I opened up about my mental health to millions, and this happened next...

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @corinnek3030
    @corinnek3030 2 года назад +3948

    I'd rather have a medicated doctor than one who's not facing their ish. We're all better when we're in it together, my doc told me she's on Prozac as she prescribed it for me. 👏

    • @lovelysakurapetalsyt
      @lovelysakurapetalsyt 2 года назад +71

      I love it when doctors say that! I had the nurse when I was getting birth control (finally) go "I'm on it and when it sets in you're going to cry out of happiness" and I damn near did when I got on track fully :)

    • @birdgirl8390
      @birdgirl8390 2 года назад +32

      @@lovelysakurapetalsyt oh yes! People underestimate what birth control can do for some. As a gay woman, there's no point for me to take it, but having normal hormone levels and not feeling like I'm on my period 24/7 (pain, nausea, exhaustion) is a blessing.

    • @markus4925
      @markus4925 2 года назад +3

      Most doctors I know are medicated by booze. 🤔

    • @youtubesucks1499
      @youtubesucks1499 2 года назад +3

      I would rather a well adjusted doctor. Thank God I have one

    • @mythoughts3314
      @mythoughts3314 2 года назад

      @@youtubesucks1499 that is what the booze are for.

  • @mrstamikeathley-byers6258
    @mrstamikeathley-byers6258 2 года назад +1

    YOU ARE AWESOME & Sharing Ur Life with the world✝️☮️💟

  • @TheTiggerpoo1
    @TheTiggerpoo1 2 года назад +2

    Good move doc for not giving into the "stigma.". You are helping SO MANY!!!!!

  • @mimiandreas8331
    @mimiandreas8331 2 года назад +1663

    Even doctors and nurses need help with mental health. Most people don't understand it's extremely taxing on you when you have long hours on your feet with sick and dying patients. It takes it's toll on your physical, mental and emotional well being.

    • @jenniferb624
      @jenniferb624 2 года назад +2

      They’re some of the number one customers. When over worked, we’re told to just get on adderal vs addressing the issue.

    • @altheriarabb6413
      @altheriarabb6413 2 года назад

      @@jenniferb624 You and many others are the folks I wish I could be of Service for.
      Take Care 💜🤗

    • @velvetrose12
      @velvetrose12 2 года назад +1

      @Joint Electromagnetic Spectrum Operations (JEMSO) that's cute. I'm broke so unfortunately can't pay you a lot, but will you get these people into manipulating my neurons into remembering more stuff before my exams? Best I can offer is a hundred bucks though, sorry.
      I'd love to get more details as to the principle behind this technology and how we as society can benefit from it as a whole as well.
      Thanks in advance!

  • @sarar.5040
    @sarar.5040 2 года назад +502

    Find another person in health care that is suffering too....its nice to share experiences and treatments that work for you personally with a trusted colleague. You are not alone !!

  • @jenj6202
    @jenj6202 2 года назад +1

    Never feel you are alone with this! Always here is you need to talk or share. I’ve been battling the same thing and crippling anxiety….you always feel everyone else has it all together , then you see everyone has their inner feelings or hurts….
    God Bless You! You are in my Prayers! Never feel alone or that others don’t understand, because we all do!

  • @amberlawson668
    @amberlawson668 2 года назад +149

    This is absolutely incredible!!! #endthestigma

  • @AliceObscura
    @AliceObscura 2 года назад +1

    Props man! I've worked in healthcare for 15 years and am openly bipolar. I take my meds twice a day and talk about the condition openly.
    A lot of doctors, nurses, and other staff feel the stigma and just being open about it helps people realize it's not that big a deal. If you need blood pressure meds no one cares. If you need meds for depression, anxiety, BPD, schizophrenia or whatever, just be open about it if you are comfortable being so. It saves a lot of lives and heartache.

  • @zealous1341
    @zealous1341 2 года назад +52

    I hope it was normal . I have seen doctors struggling after seeing so much in their careers. All the best for your future doc!! You are a hero!!

  • @jessicaa6846
    @jessicaa6846 2 года назад

    Bedside RN for 5 years - THANK YOU FOR YOUR TRANSPARENCY AND BRAVERY!
    True hero doc!!

  • @lalahebbie8462
    @lalahebbie8462 2 года назад +80

    Mental health nurse here who suffers from anxiety and depression. Gives me such a good understanding of what my patients are going through 🙂

  • @kasiaspades
    @kasiaspades 2 года назад +70

    This is beautiful. So many doctors are underappreciated and under valued especially now, during the pandemic, and the fact that not only did you have the courage to post it online that you indeed were suffering and were getting help, but you also helped start a movement to #endthestigma is absolutely wild. Hell yea doctor man!!

