Yesterday I was at a bar and this dog was being super sweet. Giving me hugs and kisses, y’know what her owner said? “She only does that to girls” biggest euphoria boost I’ve had in my entire life
Fuck, that "I've never seen a trans person with grey hair, huh, we get to live that long" immediately made me openly sob, fuck, we get to live that long, we get to live that long
YEEESSSS i think i first heard the term in an acknowledgment of country, or in that one outback wedding movie where they drive across australia to find her mum
This IS adorable!!! One of my Favorit queer Labels IS sibling of the sisterhood for enby and trans people WHO are and feel connected to womanhood though shared struggles, but do Not identify AS women themselfs. Like a transman used to have or even still has a lot of the bs that comes with a Periode and such and the Label calls that Out, without giving them disphoria
As a gender questioning non-binary AMAB that recently went on a date with a trans woman, the "3 of my ex-bfs are girls now" meme hit me in the spot that means I've got some more soul searching to do.
you're getting transed? they got you! the woke lef- nah, you go be you, and if you decide that you feel like shit and want hrt, go do it! I told my therapist "listen, idk how to say it, this is a pic of me in makeup, help me." and I'm currently omw to hrt-town
@@TheDerpyDeed HRTown, if you will? Hormone Replacement Town? Well, preliminary welcome to your new home! I hope you enjoy it here! Personally, I love it, I'm so glad I moved lol
Same thing happened to me only I went from being nonbinary, presenting as hyperfeminine, and using all pronouns to using he/him, presenting in an androgynous way but leaning more towards being masculine, and DEFINITELY identifying as male. My bfs ex 'gfs'? None of them are girls now.
My dad was one of those "when archeologists dig up your bones" people. After I came out he started to understand more. I remember when I came to his room to say hey, and he told me about a news story he saw. It was about a trans woman swimmer who was doing better after she transitioned. She said she was much happier and able to perform at her best being herself. My dad said he understood it then, and I'm still really proud of him for learning
I can relate! My mum wasn't very supportive when I first came out to her, but over time, she's learnt and understood so much, and actually called me her daughter the other day!
Again another person who can understand and relate. Except the swimmer story pissed off my parents.. but besides that my parents are starting to learn. They still call me their daughter instead of just their child, but they're getting there. eventually
Recently, my mom and I had to explain to my 8 Yr old sister that I'm trans, especially since at home and in other private settings my mom does refer to me by my preferred name and gender. The talk took like 5 minutes or so. No confusion no nothing, just an 8 Yr old girl who now also refers to me by my preferred name and gender when we're in private :)
Now that is the beautiful simplicity i want in this world right now so happy it worked ❤.. if anybody ruins the wholesome paradise this comment is to me i will freaking break down 🥲
Same here! I explained myself to my little brother what being trans was and he was like "oh, ok!" And just moved on to ramble about dinosaurs, no confusion or anything like that! Hell, he even corrects people when they misgender me.🐙
See, this is why children are great 😂 they're accepting, and they'll probably just be like "oh, ok! Cool." And just move on with life respectfully. Like any reasonable person should.
In my language arts class we did a unit on argumentative writing, and we got to write a letter to someone arguing about a topic that we felt strongly about. They actually print out and send your letter to whoever you're sending it to, so I chose to write mine to our school district's superintendent about the importance of letting trans teens participate in highschool sports that align with their gender identity. It hasn't been sent yet, but the other day my teacher called me over to tell me that I spelled the superintendent's name wrong, but she also told me that she really loved the letter. I already knew that she would, because she has a trans flag in her classroom, and has tons of items of clothing with the trans flag on it, but it made me really happy either way, because not only was I supported by an adult in my argument, but I was able to write it in a safe space at all. Stay strong, there are people somewhere who will support you
Happy (late) trans day of visibility! Reminder that all of y'all are valid and deserve to be happy. Stay safe, eat food, destroy gender norms (or don't if you like fittin them, or do if you don't like the pressure but still enjoy them), drink water and get sleep.
im a trans man, and my mom isnt really supportive- my dad is deceased but he wouldnt have supported anyways- i see OT as my father figure, so thank you OT for making my life better ^^
@bitshox1215 Stop bullying people. Go back to school since it's quite obvious you dropped out before you even started 1st grade. Imagine how embarrassing it would be for you to be in a class with a bunch of 7 year old who actually knows more about the world than you do, lol.
I kinda of wanna get the 'she/them tiddies' shirt for my trans lesbian sister. I feel like she's find it hilarious, though I'd best ask her about it before I consider it seriously. I'll get back with results later. EDIT: She's keen on it!
There are multiple things I want on a shirt. I want this, trans stuff, ace stuff, "thog dont caare", patterns from GD levels, Zachtronics games, and a lot more.
It took me some time to come to terms with the fact I am trans, and identify as female. I'm turning 31 tomorrow, and I've managed to come out to my mother and siblings. They're all very supportive. I wanted you to know because your videos have been funny, and comforting, and occasionally informative. xD
I spent my trans day of visibility peacefully protesting in my city with my genderqueer friends. It was short and sweet but entirely gut-wrenching. We got on the local news, too, and afterwards, we had a potluck. I even saw a queer couple with a trans person who had a kid. Where I live, older queer people are pretty hard to find, and I've admittedly never really seen a queer couple with a kid before. They were a really cute little family.
"Dinosaurs are cool.. Transphobia is not" - OT 2023 Dude I love this quote so much Also the comic with Blahaj and Deadpool is so adorable, like I've slept with my Ikea shark for years at this point and I'm also trans
You will never be a woman. Everybody somatic cell in your body contains the Y chromosome. When you 41% your parents will bury you under a gravestone marked with your real name and your only legacy will be that of an autistic crossdressing boy who thought he was a woman. You chose this fate.
me when i was 5th grade: "gender swapping myself is like experimenting how it feels to be the other gender" me right now: "Um, yeah, im trans" I should've expected that. Have a good day everyone. edit: pff yeah im trans dude, just to mention.
In 5th grade, we had to dress up as a historical figure from the "Who is..." books with the big heads. The teacher this year decided to ignore the gender of the book and give them out randomly. I loved wearing the skirt and which I could of wore it longer, but my mom told me I couldn't.
Honestly in most pics of me as a kid after like age 6-7 I was dressed 'like a boy'; in part so my brother could wear my hand-me-downs, in part because I've pretty much always been built like a very busty linebacker so my mother gave up trying to find anything that fit in the girls/womens depts. I never dressed girly except as a very small child, and the first decade-ish at a very conservative workplace (and literally only at work - off days/soon as I got home I dressed masc). I've joked in the past that I used up all my girl-mode as a kid, imagine my surprise to realize dysphoria was actually a thing, and that it wasn't 'normal' to want redux/top surgery since like age 12. In hindsight I think I should have figured out I am nb far, far earlier than the last few years 🤦
i could make a similr statment to becoming a furry from stuff i did in the 2ed or 3rd grade bascily used a scarf i had as a leash and me and some friends crawled under tables im also pretty sure we made animal noises tho some of the friends i am not in good contact with
@@ianmkgaming4522 pff kinda same, but i ended up being a furry because people were hard to draw and dragons and animals were cool. Now i draw furries and people and cool badass monsters. In 2nd or 3rd grade too.
Im trans, and Ive been so terrified as of recent cause of all the recent laws and scary stuff in the US. So thank you for uploading more good-feelie videos. Your laugh makes me feel a bit better ;'D Stay safe everyone
What really gets me is that politicians continue to try and pass legislation that the majority of the population is against. And it's like they don't know that if history has taught us anything it's that it's the people who have the real power. With that said, yeah living in the US and especially in Florida right now is creeping towards terrifying.
Yeah, my family is thinking of moving soon, and one of my (trans) brothers has a friend who lives in a bad part of a bad state with bad parents, and is trans, so we're gonna try to rescue them as best we can. It's a scary world out there, but I think we can make it, with the help of Pancake & OT. :)
I have had COVID for almost a month now. And your videos has brought this Cis man so much joy. Thank you for making others feel comfortable. Its something I strive to do in my day to day. You will never know how much people really need you.
I hope you have a swift recovery, I tested positive from covid a year ago today, I was ill for a month so I can empathize with what you are experiencing.
In year 7 i came out as a trans guy to my class. I did not realise that they were being transphobic by saying they were helicopters and the other stuff they said. I joined in and said my new pronouns are ak/47 and i was having a good time and laughing with everyone. I find it funny to this day how a month later two people in that class confessed to me. One came out as gay later and i have no idea how the other is doing. I honestly love how i acted that year, and i got my first girlfriend.
Btw I'm a trans guy still now but was pushed back to the closet because that year I realised it wasn't safe, I'll be waiting for when it's safe though.
15:47 Historically, Trans/Enby people are older than Christianity and have transcended multiple religions and cultures. Religious transphobia is the real "dangerous new trend."
just today I was crying because I felt so touched to learn that my own Inuit ancestors would have accepted me more than my christian ones... I never knew much about the Greenlandic Inuit people but they also had a third gender and I felt so seen... The culture was sadly killed (literally and figuratively I assume...) by the colonizing christian danes, but knowing that even just a couple hundred years before my time I could have been accepted by my people made me feel so... sad and happy at the same time I may be mostly danish, but I feel a stronger bond with my Greendlandic ancestors than my danish ones
@@rookideetrainer1635 Hey, I hope that you have or find a circle of friends that love and accept you for you! If you haven't found them yet, keep going. They're are good loving people out there, you'll find them! 😊♥
@@Your_local_bunny_friend Dunno if Jesus is trans... I'm of the opinion that Jesus was Bisexual, (after all he did hang out with 12 dudes and a prostitute) I hear that God is technically non binary tho.
I had a shit day. The ONE DAY that I decided to commit a crime it just so HAPPENED to be TRANS VISIBILITY DAY! And I didn't know they could actually SEE me?? Well I got caught and thrown in jail :( This definitely happened
I just want to say how much your videos help me throughout the day. Your optimistic attitude just always keeps my spirits up despite the world we live in and have saved my life. Thank you ot Edit: making the actual comment instead of FIRST style stuff
Transphobe: "archaeologists will identify your bones as male or female though" Actual archaeologist: "I wonder what's in here? Aw fuck yeah! bones! A Sword! A hair pin! This is the best! This person was one cool chick....guy....eh whatever, still cool though!"
yee. on top of that, bones are really hard to sex and are very often inaccurate, so archaeologists use other stuff to figure it out. on top of that, hrt changes bones which already change throughout life, so they'll be different if you've been on hrt for a couple of years
@@fomxgorl a female pelvis is much differently built than a male pelvis. Just look it up. The woman’s body is made to have babies naturally, of course there are infertile women and trans women who cannot have kids like a fertile cis woman. I am not transphobic it’s just a fact on the body.
