda her job to call him out and help him. If people didn't actually realise. She volunteered to help men like him socialise, but it's kinda sad to see that this video didn't blur his face as PewDiePie teased him basically.
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its not even a 'pick up', its sexual harassment.. she is literally saying no and he keeps trying to touch and kiss her... This is why women are always in groups or with someone because when you are by yourself this sort of stuff happens ALL the time ;(
This is just more painful knowing that my girlfriend has to deal with men like these every time she goes out. Even if her entire body is covered, she gets still gets catcalled like this and I'm like 😐. It also sucks because it makes her more traumatized of going outside and making friends because it's usually either that they're nice or just being nice to score, which is sadly the most likely answer.
@@hasanmuttaqin464 girl i wore a long ass oversized dress, covered my hair with its hood and wearing a face mask and glasses, there's no part in my body that's visible except my hands, and i still got catcalled, we simply get catcalled just by breathing and existing
He should have used comfortability tactics first before moving forward into other things because everything he does will not work if they are not comfortable. If they don't get comfortable just leave, cause you are wasting your time and there are lot of girls who will find it easier to create that comfortability with.
I feel you, there’s so much cringe that it’s broken the threshold for me and now it’s just painful to watch. I feel for these Women, because there’s nothing worse than you being out and about minding your own business and someone keeps trying to flirt with you. There’s nothing wrong with harmless flirting but 90% of the time they’re creepy.
“But she’s laughing that means she like it” that is nervous laughing because she’s scared to say “no” because when you say “no” people can get violent and aggressive
@@The.Billionaire.Official okay... it didn't seem like he was being brave really, it seemed more like he just assumed he would get what he wanted. I don't think she had an attraction toward him at all and was just being polite but it started getting creepier and creepier by the second... and what did you mean by "manage him later?"
@@The.Billionaire.Official personally, I found his behavior arrogant not brave. When a person approaches you with that “I won’t take no for an answer” attitude I (and I think most people do) loose all interest and just wait for them to give up and move on. He tries to soften his attitude in the middle of it but that comes off as manipulative and fake
@@The.Billionaire.Official direct approach: “ hi I think you’re pretty and I’d like to have a drink/coffee with you sometime. Could I give you my number?” Arrogant and incredibly creepy approach: “hello girl where you going? A party? why can’t I got to this party with you? Hey come on now, let me smell you real quick”
Third guy literally just MET these girls, got denied, then proceeded to manipulate them. "I'm depressed now." "I actually just worked up the courage to approach girls." "Just tell me I'm ugly and a horrible person" then LAUGHS???
"Just tell me I'm ugly." Classic close-line. Guilt trip or if she picks the mean way "okay you're ugly, bye" Now she's the bad guy that he can guilt trip other women with. "She said I was ugly" ugh...self-victimization.
i mean women just do be going for looks, as a fellow beta/ alpha male, the men in this video were the weird almost set 8 kids at school. I mean its not thier fault, god just simply doesnt give everyone the right features a woman desires. i cant recall a famous person that is ugly and has a wifu.. if so then they are prob gold diggers.
@@tolucamexico1412 You can be the hottest person but a creep will always be a creep and you'd have to be really desperate or really scared to just feed their ego like they want.
“I’m really depressed now, see I just got up the courage to talk to girls, I was talking to my therapist for a long and I finally go the courage and you were so mean.” “Just tell me un ugly, tell me in ugly, tell me that.” 3rd guy is such a manipulator, I think he was the worst.
With that last guy, he seemed serious and messed up in the first one, but with the second lady he talked to it was so bad I legit couldn't tell if he was being serious or not.
@@TheLibran1 lol they were literally telling him off. "We were trying to have a conversation." I don't know if I misheard but I think one girl said "It's/I'm uncomfortable." He continued to manipulate them be a creep. Don't justify douchebags.
As a girl, this makes me so uncomfortable. Like imagine what this feels like - I hate men like this. It's so scary and uncomfortable. I cry after stuff like this happens
I think a lot of us cry after stuff like this. It's horrible and it's actually one of the reasons why I don't leave my house anymore. It's grooosssss 🤢
no, not as a girl. as a normal human being. we guys (just as Felix) get fucking cringe shivers when we watch it. they are just weirdos and dont give a fuck how the look because after many tries the will land on a girl that is desperate or gullible enough to go out with them.
The sad part is that even if you say you're a lesbian, they'll be sure that they can convince you to be otherwise. These men in the videos literally don't care how you feel, but about being persistent to the point where you give in.
"I am depressed now...my therapist....why would you do that to me?" Just shoot me in the head now, that clip did me mental, emotional, and physical damage.
@@Rosalie_Jansen I'm sorry but there are no pick up girls. It just doesn't exist. Woman obviously have other ways of being toxic in relationships but there is no equivalent of that.
Because of these creeps, some bars or clubs have these code words where you have to ask to speak to Louisa or some random name so the staff can secretly save you from the weirdos
ok but asking silly questions, very obviously pretending to have an interest in them, all the while acting stupid to make the other person feel better about themselves is very cringey
@@RANDOM-pf1ve well with that mindset no girl will want to be with u. Cuz having a good personality and respecting others are more attractive than ur muscle or whatever
@@bruh-zn8ju just my ears, I could hear his ear-drilling whining from here when he was writing that comment, as if it was a dog which's paw was run over by a car, ouch
The funny thing is... sometimes, just sometimes it still works. Like plenty of people still think that googled and memorized pickup lines used on 50+ girls are special, funny and interesting.
Do they not feel any amount of shame at all? I'm here getting second hand embarrassment just watching this and constantly pausing to be able to keep up... it's like whatever part of their brain that feels shame was removed ugh
They haven't been brainwashed by the cringe culture, they understand that to live is to face embarrassment, and instead of running away from it and retreat into the safety of their solitude, they have embraced the cringe.
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The worst part about this is that these are exactly the type of conversations women have with men that randomly come up to them, how is THIS the standard??
What’s even worse is that fully grown men will still do this, even if you’re a minor. I can remember a few instances where a guy came up to me and initiated a conversation. In pretty much all those instances, I was still a minor. It was extremely uncomfortable and awkward.
This reminds me of when I was working at grocery stores when I was like 15 at checkout I would have middle aged men just make the typical blondes have more fun jokes or things like that. I WAS 15 and some of them were cops too. It made me soooo uncomfortable. I was just trying to work.
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I've had a guy do this to me and he tried to kiss me and wouldn't let me go. I pushed him away really hard and ran off but cried about it for days after. It's so terrifying that these men can't see how scared and uncomfortable they're making these women.
I'm sorry to hear that. He was probably very unattractive and ugly. I hope someone does this to you who is attractive because you would probably like it and be happy with it.
Something guys need to understand: when a woman smiles it doesn't always mean she is happy or attracted to you. It can also mean that she's nervous or uncomfortable (or even scared)
@@adrianstein954 so then instead let's change it to: when a person smiles it doesn't always mean they are happy or attracted to you. It can also mean that they're nervous or uncomfortable (or even scared)
Dominic Noble covered the BIBLE of the PICK UP ARTISTS, cause he is a Book-Review-Channel. And: Legendary RUclipsr Hbomberguy also covered Pickup-Artistry. Seen it?