  • @elizabethhansen2889
    @elizabethhansen2889 2 года назад +24

    The stigma that goes along with having a mental illness even without being a Dr is ridiculous so I can't imagine how being in the healthcare field and having a mental illness is. You're very brave. Thanks 😊

  • @pengwing9009
    @pengwing9009 2 года назад

    Thank you for making people aware . Anybody anywhere can be affected and the right thing to do is to get help. Break the stigma and rise up.

  • @malibubliss8153
    @malibubliss8153 2 года назад

    That’s brave to share and the best to take care of yourself! I want my doctor at his best !! You’re human and strong 💪🏾 !!

  • @Urteil164
    @Urteil164 2 года назад

    Better one who cares for his issues and problems and is still empathic. Thank you to all who still help where they can

  • @38JamieLee38
    @38JamieLee38 2 года назад

    Thank you 🙏💯 for everything.....

  • @archimedesscrew3710
    @archimedesscrew3710 2 года назад

    Brave.
    Well done Dr.
    Top man.
    We aren't robots.

  • @quietobserver4636
    @quietobserver4636 2 года назад

    Thanks for standing up for "us".

  • @agneris
    @agneris 2 года назад +29

    I applaud you and everyone so open about mental health. I myself have depression and anxiety and dont medicate for many reasons but soo happy we can stop hiding from it🙏🏻❤️

  • @wondertravel2928
    @wondertravel2928 2 года назад

    Leading with honesty and helping conquer the fear of stigma attached in getting help. Your an inspiration. Thanks

  • @KingGosia
    @KingGosia 2 года назад

    Please take care of yourself. Give yourself time... even to drink coffee/tea. 💝 Big hugs

  • @YessyFam
    @YessyFam Год назад

    So much love! Thank you for sharing with the world.

  • @kerimcandrew4628
    @kerimcandrew4628 2 года назад

    I have been screaming this for 25 years. Mental health. And to see now how brave All of you are, I cry so happy and I wish I could hug each and every one of you

  • @shelbywilliams4199
    @shelbywilliams4199 2 года назад

    God bless you! You are doing amazing things with your journey! Keep up the good work and God is with you through it all. He is only a prayer away. ❤️ He loves you no matter what

  • @blvdurocher3255
    @blvdurocher3255 2 года назад

    Because of you opening up about your mental health... Other doctors and nurses will see it's okay not to be okay and they'll get the help they deserve rather than just deal with it. Bravo sir!

  • @mandytroost7274
    @mandytroost7274 2 года назад +1

    Good for you!! Youre helping alot of people :)

  • @paulac.munoztorres
    @paulac.munoztorres 2 года назад

    You’re a good doctor, thank you for doing this.

  • @susancollado5290
    @susancollado5290 2 года назад +6

    💕THIS MAKES YOU A BETTER DOCTOR💕One who’s Not afraid to show honesty to his patients💕THANK YOU FOR BEING REALLY TRUTHFUL💕

  • @gabrielleswann6729
    @gabrielleswann6729 2 года назад +2

    Reminds me of when I helped my doc be brave enough to get help,I found him while I was shopping and he had a basket full of chocolate!I saidDr,that is a basket full of stress eating are you ok?I know is hard cos you just graduated and the last case was a really tough one but it's ok to change your mind,you're a great guy. You don't have to flip out and eat all that choccy,maybe have a chat to a senior doctor or a career advisor He can up to me a month later and said,I have to thank you+ I was miserable,you were right,I'm going into medical research and I feel so much happier now 😀

  • @SlimshadyVictoria
    @SlimshadyVictoria 2 года назад

    YOU, GOOD DOCTOR, ARE AMAZING!!!!!

  • @georgiannmartinez8547
    @georgiannmartinez8547 2 года назад

    Thank you for doing this, it shows that you care.

  • @lavenderblossomish9341
    @lavenderblossomish9341 2 года назад

    I pray to lord, you overcome all the pain and bless with good health, amen.

  • @missys
    @missys 2 года назад

    Thank you for putting your story out there. It's inspiring and breaks the stigma.....that we're all "tough" "strong"....not human. We are human....and feel all kinds of things. Bravo 👏👏👏👏

  • @andreaw4602
    @andreaw4602 2 года назад

    You're a brave strong doctor. And you deserve to feel well

  • @meemzing
    @meemzing 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for your transparency and candor, Doctor! :)

  • @mariademakis3308
    @mariademakis3308 2 года назад

    You are doing such a great justice for everyone everywhere. We really appreciate this.

