THIS IS WHY YOU NEED A PRENUP | "If ya'll split, TAKE EVERYTHING FROM HIM"
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kkkkk. Imagine bringing 70% of the divorces and then acting like youre the victim. Thats like punching someone in the face and saying you were assaulted. U wot*
Dont even mention infidelity, women are out here cheating just as much as men and the #2 cause of divorce is finances. Yall gotta stop running with these fake narratives of "men are the cheaters".
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21667234/
Im a huge fan of you guys
Early asf
female logic bro ....
Marriage is a scam
If he hand you a contract on day one you need to be out the door, and that's fine because if you won't sign it you are out the door. [shrug]
A wise man once said to me “love is grand but divorce is 100 grand”
At least a 100 grand**
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
That's so good ngl
Tell McCartney and Bezos!
That doesnt even include having your kids , car , and home taken away.
“You can plan a pretty picnic but you can’t predict the weather” - Andre 3000
Man Andre is so inspirational 🙂
Chile, Chile, if this ain't the truth !
Yo what’s the song
@@fahadm.2641 the song is called sorry miss Jackson
Facts 🎯
Shocker: The more money a woman has, the more she's for having a prenup.
Exactly. This is not a one-way problem.
Facts.
Agreed
Why wouldn’t Oprah losefrey get married to her long term partner?? Hmmm I’m speechless
💯💯💯💯💯
This reminded me of how Dr Dre lost millions to his ex-wife during their divorce settlement and women on social media were like, “Yes girl, get all those coins!” etc. but when Adele’s ex-husband did the same thing all I heard was, “What has he done? this is so unfair!” even though Adele’s ex-husband actively helped her during her career
These people complaining like that are misandrists, plain and simple. They look at the men from centuries ago and think that they're the same today, so they should be hated and crumbled to dust, that because women had to go through shit in the past it gives the right to be just as toxic today.
To these people it's not about getting rid of a target on a specific group of people, it's about moving that target to people they hate
Exactly except Dr Dres wife,was with him for a very long time just like Michael Jordons wife was with him from the beginning. They both deserve half because, while they were out making the money the wives were home raising the kid and supporting them holding down the home front while they were out keeping a roof over their heads. As for,Adel, darn near the same thing. He was with her,from the beginning but their relationship just didn't last as long but he was still there helping her out so pay the man. It's ok when it benefits women but oh hell no when it don't.
@michawilliams1521 while I understand what you're saying. Dr Dre and Jordan ex wives had nannies, chef and housekeepers doing all the work at home. These men paid for those services.
@@michawilliams1521 Why the hell would someone deserve half because they were "raising kids and supporting them"??? An agent does similar things for 5-15%, where the f**k does 50% come from?? A spouse has 0% amount of the unique talent that someone like MJ does and sure as hell does not deserve half just because they raise the kids and support their spouse, smfh...
Doesn't deserve half. That's wild.
The amount of women cheering, IS EXACTLY WHY YOU NEED A PRENUP
All the cheering women make me want to vomit my guts out.
@@ronaldcharan2705 theyre all idiots. And so many more humans are just like this. All idiots.
Kianjelo Giorgio I’d say pretty much all of us are, one way or another.
Don't worry all those dumb bitches are not married and if they don't sign a prenup they won't be married
@@taylormaree8553 fun fact. A lot of women don't want to get married, so those 'bitches' will be fine. That shit is a trap.
A man being divorced 3 times telling us prenups are bad, and his whole audience is female. *HMMMMM INTENSIFIED*
Hmmmm🤔🤔🤔🤔
@Ari Zaroukian facts, most of the things that I hear him say just sound like stuff women want to hear
@@z.incognito6259 it pays good
F!ck that!
Steve Harvey is Derrick Jaxn's final form... trust me, he doesn't believe a word of what he is saying but it's sells because there is a naive market for it now.
Steve Harvey is a walking contradiction.
No he's fairly consistent omthars why he's in these situations alot
He talks so much shit.
He’s darth simpious
Dude is trying to keep up with the times and failing miserably.He is trying to please these women and still come out as a wise guy.
lol
Every divorced couple has said “I love you” to each other. Things change unexpectedly or over time, hence divorces. This means trust doesn’t matter and has nothing to do with prenups. Prenups imply nothing, they are safety nets for people that work. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.
If it was called 'Marriage Insurance', this may not be an issue.
It's all about wording.
@ViktorMandus Rhaefnhyrst I get you, but it's just about wording. No insurance company would need to get involved.
Insurance is a scam
I just like the Title "Marriage Insurance"
Definitely
If she has a problem with signing the prenup, she isn’t the one.
I'm a woman and I agree with this.
A judge can toss it out. Either because it's determined to not be "fair"(the most successful ones still involve a payout because the judge views her as a who re who needs to be paid for her time/access) or it's determined to have been signed under duress. Which is always true because you wouldn't have married without it i.e. the very act of wanting it is determined to be a forceful action.
Simplest solution?
DON'T GET MARRIED AT ALL.
And if you're in a state with common-law marriage, you don't even live together.
@@e.r.4447 ...That literally means nothing to me or other men. My message, as an awakened red-pilled soul, is to men to protect themselves. Even from women who claim they would never harm him physically, financially or otherwise.
Marriage is off the table for most and the statistics show it's a growing belief.
@@e.r.4447 woman...you're a queen and i don't say that on some simp shit. hope you find your king before these gold diggers do.
@@leshawn.d.1805 “her time” the amount of ego that the court systems are giving women is unreal. We as men can’t seem to win in courts.
"Men aren't afraid of marriage. They're afraid of divorce." Aries Spears.
@jack hahn they are good with you then, those girls did their boyfriends a favor if they left for not wanting to sign the prenups, just don't marry any of them.
Facts
there are two types of men. the ones that are smart enough to know that they can lose it all with a women.. and the other men are gullible and truly believe women are angels. they don't comprehend the divorces and child support pretty much will happen.
I am not afraid of divorce... I am never getting married for any reason.
Hahaha thanks for the reminder 🤣
Fellas I beg you, never stop putting out this content, it is so enlightening when you analyse and breakdown the idiocy of ultra-feminists.
"You can lose money chasing women but you'll never lose women chasing money..."
Well that's not true. Bobby Womack made a whole ass song about it.
That’s not true. You may keep women who only want you for your money but you’ll lose the ones who liked you for you.
@@valzod3808 what song?
