Milly I am 58 from Namibia and I am so ready to start over afresh I am a nurse all my life and I feel stuck I am alone my daughter is married living her best life and give me the blessing to start over if it's what I want to do really I am not afraid thank you for your channel it is an eye opener for me
Doing my PhD at 47. One of my greatest challenge is getting a scholarship. At most the usual cut-off age is 35. Now I'm studying while working full-time to sustain myself.
I graduated as a nurse 3 months before my 60th birthday. I look 20 years younger which helped😂 Go for it ladies. I love my new profession and bring lots of life experience to it.
You’ve encouraged me so much . I’m 55 years and I’m definitely going back to school. I’ve been a teacher and I want to do social work and I’m determined to study and do what I love.
❤❤Thank you for this encouragement. Single Mum of 2 here.Never married,but hoping one day,❤will find me 😊..Meanwhile i thought it was very late for me to start Uni at 42,but am encouraged today.GOD will HELP me finish AMEN. ❤
@@newwineskin5494 🙏 Amen and good luck. If I didn’t enjoy the slow life, I would be perusing something to do with becoming a researcher within nursing but I enjoy the slow life
@newwineskin5494 put your needs first. Stay focussed as many women over 40 are now entering nursing. Get a career as your survival with your family is a priority. You will meet a better group of caring people once you have yourself in the industry. Goodluck with your future.
I'm so glad I found your video💫. This is exactly the message I am also spreading. It's never too late for anything. I am in Kenya. I changed careers at 42 and doing a master's degree now at 46. Friends, please don't listen to those who have already given up on themselves. We have been growing older right from the time we were born. It's just that the 40's was seen as close to retirement and so the phrase 'midlife crisis' was coined by a psychologist (in 1965). That is a myth. Keep your fire burning!🔥🔥🔥
@@ManoeuveringMidlife Wow! Thank you for the encouraging words. We will not let age define us. We are living and loving it 😊. Keep spreading the word sister.
I actually know that the older one gets the more conscious we get. Our mind opens up more and we get the urge to explore. I notice it more amongst my peers and some colleagues that are in their 60’s and that really encourages me. ❤
Thanks for the encouragement, my sister . I'm 56 years old and wasted my life 32 years in a toxic marriage ,hoping it will well. I divorced 5 years. I was abused physically, emotionally , and sexually. I'm in one year new relationship, and we are planning for getting marriage on November this year. My man is 58 years. I agree with you, my sister. Don't be stacked. Move forward. Life continues. My man is treating me like a queen, he makes me forget the bad back pain . Sometimes, the way he treats me, I'll look at him and think that this is the end of the world 😂 Trust God, He will restore your life back 🙏
@@savvo1447 oh my God! That sounds so amazing. I’m so glad you didn’t give up. There is a saying better to be loved than never be loved at all. You found each other. And isn’t it amazing when you meet someone and ask your self, men like this actually exist? They do but they are hard to find. But they are there. Wishing you good luck on your marriage 😊
I am 49 and I stopped posting on my channel because I thought there wouldn't be an audience because they may not relating to my content. I am so glad that I discovered your channel. It's inspiring. Now I'll pick up my camera and get to work. I subscribed immediately! I like your content. I'm from Namibia
This is awesome. I’m 42z I got married at 40. My husband is going to be 47. 2 weeks ago we just moved to another state. We also are TTC. It’s not too late. Change your mindset. ❤
I love witnessing the influx of Gen X and older RUclipsrs giving encouragement to one another regarding starting new careers, new education, new opportunities, etc. Very inspiring. Thank you for sharing.
Am 29yrs in debts leaving with a friend no degree my job pays peanuts,not in any relationship.....mmhh ,before this video i used to feel so old to start over again but now i got hope....am leaving this comment here PLEASE give me likes....i know i will come back here with a new testimony
I'm 27 turning 28 end of year. I know how you feel, I also don't have a degree and my job now hasn't been paying too well. I literally went through a sad phase this week over this and after praying, I got clarity on what to do next. Please look into free financial literacy courses or watch financial literacy lectures on RUclips from universities. Set aside money to clear debt each month. If money is the issue Babes, get a side hustle: do online jobs like teaching, data entry, virtual assistance or anything relevant to qualifications you have.
@@Faith.Life.Living Wow your comment meant a lot to me,thanks dear am going to do what you suggested i have actually signed up to a financial literacy course just recently.thanks for being kind enough to leave a comment.
Thanks so much for this video, am a nigerian and I clicked on this video cause I misread NEVER as Nigeria and then saw starting over at 49😢 Nigeria is a country that love age shaming women a lot, its believe that when you are 30 it's over for you because you won't be able to achieve anything any. Am in my 30s and I have not achieve anything, not that am not trying nor I got married and divorce, I have not married and I have been trying everything I can to achieve financial stability but sometimes it seems am doing nothing. I was talking to myself this Sunday about my age and still in disbelief how old I am, I have no money, no good education, no kids, no husband, no boyfriend. I really want to start over but sometimes we can need videos like this to remind us that its never too late to find purpose in life. Congratulations on your marriage and thank you so much for creating your channel and talking on things many are ashamed to discuss.
Hi Milly! Absolutely, it's NEVER Too Late! I received my B.S. in Psychology @ 61 & I am starting a MSW program @ 62. My Philosphy: Every day I wake up is another Opportunity to Get it Right! In other words, I Am Always Working Toward Perfection or Excellence in Every Area of My Life. Btw, you look Amazing-- your skin is Glowing(What is your secret)!
@@sonyalambcomer1369 Thanks Sonya. You are amazing and good luck with the studies. I have 2 videos about my skin, but I’m going to do another one especially for my body.
Yes we are in this together I am 53. Learning a new language. New relationship ❤😊. Moving to yet another country after I have been in the current for 20 years. Life goes on. Let life stop for those who want it to stop.