The dude talking to the girls on a park bench is manipulative af. Trying to make them feel bad because they don't wanna talk to a stranger who's annoying them. Dead giveaway to stay clear away from that guy.
Dude I literally was approached in a park in day light and this dude started just going through my note book and I’d drawn a cheetah and he was like “I bet you love rough kinky s*x and you want to be bitten” so like fuck men what gives them the audacity to do this shit…..
As a straight female who has been alive for almost 30 years I’ve lived through these situations thousands of times and it never gets less painful for us either 😭
Those three girls were super duper polite. They shouldn’t have to be forced into this situation. I wanna see a clip of some girl just straight up yelling in the guy’s face “YOU ARE BOTHERING US YOU CREEP!”
God yes. Props to them for being that polite, but at that point I wouldn't have been polite at all. I'm sorry, but if you are being creepy and disrespectful it's my right
I think it's gonna be very hard to find those kind of video....Because the pickup guy surely don't want it to be posted but also because I think that they choose their ''prey''. All their technique is based on the fact that some woman will not clearly say no or will try for too long to be polite or nice... So they won't go for a girl who looks like she will scream at them...
Im a guy and whenver im outside the club smoking i always cringe out seeing these pick up artist going around flirting girl to girl it just so embarrassing lol
If anyone else noticed, in almost every video the woman is cornered. Pickup "artist" stands over her and there's no way for her to just turn around and leave. Literally predatory behavior
@@ellismin657 If you would have bothered to fact check this, you will see that Todd himself showed this as an one of the examples of bad/failed pickup attempts
@@ellismin657 Maybe if you bothered to fact check the bs that you believe online, you'd realize that Todd is actually one of the good ones. But of course you hate all PUA's because you're probably a feminazi.
so true, i actually got approached by one on my college campus a little while ago and it was honestly scary. i was sitting by myself and this grown ass man comes over, corners me, and won’t take no for an answer
This is what we mean by catcalling and sexual harassment, these aren’t pick up artists who lack a bit of selfawareness, they are sexual harassers and catcallers.
The acts they are preforming make so angry and upset on behalf of the people (or should i say targets) in these videos and its horrfying to know this could happen to anyone :(
@@philipenogueira tbh i think that last guy was doing it on purpose or something Im having a feeling that he is just trolling her or whatever, im usually good at picking that up
All these were so uncomfortable and creepy omg. This happens TOO often and thanks for bringing awareness to the cringe and scariness and annoyance that comes from it 😭
at 8:40 "I'm sorry, I'm not used to people not being nice to me" This explains... so much. It makes me sad to know that there are people like this out there, who are just horrible people who harass women
I've literally had that line spouted at me when rejecting someone. They told me I would be making a mistake because I would really be missing out because of how amazing they were.
The 6 feet social distancing rule is the best and I wish it stays around as a normal polite social thing cuz its made this stuff happen less often for me
The guy talking to the 3 girls just keeps pulling the most manipulative crap ever "I'm depressed now. Look what you did to me" "You hate me don't you? Just admit I'm ugly" "Is it so hard to be nice to me?" Red flags all over the place
This is so painful to watch. Just because a girl is still having a conversation with you does NOT mean she’s interested. She’s just being polite, and doesn’t know how to get you to leave without looking like a “bitch”
@@bellakeksi8313 a lot of men can get violent in response to rejection. The safest option is to just play along and then get the hell out when you can.
I feel so bad for the women, they are clearly nervous and trying to laugh it away. As a person who has been in a situation like this I can imagine the anxiety and panic they are feeling.
I can't help but almost want this to happen to me though just so I could mess with the dude, after seeing videos like this I've got _so many_ comebacks stored in my brain lmao. Except also I highly doubt that would happen cause I'm 5'2 and a guy hahah
Listen: if a guy won’t leave you alone, don’t spare his feelings. Unless there is some immediate danger, just walk away and don’t humor them. And if he tries to kiss you, slap him in the face, or kick in the groin.
the issue tho is that it's very common for men who are persistent to get angry when you say no or aren't "nice enough" to them , and then that PUTS you in a dangerous situation. it's happened way to many times to me , but not with someone trying to "pick me up," typically when we get catcalled if we don't respond politely or positively we get followed and yelled at. it sucks.
8:40 "I'm not used to people not being nice to me." this is the epitome of the problem with these "pickups". a lot of these girls, like the one that got kissed against her will (absolutely sexual harassment, you can visibly see she's not interested), are very "docile" and "indifferent", although body-language-wise, and by how little they engage or initiate conversation, its *painfully obvious* they want them to leave right the fuck now. them being "submissive" is not them being nice to you, allowing you, or wanting to satisfy your desires in any way. girls are so often caught off guard, cause we are taught our whole lives to be "a lady". to be sweet, quiet, not yell, not make a scene, not run. don't be wild and energetic and strong-looking, or else we're manly, or bitchy or bossy, and its off-putting and unbecoming. so its very hard for girls who subscribe to that mindset they were taught to pull out of it in situations like these. its not cause we want it or agree to it, cause any person with half a mind can see how uncomfortable these girls are. its so rapey... its like how a lot of girls completely freeze when being sexually harassed instead of fighting and screaming. and then people say its their fault. and now for once, these girls are actually taking none of his shit, when HE is being the rude one obviously, and they are confident enough to be more fierce about wanting him to leave, and he DARES to say they're "not nice" for it??????????? that's how it is. the first girls that turn a man down without reservation and they're apparently bad people for not entertaining his lifelong sexual frustration... its unreal. we're mean if we don't please any stranger, bitches for turning you down or friendzoning a "NIcE gUy". we're bossy for acting like men act as second nature and unwomanly for speaking up. fuck that. FUCK THAT ladies. yell and scream and be wild and feisty and as fierce as you want. fuck being "womanly" by staying quiet and pretty, leave that to the dolls on the shelf
Jennifer was straight up trolling him. She picks, he suggests if she's sure, she changes b/c that's what he wants him to do, then immediately changes again when he asks HAHA. She destroyed him.
I think this is the thing some guys don't understand. It's genuinely terrifying when a man approaches me in public bc I don't know wether he's a decent human being or not. Idk what he's gonna do to me and it's haunting
When this happens I would immediately just escalate to, so do I need to call the police and report harassment? I understand being scared. .I've had things like this happen to me also. But try to remember you aren't powerless. Always carry pepper spray too.
"I'm not used to people not being nice to me"
"Just tell me I'm ugly. Its fine."
So guilt tripping is the clear tactic here.
Pick me boy
I would have said "yes you're ugly, can you leave now?"
@Instagram User good for him 😊🏳️🌈
"My therapist..." , "I'm depressed now..."
He really just pulled the therapist and depression card. Such manipulative sad boi tactics
Yep. Emotional manipulation at its finest. It made me so uncomfortable because I’ve been in this kind of situations before many times with guys.
