My ex cheated on me multiple times and his best friend was there for me through that time . We started venting to each other , and later grew feelings . Been in a stable relationship and know engaged for a year.
@@daysseerca2021 y’all please help me. My story is the same. My ex cheated multiple times and had a baby with another woman and I had no idea. I’m dating his best friend and it’s amazing but I hate my ex (he refuses to apologize or even acknowledge his wrongs). How did y’all navigate the intersection of those two relationships ?
My bestfriend dated my ex right after we were done and I found out 6 months later. After I found out he broke up with me because of her and at some point he was with me and her at the same time! What hurt me the most is that she knew!!! Let me tell you, IT HURT!!!
It hurts the most when you lost both world's at the same freaking time your best friend and your Gf/Ex you have no one by your side at all and it hurt the most when you still in love with her and your guy bezt friend is dating her Right in frontal of you :'( i just feeling like dying and killing myself right now by taking my life, coz 6h orus ago i found out this 😭 and when your best Friend (childhood friend) tells you in your face that he won't give up on her so that She'll come back to me.
I'm dating my ex's friend (they aren't friends anymore and were never that close), when you date someone you start travelling in their circles - you meet people through them and may end up together. Also agree with Loni, if we're over you have no control over who I date or no right to have an opinion on who I'm dating. We don't need your permission.
I started to date a friend who turned out to be a lying jerk. His best friend continued to be my friend, even when the other guy tried to ruin my reputation out of jealousy and insecurity. Months later I started dating the best friend. We're going strong. I don't care who hates us for being together. They don't know our story and we are happy as can be.
When you are done, you are done. Let people go, you don’t own anyone. If it is soon after a breakup then something fishy is going on and you shouldn’t trust the ex nor the friend. If time has passed, then let it be. Don’t stand in the way of someone’s happiness.
F that my happiness is more important than my friends like she’s from Kansas and the min she met my ex fiancé she became hooked probably cuz the last guy she loved he blocked her on social media
I was talking to a guy and he failed to let me know that him and my close friend had a relationship. I failed to text him back since then and we have not talked. I do not play that.
Exactly!! & people are trying to justify it..but at the end of the day what does that say about you as a person??? Where are your morals, values, & principles?? Those are what gives you substance as a person, which explains why the world seems so vapid & shallow as it is 😔🙄
Hum Adrienne you sure ? I remember on previous episodes you said that you didn't care if one of your friend was dating your ex and you even had an argument with Tamar on the subject and on another one you said you didn't care when Rita Ora was dating Rob.
Arbn BEST friend. that makes a big difference. i dont think she contradicted herself. she and rita seem like celebrity friends, but they aint kicking it like that. that said, we all contradict ourselves, so not sure what the big deal is. most ppl's decision would probably be shaped by the length of time since the relationship ended, how the relationship ended and the nature/level of the friendship.
I think it depends on the ex. Some exes care and some just don’t. I had a best friend at the time who seemed interested in my ex. My ex never really showed interest in her though. I wouldn’t have cared if they dated each other or if he was interested in her. Because I was beyond done with him. She knew how horrible he was to me and if she wanted to date him after that, that’s her business. Now, if she wanted to date the guy that I really loved? Absofreakinglutely not!
So I'm watching this and well thats' kind of how my story played out. I met these two friends on the same night.Felt attracted to one of them. We hooked up for about a year.. got pregnant and he dropped me. While all this was going on I actually became really good friends with the other guy. We stayed in touched and he was an amazing friend through out my pregnancy. Fast forward a year later we started dating. And this year, 2018 we are getting married. What I am trying to say is the friend/best friend might just be your soul mate. Who knows..
I'm dating my ex's good friend right now, have been for almost a year, couldn't have been happier 😘 It's your life, don't dwell in what you had with your ex.
