Sorry to say this but all Indians aint lazy like Mani. I feel like he married her just for the citizenship. Yeah, it's true love has no boundary but the way Mani acts is seriously annoying. Though am an Indian i have never seen such a lazy guy. I feel pity to see his wife work hard. Well, she is more older and mature so she tries to negotiate in every situation. There's nothing wrong in helping your own family esp.ur wife. Moreover, they already have a baby. Such a shame to bring him out in this show as an Indian guy. Was actually excited & happy to see the Indian flag but seeing this particular episode i feel like he is bringing his own country down. I seriously hope Mani grows up and look upon his family well and get along with his wife without causing any issue in the future. Blessings to their family. Peace!! ✌ Love from India.
I had a feeling he took advantage of her too but I guess we'll never really know exactly. At least the mother in law seems really sweet and helps the wife.
Yes he really did make Indians look bad, i have a lot of indian friends and they certainly don't behave like him, on to the topic of marrying for citizenship, i've read news where men from Bangladesh, Pakistan, etc marry just to get citizenship, and who do they get married to the most, divorced, old or mentally ill women, in short women that are not desired and looked down by the society, korean men don't even give a second look at these women so immigrants from different countries chase these women, they immediately make them pregnant and after their citizenship is gained they bring their own wife from back home, you can just search the internet and you will find a lot of stories regarding that. These are the reasons why marriages between korean women and immigrant men from asian countries in general are reducing in an alarming rate.
Megumi Haruka yes that's what!! I also feel the same. The lady has already fallen for the trap. But as they have a small baby i really do hope that the things which we are concerned about aint true at all. But once again to all the people who are reading this comment... All the Indian guys aint same. There are still many good guys who are always ready to support their wife & family. 😊 peace! ✌
alright, I thought something was up when they first walked in the room at the beginning. she looked a little older but from the comments he want that citizenship. gotta watch the episode now
little star I think so too. He is just using her. Poor woman. He is lazy and egocentric. He believes he can become an actor. Yes, give him the role of a scumbag beaten up then fed to the sharks. What a dumb ass. There are so many good looking Koreans and foreign actors so dream on. I feel sorry for the wife. Age gap isn't really an issue. But when a man is lazy and relies on a woman to eat, that is then a not good indication
Don't know about Mani's feelings but his wife is a pure soul the way she is managing with her mother in law is awesome. The mother is the best person in their lives.
I feel like he is using her. and I hate that I feel that way. bc it feels like he is using this nice woman to get his family to come live in Korea. he may care for her to an extent but....
Lola A you guys are mean to judge. he owns his own business before he married her. plus, he managed to buy himself a house in India. he has dreams. hence, why would she use an old lady, his wife? love is unpredictable. and he did mention that many people don't like their relationship and judge them and it's people like you who do. as long as they love each other, they will eventually grow together. no marriage is perfect even by marrying Your Own race. marriage is a gamble, it's up to you to win it. we have no rights to judge them. plus I find this show biased toward Mani. there are more to good sides of him.
Lola A you guys are mean to judge. he owns his own business before he married her. plus, he managed to buy himself a house in India. he has dreams. hence, why would he use an old lady, his wife? love is unpredictable. and he did mention that many people don't like their relationship and judge them and it's people like you who do. as long as they love each other, they will eventually grow together. no marriage is perfect even by marrying Your Own race. marriage is a gamble, it's up to you to win it. we have no rights to judge them. plus I find this show biased toward Mani. there are more to good sides of him.
yeah these kinds of guys get rejected by all women in India so they go to a foreign country to find a girl and well he did...this women deserves a whole lot more
Yes, that's true. these Indians are sooooo rascists. They are doing this just to be able to stay in Korea considering they don't wanna return to their poor, dirty country
I’m an Indian and I was so happy to see such a story but he was totally ruining the image of Indians. The times have changed and many “Indian men” do help out their wives. I realised that he’s probably from one of the less developed areas so that’s why they are so backwards but atleast the grandma was considerate of the wife
This guy is the worst example of an indian guy. He clearly comes from a backward family which has a strong patriarchal setup where boys are treated like princes and look down upon women and household chores. He doesn’t represent the majority of indian men,but sadly such men in india do exist.
25 mins in and I'm already so annoyed! Being an Indian I was excited to see this episode but that guy is really annoying! Indian men don't do house work? Please it's changing! It's 2016 and it's high time you stop living in that era thinking "I'm a man and I shouldn't help my wife in housework".
It is changing, but slowly. I know many Indian parents who expect their daughters to know how to do with house work, but don't instill that same expectation on the boys. Definitely agree that men should always help around the house!
asmakyuelf as an Indian I can confirm that 80 percent of the men in India don't do housework. But this disparity in the country is good in one way. It has motivated me to work my behind off. qualified GMAT and got into a US business school. I am getting the heck out of this place
coming from india .....Its not something completely unseen of in India although it's no more common now. Almost in all the families that i know, men now share equal responsibility, be it kids or housework and this includes my 60 years old father, my 30 years old brother in law and my 83 years old uncle. Even my 2 year old nephew observes us and tries to help and we are so going to encourage him in this :D Men and Woman both are encouraged to pursue their career while very often kids and house in their absence is managed by grandparents and domestic help. Mani would have been given a wake up call by now ,his arrogance doesn't belong in today's time anywhere around this world.
Just because his House is under camera he is trying to behave little well....I bet he will treat her very bad once he is off the cameras in life...she should think about it seriously now for her and her daughter's future
The way he acted when she came to his work made him seem so suspicious. It looked like he was hiding something from his wife other then the fact that he doesn't seem to do anything. He definitely is hiding something
Both the man and his mum are trying to uphold patriarchy. I feel bad for the wife because she has to endure so many cultural differences moreover her husband isn't even helping her with the household chores or raising the baby.