I just want to leave this here: Just because a woman is laughing doesn't mean she is interested or comfortable. Many laugh out of nervous reaction, or other reasons. So do not take that as a sign she wants to talk with you.
I read that there's a theory that women laugh in these cases as an attempt to lighten up a scary or uncomfortable situation. It's learnt behaviour that helps with survival.
@@rairaipiipiitii3585 not just women, all people use laughter as a defense technique
FACTS
@@rairaipiipiitii3585 that's pretty common knowledge that in scary situations people will laugh due to nervousness, not just a flirting thing
@@owyemen9367 I couldn't agree more 👍
I never understood why pick up artist act like women are some other species. They act like they are explorers on National Geographic describing animals.
because women have a different psychology
Edit: (not defending pickup artists with this comment, chill out soyboys)
@@ayyytism6081 not to the point of where they should be approached/cornered like this, it's weird
@@is444b3l i agree
@Lili no clue what you mean by that comment
@Lili i meant that women have a different psychology than men right, so that is why the “pickup artists” talk about them in a different manner
They are just abusing the fact that women try to avoid conflict
Yes, either on purpose or just because they’re so socially unaware. Some are starting from before the basics as an adult, they’re reciting lines but don’t have the tools to read the person they’re reciting to. How do you help that person?
@@Frank-wr2nf Legendary RUclipsr Hbomberguy
also covered Pickup-Artistry. Seen it?
@Lalogue The guy in that video was showing how it shouldn't be done. But this was taken out of context. Do you know the name of that guy? He has made a response video about pewdiepie's reaction.
@@DrJams and what's the name of the guy?
Very well said !
“I think you’re a creep” YESSSSSSSS SAY IT LOUDERR
Yassssss queen
A lil louder for the people in the backkk!
@@teddyfresh9605 like
YEEEAAAASSSS qUeEeEEn
Lmao the sperg got destroyed by her
This isn't cringe, it's straight up terrifying, never go up to a girl, essentially corner her and start asking where she's going, super duper red flag.
+ if you come up to a girl in the street and she goes away because she doesn't want to talk to you : don't follow her and continue to talk to her. Just fuck off.
Then how the fuck do i get a gf i don't wanna be creepy but i gotta met someone, somehow?
The weirdest part of this is the fact that they still upload their worst failed attempts.
I suspect they are aware that cringe videos get a lot of clicks...
@ common bro just try to be a good youtuber I know it's hard but you can do it
@@ricardo_2717 if the girl is showing obvious discomfort then leave. If she's acting open to talk then go for it. Just don't be a creep
The guy talking to the 3 girls is literally gaslighting and guilt tripping them. "just tell me I'm ugly and you hate me" Jesus what a pick me
True, what a jerk
Also the part when he talks about his therapy. Like sure they think you’re a catch now…
I died of cringe.
I am pretty sure most of my female friends would have said that to him....maybe even before he asked them too.
Not taking rejection is so unattractive holy shit
The first guy has no idea how school works lol
The lack of education made me sad lol
Probably why he's selling bs tricks on "picking up women"on the internet lmao
@@Frank-wr2nf People like Sci Man Dan try to fight that very lack of education.
Know him?
@@thingusbingus1268 basing his tricks off of random 80's hollywood scenes confused with random 90's porn.
maybe he isn't a pick-up artist at all but he tried to learn about US education system
This is one of the many reasons women don’t feel safe in public. “Persistence” isn’t charming, it’s threatening
YES!!!! It scares me when guys are pushy
I couldn’t help but be scared on her behalf in the first part of the conference… and that’s knowing she’s in a room full of people
Can you please realize that everyone gets uncomfortable and you are not special just because you have been before👍
No kidding, that one guy was sexually harassing/ assaulting that one woman and he thought he was being smooth. Seriously revolting and utterly repulsive.
@@nekminute5206 if your a man, I have to say that your opinion is invalid because you’ve never felt fear and threatened by men who are “harmlessly flirting”. If your a women I’m glad you’ve never felt that fear and threat but please understand that your experiences don’t define every other girls. I’ve had a few guys approach me and I am scared because I’m small and weak and if a man just so happened to have intent to kidnap or harm me he easily could, I fear men when I walk at night and that is completely valid, and you need to understand that men are predatory especially recently.
Pick up artist mentallity: "I'm going to harass you until you say yes... or leave"
I'd make it so they leave instead... idc how, I just would.
dude these guys are just creepy, that is not a mentallity of a "pick up artist" at all, thats a mentality of a construction worker harrasing woman, just saying
As James Bond once said, "50 nos and a yes means yes"
"I think you're a creep"
11/10, would respect her personal boundaries again
Man what time i was pausing and skipping hard this video.
@@aikun9098 13:46
3:04 did anyone notice theirs a pride flag at the background
"are you guys learning anything?"
It usually depends on how attractive the guy is.
As much as I hate myself for unable to talk with women. I'm still proud of myself for not being like this. This is so uncomfortable for them and I would die if someone do it to me.
@Sudhir2309Uyou could never
It’s really scary and intimidating for us. Thank you for not doing it x
“Im not used to people being mean to me”
You mean you’re not used to people politely putting up boundaries? Probs to those women for standing their ground!
props*
Welllll technically they did leave their ground but props anyway
They were actually really polite. I have zero tolerance for men like that and would have been a full on bitch until he left or the police were called
@@cottoncandy10291 me fucking too
Props to them not flipping him off inmediately lol
That one guy who was saying the girls were “mean” and that they made him “depressed” is guilt tripping them into going on a date with him and that’s so wrong
Gaslighting... “Works 60% of the time, every time” lmfao
Lmao when that happens to me I'm usually just like "alright and?"
@@TheCuriousConservative is it the notebook that’s like that? Where the guy says he’s going to let go of the carousel if she doesn’t go on a date with him?
Clearly he needs a new therapist.
I was so happy when the girls defended themselves
The problem with “pick up artists” is the fact that even if the women rejects the dude or just doesn’t seem interested they just keep harassing them to the point that the women feel uncomfortable and unsafe. Makes me so mad like dude she’s just not into you. 😩
If a guy is actually confident he will respect that the girl isn't interested and respond with "ok have a great day" and move on. When you keep trying to "change their mind" it just feels if desperation and that's what make it so cringey
The problem is that they exist lmao
@@highdefinition450 I see u target the root of the problem eh? Smart
The problem IS pick up artists
i couldnt even get thru the first guy before i turned the vid off. tbh if i was him id just say "i love cats!" and walk away lmao
this is not even picking girls up, its holding girls verbally hostage
"I'm not used to people not being nice to me."
*I'm used to women appeasing me because they're frightened of me and I won't leave them alone*
I have never been so mad at someone I’ve never met before but that dude reeeallly rubbed me the wrong way
Exactly! My body tensed up by how he just rejected and tried to make it a bigger thing when she politely told him to leave them alone.
This 💯
Isnt that Todd Valentine? That guy is a legend , but he seems f ing young here.
The thing is they were being nice. He’s just trying to guilt trip them into letting him butt into their conversation.
"I'm not used to people not being nice to me"
2 minutes later:
AM DEPRESSED
I was waiting for the guy next to them to jump in and tell him to fuck off.