My current partner dated my former best friend for 6 months before we got together, we had known each other for two years when they split and have now been dating for 18 months. At first she acted happy for us but when she split up with the guy she left him for she suddenly wanted him back and caused trouble, drama will always happen. But you gotta do what makes you happy
Timothy McKain i am doing it, because i had never met someone i felt so compatible with. He might be the one, it certainly feels like he is! Why should I wasted this opportunity for the sake of my ex? And we asked for his approval before we ever went out in the first place
I just feel like as humans alot of the things we think about are irrelevant. Hypothetically, its my ex. Not my sister or best friend. What if thats somebody I really connect with? Why should I deny myself that? Besides, depending on where you live, alot of ppl end up dating ex's friends, you just msy not know.
You're only messing up your own reputation doing that. The friend isn't going to take you seriously. After him, don't be surprised when someone else in that friend group tries to get at you.
I don't see anything wrong with it, ESPECIALLY if y'all broke up on good terms. Like if y'all was done with each other and there's for sure no more feelings involved than go ahead and go out with whoever u want to. Its your life and its called MOVING ON ppl. Yes, such a thing exists. Not everyone stays bitter and petty forever cause if that was the case than i think we'd all still have feelings for our exes. 😒🙊
It's against the guy or girl code to date your ex's best friend or your best friend date your ex... if you play with fire or you're gonna get burned... don't be dating in circles ! It don't matter who breaks up with who... don't do it
But you cant control who you like and if its mutual then it should be fine. No one owns anyone and if you break up with each other you should be able to date whoever you want.
Just be respectful towards eachother. If the man and woman are still friends, maybe have a conversation about it...if they aren't friends anymore then she doesn't owe anyone anything. Then it's completly on the guy to tell his friends about his feelings. But if you don't have any feelings and it's just a one night stand, then who cares you are both single and adults. The Ex have nothing to do with it.
I can relate to this one because me and my ex's best friend started talking right after I dumped my ex I messaged his best friend just to ask questions regarding the breakup but it ended up turning into a full blownout friendship where we fell in love with each other and still talk to each other after 2 years but me and my ex only lasted a few months
It speaks more about the friend than the actual ex. If that’s your true friend, ride or die, day 1, etc, you should be able to resist them. Simple as that
Well I can't lie...years ago in 2010 I had a "hoe-ment" with my ex's best friend/roommate. We ended up dating, getting engaged and now we've been married 5.5 years and are about to have our second baby. So if that made me a hoe...I'll be that 😂
For me, even if I like the ex boyfriend of my best friend, I will never pursue him. It's like you don't respect your best friend and I can't even imagine what will my family and friends react if they will see me with my best friend’s ex boyfriend. I really can't stand it.
But why do y’all care who somebody else’s date. Y’all are over for a reason. That’s narcissistic. Very controlling. Nobody owes you anything so if they want to date so be it. Move on with your life and stay out of other peoples
I think it depends on the scenerio. I dated my Ex boyfriend's frat brother, that was his mentor and friend, because he cheated on me twice, I was done. He was having drinks with the frat brother trying to get advice on how to get me back, the frat brother then came to me and told me I deserve better and we dated for a while. My ex was mad about it.
This happened to my son, his best friend asked my son if it would be ok to date my sons ex( he said no) and today they are happily married with 3 kids!
I have two friends who dated 2 of my ex’s I had no problem with that because I knew what they were going to go through the first one they didn’t even last a month the second they ain’t lasted either 😂
I just don't want my ex to be in a relationship with one of my friends. Why? Because I don't want to see his face or vice versa. Like he needs to stay out of my friends zone and date someone else out of my friends zone...
Things happen, and you can't tell grown single ppl what to do...but real talk, this is where double standards come into play...because if a WOMAN'S ex dated her best friend then all hell would break loose.lol (not in all cases, but most)😂
Torn on this one. I’m currently talking to my ex’s best friend. I didn’t meet him when my ex and I were together. I found out they were friends after I first started talking to his best friend. I’m sure my ex has said something though. But, I have no loyalty to my ex, he cheated with his female best friend and my (NOW) best friend (we hated each other when he was cheating and became friends like 2 years later.) Anyway he got her pregnant while we were together then told me he was in love with his female best friend so I broke up with him, now they have 2 children together. He has a total of 3 children with the women he cheated on me with. His best friend treats me way better than he ever did. I had my reservations about the situation at first, but now I don’t care.
