EXTREME DECLUTTERING | CLOSET CLEAN-OUT MAKEOVER | CLEAN AND ORGANIZE MOTIVATION | BEFORE & AFTER
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- Опубликовано: 21 авг 2024
- Welcome to my decluttering series, where I take Marie Kondo Konmari method and clean up , refresh and clear out my home! Hope you enjoy!
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🌺Happy Sunday luvs... this is a journey...but I'm thankful started... Some things weren't easy to or I wouldn't normally share but it felt purposeful to the reason Im sharing this Series so as ALWAYS I hope someone finds this helpful and ya'll are enjoying the ride!🖤
You got this Empress. 🧡
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You should look into giving to homeless shelters in your area for women. Instead of good will or the Salvation Army that’s what I always do.
And it is so appreciated!
BTW I don't feel that your hard decisions to donate to others for free should be gone through by the workers of Salvation army or Goodwill b4 they put out the rest to be sold to people who can't barely afford it. You went through something on the video tonight to part with your items and that giving spirit should in my opinion be carried out to "give" to a special place that will "GIVE" to its final destination for " Free". Otherwise you could have sold it for a profit yourself for your needs around that beautiful new place you've been working so hard on making a home. 🙌 and ✌🏽 to you.
Very proud of you!! Battered women's shelter, genius, never even thought of it, and I just got motivated. Thanks for sharing!
I always donate to the shelters and they give me a form to use as a tax deduction
I have not finished watching but I just want to say how much I love and appreciate how you allowed us to peek in your memories of what the pieces meant to you. This is beautiful.
Thank you beauty 🖤
So proud of you! I struggle with clutter as well! It's a generational thing. Before I relocated and purchased my 🏠 in a different state I donated 120 bags of clothing, shoes, purses, hats etc to Purple Heart because I felt the exact same way about Good Will and Salvation Armory. If you have a Plato' s Closet in your area they will pay you cash for your clothing and shoes if they're in good condition. I also donated 10 bags to a women's shelter and just donated 20 more to a thrift store. It was like losing 20 lbs blessing someone else. Check Amazon for a closet system you can install or pay someone to do it.
Girl you had me crying, laughing, smiling and cheering you on. The donations to the woman's shelter was the first thing that came to mind so to know that's you did is awesome. The finale is giving me so much inspiration to clean my own closet... Thanks 😊💚
Thank youuu🖤
I’m SOOOOO proud of you Shonda! I was happy to see you smiling while talking about how light you felt after dropping off the donations at the women’s shelter 🥰
Thank youuu🖤
“ Do what you can do today because tomorrow is NOT promised.” I am VERY PROUD OF YOU AND I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT YOU AND YOUR HOME FEELS LIGHTER.
I don’t even have a lot to declutter anymore but this video makes me want to declutter just so I can feel good and purged 😂 LOVE the longer video!! Got my coffee ready and vibed out with you
It’s good that you’re getting it done. Decluttering is very therapeutic!
veryyyy , Thank youuu🖤
Happy Sunday Sunshine!
I just want to say, you got this ! Without knowing it, you are HELPING SO MANY PEOPLE. You are not the only one.
Now,
Onto the video! 💕
A woman's shelter
An hour! Okay let me grab some water and go on this treadmill. 💕
It's the reality for me .
You have inspired me to tackle my rooms that I need to organize in my home. Thank you for sharing your journey.
WOW!!! You're decluttering like a PRO!!!!! Knowing your time, motivation and energy and skipping friends and selling, WOW you're really awesome at decluttering! And my biggest RESPECT for deciding so quickly, not putting decisions off, AMAZING!
Girllll....wow just wow. You did that and yes you should feel amazing that was a huge project. Letting go of clutter is hard especially when there are memories attached to it. Once you corral all the stuff you have in one area it lets you see how much you really have and helps to process letting the unnecessary stuff go. Great video!!!
