Smh. There are no videos of people talking about whether or not they'd date a white girl or girl of any other race. It's depressing that people act as if black women are some sort of "other" breed of women, and liking us is a social statement. I give up.
If they treat you with respect, love you like crazy, and tell you what's up even if you don't wanna hear it.... KEEP THEM. The color of your skin means nothing,
Chunkylover53 really and how do you know . Just because you don't want to date a black girl does not mean everyone is so narrow-minded like you are.so stop saying things on behalf of everyone. I am not black but I don't have any problem dating a black guy .
He lost me at the end. When people say mixed babies are always cute.. it makes it seams that the black race needs to be mixed with another ethnicity in order to be considered beautiful. I know that’s not what he met, but that statement gets under my skin when I hear it.
Why the bloody hell do men of middle eastern, European, Jewish, Asian descent feel the need to make these inane videos on whether or not they would date black women? This nonsense needs to stop; we don't need your validation. And to the black women who feel the need to thank the perpetrators of this foolishnes...just stop it! These videos benefit no one but the poster with undeserved views. 😞👎
I watched one other video like this where the Arab was already dating a black female whom he loves. It seems to me they aren't addressing black females, but those of their own culture who are ultimately oppressed under white supremacist mindsets. They are essentially urging their mentally trapped brethren to free themselves from their oppressed, white racist influenced perceptions to begin to connect with people based on the content of their heart and character. As individuals, instead of connecting based on external features. We truly are all one species; the human species that branch out into beautiful variations, as life is designed to do. This is a conversation he is having with the men of his own culture, a conversation he is allowing the world to be privy to, so that we know where HE stands, as well as many others. I can appreciate this. Just as I understood the purpose of affirmative action - making way to specifically assist those who were held back and beaten down the most in American society in evening the societal playing field - I also understand why many feel the sincere need to publicly acknowledge their desire and decision to romantically connect with black women. Black women have suffered the most under the destructive force of white supremacy in their infecting the world with the poisonous idea that black women are worthless and undesirable. Because black women have suffered the most under such destruction, such people as this RUclipsr feel the need to especially address their own in helping to shed light on the dark lies spread across the globe about black women. Christ once told an apostle who complained about someone they didn't now speaking in his name and spreading the message of Christ, if he isn't against me he is for me. This man is certainly not against us, so.
I dated a Punjabi guy that I really liked. We had a lot of fun together. When he told his mom about me, she told him to dump me. She never even met me. But I was black, so I was untouchable. That hurt.😔
actually we indians are bit comlpicate.......people here in canada and usa cant understand it .....99.9% of times indians like to marry a person who belongs to their community its kinda indian thing........even in india a person will hardly marry someone from some other state / province
@@KJS00975 oh, I understand perfectly fine. Indian people are very xenophobic and racist. They are very colorist, casteist, and featurist even just amongst themselves. Why do you think this video exists? It’s because being with a black person is a huge taboo in Indian culture. Indian families disown their kids over it. It’s just racism and xenophobia.
***** I think you are projecting your own thoughts and inadequacies onto me. I am not talking about whether BW date South Asian men or not. I am talking about this particularly offensive douche in the video and how noone with good sense would want him. Are YOU the YOU in the video?
***** So you are the douche in the video. Not surprised. Strange Fruit... if you are gonna date BW, might want to look up the phrase Strange Fruit .I stand by my original statement. No one in their right mind would come near you.
***** LMAO.... Is that the story you tell yourself to help you sleep at night? Worry about your own lack of options and continue to troll fat emotionally broken BW who prefer unavailable BM to you in NYC. Lawd. LOL!
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Humble The Poet As always well said, I agree 100% Kanwer. My parents had to deal with 2 out of 3 of your last videos. lol Luckily they handled it likes a Boss. Side note: Spell like the English and talk Like Americans. Canadians. shm lol jk :)
This title is misleading for views. It's not really directly addressing the question. Your talking about not discriminating against any race of girls when it comes to dating. Stop using us for views.
My husband and I are both white (I do have some Vietnamese in me but you can't really tell, I have dark eyes and almost black hair but my skin is white with freckles)....his family was very wealthy when he was growing up and his sister married into a wealthy family and they were upset that he chose me to be with because I didn't come from a "wealthy" family. We did have a nice home (150,000) and a good neighborhood but compared to their lives (500,000 home) we were looked at as less than by his family. So it's not just color/race, it's also a problem with levels of wealth marrying one another.
My wife of 11 years is Indian. Together for 8 years prior to that while getting her father on side - now he and I are best mates! It is about fear of the unknown as you said - he thought I would make her convert to Catholicism (I'm Anglican (well agnostic) not Catholic!). Once he was past that we were all good. And damned straight on the mixed race kids, not just our own (cos you could claim bias) but our friends that have mixed race kids as well. Really does show genetics at work - picks the best parts from each of us and they get twice the holidays and presents!
