TO BE A HOMEMAKER Traditional Christian Homemaking + God Talk
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- Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
- Today I am taking you along on a clean with me video while I do some homemaking around my house and we discuss how our words matter and how phrasing things in a new way can make all the difference in our daily lives as homemakers.
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video chapters
00:00 Homemaking Motivations
01:01 A bad attitude ruins homemaking
02:02 Get To vs. Have To
04:58 The Duties of Homemaking
10:15 Laziness and Drudgery
11:15 More Homemaking Inspiration
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I’m a Christian and believe in work and not being lazy. But, sometimes, as in my case, people struggle with health issues. I live alone and keep my house tidy. But, I feel guilty that there is so much more that I want to do. But, right now, my health prevents me from doing it. I pray that God understands and will heal me so I can work and serve Him more and better. 🙏🏻
God definitely understands!! Praying for your health
It's okay to Lso outsourcing help
In this circumstance, I look to Luke 21:1-4.
God sees what you're doing and you both know what you're giving. He's not holding you to anyone but to yourself. If you can put your name on the day and say God would be happy because I gave with my whole heart, then that's all that needs to be said. Every day won't be the same.
You’re doing so much better than you think. Praying for healing in Jesus’ name! May you continue blessing the Lord. ❤️
Completely understand! Work isn't measured to God as much as our hearts and motives are:) He sees what is our best even if other don't see it... I have an autoimmune system disease, fibromyalgia, alpha-gal syndrome... I have two Littles and am expecting a rainbow baby the end of September... my best right now maybe doesn't measure up to someone else's best, but it is my best and that's what God sees... God has giving me such a good husband that sees my best as well and helps me so often when he gets off work! My little girls 5 and 4 years old, are a huge help as well. Just this morning my five-year-old was vacuuming for me cuz she said she saw the floor was getting messy and she wanted to help me :-) they're often trying to wash dishes or put clothes away for me, telling me that I don't feel very well so they will help me... I'm very blessed! I feel guilty often myself, but I'm so thankful that my family does see my best and it relieves me of some of the guilt... ❤
The Lord has been convicting me lately on being a homemaker. Also to not complain and serve and be a good steward.
When you said life is a gift I started crying. So it is. I'm a mom of 2 wonderful girls. Charlotte is turning 18 tomorrow. Thank you for your videos. You really encourage me. Thank you and a big hello from Germany ❤ thank you ❤❤
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I’ve been praying for this career for about three years now. It’s my dream 💜
You have made me think of a new way of approaching my house jobs. Thank you
So glad to help you make that perspective shift
My ‘rest’ has become watching your videos everyday with a cup of tea. ☺️ I’m always motivated to get up and get some homemaking done afterwards. It no longer feels like drudgery. I enjoy it. I feel closer to the Lord, and to my family, since watching your videos. I am so grateful for you sharing in such beautiful ways! I am a homeschooling Mumma to 7 and I feel like a better version of myself right now. I pray for you and your family, and again, thank you for sharing these biblical truths with us. ❤
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This was so helpful. I am going to make a “ get to do” list in my planner instead of a to do list!😊
Oh I love that!
I struggle so much with unmotivated in my homemaking, but you really have incourage me and seeing it more like serving God! Thank you 🙏🏼
I'm so glad!
This is somthing God has shown me.Just be thankful in all things.I had to cook for siblings when I was very young, cooked all my life even my jobs mostly. Ive said I hate cooking. But I thought. God I thank you that Ican and have food to do so.God is absolutely good.Ive said I hate going to the grocery store, but instead now. Im thankful for my car my health and money and freedom to do so.we need to be thankful. So thank you young lady. God bless you richly
Such a good mindset shift! And it makes a huge difference
Thank you 🙏🏻 I needed this and it made my cry for most of it . I am a busy mum of 3 attempting to manage it all and work outside the home full time . I am going to try harder to complain less and be more grateful for what I do have ! And hopefully that will pass down to my children who have recently started imitating my negative ways of talking and acting with each other and their tasks
You got this!
I love this so so much. This year, after 13 years married, I finally GET to stay home and raise our kids. So so incredibly appreciative for this video. Saving to remind me later.
I am new to your channel, but I want to thank you my children are grown and I now have grandkids but these videos have helped me see my daily tasks so differently and I now do them unto the Lord..Thank you so much for being a blessing to all of us..I will share this with others. ..it was such a blessing for me...bless you and your beautiful family
I love your videos. They help calm me and help me refocus my purpose. I have always been a homemaker, homeschool mom, and daughter of God, but somehow I have gotten off track. God has been leading back to His ways as an obedient wife and mother. These videos encourage me in the Lord and help me enjoy my role as a homemaker. Thank you. I will be praying for your family, God bless you. 😊
I’m so glad my videos are making a difference in your life!!
