Relationships red flags!?🚩🚩

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

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  • @yvonneasante7836
    @yvonneasante7836 3 месяца назад +1314

    Having a child with the wrong person will make u cry more than the baby 😢😢

    • @parkandplaywithdorathy
      @parkandplaywithdorathy 3 месяца назад +5

      Like it is well with our soul

    • @olaideadedokun9895
      @olaideadedokun9895 3 месяца назад +19

      Some men are dubious, manipulative, selfish. God have mercy on me. Thank God am not barren. Have beautiful kids

    • @somoyesimileoluwa2283
      @somoyesimileoluwa2283 3 месяца назад +7

      Very true 😢😢😢

    • @SMar-yu6od
      @SMar-yu6od 3 месяца назад +5

      Especially 😢when you first have the baby😢.

    • @kisakyeolivia3411
      @kisakyeolivia3411 3 месяца назад +1

      Why not be on pregnancy preventive measures. It is like we are saying that we are children who have sex as a test, to know how it feels and what happens. For people 18 years and above, there is nothing like pregnacy accidents expected only in rape cases or where someone's mind is unstable. engage get the by product.

  • @oluwatomithomas180
    @oluwatomithomas180 3 месяца назад +461

    Tosin, you are a powerful woman to talk about your experience. It is a sign that you are an overcomer. May God continually protect you and use you to help our younger generation.

  • @aSuperHeroStateofMind
    @aSuperHeroStateofMind 3 месяца назад +263

    You will see the red flags, but the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue....Powerful words. This is why I never talk about ppl who are in an abusive relationship. The only thing I would tell somebody is heal from the trauma in your past, from the things that you don't talk about. HEAL the Wounds in your Soul..❤❤❤

  • @nic_niko1003
    @nic_niko1003 3 месяца назад +25

    Manipulation is a dangerous thing in a relationship. You think you are compromising, but you are being taken advantage of. I'm happy you are speaking your truth. Sometimes, people never see it.

  • @swagservices7025
    @swagservices7025 3 месяца назад +31

    It’s so easy to pass judgment when you are not a victim, this lady would be a great counselor to people going through similar issues she just explained

  • @daciagriffith6568
    @daciagriffith6568 3 месяца назад +381

    Run Sista Run!!!Being alone DOES NOT mean being lonely.

  • @sdcaldwell8882
    @sdcaldwell8882 3 месяца назад +123

    This is so true. 10 years after the divorce and I am still dismantling and renouncing the seeds that were planted during the marriage. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @helensomy2769
      @helensomy2769 3 месяца назад +2

      Thanks for sharing this, it never occurred to me that this can still take place even after leaving the marriage.

    • @cleverchakabva9901
      @cleverchakabva9901 3 месяца назад +2

      God be with you my sister

    • @TadeMakun
      @TadeMakun 3 месяца назад +1

      God will heal your heart and bind your spirit. Open up to Him... BE HONEST.

  • @princewillokwoche6845
    @princewillokwoche6845 3 месяца назад +13

    She survived to tell her story! Many don’t make it out of the contraption

  • @hyeldaapollos3879
    @hyeldaapollos3879 3 месяца назад +208

    Lord have mercy on us. This generation is in need of light. The darkness is real. What happens in relationships is truly mind blowing 🤯🤯🤯

    • @rayannphillip931
      @rayannphillip931 3 месяца назад +13

      There is nothing new under the Sun.

    • @princeboateng4395
      @princeboateng4395 3 месяца назад +9

      It’s always the worst kind of men they loose themselves to and visit the wounds on the best men. It’s crazy

    • @chestchirecateyes
      @chestchirecateyes 3 месяца назад +2

      They're in need of nurturing and lessons in self-love.

