So true. I've had four partners in 59 years and I was married to two of them. In the wise words of Judge Lauren Lake...more don't make it better...or something like that.
Just because you sleep with multiple people doesnt make you sick. You just have to be protected when you. Never got pregnant once have 7 partners and ended up marrying the last one. 2 years later we tried for kids now were having a girl. She should have just been smart about it that's all. She not sick, she dumb.
They are inviting AIDS or STD... When you die on diseases its really shameful... To the woman you never respect yourself because you don't have dignity by allowing anyone between your thigh
I said the same. If he did, he would be legally bound & it's one thing for him saying he wants to keep helping & another to be legally obligated to. My heart broke 💔 for him though, especially seeing how he was really loving the baby boy & even though he didn't say it, it seemed he was kind of convinced at the very least the boy was his. He seems like a good man.
She knew they weren't his, that's the real reason she ran. What a shame. He needs to count his blessings and focus on his biological children. The mother has shown you what she's made of, believe her
Yeah the way she looked after the first test results, she wasn't shocked, but maybe she did feel guilty because she left the guy, because deep down she knew they wasn't his
Not many people are even aware of any morals. They are not taught by parents tht are clueless. Just because you can do something does not mean you should S9 itn
We need straight up Biblical values to be the difference in Godly wholesome relationships!!! We got to be born again!!! Saved Sanctified and filled with the Holy Spirit!!! We need Jesus!!! Amen
They are both GROWN adults just laying and playing will get you caught up. People are human first don't hold them to their religion. I feel sorry for innocent kids. Adults need to make better choices.
It was a month, but even a month is generally too early to tell. Most women don't find out until they're at least a month or 5-6 weeks along. So this made absolutely no sense.
Butterfly Journeys that’s incorrect. You can find out on the day of your missed period, which is 2 weeks after conception. Some early pregnancy tests can detect up to 1 week after conception, but it will only pick up a positive in about 60% of women who are pregnant. But on the day of your missed period it’s 99.9% accurate.
@@citizenjane5649 what he did?? She is the cheater. As usual cheater women like you defending cheaters and blaming a man for no reason have some shame
Her Trifling self!!! She pointed the finger at him you didn’t provide a home and this and that. She didn’t provide those to be his biological Kids. Wow.
Wow. She was being scandalous af. Making him believe he's the father the whole time. She knew he wasn't the father the whole time. She was just hoping he was the father because he does right by his kids. I feel bad for that man and prayers for him and his family.
Because actually seeing the shame of sleeping with three guys unprotected during the same week is a little more stinging than hearing it...LOL... but yeah I think it would make for better cases...
Maybe she hasn't been in contact with them for a long time. Maybe she is in denial about them being possible fathers. Maybe she doesn't want to admit to just how many possible fathers there are, until she has to. At least what the results should tell us at this point, is whether the twins have the same father or different fathers. We should have enough DNA on file to show whether they are full or half siblings.
This woman upsets me. He was right she left because she knew. He's a standup guy and was there from the beginning just so the children would not go without. This is why men decide to step back until they know. The pain is unbearable. Men and women handle rejection, disappointment, and hurt differently. IT takes a lot for a man to step up the way he did knowing that she was sleeping around. I am so sad for him and those babies.
VintageSista Stop making him holier than he his. To sleep unprotected with a woman after only 2 weeks robbs you of the possibility to blame someone else for „sleeping around“.
@@Celisar1 so atleast he gives commitment but she is sleeping around. He is not sleeping around. I don't understand where he is wrong. Are you for real??just like she said they were planning marriage in 3 months so i don't understand what is wrong in sleeping with the person you are marrying in 3 months.
I guess.. but can u honestly say that a man is always exclusive with a woman he’s dating after 2 weeks? Or a woman for that matter? I personally only date one person at a time and would never have multiple partners but don’t know too many men cutting all side dating off the moment they met me. Usually worked towards exclusive then titles etc. well until I met my soulmate. I was shocked to hear how fast they moved.. 90 day rule believers out their shaking their head lol
No Mr. Downs, you aren’t the bad guy here. You did a lot right. You went above and beyond. Hopefully, you find a good woman who will be loyal and appreciative.
I wouldn't send my worst female enemy to him he doesn't know a decent woman when he sees it if he would entertain a woman who said she has open doors and then proceeded to sleep with her all scuse me fornicate with her without any type of protection what makes him so Godly because he's going to church you can go sit in the garage all day long it will not make you a car he compromise and those are the results the consequences but he dodged a bullet because he has no absolutely no connection with her and it may be his wake-up call to really be what he says he is a man of God and if he has other children why isn't he if he's such a man of God married to their mother or maybe he just like s**** you know some men do
Girl lost a good man being Thotimus Prime. I hope the other man is a stand up guy. Those babies are beautiful & deserve two parents. Sorry Mr. Downs 😔😔
Yet another episode proving why we need mandatory DNA tests on all babies born. Can we just enter this entire show into the record as evidence why everyone should be tested at birth?
