You must be one of the classiest ladies walking the earth. I admire how you share your current struggles in such a respectful and classy way. No drama, just kindness from your heart although it is hurting. You are a rolemodel to all of us!
"Classy Lady"..Classy would be confirming at the start of one of the last two videos that she's had a break up. I didn't even know in the last one and there's no mention in this one. I guess she only values her Instagram followers for them to know something that everyone else has been guessing in the video comments. She isn't as nice as I thought and I guess. Joe jumped ship for a reason. Looking back, she's a bit pretentious, but good at trying to come across all casual and natural. Spoilt rich girl background type. Shows new clothes, but avoids telling, she's lost Joe.
MsKTMvalley Fully agree with you, but honestly I feel it’s not even worth reacting to, some people don’t understand kindness and classy behaviour. I think Niomi knows that only the sad, self-loathing, pathetic people would write something so inappropriate and irrelevant. And that it’s not even worth a reaction, because that just validates those haters.
I’m a great believer that we have happiness inside of us. I really love this quote that I found a long time back. I thought it might be a nice one to share. It reminds me that happiness is about loving ourselves and putting ourselves first. “You’re going to realise it one day - that happiness was never about your job, or your degree, or being in a relationship. Happiness was never about following in the footsteps of all of those who came before you, it was never about being like the others. One day, you’re going to see it - that happiness was always about the discovery, the hope, the listening to your heart and following it wherever it chose to go. Happiness was always about being kinder to yourself, it was always about embracing the person you were becoming. One day, you will understand. That happiness was always about learning how to live with yourself, that happiness was never in the hands of other people. It was always about you. It was always about you.” Keep being you and remember that better days are always going to come. Much love 💕
Things between me and my fiancé ended 6 weeks ago, we were meant to be married at the end of August. It feels like a bad dream and I admire Niomi for uploading as she heals - I know I couldn’t face it. If anyone is in a bad place, self love helps so much! Although the sadness hasn’t disappeared, that glimmer of joy gets longer each day.
Hi, I usually am a silent Viewer but I just thought: how is it that YOU are going through a hard time and I still feel you are actively lifting MY mood? There is such a warmth to you, you truly are amazing and I am glad that your tribe online seems to reflect that. Love from Germany.
Dear Niomi, I've been a silent viewer of yours since your early RUclips days and I must say this is your most authentic & heartwarming self you've chosen to share with us. This is the kind of content that shows best your kindness & uniqueness. Keep up the amazing work! ❤️ with love, from Romania
Here are three quotes that I think you might like: "Taking care of yourself is productive." "Perhaps you should love yourself so fiercely that when others see us, they know exactly how it should be done." "Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path." Sending you the warmest hug
A great one from my favorite, Anne of Green Gables, "It's not what the world holds for you, it's what you bring to it." I have it written in the front of my notebook 😘
Sometimes when something as big as a break up from a long term relationship happens you need time to process it as a human being. I read a comment on here somewhere demanding Niomi to clarify her relationship status. No. Stop. Humanize yourself. If you were going through the same thing, I don't care if you were a public figure or not...wouldn't you also need time to process? To just figure out what the hell happened, she is a human being and emotions are real and raw things. Regardless of whether you are a public figure or not. Maybe after she has had time to process her emotions she will want to share. Maybe not. Just because she is physically getting on with her life doesnt mean she has emotionally processed her pain. Have some heart.
She made her instagram followers aware, some people have even commented that she said it was a "shit show". You acting like she needed time is a nonsense, when she went ahead and spewed it on instagram. That's clearly hard for many to comprehend though. Anyway Joe must have jumped ship for a reason....Run Joe !!!
Its not easy to speak publicly about such a traumatic experience as a break up but unfortunately when you're in the publc eye you make a deal with the devil . If Niomi had kept Joe from appearing in her vids rather than including him on an almost weekly basis then she'd have every right to her privacy but unfortunately it looks very bad when she just instantly cuts him out as if he never existed. Thats not fair on her thousands of followers.
A couple of you commenters are so toxic and deluded that maybe you should seek help! Niomi films her real life and Joe was a major part of it so she included him. If she hadn’t shown him you are the exact people who would be complaining that she “owes” it to everyone to show him. She owes you absolutely nothing. If you don’t like her content and/or her making her own choices, absolutely no one is keeping you here. Find a channel that suits whatever your way of doing things is and stop insulting her for not fitting into your never ending, ever-changing, bizarre moulds.
"A woman alone is not a woman undone" - Laura Marling ...One of my favourite song lyrics by one of my favourite artists (from her song 'Daisy'). Us women need to remember this! Listening to her music is a definite act of self love for me! xx
I like the thought process you took us through about questioning whether buying the notebooks had a negative environmental impact, and you coming to the conclusion that a) they were as sustainable as they could be, and b) sometimes you need to buy something that's not ideally sustainable just because you need/want it. I think we need to realize that while it's important to not be unfeeling/uncaring about larger issues, we can't be personally responsible for everything all the time on a large scale. Having to obsessively weigh every decision against the oppression and sustainability of the entire world is not going to be feasible, and will put so much pressure on YOU that it can become unhealthy in a personal sense. I know because you are a prominent face in this type of activism, people often put a lot of pressure on you as well, and are quick to find any aspect of your life that you film that isn't the most sustainable, or that you haven't taken the time to speak out about. Succumbing to the pressure to structure every decision around these things can become an excuse not to care for yourself, because you have "more important things" to be concerned with. The potential for that to turn into an unhealthy coping mechanism, where a person can seem very mindful about the world but is sort of using it not to focus on themselves, is so real. I can see that your energy in these videos is really positive and good, and I'm glad you're keeping up your commitment to the larger issues while also prioritizing yourself!
So glad to get so many uploads from you lately Niomi! Despite everything, I must say that I feel closer to you recently and your content, being more raw and vulnerable, has been really touching me, and having such a positive impact. Sending you loads of love 💗
I went through a difficult time last year. I journaled a lot, but what made a huge difference for me were voice memos. Every so often I would open about something in a voice memo, and I found that it helps you be even more vulnerable and less filtered than writing. You can also do it anywhere-I did several while I drove. What I enjoy about it besides that is I can listen back to my own voice. It makes such a massive difference hearing yourself, your mood at a different point. It really feels like you’re having a conversation with your past self, and it helped me reflect on my growth. Sending you love!!
You're so beautiful and strong. Would love to hear about what you think went wrong whenever you are ready or if you ever want to share at all - this was a shock because you two seemed so in love. We are here for you.
youre going through a tough times yet you look very grateful and strong. i lost my dad to cancer just a few weeks ago and i feel like im at my lowest point in my life. thank you for your encouragement.
Hello Niomi! I just thought it would be very kind to comment something nice to you! I’m a Spanish teacher, secondary and the best thing about my job is the ability to make my students laugh and enjoy little moments with either Spanish activities or together as a class. Those moments are unforgettable. I’m telling you this because it is people and the relations we build what make our life more fulfilled and happier. Keep those friends, enjoy your mum and family enjoy all the little moments with your people and with yourself because that’s what you will always remember. Thanks for being so honest and nice!