    • @hyeldaapollos3879
      @hyeldaapollos3879 3 месяца назад

      ​​@@rayannphillip931 Yeah,.. But I love the fact that this is novel to me. The Bible would have us wise unto that which is good and simple (innocent) as to what is evil. (Rom 16:19) This kind of activity actually crosses the borders of just being bad... This is in the country of evil! This man clearly is into something dark! 😳

    • @gloryplufelpride4766
      @gloryplufelpride4766 3 месяца назад

      That word "self love " 📌📌📌 should be ultimate/utmost importance in ones life ... ​@@chestchirecateyes

  • @JemimaAidoo-e1t
    @JemimaAidoo-e1t 3 месяца назад +106

    😮my goodness. Relationships can be dangerous to your spirit, soul and body. To get pregnant and getting rid of it intentionally is madness

    • @florencenyandia2202
      @florencenyandia2202 3 месяца назад +5

      Initiation

    • @cleverchakabva9901
      @cleverchakabva9901 3 месяца назад +10

      Having someone tell you the plan of getting you pregnant and then "getting rid of it", that's just evil, it's heartless 😢😢

    • @nkemo65
      @nkemo65 3 месяца назад +6

      Simply demonic

    • @LestAnyManBoast
      @LestAnyManBoast 3 месяца назад

      Actually it's not madness, it's witchcraft, the kind of witchcraft that is found in the Apocrphya aka hidden books of the Bible removed from the modern KJV during the the corrupt Council of Nicea

    • @sophiachin1262
      @sophiachin1262 3 месяца назад +3

      Blood Sacrifice they offer up their first born child for whatever occultic reasons. She should have told him your own mother should have done that to you and left him forever. He is just another broken devil... The Lord rebuke him ooo.

  • @ChijiubaJanet
    @ChijiubaJanet 3 месяца назад +75

    I can relate very well. Experience teaches you a lot. Thank God you are free.

  • @matildaojeh4950
    @matildaojeh4950 3 месяца назад +59

    I want to watch the whole episode, its so painful but thank God you came ouy stronger

  • @ElsaCamus-gd7es
    @ElsaCamus-gd7es 3 месяца назад +68

    We, women, can see red flags in day one but somewhere we think we can fix through love.. some souls cannot be fixed. They need divine intervention, if you stay in wrong relationship, your divinity dies. So eventually, your survival instinct makes you leave.. On His time. Not yours🤲🏽.leaving a toxic relationship is a divine protection.
    ☮️🫡💕

    • @irenemark9219
      @irenemark9219 3 месяца назад +4

      "if you stay in a toxic relationship, your divinity dies"
      Very powerful!

    • @theajcchannel1331
      @theajcchannel1331 3 месяца назад

      Divinity. We are immortal beings not The Trinity

    • @IbehStella-f2l
      @IbehStella-f2l 3 месяца назад

      Yes my dear I thought so too but it get even worst and worst , as a matter of fact my health is been affected, I'm lost and don't know how to start all over again. But I will not give up until I get my freedom.

  • @enthroned_one
    @enthroned_one 3 месяца назад +68

    Same happened to my best friend; Ify and after she left the marriage upon return front America; she died!!! LADIES...PROTECT UR DYNASTIES..THIS IS REAL

    • @LyndaDeniseJones
      @LyndaDeniseJones 3 месяца назад +4

      😢 my deepest deepest condolences, I lost my bbf to a jealous spineless manchild. It's been 20 years since her passing and I miss her more everyday. Hugs to you and all that love her ❤❤

  • @graystevens939
    @graystevens939 3 месяца назад +11

    I'm so sorry you went through this sister. A man who is constantly chasing personal gratification is a dangerous man,as a woman stand your ground. The wrong man will eliminate himself.

  • @bukolaechue9538
    @bukolaechue9538 3 месяца назад +134

    I have watched this excerpt more than 6times…and I’m still in shock

    • @fruitinspector8247
      @fruitinspector8247 3 месяца назад +14

      Same here. She was dating a demon.

    • @ChideraOkorie-ls9qb
      @ChideraOkorie-ls9qb 3 месяца назад +1

      What a ministry

    • @spyksyde
      @spyksyde 3 месяца назад

      Where’s the full video

    • @TadeMakun
      @TadeMakun 3 месяца назад

      Don't just be in shock, dear... BE CONSCIOUSLY INSTRUCTED.

  • @tredinabrown2249
    @tredinabrown2249 2 месяца назад +1

    WE CAN NO LONGER ALLOW ANY MORE NEGATIVITY AND TOXICITY IN OUR PRECIOUS LIVES! BE BLESSED ALWAYS!

  • @OluwatobilobaWonders
    @OluwatobilobaWonders 3 месяца назад +4

    You'll see the red flags but the wounds in your soul will urge you (push you, drive you) to continue.
    Thank God for light.

  • @Susankaaya
    @Susankaaya 3 месяца назад +35

    That’s why we should pray for them and with them. The devil be trying to destroy God’s people but that battle is won by His blood.