I love this side of Tamera. We didn't need to know the Yooo how do you keep her happy part and the she wasn't cool Shade. Petty Tam we hear you. You are the best for Adam ☻☻☻
I think it depends on how long the relationship was and how it ended. Example if it was a real serious relationship and they were married, engaged or just together for yrs then I think it be really shady if your best friend dated your ex that you have a lot of history with. But if it wasn’t serious then I guess it’s okay
I talk to my ex bestfriend .. we are legit friends he call and check up on me all the time and ask me advice about his relationship with his girlfriend
I don’t care in the slightest. I was obsessed with a guy at my church who was 7 years older than me when I was 11 all the way to 15. He paid me no mind cause I was a child but when I was in my 20’s we started talking. I had no feelings for him anymore but realized he would be perfect for my best friend who I had met 2 years earlier. Got them together and they are the cutest couple! I’m so happy for them! And why could I do that? Cause I was ACTUALLY over that man. Ain’t nothing wrong with a friend dating your ex or ex crush if you are truly over that person and nothing crazy happened between you guys. I’ve tried to set up another friend with a guy I dated for 2 1/2 years too. I really don’t care.
I get where she's coming from. We busy. There hardly is time to meet someone new. So since you probably hung out as a group. You know this best friend really well.
I could careless if my ex dates someone I know he's my ex so he is my past. Life goes on....besides someone I consider a best friend wouldn't cross that line.
I feel like you shouldn't date your friend's EX. If it's truly that serious I think you should ask them how they feel about it. Because if you're not doing anything wrong why do you have to sneak and hide it. But me personally I'm not even going to put myself in the situation to fall for you or get you to fall for me. like that only happens because you put yourself in the situation why would you put yourself in the situation.
Lol “accidentally slept together” how does that happen?😹😹😹 you must accidentally become a couple... if that happened I’ll let them be because love is love and people don’t choose who they fall for (if they ain’t doing that for revenge)
Sorry but that’s a trashy move however you choose to look at it. Why get involved with someone who’s that close to someone you used to love? You’re setting yourself up to be hurt if you ask me, sounds like a rebound move that’ll backfire later. Morally, this ain’t it.
I think it's courtesy to ask your bf first , but if they remain friends she obviously doesn't mind him being in her life still so I think it's kind off hypocritical if she wouldn't be cool with it.
The only issue I see with this. Is that the friend and the boy could be setting you up. Or they could be talking about you. I agree with Adrienne though if the guy broke up with it’s not you obligation to make sure you don’t hurt his feelings. It’s his friends🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I'm not gonna lie, when I was dating a guy, I thought his best friend was WAY cuter than the guy I was seeing. Of course, I never approached them after the breakup, I thought that would be disrespectful!
I think in general it is wrong for someone to sleep/date/etc their ex's friends BUT it depends on the circumstances (who broke up with whom under what circumstances, did anyone cheat, etc). In the end of the day, love doesn't ask and not everyone gets the chance to fall in love, so if you find that special one, you should keep them but you and the friend should definitely speak with the ex. The ex shouldn't understand about the relationship from a third party.
This happened to me!!! I broke up with my ex but me and his best friend stayed friends and we made out one day but he told me after 8years that he can never cross that line with me cause they are friends
i had a friend start dating the other roommate after briefly dating the first roommate (the men were roommates not the girl) i thought that was a little too close for comfort
"SHE HAD A HOEMENT"-Jeannie 2018.. Lawd I cant
I'm gonna start using that now. Lmao. Iconic.
i died
Me too...hahaha
I fell on my “lower behind” laughing.