I really enjoy these Sunday inspiration videos. Your dresses are beautiful!
Thank you so much!
These videos are a blessing! The label is perfect especially that it is done to the glory of God! Being a Christian in this world is not easy but it’s well worth it! Thank you for your ministry and service!
Thank you for watching!
Thank you. I take this video as a message from the Lord to take care of what I have, appreciate and be thankful to Him for everything and always do it with a good attitude!
Amen!!
I love your videos thank you for sharing with us. God is good. I pray for a home in Jesus name trusting an believing in His timing. Amen
Sending prayers!!!
*tears* bless you sweet sister. I needed to hear trios today. I have a rare autoimmune disorder that knocks me flat far too often. Being reminded that God calls me to be here and knows that my efforts are a cry of praise as I fight through chores. The Lord called me to be here. Throw is my fight for my family and for my God.
Amen! Praying for you!!
Your videos are such a blessing a a beautiful reminder of what it means to serve the Lord in our home. 💕
Ty Tabitha. We need to remember words do have power to raise up or to tare down.
Amen!
I always felt like being at home made me a failure. I thought and dreamed of being a successful business person. I have achieved that and am blessed to work from home. But always feel like I'm not doing enough. Like shouldn't I be doing more? But I am learning hat homemaking and homeschooling are the things that God wants me to do and I can find peace and rest in that. Please keep the videos coming! :)
My heart is just balling😭😭😭😭 Such beautiful truths spoken in here with generous kindness from your heart❤
THANK YOU SO MICH FOR THIS TODAY
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Life is a gift not an obligation and I GET to make the most of it ❤
Yes!! 🙌🏼
Yay first comment and second like. Love this channel. Best to you and your family. Thanks for posting these videos.
🙌🏼 YAY! Thank you so much for being here
Thank you. I needed to hear this today. I'm a new subscriber and want you to know how much I appreciate videos like yours.
I'm going to remember & put into place the "get to" instead of "have to" phrase this week.
God bless you & your family.
It definitely helps put things into perspective!
I appreciate your boldness in sharing gods word! This reminds me of a video I watched where a man said "your responsibility is your privilege". That really sunk in for me, god has given me these little lives as blessings and I am so happy and thankful he did. I have the privilege of watching over them for him.
That’s such a good way to look at it!
Yet another of her videos that I need to replay a couple times to let it sink in. I am convicted! Thank you
This is so refreshing! I love that dress! Beautiful words, my dear ❤ (yes, God wants us to do THE DISHES!!! Amen!!!!❤❤❤)
Yes! Thank you!
St. Zita, please pray for this woman and her family and her simple work in the home etc Please help her in her walk with God and her Christian Faith 💖
I've just found your channel and I have found great motivation. It is such an encouragement to work alongside of you. The Holy Spirit has also convicted me and used your words to lovingly correct me and point me in the direction of righteousness. (The video about words/language/tone speaking sweetly). Thank you!
These three words have changed my perspective about life. Thank you Jesus, I get to serve God and mankind.❤
Yes!!
I NEEDED this video. What timing! Thank u😊
I LOVE your videos. ❤ it’s definitely becoming my favorite channel. We hear so much discouragement all the time. Your videos are so encouraging and uplifting. ❤
I'm so glad! Thank you so much for watching them and encouraging me!!
Thank you so much for this video. You bring wisdom to light. Thank you again.
Thank you for watching!
This touched me so much ❤ thank u 🙏🏽 for this content
Yes so true. Let us not be weary in well doing. For in so much we shall reap if we faint not.❤
Amen!!
I have started watching this channel and I enjoy it so much I made my list of home chores and it has taken the me not long to get into a routine.many prayers for you and your family thank you so much for the guidance ❤
That is awesome! Thanks so much for watching
I ❤This so much!!!! this really encourages me to be more obedient around my house to God with my chores. Thank you so much!
You are so welcome! Thank you for watching
This video moved me, thank you Tabitha!💕
I'm so glad! Thank you for watching
This was DEFINITELY a MUCH NEEDED NUDGE, for me!!! Thank you. ❤
You are so welcome!
Love following your content. You are blessing my home. Praise God
Wow! This video was such a blessing to me! Thank you so much!!
Glad it was helpful!