Sometimes Bones Re very telling, sometimes Not and Sometimes genetics Testing finds they where intersex . . . .still, you Had Always in every time all over the worlds gender nonconforming people . . .
I honestly couldn't tell the difference between the "low energy" and OT's normal energy. The wholesomeness is still there and that's what I care about.
One Topic, on November 2019, I discovered that I am trans. Fast forward to February 2020, I realized I need to transition. I then needed to go through so much to even get to HRT which I am now almost a month in. It was your videos that played a huge role into me actually being able to get to where I am now, so I just want to thank you for that. I have waited so long to get here and send this very comment, so again, thank you.
yeah his videos helped make your mental illness worse you shouldnt get gender affirming care you should get put in a insane asylum along with all the other trans people.
Hey. Remember. It’s not just OT that is supporting you. It’s us. The people within the comments. We are always here. And we’ll always have your back. You’ve got an army backing you up. With OT leading the charge. We are all here for you. 🥰
That intro cut was ✨ beautiful✨ And this is perfect timing. Trying to explain how demigirl is a specific gender to someone who thinks only male and female are "specific genders"
@@mirandarensberger6919 well, when you think about it, demigirl, is a specific gender. Boyflux is a specific gender. Any gender identity that specifies what you identify as, is a specific gender.
@@astridposey Yeah, I'm not saying it isn't. Obviously you are the one who knows your own gender. Probably most of us do have a specific gender, and demigirl is definitely a specific point on the gender spectrum. I only meant that in a general sense it's OK if someone's gender isn't specific, like if where they are on the spectrum varies.
Demigirl is not a specific gender, or an unspecific gender. It's just a way to alienate people both outside and within the LGBT community by intentionally using a word that almost no-one uses, just to say that you're a woman that might be agender but you're not sure. Don't be that attention seeking special person who has a special unique gender and special sexuality. LGBT is not a fad or a fashion. And making it seem confusing so you can feel cool is doing no-one any good. You are not special. That's the point. LGBT people are not special. We're normal. The sexuality and gender spectrums both have 4 extremes. Using those is all you will ever need to tell someone what you are. Gender is a spectrum. It's not a list.
@@TailsClock why are you here if you're gonna divide the community and misgender me? I'm not a woman. If you want a more common term, demigenders fall into non-binary. But thanks for showing me you don't really care about the whole community. Only the part that means you don't have to grow or learn.
Back before I realized I was trans I always used to enjoy the trans memes videos the most because it tugged at a string in my heart I didn't understand. Now a year and a half later I understand what string that was and it is one I cherish everyday. Even through the hardships I'm currently living through I'm glad I am who I am and I've been able to experience what I've experienced. I may be a part of a community of people pushed down but it's only given me sight that those who harm me will never have. Thank you for giving me room and helping me to learn this. You are a better father than my own real one
I've been feeling a bit ✨trash✨ recently bc of dumb transphobic/homophobic laws, so this video was a really nice break to remind me that it's not all bad. Thanks, OT ❤
"pansexual pitbull" reminds me that my cat that is definitely a lesbian and even has a girlfriend. She only is friends with the other female cats around the neighborhood and gets angry with male cats. My cat is a feminist lesbian.
I’m Catholic and have been really frustrated with the way my fellow believers have been acting towards this and many other topics. I haven’t gone to Mass in half a year and have been putting a lot of my effort into trying to understand the LGBT community after a trans boy showed up to youth group and was immediately banned from being called his preferred name. He didn’t come back. That’s what got me to leave. Thank you for this channel because it’s really been helping me a lot. I’m thinking of going to a pride festival to show support and learn more. Either way. Thank you and I hope you feel better soon. :) Everyone deserves love and respect, including the LGBT community.
Oh My God why aren’t there more people like us why can’t everyone just love each other 😭😭😭 I’m so sick of people that are making people think Christianity is homophobic and transphobic like come on guys just love each other
I find it funny that my fellow believers are all “god punishes you for being trans/enby/genderqueer/not cis” to my friends, and then tell me I’m a good Catholic. I’m closeted trans femme. I’m a polish Catholic, and yes our churches are insane and our priests are weird
hey OT, I just wanted to thank you for helping me realize I'm trans. Before I came out to people, I would stay up at night wondering if I was trans, and you're message of "if you're really worried that you're faking it, that's a good sign that you're not" really helped me. also knowing the fact that cis people don't spend hours every night interrogating themselves to find out if they're actually cis. but yeah, I've been out as non binary for almost two years now, in part thanks to you. in a world that seems to want me and my trans brethren removed from the face of the earth, it brings me joy to see people like you who try to make a space where trans folks can just exist. also, learning about the history of trans-ness is so cool, because I never got to learn about it in school, it's reassuring to know that people like me have existed for millennia.
I always felt a bit weird about my place in the trans community, because I'm AFAB but I identify as gender fluid and use the pronouns she/they. So I don't use he, and I sometimes use she, but I was born with she, so sometimes I get impostor syndrome about it. I do get dysphoria, so I know I'm not lying to myself about it, but it still is confusing for me.
I don't know if it helps to have a random stranger on the internet validate you & your experiences, but just in case it does, you & your experiences are both valid!
Technically nonbinary falls under the trans umbrella, and genderfluid is a subset of nonbinary. Though not all nonbinary people identify as trans, so it's up to you whether you want to use that label to describe yourself. I'm genderflor myself, and I identify as trans because I relate a lot to the experiences of other trans people, I do have dysphoria, and I'm pursuing medical transition (not the latter two are requirements to be trans).
I think you're fine fam, I'm more on the nonbianary spectrum but am trans, though I'm actually fine with any pronoun or lack of aside from my agab and no, atm I can't tell ya if that's more my preference or because of being raised with toxic bianary morals that were kinda anti just about everything but "normal" (which technically doesn't exist) so I'm just kinda here because OT's community is nice. Afaik though genderfluid and nonbianary are technically trans though, just not always on the physical part, I just happen to have dysphoria over this flesh suit I'm stuck with despite not really feeling that much like having a gender at all sometimes. It can be pretty complex and confusing though ^^'
Yeah, honestly. I once said OT was my role model in class because he's genuinely so cool, he inspires me to be a better person and honestly, he does so much and he doesn't give himself enough credit. He always says in his livestreams that the community was all us, but I genuinely think that were he not a wonderful person, we wouldn't have been able to feel as safe as we do.
Ha ha! Yes! Bully OT with our love!!! 😂😂😂 But sincerely, I agree. OT couldn’t have cultivated this wholesome community if he weren’t such a genuinely wonderful, kind, and adorkable person.
Personally, I like it when creators (you in this case, ot) relax a bit and calm down. High energy can be fun, but for someone with my level of social anxiety, it can also be super intense and honestly scary. Please feel free to do episodes without all of the high-energy stuff whenever you like. I promise we won't be mad at you.
10:02 AS A TRANS GUY WHO'S MOSTLY USED SOMETHING SIMILAR TO "SHARKS WITH KNIVES" FOR ALMOST ALL OF MY SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS, YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HAPPY THIS MAKES ME
@@leunamreyo3663so all scientists with actual peer review have debunked the myth that “trans isn’t real” so it’s funny you think you’re not the delusional one.
@Skullhawk13 cutting off your penis doesn't make you a woman. What "peer reviewed scientist are you talking about? Made up bullshit is made up bullshit, you're not convincing the world of it
19:24 I think it's important to highlight the part of the sentence "nonbinary students who 'were were assigned female at birth AND who feel they belong in our community of women.'" The non-binary umbrella term covers more than just agender people. Bigender, demi-girl, etc. For instance, I'm non-binary but still identify with the term "woman." They're not saying that if you're an AFAB enby, you're automatically a woman LOL.
I agree! I’m nonbinary and afab. Because I do not intend to pursue medical transition, I know I will always be seen as a woman by society as a whole, and I find comfort in communities for women because of this. So I really appreciated the inclusion! However, I wish they would have specified that woman-aligned nonbinary people who were assigned male at birth are welcome too.
@@wren5452 as a fem-aligned AMAB enby (they/she), this is why I normally don’t like ‘women and non-binary’ spaces - they either forget about us or actively tell us we aren’t included
I agree! Though I do go by any pronouns and mostly go by gender-neutral terms, I don't really mind being called "ate" (or big sister in my language) by my younger siblings. My gender expression switches from fem, masc or androgynous, I know that when people see me they'll be confused and I'm coming to terms with that. When I was younger, I thought that I was transmasc because it felt more like me but as I got older it changed. I realized that I like being flexible with my gender, I like being nonbinary because it feels more freeing to me for some reason. Because I'm afab, I feel more safe in women's spaces rather than men's because growing up I was more close with the women in my family but that doesn't mean that I'm "less nonbinary" because of it. My gender goes on my terms simply because it's mine or something like that?
But the problem is the exclusion of AMAB enbies who identify with communities of women. And by saying AFAB (and excluding enbies) you're kind of just saying that you see enbies as birth sex lite
Great Vid! As a 3rd year Egyptology student, I have 2 things to add: First, its 100% true that sexing skeletal remains is a lot more difficult than transphobes would like to claim - not only does sexual dimorphisms change depending on population, time, age, etc. and that sometimes the remains are badly damaged or fragmental, but Archaeology is the study of *people* and their *culture*. So, like you said, we'd take other aspects into consideration to be as respectful and as accurate as possible, including possible trans individuals. Second, I can't find much valid information on this "third gender" "Sekhet" / "sxt" / "sXt" - I've never come across it, so either there has been some misunderstandings surrounding the word, or that it wasn't exactly a common thing. I've only seen a single website be the main citation, which doesnt seem to be the best (but certainly not the worst) Egyptians definitely put heavy emphasis on male and female stuff (wording, grammatical endings, art work, etc.) but I've yet to come across it in my studies - definitely something to ask about next semester. I've also seen confusion as to how it was spelled in hieroglyphs. So, not saying its wrong, just that I haven't seen much evidence for it and would love to read some academic work on the topic
" me when my last 3 boyfriends are girls now".. this got me cause the last girlfriend I had before coming out as Gay had dated 5 guys before me. Everyone of them came out as Gay after. I felt so sorry for her when I told her a year after we broke up that I was gay and became number 6..
