Lol.. looks like you're super into us. I didn't mind it. On my channel, I just use the sewing machine cover as my microphone stand. 🤣 Maybe you could use a shipping box from your garment line.
I love how you always tackle that darkness. You're the opposite of toxic positivity. You're healthy positivity. Tackling that dark shit is half the battle. And you short cut it so easily. "Because it feels good" 🤯 thank you. I love your videos
I felt like crying as early as "without you the world would probably still be as bad. with you, you do have the potential to make it slightly better." struthless is truly a gift and the world is definitely substantially better with you in it - thank you!
I was crying two hours ago about the fact that I couldn't set goals correctly. Two possibilities : you're my spiritual mentor or google is listening . Cheers from Belgium, I love everything you do 🤘
I've noticed your videos are the type of videos you have to watch at least 2 times to get the most out of it. One to enjoy the video and visuals, to get that mind blowing feeling out of it. The second to "do your homework" and apply to practical life. Getting people to watch stuff is hard, but your content is so good it deserves a double watch. Thanks for your videos. All of them, even the ones you think aren't that good. I've learned at least 1 useful thing in each of them or they have moved me to a better state of mind with your sense of humor and metaphors. Just bought your book and it is helping me understand the stuff my therapist can't. Thanks
Hey i saw ur video two years ago, i set big ambitions, ive achieved 95%. Was looking at my paper i wrote and i am never where i thought i would be. I have tons more dreams to keep going. Just wanna say ur video is still as relevant and i remember seeing this, after having had written what i was working on. Thinfs even 10 years ago i thought were impossible. Im having new types of goals, like meeting people and things but i still have my fire in my belly
Great video. My problem is I suffer with anxiety, and goals make me anxious. I have abandoned so many that when I set a goal and I DO manage to complete it, I am more relieved that it is over than getting a sense of achievement. So a long term goal, even broken down, is a wait on my shoulders.
this is literally the best youtube channel ever. thank you so much. you changed my life 3 years ago and now i kinda lost the direction a bit again and came back here to find this amazing video. thanks man.
This changed my life, I made a list of decisions a little over a year ago, and because of this video, I’m in a much happier place today. However, I stopped doing the journaling after only a few months, and I can tell that my goals have fallen to the wayside. But a friend asked me today how they could keep up with their goals and daily stress, and I suggested this video. I decided to watch it again myself, and I’m filled with motivation to restart the journaling I started when you first released this video. I hope it turns out well, thank you and keep doing you.
I love how you mentioned that quote "following the fun" and if you are not having fun then you are doing it wrong! Because life is supposed to be enjoyed and your goals should have something that excites you!
I love how he recognizes on some days we feel like shit and others we feel like we can accomplish anything. This bipolarity in my own emotions from day to day really set me back and i’m glad he points this reality out.
fair play to you admitting your jealous tendencies! Especially in the online world it's easy to fall into the trap of portraying perfection, but what I love about you is that you're authentic 💜
Can we have a struthless journal with all your journal prompts PLEASE. I risk spending 2 days of my life binge-watching (again) all your videos just to note them all down in one place!
What you said about jealousy is so life-changing man... I appreciate so so much that you always try to give us an option to use our negative feelings in a useful way. Thank you so much ❤️
Thanks so much for the start point of 'lost'!!!!! It's definitely rare to find a video like this because everywhere presumes we already have our 'goal'.
Ok, your 'move the arrow' along for your goals written on pieces of paper actually made me audibly gasp and say- out loud and alone in my room- that's a GREAT idea.
If anyone in my life would have provided me with this when I was graduating, I don't think I would have been so lost in the world. Your students are lucky to have you
"Follow the fun!" Ferrrr sure. I really struggle with this, as most times I've followed the fun I've managed to turn something I really enjoy into drudgery. Mostly just pinning too much importance on it, and trying to do too much of it, thinking about it in my off time etc...burning out on it. Anyway, your videos help so much and I'm starting your book once the kid is in bed tonight. Cheers!