Today I had to let go of the the love of my life, I I have never felt more heartbroken and I didn’t think I could make it through but after watching this and seeing someone use that last bit of hope/happiness in them to become the best version of themselves, has made me feel so much better and made me believe in the strength I have left to love myself again. You are a wonderful, beautiful soul, Thankyou for blessing us all x
Dear Niomi, I‘ve been following your RUclips Channel for a few years, now. You have been a great inspiration in very good and beautiful times of my life. But you also gave me strength and support, when my life did not work out the way I wanted it to. As far as I, as a viewer, know you, you are an incredibly strong woman. You have the beautiful gift to show a path to people who are lost. Whatever is going on in your life, right now, please remember, that you are a superhero to many women. And that your own light shines very bright, even if everything seems to be dark. Thank you for your amazing work! Sending you love and strength from Germany!
I've started journalling too after a breakup, it's helped a lot. I used to do it all the time about two years ago and just stopped, but writing everything down really helps me deal with my emotions :) got all the support around ya girl xx
I resonate soo much with the fact that you focus on wellness but haven't been doing it from a place of self love. I'd love to hear you talk about how you changed that and what that means for you
Really impressed with your positive attitude in these difficult times. I’m finding so much strength in your recent videos. I am confident that everything will turn out so positively for you.
Niomi, this year has been tragic, heartbreaking, surprising and intense in so many ways. It’s an equalizing moment for us all, and has really brought to light dark spots we might not have seen. Remember in the dark moments: the feelings are temporary and will pass. We selectively remember the good. And try to remember that being happy again isn’t an act of revenge nor is it disloyal to the memory of things lost. My heart goes out to you. 💕
I love your positive attitude so much! After two very strenuous years in which I struggled with my health a lot and had to leave a partner because he wasn’t good for me, I finally found someone to share my life with. And if it can happen to me it can very well happen to you, too. You are classy and funny and kind and clever and absolutely beautiful. Live your best life💕
You’re such a beautiful, kind and positive soul. Thank you for being who you are and inspiring so many people by being your true and honest self. I don’t know what you’re going through but time heals everything and sometimes beauty comes out of ugly things. Wishing you all the happiness and positivity ❤️
The talk about the gils gang made my cry a bit, because I was able to feel what you are talking about and it is so good that you have them all in your life. Friends and family are the best! Even when we put them aside sometimes they are still there for us. Thank you for showing with your example that whatever happens the life continues and there’s so much you can do to help yourself. I think your opened heart is such a great example for so many people struggling as well! You are open about the life being extremely hard sometimes but you show us that is not a reason for putting hands down! You are just great Niomi! Great human in this world! As the Ekhart Tolle said in his book: we as women feel each other through centuries. We have a communal pain and we have a communal love! I send you only love! 🥰🥰🥰
Niomi, I have watched your videos for years now because I found you very relatable. we are the same age, both vegan, both ambitious about similar social issues but there was one thing I couldn't relate to but rather envied and that is your tenacity and emotional maturity. I've struggled with some personal family issues and self doubt most of my life and watching you conquer the world was so appealing to me. I really value your work ethic both in business and in self love. Every time I watch a video of yours I leave motivated. Thank you for being this weird virtual one-way friend for me. It's exactly what I need in my life.
So do not weaken and do not grieve, and you will be superior if you are [true] believers. (Quran Surah Ali 'Imran: 139) And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient, who, when disaster strikes them, say, "Indeed we belong to Allah, and indeed to Him we will return." (Quran Surah Al-Baqarah: 155-156) He said, "I only complain of my suffering and my grief to Allah, and I know from Allah that which you do not know. (Quran Surah Yusuf: 86) Hope those will make u feel better (I was when I was suffering)... You are incredible, Niomi...
I’ve been having a rough couple of years due to health problems and sometimes I feel so overcome with despair that the simple thought of having to go through another day feels unbearable. Thank you for reminding me to focus on the very basics of taking care of myself, even during those especially hard days where it’s so easy to just wallow in your pain.
--- I've been going through something very similar to you (years of health problems, not wanting to face another day) so when I saw your comment I knew that I wasn't alone. Thank you!
Niomi you are an incredible woman! You truly are one of the strongest I have seen online. I know for sure there are times where you feel like you may be crumbling into pieces. But you will get over this! You are worth it and you deserve the absolute best! Sending prayers and hope your way!
Seeing you smile and speak about how you feel like you haven’t lost your inner happiness going through this difficult time warms my heart 💓 It’s hard not to take positivity for granted when you’re in the midst of feeling happy, and the wonderful work you’re doing to first of all help yourself within your hardship, before giving your energy to others takes a massive amount of independence and self awareness! You are a very strong woman, Niomi 🥰
Thinking of you Niomi! There’s a quote that I love which always gives me so much perspective: “if you could love the wrong person that much, imagine how much more you could love the right one”. You will find your “Mr Right” one day Niomi, and you’ll look back at this time and be so much more thankful ❤️
The lady who is always a delight to watch. As much as I want to say this shall pass, I know it’s easier said than done. But yet I will say, everything is going to be okay. Love & peace to you ❤️
Seeing you get back on your feet and watching you find your higher self and inner peace is incredible Niomi. I know it may not seem like it now but every single bit of this has been a good thing and was supposed to happen for you to find your higher self. You already have everything you need to heal and grow (you only need yourself!). I totally relate to what you said about feeling this sense of awakening and awareness, I am on a similar journey right now (different circumstances but still very much the same feelings and core) but seeing people on the right track and making progress is so inspiring, we are all in this together
Higher self bull---t, she was seeking that the whole time and already feeling fulfilled. Acting like it's a wonderful opportunity to find one's self just because there's a break-up is a load of crap. lol She thought she'd found her forever person and he seemingly(Hasn't formally announced yet) has let her down. Acting as though you're on such a spiritual and physical high after an extremely major let down is a nonsense. Announcing this, announcing that, for years but isn't strong enough to formally admit to breaking up, shows all that strength she has is BS.
Kristin Burton I’m sorry you feel that way, but I think you’ve just made it very clear that you don’t understand the full picture. Strength doesn’t always have to be brash and overt, it’s that feeling inside that you know you’ll be okay no matter what. Strength is obviously not pretending to be happy all the time after something so emotionally challenging. I’m amazed at how strong Niomi is, you don’t have to have announcement video to prove it, you can just see it in herself. Personally I think it’s a sign of strength to put your self healing first above pleasing your audience with all the details (which we 100% don’t need, it’s up to her whether she decides to share). What is not a sign of strength is being a keyboard warrior and attacking someone, who as you stated is clearly going through a difficult time instead of supporting her. To me it seems like you haven’t truely found yourself as Niomi is bravely doing right now. It’s not an easy path, but you would only know that by going through it yourself. Hope you understand in the future. You’re opinion doesn’t matter, Niomi will know what I’m talking about. Wishing you the best x
I hope you’re doing okay, I have been struggling a lot with self love and I’ve been journaling about my thoughts and feelings etc so watching this has helped me and I love the quote that you said about love yourself and you can love someone better xoxo 😘 💕🙏🏻
Niomi, as many other people who wrote some nice comments here, I’m usually a quiet subscriber. But you know what, I was just thinking that RUclips (and your channel specifically) is a place where I always go when I feel down, so why not support you when you actually always support me without even knowing it. You are an inspiration for so many people, including me. I know that right now you are experiencing something really heavy to handle, but the fact that you can still be grateful for feeling happiness makes me smile. This year has been such a struggle for so many of us, but I still really hope for the best. We all have to remember that life is not always so upsetting and that good times will come. Thank you for being yourself. You always concentrate on positive things, do your best to stay healthy physically and mentally, worry so much about nature and animals, so that’s why I always feel so happy and inspired when I watch your videos. Thank you again and don’t ever forget that you are a great human being. 💙
This video... is amazing. It shows how strong you are and how mature you have become during these years. I am so proud (here's your girl gang for you!). You will overcome this and become a better version of yourself, I am sure!
