I believe he does love her,what's not to love?He is just emotionally immature,pride filled and self-righteous all of which makes for toxicity.He truly believed that he would be victorious in the end & that despite everything mel would forgive him because she did it several times before.Typical case of a man underestimating a woman,we will fight and endure but at some point we will give up if the shit doesn't stop
I’m glad she cried and showed her emotions. It is sign that she’s mourning her marriage and she can finally move on. She is a beautiful lady with 4 amazing children, she’ll survive.
She doesn't have to show sensitivity she is a woman and its always going to be sensitive she is not crying mourning her marriage, she is crying from being hurt and time she wasted in it.
You nailed it!! I had to mourn my marriage too, l was just like her with a military husband that made a baby on me. It hurt like hell, he did just like him. I know what she's going through
He waited too late. It took too much energy and time for him to humble himself for his wife. He was intimidated by her, she's powerful and strong. God said go Mel! It's time for her to shine.
Finally he told her how he felt but it’s too late the damage is done. Their divorce in real time is finalized and I wish them both the best (especially Mel)
Dang I teared up. Melody is being so strong, yet she’s so broken. That’s a lot to carry on your shoulders. A man you were married to for 14 years creating life with someone else. Geesh.
He says he is single so doesn't claim other woman as his girlfriend now but even if he did Mel is numb to that...she didn't marry this person...she has moved on cuz he has not been the person she fell on love with...she is hurt cuz she loved her husband and he couldn't do the work to save this, she isn't hurt cuz of the sidechick..she is hurt from his betrayal and trust me she knows Martell loves her and he doesn't want Arionne
@@lindaallder3662 But he hasn't shown her that he loved her enough to be loyal and faithful. He has as some deeply entrenched core issues. To risk losing his family, health and social status. This is very painful. She will alway love Martell, but she has to love herself first to recover from the damage he's caused.
@@Loveer-3 Melody has put up with Montels shenanigans throughout the marriage of him cheating and having a whole relationship within a marriage that she didn’t even know about .She is basically feeding his ego and giving up her spiritual energy while still trying hold her self together. I’m glad she is reclaimed her power and her self love.
Right. They never think they will lose and ultimately they loose it all. A squirrel spending too much time trying to bust one nut should have spent time colleting many with his family and would have have had plenty for all of them to eat.
She was married to him, loved him, had 4 babies with him, built an empire with him!! Those emotions don't go away over night! She's still hurting, plus she knows she has to end it! No coming back.
Martell Martell....you literally had it all- beautiful supportive wife, family, health and wealth. And you handed it over on a plater for crumbs. All of this is sad for our eyes to witness but I can only imagine how Mel feels and those kids. Now is only you and God because you lost everything you had.
"Everything was right" The truth always comes to light. Didn't he say she never gave him what he needed that's why he cheated? Dude needs to slip real low with his ho.
Meaning God blessed them with everything they wanted and needed yet he decided to be sneaky and greedy and stepped out. Liars never think they will get caught. God dont miss a beat. It must make him feel less guilty to keep bringing up some dude we dont even have a name for yet his girlfriend/mistress is preggers.
I think what everybody is missing is Martell been cheating on Mel and she has been accepting this behavior from him all these years. The only difference is one of those mistresses came up pregnant and they can no longer lie about the cheating to their friends and the fans. He been with Arionne for the last 5 years, and he was with other women before that. Mel needs to stop being petty and dragging their kids into that mess, it is bad enough she took all Martell money out the bank account.
My daddy told my momma the same thing when she finally left him. Had he known she’d leave him for good one day he’d never done it. Unfortunately he found out too late.
@@debbiewilliams8211 Melody went above beyond to be damn near super woman, but I’m glad his lesson came sooner than later , especially in his pockets when he tried to down play Melody contributions to the business.
Martell martell martell,so you mean to tell me that you put all that ego shit in front of your marriage,went on a smear campaign against your wife,got your sidechick pregnant only to end up here?? You had two options,choose to be happy or choose to be right,you chose to be right,you defended your wrongs all the way to divorce filing and now it's just too damn late,Some men out here need to learn from this,this is sad and he will regret it the rest of his life
Yep it's angers me how some men think they are invincible against stuff like that. I don't like calling people slow/dumb, but what else to call men that act like Martell, smh. Side chick vs Good Wife, and he picks the side chick. Just Greedy, he had it all and wanted more, dummy!
That's what the devil does. The devil will make you go further than you want to go, stay longer than you want to stay and make you pay more than you want to pay. Then after all of that he leaves you high and dry to deal with the consequences!
My ex husband took me through it without a baby and when I filed he says to me he didn’t remember the last several years. I said but I do. That devil will get you out here looking crazy
Wait ✋ ✋ a minute There divorce is finalized already somebody tell me something or I'm going to have to Google it because that the fastest divorce I ever seen everybody else takes 6 months 3 months a year WoW!