Same for me. I'm having to teach myself that it's okay to take breaks, even from fun. Depression and perfectionism really make you think that fun things arnt as fun anymore. If you're up for advice(I dont know you so feel free to ignore this I may be wrong), try to relax. Practice being okay with taking a 30min break from EVERYTHING without feeling bad about it, then once you're relaxed, make an achievable goal and do it. This is kind of what he touches on in the video lol but with an added "it's okay to get burned out so give yourself a break so you can get back to it". :)
Same here, I learned my problem was I put a huge expectation on everything I touch. I feel like I have to be the “best of the best,” and shouldn’t it be easier to do that if I choose something I actually enjoy? It very quickly takes the fun out of it. I’m slowly but surely cutting out the expectations, negative thoughts, judgements, criticisms, and comparisons I not only get from others but also myself 😅 Best of luck to you and finding the fun again!
I am struggling with the same thing. I think a part of my problem is that I take things too seriously and too personally. I have always been extremely harsh on my self and being that way over the years has caused me to avoid playfulness for fear of looking like an idiot. I don’t care if others judge me it’s me and the viciously pessimistic voice in my head that bother me more.
I think that some fun things should be left as fun and easy to do things. There are things that are both fun and important for you, but also the ones that are also important but more like for your soul and mood. Like professional life and career things are fun for sure, and this is where you put more effort and energy. But a little things like hobbies or sports are where you could start off when feeling down and burnt out. It shouldn’t be a necessary goal to finish it fast, but something like I will do it when I feel like doing
I don't know how it is possible for someone all the way across the earth to speak to exactly who I am as a human, but I appreciate it. Thank you for sharing everything you do. You've given me a lot of hope. Keep it up, man. 👍👍✌
It has been 70 seconds into the video and it directly spoke to me for my depression wtf i feel understood when even i couldnt understand myself or couldnt gather the necessary thoughts to understand myself for months
I just want to be consistent and put all my efforts for the next 1 year(for a particular short term goal) into something truly difficult but also rewarding (by simply working towards it). That's all. For now. The reward is intangibles (character growth, honesty, work ethic, curiosity, competence, learning, teaching, perseverance, resilient, value of time, bigger picture, valuing life itself).
Omg thank you so much!!! I am the type of person who can get overwelmed by too much information on any topic, so this simple guide to setting goals made me feel so much more relaxed and made me actally willing to follow it. Can not wait to start setting goals this way!!!
this video has become one i go back to multiple times when i feel lost. thanks for reminding me/us there is a life to be lived somewhere between extremes.
this video came at a moment when im totally lost and have no idea what to do with my life, cheers mate! i ordered the book so long ago that i think it got lots somewhere and will never reach me
I am 16 and I have been totally lost in my life since things started to get serious and I wanted to set myself a goal but I didn’t know how or what I am supposed to do and I felt empty until i saw your video and this video really changed my life
I love your content to bits man. So wise, comforting and motivating all at the same time. So glad your channel exists and I found it 🥺 you're truly a lifesaver, and the saviour of my mental health ❤
Makes so much sense. Most of the things you mentioned were relatable. I experienced these feelings a lot and I'm just so tired of not doing anything about it. I'm gonna set goal and stick to it this year.
This video came at the exact right moment - I want to organize and perform in a solo recital by sometime next year because it’s an opportunity i didn’t seize when I was doing my BA in music... ready set gooooo!!!
Hey good luck! I'm doing a BMus at the moment and find recitals fucking terrifying! It's compulsory in my course to do them, otherwise I don't know that I would. What's your instrument?