Yes you are so very correct. I love your video. Everyone please don't be discourage when people may say negative things, they are echoing there own fears and lack of confidence. But always be strong and live the life you always dreamed of!! Slowly get used to ignoring lack of confidence of others and things they may say. I am 64 this year, I feel so fabulous! People are very shocked when I reveal my age to them, and don't believe me....some think I am early 40's..and last year a lady I know thought I was the same age as her 36 years old!!!! Mentally and emotionally I feel so, so much whole and rounded than when I was much younger or even when I was teenager. So much more confident, I feel infinitely more wise, educated and knowledgeable - courageous, able to navigate life so much more than when I was younger, With so much more emotional intelligence and an abundance of life skills at this age I am now - than when younger. I just love pampering and looking after myself its a joy! Sauna and steam swim and gym every week about 2-3 times, also very important - steam cleans the face or exfoliation gently; then - MOST IMPORTANTLY massage the face with good Natural oil 2-3 times a week for 15-20 mins, this will definitely stop lines and wrinkles (but everyones skin is different), it firms and tightens facial muscle keeping that youthful appearance. I love swimming, long distance walking too, Cycle every week, yoga and Interval training cardio workouts and gym about 2-3 times every week but have your breaks all the time. But its so very important to do the exercises you enjoy then you will stick to it. Even 15 min walk around the park or to the shops before breakfast or after breakfast or the early evening time just to take a stroll. Or a green walk. Love relaxing in the bath with a meditation tape, in the morning a positive uplifting, or Gratitude meditation, and before bed a gratitude or relaxing meditation all helps relax you in life to help you feel positive energised and good. If you constantly feel good this adds to your Youth and happiness and the joy you have shines through your whole body and skin. Creating a positive resonance/vibration. Recently did 10 mile hike and last week just 7-8 mile hike. I love fruit, and most vegetables this is my favourite food - and enjoy eating healthy most of the time - being a vegan/vegetarian most of my life. I Love and drink alot of fruit juice and mineral or spring water. What I find most humorous, at my age is...I constantly get chased romantically, asked for dates even from young handsome guys as well! I always laugh I am not interested as I already have a partner; I just laugh and think if only they knew my age...it just makes me smile - some I do tell my age they are very surprised but still interested! For context...whilst in London out walking; I get stopped nearly every other week and asked to have my photo taken, told I dress extremely elegantly and conservatively, I also love hats and generally being very stylish. This is second nature to me; and I feel very comfortable expressing who I truly am. Good Qaulity men seem to be very attracted by this type of dress style! But everyone should be themselves and dress how they really feel comfortable. LADIES, LADIES (and men of course); this is 2024 all the old rubbish about reaching 30 or 40 or 50 and that its such a big deal, (that you are older and not attractive any more, this is such rubbish) only if you think it - it is so. So always think Positive - LADIES!! LADIES!! please create your own truth, your own life.....if you want to live life to the brim at 40;50;60;70 or more DO IT!!! Make a plan, there are Ladies who have done the Marathon at 82 years old....LADIES everything IS POSSIBLE especially in this day and age - as we have an abundance of all things at our finger tips. RUclips teaches us how to....on everything you can think of. If you want to pamper yourselves more at 50; 60 70 or more DO IT. If you want to start a new hobby interest or even a NEW CAREER at 40;50;60;70 - PLEASE Do IT you will be so glad you did. Listen to NO ONE if they dont encourage you in your passion, and to be the best version of yourself but ofcourse be sensible if you have not exercised for a long time, or you want to start something new - visit your Doctor explain what you wish to do, see what they say...but take it slowly at first. I still live all adventures of my Dreams with friends or even by myself...or sometimes with my partner. I do all the thing's I love in life and I laugh a lot and embrace life, why .....cos Life is what we make it.........good luck and Happy Life!!
This video is right on time. I'm 41 and went back to school, changing jobs, and more is to come. Might find love. Might move abroad. Life doesn't end at 40.
@@GrowEvolve78 Don’t say might, so you will. Talk it in to existence. I never use those words might, maybe if I want something. I talk it in existence.
@@Milly_in_denmark Agreed. WILL find love. WILL move abroad. God willing I have a lot of time to do both and more. I'm going for a Spartan race and fencing lessons too.
Am turning 37 and I love this blog post, because it speaks what me and my older sisters speak upon our lives, it's never too late. Actually our mentality should be more positive as we age no matter the situations. Our secret, love yourself more each day.
@@kiki3550 You are so right. Unfortunately some people become more negative with age and they are so bitter because they probably have many regrets. Continue being positive 😊
@@Milly_in_denmark unfortunately... But if regrets perceived as lessons many can look forward to new days to come living better. Thank you and many more blessed years for you 🙏
The beauty of life is the freedom or ability to follow your own definition of bliss. There's no wrong or right time to follow your heart. You can start, course correct or finish whatever you want whenever you want. The biggest regret at the end of it is realizing that you got crippled by your fears and the society's expectations of who you should be,do or have.
Please don't be discouraged, GO FOR IT! I started a new career in ultrasound at your age and its been the best decision of my life. When I started the journey 3 years ago, there was so much self doubt and no encouragement, I did it alone. You can do it, don't place limitations on yourself.
@@beneshiaplaatjies4036 Thank you 🙏. I do wear it once on while especially when am filming. But I do what makes me feel good in the moment. Thank you 🙏
My beautiful lady, I am 53, and in a very difficult painful place. I feel as if I no longer have a plan for my life and I feel lost. I looked forward to this time in my life, thinking that my children would be grown and I can finally enjoy my life. Only to find a nightmare was awaiting me. I lay in bed wondering what my future as a single women of 53 can hope for. I am trying to remain positive but I'm so hurt.
@@nicolapetersen1633 That sounds sad Nicola. I really hope you find away out, because you have so many years left. I wish you the best and watch some inspirational videos and hopefully you find hope.
Thank you. I now don't feel alone in this "never too late" mind set. I've just graduated with a Bachelor of Education during May this year. Last year I bought own my first flat. I would like to meet a man that would compliment my life. So thank you Milly for giving me hope today.
@@ruthvalentine9589 oh wow 😮. Congratulations. You will find him. I think when we love and respect our selves it’s easier to find someone who we love is the way we want. If you love your self you have no time for players and can smell them from far😊
I really like your spirit. And everything you said resonates with me. The time is in your mind. If you find that it is the right time to do something, then do it. Age and time is only in one's mind. Many thanks!
Im glad to have found your video milly i made 47yrs yesterday and i had given up on so many things in life like career, marriage but i can see light at the end of the tunnel. Im greatful i landed on this be blessed
People don’t realise that there are no limits ,if you want to do something just do it as long as it makes you happy and it doesn’t hurt the next person there is no reason not to do it. Be you,do you. Thank you for the encouraging video . Peace love and blessings to you ❤
I am actually glad that i stumbled upon this video.so uplifting and encouraging.thank you so much my dear sister.i am turning 45 in September and have started a totally different career from what i was initially doing.and i am happy that a changed careers.now i am moving forward.noyhing will stop me.i have acquired 2 certificates since last year 2023 and currently doing 2 other courses.thank you for being an inspiration.🎉❤
The smile I have on my face as am watching this, I am 33years old and at 31 I went back to college to get a qualification as am changing careers. I will be the 1st in my family to graduate next year and am so excited for the future. My 1st year I got 6 distinctions, and I am the oldest in class. Thank you for posting this video, God bless you.
This is my sign! 🙌🏽 I've been contemplating whether to start my RUclips channel, considering I'm over 30 and have little going on when compared to my 20s. Then, RUclips recommended this video that really resonated with me. Your perspective on life is so inspiring and has motivated me to take action. I refuse to let life pass me by-I'm going after my dreams.
@@o.s.a.s.u yaaaay. So happy to hear that you are taking the jump. What’s there to lose. My advise would be record like 5-10 videos before you post. Then post them and then you have time to come up with ideas while the others videos are being watched.
You're beautiful, your message is encouraging. i share the same belief after wasting my time trying to fix things that can't be fixed. Now if something is not working I leave, it keeps me happy and stress free😍
@@Milly_in_denmark Yes indeed! I'm turning 63 in August, divorced in 2015 after 30 years of marriage! For the better part of that marriage I was trying to fix what I didn't break until I got broken with no one to care and got labeled as not appreciating what he was doing for us. Yet I was more concerned about the quality of the marriage rather than the quantity of years and things accumulated. I'm glad the marriage ended. I'm so happy and focuses now. Time is a very precious commodity 🤩
Thank you Milly for encouraging alot of us.... We've gotta keep moving and starting over is a reality of our present life. YT recommended your channel and I'm liking your content so yes I'm gonna be staying. With warm regards from🇰🇪
Thank you Milly for encouraging me. I am in my 40's and just starting afresh in my life, hoping and having faith in God to have the best years of my life now. Congratulation on your marriage.
Thank you - i didnt find this video, it found me and I'm so glad it did! I appreciate you for your videos that are so uplifting and encouraging. Everything in my life my forever considered 'late'. I got married at 33, only managed to attend varsity and graduated at 38yrs - schooled with kids half my age, but I'm glad i did it. I am in my mid-40s and still waiting and praying for my first child. But hey, everyone's journey is different. I don't compare as I know we are all different. God is still saying something. Bless you for planting a seed of hope in others!