@@tigerx22 the word used is chalaak, now I don't know how to exactly translate it but the word is normally used in a negative connotation, like 'too smart for her own good'
Quite disappointed with the character of husband. He is bringing his whole family to Korea by taking his wife for granted. I am an Indian and i feel ashamed to see him treating his wife like this.
It didn't feel like I was watching a Korean show 😂 I could understand the language without subtitles , I heard familiar Punjabi songs , mani's mother's reaction to non veg food , everything was so relatable and familiar
dinner is ready after 3 hours. are you kidding me? that shall take about less than 1 hour. and here my mother cooks rice ,a vegetable side dish, a fish curry, and a pulse dish within 1 and a half hour.
@@sandrayakob7077 may I know name of the dish please. I couldn't think of any indian dish which takes 6 hours to prepare and I eat (prepare) all styles of Indian food. But again india is so diverse i might not know dishes from all parts of India.
Diabetes and obesity are issues in desi communities, so feeding that over-sugared baby food to that baby is very irresponsible of the gran. However, she's a very caring, albeit very traditionally minded women but she is at fault for how her son is. Nothing good comes from over-spoiling your kids. Its the western side of me speaking, but seeing a baby not sleep in a cot but instead on a bed makes me nervous. Goodness is the husband a: spoilt, sexist, fatuous and useless around the home! Imagine being stuck with him for life ... it seems like a Hello Counsellor concern, really. Both of them are working parents, so he needs to partake more and stop acting like he's single teen boy. Thanks to the presenter with the glasses for telling him that bluntly! The wife seems to be taken advantage of and I don't blame her for having a vice, due to the stress.
Jeongmi you're so kind and patient especially with your lazy useless husband and your annoying mother in law. I was excited, because i know lot of indians, who are absolutatly kind, but this episode make me so upset...
Sikhism is NOT a combination of Hinduism and Islam. Like where did you get your facts?!? Yahoo answers? It's very disappointing that you got something like that very wrong. Sikhism has it own colours it doesn't combine two religions into one! that's sounds that's so absurd... just please get your facts right! I'm not here trying to disrespect Islam and Hinduism in anyway.
if they interviewed the guests to get answers they would have shown it, like they have done with previous guests when they talk about their religious beliefs.
she deserves better husband than lazy Mani.. I feel pity on her Jesus give them blessed life and senses to mani.. either he is mentally ill or irresponsible..
Wife is very hardworking but husband is very lazy... In india everyone is not like him,they are hardworking and sincere...honestly as an indian I'm felling bad ..poor her...
I'm Indian and I can say all Indian men are not lazy like him My dad was a veterinary scientist still he used to cook food for us on day offs and he cooks so good like my mom. He was so Hardworking and didn't believe in MYTHS (like - only woman do house chores) He did a lot of house chores when he used to get time and also spent a lot of time with us. We went to family trips and he always helped us like a real man, real husband and real father. He even loved animals and was caring. Yes like normal good father - he never SPOILED us. He was strict against wrong and always showed us the right way. His colleagues also loved and respected him. He is one of the best father. And MANI is not even 0.000001% like a father.
I just started watching this show and I truly admire the tenacity of the individuals who relocate to a foreign country like Korea. The people seem very sincere in supporting their families who are struggling and cohesively overcoming life’s obstacles. This episode though is “sad” and everyone or at least the majority can observe that this Indian man is using the lovely Korean woman?? It is not okay to use another person because abusing someone else’s sincere feelings and desire to protect the family as a whole is a dishonest and narcissistic thing to do…Beautiful Strong Korean Woman Run as fast as you can because the his intentions are not honorable! You can do this by yourself and be happier for it in the long run. Save yourself from the emotional and traumatic pain you’ll suffer if you allow him to get away with the continual abuse.. God Bless you and your beautiful little girl. 🤔💡🤺🙇🏻♀️
hai bb Nope you are wrong... We Indians are not generally like that...WE WORK REALLY HARD... But this person is such a shame to our country... He is lazy and we are not like that
I'm an Indian, we are truly hardworkers. we work like 12 - 14 hours day. This person must be spoiled from his upbringing. but we Indians arent like this guy. It's an old saying that Five Fingers aren't the same. Similarly people are hardworkers too and people are lazy too but also here Mani is working too. He is bit slow but he will shape himself according Korean Culture. His Mother and His wife are trying to gel up together which is an big relief. The ghee which she is feeding the baby is an purest form of oil from milk which we use in our daily food... I would like to enlighten everyone here that this Ghee is amazing for our bones. It even cures headaches when we inhale it a bit. Its a same concept a car can't run without gas (Petrol/Diesel) similarly our body needs oil internally. Ghee comes in good fat. Their baby is so cute. The baby will have super strong bones. One more thing Indian Ghee never makes anyone fat if taken in balance quantity. Guys kindly Dont misunderstand the Indians with just one video. Believe us we love Koreans and Korean culture so much. As our Indian and Korean culture have so many similarities.
I've seen a lot in The Bay Areas. They come here from H1B visa n now permanent residents and each family are popping out kid's per HH. Why is that ? Becuz of citizenship. If In India have over 1 billion ppl. Shouldn't they stop producing instead of mass producing. If they are so called well educated open minded ppl. They should've think first. They are just liked Hispanics who are on welfare n popping out kid's every year. I guess ppl want freebies n handouts.
Bingo Wingz you know why? Because people you worked with come from very poor family they’re mostly uneducated and comes from a very small village. So I think you shouldn’t judge a nation based on these people.