He had everything he wanted and still it was not enough. Some men will never learn. The side chick is in for a great disappointment, he will blame her and resent her for the demise of his family.
" what did you think it would be?" I wish he would've answered that. Dang man, you had it all and threw it all away all for sexual pleasures. Martell will forever live with regret. Ms. Arionne I hope you see that yes you may have performed the sexual acts that pleased Martell but his heart is not and will never be with you. I commend Martell for finally speaking his feelings though. Hopefully, they can be friends again and great co- parents
Does it bug anyone else that not once has he ever said "I'm sorry I hurt you" or "I'm sorry for what i did and for destroying our marriage"? Or even just "I'm sorry Mel"
What disturbing is him using the kids in his mess. He is truly disgusting. He will have a reckoning with his son when he gets older. Because he son is already giving him the side eye. Having his daughters repeat in unison of what he’s taught them . That was so rehearsed it wasn’t funny and then talking about their mom in front of the kids live and forgot the kids were in the car with him. Just trifling
He's said those things before, she forgave him and he jumped right back in the bed with the "peasant" Once he got the mistress pregnant I really think Mel didn't want to hear anything else he had to say and was done. The woman he carried on an affair with was not just a one time slip up it was years, once she got pregnant that was probably the nail in the coffin for Mel.
Hearing a man say “everything was right” and him cheat anyway is the reason you never go back. He will cheat without any warning or reason. That’s so dangerous
I didn't see a remorseful man. I saw him try to manipulate her once again and he tried but I call B.S. Melody brought way too much to the table and he took her for granted and he is just starting to see how much he is really about to loose. Go back to Ariona's house and continue laughing with her about how funny it was for her to disrespect Mel.
Yep. It's so sad to see this public. Deep down Melody is HURTING because she trusted him to do RIGHT. After he cheated and he continued to cheat to get Mel to do something she desired not to do. LORD help them both.
I almost cried finally a moment of him truly feeling the lost of her..You had it all..no one is perfect!!!You gave it all away for a women who only wants to gain from you!!You had a women who birthed your 4 kids,and still helped you build your bank acct..That I is a bad women right there,only thing she took was her name!!!I am sure the other baby momma is applying for child support as we speak...You had another baby..as sad as it is!!!It’s over..Can’t undo a baby
Martel should of ended his affair years ago. Now that there's a child involved and the pain for Mel is far more deeper than before it's hard for her to go back and be reminded of what happened in her marriage. Affairs are very hurtful and once it happens the trust is gone it's hard to love that hard again. I love for couples to fight for their family and I wish they could of worked it out before it got this far. I wish you guys and your family the best.
@@tangieharper6525 there's no perfect marriage should never include cheating, that's grounds for immediate divorce and more women should know their worth to walk away if that happens. It's the worst thing you can do to your partner.
@@tangieharper6525 and do they also require cheating and betrayal? My relationship is happy, healthy, and communication is present. If my partner ever cheated on me I would leave lol, and they already know that is an automatic dealbreaker.
Melody keep your head up, look forward and don’t look back. Let the new chick and her baby feel the wave. Just like Wendy Williams, do you ! I do not know who the other woman is, but what you do to others always finds its way back to you. Shame on her. The “Sisterhood” must respect another sister. No excuse.
Martell didn't think Mel would leave. If she would have stayed his actions would stay the same. Hopefully, after he has worked on himself they can come back together.
No wonder so many women get cheated on, as soon as a man says I'm sorry and sounds kinda sincere, y'all telling her to stay so she'll end up looking crazy like Derrick J wife!
It’s heated when you don’t hear her, don’t respect her and you over talk her. And you don’t acknowledge your wrong doing. Instead you try to publicly accuse her of wrong doing. All you had to do is acknowledge your actions and apologize.
He tears her down then says he loves her. Don't say you lover her. Treat her like you love her. Your behaviors shows that you don't love her. She was a gem and you lost her. Leave her alone so she can find a man that will treat her as she deserves: like the beautiful queen she is!
He was emotionally abusive now he’s just out with it you see how he went to all the other cast members and attempted to turn them against her.... he is so mean saying such awful things to his wife, his mother was so upset over this
Sad to see some of the ladies falling for Martell's bs. I'm glad Mel is smarter and stronger. He just wants to control her. Manipulative lying narcs are never sorry.
It's psychotic that they're falling for it lol like did they ignore the first half of this scene entirely when he's lying on her name accusing her of doing something he's doing???
@@kilaa3417 girl I don't get it! I see why women are constantly being played. This is the nicest this nigga has been to her in camera all season! Yet they're finding empathy for him.