I’m a melanated (Black) woman who is falling in love with a South Indian man. I don’t want race, religion or anything else to stop us from having true love. Love is love and it knows no color, religion, ethnicity. I just want to be happy and in love with him.
Are you guys still together? What kind of south indian is he? Is he a mallu or Tamil? Generally some South Indians are way darker than the black people lol
'If we connect, we connect' - exactly :) Am proud to hear that others feel this way. My parents taught me to think this way AND my grandparents! Equality is definitely all or nothing. Respect one and all. Thanks for being a positive and inspirational platform HumbleThe Poet ! One love. Jas (UK)
Growing up biracial I've always loved seeing interracial relationships and the idea of people from different cultures falling in love. I loved everything you said in this video! I tell my mom all the time I want to date an Indian man there's just none in my city that seem interested lol.
I really love this video and agree with everything you said, but as a Black woman I just need to add the fact that I think Indian men are SOOOOO BEAUTIFUL!! (In fact the main reason I'm following you now is because I saw you in another video and was like "DAY-YUM, HE'S A CUTIE!" X-D) But getting back on topic, I think I'm lucky enough that I was raised in a diverse city and my parents encourage me to interact with people who don't look/think like I do. My grandparents are a different story though X-/ But if by some magical twist of fate I actually manage to gain a social life and land a boyfriend, my mom will be so happy that I'm even dating that she will personally cook a 6 course meal for whomever I bring home PLUS dessert :-P My dad will be happy as long as I'm happy (even though I know inside he'll feel like someone is trying to take his "oldest baby girl" away from him). I'm glad to be from a generation that is more open-minded about these things. ONE LOVE!
I LOVE YOUR video. I am a biracial (non-white) African American woman. I LOVE Cuban, African, and Asian men. You are right about taking control of your life. That is the problem between my mother and I. She has always told me I need to marry in the United States so I can stay here. I always told her that I would leave the United States for marriage. I would go to Australia, Cuba, Africa, Barcelona in Spain, England, Canada, Qatar, or Dubai for marriage.
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I dont think that race should be a problem. if you love someone and wanna date them, go for it. the world is full of adventure and this is just another exciting adventure. #lovethis p.s. would buy the audio so I can hear your sexy voice.Lol. fr
I appreciate your perspective. My love and I are from two different cultures. Indian and afro American. There were a lot of cultural differences however we also had plenty in common even with being from different countries. It's about the connection ,if the bond is solid you and willing to navigate the challenges then the relationship will persevere.
This video was a lot more refreshing than I thought it would be. I assumed you'd be like "Yep!" & have some laughs because it's really obvious your not really the type to be rigid about a person's background. But the pep talk to those who are contemplating an interracial relationship while also giving a nod to the mindset of traditional families is a nice touch.
preach on Bro!!! i feel that we think about what others think way too much. Im black and my fiancé is Guyanese/Indian, but some people give us the side eye when we go out. Our cultures aren't that much different, just the food isn't the same. I don't give 2 shits what people think, I'm going to be happy regardless. I never thought I would end up with an Indian woman, but I fell in love with her because she was sweet and honest. We love the same music, we love to eat lol and I can trust her. So love people as an individual instead of as a race, you don't have to date her ethnicity.....Love the girl who loves you.
I love this video! I mean, I love all of your videos, but this one may actually be my favorite ✌🏼️ You are so motivating and you are great at explaining subjects that may be difficult to understand 😊 I hope that I can meet you one day and thank you in person ❤️
I'm a black person from caribbean background, i agree, i worry less about race, I would be more interested in how the person grew up. if its similar we gots lots to talk about
I know that I'm years late on this video, but your absolutely right.I love your videos. If you and I were compatable, I would ABSOLUTELY go out with you. You're really cute!😊
Like the video. I’m biracial ( German and American) and my parents are both open minded people and I feel like if nothing else I gained MORE in terms of culture and identity ( not less). I get to travel easily to Europe and have easier access to other cultures and have a broader perspective. I love being bicultural and will marry my Algerian man, love has no borders. ❤️
I agree, commonality in terms of physical, spiritual and emotional compatibility are far more significant factors then race alone. Think about it, how many heterosexual, same race couples are together but it doesn't last! According to society, shouldn't the fact that they are within the same racial groups be enough? ........ Guess not!