Im really struggling with my homemaking after having my last baby. She’s almost two and I’m barely adapting to my new schedule. I really needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing with us!!
You r so right! We r blessed with each day and given so many things to be thankful for! Being charged with the responsibility of being homemaker and a mother is such an honor and should be a way to show glory to God for all he has given us. It gets so easy to get overwhelmed, run down and just tired of walking the walk at times. It is by keeping our mindset and heart on the right path that will keep us strong. Thk u so much for helping to remind me of who I am and what I should focus on.
So needed to hear this
Lovely video. Thank you for sharing. 😊
Your words are encouraging. I'm a child of God and love your words of wisdom. Thank you for the constant reminder of having a positive mind set. God bless you.
I’m so glad you like the videos!
So thankful for your videos and how you lift up the name of Jesus! This video really encouraged me. I never thought of getting to do things and always said “I have to do this”. I will be looking at things differently now. You are an inspiration. My husband and I could never have children but if we did, I would have loved to have a daughter like you! I still work outside the home but love to keep my home clean and in order. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us as well as the Bible verses!! God bless you honey!!! The Lord is truly using you❤
God speaks through you to me! Soooo thankful that & thankful for the Godly Motivation in your Videos. Its off the hook good! 💪 Im learning to Bless my mess instead of cursing it, i want to be a Good Stewart with what the Lord has given me to Stewart 🙏
Love that! Bless the mess instead of curse it! So good
“Life is a gift and an opportunity.” I love your vlogs. They are so inspiring. Pretty dress! Your home is so clean! ❤
Thank you so much for watching!!
I needed to hear this! Thank you Lord 💟
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What a blessing it is to be a Homemaker! Thanks for sharing!
It really is! Thanks for watching
Hello Tabitha!! Your video was such a blessing to me today. When I hear your voice it calms me. Life is stressful today no matter what age we are or whatever stage of life we are in!!! But life is a blessing we Get to do so much!! If we count our blessings each day!!! I work full time but feel like I keep a clean home. I stay busy the minute my feet touch the floor in the morning til time to go to sleep at night. Thank you for your inspiration to me!!! Take care God bless!!!
Love that! So true! Thanks for watching
I love your videos. They are so encouraging. I am a mom with 7 in the house, many being small or babies. I love your modesty and gentle spirit!!
Thank you for watching!
I can't even express how wonderful it is that this video was suggested to me today. I have been in an unshakeable bad mood, meanwhile I'm living a truly blessed life
I’m so happy you found my video and it helped you!!! 🥹🙌🏼💞😭
Excellent video. I learned this lesson after my child was grown so it's great that you are sharing it now. I'm sure it will help a lot of people.
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Love this and needed to hear it ! Ty
Thank you for watching
God bless you 🤍 your videos encourage and inspire me.
Thank you!
Wow, thank you
I really needed to hear this today.🌷
Glad it was helpful!
I love this❤
I truly enjoy your videos. I wish in my days of motherhood videos such as this would have been available, but never the less I sure they are blessing many others I am getting a lot out of them even in my older age. Thank you so much you are inspiring.🙏🥰
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I love this "I get too". I also heard a phrase this week that says instead of saying "I am worried about something " replace it with "I am not trusting trusting God" with whatever the worry is.
Oh that’s so powerful! Thanks for sharing!
This is one of your many nuggets. Thank you and God bless you dear...Sherri-Payette Idaho
Your videos are so encouraging and a blessing keep them up
Thank you for watching!!!
Thank you for your videos!
Thank you for watching!
Really in the trenches with the less than glamorous part of child rearing (addressing disrespect and unkind words) and this approach will be a great tool to flip the script for myself when feeling overwhelmed/negative.
I am enjoying these videos so much, Tabitha. Thank you❤
So glad it’s helpful!
This is really uplifting content; thanks so much for sharing this with all us listeners.
Glad you enjoy it!
Count our blessings!
Please share more about your dresses!!
I’m planning to share a blog post soon as I often get questions
Thank you! I need to have a new mind set. I get to do thing on to the Lord.
You can do it!
Wow.....beautiful ....content...praise God
Thank you! Amen!
Thank you 😊.
I encouraged my students to say, “I get to do my homework!”
That’s a great thing I’m going to start
Some of the kids expanded on that idea to make doing their French homework a nice little event, accompanied by music, a favorite drink, maybe a little snack.
They had already been indoctrinated into the French way of not doing anything unless the pleasure outweighs the drudgery!