That's a real "nice guy" in the wild
Literally so manipulative
T
Read my name..........q
"I just got up the confidence to talk to girls, I was talking with my therapist for a long time..."
Did your therapist not also tell you handling rejection well is important???
I think he need a therapist to stop being a manipulating idiot lol
@@cynthiarajona Exactly this. He's trying to make them feel bad for him. That shit doesn't fly though
That’s where I had to pause the video just now actually- it’s so uncalled for
i literally hate this guy bruh
now I know you guys won't like me saying this but, I actually know that guy and seeing everyone hate him seems so funny and baffling at the same time
Some people in the comments don’t understand that women will smile and laugh with these men (who are almost always standing over them or cornering them) purely to be polite and not upset the potentially dangerous stranger that just approached them. They are, in reality, very uncomfortable and don’t have a way to exit the interaction so they have to play nice. Keep in mind that when women are hit on by strangers, some of those strangers follow you or get aggressive when you don’t act the way they want you to - something as simple as “please leave me alone” can trigger defensive reactions in men who think they’re entitled to women’s attention. This is something every woman has dealt with, as well as young girls hit on by older men who don’t know how to protect themselves in those situations.
This one time my friends and i was dancing to this festival and this dude came and was asking me questions. at first it was fine but he kept asking when i wanted to dance with my friends he started asking where i live, how old am i and mind u, he looks 40 and i was 16. i kept looking back at people trying to ask for help without asking for help and one of the guys got the signal and grabbed his shoulders and started talking to him. I took the chance to leave and stayed with my other friend. I do not know how to turn down those as politely as possible without them acting out.
Facts. A man will beat you or kill you if you slight their ego. You never know who you are dealing with until it's too late. Even the quiet ones that appear to be sweet. They'll be the ones that will be passive-aggressive and come out of no where. It's frightening especially if you're under age.
This! Like you can obviously hear how the laugh is awkward laugh. I've had old men making stupid jokes to me to impress me and i've been like "Haha..." even tho the joke was very creepy and gross.
True and if the guy live in the neighbourhood it much worse. I knew someone who got harm because of this
These videos are EXCELLENT examples of what an uncomfortable but friendly woman looks and sounds like. A big give away is the short curt answers like she clearly doesn't want to talk to you and you're not starting a conversation if all she does is give one word answers to your constant questions
Its ironic how they call themselves "pickup" "artists" yet it seems like they fail to "pickup" any social cues everytime.
Its more like they deliberately ignore them
Pickup aliens
I'm autistic as shit, and I have better conversations.
@@ocyth lmaoooo
I mean... they're straight-up harassing these women. Having a camera on can't justify anything and can actually make things worse.
thats actually a good point, specially the part he tried to kiss her, and still kissed her cheek, could take criminal charges xD
Pickup artists be like "I'm an expert at understanding females" *harasses women*
@ you failed
:')
@ get a life
Haha this Made me laugh so hard
Deadass
Talk to girls as if they're humans. And that will drastically improve your game.
Amen to that
every newbie should listen to this man, my first time i talk to girl my friend told me just treat them as if they are my friend and all thats really helps me back then.
@@imanafdar from a woman, thank you!! I'm marring my best friend, this is the energy that works!!
This! Treat them fairly, like you would treat a friend, be genuine and have fun. That’s all there is to it. It also is very important to be sincere. Never force a friendship or relationship.
I try to filter what i say to girls. Mainly because i love dark humor. Also, im very blunt.
You can see Felix’s soul leave from his body every time he cringes.
*I’m ѕυвѕ¢яιвιηg тσ єνєяуσηє ωнσ ѕυвѕ¢яιвєѕ тσ мє αη∂ ℓιкєѕ тнιѕ ¢σммєηт* ""
@YeaMan learn how to spell first
Salam kenal semuanya
Salam damai selalu
Semoga kita semua selalu sehat
Agreed
@@habibsuperb3287 its a bot Report it
I wish when he said, "just tell me I'm ugly," they would've told him he's ugly. The guilt tripping is disgusting
Talk about red flags🤮
Nah they did the right thing , letting him know he's an asshole
The bar that man set for himself of, "well you're not running away" makes being a successful "pick up" artist pretty easy.
@DON'T stfu
Bro i hate these bots how could anybody who is human spam a reply section of such an important fact that's just disgusting
that woman in that conference is my hero. She is so confident and calls him out lol.
She is a legend. Kinda bad too
It's a seminar, it's kinda her job to call him out and help him. If people didn't actually realise. She volunteered to help men like him socialise, but it's kinda sad to see that this video didn't blur his face as PewDiePie teased him basically.
@@yesyes7270 No no, that guy is the teacher actually supposed to give an example to other guys PAYING to see that !!
@@ALex-eg4lj my god really gross
She's being paid to.
Pick up artists either sound cringe or shady usually both.
They tried speed running dating they failed
@@priij9238 why would he get the new pss5?
the first girl felt sooo uncomfortable
I watched a lot before going to Uni... really helped my game a lot, especially texting
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its not even a 'pick up', its sexual harassment.. she is literally saying no and he keeps trying to touch and kiss her... This is why women are always in groups or with someone because when you are by yourself this sort of stuff happens ALL the time ;(
Well i'm glad i'm one of the men who gringed so hard and wishes to NOT be like one of these a**holes
@@faridgerami2777 you are such a nice guy
@@faridgerami2777 she not gonna fuck you bro
@@faridgerami2777 bottom line next
@@rooni8188 lmaooo ☠️
The best part is that instead of hiring actors to go along with it, they were so confident in their abilities that they payed real women to sit there
'Real women' lol
@@dorien_ imagine doing this on a female mannequin
ocd strucks me. its “paid”.
real women, as opposed to actresses which are fake women lol i know what you meant but it sounds funny
@@edelleaa actors aren't people, so therefore not women
This is just more painful knowing that my girlfriend has to deal with men like these every time she goes out. Even if her entire body is covered, she gets still gets catcalled like this and I'm like 😐. It also sucks because it makes her more traumatized of going outside and making friends because it's usually either that they're nice or just being nice to score, which is sadly the most likely answer.
wear hijab, and bring cuboid shaped object along, that guy would now be too afarid too ask
@@hasanmuttaqin464 what is that supposed to mean?
@@hasanmuttaqin464 LOL
@@hasanmuttaqin464 girl i wore a long ass oversized dress, covered my hair with its hood and wearing a face mask and glasses, there's no part in my body that's visible except my hands, and i still got catcalled, we simply get catcalled just by breathing and existing
@@moonlight-im8ik you bring suspiciously cuboid shaped object with a ticking sound? You missed that one bud
Girls: Leave us alone, we're having a conversation after not seeing each other for a while.
PUA: Just tell me I'm ugly
*their thoughts* "no that rude you prick"
*their words* "leave"
He should have used comfortability tactics first before moving forward into other things because everything he does will not work if they are not comfortable.
If they don't get comfortable just leave, cause you are wasting your time and there are lot of girls who will find it easier to create that comfortability with.