So southern belle here... And I married a wonderful man who happens to be black. My mom would have adopted him if I wouldn't have married him but I was a bit nervous for my grandmother to meet him... So true story... We had my grandparents over and I introduced my then fiance to them and gave his full name which happens to sound very Middle Eastern. My grandmother was so sweet and I could tell that she liked him. When he walked away, she very quietly whispered to me, ( I can't make this up) " Meagan, what was his name?' And I repeated it to her... She then asked me, "Meagan, is he a Communist?" I laughed so hard I about fell out of my chair. She started laughing too and kept shushing me. It just proves that you never know what kind of prejudices a person has or what they are thinking of at the moment. We are all human and we make all mistakes and we all judge. All I can really say to you is that if you wish to maybe get a different point of view, just get to know someone. You would be amazed at how similar we all are. Oh, and a side not, he does have a Middle Eastern sounding name (and I do now as well) but we aren't even religious. Well, if Neil Degrasse Tyson was a religion, Star Talk would be our Church. As a people, let's try to stop assuming based on appearances and the limited amount of information we have. There is still so much that we don't know about each other.
I really like your video!! Your so wise in saying it doesn't matter about race, cultures, or even religion. As a couple who love each other so much, they'll work out the differences. True will carry on 💘💘
I am a white girl looking for my prince Punjabi charming guy. I like everything about those men ❤️ But life is brutal and racism is a reality in all communities.
I am sudanese, and I've lived in Austria for 10 years and came with my family to Sudan in 2005 In Austria I didn't have any struggles with the race issues, I was accepted perfectly as an immigrant child. In fact the only difference I noticed was my skin colour but that's not a big deal. But once we got back to Sudan I noticed that even in this particular area they have race/tribe issues. In school girls wouldn't be friends with that black girl because she is from the south, which now South Sudan is a separated country because of how northerns treat them. And it's said to be a shame if a woman from the east, north or centre marries a man from the west part of the country because "they are not pure". It hurts when I hear a lady tell her 8 year old daughter not to be friends with that girl because she is from that particular tribe. I'm just hoping that by time and as soon as possible this issue will be long gone and people can live in peace with each other.
Hey I'm from team super and I saw your wish for your birthday and so I came and checked out your channel and now I'm hooked . Hopefully you get your wish!!!
Bi- racial babies be like... HOLLUUAAHH!!!!! Can't stop GORGEOUS, so stop hatin'...PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You ROCK Humble. Wish you an AWESOME 2016 bro...
As long as you're happy with the person, who cares what they believe in or what colour does their skin have,like seriously i think when you're happy with someone or in love with someone you don't even think about such things.
Hahahahha damn. My parents dont like the idea either they i need to find a latib girl (since im latin) but im like hell naw indian arabian black idk but it cant be latin
This is an amazing video I hope many others share this same view, parents have a lot to say in our life but that doesn't mean that they could live their life through ours. Thankfully, I have parents who care about me and my happiness 😊 shoutout from Trinidad ! Love you humble, you're a great human. Hugs☺️
I'm seeing alot of videos like this "who wouldn't you date, who would you date" Who cares honestly, everyone pretty much knows what they like and they go for it, if it happens to be black it's black if it happens to be indian it's indian, etc, etc
I just don't understand why is the title always black women or black girl why couldn't be white , Asian or someone else? and love is love it doesn't matter raice or something else bla Bla bla sorry for my bad English
All these men out there are obsessed with making videos about blk wm. Yes, i always wondered that as well, why not ask questions about white, asian, Latinas etc...tgey always stop at our doors.
@Mynx Mellon black popula3 is fastest grow ing over 2 billion Africans by 2050 black African population 4 billion by end of the Century mix or don't mix who cares
@@melanatedwoman3760ummm, maybe it has something to do with the stigma surrounding relationships with black women... white women are not exactly stigmatized when it comes to dating neither are Asian women or Latinas...
THANK YOU thankyouthankyou this video is so important to me. I'm in a mixed race relationship so I've thought the thoughts expressed in this video over and over and constantly reminded myself of them and it's just nice to be reminded of these things...thanks Humble for being one of THE REALEST youtubers out there.
Everyone talking about the title as if it isn't clickbait. He wants people who think "But SHOULD i? WOULD I? date??? A black??? Girl????" to click on the video. So they get a dose of logic. Also, as an Asian, 10/10 can confirm that its a question that you will get asked by people of your race, at least once in your life (way more often if you're still living in an Asian country). And the way Humble replied is the way people being asked this ridiculous question, should be responding. So yes, the title is like that for a reason. It's to attract people who need a dose of reality, not woke people who know where they stand therefore have time to discern that the title is a racist question.
I really like you point about how in some cultures marriage is more about marrying two families as well as marrying the individuals itself. Hopefully, this was your point because that is what I understood
Wow I just watched Lilly's snapchat and decided to have a look on your videos and I have to say your videos are honestly so inspiring and raw. You have so much wisdom in you, you deserve so much more and I'd just to commend you for all that you've done. Good luck on the great road I can see laid upon you. You have gained a new subscriber.