@@countycalling It makes you think that is why she was looking for a good church going man. She may already have known that she was pregnant and wanted someone to support her and her children. I feel bad for him, but I cannot understand nobody using birth control! Odds are that you are going to create life whether you desire to or not.
THE KIDS ARE YOUNG, SHE NEEDS TO CATCH UP WITH THE REAL DADDY AND HE NEEDS TO LEAVE HER ALONE AND TAKE CARE OF HIS OTHER KIDS. THE BABIES WON'T EVEN REMEMBER HIM..
Don't know why these judges including Maury, try to encourage these good men to stay and be father's for these children when the mothers know who the fathers are and the real father's know too. When you finish put in the work and 20 years later real daddy appears and takes over. Let the woman get the real dad and bring him to court!
rastapanol It the mother responsiblity to be tested again and get the real father to pay support for these babies yes and the judge should stop encouraging men not the father to stay with those no good women to help them bring up children who aren t their the children have every right to know their fathers whether the other man stay around or not
@@concernedcitizen4374 But it is obvious, that woman should bring the kids to their biological father. So then who is the father in their life? If this dude would be willing to take the responsibility, then it just encourages those fuckboys to not take responsibility. Being a father for 2 kids who are not biologically his son for 18 years would be so hard that he probably will give up, and things will get worse.
He is emotionally attached to those babies. I've met women who met men that took her kids as his own & raised them as his own. I encourage those men to adopt those children if their biological father is not interested in raising or paying for them. Remember... Joseph raised Jesus even though he knew that Jesus was not his.
I wouldn't say she encourages them, she only applauds them if the men decide to do so. Some men choose to do the honorable thing and help raise children who may otherwise grow up without the guidance of a mother and father. As we all know in most of these cases the women grew up without a father, sometimes without a mother as well and they end up in the system which in some cases leads to situations such as this. I know lots of men that are stepfathers or surrogate fathers because they have that much love in their hearts for children even though the children aren't biologically their own.
I so wish people would realise that it’s not just a baby but a human being that will grow up with there own hurts and memories. We truly don’t have the right.
Ikr, it's like people haven't heard of condoms, you never know what someone has. Then you have people that never have symptoms but are carriers of a disease, some curable, some arent, some are able to pass to an unborn baby, some affect your ability to have children in the future, some cause cancer. I understand having a mishap after using condoms the entire time but many people go into it raw, like it's nothing, then act surprised when they catch something or get pregnant.
It would've been a bigger problem if he signed the birth certificate. Cause then he'd still have to fulfil d duties of a dad. At least he can run with his name.
That shouldn’t be the case, though. It shouldn’t matter if you signed the birth certificate. You should be able to get out of it like you can get out of anything else you might have signed under duress.
Wow i really thought he was the little boy's father. This man is a good man he still wants to be in the babies lives. I think she lost a good thing. Remember men and women trust and honesty is number one in any relationship . May God bless them all.
I know he is heartbroken but he is better off not being connected with her. She is a scammer and unstable. She tried to play the victim until Judge Lake read her for the “open doors” comment. Both parties need to use protection too.
He's not that good, having 3 other kids n messing with Lucy Goosey. Unless he's divorced, he's playing footloose n fancy free. He's lucky 2 times; no disease (hopefully) & not his kids. I pray for him over the loss of his twin girls 😇
She wanted him to be church going while she was screwing everybody!. I was praying that man was not the dad. He dodged a helluva bullet with that evil chick. She already snuck out while at work then saying she wouldn't keep the kids away. Now she can stay gone and he can have peace.
Amy good man that has ties to kids wants to be the daddy figure...but 2 weeks unprotected l, she knew exactly what she was doing. And it worked, gotemm until the paternity test set him freeeee
Right , whats baffling is why she chose to get on national television and not only embarrass herself but cause Mr. Downs to be humiliated as well . God plz help them all. Thats a really bad situation.
She got the nerve talking about she wanted a church man but she acting innocent and sleeping with more than one man. Had a baby from someone else. Kudos to him for being a father to these babies.
That Man just got Saved 18 years of a that woman barking in his face. Unless he lowers himself down to take care of another guys kids. And she will severely take advantage of him. He loses nothing walking away. Those kids do NOT know him.
7:30 baby boy twin is knocked out like I don't have time for mama's shenanigans. I gotta deal with this until I move out. Baby girl twin is up like I need to know what is going on.