@@fungaikambamura-anene619 That’s the thing i keep telling people. It’s your journey, it’s your race. Don’t compare or you won’t get to the goal. Thank you 🙏
Wow this is what I've been looking forward to am so encouraged. Last year i was told to go back to the Village cause am old to work i had just for some money to start a business. I was discouraged but i refused to give up i thank God am not alone.
@@jacklineadhiamboowino964 Don’t listen to those kind of people. There are many of them everywhere. Many people wouldn’t be where they are if they listened to those kind of people.
Hi Milly I’m Milly from Namibia. Thank you for this amazing video. I saw my psychologist today about being stuck and waning to start over. I’m 47 years and my son suggested I do teaching as I’m passionate about it. So I’m encouraged by your video to do that. Thanks
@@millyawaras I think many women in our age can feel stuck, but I’m glad to hear that you acted on it and you have your son’s support. Hope everything turns out good for you😊
I admire your courage and strength. I am 56 never been married and ready to start my life all over again in another State of my country Nigeria away from the familiar that was drawing me back. Thanks for this video. You have a new subscriber. Congratulations on the wedding
Going through my own transition at the moment and I'm hopeful that the next decades of my life will be the very best because I have a good handle of my identity and self worth. Thank You for sharing these words of encouragement.
@@0230Raveena Thank you 🙏 for watching and I like what you wrote that you have a good handle of your identity and self worth. That’s the important thing I think. If you don’t have that, you are going to face many challenges. Thank you for sharing 😊
Hi Milly your channel came up on my feed. I just turn 47 july 6 im also starting over after being stay at home mom married for 24 years divorce now for two years and just started pursuing my degree in Health information management but initially always wanted to be a nurse. Thank you for your encouragement and God bless you and your family.
Oh Dear. I'm starting all over again !!! As in starting!!!! I enrolled at university graduating next year Oct and will be 43. Hoping to get a life partner too.I feel have all the energy and interest.2026 is my wish I enroll for Masters in Clinical psychology. I have children yes,but I stay with non. I hope will get atleast 2. I started riding lessons,done with driving. I doing gym these days doing weights. Am travelling. Am working as well to sustain myself but honestly am just starting. Thanks akaisiki for sharing this! Any man out here come join me it's not too late for us!!!!
@@rosekobusinge4162 empako yange atennyi 😂. Kandi eyawe. You are doing everything right . So proud of you. And you want more kids? Or you are on fire😊. You are so ambitious and you will get your man in an feel it. With that attitude, sounds like you are fun and good men love that😊
@@Milly_in_denmark Oraire ota Ateenyi oku mbere Oli?Mukama ayongere kukulinda ne'eka yaawe yoona🙏🏽✝️ Empako eyange Amooti🤭😎😂. I grew up cherishing having a family,so sad that I don't have any by now!Am living in the here and now theory!And yes I would wish to have two more but only if am married i don't need sperm donors🤭😎 this time! Waiting on the Lord in all these plans and activities! Otherwise, am fine and happy not stressed with anything rather having many activities around me,they give me energy and excitement for the next day! I accepted my past embraced that's why I considered to start anew in everything! Otyo muno Ateenyi for the response 😀. Receive Sunday cheers 🥂 from here!
@@agencemissionnaire I think the best decision everyone can do for themselves is to get out of an abusive relationship. So congratulations for choosing you😊
Yes! I was going through a divorce while my friends were having children and getting married in my late thirties. Wanting a family it seemed so hard, but it was the BEST decision I ever made- my whole world changed for the better and months after my divorce was finalized my friend introduced me to my forever person and we welcomed our son last year. I'm so excited going into my 40s - and started my RUclips channel to document my motherhood journey and our family adventures- this is truly the BEST time of my life... I only wish I had not let the FEAR keep me in a bad situation for so long- my forever person was living 15 minutes away for NINE years but I was afraid to start over. BTW BEAUTIFUL dress/blouse!!!
@@naliyahkaya What a beautiful story 😊. Many people have missed out on amazing things just because of fear. Especially fear of other people’s opinions who don’t even matter. Thank you for sharing your story which might inspire other people and congratulations on your marriage, baby and RUclips channel 😊
@@Milly_in_denmark aww thank you ☺️ I truly hope it does encourage others to let go and move into all the wonderful things waiting for them in the future! It is not easy but it is so worth it!💗
Congratulations on your marriage and your new life. I resonate with what you said and I think that you are a strong woman to think this way and live your life. You are correct, it is never too late to start overe. God bless and keep inspiring.
Milli, thanks a lot for your message and great video ! I really needed this a lot now. I lost a lot of opportunities in life, in my early 40’s as I thought I was too old.😅 Now, turning soon 52 I realized all the harm I did to myself…still having some thoughts like “I am too old for this or that” but working on it😊. So, thanks a lot for your message. It helps me a lot. Will follow you for sure❤ A big big and warm hug from Germany !!
I am even embarrassed 😢! Like why have I been feeling my life is over because I turned 30🙈! I entered panic mode since there was so much of expectations and I haven't achieved any of those things! The year is just passing by, infact I panicked from 27. Watching this video has encouraged me and I am starting again all I have been feeling I am too old to do! Thank you so much!
@@Waridisworld I’m glad this video made you realize that actually at 30 life is just beginning. You are not alone because I have many comments in here of young women feeling like it’s too late because they have turned 30 and haven’t achieved anything. Glad you have changed your mindset. Thank you for watching 😊
Thanks for sharing this. I'm 41 and have been feeling so lost recently after a lot of bereavement and life losses. I've been having a hard time figuring out what to do next. I feel like life has been passing me by and I want to participate again in life but I've not been sure what to do except I want to continue with a small business I have started. I am hoping for more guidance and inspiration soon.
Milly i love your Channel thank you for this massage it sparked something in me after seeing your videos so many things came to my mind of how i have just let life pass me by it really hit me when you said dont let life pass you by thank you milly❤❤❤
@@portiamlangeni5482 Right. These days when I waste time, I literally tell my self that those minutes will never come back. So start now or you will regret not starting.
You are one true beauty...thank you so much for the encouragement, I really needed to hear that I'm 35 and thought time has passed me by but you've awaken me from slumber....God continue to bless you.
You look so beautiful, your skin is glowing. I’m 26 and you look so young and youthful. I want to look like you by the time I get to your age . You look nothing over 30, I would have guest in the mid to late 20s . Thank you for your wisdom it’s never too late. Never let fear hold you back from living your dreams
This was meant to be, I came across your channel just yesterday, July 25, 2024. And your words are so insightful, thanks for sharing your journey. I'm 68, retired, single for years, and loving my life. I exercise regularly, have a positive mindset, life is good. New subscriber.
@@GraceFidel Yaaaaay. Go Grace. That’s amazing. The best thing about being a nurse, we can be 60 and wont be worried about getting fired because we can a job the next day. And thank you 🙏 for the kind words 😊
I like your boldness. It's liberating. If not now then when? I've just began my own journey of self-discovery, it's been awesome, I had a hysterectomy 18 months ago and didn't have children at all. It's been an arduous journey of healing but helped me to also let go of mindsets that had been limiting me.
First time here, I LOVE your channel, everything about it, calm, real,peaceful,colourful, modesty, etc etc Ive so far watched 6 of your videos they are great, straight to the point, Hugs ❤
@@homeandaway2811 Thank you so much for the kind and encouraging words😊. The best thing I enjoy making them and hopefully more people like you can enjoy them. Thanks for the support 😍
@@annneruthnakatumba8147 Noooo. If I wasn’t in to this slowing down thing, I would have gone back to take a phd. Because I can and no one can tell me otherwise. So you go girl🤞
You are gorgeous sis n they video came in time I am depressed thinking at 40 it is late for me to get married 😢but am hopeful now n just started a course yesterday. Thank you so much n congratulations on your marriage❤
@@brendadickson9583 You are still young, so start now. Can’t believe how many women think 40 is old. Good luck and hope you change your mind about thinking you are old.