@@shadowking278 OMG my mind raced to her when I was reading that comment and I was gonna write it myself had you not done it yourself 🙈. Also, I'm considering if telling my ex (he was trans) that I'm trans and aroace too. I think he knew it, probably because the way we broke up. He said "I love you like I love my sister's, but I'd want to date a boy now I think." This was a couple years ago tho, I think he's married now to a transboy (I'm really happy for him, but I feel like it'd be awkward for me to reach out 😭. But I wanna have the conversation with him too, as a sort of closure or something, I'm not sure)
@@shadowking278 0o0 Omg its you again! :D I’m not sure you’ll see this but this is transallytotherescue, i had a bit of a name change lol how are you doing
It is 100% because of this channel that I realised I am most likely trans. I saw you cover egg_irl, visited it because the memes were funny, then slowly started to realise. So much so that I plan on getting chest surgery in the far off future. Thank you
Good for you. 👍 It honestly took me a while to figure out that I was a trans woman. So much that my niece saw the signs way before me. Hope you have some supportive people in your life. If you don’t. Just remember that in this channel. We all support you. 🥰 Now may I ask what gender you identify as?
12:38 The pictures of this meme are from a sketch by a German comedian, Martina Hill, (here: the transmasc’s mother) But the meme is only the beginning of the scene- the daughter crys and the mother, by wiping the tears off with her chili hands, makes her cry worse. So, when the mum realizes it, she touches her own eyes with the chili hands and and starts to scream too. Then, the son enters the room, and the blinded mother tries to feel him but accidentally hits his eyes with her chili fingers. It’s really funny how they play the sketch! More material for memes🤔
I’m not trans but my gender is shifty so I experience dysphoria and I was just having a bad day today with that and everything going on in the world rn and this video made it a little better, thank you OT
Hi OT! I hope you feel better and I just wanted to say that watching your videos have always made me feel better when I was sick or going through something. Thank you for making your videos, they never fail to make me laugh and are part of the reason I accepted being transgender. I know you probably won’t see this but thank you so much!
Arguing with transphobes about bones is so frustrating, because: 1) They keep insisting that you can tell 100% correctly from bones, even though actual archaeologists say you can't. 2) When I point out that it doesn't matter anyway, they're always like, "WHAT!? HOW CAN YOU SAY IT DOESN'T MATTER!?" They always say the same things and it's just so annoying. Like, why would it matter what people think when I'm dead? Why do transphobes think that's so important? It's just baffling to me.
No of course bones have genders, idk what you're talking about, next you're gonna tell me my milk carton isn't a dude aren't you? >:( Obviously joking, I'd actually LOVE to see them attempt to guess the gender of a person based on their bones, totally bet they're gonna one up archeologists that just use what they were buried with the make a best guess lmao. It's ok, it's just clear who doesn't have a degree in biology because humans... Aren't actually sexually dimorphic animals technically since the only difference is reproductive organs and last I checked... Those don't have any bones in humans, so yeah, funny argument ngl
@@discordiacreates6669 1 quick search into medical science papers, there is a general difference in biological male and female pelvic bonestructure. I don't care what anyone identify as, you do you. But ignoring medical science is kind of dangerous in the long run.
10:55 - I expect the dad is joking. If he isn’t (and assuming that is his son being effeminate gay, and not ultimately being his trans daughter), I would point out: would you rather your son have been STONED TO DEATH?! Note: if his child turned out to be his trans daughter, I would replace “son” with “kid”. Because tenses are weird and (correct me if I’m off the mark!) talking about trans/genderqueer people’s past across such an identity revelation is a bit weird. Also, since their dead name is a DEAD NAME, it may be reasonable - possibly even preferred - to talk about their current self and that past version as if they were separate people (at least to some extent), which would make it plural.
15:35 That's from Miracle Workers, Season 3 Oregon Trail. Daniel said when they brought that scene up to him, he said he didn't want to stifle anyone's creativity. I have been loving his roles as the years go on. He plays such interesting characters.
I first heard that joke from a video featuring mario, which made it even better😂 Edit: In case if youtube removed my reply you can search "so you're into pronouns huh?" And you'll find them
I know no one is going to even see this but I just wanted to say I'm finally going to get testosterone and I am so hecking happy and I feel like I need to tell everyone and so here I am so to all my fellow trans folks out there it really does get better (my pronouns are it/it's + any neos)
@@bitshox1215 they won't but you will always be a turd for ruining their happy moment. is that what you meant to say, that's pretty much all I could see. Be ashamed of yourself.
*Thank you so much for that bit near the end, about non-binary genders around the world in ancient times! From the religious, Jewish mama of (among others) a trans enby. ✡🏳⚧ *Happy (belated) Trans Visibility Day to all the guys, gals, and non-binary pals! You are valid and you are loved! 💙💗🤍💗💙
14:19 "I'm feminist and I use my social media with more than 600k followers to say that trans woman are men with wig and a danger for *real woman*. But hey, I'm feminist!" "Shut up, Transphobe!!" I'm from Mexico so I try my best to translate this although OTAAT translate it
im amab but i naturally has more feminine body features, so i have the perfect excuse to say the line “i am 4 parallel universes ahead of you” when i go up to my hrt therapist for the first time
@Gabriel Andrade Ferraz. Understandable. I honestly made a joke about how I’m a trans female. But I already have an hourglass figure and very feminine voice. “Time for this femboy to become even more unmanly.”
@Gabriel Andrade Ferraz. Yeah. I know. That’s what I’ve been saying to a lot of others in the comments. That we are an army. And we’ve got their backs.
I myself am a transfem and I’m somewhat of perfectionist with some really bad genetics. Shaving never seems to work for me and my plans to transition always seem to set me back more than anything. But now I believe I’ve got it right this time, down to the very last detail. And I’ve just started HRT. Very soon my spiral will be over and I’ll be feeling much better. But then again I’ve said that before and been wrong before.
Have you tried hair removal cream and then just shaving stubborn spots? I find it works a lot better and doesn’t leave visible hair roots. It does take a while to find products that suit you so don’t feel too discouraged ❤
That last one hits so hard because of how true it is for me. I once broke a present from a nice teacher on accident, and I felt horrible because I wasn't able to cry
I saw a bunch of transphobic BS on twitter trends just now that made me feel depressed, so I went straight here. This video made me consistently laugh and feel validated; I'm smiling and much happier after just a 20 minute video before bed. Thanks, OT!
I don't think I can put into words how much your content has helped me over the years. I'm queer and trans and the absolute love I feel after watching your videos is astounding. I don't know how long I'm going to keep basic human rights and my ability to be seen as human at all, hell I don't even know if I'm going to be alive to grow gray hair, but your videos give me hope that at least some people are still willing to fight for and give love to people like me. Just... thanks.
For what it's worth, there are plenty of people out there who will still see you as human, even if the laws change to take away your human rights. Best of luck to you and the whole trans community anyways. I'm rooting for all of you to be safe and happy.
I got forcefully outed two days ago to my mother as trans by a guy that sits next to me in my band class. Let me run this by you, this guy has been harassing me touching me without consent after I’ve told him to stop and various different things, but the best part of all this. He OUTED ME to my MOM, why? Because he said “it doesn’t make sense for you to be trans and your mom not to know because to be trans you have to go to a doctor and be diagnosed with a mental illness and get surgery” ah yes. Makes PERFECTT sense, doesn’t it? He has done this to two of my other friends and various other people and has not gotten in trouble for it. Sorry for the rant! Have a great day and stay strong ❤❤❤
Don't listen to the hate, you're great champ. 👊, Don't let freaks like put you down. Especially from someone who literally dedicate themselves to hating on trans people. I wish you luck ❤️
Whether you take a break or not, make sure to take care of yourself OT! We all care about you a lot, and you make our days infinitely better when you're around 💜
The only problem I have with OT doing a video like this while he's obviously feeling under the weather is that I feel deeply concerned when he starts coughing a bit. 😅
Thank you, OT. You helped me feel comfortable being an Enby Ace. And while I can't speak to anyone in my family, it's nice to know that excellent people like you are out there. You also give me the courage to keep going on and working to become a behavioral health Tech to help people in need to the best of my ability.
Hi stranger! I know this comment wasn't for me, and you don't know me and I don't know you, but I want to let you know that you are valid and you are loved and supported.
You’ve helped me so much over the years and I wish you could see the effect of it. I recently had trouble with SH and I started watching your videos again and it’s given me so much strength to fight the urge. So to add to the mountain of comments like mine, here you go. Thank you for all you’ve done for me and others in similar situations as me.❤❤
As an archaeologist, I love that you mentioned how difficult (and often impossible) it is for us to accurately determine what someone's sex was based only on their skeletal morphology. It's such a pet peeve of mine when the transphobes try to use us against trans people. Like, you can be wrong or you can be bigoted but it's somehow is way more annoying when they're both 😂
I just wanted to say, thanks to you as well as many other allies on this platform, I gained the confidence to come out to my two best friends and my boyfriend as trans. I’m now officially (at least when around them) a boy, named Ash. I live in a relatively lgbtq-phobic community so I can’t exactly come out to everyone yet, unless I’m willing to be beat up at school, but still, baby steps! I wanted to thank you for helping me understand that who I am is okay, and I don’t need to force myself to be a girl because “that’s how I was born” :) love you OT, you’re awesome, never stop doing what you’re doing ❤️❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
I love this channel. I've only just begun my journey a bit late in life at 42 and everything happening in the US has me scared to death. This content helps so much! Thank you
8:25 - when you read the clip OT, I did a whole gasp and squeal and it made my day- made my insides warm and fuzzy, and overall euphoric, to see my fandom, and to see such an incredible couple of panels - even if just one out of the set - be featured. I love how that bit is being recognized by outsiders, or that it finally got shown somewhere, because it’s really wonderful. :) (I’m a CisFem in the Transformers fandom, for ref.)
I loved transformers growing up. But sorta forgot about it for a while. OT is actually the reason I know this exists. And it fills me with warmth. I’m a trans female. So seeing the fandom I grew up with supporting the LGBT community. Is really nice. 🥰
@@shadowking278 that is so sweet, and wholesome! I’m happy you’ve gotten a chance to see it, and I’m sure we’d be happy to have you in the fandom! and congratulations on your identity, too! :D!