@@lolalolita3537 "If you think you're lonely now." That first verse explains the chaos of his love interest wanting him to stay at home instead of going out on the road to make money while at the same time she wants everything that comes directly from money. A new car, house, fancy jewelry, etc. Which ultimately leads to him telling her, "Bitch I'm out"
@@user-le3dw1yl7l lol u gotta long journey n a lot to learn young bull
It's like the panel have never heard the expression. "Failing to plan is planning to fail."
If you fail to prepare well prepare to fail.
Great quote
hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
I'm not a native speaker so I had never heard that expression, but yeah, makes all the sense in the world.
@@Zer0Spinn that's kool. Well now you know :)
People who don’t support prenups shouldn’t support alimony either
Boom.
And we don’t. If you’re able to work you work.
Greatest comment ever!
@Cptlogs13 says who?
BUT PEOPLE ARE FUCKING GREEDY!
My parents have a prenup and have been together for 44 years and still going strong. Men want prenups because over 70% of divorces are initiated BY WOMEN so yeah it’s pretty much the woman planning on getting a divorce if she won’t sign a prenup because most men don’t ever take that route it’s over 70% of the time the woman who initiates the divorce. Men understand women change over time and just in case she decides to leave you we want a prenup.
Just to add another stat: marriages are 50% more likely to end in divorce if the woman gets a promotion and/or starts out-earning the man (there is no change for the opposite). To act like resources aren’t a factor, and that prenups aren’t important, is just crazy. I put on a seatbelt when I drive, I get prenup when I marry.
The majority of Steve Harvey’s audience are women he’s never going take the side of men why go against the brand..
Grain *
@@daequanhardeman3908 I've said it earlier. Steve Harvey's guest panel is merely an echo chamber. That's how he makes his $$$$$
@@SoulSir5vr not disagreeing with you brother I completely agree
@@daequanhardeman3908 He meant brand
We call that pandering
Lesson of the story: don’t take marriage or relationship advice from people with multiple divorces. Especially Steve Harvey
Then that means don’t take advice from Kevin Samuels either
Especially from Ultra Simps
@@salma_Nella22 he only talks about getting a man or a woman and not marriages.
He definitely talks about marriage. He encourages people to get married and part of what he is doing pertains to relationships. What a person qualifies for, how the opposite sex perceives them and tells certain women that they’ll die alone. He also tells men off, but he definitely gives relationship and image advice
@@vijaykrishna6508 he also said in one of his videos that if you don’t get married, you won’t be taken seriously in the corporate world
Shout out to Stephen Jackson who called off a wedding the day of because homegirl ducked and dodged signing a pre-nup.
Lmao I thought that the entire video he was a smart fucking man
that story was hilarious
Only time Ive ever watched a livestream that long lol. Must watch for all men
...and him pointing out that her attempt to trip him up by having her sign something "under duress," was GENIUS...
@Tango Salsa The number of kids doesn't matter. He was a long time successful NBA player. If it was 5 kids by his wife, he'd still be spending on them. The questions are "is the percentage he pays in child support fair?" & "are there effective controls to ensure these funds go to the children & not the mom's lifestyle?" He's made enough to find a lawyer to ensure this happens.
I love how Aba says She's "definitely" been divorced! And turns out to be true. I love how Aba and Preach are intelligent, self aware, socio-culturally aware, logical, showing truth, empathy and very humorous...I Love You Aba & Preach.
I’m not as smart as either one of them even then judging by her reaction it’s kinda obvious
Then, love them.
I can’t be with a woman who in the back of her head is thinking “if we break up I’m taking everything”
Edit: in reference to the lady in the vid, my b🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
How do you know that is what she is thinking?
I have been married for over 15 years. We have 4 kids together. I stay at home and homeschool the kids.
I have never once thought that.
Pick a good woman.
@@angelashelley8184 If you watch the video, the woman outright said this. If you stay at home, then you would likely get the kids, the home and alimony. It is a lot of trust hubby is placing in you.
@@thrilla72 I do appreciate that trust. I think it adds to my love for him. I have his back. 100%
Exactly. If you're without a prenup, then the woman has every incentive to dump you at the first sign of trouble. The prenup preserves commitment to your pick, not his stuff.
@@angelashelley8184 how does your husband know you won't think like that in the future? Is he a fortune-teller?
The more I understand life, relationships and women the more I disagree with Steve Harvey
Dude contradicts himself constantly. He’s a chameleon that only cares about money, and says whatever will resonate with his audience.
The more I learn about the beef between him and Bernie Mac, the more I don't trust Steve Harvey.
People like that are simply human 🗑
Your sexy
The king of simps Steve Harvey.
I’m a woman and I’m getting a prenup. I’ve acquired assets prior to marriage that I would like to preserve. So I don’t have a problem with prenups. I also agree with the black girl: if divorce is a possibility/can happen in real life, you want things to go as smoothly as possible. So best to sort those things out when you like/love each other to make sure it’s fair, equitable and loving.
Okay, please shed some light on this.
I thought only women get the "half of everything". Do men get this as well, assuming in your case, you, a woman, have the movable/immovable assets + cash?
Women are smart as gell. They love prenups when they have shitte
No honey.. Your husband deserves the half.. Bcz the LoVe and AffecTiOn he provided you with.
@@VanguardEternal Its the bread winner that has to share regardless of gender
@@2crisp63 But the man is usually the breadwinner, and im also unsure how that would work when they have kids and the woman decides to keep them for herself. Probably have to pay way less in that case.
There is this story on Reddit:
A woman making closed to $200k per year wanted a pre-nup before getting married to protect her assets. She told her partner she worked too hard to get where she was.
Her partner was ok with it. He was making around $60k.
While doing the paperwork for the pre-nup, She found out that her partner was actually a multi-millionaire. Of course, she changed her mind and was not in favour of the pre-nup anymore.
The wedding got cancelled!!!😊😊😊
Its doesn't favor them no more. Strange
Can you post the link to that story i want to read it
I also am interested in the story, link?
@@curtisalex456 youre a bro
I hate this women attitude
This is exactly why most 'ordinary women' are at a disadvantage when seen in relationships - it's because of a truly privileged woman playing the 'women's victim' card thinking that by saying to take everything that she's the savior for all of us. This is how warped they are in their bubble. I've seen how a man is devastated after a divorce because the wife took everything, and he went from working in a stable environment at a bank with his own place to becoming essentially homeless with mental health deterioration. But at the end of the day, by this standard, he deserved it because he cannot play the victim card because he isn't a woman. The original feminist movement and its leaders are turning on their graves as to how steered away we went because of their fight for us to even get prenups and having women work for their own assets. Now, we say to do the same with what traditionally men got away with and call it empowerment. F*ckin' mind blown.