@@mehaktandon005 Indias are also racist. They are totally disrespectful to Asians looking people. And here in korea is also same,they have skin issues.
I never thought I'd get extremely stressed from an episode of this show. And yet here I am. Oh my. 😂 But srsly tho, I still hope things turn out well for this family. I think that would be the happiest situation for the daughter.
the guy here is sure acting immature and as a spoiled brat, but seriously Sikh people work hard a lot. not only Sikhs but 70%of men really sweat blood to take care of the family. I am really disappointed as this ITEM (Mani) is spoiling the image of Indian men. this case here is totally UNIQUE no way it's universal or applicable to all. hope Mani changes his mentality and becomes more responsible and hope both women get together well.
As a Bangladesh 🇧🇩 boy, I hate when Indian, Pakistan and Bangladesh men brag how they don’t do chores. I feel ashamed, not only me all the kids who live in cities of my age feel ashamed.
@maria Daniel really that potato dish is one of the simplest dishes that can be cooked in a jiffy Idk why she took 3 hours just to make some rotis and that curry
seriously, she deserves better husband, i guess he is just using her for citizenship.. how can he is so irresponsible and lazy?oh god, and he has so many excuses, what kind a man he is!
Gosh, I’m an Indian and I feel really embarrassed after seeing him.... All Indians are not like that thankfully I noticed that he’s more from the rural areas of India where they might not possess progressive thoughts...
@@heavenhaven7254 Indians aren't the most honest and clean people you say huh? Atleast they aren't racist like you. Don't generalise an entire country of 1 billion people based on the two you saw here. India is more than its curry but sadly your small ant sized brain will never understand that.
I have so much respect for the wife i mean she went n brought sum veg food for her mother in law.And the husband is rlly full of himself, he needs to grow up and take the responsibilty of wife n child that comes along with the marriage and i partly finds its his mum fault too who cud have tried to raise him as a responsible person when he was a child. N sum indian mom to this age share a belif that boys dont work while the mother slogs her ass all day in the kitchen making food or in the bathroom washing his school uniform. As an indian i feel embarassed by his behaviour . After watching this um really proud of my dad n brother .
Dinner made in 3 hours?!? Gosh, that's a lot of time!! I feel sorry for Jeongmi, cause now he wants to invite his sister. I wouldn't accept that at all
I am so angry.. the guy thinks he is still a kid and does whatever he wants. In Korea, it's expensive to raise a kid but he is just so unbothered. That's absolutely wrong to be honest
That's fact indian man don't do any household chores ..they r brought up with that mindset from childhood...but now I think some r changing 😅 hopefully...he is a typical indian man ...love from India 🇮🇳 ..nice video.
welcome to the totally skewed vision of india(ns): i think that dude and his mom are from some remote, conservative area in india and hell, my mom takes less than one hour for rice, two soups, and veggies aint no one that patriarchal in this day and age references: im indian...
Mostly rural indian men don't do housework because they are conservative but they do their jobs. This guy is too immature. He doesn't seem to do much either at job or home.
When they made this effect on Tawa to make bread! It’s really something! One time I went all the way to Brussel to buy it! Indian bread taste best when it made on that kind of pan!!!
+happylove luv ....Cute? Cute? The baby is obese! The mother in law is killing the baby by over feeding and the weirdest ingredients for baby food. All that sugar and fat! Is she for real! If the baby doesn't lose the fat right now he will have health problems very soon.
Charlotte Nixon You must Read about Indian Ghee this lady is using. Oil will never make you fat until its gives in balance qty. This is a requirement of baby now. Judging on the basis what the grandmother is feeding now.. is very wrong.
My cousin literally does all the housework himself, the younger generation don't depend on others. Can ya'll stop generalising us. We're dragging the boy (much deserved) but she married him for his looks too, people are biased here, clearly?
I want know about her whether she is with his husband are not now .. if anyone knows that plzzz replay.. I really think sad for her she is so innocent and genuine person....
im seeing some speculations about why he married her, but I feel like its not our business. they might actually be in love and happy, so I think we should all keep our assumptions to ourselves. although I do kind of feel bad for the way he behaves and do not agree with it at all;
This is the reason I will never get married.... Man act like kings in relationships.... If my son or husband will ask me water like Mani I would break his leg.... If still no change then I would break his second leg....
I mean my dad does most of the households . And my dad is 47 not all men are like him . And also till 6 months babies are just fed with mom's milk and the amount of sugar was too much my Indian self was shook
That is not Indian baby food. I have literally seen ny two nephews grow up...they are 3 and 7 years old. We never fed them this, I don't think milk is allowed until they are one years old and they usually drink nanpro for a very long time other than mother's milk. They start everything after one year atleast. Sugar and milk and i think she added custard powder which is so bad for a baby. This is only in her household.
my mom cooks so fastly and even my grandmother was so fast in cooking. All Indians are not slow at all. There are different kinds of ppl. And Indian food are my favorite. Really the spices are best for my taste. But I also like noodles and other kinds of food. Well West Bengal is my favorite state in India. And I'm from WB. My mom and family are so sweet like sweets of WB. The best thing is all the male members of my family are so Hardworking. My dad, grandfather and my uncle is so good in cooking. My uncle cooks better than my aunty lol😂 I miss my Dad and his cooking too. I live in a good family. ❤️
This man found the jackpot!!!! A wife that does everything for him and works! She doesn't need him......he's worthless. He does not look like he contributes very much to the relationship!