Find yourself a man like Luigi. Kind, supportive, literally in one of the Mario and Luigi games he was told his heart was like a gemstone. So that’s a plus.
Hate to be this person, but no- trans women are not real women. They'll always be biological men, no matter what physical changes they make to themselves.
@@Angelatic2014clearly you don't "hate to be this person because this is the third comment of yours I've found saying the exact same bullshit Grow up and do better Or stop yapping about nonsense
That enby aroace meme made me feel seen.. I’ve been so afraid of being a “nothing” person (bc contemplating agender,asexual,aromantic) so It’s nice to see it as a combo made into something light that other people also kinda experience. (Referring only to my own fears about it. I don’t think of other triple A people as “nothing”)
agender aroace here and ... yeah. i sometimes refer to myself as a human shrug, and I've definitely thought/used the phrase 'i'm kind of nothing' ... but I try to remind myself that the absence of something is still something, and can be a strong part of your identity. the idea that experiencing sexual attraction, for example, is 'something' but the opposite is 'nothing', is an entirely social construct that doesn't really make much sense if you think about it. they're both points on a spectrum. 💖
Interesting that you interpret(ed) it as being a “nothing person”. Personally I think what sets humans apart from the rest of the animal kingdom is our minds and ability to pursue goals beyond basic evolution/reproduction. Based on this world-view, I’ve usually considered triple-a to be the absolute highest form of humanity - completely rejecting and transcending our evolutionary roots. While I have learnt to accept those parts of humanity which remain “evolutionary”, I still can’t help myself from seeing triple-a people as an ideal. I’m still trying to figure out who I am exactly, but I often catch myself hoping the result I get to is a triple-a person, though I have reason to believe that won’t end up being the case. There’s so much more to being human than romance, sex, or gender - and triple-a people embody that fact! I don’t usually comment subjective opinions of mine (the internet has enough opinions imo), but in this case I hope it can make you or others feel less like “nothings” and more “unshackled” instead! Edit: fixed grammatical mistake
I can imagine how it is to experiencing yourself to be a gender beyond the nominal binaries, or somwhere inbetween. But the unfortunate reality is, I can never live into myself as being aromantic and asexual, as I am much the opposite, especially the former, being sort of OVER romanitc... But I want you to know, you are seen. You are never nothing, no matter what the hateful and insane right-wingers try to claim. You are here, you exist, you are seen, and you are loved. Never forget that.
That last one hit hard. Replacing T with E results in a LOT of crying as you relearn experiencing emotions, including the ones bottled up by years of being told to "man up".
OT, I wanted to say I've been watching ALL of your videos recently, and unfortunately i can't support you financially(if I could I would) but I want to thank you for being so fun and positive and energetic, it helps me get back up even at rough times. I hope you stay strong, prosperous, joyus, and blessed, King. 💜👑
As a RUclips user with 15 subscribers, I say Trans women are women, trans men are men, and Enbys are magical space warriors with 3 eyes that glow in the dark.
I just got home from school. It was a bad day. I cried on the floor in 6th period and people were making mean comments and some kid started throwing things at me. This is what autistic kids go though EVERYDAY. But anyways, you helped me be a bit less sad. Thank you.
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NO MORE WALKEN 😡😡
💀
I’m gonna do it
I shall walk
*walking intensifies*
@@Klekeec I love your pfp :)
Yesterday I was at a bar and this dog was being super sweet. Giving me hugs and kisses, y’know what her owner said? “She only does that to girls” biggest euphoria boost I’ve had in my entire life
SAME BUT THE DOG WAS THE OTHER WAY AROUND AND IGNORED ME
@@alexanderthegreat6682must be the most confusing gender affirmation moment you’ve had
@@dragosrandomstuff9261 it's up there
I don't know how they know, but they know and it's awesome.
@@alexanderthegreat6682I am both super happy and kinda sad for you, it’s good that your being affirmed, but sad because no pubby
I am nonbinary and my partner started calling my chest “entities” and it’s so funny and weirdly gender affirming! :P
entities sounds sick af, sib
Child that's fucking awesome lmao
Your partner is based
Also nonbinary and I love this lol!
Sounds like you have two things from the backrooms on your chest.
Fuck, that "I've never seen a trans person with grey hair, huh, we get to live that long" immediately made me openly sob, fuck, we get to live that long, we get to live that long
41% of you don't
@@bitshox1215 you’re the saddest person I’ve ever seen
@@Cynical_Crow I think I'm quite happier than most troons. Never seen a happy one 🤣😆😂
@@bitshox1215 That means 69% of us do. That's far higher than the 0% of transphobes who die feeling happy and fulfilled.
I'm still a teen and I already get grey hair 😅
in Indigenous Australian/Aboriginal culture, they have trans women called sistergirls, and trans men called brotherboys, and i LOVE IT
Omg I'm Aussie and just found out about this this is amazing
YEEESSSS
i think i first heard the term in an acknowledgment of country, or in that one outback wedding movie where they drive across australia to find her mum
That is so freakin cool!!!
This IS adorable!!!
One of my Favorit queer Labels IS sibling of the sisterhood for enby and trans people WHO are and feel connected to womanhood though shared struggles, but do Not identify AS women themselfs. Like a transman used to have or even still has a lot of the bs that comes with a Periode and such and the Label calls that Out, without giving them disphoria
EXTRA gender
OT: This video will be more low energy
Also OT: Proceeds to be just as energetic as always, just dying more audibly
(Also that Walken was great!)
Honestly, I seriously think that unless he is that sick/worried/fatigued, he will never be low energy, but more like something saps him of energy
I love trans memes for totally relatable cis reasons
Guys I don't know how to tell you this but I actually am trans :P
"still cis though"
AN EGG
@@_StarlightRose_ wait are you rose from trans furs??
Guys', they're the snek of truth, but I think they need to reveal the truth to themselves? /j
Yes lol
As a gender questioning non-binary AMAB that recently went on a date with a trans woman, the "3 of my ex-bfs are girls now" meme hit me in the spot that means I've got some more soul searching to do.
lmao my ex dated me and two other "girls" who later came out as trans and NB and now he's questioning if he's gay
you're getting transed? they got you! the woke lef- nah, you go be you, and if you decide that you feel like shit and want hrt, go do it!
I told my therapist "listen, idk how to say it, this is a pic of me in makeup, help me." and I'm currently omw to hrt-town
@@TheDerpyDeed you do realise how difficult it is to get hrt as a trans person right.
Your lack of knowledge makes you look like an idiot.
@@TheDerpyDeed HRTown, if you will? Hormone Replacement Town?
Well, preliminary welcome to your new home! I hope you enjoy it here! Personally, I love it, I'm so glad I moved lol
Same thing happened to me only I went from being nonbinary, presenting as hyperfeminine, and using all pronouns to using he/him, presenting in an androgynous way but leaning more towards being masculine, and DEFINITELY identifying as male. My bfs ex 'gfs'? None of them are girls now.
My dad was one of those "when archeologists dig up your bones" people. After I came out he started to understand more. I remember when I came to his room to say hey, and he told me about a news story he saw. It was about a trans woman swimmer who was doing better after she transitioned. She said she was much happier and able to perform at her best being herself. My dad said he understood it then, and I'm still really proud of him for learning
I can relate! My mum wasn't very supportive when I first came out to her, but over time, she's learnt and understood so much, and actually called me her daughter the other day!
What transwoman was it?
Again another person who can understand and relate. Except the swimmer story pissed off my parents.. but besides that my parents are starting to learn. They still call me their daughter instead of just their child, but they're getting there. eventually
W father figure
I'm so jealous. Your dad is awesome.
As a voice actor, lover of impressions, and lover of references, I am here by granting OT my full permission to do his Christopher Walken impression!
Loll ty 💜
@@OneTopic 'translate to english' lmao💀
BASED
Recently, my mom and I had to explain to my 8 Yr old sister that I'm trans, especially since at home and in other private settings my mom does refer to me by my preferred name and gender. The talk took like 5 minutes or so. No confusion no nothing, just an 8 Yr old girl who now also refers to me by my preferred name and gender when we're in private :)
Now that is the beautiful simplicity i want in this world right now so happy it worked ❤.. if anybody ruins the wholesome paradise this comment is to me i will freaking break down 🥲
Great job on finding out who you are and great job to your mother to explaining that!
Same here! I explained myself to my little brother what being trans was and he was like "oh, ok!" And just moved on to ramble about dinosaurs, no confusion or anything like that! Hell, he even corrects people when they misgender me.🐙
I wish I learned that young
See, this is why children are great 😂 they're accepting, and they'll probably just be like "oh, ok! Cool." And just move on with life respectfully. Like any reasonable person should.
Just recently came out as a trans woman and you’re content really helps with making me feel better in these hard times.
glad it makes you feel better during these times and i hope eveything goes well for you!:-] good luck on your journey friend!
Amazing, sis! We're in the same boat!
Your*
Then your parents will be see-through.
Because they’re *TRANSparent*
😃👉🏽👉🏽
Please laugh….
me too!
If you ever feel down, remember Harry Potter himself, despite JK being transphobic, is a staunch advocate for trans rights
also Ron, Hermione, and I think Snape and Draco
Yeah the book and random disowned jk
FUCK YEAHHHH
@@thedemolitionmunicipleFrom what I know, Ron WOULD NOT be a Trans ally.
He'd be the biggest transphobe of them all.
@@Andy_the_Collector925 based on what lmao?
In my language arts class we did a unit on argumentative writing, and we got to write a letter to someone arguing about a topic that we felt strongly about. They actually print out and send your letter to whoever you're sending it to, so I chose to write mine to our school district's superintendent about the importance of letting trans teens participate in highschool sports that align with their gender identity. It hasn't been sent yet, but the other day my teacher called me over to tell me that I spelled the superintendent's name wrong, but she also told me that she really loved the letter. I already knew that she would, because she has a trans flag in her classroom, and has tons of items of clothing with the trans flag on it, but it made me really happy either way, because not only was I supported by an adult in my argument, but I was able to write it in a safe space at all. Stay strong, there are people somewhere who will support you
The absolute state of the USA in 2023... Also, imagine placing boys with gender dysphoria over actual girls. Misogyny much?
i love you.
I agree with softly. I love you.
@@GachaELM
Happy (late) trans day of visibility!
Reminder that all of y'all are valid and deserve to be happy. Stay safe, eat food, destroy gender norms (or don't if you like fittin them, or do if you don't like the pressure but still enjoy them), drink water and get sleep.