WHY BE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT U COULDN'T CLOSE THE DOOR ON. HE SEEM LIKE A GOOD MAN. SHE MESSED HIM UP NOW HE CANT TRUST ITS GOING TO BE HARD TO FOR HIM TO BE IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP. And They said it hard to find a good man. Women like this mess up a good man
Once the emotion wears off I'm sure he will make the best decision for himself. As a man I would not want too be raising another man's children out of a situation like this and still having to deal with the person who wronged me. It's an entirely different thing if you choose to be in a relationship with a single mother with young children.
Exactly right I am so tired of hearing that. The father can pass the gene to his children of course but when it comes to making the babies they have zero to do with it. Drives me insane
I feel bad for this man he did everything right as a man and he wasn't the dad and no mother has the right to just take the kids and not tell the man who knows he could be the dad where they are she needs to step up and put the kids first and her interest last hopefully the real father will be there
Amy Menjivar stepping up and making sure he is in there life so he knows who is the father is doing the right thing taking kids away and not telling the man who is taking care of them where the kids are is wrong
stitchfan08 Granted he did step up but he wouldn't have had to go thru all that had he left once he saw the line of men behind her he coulda got more then just a baby he took a gamble with his health. Hopefully he didn't lose
I wonder how many of these men say "I'll still be in their lives" and dip before the show even airs.. headed out the door sayin "Go find yo baby daddy!". Probably more than we think.
This is so heartbreaking😢. She admitted that she was messing around but its just terrible for the results he wanted to be the father. I can tell he actually is a good guy and cares for her. In this society men get dogged out for denying their kids but very few address the mess the mom did. Smh. The babies are the innocent ones.
I hope she went to school long enough to know the truth.... of twins run in a family, it only matters if they run in the momma's family... so twins now evidently run in her family, lol.
All these babies on this show are always so insanely cute 😭
Insanely cute and innocent, I feel bad when they have toxic parents in their life 😓
You are right.Very cute
Right?! That lil boy’s smile melts my heart💙
ikr 😩‼️
Yes they are
She left a month after the birth because she felt guilty. She knew in her heart those weren’t his kids. Wrap it up ladies and gentleman
Amen
Absolutely
Preach!
Exactly
He should break away from his psycho wife and the kids, and start fresh with a good woman.
i have to be honest this sleeping with multiple people is sick
It's more NASTY, then sick. All these STD.....
This lady have no self-respect it's a shame tell the truth
So true. I've had four partners in 59 years and I was married to two of them. In the wise words of Judge Lauren Lake...more don't make it better...or something like that.
Just because you sleep with multiple people doesnt make you sick. You just have to be protected when you. Never got pregnant once have 7 partners and ended up marrying the last one. 2 years later we tried for kids now were having a girl. She should have just been smart about it that's all. She not sick, she dumb.
It's okay as long as protection is used and the furr burger not eaten
i just can't understand why women feel so comfortable sleeping with multiple men and unprotected which is worse
Low self esteem
@@mariaday3798 exactly!!!
Just freaky
Not every woman though
They are inviting AIDS or STD... When you die on diseases its really shameful... To the woman you never respect yourself because you don't have dignity by allowing anyone between your thigh
Even if he did stay, she seems like the kind of woman that would remind him they aren't his kids every time she hears something she doesn't like.
Exactly
Nah, no she doesn’t
She will still run around behind the father's back.....
@@minzizbetter I agree… I don’t see her being that kind of person! I hate when ppl make false accusations about people smh 🤦🏽♀️
She seems like the type that would cheat on him also
She knew he wasn’t the father in the first place, that’s why she left
I so agree. She knew the minute she found out she was pregnant
Exactly!
I agree. I can bet that the real father is not interested.
Females like her make it hard for honest up front women...smh...
I think she was already pregnant when she met this guy.
good thing he didn't sign the birth certificate
Same thing that came to my mind right away.
I said the same. If he did, he would be legally bound & it's one thing for him saying he wants to keep helping & another to be legally obligated to. My heart broke 💔 for him though, especially seeing how he was really loving the baby boy & even though he didn't say it, it seemed he was kind of convinced at the very least the boy was his. He seems like a good man.
She knew they weren't his, that's the real reason she ran. What a shame. He needs to count his blessings and focus on his biological children. The mother has shown you what she's made of, believe her
Like, why would she leave his door unlocked? Just low
Feeling so sorry for that man, he actually wanted them to be his kids! that seems to be rare in some cases.
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I feel good for him, he can move on and this time put effort
Spoiler alert
I agree. Hardly ever see that on here
He has his own three kids. He need to take care of his own kids and let this woman to find her kids’ father.
bruh....walk away. those babies are 5months old. walk away and mandate the name change
Right. Unfortunate for him and the kids but she gotta figure it out for herself now and he could go on and live his life.
It probably won't be hard to change because he already isn't on the birth certificate which was smart of him because most men sign it even with doubt.
That black woman a dog
Moe Colione; Excuse me that black woman? why cant u just simply say “that woman” ?
