"How do you survive an asexual relationship?" What a bizarre question! If one has to "survive" *any* kind of relationship, one has bigger problems than Google can deal with😂. But thanks, Lynn! Always useful to know where significant numbers of people's heads are at before one ventures onto the stage.😃
@@lynnsaga1397 I really need help I'm Asexual and I was let go from a lot of jobs living in Texas could u or anyone u know help me? This resulted in me being homeless
@@lynnsaga1397 I lost employment when I moved to Illinois in 2020 but I really like Los Angeles I learned LA I was there for a while in 2021 and 2022. Please write back when u can
@@lynnsaga1397 I spent time in NY and they like marriage but monogamy isn't what they like their either. Marriage in my opinion isn't good in today's world I really like Jubilee
My partner and I are on ace spectrum, though he loves touch as a love language and I love acts of service. We're also Demisexual, so that helps too. Thoroughly enjoyed this! ❤
I recently come to terms with being ace, not 100% sure if I am aromatic yet but I am 90% sure, and I would have never known if I haven't come across your youtube, I am so thankful, to know that there are plenty of others like me, and that I ain't broken, once again thank you so much!
I think I blew my chance of being in a relationship with someone last year. As an aroace person, it can be extremely difficult to fined or explain to someone what a qpr is. So yes, communication is key, and I wish I could explain to that person what a qpr is, but I don't think they'd understand. And sorry, Lynn, this isn't exactly what you were talking about.
I needed to hear this! Valentine is coming and I really just want to eat chocolate with my friends!! (Good thing, here in Mexico Valentines day is 'love and friendship day' so yeah :))
Loved the video. You’re definitely not the only one who was offended by the last question. But yes please do more like this. Maybe one on non-binary questions next?
how do i survive an allosexual relationship? do allosexuals like kissing? i feel like asking the same questions about allosexuals results in the question basically answering itself lol
I feel like the first question is confusing asexuality with aromanticism (or assuming all aces are also aro, which I've seen a depressing amount of times lol). I'd imagine most asexuals want to date unless they're aroace????
I'm demi and I have only been sexually attracted to two people, and those are the only two people I've felt comfortable with kissing. The other people I've kissed I didn't really enjoy it, I only did it because I thought you were suppose to
Love these videos, this is an amazing channel an i always feel a little less alone when i watch them. Also survive? Like you survive a war or an illness not a loving relationship that happens to lack sex, allos are super dramatic about sex sometimes, i so don't get it.
You are one of the most informative, intelligent, validating, entertaining and important gender non conforming people on RUclips. Your one of my favorite and most followed RUclipsrs. You not only do a huge service to society for spreading knowledge AND YOU HAVE PERSONALLY ANSWERED QUESTIONS ABOUT MY OWN SEXUALITY (SENDING GRATEFUL LOVE 💕 FOR YOU AND YOUR CHANNEL!) Thanks again #lynnsaggarecognition!!
Thank you very much, dear @lynnsaga1397! Can I ask you for advice? I recently reminded my asexual female best friend that I support her, referring to a conversation from 6 years ago she'd forgotten. My well-intentioned comment backfired severely - she found it extremely offensive and expressed wishing I was dead. Given her tendency to hold long grudges and her past trauma, should I wait a year before attempting to apologize and reconnect? Or is there a better approach? How can I effectively apologize for bringing up this sensitive topic?
Hey, so I'm trying to figure out whether I'm asexual, but now a few questions arise. How do I know that I love someone or want to be in a relationship with them and it's not just a deep friendship? Like, what's the difference between a good friendship with a person you have a deep connection and / or cuddle with and a person you do the same things with but in a romantic way?? I don't get it, am I aromatic as well? 😭😭
For me there is no difference besides who i give more access to my life. A partner has the most access typically. More trust... But even that can be off the table depending on the rltshp agreement
Hi, I have maybe a stupid question but can we actually be assexual for a reason ? i mean, for exemple if you've been through a trauma linked to sexuality and that after even some years you've never been attracted this way even when there wasn't any fear? like literally never attracted this way? i feel like everyone is like "it's just a phase, it's because of your trauma, you'll be healed one day and you will be able to do it again don't worry", but it's like, not about fear nor anything, i just don't want to do it
"How do you survive an asexual relationship?" What a bizarre question! If one has to "survive" *any* kind of relationship, one has bigger problems than Google can deal with😂. But thanks, Lynn! Always useful to know where significant numbers of people's heads are at before one ventures onto the stage.😃
Right I was so confused when I saw that!