Smh. There are no videos of people talking about whether or not they'd date a white girl or girl of any other race. It's depressing that people act as if black women are some sort of "other" breed of women, and liking us is a social statement. I give up.
Exactly this!
People are threaten by us.
+Shon9tilR fo sho
It's because "society" says us black women shouldn't be desired. Like, hello.. have you seen black women? Fools
I know right! As if we're undesirable or something
Black women are naturally gorgeous. Peace
You are sweet! Thanks
Ethiopian/Eritrean women are most beautiful black women
Maro Ri wow how rude
Deshia Hickman how was that rude he said BLACK woman Are beatifull
Dharma Rajput are you jealous??
Why the title couldn't be would I date outside of my race?
Omg you are frekin gorgeous. Sincerely, Indian dude.
Maybe he like black chicks , and maybe I’m looking to meet his sister. Let us live
Lmao i know right he didn't talk about black girls at all in this video the fuck
Would a black girl date you..!!!
+dipon I just stepped in something that was smarter than you..and smelled better too...
+dipon keep guessing, you'll get to yourself in some time
yessssss lol say it
LOL a racist black girl
you racist dude?
If they treat you with respect, love you like crazy, and tell you what's up even if you don't wanna hear it.... KEEP THEM. The color of your skin means nothing,
AMEN!
YES!!
+amanda eatherton Exactly!!!
Fuck iff
+amanda eatherton You are so pretty off topic*.. 100% with you
Why is this even a question a girl is a girl no matter her skin color or whatever
Chunkylover53 really and how do you know . Just because you don't want to date a black girl does not mean everyone is so narrow-minded like you are.so stop saying things on behalf of everyone. I am not black but I don't have any problem dating a black guy .
Don't lower your self black woman a girl ain't just a girl or what ever as u say go natural and luv ur higher black self
You are ryt ,
He lost me at the end. When people say mixed babies are always cute.. it makes it seams that the black race needs to be mixed with another ethnicity in order to be considered beautiful. I know that’s not what he met, but that statement gets under my skin when I hear it.
I am glad you brought that *specific* statement up, thank you
Why the bloody hell do men of middle eastern, European, Jewish, Asian descent feel the need to make these inane videos on whether or not they would date black women? This nonsense needs to stop; we don't need your validation.
And to the black women who feel the need to thank the perpetrators of this foolishnes...just stop it! These videos benefit no one but the poster with undeserved views. 😞👎
Fleur Lovin' it's cringey as hell lol just do you
Fleur Lovin' i agree!
I watched one other video like this where the Arab was already dating a black female whom he loves. It seems to me they aren't addressing black females, but those of their own culture who are ultimately oppressed under white supremacist mindsets. They are essentially urging their mentally trapped brethren to free themselves from their oppressed, white racist influenced perceptions to begin to connect with people based on the content of their heart and character. As individuals, instead of connecting based on external features. We truly are all one species; the human species that branch out into beautiful variations, as life is designed to do. This is a conversation he is having with the men of his own culture, a conversation he is allowing the world to be privy to, so that we know where HE stands, as well as many others. I can appreciate this.
Just as I understood the purpose of affirmative action - making way to specifically assist those who were held back and beaten down the most in American society in evening the societal playing field - I also understand why many feel the sincere need to publicly acknowledge their desire and decision to romantically connect with black women. Black women have suffered the most under the destructive force of white supremacy in their infecting the world with the poisonous idea that black women are worthless and undesirable. Because black women have suffered the most under such destruction, such people as this RUclipsr feel the need to especially address their own in helping to shed light on the dark lies spread across the globe about black women. Christ once told an apostle who complained about someone they didn't now speaking in his name and spreading the message of Christ, if he isn't against me he is for me. This man is certainly not against us, so.
I so agree. It's discerning....
Thank you!
The question isn't would you date a black girl, it’s would a black girl date you?
+Shaniya Lawrence you don't watch my videos I'm the most famous youtuber
Usman Azam yes
Usman Azam BROO JUST THINKING THAT!!
@@jdjdjdhdjddjd9097
Lol
@@Etherealdream234 you're probably 9😂
"At the end of the day mixes race babies are really cute"... Not all...Lol...Genetics are a factor...