I am an indian and i hate the fact that boys ordering around girls to do things for them like what mani did in this vedio...and its still going on in 2020 also
Read an awful comment about he wanting citizenship how narrow minded can you be, but they're entitled to their opinion. I'm not so I'll say that I applaud this guy for knowing want he likes and what he wants hope that all his dreams come true. I don't think he'd go through all this and all the responsibilty for just citizenship more power to him. As for as he's wife she's older I ask myself why is that a problem? You see all the time American male celebrities in their 50's/60's marrying these young women in 20's/30's no one has a problem with that, but older women with a young guy people question their relationship. It's so lovely to see a mother-in-law and daugther-in-law get along so well that she's willing to have her sister-in-law come love generous people. People making negative comments about their releationship mind your ignorance when it comes to matters of the heart who are we to question what they feel for each other.
What does it matter the ethnicity of a person. We don't even know these people.I guess you've never heard the saying, "don't judge a book by its cover". When one is narrow minded in their thinking process, because of a person race/color it's just wrong!
paradiseana1 ana but at the end of the day it does matter , no matter who you sugar coat this situation but it's very clear that Indian men married her for cotizenship and he could hardly care about his family so if you feel like it's normal in your culture where ever you are from then I would say I am sorry for u that you turned up like This .
It’s 2021 still Indian moms does not allow their sons to do household works🙂. but we Indian girls get trained on complete household works from the young age and we also achieve our professional goals by balancing both 🤗.they expect girls to be an all rounder in all the works. And raise their sons like this. One sincere suggestion to mani is pls support ur wife, it’s not India to behave how you have bought up. It’s Korea so please your wife take up the responsibility equally. God bless ur family 🤗
He’s always walking by his mom’s side carrying a bag; but the wife carries their child most of the time in this video. The baby seems heavy and size is almost half the mom’s height. There’s no love and caring in the air between the husband and wife! He is bringing his sister to Korea because his mom is lonely? How about his poor wife feeling uncomfortable or feeling out of place? Either the wife loves him to death or she’s naive! Get out of that relationship Nuna! He’s very immature! He is milking your kindness and naivety. You’ll grow older fast with him! You deserve a better man! Men! I am so upset with his modus operandi!
My dear mother in law Its not women's duty to do household chores. U shldnot hav raised ua son saying that. When a person goes out of his country His behaviour represents his country Being an Indian I feel really bad watching this
Not even 3 minutes in and I'm already annoyed with the guy. Show some respect to your wife and daughter. I get the culture prefers sons over daughters, but be thankful for all you have.
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As expected the Indian grandma spoils her son... he needs to grow up!
Sorry to say this but all Indians aint lazy like Mani. I feel like he married her just for the citizenship. Yeah, it's true love has no boundary but the way Mani acts is seriously annoying. Though am an Indian i have never seen such a lazy guy. I feel pity to see his wife work hard. Well, she is more older and mature so she tries to negotiate in every situation. There's nothing wrong in helping your own family esp.ur wife. Moreover, they already have a baby. Such a shame to bring him out in this show as an Indian guy. Was actually excited & happy to see the Indian flag but seeing this particular episode i feel like he is bringing his own country down. I seriously hope Mani grows up and look upon his family well and get along with his wife without causing any issue in the future. Blessings to their family. Peace!! ✌ Love from India.
lazy Weah. yet owns a market right
I had a feeling he took advantage of her too but I guess we'll never really know exactly. At least the mother in law seems really sweet and helps the wife.
Yes he really did make Indians look bad, i have a lot of indian friends and they certainly don't behave like him, on to the topic of marrying for citizenship, i've read news where men from Bangladesh, Pakistan, etc marry just to get citizenship, and who do they get married to the most, divorced, old or mentally ill women, in short women that are not desired and looked down by the society, korean men don't even give a second look at these women so immigrants from different countries chase these women, they immediately make them pregnant and after their citizenship is gained they bring their own wife from back home, you can just search the internet and you will find a lot of stories regarding that. These are the reasons why marriages between korean women and immigrant men from asian countries in general are reducing in an alarming rate.
Megumi Haruka That is sad, this is why women (and men) have to have self esteem beyond their looks/age/health.
Megumi Haruka yes that's what!! I also feel the same. The lady has already fallen for the trap. But as they have a small baby i really do hope that the things which we are concerned about aint true at all. But once again to all the people who are reading this comment... All the Indian guys aint same. There are still many good guys who are always ready to support their wife & family. 😊 peace! ✌
I would rather stay single the whole of my life rather then marrying such man! He obviously wants citizenship~~
alright, I thought something was up when they first walked in the room at the beginning. she looked a little older but from the comments he want that citizenship. gotta watch the episode now
Lola A
little star I think so too. He is just using her. Poor woman. He is lazy and egocentric. He believes he can become an actor. Yes, give him the role of a scumbag beaten up then fed to the sharks. What a dumb ass. There are so many good looking Koreans and foreign actors so dream on. I feel sorry for the wife.
Age gap isn't really an issue. But when a man is lazy and relies on a woman to eat, that is then a not good indication
Don't know about Mani's feelings but his wife is a pure soul the way she is managing with her mother in law is awesome. The mother is the best person in their lives.
I feel like he is using her. and I hate that I feel that way. bc it feels like he is using this nice woman to get his family to come live in Korea. he may care for her to an extent but....
That's exactly how I felt! Throughout the episode I felt like the wife wanted to just get married and have a child.
Lola A you guys are mean to judge. he owns his own business before he married her. plus, he managed to buy himself a house in India. he has dreams. hence, why would she use an old lady, his wife? love is unpredictable. and he did mention that many people don't like their relationship and judge them and it's people like you who do. as long as they love each other, they will eventually grow together. no marriage is perfect even by marrying Your Own race. marriage is a gamble, it's up to you to win it. we have no rights to judge them. plus I find this show biased toward Mani. there are more to good sides of him.