@@Milly_in_denmark Thank you for responding sis n I will start to have a different mindset though hard when you are constantly mocked or asked when will you be a mom etc But I believe all will happen for me, Thank you again for being kind❤️
@@Onemorebookpodcast. You are welcome 🙏. Kan always laughs when I use that term. But many people stay in situations like they have thick roots that can’t be pooled out of the ground
Hey guys:, hope you enjoy the video. And for you who have watched it, thank you so mush for the encouraging comments😊
@@Milly_in_denmark am sending the video every where the world has to watch it 🥰💃👌
@@Princesa30000 Amen sister 😍
Milly I am 58 from Namibia and I am so ready to start over afresh I am a nurse all my life and I feel stuck I am alone my daughter is married living her best life and give me the blessing to start over if it's what I want to do really I am not afraid thank you for your channel it is an eye opener for me
Congratulations ❤
Ooh,you encourage me at 50.You have made me know that i can do much
AM 73 YEARS OF AGES I GOES TO THE JIM 3DAYS A WEEK AM ENJOYING MY LIFE IN THE LORD.🙏📖❤️🏋♀️🇹🇹
@@ursulamartin1038 Wow 😮. You are inspiring thank you 🙏
Indeed it's never too late. I got a scholarship at the age of 54 and I studied, passed in flying colors
@@conniempilo86 wow! That’s amazing.
@@conniempilo86 I am motivated more
Wow🎉
Doing my PhD at 47. One of my greatest challenge is getting a scholarship. At most the usual cut-off age is 35. Now I'm studying while working full-time to sustain myself.
@@conniempilo86 wow, another brick on my foundation!Thanks for adding more fire to my already burning bush🤭😀!
Shine on please 🙏🏽
I graduated as a nurse 3 months before my 60th birthday. I look 20 years younger which helped😂 Go for it ladies. I love my new profession and bring lots of life experience to it.
@@annstewart8506 Wow wow 😮. That’s so amazing. This is encouraging so much. Isn’t it weird sometimes looking younger?
You’ve encouraged me so much . I’m 55 years and I’m definitely going back to school. I’ve been a teacher and I want to do social work and I’m determined to study and do what I love.
❤❤Thank you for this encouragement. Single Mum of 2 here.Never married,but hoping one day,❤will find me 😊..Meanwhile i thought it was very late for me to start Uni at 42,but am encouraged today.GOD will HELP me finish AMEN. ❤
@@newwineskin5494 🙏 Amen and good luck. If I didn’t enjoy the slow life, I would be perusing something to do with becoming a researcher within nursing but I enjoy the slow life
@newwineskin5494 put your needs first. Stay focussed as many women over 40 are now entering nursing. Get a career as your survival with your family is a priority. You will meet a better group of caring people once you have yourself in the industry. Goodluck with your future.
I'm so glad I found your video💫. This is exactly the message I am also spreading. It's never too late for anything. I am in Kenya. I changed careers at 42 and doing a master's degree now at 46. Friends, please don't listen to those who have already given up on themselves. We have been growing older right from the time we were born. It's just that the 40's was seen as close to retirement and so the phrase 'midlife crisis' was coined by a psychologist (in 1965). That is a myth. Keep your fire burning!🔥🔥🔥
@@ManoeuveringMidlife Wow! Thank you for the encouraging words. We will not let age define us. We are living and loving it 😊. Keep spreading the word sister.
@@Milly_in_denmark 💯
Very true🙌🏾 In Denmark people don’t look at age limit in regards to education or starting over. As a matter of fact it’s encouraged 🥰
I actually know that the older one gets the more conscious we get. Our mind opens up more and we get the urge to explore. I notice it more amongst my peers and some colleagues that are in their 60’s and that really encourages me. ❤
@@Emillyleilahhomeandcooking 💯Yes, the ego fades and we start to awaken.
Thanks for the encouragement, my sister .
I'm 56 years old and wasted my life 32 years in a toxic marriage ,hoping it will well. I divorced 5 years. I was abused physically, emotionally , and sexually. I'm in one year new relationship, and we are planning for getting marriage on November this year. My man is 58 years.
I agree with you, my sister. Don't be stacked. Move forward. Life continues. My man is treating me like a queen, he makes me forget the bad back pain . Sometimes, the way he treats me, I'll look at him and think that this is the end of the world 😂
Trust God, He will restore your life back 🙏
@@savvo1447 oh my God! That sounds so amazing. I’m so glad you didn’t give up. There is a saying better to be loved than never be loved at all. You found each other. And isn’t it amazing when you meet someone and ask your self, men like this actually exist? They do but they are hard to find. But they are there.
Wishing you good luck on your marriage 😊
My sister. I also want to start over. How do I go about it. I'm 55
I am 56 never been married believing God for a husband and children and a peaceful and happy home.
I'm 48 and am gonna be going to nursing school in the near future. I wanted this when I was younger but life got in the way
Congratulations and you can do it❤
@@linettedavis1573 You can do it.
@@linettedavis1573 You will do it and that will be the best decision because even at 60, we can still find a job as nurses. So you go sister😊
I am 49 and I stopped posting on my channel because I thought there wouldn't be an audience because they may not relating to my content. I am so glad that I discovered your channel. It's inspiring. Now I'll pick up my camera and get to work. I subscribed immediately! I like your content. I'm from Namibia
@@ngeveshangombe4856. Start now and I’m glad for you. I started at long time ago and took long breaks and i regret it. So go do it 😊
Please carry on ❤
I just subscribed! Keep going my sister.
Would love to visit naminia🎉🎉
Welcome to my world. Just subscribed to her for the very same reason plus she's African which I am
I'm turning 39 in September and I thought it was too late for me. This is just the message I need right now.
@@helenmpomwa2978 So happy to hear that. You have many years ahead of you😊
Hi Helen, I'm in my late 30s in Medical school.
Can we be friends?
I enrolled for my degree at the age of 39 and I graduated this year and I'm 43
@@portiamnguni-mhlobo2797 Congratulations
@@indolilyindomitablelily7306 Yes please let's be friends.
This is awesome. I’m 42z I got married at 40. My husband is going to be 47. 2 weeks ago we just moved to another state. We also are TTC. It’s not too late. Change your mindset. ❤
@@simplydivine77 That’s what am talking about 👏. Blessings to you 😊
I love witnessing the influx of Gen X and older RUclipsrs giving encouragement to one another regarding starting new careers, new education, new opportunities, etc. Very inspiring. Thank you for sharing.
@@TheUrbanSoaper Thank you so much watching 😊
I needed to hear this today.
Am 46,getting remarried in December after 20yrs
@@hellenkiburi1397 ohhhhh💃. That’s amazing. Congratulations and enjoy every moment😊
Am 29yrs in debts leaving with a friend no degree my job pays peanuts,not in any relationship.....mmhh ,before this video i used to feel so old to start over again but now i got hope....am leaving this comment here PLEASE give me likes....i know i will come back here with a new testimony
I'm 27 turning 28 end of year. I know how you feel, I also don't have a degree and my job now hasn't been paying too well. I literally went through a sad phase this week over this and after praying, I got clarity on what to do next. Please look into free financial literacy courses or watch financial literacy lectures on RUclips from universities. Set aside money to clear debt each month. If money is the issue Babes, get a side hustle: do online jobs like teaching, data entry, virtual assistance or anything relevant to qualifications you have.