I C Mixed babies are cute. That’s like saying all black people are murders and then someone that’s black get offended and say some...
black babies are cute so what's your point
All babiesare cute of any race stop this shit white black Asian whatever
@@diamond-vm5sl but they are
All babies are cute no matter what. It isn't the babies fault
I dated a Punjabi guy that I really liked. We had a lot of fun together. When he told his mom about me, she told him to dump me. She never even met me. But I was black, so I was untouchable. That hurt.😔
I’m so sorry for that🥺you’re gorgeous!! I’m an Indian punjabi girl btw🤍
@@itachiuchiwa6875 thank you!❤️
actually we indians are bit comlpicate.......people here in canada and usa cant understand it .....99.9% of times indians like to marry a person who belongs to their community its kinda indian thing........even in india a person will hardly marry someone from some other state / province
@@KJS00975 oh, I understand perfectly fine. Indian people are very xenophobic and racist. They are very colorist, casteist, and featurist even just amongst themselves. Why do you think this video exists? It’s because being with a black person is a huge taboo in Indian culture. Indian families disown their kids over it. It’s just racism and xenophobia.
if he didnt (politely) tell his mom he will marry who he wants, then he wasn't right for you anyway.
No black or mixed race woman with good sense would see this as a compliment. The real question is whether one would date you.
***** I think you are projecting your own thoughts and inadequacies onto me. I am not talking about whether BW date South Asian men or not. I am talking about this particularly offensive douche in the video and how noone with good sense would want him. Are YOU the YOU in the video?
***** So you are the douche in the video. Not surprised.
Strange Fruit... if you are gonna date BW, might want to look up the phrase Strange Fruit .I stand by my original statement. No one in their right mind would come near you.
***** LMAO.... Is that the story you tell yourself to help you sleep at night? Worry about your own lack of options and continue to troll fat emotionally broken BW who prefer unavailable BM to you in NYC.
Lawd. LOL!
***** I'm good. I married a wm who doesn't have to google Strange Fruit. Thanks for showing BW why they need to properly VET all races of men.
***** All I need, goofy. Ciao.
"Naked urban decay... what is that, is that chocolate?"
Love you Humble
Ikr! hehe gotta love him
didi
I cracked up at that! Haha! 😫👏🏽
🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Ignore the negative comments, nobody is perfect, and your message is the truth. We need more people like you to stop DISCRIMINATION.
Yes preach
Amen
My ex is Kurdish and we got along great. My parents don't care who I go out with, as long as they're good me! I love all types of people!
Your ex ?
Bruh just can't stop staring at his beards
Yup
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Humble The Poet I love your videos. I hope you will reach your goal of a hundred thousand subscribers as soon as possible. Good Luck ;)
Yay too Mix Babies!!! XD
Humble The Poet LOL More like 'Would a black girl marry you?'
Humble The Poet As always well said, I agree 100% Kanwer. My parents had to deal with 2 out of 3 of your last videos. lol Luckily they handled it likes a Boss.
Side note: Spell like the English and talk Like Americans. Canadians. shm lol jk :)
Humble, your videos are amazing! I learn and grow as an individual after each video. Thank you
This title is misleading for views. It's not really directly addressing the question. Your talking about not discriminating against any race of girls when it comes to dating. Stop using us for views.
Jemima Brady that's exactly what I was thinking .
My husband and I are both white (I do have some Vietnamese in me but you can't really tell, I have dark eyes and almost black hair but my skin is white with freckles)....his family was very wealthy when he was growing up and his sister married into a wealthy family and they were upset that he chose me to be with because I didn't come from a "wealthy" family. We did have a nice home (150,000) and a good neighborhood but compared to their lives (500,000 home) we were looked at as less than by his family. So it's not just color/race, it's also a problem with levels of wealth marrying one another.
Hmmmm you sure it's not the 'some Vietnamese ' in you? Just asking for a friend
As soon as he praised Lauryn Hill, I subbed. Thats all you need to win me over
Same for me! lol
Good tastes 😂
that's cause y'all thirsty.
Yall fuck a dog
You must be dumb. He's pandering
Aww you got me with that Aaliyah line. #100%Agree
I'm srilankan I love black ppl y'all are gorgeous love u all all the Africans love u guys 🇱🇰🇱🇰🇱🇰🇱🇰🇱🇰🇱🇰😍😍😍💝💝💝💝
"Snooping through lillys stuff .Naked urban decay. Is that chocolate. LOL
HUMBLE UR THE BOMB
+Ayah Osman Totally
My wife of 11 years is Indian. Together for 8 years prior to that while getting her father on side - now he and I are best mates! It is about fear of the unknown as you said - he thought I would make her convert to Catholicism (I'm Anglican (well agnostic) not Catholic!). Once he was past that we were all good. And damned straight on the mixed race kids, not just our own (cos you could claim bias) but our friends that have mixed race kids as well. Really does show genetics at work - picks the best parts from each of us and they get twice the holidays and presents!
I dated a Singh in Kenya for two years....he was the best I will never forget him!