No wonder so many women get cheated on constantly, as soon as a man says I'm sorry and sounds kinda sincere, y'all telling her to stay so she'll end up looking crazy like Derrick J wife! How can you trust a man after he cheats with multiple women for yrs, blames you for it, then creates another life that she has to accept forever, & then keep looking at the other woman until the kid gets grown! Y'all sound crazy in these comments
It happens every day and it doesn’t make that woman stupid, crazy or weak.. just because she chose to work on her Marriage.. and that’s sad because it’s a whole lot of women who does want to stay, forgive and rebuild however the judgement, shaming and care of how other will view them keeps them gone.. then they never remarry, be lonely because of somebody else’s opinion.. it was love, marriage and family.. and a legacy and businesses.... that doesn’t just go away, sure it’s more men but guess what??.. you just may not be into them.. but hey.. at least I don’t look crazy or can be called dumb because I wanted to stay... smh
@@Mystik_J_the_Scorpio judgement of others? Oh Lord 🙄How about the emotional trauma women face because of their cheating husband? The pain, distrust and hate. In fact Derrick wife is a perfect example. Look at her post on instagram as evidence. His cheating has damaged her emotional and mentally to the point where it might affect her daughter if something is not done to help her. Melody tried and he refused to listen or stop so for her mental health and her children she had to leave. It has nothing to do with the public. Why stay in a toxic and emotional abusive relationship because of marriage?
@@huldah1605 I didn’t say that was the reason for her.. I was speaking tor some women in general who do leave for that reason.. nobody should speak in anybody marriage.. I was just saying if they stayed it doesn’t make them weak or stupid..
@@Mystik_J_the_Scorpio where did she say it makes them weak or stupid? I don't see that anywhere. And women should not accept cheating, period. That is recreating more trauma especially if there are kids involved. It's even grounds for divorce in the bible and all of you are still so sympathetic towards "working it out" that's wild crazy
I am So glad he opened up. Finally, he spoke up. I commend him for that. Communication is SO Important. Martel glad you told how you really felt, women need to hear this. You 2 have Beautiful children and cannot be enemies.
He's reaching out for help man. It makes me so sad to see. Black men and most other men do not know how to express their feelings. They don't know how to say "I'm sorry", "I love you". He wants her back, his family back, but he has gone too far! What a mess!
This man is confused. One minute he is accusing her of cheating and having a man and the next wishing they could be together . If Melody really cheated on him or had a man he would be losing his ish . He would have drug her for cheating from the beginning and not out of the blue.
He loves her and she loves him, so sad before he cheated he didnt think ......he should said to his self I love my wife I love my home ,love Ky kids .....I love my life.... this woman is not worth me losing my wife,kids my life. It's never worth it. Never....
@@kilaa3417 when you are going thru a divorce you say and do lots of crazy .....stupid things. Things that don't really mean. Also you want to hurt that person they say you are hurting.... and some times might go on for years..... I see it all the time ..... fighting over kids....
so sad to see a family torn apart, but melody has to love herself more than she loves Martell, Martell made his bed and now he has to lay in it. She doesn't deserve this, and he has more than enough time to stop the affair she even took him back what more could she have done.?
Never too late for a true Godly apology; that don't mean they should or shouldn't get back together; I read that their divorce has been finalized already. Now it's time to co-parent in a way that's healthy for the children. God bless them both.
The pain is so deep when someone you love breaks your heart into a million pieces. She loves him and he loves her but he didn't know the value and worth he had in his family.
Martell is really trying it he wants his family and the sideline woman..... so since she’s decided to finally stop taking his foolishness he gets mean and nasty... one thing Ms Arionne needs to know is the one who cheats with you will eventually cheat on you so how does one sit with that.....I’ll wait.....this woman sold out for a few trinkets knowing this man had a wife and children that’s real sad....and he still wants Mel back always looking crazy when it gets brought up
I really think he just be thinking of stuff to approach her about just so he could be in her presence because being away from her is just a reminder that he screwed up n now he dont even know which way to turn without her being there to say go left or right bc Mel was the one calling shots n making all the big moves
I'm so proud of him...he setup to the plate he expressed his feelings and admitted to being wrong. Good for you! Even tho you were dead wrong. You took ownership...
In a span of less than 2 min this male goes from degrading her, manipulating her emotions, falsely accusing her of infidelity, lying on his children to try to smear her, pouring his heart out to her, to reminiscing about what they had, to wishing them back together. I canNOT with this guy.
Saying everything was right tired of these BM destroying their own family over selfish reasons and even after being forgiven multiple times they do it again BW is time to love yourself unconditionally 1 First ❤️
Black women have to stop letting black men hurt them and keep accepting the pain. They usually don't change just change methods. He worried about his financial situation not about her.
I hope that is the start of healing for him. He may not be ready to be with his wife but I do hope he gett the help he needs to be a good husband to another woman.