Sometging that helped my busy brain is taking social media detoxes. Not checking my phone when I wake up gets me out of bed faster, I stop comparing myself to other, and stop distracting myself/procrastinating
The simplicity of "it feels good" shocked me so much I laughed. Maybe because I always questioned whether it would make any difference or not, or if I would actually feel good or if I'd feel worse that I tried and failed. Of course, I'd focus on the worst possible outcome. "I actually finished that" is a thought that doesn't fit into my general self dislike. I don't know what to do with that thought. It's nice to not be constantly wishing I did something, but now I don't think I'm worthless? What is that feeling? I've made it my identity and my fear for so long, I worry I will lose myself without it. Worried that whatever part of myself I felt comfortable with will change, and not for the better. I forget things so easily, I don't want to forget what this sadness feels like so I have the chance to relate to others about it. Probably a weird thought to most people. But I'm just letting this out into the ether. While I'm at it - I don't feel smart enough for anything, I'm not present in the moment, I have a bad work ethic, I procrastinate, I get distracted easy, I often don't know what to say to people; but maybe it's all an addiction to negative thinking that is an excuse to not try and just do something that will reward quicker. Maybe I'll try this guy's idea and make an achievable goal. Maybe I'll remember that it's meant to be worth it, and I'm meant to feel better. Removing try from the dictionary won't work for me, I need to tell myself to just try.
I just want to say, your book is the first thing that has inspired me (a [former?] writer) to regularly journal again and I truly can't thank you enough for what you've produced. Because I've been writing, I feel alive and like myself again and there's really nothing better than that
I love the aesthetic of this video. In fact I loved it so much that I had to pause the video to comment down below. It's very wholesome and .... just super nice. Thanks.
I going back to Uni thanks to you man, this December I have a final, 2 in February and in March I'll be back on track baby! I also have my own wall see you all in 2024 with my degree
For a long time I’ve had this theory that whenever I’d hear someone’s testimony about how this person or that program has changed their life, I’d think to myself, “Man, they’re so lucky. I wish I could find the thing that would change my life.” After having that thought I think, it’s not that the thing or person so special, it’s because that person resonated with whenever it was and made the choice just to commit to it. Well Struthless I’ve decided you’re my dude. I really connect with you and how you present you’re idea’s. Right now I’m working at a job that I hate, I have a wife and two kids, and a dream, but have yet to set any hard goals to actually move toward achieving them. I feel like these last couple videos you’ve put out are just what I need at this point in my life, and I’m ready to go for it. I just bought your book, because I want to read it, and as a thank you for doing what you do! Just keep doing you man, you’re awesome!
Thank you for this brother. Your Uber line really got me because I have done that more time than I can remember. I feel grateful for this breakdown my dude. It really makes goal setting a whole lot easier with these steps. What gets me excited is making entertaining videos based on daily situations when learning a new language. Purely for entertainment, but that’s all I have for now. Will do the breakdown and mapping of it all this week! Thank you so much. Have a wonderful day!
dude you’re like the brother I never had.the one give you cigarette and teach you about how to talk to girls... etc... sometimes I like to think people on the internet are my family actually, haha. It help me get the feeling I can choose my own ideal family. it’s a bit silly but it’s funand sometimes ease the soul. I love you, man. And thanks for the video. god know I need it.
You were recommended by a friend. I am very grateful for that. Thanks for your brilliant videos. Fun and informative. BRILLIANT. I would love that video on parenting. I speak about leadership, culture, and personal growth and a lot of parents don't realize they become leaders the day their kid was born ... Bad leaders (parents), create bad cultures (environments) and hinder their members (kids) to grow and develop in a healthy way. Luckily, we can heal and grain a lot from healing. Anyhow... So looking forward to that video. Just hearing your take on it will be therapeutic for so many of us, I'm sure. Thanks for all your great work.
I've had a shit day and I am en route to my winter job in Colorado; a shit place that is overrated in every single way. Hearing you say you're calling your series "Shit Dads" resuscitated my dead heart. Thank you.
Honestly already decent at goals...just thought I'd watch for a refresher. Also sent this to my Mom and Sister, hope they show it to my older brother because everyone in my family appears to be in a rut that they seem to be taking out on each other and me as well.
I found struthless channel 4 months ago, went on a video marathon, jot down tons of notes. His videos are so practical, like the nicer and better-explained version of dummie videos. I am excited whenever I see a new upload :)
I literally came to your channel to see if you have any videos on feeling lost and then I saw this was just uploaded... thank you for reading my soul's cry for help, lol.