You're very right dear. It's not just in the area of feminism, it's life in general. Often the most irrational and loudest people get their views into the public space more than calmer and more logical folks.
Terrible men/women make life difficult for decent men/women always.
Even a wise man can learn from a fool.
@@alex_mcclay I think she’s referring to the general anti-women distrust/hostility (MGTOW/Incel Attacks). It’s easy to say “just look for a good one” but it’s still unfortunate that some men/women have some bad experiences and turn toxic themselves (limits opportunities in life). That said, you can’t fix those problems yourself - so as you said (unfortunate as it is), just worry about yourself and find someone that’s not toxic.
@@TheAunvre the biggest problem is that you'll never know what type of women you're with until she takes you to the cleaners.
Honestly, prenups becoming mainstream is probably one of the few things that could save marriage as an institution. If you think that seems counter-intuitive, think harder.
FACTS
Women used to shame men for it and still are.
Marriage as an institution is too outdated for these times, doesn't really make sense given the risks--it's too broad a contract. Prenups only work for the millionaires who can pay 3 legal firms to look them over before signing and have the same legal firms defend them in court once divorce happens. I really doubt prenups hold up for Joe Schmoe the truck driver.
@@ShaferHart I don't think marriage should have ever *been* a "contract," but we're getting into the philosophical side of things there... the idea that you should have to register a life partner with the state is kind of fucked up to begin with.
@@christianh4723 I agree 100%....government should have NOTHING to do with marriage.
I am 100% for prenups. If the worst happens I want out as smoothly as possible. I'm a committed person, I go into a relationship thinking its going to last the rest of my life but I need to know I'm safe if it doesn't. I don't expect to get into a car accident, I have car insurance. I'm not expecting any issues with my home but I have home insurance.
“If you want me to sign a prenup, you think we’re going to split up”...how about...“if you think we won’t split, then why not sign it? because we’re staying together forever...right?”
because mainstream medias are so affraid of drama queens and most of them are women or women rights advocates.
Men dont complain about it,they just stop dating and getting married
No it’s plan b, because you don’t lose anything with having it you’re less likely to make things work when times get rough
@@dezmion a prenup agreement...is an agreement before you get married. It doesn’t mean “you don’t get anything” it could mean “everything I brought in before the marriage stays mine and yours stays yours, everything after the marriage gets split” or “if we split you get X” it’s a mutual agreement. If the terms can’t be agreed upon, then marry someone else...billions of people in the world.
@@dezmion and the same can be said about not signing it.
Women are less likely to make it work when she can throw her husband and keep his housd, car, half his estates...
But i imagine that for you, it’s not a big desl that someone get financially raped that way
@@dezmion You're quite clueless aren't ya?
Just get married in Portugal. Prenups are mandatory. You have 4 to choose from.
I always thought highly about Portugal
Portugal; has natural beity in many ways. Wish I could find what the 4 options are so I can use it as a template.
Portugal on top👍🏻
Wtf i love Portugal now.
Ok
It’s like condoms. I’d rather have it and not need it, than need it and not have it.
@Fondil Mahbols exactly!
That's guns. Work on your pull out game. Urinate between rounds.
Facts my G, like I’ll rather be a pimp than a simp
@@bannedmann4469 pull out game won't save you from stds
I said the same thing about the silver bullets I had cast!
My dad had his own plumbing business and my brother has his own house flipping business but they had a plan b and plan c and were responsible enough to have backup plans just in case it didn't go right. When I moved states with my husband and 3 kids I had so many back up plans just in case. I feel like if you dont even have 1 backup plan thats just dumb and irresponsible. Especially if you have family you have to take care of.
I'm a very visual person.... house flipping hehehehhe
A man who's been divorced 3 times is telling me a prenup is a bad idea. LMAO
Lmao he’s a shill for himself
That's like a guy who has crashed three airplanes saying it's silly to have parachutes and oxygen masks onboard.
King simp
Lmao
Divorced 2 times, he's still with his third wife so far.
That lady in that video is like, "How dare you protect yourself from my possible future betrayal!"
possible->probable
@@saiyjin98 aint that the truth
@@saiyjin98 weird way to spell inevitable.
That's exactly what i heard 💯🤣🤷♀️
That's exactly what i heard 💯🤣🤷♀️
I love how she claim you don't need a prenup and then immediately demonstrated exactly why you should never get married without one LMAO
As much as I don't agree with prenup, I can't help but laugh at this irony haha. I understand and respect why somebody would take a prenup even if I am against it.
@@lordmbemba2709 may I ask why your against it?
Probably because in some places it doesn't work or the judge argues around the prenup by the women claiming she signed under distress.
@@pkkiller_apathy4568
This is why each partner should have their own attorney and a notary public at the signing.
@@jisi8462 good luck finding a woman yes to marriage, the prenup and the 2 attorneys so she can't take half.
It's simple as can be. No prenup no marriage baby girl. Choice is yours. You know where to find me ✌🏻
🧩Women: why don’t men want to be married
Also women: take everything from him
i appreciate posts on repeat like Zack Snyder Movies
lol. gems
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I mean there are women who “take everything”… however, I think we have to differentiate. If a couple has been married for 25 years & you both agreed that she’ll stay at home or only work part-time to raise your kids and be a housewife etc. In those cases it’s just fair that in a divorce she gets some of the money the (ex-)husband worked for… as she too invested in the family with her unpaid labor (child rearing, housework etc) and the only reason he could make the money he did is because she took care of everything else.
@@TheBebeeeJ well no he’d still be able to make the money if she wasn’t around he would simply pay for daycare which ig would be expensive tho. I do agree in that instance it’s fair but women can work now so this divorce rule should go
I'm preparing for my spousal support hearing tomorrow morning and took a break to watch this video. I don't regret much - but not getting a prenup is one of my biggest regrets.
This has caused 2 years of stress, anxiety and sleepless nights for me. Don't be like me, get your insurance.
I just read a comment from a lady under Aba n Preach comment that said "If you have to bring a contract into marriage then don't get married". Don't listen to the arguments fellas, listen to this guy and protect yourself and your assets.
Sidenote: For those that may not understand...in marriage a contract has to be signed. A contract along with government is already involved in your marriage. It does not make sense to tell someone to they shouldn't be getting married if they want to bring a contract (prenup)into it.
@@ThatGuy-en2nn I’m 17.. what does the marriage contract consist of and why
@@ThatGuy-en2nn than she is an idiot. I don't have rights to my husband's money if we were to get a divorce. Unless someone contributed to a business or the like but other than that no. Just help take care of the kids financially and spend time with them. People are so freaking money hungry. The man/woman needs to also make a living if he/she decides to remarry and/or have children.