Another marriage destroyed.This hurts me for our community. Our children need both parents in the home.I hate Divorce even when it's necessary.So senseless.He will always regret this.
Him trying to tear down her character is disgusting! He don’t care , just don’t want to loose his financial stability.
ABSOLUTELY (SMH)
She tears down her own character... they deserve each other
He’s loosing it anyways. He has a new baby with child support payments
I believe he does love her,what's not to love?He is just emotionally immature,pride filled and self-righteous all of which makes for toxicity.He truly believed that he would be victorious in the end & that despite everything mel would forgive him because she did it several times before.Typical case of a man underestimating a woman,we will fight and endure but at some point we will give up if the shit doesn't stop
No he is a Man that grew up without a father figure....... doesn't know how to be a man.
I’m glad she cried and showed her emotions. It is sign that she’s mourning her marriage and she can finally move on. She is a beautiful lady with 4 amazing children, she’ll survive.
Amen.......absolutely the truth
Agreed
Very true. Keeping it in serves no one.
She doesn't have to show sensitivity she is a woman and its always going to be sensitive she is not crying mourning her marriage, she is crying from being hurt and time she wasted in it.
You nailed it!! I had to mourn my marriage too, l was just like her with a military husband that made a baby on me. It hurt like hell, he did just like him. I know what she's going through
He waited too late. It took too much energy and time for him to humble himself for his wife. He was intimidated by her, she's powerful and strong. God said go Mel! It's time for her to shine.
And She Did Sooo Happy For Her
He should humble himself on camera a long time ago. He would been able to keep his wife.
Yes I agree
I agree he fought her after he was caught instead of asking for forgiveness from his wife its a shame..lesson learned I hope
Amen!
Finally he told her how he felt but it’s too late the damage is done. Their divorce in real time is finalized and I wish them both the best (especially Mel)
Dang I teared up. Melody is being so strong, yet she’s so broken. That’s a lot to carry on your shoulders. A man you were married to for 14 years creating life with someone else. Geesh.
🔥🔥That's such a deep hurt. I hope she is getting counseling
The power of a black Queen
...Yeah and to see the pictures of him and the other woman...smh.. I feel sick to my stomach but shes making it. I pray God bless
He says he is single so doesn't claim other woman as his girlfriend now but even if he did Mel is numb to that...she didn't marry this person...she has moved on cuz he has not been the person she fell on love with...she is hurt cuz she loved her husband and he couldn't do the work to save this, she isn't hurt cuz of the sidechick..she is hurt from his betrayal and trust me she knows Martell loves her and he doesn't want Arionne
@@lindaallder3662 But he hasn't shown her that he loved her enough to be loyal and faithful. He has as some deeply entrenched core issues. To risk losing his family, health and social status. This is very painful. She will alway love Martell, but she has to love herself first to recover from the damage he's caused.
Melody is reclaiming her power back and I love it😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
YES
And to think that Montel had the last laugh 🤭 I think not🤣🤣 melody is winning
Thissss‼️ Had him looking like “oh, you think you tough now” yessss Mel
@@Loveer-3 Melody has put up with Montels shenanigans throughout the marriage of him cheating and having a whole relationship within a marriage that she didn’t even know about .She is basically feeding his ego and giving up her spiritual energy while still trying hold her self together. I’m glad she is reclaimed her power and her self love.
Me to
True narcissist. He’s only mad he lost control over her.
Right. They never think they will lose and ultimately they loose it all. A squirrel spending too much time trying to bust one nut should have spent time colleting many with his family and would have have had plenty for all of them to eat.
Yessss
Period!
Yup!
Please say it louder for the idiots that keep saying he still loves her BS! He ain’t about Nathan! He is an immature and gaslighting person.
Me: don’t cry Mel he don’t deserve you or your tears
She was married to him, loved him, had 4 babies with him, built an empire with him!! Those emotions don't go away over night! She's still hurting, plus she knows she has to end it! No coming back.
She’s crying because that’s what she needed to hear. That was tears of relief
Martell Martell....you literally had it all- beautiful supportive wife, family, health and wealth. And you handed it over on a plater for crumbs. All of this is sad for our eyes to witness but I can only imagine how Mel feels and those kids. Now is only you and God because you lost everything you had.
He gained a baby and child support
Reminds me of Tyler Perry play and movie” Why did I get married?”
@@carolynpressley07 Sheila& Mike are the characters names
Some men don’t know what good for them
He's arrogant, not that cute , and deserves all the dragging he gets.
"Everything was right", meaning he was satisfied with cheating and Mel not knowing what was going on.
pretty much.
Or knowing and let it happen more than once.
"Everything was right" The truth always comes to light. Didn't he say she never gave him what he needed that's why he cheated? Dude needs to slip real low with his ho.
