Taylor Swift said that going through your early 20s is like walking into a costume store and trying on a whole bunch of different outfits, and then growing into your older 20s is like walking out of that costume store and realizing ”I think I like myself just as I am.”
haley, i have been watching you for long time, around 4-5 years maybe?? but i really have seen your internal growth through your body language and actions. i am so so proud of you!! even though i am only 16, it is crazy to me how much you have changed positively in the past few years. keep it up and i love you!❤
ADDDOOOOORRRRREEEEEEE this entire video. The introspection, the honesty, the relatability. Seriously its been such a cool journey you've taken and I have truly enjoyed every part that you have allowed us to join in on! Keep the faith and growth Haley, you are doing beautifully ❤👏🏽!!! Nothing is cooler than watching someone settle into their own skin *chefs kiss*
Hi Girl! ❤I wanted to say that you’re really glowing right now and compared to your style from 4 years ago I can see why. It’s kinda like you know right now who you are and are really content with it, embracing it and I absolutely love it. Your aura is amazing and just so gentle compared to your prior self and I think you should be proud of who you are becoming/ who you are right now. I‘m kinda struggling with that but I’m getting there so it makes me really happy for you. Much love ❤️
i’ve been watching your content since foooreverr as you’ve always been my wasian representation growing up 🫶 feels crazy to be growing up with you and so proud of you for always working towards yourself and growing!! red carpet interviewer is crazy congratulations!! 🥹🤍
Wow that’s so interesting what you said about looking mean when you’re anxious. Because the same thing happens to me and I’ve never thought that my anxiety can be the reason I am looking so bitter when anxious 🤦🏽♀️
PLEASE put ur VERY OLD stationery haul back up it was a comfort video of mine i used to watch it like every 6 months and i was so sad when you took it down
I cannot explain how much I relate to that kind of anxiety, and the wasted hour before you know you have a commitment! It’s honestly so comforting to know that other people experience that and really we’re not all that different deep down. I’ve been on a big journey of being outside my comfort zone after moving across the country and it’s really been such an eye opening experience.
The way Ryan was looking at you while you guys were on your way to the premiere 😍 This was an awesome opportunity Haley, so happy for you! I think you should def do a video reading some of the cast recs
I'm so proud of you for overcoming your anxiety and hope I will get there as well one day. Thank you for always being so honest, relatable and inspiring 💜
Love the vlog! Also, noticing your fears, doing the fear thing and then evaluating if your fears happened/were rational is exactly what CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) is and how pyschologists treated my OCD so well done!!
I saw your red carpet short before this video and remember just thinking how absolutely gorgeous you were. I didn’t realize there was a “glow down”, I love everything about how you are right now. Seriously such feel good videos
Just wanted to say that your videos are always so cozy and I love watching them! They make me feel like good and welcomed. Appreciate you sharing your thoughts and feelings cuz they’re super relatable. Would love to see more of these types of vids!
I’m not gonna lie, I loved the old videos! But I completely understand how you feel. And you’ve grown so much! I started watching you when your vsco girl vids were really popular and it’s been cool to see your journey ❤️
Hey Haley! I love how you are inspiring others by navigating your life and figuring out who you are! ❤ You should do a vid where you read for 24 hours with Sara and Destiny! I think that would be fun for you, as well as fun for us to watch! ❤❤❤
omg the one moment in the car on the way to the carpet where you and Ryan looked at eachother melted meeee. You guys are so wholesome I love love you guys❤️❤️
Omggggg watching this video litterally made me realise my childhood and my younger years where I would so badly want a new glow up moment. But I would be so nervous and excited to be near famous people on the red carpet. Your growth and positivity inspires me so much and I love how talkative you are. You are so beautiful and amazing, keep up the work your doing. Love you so much ❤
It's interesting to see the growth of a person over time. When I think of the Haley I watched back then and the Haley from now, I almost feel like they're two different people. All this to say, that I loved you then and I love you now, i'm just so happy for you
Haley, I am so happy for you and for your brave journey of discovering the strength and beauty you already own. You carry such a pure light and joy. Keep being kind to yourself and trust God. Sending lots of love ❤❤❤❤
haley i've been watching you since i was in middle school in now im halfway through college! the other day i went to go watch ur older content out of nostalgia and i realized half of it was gone and i understand from your explanation in this video as to why. i just wanted to say i really enjoy your content as a 20 year old trying to figure out life as well. as an avid viewer for so many years i can really see you growing into yourself and its so inspiring to watch!! :)
so proud of you haley!! once you face your inner thoughts they don't hold as much power over us, which is how you keep growing:) cant wait for more in my 20s diaries they're my fav youtube vids❤
Girlie you look SOOOO good without the fake lashes. Your natural beauty is glowing way harder than any artificial glow up, and I'm glad you can recognize it and bask in it! Conratulations on the interviews you nailed it!!