Your a warrior for suffering and not wanting your brothers to suffer. Thank you brother, your word hopefully won’t go in vain.
@@sey744 Family courts across the country would disagree. More money goes through the Family Courts than all other courts.
My long term (9 years) girlfriend has been giving me some things to be suspicious about and last night I told her I think it’s time to pull the plug and she screamed “I should’ve married you” meaning she wishes she could be taking a large portion of my pension and 401k and it was extremely eye opening
This kind of info makes me never want to get married.
@@BRight298 yep, though I’m upset about her leaving, to say the least, but at least I didn’t get financially fucked by a fickle woman
You caught her cheating? Send her packing. It’s going to sting for a while but you’ll get over it as soon as you meet a girl that you actually are crazy about and is crazy about you. And guess what? Your ex will be back.... They ALWAYS come back..
@@JustinBlazzzee I didn’t catch her, I just see a pattern I’m uncomfortable with but I know she’ll beg back as I’m quite a catch in this economy
Jesus dude sounds so scary
"You settle things when you in love" Classic Preach, preaching cold hard facts.
They should make prenups mandatory when people get married and that way this freakin’ discussion can end already . It should just come with the package, then people don’t have a reason to say that either party is going in with any negative mindset and it’ll ease the pressure off of people who are scared of getting married because they think it’ll come to the point of losing everything. It’ll also stop gold diggers from getting married for the money honey
I think so, of you want to split stuff half and half AFTER the fact I think that's what should happen
That and dna tests right after a child is born. Could settle a lot of bs before it starts if this stuff was mandatory
@@jasonandrews1770 agreed pre-nup + dna test on birth. The upfront cost would greatly be off set by the cost incurred down the road.
Great idea
Pré nups are mandatory here in Portugal, heritage is also untouchable in case of a divorce.
One word “E-N-T-I-T-L-E-M-E-N-T”
ahhh yes! LOL
Yes, many believe “pay for my pain”
@@jthompson4916 YUP, narcissistic
Prenup isn’t always a “what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is yours” agreement. You can put just about anything into a prenup. The higher earner could have a “ you will have 20% of my income monthly for 10 years after the divorce” or “ you will get 10% stakes in any pre existing companies and 50% of any new businesses” It funny how women don’t want prenups but if the husband makes less and he gets half of everything she works for then it’s a problem.
To me all of this just shows some women only care about how much money you have instead of your self but hey that's why there is a thing called a prenup and i know it probably scares females the most. But yha i agree as the girl who said if you sign this paper its basically meaning your ending your relationship on that day. Which it doesn't really have to be that way as things don't last forever well back then it used to be now people who are married and stuff find breaking up and divorcing is fun cause they get more things out of it then trying to make the love making last. So yha i say at least think about these things in the back of your head like aba said people can change their mind when things starts to get crazy in their life. So sure they can say yes to this but if they lose the court battle they will be "no no no no no".
Well the thing is unfortunately all they think of when it comes to a prenup is just the money.... But like you said it can include anything
It’s a business transaction that most men lose. I don’t know why these men would go down that road knowingly what can happen! Most men marry because they are weak without a women! That hopeless romantic Beta Simp mentality!!! 💯
Exactly. I have a prenup with my common law partner and I made sure it was fair. She gets to keep a car I fully paid for, she gets to keep our dog, she gets to keep all her income while I pay for all the house related bills (mortgage, insurance, internet, taxes) because I'm the one that paid for it and I want to keep 100% ownership of the home. Prenups shouldn't just eliminate the other person from taking something you have. Prenups should be utilized to bring about fairness in a system, that by default, splits everything down the middle.
@@pittygold99freeagentlifest96 a lot of women leave after a while if you don't marry them. i'd say a majority of them, even western.
You got me hooked right off the bat, with the insurance analogy LOL
The women who think like these here and agree with them saying it’s bad to have a plan b are mad cause signing a prenup fucks up THEIR plan b.
“mAkE hiS pOckETs huRt”
Lmao
This is such a fact
Bingo they are mad that a prenup goes against something that benefits them.
Exactly because they are all for the prenup when its THEIR money. Idk i agree with the make these decisions when youre in love not in spite
Steve Harver- He abandoned the 1st wife and his twin daughters, married his 2nd wife then divorced the 2nd wife to marry the mistress who was his 2nd wife's friend.
And now that mistress managed to trick him into not having a prenup. When his karma hits, she will take it all.
🤦🏾♂️
A bunch of people should turn up at his audience and just keep referring to his history. I’d love to be there just for teh awkwardness
@@CresentSoul Same, I would call him out on his bullshit. He'd be so shocked to see a woman immune to his fake speeches
@Peter mrui I agree! 😂 Don’t worry, it’ll happen.
As a man, I would not be offended to sign a prenup. Your money is your money. If I didn't make it, why should I be entitled to it? It is really simple logic!
Then why get married. A prenup has it's uses beyond keeping money. If anything, keep money is one of its lower priority ones.
Everyone is assuming that they'll be much wealthier than their spouse too.
That's a man's way of thinking. Women see it as easy money. Despite what feminist claim a lot of women don't want to work 9-5. To them a rich man is an early retirement with a pension (alimony + child support). The government caters to them.
Like D. San said, why get married? You say that your money is your money, but what if you have kids? What if some of the expenses and assets you and your spouse have are for the children, then what?
@Valek O'Keefe Children aren't apart of the prenup agreement and also depending on the state you live in the court can throw away prenups if your ex-spouse is forced to live in public assistance. That's why I asked those questions big fella.
Rightly so, you don't expect a bailout but she does.
Aba is my spirit husband. I'd love that man down to his toes. He's so level headed and so aware. I'm certain he can handle me and my attitude. I'd submit to him naturally 😌 something about that mental stimulation. I forgot what this video was about 🥴
(let me have my pick me moment, this is for aba mind your business.) 🙃
Are you still in love with Aba? 🤔
Spirit husband? Guuurl
Asking Steve Harvey for marriage advice is like asking Casey Anthony for parenting advice.
😁
he's the king of simps
Steve is a fkn simp!! Great comedian though...
Win
*TRUTH*
Dude has not shown to be the *Jedi Master* of nuptials!!
"If you want want me to sign a prenup you already expect us to break up." Well if she doesnt sign it i guess she expects it too. Goes both ways
Oooooooooh for real for real. I'll be signing right away like "Dude tell me where to sign we are not even using it Inch'Allah". A pre-nup is common sense for me anyway.