@@lynnsaga1397 I really need help I'm Asexual and I was let go from a lot of jobs living in Texas could u or anyone u know help me? This resulted in me being homeless
@@lynnsaga1397 I lost employment when I moved to Illinois in 2020 but I really like Los Angeles I learned LA I was there for a while in 2021 and 2022. Please write back when u can
@@lynnsaga1397 I spent time in NY and they like marriage but monogamy isn't what they like their either. Marriage in my opinion isn't good in today's world I really like Jubilee
My partner and I are on ace spectrum, though he loves touch as a love language and I love acts of service. We're also Demisexual, so that helps too. Thoroughly enjoyed this! ❤
I recently come to terms with being ace, not 100% sure if I am aromatic yet but I am 90% sure, and I would have never known if I haven't come across your youtube, I am so thankful, to know that there are plenty of others like me, and that I ain't broken, once again thank you so much!
I think I blew my chance of being in a relationship with someone last year.
As an aroace person, it can be extremely difficult to fined or explain to someone what a qpr is.
So yes, communication is key, and I wish I could explain to that person what a qpr is, but I don't think they'd understand.
And sorry, Lynn, this isn't exactly what you were talking about.
I needed to hear this! Valentine is coming and I really just want to eat chocolate with my friends!!
(Good thing, here in Mexico Valentines day is 'love and friendship day' so yeah :))
Loved the video. You’re definitely not the only one who was offended by the last question. But yes please do more like this. Maybe one on non-binary questions next?
I was actually already thinking about doing one on non-binary! Great minds think alike😅
how do i survive an allosexual relationship? do allosexuals like kissing? i feel like asking the same questions about allosexuals results in the question basically answering itself lol
You are an amazing person lynn wish i could meet you one day
Thank you so much I always look forward to your comments they’re so kind☺️
At 5:13 I saw your cat's tail, really cute lol
I wonder which one it was I have 4 lol
I feel like the first question is confusing asexuality with aromanticism (or assuming all aces are also aro, which I've seen a depressing amount of times lol). I'd imagine most asexuals want to date unless they're aroace????
@kat_the_mouse I'm allosexual (I think) and aromantic. Yes. We exist. And , yes I'm getting married.
This was such a good video!! I loved it!
I’m so happy you liked it☺️
"Can asexuals be attracted to anyone?"
Me, a pan ace: YES!!!!
Update: I think I'm allosexual, bi and aromantic lolz
Omg are you actually because I’ve been trying to find more people to discuss this with
SAME
Do the vast majority of dating folks really not know to just talk openly with their partners? Sheesh!
I'm demi and I have only been sexually attracted to two people, and those are the only two people I've felt comfortable with kissing. The other people I've kissed I didn't really enjoy it, I only did it because I thought you were suppose to
Love these videos, this is an amazing channel an i always feel a little less alone when i watch them. Also survive? Like you survive a war or an illness not a loving relationship that happens to lack sex, allos are super dramatic about sex sometimes, i so don't get it.
You are one of the most informative, intelligent, validating, entertaining and important gender non conforming people on RUclips. Your one of my favorite and most followed RUclipsrs. You not only do a huge service to society for spreading knowledge AND YOU HAVE PERSONALLY ANSWERED QUESTIONS ABOUT MY OWN SEXUALITY (SENDING GRATEFUL LOVE 💕 FOR YOU AND YOUR CHANNEL!) Thanks again #lynnsaggarecognition!!
Thank you very much, dear @lynnsaga1397! Can I ask you for advice?
I recently reminded my asexual female best friend that I support her,
referring to a conversation from 6 years ago she'd forgotten. My
well-intentioned comment backfired severely - she found it extremely
offensive and expressed wishing I was dead. Given her tendency to hold long
grudges and her past trauma, should I wait a year before attempting to
apologize and reconnect? Or is there a better approach? How can I
effectively apologize for bringing up this sensitive topic?
Where do I find others not obsessed with SEX?
Hey, so I'm trying to figure out whether I'm asexual, but now a few questions arise. How do I know that I love someone or want to be in a relationship with them and it's not just a deep friendship? Like, what's the difference between a good friendship with a person you have a deep connection and / or cuddle with and a person you do the same things with but in a romantic way?? I don't get it, am I aromatic as well? 😭😭
Idk if you've gotten an answer from anyone else, but it sounds like you're quoiromantic (aka wtfromantic), which is on the aromantic spectrum
For me there is no difference besides who i give more access to my life. A partner has the most access typically. More trust... But even that can be off the table depending on the rltshp agreement
Hi, I have maybe a stupid question but can we actually be assexual for a reason ? i mean, for exemple if you've been through a trauma linked to sexuality and that after even some years you've never been attracted this way even when there wasn't any fear? like literally never attracted this way? i feel like everyone is like "it's just a phase, it's because of your trauma, you'll be healed one day and you will be able to do it again don't worry", but it's like, not about fear nor anything, i just don't want to do it