I love all your videos, it doesn’t matter what has happened/changed currently in your life. You don’t need to address anything with us. We are all still here to support you, you are such an inspiration to people everywhere ❤️
These are quotes that I have found *#1 Brave girl you were made of for far more beautiful things.Chaos is only understood when it is loved by the wild ,not weak. #2 If your'e enough to love someone,then your'e strong enough to get over them. #3 Don't change yourself so that other people will like you. Be yourself,and the right people will like you.* love you 💙❤💚🧡💜💛🥰
So inspiring, it’s important to remember that you are whole just as you are, and the amazing people around you enrich your life and teach you all kinds of love, but you are still whole without them. Sending love x
Niomi you’re so strong! Please keep being honest with yourself and with us, there are so many people going through hard times who appreciate a voice to make them feel less alone. It’s inspiring to see you stay positive and drive your own recovery
When I watch your videos, no matter what they are about, I love you gentle spirit & your empathy. You are such a beautiful soul, Niomi! I'm glad there is still happiness within & I hope that soon, you'll be able to put all this behind you & find even more joy! 💜
Thank you for this utterly honest video with such heartfelt advice. You’re so intelligent, poised and beautiful Niomi - don’t forget it! Because from watching this video I can see that you’ll overcome whatever you’re going through with flying colours. You’re SO strong and this gives me strength. Such a role model you are, especially to your younger sister Daisy. Keep smiling, you deserve happiness 💛
Honored to be apart of your "girl gang" xx This is my favorite video of yours by far. Today I am grateful for: 1. My health 2. Cuddles from my chocolate lab 3. This video to come back and watch for years to come and therefore I am grateful for you! The world would be a brighter place if we all went through our darkest times with the same grace and self-love you have shown yourself and this community over the past few weeks. Thank you, Niomi. Sending BIG love from Texas!
I love how you say The better you love yourself the better you love others. I totally agree with you 💖 so beautiful! I am a mom and have only few moments throughout the day for myself. I found the app stoic which helps me to progress on my selflove and selfcare journey in only few minutes every day. Much Love to you💖 You transmit a lot of magic
Loving all your recent uploads Niomi it's amazing to have a role model to produce true and raw videos about topics that affect everyone and will help people in difficult places. Thank you xx
Niomi, you are so inspiring to me. It is so important to let ourselves feel every emotion through times like this. I also started keeping a journal when I went through a dark time and two years later, it is incredible to read some of those entries back and see that I have come SO far. I made a lot of lists in my journal too haha - I found ones like "things that make me, me" and "things that are all mine" super helpful because they have you look inward and draw out exactly who you are separate of whatever has hurt you. I remember being frustrated that my "self care" wasn't producing the results I wanted (ie to feel better), but my therapist helped remind me that these things take time, and she was right. I'm grateful for everything I did for myself back then, and the self care spark hasn't faded since. I am worthy, you are worthy!!!! Also this is so sweet - just leafed through an old journal to see if I had any advice to pull for you, and in a "self care Sunday" list, I wrote "Niomi vlog binge" as something that made me feel better that day. Thank you so much - you will get what you give. xoxo
Niomi you're such a kind soul , you project so much positivity and calmness which is amazing to watch. I hope you're doing okay during these times, they only make us stronger x
You’re the most beautiful human inside and out, you speak with such grace, honestly so many people look up to you, more than you would ever know ❤️ keep doing you, we will be behind you every step of the way 💪🏼❤️
Dear Niomi, seeing you being so touched by the comment section made me cry. I am so glad that we all can give a little bit of the positivity and self love, the courage and happiness, the inspiration and support that you keep giving us back to you. Earlier today, I came across this quote: lass mal an uns selber glauben (which is German and means something like “for a change, let’s believe in ourselves”) and I thought I’d leave this here with you. Lot’s of love, Sophie!
Dear Niomi, I hope this comment reaches you. I've watched your videos for more than 6 years and I think you're the only youtuber that I've ever followed for this long. I just wanted to say, that I've always felt this unbelievable connection towards you, it's hard to explain really, but I can imagine us being best friends in an alternate universe. I feel like I've been by your side through the hard times and the good times, supporting you from far beyond and sending my positive thoughts. I often find myself getting emotional during your videos, because they often reach the deepest feelings in my heart. Even this one, when you were going through 3 things you're grateful for, or the previous one where you helped me find myself as my own superhero. Honestly, you're the real superhero here. Thank you for being the inspiration that pushes me to be the best version of myself. I just want you to remember, that you're also a human being, so don't put too much pressure on yourself to be positive all the time and shine this beautiful light inside you on others. You have the right to feel sadness, anger and other emotions, in order to fully heal and come out on the other side even stronger. You can get through anything, and we'll always be there rooting for you. Sending lots of love and positive energy!
I am a spiritual person and I can see you've had a spiritual awakening, it's so beautiful to see. Sending you positives vibes, keep going on your journey. Better days really do come by keeping hope in your heart x
So glad to see Niomi putting in the time, love, and care for herself that she does for us...this must have been such a difficult time, and she is doing the work on herself...so proud to be part of her journey, even in the smallest way. Love from the US!
Thanks for sharing this Niomi 🧡 I just wanted to share my favourite quote: “Do not base your joy on the deeds of others” which I think defo relates to the idea of your happiness coming from within.
Loved this video so much! I related to so much of what you said about self love being non-negotiable, I've definitely learnt that the hard way. Quotes that have really helped me in the tough times: "Rock bottom will teach you more lessons than mountain tops ever will" Also, "Ruin is the gift. Ruin is transformation." Sending you so much love Niomi - I love watching your videos, they always help me take better care of myself. X
Dear Niomi, thank you for this wonderful video, I found the part about journaling really useful, it is so important to write your thoughts and feelings down to help with clarity and enable you to get a restful sleep. I wanted to let you know that with everything you are going through at the moment you deserve so much happiness and I really hope you are getting all the support that is needed right now but speaking from experience you will get there just keeping going and I am a true believer that everything happens for a reason. Take care of yourself and sending so much love and support 🙏🏻 💞
I’ve been following your channel for many years, and I have to say this was my favorite video. I know you are going through something incomprehensibly difficult, though your strength and bravery to be vulnerable is so pure and wholesome. I’ve recently gone through the most traumatic experience of my life this past week and in a way you are helping guide me through the internal rebuilding process. Thank you for all you do. ❤️🌸
Sometimes writing on paper is better than the computer or phone - no electricity required to sit mulling over your thoughts and words. Sending joyful thoughts your way XXX
You’re doing all the best things to make yourself feel better and the fact you are putting so much time into finding different ways to look after yourself, shows how much you love and respect yourself already 💗 Maybe now you could go on that Australian adventure you were thinking about doing a few years ago 💗
Thank you so much for spreading positivity despite of (or especially because of) the hard times you are currently going through. I'm not really in the best place myself at this moment and I honestly don't know how to cope with it but your videos (and the comment section!) are giving me courage and strength. So today, that is what I'm grateful for! What has really helped me and I would therefore recommend you to do, is to write Joe a letter in which you let your emotions flow freely and write down whatever you feel. What you're grateful for, what you're angry for, what upsets you most, why you feel this particular way, how you wish things would have gone differently and so on. Don't hold back while doing this, try to be as vulnerable as you can. You don't necessarily have to send it to him, that choice is up to you. In any case I would suggest to keep it so you can read it whenever you feel a bit lost, confused or sad. Wishing you all the best. Time heals all wounds X
Your new hair you showed on Instagram is gorgeous. Listening to Maggie Rogers song Alaska, she did an interview saying the lyric about cutting her hair is important because hair holds energy and when going through a period like you are going through, getting rid of that old energy is so important to your growth. Her other lyric "I walked off you and I walked off an old me" is so deep. Take each day as it comes and continue ridding yourself of old energy and walking towards yourself. ❤❤
Hello Niomi, this is my first time to leave comments here. I just want to let you know that i learn English from watching your videos. I follow the subtitles and read out loud. I love your videos and i like you. Please stay healthy and cheers!