@@The.Billionaire.Official cope
@@The.Billionaire.Official He should of knew the moment that they were telling him they were having a conversation that he should of left lol.
I just go “I’m a lesbian” cause it’s half true. I’m I like guys and girls
This isn’t cringe they’re just making me mad at this point lmao.
It's making you mad because it's cringe
@@onionskin3254 Hmm
Cringe isn’t anger it’s second hand embarrassment.
Yep and so upset people like that exist🤢
I feel you, there’s so much cringe that it’s broken the threshold for me and now it’s just painful to watch. I feel for these Women, because there’s nothing worse than you being out and about minding your own business and someone keeps trying to flirt with you. There’s nothing wrong with harmless flirting but 90% of the time they’re creepy.
“But she’s laughing that means she like it” that is nervous laughing because she’s scared to say “no” because when you say “no” people can get violent and aggressive
THANK YOU. man, i hate these men
@@The.Billionaire.Official okay... it didn't seem like he was being brave really, it seemed more like he just assumed he would get what he wanted. I don't think she had an attraction toward him at all and was just being polite but it started getting creepier and creepier by the second... and what did you mean by "manage him later?"
@@The.Billionaire.Official personally, I found his behavior arrogant not brave. When a person approaches you with that “I won’t take no for an answer” attitude I (and I think most people do) loose all interest and just wait for them to give up and move on. He tries to soften his attitude in the middle of it but that comes off as manipulative and fake
@@The.Billionaire.Official direct approach: “ hi I think you’re pretty and I’d like to have a drink/coffee with you sometime. Could I give you my number?”
Arrogant and incredibly creepy approach: “hello girl where you going? A party? why can’t I got to this party with you? Hey come on now, let me smell you real quick”
@@leaffairy4283 yes they are creeps
There are places where you can talk to people.
A library is NOT one of them.
The forced dialog from them is like when you accidentally talk to an NPC in a game and they have an essay of unskippable dialog.
Hahaha
@@Venezia41 So what do you like to eat? Where are you from?
This is the perfect description. 😭
@Tera Calistenia *never
omfg im dead 💀
the second guy was the prime example of a gaslighter, jesus, how did the girls get the patience of being so polite to him
Gaslighting is when you make someone doubt something they know to be true, he's a big creep but I didn't see any gaslighting...
2nd or 3rd? 3rd is with the 3 girls
@@yelloe the one with the 3 girls
he wanted to get sympathy by acting like a victim
Its more so guilt tripping and manipulation rather than gaslighting
Any man that refers to himself as a “pick up artist” is an automatic creep in my book.
100th like!
Can't argue with this argument
what about barney stinson?
Fax has been spoken
Fr
It physically hurts me that men like this actually exist omfgggggg
Dominic Noble covered the BIBLE of the PICK UP ARTISTS,
cause he is a Book-Review-Channel.
Third guy literally just MET these girls, got denied, then proceeded to manipulate them. "I'm depressed now." "I actually just worked up the courage to approach girls." "Just tell me I'm ugly and a horrible person" then LAUGHS???
“Proceeded to manipulate them” you’re giving him too much credit, he proceeded to make an attempt at sort of trying to manipulate a eight year old
I would have yelled “Get outta here, ugly!” Give the goblin what he wants.
Never pull out I'm depressed when you try to become interesting
He was laughing but inside of him he felt rejected I mean he wants people to think it was a joke or funny but inside he is so pressed 😂
@@michaelsebastian914 yup, it gives off massive school shooter/ psycopathic vibes at worst, and at best, just makes you look sorta pathetic, ngl.
"Just tell me I'm ugly."
Classic close-line. Guilt trip or if she picks the mean way "okay you're ugly, bye"
Now she's the bad guy that he can guilt trip other women with. "She said I was ugly" ugh...self-victimization.
🤨
i mean women just do be going for looks, as a fellow beta/ alpha male, the men in this video were the weird almost set 8 kids at school. I mean its not thier fault, god just simply doesnt give everyone the right features a woman desires. i cant recall a famous person that is ugly and has a wifu.. if so then they are prob gold diggers.
@@tolucamexico1412 bruh i hope you are being sarcastic
@@tolucamexico1412 and.....if you don't see the issues with your statement, I don't really have the time of day for you.
Good luck.
@@tolucamexico1412 You can be the hottest person but a creep will always be a creep and you'd have to be really desperate or really scared to just feed their ego like they want.
I can't get thru this without physically cringing and yelling. this is so terrifying
HAHHA I FEEL U , I have to yell out loud 😭!!!! This is stressful HAHHAHA giving me flashbacks
I always feel so bad for the person getting hit on. The pickup artist’s body language and the way they talk is always so aggressive. Creepy asf.
You're not alone, not even 1 minute in and I want it to end already.
I wanted to stop watching like 5000 times the pain is beyond intolerable
it's sadly very relatable and most women have experienced something like this on multiple occasions. it was hard to get thru this video
I can't get over how perfectly savage that first woman in the pick up seminar was. Fucking hell did she handle that perfectly
One good thing I liked about these "artists" is that whenever I do an embarrassing thing I can remember that these people exist
Wow look at all these fucking bots holy shiiiiit
Exact thing happens with me when I look at a serial killer. Atleast I am not a "serial" killer
@@aidanconnors8229 are you a bot?
@@shervinanousheh3508 are you a bot?
“I’m really depressed now, see I just got up the courage to talk to girls, I was talking to my therapist for a long and I finally go the courage and you were so mean.” “Just tell me un ugly, tell me in ugly, tell me that.”
3rd guy is such a manipulator, I think he was the worst.
As if his mental/emotional issues are theirs to fix. 🙄 very annoying and also a red flag on boundaries
He gave enough openings to be told to fuck off. People are just too scared to look bad in public is part of it.
Sad part is he's a pretty famous pick up artist. So the whole thing is a complete act. It's disgusting.
With that last guy, he seemed serious and messed up in the first one, but with the second lady he talked to it was so bad I legit couldn't tell if he was being serious or not.
@@TheLibran1 lol they were literally telling him off. "We were trying to have a conversation." I don't know if I misheard but I think one girl said "It's/I'm uncomfortable." He continued to manipulate them be a creep. Don't justify douchebags.
As a girl, this makes me so uncomfortable. Like imagine what this feels like - I hate men like this. It's so scary and uncomfortable. I cry after stuff like this happens
Seeing the second guy leaning towards the girl makes me want to die
Girl, I'd take my pepper spray and tell these jerks to back off
I think a lot of us cry after stuff like this. It's horrible and it's actually one of the reasons why I don't leave my house anymore. It's grooosssss 🤢
no, not as a girl. as a normal human being. we guys (just as Felix) get fucking cringe shivers when we watch it. they are just weirdos and dont give a fuck how the look because after many tries the will land on a girl that is desperate or gullible enough to go out with them.
Honestly it happened to me on a night out once and I haven't been out since
That third clip is why me and my friends just shout "we're lesbians"
The sad part is that even if you say you're a lesbian, they'll be sure that they can convince you to be otherwise. These men in the videos literally don't care how you feel, but about being persistent to the point where you give in.