@@Faith.Life.Living Wow your comment meant a lot to me,thanks dear am going to do what you suggested i have actually signed up to a financial literacy course just recently.thanks for being kind enough to leave a comment.
You are still a baby sis .....onwards and upwards my hun
@@tryphineshumba1181 I Feel so old to have achieved so little
@@tryphineshumba1181 unfortunatly i feel so old to have accomplished so little at this age
Congratulations on your marriage. This is my sign to relocate and start school and fall in love. I’m 31
That's great sis🎉
@@VkeyBiyinzika absolutely.
only 31?
you still got more years....
Go gal
😊You are a baby. All the best.
Thanks so much for this video, am a nigerian and I clicked on this video cause I misread NEVER as Nigeria and then saw starting over at 49😢 Nigeria is a country that love age shaming women a lot, its believe that when you are 30 it's over for you because you won't be able to achieve anything any.
Am in my 30s and I have not achieve anything, not that am not trying nor I got married and divorce, I have not married and I have been trying everything I can to achieve financial stability but sometimes it seems am doing nothing.
I was talking to myself this Sunday about my age and still in disbelief how old I am, I have no money, no good education, no kids, no husband, no boyfriend. I really want to start over but sometimes we can need videos like this to remind us that its never too late to find purpose in life.
Congratulations on your marriage and thank you so much for creating your channel and talking on things many are ashamed to discuss.
30 is very young. Don't allow yourself to be bullied. Don't give up on yourself. You will achieve your dreams ❤
@@maytshifularo5415 thank you
Thank God this happened to you NOW because you are young. Yes, begin by building your confidence and self awareness.
This phase will pass and you will find joy and fulfillment, don't give up
@@funlolaamosu5829 thank you
I’m 49 and so glad I found your video!! I’m on the verge of more major change in my life to escape the Corporate rat race in the USA… blessings to you
@@Gingerspicelife Amen 🙏. Slow living is the best for us at his age, but unfortunately not all people are financially able to slow down. 😊
Hi Milly! Absolutely, it's NEVER Too Late! I received my B.S. in Psychology @ 61 & I am starting a MSW program @ 62. My Philosphy: Every day I wake up is another Opportunity to Get it Right! In other words, I Am Always Working Toward Perfection or Excellence in Every Area of My Life. Btw, you look Amazing-- your skin is Glowing(What is your secret)!
@@sonyalambcomer1369 Thanks Sonya. You are amazing and good luck with the studies. I have 2 videos about my skin, but I’m going to do another one especially for my body.
Thanks Milly, it's never too late for real. I studied Human Anatomy and Physiology at 49, I'm still going on and happy with my career.
@@rosenaturalbeautyhaven8867 Amen 🙏. So amazing. You rock 👍
I am an Anatomist 😂 and i am trying to change my career 😅
Yes we are in this together I am 53. Learning a new language. New relationship ❤😊. Moving to yet another country after I have been in the current for 20 years. Life goes on. Let life stop for those who want it to stop.
@@Over50andMe Amazing. Can I ask where you are moving to if you don’t mind?
Wow❤❤❤❤ as a 31 year old who is feeling I’m late I’m glad I found this
@@hallejudy Thank you 🙏 and hope you are inspired 😊
Iam 31 aswell.. I moved back with my parents 2 months ago so that u can start all over and I’m seeing this video.. 🤗🤗🤗🤗♥️ I love it.
Yes you are so very correct. I love your video.
Everyone please don't be discourage when people may say negative things, they are echoing there own fears and lack of confidence.
But always be strong and live the life you always dreamed of!! Slowly get used to ignoring lack of confidence of others and things they may say.
I am 64 this year, I feel so fabulous!
People are very shocked when I reveal my age to them, and don't believe me....some think I am early 40's..and last year a lady I know thought I was the same age as her 36 years old!!!!
Mentally and emotionally I feel so, so much whole and rounded than when I was much younger or even when I was teenager. So much more confident, I feel infinitely more wise, educated and knowledgeable - courageous, able to navigate life so much more than when I was younger, With so much more emotional intelligence and an abundance of life skills at this age I am now - than when younger.
I just love pampering and looking after myself its a joy! Sauna and steam swim and gym every week about 2-3 times, also very important - steam cleans the face or exfoliation gently; then - MOST IMPORTANTLY massage the face with good Natural oil 2-3 times a week for 15-20 mins, this will definitely stop lines and wrinkles (but everyones skin is different), it firms and tightens facial muscle keeping that youthful appearance.
I love swimming, long distance walking too, Cycle every week, yoga and Interval training cardio workouts and gym about 2-3 times every week but have your breaks all the time. But its so very important to do the exercises you enjoy then you will stick to it. Even 15 min walk around the park or to the shops before breakfast or after breakfast or the early evening time just to take a stroll. Or a green walk.
Love relaxing in the bath with a meditation tape, in the morning a positive uplifting, or Gratitude meditation, and before bed a gratitude or relaxing meditation all helps relax you in life to help you feel positive energised and good. If you constantly feel good this adds to your Youth and happiness and the joy you have shines through your whole body and skin. Creating a positive resonance/vibration.
Recently did 10 mile hike and last week just 7-8 mile hike.
I love fruit, and most vegetables this is my favourite food - and enjoy eating healthy most of the time - being a vegan/vegetarian most of my life.
I Love and drink alot of fruit juice and mineral or spring water.
What I find most humorous, at my age is...I constantly get chased romantically, asked for dates even from young handsome guys as well! I always laugh I am not interested as I already have a partner; I just laugh and think if only they knew my age...it just makes me smile - some I do tell my age they are very surprised but still interested!
For context...whilst in London out walking; I get stopped nearly every other week and asked to have my photo taken, told I dress extremely elegantly and conservatively, I also love hats and generally being very stylish. This is second nature to me; and I feel very comfortable expressing who I truly am. Good Qaulity men seem to be very attracted by this type of dress style!
But everyone should be themselves and dress how they really feel comfortable. LADIES, LADIES (and men of course); this is 2024 all the old rubbish about reaching 30 or 40 or 50 and that its such a big deal, (that you are older and not attractive any more, this is such rubbish) only if you think it - it is so. So always think Positive - LADIES!! LADIES!! please create your own truth, your own life.....if you want to live life to the brim at 40;50;60;70 or more DO IT!!! Make a plan, there are Ladies who have done the Marathon at 82 years old....LADIES everything IS POSSIBLE especially in this day and age - as we have an abundance of all things at our finger tips. RUclips teaches us how to....on everything you can think of.
If you want to pamper yourselves more at 50; 60 70 or more DO IT.
If you want to start a new hobby interest or even a NEW CAREER at 40;50;60;70 - PLEASE Do IT you will be so glad you did.
Listen to NO ONE if they dont encourage you in your passion, and to be the best version of yourself but ofcourse be sensible if you have not exercised for a long time, or you want to start something new - visit your Doctor explain what you wish to do, see what they say...but take it slowly at first.
I still live all adventures of my Dreams with friends or even by myself...or sometimes with my partner.
I do all the thing's I love in life and I laugh a lot and embrace life, why .....cos Life is what we make it.........good luck and Happy Life!!
@@The88lightangel Thank you 🙏. Your massage might help someone 😊
Beautiful🥰
Thank you for the tips
Waoooo such an inspiration. Love you
Thanks very much and may God bless you. I will leave to remember these your advices.
This video is right on time. I'm 41 and went back to school, changing jobs, and more is to come. Might find love. Might move abroad. Life doesn't end at 40.