Niomi, you are such an angel. You have helped me get through really tough times in the past years, and I am so grateful for your positive energy. I am so glad we can all share our positive energy with you too every day, and in times when you need it the most. We are all here for you. Love xxx
That was such a great video Niomi 🙏🏻 I had a friendship breakup earlier this year and have been struggling to get over it: still overthinking and feeling anger and resentment. I have meditated, sent myself love did yoga and ate better food. It has been a journey but not giving up 🙏🏻 I am not very sure what to do with journaling and am afraid this will get me stuck into my own thoughts. But I should give it a try. You made my evening better ❤️ thank you ❤️
Niomi, your videos have helped me so much in the past, youre an inspiration to me and im sure to so many others. You have the most beautiful soul and outlook even in these darker times! You will get there, take your time and know you've inspired so many and are so loved!! 😘🥰
Self love is so important and I really appreciate you uploading this video and using your platform to spread positivity!! You’re doing amazing, keep strong Niomi 💛🧡
Hey Niomi, have been watching you for nearly a decade (!) and just wanting to share how much of a wonderful inspiration you have been over the years. You have been such a beacon for us all when we have been through tough times and really feel for you going through what we can only imagine is a difficult and traumatic period, on top of the crazy year that 2020 has been. Glad to see you prioritising yourself and reaping the rewards for building a community that loves and supports you. Lots of love x
Years ago your videos helped me get through the breakup of my first long time boyfriend. You are such a kind, intelligent woman and you inspired me to be good to myself again. I hope you feel better soon! I Love to see you grow and shine! 🤗💕 Funny thing that helps me sleep: huge fake fur nursing pillow 😅
I can imagine how difficult it must be for you as I've personally been through a really dark time in my life that literally took the light out of my soul. It's easy for people to assume you have a perfect life, but even "perfect people" go through difficult times, yet you are so strong and still fighting, that's what I really admire about you. Thank you for inspiring me, I hope things will turn out well for you soon, and just know that there are people going through this with you so stay strong! ❤❤❤ xxx
Love the wine colour workout outfit on you! I'm always so grateful for my girls, too. ❤️ I've been using a gratitude journal since March and writing don daily goals all year and it's so helpful for clearing your head and focusing on your priorities. So glad to hear you're already feeling happier. That feeling will only grow and grow the more you nurture it. 😊
Love this video, self love is so important! Cherish every moment you have with yourself! Post-big-breakup I also had this big "aha moment" about what I really wanted to achieve in life as an individual - I had never even considered this when I was with my partner. Since then I have graduated, made new wonderful friends and am applying for jobs in cities I never would have previously imagined I'd work in. The dark moments still come, particularly at night, but day by day the feelings of lightness and independence have taken over. I'm now considering staying single for life hahaha! Let's get cats instead!
This video popped up at the perfect time for me. Niomi you are truly a role model for many. Your humility and graciousness is beautiful to watch and loved your self care tips. It's so easy to wallow and you shared some really good tips to shift the focus and take care of oneself. Loved it. Thank you and sending you healing vibes 💛🌻
Love love love this video, thank you for the reminder to take a self care day / moment. Also you come across so confident and happy on camera recently, it's really nice to see 😊
I’m going through break up too, so I feel very connected to all your conditions. Also, I found that I lost myself into these relationships and it was my first big love... but it’s incredibly important knowing yourself and being yourself. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻 ps I’m one year older than you so it’s like going through this with your close friend ♥️
Can you do a video on your health routine/how you stay in such amazing shape? I'm struggling to find a good set of habit that really work. Just went vegan/plant-based and I love a what I eat in a day, for some recipe ideas.
oh niomi - you are just the most precious woman ever. I feel like you lift me up, remind me about the important things, eventhough you are going through a rough time. I am moving by myself to Vienna for my studies and felt really unsecure about me, like I‘ve lost myself between everything, eventhough I love my live. You inspired me to journal this evening, thanks, xx greets from munich 🌞
I've kept a book full of my favourite quotes and inspirational sayings for around 10 years now. Having it around when I needed it has always helped me in a range of circumstances, so I hope making one of your own will help you too!
You can always trust your inner strength, it’s always there, and your doing a great job of things. This experience will make you an even better person, there’s always room for improvement in all of us as humans. And your family and close friends love you. That’s the best feeling ever! When you know people have your back. Keep moving forward, baby steps x
Hi Niomi, whatever has happened in your life recently now is the time to put yourself first. Take care of yourself, your wellbeing is your number one priority xx
Hi Naiomi - I used to follow you a lot during the early days and today I was thinking about you and thought ooooh let me see one of Niomi’s videos as she’s always got something inspiring! Love this and big big hugs 🤗
You must be one of the classiest ladies walking the earth. I admire how you share your current struggles in such a respectful and classy way. No drama, just kindness from your heart although it is hurting. You are a rolemodel to all of us!
"Classy Lady"..Classy would be confirming at the start of one of the last two videos that she's had a break up. I didn't even know in the last one and there's no mention in this one. I guess she only values her Instagram followers for them to know something that everyone else has been guessing in the video comments. She isn't as nice as I thought and I guess. Joe jumped ship for a reason. Looking back, she's a bit pretentious, but good at trying to come across all casual and natural. Spoilt rich girl background type. Shows new clothes, but avoids telling, she's lost Joe.
She hasn't announced it anywhere, it is all people guessing
Sheila Stark she did in her Instagram comments
Kristin Burton whoa. None of the crap you typed makes any sense. Get off her channel, you miserable little person.
MsKTMvalley Fully agree with you, but honestly I feel it’s not even worth reacting to, some people don’t understand kindness and classy behaviour. I think Niomi knows that only the sad, self-loathing, pathetic people would write something so inappropriate and irrelevant. And that it’s not even worth a reaction, because that just validates those haters.
When I see you I see a brave, independent and successful woman
I’m a great believer that we have happiness inside of us. I really love this quote that I found a long time back. I thought it might be a nice one to share. It reminds me that happiness is about loving ourselves and putting ourselves first.
“You’re going to realise it one day - that happiness was never about your job, or your degree, or being in a relationship.
Happiness was never about following in the footsteps of all of those who came before you, it was never about being like the others.
One day, you’re going to see it - that happiness was always about the discovery, the hope, the listening to your heart and following it wherever it chose to go.
Happiness was always about being kinder to yourself, it was always about embracing the person you were becoming.
One day, you will understand. That happiness was always about learning how to live with yourself, that happiness was never in the hands of other people. It was always about you. It was always about you.”