I’m a melanated (Black) woman who is falling in love with a South Indian man. I don’t want race, religion or anything else to stop us from having true love. Love is love and it knows no color, religion, ethnicity. I just want to be happy and in love with him.
Bless you girl. I hope it works.
Are you guys still together? What kind of south indian is he? Is he a mallu or Tamil? Generally some South Indians are way darker than the black people lol
"as long as it's a girl, for now!" lol hahahaa my life was not ready!
PS interracial relationships rock! #Unity
'If we connect, we connect' - exactly :)
Am proud to hear that others feel this way. My parents taught me to think this way AND my grandparents! Equality is definitely all or nothing. Respect one and all. Thanks for being a positive and inspirational platform HumbleThe Poet !
One love.
Jas (UK)
This is a handsome fellow shedding light on a very important and relevant topic.
Growing up biracial I've always loved seeing interracial relationships and the idea of people from different cultures falling in love. I loved everything you said in this video! I tell my mom all the time I want to date an Indian man there's just none in my city that seem interested lol.
Go online. But beware of the ones born in India, as they use women only for green cards.
When you saw the Makeup thing and you said "is this chocolate" I died 😂😂😂😂
"Lauryn Hill is the greatest thing on the planet" my sentiment exactly!
I like you... Thanks for saying ETHNICITY not 'race"...
Yes
He understands the science not the rhetoric
I said the same thing because I hope he doesn't think he is white.
Man, you are such an amazing human being. Love you brother!
"What is that? Is that chocolate?" 😂😂😂😂 ily humble
Thank you for this video
"if we connect, we connect"
connectivity!
I really love this video and agree with everything you said, but as a Black woman I just need to add the fact that I think Indian men are SOOOOO BEAUTIFUL!! (In fact the main reason I'm following you now is because I saw you in another video and was like "DAY-YUM, HE'S A CUTIE!" X-D) But getting back on topic, I think I'm lucky enough that I was raised in a diverse city and my parents encourage me to interact with people who don't look/think like I do. My grandparents are a different story though X-/ But if by some magical twist of fate I actually manage to gain a social life and land a boyfriend, my mom will be so happy that I'm even dating that she will personally cook a 6 course meal for whomever I bring home PLUS dessert :-P My dad will be happy as long as I'm happy (even though I know inside he'll feel like someone is trying to take his "oldest baby girl" away from him). I'm glad to be from a generation that is more open-minded about these things. ONE LOVE!
CxHxRxIxSxTxIxAxN your lucky then! God bless u n ur family
You are very handsome and thank you for this video. I've never seen so many women get angry about a man speaking positively about them in my life.
you are also very handsome!
@@humblethepoet God bless!! Your videos make my day!
I LOVE YOUR video. I am a biracial (non-white) African American woman. I LOVE Cuban, African, and Asian men. You are right about taking control of your life. That is the problem between my mother and I. She has always told me I need to marry in the United States so I can stay here. I always told her that I would leave the United States for marriage. I would go to Australia, Cuba, Africa, Barcelona in Spain, England, Canada, Qatar, or Dubai for marriage.
As a girl who's really into make up and lives in Hungary where there is no Urban Decay, I could kill for that Naked palette :D Congrats on 100k Humble, you are a nonpareil human being 😊 💖
Well this black girl loves her lighter skinned punjabi husband 🌹
your a good brother man. dam I wish the world had more people like you.
I dont think that race should be a problem. if you love someone and wanna date them, go for it. the world is full of adventure and this is just another exciting adventure. #lovethis
p.s. would buy the audio so I can hear your sexy voice.Lol. fr
Humble u are so talented !!!!! I love your videos and your channel !!!! And you!!!💖
I appreciate your perspective. My love and I are from two different cultures. Indian and afro American. There were a lot of cultural differences however we also had plenty in common even with being from different countries. It's about the connection ,if the bond is solid you and willing to navigate the challenges then the relationship will persevere.
*Looks at title and starts singing* black, white, Portoreacan and Asian
Lmaoo..Same!
That was so me
This video was a lot more refreshing than I thought it would be. I assumed you'd be like "Yep!" & have some laughs because it's really obvious your not really the type to be rigid about a person's background. But the pep talk to those who are contemplating an interracial relationship while also giving a nod to the mindset of traditional families is a nice touch.
With that being said, I'm assuming you'll be asking me to marry you within the next few days or?
preach on Bro!!! i feel that we think about what others think way too much. Im black and my fiancé is Guyanese/Indian, but some people give us the side eye when we go out. Our cultures aren't that much different, just the food isn't the same. I don't give 2 shits what people think, I'm going to be happy regardless. I never thought I would end up with an Indian woman, but I fell in love with her because she was sweet and honest. We love the same music, we love to eat lol and I can trust her. So love people as an individual instead of as a race, you don't have to date her ethnicity.....Love the girl who loves you.