I didn't' even hesitate to buy your book just now. Each video I watch is teeming with fun tidbits of life with just enough wit and critical thought to keep me entertained and growing as a person. I'm really excited to read it.
"Most people dont get good parents but most people have a dark sense of humour and enjoy a laugh about it" i am most people and now i am excitedly looking forward to that animation! can 't wait!! I hope you can create it whenever you can (even if its later than when you aimed for~)
you posted this at the perfect time for me, just got out of a relapse slump (with help from your videos) and been lost on how to maintain positive behaviors. love your work man hope you see this!
I love everything about this video, thank you so much for this! The presentation, your energy and all the helpful genuine tips. I wish you all the best and thanks again ✌️✨
Love your content because it lets me know that I’m not alone in whatever it is that I’m going through (hint: i’ve just turned 20, so it’s a lot) and it makes me do something about it, think in order to take action. Thank you! You’re helping not only me but so many people.
The QUALITY of this video, man it’s amazing. You bring good content most of the time but the visual aspect is just awesome. I loved every part of it, very very nice.
Man I've had the hardest time understanding why and how to set goals which has led to me not being as successful as I would like to be in certain areas of my life. You've broken it down to something I completely understand and want to try. Thank you so so much!
I've discovered goals work differently with different people. Some people need them in order to function, while it causes severe anxiety in others. The whole "I need to be a millionaire by the time I'm 30" goal is SO common and causes so much unnecessary stress and anxiety. The points in this video are great, just do what works for you king 👑
I agree and with the millionaire by 30 goal, if you think about it it’s so ludicrous. Often the only reason we want to aim for that is because we see it all over social media
Lol I'll straighten my posture for the next vid, I spent the mic stand money on frames
I was just about to ask :D
Hahaha! Was wondering!! :D
Thank you, this video is quite visually incongruous with the message you are trying to convey.
Ha, I was thinking... why the mic is so short, that must be uncomfy! xD
Lol.. looks like you're super into us. I didn't mind it.
On my channel, I just use the sewing machine cover as my microphone stand. 🤣 Maybe you could use a shipping box from your garment line.
I love how you always tackle that darkness. You're the opposite of toxic positivity. You're healthy positivity. Tackling that dark shit is half the battle. And you short cut it so easily. "Because it feels good" 🤯 thank you. I love your videos
I felt like crying as early as "without you the world would probably still be as bad. with you, you do have the potential to make it slightly better." struthless is truly a gift and the world is definitely substantially better with you in it - thank you!
I was crying two hours ago about the fact that I couldn't set goals correctly. Two possibilities : you're my spiritual mentor or google is listening . Cheers from Belgium, I love everything you do 🤘
I think social media can listen to our thoughts, already
@@Sholpan-c6j if it's true then good luck social media, it's not a quite place down there :D
@@ronie_artwork haha
Both of them 😂
Another shout-out from Belgium
I've noticed your videos are the type of videos you have to watch at least 2 times to get the most out of it. One to enjoy the video and visuals, to get that mind blowing feeling out of it. The second to "do your homework" and apply to practical life.
Getting people to watch stuff is hard, but your content is so good it deserves a double watch. Thanks for your videos. All of them, even the ones you think aren't that good. I've learned at least 1 useful thing in each of them or they have moved me to a better state of mind with your sense of humor and metaphors. Just bought your book and it is helping me understand the stuff my therapist can't. Thanks
linking jealousy with direction is one of the best things I've heard in a while. great advice
Hey i saw ur video two years ago, i set big ambitions, ive achieved 95%. Was looking at my paper i wrote and i am never where i thought i would be.
I have tons more dreams to keep going. Just wanna say ur video is still as relevant and i remember seeing this, after having had written what i was working on.
Thinfs even 10 years ago i thought were impossible. Im having new types of goals, like meeting people and things but i still have my fire in my belly
Great video. My problem is I suffer with anxiety, and goals make me anxious. I have abandoned so many that when I set a goal and I DO manage to complete it, I am more relieved that it is over than getting a sense of achievement. So a long term goal, even broken down, is a wait on my shoulders.
its so nice to be remembered that you aren't alone in this. no one has it all figured out and thats okay. Keep pushing everyone
this is literally the best youtube channel ever. thank you so much. you changed my life 3 years ago and now i kinda lost the direction a bit again and came back here to find this amazing video. thanks man.