Lola A you guys are mean to judge. he owns his own business before he married her. plus, he managed to buy himself a house in India. he has dreams. hence, why would he use an old lady, his wife? love is unpredictable. and he did mention that many people don't like their relationship and judge them and it's people like you who do. as long as they love each other, they will eventually grow together. no marriage is perfect even by marrying Your Own race. marriage is a gamble, it's up to you to win it. we have no rights to judge them. plus I find this show biased toward Mani. there are more to good sides of him.
With the way she apparently drinks a couple beers every night, I think she knows she's being used. It's so sad...
Lola A this indian guy what a weck
yeah these kinds of guys get rejected by all women in India so they go to a foreign country to find a girl and well he did...this women deserves a whole lot more
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I heard they eventually divorced (comment was somewhere here)
Yes, that's true. these Indians are sooooo rascists. They are doing this just to be able to stay in Korea considering they don't wanna return to their poor, dirty country
you want to be an actor? why don't you learn how to be a father!
3 hours?!?!?!!?
And a husband.
You are right
This guy is giving Indian's such a bad reputation in Korea
Christina Joseph yea totally. He looks super strict.
I’m an Indian and I was so happy to see such a story but he was totally ruining the image of Indians. The times have changed and many “Indian men” do help out their wives. I realised that he’s probably from one of the less developed areas so that’s why they are so backwards but atleast the grandma was considerate of the wife
Don't worry Indians already had a bad reputation and not only in Korea but in whole world
@veronika well i can see another victim of stereotypes here
This guy is the worst example of an indian guy. He clearly comes from a backward family which has a strong patriarchal setup where boys are treated like princes and look down upon women and household chores.
He doesn’t represent the majority of indian men,but sadly such men in india do exist.
25 mins in and I'm already so annoyed! Being an Indian I was excited to see this episode but that guy is really annoying! Indian men don't do house work? Please it's changing! It's 2016 and it's high time you stop living in that era thinking "I'm a man and I shouldn't help my wife in housework".
It is changing, but slowly. I know many Indian parents who expect their daughters to know how to do with house work, but don't instill that same expectation on the boys. Definitely agree that men should always help around the house!
i agree... indian men are changing. it is only the older people and some people in rural areas that think women should work at home only and men dont
Ikr... My guy friend know how to cook, clean and stuff and here I am being a lazy potato
asmakyuelf btw iam indian too but i agree with the fact that indian men don't do howswork only those men help who lives in cities. i just hate it
asmakyuelf as an Indian I can confirm that 80 percent of the men in India don't do housework. But this disparity in the country is good in one way. It has motivated me to work my behind off. qualified GMAT and got into a US business school. I am getting the heck out of this place
man this guy gives no respect to his wife or daughter what a waste .i hope she would be fine just with her daughter
coming from india .....Its not something completely unseen of in India although it's no more common now. Almost in all the families that i know, men now share equal responsibility, be it kids or housework and this includes my 60 years old father, my 30 years old brother in law and my 83 years old uncle. Even my 2 year old nephew observes us and tries to help and we are so going to encourage him in this :D
Men and Woman both are encouraged to pursue their career while very often kids and house in their absence is managed by grandparents and domestic help.
Mani would have been given a wake up call by now ,his arrogance doesn't belong in today's time anywhere around this world.
Omg, poor the wife. She deserves a better man
Hajime Soujo , she is old lady lol
@@fayazkimsyed7898 what's wrong if she is an old lady. What's funny about her age? Is it something laughable? Everyone deserves happiness.
She’s lovely. I hope he realises he’s lucky
Damn!! he's a total slacker, his wife deserves better.
I would prefer to stay single than married to someone like Mani.
He’s an idiot. Opportunit
I agree a lot of you about the mother in law. She appears to be very sweet. It was so nice that she said she really likes her daughter in law.
The wife works harder than the husband ohhhh sooooooo sad.....
Just because his House is under camera he is trying to behave little well....I bet he will treat her very bad once he is off the cameras in life...she should think about it seriously now for her and her daughter's future
The way he acted when she came to his work made him seem so suspicious. It looked like he was hiding something from his wife other then the fact that he doesn't seem to do anything. He definitely is hiding something
Such as infidelity???
for some odd reason, this video is giving me depressing and dark vibe :(
7:00 "This is how the elderly sleep in India".😂 No! not at all. It might be just her personal taste.
Hahahahahaha I thought the same! 😂
I'm from India and my grandma and grandpa don't sleep like that
Both the man and his mum are trying to uphold patriarchy.
I feel bad for the wife because she has to endure so many cultural differences moreover her husband isn't even helping her with the household chores or raising the baby.
This was 4 years ago. I hope he is a grown up by now 😑
Hopefully they divorced! She doesn't deserve that
I feel really bad for this woman. He obviously married for the citizenship and security
Mother-in-law: My daughter-in-law is too smart (negative connotation)
Subtitle: I really like my daughter-in-law 😂😂😂😂😂
Too smart is a negative connotation??
@@tigerx22 the word used is chalaak, now I don't know how to exactly translate it but the word is normally used in a negative connotation, like 'too smart for her own good'
@@elzish it means cleverly clever. Haha 😆
@@tigerx22 cunning
Chalak word is never positive if used to describe a person especially a MIL for her DIL or vice versa.