So proud of you. I was going to suggest giving the bags to an organization that gives bags to foster kids so they don't have to put their stuff in garbage bags. I love your awesome vibes.🌈🌈🌈
Donate the hangers too
Thanks for that suggestion hun
A therapists' dream!!! So proud!!! In addition to women's shelter, you can also bring to group homes for girls.
you not bouta keep calling me a therapist dream every video now! lol Thank youuu🖤
So very proud of you. I’m very happy you found a battered Womens shelter to donate to. Those women are very worthy of the donation. 💕💕💕💕
I'm so proud of you. It definitely takes a lot of energy and emotion to purge your life of things that don't serve you any more, but you will feel so much lighter and free afterwards. Be gentle with yourself. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm 56 and still have my high school year book. It's something you can show your children and even grand children.😃😃
I'm really proud of you for acknowledging that there was an issue and facing it head on.. thank you for the motivation!
Thank youuu🖤
I often do declutters and I’m constantly searching for that peace while home. I came across your initial declutter video yesterday and was so sad when it ended thinking I’d have to wait a week or so until the next video. I was so excited to see this posted!!! You are so cool. You seem like a kind down to earth person. I hope you find the peace your looking for in your home. Your doing great! Also.. beautiful home good for you girl!!!
Thank youuu🖤
Hey S, you did an outstanding job decluttering your closet. I am sooo proud of you for finding a rightful home for your unwanted items. Thank you for including the clip where you broke down on camera the importance, significance & attachment you have toward some of your clothing. As a true supporter of yours, I like that we were able to see that vulnerable side to you. It just goes to show, you are like one of us in more ways than we can imagine💜 you are definitely starting to open up a ***itty bitty, tinsy winsy*** more & honey I’m here for the growth! #goodvibesonly
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lol Thank youuu babe 🖤 I appreciate that
My husband and I just happened across your channel and this is the first video we’re watching. I just wanted to let you know how incredibly proud I am of you for getting rid of the onesies you had those strong memories with. The memories will always live on in your heart/mind and pictures but now your onesies have been set free to go be a part of someone else’s memories. You’re doing a wonderful job! It’s not easy to get to this point in the minimalism journey, but please know you’re doing such an amazing job!! 💖
You bout had me crying girl. Proud of you for sharing your journey and you got this. D
I donated my clothes, shoes and bags to a women’s shelter here in Ohio. I felt so much better taking it there rather than goodwill…I am so proud of you !!!
Lord! Got me crying right along with you. Crazy how we can get so attached to 'things', but I truly understand. My sister gave me a particular t-shirt years ago as a birthday gift, she is now deceased, and I KNOW I am never getting rid of that t-shirt. Take your time and work through those truly special items. Good luck. 🙂
Thank youuu🖤
You got that gurl! You did it! You opened yourself up and took us on this emotional journey with you. You got through it. I'm happy for and proud of you 👏 and you get a chance to bless many people with those bags of clothes .👍
I think it would be interesting if you could take down that separating wall in your master closet. It would really open the space up even more & allow the window to light the entire space & maybe you could put a sort of island in the middle with drawers for more storage for clothes, accessories etc. Or even put a nice large tufted seating piece in the middle or elsewhere in there for putting on shoes? Just a thought! You did a truly amazing job decluttering all of the clothes, shoes & other items! That was quite a feat & very inspiring!! I bet it feel amazing!
Definitely been thinking of that since I moved in, just not ready for the task and have to find out if its load bearing but maybe down the line Thank youuu🖤
You truly did an amazing job! I'm so proud of you. You've inspired me and I'm pretty sure of a lot of others. Thank you for letting us be a part of the process.
Glad you kept the emotional parts in! Decluttering is really emotional sometimes and at least you had a good reason. It’s important to make space in our lives, but do it in a way that feels good. If you have to make a small exception do it. I have a sweater that I used to steal from my grandmother every time I visited her, and then I would wash it and bring it back. And the last time that I stole it was the actual last time I would get to steal it, and I’m so glad I have it. It smells like her in the best way. I’ll never wash it or get rid of it. You’re doing the work and it’s not always easy, so congratulate yourself!