This changed my life, I made a list of decisions a little over a year ago, and because of this video, I’m in a much happier place today. However, I stopped doing the journaling after only a few months, and I can tell that my goals have fallen to the wayside. But a friend asked me today how they could keep up with their goals and daily stress, and I suggested this video. I decided to watch it again myself, and I’m filled with motivation to restart the journaling I started when you first released this video. I hope it turns out well, thank you and keep doing you.
I love how you mentioned that quote "following the fun" and if you are not having fun then you are doing it wrong! Because life is supposed to be enjoyed and your goals should have something that excites you!
I love how he recognizes on some days we feel like shit and others we feel like we can accomplish anything. This bipolarity in my own emotions from day to day really set me back and i’m glad he points this reality out.
The only "self help" channel that I never miss a video of, thanks mate!
fair play to you admitting your jealous tendencies! Especially in the online world it's easy to fall into the trap of portraying perfection, but what I love about you is that you're authentic 💜
Can we have a struthless journal with all your journal prompts PLEASE. I risk spending 2 days of my life binge-watching (again) all your videos just to note them all down in one place!
What you said about jealousy is so life-changing man... I appreciate so so much that you always try to give us an option to use our negative feelings in a useful way. Thank you so much ❤️
When I needed him the most, he appeared.
Cheers yellow hat guy, luv u
Thanks so much for the start point of 'lost'!!!!! It's definitely rare to find a video like this because everywhere presumes we already have our 'goal'.
Yes so true subscribed after that
Ok, your 'move the arrow' along for your goals written on pieces of paper actually made me audibly gasp and say- out loud and alone in my room- that's a GREAT idea.
Thanks! I am actually linking a bunch of your videos in my class for graduating high schoolers taking an alternate route to graduation.
If anyone in my life would have provided me with this when I was graduating, I don't think I would have been so lost in the world. Your students are lucky to have you
Amy Krouse Rosenthal said "pay attention to what you pay attention to" and that has been really key for me.
This video has given me some hope thank you! Been feeling lost on what makes me happy and what to dooo x
"Follow the fun!" Ferrrr sure. I really struggle with this, as most times I've followed the fun I've managed to turn something I really enjoy into drudgery. Mostly just pinning too much importance on it, and trying to do too much of it, thinking about it in my off time etc...burning out on it.
Anyway, your videos help so much and I'm starting your book once the kid is in bed tonight. Cheers!
Same for me. I'm having to teach myself that it's okay to take breaks, even from fun. Depression and perfectionism really make you think that fun things arnt as fun anymore. If you're up for advice(I dont know you so feel free to ignore this I may be wrong), try to relax. Practice being okay with taking a 30min break from EVERYTHING without feeling bad about it, then once you're relaxed, make an achievable goal and do it. This is kind of what he touches on in the video lol but with an added "it's okay to get burned out so give yourself a break so you can get back to it". :)
Same here, I learned my problem was I put a huge expectation on everything I touch. I feel like I have to be the “best of the best,” and shouldn’t it be easier to do that if I choose something I actually enjoy? It very quickly takes the fun out of it. I’m slowly but surely cutting out the expectations, negative thoughts, judgements, criticisms, and comparisons I not only get from others but also myself 😅 Best of luck to you and finding the fun again!
I am struggling with the same thing. I think a part of my problem is that I take things too seriously and too personally. I have always been extremely harsh on my self and being that way over the years has caused me to avoid playfulness for fear of looking like an idiot. I don’t care if others judge me it’s me and the viciously pessimistic voice in my head that bother me more.