Keep being you and remember that better days are always going to come. Much love 💕
Beautiful ❤
Holly can you remember where this came from? I'm on a mission of finally sorting out some self care and am always looking for inspiration ☺️
Even if you are breaking inside, the mere fact that you're making this video to tell others how to love themselves is very selfless. Thanks
Things between me and my fiancé ended 6 weeks ago, we were meant to be married at the end of August. It feels like a bad dream and I admire Niomi for uploading as she heals - I know I couldn’t face it. If anyone is in a bad place, self love helps so much! Although the sadness hasn’t disappeared, that glimmer of joy gets longer each day.
thank you🙏
Sending you lots of love ❤️
Hi, I usually am a silent Viewer but I just thought: how is it that YOU are going through a hard time and I still feel you are actively lifting MY mood? There is such a warmth to you, you truly are amazing and I am glad that your tribe online seems to reflect that. Love from Germany.
This is such a sweet comment ❤️❣️
Dear Niomi, I've been a silent viewer of yours since your early RUclips days and I must say this is your most authentic & heartwarming self you've chosen to share with us. This is the kind of content that shows best your kindness & uniqueness. Keep up the amazing work! ❤️ with love, from Romania
Here are three quotes that I think you might like:
"Taking care of yourself is productive."
"Perhaps you should love yourself so fiercely that when others see us, they know exactly how it should be done."
"Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path."
Sending you the warmest hug
these quotes are beautiful, thank you for sharing ✨
Yes it is thank you for sharing :)
Love the storm quote - thank you for sharing it. x
A great one from my favorite, Anne of Green Gables, "It's not what the world holds for you, it's what you bring to it." I have it written in the front of my notebook 😘
My dear Niomi, "happiness is itself a kind of gratitude" - Joseph Wood Krutch. Much love!
Sometimes when something as big as a break up from a long term relationship happens you need time to process it as a human being. I read a comment on here somewhere demanding Niomi to clarify her relationship status. No. Stop. Humanize yourself. If you were going through the same thing, I don't care if you were a public figure or not...wouldn't you also need time to process? To just figure out what the hell happened, she is a human being and emotions are real and raw things. Regardless of whether you are a public figure or not. Maybe after she has had time to process her emotions she will want to share. Maybe not. Just because she is physically getting on with her life doesnt mean she has emotionally processed her pain. Have some heart.
She made her instagram followers aware, some people have even commented that she said it was a "shit show". You acting like she needed time is a nonsense, when she went ahead and spewed it on instagram. That's clearly hard for many to comprehend though.
Anyway Joe must have jumped ship for a reason....Run Joe !!!
Its not easy to speak publicly about such a traumatic experience as a break up but unfortunately when you're in the publc eye you make a deal with the devil . If Niomi had kept Joe from appearing in her vids rather than including him on an almost weekly basis then she'd have every right to her privacy but unfortunately it looks very bad when she just instantly cuts him out as if he never existed. Thats not fair on her thousands of followers.
A couple of you commenters are so toxic and deluded that maybe you should seek help! Niomi films her real life and Joe was a major part of it so she included him. If she hadn’t shown him you are the exact people who would be complaining that she “owes” it to everyone to show him. She owes you absolutely nothing. If you don’t like her content and/or her making her own choices, absolutely no one is keeping you here. Find a channel that suits whatever your way of doing things is and stop insulting her for not fitting into your never ending, ever-changing, bizarre moulds.
@@user-vu6zo1jc8k The bizarre mould is you not acknowledging that she overshared in the first place. Very toxic of you.
@@user-vu6zo1jc8k You cant run with the Hare and chase with the hounds.
"A woman alone is not a woman undone" - Laura Marling ...One of my favourite song lyrics by one of my favourite artists (from her song 'Daisy'). Us women need to remember this! Listening to her music is a definite act of self love for me! xx
Totally agree with you! Both Laura Marling's voice and lyrics are beautifully therapeutic.
I like the thought process you took us through about questioning whether buying the notebooks had a negative environmental impact, and you coming to the conclusion that a) they were as sustainable as they could be, and b) sometimes you need to buy something that's not ideally sustainable just because you need/want it. I think we need to realize that while it's important to not be unfeeling/uncaring about larger issues, we can't be personally responsible for everything all the time on a large scale. Having to obsessively weigh every decision against the oppression and sustainability of the entire world is not going to be feasible, and will put so much pressure on YOU that it can become unhealthy in a personal sense. I know because you are a prominent face in this type of activism, people often put a lot of pressure on you as well, and are quick to find any aspect of your life that you film that isn't the most sustainable, or that you haven't taken the time to speak out about. Succumbing to the pressure to structure every decision around these things can become an excuse not to care for yourself, because you have "more important things" to be concerned with. The potential for that to turn into an unhealthy coping mechanism, where a person can seem very mindful about the world but is sort of using it not to focus on themselves, is so real. I can see that your energy in these videos is really positive and good, and I'm glad you're keeping up your commitment to the larger issues while also prioritizing yourself!
Love this x
Yes, this! I’ve been guilty of that!
this is SO well said!
So glad to get so many uploads from you lately Niomi! Despite everything, I must say that I feel closer to you recently and your content, being more raw and vulnerable, has been really touching me, and having such a positive impact. Sending you loads of love 💗
During my breakup, I’ve looked at you and your strength. I know you’ll get through this and back up your feet. Lots of love ❤️
After following you for years I think this is my favorite video you’ve ever posted 💕 thanks Niomi, thinking of you and wishing you the best
I went through a difficult time last year. I journaled a lot, but what made a huge difference for me were voice memos. Every so often I would open about something in a voice memo, and I found that it helps you be even more vulnerable and less filtered than writing. You can also do it anywhere-I did several while I drove. What I enjoy about it besides that is I can listen back to my own voice. It makes such a massive difference hearing yourself, your mood at a different point. It really feels like you’re having a conversation with your past self, and it helped me reflect on my growth. Sending you love!!
That's beautiful.
You're so beautiful and strong. Would love to hear about what you think went wrong whenever you are ready or if you ever want to share at all - this was a shock because you two seemed so in love. We are here for you.
youre going through a tough times yet you look very grateful and strong. i lost my dad to cancer just a few weeks ago and i feel like im at my lowest point in my life. thank you for your encouragement.
I'm sorry for your loss ❤️
im sorry for your loss.. i wish you all the best xxx
sending u love. x
So sorry for your loss, I sincerely hope things get better for you 💙
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Hello Niomi! I just thought it would be very kind to comment something nice to you! I’m a Spanish teacher, secondary and the best thing about my job is the ability to make my students laugh and enjoy little moments with either Spanish activities or together as a class. Those moments are unforgettable. I’m telling you this because it is people and the relations we build what make our life more fulfilled and happier. Keep those friends, enjoy your mum and family enjoy all the little moments with your people and with yourself because that’s what you will always remember. Thanks for being so honest and nice!
Today I had to let go of the the love of my life, I I have never felt more heartbroken and I didn’t think I could make it through but after watching this and seeing someone use that last bit of hope/happiness in them to become the best version of themselves, has made me feel so much better and made me believe in the strength I have left to love myself again.
You are a wonderful, beautiful soul, Thankyou for blessing us all x
Dear Niomi,
I‘ve been following your RUclips Channel for a few years, now. You have been a great inspiration in very good and beautiful times of my life. But you also gave me strength and support, when my life did not work out the way I wanted it to.