I’m so proud of you, this is an incredibly important video. I have very low self esteem. And I watch a lot of glow up videos religiously 😭😭 so this was nice❤ I can be who I am and that’s my “glow”
What a wholesome video. You and Ryan always find a way to pull at our heartstrings. 🥺 Congrats on the opportunity, and I look forward to seeing what God has in store for you next. 🙏🏽
I think this is my favorite video you've ever done Haley!! I sooo relate to the anxiety you were going through/talking about. Thx for making such a fun and encouraging little video about it ❤
It's so weird the RUclipsrs that I used to watch when I was younger suddenly changed their aesthetic or lifestyles because they themselves where growing up and exploring their identity just like myself, but it got to the point where I didn't watch their videos anymore and now they are all going back to how they used to be and I love watching them again it's such a nostalgic feeling🥹🥹
Hey Haley! I have a book series recommendation! It’s called keeper of the lost cities, it is like 12 books.. it is a lot but they are super easy reads the font is bigger and spacing is nice. It is fantasy I love the series. I know it’s a lot of books and ik you have a big tbr list just wanted to make a recommendation (love your videos give me motivation to read)❤️❤️
AHHH I absolutely love everything about this video & what you said at the end really encouraged me, because I struggle with the same thing. I would love for you to make more videos or even just tiktoks talking about how you overcome anxiety and what you read in the Bible that helps you!! love you haley
Hey girl! I have dust allergies and have been an avid reader since I was like 6 lol. I really wanted a room like yours but an architect once told me bookshelves are the worst for dust allergies bc books collect so much :( maybe it could help to deep clean your shelves periodically?
just an FYI for people who might be spooked by Haley talking about being scared her nose piercing would make her nose green: that won't happen if you get proper jewelry from a piercing shop! just be sure to research the shop you go to and go to a reputable piercer 😊
yeah i have 14 piercings on my head and scoffed when she said that. just get the correct jewelry, which your reputable piercer should be using anyways…
I’m planing on getting a spring/summer transformation and in 2 days on the 21st I’m getting a haircut. I’m thinking of chopping my hair to my shoulders and getting a wolf cut with curtain bangs. I loved this video, I always look forward to watching! I love the in my 20s diaries ❤
Hi Haley i love your videos and if you ever want a book recommendation I really think you should read Seven dirty secrets, Its not popular at all but a really good book!
I have been watching you book recs for a while and have enjoyed many of them. Thanks! Also I was pleasantly surprised when I saw Ryan in this video with you. My son and I had many fun hours watching his penny series. You guys are the cutest.
this is so sweet! I'm also in my twenties and been married for a few years now and am also in a phase of returning to my natural features - no more blonde, less maintenance and it feels good! I'm Aussie and LOVE Liane Moriarty (I think I'm slowly reading everything she's written) Some other 'Must Reads' of hers: The Husband's Secret, Big Little Lies (obvi) and I hope you loved the ending of Apples Never Fall! :))
I remember watching those old “glow up” videos, so to be watching you now recognizing your beauty and accomplishments is amazing!
Taylor Swift said that going through your early 20s is like walking into a costume store and trying on a whole bunch of different outfits, and then growing into your older 20s is like walking out of that costume store and realizing ”I think I like myself just as I am.”
Love this and so true!