@@ousontmeslunettes9891 only saying this cause Arabic changes meaning if you type wrong unlike English please don't take me as a grammer nazi, but *In Sha Allah
The same can be said about marriage. The marriage contract itself is a insurance contract for the woman. So she can get money if it doesnt work out. Why make a man sign a marriage contract? Are you making a plan B?
Its true buttt I don't wanna get married because harder to escape when he starts treating me like crap. If you all worried that a woman will do this then marry a woman who makes more money...ps you still gotta pay child support
Really? Kuz I always spell it inshalah
"We don't negotiate with terrorist" - AMS & Tom Cruise.
Women: If we get divorced, we will try to take everything we can from the men.
Also women: Why don't men want to get married?
🤪🤪🤪
"Great the peace, the greater the suffering."
Patrice O'Neal has been done said that.
@@EsteBahia leave him alone bruh, let him believe these new coaches are spitting straight from the survivor scrolls.
Les Grossman is the man. Love Tropic Thunder.
I'll say this: if a woman reveals/seems to have married me for taking half my networth and I was a millionaire I would burn everything to the ground just before she can take it all. Yes it will spite me but if she was willing to spend a portion of her life with me only for my money then it clearly meant way more to her than me so I know she will suffer more.
"you never really know a woman until you meet her in court"
-norman mailer
I felt this for some reason.
I felt this because I lived it.
damn
@@magsteel9891 I hate that you had to live it, makes me even more certain that if we don't get prenups legalised in my country I won't get married.
@@meebelomukelabai8273 There's Nothing in Marriage that benefits Men . The Court System may never changed , that is how they make their money.
The prenup is not because i think YOU will try to ruin me, it's because you CAN ruin me.
Well said!!!
I think it is to make things easier and make the process as fair as possible with both parties agreeing. If you don't have the same morals, then this should be anyone's wake up call.
I learn this a long time ago... the person that you marry isn’t the person that you divorce.
Great comment!
Bro this should be on a billboard! Speaking all facts!
Facts.
Well said..
This very smart 🦍⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️
Preach - I have to say that when you broke it down at the beginning with real world examples (life insurance, a will, car insurance, etc.) that was classic. Bravo. I hope that causes people to think twice. Aha moments by Preach!
Isn’t marriage essentially a contract
Yes.
This is why I'll never get married.. fuck that
Depending on which state its a contract between the wife and the government. The man just hold the money or in rare cases the woman. You are simply doing business with the government. Any emotional validation that comes with marriage is irrelevant to the revenue generated by the courts and lawyers from this.
Its a scam.
In the West it is. In a lot of other cultures & countries it's a symbolic thing.
The lady saying "I'm taking the car, the house" is American relationship specialist lol
What do you think her husband did the moment he saw this on tv?
Yeap. They're against prenups cuz their power is theft.
Lol
Bet her husband shat himself upon hearing that
nah he's freezing the assets right now. 😆 🤣 😂
Ironically she's talking about him losing his money and house and car... she's exemplified EXACTLY why you need a prenup 😅🤣😅🤣😂
yup. Some of these women's self awareness resembles that of a five year old. Just beyond delusional at this point.
And saying that she'd be worried about being left with nothing after a divorce so she needs idk ...a "plan B"?
"IM KEEPING THE HOUSE THE CAR IM KEEPING EVERYTHING YOUR ASS IS LEAVEING THE HOUSE!" ME-YOU OUT YO BURRITO EATING MIND BITCH! NO DISRESPECT TO LATINAS!
Imagine if the dude only had one car and one house. So for a short time he will be homeless.
As much as a prenup would hurt my feelings cause I would feel that stigma attached, I understand that in a split I would want both of us to be protected and be able to move on as cleanly as possible.
hurt? why? men have prenup to protect their asset in case of divorce.
I used to be friends with a woman who literally does nothing but drain her ex husband’s bank account. When I met the man, I couldn’t be her friend anymore. He was so sad. I can’t believe grown adults do that to people. Prenups protect you from people like this. Never ever allow yourself to be drained. If someone wants protection, I would agree and even insist
If she is no longer required to provide the duties of a wife to him (due to the divorce), why is he still required to provide the duties of a husband to her?
@@Kanfachan alomunie .I know I'm spelling it wrong .then probley child saport as well and if she know your making more money she can take your ass back to court get more money had it happen to freind got second job.got better cars and got nice apartment and she took to court for more money and judge sword her more money
@@richardrabe7940 That's the problem. Once a man has divorced a woman, he should not be forced to provide for her; because she is no longer his wife. He cannot claim from her any of the benefits that she used to provide while she was his wife, so why isn't that also the case for her in reference to him? Alimony is pure b.s. If women are "strong and independent" like they keep claiming, then why should they still have access to their ex-husbands resources long after the marriage is over?!
That’s actually sick. I don’t understand how someone could do that.
Whenever I hear these females say they want a man with money I just in turn reply and say _"oh so you're going to be a liability and expense to your man instead of an asset?"_
They go dead silent...
I'm sorry but if a man refused to get a prenup, we'd call him controlling and manipulative
You are keeping it REAL. Very True
@Calcelmo that there are double standards
PREACH!!!
@@Tlahuiltezcatl Aba
Vic Rich well she is 💀 why would be another good reason for her not get it
Then they wonder why men don't want to get married anymore.
We don't either, trust
@@angytingz ok.
@@angytingz Cool, be a pump n dump.
@Sylar Rogue AMS?
@@angytingz I think that marriages shouldn't be necessary, it should be like a rare occurrence that happens once in a while
I didn't get a prenup when things were great....and then things went BAD. I lost half of everything I had. And, I'm a woman. That's the chance you take with love.
A prenup is essentially a “break glass incase of emergency”, its there, you may never need to use it, you arent expecting to use it, but in that emergency, you sure as hell will be glad its there!
you WILL need to use it. Women these days aren't brought up to be with one partner for the rest of their lives, they're not brought up to be wives (that's reinforcing gender stereotypes for you). Prenups may decrease the chance of divorce actually, but divorce will happen, she just has to find the right guy to leave you for.
Exactly!
Why does Aba always come with straight KNOWLEDGE?! He always give you a perspective that gets you thinking. And Preach with his expessions, analogies and accent. You gotta love this channel and these two guys.
Yep, they work so well together, it is eerie.
Oh and by the way, women who take offense to signing a prenup are straight up dodgy
"IM KEEPING THE HOUSE THE CAR IM KEEPING EVERYTHING YOUR ASS IS LEAVEING THE HOUSE!" ME-YOU OUT YO BURRITO EATING MIND BITCH! NO DISRESPECT TO LATINAS!