  • @michellebeebelewisfrith1544
    @michellebeebelewisfrith1544 2 года назад

    Your not alone SWEETIE... Love you. Hug's ♥️

  • @insa2242
    @insa2242 2 года назад

    Great doctors are those who seek help when needed.

  • @GoTouchGrassDAC
    @GoTouchGrassDAC 2 года назад +346

    Doctors are not gods. They’re human too. Glad you see the value in self care.

  • @jieunlee247
    @jieunlee247 2 года назад

    Wishing you all the best Doc. Know that all feelings are valid. There would be dark times, you can rest but please make sure you'll go back to light.

  • @BarbaraDr2023
    @BarbaraDr2023 Год назад

    Thank you for all you do

  • @tanyajane1975
    @tanyajane1975 2 года назад

    After all y'all see..go through..and deal with. I am glad you are taking care of your mental wellness🙏 God Bless You Doc❤❤

  • @ElenaBronn
    @ElenaBronn 2 года назад

    So proud of you Dr. Goodman

  • @lexie3805
    @lexie3805 2 года назад

    Healthcare workers are human, too. I'm glad we're breaking the ice about us needing help also. Thank you for helping break that ice for the rest of us ❤

    • @jenniferb624
      @jenniferb624 2 года назад

      Healthcare workers usually need the most help (I know, I am one)…way over worked and all managed does is try to push drugs in you. Like trying to push adderal on over worked employees. So they can do the job of 5 people. It’s like drug pushing salve drivers at this point.

  • @larenamir8771
    @larenamir8771 2 года назад

    You got this!!❤❤❤❤
    really owe you respect 🤝🏻🖤🖤🖤

  • @Bones-fz2ev
    @Bones-fz2ev 2 года назад

    We love this and we love you!

  • @DrVp05
    @DrVp05 2 года назад +4

    Thank YOU man!!!!

  • @henryr.schrader7520
    @henryr.schrader7520 2 года назад

    Don't worry man you seem like a great doctor. I would be happy to have you as my doctor. Plus it's better to have a doctor that is taking care of themselves too.

  • @beemachin8092
    @beemachin8092 2 года назад

    We will all have mental health some time in our life I’ve had depression since I was 15 I’m 55 now and I applaud him for opening up it’s nothing to be ashamed about well done DR I salute you and anyone else not coping speak to your Dr life is worth living

  • @vanessae.cabrera8365
    @vanessae.cabrera8365 2 года назад

    I think you are a human being and you face the horror of what we cannot face: illness and death of ourselves and our love ones. You are brave. I would like to be seen by you. Bless you angel.

  • @fatimamumtaz5428
    @fatimamumtaz5428 2 года назад +39

    Thank you for opening up on this topic!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @jackieee13
    @jackieee13 2 года назад +1

    I would much rather have a medicated doctor, then the doctor that is depressed and cannot even seek help or get medication

  • @chrisrichards1226
    @chrisrichards1226 2 года назад

    Oh my goodness… You are such an absolute ‘High Ambassador’ for a Global Community!!! Thanks for your candidness, honesty; but, mostly a humongous shout-out for giving hope to us all. 🙏👍 😀

  • @dawnd.6923
    @dawnd.6923 2 года назад

    Appreciate you sharing this sooo much-
    As A Nurse that struggles myself, it's always comforting to be reminded that we are not alone!
    Positive Vibes your way doctor & remember, one day at a time. 👍

  • @chelechele25
    @chelechele25 2 года назад

    Remember, It’s ok to not be ok sometimes, we are only human ✨❤️
    This is so beautiful 🥰🙏🏼✨

  • @catherinejones5723
    @catherinejones5723 2 года назад +7

    Take whatever works for you. Talk to those who you love and respect. Listen and ask questions. Don't judge yourself, every day is different. Most importantly be kind to yourself. 🤗

  • @storytimee944
    @storytimee944 2 года назад +10

    So proud of you!

  • @daniellamoreno3616
    @daniellamoreno3616 Год назад

    I support you!
    You have a lot your dealing as MD its difficult work and sometimes barely sleep on top of that!
    Praying for mental strength becomes better with time…

  • @divyanallapuram5140
    @divyanallapuram5140 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your story

  • @Msslorenlb
    @Msslorenlb 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your story! A medicated Doctor here too! Taking care of my mental health is also a way to take care of my patients. 😊

  • @magalimckay4685
    @magalimckay4685 2 года назад

    Thank you. Thank you so much for sharing this. I didn't expect to tear up but here we are. It's so important that people know that it's more than ok to take medication for mental health. So thank you for being so brave.