😅😂🤣😅😂🤣
Accidentally slip and fall on the..😂😂😂
Lol
Hoe-ment OMFG im weakk😂 0:33
Tamera’s bun is sllliiickkkkkk
Class ×100
I’m with Loni. The relationship is over, date who you want to.
StingingwithqueenC exactlyyyy
I think it depends on how the relationship ended. At least he asked Adam which is respectable and mature.
Naaa. Would you like it if your ex got with your friend. I would hate that.
shelly red
Thank you👏👏👏
Yarkkkk
My ex cheated on me multiple times and his best friend was there for me through that time . We started venting to each other , and later grew feelings . Been in a stable relationship and know engaged for a year.
are they still best friends ??
Ohkay sis💯💯💯💯
That’s my story too, not engaged but together for 6 years now
@@daysseerca2021 y’all please help me. My story is the same. My ex cheated multiple times and had a baby with another woman and I had no idea. I’m dating his best friend and it’s amazing but I hate my ex (he refuses to apologize or even acknowledge his wrongs). How did y’all navigate the intersection of those two relationships ?
My bestfriend dated my ex right after we were done and I found out 6 months later. After I found out he broke up with me because of her and at some point he was with me and her at the same time! What hurt me the most is that she knew!!! Let me tell you, IT HURT!!!
thats so shady of them
Wow!!!! They were wrong!! You'll find better best friend and better man
It hurts the most when you lost both world's at the same freaking time your best friend and your Gf/Ex you have no one by your side at all and it hurt the most when you still in love with her and your guy bezt friend is dating her Right in frontal of you :'( i just feeling like dying and killing myself right now by taking my life, coz 6h orus ago i found out this 😭 and when your best Friend (childhood friend) tells you in your face that he won't give up on her so that She'll come back to me.
She was not a real friend sis
Girl give us an update. I hope they’re miserable now.
Love Loni's "free and clear" mentality. She knows how things work.
I wanna see Tony
Literally just thought this and my eyes dropped on this comment😭😂💀
me tooooo !
Girls I thinks his Instagram handle is @realtonycervone and he is a bold middle aged Italian hunk 😎
There is also a chance of him being Tony P (insta) cuz that dude better looking but he got a girl so idk 🤷♀️
Damn it Adam how many Tonies do you know? Tony Garcia seems to be the hottest thus far but his profile locked 🤣
That cocktail looks delicious. I got distracted by the beverage.
I'm dating my ex's friend (they aren't friends anymore and were never that close), when you date someone you start travelling in their circles - you meet people through them and may end up together.
Also agree with Loni, if we're over you have no control over who I date or no right to have an opinion on who I'm dating.
We don't need your permission.
Loni seems tipsy lol.
yayadrew I thought the same about Tamera. Maybe they got some alcohol in those cocktails?
Paul-Elie duh, it’s alcohol in the drinks
yayadrew and adrianne
yayadrew lmao she’s not tipsy she’s drunk 😂😂😂
They all look a bit tipsy don’t they?
Shout out to the person slaying the Tamera’s hair! That baby hair is giving me life ✨✨✨✨
I started to date a friend who turned out to be a lying jerk. His best friend continued to be my friend, even when the other guy tried to ruin my reputation out of jealousy and insecurity. Months later I started dating the best friend. We're going strong. I don't care who hates us for being together. They don't know our story and we are happy as can be.
When you are done, you are done. Let people go, you don’t own anyone. If it is soon after a breakup then something fishy is going on and you shouldn’t trust the ex nor the friend. If time has passed, then let it be. Don’t stand in the way of someone’s happiness.
F that my happiness is more important than my friends like she’s from Kansas and the min she met my ex fiancé she became hooked probably cuz the last guy she loved he blocked her on social media
You sound Guilty AF
You tried It idgaf
I was talking to a guy and he failed to let me know that him and my close friend had a relationship. I failed to text him back since then and we have not talked. I do not play that.