  • @heavenforum9124
    @heavenforum9124 3 месяца назад +40

    It is called, The Power of IMAGINATION! If you can imagine it, it's only a matter of time. It must come to pass.

    • @Dainess365
      @Dainess365 3 месяца назад +8

      The only thing I want to imagine and come to me is winning $100 million dollars 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @heavenforum9124
      @heavenforum9124 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Dainess365 Well, the ball now is in your court. If you call see it, then nothing stops you having it. If you can imagine it, then it's all yours! Rise up and make it happen but remember me when thou cometh into thy kingdom.

    • @eseoghenewealthmychamber6365
      @eseoghenewealthmychamber6365 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@Dainess365 lols.., ha! your own big oo. Mine is just 3 million naira . I don imagine tire and still dey imagine 😂. The smaller is inclusive in the greater. My dear remember me when your imagination becomes reality.

    • @Dainess365
      @Dainess365 3 месяца назад

      I’m in Australia and people have been winning lotteries lately, so now I’m waiting for my turn. So I hope that I’m next.
      No long ago someone won, $150 millions Aussie , another $40 millions, $12 millions . So I hope that I’m the next lucky winner 🏆

    • @niunice
      @niunice 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Dainess365it will come to pass 😊

  • @toidiaz5136
    @toidiaz5136 3 месяца назад +3

    Very true- MANY of us have experienced this on some level- ladies we are a SISTERHOOD- may not always get along or do each other right- but we can still be supportive of our individual experiences and share to uplift!! Your words may speak to someone’s soul. Stay compassionate

  • @koyejoolanrewaju4157
    @koyejoolanrewaju4157 3 месяца назад +16

    Can one believe an intelligent lady like this could be a victim? You're brilliant, bold and beautiful. I'm happy that you live to share your experience.

  • @williamseghe4066
    @williamseghe4066 3 месяца назад +3

    This is emotional, I'm already liking this lady

  • @annhome7099
    @annhome7099 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for the message. Greetings from Barbados. Blessing on you 🙏🏾

  • @arekeogbonna7359
    @arekeogbonna7359 3 месяца назад

    I love Tosin. Such a beautiful testimony.

  • @ancientDna1979
    @ancientDna1979 3 месяца назад +71

    I understand, my late husband used to tell me I was dumb, when I was overachieving him in everything.

    • @Folakanbi
      @Folakanbi 3 месяца назад +1

      Wow!!!😮

    • @blandinamyinga9489
      @blandinamyinga9489 3 месяца назад +5

      Narcissistic behavior"he was angry that your shining.

    • @STAR-w5i
      @STAR-w5i 3 месяца назад +2

      ✝️JEALOUSY N INSECURITY OF U. N.IGNORANCE.✝️

  • @Mywatercrystaltv
    @Mywatercrystaltv 3 месяца назад

    You go gurrrll!!
    Don't waste the pain!!!
    You're a phenomenonal woman!!❤❤❤

  • @chinenyeorakwue6233
    @chinenyeorakwue6233 3 месяца назад +23

    That should have been a wake up call!

  • @Okafor_chioma6.
    @Okafor_chioma6. 3 месяца назад +35

    Now where’s the complete video???

  • @uduaklawrence5237
    @uduaklawrence5237 3 месяца назад +56

    This is a similar story of my friend. I ran to me for help, I had to hide her in my house till now. I pray she gets over this 😭

  • @DaughterOfEncouragement
    @DaughterOfEncouragement 3 месяца назад +110

    I thought he was gonna ask if he could bring another girl into the mix or something crazy like that, but that request was so specific, so sinister, that you KNOW it was a seed from the devil himself. Lord have mercy 😔

    • @SASK_M_Y
      @SASK_M_Y 3 месяца назад +27

      I thought of blood covenant

    • @DaughterOfEncouragement
      @DaughterOfEncouragement 3 месяца назад +8

      @@SASK_M_Y oh dang, that's right!! A requirement of sacrifice 😟

    • @ovedjerory
      @ovedjerory 3 месяца назад

      ​@@SASK_M_YSame.

    • @deolake
      @deolake 3 месяца назад

      ​@@SASK_M_Y, it's already a blood covenant in a complex and deeper form. They both create a life and sacrifice it via abortion😢. Oh God, there are demons everywhere😮.
      May we be shielded always by God's light.

