Why You SHOULD Be Selfish - Exclusive Interview With Dan Peña, The $50 Billion Dollar Man
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In this exclusive interview with Dan Pena, the $50 billion dollar man, him and Dan Lok discuss why you should be selfish starting from today. It might contradict your existing beliefs, but if you want to give back to others and become very successful and wealthy, watch this video now to discover why you should be selfish first.
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This is the calmest I have seen Dan Pena.
Good advice
i ws thinking the same thing.
no, really he's less in a hurry in this video. i swear every interview of him he sounds like he's hurriedly chasing after something lol
I've noticed whenever he is with Dan Lok he usually is calm and with his star pupils interviewing he brings it down a few notches
It's because he's not standing in front of a crowd giving a motivational speech. He's just chilling out by a fireplace with a fellow thinker and they are just discussing things. I would imagine when the cameras aren't on him he's like this all the time unless he's trying to light a fire under a group of people's asses and get them motivated.
Darren spot on! 👏🏻
the definition of introvert is not "pleaser"...it is someone who values their inner life more than external stimulus
@@Gsogreat EAD Gary...
100 % agree. When I first made 10,000$ everyone wanted a piece and called me cheap for not wanting to pay for lifestyle choices of others. Now I live the lifestyle and have the money to sustain it along with my businesses 💵💵💵🔥
What does it take to get there?
Benedict...itll cost u lol
how did you start and how much you were have in the beginning ؟
Brain amd sacrifice
Facts
I know this is about being selfish, but what stood out to me was that in the beginning Dan Peña talked about compensating someone when they are really good and letting them know they are good. Then the video ended with Dan Peña talking about compensating someone who made him a million. Be selfish but also be fair to those that give to you.
The problem is with the emotional connections to the various words, I think. We use selfish and greedy to mean exactly the same thing. I consider the idea of doing what is necessary to survive and thrive as "self-interest." When you are willing to use dishonest means to attain your self-interest, that is when greed occurs.
So, the reality is, if we use selfish to simplify self-interest, and use greed as greed, it makes perfect sense. Poor people don't help anyone. So, if you are being "selfish" for the purpose of meeting your own needs and desires, and to have more to give to others, that is not greed.
I've read some of your comments on Dan's videos, and thought you might find this thought interesting.
Yardmaster's Wealth Education Center "poor people dont help anyone".....this is gonna stay with me forever❤
@@deezeewan2881 It sure did stay with me. Now, let me add a thought...
"Poor" people never help anyone, but there are "rich" people "without money" who do help other people a lot. Your life is your time and energy. When you use your time and energy to provide something of value, and trade that for money, you have basically converted some of your "life" into the money. This is why I call money congealed life.
Also, I see rich and poor as mindsets. A truly rich person can go very broke, but will have money again, because the rich mindset leads to actions well calculated to direct money toward you. A poor mindset leads to million dollar lottery winners into bankruptcy in less than one year.
So, a "broke" rich person can "give" valuable "time and energy" that benefits others, but, if you were to ask them, they would tell you they wished they could help more people. That is where the idea that building wealth is not only "not wrong," but, for me, it is proactively an act of Christian Worship of Jesus Christ.
I am commanded to labor with my hands that which is good so that I might have something to give to those in need. We are literally commanded to work in such a way as to more than meet our own needs.
Ok, if I don't stop typing now, this will become a book. LOL
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I totally agree with what you said and really appreciate it.👍
@@f.ferguson6361 Thank you! I look forward to hearing your comments on my videos!
Yep, make sure you take care of yourself first and get yours!
I agree with being selfish, as long as you don't hurt or use people. You need to be full first before helping others etc.
Sxlty karma will come around.
"😤Hurt Or Use, People THAT PART -- is where most miss the mark". 💯
Luckmini Piyatilake You got it my friend you got it say do what you like our friend Karma will always show it's face
Why to hurt them, just use them.
Using people is a good thing if you wanna become rich
*I've always found that by looking at my own self interest I've be able to help others more, and consistently.. Great video* 💪
@Black Vito - Moneyology & Philosophy What’s the difference?
@@godofthisshit I'd have to ask you to elaborate on your inquiry.
@Black Vito - Moneyology & Philosophy What did being selfish allow you to do that you couldn’t do being unselfish?
@@godofthisshit that's my point essentially... Doing things that are for one's own self interest is often no different than behaving in an unselfish manner.
You're a fucking brother. Kick ass
He’s so ruthless. And, I love it. Honest to a fault. That’s why this man is who he is. Gosh if only I can tap into an inch of this. There would be stopping me
They are conmen...🤦🏻♂️😅
The irony 😄
I feel you
When you are in command, command !