👏👏👏👏
Book Bag 🙌👌
Exactly!! & people are trying to justify it..but at the end of the day what does that say about you as a person??? Where are your morals, values, & principles?? Those are what gives you substance as a person, which explains why the world seems so vapid & shallow as it is 😔🙄
Hum Adrienne you sure ? I remember on previous episodes you said that you didn't care if one of your friend was dating your ex and you even had an argument with Tamar on the subject and on another one you said you didn't care when Rita Ora was dating Rob.
Arbn yep! Definitely said that! But Adrienne does contradict herself a lot! Lol! Heck, Jeannie just told her that on yesterday’s clips.😂
Arbn BEST friend. that makes a big difference. i dont think she contradicted herself. she and rita seem like celebrity friends, but they aint kicking it like that. that said, we all contradict ourselves, so not sure what the big deal is. most ppl's decision would probably be shaped by the length of time since the relationship ended, how the relationship ended and the nature/level of the friendship.
Arbn thank you!! 🙌🏾
I remember that exact clip when she was talking about Rita Ora and Rob :D
Arbn, she is always contradicting herself.
I think it depends on the ex. Some exes care and some just don’t. I had a best friend at the time who seemed interested in my ex. My ex never really showed interest in her though. I wouldn’t have cared if they dated each other or if he was interested in her. Because I was beyond done with him. She knew how horrible he was to me and if she wanted to date him after that, that’s her business. Now, if she wanted to date the guy that I really loved? Absofreakinglutely not!
LumiereDarling But you cant stop her anyway lol so who cares
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
yup!!
Somebody find Tony’s Instagram! Now I’m curious! 😂
Bruna Rezende toga643 hes private tho :(
Wasn't he on one of the reals game shows a few years ago?
Where can I see a picture of him?
Haha he's in the segment called "Adam's Man Shower"
Yep! You came through! lol ruclips.net/video/vlC6WKVjWcw/видео.html
Tamara's been serving looks lately😍🔥🔥🔥
Something about that redddddd ❤
So I'm watching this and well thats' kind of how my story played out. I met these two friends on the same night.Felt attracted to one of them. We hooked up for about a year.. got pregnant and he dropped me. While all this was going on I actually became really good friends with the other guy. We stayed in touched and he was an amazing friend through out my pregnancy. Fast forward a year later we started dating. And this year, 2018 we are getting married. What I am trying to say is the friend/best friend might just be your soul mate. Who knows..
You can’t help who you like....if someone cuts me off I don’t owe you anything. Now I’m feeling your friend 🤷🏾♀️
m e u can’t help who u like maybe that’s just being horny or people need to stop taking that stupid Selena Gomez song to heart smh
I think you can date who you like as long as you're respectful of the other person. If you feel it aint right, then it aint right, get out of there.
@amanda kenya just because, you wouldn't be okay with it . Does not mean that everyone else would be not okay with it . Everyone is different.
Tam Tam being catty about that ex tho 🐱🌶
Slocum M I was about to say the same
I'm dating my ex's good friend right now, have been for almost a year, couldn't have been happier 😘
It's your life, don't dwell in what you had with your ex.
Trash
My current partner dated my former best friend for 6 months before we got together, we had known each other for two years when they split and have now been dating for 18 months. At first she acted happy for us but when she split up with the guy she left him for she suddenly wanted him back and caused trouble, drama will always happen. But you gotta do what makes you happy
Dating your Ex's Best Friend is Petty.
Tamera's got a good point though.
Only if you not over the relationship. If you grown about the situation you should want happiness for each other.
Timothy McKain i am doing it, because i had never met someone i felt so compatible with. He might be the one, it certainly feels like he is! Why should I wasted this opportunity for the sake of my ex? And we asked for his approval before we ever went out in the first place
Depends. My ex treated me like crap so if I date one of his friends it's karma
AF
Lifes too short. I dont owe you anything lol
Artrell Knight
Smdh
Lol what?
Artrell Knight
What do you mean by
"life's to short I don't owe you anything" ?
