What men secretly wish women knew (seeing the ❤️ of the Divine Masculine) w Alison Armstrong
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
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K Moon here is a healing Song of Union from the heart ❤️ ruclips.net/video/WHkBW_tItRA/видео.html
I am up to co-create with you in the manor of this video as well ✨🙏✨
I am a 40 year old grown ass man with a wife and kids. Alison has helped ME understand me in relation to women more than anyone. Every time she says something I’m like “heyyy, I do that.” Then she tells me why I do it, and then I’m like “she’s right 🤨” haha… amazing video from an amazing person. Thank you. 🙏🏼
As a dude, I don't think it's possible there's another woman on the planet who's more articulate on men than Armstrong. I'm hooked...
@@ckwash1 thank you gentlemen for confirming her information
@@jeffreybrown3469 how would you encourage men to read that? Which of her videos or books really got you thinking? I have men around me who take it as a joke and I wonder if I’m presenting it wrong … I need help please 😄
I think I finally get it, Women feel & nuture, Men act & protect. Love is a feeling, Care is an action
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We said!
brilliant
Only love is not a feeling it’s an action. We don’t nurture our children because we always feel like it! We do it because we love them, it’s a choice
Yes, true.
I just saw this video for the first time in my YT travels last night. I didn’t realize I needed these messages-after listening twice through and starting the Understanding Women audio book - I feel a kind of tenderness and admiration and deep awe for the man in my life. I want to honor him and provide safety in our connection and I didn’t realize the mistakes I was making. I want to understand myself better and be better for me and for him. Thank you!
What a kind realization.
17:00 that’s deep. If we honor ourselves there’s no way someone could dishonor us. Self love is IMPERATIVE ✨♥️🙌🏽
Totally! And unfortunately many people lack Self Love.
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Yes, feminine self love… gentle, kind, nurturing, caring, helpful & sensual.… not harsh distorted self centered “ love”…. not arrogant, angry, demanding,
This woman gets it. She really gets it. We feel in a different way. We live in a different way.
As a irish energy healer I find that my sex the masculine fear at times the feminine within them, thankfully over many years I have be blessed to balance out the two divine aspects of my being,
The male in general is working on this transition of the male image,we are lost in the process of change,
However in time I feel when we embrace this dynamic change we will rise and heal.
I am blessed to have met my divine counterpart five years ago.it was beyond all previous experience, a coming home to my equal.
Have not seen her since then a world apart,however I still honour this connection,and honour the inner warrior and feminine within myself,
She knocked me off my horse with a white feather !
I wish you well… that must have been quite an experience!
Be the woman of your dreams- oh wow 🤩 absolutely love that ❤️🙏🏾👌🏾
So beautiful. Alison is doing such a great service for healing relationships. I tapped out of the twin flame community because the focus seems to be so much on the other person. The true work is done within. I got so much new insight from this discussion. Thank you both for sharing. 🙏🏼 listening for the second time.
CharChar I agree- I find only K-moon and a few other readers such as Queen of Light 1111 really focus on the inner work, as opposed to the obsession on the other person. The rest can lead to attachment and obsession ...
OMG...what she says at 29:00 made me cry...because I discarded it until now...goes to show how important the lens through which we view things is...thanks you for this Gem and for sharing it with us Kay!
Rich content reflects years of study. A well modulated voice which makes it a pleasure to listen. Way to go Alison you've nailed it.👍🙏
I love these collaborations, K-Moon... you are helping me expand my world as I come out of a 14 years relationship (2 years ago) and navigate the waters with my DM... I wish I had known this while I was married to my ex-husband, but our time together had to come to an end. I am starting to learn you need to let men be who they are. Most of it it’s not about us...
Alison is dead on point with the relationship progression from a man's perspective. Great explanation.
I can’t even express how much this has changed me. I’m forever changed. Thank you thank you thank you❤️
I second the voice comment! You have such a beautiful way of speaking 😍
I have commented the same! Such a gorgeous voice.
We must be galacticly related our voices have a signature resonance. Listen to the Healing Song of Union to feel the vibration ✨🙏✨ruclips.net/video/WHkBW_tItRA/видео.html
Same! Tonight was my first time hearing her on another video and I immediately thought the same thing!!
Thank you ✨🙏✨ruclips.net/video/WHkBW_tItRA/видео.html
I assume you were referring to the song I attached 🙏ruclips.net/video/WHkBW_tItRA/видео.html
This is valuable & validating info.
Seems important to include some partnerships are navigating added issues like chemical dependency, sexual addictions, neglectful isolating depression, abusive anger/neglect from childhood traumas, or never given communication tools, along with growing up in some community's without healthy modles to fill in for the corruption of broken homes & family's where then guys & gals struggle stuck in the low behaviors more & more accepted in society that offers no accountability, or support to be guided out of those issues, especially when most of these folks are usually held overwhelmed/lost in low income/poverty & unable to afford 100's of dollars to access this knowledge/help. . .
We are all responsible for our own healing. The more we commit to our own healing and self love, the more we improve who we attract.