@@XxYukaaXD Dont pretend like you have never insulted a white woman
It was too obvious. She did not shed one tear... faking being shocked. She knew he was not the father and that’s why she left. Trifling
Tasha Thornton
Why does a woman have to cry to be believable?!
ho yeah u right
Not 1 👁
@@Celisar1 if she would've had tears he would've said "crocodile tears"...lol
Yeah the way she looked after the first test results, she wasn't shocked, but maybe she did feel guilty because she left the guy, because deep down she knew they wasn't his
The fact that this happens so often concerns me whether people have any sort of morals anymore.
This generation is lost ...soulless too.
Anymore? This was always the norm-we just didn’t see it because it was kept private for most of human history.
@@TaddiestMason
wow I thought I had said that...those of who think alike...💯.
Not many people are even aware of any morals. They are not taught by parents tht are clueless. Just because you can do something does not mean you should S9 itn
@@Cablecol ain’t a this generation problem
Anyone else go right to the comments before she told the test results?
Yes lol I also read the last chapter of a book in case I don't like the ending.
Sui Des me today lol
Lol yes
@Sui Des Guilty as charged! I went straight to the comments all the time.
Yep....I'm guilty
I need to stop reading the comments before getting the results.😂
Lol
😂😁😂😂🤣😂
Guilty🤦😖🤣
Me too LOL
Pink lady
She's promiscuous and talking about a church man. The nerve.
Naami W unfortunately yep and I was rooting(spell check) for her
It takes two. They are both old enough to know they should be using birth control. They need to get tested.
He’s promiscuous also. Get it right why don’t you.
Kessia Wright 💯
The Admiral Agree.
This one breaks me heart...UGHH!
😢
Made me cry
Yeah she finally found a good guy but it was too late. She was prob already pregnant by the other guy.
My heart goes out to Mr. Downs. I'm in tears for him and those babies.
She dragged him to court, now looking like a straight up fool.
We need straight up Biblical values to be the difference in Godly wholesome relationships!!! We got to be born again!!! Saved Sanctified and filled with the Holy Spirit!!! We need Jesus!!! Amen
You dodged a bullet brother move on.
They are both GROWN adults just laying and playing will get you caught up. People are human first don't hold them to their religion. I feel sorry for innocent kids. Adults need to make better choices.
That's it move on
Didn't you heard he wants to be involved in their lives. I hope he doesn't and the other finds who is the real father.
Update: He married someone else and I don't think he sees the children.
No cap
Judge: "But you believed he was their father?" Ms. Luper INSTANTLY closes her eyes while saying "yes." 🤥🙄🤥 Blinkers are liars.
She found out she was pregnant 2 weeks after dating him. I knew he wasn’t the father.
Lol my thoughts exactly. She was pregnant when she met him
No she found out a month after dating him. 2 weeks after he found text messages of her and other men making plans to hook up
No, she found out a month after they started dating. He said 2 weeks after he saw the text messages, not 2 weeks after they met.
It was a month, but even a month is generally too early to tell. Most women don't find out until they're at least a month or 5-6 weeks along. So this made absolutely no sense.
Butterfly Journeys that’s incorrect. You can find out on the day of your missed period, which is 2 weeks after conception. Some early pregnancy tests can detect up to 1 week after conception, but it will only pick up a positive in about 60% of women who are pregnant. But on the day of your missed period it’s 99.9% accurate.
The Guy's Mom didn't like her because she knew that this heifer was Scandalous. Mothers know.
Cheekbones Galore not all the time
Too bad this man's mother didn't know he is just as scandalous.
@@citizenjane5649 what he did?? She is the cheater. As usual cheater women like you defending cheaters and blaming a man for no reason have some shame
If they only been together two weeks, she was probably pregnant already.
Speak the truth. She darn well was.
She was
She been pregnant really sad
Yea I think she was
That's probably why she took off while he was at wk. She already knew he wasn't the father!!!.
Very very sad she did that
Her Trifling self!!! She pointed the finger at him you didn’t provide a home and this and that. She didn’t provide those to be his biological Kids. Wow.
How can you sleep around and not use protection?
Skin to skin too sweet to turn down 😜😜😜
I know-what is WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE?!
People like that like to play Russian Roulette with STDs.
After 2 wks. I can’t b
They're disgusting
I feel like she knew. The other guy is probably a bum and knew Mr. Downs can provide better for the children. Poor man. He looks heartbroken (๑◕︵◕๑)
Beccaness Rose he is not poor, the girl is the poor here
I saw all the lies all over her face. This man is not the father. This man grave too!
Not related but... RAVIIII
WOW!
Beccaness Rose I think that she knew!