@@NessyontheGo pls fr, they also think they're entitled to see your private body parts since you're not into them anyway like ?????????
@Caleb Hamm LMAO FR THO
@NessyontheGo These videos are being cherry picked to shame men for even going up and attempting to have a connection with women.
“I think you’re a creep” - best part of this video.
"Are you guys learning anything?" has it beat
She's awesome, that was straight murder
No u
lol she killed it
Tasers...
If someone gets within your tasing distance violence should be legal
I havent watched the whole thing yet when?
I won’t be surprised if a PickUp artist runs out of lines and just says “Can I sleep with you in your bed, I shat in mine”
*Im Better than PEWDIEPIE HE is TRASH*
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*"Literally 99.99% of people will not support me, but I have faith that one day I will be recognized ......." 💔*
LMFAOOOOO
These bots out of control
Three girls: " giving clear hints they want you to leave."
Guy: " that's not going to happen."
FYI, if you have a working mouth, just fucking say what's on your mind. Don't drop "hints". Also, "clear hints" is an oxymoron.
This was sooo fucking cringe i had to pause the vid and come to comments
"I am depressed now...my therapist....why would you do that to me?"
Just shoot me in the head now, that clip did me mental, emotional, and physical damage.
Thats not even hints, they straight up told him to leave like 5 times. My god this is painfully cringe to watch.
Guy - I am depressed
it’s nice that these videos exist so guys can realize how girls are treated and cornered
Tip: if you have to ask if the woman is scared of you, you’re doing it wrong
The "howdy" will be at least a little good if he energetic other than he being like a drunk man
@@keeps7200 there are different types of men and so on not all are energetic
Unless you are very attractive, Women would just reject you straight up.
@@wqewf663 lmao what kinda mindset is that?
@@wqewf663 - Are you, like, an actual child?
The second girl literally was against a wall and she still kept trying to back away from him
He's so creepy. I wanted to run and I'm safe at home.
I litterally felt physical pain from how cringy these pickup artists are 😖
These pickup artists are literally what people fear to be like when approaching a woman
10000% thats exactly what it is. So men .. you guys gotta get rid of these people.. lol
The girl versions included..
@@npcimknot958 there is no girl version
@@kk-cr4db Of course there is, I've heard several horror stories of creepy girls latching on and not getting the message and that's just from my bf
@@Rosalie_Jansen I'm sorry but there are no pick up girls. It just doesn't exist. Woman obviously have other ways of being toxic in relationships but there is no equivalent of that.
@@kk-cr4db using absolutes in any context is very silly, especially when it has to do with people.
If the best thing you can say to a woman is “but you’re not running away are you?” Silence is probably better
They’re not just cringe they’re sooo creepy i wouldnt ever be able to conversate like this with a random dude
I'll just say that I'm gay and ask them to leave lol
Because of these creeps, some bars or clubs have these code words where you have to ask to speak to Louisa or some random name so the staff can secretly save you from the weirdos
@@G31M1 thats a smart idea
what if it's a lesbian trying to hook up with you?
ok but asking silly questions, very obviously pretending to have an interest in them, all the while acting stupid to make the other person feel better about themselves is very cringey
"was she uncomfortable?" "yes." "is that ok?" "no 🙂" "glad we could have this conversation"
It's all about how attractive the guy is.
@@RANDOM-pf1ve and how they act
Of course he's launching because he's happy
@@RANDOM-pf1ve well with that mindset no girl will want to be with u. Cuz having a good personality and respecting others are more attractive than ur muscle or whatever
16:39
What person doesn't love laughing nervously while trying to identify a safe escape route from the self-absorbed creep?
The old clip of Pewds yelling "AH! PENIS!" and then just screaming while running at the end is how these "artists" make me feel.
Pick up artists? More like people who’s catch phrase is “how close can we get to sexual harassment without getting arrested”
I hear a whining of a western "man" who lost his balls due to feminazi propaganda and dictatorship, and too much soy consumption
@@KotleKettle did that white man hurt you
@@bruh-zn8ju just my ears, I could hear his ear-drilling whining from here when he was writing that comment, as if it was a dog which's paw was run over by a car, ouch
Pick up artist = Scumbags
The funny thing is... sometimes, just sometimes it still works.
Like plenty of people still think that googled and memorized pickup lines used on 50+ girls are special, funny and interesting.
The moment the guy said "I have been alive for 31 years and I've never met any of you, I missed you so much." My toes literally curled from cringe.
I can’t believe he’s 31! 🤮
I just straight died
@@dancegod1691 how can you go through 31 years and be this much of a creepy asshole
Do they not feel any amount of shame at all? I'm here getting second hand embarrassment just watching this and constantly pausing to be able to keep up... it's like whatever part of their brain that feels shame was removed ugh
Dude, EXACTLY
They haven't been brainwashed by the cringe culture, they understand that to live is to face embarrassment, and instead of running away from it and retreat into the safety of their solitude, they have embraced the cringe.
@@yokiie3544 I did the same to my current gf and she loved it.
@@iraniandude2899 you're a creep
I am looking at the comment for this
That’s a great first date question. “Would u rather have OCD or ADD?” I’m gonna try that 💀
Have you tried yet? 😁
I have social anxiety. He will still do better than me.
"Howdy"
He will not do better than me.
@hecker ok
LOLOL
I DONT HAVE CORONAVIRUS
but I have a pretty epic channel
@hecker love ur pfp just wanna say
I DONT HAVE CORONAVIRUS
but I have a pretty epic channel
I'm convinced everyone watching this series is a masochist for cringe.
dude I am cringing so hard, I want to die
Hi,please Confess Jesus As Lord with your mouth And Believe He Died For our sins And God Rose Him From The Dead,turn away from swearing, using God's Name in vain, decieving, Praying to statues,Mary,Saints,Angels...,lying,over eating,magic,selfish ambitions, laziness, working On Saturdays(starting friday night by our time)pride,lust,hate,gossip,cigars,drugs,video games,movies,anime,idolatry(obssesions,un healthy connections to something,someone,addictions..) and that kind of stuff,Dedicate yourself To God Fully,Obey Him And Trust In Him And Jesus
@@mnnptl Hi,please Confess Jesus As Lord with your mouth And Believe He Died For our sins And God Rose Him From The Dead,turn away from swearing, using God's Name in vain, decieving, Praying to statues,Mary,Saints,Angels...,lying,over eating,magic,selfish ambitions, laziness, working On Saturdays(starting friday night by our time)pride,lust,hate,gossip,cigars,drugs,video games,movies,anime,idolatry(obssesions,un healthy connections to something,someone,addictions..) and that kind of stuff,Dedicate yourself To God Fully,Obey Him And Trust In Him And Jesus
i got to the point where i don't even wach them, i just listen to them to avoid it
@ Hi,please Confess Jesus As Lord with your mouth And Believe He Died For our sins And God Rose Him From The Dead,turn away from swearing, using God's Name in vain, decieving, Praying to statues,Mary,Saints,Angels...,lying,over eating,magic,selfish ambitions, laziness, working On Saturdays(starting friday night by our time)pride,lust,hate,gossip,cigars,drugs,video games,movies,anime,idolatry(obssesions,un healthy connections to something,someone,addictions..) and that kind of stuff,Dedicate yourself To God Fully,Obey Him And Trust In Him And Jesus
The worst part about this is that these are exactly the type of conversations women have with men that randomly come up to them, how is THIS the standard??