I just feel like as humans alot of the things we think about are irrelevant. Hypothetically, its my ex. Not my sister or best friend. What if thats somebody I really connect with? Why should I deny myself that? Besides, depending on where you live, alot of ppl end up dating ex's friends, you just msy not know.
Artrell Knight
I understand everyone's relationship is differnt but how would you feel if your friend or somebody you knew dated your ex? honestly?
You're only messing up your own reputation doing that. The friend isn't going to take you seriously. After him, don't be surprised when someone else in that friend group tries to get at you.
your ex is your ex period. You can't help who you want to date, oh well.
KenyaGirly, honestly I would be okay with it. It’s his life, and we’re still friends so I would just be happy for him and wish him the best.
I don't see anything wrong with it, ESPECIALLY if y'all broke up on good terms. Like if y'all was done with each other and there's for sure no more feelings involved than go ahead and go out with whoever u want to. Its your life and its called MOVING ON ppl. Yes, such a thing exists. Not everyone stays bitter and petty forever cause if that was the case than i think we'd all still have feelings for our exes. 😒🙊
0:34 Jeannie sitting back and analyzing the situation from her past experiences 💀💀💀 I love it !
*Lonnie dropping names* 😂😂😂😂 “Who Toni”
ok Tamera, you're the BEST FEMALE for Adam, WE GET IT.
She's so annoying
No I would never date my ex's best friend. Because I know if my ex and best friend dated I'd be PISSED!! So I'm not gonna be a hypocrite lol.
I wouldn’t care. If she really liked him I’d be happy for her.
But the person who owes the loyalty is the best friend
It's against the guy or girl code to date your ex's best friend or your best friend date your ex... if you play with fire or you're gonna get burned... don't be dating in circles ! It don't matter who breaks up with who... don't do it
Myronn Coleman exactly!! It creates such a messy situation!!
Rightttt
But you cant control who you like and if its mutual then it should be fine. No one owns anyone and if you break up with each other you should be able to date whoever you want.
Sariah Figueroa it’s not about owning anyone it’s about loyalty and respect to your friend
I love how as the seasons go on Jeannie is able to showcase more of herself and her sense of humor. 😂😂
I’ve slipped and fallen on tha thing too
Adrienne : tam doesn’t accidentally fall on someone
Loni : she be falling on it ya
😹😹
Adrienne : she be knowing what she’s doing !!
😹😹
Just be respectful towards eachother.
If the man and woman are still friends, maybe have a conversation about it...if they aren't friends anymore then she doesn't owe anyone anything. Then it's completly on the guy to tell his friends about his feelings.
But if you don't have any feelings and it's just a one night stand, then who cares you are both single and adults. The Ex have nothing to do with it.
I can relate to this one because me and my ex's best friend started talking right after I dumped my ex I messaged his best friend just to ask questions regarding the breakup but it ended up turning into a full blownout friendship where we fell in love with each other and still talk to each other after 2 years but me and my ex only lasted a few months
It speaks more about the friend than the actual ex. If that’s your true friend, ride or die, day 1, etc, you should be able to resist them. Simple as that
Well I can't lie...years ago in 2010 I had a
"hoe-ment" with my ex's best friend/roommate. We ended up dating, getting engaged and now we've been married 5.5 years and are about to have our second baby. So if that made me a hoe...I'll be that 😂
Krista Bowman Ruth There are different circumstances for different people. I'm happy for you girl ☺️☺️
YESSSS
you NEVER date your friend’s ex pero you can ABSOLUTELY date your ex’s friend, cousin, brother, neighbor, anyone you want
but.... now I want to see tony 👀
He came on the real before look up "Adam man shower'
Toga643
ruclips.net/video/vlC6WKVjWcw/видео.html Enjoy girl !😉😁
You all are shady☺️
For me, even if I like the ex boyfriend of my best friend, I will never pursue him.
It's like you don't respect your best friend and I can't even imagine what will my family and friends react if they will see me with my best friend’s ex boyfriend. I really can't stand it.