    • @tonyelegbuanya3401
      @tonyelegbuanya3401 3 месяца назад +6

      ​@@SASK_M_Ythat's exactly what I thought because such happened to me. But this particular request ? Devil dey pay ten ten for the man head, I swear

  • @MureBeauty1
    @MureBeauty1 3 месяца назад +2

    I've always said it.
    It takes a broken person to break someone and those in an environment where broken records are playing would soon find themselves dancing to the tunes

  • @gra_cecreates
    @gra_cecreates 3 месяца назад +30

    Please can we get the full video 😢

  • @fridaledale2024
    @fridaledale2024 3 месяца назад

    Sista you are right.. Your experience is going to help a lot of people. Pls do not keep quiet. Continue exposing relationship red flags. ❤

  • @henchilamcokej
    @henchilamcokej 3 месяца назад +3

    Basic principle of accountability requires that you be accountable for your actions. People, including mass murderers, who do terrible things often have others, including the victims, to blame for their actions

  • @placeofalltrends7596
    @placeofalltrends7596 3 месяца назад

    I am so much in anticipating mode. Please release this podcast soon

  • @joydaniel1327
    @joydaniel1327 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm happy you're talking about it.

  • @JamesORileyMukonda
    @JamesORileyMukonda 3 месяца назад +29

    The things we date

  • @lavenderlillies8149
    @lavenderlillies8149 3 месяца назад +8

    Purposely get pregnant just to abort? What sort of sociopath is that? He's not thinking of the possible emotional trauma/extreme fear that an unplanned pregnancy and abortion/losing a child would have on you?
    My goodness. Thats just evil.

  • @adadiigbomma3217
    @adadiigbomma3217 3 месяца назад

    Thanks so much for your bravery in being this honest. May God bless you with happiness 🙏

  • @irenedontoh9692
    @irenedontoh9692 3 месяца назад +1

    This is so deep. I subscribed immediately the lady made her point💯✅

  • @elizabethm8610
    @elizabethm8610 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for saying all this❤❤ I appreciate you ❤

  • @zemskincare5965
    @zemskincare5965 3 месяца назад +1

    May God help the guy to change . I thank God for your life sister!

  • @tiannahmo1581
    @tiannahmo1581 3 месяца назад +13

    I can relate truly words are seeds

    • @irenemark9219
      @irenemark9219 3 месяца назад

      Yes so can I. You don't know when it's planted until you see yourself doing something you've sworn you'd never do because of a passive suggestion someone made.
      But how can one protect themselves from these word seeds that begin to supplant godly ideas you've always held onto?

  • @uzoamakaukoh6624
    @uzoamakaukoh6624 3 месяца назад +2

    I love this woman ❤

  • @user-rz6oq3ey2r
    @user-rz6oq3ey2r 3 месяца назад +111

    I left my husband on a beautiful day which happened to be my birthday. We woke up romantically together. Took me shopping, Gave me cash and driver took me to my work station. Instead of leaving the car with me I told the driver to take it back and that was it. He almost ran mad. It's 7 years now. I am very grateful for breaking me from the shackles. If you judge me wrongly I wish you just 5% of what I went through without mercy. Ladies REMOVE yourself and do it sooner

    • @miniasikusara2936
      @miniasikusara2936 3 месяца назад +10

      What made you do it?

    • @billionairejumzietopbabe3304
      @billionairejumzietopbabe3304 3 месяца назад

      Abuse of course! 🤷​@@miniasikusara2936

    • @Lu_cc_ee
      @Lu_cc_ee 3 месяца назад +11

      It's the 5% for me 😂😂
      My dear, wish them 80%

    • @psalmzoe3746
      @psalmzoe3746 3 месяца назад +7

      Let them judge, believe me when I tell you it's out of ignorance they do it... They'll never understand

    • @OfficialDubemXB
      @OfficialDubemXB 3 месяца назад +10

      ​@@miniasikusara2936 this question is very necessary cause I don't understand how she woke up romantically together, went for shopping and still left him that day.

  • @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000
    @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000 3 месяца назад +10

    Yes they’ll spend years programming you to believe something.
    Now when the real person shows up you don’t see it. You see the programming.
    Thank God for saving me.

    • @gabrielchristiana3150
      @gabrielchristiana3150 3 месяца назад +3

      They are not the programmer😢
      They are the programming.