He goes to church doesn't mean he is a Christian all types of people goes to church even the devil
Fr look @ apostle David Taylor & Joel Osteen
Straight up theifs in the night
He's not perfect no one is, at least he's trying
Nardia Edwards lord have mercy I'm done lol
He goes to church and prove to be a good man
Nardia Edwards true
Wow. She was being scandalous af. Making him believe he's the father the whole time. She knew he wasn't the father the whole time. She was just hoping he was the father because he does right by his kids. I feel bad for that man and prayers for him and his family.
Why not bring all potential Father's to the show, or at least have them all tested on the same day.
Because actually seeing the shame of sleeping with three guys unprotected during the same week is a little more stinging than hearing it...LOL... but yeah I think it would make for better cases...
Maybe she hasn't been in contact with them for a long time. Maybe she is in denial about them being possible fathers. Maybe she doesn't want to admit to just how many possible fathers there are, until she has to.
At least what the results should tell us at this point, is whether the twins have the same father or different fathers. We should have enough DNA on file to show whether they are full or half siblings.
Phoenix Rainwalker The show is only 30 minutes. That wouldn’t be enough time to test all those men 😂😂😂😂
That's what I'm saying!!! I want to know who it is man
Phoenix Rainwalker - the court room doesn’t look that big to me. 😏🤔
🤔You had a lot of open doors???? Sounds like anyone could walk in.
Doward Washington 😂😂😂😂 Someone did. “You are not the father”. Sis was preaching way to hard for him to be the father.😤😤
Everyone did
Seems like it. Just trifling.
Doward Washington 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
This woman upsets me. He was right she left because she knew. He's a standup guy and was there from the beginning just so the children would not go without. This is why men decide to step back until they know. The pain is unbearable. Men and women handle rejection, disappointment, and hurt differently. IT takes a lot for a man to step up the way he did knowing that she was sleeping around. I am so sad for him and those babies.
VintageSista
Stop making him holier than he his. To sleep unprotected with a woman after only 2 weeks robbs you of the possibility to blame someone else for „sleeping around“.
Celisar1 especially after seeing the trail of men behind her
Yeah, hate seeing good people get hurt like that
@@Celisar1 so atleast he gives commitment but she is sleeping around. He is not sleeping around. I don't understand where he is wrong. Are you for real??just like she said they were planning marriage in 3 months so i don't understand what is wrong in sleeping with the person you are marrying in 3 months.
It’s so rare for fraternal twins to have different fathers.
No It’s not
@queensalahuddin1065 yes it is.
She said that she had a lot of open doors, fellas please pay attention whenever she tells you this, it'll save you time, energy an money.
maziin wendhu Exactly. Emotional situation but he should thank the Lord he dodged a bullet.
I guess.. but can u honestly say that a man is always exclusive with a woman he’s dating after 2 weeks? Or a woman for that matter? I personally only date one person at a time and would never have multiple partners but don’t know too many men cutting all side dating off the moment they met me. Usually worked towards exclusive then titles etc. well until I met my soulmate. I was shocked to hear how fast they moved.. 90 day rule believers out their shaking their head lol
Men been doing it for years can't be surprised when women start to do it too.
LOL what a metaphor
Exactly
Her wig sitting on her head like a ole cat
LOL😂😂😂😺😺
Yoooo 🤣
I wish there was a laugh button like FB 😆
Cthu 😅😅😅😸😸😸
Like it got its back arched and ready to pounce......lol
No Mr. Downs, you aren’t the bad guy here. You did a lot right. You went above and beyond. Hopefully, you find a good woman who will be loyal and appreciative.
I wouldn't send my worst female enemy to him he doesn't know a decent woman when he sees it if he would entertain a woman who said she has open doors and then proceeded to sleep with her all scuse me fornicate with her without any type of protection what makes him so Godly because he's going to church you can go sit in the garage all day long it will not make you a car he compromise and those are the results the consequences but he dodged a bullet because he has no absolutely no connection with her and it may be his wake-up call to really be what he says he is a man of God and if he has other children why isn't he if he's such a man of God married to their mother or maybe he just like s**** you know some men do
he needs to stop making kids quality decreases. multiple children.
16:24 nah they are 5 months he needs to step away. She can decide at any moment that she doesn’t want him involved anymore
She knew he was not the father and that’s why she left. Wow.
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His reaction has been one of the saddest. I just wanted to hug him☹️
He has 3 children already...go on with your life man
He probably should help her care for them seeing that he is so nice, until she finds the right dad(s)!
@@beverlyfrancis8433, why should he continue to assist her when the children are NOT his, nor his responsibility? Make it make sense.
@@beverlyfrancis8433 😂😂😂😂😂
She knew that he wasn't them kids dad.
