For the first time in my life I'm dating a guy I really feel connected to but also on the other hand, I would easily let go of if there is need to. I feel like this is a powerful place to be. I'm 36 never married, no children, celibate for 13 years now. The dating scene has been ruthless but it made me the mature, confident and compassionate person I am today.
That’s amazing and I wish I had been in that place when I met my ex-husband at 38. I now see that the best thing ever is to be in a relationship with someone you’re crazy about because it makes you want to deal with all the hard stuff… That’s me now at 54. But if it helps, I got pregnant naturally twice and had babies at 40 and 43! I think all the inner work makes our bodies work better
I have learned not to waste time on someone who doesn’t want you. Luckily, someone who really is attracted to me has entered my life. This hasn’t taken a long time.
3:34 are confident, know their value 4:22 self-assured 5:16 invest in proven value, not their potential 6:04 clear about what they need 7:26 wait before committing 8:30 dignity > desire
Holy f***, another excellent video from you! It’s really got the stuff to save a woman’s life! And it’s dropping at a time where I’m getting to know a great guy that I don’t hope to mess it up with! Thank you for that amazing call to discipline!
WoW! so grateful I stumbled upon your channel loaded with wise sage wisdom. Been a seeker all my life. Went from mere surviving, to striving, next chapter entering fully thriving thanks to phenomenal mentorship like found right here. Thank You.
I don’t need a Man to validate who I am . I’m doing ok The opposite feels like abuse , when a Man cannot pay compliments Doesn’t show appreciation , cannot express how He values Me I choose to be cherished
Omg I knew something was wrong but I didn’t know it was breadcrumbing. I can’t thank you enough. Live and learn, right? You helped me become stronger and wiser. ❤️
You nailed it… in many ways! So to take it all home that you nailed…. How do/ does a woman change all it is she knows? We ALL can define the truth your saying… but let’s go ALL the way home with how to change ! Can positive talk till the cows come home Can pray until the same cows come home Can fake it until those same funking cows come home???? 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Hi Karen, I've dedicated an entire channel to showing the ways this can be changed : ) Additionally, I help my clients through my private practice with custom plans and guidance to get what they want: www.callwithbern.com/ Thank you for watching and for sharing your voice.
Bern do you recommend dating a few men at once? I find ot a bit overwhelming to manage dating 2 or 3! Do you have any videos about this please? Thanks ❤
You got it wrong.... I suggest YOU should date yourself meanwhile all the time.... dont put too much focus on strangers.... your taking too much time off of YOU. Have fun with yourself, family, friends. Then dating one guy should be enough
I'm single because I can't find men that share my values. The ones that want and value family love on the breadline or the good will of their parents . The ones that make their own way in life and value independence don't want children. I know the men I'd be attracted to exist, I've met married ones, grew up with them etc but cannot come across them in the world
OK. So the title of this video needs to be changed. Not "Why Men Never Breadcrumb Women Who Do This" but "The Qualities of Women Who Don't Settle for Breadcrumbs". The difference is that as women, we can't control men's behavior. Men who want access to a woman but don't want to commit will try to breadcrumb EVERY woman. The women who don't get breadcrumbed are the ones who don't put up with it. When his actions reveal that he sees her as one of many options, she relegates him to the same position in her life and doesn't focus on him.
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For the first time in my life I'm dating a guy I really feel connected to but also on the other hand, I would easily let go of if there is need to. I feel like this is a powerful place to be. I'm 36 never married, no children, celibate for 13 years now. The dating scene has been ruthless but it made me the mature, confident and compassionate person I am today.
That’s amazing and I wish I had been in that place when I met my ex-husband at 38. I now see that the best thing ever is to be in a relationship with someone you’re crazy about because it makes you want to deal with all the hard stuff… That’s me now at 54. But if it helps, I got pregnant naturally twice and had babies at 40 and 43! I think all the inner work makes our bodies work better
@@jencrews Oh wow, congratulations on your babies. Thanks for sharing that bit. I'll be holding out faith for my babies too.
I wish you all the Love and happiness you deserve!
❤from South of France
I have learned not to waste time on someone who doesn’t want you. Luckily, someone who really is attracted to me has entered my life. This hasn’t taken a long time.