The worst toxic people to keep you down are all within a hands reach of you, if you cant control them, then you must cut them off...... Two things: to save your soul and to make it financially first you must act for yourself. when you can do this- then there is no cost to help others.
Introverts aren't pleasers, they just like losing themselves in more technical things like electronics, software, guitars and philosophy. They feel less compulsion to be a great speaker or influencer
TheConversation one of the greatest speakers/leaders ever where introverts...
In addition to online trading. Basically losing onself in anything that requires the least human interaction as possible. That doesnt mean we run away from people, its just that we function best alone. Simple.
I am an introvert. I didn't know i have an ability to talk and motivate until the day i spoke to a successful entrepreneur who was going through rough time in his life. I told him in the beginning of our meeting that if by the end of our conversation he would still be liking me then he should know i did something wrong. I was going through more pain than him so everything i was saying was out of tough love... 3 days later i got a call from him thanking me and in return he invited me to the Toastmasters as he was making his speech there, the speech was about me, he told the story of my life and it brought me into tears.
Pena definitely has an oil painting of himself in his mansion.
Ace Boogie yep
Shieeet I would too if I were him
He has painting of adoph Hitler in his bedroom😂
@@shinchannohara2924 among others , in the hall*
@@davidsalinas9 I'm not him but sure I have my own painting.
I'm not cocky I'm confident and I love God or creator however you want to call it and then I love myself, my kids and my mother.
I don't hate or wish bad for anyone but everyone has the same opportunities .
Dan, you really change my live.
I hope I’ll get a chance to say thank you face to face.
Leo from Brazil
l am from portugal i want to bussiness in Brazil.
I prefer more to call it "enlightened self-love". One of the best mindset from Dan Peña which has convinced me most because I find it more helpful. Its taking responsibility of your own self-worth in an enlightened and tough manner. Though tough for me doesn't have to be violent. "Its being firm but fair and taking Action! Action! Action!"
You can never underestimate how wrong you can be. That's fire 🔥 🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Right now am on my mid way of reading your book FU Money. Thank you Sifu Dan for changing my life. Love from India 🇮🇳
Great advice to extract the people from your life that don't want you to achieve your goals and dreams. That deadwood and negativity never helps anyone. Dan Peña is right on the money
Erik Kislik What if that person is your mother?
@@Adam-bq2vw Cut 'em out.
@@Adam-bq2vw Good question. In very, very rare exceptions I would avoid controversy with them, not have them on social media, but try to interact with them as best you can. This should not be more than 2 or 3 people in your entire life. With those people, I think you should agree to respect each other and try to make each other's lives better
YES Dan and Dan!!
My notes:
- When you find somebody that's really good, make sure they know it and you compensate them (People can still dissappoint).
- Be an Oak Tree (the straightest thing in the World)!
- Love yourself first!
- In your company, compensate quartely! He even used to pay his sellers daily.
@Dan Lok why you are not even putting a like on one of our comments to your videos?
I am inspired on your Videos...
The "selfish-ness" mentioned here isn't exactly crude, but strategic.
It's not easy even though straightforward but it is done on a daily basis.
*How do you expect yourself to help others if you can’t even help yourself first. I actually wrote a long article concerning this yesterday on reddit. Someone asked himself whether he deserved to have it or not and I answered that if an opportunity comes, you have the choice either to grasp or not. It’s up to you, but remember that there’s no selfless deed that isn’t selfish. It’s the same with on the airplane. You have to put the mask on yourself FIRST before helping others*
Thank you Dan! You are the best! 🙏
It’s been incredible to see this channel grow so fast. Subbed at 100k subs and now almost 2 million. Clearly providing value. Amazing.
Sifu has the best plans 👍
ok what your progress
Exactly the thing I should've learned many years ago.
It's clear now why I have to be selfish at some points.
When you find somebody, who is really…really good, you make sure, they know they are really…really good and you compensate them like they are really…really good. Be firm but fair.
My 2 biggest inspirators. My RUclips recommended videos are 80% of contents from these 2 supremely successful gentleman.
I just can't get enough of their teachings, advices and guidance.
"Show me your friends and I'll show you your future." I have no friends except for these two online imaginary friends and mentors!
It's true you become an average of the people you spent your most time with, following, listening too and imitating.
Everyday I feel growth, from my perspective to my actions.
I appreciate everything effort taken by them to share unconventional wisdom with us to groom and shape us as some of us have the undieing passion for entrepreneurial success but lacking in mentorship.
I also appreciate this channel for constant uploading of such contents. 💯🤝🏾💚✔📊
I should be selfish before to become generous
You got this champ!
Very pleasant atmosphere and background music to this video
Be selfish while gaining knowledge.