Thank you!
But why do y’all care who somebody else’s date. Y’all are over for a reason. That’s narcissistic. Very controlling. Nobody owes you anything so if they want to date so be it. Move on with your life and stay out of other peoples
I think it depends on the scenerio. I dated my Ex boyfriend's frat brother, that was his mentor and friend, because he cheated on me twice, I was done. He was having drinks with the frat brother trying to get advice on how to get me back, the frat brother then came to me and told me I deserve better and we dated for a while. My ex was mad about it.
I think if you have to ask the question it's a definite "no." you can but I'm just going to sip my tea far over there.
I wonder what this Tony looks like 🤔
blackwidow m.ruclips.net/video/vlC6WKVjWcw/видео.html
"Accidentally" MY ASS Guuuurrrrl bye 😩 Just own up to it
Let a guy date two friends and this would have been a whole other story
Depends on the friendship. If you are “best friends” then don’t date the ex. If you are just regular friends, then go for it. 😂🤷🏾♀️.
Depends on the ex. If your ex ain't sh!t, 9 times out of 10, his best friend ain't sh!t neither.
Tamera really took the opportunity to throw this girl under the bus hahahaha
The heart wants what it wants
Beinglively how so?
Beinglively o...I see...I get you
This happened to my son, his best friend asked my son if it would be ok to date my sons ex( he said no) and today they are happily married with 3 kids!
Is your son still friends with him?
I have two friends who dated 2 of my ex’s I had no problem with that because I knew what they were going to go through the first one they didn’t even last a month the second they ain’t lasted either 😂
I am and I'm extremely happy. I'm young so it's different for me. It isn't messy.
I just don't want my ex to be in a relationship with one of my friends. Why? Because I don't want to see his face or vice versa. Like he needs to stay out of my friends zone and date someone else out of my friends zone...
Things happen, and you can't tell grown single ppl what to do...but real talk, this is where double standards come into play...because if a WOMAN'S ex dated her best friend then all hell would break loose.lol (not in all cases, but most)😂
If my mom dated my dad's best friend then both my mother and I life would be a whole lot better.
Ok I can admit, loni jokes this season are killing me
Tamera spilling the tea 😂😂😂
Torn on this one. I’m currently talking to my ex’s best friend. I didn’t meet him when my ex and I were together. I found out they were friends after I first started talking to his best friend. I’m sure my ex has said something though. But, I have no loyalty to my ex, he cheated with his female best friend and my (NOW) best friend (we hated each other when he was cheating and became friends like 2 years later.) Anyway he got her pregnant while we were together then told me he was in love with his female best friend so I broke up with him, now they have 2 children together. He has a total of 3 children with the women he cheated on me with. His best friend treats me way better than he ever did. I had my reservations about the situation at first, but now I don’t care.
I love this side of Tamera. We didn't need to know the Yooo how do you keep her happy part and the she wasn't cool Shade. Petty Tam we hear you. You are the best for Adam ☻☻☻
I think it depends on how long the relationship was and how it ended. Example if it was a real serious relationship and they were married, engaged or just together for yrs then I think it be really shady if your best friend dated your ex that you have a lot of history with. But if it wasn’t serious then I guess it’s okay
I talk to my ex bestfriend .. we are legit friends he call and check up on me all the time and ask me advice about his relationship with his girlfriend
He most probably likes you
Veronica Ivanova nope he doesn’t there is no physical or emotional attraction at all he loves is girlfriend and I’m in a relationship as well 😂😂
this is a little different situation but... IF YOU CAN’T GET THE GUY GO FOR HIS BEST FRIEND. and i live by that.