I love this video! I mean, I love all of your videos, but this one may actually be my favorite ✌🏼️ You are so motivating and you are great at explaining subjects that may be difficult to understand 😊 I hope that I can meet you one day and thank you in person ❤️
I like black girls cause they are funny, open minded and beautiful and race doesn't matters, character of a person matters right?
GLAD i discovered your channel
Honestly I feel like most Indian men do adore Black woman but they just don't want to admit it. 🥰
"I think we should see other people"
*Gasp!*
I died 😂😂😂
I'm a black person from caribbean background, i agree, i worry less about race, I would be more interested in how the person grew up. if its similar we gots lots to talk about
I know that I'm years late on this video, but your absolutely right.I love your videos. If you and I were compatable, I would ABSOLUTELY go out with you. You're really cute!😊
Like the video. I’m biracial ( German and American) and my parents are both open minded people and I feel like if nothing else I gained MORE in terms of culture and identity ( not less). I get to travel easily to Europe and have easier access to other cultures and have a broader perspective. I love being bicultural and will marry my Algerian man, love has no borders. ❤️
Am i the only one that wants to see Humble without a beard so fucking bad?
Andri Ramirez
The humble package is only available with all the beard and 3 limited languages.
+Tajbir Tony Singh lolll cuteee
+PinksMagenta
Lmao, totally forgot I wrote such stuff. But cant remember the reference to the 3 languages tho. Anyone can help me?
+PinksMagenta hey x
Are you compatible? Do you have the same values? Beliefs? Is there a depth of understanding? Are there commonalities between your cultures?
Hey humble you are a very wise young man. I'm Muslim British Pakistani married to a black guy. Agree with you 100 percent. Take care x
Humble The Poet CONGRATULATIONS ON 100k!!! U DESERVE IT. ALL THE EFFORT U HAVE PUT INTO YOUR VIDEOS HAS CLEARLY PAID OFF❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉 ILY
I agree, commonality in terms of physical, spiritual and emotional compatibility are far more significant factors then race alone. Think about it, how many heterosexual, same race couples are together but it doesn't last! According to society, shouldn't the fact that they are within the same racial groups be enough? ........ Guess not!
So southern belle here...
And I married a wonderful man who happens to be black.
My mom would have adopted him if I wouldn't have married him but I was a bit nervous for my grandmother to meet him...
So true story...
We had my grandparents over and I introduced my then fiance to them and gave his full name which happens to sound very Middle Eastern. My grandmother was so sweet and I could tell that she liked him. When he walked away, she very quietly whispered to me, ( I can't make this up) " Meagan, what was his name?' And I repeated it to her... She then asked me, "Meagan, is he a Communist?" I laughed so hard I about fell out of my chair. She started laughing too and kept shushing me. It just proves that you never know what kind of prejudices a person has or what they are thinking of at the moment. We are all human and we make all mistakes and we all judge. All I can really say to you is that if you wish to maybe get a different point of view, just get to know someone. You would be amazed at how similar we all are. Oh, and a side not, he does have a Middle Eastern sounding name (and I do now as well) but we aren't even religious. Well, if Neil Degrasse Tyson was a religion, Star Talk would be our Church. As a people, let's try to stop assuming based on appearances and the limited amount of information we have. There is still so much that we don't know about each other.
It's the heart and soul that matters the most.
What soul
I thought you had a great message and I like that you made a lot of points in such a short time and there was a bit of satire which always helps.
You should marry superwoman, you guys make a good couple
I really like your video!! Your so wise in saying it doesn't matter about race, cultures, or even religion. As a couple who love each other so much, they'll work out the differences. True will carry on 💘💘
My parents do not care what race, religion, or upbringing I marry they just want grand babies.
I love you. You know who Lauren Hill is. You are my favorite person now :)
The question is will a black girl date you? Any how everyone have their preferences.
I am a white girl looking for my prince Punjabi charming guy. I like everything about those men ❤️ But life is brutal and racism is a reality in all communities.
I'm Greek, Middle East and Jewish. Want to date me haha
This video was created 8 years ago, and I am just now seeing it for the first time! I must say that I totally agree! I love this!
I am sudanese, and I've lived in Austria for 10 years and came with my family to Sudan in 2005
In Austria I didn't have any struggles with the race issues, I was accepted perfectly as an immigrant child. In fact the only difference I noticed was my skin colour but that's not a big deal.
But once we got back to Sudan I noticed that even in this particular area they have race/tribe issues. In school girls wouldn't be friends with that black girl because she is from the south, which now South Sudan is a separated country because of how northerns treat them. And it's said to be a shame if a woman from the east, north or centre marries a man from the west part of the country because "they are not pure".