As far as I, as a viewer, know you, you are an incredibly strong woman. You have the beautiful gift to show a path to people who are lost.
Whatever is going on in your life, right now, please remember, that you are a superhero to many women. And that your own light shines very bright, even if everything seems to be dark.
Thank you for your amazing work!
Sending you love and strength from Germany!
Ali Smith has a beautiful phrase about the "endless summer within you". Never let go of that, Niomi. You will get through this xx
I've started journalling too after a breakup, it's helped a lot. I used to do it all the time about two years ago and just stopped, but writing everything down really helps me deal with my emotions :) got all the support around ya girl xx
Writing/Journaling is so healing. Putting pen to paper is a magical thing!
I resonate soo much with the fact that you focus on wellness but haven't been doing it from a place of self love. I'd love to hear you talk about how you changed that and what that means for you
Really impressed with your positive attitude in these difficult times. I’m finding so much strength in your recent videos. I am confident that everything will turn out so positively for you.
Niomi, this year has been tragic, heartbreaking, surprising and intense in so many ways. It’s an equalizing moment for us all, and has really brought to light dark spots we might not have seen. Remember in the dark moments: the feelings are temporary and will pass. We selectively remember the good. And try to remember that being happy again isn’t an act of revenge nor is it disloyal to the memory of things lost. My heart goes out to you. 💕
My favourite quote is "A dream is a wish your heart makes" 💫
Cinderella 🥰
I love your positive attitude so much! After two very strenuous years in which I struggled with my health a lot and had to leave a partner because he wasn’t good for me, I finally found someone to share my life with. And if it can happen to me it can very well happen to you, too. You are classy and funny and kind and clever and absolutely beautiful. Live your best life💕
You’re such a beautiful, kind and positive soul. Thank you for being who you are and inspiring so many people by being your true and honest self. I don’t know what you’re going through but time heals everything and sometimes beauty comes out of ugly things. Wishing you all the happiness and positivity ❤️
The talk about the gils gang made my cry a bit, because I was able to feel what you are talking about and it is so good that you have them all in your life. Friends and family are the best! Even when we put them aside sometimes they are still there for us. Thank you for showing with your example that whatever happens the life continues and there’s so much you can do to help yourself. I think your opened heart is such a great example for so many people struggling as well! You are open about the life being extremely hard sometimes but you show us that is not a reason for putting hands down! You are just great Niomi! Great human in this world! As the Ekhart Tolle said in his book: we as women feel each other through centuries. We have a communal pain and we have a communal love! I send you only love! 🥰🥰🥰
Niomi, I have watched your videos for years now because I found you very relatable. we are the same age, both vegan, both ambitious about similar social issues but there was one thing I couldn't relate to but rather envied and that is your tenacity and emotional maturity. I've struggled with some personal family issues and self doubt most of my life and watching you conquer the world was so appealing to me. I really value your work ethic both in business and in self love. Every time I watch a video of yours I leave motivated. Thank you for being this weird virtual one-way friend for me. It's exactly what I need in my life.
So do not weaken and do not grieve, and you will be superior if you are [true] believers. (Quran Surah Ali 'Imran: 139)
And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient, who, when disaster strikes them, say, "Indeed we belong to Allah, and indeed to Him we will return." (Quran Surah Al-Baqarah: 155-156)
He said, "I only complain of my suffering and my grief to Allah, and I know from Allah that which you do not know. (Quran Surah Yusuf: 86)
Hope those will make u feel better (I was when I was suffering)...
You are incredible, Niomi...
So thoughtful ❣️
I’ve been having a rough couple of years due to health problems and sometimes I feel so overcome with despair that the simple thought of having to go through another day feels unbearable. Thank you for reminding me to focus on the very basics of taking care of myself, even during those especially hard days where it’s so easy to just wallow in your pain.
--- I've been going through something very similar to you (years of health problems, not wanting to face another day) so when I saw your comment I knew that I wasn't alone. Thank you!
J.J. Medusa thank you for sharing ❤️ I often feel so alone in this as well!
Niomi you are an incredible woman! You truly are one of the strongest I have seen online. I know for sure there are times where you feel like you may be crumbling into pieces. But you will get over this! You are worth it and you deserve the absolute best! Sending prayers and hope your way!
Uhu Niomi. You've been here for us for years, and we're here for you now. Xx
So sweetly put 💛
Seeing you smile and speak about how you feel like you haven’t lost your inner happiness going through this difficult time warms my heart 💓 It’s hard not to take positivity for granted when you’re in the midst of feeling happy, and the wonderful work you’re doing to first of all help yourself within your hardship, before giving your energy to others takes a massive amount of independence and self awareness! You are a very strong woman, Niomi 🥰
Thank you for acknowledging that not everyone has girls gang, I only have many separate friends, but I'm still very happy :)
Thinking of you Niomi! There’s a quote that I love which always gives me so much perspective: “if you could love the wrong person that much, imagine how much more you could love the right one”. You will find your “Mr Right” one day Niomi, and you’ll look back at this time and be so much more thankful ❤️
The lady who is always a delight to watch. As much as I want to say this shall pass, I know it’s easier said than done. But yet I will say, everything is going to be okay. Love & peace to you ❤️
Seeing you get back on your feet and watching you find your higher self and inner peace is incredible Niomi. I know it may not seem like it now but every single bit of this has been a good thing and was supposed to happen for you to find your higher self. You already have everything you need to heal and grow (you only need yourself!).
I totally relate to what you said about feeling this sense of awakening and awareness, I am on a similar journey right now (different circumstances but still very much the same feelings and core) but seeing people on the right track and making progress is so inspiring, we are all in this together
Higher self bull---t, she was seeking that the whole time and already feeling fulfilled. Acting like it's a wonderful opportunity to find one's self just because there's a break-up is a load of crap. lol She thought she'd found her forever person and he seemingly(Hasn't formally announced yet) has let her down. Acting as though you're on such a spiritual and physical high after an extremely major let down is a nonsense. Announcing this, announcing that, for years but isn't strong enough to formally admit to breaking up, shows all that strength she has is BS.
@@kristinburton4953 Why on earth would you write such an unkind and unnecessary comment? I really hope Niomi doesn't read that.
Kristin Burton I’m sorry you feel that way, but I think you’ve just made it very clear that you don’t understand the full picture. Strength doesn’t always have to be brash and overt, it’s that feeling inside that you know you’ll be okay no matter what. Strength is obviously not pretending to be happy all the time after something so emotionally challenging. I’m amazed at how strong Niomi is, you don’t have to have announcement video to prove it, you can just see it in herself. Personally I think it’s a sign of strength to put your self healing first above pleasing your audience with all the details (which we 100% don’t need, it’s up to her whether she decides to share). What is not a sign of strength is being a keyboard warrior and attacking someone, who as you stated is clearly going through a difficult time instead of supporting her. To me it seems like you haven’t truely found yourself as Niomi is bravely doing right now. It’s not an easy path, but you would only know that by going through it yourself. Hope you understand in the future. You’re opinion doesn’t matter, Niomi will know what I’m talking about. Wishing you the best x
I hope you’re doing okay, I have been struggling a lot with self love and I’ve been journaling about my thoughts and feelings etc so watching this has helped me and I love the quote that you said about love yourself and you can love someone better xoxo 😘 💕🙏🏻
Niomi, as many other people who wrote some nice comments here, I’m usually a quiet subscriber. But you know what, I was just thinking that RUclips (and your channel specifically) is a place where I always go when I feel down, so why not support you when you actually always support me without even knowing it. You are an inspiration for so many people, including me. I know that right now you are experiencing something really heavy to handle, but the fact that you can still be grateful for feeling happiness makes me smile. This year has been such a struggle for so many of us, but I still really hope for the best. We all have to remember that life is not always so upsetting and that good times will come.