Congratulations ❤
3:34 are confident, know their value
4:22 self-assured
5:16 invest in proven value, not their potential
6:04 clear about what they need
7:26 wait before committing
8:30 dignity > desire
Thank you so much
Self Confidence. WALK AWAY FROM STUPIDITY!
Dignity, worth and value is greater than desire, I love that concept. Thank you so much!
Glad you found this useful, Jeanette.
Holy f***, another excellent video from you! It’s really got the stuff to save a woman’s life! And it’s dropping at a time where I’m getting to know a great guy that I don’t hope to mess it up with! Thank you for that amazing call to discipline!
So glad it was helpful! Thank you for your enthusiasm : )
WoW! so grateful I stumbled upon your channel loaded with wise sage wisdom. Been a seeker all my life. Went from mere surviving, to striving, next chapter entering fully thriving thanks to phenomenal mentorship like found right here. Thank You.
You're most welcome and Thank YOU so much for your very kind words I feel grateful you find this work I'm doing helpful 🙏🙏
I don’t need a Man to validate who I am . I’m doing ok
The opposite feels like abuse , when a Man cannot pay compliments
Doesn’t show appreciation , cannot express how He values Me
I choose to be cherished
Dignity over desire. Amen 👊🏻
Glad you found this useful : )
Omg I knew something was wrong but I didn’t know it was breadcrumbing. I can’t thank you enough. Live and learn, right? You helped me become stronger and wiser. ❤️
Grateful to hear my videos are helping you : )
Dignity > Desire.. i will remember this for the rest of my life.❤
fed up with the hot and cold altitude 😢
Glad you're learning to identify it so you can say NO ; )
Me too.
You nailed it… in many ways! So to take it all home that you nailed…. How do/ does a woman change all it is she knows? We ALL can define the truth your saying… but let’s go ALL the way home with how to change !
Can positive talk till the cows come home
Can pray until the same cows come home
Can fake it until those same funking cows come home???? 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Hi Karen, I've dedicated an entire channel to showing the ways this can be changed : ) Additionally, I help my clients through my private practice with custom plans and guidance to get what they want: www.callwithbern.com/ Thank you for watching and for sharing your voice.
Wow Bern! You're probably the best one out there! Great video today!
Pamela, thank you so much!
Love this content! Paced Attachment Strategy- gonna keep reminding myself of that 🙂. Thank you 🙏🏽
What ist the key to love and be in your body? To really feel and enjoy it?
Thank you, I'll try to use these tips!
You're welcome.
Bern do you recommend dating a few men at once?
I find ot a bit overwhelming to manage dating 2 or 3!
Do you have any videos about this please?
Thanks ❤
You got it wrong.... I suggest YOU should date yourself meanwhile all the time.... dont put too much focus on strangers.... your taking too much time off of YOU. Have fun with yourself, family, friends. Then dating one guy should be enough
Love from South of France Chéri....❤💫🌻🪷🌞🥰☘️
Very helpful. Thank you!
🧡Love🧡this🧡video🧡
I’m single and love it!!!
👍 Whatever makes you happy.
I'm single because I can't find men that share my values. The ones that want and value family love on the breadline or the good will of their parents . The ones that make their own way in life and value independence don't want children.
I know the men I'd be attracted to exist, I've met married ones, grew up with them etc but cannot come across them in the world
OK. So the title of this video needs to be changed. Not "Why Men Never Breadcrumb Women Who Do This" but "The Qualities of Women Who Don't Settle for Breadcrumbs". The difference is that as women, we can't control men's behavior. Men who want access to a woman but don't want to commit will try to breadcrumb EVERY woman. The women who don't get breadcrumbed are the ones who don't put up with it. When his actions reveal that he sees her as one of many options, she relegates him to the same position in her life and doesn't focus on him.
Why are you talking so fast?
This is how I talk BUT, You can SLOW it down by choosing a different speed on the video : )
Not fast enough for me when I’m short on time. Ive started listening to most RUclips videos at 1.25 speed 😂
Yeah, at beginning quiet slow but then gradually speeding up. Use different speed also not comfortable. (My pov form non native english viewer)
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