Who we attract tells us where we are and who we are being.
People with traumatic childhoods usually are codependent.
The Personal Development School RUclips channel is incredible!
Has helped more than multiple therapists. She really focuses on attachment styles and trauma, how to heal the issues from those. So empowering and life changing.
Therapy in a Nutshell is also a great channel.
I can say with absolute certainty that this has changed my life forever. This is mission here on earth... toxic masculinity and this exact topic. The fire inside of me is a raging inferno right now! Thank you so very much ladies!!
Ghosting, we use to call that head for the bunkers till the barrage is over. Took me years, as a male, to learn to be the rock in the stream and let the water of the storm to go around me.
Hi Warren, thank you for your posting this. 😊
Have you learned the skill of validation, to de-escalate and help the other party feel seen, heard? Validation is one of the most powerful, connecting tools, that men can learn to do. Instead of “fixing”, validating holds “space” for the other persons feelings/experience. In that, they feel incredibly loved, as the gift of having another bear witness to the pain/feeling, is hugely relieving and can feel like a safe harbor in the storm...the internal storm that’s coming out!
@@Alphacentauri819 I believe you missed the point. When you walk into a situation where your spouse is screaming at the top of her lungs at you, there is no validation possible at that point. Listening to screaming and accusations is not validation, you can only let the storm abate while not taking it personally. Once it abates, then you can start to talk.
@@warrensmith2902 I didn’t miss the point. It wasn’t communicated clearly in the first comment.
Barrage can mean different things to different people.
But yes, if you walk in blindly...say from
work & all you have greet you is yelling, I get it.
I also think that if you state your needs and boundaries, regarding that kind of
behavior...you can advocate for yourself and what works best for you. We always are co-creators in our relationships.
Many of the men I’ve worked with, will call a few complaints a barrage. Often times too, they missed the key points they could’ve validated earlier, before something turned into yelling.
Btw, key to note...anything hysterical is historical. Meaning if someone is elevated, a core wound likely has been hit.
If you know your partners attachment style, so much can be attended to differently.
As well as your own. Ideally both parties will be healing their core wounds and be sensitive to one another’s. Empowering and transformative.
Less yelling, less triggering, more
understanding and better connections.
@@Alphacentauri819 Ghosting has ruined dating. A lot of women are opting out now of dating, because of it...
I'm a 60 year old divorcee in Michigan I've been listening to Allison through Prager 4 years.
This was truly mind blowing... So much insight. Thank you for sharing. What a blessing!
Soooo many golden nuggets!!! And for the host- thank you for your sweetness, and authenticity. This was a heartwarming episode.
Wow, Alison really opens up a lot there in the questionnaire segment about the blossoming and halting of both sides within extended relationships
Touching the heart is what a balance man feels as in feelings or emotions,
Can't agree we feel it in our shoulders,perhaps that is just me !
This is golden. Thank you for sharing :) Alison is the embodyment of cuteness.
After 3 years I still come back to this video it’s so beautiful and I continue to learn more and more as time goes on ❤thank you so much for this video
Yes!! Your voice is like the vibrational equivalent of a soft pillow lol
Missed the live but listened to the replay! Fabulous!!👏🏻👏🏻 I have listened to her before needed this refresher!👏🏻👏🏻❤️
1:17:55
Lol, she and I said “absolutely” at the same time.
Men definitely do this - I have done it myself a few times.
I'm thinking this is happening to me now with my boyfriend. He's under stress and wants space apart to think. He's been in continual contact with his GF over the past 2 years and I've told him how it hurts me. So I'm thinking he doesn't feel he can make me happy and doing a soft-step out of the relationship.
Girl you are so right you are not lying
I've just finished listening to the video and am blown away by the information wow.. Thanks kmoon your videos have really helped me understand a lot about men, relationships and my twin flame journey, you really are a blessing.
Your guest is brilliant too 😊
Oops sent that to early wanted to say it's a true joy that she is in the world and she really contributes I have shared much of my knowledge I've gained from her with those around me keep going
I totally agree about Kmoon being an incredible ,I can't remember the word but facilitator, interpreter, absolutely!!
This woman is BRILLIANT
I also find your voice very soothing , I have missed you and Nicole so much 😿😢😔.
Two people standing in there own power make a awesome couple,
Exactly. I'm at a place in my life where I'm either a part of a Power Couple or I'm single working on myself so I can become part of a power couple.
I'MHO when misbehaving is being discussed we need to know what has triggered that behavior. Sometimes we need to internally introspect how did this come across to the other and perhaps it is just an instance of inappropriate communication with inappropriate tone which triggered the wrong response.. Miscommunication often causes misunderstanding. Tks Alison for your valuable insights.🙏
One guy that I truly loved told me he cared about me....I wasn’t sure what it meant, so I asked him what it meant to him....he told me he was going to answer me later because he was busy and it’s been almost two months since i haven’t heard from him 🤷🏻♀️ it doesn’t feel like he cares about my feelings lol
Polyana Martinez here is a healing Song of Union to soothe your beingness ✨🙏✨ruclips.net/video/WHkBW_tItRA/видео.html
Two months , ??