I just found your channel and it has been such a blessing to me❤. Can you link any of the dresses you are wearing in this video? They are beautiful and I’m looking for a couple new modest dresses.
Praise the lord 🙏 sister 😊
I am really loving the new direction of your channel, I get to be a homemaker also but I realized I've been taking that for granted. I am supposed to go back to work in about 9 months when my youngest turns 18. I don't really want to, I want to continue to be a full-time homemaker. I am praying that God arranges our finances to be able to do that. I am going to start be more attentive to my home and learn to love every minute of it. Thank you for giving me motivation. P. S. Your dress is beautiful, where did you get it? God bless you and your family
I pray you can stay home! My dress is from Amazon!
Good advise
Thank you, God bless you in Jesus name.
Keep your good work HE is our strength
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Hello! I love all your videos! Thank you for sharing beautiful messages and reminding us of God's word and his promises. ❤ I also love your beautiful dresses, can you share with us a link or where we can find beautiful clothes like yours?🙏☕🌿 Thank you!
Be blessed ❤
I’m always fed by your walk with the Lord. It’s interesting how some believers use the scripture as a navigating sword.. as you communicate in all your videos. While others use the verses as knowledge or memory verses rather than a weapon of warfare. I am being reminded by you that being a warrior, rightly using my sword, is what I GET TO do!!!
I love your dress can you provide a link to where you purchased it please? thank you dear one!! Although I am not sure how to see your link here or does it come to my email since I’m subscribed?
It’s from Amazon!
I really enjoy your encouraging videos, would love to see a video that has suggestions of how to start reading and studying the Bible. Do you have any suggestions for someone just starting to read Gods Word?
I love all your dresses! Where do you source them?
Lovely
Amen❤ although driving in traffic not so fun😊🤣
I guess it’s better than being bedridden!
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God bless you.
Same to you!!
Where did you get your modesty top for under dresses??? Love that it’s short and doesn’t need to be tucked in
Do you think it’s ok to have times to be lazy? When my kids were babies sometimes I was sick and just had enough energy to be awake with them, change diapers and make meals for them, but now they are older and I appreciate being a stay at home mom. Right now it’s summer break and I’m fully enjoying not homeschooling. I have been living like we are busy as a family for 2 days we rest for a day busy for 2 days rest for a day. Right now being the focus of family time and getting out of the house while I am also recovering from anxiety and panic attacks and learning to live out of fear again… my husband is away and I’m trying to find joy in the alone time that God has set before me. I’m really taking advantage of resting from being a housewife. I enjoy being a housewife but sometimes the stress of making sure the laundry is done and the house is clean Dinner is ready… I’ve been releasing the stress of it and taking these days at a slower pace. Today I woke up heavy in the discomfort of my cycle though. I am laying in bed with a heating pad trying not to throw up. Now I’m wondering if that’s ok? If God is dissapointed in me right now with resting today, and taking time to relax from housework duties. I’m not letting the house get dirty… I’m just not keeping to my normal daily set of chores.
Being sick is not being lazy. Resting is also not laziness. Only you and God can determine if you’re actually purposefully avoiding your duties in a lazy way
I love all your pretty dresses! Where do you shop?
This one is from Amazon!
Thank you.
Where do you buy your lovely dresses?
This one is from Amazon! I’m going to try and go back and link them all
Love you dress sister. Where do you get your modest dresses?
I grew up roman catholic, we only went to church on holidays. I am very lucky to have the change to stay home with my two little kids. I would like to start going to church but not sure if my husband will go with me. Does anyone have suggested books to listen to on audible and any podcast? I am very interested in learning again but more specifically the role of women. I want to be a better mom and wife. Thank you in advance.
I really love the book Fascinating Womanhood!
Beautiful video, beautiful dress! May I ask where you got it?❤😊
Amazon!!
@@ThisMamasFaith do you happen to have a link? I loved it!
Do you mind sharing where you got your dress?
Amazon
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Where do you get your dresses?
This one is from Amazon!
where do u buy your dresses
This one is from Amazon
Could you tell us where you find your dresses
The one in this video is from Amazon and I have it in several colors!
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I'm over here crying watching I believe I'm being delivered 😢 thank you Lord , I'm gonna astray for to long, I get to be a wife i get to be a mommy I get to be a house maker it's a gift from God
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I've been enjoying your videos! Thank you for the weekly uploads that are always spiritually uplifting. 🙏🏼🤍
I would love to know where you got the little white top you wear under your dress!
I got it on temu but Amazon has them too. Just search “crop top” it’s way less bulky (and makes breastfeeding easier too)