I'm so happy you did another in my 20s diaries you should definitely do more
Yess I missed them
Yesss!!!
haley, i have been watching you for long time, around 4-5 years maybe?? but i really have seen your internal growth through your body language and actions. i am so so proud of you!! even though i am only 16, it is crazy to me how much you have changed positively in the past few years. keep it up and i love you!❤
Sometimes being the simplest version of yourself is the most beautiful version of yourself because it makes you more confident of your natural self
ADDDOOOOORRRRREEEEEEE this entire video. The introspection, the honesty, the relatability. Seriously its been such a cool journey you've taken and I have truly enjoyed every part that you have allowed us to join in on! Keep the faith and growth Haley, you are doing beautifully ❤👏🏽!!! Nothing is cooler than watching someone settle into their own skin *chefs kiss*
Hi Girl! ❤I wanted to say that you’re really glowing right now and compared to your style from 4 years ago I can see why. It’s kinda like you know right now who you are and are really content with it, embracing it and I absolutely love it. Your aura is amazing and just so gentle compared to your prior self and I think you should be proud of who you are becoming/ who you are right now. I‘m kinda struggling with that but I’m getting there so it makes me really happy for you. Much love ❤️
Haley you look so gorgeous with your natural eyelashes it suits you so well
i’ve been watching your content since foooreverr as you’ve always been my wasian representation growing up 🫶 feels crazy to be growing up with you and so proud of you for always working towards yourself and growing!! red carpet interviewer is crazy congratulations!! 🥹🤍
Real ones saw the thumbnail early on insta 🤫
We choose it 😍
We chose it YESSS
Yup seen the Instagram and came to RUclips to watch!
We make the best decisions ❤
Yesss!
You know it's a good day when Haley blesses us with an "in my 20s" vlog!! I just love how each episode is so real and reflective🥰
this was so great haley!!! what a cool opportunity! 🥲💛
OMG HI JESS
Wow that’s so interesting what you said about looking mean when you’re anxious. Because the same thing happens to me and I’ve never thought that my anxiety can be the reason I am looking so bitter when anxious 🤦🏽♀️
honestly same! i struggle with it a lot and i’m trying to figure out how to go into situations more calmly and resting my face a bit more i think?
PLEASE put ur VERY OLD stationery haul back up it was a comfort video of mine i used to watch it like every 6 months and i was so sad when you took it down
YESSSS same 🥹
@HaleyPham
I cannot explain how much I relate to that kind of anxiety, and the wasted hour before you know you have a commitment! It’s honestly so comforting to know that other people experience that and really we’re not all that different deep down. I’ve been on a big journey of being outside my comfort zone after moving across the country and it’s really been such an eye opening experience.
You know it’s a good day when Haley posts.💕
Changing your look is fun but your natural look is so beautiful 🙌🏻
The way Ryan was looking at you while you guys were on your way to the premiere 😍
This was an awesome opportunity Haley, so happy for you! I think you should def do a video reading some of the cast recs
it’s quite wonderful that you’re enhancing your natural beauty. i’m inspired by your affinity for change and growth.
I love the reversing glow up idea. Love the natural look🥰
Honestly I remember watching those glow up videos you were beautiful then and you’re beautiful now no matter what your style is :) luv u Haley
I'm so proud of you for overcoming your anxiety and hope I will get there as well one day. Thank you for always being so honest, relatable and inspiring 💜
It's always a good day when Haley posts
Love the vlog! Also, noticing your fears, doing the fear thing and then evaluating if your fears happened/were rational is exactly what CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) is and how pyschologists treated my OCD so well done!!
you should DEFINITELY read Big Little Lies by her!! It’s so good and has a series too with an awesome cast!
I saw your red carpet short before this video and remember just thinking how absolutely gorgeous you were. I didn’t realize there was a “glow down”, I love everything about how you are right now. Seriously such feel good videos
i remember watching those videos!! i haven't tuned in in a long while, but you seem so genuinely happy and confident, it's beautiful to see
Just wanted to say that your videos are always so cozy and I love watching them! They make me feel like good and welcomed. Appreciate you sharing your thoughts and feelings cuz they’re super relatable. Would love to see more of these types of vids!
girl, you've always been reflective in the best way. So happy that you are more confident in your own skin these days!