It hurts when I hear a lady tell her 8 year old daughter not to be friends with that girl because she is from that particular tribe.
I'm just hoping that by time and as soon as possible this issue will be long gone and people can live in peace with each other.
"Naked urban decay"...what is that, chocolate? LOL!!!!!!
Hey I'm from team super and I saw your wish for your birthday and so I came and checked out your channel and now I'm hooked . Hopefully you get your wish!!!
I feel refreshed to hear you, brother! God truly bless you!
Well said you are so wise and you just melt my heart everytime.
I'm so excited to read your book! You are hella smart! Keep up the good work, you have a new follower!!!!
Bi- racial babies be like... HOLLUUAAHH!!!!! Can't stop GORGEOUS, so stop hatin'...PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You ROCK Humble. Wish you an AWESOME 2016 bro...
As long as you're happy with the person, who cares what they believe in or what colour does their skin have,like seriously i think when you're happy with someone or in love with someone you don't even think about such things.
I wanna date an Indian girl so bad
to bad I don't know any
Only white girls love me , so sad
Move to Brampton. Fin.
Gurinderjit I laughed.
My thoughts exactly. Or not even indian maybe somethin different from my own culture. I find all mixes of different cultures extremely sexy
Samy Garcia me too xD my mom hates it but lmao she says it a Payback from God for always making fun of her own nose (she has a small flat wide nose)
Hahahahha damn. My parents dont like the idea either they i need to find a latib girl (since im latin) but im like hell naw indian arabian black idk but it cant be latin
Indian girls are hot man. Never ever met an Indian girl attracted to me though haha I feel your pain
It's very important for two people to connect in order for relationships to last and be a success
i miss Aaliyah too man
this was really thought provoking. i've never thought of it that way. thank you for bringing this to mind
The title of this video is so derogatory - please show some respect to black women.
This is an amazing video I hope many others share this same view, parents have a lot to say in our life but that doesn't mean that they could live their life through ours. Thankfully, I have parents who care about me and my happiness 😊 shoutout from Trinidad ! Love you humble, you're a great human. Hugs☺️
"Is that a chocolate?"
I'm seeing alot of videos like this "who wouldn't you date, who would you date" Who cares honestly, everyone pretty much knows what they like and they go for it, if it happens to be black it's black if it happens to be indian it's indian, etc, etc
I just don't understand why is the title always black women or black girl why couldn't be white , Asian or someone else?
and love is love it doesn't matter raice or something else bla Bla bla
sorry for my bad English
You say race doesnt matter but you lose your shit because black is in the title. OKAY 🙄🙄🙄
All these men out there are obsessed with making videos about blk wm. Yes, i always wondered that as well, why not ask questions about white, asian, Latinas etc...tgey always stop at our doors.
@Mynx Mellon black popula3 is fastest grow ing over 2 billion Africans by 2050 black African population 4 billion by end of the
Century mix or don't mix who cares
@@melanatedwoman3760ummm, maybe it has something to do with the stigma surrounding relationships with black women... white women are not exactly stigmatized when it comes to dating neither are Asian women or Latinas...
@Mynx Mellon My thoughts exactly. Well spoken.
THANK YOU thankyouthankyou this video is so important to me. I'm in a mixed race relationship so I've thought the thoughts expressed in this video over and over and constantly reminded myself of them and it's just nice to be reminded of these things...thanks Humble for being one of THE REALEST youtubers out there.
Great point. I completely agree
One word: Wow! I'm subscribing. Love from South Africa!
Everyone talking about the title as if it isn't clickbait. He wants people who think "But SHOULD i? WOULD I? date??? A black??? Girl????" to click on the video. So they get a dose of logic. Also, as an Asian, 10/10 can confirm that its a question that you will get asked by people of your race, at least once in your life (way more often if you're still living in an Asian country). And the way Humble replied is the way people being asked this ridiculous question, should be responding. So yes, the title is like that for a reason. It's to attract people who need a dose of reality, not woke people who know where they stand therefore have time to discern that the title is a racist question.
Bro. Humble , you're a Renaissance man for sure. And I like that shirt , hope you're still playing it.
interesting video.. And i love open mindedness..
I really like you point about how in some cultures marriage is more about marrying two families as well as marrying the individuals itself. Hopefully, this was your point because that is what I understood
Wow I just watched Lilly's snapchat and decided to have a look on your videos and I have to say your videos are honestly so inspiring and raw. You have so much wisdom in you, you deserve so much more and I'd just to commend you for all that you've done. Good luck on the great road I can see laid upon you. You have gained a new subscriber.
Why wouldn't someone? I don't understand. Black women are incredible.