If she would’ve leaned back any further that wig would’ve been in the front row 😂😂
Lollllll no you didn’t 😂😂
@@chloeclingerman9883 you saw that wig hanging on for dear life 🤣🤣🤣
i dun ☠️☠️! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊
She is standing with no love for Mr Downs with no remorse for the kids nor the Dad
Girl lost a good man being Thotimus Prime. I hope the other man is a stand up guy. Those babies are beautiful & deserve two parents. Sorry Mr. Downs 😔😔
@feebs1 😂😂😂¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I’m trying not to laugh at “Thotimus Prime” its hard tho
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I'm fucken slobberin thotimus prime!! Noooo!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thotimus Prime!? I'm 💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
her weave is OUT OF CONTROOOOOOOOL!
Edit: I was referring to Ms. Luper. Judge Lauren weave always on point.
lol you're comment was so funny.
Oh we know exactly who wig u were referring too lol
Yeah wig was annoying th outta me
Haha that is a wig and she wore it wrong apparently she didn't put it down on her head or head too big for the week something was wrong off
Nexus Fantismo Judge Lauren’s needs to be plucked some in the front 😝
Yet another episode proving why we need mandatory DNA tests on all babies born. Can we just enter this entire show into the record as evidence why everyone should be tested at birth?
You know tonight after binging on Paternity Court, I made the same conclusion. 🤯
Actually you need to married a muslim girl they don't sheet ☺️
@@bensaidiamina6506,😂😂😂
Agreed! They have mandatory shots, and records, etc but not paternity?! They could end all this at the jump!
Be careful now. I am a one man woman, asking me for a DNA test would be the biggest insult for me.
this beautiful man needs to keep walking and don't look back. take your name back and pray for those children.
He never signed the birth certificate
Facts thou
Couldn’t have said it better, she wanted him just to support them she never cared about him
@@countycalling It makes you think that is why she was looking for a good church going man. She may already have known that she was pregnant and wanted someone to support her and her children. I feel bad for him, but I cannot understand nobody using birth control! Odds are that you are going to create life whether you desire to or not.
Haha! Condoms are cheaper than a paternity test!
Condoms are cheaper than babies too!
True. Very true!
how much do you pay for a paternity test in the US??
@@mrsTraveller64 My son did one from the same place this show uses...cost him $395.00.
@@deannakinsman6790 oh,that's expensive!! But however I'd rather pay for it than go and humiliate myself in public..
I love the way these twins are behaving through all of this bickering .........one playing happily and the other sleeping deeply .
How can people be comfortable sleeping with a person u met in just two weeks or one night stand. It's just so disturbing
2 weeks in you looking thru phones? Smh.. this whole relationship was on a blurred fast forward
That part!!
Yes
I thought that was super freakin weird
She gave her a reason to be suspicious and as it turned out..he was right.
Smart man if you ask me, Trust but verify.
She was already pregnant before they got together 🧐🤔🙄🙄
KEEKEE2FINE Basically 😂😂😩
Yup!
KEEKEE2FINE
I said the same thing
Yes she knew she was already pregant when people lies they permrate every part of their live
You're very right, the guy is loving
THE KIDS ARE YOUNG, SHE NEEDS TO CATCH UP WITH THE REAL DADDY AND HE NEEDS TO LEAVE HER ALONE AND TAKE CARE OF HIS OTHER KIDS. THE BABIES WON'T EVEN REMEMBER HIM..
They will after watching this! Lol
Nasty
Exactly! Now, he wants to cheat his bio kids , by help raising other kids that are not even his. Men like him are just as worst as women like her.
Lillie Stephens and get their last name change as well
I feel sorry for the guy that thought these beautiful sweet babies was his. God be with the babies, the mama and their Daddy.🙏😪🙏
Don't know why these judges including Maury, try to encourage these good men to stay and be father's for these children when the mothers know who the fathers are and the real father's know too. When you finish put in the work and 20 years later real daddy appears and takes over. Let the woman get the real dad and bring him to court!
Exactly! Once you are exonerated from fatherhood for all of a woman's children...RUN AWAY! It's officially not your problem anymore.
rastapanol It the mother responsiblity to be tested again and get the real father to pay support for these babies yes and the judge should stop encouraging men not the father to stay with those no good women to help them bring up children who aren t their the children have every right to know their fathers whether the other man stay around or not
Because the people involved have a relationship regardless of who fathered the children?
Thank you! It’s just a messy situation and ultimately the good guy usually takes the loss..
The Judge is wrong to suggest other men take the responsibility of children real fathers no judge should suggest that that where Judge Lake is wrong.
So this man has now lost 4 babies....heartbreaking
He might be sterile/infertile
He only lost two. Those twins aren't even his. He will not stay.
@@cinnamonrollersk8grl I feel like he lost 4 children! Because he gone be gone with the wind now!
ANGEL Thank you
This judge needs to stop encouraging men to raise kids who aren't theirs.
Shandukani Silvester wrong! You’re not a nice person! Life is not black and white...there are shades of gray and varying circumstances.