Lol women can also have men sign prenups. You never see that because woman almost never settle with a man with less money. Ask a woman if she is going to give up half of her 100% hardwork. She will answer the same as any sane individual. Hopefully. Haha
Yep, classic example was Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubry, when she had to pay him child support all the females were calling him a bum etc, but when women get their support they are like well done girl. 👏 Double standards.
I absolutely did give up half of my hard work! I absolutely did give up half of my retirement! I absolutely did give up half of everything in my divorce. I was the breadwinner he had a disability I gave up half of everything, willingly, peacefully, lovingly, joyfully, and in great anticipation of having my freedom restored and being released from that business contract of bondage and servitude. Please do not speak for me as a woman wife mother daughter sister granddaughter niece cousin employer business owner employee or any other capacity because you are absolutely disconnected from me as a woman. I reject your blanket statements and I do not consent for you speaking for me on any level in any capacity! Your privilege separates you from my truth.
@@DivineRenegadeDeanna fuck off troll get reported.
@@DivineRenegadeDeanna lol no one asked, you’re obviously the minority. I’m
@@DivineRenegadeDeanna I was speaking generally because it's more relatable. Obviously these type of situations are on a case by case bases. Thank you for expressing your specific case. I said nothing offensive. By the way I can speak on whatever topic I choose to have an opinion about.
You guys are the most important people in my life right now !!!!! Please guys .. keep doing what you are doing because you are helping a lot of guys out there including me !!! Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
Why didn't Steve have men on the show? Hhhmmm, he's such a joke.
The real question is why didn't Steve be a man on the show?
Steve is the LLCoolJ of talkshows. For the ladies only. Sellout.
Because his audience is like 99.9999999999999999999999% women... Mostly middle aged women who are daydreaming about a rich sugar-daddy.
I watch Steve Harvey and do exactly the opposite of what he says to be successful in life
@@joshuaottley7902 facts he is such a simp bruh
When she stood up and screamed “women!!” I was so grossed out. Ew
I nearly died of cringe after seeing that.😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@Azriel Cul 11:00
"Ew" 😂😂
She's cappin' and clout chasing at the same time. She's just another virtue-signaling individual who just loves to jump onto the nearest bandwagon.
@@Walking-MY-Path you’re from Hoodvile ?
The woman in the thumb nail looks like she's had a ton of divorce settlements looking at the amount of plastic surgery she's had.
dammmn
@@billywayne3653 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She's on "What happens next" with Andy Cohen😂😂
With the rate of divorce in America, the smartest thing is a prinup. It's not that you leave with $0 but what's going to happen if you cheat, if I cheat, if we have kids, the years we been together and all...
This audience full of screaming harpies is exactly why Steve Harvey plays the simp time after time. He's not going to bite the hands that feed him.
No, but he does seem apt to allow the hand that comes and grabs 50% of that feed
Steve Harvey's advice is trash and he should be ashamed of himself! He wants make to make women Lord of their life and claims to be Christian while preaching against God's Word on the woman's role!
It’s absolutely disgusting
I don't believe him!!! Im 💯 he got a prenup with Majorie!!!
Lol the cringe when she screamed “women!”
😂😂😂
Got married at 33 with no prenup. I owned a business, a house, and 20,000 sq ft building. We celebrate our 21st anniversary in 2 weeks. I was blinded by love and I got lucky. Get a prenup if you have substantial assets. Watched my brother get hosed after a 4 year marriage, She managed to pop out two kids immediately. I think he was her 5 year plan.
Agree!! I signed a 24 page prenup. It took my husband many years to recover from his divorce. He dragged it out and thankfully dodged life time alimony due to having a successful business. Starting all over again is very hard for a man especially if you already put over 20 years of blood sweat and tears. If women truly love their partners"sign the prenup"!!
My husband and I came to the marriage on the same level. I gots mine he has his and we meshed it together. No matter how it turns out we both benefit meaning we leave with the same amount we came into the marriage with. It is a win win. Or we lucky that we were on the same level- 18 years and going 😉💕
This is EXACTLY why I brought up getting a prenup to my husband. He makes loads more than me, I rather he protect what was his before us than lose it if we split. I may bite myself later on of life but its for the best, lmao jk on the biting myself. Im not that petty. As long as our son is taken care of by the both of us, thats all that matters to me.
You're next.
Imagine having kids you really don't like like that because of your plan you had to take from the dad. Sad shit
My take is this when you get married you become one not two. I just recently discovered that there’s a huge difference between Kingdom marriages and worldly marriages. Most marriages that end in divorce are marriages that people decided on their own and not God himself because what God joins together can never be separated regardless. A lot of people get married based on their acknowledgment, they don’t ask God for help and guidance hence most marriages fail. Before you get married you supposed to have a relationship with God first and most of us don’t because we think we in control. Once you build that relationship and bond with God, you’ll do things differently because the Holy Spirit will guide you. You ask God to reveal your ordained spouse and he’ll will. But we don’t do this hence we marry the wrong people and therefore the devil does what he does best, kill, steal and destroy. Most importantly again people know deep down that they in wrong relationships but yet, still stay. Red flags don’t just happen over night you choose to ignore them. Hence it is important to put God first. There’s only one you and one God and that’s why we promised one marriage however, the devil deceived us into believing that you can move on just because. People have been brainwashed with society and the media due movies and all, forgetting that reality is not based on fairytales. People look for love but yet they themselves fail to love themselves. Next time you surround yourself with people ask yourself this “do these people bring peace into my life? Do I give them peace too? Do we bring the best selves out of each other or do we bring the worst of each other? Energy is important, again it’s the little things we take for granted that paints the bigger picture in the end. Marriages aren’t for us, most people don’t even know why they need to get married. Marriages are to honour and serve the Lord. God is real and God does help his children when you call for Him. Have a blessed day.
Hopefully god will understand why most men dont get married these days.
but the majority don’t believe in any god. god is some mystical being written in a book called the bible and marriage is just a contract to bind two people and legalize having a kid and call it a family and a legacy
Coz majority of people don't believe in god. It's just a mystical being written in a book and marriage is just a contract to bind two people to legalize having a kid/s and call it a family and legacy. And if the other person who has lesser power doesn't agree with the terms and conditions that were being placed by the person who set such tone along the way poof you be gone. In a worldly marriage kid/s are the only family a parent will ever have while the two people who created that pact are just individuals, distinct and separate from each other. That's why two people should have the same values in coming together coz adding an individual to your life is the most important decision you’ll ever make.
And they wonder why they can’t get a man who makes six figures. He don’t want you to take all the money he worked hard for.