    • @graceoluwadunsin
      @graceoluwadunsin 3 месяца назад +2

      What you just said made me think....
      Thank you for saving me Lord.

  • @sourceinsights
    @sourceinsights 3 месяца назад

    Amen.... This is truth. Live 🆓

  • @francesmbewe8457
    @francesmbewe8457 3 месяца назад

    I enjoyed listening to this so much ❤❤

  • @Egorpy
    @Egorpy 3 месяца назад

    💯 accurate about the "programming" ❤

  • @lovendannachi2303
    @lovendannachi2303 3 месяца назад

    Your story is inspiring,. 🙏 thank you.

  • @Kremlin100
    @Kremlin100 3 месяца назад

    Indeed a strong Woman to pass through such experience and talks about it😊😊 , some relationships has weird things involved

  • @PhilbertOtasowie-xy4uj
    @PhilbertOtasowie-xy4uj 3 месяца назад +2

    I cant wait for the full video 😢

  • @saphirwenzi5882
    @saphirwenzi5882 3 месяца назад

    Stay strong beautiful lady!!❤❤

  • @_Divine1
    @_Divine1 3 месяца назад +29

    The programming is often subtle but sometimes blatant. Don't ignore red flags

  • @ghananaturals8525
    @ghananaturals8525 3 месяца назад +6

    "you will see the red flags and the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue". phew, that's a word.

    • @mtp472
      @mtp472 3 месяца назад +2

      Which nonsense wound? RUN RUN RUN... I STILL DON'T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH WOMEN. LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. SIMPLE! IMAGINE STAYING IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP BCOZ OF THE FEAR OF WHAT PIPU WILL SAY. LEAVE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. LEAVE ABUSIVE MARRIAGE. RUN!

    • @joyerhabor2229
      @joyerhabor2229 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@mtp472 I don't think it is that easy to just leave and run. It is easy for many of us ( myself included) to say leave and run but we don't know what's really going on in there. I am not in a relationship and I have never been in an abusive relationship but I have seen relationships and marriages with abuse,so if the shoe fits . Sometimes these people just need push and help to get out of it while some just need God .

    • @2oubleD
      @2oubleD 3 месяца назад

      @@mtp472if it was so easy to run from bad things, sun wouldn’t even be an issue and we would all be in right living with God. Ppl need healing to see the truth and until we acknowledge God and be transformed by the renewal of our minds we will stay stick in crippling situations and not fulfill our God-given mandates.

    • @mtp472
      @mtp472 3 месяца назад +1

      @@2oubleD MY OWN IS THAT IT'S BETTER RO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE THAN TO DIE. INFACT

    • @mtp472
      @mtp472 3 месяца назад +2

      THAT 'TIME TO HEAL' MAY NOT BE THERE O IF U ARE GONE! RUN FIRST AND BE HEALING LATER. DON'T TRY TO HEAL BEFORE RUNNING. THE PIPU JESUS HEALED FIRST MAKE MOVEMENT BEFORE HEALING CAME O. JESUS WOULD SAY, "RISE, TAKE YOUR BED AND ..." PLS OOO... LEAVE VIOLENT AND ABUSIVE MARRIAGE BEFORE HEALING O. YOU CAN'T HEAL IN THE MORTUARY OOO...

  • @Ozmarc254
    @Ozmarc254 3 месяца назад +2

    And the saddest part is that she will always be bonded to him giving any guy who comes after nothing but headache

  • @khairakhalid6083
    @khairakhalid6083 3 месяца назад +60

    He wanted to traumatise her for life and damage her mentally . He knew one of the worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting rid of her unborn baby.

    • @sosohe4018
      @sosohe4018 3 месяца назад +5

      And she will forever remember him without him remembering her or being bothered, abuse and control equal narcissism.

    • @teresaosborne2209
      @teresaosborne2209 3 месяца назад

      Wow.

    • @cleverchakabva9901
      @cleverchakabva9901 3 месяца назад +1

      Yes and that, 'getting rid of her unborn baby' can haunt and scar her mentally and emotionally.
      People are alive but carrying burdens.

    • @augustaukandu5838
      @augustaukandu5838 3 месяца назад +1

      It could also be a Satanic blood covenant he wanted to make with her!!

  • @IrisAgnes
    @IrisAgnes 3 месяца назад +38

    Wow! That program you are referring to is POWERFUL!