I don’t care in the slightest. I was obsessed with a guy at my church who was 7 years older than me when I was 11 all the way to 15. He paid me no mind cause I was a child but when I was in my 20’s we started talking. I had no feelings for him anymore but realized he would be perfect for my best friend who I had met 2 years earlier. Got them together and they are the cutest couple! I’m so happy for them! And why could I do that? Cause I was ACTUALLY over that man. Ain’t nothing wrong with a friend dating your ex or ex crush if you are truly over that person and nothing crazy happened between you guys. I’ve tried to set up another friend with a guy I dated for 2 1/2 years too. I really don’t care.
No! You may not 😎
Lloyd Norwood lol I think I miss that class no sharing
we not together, I do what I want, I’m with Loni
A "ho-ment"!?! PRICELESS JEANNIE!!! LOVE IT!!!
I LOVE LONI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If we single and not in any relationship then it don't matter who I'm with
Tameras hand movements at the end 😂
I could never date any of my ex’s friends. Let alone their BEST friend. That’s way TOO close to my ex and I’m not trying to be all awkward.
"She just fall on it huh?"😭😂🤣
I get where she's coming from. We busy. There hardly is time to meet someone new. So since you probably hung out as a group. You know this best friend really well.
I could careless if my ex dates someone I know he's my ex so he is my past. Life goes on....besides someone I consider a best friend wouldn't cross that line.
Happened to me and the best friend was so much better. We snuck around for almost two years.
"Di que accidentally" 😂😂 A
Adrienne is learning how to support other women!!!
I feel like you shouldn't date your friend's EX. If it's truly that serious I think you should ask them how they feel about it. Because if you're not doing anything wrong why do you have to sneak and hide it. But me personally I'm not even going to put myself in the situation to fall for you or get you to fall for me. like that only happens because you put yourself in the situation why would you put yourself in the situation.
Dique "accidentally" 😂 Adrienne is too funny
Lol “accidentally slept together” how does that happen?😹😹😹 you must accidentally become a couple... if that happened I’ll let them be because love is love and people don’t choose who they fall for (if they ain’t doing that for revenge)
Sorry but that’s a trashy move however you choose to look at it. Why get involved with someone who’s that close to someone you used to love? You’re setting yourself up to be hurt if you ask me, sounds like a rebound move that’ll backfire later. Morally, this ain’t it.
I’m with you. On the flip side if her mama throwing it up would one be wrong for taking it down?
Awww they're having Grasshoppers! One of the best classic cocktails out there! 🍹
Ladies don't do it. Do you really want to be a pass around? Where are all the fathers at? They should be educating their daughters on stuff like this.
To answer the question directly " swipe right"
Why is Tamera just drop dead GORGEOUS?!
🤦🏽♀️I thought that floral arrangement on the table was a salad
I think it's courtesy to ask your bf first , but if they remain friends she obviously doesn't mind him being in her life still so I think it's kind off hypocritical if she wouldn't be cool with it.
The only issue I see with this. Is that the friend and the boy could be setting you up. Or they could be talking about you. I agree with Adrienne though if the guy broke up with it’s not you obligation to make sure you don’t hurt his feelings. It’s his friends🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I'm not gonna lie, when I was dating a guy, I thought his best friend was WAY cuter than the guy I was seeing. Of course, I never approached them after the breakup, I thought that would be disrespectful!
I think in general it is wrong for someone to sleep/date/etc their ex's friends BUT it depends on the circumstances (who broke up with whom under what circumstances, did anyone cheat, etc). In the end of the day, love doesn't ask and not everyone gets the chance to fall in love, so if you find that special one, you should keep them but you and the friend should definitely speak with the ex. The ex shouldn't understand about the relationship from a third party.
They really aren't best friends, if he thinks it's fine to date his friends EX. 💯
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This happened to me!!! I broke up with my ex but me and his best friend stayed friends and we made out one day but he told me after 8years that he can never cross that line with me cause they are friends
As long as there was no 2 timing..your ex is free to date whoever he/she wants. Yes it might be awkward however objectively, it is very much ok
i had a friend start dating the other roommate after briefly dating the first roommate (the men were roommates not the girl) i thought that was a little too close for comfort
When I saw that title I just thought that’s so messy