Robert Dowling he came back after couple of months with the same bs and I asked him to be honest and respect me if he wanted to be in my life, he disappeared again 😅🤷🏻♀️ it shows me that I am blessed because he can’t be honest and respect me. So he removed himself from my life
@@polyanamartinez ok thanks for update, next soul who comes into your heart will be a better version one who honours you .because you honour yourself first and foremost,
No need to repeat the lesson hey ! Be well
Robert Dowling Thank you so much for your message! Sending you love and light
Definitely the BEST voice on the planet momma 💁🏼♀️
Just wow. Thank you, both. That last part was like the best girlfriend conversation. 😄💖
This was incredible!! Some of the most valuable information I have learned. Thank you. 💖
Amazing, amazing, amazing. Immediately applicable, and also worth returning to time and again. THANKS i
Extra Ordinary relationships with ourselves that hit hard that was deep thank you
Beautiful interview. Thank you. Any chance you can get her back for a "what women secretly wish men knew" segment?
ahh...that's in her Understanding Women program :) She is pretty extraordinary, yes?
Thank u,did learn new things,v informative ,u have a beautiful voice friend, loads of blessings to u and Alison.
Sending lots of love to u on the new year,hopefully we will achieve balance with divine grace,blessings
this is wonderful and alison is brilliant !!!
Wow this is an amazing interview.
Wowie, an amazing interview! I’ve only come across you this past week K. and holy-moley, you’re the gift that just keeps giving;0). Thank you and great appreciation to Alison! The information was nothing short of divine:) xo
Armstong is awesome.
Wow miss k moon she is such a beautiful lady thank u guys for these words
What about when they say "they care about you" butttttt... he lacks financial security and professional stability making them unable to provide safety and security?? A lot of men out there may care for a woman buttttt...can only go to a certain level in the relationship.
Leave those men! 😏😒
Period!
That shitty hope does you nothin.. He has to be in his masculine energy of providing and protection to be the Man for you.. Please Run🙏🏻😒just RUN!! 🏃💨🏃💨
I wish someone had drilled this in my head earlier but anyway... I learnt my lesson and I'm happy now😌🌟💕🤗
I love alisons voice
Can't stop commenting miss k moon tumbs up
joan Thomas all good 😂 I see the comments rolling in. Grateful you’re enjoying the content. Welcome. 🤗
Thank you miss k moon and all the guys nuff blessing to all
I love the book by Gary Chapman, the five love languages. ❤️
Amen Amen
Do you know of any sites that will transcribe or add captions? ❤️❤️
It has captions now
Some of what she say my connection tell me especially i care for u
Do the 12 things apply to Twin Flames? Cause he’s gone MGTOW and I’m raising our child alone.
Claire Gillies every action has a reaction
Alison doesn’t go into the concept of Twin Flames. She discusses the ‘12 things’ in her online course Understanding Love & Commitment.
How do I become the woman of my dreams?
Heya - check out the LUX programs she offers for this work 🙏🌹
💙 thank you
What about if he CARES about me but he has a gf and they just moved in together???
When actions don't support words, words are bullshit.
The way you treat yourself will be the way others treat you.
To even ask this question, means you don’t value yourself enough. Therefore you don’t have the boundary to say “this is absolutely inappropriate, i deserve better”...and instead are unsure, and asking the question here.
I imagine you have an insecure attachment style, with core wounds that lead you to have unhealthy internal dialogue...and tolerate behavior from others that support that unhealthy internal dialogue.
The more we love and respect ourselves, the more we attract that.
The Personal Development School is amazing for healing attachment trauma. Attachment trauma is from childhood...if we don’t heal that, we will keep gravitating towards unhealthy relationships.
@@Alphacentauri819 in my case, we were bestfriends till he found a gf. We never were intimate because I cared about myself more, even if I secretly loves him. I stepped back, even from being bestfriends because I was already hurting. It has been 8 months now. He is dying to contact me but I am not contacting him. I have more self restraint. But my question is, why is he in denial? Is it because society dictates we should not be together? (age wise, money wise)
If they Wish wiomen knew, ir's and EASY fix: SPEAK.... or continue waiting for the fairies to Tell her.
Sorry, but I still can't find excuses for Not JUST Say So. There are little kids who would Laugh at such Nonsense TOO.
I like men so much better than women, because I'm more sympatico with the way men think. For me emotion is overrated. I find women put too much value in their feelings which tends to be fickle, neverending, and based on nothing concrete. I don't put much stock in my emotions just feel them. I place no value in my emotions other than as a means to decompress. I don't ask for validation of my feelings from other women or men.
@@theresag1969 your Myers Briggs is probably different from some of the women you’ve met might be an ISP or an ITP or one of the thinking personalities that are usually heavily masculine but men and women can be either you may not resonate with someone that’s an EFP or an INF for example in the Myers Briggsare usually the artist and the Travelers. These are the big picture thinkers not as concrete. Everyone has their value.
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Wow lol