Quite disappointed with the character of husband. He is bringing his whole family to Korea by taking his wife for granted. I am an Indian and i feel ashamed to see him treating his wife like this.
this marriage was for citizenship 😂😂😂 lol
It didn't feel like I was watching a Korean show 😂 I could understand the language without subtitles , I heard familiar Punjabi songs , mani's mother's reaction to non veg food , everything was so relatable and familiar
"My son works hard" pffttt bunch of bs, he got his ass glued to the sofa 24/7
I feel for her so much she is so caring towards him and her mother in law..she deserves so much better than him...he is such a pain in ass
dinner is ready after 3 hours. are you kidding me? that shall take about less than 1 hour. and here my mother cooks rice ,a vegetable side dish, a fish curry, and a pulse dish within 1 and a half hour.
malayali spotted
Haha
my roommate is indian, takes her six hours to make the same dish. but its very tasty
@@sandrayakob7077 may I know name of the dish please. I couldn't think of any indian dish which takes 6 hours to prepare and I eat (prepare) all styles of Indian food. But again india is so diverse i might not know dishes from all parts of India.
Diabetes and obesity are issues in desi communities, so feeding that over-sugared baby food to that baby is very irresponsible of the gran. However, she's a very caring, albeit very traditionally minded women but she is at fault for how her son is. Nothing good comes from over-spoiling your kids.
Its the western side of me speaking, but seeing a baby not sleep in a cot but instead on a bed makes me nervous.
Goodness is the husband a: spoilt, sexist, fatuous and useless around the home! Imagine being stuck with him for life ... it seems like a Hello Counsellor concern, really. Both of them are working parents, so he needs to partake more and stop acting like he's single teen boy. Thanks to the presenter with the glasses for telling him that bluntly!
The wife seems to be taken advantage of and I don't blame her for having a vice, due to the stress.
He is a jerk , why did she fall for him . She is a sweetheart , I wish her to be truly happy.
the mother in law is such a sweetheart 😍 she is goals shes super nice!
Beware!!. Once the whole family comes to live there ,you will be out numbered. You are a lovely lady with a heart of gold.
I bet he wanted citizenship 😂
that's just sad. but not all of our men are like that... a few like this excites everywhere..
That s u r banned in EU and US etc.
Sunil Ipe
Lmao that’s not Punjabi r u talking about muslims? Get some education.
@@keralanaturelover196 ..u r a typical indian troll....get a life.
😝😝😝😝
Jeongmi you're so kind and patient especially with your lazy useless husband and your annoying mother in law.
I was excited, because i know lot of indians, who are absolutatly kind, but this episode make me so upset...
Rahila A.S what made u think dat she's annoying?
LATA RAJ she spoiled his son . Such annoying.
Mother in law is not annoying i feel
is there any update on this couple ?? would love to hear that she left him. she deserves better :(
If i m her long time i file for a divorce
Lol yea i would celebrate for her divorce too. She deserves better
Even I'm here for an update 😃 only need to hear abt a divorce 😃
@@anianu-nm9ql they haven't divorced and are well off fuc u
Sikhism is NOT a combination of Hinduism and Islam. Like where did you get your facts?!? Yahoo answers? It's very disappointing that you got something like that very wrong. Sikhism has it own colours it doesn't combine two religions into one! that's sounds that's so absurd... just please get your facts right! I'm not here trying to disrespect Islam and Hinduism in anyway.
I assume the writers get their facts from interviewing the guests
Ravneet Bains Sikhism is a religion so is islam and Hinduism
Stating the obvious there... I never said Islam and Hinduism is not a religion, I said Sikhism is not a combination of the two.
if they interviewed the guests to get answers they would have shown it, like they have done with previous guests when they talk about their religious beliefs.
omg im muslim and i was surprised when they said that too... i was p sure they were mistaken. thanks for clearing that up :O
she deserves better husband than lazy Mani.. I feel pity on her Jesus give them blessed life and senses to mani.. either he is mentally ill or irresponsible..
This episode made me more stressful than giving me chills. I feel bad for Jeongmi.
I love how grandmother took care of child❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Poor korean lady :(( I can sense her hardships and struggles living with him. Divorce now
Wife is very hardworking but husband is very lazy... In india everyone is not like him,they are hardworking and sincere...honestly as an indian I'm felling bad ..poor her...
That lady really deserves a better man...... I feel ashamed as an Indian 😐
He used her really well
I'm Indian and I can say all Indian men are not lazy like him
My dad was a veterinary scientist still he used to cook food for us on day offs and he cooks so good like my mom. He was so Hardworking and didn't believe in MYTHS (like - only woman do house chores)
He did a lot of house chores when he used to get time and also spent a lot of time with us. We went to family trips and he always helped us like a real man, real husband and real father. He even loved animals and was caring. Yes like normal good father - he never SPOILED us. He was strict against wrong and always showed us the right way. His colleagues also loved and respected him.
He is one of the best father.
And MANI is not even 0.000001% like a father.
I just started watching this show and I truly admire the tenacity of the individuals who relocate to a foreign country like Korea. The people seem very sincere in supporting their families who are struggling and cohesively overcoming life’s obstacles. This episode though is “sad” and everyone or at least the majority can observe that this Indian man is using the lovely Korean woman?? It is not okay to use another person because abusing someone else’s sincere feelings and desire to protect the family as a whole is a dishonest and narcissistic thing to do…Beautiful Strong Korean Woman Run as fast as you can because the his intentions are not honorable! You can do this by yourself and be happier for it in the long run. Save yourself from the emotional and traumatic pain you’ll suffer if you allow him to get away with the continual abuse.. God Bless you and your beautiful little girl. 🤔💡🤺🙇🏻♀️
Maybe keep her mil ;)
as a south asian myself, we are not all the same so dont generalise.