He sure doesn't.
Plus it's not like 6 figure men are common or even look in their direction
@@itriggerpeople4433 Exactly!!!!
Steve Harvey does nothing but pander to women. Why on topics like this there are never men there to give there point of view.
He's apparently the spokesman for all men, so other men don't need to be there
He's a simpson
Females is his audience men don't fuck with Steve
And this why Kevin samuels is growing in popularity
People need to understand that *women make up 80% of all consumer spending in this country* . They also make up an overwhelming amount of the viewership of talk shows like this. Why do you think advertisements are nothing but 'woman strong and independent'; man weak and incompetent' ? *Its bad for business for Steve to have anyone on his show that can make his audience look foolish and entitled* , so he will continue to pander to women until they stop paying him to. He is a hypocrite and a sellout. I'm glad more and more videos like this are showing his true colors and giving an alternate point of view.
Women like this are just sounding an alarm that they are only in a relationship because you have money... Stay away.
that woman is so cringe but she's exhibit A of how women operate
@@ricardoh87 the first chick that was pro prenup was going along the same lines as ABBA and preach. That second the other though..... well they've been loud and clear where they stand
People that gets divorced have a 78% of getting a second divorce and 85% of a third divorce.....nuff said. Always get a prenup if a person refuses they are a gold digger.....period.
Girls didnt say stuff like that when Adele and her husband broke up and he got 50%. But thats none of my business (kermit meme).
Because feminist advocate for special rights, not equal rights.
Yo i remember when they did the vid on that one too. She 100% should have had a prenup
@@jasonandrews1770 100%, she should've had that. I don't get why she didnt get one....I don't get why anyone wouldn't have one.
@@jasonandrews1770 yes she too rich to be going to marriage like that but not sure why av Joe's be thinking woman only want their money when they barely have any to begin with
@@helli0n73 i dont wanna sound sexist here but i honestly think her being a woman played a part in it. Woman usually clean up in divorce court and her female friends wouldnt be suggesting it because none of them prob ever needed it. Granted she also didnt even think of it because they prob had a very good relationship for a long time. Its a hard topic to bring up to someone
As a woman myself, I am so irritated by those wannabe relationship coaches that just trying to fake empower people. Just because you speak loud doesn't mean you are right. It is a fact that most relationships can fail due to many reasons so a prenup is important. You can't see your future so it is crucial to have a backup plan no matter what.
Facts 💯
Plan b is always a good option no matter what, because like you said no one knows the future
Exactly. She might as well scream, "TAKE HIS MONEY LADIES. GIRL POWER" and it'll be the same thing.
May, I always thought I would do if I’m rich. What Do you think ? Thanks sis
How many relationships have you ended?
Imagine you’re married to this girl for a year. Then you you get a divorce and the court decides that your childhood home is going to your now ex-wife and you can’t do anything about that all because you didn’t sign a prenup.
Dont get married in the first place, thats the best prenup dumbass
That's not how divorce court works LMAO
I’d rather burn it down
@@puthica2060 You'd be surprised how simp-ified the family courts really are
@@puthica2060 Yea it is.
Steve Harvey is the biggest clown on television. He is so cutthroat with his money except when it comes to women he is involved with he just gives it away
"Why would you need a pre-nup?"
Why do you need saving?
Why do you need car insurance?
Life insurance?
really just ANY type of insurance?
-Shit Happens
Are you really comparing wife to a car?
@@mariams8154 No, I'm comparing a concept bozo
@@mariams8154 he's comparing contracts. An honest person should have no problem signing a prenup. Murphy's law 🤷♀️
@@urmammy84 Unfortunately, I know what he means :) But I’m saying that getting married shouldn’t be just another step in your life, like moving out, buying a car or buying a house. Why get married, if you have doubts, that your partner will rip you off, if you ever break up. Just stay as a boyfriend/girlfriend.
And as an honest person, I can say that I don’t want anything from anybody that I haven’t earned, whether it’s my husband or parent.
@@mariams8154 If u have life insurance does that mean ur suicidal? 🤦♂️
“It’s the wrong attitude to go in with.” Says the person that’s likely to benefit financially.
"IM KEEPING THE HOUSE THE CAR IM KEEPING EVERYTHING YOUR ASS IS LEAVEING THE HOUSE!" ME-YOU OUT YO BURRITO EATING MIND BITCH! NO DISRESPECT TO LATINAS!
You can easily flip that script on its head: “Why you want 50% girl? It’s the wrong attitude to go in with! Shouldn’t matter how much you get if we’d split up - we’re in it forever, we need to be all focused on plan A”
LIKE WORDS FROM A WISE MAN!
@@milton7763 THATS CAP IM SORRY!
Never sign a contract with someone who's incentivized to break it
I like this one quote from Star Trek TNG:
"It's possible to make no errors or mistakes, and still lose. That is life, not weakness." -Picard
Facts. Puts into perspective that you can be the best husband ever and she can still cheat. But since you didn’t make a prenup for her to sign, she still gets half of what you have.
And this is why I always loved that show growing up. It always had gems like that hidden in the script.
Prenup? Make it so.
Hell yeah. I remember that episode
“They’re plenty of women who busted their butts for men” Um where and when? The housemaid I pay does but that’s a job and she does far more then these streetwalkers
Their logic be like: "If you're not willing to give me half of your shit which I had no part in getting, whatsoever, after I'm leaving you, you're not the right man!"
My logic: By your terms, I agree. The right man by your logic is an idiot, to which I am not.😇
Nope, I'm not. Bye!
That’s fine. Life is a game of chicken.
Its like that mom telling her son to father two kids that aren't his
Exactly, we need to back up one level, divorce is their plan B. They get that automatically. Prenups are a very weak plan B for men as they are often thrown out anyway. Women's plan B, divorce court, is part of the original package. They don't want that messed with.
I will not get married unless I have a prenuptial agreement. We are one but if we get divorced everything should go back to the way it was prior to marriage. It’s gross to think u r entitled to someone else’s hard work!
And everything that was bought together be sold and divided evenly.
thank you why is this so hard to understand? people are so entitled.
are you sure about that...
Then dont get married. Married is not essential for life in any way. If your work is more important than the vows you make to another for LIFE then stay single
@@valenciaing.4316 that's some dumb shit. what part of most women are responsible for divorces don't you get? gold diggers see marriage as an opportunity to ripoff some poor sod rather making a vow for life and women that start out normal start seeing dollar signs the moment they think their marriage isn't working.
maybe don't get married if you don't wanna sign a prenup. I mean you're making a vow for life so what does it matter anyway right?