Here the point is, "you can't love if you don't love yourself. That is, there is no way you can love yourself minus enriching yourself firstwith the finest ideas that make up a complete life". Without a thing one can't share something, and that where the idea of being selfish to love gets to be proven very crucial......Dan and thanks for awakening my way of doing things
GREAT video!! Being selfish can be tough, but you have to worry about YOU! Wonderful advice, Dan!
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But it's not very Christian like. To be selfish I mean. And everyone knows Christianity is the only true religion, and Jesus was teaching not to gather material things, but give everything to poor and follow him. And everyone knows Jesus was real and everything he said was truth.
"when you find someone really really good, let them know there really good and compensate them like there really good" someone needs to tell my old boss this. the turn around rate he deals with, his motto is dont tell anyone there good because then they just get lazy.
Lol! Someone tell this to my current boss..
To be honest you can do what you want Follow your feelings and remember we are all equal.
Wtf is this, Dan Peña definitely don't think that people are equal
I showed tough love to my daughter growing up. She was never allowed to just keep all the money she earned, or sit around my house and not do anything, nor skip school. People thought I was tough on her. I didn't buy her anything she didn't earn with keeping up with grades ...etc. she learned young take care of herself, and have been a great cook since 11 years old Now she is a 18 years old, a recipient of a $60,000 scholarship and in college, and even already has started her own business. She keeps a part time job to fund her business.
I am thinking about how I help people when they was in their time of need, and when I needed them, they took off! This video came at the right time. Now, I am going to be the most selfish SOB that I can be for myself!
I feel you on that. Go for it!
Dan is the man. Both Dans the amount of gems dropped 👌🏿...and I will definitely be investing in those books.
Meditation is great
Love of humanity is great..
pressure is great ...
But taking action, action, action is the best...
I love that
I saw pena live today. Great Speech. Some People laughed at his jokes here and there but this is no jokes. It's the hard truth and this guy is the last living superhero.
I am selfish of my time, my life
The end.
I started to practice being selfish with my time my life just changed for the better in everyway
One way I personally struggle with is the relationship/career balance. The moment I was done with my ex, my life transformed in a matter of months because I had so much more drive and (mental) energy to focus on my own shit. Now that I’m with my new gf, I feel like I’m going down that same road again... sacrifising time I would otherwise spend on personal development and business, I spend with her watching a movie or whatever. Inside I have this feeling if I move on and focus on me, I have great things coming. It’s hard when you love some one.
I respect these 2 guys in video, they worked hard and smart to achieve success. Schools and Universities should have courses on this.
YES absolutely true .. we must take car of ourselves first ... even in the plane ....
So true, I would try to help everybody stretching my self thin and couldn't help the right way. Great advice
DAN PENA + DAN LOK = DAN FKCING AWESOME!
I absolutely love the teachings you guys give, both Dans are absolute idols in my eyes, I’ve already opened a business and I’m very proud!
Self love and care is of the HIGHEST importance‼️❤️❤️❤️
I need learn to be selfish, because I always put others first.
Successful ppl say that you must be selfish now so you can be generous later. I guess they're right because you will probably have nothing to start with and later when you make it, you can give all you want!
Dan I hope you live forever , your one real person
Sifu this period of time a lot of unpredictable things happen to my life that took my attention from my DOD course, your videos, my notes etc But I’ll put all that in a row and I’ll be back. That feeling, that desire of getting close to you, close to what you teach, close to HTC family goes so strong when I watch a video of you and Dan Pena. I don’t know why but I love those videos of you and Mr. Pena I really love them.
so much honored and lucky to watch some exclusive and free content knowledge about two of you so much thank you 💗💗
People underestimate how wrong they are but overestimate how right or cool they are.
Dan Lok is the man!! I'm gonna be your copy cat bro.That's all there is to it !!!
Respect for those people.
Taking action is the best of all 🤸🤸
Terrorists 'take action' too, my friend.
So do stupid people. 🙄
Action is the real measure of intelligence. If it's in your mind it should come out of your mouth and then you act on it.. Anything measured can be accomplished.
OMG!! Every time I listen to the 2 Dan there’s a Fu$kin Hunger for more.... you guys are amazing. Love your work!
Be selfish. It is good for you. Not just financially. Time... time is valuable and someone wants you to do something and you busy, most stop what they doing to help someone and it is fine to say no. Let someone wait for your time. You resting and someone takes that rest away you can choose to say no. By putting yourself first means you have respect for yourself and you look after yourself better.
Mr dan pena, the man who swallowed the only 8 cents he had, and shit it out 50 billion$. He truly is a wonder.
Far now go fetch
I'm heading to the top too....