F K indians are generally like that
hai bb Nope you are wrong... We Indians are not generally like that...WE WORK REALLY HARD... But this person is such a shame to our country... He is lazy and we are not like that
I'm an Indian, we are truly hardworkers. we work like 12 - 14 hours day. This person must be spoiled from his upbringing. but we Indians arent like this guy. It's an old saying that Five Fingers aren't the same. Similarly people are hardworkers too and people are lazy too but also here Mani is working too. He is bit slow but he will shape himself according Korean Culture. His Mother and His wife are trying to gel up together which is an big relief. The ghee which she is feeding the baby is an purest form of oil from milk which we use in our daily food... I would like to enlighten everyone here that this Ghee is amazing for our bones. It even cures headaches when we inhale it a bit. Its a same concept a car can't run without gas (Petrol/Diesel) similarly our body needs oil internally. Ghee comes in good fat. Their baby is so cute. The baby will have super strong bones. One more thing Indian Ghee never makes anyone fat if taken in balance quantity. Guys kindly Dont misunderstand the Indians with just one video. Believe us we love Koreans and Korean culture so much. As our Indian and Korean culture have so many similarities.
I've seen a lot in The Bay Areas. They come here from H1B visa n now permanent residents and each family are popping out kid's per HH. Why is that ? Becuz of citizenship. If In India have over 1 billion ppl. Shouldn't they stop producing instead of mass producing. If they are so called well educated open minded ppl. They should've think first. They are just liked Hispanics who are on welfare n popping out kid's every year. I guess ppl want freebies n handouts.
Bingo Wingz you know why? Because people you worked with come from very poor family they’re mostly uneducated and comes from a very small village. So I think you shouldn’t judge a nation based on these people.
@@mehaktandon005 Indias are also racist. They are totally disrespectful to Asians looking people. And here in korea is also same,they have skin issues.
@@TienNguyen-rk8tn you sure did a Wikipedia reasearch.
@@urmickm3714 indians are also asian ma'am
I never thought I'd get extremely stressed from an episode of this show. And yet here I am. Oh my. 😂 But srsly tho, I still hope things turn out well for this family. I think that would be the happiest situation for the daughter.
Mother in law is so hardworking whole day like a maid
that baby food makes me worry as an indian
Lol-
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Woh to banana custard banaya dadiji ne Baby food ke naam pe
Unlike any baby food I have seen in India.
I swearr 😂😂😂
God I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed there’s something iffy about him. She deserved better :(
the guy here is sure acting immature and as a spoiled brat, but seriously Sikh people work hard a lot. not only Sikhs but 70%of men really sweat blood to take care of the family. I am really disappointed as this ITEM (Mani) is spoiling the image of Indian men.
this case here is totally UNIQUE no way it's universal or applicable to all.
hope Mani changes his mentality and becomes more responsible and hope both women get together well.
I didn't feel any love vibes between them...he just did it for the sake of his establishment in korea
As a Bangladesh 🇧🇩 boy, I hate when Indian, Pakistan and Bangladesh men brag how they don’t do chores. I feel ashamed, not only me all the kids who live in cities of my age feel ashamed.
As a Bangladeshi-Filipina, I agree with that 🤗
3 hours she only ooked aloo matar and roti seriously i,m a man and i can cook that in half an hour.
Woww really in half an hour
I bet the potato would be undercooked.
She's old and must be tired by doing all the chores.
it gets cooked, believe me XD
@maria Daniel really that potato dish is one of the simplest dishes that can be cooked in a jiffy
Idk why she took 3 hours just to make some rotis and that curry
She's elderly
Years later I still feel sad for this lady :/ Hope she's doing alright now
I think they got divorced cause I saw that his facebook status is listed as single.
@@soysuva12 what’s his account?
@@soysuva12 really? That's a good news. Hope his ex wife find new happiness now.
seriously, she deserves better husband, i guess he is just using her for citizenship.. how can he is so irresponsible and lazy?oh god, and he has so many excuses, what kind a man he is!
Hey! Try 'acting' like a Father!
ERL akiki
Gosh, I’m an Indian and I feel really embarrassed after seeing him.... All Indians are not like that thankfully
I noticed that he’s more from the rural areas of India where they might not possess progressive thoughts...
@@heavenhaven7254 Indians aren't the most honest and clean people you say huh?
Atleast they aren't racist like you.
Don't generalise an entire country of 1 billion people based on the two you saw here.
India is more than its curry but sadly your small ant sized brain will never understand that.
@@poojaahuja3382 ur righttt
I have so much respect for the wife i mean she went n brought sum veg food for her mother in law.And the husband is rlly full of himself, he needs to grow up and take the responsibilty of wife n child that comes along with the marriage and i partly finds its his mum fault too who cud have tried to raise him as a responsible person when he was a child. N sum indian mom to this age share a belif that boys dont work while the mother slogs her ass all day in the kitchen making food or in the bathroom washing his school uniform. As an indian i feel embarassed by his behaviour . After watching this um really proud of my dad n brother .
Dinner made in 3 hours?!? Gosh, that's a lot of time!!
I feel sorry for Jeongmi, cause now he wants to invite his sister. I wouldn't accept that at all
Elisa Risconti This grandma cannot cook maybe cause she physically ill. The dishes that she made can be done within an hour.
I am so angry.. the guy thinks he is still a kid and does whatever he wants. In Korea, it's expensive to raise a kid but he is just so unbothered. That's absolutely wrong to be honest
That's fact indian man don't do any household chores ..they r brought up with that mindset from childhood...but now I think some r changing 😅 hopefully...he is a typical indian man ...love from India 🇮🇳 ..nice video.
Mani is sooooo annoying, poor Jeongmi, she really deserves better, hope her daughter will be a reliable and good one when she grows up.
welcome to the totally skewed vision of india(ns):
i think that dude and his mom are from some remote, conservative area in india and hell, my mom takes less than one hour for rice, two soups, and veggies
aint no one that patriarchal in this day and age
references: im indian...
I love the way she rolls up her hair in a bun
You have a wonderful mother in law, you're lucky, it's a bless on a hard day or rough times....