I would absolutely never trust someone that refuses to sign a prenup. It's a huge red flag. They are basically saying with their actions that they refuse to be in a relationship with you unless they can leave it with half of your property. No other emotional argument can rebuke this truth.
I signed a prenup when I married my husband 6 years ago. For me, it is a sign of trust that you are going in with the best of intentions towards your partner no matter what happens. I don't regret that decision at all, and we plan to stay married until old age snuffs us. One and done for me.
My future sisters in law never signed prenups. Both have been married for over ten years. Their mother has been married for over thirty years. My fiancée and I are not going to have a prenup. Better or for worse.
Transferring your assets and cash to a trusted family member seems the better move than a prenup. They're notoriously easy to challenge in court.
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@@kevinW826 You're an idiot who has simped to "the love of his life". She has you wrapped around her finger. Get a fucking prenup before you lose half your stuff my guy.
@@amadvirtuoso I don’t have any stuff to lose. So I don’t have to worry
As a divorced woman, I agree that pre-nuptials are needed. I totally agree with Aba & Preach.
A wise man once said: "Nobody gets married thinking they will be divorced."
Gold diggers do not apply to this rule.
Absolutely right! No man who has ever walked down the aisle thought "This will end in divorce" or he wouldn't have done it in the first place! Unfortunately, statistics prove the failure rate of marriages that end in divorce is exceptionally high. Moral of the story: You're crazy if you get married......unless you DO want to end up getting divorced!!!
well he's not wise AT all if he doesnt take account of the vast majority of women
@@HabibAbdellatifi No. Modern feminist women is what you are talking about. There are many traditional women out there who are not insane. Just stay away from some far left leaning cities and you will be fine.
@@davestuddert4392 Any man who marries in this day in age is either a stupid hopeless romantic or a SIMP or both.
Divorces is 60% and filed Majority of the time by women.
If my sweetie hands me a prenup, I'm signing it. For one, he built all that without me. For two, it's not why I love him.
Please please please encourage your female friends to follow your example.
We need more like you
May you both never have to use it!
Exactly! Gotta sign thattttt.
I agree his wealth is his own, but if a man expects you to give up your whole career to be the main caretaker of the children then you deserve something for the years you stopped working and could have been advancing in your career. If he cheats then the prenup needs to be amended to compensate you as well for your earning potential and time wasted. You didn't come into the marriage to be cheated on. If he wants you to make any changes to your life after marriage it must state that you will be compensated if it stops you from having your own income.
Steve Harvey gives the absolute worst advise man. 🤦🏽♂️
That’s cuz he’s a neutered beeitch
Absolutely, shit!!! I am not gonna be listening to him with an intent to learn!
Women go to Steve to get advise on marriage and relationship yet Steve has about 3 failed marriages.
Better yet... DON'T GET MARRIED....
We live in 2022... Marriage has become a relic now
We learned from the basketball vid some of these girls like to manipulate the logic to justify having the ability to take half a mans earnings.
Yeah that specific incident was crazy
Also can you give me the link to the vid.
@@dr.phylisphical9294 look up Stephen Jackson marriage story.
As a woman who does not have a lot of money I would still sign a prenup and if he didn’t initially bring it up, I would. When you get married you are still two people. You do not fuse into one person. What is mine is mine and what is yours is yours. The divorce rate is so high and there are so many reasons that a couple could want a divorce. It’s not going into it expecting a divorce at some point. It’s preparing for the worst case scenario. Like you said at the beginning of the video. You buy a car and get insurance for it. Not because you are expecting a crash, but because you what to be prepared and protected if it does happen. I think one of the major problems that has led to such a high divorce rate is that people get married so quickly after meeting someone. Give the relationship time, give yourself time to really figure out if that person that you are with truly has good intentions and will be respectful and responsible if the marriage goes south. And likewise, give yourself time to figure out if you are going to respectful and responsible if the relationship goes south.
I knew there was reasonable females out there .this does go both ways .when a couple gets married and doesn't plan there finances and talk about them is also doomed. If couples really cared about one another they would and should both be concerned the outcome to make it fair and reasonable...these women act like divorce doesn't happen on the view. I was divorced once so thats it for me now living with a very kind female and knows right from the beginning we won t get married. Women should plan there life and finances like there wedding, every step carefully planned most other things not so much .and yes many men are guilty of this as well .
Agreed
Absolutely.
In fact, some of the best advice I've heard is: Don't try to make every date perfect. Get to know the other person when things go south, because things will at one point inevitably go south, and you don't want any surprises at that point... Especially after marriage.
Also one needs to open up and just be honest with their own shortcomings. If the other person sees you at anything other than your best and still decides to stay, then you know that their love is truly unconditional.
YES!! I agree with you wholeheartedly. I can’t fathom that these gold-diggers are making all women look bad with this type of mindset. Majority of these men will end up trying to get prenups because of females like this & why they won’t get married either. I would rather have divorce where both parties don’t have to worry about alimony or court proceedings. It’s too much of a financial burden and process.
I already don’t like to accept things like money from men because it feels wrong in my heart.
so u has to be the one who's bringing the idea of signing a prenup at first but sounds like u r the one who's in need of it the least tho !
Don't sign a contract with anyone who gets benefits out of breaking it.
Aka “moral hazard”
What if you do? What if years from now you become impulsive and leave for a younger woman who hates your kids? Do you want them provided for with someone who loves them more than anyone besides you?
A man needs to find and treat a woman like an equal partner for several reasons. Jordan Peterson talks about how men can come to have disdain for a woman if she is powerless. That may be unfair and unpleasant to think about, but its true for many families. The best thing a man can do for his kids and love their Mom. When men help their wives, they are helping their self and their children. Is that risky that she might also flake out? Yes. Life is risky, so is raising a family.
@@stephtimms1776
If you are in a relationship because you actually care about your partner then signing a prenup shouldn’t be an issue. Taking risks is definitely a part of life, but what’s the point in taking that risk if you can still have a successful relationship despite having a backup plan that protects both parties in case things go south?
I can be an amazing driver. Never get in accidents and know how to avoid accidents but driving without insurance despite that is incredibly stupid. You never know what could happen and you never know what the intentions of the other person is until things go south. It’s better to have the insurance in case things go south than to not have it and lose everything you worked for as a result.
@@dontworryboutmyname8934 Who gains the most though when you pay car insurance? The insurance companies do by far. In the case of unfortunate events, would you rather some third party gets most of your resources, or your children and their Mother?
They are saying that signing a prenup is "planning for things to mess up". Yet isn't them not being willing to sign the prenup showing what they themselves are planning? 🤔