Meaning God blessed them with everything they wanted and needed yet he decided to be sneaky and greedy and stepped out. Liars never think they will get caught. God dont miss a beat. It must make him feel less guilty to keep bringing up some dude we dont even have a name for yet his girlfriend/mistress is preggers.
I think what everybody is missing is Martell been cheating on Mel and she has been accepting this behavior from him all these years. The only difference is one of those mistresses came up pregnant and they can no longer lie about the cheating to their friends and the fans. He been with Arionne for the last 5 years, and he was with other women before that. Mel needs to stop being petty and dragging their kids into that mess, it is bad enough she took all Martell money out the bank account.
Mel looks like a model here just gorgeous. Her facial features are flawless too.
My daddy told my momma the same thing when she finally left him. Had he known she’d leave him for good one day he’d never done it. Unfortunately he found out too late.
Melanie keeps getting more pretty as she gets older
And as she gets stronger too, like she is glowing
Like her momma
@@justdevine864 I know her mother is beautiful to!! I love her mother's energy
@@rondamiller4971 yes, so true!!
Melody
He was still trying to manipulate Mel emotionally...this whole conversation...he sad cause he thought he was invincible & life taught
Heartbreaking!!!
Such a beautiful family 😪
Bingo. He is gross.
Mel is strong for her children.
@@debbiewilliams8211 Melody went above beyond to be damn near super woman, but I’m glad his lesson came sooner than later , especially in his pockets when he tried to down play Melody contributions to the business.
You had everything you wanted on one hand but she was the reason you cheated on the other? Make it make sense Martell!!!
That part!!
Don't forget the peasant "satisfied" him
Big facts.........
@@MultiSassy84 she moved up to an orange 🍊😒
Martell martell martell,so you mean to tell me that you put all that ego shit in front of your marriage,went on a smear campaign against your wife,got your sidechick pregnant only to end up here?? You had two options,choose to be happy or choose to be right,you chose to be right,you defended your wrongs all the way to divorce filing and now it's just too damn late,Some men out here need to learn from this,this is sad and he will regret it the rest of his life
Yep it's angers me how some men think they are invincible against stuff like that. I don't like calling people slow/dumb, but what else to call men that act like Martell, smh. Side chick vs Good Wife, and he picks the side chick. Just Greedy, he had it all and wanted more, dummy!
Preach!!
The DEVIL IS SO BUSY when it comes to Marriage. The third party in a marriage should always be The Most High "God" not another man nor woman!
Say that!
YOU KNOW WHAT TO SAY!!!!!!!!!
Amen. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amen 🙏
Martell is never going to be happy with his side chuck and he will resent her for even existing
Now he see clear! after divorce The devil had him going now he messed up his marriage!
That's what the devil does. The devil will make you go further than you want to go, stay longer than you want to stay and make you pay more than you want to pay. Then after all of that he leaves you high and dry to deal with the consequences!
My ex husband took me through it without a baby and when I filed he says to me he didn’t remember the last several years. I said but I do. That devil will get you out here looking crazy
Y'all ain't lying. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
These people choose the devil energy because I will never, ever, never ever let that in. I love the Lord.
@@Babydoll0458 Which is why the right way is always God's way.
Damage is DONE! Divorce has been finalized. Extremely happy that Melody is freeeee
I know he regrets what he did. He lost a hell of a woman
@KissKiss Tatum on the show he's still a jerk. I don't understand him at all
💯!!!
Wait ✋ ✋ a minute
There divorce is finalized already somebody tell me something or I'm going to have to Google it because that the fastest divorce I ever seen everybody else takes 6 months 3 months a year WoW!
Something finally clicked for him..... tell this girl how you feel about her. Now, it might be too late but she needed to hear that.
He had everything he wanted and still it was not enough. Some men will never learn. The side chick is in for a great disappointment, he will blame her and resent her for the demise of his family.
Melody is very strong she will get through this he just lost the best thing he ever had
If I was Arionne watching this season, I would be embarrassed 😭
" what did you think it would be?"
I wish he would've answered that.
Dang man, you had it all and threw it all away all for sexual pleasures. Martell will forever live with regret. Ms. Arionne I hope you see that yes you may have performed the sexual acts that pleased Martell but his heart is not and will never be with you. I commend Martell for finally speaking his feelings though. Hopefully, they can be friends again and great co- parents
I’m proud of you Mel!! ♥️
And I don’t need you to tell me anything.
Does it bug anyone else that not once has he ever said "I'm sorry I hurt you" or "I'm sorry for what i did and for destroying our marriage"? Or even just "I'm sorry Mel"
Yes indeed it irks me, he’s trying his best to blame Mel for his wrongs who does that
What disturbing is him using the kids in his mess. He is truly disgusting. He will have a reckoning with his son when he gets older. Because he son is already giving him the side eye. Having his daughters repeat in unison of what he’s taught them . That was so rehearsed it wasn’t funny and then talking about their mom in front of the kids live and forgot the kids were in the car with him. Just trifling
No bc the only thing he is actually sorry for is he thought he could have it all and Mel snatch that chit away and he is highly pizzed
I wish he would have done this much earlier! She probably would have listen to him.
not with that new born out here that belongs to him. He will forever have to deal with the side chick. She would have been a fool to take him back.