I am so happy you donated to the shelter as it was going to be my suggestion. I am very proud of you and even though the things associated with the past are gone, you still have the memories (for the ones worth remembering). Live free, be in the moment and when the time permits you will make new memories. BTW the closets look great. Just as the clutter WAS a representation of your inner struggles and clutter...take a look at you now. Go back and look at yourself after you dropped off the donations...you look lifted. You have inspired me and I am grateful. Be blessed Sis.
Thank youuu🖤
I’m so proud of you!!!! You did an amazing job. I hope this not only clears your home but your mind. I truly relate to this.
I’m soooo proud of you…by you having the courage to start AND FINISH….!!!!SHE DID THHHHAATTT!!!! Periodt and also I have to give you the glory and the praise for you to take your donate things to a battered shelter….🥺🥺🥺😢😢😢 u have opened my eyes I thank you because a lot of people don’t think of that and by you doing it ..lord knows I appreciate it I really do…. The principle is that you can never reach for tomorrow without letting go of today. Even in the natural, before tomorrow can begin today has to end. My perspective of you has changed completely (in a good way of course lol) I thank you 🙏🏾
Thank youuu🖤
I'm so proud of you. You managed this like a champ and I know that the recipients of your donations will benefit from your generosity. I had so many clothes that my closet wire shelves just gave up and they all fell down. That was my sign that it was time to pare down.
Great decluttering video. My clutter situation is similar (25+ years in my home, every closet is overflowing) You've given me great inspiration to get started. 💜
Ah! Great minds think alike. Glad you were able to donate to a women's shelter. You were glowing as you drove away from the shelter. I imagine you felt so much lighter after accomplishing such a huge task. You Rock! 🤙🏽
You should be extremely proud of yourself!. I am so proud of you. It is hard to part with some of our things, but once we finally do it feels so good. I'm a journey myself of freeing myself of things that don't bring me joy. So right about the power of writing things down. Thank you so much for sharing yourself with us.
Thank youuu🖤
I'm only 8 minutes in but good for you for giving up the Christmas onesie. It was wonderful to see you work through your thought process and realize you were not saying goodbye to those memories or your loved ones by letting it go. It's so hard to have that kind of clarity when emotions are taking over. I've been on a decluttering journey for a year now and have let go of easily 75% or so of what I owned. Go easy on yourself and take your time. I can't wait to watch you progress through this process.
PROUD OF YOU ❤️ loved this series….we’re here for your closet set up….you did an amazing job 🙌🏾
I'm so proud of you! I have been on a declutter journey myself! I donated 2 storage bins and 2 bags to our local hospital!
get it girl! Thank youuu🖤
LEEEEEEEEEETTTTTTSSS GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! 💪🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
So proud of you, it takes a lot of strength to do that and opens the door for room to receive so much more in a spiritual and mental aspect, I’m so proud of you queen ❤️
Thank youuu babe🖤
Ma’am you are not alone. Soooo many of us get emotionally attached to stuff. 🙋🏽♀️ My mother gave me a set of cheap blue glass dishes, nothing special. I never used them and kept them in a box in a closet. 🤦🏾♀️ She came to my house and saw the box and was upset I still had them at this point in my life. I kept those dishes in a box for about 10 years and never used them. When I placed that box in my donate pile I was literally holding back tears.WHY??🤷🏽♀️ Mind you I get rid of stuff ALL the time. It’s a running joke in my household regarding my purging obsession.
I haven’t even made a dent in your video, but wanted to share that if something made you that emotional, then it definitely sparked joy and you are to hold on to those memories! Keep up the good work, and all will be well! 🙏🏾
Giving those things away allow you to help someone else create memories too love. Keep that in mind.