Thank you for being yourself. You always concentrate on positive things, do your best to stay healthy physically and mentally, worry so much about nature and animals, so that’s why I always feel so happy and inspired when I watch your videos. Thank you again and don’t ever forget that you are a great human being.
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This video... is amazing. It shows how strong you are and how mature you have become during these years. I am so proud (here's your girl gang for you!). You will overcome this and become a better version of yourself, I am sure!
I love all your videos, it doesn’t matter what has happened/changed currently in your life. You don’t need to address anything with us. We are all still here to support you, you are such an inspiration to people everywhere ❤️
These are quotes that I have found
*#1 Brave girl
you were made of for far more beautiful things.Chaos is only understood when it is loved by the wild ,not weak.
#2 If your'e enough to love someone,then your'e strong enough to get over them.
#3 Don't change yourself so that other people will like you. Be yourself,and the right people will like you.*
love you 💙❤💚🧡💜💛🥰
"The better you love yourself, the better you love others." So true!!!!! What a great statement.
Said with such emotion as well. Sending you lots of love Niomi Xx
Yep like the fiancee she loved that let her down.
So inspiring, it’s important to remember that you are whole just as you are, and the amazing people around you enrich your life and teach you all kinds of love, but you are still whole without them.
Sending love x
Niomi you’re so strong! Please keep being honest with yourself and with us, there are so many people going through hard times who appreciate a voice to make them feel less alone. It’s inspiring to see you stay positive and drive your own recovery
When I watch your videos, no matter what they are about, I love you gentle spirit & your empathy. You are such a beautiful soul, Niomi! I'm glad there is still happiness within & I hope that soon, you'll be able to put all this behind you & find even more joy! 💜
Thank you for this utterly honest video with such heartfelt advice. You’re so intelligent, poised and beautiful Niomi - don’t forget it! Because from watching this video I can see that you’ll overcome whatever you’re going through with flying colours. You’re SO strong and this gives me strength. Such a role model you are, especially to your younger sister Daisy. Keep smiling, you deserve happiness 💛
Honored to be apart of your "girl gang" xx This is my favorite video of yours by far.
Today I am grateful for:
1. My health
2. Cuddles from my chocolate lab
3. This video to come back and watch for years to come and therefore I am grateful for you!
The world would be a brighter place if we all went through our darkest times with the same grace and self-love you have shown yourself and this community over the past few weeks. Thank you, Niomi.
Sending BIG love from Texas!
I love how you say The better you love yourself the better you love others. I totally agree with you 💖 so beautiful!
I am a mom and have only few moments throughout the day for myself. I found the app stoic which helps me to progress on my selflove and selfcare journey in only few minutes every day.
Much Love to you💖 You transmit a lot of magic
Loving all your recent uploads Niomi it's amazing to have a role model to produce true and raw videos about topics that affect everyone and will help people in difficult places. Thank you xx
Niomi, you are so inspiring to me. It is so important to let ourselves feel every emotion through times like this. I also started keeping a journal when I went through a dark time and two years later, it is incredible to read some of those entries back and see that I have come SO far. I made a lot of lists in my journal too haha - I found ones like "things that make me, me" and "things that are all mine" super helpful because they have you look inward and draw out exactly who you are separate of whatever has hurt you. I remember being frustrated that my "self care" wasn't producing the results I wanted (ie to feel better), but my therapist helped remind me that these things take time, and she was right. I'm grateful for everything I did for myself back then, and the self care spark hasn't faded since. I am worthy, you are worthy!!!!
Also this is so sweet - just leafed through an old journal to see if I had any advice to pull for you, and in a "self care Sunday" list, I wrote "Niomi vlog binge" as something that made me feel better that day. Thank you so much - you will get what you give. xoxo
Niomi you're such a kind soul , you project so much positivity and calmness which is amazing to watch. I hope you're doing okay during these times, they only make us stronger x
Your skin looks amazing. All the love to you at this time. 💖
So sorry to hear about you & Joe. However, you will absolutely come out of this stronger and achieve amazing things in the years to come.
You’re the most beautiful human inside and out, you speak with such grace, honestly so many people look up to you, more than you would ever know ❤️ keep doing you, we will be behind you every step of the way 💪🏼❤️
Dear Niomi, seeing you being so touched by the comment section made me cry. I am so glad that we all can give a little bit of the positivity and self love, the courage and happiness, the inspiration and support that you keep giving us back to you. Earlier today, I came across this quote: lass mal an uns selber glauben (which is German and means something like “for a change, let’s believe in ourselves”) and I thought I’d leave this here with you. Lot’s of love, Sophie!
Dear Niomi, I hope this comment reaches you. I've watched your videos for more than 6 years and I think you're the only youtuber that I've ever followed for this long. I just wanted to say, that I've always felt this unbelievable connection towards you, it's hard to explain really, but I can imagine us being best friends in an alternate universe.
I feel like I've been by your side through the hard times and the good times, supporting you from far beyond and sending my positive thoughts. I often find myself getting emotional during your videos, because they often reach the deepest feelings in my heart. Even this one, when you were going through 3 things you're grateful for, or the previous one where you helped me find myself as my own superhero. Honestly, you're the real superhero here. Thank you for being the inspiration that pushes me to be the best version of myself. I just want you to remember, that you're also a human being, so don't put too much pressure on yourself to be positive all the time and shine this beautiful light inside you on others. You have the right to feel sadness, anger and other emotions, in order to fully heal and come out on the other side even stronger.
You can get through anything, and we'll always be there rooting for you. Sending lots of love and positive energy!
I am a spiritual person and I can see you've had a spiritual awakening, it's so beautiful to see. Sending you positives vibes, keep going on your journey. Better days really do come by keeping hope in your heart x
So glad to see Niomi putting in the time, love, and care for herself that she does for us...this must have been such a difficult time, and she is doing the work on herself...so proud to be part of her journey, even in the smallest way. Love from the US!
I never had a girl gang either
Thanks for sharing this Niomi 🧡 I just wanted to share my favourite quote: “Do not base your joy on the deeds of others” which I think defo relates to the idea of your happiness coming from within.
Loved this video so much! I related to so much of what you said about self love being non-negotiable, I've definitely learnt that the hard way. Quotes that have really helped me in the tough times:
"Rock bottom will teach you more lessons than mountain tops ever will"
Also, "Ruin is the gift. Ruin is transformation."
Sending you so much love Niomi - I love watching your videos, they always help me take better care of myself. X
Dear Niomi, thank you for this wonderful video, I found the part about journaling really useful, it is so important to write your thoughts and feelings down to help with clarity and enable you to get a restful sleep. I wanted to let you know that with everything you are going through at the moment you deserve so much happiness and I really hope you are getting all the support that is needed right now but speaking from experience you will get there just keeping going and I am a true believer that everything happens for a reason. Take care of yourself and sending so much love and support 🙏🏻 💞
I'm so proud of you, dear😘 You are such a light & gorgeous spirit 🙏🏻 sending you so much love hun.