Wait, what day is that? (sorry, I see the irony lol but I genuinely don't know)
@@_stupidbro It was March 31st.
@@_stupidbro March 31!
@@eldritchabomination9726 Thank you!
@@_stupidbro no problem!
That intro transition was CLEAN
@thegaytay4327 LMAOOO omg i love you
@thegaytay I'm happy someone understood
I didn’t know OT identified as a cartoon?!
unlike mine which was messy, scary... but surprisingly alright.
@@TheDerpyDeed I'm happy it ended up alright!
im a trans man, and my mom isnt really supportive- my dad is deceased but he wouldnt have supported anyways- i see OT as my father figure, so thank you OT for making my life better ^^
@bitshox1215 Stop bullying people. Go back to school since it's quite obvious you dropped out before you even started 1st grade. Imagine how embarrassing it would be for you to be in a class with a bunch of 7 year old who actually knows more about the world than you do, lol.
keep slaying dude
@@bitshox1215 transphobic and ableist, the HoLy DuO
continue
You see a man on the internet as your father figure
I kinda of wanna get the 'she/them tiddies' shirt for my trans lesbian sister. I feel like she's find it hilarious, though I'd best ask her about it before I consider it seriously.
I'll get back with results later.
EDIT: She's keen on it!
Pls do
Your straight brother?
There are multiple things I want on a shirt. I want this, trans stuff, ace stuff, "thog dont caare", patterns from GD levels, Zachtronics games, and a lot more.
@@cerulity32k autistic male
@@bitshox1215I feel like this is gonna start a war
It took me some time to come to terms with the fact I am trans, and identify as female. I'm turning 31 tomorrow, and I've managed to come out to my mother and siblings. They're all very supportive. I wanted you to know because your videos have been funny, and comforting, and occasionally informative. xD
Happy Birthday, Kyria!!
Happy birthday, dear lady!
Hey girl, happy birthday
Congrats! Also, I'm super jelly that your family is supportive!
I spent my trans day of visibility peacefully protesting in my city with my genderqueer friends. It was short and sweet but entirely gut-wrenching. We got on the local news, too, and afterwards, we had a potluck. I even saw a queer couple with a trans person who had a kid. Where I live, older queer people are pretty hard to find, and I've admittedly never really seen a queer couple with a kid before. They were a really cute little family.
That's beautiful :)
@IceFlower not as beautiful as you
@ Cool Name. What. Are we now getting just as smooth as Reddit now?
@@Lutefisk445 jieajgierknger
thank you! :)
I know it doesn't mean much coming from a stranger online but i am incredibly proud of all of you
"Dinosaurs are cool.. Transphobia is not"
- OT 2023
Dude I love this quote so much
Also the comic with Blahaj and Deadpool is so adorable, like I've slept with my Ikea shark for years at this point and I'm also trans
You will never be a woman.
Everybody somatic cell in your body contains the Y chromosome. When you 41% your parents will bury you under a gravestone marked with your real name and your only legacy will be that of an autistic crossdressing boy who thought he was a woman. You chose this fate.
I’m pretty sure the quote is originally from Jamiedodger, another trans RUclipsr. OT and Jamie are pretty good friends.
@@zoesbabyalives5615 And she's just as lame.
@@bitshox1215 wrong comment ur replying to dude
It worked!! ❤
me when i was 5th grade: "gender swapping myself is like experimenting how it feels to be the other gender"
me right now: "Um, yeah, im trans"
I should've expected that.
Have a good day everyone.
edit: pff yeah im trans dude, just to mention.
In 5th grade, we had to dress up as a historical figure from the "Who is..." books with the big heads. The teacher this year decided to ignore the gender of the book and give them out randomly. I loved wearing the skirt and which I could of wore it longer, but my mom told me I couldn't.
Honestly in most pics of me as a kid after like age 6-7 I was dressed 'like a boy'; in part so my brother could wear my hand-me-downs, in part because I've pretty much always been built like a very busty linebacker so my mother gave up trying to find anything that fit in the girls/womens depts. I never dressed girly except as a very small child, and the first decade-ish at a very conservative workplace (and literally only at work - off days/soon as I got home I dressed masc).
I've joked in the past that I used up all my girl-mode as a kid, imagine my surprise to realize dysphoria was actually a thing, and that it wasn't 'normal' to want redux/top surgery since like age 12.
In hindsight I think I should have figured out I am nb far, far earlier than the last few years 🤦
i could make a similr statment to becoming a furry from stuff i did in the 2ed or 3rd grade bascily used a scarf i had as a leash and me and some friends crawled under tables im also pretty sure we made animal noises tho some of the friends i am not in good contact with
@@ianmkgaming4522 pff kinda same, but i ended up being a furry because people were hard to draw and dragons and animals were cool. Now i draw furries and people and cool badass monsters. In 2nd or 3rd grade too.
I used to think I just really liked crossdressing.
I'm genderfluid lmfao.
Im trans, and Ive been so terrified as of recent cause of all the recent laws and scary stuff in the US. So thank you for uploading more good-feelie videos. Your laugh makes me feel a bit better ;'D Stay safe everyone
You should be scared, we’re coming for your rights 😂
What really gets me is that politicians continue to try and pass legislation that the majority of the population is against. And it's like they don't know that if history has taught us anything it's that it's the people who have the real power.
With that said, yeah living in the US and especially in Florida right now is creeping towards terrifying.
Stay strong. The vast majority of Americans are against transphobia (something like near 80%) so I don't think it'll last too long.
@@crimson_scum7129 2/10, bait needs work. Too obvious, too impotent. Too bad
Yeah, my family is thinking of moving soon, and one of my (trans) brothers has a friend who lives in a bad part of a bad state with bad parents, and is trans, so we're gonna try to rescue them as best we can. It's a scary world out there, but I think we can make it, with the help of Pancake & OT. :)
I have had COVID for almost a month now. And your videos has brought this Cis man so much joy. Thank you for making others feel comfortable. Its something I strive to do in my day to day. You will never know how much people really need you.
Thank you for being an ally 🫶
~a nonbinary biromantic asexual woman with a trans younger brother 😅
Wishing you a refuah shalema (complete healing.) 🙏❤🏳🌈🏳⚧
Take good care of yourself. I'm a trans masc on year 3 of Long Covid, and it's hell on earth. All of the get well vibes heading your way!
I hope you have a swift recovery, I tested positive from covid a year ago today, I was ill for a month so I can empathize with what you are experiencing.
In year 7 i came out as a trans guy to my class. I did not realise that they were being transphobic by saying they were helicopters and the other stuff they said. I joined in and said my new pronouns are ak/47 and i was having a good time and laughing with everyone. I find it funny to this day how a month later two people in that class confessed to me. One came out as gay later and i have no idea how the other is doing. I honestly love how i acted that year, and i got my first girlfriend.
Btw I'm a trans guy still now but was pushed back to the closet because that year I realised it wasn't safe, I'll be waiting for when it's safe though.
How are you doing now? Just a mental check-up.
15:47
Historically, Trans/Enby people are older than Christianity and have transcended multiple religions and cultures.
Religious transphobia is the real "dangerous new trend."
just today I was crying because I felt so touched to learn that my own Inuit ancestors would have accepted me more than my christian ones... I never knew much about the Greenlandic Inuit people but they also had a third gender and I felt so seen...
The culture was sadly killed (literally and figuratively I assume...) by the colonizing christian danes, but knowing that even just a couple hundred years before my time I could have been accepted by my people made me feel so... sad and happy at the same time
I may be mostly danish, but I feel a stronger bond with my Greendlandic ancestors than my danish ones
@@rookideetrainer1635
Hey, I hope that you have or find a circle of friends that love and accept you for you! If you haven't found them yet, keep going. They're are good loving people out there, you'll find them! 😊♥
It also makes no sense to be transphobic as Jesus was trans
@@Your_local_bunny_friend
Dunno if Jesus is trans... I'm of the opinion that Jesus was Bisexual, (after all he did hang out with 12 dudes and a prostitute)
I hear that God is technically non binary tho.
@@Your_local_bunny_friend wait what? Do you have any links or a brief explanation now I'm curious
Happy trans day of visibility! Stay safe out there, people! 🏳️⚧️
Mate that's just a white flag
I had a shit day. The ONE DAY that I decided to commit a crime it just so HAPPENED to be TRANS VISIBILITY DAY! And I didn't know they could actually SEE me?? Well I got caught and thrown in jail :( This definitely happened
@@super_manul1167 Looks like the trans flag to me. 🏳️⚧️
wasnt that on friday?
@@jaanaberg6125 🤭👍❤️
I just want to say how much your videos help me throughout the day. Your optimistic attitude just always keeps my spirits up despite the world we live in and have saved my life. Thank you ot
Edit: making the actual comment instead of FIRST style stuff
Transphobe: "archaeologists will identify your bones as male or female though"
Actual archaeologist: "I wonder what's in here? Aw fuck yeah! bones! A Sword! A hair pin! This is the best! This person was one cool chick....guy....eh whatever, still cool though!"
fr why do transphobes say that so much? like do they think oir bones are immortal and sentient
yee. on top of that, bones are really hard to sex and are very often inaccurate, so archaeologists use other stuff to figure it out. on top of that, hrt changes bones which already change throughout life, so they'll be different if you've been on hrt for a couple of years
@@fomxgorl a female pelvis is much differently built than a male pelvis. Just look it up. The woman’s body is made to have babies naturally, of course there are infertile women and trans women who cannot have kids like a fertile cis woman.
I am not transphobic it’s just a fact on the body.
This is how I realized my father was a transphobe tbh. Well, it’ll be funny to see the shock on his face if I come out.
Sometimes Bones Re very telling, sometimes Not and Sometimes genetics Testing finds they where intersex . . . .still, you Had Always in every time all over the worlds gender nonconforming people . . .
I honestly couldn't tell the difference between the "low energy" and OT's normal energy. The wholesomeness is still there and that's what I care about.
Same
I'm with ya on the Asthma, dude. No worries about energy levels so long as positivity flows free. Love your work as always.
One Topic, on November 2019, I discovered that I am trans. Fast forward to February 2020, I realized I need to transition. I then needed to go through so much to even get to HRT which I am now almost a month in. It was your videos that played a huge role into me actually being able to get to where I am now, so I just want to thank you for that. I have waited so long to get here and send this very comment, so again, thank you.
yeah his videos helped make your mental illness worse you shouldnt get gender affirming care you should get put in a insane asylum along with all the other trans people.