“Me? I’m anxious but that’s beside the point.” That’s me 24/7!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
7:36 You are so sweet. You almost got me crying over here along with you!
lmaaaaaoo.. I'ma brick wall but when it comes to my familyyyy lawdddd GLASS HOUSE LOLL
Girl we all have to declutter!!! I’m always in the decluttering stage, lol. When I’m depressed it’s totally out of control. Like you said it’s deeper than surface. We get attached to memories associated with things. Crying is normal💕💕. You’re not by yourself in that. Keep maybe one something. I love your closet to death. I need that space. It would help with my lack of seasonal storage. Books and papers accumulated quickly, books especially if you like to hold them. I donate to our apartment library. You find stuff you want but forgot you had .
I am sooooo proud of you!! You’re definitely a motivation to us all.
Thank you so much!!
OMG! I knew you were awesome before this video but… 😧 WOW SIS! You are AWESOME’er!!! 😆 Such an inspirational Goddess! I’m both happy for and proud of you! I know you had a few struggling moments but… You merged forward with your plan, stuck to the rules and got the job done. Good bless you for all that you’ve donated. While watching h e donate pile accumulate, I kept thinking 💭 WOMEN’S SHELTER… I was thrilled to know you took that route. I pray that God continues to bless you and your life journey. I love you, admire you, respect you and appreciate you. ♥️💋
PS… I wouldn’t have minded if your videos are longer. I’m spoiled as hell so, Carry on with the content!! 🤍
I'm so proud of you!! I need to do this too! I'm planning to do this before moving so that I don't bring anything I don't need to my new space.
Idk how you went in Ikea and only bought hangers. I literally would have just grabbed something in passing that was cute 🤣
You really did an amazing job!
I have followed you since your Naca journey and your new home journey, you have come a long way, so proud of you.
I truly enjoyed this video. I will watch again tonight. I LOVE the inserts (photos)! Thanks for sharing a few glimpses of your life. I know you don’t need my “Amen” but you deserve it. I wish I was your friend for real. Love your energy. Enjoying the decluttering ride!
I'm so proud of you for being so strong and kept going. I know it can be hard but I want you to remember to give yourself grace.
Yasssss, Yasssss & Yesssss you did an absolute wonderful job!!! One thing, plzzzzzz don't throw away those books. Take them anywhere EXCEPT the garbage! Love your get it done attitude! Continue Blessings 😉
Consider looking for a Women’s shelter that accepts clothing. Definitely a win for you to release and definitely a win for those in need.
Great job 👏🏼
I'm home alone this weekend, my husband & son are visiting family..nows my time to shine!!! I'm bout to get rid of soooooo much stuff 🏃♀️🏋️♀️thank u for the content! Inspired & ready!
I hope you read this before you donate this onesie you’re holding that brings you so much obvious joy! I felt your every emotion as you explained the joy this onesie gives you! It’s okay to hold on to this one onesie and the memories and joy it brings you. Besides down the road if you decide to donate this onesie then that’s fine to. Either way you got this! Love your channel and your spirit!
Watching you cry over that onesie and wondering if you really considered that part of Konmari is blessing the things that have blessed you as you let them go. Thanking the piece for the memories it helped me make and knowing those memories are in my heart and carried with me helps when I let things go… but when I feel as strongly as you did about something I realize that it’s likely it sparks joy and I keep it! Good luck, and I am super proud of you!! I need to get my a$$ up and do the same!
Yesss I agree, but there where several things I felt that exact same way with... had to let go. Thank youuu🖤
Yes, I can relate! Thank you for sharing! I know it was a process, but it was well worth it. none of us are complaining about a long vlog.
Thank youuu🖤
I'm so impressed with not just the progress you made in decluttering, but also with your skill at reflection and your willingness to be vulnerable and share memories/things you cherish! Thank you for taking us along with you on this journey! Subscribed and excited to see where you go next...
Welcome hun and thank you so much for that.
I really enjoyed your decluttering video. I understand the letting go of stuff that holds many memories. You did an excellent job...I am on the journey of decluttering my stuff as well. So this video helps me know I am not alone. God bless you for sharing with us and encouraging us to just get it done. 😊 your master closet and other closet looks nice.
Thank you so much!
Great job! This has been the motivation that I've needed to declutter!