Love ya Haley! Love watching your journey as you navigate your twenties!!❤️🥰
It’s been a while since I’ve watched your videos, you’ve grown so much as a person! Love watching you be your authentic self!
the joy these videos bring me!!! unmatched
The glow and peace you have now Haley is so beautiful and radiant! The natural glow uppppp 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love it
I’m not gonna lie, I loved the old videos! But I completely understand how you feel. And you’ve grown so much! I started watching you when your vsco girl vids were really popular and it’s been cool to see your journey ❤️
Hey Haley! I love how you are inspiring others by navigating your life and figuring out who you are! ❤ You should do a vid where you read for 24 hours with Sara and Destiny! I think that would be fun for you, as well as fun for us to watch! ❤❤❤
Haley literally inspired me to make book content!
She is such a kind and caring RUclipsr and I really enjoy all her content ❤
Awwwwwww Haley, I'm SO PROUD of you! Love this video, and LOVE your reverse transformation... your natural beauty is the most beautiful of all! 😍
you are so fun, i love watching you as a book girlie myself, thank you for just being so relatable !!
Haley you slayed the interview. I saw the shorts and you seemed very relaxed and natural! :D
Also I love that you have white eyelashes that's so cool!
omg the one moment in the car on the way to the carpet where you and Ryan looked at eachother melted meeee. You guys are so wholesome I love love you guys❤️❤️
You look kinder without the lashes 😭🤍
The definition of awhh
i miss ur in my 20s videos so much! I'm 23 trying to navigate as well & they're so comforting to watch :')
Omggggg watching this video litterally made me realise my childhood and my younger years where I would so badly want a new glow up moment. But I would be so nervous and excited to be near famous people on the red carpet. Your growth and positivity inspires me so much and I love how talkative you are. You are so beautiful and amazing, keep up the work your doing. Love you so much ❤
It's interesting to see the growth of a person over time. When I think of the Haley I watched back then and the Haley from now, I almost feel like they're two different people. All this to say, that I loved you then and I love you now, i'm just so happy for you
Haley, I am so happy for you and for your brave journey of discovering the strength and beauty you already own. You carry such a pure light and joy. Keep being kind to yourself and trust God. Sending lots of love ❤❤❤❤
haley i've been watching you since i was in middle school in now im halfway through college! the other day i went to go watch ur older content out of nostalgia and i realized half of it was gone and i understand from your explanation in this video as to why. i just wanted to say i really enjoy your content as a 20 year old trying to figure out life as well. as an avid viewer for so many years i can really see you growing into yourself and its so inspiring to watch!! :)
I’m so proud of you for getting so mature and just reflecting on who you are. ❤❤❤
Love adult Haley - it’s giving confident and full of joy and I love itttt
so proud of you haley!! once you face your inner thoughts they don't hold as much power over us, which is how you keep growing:) cant wait for more in my 20s diaries they're my fav youtube vids❤
Girlie you look SOOOO good without the fake lashes. Your natural beauty is glowing way harder than any artificial glow up, and I'm glad you can recognize it and bask in it! Conratulations on the interviews you nailed it!!
i’ve been watching since the dance competition days, so seeing you now and how confident you are is so inspiring and amazing 💛
I’m so proud of you, this is an incredibly important video. I have very low self esteem. And I watch a lot of glow up videos religiously 😭😭 so this was nice❤ I can be who I am and that’s my “glow”
3:45 that "paralyzed" feeling before an important task is so real ToT
This is exactly the kind of videos I like to watch, thank you for sharing!
I love your channel! you don't even need makeup you are so pretty without it😀
u and ryan are my 2 favorite youtubers and these videos are always so fun so i can sit and watch the whole video!!
You're so pretty no matter what, Haley!
i love how real you are and i feel like we are navigating our twenties together 🩷
i’m in love with this series i love to see your progression and it’s so refreshing to watch someone work thru life 🫶🏼🫶🏼
all of the music haley puts in her vids is so good im vibing throughout haha
Your honesty and vulnerability is inspiring!
There is something so sweet about you reversing all your glow ups because you are most comfortable with yourself now.
Halye you should do a color theory video i feel like you already use the right colors but it'd be interesting to see!
Love the long vid and natural look 🩵🩵
The fact you have to say W for walk for Spock bahah! We have to say W-A-L-K for our puppies Bella and Alice hahA
Whenever Haley posts my day gets so much better! We love you💗
I remember being so obsessed with these years ago!!!
been watching you since 2018 Haley, you've grown into such a happier person!! lots of love
hiii haley:)) your every video idea is soo good- from books to glowups to reversing that, i'm addicted💗
i always love these vlogs, cant wait to watch!