@@GrowEvolve78 Don’t say might, so you will. Talk it in to existence. I never use those words might, maybe if I want something. I talk it in existence.
@@Milly_in_denmark Agreed. WILL find love. WILL move abroad. God willing I have a lot of time to do both and more. I'm going for a Spartan race and fencing lessons too.
You look beautiful Sis and you are do look anywhere near 49, more like 29💛 - It is never too late... Never x
@@JasenomadeTV Ha ha 😂. Now 29 is being kind. Thank you so much 😊
Sis is well preserved
I like that you said “I am not a tree”… I am 48 and this was timely!
@@scotlandredd6134 No we are not. We can move if we aren’t happy or treated the way we should.
Am turning 37 and I love this blog post, because it speaks what me and my older sisters speak upon our lives, it's never too late. Actually our mentality should be more positive as we age no matter the situations. Our secret, love yourself more each day.
@@kiki3550 You are so right. Unfortunately some people become more negative with age and they are so bitter because they probably have many regrets. Continue being positive 😊
@@Milly_in_denmark unfortunately... But if regrets perceived as lessons many can look forward to new days to come living better. Thank you and many more blessed years for you 🙏
I don’t know why i just saw this tonight ( midnight) on my 43 birthday. i’m sure it’s nor coincidence, Be blessed Milly.
@@jerushawanjiku4634 Congratulations 🍾🎉🎊.
The beauty of life is the freedom or ability to follow your own definition of bliss. There's no wrong or right time to follow your heart. You can start, course correct or finish whatever you want whenever you want. The biggest regret at the end of it is realizing that you got crippled by your fears and the society's expectations of who you should be,do or have.
@@SharifMustafa oh wow. Such strong words of wisdom. Thank you 🙏
This is soo true- thank you for your encouragement
Imagine i am 37 yrs old and here i was discouraged to study again but I'm so encouraged to see this video and also so many comments here!!
@@fabricendayambaje9408 Good that you are encouraged and the comments are really encouraging.
Please don't be discouraged, GO FOR IT! I started a new career in ultrasound at your age and its been the best decision of my life. When I started the journey 3 years ago, there was so much self doubt and no encouragement, I did it alone. You can do it, don't place limitations on yourself.
I'm turning 50 this year too. I resonate with your message so much. I needed this message. Thank you so much❤
@@lindamalangabi9778 You are so welcome 🙏 dear and thank you for watching. Hopefully you are going to celebrate even it’s a small gathering.
I agree. You don't need make up. Your beauty is flawless 😍
You're such an inspiration ❤
@@beneshiaplaatjies4036 Thank you 🙏. I do wear it once on while especially when am filming. But I do what makes me feel good in the moment. Thank you 🙏
Yes I'm 😢41 this year... Thanks so much for this video...in highly encourage my beautiful sister 🎉❤thanks so so much
You have plenty of time my sister! Just take little steps. What happens if you don’t? Nothing
Thank you for the encouragement. I'm 48 and setting up a poultry farming business. I hope to grow it big and successful.
@@chichi7078-i Way to go💪. Good luck with everything 😊
My beautiful lady, I am 53, and in a very difficult painful place. I feel as if I no longer have a plan for my life and I feel lost.
I looked forward to this time in my life, thinking that my children would be grown and I can finally enjoy my life.
Only to find a nightmare was awaiting me. I lay in bed wondering what my future as a single women of 53 can hope for. I am trying to remain positive but I'm so hurt.
@@nicolapetersen1633 That sounds sad Nicola. I really hope you find away out, because you have so many years left. I wish you the best and watch some inspirational videos and hopefully you find hope.
Hugs to you my sister 😢🫂🙏🏾
Hugs siz. Hold on you will be on❤
The best days are ahead of you dear not behind. Sending you much love ❤
Take heart dear, children grow and move on. May you find God and your purpose. It's bright ahead don't give up.
"I am not a tree." Never stuck, and even certain trees can be potted and moved!
@@deborahg3093 Amen. Get those roots and give the tree love and it will grow again😊
💯It is NEVER too late! You are so lovely and young, indeed! Keep shining that beautiful light! 🌞
@@SoulWhisperer Thank you 🙏
Thank you. I now don't feel alone in this "never too late" mind set. I've just graduated with a Bachelor of Education during May this year. Last year I bought own my first flat. I would like to meet a man that would compliment my life. So thank you Milly for giving me hope today.
@@ruthvalentine9589 oh wow 😮. Congratulations. You will find him. I think when we love and respect our selves it’s easier to find someone who we love is the way we want. If you love your self you have no time for players and can smell them from far😊
I really like your spirit. And everything you said resonates with me. The time is in your mind. If you find that it is the right time to do something, then do it. Age and time is only in one's mind. Many thanks!
@@rachelgilbert3617 So true 😊
Im glad to have found your video milly i made 47yrs yesterday and i had given up on so many things in life like career, marriage but i can see light at the end of the tunnel. Im greatful i landed on this be blessed
You got this! And happy birthday 🎁.
People don’t realise that there are no limits ,if you want to do something just do it as long as it makes you happy and it doesn’t hurt the next person there is no reason not to do it. Be you,do you. Thank you for the encouraging video . Peace love and blessings to you ❤
@@Finewyn Thank you 🙏. Yes to Be You Do You😊
I am actually glad that i stumbled upon this video.so uplifting and encouraging.thank you so much my dear sister.i am turning 45 in September and have started a totally different career from what i was initially doing.and i am happy that a changed careers.now i am moving forward.noyhing will stop me.i have acquired 2 certificates since last year 2023 and currently doing 2 other courses.thank you for being an inspiration.🎉❤
@@moonlightgwendolin That’s amazing😊
The smile I have on my face as am watching this, I am 33years old and at 31 I went back to college to get a qualification as am changing careers. I will be the 1st in my family to graduate next year and am so excited for the future. My 1st year I got 6 distinctions, and I am the oldest in class. Thank you for posting this video, God bless you.
@@calevjeremiah Amen 🙏 sister. That’s amazing. May God bless you and your future 😌
This is my sign! 🙌🏽 I've been contemplating whether to start my RUclips channel, considering I'm over 30 and have little going on when compared to my 20s. Then, RUclips recommended this video that really resonated with me. Your perspective on life is so inspiring and has motivated me to take action. I refuse to let life pass me by-I'm going after my dreams.
@@o.s.a.s.u yaaaay. So happy to hear that you are taking the jump. What’s there to lose. My advise would be record like 5-10 videos before you post. Then post them and then you have time to come up with ideas while the others videos are being watched.
@@Milly_in_denmark Great idea. Thank you 😊
Congratulations on your marriage 🎉you’re an inspiration aim so glad I found your video I’m also 49 praying to find my person one day!!
@@nontembisotheodorapakade Thank you 🙏 and you will😊.
You gained me ,Thank you for you encouragements.Not too late to go back to school.
It’s absolutely not too late! Start it and congratulations! 🎉
You're beautiful, your message is encouraging. i share the same belief after wasting my time trying to fix things that can't be fixed. Now if something is not working I leave, it keeps me happy and stress free😍
@@thokogqiba4683 Thank you for watching 😊. These days even minutes are too precious to waste. At least at this age 😂
@@Milly_in_denmark Yes indeed! I'm turning 63 in August, divorced in 2015 after 30 years of marriage! For the better part of that marriage I was trying to fix what I didn't break until I got broken with no one to care and got labeled as not appreciating what he was doing for us. Yet I was more concerned about the quality of the marriage rather than the quantity of years and things accumulated.
I'm glad the marriage ended. I'm so happy and focuses now.