You are absolutely right.
Yes! But then I wonder if he would’ve meant it and actually followed through.
He's said those things before, she forgave him and he jumped right back in the bed with the "peasant" Once he got the mistress pregnant I really think Mel didn't want to hear anything else he had to say and was done. The woman he carried on an affair with was not just a one time slip up it was years, once she got pregnant that was probably the nail in the coffin for Mel.
He's still trying to manipulate her in this scene
Mel deserves better! And I’m happy she’s walking away and never turning back! Know your worth ladies! You can forgive and still move on!
Martel didn’t believe Melody would ask for a divorce.... Like she said what did you think would happen after all she’s been through????
Hello!!!!!! Lol Lolol Alright I do agree!!!!!! 😂😁😂😁😂😂😂😂
Hearing a man say “everything was right” and him cheat anyway is the reason you never go back. He will cheat without any warning or reason. That’s so dangerous
🎯
You are so right
Yes omg it was like everything was right? How sway how?
That was real and it was painful to watch. Regret is a tough one. But he has no one to blame but himself.
Said the same thing. One of the hardest episodes to watch. Words definitely hurt.
Yes 👍 indeed, ALL BY HIMSELF!!!!!!!!!! HE'S LIFE IS GOING TO miserable miserable miserable!!!!!!
Stay Strong Queen Mel
I wish he would have realized what a great wife and family he had before he got the side chick pregnant! Too late!!
This scene he’s talking his marriage up but in the next scene he’ll be saying Mel wasn’t ring a wife and satisfying him. Make up your mind Martell 🙄
Marriage Martel is more than about sex and placing ones mouth over you private....you have to really earn that shit
Melody has been redeemed. The best revenge is living well! Yaaaaas, Queen!
I didn't see a remorseful man. I saw him try to manipulate her once again and he tried but I call B.S. Melody brought way too much to the table and he took her for granted and he is just starting to see how much he is really about to loose. Go back to Ariona's house and continue laughing with her about how funny it was for her to disrespect Mel.
Men can have everything in a woman and it's still not be enough!! Smdh.
Yep. It's so sad to see this public. Deep down Melody is HURTING because she trusted him to do RIGHT. After he cheated and he continued to cheat to get Mel to do something she desired not to do. LORD help them both.
I almost cried finally a moment of him truly feeling the lost of her..You had it all..no one is perfect!!!You gave it all away for a women who only wants to gain from you!!You had a women who birthed your 4 kids,and still helped you build your bank acct..That I is a bad women right there,only thing she took was her name!!!I am sure the other baby momma is applying for child support as we speak...You had another baby..as sad as it is!!!It’s over..Can’t undo a baby
I felt that. When it got real and they saw each other but in a different light. We are one of God's beautiful creations.
Finally, some empathy and humility. Mercy, it took you long enough Martell. Smh. Such a sad situation.
I saw manipulation and gaslighting and disrespectful when you use your own kids in his mess.
Martel should of ended his affair years ago. Now that there's a child involved and the pain for Mel is far more deeper than before it's hard for her to go back and be reminded of what happened in her marriage. Affairs are very hurtful and once it happens the trust is gone it's hard to love that hard again. I love for couples to fight for their family and I wish they could of worked it out before it got this far. I wish you guys and your family the best.
How about he should have never had one in the 1st place
@@rondas7772 That's true but there's no perfect marriage.
@@tangieharper6525 there's no perfect marriage should never include cheating, that's grounds for immediate divorce and more women should know their worth to walk away if that happens. It's the worst thing you can do to your partner.
@@kilaa3417 You must not be married or in a relationship. They both require work and communication.
@@tangieharper6525 and do they also require cheating and betrayal? My relationship is happy, healthy, and communication is present. If my partner ever cheated on me I would leave lol, and they already know that is an automatic dealbreaker.
This was super sad to watch! I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy
Melody keep your head up, look forward and don’t look back. Let the new chick and her baby feel the wave. Just like Wendy Williams, do you !
I do not know who the other woman is, but what you do to others always finds its way back to you. Shame on her. The “Sisterhood” must respect another sister. No excuse.
Damn!! I choked up. I wish he wasn't a narcissist
Martell didn't think Mel would leave. If she would have stayed his actions would stay the same. Hopefully, after he has worked on himself they can come back together.
Nah!! She good 😌
No wonder so many women get cheated on, as soon as a man says I'm sorry and sounds kinda sincere, y'all telling her to stay so she'll end up looking crazy like Derrick J wife!