Hello there. Which one would you rather have, OCD or ADD?
@@RonBest your mom
@@BlueEyes-WhiteDrag0n oof
What would you rather talk about?
what happens when we put the burden of approaching on men with zero guidance
I flinched when the second guy grabbed the poor girl's shoulder 😭
What’s even worse is that fully grown men will still do this, even if you’re a minor. I can remember a few instances where a guy came up to me and initiated a conversation. In pretty much all those instances, I was still a minor. It was extremely uncomfortable and awkward.
same
This reminds me of when I was working at grocery stores when I was like 15 at checkout I would have middle aged men just make the typical blondes have more fun jokes or things like that. I WAS 15 and some of them were cops too. It made me soooo uncomfortable. I was just trying to work.
I agree, the most attention I've ever gotten from adult men just like on the street was when I was 13 :/
Did he borrow jackscepticeye's camera??
Howdy girl, looking cute today. I'm sorry for, ahem, breaking in this comment section, but... you know, I really missed you my whole life, wanna help me fix that? 😎👌
They call this shit "pick-up art", but if a guy ever cornered me like that I'd be 100% convinced I'm about to assaulted or worse
Like that poor girl at the bar. That was creepy af.
I've had a guy do this to me and he tried to kiss me and wouldn't let me go. I pushed him away really hard and ran off but cried about it for days after. It's so terrifying that these men can't see how scared and uncomfortable they're making these women.
I'm sorry to hear that. He was probably very unattractive and ugly. I hope someone does this to you who is attractive because you would probably like it and be happy with it.
@@wqewf663 did you hit your head on the steps again?
@@trimme9536 bruh people like this need to go to prison
Luckily anything bad happened to you
@@wqewf663 No.
As an introvert who gets socially anxious with normal convo, this is pure torture.
"You're in high school?
"I'm a senior at UPenn"
"Fuck, sorry, have a nice day"
@Oma S and your mom told me you were a mistake
@@stresseddictator1849 😂😂damn man you murdered him
@@stresseddictator1849 yees 😂
When she called him a creep: 👏👏👏👏
Hello, Mr.Amber main.
Its because he lack attractiveness
Good for her. She got paid and made a fool of that idiot
@@kaspa21 no its cuz they are proper weird
im convinced he got paid to act like that on purpose theres no way
Something guys need to understand: when a woman smiles it doesn't always mean she is happy or attracted to you. It can also mean that she's nervous or uncomfortable (or even scared)
The same litterally applies to most guys
@@adrianstein954 so then instead let's change it to: when a person smiles it doesn't always mean they are happy or attracted to you. It can also mean that they're nervous or uncomfortable (or even scared)
Yea, sadly people are illiterate when it comes to reading body language we should teach classes on that instead
YUPP! please focus on the " scared " part, because it's a lot more common than you may think
@@infinite101_ thank you for doing that, obviously it goes for both ways but saying 'men go thru _____ as well' isn't solving anything.
"Are you guys learning anything" bahahahahaha
Dominic Noble covered the BIBLE of the PICK UP ARTISTS,
cause he is a Book-Review-Channel.
And: Legendary RUclipsr Hbomberguy
also covered Pickup-Artistry. Seen it?
The dude talking to the girls on a park bench is manipulative af. Trying to make them feel bad because they don't wanna talk to a stranger who's annoying them. Dead giveaway to stay clear away from that guy.
The most transparent manipulator ever
probably/very likely a sociopath tbh
They were way too nice to him. I would’ve been vicious.
Dude I literally was approached in a park in day light and this dude started just going through my note book and I’d drawn a cheetah and he was like “I bet you love rough kinky s*x and you want to be bitten” so like fuck men what gives them the audacity to do this shit…..
@@casuallycasual324 That's not a normal man.
As a straight female who has been alive for almost 30 years I’ve lived through these situations thousands of times and it never gets less painful for us either 😭
As a man i do apologise for these people they Skipped the morals update about like 100 years ago
Oli same it makes me want to run.
@@mtrude
Atleat a hundred years ago they ad some morals probably, those idiots came due to the atheist wave
These people belong in jail. The pain.
Don't let it happen. Treat them like shit
Those three girls were super duper polite. They shouldn’t have to be forced into this situation. I wanna see a clip of some girl just straight up yelling in the guy’s face “YOU ARE BOTHERING US YOU CREEP!”
I think those clips are a dime a dozen.
God yes. Props to them for being that polite, but at that point I wouldn't have been polite at all. I'm sorry, but if you are being creepy and disrespectful it's my right
Yh mate I was expecting a f’ off situation 😂
I think it's gonna be very hard to find those kind of video....Because the pickup guy surely don't want it to be posted but also because I think that they choose their ''prey''. All their technique is based on the fact that some woman will not clearly say no or will try for too long to be polite or nice... So they won't go for a girl who looks like she will scream at them...
@@wildcati "prey" being the key word there
Im a guy and whenver im outside the club smoking i always cringe out seeing these pick up artist going around flirting girl to girl it just so embarrassing lol
If anyone else noticed, in almost every video the woman is cornered. Pickup "artist" stands over her and there's no way for her to just turn around and leave. Literally predatory behavior
@@ellismin657
If you would have bothered to fact check this, you will see that Todd himself showed this as an one of the examples of bad/failed pickup attempts
@@ellismin657 Maybe if you bothered to fact check the bs that you believe online, you'd realize that Todd is actually one of the good ones. But of course you hate all PUA's because you're probably a feminazi.
so true, i actually got approached by one on my college campus a little while ago and it was honestly scary. i was sitting by myself and this grown ass man comes over, corners me, and won’t take no for an answer
@@norasherman8545 If you go to college you're also a grown ass woman. Deal with it.
@@UlpianHeritor there's a different between 20 and 40, she's not at college to get hit on she's there to learn. No means no!
This is what we mean by catcalling and sexual harassment, these aren’t pick up artists who lack a bit of selfawareness, they are sexual harassers and catcallers.
Boosting
Lol it’s cringy. But it’s not sexual harassment. Most women want to still be approached by socially well adjusted men. Get a grip
The acts they are preforming make so angry and upset on behalf of the people (or should i say targets) in these videos and its horrfying to know this could happen to anyone :(
@@BuffettWarren3 and youre a man?
@@sergie-3551 you trying to approach me 😂
"I'm very persistent aren't I?"
Yea it's almost like it's harassment or something 🤔
"Pickup artist" is literally just a nice way of saying "harasser" lol
I can't like because you're on 420. Just know I liked it in my heart.
To me the second guy is literally assaulting her. Not OK.
as a person who struggles meeting new people.. i hated everything about this video, my soul has left my body and isn’t coming back
i learnt today that my world isnt on fire.
*the* world is on fire.