  • @Ren-bj3en
    @Ren-bj3en 2 года назад +1

    That just warms my heart

  • @lizza4975
    @lizza4975 2 года назад

    You’re so brave and strong

  • @meladurnford5319
    @meladurnford5319 2 года назад

    Good for you! Awesome to see!

  • @hermystic_ways
    @hermystic_ways 2 года назад

    This takes a lot of guts so I hope you recover soon and live your best, most fulfilled, long and healthy life

  • @kellymcdermott851
    @kellymcdermott851 2 года назад

    I would you are not alone there, many of your colleagues must be in the same place. 🙏🥰

  • @KatieBelle77
    @KatieBelle77 Год назад

    I loved your post, honesty, vulnerability. I’m am an ER RN. Took a few months off over last spring to get
    Out of a mental health nose dive. Made a point to be honest when I returned about where I was when people asked. Many teammates told me privately they have been struggling too. 💕 thank you.

  • @v71-c1e
    @v71-c1e 2 года назад

    Stay strong doc we love you.

  • @deniseloc1
    @deniseloc1 2 года назад

    Bless you and thank's

  • @oblivious6447
    @oblivious6447 2 года назад

    I am so thankful to you for your video

  • @andreaanderson6825
    @andreaanderson6825 2 года назад +8

    Good for you!

  • @minaspotatoes4130
    @minaspotatoes4130 2 года назад +303

    psych major here and my professor who is a psychologist actually told me that professionals who work with mental disorders are very much prone to developing their own problems. i agree with ending the stigma. We're all human here and we all have the capability to not be okay sometimes.

    • @Daazeee
      @Daazeee 2 года назад +5

      I can totally see it. I’d make a great psychologist tbh
      But I have like a million problems that I’m very self aware of 😂

    • @kitsumekat
      @kitsumekat 2 года назад +7

      I'm not surprised. Either it manifest from repressed memories or it's from trauma dealing with messed up situations.

    • @jenniferb624
      @jenniferb624 2 года назад

      Dr Nicole, the holistic psychologist, is a great person to check out. She talks about how she got school while in school. I know the same thing happened to me….you learn your own treatments don’t actually work because they end up making you sick. These schools were created by the pharmaceutical industry, therefore, that’s what’s taught and all most doctors know. It’s a cash cow.

  • @mmc1086
    @mmc1086 2 года назад +5

    You’re a legend for confiding this. If a handsome, successful young doctor also has mental health struggles then it makes others realise theirs are also legitimate xox

  • @Burple0000
    @Burple0000 2 года назад

    Man you deserve so much love for this

  • @itsherlifee
    @itsherlifee 2 года назад

    Proud of you and also thankful . Because recently I have been struggling with my mental health and I always felt I'm the only one who is suffering and I will never get out of it but you definitely showed me that I can heal and live a normal life.

  • @harrygall8454
    @harrygall8454 2 года назад

    Love you Doctor 🥰🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @brittanyylee1833
    @brittanyylee1833 2 года назад

    I'll take a doctor that acknowledges they need a little help than one that believes they are fine and half asses there job. Thank you for being open!

  • @coolchoicebro
    @coolchoicebro 2 года назад

    It's going to be alright man. You got this love.

  • @MinhNguyen-ut9su
    @MinhNguyen-ut9su 2 года назад +1

    I suffered severe depression and was told to better not take medication and hide it, or else it would be a hindrance for me to apply to medical school and to become a doctor. I teared up seeing you speaking up because it feels relieved to know that it’s nothing wrong to get treated for mental health and being a doctor at the same time.

  • @palpatine152
    @palpatine152 2 года назад +1

    Your eyes are gorgeous

  • @markdeschaine2413
    @markdeschaine2413 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @lovely0989
    @lovely0989 2 года назад +1

    Not sure why it’s taboo for doctors, nurses, or any heath care professional to have mental health problems. I’ve suffered from anxiety and depression (still do), had to be on medicine and call out for anxiety attacks. We’re human beings and far from perfect. Liking this doc more and more already. Keep up the awesome work Doc!

  • @SuperBookMonkey
    @SuperBookMonkey 2 года назад

    I wish I had a friend like you in my life.