I do believe he thought she would suck it up and stay but he got fooled
It’s heated when you don’t hear her, don’t respect her and you over talk her. And you don’t acknowledge your wrong doing. Instead you try to publicly accuse her of wrong doing. All you had to do is acknowledge your actions and apologize.
That ‘WELL....’ said it all...
THE DOOR 🚪 IS CLOSED!
He tears her down then says he loves her. Don't say you lover her. Treat her like you love her. Your behaviors shows that you don't love her. She was a gem and you lost her. Leave her alone so she can find a man that will treat her as she deserves: like the beautiful queen she is!
He was emotionally abusive now he’s just out with it you see how he went to all the other cast members and attempted to turn them against her.... he is so mean saying such awful things to his wife, his mother was so upset over this
I see real pain in Martell's face...But, he shulda thought bout this then..It's a shame...
Mel is so gorgeous... he will never find a woman like her ever again
Sad to see some of the ladies falling for Martell's bs. I'm glad Mel is smarter and stronger. He just wants to control her. Manipulative lying narcs are never sorry.
It's psychotic that they're falling for it lol like did they ignore the first half of this scene entirely when he's lying on her name accusing her of doing something he's doing???
@@kilaa3417 girl I don't get it! I see why women are constantly being played. This is the nicest this nigga has been to her in camera all season! Yet they're finding empathy for him.
Beautiful moment. They love each other.
Mel looks so beautiful. Praying that she gets everything that The Lord has in store
Melody standing strong ; once he saw she wasn’t going to let him get to her. He goes in with his manipulation
No wonder so many women get cheated on constantly, as soon as a man says I'm sorry and sounds kinda sincere, y'all telling her to stay so she'll end up looking crazy like Derrick J wife! How can you trust a man after he cheats with multiple women for yrs, blames you for it, then creates another life that she has to accept forever, & then keep looking at the other woman until the kid gets grown! Y'all sound crazy in these comments
It happens every day and it doesn’t make that woman stupid, crazy or weak.. just because she chose to work on her Marriage.. and that’s sad because it’s a whole lot of women who does want to stay, forgive and rebuild however the judgement, shaming and care of how other will view them keeps them gone.. then they never remarry, be lonely because of somebody else’s opinion.. it was love, marriage and family.. and a legacy and businesses.... that doesn’t just go away, sure it’s more men but guess what??.. you just may not be into them.. but hey.. at least I don’t look crazy or can be called dumb because I wanted to stay... smh
@@Mystik_J_the_Scorpio judgement of others? Oh Lord 🙄How about the emotional trauma women face because of their cheating husband? The pain, distrust and hate. In fact Derrick wife is a perfect example. Look at her post on instagram as evidence. His cheating has damaged her emotional and mentally to the point where it might affect her daughter if something is not done to help her.
Melody tried and he refused to listen or stop so for her mental health and her children she had to leave. It has nothing to do with the public. Why stay in a toxic and emotional abusive relationship because of marriage?
@@huldah1605 I didn’t say that was the reason for her.. I was speaking tor some women in general who do leave for that reason.. nobody should speak in anybody marriage.. I was just saying if they stayed it doesn’t make them weak or stupid..
@@Mystik_J_the_Scorpio where did she say it makes them weak or stupid? I don't see that anywhere. And women should not accept cheating, period. That is recreating more trauma especially if there are kids involved. It's even grounds for divorce in the bible and all of you are still so sympathetic towards "working it out" that's wild crazy
@@Mystik_J_the_Scorpio it's completely dumb and absurb, men do not stay in that type of foolishness
I am So glad he opened up. Finally, he spoke up. I commend him for that. Communication is SO Important. Martel glad you told how you really felt, women need to hear this. You 2 have Beautiful children and cannot be enemies.
Wish he said it sooner.....he let it get too far out of hand
They have 4 together
@@yvonnejackson9822 The first time he did it, he was out of hand.
How does the other woman feel hearing him say this. Wishing he never hooked up with her the peasant
She has low self-esteem. The time he called her peasant, could have been it
He's reaching out for help man. It makes me so sad to see. Black men and most other men do not know how to express their feelings. They don't know how to say "I'm sorry", "I love you". He wants her back, his family back, but he has gone too far! What a mess!
Now he has regrets after years of lying, cheating, sneaking, being selfish, reckless and putting Mel's health at risk by raw dogging randoms smh
Martell, it's time to move on and build an empire with your new woman and son! Ooop, nevermind, you didn't get someone on Mel's level.
Hehehehe
He called her a peasant I believe
This man is confused. One minute he is accusing her of cheating and having a man and the next wishing they could be together . If Melody really cheated on him or had a man he would be losing his ish . He would have drug her for cheating from the beginning and not out of the blue.