I’ve been following your channel for many years, and I have to say this was my favorite video. I know you are going through something incomprehensibly difficult, though your strength and bravery to be vulnerable is so pure and wholesome.
I’ve recently gone through the most traumatic experience of my life this past week and in a way you are helping guide me through the internal rebuilding process. Thank you for all you do. ❤️🌸
Hope you are feeling better 💛
Healing is hard but this too shall pass ...❤
Has she broken up with joe? X
@@ConstantlyCurvyxo not sure...but I guess healing from any traumatic event is hard...i hope she comes out in flying colours..🧡 X
Sometimes writing on paper is better than the computer or phone - no electricity required to sit mulling over your thoughts and words. Sending joyful thoughts your way XXX
You’re doing all the best things to make yourself feel better and the fact you are putting so much time into finding different ways to look after yourself, shows how much you love and respect yourself already 💗 Maybe now you could go on that Australian adventure you were thinking about doing a few years ago 💗
You are such an inspiration for all young women who are going through some rough times. I am a big fan of yours! x
Thank you so much for spreading positivity despite of (or especially because of) the hard times you are currently going through. I'm not really in the best place myself at this moment and I honestly don't know how to cope with it but your videos (and the comment section!) are giving me courage and strength. So today, that is what I'm grateful for! What has really helped me and I would therefore recommend you to do, is to write Joe a letter in which you let your emotions flow freely and write down whatever you feel. What you're grateful for, what you're angry for, what upsets you most, why you feel this particular way, how you wish things would have gone differently and so on. Don't hold back while doing this, try to be as vulnerable as you can. You don't necessarily have to send it to him, that choice is up to you. In any case I would suggest to keep it so you can read it whenever you feel a bit lost, confused or sad. Wishing you all the best. Time heals all wounds X
Your new hair you showed on Instagram is gorgeous. Listening to Maggie Rogers song Alaska, she did an interview saying the lyric about cutting her hair is important because hair holds energy and when going through a period like you are going through, getting rid of that old energy is so important to your growth. Her other lyric "I walked off you and I walked off an old me" is so deep. Take each day as it comes and continue ridding yourself of old energy and walking towards yourself. ❤❤
Hello Niomi, this is my first time to leave comments here. I just want to let you know that i learn English from watching your videos. I follow the subtitles and read out loud. I love your videos and i like you. Please stay healthy and cheers!
Niomi, you are such an angel. You have helped me get through really tough times in the past years, and I am so grateful for your positive energy. I am so glad we can all share our positive energy with you too every day, and in times when you need it the most. We are all here for you. Love xxx
That was such a great video Niomi 🙏🏻 I had a friendship breakup earlier this year and have been struggling to get over it: still overthinking and feeling anger and resentment. I have meditated, sent myself love did yoga and ate better food. It has been a journey but not giving up 🙏🏻 I am not very sure what to do with journaling and am afraid this will get me stuck into my own thoughts. But I should give it a try. You made my evening better ❤️ thank you ❤️
Niomi, your videos have helped me so much in the past, youre an inspiration to me and im sure to so many others. You have the most beautiful soul and outlook even in these darker times! You will get there, take your time and know you've inspired so many and are so loved!! 😘🥰
Self love is so important and I really appreciate you uploading this video and using your platform to spread positivity!! You’re doing amazing, keep strong Niomi 💛🧡
Hey Niomi, have been watching you for nearly a decade (!) and just wanting to share how much of a wonderful inspiration you have been over the years. You have been such a beacon for us all when we have been through tough times and really feel for you going through what we can only imagine is a difficult and traumatic period, on top of the crazy year that 2020 has been. Glad to see you prioritising yourself and reaping the rewards for building a community that loves and supports you. Lots of love x
Years ago your videos helped me get through the breakup of my first long time boyfriend. You are such a kind, intelligent woman and you inspired me to be good to myself again. I hope you feel better soon! I Love to see you grow and shine! 🤗💕
Funny thing that helps me sleep: huge fake fur nursing pillow 😅
I can imagine how difficult it must be for you as I've personally been through a really dark time in my life that literally took the light out of my soul. It's easy for people to assume you have a perfect life, but even "perfect people" go through difficult times, yet you are so strong and still fighting, that's what I really admire about you. Thank you for inspiring me, I hope things will turn out well for you soon, and just know that there are people going through this with you so stay strong! ❤❤❤ xxx
Love the wine colour workout outfit on you!
I'm always so grateful for my girls, too. ❤️
I've been using a gratitude journal since March and writing don daily goals all year and it's so helpful for clearing your head and focusing on your priorities.
So glad to hear you're already feeling happier. That feeling will only grow and grow the more you nurture it. 😊
Love this video, self love is so important! Cherish every moment you have with yourself! Post-big-breakup I also had this big "aha moment" about what I really wanted to achieve in life as an individual - I had never even considered this when I was with my partner. Since then I have graduated, made new wonderful friends and am applying for jobs in cities I never would have previously imagined I'd work in. The dark moments still come, particularly at night, but day by day the feelings of lightness and independence have taken over. I'm now considering staying single for life hahaha! Let's get cats instead!
This video popped up at the perfect time for me. Niomi you are truly a role model for many. Your humility and graciousness is beautiful to watch and loved your self care tips. It's so easy to wallow and you shared some really good tips to shift the focus and take care of oneself. Loved it. Thank you and sending you healing vibes 💛🌻
Love love love this video, thank you for the reminder to take a self care day / moment. Also you come across so confident and happy on camera recently, it's really nice to see 😊
I’m going through break up too, so I feel very connected to all your conditions. Also, I found that I lost myself into these relationships and it was my first big love... but it’s incredibly important knowing yourself and being yourself. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻 ps I’m one year older than you so it’s like going through this with your close friend ♥️
Can you do a video on your health routine/how you stay in such amazing shape? I'm struggling to find a good set of habit that really work. Just went vegan/plant-based and I love a what I eat in a day, for some recipe ideas.
Good for you! Enjoy your wonderful journey to health as a vegan... :)
Sending you all the love and happiness in the world 💜💜💜💜
oh niomi - you are just the most precious woman ever. I feel like you lift me up, remind me about the important things, eventhough you are going through a rough time. I am moving by myself to Vienna for my studies and felt really unsecure about me, like I‘ve lost myself between everything, eventhough I love my live. You inspired me to journal this evening, thanks, xx greets from munich 🌞
You’re such a wonderful person. Your future will be so bright, I’m so sure of it ✨
I've kept a book full of my favourite quotes and inspirational sayings for around 10 years now. Having it around when I needed it has always helped me in a range of circumstances, so I hope making one of your own will help you too!
Still can't believe the situation but as long as you're moving on and happy I admire your strength
Feeling stressed and only watching positive content tonight, thanks so much Niomi ❤️
You can always trust your inner strength, it’s always there, and your doing a great job of things. This experience will make you an even better person, there’s always room for improvement in all of us as humans. And your family and close friends love you. That’s the best feeling ever! When you know people have your back. Keep moving forward, baby steps x
Hi Niomi, whatever has happened in your life recently now is the time to put yourself first. Take care of yourself, your wellbeing is your number one priority xx
Thank you for everything Niomi, you really are one of my biggest role models growing up and now as a young adult 💖
Hi Naiomi - I used to follow you a lot during the early days and today I was thinking about you and thought ooooh let me see one of Niomi’s videos as she’s always got something inspiring! Love this and big big hugs 🤗