@@concernedcitizen4374 But it is obvious, that woman should bring the kids to their biological father. So then who is the father in their life? If this dude would be willing to take the responsibility, then it just encourages those fuckboys to not take responsibility. Being a father for 2 kids who are not biologically his son for 18 years would be so hard that he probably will give up, and things will get worse.
He is emotionally attached to those babies. I've met women who met men that took her kids as his own & raised them as his own. I encourage those men to adopt those children if their biological father is not interested in raising or paying for them. Remember... Joseph raised Jesus even though he knew that Jesus was not his.
@@concernedcitizen4374 well spoken there thanks
I wouldn't say she encourages them, she only applauds them if the men decide to do so. Some men choose to do the honorable thing and help raise children who may otherwise grow up without the guidance of a mother and father. As we all know in most of these cases the women grew up without a father, sometimes without a mother as well and they end up in the system which in some cases leads to situations such as this. I know lots of men that are stepfathers or surrogate fathers because they have that much love in their hearts for children even though the children aren't biologically their own.
I so wish people would realise that it’s not just a baby but a human being that will grow up with there own hurts and memories. We truly don’t have the right.
Why is everyone raw doggin' it? Wrap it all the way up people!
Ikr, it's like people haven't heard of condoms, you never know what someone has. Then you have people that never have symptoms but are carriers of a disease, some curable, some arent, some are able to pass to an unborn baby, some affect your ability to have children in the future, some cause cancer. I understand having a mishap after using condoms the entire time but many people go into it raw, like it's nothing, then act surprised when they catch something or get pregnant.
Fallon Davis let’s wrap it up together Miss DAvis. 🙃😝
He’s probably one of those men who claims he is too big to fit in one
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It would've been a bigger problem if he signed the birth certificate. Cause then he'd still have to fulfil d duties of a dad. At least he can run with his name.
That shouldn’t be the case, though. It shouldn’t matter if you signed the birth certificate. You should be able to get out of it like you can get out of anything else you might have signed under duress.
@@TaddiestMason that sadly is the case in certain states
This is just so wrong. I feel so sorry for this man. This is like a death to Mr. Downs.
yes... he will never be the same...
So she wanted a family man, but still shutting around.🤦🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
Wow i really thought he was the little boy's father. This man is a good man he still wants to be in the babies lives. I think she lost a good thing. Remember men and women trust and honesty is number one in any relationship . May God bless them all.
Diana 0000 Very True
Amen, this is breaking my heart. That man deserves better.
He is..they just need ratings for the network
Man y'all miles away, get your last name back n take care of your real kids.. she knew.. she just knew you was a better man... Her loss
I know he is heartbroken but he is better off not being connected with her. She is a scammer and unstable. She tried to play the victim until Judge Lake read her for the “open doors” comment. Both parties need to use protection too.
My heart SUNK deep right along with his tears..
And even more so, when she did not have a single tear to offer in his behalf....
Women find good men and don’t know what to do. This stuff is messed up. He’s entitled to doubt you. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
He's not that good, having 3 other kids n messing with Lucy Goosey. Unless he's divorced, he's playing footloose n fancy free. He's lucky 2 times; no disease (hopefully) & not his kids. I pray for him over the loss of his twin girls 😇
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His name is not on the birth certificate and the children are still babies .... Run..
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Don't run SPRINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Brob 1990 more than sprint super dash 🤣
RUN FAST
And never look back.
She wanted him to be church going while she was screwing everybody!. I was praying that man was not the dad. He dodged a helluva bullet with that evil chick. She already snuck out while at work then saying she wouldn't keep the kids away. Now she can stay gone and he can have peace.
She knew that's why she left when they were a month old. She knew that man wasn't the father
Babies are gorgeous though. I feel bad for the man. He wanted these babies.
Amy good man that has ties to kids wants to be the daddy figure...but 2 weeks unprotected l, she knew exactly what she was doing. And it worked, gotemm until the paternity test set him freeeee
It looks like she’s wearing a party city wig
Kennedy Little 😂😂😂
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Not Party City!
Good one.....🤣🤣
Your 💯
Just finished watching and I feel sorry for this guy 💔
Going to church doesn't mean a person is trustworthy
She moved 3000 miles away because she knew he wasnt the father
Right , whats baffling is why she chose to get on national television and not only embarrass herself but cause Mr. Downs to be humiliated as well . God plz help them all. Thats a really bad situation.
She got the nerve talking about she wanted a church man but she acting innocent and sleeping with more than one man. Had a baby from someone else. Kudos to him for being a father to these babies.
Wow!! I feel so bad for Mr. Downs, especially after losing his baby girls. She KNEW those babies were not his and just USED him. So wrong!!
That Man just got Saved 18 years of a that woman barking in his face. Unless he lowers himself down to take care of another guys kids. And she will severely take advantage of him. He loses nothing walking away. Those kids do NOT know him.