Proud of YOU! Love there is a window in your closet! 👏🏾👏🏾🥰🥰
I must say you put in the work girl. Doing anything at 1am deserve a👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽That feeling you get after you declutter is the best. You feel lighter, the house feels open and just clean.
I kept my yearbooks until 2016 when I lost them in a house fire and I wish I had them. You know, people die and it’s nice to have something of them if you knew them. Plus you can share it with your future hubby and kids (if you want them) lol
awww, sorry dear..thats definitely a different perspective...them kidsssss..... we gone let LIFE decide lol
I love the video it was very informational I've been in my house for 40 some years the first time I watch your video you were doing your backyard and from there the front yard I said this young woman is getting it in you don't mind getting your hands dirty you don't walk around trying to be pretty girl you doing it and I am so proud of you as a woman because that's how I do it you can't sit around waiting on on people to do stuff for us here's to you 👍👏
Girrrrrllllll!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾You just motivated me to let somethings go!I have 4 closets of clothes and shoes and you just made me realize it’s time to let it go. I have worked from home for the past 2 years and my position is permanently remote. I keep the same outfits in heavy rotation! I’m starting this tomorrow I’m sure my husband will thank you lol!! Great job!!!
Lol yayyyy glad to help 🖤
I'm so so proud of you. I know this was a MAJOR heavy task. You did such an amazing job. 👏🏽 you go girl! 🥰
Thank youuu🖤
You really did that. Glad you found a place to give the clothes to.
You almost had me crying giving away something you love so much. I thought if it brought joy & happy memories to keep it. But when my mom passed we have her clothes to a battered woman's shelter. See if you can find one of those.
I commented before I saw where you said where you was taking it. See great minds think alike.
You got this, Queen!! Just a little bit to go then a glass of wine
I am going through the same downsizing process. I did step 1 when I moved to a new city. Now, I am doing this seasonally. This process can be years to get to a place where you actually wear everything you own. Give yourself time and a break. You are doing great! A few tips I learned from others. Turn your hangers backwards. When you wear an item in a given season, turn it forward. You will see what was not worn. I add another step, forcing myself to wear the item, in season of course. I assess how I feel in it. Does it look good on me? Do I have multiple things to wear it with. Do I love other things more that I prefer. There is a reason you are not wearing something. Maybe it is no longer your style, even if it looks good on you. It should be easier to let it go. Good luck!
Wow Sis! You did the thing! I am so proud of you. You did a FANTASTIC job! There Is NOTHING more POWERFUL than a made-up mind! The struggle with clutter is real for me too, however after watching your video I am motivated to get it in too..lol Thank you for sharing!
I’m in the process of decluttering my home too. In Charlotte, NC we have an organization called Crisis Assistance Ministry. They provide various services free of charge so I like to donate to their free store. This allows families to shop clothes, household items and furniture free. You should be able to contact the department of social services in your area to advise on if they can refer you to a similar organization. Battered women shelter was an amazing choice! Homeless shelters are also a great choice especially for clothes needed for work environments.
You did a great job!!!Also, thanks for the suggestion for donating to a battered woman’s shelter because I always drop my stuff to good will.
You did an amazing job!!! Good for you. It was sweet to see u hug your items like you said goodbye.
I’m glad you gave to the battered women shelter. I was going to recommend this place in Atlanta- hope house for domestic violence.
This was a beautiful process and now you have some peace!❤️
Thank you luv, I appreciate it
Girl why was I crying w/ u...Im so proud of u...Ok back to the vid..I donate all the time to Salvation Army or Women's Shelter.
1. You were glowing in the beginning of this video!!! #BLACKGIRLMAGIC
2. Thanks for sharing such a vulnerable moment with us! I totally understand how you were feeling.
3. I hope this is as therapeutic for you as it was for me!
4. I totally wish I could go through your donate bags 🤣.
5. Love the tutu!!!
6. You are doing great tackling that beast!!!
Thank youuu🖤
You did an amazing job! That was definitely motivating! I have been decluttering my home since about December a little bit at a time and it feels so good! I enjoyed the length of the video as well. Keep pushing through, you got this!