  • @lostinwonderland6873
    @lostinwonderland6873 2 года назад

    Thank you, mental illness can happen to anyone, it doesn't pick and choose.
    I have depression, anxiety, and social anxiety. I recently started talking medication and was made to feel shame for it, you truly helped me.

  • @meeka5447
    @meeka5447 2 года назад

    I love him for this

  • @zilverenmaan1229
    @zilverenmaan1229 2 года назад

    You should be proud of yourself for going public not many people would be comfortable to step forward and go public 💜

  • @absolutelyridiculous6743
    @absolutelyridiculous6743 2 года назад

    Thank you for following the orders you give others. In order to take care of us, you need to take care of yourself first.

  • @irmaadams7780
    @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

    What courage!!

  • @heatherh7834
    @heatherh7834 2 года назад

    I would have him as my doctor any day ❤❤❤

  • @Afrobriit
    @Afrobriit 2 года назад

    I do too ✊🏾✊🏾 Thanks.

  • @marinanottheboatplace3809
    @marinanottheboatplace3809 2 года назад

    Hope you got that royalty king 👑 thanks for sharing the importance of mental health in your work ❤️

  • @thetruedisownedpeak7358
    @thetruedisownedpeak7358 2 года назад +42

    Aye I appreciate this, I’m in the military and I’m exiting from it due to my mental disorder from serving and I want to keep serving but I’m afraid if the stigma. Thank you.

    • @thetruedisownedpeak7358
      @thetruedisownedpeak7358 2 года назад +1

      @emmawee (•̀ᴗ•́)و they just put me in the board last month and I’m Catastrophizing them remainder of my life.

  • @skr4991
    @skr4991 2 года назад

    Don't worry we are all with u
    To cheer u up

  • @kittym.h.1926
    @kittym.h.1926 2 года назад +61

    So... this is a fear I have myself as a current MA with visible scars. I always thought that by the time I'm in school to get my BSN, I would need to be completely "cured" of my CPTSD (which, realistically would never happen, although it can be managed) or else I'd fail and end up being the black sheep at wherever I end up working. Thank you so much for your honesty about your mental health. Thank you so much for opening up discussions about this. You're amazing!
    🧡 I wish you all the best with the burden on your shoulders at this time

    • @catherinejones5723
      @catherinejones5723 2 года назад +5

      Be kind to yourself don't set a deadline for a problem to be resolved. It will happen gradually until one day your inner voice that is stronger will be ready, it will whisper to you hey you've got this covered. 👍🤗

    • @kittym.h.1926
      @kittym.h.1926 2 года назад +2

      @@catherinejones5723 thank you for your kind words ♡ bless your kind soul. I really needed that today...

    • @ritaevergreen7234
      @ritaevergreen7234 2 года назад +1

      Somatic expirencing helps people with CPTSD but many in mental health field aren’t ready for that conversation. And I say this respectfully. I had CPTSD by the way

    • @kittym.h.1926
      @kittym.h.1926 2 года назад +1

      @@ritaevergreen7234 really?? Hm. I'll look that up. It's surprisingly difficult to find one therapist who specializes in trauma who KNOWS about abuse and assault and not just war related. It's taken me a good 12 years just to get a diagnosis that fits me 100%! Terrible. Anyway thank you so much for the info. Hopefully it narrows my current search down. Take care and have a wonderful day/night. 😁

    • @ritaevergreen7234
      @ritaevergreen7234 2 года назад +1

      @@kittym.h.1926 yes nervous system rewiring is what somatic expirencing is. It’s like clearing a storage room full of stuff (truama). Low vagal tone contributes to health problems. A lot of people in regular health care are still caught up with giving antidepressants. My sister even helped rid her of suicidal thoughts with somatic work. Somatic work is life changing but finding the right one with a good background of what you went through is very important. I wish you well and understand being a MA is not easy work at times. And don’t be afraid to actually process your mental health issues. That’s the key component there. Taking antidepressant for depression will not rid you of depression. You have to actually feel your depression and allow the body to process it in order for it to move out of the body.

  • @mendisuarez1595
    @mendisuarez1595 2 года назад

    We do what we need 🙏👍👏👏👏👏❤

  • @ben.tolman
    @ben.tolman 2 года назад

    Beautiful work

  • @sonyawalker9212
    @sonyawalker9212 2 года назад

    You're AMAZING.

  • @dougwallace333
    @dougwallace333 2 года назад

    Thanks Doc…..🙏

  • @ramcharge2704
    @ramcharge2704 2 года назад

    It's normal to struggle with mental health getting help is the best thing for you