  • @simplyblessed1516
    @simplyblessed1516 3 месяца назад +1

    Yes! So many people dont understand that mental abuse occurs first before any violent abuse. Manipulation and lies ... the enemy tried to plant in fertile ground.

  • @manfredmichaelwilliam6681
    @manfredmichaelwilliam6681 3 месяца назад

    God bless you for this deliverance. May God use your message to deliver many that are in such condition.
    Really life without Christ is crisis

  • @arababecca6432
    @arababecca6432 3 месяца назад +2

    Staying means ready to lose your life in an abusive relationship. Leave to live!

  • @VeraAmarachukwu
    @VeraAmarachukwu 3 месяца назад +6

    I can relate...
    Loving a person or being in a relationship that draws you away from God is a red flag on its own
    We ladies should be careful out there...
    The world's really crazy
    God would protect us all❤

  • @rubytuesday9831
    @rubytuesday9831 3 месяца назад +2

    What an intelligent girl...so on point😢

  • @HarrietAgbenya-qs1vf
    @HarrietAgbenya-qs1vf 3 месяца назад +4

    I have watch this a million times just today

  • @JustUdoro
    @JustUdoro 3 месяца назад +1

    WOOOOOOOOOOOOOW…this is eerily on point. My goodness. May God continue to deliver us from strongholds and false fruits. In Jesus’ name. Amen!

  • @rejoicemmachukwu
    @rejoicemmachukwu 3 месяца назад +51

    Only people who had not been in a toxic relationship will not understand 🥹

    • @chiomajaneoside4157
      @chiomajaneoside4157 3 месяца назад +2

      I understand Ma, I've been there. I understand perfectly, I can relate to everything she is saying 😢😢😢

    • @tonyelegbuanya3401
      @tonyelegbuanya3401 3 месяца назад +8

      You don't have to be in a toxic relationship to understand. What is evil is evil. Don't wait until it happens to you

    • @amaoparebea2990
      @amaoparebea2990 3 месяца назад

      ​@@tonyelegbuanya3401ikr

    • @manifoldhitslunargrace7603
      @manifoldhitslunargrace7603 3 месяца назад

      Thanks well said​@@tonyelegbuanya3401

    • @manifoldhitslunargrace7603
      @manifoldhitslunargrace7603 3 месяца назад

      I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag

  • @RunorLove
    @RunorLove 3 месяца назад

    God is so good in the life of this girl.proud your out sis❤

  • @Mailerd
    @Mailerd 3 месяца назад +2

    These words are short but really powerful. Let every woman listen and reflect on this.

  • @dukeisang
    @dukeisang 3 месяца назад +4

    He simply meant... let's shed innocent blood 😢😢😢

  • @husseenaabdullah8593
    @husseenaabdullah8593 3 месяца назад +1

    I wish I could find the full video 😢

  • @azpersonal
    @azpersonal 3 месяца назад

    Thank you, Lord, that I have never fallen into this type of love. The thing no dey catch me because my mumu no dey tey🌚. So glad she survived

  • @aminualiyuabbas7341
    @aminualiyuabbas7341 3 месяца назад +2

    Yo! It takes two to tangle. The red flag you saw was the kind of person you actually wanted. So he became that which you wanted. In every relationship, man treats a woman how he wants to be treated. So if you display bad at first. Well, vis a vis.

  • @ceciliamelato3866
    @ceciliamelato3866 2 месяца назад

    The wounds in your soul will make you push forward with the relationship, even as you see the red flags. I was wounded in my soul,my esteem was none existent. I wanted to be validated,I was in my mid 20's. Got in a relationship, I knew I didn't want to be with him,I knew I didn't love him. But the promises he made,made got me in a relationship with him. I had kids (2) based on promises...10 years later,none of the promises came true. I got out of the relationship, he still doesn't believe I left him.