Great Job! I’m glad you were able to donate to a shelter. So proud of you! ✌🏾❤️🌞
When you donate you are not giving away your memory you are giving to someone else who Doesn’t HAVE. Your memories are in your HEARTS AND MIND they will always be with YOU. Great JOB. Donate to a Shelter, orphanage or church.
Girl you did your thing, I totally understand, I'm on the same journey. Purging is necessary, you did awesome.
I'm proud of you. I call it material memories. I love decluttering. I love the feeling of releasing. It not hard for me to get rid of things. I remind myself to keep some of my material memories.
I know it was a job, but you did it! I think I would have had to call all 3 of my sisters over to help me or I wouldn’t have finished.🙂 Happy for you. Enjoy your refreshed space!
Oh Sweetheart. Keep what makes you happy. I know that memories are in your heart and mind but after losing my Son over two years ago when he was only 22, I wish I'd saved more. You are awesome and you can do whatever you want to do. Stay Beautiful
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Wow! I’m crying already and the video just started ~ I’m a super sensitive girl ~ watching you hold and embrace those items you needed to let go of really had me in my feelings ~ I am extremely proud of you for taking those difficult steps to de clutter ~ I too need to part ways with the things that no longer serve me and it will be a big part of my healing journey as well ~ I’m ready to focus on self love these days ~ Peace and Blessings ~ Love and Light 🦋 PS it is hard to let go of sentimental things ~ trust I know ~ just remember you’re not getting rid of your memories and or your family and friends ~ just the stuff ~ guess I better pick up some trash bags from the store to begin my purge of things 😉
I definitely cried with you over that Christmas onesie 😫❤️
I was actually going to suggest a battered women's shelter. I purge every 4 to 6 months or so. I actually just did a huge purge because l'm selling my home, (actually under contract) downsizing and moving across country. Awesome job Shanda!
YASSS moving acrossss country, do yo thang gurl! Thank youuu🖤
Toss the yearbooks! I let mine go about 2 years ago and I wish I had done it sooner. I graduated in ‘04 and those books made many moves and a cross country journey and I never looked at them!
Memories are for ever You’ll always have them. It’ll be ok 💙🙏🏿💙
You are extremely brave , a task like this can really take a toll on you. Great work.
Thanks
You did amazing my love! That was a chore. Maybe look into the Elfa System from The Container Store.
Girl it's been a while for me, I'm trying to catch up. Finally bought my house through NACA in December!!! But I'm a legging hoarder myself trying to patch them up until I cannot anymore, but they cannot come with me to the new house. My renovations are snail slow and I'm praying for a finish that makes it all worth it. Thank you for being such an inspiration because I now believe in myself to do some DIY projects, being grateful for you and all you share❤🦋
Congratsssss darlinggggggg.....!
Soooooooooooo proud of YOU!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you stuck with it during the highs & lows for a beautiful end result. That sun shining in the end was all for you! 💛
Thank you so much!!
😮💨you got this girl !
Bay BAY!!!! I thought it was just me! It’s not enough that I dominate all closets, but my master looks like yours and my guest bed looks similar to your laundry room. Clean & dried clothes piled high on the bed
I think it’s a living single syndrome, BUT…
YOU GOT THIS & Thanks for the motivation ❤️
I use the Elfa system from the container store. They are modular and come in different finishes, and budget friendly. You can add as you go which is what I love about them.
Thanks hun 🖤
Happy Sunday! I always suggest donating to women’s shelters or girls teen shelters…. Women’s centers for pregnant mothers always can use donations as well…
So proud of you, this is something that I need to do badly... I'm struggling with letting go of a lot and really don't understand why myself. 😔thanks for sharing...
Your bed in this video looks like my whole living and dining rooms combined 😊. At least you’re starting to get it done.
So proud of u sis good job PB👍🏾👍🏾❤❤