Time is a very precious commodity 🤩
Thank you Milly for encouraging alot of us.... We've gotta keep moving and starting over is a reality of our present life. YT recommended your channel and I'm liking your content so yes I'm gonna be staying. With warm regards from🇰🇪
@@patriciamwaura5859 Thank you 🙏 Patricia. I appreciate 😊
Thank you Milly for encouraging me. I am in my 40's and just starting afresh in my life, hoping and having faith in God to have the best years of my life now. Congratulation on your marriage.
@@naomikuria2732 Thank you 🙏 and you will😊
I’m 40 and feel so so tired and old already🥲 thank you for this message of encouragement, I will find the energy to move forward again god bless
@@hdskl2150 Stop it now! You are still young. It’s too early to think that way. Watch this every time you get discouraged.
I love your message!!! I can see the joy for life in your eyes
@@inksonpaper Thank you 🙏 for the kind words 😊
Thank you - i didnt find this video, it found me and I'm so glad it did!
I appreciate you for your videos that are so uplifting and encouraging. Everything in my life my forever considered 'late'. I got married at 33, only managed to attend varsity and graduated at 38yrs - schooled with kids half my age, but I'm glad i did it. I am in my mid-40s and still waiting and praying for my first child. But hey, everyone's journey is different. I don't compare as I know we are all different. God is still saying something. Bless you for planting a seed of hope in others!
@@fungaikambamura-anene619 That’s the thing i keep telling people. It’s your journey, it’s your race. Don’t compare or you won’t get to the goal. Thank you 🙏
Wow this is what I've been looking forward to am so encouraged. Last year i was told to go back to the Village cause am old to work i had just for some money to start a business. I was discouraged but i refused to give up i thank God am not alone.
@@jacklineadhiamboowino964 Don’t listen to those kind of people. There are many of them everywhere. Many people wouldn’t be where they are if they listened to those kind of people.
Hi Milly
I’m Milly from Namibia. Thank you for this amazing video. I saw my psychologist today about being stuck and waning to start over. I’m 47 years and my son suggested I do teaching as I’m passionate about it. So I’m encouraged by your video to do that. Thanks
@@millyawaras I think many women in our age can feel stuck, but I’m glad to hear that you acted on it and you have your son’s support. Hope everything turns out good for you😊
I admire your courage and strength. I am 56 never been married and ready to start my life all over again in another State of my country Nigeria away from the familiar that was drawing me back. Thanks for this video. You have a new subscriber. Congratulations on the wedding
@@josephineelijah7597 Thank you 🙏 so much and I wish you good luck with your family plans 😊
Going through my own transition at the moment and I'm hopeful that the next decades of my life will be the very best because I have a good handle of my identity and self worth. Thank You for sharing these words of encouragement.
@@0230Raveena Thank you 🙏 for watching and I like what you wrote that you have a good handle of your identity and self worth. That’s the important thing I think. If you don’t have that, you are going to face many challenges. Thank you for sharing 😊
Here to just tell you thank you for the inspo your putting out there, Be blessed.
@@Empresstinnita You are so welcome 🙏
Hi Milly your channel came up on my feed. I just turn 47 july 6 im also starting over after being stay at home mom married for 24 years divorce now for two years and just started pursuing my degree in Health information management but initially always wanted to be a nurse. Thank you for your encouragement and God bless you and your family.
@@tboyce1998 oh wow😊. Congratulations and good luck.
Thank you, I just turn 30 and sometimes we forget that their is still time.
@@charlottelisewilliams When I see people doing their thing in their 60’s, am like you can’t jave excuses
You are a blessing to many, thank you.
@@lydiambaziira9138 And thank you for watching 😊
Oh Dear.
I'm starting all over again !!! As in starting!!!!
I enrolled at university graduating next year Oct and will be 43.
Hoping to get a life partner too.I feel have all the energy and interest.2026 is my wish I enroll for Masters in Clinical psychology.
I have children yes,but I stay with non.
I hope will get atleast 2.
I started riding lessons,done with driving.
I doing gym these days doing weights.
Am travelling.
Am working as well to sustain myself but honestly am just starting.
Thanks akaisiki for sharing this!
Any man out here come join me it's not too late for us!!!!
@@rosekobusinge4162 empako yange atennyi 😂. Kandi eyawe. You are doing everything right . So proud of you. And you want more kids? Or you are on fire😊. You are so ambitious and you will get your man in an feel it. With that attitude, sounds like you are fun and good men love that😊
@@Milly_in_denmark Oraire ota Ateenyi oku mbere Oli?Mukama ayongere kukulinda ne'eka yaawe yoona🙏🏽✝️ Empako eyange Amooti🤭😎😂.
I grew up cherishing having a family,so sad that I don't have any by now!Am living in the here and now theory!And yes I would wish to have two more but only if am married i don't need sperm donors🤭😎 this time! Waiting on the Lord in all these plans and activities!
Otherwise, am fine and happy not stressed with anything rather having many activities around me,they give me energy and excitement for the next day!
I accepted my past embraced that's why I considered to start anew in everything!
Otyo muno Ateenyi for the response 😀. Receive Sunday cheers 🥂 from here!
Yes it's not too late
Are you serious girl
Thanks for your kindness.
I am 47 and coming out if an abusive relationship.
And Yes😊 I am starting all over.
Your simple vidéo IS very encouraging.
@@agencemissionnaire I think the best decision everyone can do for themselves is to get out of an abusive relationship. So congratulations for choosing you😊
Yes! I was going through a divorce while my friends were having children and getting married in my late thirties. Wanting a family it seemed so hard, but it was the BEST decision I ever made- my whole world changed for the better and months after my divorce was finalized my friend introduced me to my forever person and we welcomed our son last year. I'm so excited going into my 40s - and started my RUclips channel to document my motherhood journey and our family adventures- this is truly the BEST time of my life... I only wish I had not let the FEAR keep me in a bad situation for so long- my forever person was living 15 minutes away for NINE years but I was afraid to start over. BTW BEAUTIFUL dress/blouse!!!
@@naliyahkaya What a beautiful story 😊. Many people have missed out on amazing things just because of fear. Especially fear of other people’s opinions who don’t even matter. Thank you for sharing your story which might inspire other people and congratulations on your marriage, baby and RUclips channel 😊
@@Milly_in_denmark aww thank you ☺️ I truly hope it does encourage others to let go and move into all the wonderful things waiting for them in the future! It is not easy but it is so worth it!💗
@@naliyahkaya Absolutely worth it😊
Wow, First time here, your channel just popped and am 49 and got interested coz I just started class! Thanks so much for this❤️Am from Kenya
@@waithiraterry Good luck with your studies. You got this💪
@@Milly_in_denmarkthank you for the encouragement
Thank you for sharing. I am 31 and your video made me feel less anxious about life.
@@PZJBimha You are so welcome 🙏. And believe me, you might be surprised how life gets better the older we get.
🙏🏽😍
Thank you Milly...nice encouragement.
RUclips recommended me your video, I just want to say thank you for speaking your words of encouragement. Motivated!
@@sarahg3550 Thank you Sarah for the encouraging words 😊
Congratulations on your marriage and your new life. I resonate with what you said and I think that you are a strong woman to think this way and live your life. You are correct, it is never too late to start overe. God bless and keep inspiring.
@@liveyrdream Thank you 🙏 and I hope more women get inspired 😊
Enjoyed your video. Yes, life will just pass us by. We should do whatever we want to do while we are on this earth.