  • @rebbybam230
    @rebbybam230 3 месяца назад +1

    Yes those in abusive relationship dont ever judge them z pray theyll get out some day

  • @emmanuelaafari9434
    @emmanuelaafari9434 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for sharing this story!!! I almost entered into a relationship I knew God was telling me not to enter! And I was finding many ways to doubt it and to be in the relationship. But it’s not God’s will for me, and so I won’t venture. At first the pressure was so much! But now I know what to do. Thank God for answered prayers 🙏🏾

  • @ChimaNwibe-h3n
    @ChimaNwibe-h3n 3 месяца назад

    May we have the capacity to speak up and save others

  • @326vega
    @326vega 3 месяца назад

    Well spoken😢

  • @reshaeparson7242
    @reshaeparson7242 3 месяца назад +1

    Yes and once that seed is spoken it will definitely blossom!😢

  • @thereawakener9554
    @thereawakener9554 3 месяца назад +15

    What in the evil toxic relationship is going on here.. omgg

  • @curtisantonieospears3885
    @curtisantonieospears3885 3 месяца назад

    It's All About Control. Great Video. Love It.

  • @manifoldhitslunargrace7603
    @manifoldhitslunargrace7603 3 месяца назад +1

    I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag

  • @doodeeventures8581
    @doodeeventures8581 3 месяца назад

    Devil is wicked. Thank God you are free. Embrace God to heal properly.

  • @mrsddrake
    @mrsddrake 3 месяца назад +2

    You will see the red flags, but the wounds your soul will urge you to continue.😢

  • @praisemwangi-vu6tp
    @praisemwangi-vu6tp 3 месяца назад

    Please can I get full story 😢?

  • @sonofokere
    @sonofokere 3 месяца назад +5

    Can you please prompt me when the full interview goes online

    • @hilarysmartt5809
      @hilarysmartt5809 3 месяца назад

      Same

    • @TemplingRight
      @TemplingRight 3 месяца назад

      The full interview is out now. Check the channel

    • @TemplingRight
      @TemplingRight 3 месяца назад

      @@hilarysmartt5809it’s out now on the same channel as this short

  • @williamseghe4066
    @williamseghe4066 3 месяца назад

    The best way to heal is to talk about it

  • @OGBAESTHER-jf6cm
    @OGBAESTHER-jf6cm 3 месяца назад +1

    this is very true!! they will think you're doing it with ur power

    • @SASK_M_Y
      @SASK_M_Y 3 месяца назад +3

      And most of the times it takes you to free yourself and that's why people say such things. Till you come to your senses and make that intentional decision,you will continue to be programmed

  • @Ozmarc254
    @Ozmarc254 3 месяца назад

    Beautiful words are often the children of trauma. Whenever you hear eloquent speech, moving poetry or uplifting music, it's almost always comes from a place of pain

  • @tiffanythreatt2543
    @tiffanythreatt2543 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing

  • @KochHaven
    @KochHaven 3 месяца назад +6

    Where is the full video pls. Just checked through the channel & didn't see it.

    • @vivianalabintei1419
      @vivianalabintei1419 3 месяца назад

      Go back and check, it's out now

    • @KochHaven
      @KochHaven 3 месяца назад

      @@vivianalabintei1419 yes, I’ve seen it. Thank you

  • @eniolaaladegbeye
    @eniolaaladegbeye 3 месяца назад

    This is so deep!

  • @susannfatiha9961
    @susannfatiha9961 3 месяца назад

    i want to watch the whole show

  • @MustYouTalk
    @MustYouTalk 3 месяца назад

    I can’t even begin to imagine how it might have felt being with an abusive person. I wish you well in your healing journey..
    .. however, I didn’t hear any accountability from you. Starting a relationship with a person who will encourage you to go against your believes is on you. We all have to choose better. That’s on us. Be more accountable for the decisions we make and the consequences.

  • @dionepresilia899
    @dionepresilia899 3 месяца назад

    Pls the link to the full video 🤲

  • @Chinonyeremmiracle
    @Chinonyeremmiracle 3 месяца назад

    Where's the full video, please?

  • @chibuikeanyadike8288
    @chibuikeanyadike8288 3 месяца назад

    Best way to learn is through your experiences, but a better way to learn is through other people's experiences.

  • @lucasbrasi4625
    @lucasbrasi4625 3 месяца назад +2

    Thats what happens when you dont heal...The need to jump into another relationship like your life depends on it..Its ok to be alone for a little while...Dysfunctional homes screw with people's lives making them toxic..Healing to every broken soul..

  • @faithnshyiraameyaw4026
    @faithnshyiraameyaw4026 3 месяца назад

    I felt this!!!

  • @sarahisrael8848
    @sarahisrael8848 3 месяца назад

    Some people are really working for the devil. Some don't even know... Thanks be to God that you're here testifying ma'am. May the Lord complete you and heal you