Hey. Remember. It’s not just OT that is supporting you. It’s us. The people within the comments. We are always here. And we’ll always have your back. You’ve got an army backing you up. With OT leading the charge. We are all here for you. 🥰
@@shadowking278 Thanks for the supportive comment. I will always have it in mind.
@Pluu.
Your welcome. 🥰
@@shadowking278 Well said, my friend. Very well said indeed. 👏
I've been watching these to help understand my trans little bro, I'm getting him binders soon!
You're a great sibling! We need more people like you
You're a good sibling! I wish there were more siblings like you in this world (and there needs to be more supportive siblings in this world than ever)
That intro cut was ✨ beautiful✨
And this is perfect timing. Trying to explain how demigirl is a specific gender to someone who thinks only male and female are "specific genders"
I mean, let's start with why does gender even need to be specific?
@@mirandarensberger6919 well, when you think about it, demigirl, is a specific gender. Boyflux is a specific gender. Any gender identity that specifies what you identify as, is a specific gender.
@@astridposey Yeah, I'm not saying it isn't. Obviously you are the one who knows your own gender. Probably most of us do have a specific gender, and demigirl is definitely a specific point on the gender spectrum. I only meant that in a general sense it's OK if someone's gender isn't specific, like if where they are on the spectrum varies.
Demigirl is not a specific gender, or an unspecific gender. It's just a way to alienate people both outside and within the LGBT community by intentionally using a word that almost no-one uses, just to say that you're a woman that might be agender but you're not sure. Don't be that attention seeking special person who has a special unique gender and special sexuality. LGBT is not a fad or a fashion. And making it seem confusing so you can feel cool is doing no-one any good. You are not special. That's the point. LGBT people are not special. We're normal. The sexuality and gender spectrums both have 4 extremes. Using those is all you will ever need to tell someone what you are. Gender is a spectrum. It's not a list.
@@TailsClock why are you here if you're gonna divide the community and misgender me? I'm not a woman. If you want a more common term, demigenders fall into non-binary.
But thanks for showing me you don't really care about the whole community. Only the part that means you don't have to grow or learn.
3:49 not only is OT allowed to do a Christopher Walken voice, he should do it more often
Back before I realized I was trans I always used to enjoy the trans memes videos the most because it tugged at a string in my heart I didn't understand. Now a year and a half later I understand what string that was and it is one I cherish everyday. Even through the hardships I'm currently living through I'm glad I am who I am and I've been able to experience what I've experienced. I may be a part of a community of people pushed down but it's only given me sight that those who harm me will never have. Thank you for giving me room and helping me to learn this. You are a better father than my own real one
I've been feeling a bit ✨trash✨ recently bc of dumb transphobic/homophobic laws, so this video was a really nice break to remind me that it's not all bad. Thanks, OT ❤
-ACK!
@@bitshox1215 Get a life You’re literally obsessed with queer people Jealous?
Yes, the laws are very “ack”
@@brisingr0962 >xe doesn't know
@@bitshox1215found one 🫵‼️
"pansexual pitbull" reminds me that my cat that is definitely a lesbian and even has a girlfriend. She only is friends with the other female cats around the neighborhood and gets angry with male cats. My cat is a feminist lesbian.
4:07
The line "Chestnuts roasting on an open fire," now sounds like Satans way of doing top surgery and I'm here for it
“Jack Frost nipping at your……never mind.”
The Click is my spirit animal. You can’t stop the bad puns and innuendos. 😈
@@shadowking278oh God oh no
Happy late tdov everyone! I love all my trans siblings. You deserve to be seen and loved and alive
I’m Catholic and have been really frustrated with the way my fellow believers have been acting towards this and many other topics. I haven’t gone to Mass in half a year and have been putting a lot of my effort into trying to understand the LGBT community after a trans boy showed up to youth group and was immediately banned from being called his preferred name. He didn’t come back. That’s what got me to leave.
Thank you for this channel because it’s really been helping me a lot. I’m thinking of going to a pride festival to show support and learn more. Either way. Thank you and I hope you feel better soon. :) Everyone deserves love and respect, including the LGBT community.
Oh My God why aren’t there more people like us why can’t everyone just love each other 😭😭😭 I’m so sick of people that are making people think Christianity is homophobic and transphobic like come on guys just love each other
I guess that answers the question of why people are leaving church.
There are good people like you. I hope you continue this path
Ironically the generic meaning of the word "catholic" is "broadly accepting".
I find it funny that my fellow believers are all “god punishes you for being trans/enby/genderqueer/not cis” to my friends, and then tell me I’m a good Catholic. I’m closeted trans femme. I’m a polish Catholic, and yes our churches are insane and our priests are weird
Bro, I died when you shouted "¡CÁLLATE!". Oh my god, I can't stop listening to it again and again 🤣 It definitely made my day brighter hehe
💜 jajajaja
@@OneTopic bro, seriously. You'll be my notifications sound from now on
hey OT, I just wanted to thank you for helping me realize I'm trans. Before I came out to people, I would stay up at night wondering if I was trans, and you're message of "if you're really worried that you're faking it, that's a good sign that you're not" really helped me. also knowing the fact that cis people don't spend hours every night interrogating themselves to find out if they're actually cis.
but yeah, I've been out as non binary for almost two years now, in part thanks to you. in a world that seems to want me and my trans brethren removed from the face of the earth, it brings me joy to see people like you who try to make a space where trans folks can just exist.
also, learning about the history of trans-ness is so cool, because I never got to learn about it in school, it's reassuring to know that people like me have existed for millennia.
ah yes screw society continue living
People like you have existed since people began existing. The hate is new and is what needs to be removed, not you.
I always felt a bit weird about my place in the trans community, because I'm AFAB but I identify as gender fluid and use the pronouns she/they. So I don't use he, and I sometimes use she, but I was born with she, so sometimes I get impostor syndrome about it. I do get dysphoria, so I know I'm not lying to myself about it, but it still is confusing for me.
Eh close enough to be trans
As a C student in Calculus, I am on your side - something can be totally true and still be baffling. Best wishes.
I don't know if it helps to have a random stranger on the internet validate you & your experiences, but just in case it does, you & your experiences are both valid!
Technically nonbinary falls under the trans umbrella, and genderfluid is a subset of nonbinary. Though not all nonbinary people identify as trans, so it's up to you whether you want to use that label to describe yourself. I'm genderflor myself, and I identify as trans because I relate a lot to the experiences of other trans people, I do have dysphoria, and I'm pursuing medical transition (not the latter two are requirements to be trans).
I think you're fine fam, I'm more on the nonbianary spectrum but am trans, though I'm actually fine with any pronoun or lack of aside from my agab and no, atm I can't tell ya if that's more my preference or because of being raised with toxic bianary morals that were kinda anti just about everything but "normal" (which technically doesn't exist) so I'm just kinda here because OT's community is nice. Afaik though genderfluid and nonbianary are technically trans though, just not always on the physical part, I just happen to have dysphoria over this flesh suit I'm stuck with despite not really feeling that much like having a gender at all sometimes. It can be pretty complex and confusing though ^^'
Trans rights are human rights.
Trans wrongs are subhuman wrongs.
real
You make me feel so good about being trans AND YOU ARE NOT JUST A NORMAL MAN, you mean so much more to me.
Yeah, honestly. I once said OT was my role model in class because he's genuinely so cool, he inspires me to be a better person and honestly, he does so much and he doesn't give himself enough credit. He always says in his livestreams that the community was all us, but I genuinely think that were he not a wonderful person, we wouldn't have been able to feel as safe as we do.
@@Dragonkitty_101 I one hundred percent agree lol
OT is more than normal... He's PARANORMAL!!!!
Ha ha! Yes! Bully OT with our love!!! 😂😂😂 But sincerely, I agree. OT couldn’t have cultivated this wholesome community if he weren’t such a genuinely wonderful, kind, and adorkable person.
@@lowbatterylifestyle7025 ABSOLUTELY. WELL SAID
Personally, I like it when creators (you in this case, ot) relax a bit and calm down. High energy can be fun, but for someone with my level of social anxiety, it can also be super intense and honestly scary. Please feel free to do episodes without all of the high-energy stuff whenever you like. I promise we won't be mad at you.
10:02
AS A TRANS GUY WHO'S MOSTLY USED SOMETHING SIMILAR TO "SHARKS WITH KNIVES" FOR ALMOST ALL OF MY SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS, YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HAPPY THIS MAKES ME
🦈🔪
I find the people using bones to justify transphobia especieally funny, because hormones effect bone structure
Not enough to completely change it.
But you people are good at pretending
The main thing people don't seem to get is archaeologists don't just look at bones, like they look at the stuff around the skeleton as well
@@leunamreyo3663so all scientists with actual peer review have debunked the myth that “trans isn’t real” so it’s funny you think you’re not the delusional one.
@Skullhawk13 cutting off your penis doesn't make you a woman. What "peer reviewed scientist are you talking about? Made up bullshit is made up bullshit, you're not convincing the world of it
19:24 I think it's important to highlight the part of the sentence "nonbinary students who 'were were assigned female at birth AND who feel they belong in our community of women.'" The non-binary umbrella term covers more than just agender people. Bigender, demi-girl, etc. For instance, I'm non-binary but still identify with the term "woman." They're not saying that if you're an AFAB enby, you're automatically a woman LOL.
if they had just worded it better to indicate it more clearly
I agree! I’m nonbinary and afab. Because I do not intend to pursue medical transition, I know I will always be seen as a woman by society as a whole, and I find comfort in communities for women because of this. So I really appreciated the inclusion! However, I wish they would have specified that woman-aligned nonbinary people who were assigned male at birth are welcome too.
@@wren5452 as a fem-aligned AMAB enby (they/she), this is why I normally don’t like ‘women and non-binary’ spaces - they either forget about us or actively tell us we aren’t included
I agree! Though I do go by any pronouns and mostly go by gender-neutral terms, I don't really mind being called "ate" (or big sister in my language) by my younger siblings. My gender expression switches from fem, masc or androgynous, I know that when people see me they'll be confused and I'm coming to terms with that. When I was younger, I thought that I was transmasc because it felt more like me but as I got older it changed. I realized that I like being flexible with my gender, I like being nonbinary because it feels more freeing to me for some reason. Because I'm afab, I feel more safe in women's spaces rather than men's because growing up I was more close with the women in my family but that doesn't mean that I'm "less nonbinary" because of it. My gender goes on my terms simply because it's mine or something like that?