She's beautiful short cut my favorite
He loves her and she loves him, so sad before he cheated he didnt think ......he should said to his self I love my wife I love my home ,love Ky kids .....I love my life.... this woman is not worth me losing my wife,kids my life. It's never worth it. Never....
In half of this scene he is lying on her name lol. That's not love and he doesn't have access to love even within himself.
@@kilaa3417 when you are going thru a divorce you say and do lots of crazy .....stupid things. Things that don't really mean. Also you want to hurt that person they say you are hurting.... and some times might go on for years..... I see it all the time ..... fighting over kids....
The fact that he said up here and said he wish it never happened. And he wish he can change it
I'm going to need Derick Jaxn's wife to link up with Mel. This is the kind of strong energy she needs around her. God Bless both of them.
Me to! Go MEL TAKE YOUR STAND!
That's probably the most honesty that's ever came out his mouth.....😒but it's too late. She's gone😥
Crazy thing if she take him back he’ll do it again. Smh
The divorce has been finalized no turning back
MELODY REMAIN STRONG...HE ALLOWED THE DEVIL TO USE HIM...HE MADE HIS BED AND DESTROYED EVERYTHING THEY BUILT TOGETHER..SAD DUDE!!
so sad to see a family torn apart, but melody has to love herself more than she loves Martell, Martell made his bed and now he has to lay in it. She doesn't deserve this, and he has more than enough time to stop the affair she even took him back what more could she have done.?
He is finally being Honest with his feelings.
Martell know Melody brother is a better man than he is and he dont want his kids to see that
People breakup, heal and come together again. God is able!!! It's really up to them!
Never too late for a true Godly apology; that don't mean they should or shouldn't get back together; I read that their divorce has been finalized already. Now it's time to co-parent in a way that's healthy for the children. God bless them both.
Maybe if he would of said this earlier and changed his behavior she would of stayed , now it too little too late 🤷🏽♀️
Can't even see Mel having Martell's other son around her & her family so sad there's no possible chance of reconciliation!!
Mel, you got this!!
Extremely Sad to see a 13 year marriage and family get ripped apart like this. "Fellas, why chance perfection with one night of perfomance?"
You mean 5 years ?
He was doing it all the time not just once
I hate when people carelessly hurt you and say I love you
The pain is so deep when someone you love breaks your heart into a million pieces. She loves him and he loves her but he didn't know the value and worth he had in his family.
Wooo! I pray that God heals Melody's broken heart. It's hard to watch.
The fact that he GRILL his kids for info about their mom is just sooo weird
👏👏👏😁🎯❤️😶yasss Mel hold it together!
Martell is really trying it he wants his family and the sideline woman..... so since she’s decided to finally stop taking his foolishness he gets mean and nasty... one thing Ms Arionne needs to know is the one who cheats with you will eventually cheat on you so how does one sit with that.....I’ll wait.....this woman sold out for a few trinkets knowing this man had a wife and children that’s real sad....and he still wants Mel back always looking crazy when it gets brought up
I really think he just be thinking of stuff to approach her about just so he could be in her presence because being away from her is just a reminder that he screwed up n now he dont even know which way to turn without her being there to say go left or right bc Mel was the one calling shots n making all the big moves
Finally! You are talking with a little more sense. Just a little..
I'm so proud of him...he setup to the plate he expressed his feelings and admitted to being wrong. Good for you! Even tho you were dead wrong. You took ownership...
In a span of less than 2 min this male goes from degrading her, manipulating her emotions, falsely accusing her of infidelity, lying on his children to try to smear her, pouring his heart out to her, to reminiscing about what they had, to wishing them back together. I canNOT with this guy.
Saying everything was right tired of these BM destroying their own family over selfish reasons and even after being forgiven multiple times they do it again
BW is time to love yourself unconditionally 1 First ❤️
Black women have to stop letting black men hurt them and keep accepting the pain. They usually don't change just change methods. He worried about his financial situation not about her.
I agree. He will say this and sleep next to Arionne the same night. I'm not buying it.
It’s the look she’s giving him for me
Martell you had a relationship with one person for 5 years. But you never wanted it to be this way ? Cry me a damn river
Noooo...🤣😅🤣😅🤣...not a whole river 🤦♀️ 🤣😅🤣😅🤣🤣🤣
I hope that is the start of healing for him. He may not be ready to be with his wife but I do hope he gett the help he needs to be a good husband to another woman.
Glimmer of clarity
Heartbreaking 😪
Aww well that’s closure and clarity
They still love each other.
Another marriage destroyed.This hurts me for our community. Our children need both parents in the home.I hate Divorce even when it's necessary.So senseless.He will always regret this.
I agree, that Its entirely left up to them, about coming back together, Given some time apart to heal, God can help them repair this marriage.
Everything was right except his twisted heart and mind. How he felt like he can pain her by betraying her through his cheatings.