Anyone should feel better about themselves after watching this. At least you are not that last guy.
if you look at it from the bright side, at least you're better than any of the people in this video!
@@philipenogueira tbh i think that last guy was doing it on purpose or something
Im having a feeling that he is just trolling her or whatever, im usually good at picking that up
i know the feeling
Guy: *fails his handshake*
Felix: *"Relatable"*
What’s up with these bots
@@rememberthisname9965 I dunno
Creep: "You're not running away"
Woman: *Runs away
Creep: "This is my favorite part"
You can tell he's a creep because of the way he is 🤓
@@graciec5549.... I think that's the point lol
All these were so uncomfortable and creepy omg. This happens TOO often and thanks for bringing awareness to the cringe and scariness and annoyance that comes from it 😭
at 8:40 "I'm sorry, I'm not used to people not being nice to me"
This explains... so much. It makes me sad to know that there are people like this out there, who are just horrible people who harass women
I've literally had that line spouted at me when rejecting someone. They told me I would be making a mistake because I would really be missing out because of how amazing they were.
@@heatherpony that is so creepy😬 I would probably ask the people next to me for help. Strength in numbers
Right? Like is he expecting all women to be his mom?
-"would you rather have cancer or depression?"
-"neither"
-"but why don't you want to have cancer?"
@Oma S who ?
Why won't you have cancer??? Tell me why. Why????
@@sadrakhnaibaho1780 my friend
@@bobbiecapewell5333 Ain't nothin but a heartache -(now number 5)-
@@souju_13 tell me why
I mean look at their distance, they’re invading their personal space. That’s gotta be so uncomfortable
The 6 feet social distancing rule is the best and I wish it stays around as a normal polite social thing cuz its made this stuff happen less often for me
That’s true. A lot of what these guys are doing is just straight up s*xual harassment.
Not to mention they always seem to approach when the woman is sitting down or backed into a corner where she can't run...
@@bisexualspacesocialist2025 wrong
@@zuki4607 creep
The guy talking to the 3 girls just keeps pulling the most manipulative crap ever
"I'm depressed now. Look what you did to me"
"You hate me don't you? Just admit I'm ugly"
"Is it so hard to be nice to me?"
Red flags all over the place
This is so painful to watch. Just because a girl is still having a conversation with you does NOT mean she’s interested. She’s just being polite, and doesn’t know how to get you to leave without looking like a “bitch”
Wait its gonna be full of bots
You’re cute Melissa may I take your fit some coffee? I’d love to get to know you ☺️👋
And to be safe.
honestly with these guys you cannot care about how you look you just need to give em a brutal rejection and move on
@@bellakeksi8313 a lot of men can get violent in response to rejection. The safest option is to just play along and then get the hell out when you can.
I feel so bad for the women, they are clearly nervous and trying to laugh it away. As a person who has been in a situation like this I can imagine the anxiety and panic they are feeling.
It's at the limit as an assault or literally one
I can't help but almost want this to happen to me though just so I could mess with the dude, after seeing videos like this I've got _so many_ comebacks stored in my brain lmao. Except also I highly doubt that would happen cause I'm 5'2 and a guy hahah
gayy
@@Baer99Z visit a gay bar my dude
@@sus7820 gay men are surprisingly more shyer than you think.
Listen: if a guy won’t leave you alone, don’t spare his feelings. Unless there is some immediate danger, just walk away and don’t humor them. And if he tries to kiss you, slap him in the face, or kick in the groin.
roundhouse kick them when they say howdy
the issue tho is that it's very common for men who are persistent to get angry when you say no or aren't "nice enough" to them , and then that PUTS you in a dangerous situation. it's happened way to many times to me , but not with someone trying to "pick me up," typically when we get catcalled if we don't respond politely or positively we get followed and yelled at. it sucks.
@@kaylinvb6423 yo how many of this weirdos have you come across. I thought it was a species in danger
But girls like guys who bully them right?
@@yakheen581 pardon?
8:40 "I'm not used to people not being nice to me."
this is the epitome of the problem with these "pickups". a lot of these girls, like the one that got kissed against her will (absolutely sexual harassment, you can visibly see she's not interested), are very "docile" and "indifferent", although body-language-wise, and by how little they engage or initiate conversation, its *painfully obvious* they want them to leave right the fuck now. them being "submissive" is not them being nice to you, allowing you, or wanting to satisfy your desires in any way.
girls are so often caught off guard, cause we are taught our whole lives to be "a lady". to be sweet, quiet, not yell, not make a scene, not run. don't be wild and energetic and strong-looking, or else we're manly, or bitchy or bossy, and its off-putting and unbecoming. so its very hard for girls who subscribe to that mindset they were taught to pull out of it in situations like these. its not cause we want it or agree to it, cause any person with half a mind can see how uncomfortable these girls are. its so rapey... its like how a lot of girls completely freeze when being sexually harassed instead of fighting and screaming. and then people say its their fault.
and now for once, these girls are actually taking none of his shit, when HE is being the rude one obviously, and they are confident enough to be more fierce about wanting him to leave, and he DARES to say they're "not nice" for it??????????? that's how it is. the first girls that turn a man down without reservation and they're apparently bad people for not entertaining his lifelong sexual frustration... its unreal. we're mean if we don't please any stranger, bitches for turning you down or friendzoning a "NIcE gUy". we're bossy for acting like men act as second nature and unwomanly for speaking up. fuck that. FUCK THAT ladies. yell and scream and be wild and feisty and as fierce as you want. fuck being "womanly" by staying quiet and pretty, leave that to the dolls on the shelf
dismiss what you've been thought then, you lack tumblr pill, tumblr pill is the best copium in the world
Jennifer was straight up trolling him. She picks, he suggests if she's sure, she changes b/c that's what he wants him to do, then immediately changes again when he asks HAHA. She destroyed him.
I liked how the second girl was kind of nice to him, actually giving him chance to have normal conversation, but he manage to screw it anyway :D
Which one was Jennifer
@@mfme5715 ocd/adhd girl :D
Jennifer is a fucking SAVAGE!
"Are you guys learning anything?" Killed me!
Nahhhh, the dude was a weird creep from the get go
These are the type of guys I’m literally scared of in the streets… they won’t leave even when you tell them you’re not interested
Nothing scarier
I think this is the thing some guys don't understand. It's genuinely terrifying when a man approaches me in public bc I don't know wether he's a decent human being or not. Idk what he's gonna do to me and it's haunting
@Cenestpasmapersonnalité will be using that from now on
When this happens I would immediately just escalate to, so do I need to call the police and report harassment? I understand being scared. .I've had things like this happen to me also. But try to remember you aren't powerless. Always carry pepper spray too.
@@dandeliondunmer3637 pepper spray is illegal in the UK, as are tasers and knives
Calling these guys "pickup artists" is like calling a Mcdonalds employee a "chef"
Yes
well at least mcdonald’s employee serves food..
Nah it’s like calling a dumpster diver an entrepreneur
Hey, I made tasty Big Mac. 😅
I didn't even know this is what people call pickup artist-
Videos like this make me feel glad that I am a man and I would never have to be approached by someone as creepy as these dudes