But the problem is the exclusion of AMAB enbies who identify with communities of women. And by saying AFAB (and excluding enbies) you're kind of just saying that you see enbies as birth sex lite
What a coincidence I literally just got my pride trans flag minutes ago!
But did your dad ever come back from getting the milk tho
Yayyyyy
@@buddy510 Did yours?
@@buddy510 actually my dad never left, *unfortunately*
Yay!! 🎉🏳️⚧️
Im not trans but i support my trans lads in these dire times
Me too, they all deserve to live how they need to. Sending all of you who need it virtual hugs! :D I am glad you are here!
Hell yeah! On my way to the doctor for my first T treatment this morning! I can't wait!!!
Hope it goes/went well
@@neuralmute yooo, congrats!
"the beacons are lit - trans-Gondor calls for aid!"
"-and cis-Rohan will answer~"
Great Vid!
As a 3rd year Egyptology student, I have 2 things to add:
First, its 100% true that sexing skeletal remains is a lot more difficult than transphobes would like to claim - not only does sexual dimorphisms change depending on population, time, age, etc. and that sometimes the remains are badly damaged or fragmental, but Archaeology is the study of *people* and their *culture*. So, like you said, we'd take other aspects into consideration to be as respectful and as accurate as possible, including possible trans individuals.
Second, I can't find much valid information on this "third gender" "Sekhet" / "sxt" / "sXt" - I've never come across it, so either there has been some misunderstandings surrounding the word, or that it wasn't exactly a common thing. I've only seen a single website be the main citation, which doesnt seem to be the best (but certainly not the worst) Egyptians definitely put heavy emphasis on male and female stuff (wording, grammatical endings, art work, etc.) but I've yet to come across it in my studies - definitely something to ask about next semester. I've also seen confusion as to how it was spelled in hieroglyphs. So, not saying its wrong, just that I haven't seen much evidence for it and would love to read some academic work on the topic
" me when my last 3 boyfriends are girls now".. this got me cause the last girlfriend I had before coming out as Gay had dated 5 guys before me. Everyone of them came out as Gay after. I felt so sorry for her when I told her a year after we broke up that I was gay and became number 6..
She’s the gay fairy. Much like how rebecca parham from let me explain studios is the girlfriend fairy.
She should probably seek out professor Xavier cause she's clearly got some sort of super powers.
@@shadowking278 OMG my mind raced to her when I was reading that comment and I was gonna write it myself had you not done it yourself 🙈.
Also, I'm considering if telling my ex (he was trans) that I'm trans and aroace too. I think he knew it, probably because the way we broke up. He said "I love you like I love my sister's, but I'd want to date a boy now I think." This was a couple years ago tho, I think he's married now to a transboy (I'm really happy for him, but I feel like it'd be awkward for me to reach out 😭. But I wanna have the conversation with him too, as a sort of closure or something, I'm not sure)
She is doing god's work.
Which god? Idk Loki?
@@shadowking278 0o0 Omg its you again! :D I’m not sure you’ll see this but this is transallytotherescue, i had a bit of a name change lol how are you doing
It is 100% because of this channel that I realised I am most likely trans. I saw you cover egg_irl, visited it because the memes were funny, then slowly started to realise. So much so that I plan on getting chest surgery in the far off future. Thank you
Good for you. 👍
It honestly took me a while to figure out that I was a trans woman. So much that my niece saw the signs way before me. Hope you have some supportive people in your life. If you don’t. Just remember that in this channel. We all support you. 🥰
Now may I ask what gender you identify as?
Welcome to transhood, both of you
@Dubby
Well. The programming courses will definitely help me with my love for robotics.
Also yay thigh highs. :3
12:38 The pictures of this meme are from a sketch by a German comedian, Martina Hill, (here: the transmasc’s mother)
But the meme is only the beginning of the scene- the daughter crys and the mother, by wiping the tears off with her chili hands, makes her cry worse. So, when the mum realizes it, she touches her own eyes with the chili hands and and starts to scream too. Then, the son enters the room, and the blinded mother tries to feel him but accidentally hits his eyes with her chili fingers. It’s really funny how they play the sketch!
More material for memes🤔
7:33 OMG THE “i want to be a cute anime girl” WEBTOON!!!!!!!! 🥰🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈💖
I’m not trans but my gender is shifty so I experience dysphoria and I was just having a bad day today with that and everything going on in the world rn and this video made it a little better, thank you OT
10:47 my ancestors dying for freedom in ww2 for me to buy impulsively buy a 4 foot long shark plushie
Them when it arrives: 🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡
"but how will I explain it to my children!?" When I was a kid I thought gender was a spectrum based on hair length.
It's not?
If you really can make videos, we'll take anything you give us, but prioritize your health, OT!
Hi OT! I hope you feel better and I just wanted to say that watching your videos have always made me feel better when I was sick or going through something. Thank you for making your videos, they never fail to make me laugh and are part of the reason I accepted being transgender. I know you probably won’t see this but thank you so much!
BONES ARE NOT GENDERED!!! THEY'RE JUST ✨️BONES✨️!
Feel better, OT!
Can confirm -- every time I've asked bones what gender(s), if any, they identify as, they just lie there & don't say anything...
bones are agender, and im always here to support them
Arguing with transphobes about bones is so frustrating, because:
1) They keep insisting that you can tell 100% correctly from bones, even though actual archaeologists say you can't.
2) When I point out that it doesn't matter anyway, they're always like, "WHAT!? HOW CAN YOU SAY IT DOESN'T MATTER!?"
They always say the same things and it's just so annoying. Like, why would it matter what people think when I'm dead? Why do transphobes think that's so important? It's just baffling to me.
No of course bones have genders, idk what you're talking about, next you're gonna tell me my milk carton isn't a dude aren't you? >:(
Obviously joking, I'd actually LOVE to see them attempt to guess the gender of a person based on their bones, totally bet they're gonna one up archeologists that just use what they were buried with the make a best guess lmao. It's ok, it's just clear who doesn't have a degree in biology because humans... Aren't actually sexually dimorphic animals technically since the only difference is reproductive organs and last I checked... Those don't have any bones in humans, so yeah, funny argument ngl
@@discordiacreates6669 1 quick search into medical science papers, there is a general difference in biological male and female pelvic bonestructure. I don't care what anyone identify as, you do you. But ignoring medical science is kind of dangerous in the long run.
10:55 - I expect the dad is joking. If he isn’t (and assuming that is his son being effeminate gay, and not ultimately being his trans daughter), I would point out: would you rather your son have been STONED TO DEATH?!
Note: if his child turned out to be his trans daughter, I would replace “son” with “kid”. Because tenses are weird and (correct me if I’m off the mark!) talking about trans/genderqueer people’s past across such an identity revelation is a bit weird. Also, since their dead name is a DEAD NAME, it may be reasonable - possibly even preferred - to talk about their current self and that past version as if they were separate people (at least to some extent), which would make it plural.
As a Transfem, I can double jump. Came with the Blahaj
I’m still waiting for my double jump to magically kick in, maybe I have to get a Blahaj too first
So that's the source of the power
wait i have the blåhaj where’s the double jump
@@lenajk2004 maybe it's like a skill tree that progresses further if you cuddle with it
@@RunOut25 you have to climb celeste mountain first silly, and don't worry, you can always use a grappling hook, everyone is different
15:35 That's from Miracle Workers, Season 3 Oregon Trail.
Daniel said when they brought that scene up to him, he said he didn't want to stifle anyone's creativity.
I have been loving his roles as the years go on. He plays such interesting characters.
1:35 killed me, these pronoun jokes ARE good😂
They are great
It’s nice to she/them every once and awhile. 👍
@@shadowking278 YOU. I LIKE YOU🤣
I first heard that joke from a video featuring mario, which made it even better😂
Edit: In case if youtube removed my reply you can search "so you're into pronouns huh?" And you'll find them
@@MilkyWayWasTaken haha, that’s awesome!! Do you have a link??
I know no one is going to even see this but I just wanted to say I'm finally going to get testosterone and I am so hecking happy and I feel like I need to tell everyone and so here I am so to all my fellow trans folks out there it really does get better (my pronouns are it/it's + any neos)
You will always be a girl
Keep slaying king don't give up!
@@bitshox1215And you will always be a disappointment
GOOD FOR YOU!!! THAT IS EXCITING, CONGRATS < 3
@@bitshox1215 they won't but you will always be a turd for ruining their happy moment. is that what you meant to say, that's pretty much all I could see. Be ashamed of yourself.
*Thank you so much for that bit near the end, about non-binary genders around the world in ancient times! From the religious, Jewish mama of (among others) a trans enby. ✡🏳⚧
*Happy (belated) Trans Visibility Day to all the guys, gals, and non-binary pals! You are valid and you are loved! 💙💗🤍💗💙
Hello fellow Jewish person
14:19
"I'm feminist and I use my social media with more than 600k followers to say that trans woman are men with wig and a danger for *real woman*.
But hey, I'm feminist!"
"Shut up, Transphobe!!"
I'm from Mexico so I try my best to translate this although OTAAT translate it
im amab but i naturally has more feminine body features, so i have the perfect excuse to say the line “i am 4 parallel universes ahead of you” when i go up to my hrt therapist for the first time
Why do you want to unboy our femboy? We need more of those dammit. (I am supportive but the joke is too strong)
@Gabriel Andrade Ferraz. Understandable. I honestly made a joke about how I’m a trans female. But I already have an hourglass figure and very feminine voice. “Time for this femboy to become even more unmanly.”
I haven’t made it in public because nobody knows that I’m trans. And I already know my parents reaction. Because they grew up in the 50s.
@@shadowking278 that sounds rough, but you can always count on the people on this channel, here its all wholesome everyday everytime
@Gabriel Andrade Ferraz. Yeah. I know. That’s what I’ve been saying to a lot of others in the comments. That we are an army. And we’ve got their backs.
10:21
And, unlike dinosaurs, transphobia won't last 165 million years!
Although I DO wish it could be wiped out by an asteroid...
@@bitshox1215 Bernd
@@hulkhogansuperfan HWABAG
That would be so frickin cool! We get space rocks AND transphobes bite it?
Neat!
@@infinityblayde1973
And nothing of value would be lost!