I think that some fun things should be left as fun and easy to do things. There are things that are both fun and important for you, but also the ones that are also important but more like for your soul and mood. Like professional life and career things are fun for sure, and this is where you put more effort and energy. But a little things like hobbies or sports are where you could start off when feeling down and burnt out. It shouldn’t be a necessary goal to finish it fast, but something like I will do it when I feel like doing
I don't know how it is possible for someone all the way across the earth to speak to exactly who I am as a human, but I appreciate it. Thank you for sharing everything you do. You've given me a lot of hope. Keep it up, man. 👍👍✌
It has been 70 seconds into the video and it directly spoke to me for my depression wtf i feel understood when even i couldnt understand myself or couldnt gather the necessary thoughts to understand myself for months
You the teacher I wish I had as a Kid.
I just want to be consistent and put all my efforts for the next 1 year(for a particular short term goal) into something truly difficult but also rewarding (by simply working towards it). That's all. For now.
The reward is intangibles (character growth, honesty, work ethic, curiosity, competence, learning, teaching, perseverance, resilient, value of time, bigger picture, valuing life itself).
Your channel is one of the best things I found on RUclips this year. I really appreciate your content and it has helped me a lot.
Omg thank you so much!!! I am the type of person who can get overwelmed by too much information on any topic, so this simple guide to setting goals made me feel so much more relaxed and made me actally willing to follow it. Can not wait to start setting goals this way!!!
I was on a long car ride looking for a good video and I got this notification. Off to a good start today ♡
this video has become one i go back to multiple times when i feel lost. thanks for reminding me/us there is a life to be lived somewhere between extremes.
Totally appreciate your talking style. For this type of videos it's very important to be not annoying, and you got it rly well
Dude, you are brilliant!!!
Thank you for the clarity and making it fun.
This is the best video I've ever watched about goal-setting! Ty so much for sharing!!
this video came at a moment when im totally lost and have no idea what to do with my life, cheers mate!
i ordered the book so long ago that i think it got lots somewhere and will never reach me
I am 16 and I have been totally lost in my life since things started to get serious and I wanted to set myself a goal but I didn’t know how or what I am supposed to do and I felt empty until i saw your video and this video really changed my life
I love your content to bits man. So wise, comforting and motivating all at the same time. So glad your channel exists and I found it 🥺 you're truly a lifesaver, and the saviour of my mental health ❤
Couldn't agree more 👍
And so practical too.
Same! It's hard to find "productivity" channels that are empathic too.
Thanks for being real man, it’s hella refreshing
Makes so much sense. Most of the things you mentioned were relatable. I experienced these feelings a lot and I'm just so tired of not doing anything about it. I'm gonna set goal and stick to it this year.
I just live how passionate you are about your art and guiding others. you're the best :')
This video came at the exact right moment - I want to organize and perform in a solo recital by sometime next year because it’s an opportunity i didn’t seize when I was doing my BA in music... ready set gooooo!!!
Hey good luck! I'm doing a BMus at the moment and find recitals fucking terrifying! It's compulsory in my course to do them, otherwise I don't know that I would. What's your instrument?
Best of luck!!!
Eeeyooooo we got the same goals, god speed my friend
Divine inspiration at play change my mind. May the Most High bless you.
Sometging that helped my busy brain is taking social media detoxes. Not checking my phone when I wake up gets me out of bed faster, I stop comparing myself to other, and stop distracting myself/procrastinating
The simplicity of "it feels good" shocked me so much I laughed. Maybe because I always questioned whether it would make any difference or not, or if I would actually feel good or if I'd feel worse that I tried and failed. Of course, I'd focus on the worst possible outcome.
"I actually finished that" is a thought that doesn't fit into my general self dislike. I don't know what to do with that thought. It's nice to not be constantly wishing I did something, but now I don't think I'm worthless? What is that feeling? I've made it my identity and my fear for so long, I worry I will lose myself without it. Worried that whatever part of myself I felt comfortable with will change, and not for the better.
I forget things so easily, I don't want to forget what this sadness feels like so I have the chance to relate to others about it.
Probably a weird thought to most people. But I'm just letting this out into the ether.