I wonder how many people really take the judge up on using those counseling services?
Post Partum Depression
7:30 baby boy twin is knocked out like I don't have time for mama's shenanigans. I gotta deal with this until I move out. Baby girl twin is up like I need to know what is going on.
I feel like that's always the case with boys and girls lol
Lol
That was my thought exactly 😂
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I know better than to read the comments first. LOL
I had to!!! This was too juicy.
I start to read the comments the minute at start the video
Jeni Beni i read and watch at the same time 😂
Jeni Beni me too I always do!!
Lord yes!! But I can't help it!! I'm guilty!! ;) LOL
one of the mature court case i have watched. honesty and one person talking at a time
WHY BE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT U COULDN'T CLOSE THE DOOR ON. HE SEEM LIKE A GOOD MAN. SHE MESSED HIM UP NOW HE CANT TRUST ITS GOING TO BE HARD TO FOR HIM TO BE IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP. And They said it hard to find a good man. Women like this mess up a good man
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Agreed ....sad
Preach
I agree.... they wonder why men are cold hearted because they get women like this who dogg them out n never apologized for breaking their heart
Jessica Green totally agree. So now the next person have try and fix with the last person did
DNA testing needs to be done at birth
It is available as soon as they are born but he has to be there for that
Do anyone ever use condoms.
They are having way too much intercourse....condoms cannot keep up.
Ofc people do. But if they did they wouldn’t be on this show.
I know
Not on this show. They need to get tested.
I prefer not to / I'm in a committed relationship & my pull out skills are on point
Once the emotion wears off I'm sure he will make the best decision for himself. As a man I would not want too be raising another man's children out of a situation like this and still having to deal with the person who wronged me. It's an entirely different thing if you choose to be in a relationship with a single mother with young children.
'Twins run in his family.'
The father has nothing to do with having twins or not.
the right man can
Hahaha my thought exactly Kelly
Exactly right I am so tired of hearing that. The father can pass the gene to his children of course but when it comes to making the babies they have zero to do with it. Drives me insane
@@kuroe-chan5190 yep same that irked me so bad when she said that
Ms Luper dead wrong for that wig
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She alive an wrong tooooo
I feel bad for this man he did everything right as a man and he wasn't the dad and no mother has the right to just take the kids and not tell the man who knows he could be the dad where they are she needs to step up and put the kids first and her interest last hopefully the real father will be there
3 living kids, 2 deceased (or not the parent?) and sleeping with her with no birth control w/in 2 weeks of meeting is not a man doing right imho.
Amy Menjivar stepping up and making sure he is in there life so he knows who is the father is doing the right thing taking kids away and not telling the man who is taking care of them where the kids are is wrong
stitchfan08 Granted he did step up but he wouldn't have had to go thru all that had he left once he saw the line of men behind her he coulda got more then just a baby he took a gamble with his health. Hopefully he didn't lose
I wonder how many of these men say "I'll still be in their lives" and dip before the show even airs.. headed out the door sayin "Go find yo baby daddy!". Probably more than we think.
He should've ran out of the courtroom and snatched her wig off when he got the test results, lol
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Her wig is upsetting me!
ChinweezyFaSheezy 😂😂😂
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and she's so sorry for that
Had me stressed 😂😂
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OMG, he's not the daddy to either of those sweet babies!! He dodged a bullet tho...
Tia Marie right !! But he was still willing to be a father and she just ran away !!
This is the most mature episode I’ve ever watched on here😂💯
Man, you better run from that woman and her kids
I'm hollering😖🤦😭😭😭😭
Truthseeker very true
Lol. Run fast son !
Truth seeker good advice I hope that he read your comment
RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN
She knew he wasn’t the father, watch her face.
She hopped up and moved because she knew those children weren't his. Just dirty.
Ericka Carteri
I applaud this young man for taking care of her and the kids.I understand not wanting to live with his mother.
This is so heartbreaking😢. She admitted that she was messing around but its just terrible for the results he wanted to be the father. I can tell he actually is a good guy and cares for her. In this society men get dogged out for denying their kids but very few address the mess the mom did. Smh. The babies are the innocent ones.
Beautiful twins
I do not know why people act like they allergic to comdoms?! But then get upset they have to question a childs paternity 🤦
Christine La'Shaye sometimes it pop
Adrian Briscoe even then take necessary steps to prevent it from happening any further
My heart hurts for him 💔
“Twins run in his family” 🤦🏾♂️; she needs to go notify those twins father
Twins.... esp fraternal twins.... on the Father's side doesn't affects the mother carrying twins.
Correct😂
Twins don’t have anything to do with the father, so that made her sound even more ignorant.
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I hope she went to school long enough to know the truth.... of twins run in a family, it only matters if they run in the momma's family... so twins now evidently run in her family, lol.