So glad to see you finding and recognising your natural beauty! You are absolutely glowing Haley. Great job with the interviews💗
Your makeup turned out gorgeous!! You look so polished and fresh faced.
Missed your in my 20s videos! I love your book videos but it’s so nice to see you do regular vlogs again. Please keep doing them ♥️
I'm so happy everytime you post, honestly it makes my day so much better!! Love ya!!
Your skin has such a beautiful, natural glow to it
What a wholesome video. You and Ryan always find a way to pull at our heartstrings. 🥺 Congrats on the opportunity, and I look forward to seeing what God has in store for you next. 🙏🏽
I think this is my favorite video you've ever done Haley!! I sooo relate to the anxiety you were going through/talking about. Thx for making such a fun and encouraging little video about it ❤
Loved seeing another in my 20's vlog!! Also love your end reflection :) so cool when you realize how much you've changed and grown!
Love the mental health moment at the end. Good job getting out there and pushing past your discomfort!
Makeup is stunning!
It's so weird the RUclipsrs that I used to watch when I was younger suddenly changed their aesthetic or lifestyles because they themselves where growing up and exploring their identity just like myself, but it got to the point where I didn't watch their videos anymore and now they are all going back to how they used to be and I love watching them again it's such a nostalgic feeling🥹🥹
Such a cool opportunity. I’m glad you went for it and didn’t let anxiety get the best of you. Bravo!
Hey Haley! I have a book series recommendation! It’s called keeper of the lost cities, it is like 12 books.. it is a lot but they are super easy reads the font is bigger and spacing is nice. It is fantasy I love the series. I know it’s a lot of books and ik you have a big tbr list just wanted to make a recommendation (love your videos give me motivation to read)❤️❤️
AHHH I absolutely love everything about this video & what you said at the end really encouraged me, because I struggle with the same thing. I would love for you to make more videos or even just tiktoks talking about how you overcome anxiety and what you read in the Bible that helps you!! love you haley
I'm in love with the character development
this is what they call growth - love it so much!!
Hey girl! I have dust allergies and have been an avid reader since I was like 6 lol. I really wanted a room like yours but an architect once told me bookshelves are the worst for dust allergies bc books collect so much :( maybe it could help to deep clean your shelves periodically?
I get it. I have gone skydiving and that is definitely easier than going to the grocery store.
I LOVE the concept of this video so much!! You're gorgeous!
just an FYI for people who might be spooked by Haley talking about being scared her nose piercing would make her nose green: that won't happen if you get proper jewelry from a piercing shop! just be sure to research the shop you go to and go to a reputable piercer 😊
yeah i have 14 piercings on my head and scoffed when she said that. just get the correct jewelry, which your reputable piercer should be using anyways…
Also the green tint goes away pretty quickly as well, it's not permanent :)
I’m planing on getting a spring/summer transformation and in 2 days on the 21st I’m getting a haircut. I’m thinking of chopping my hair to my shoulders and getting a wolf cut with curtain bangs. I loved this video, I always look forward to watching! I love the in my 20s diaries ❤
Every day I miss your vlog styles videos and these in my twenties diaries are like a little treat!! and gives me so much nostalgia
Your more natural look actually really suits you :))
Great video thanks for sharing this
Hi Haley i love your videos and if you ever want a book recommendation I really think you should read Seven dirty secrets, Its not popular at all but a really good book!
7:43 Ryan bought that t-shirt during the penny seriess!!
I have been watching you book recs for a while and have enjoyed many of them. Thanks! Also I was pleasantly surprised when I saw Ryan in this video with you. My son and I had many fun hours watching his penny series. You guys are the cutest.
so glad the in my 20s vlogs are back!!!
this is so sweet! I'm also in my twenties and been married for a few years now and am also in a phase of returning to my natural features - no more blonde, less maintenance and it feels good! I'm Aussie and LOVE Liane Moriarty (I think I'm slowly reading everything she's written) Some other 'Must Reads' of hers: The Husband's Secret, Big Little Lies (obvi) and I hope you loved the ending of Apples Never Fall! :))
Big Little Lies is one of my favorites!! It’s a tv show with Reese Witherspoon that was amazing as well!
I liked this video concept 🤍 your skin is glowing btw