While I'm at it - I don't feel smart enough for anything, I'm not present in the moment, I have a bad work ethic, I procrastinate, I get distracted easy, I often don't know what to say to people; but maybe it's all an addiction to negative thinking that is an excuse to not try and just do something that will reward quicker.
Maybe I'll try this guy's idea and make an achievable goal. Maybe I'll remember that it's meant to be worth it, and I'm meant to feel better.
Removing try from the dictionary won't work for me, I need to tell myself to just try.
Okay, it's 6 am on a Saturday and I'm smiling at this screen because your content... is just awesome! You so crack me up! You're awesome...
I just want to say, your book is the first thing that has inspired me (a [former?] writer) to regularly journal again and I truly can't thank you enough for what you've produced. Because I've been writing, I feel alive and like myself again and there's really nothing better than that
Hey Keely, how is this going now? Still writing?
I love the aesthetic of this video. In fact I loved it so much that I had to pause the video to comment down below. It's very wholesome and .... just super nice. Thanks.
Thank you for breaking it down like this. It reminds me a lot of the SMART model, but is more personal and approachable.
I going back to Uni thanks to you man, this December I have a final, 2 in February and in March I'll be back on track baby!
I also have my own wall
see you all in 2024 with my degree
The bit at 4:35 absolutely blew my mind. I didn't even realize that was a pattern I had until he said it.
Breaking bigger tasks into smaller tasks onto the wall helps so much
I have never seen so many colors individually yet work harmoniously
I love your book. It’s also the only book about anxiety that I can get my husband to read. Thanks for creating it.
You sir, are a Godsend. You have no idea how you're helping put and keep my shit together.
I really like all of this video but specifically the part 4 and putting the tasks on the wall with the arrow. Wow!
I've never been more excited about an upload!!! Thank you!!
i graduated yesterday and i feel like almost all of my goals were school based, needed this video today
mate your videos are bloody brilliant, deeply insightful, full of deep wisdom and come at exactly the right time -- appreciate your work brother!!
Thank you for your existence. You were meant to help others,
I'm s happy i found your channel a couple of months ago, one of my favourite youtubers right now. Keep being yourself man :)
For a long time I’ve had this theory that whenever I’d hear someone’s testimony about how this person or that program has changed their life, I’d think to myself, “Man, they’re so lucky. I wish I could find the thing that would change my life.” After having that thought I think, it’s not that the thing or person so special, it’s because that person resonated with whenever it was and made the choice just to commit to it.
Well Struthless I’ve decided you’re my dude. I really connect with you and how you present you’re idea’s. Right now I’m working at a job that I hate, I have a wife and two kids, and a dream, but have yet to set any hard goals to actually move toward achieving them. I feel like these last couple videos you’ve put out are just what I need at this point in my life, and I’m ready to go for it.
I just bought your book, because I want to read it, and as a thank you for doing what you do! Just keep doing you man, you’re awesome!
Thank you for this brother. Your Uber line really got me because I have done that more time than I can remember. I feel grateful for this breakdown my dude. It really makes goal setting a whole lot easier with these steps. What gets me excited is making entertaining videos based on daily situations when learning a new language. Purely for entertainment, but that’s all I have for now. Will do the breakdown and mapping of it all this week! Thank you so much. Have a wonderful day!
I honestly love your videos so much. Every time I step in one of your videos, you give me a breath of fresh air.
dude you’re like the brother I never had.the one give you cigarette and teach you about how to talk to girls... etc...
sometimes I like to think people on the internet are my family actually, haha. It help me get the feeling I can choose my own ideal family.
it’s a bit silly but it’s funand sometimes ease the soul.
I love you, man.
And thanks for the video. god know I need it.
You sir are a gift to the world ♥️
You were recommended by a friend. I am very grateful for that. Thanks for your brilliant videos. Fun and informative. BRILLIANT. I would love that video on parenting. I speak about leadership, culture, and personal growth and a lot of parents don't realize they become leaders the day their kid was born ... Bad leaders (parents), create bad cultures (environments) and hinder their members (kids) to grow and develop in a healthy way. Luckily, we can heal and grain a lot from healing. Anyhow... So looking forward to that video. Just hearing your take on it will be therapeutic for so many of us, I'm sure. Thanks for all your great work.