@@DeniseG-c7p It will. Life doesn’t wait for us to get ready unfortunately. Thank you 🙏 so much for watching 😊
Milli, thanks a lot for your message and great video ! I really needed this a lot now. I lost a lot of opportunities in life, in my early 40’s as I thought I was too old.😅 Now, turning soon 52 I realized all the harm I did to myself…still having some thoughts like “I am too old for this or that” but working on it😊. So, thanks a lot for your message. It helps me a lot. Will follow you for sure❤ A big big and warm hug from Germany !!
@@ancasauciuc2431 I hope you start living your life now and do things you want to do so you don’t regret from now on. Good luck 👍
Hello Milly thank you for sharing it's lifting. I appreciate that info!
@@segamogotlha5290 Thank you for watching and I appreciate the support 😊
Loved your video. I'm 66 yrs old, and there are things that I yet need to do. Thank you, Milly.
@@pfh3133 You are welcome 🙏 and start now because tomorrow is never returning 😊
I am even embarrassed 😢! Like why have I been feeling my life is over because I turned 30🙈! I entered panic mode since there was so much of expectations and I haven't achieved any of those things! The year is just passing by, infact I panicked from 27. Watching this video has encouraged me and I am starting again all I have been feeling I am too old to do! Thank you so much!
@@Waridisworld I’m glad this video made you realize that actually at 30 life is just beginning. You are not alone because I have many comments in here of young women feeling like it’s too late because they have turned 30 and haven’t achieved anything. Glad you have changed your mindset. Thank you for watching 😊
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I honestly need this
Thanks for sharing this. I'm 41 and have been feeling so lost recently after a lot of bereavement and life losses. I've been having a hard time figuring out what to do next. I feel like life has been passing me by and I want to participate again in life but I've not been sure what to do except I want to continue with a small business I have started. I am hoping for more guidance and inspiration soon.
@@katec9893 Thank you 🙏 for watching and hope things get better 😊
Thank you for sharing your experience. It means a lot!
@@FernandaSilva-xb4cb You are so welcome 🙏
Milly i love your Channel thank you for this massage it sparked something in me after seeing your videos so many things came to my mind of how i have just let life pass me by it really hit me when you said dont let life pass you by thank you milly❤❤❤
@@portiamlangeni5482 Right. These days when I waste time, I literally tell my self that those minutes will never come back. So start now or you will regret not starting.
You are one true beauty...thank you so much for the encouragement, I really needed to hear that I'm 35 and thought time has passed me by but you've awaken me from slumber....God continue to bless you.
@@dinahmatsie5345 Too young to not be living your life. Start now 😊
Thank you so much sweetheart..
I've lived that life of fearing to start over again... I've learnt how to deal with it now.
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@@Grace-rw7fy Amen to that. There is a saying “ fear is temporary, regret is forever.
Milly thank you for this video! You really encourage me today, God bless you and your family ❤
@@Norvelaful You are welcome 🙏. Glad you got inspired 😊
You look so beautiful, your skin is glowing. I’m 26 and you look so young and youthful. I want to look like you by the time I get to your age . You look nothing over 30, I would have guest in the mid to late 20s . Thank you for your wisdom it’s never too late. Never let fear hold you back from living your dreams
@@toriiiah You are too kind. And thank you also for the encouraging words.
Thank you so much for this video. You are spreading so much hope for individuals out there! Bless you.
@@sophiaphiri5284 Such a nice comment and very encouraging. Thank you 🙏
congrats on this awesome video and your success on your channel! I started over at 49 myself! Never give up!
@@kristiechiles Amen 🙏. Thank you and continue shining 😌
This was meant to be, I came across your channel just yesterday, July 25, 2024. And your words are so insightful, thanks for sharing your journey. I'm 68, retired, single for years, and loving my life. I exercise regularly, have a positive mindset, life is good.
New subscriber.
@@donnawelch7306 Amen 🙏. Sounds like you are living your best life. Welcome to this amazing community 😊
Very nice video , I started nursing school last year and am
40 this year . You don’t look 50 🎉
@@GraceFidel Yaaaaay. Go Grace. That’s amazing. The best thing about being a nurse, we can be 60 and wont be worried about getting fired because we can a job the next day. And thank you 🙏 for the kind words 😊
I like your boldness. It's liberating. If not now then when? I've just began my own journey of self-discovery, it's been awesome, I had a hysterectomy 18 months ago and didn't have children at all. It's been an arduous journey of healing but helped me to also let go of mindsets that had been limiting me.
@@susanthobekilencube71 Thank you 🙏 and it’s nice to hear that you are on healing journey and focusing on you😊
First time here, I LOVE your channel, everything about it, calm, real,peaceful,colourful, modesty, etc etc Ive so far watched 6 of your videos they are great, straight to the point, Hugs ❤
@@homeandaway2811 Thank you so much for the kind and encouraging words😊. The best thing I enjoy making them and hopefully more people like you can enjoy them. Thanks for the support 😍
@@Milly_in_denmark….Thank you very much for these words. I am 31 and I feel I’m late already. I’m going through a lot and you’ve encouraged me.
So glad I came across you, was wondering if I was awkward considering a new career path at 44! Iam more encouraged
@@annneruthnakatumba8147 Noooo. If I wasn’t in to this slowing down thing, I would have gone back to take a phd. Because I can and no one can tell me otherwise. So you go girl🤞
Congratulations on your marriage and thanks for the encouraging video!
@@Loretta_C Thank you 😊 and I’m glad you found it encouraging 😊
You are gorgeous sis n they video came in time I am depressed thinking at 40 it is late for me to get married 😢but am hopeful now n just started a course yesterday. Thank you so much n congratulations on your marriage❤
@@brendadickson9583 You are still young, so start now. Can’t believe how many women think 40 is old. Good luck and hope you change your mind about thinking you are old.
@@Milly_in_denmark Thank you for responding sis n I will start to have a different mindset though hard when you are constantly mocked or asked when will you be a mom etc But I believe all will happen for me, Thank you again for being kind❤️
Thank you for sharing this! Love it! ❤
@@kishaepps3909 You are welcome 🙏
Thank you sister. I’m 52. This is inspiring.
Thank you so much for this video. So encouraging God bless you really good. And may the Lord bless your new marriage.
@@jessicanwakaokediadi7171 Thank you 🙏 for watching and for the blessing. I really appreciate 😊
I'm glad I found this video. This is exactly what I need now. Congratulations on your marriage.
@@evelynevans5962 Thank you 🙏. Glad you are encouraged.
Thank you for the reminder 🙏🏾…"We are not trees"👏🏾
@@Onemorebookpodcast. You are welcome 🙏. Kan always laughs when I use that term. But many people stay in situations like they have thick roots that can’t be pooled out of the ground
Thanks for the word!!!
Am making the move to Start over
@@patienceakhuotor1887 You are so welcome 🙏
Hey Milly. I m very glad with your message. Thank you for reminding me of that❤
@@zerinamkalala9282 You are welcome 🙏
I am 47 and preparing to start a degree in Data Science. You never too old.
@@YOUROLDFRIEND666 Amen sister. You are an inspiration. Good luck with the studies. You almost made wanna go back to school 😅.
Thank you sis, I'm 49and lm going to start my bachelor degree in Nov,real lm not too late🙌
I love this for you. Keep encouraging us.
@@LindaTinahTV Thank you 🙏 so much Linda 😍. I really appreciate 😊
Thank you Milly! At 52 I Am starting over!
@@EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus you go girl 👍. You can do it.
@@Milly_in_denmark Thanks Milly! I'm walking through the doors of opportunity God has been opening for Me! Thank God!
you actually look fabulous more than us ,you such an inspiration,we love these kind of content to motivate us
@@juliababra thank you Julia, but you will age gracefully for sure. Your skin is always on point. Will try to make more of these kind of videos😊
Very encouraging indeed its not too late to start over.