I myself am a transfem and I’m somewhat of perfectionist with some really bad genetics. Shaving never seems to work for me and my plans to transition always seem to set me back more than anything. But now I believe I’ve got it right this time, down to the very last detail. And I’ve just started HRT. Very soon my spiral will be over and I’ll be feeling much better. But then again I’ve said that before and been wrong before.
Hoping it all works out for you. :]
You got this.
Have you tried hair removal cream and then just shaving stubborn spots? I find it works a lot better and doesn’t leave visible hair roots. It does take a while to find products that suit you so don’t feel too discouraged ❤
Congratulations, you and click have now caused me 3 identity crisises! You have successfully helped me realise i am in fact a girl. Love your videos!
That last one hits so hard because of how true it is for me. I once broke a present from a nice teacher on accident, and I felt horrible because I wasn't able to cry
I saw a bunch of transphobic BS on twitter trends just now that made me feel depressed, so I went straight here. This video made me consistently laugh and feel validated; I'm smiling and much happier after just a 20 minute video before bed. Thanks, OT!
I'd avoid Twitter until musk basically burns all his assets to keep it alive. Then we can all jump in and laugh on the day it gets turned off~
i'd avoid twitter. just, in its entirety. you'll be happier that way. i know from experience
3:56 OT is most definitely allowed to do the Christopher Walken impression because it’s accurate and hilarious.
I don't think I can put into words how much your content has helped me over the years. I'm queer and trans and the absolute love I feel after watching your videos is astounding. I don't know how long I'm going to keep basic human rights and my ability to be seen as human at all, hell I don't even know if I'm going to be alive to grow gray hair, but your videos give me hope that at least some people are still willing to fight for and give love to people like me. Just... thanks.
For what it's worth, there are plenty of people out there who will still see you as human, even if the laws change to take away your human rights. Best of luck to you and the whole trans community anyways. I'm rooting for all of you to be safe and happy.
I got forcefully outed two days ago to my mother as trans by a guy that sits next to me in my band class. Let me run this by you, this guy has been harassing me touching me without consent after I’ve told him to stop and various different things, but the best part of all this. He OUTED ME to my MOM, why? Because he said “it doesn’t make sense for you to be trans and your mom not to know because to be trans you have to go to a doctor and be diagnosed with a mental illness and get surgery” ah yes. Makes PERFECTT sense, doesn’t it? He has done this to two of my other friends and various other people and has not gotten in trouble for it. Sorry for the rant! Have a great day and stay strong ❤❤❤
Don't listen to the hate, you're great champ. 👊, Don't let freaks like put you down. Especially from someone who literally dedicate themselves to hating on trans people. I wish you luck ❤️
@@bitshox1215 Stop being mean, please
@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 The truth is mean.
@@bitshox1215 I have never seen a gravestone with the gender of a person
@@Emibulla thank you very much ❤❤:) this means a lot cause I haven’t exactly gotten support from my family since being outed
Whether you take a break or not, make sure to take care of yourself OT! We all care about you a lot, and you make our days infinitely better when you're around 💜
I'm not going to lie, I've needed this as of late. When living in the US is scary, OT always comes in to make ya feel better
All of this transphobia is *”UNACCEPTABLE!”*
Also I hope you’re feeling better. 🥰
8:20 another victory for the human race: we are now transing the formers
17:45 Bible actually refers to non-binary and asexual people as more holy since that's essentially the closest a person can get to proper celibacy.
Once again showing that religious bigots have no idea what their religious texts actually say
The only problem I have with OT doing a video like this while he's obviously feeling under the weather is that I feel deeply concerned when he starts coughing a bit. 😅
Thank you, OT. You helped me feel comfortable being an Enby Ace. And while I can't speak to anyone in my family, it's nice to know that excellent people like you are out there. You also give me the courage to keep going on and working to become a behavioral health Tech to help people in need to the best of my ability.
Hi stranger! I know this comment wasn't for me, and you don't know me and I don't know you, but I want to let you know that you are valid and you are loved and supported.
Or are you a woman with sexual trauma?
That's awesome!
You’ve helped me so much over the years and I wish you could see the effect of it. I recently had trouble with SH and I started watching your videos again and it’s given me so much strength to fight the urge. So to add to the mountain of comments like mine, here you go.
Thank you for all you’ve done for me and others in similar situations as me.❤❤
As an archaeologist, I love that you mentioned how difficult (and often impossible) it is for us to accurately determine what someone's sex was based only on their skeletal morphology. It's such a pet peeve of mine when the transphobes try to use us against trans people. Like, you can be wrong or you can be bigoted but it's somehow is way more annoying when they're both 😂
I just wanted to say, thanks to you as well as many other allies on this platform, I gained the confidence to come out to my two best friends and my boyfriend as trans. I’m now officially (at least when around them) a boy, named Ash. I live in a relatively lgbtq-phobic community so I can’t exactly come out to everyone yet, unless I’m willing to be beat up at school, but still, baby steps! I wanted to thank you for helping me understand that who I am is okay, and I don’t need to force myself to be a girl because “that’s how I was born” :) love you OT, you’re awesome, never stop doing what you’re doing ❤️❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
Hey. I see you a lot at site 42s comment section. It’s nice seeing people you recognize. 👋
That's amazing dude! Hope you get to be who you are all the time and Enjoy yourself.
I love this channel. I've only just begun my journey a bit late in life at 42 and everything happening in the US has me scared to death. This content helps so much! Thank you
18:55 No blood on my hands, he made his choice. I won't protect stupidity
Transphobe: in 1000 years they will know you were actually a boy.
People in 1000 years: HOLY SHIT SANS UNDERTALE
*I’LL BE CREMATED*
8:25 - when you read the clip OT, I did a whole gasp and squeal and it made my day- made my insides warm and fuzzy, and overall euphoric, to see my fandom, and to see such an incredible couple of panels - even if just one out of the set - be featured. I love how that bit is being recognized by outsiders, or that it finally got shown somewhere, because it’s really wonderful. :)
(I’m a CisFem in the Transformers fandom, for ref.)
I loved transformers growing up. But sorta forgot about it for a while. OT is actually the reason I know this exists. And it fills me with warmth. I’m a trans female. So seeing the fandom I grew up with supporting the LGBT community. Is really nice. 🥰
@@shadowking278 that is so sweet, and wholesome! I’m happy you’ve gotten a chance to see it, and I’m sure we’d be happy to have you in the fandom! and congratulations on your identity, too! :D!
14:58 ignore what ot said about ignoring "this one"
Yes, ignore when he said thst
The trans girl when finding a dorky boyfriend is so true. I love my dork of a boyfriend
All of my partners are Dorks so can confirm too
Dorky partners are THE BEST.
@@Dianasaurthemelonlord7777 hell yeah
@@starrywizdom the absolute best!
Find yourself a man like Luigi. Kind, supportive, literally in one of the Mario and Luigi games he was told his heart was like a gemstone. So that’s a plus.
AS A FEMINIST WITH LIKE 90 FOLLOWERS, TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN AND I LOVE YOU ALLL
Hate to be this person, but no- trans women are not real women. They'll always be biological men, no matter what physical changes they make to themselves.
@@Angelatic2014clearly you don't "hate to be this person because this is the third comment of yours I've found saying the exact same bullshit
Grow up and do better
Or stop yapping about nonsense
Nvm.
💜💜💜💜
Agreed, trans women are women, trans men are men, and nonbinary people are people.
❤
That enby aroace meme made me feel seen.. I’ve been so afraid of being a “nothing” person (bc contemplating agender,asexual,aromantic) so It’s nice to see it as a combo made into something light that other people also kinda experience. (Referring only to my own fears about it. I don’t think of other triple A people as “nothing”)
agender aroace here and ... yeah. i sometimes refer to myself as a human shrug, and I've definitely thought/used the phrase 'i'm kind of nothing' ... but I try to remind myself that the absence of something is still something, and can be a strong part of your identity. the idea that experiencing sexual attraction, for example, is 'something' but the opposite is 'nothing', is an entirely social construct that doesn't really make much sense if you think about it. they're both points on a spectrum. 💖
Non-binary radical anarchist aroace who owns a bunch of stupid frog plushies here, slay.
Stranger, you are loved, seen and valid. Though if you are in fact triple a, can I call you if I lock my keys in my car?
Interesting that you interpret(ed) it as being a “nothing person”. Personally I think what sets humans apart from the rest of the animal kingdom is our minds and ability to pursue goals beyond basic evolution/reproduction. Based on this world-view, I’ve usually considered triple-a to be the absolute highest form of humanity - completely rejecting and transcending our evolutionary roots.
While I have learnt to accept those parts of humanity which remain “evolutionary”, I still can’t help myself from seeing triple-a people as an ideal. I’m still trying to figure out who I am exactly, but I often catch myself hoping the result I get to is a triple-a person, though I have reason to believe that won’t end up being the case. There’s so much more to being human than romance, sex, or gender - and triple-a people embody that fact!
I don’t usually comment subjective opinions of mine (the internet has enough opinions imo), but in this case I hope it can make you or others feel less like “nothings” and more “unshackled” instead!
Edit: fixed grammatical mistake
I can imagine how it is to experiencing yourself to be a gender beyond the nominal binaries, or somwhere inbetween.
But the unfortunate reality is, I can never live into myself as being aromantic and asexual, as I am much the opposite, especially the former, being sort of OVER romanitc...
But I want you to know, you are seen. You are never nothing, no matter what the hateful and insane right-wingers try to claim.
You are here, you exist, you are seen, and you are loved. Never forget that.
That last one hit hard.
Replacing T with E results in a LOT of crying as you relearn experiencing emotions, including the ones bottled up by years of being told to "man up".
Hugs! It's OK to cry!
i n e e d
Welcome to your second puberty xxx
@@elaineb7065 i want that so bad
Does e stand for Estrogen or smth?
OT, I wanted to say I've been watching ALL of your videos recently, and unfortunately i can't support you financially(if I could I would) but I want to thank you for being so fun and positive and energetic, it helps me get back up even at rough times. I hope you stay strong, prosperous, joyus, and blessed, King. 💜👑
Actually just viewing the video helps monetization so technically you are!
As a RUclips user with 15 subscribers, I say Trans women are women, trans men are men, and Enbys are magical space warriors with 3 eyes that glow in the dark.
As an enby I must say you are completely correct
I just got home from school. It was a bad day. I cried on the floor in 6th period and people were making mean comments and some kid started throwing things at me. This is what autistic kids go though EVERYDAY. But anyways, you helped me be a bit less sad. Thank you.
I'm sorry you went through that. I hope your doing better now.