Thank you for starting at the point of "lost..." So relatable!
jesus THANK YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU, this is so helpful especially when i’m in a motivational less parallel universe
I really appreciated the music and the mood of this video ❤ I felt so understood and validated. Thank you!
I've had a shit day and I am en route to my winter job in Colorado; a shit place that is overrated in every single way. Hearing you say you're calling your series "Shit Dads" resuscitated my dead heart. Thank you.
Honestly already decent at goals...just thought I'd watch for a refresher.
Also sent this to my Mom and Sister, hope they show it to my older brother because everyone in my family appears to be in a rut that they seem to be taking out on each other and me as well.
Just started a new project in the last few weeks after stopping my full time office job. Cheers for the inspiration man :)
Literally broke down yesterday so I needed this
I found struthless channel 4 months ago, went on a video marathon, jot down tons of notes. His videos are so practical, like the nicer and better-explained version of dummie videos. I am excited whenever I see a new upload :)
I love this swirly font. It gives me happy „you can do it“-vibes. 👀
Thank you for the worksheet! 🧡
i gave up on these self help vudeos a pong time ago but man you make actually good and practical points thank you
I literally came to your channel to see if you have any videos on feeling lost and then I saw this was just uploaded... thank you for reading my soul's cry for help, lol.
Writing them down is better than just thinking about them too. 👍🤙✌️
Already having a worksheet instead of always writing notes helps a lot, thanks for posting it.
Oh my goodness! That arrow thing on the wall is an amazing idea!!
I can't explain how much this helped omg
I didn't' even hesitate to buy your book just now. Each video I watch is teeming with fun tidbits of life with just enough wit and critical thought to keep me entertained and growing as a person. I'm really excited to read it.
I swear your uploads come at the exact right time. Thanks so much!!
"Most people dont get good parents but most people have a dark sense of humour and enjoy a laugh about it"
i am most people
and now i am excitedly looking forward to that animation! can 't wait!! I hope you can create it whenever you can (even if its later than when you aimed for~)
You have no idea how your channel helped me. Thank you Sir!
I didn't realize I needed this video so much, until I watched this video!!!
you posted this at the perfect time for me, just got out of a relapse slump (with help from your videos) and been lost on how to maintain positive behaviors.
love your work man hope you see this!
Thank you man , I really appreciate your videos and this is a modern problem that is underrated. From Cebu,Philippines
this guy is such an inspiration for me
I love everything about this video, thank you so much for this! The presentation, your energy and all the helpful genuine tips. I wish you all the best and thanks again ✌️✨
🎉 You hit it on the nose.... I'll be watching this again!
i like your videos because they give me the motivation and direction i need in a simple, funny and casual way
Love your content because it lets me know that I’m not alone in whatever it is that I’m going through (hint: i’ve just turned 20, so it’s a lot) and it makes me do something about it, think in order to take action. Thank you! You’re helping not only me but so many people.
Can I just say,I've just watched this video now,and it has actually been so helpful haha
Thanks for adding a worksheet! It really helps a lot to just fill in the blanks and have the instructions/answers just a glance away :)
The QUALITY of this video, man it’s amazing. You bring good content most of the time but the visual aspect is just awesome. I loved every part of it, very very nice.
Man I've had the hardest time understanding why and how to set goals which has led to me not being as successful as I would like to be in certain areas of my life. You've broken it down to something I completely understand and want to try. Thank you so so much!
You're becoming easily my fav RUclipsr
I've discovered goals work differently with different people. Some people need them in order to function, while it causes severe anxiety in others. The whole "I need to be a millionaire by the time I'm 30" goal is SO common and causes so much unnecessary stress and anxiety. The points in this video are great, just do what works for you king 👑
I agree and with the millionaire by 30 goal, if you think about it it’s so ludicrous. Often the only reason we want to aim for that is because we see it all over social media
Cool content on your channel by the way!