These two giants together is legendary Thanks 🙏 to both of you
I gave away so much money. That I almost went broke lucky a lady name Amy came into my life and now I can at least paid my bill s
Tito Garcia You got this my friend 💪 and high five to Amy
Save yourself first, so you can save others. It's biblical Matthew 7:5
Ma'at Laws.
This been done before the bible.
Amen
I really appreciate the relationship between both of them. To me there is nothing like a well directed tuff love on purpose (not fucking bullying for the sake of it, from dumb parent or whatever people)
I agree
Charity begins at home-You 😎💵
LOL look how Dan starts to imitate his gestures at 2:15 Great Salesmen buddy
Yes, You're right what you've said. AGREED!..
Thank you I been taking this step so true.
We were raised to please others but not ourselves.
This is Gold! Action!!.
Watching from Nigeria.
Thank You what a GREAT team💫🎯🥇✌️❤️
Love your video on sales, it would be cool if you could make a video on how to adapt to sales of international clients from different customs. Things to remember :):) Thanks so much for your videos
Thank you for bringing Peña on!
Always do your due diligence with many of the numbers Mr. Peña's says. 1) extrovert-ism is more common in the human population; introverts comprise AT MOST up to 50% (it's more like 30-40%); and 2) being an introvert =/= "people pleaser". It is the EXTROVERTS who seek to please people bc human interaction is the most important to them and extroverts derive energy from positive and constant social interactions.
Note: Isaac Newton, Albert Einstein, Augustus Caesar and others who've made the greatest contributions, discoveries, & inventions are/were introverts who didn't give a sh*t about pleasing people around them.
Facts. ^^
Liked within a second because its good anyway
Watching these two guys from Kyrgyzstan, nice
you from china
@@mdrajonahmed3242 not from china, near
Another great video Dan!
I never imagined that you would be in a conversation with Dan Pena. it was great.
DAN YOUR HOUSE IS ON FIRE!
Take care yourself first
Give a Man a fish he eats for a day. Teach a man to fish he eats for a Lifetime. Sell a Man a Fish you make money. Sell Fish. Be Sell Fish.
I will never stop watching your videos not until I become Rich
Dan penã is my biggest inspiration!
kindness is weakness
i like how honost this man is i would have been the same if i was ritch and here i am -1500 bills to pay and dont know how to generate anything just came back home from a security crap appointment they told me they had better motivational people one day i hope i dont need them anymore at some point in my life
I'll tell you what, just hoping likely won't produce a change in your life. It takes a burning desire and then taking the right actions. These are lessons I've learned from Dan Lok after joining his mentorship. What's stopping you from learning how to generate more income?
My idol Dan Pena
I loved this...
I will be like you guys very soon...
Mark my name (FREEDOM)
Great Video! Yes we should look after ourselves first. How can you love other people if you don't love yourself.
I saw few youtube videos with Dan Peña. He is a really tough guy. I wish to be my mentor too. Nowadays is very difficult to invest or to do business . Now one wants to work and everyone is looking for easy money. It is normal to get selfish and introvert. My issue is how to invest the money nowadays and what is the best way to do it. Scams and conman are everywhere. Lucky you to have Dan Peña near you. Good luck with your videos motivates me a lot👍.
I’m a little surprised Dan is doing a video with Dan L. Dan L to my knowledge doesn’t have any business besides this motivation/business talk/leadership platform. Am I mistaken?
This video has answered so many questions I had but has always thought. What it has taught me is everyone isn't supposed to go where you're going. I can't take care of and please everyone
fuckem !
ive seen this guy before dan pena. in other interviews just looking normal. but him sitting beside dan lok.. he looks intimidating and dan look is like a teenager
This is really good.
Love others as you do yourself. How can you love people if you don't love yourself first?
The Quality of that love is important.
There is a WIDE spectrum of SICK love.
Ms. Thelma is awesome!! Great VIDEO!
There is the love of the self and the love of others. You can be selfish without the ego getting so much into there. 2 very different aspects of self love, one is a way to be egotistic and the other is more o self pride. Many Americans do not know the difference.
Hell yeah, I'm gonna start being selfish so I can die in a big Castle all alone, just like Dan.
Mr.Pena I'm probably after your family and kids that you helped over the years your biggest fan on this planet 😁 but it's not only about fear and I hope we will chat whenever you want 😉 have a great weekend ☝🏿🌈❤️
These Dan's don't need to wear their black belts!! GREAT video!! Thanks for sharing!
Thank you
I like the way u teach its loud and clear
Hi Dan
man how can someone protect his service he improve and work ...from people from other city to do the same service and the same idea?
Tough-minded Leadership, Tough-minded management(only two books needed for leadership and management)
Amazing
Thank you both. Wow. Just wow.