No~ not all Indian baby food are like this. Yes, we use ground rice, milk but don't add so much sugar. Also we don't add fruits.
I'll seriously burst into years if he does something wrong to her sweet wife
Mostly rural indian men don't do housework because they are conservative but they do their jobs. This guy is too immature. He doesn't seem to do much either at job or home.
When they made this effect on Tawa to make bread! It’s really something! One time I went all the way to Brussel to buy it! Indian bread taste best when it made on that kind of pan!!!
I think this just shows a very traditional Indian mother in law most mother in laws have become way more adaptive and open minded
I am an Indian and I feel like this video just made India look bad honestly this guy doesn't deserve a kid and such a mature wife
I'm Indian but I'm shocked too with the baby food with lots of sugar😂. I would be shock even if slightly of sugar😂
the baby is super cuteeeeeee
+happylove luv ....Cute? Cute? The baby is obese! The mother in law is killing the baby by over feeding and the weirdest ingredients for baby food. All that sugar and fat! Is she for real! If the baby doesn't lose the fat right now he will have health problems very soon.
Charlotte Nixon You must Read about Indian Ghee this lady is using. Oil will never make you fat until its gives in balance qty. This is a requirement of baby now. Judging on the basis what the grandmother is feeding now.. is very wrong.
My cousin literally does all the housework himself, the younger generation don't depend on others. Can ya'll stop generalising us.
We're dragging the boy (much deserved) but she married him for his looks too, people are biased here, clearly?
I want know about her whether she is with his husband are not now .. if anyone knows that plzzz replay.. I really think sad for her she is so innocent and genuine person....
Me too lol. Anyone knows their social media?
The only sane adult is the mother in law..she is so sweet.
im seeing some speculations about why he married her, but I feel like its not our business. they might actually be in love and happy, so I think we should all keep our assumptions to ourselves.
although I do kind of feel bad for the way he behaves and do not agree with it at all;
Nipunta well said
seriously my head ached all the time the guy came on the screen, which was basically all the time
This is the reason I will never get married....
Man act like kings in relationships.... If my son or husband will ask me water like Mani I would break his leg.... If still no change then I would break his second leg....
😂😂😂🤣🤣
I also never want to get married
I mean my dad does most of the households . And my dad is 47 not all men are like him . And also till 6 months babies are just fed with mom's milk and the amount of sugar was too much my Indian self was shook
That is not Indian baby food. I have literally seen ny two nephews grow up...they are 3 and 7 years old. We never fed them this, I don't think milk is allowed until they are one years old and they usually drink nanpro for a very long time other than mother's milk. They start everything after one year atleast. Sugar and milk and i think she added custard powder which is so bad for a baby. This is only in her household.
my mom cooks so fastly and even my grandmother was so fast in cooking. All Indians are not slow at all.
There are different kinds of ppl.
And Indian food are my favorite. Really the spices are best for my taste. But I also like noodles and other kinds of food. Well West Bengal is my favorite state in India. And I'm from WB. My mom and family are so sweet like sweets of WB.
The best thing is all the male members of my family are so Hardworking. My dad, grandfather and my uncle is so good in cooking. My uncle cooks better than my aunty lol😂
I miss my Dad and his cooking too. I live in a good family. ❤️
@ 10.17 makes me shiver...grandma put the baby so near to the edge of the bed....and the bed is so high
I am ashamed as an Indian... But Indian moms love their sons so much that they will do everything for them. 🙄
Who else is watching this in 2019😊
2020......COVID19..😷🏠.
@HWAA G Yes.....🤣🤣
This man found the jackpot!!!! A wife that does everything for him and works! She doesn't need him......he's worthless. He does not look like he contributes very much to the relationship!
I am an indian and i hate the fact that boys ordering around girls to do things for them like what mani did in this vedio...and its still going on in 2020 also
Read an awful comment about he wanting citizenship how narrow minded can you be, but they're entitled to their opinion. I'm not so I'll say that I applaud this guy for knowing want he likes and what he wants hope that all his dreams come true. I don't think he'd go through all this and all the responsibilty for just citizenship more power to him. As for as he's wife she's older I ask myself why is that a problem? You see all the time American male celebrities in their 50's/60's marrying these young women in 20's/30's no one has a problem with that, but older women with a young guy people question their relationship. It's so lovely to see a mother-in-law and daugther-in-law get along so well that she's willing to have her sister-in-law come love generous people. People making negative comments about their releationship mind your ignorance when it comes to matters of the heart who are we to question what they feel for each other.
+paradiseana1 ana ... Bet you're an Indian!
What does it matter the ethnicity of a person. We don't even know these people.I guess you've never heard the saying, "don't judge a book by its cover". When one is narrow minded in their thinking process, because of a person race/color it's just wrong!
paradiseana1 ana but at the end of the day it does matter , no matter who you sugar coat this situation but it's very clear that Indian men married her for cotizenship and he could hardly care about his family so if you feel like it's normal in your culture where ever you are from then I would say I am sorry for u that you turned up like This .
@@kangtavenus1236 so then why does he have a child
@@charlottenixon1471 absurd
This relationship feels so stressful. I really hope Mani is simply misunderstood and in it for all the right reasons.
Most of the comments are on the husband so I'll comment about the baby.. Adorable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Too fat. Feeding an infant sugar is the dumbest thing ever.
mani is the old version of Indian male...now a days Men in India are more considerate
Neemesha Mh oh there are still man like him India... A lot actually
I want to know this 2 couple still live together
It’s 2021 still Indian moms does not allow their sons to do household works🙂. but we Indian girls get trained on complete household works from the young age and we also achieve our professional goals by balancing both 🤗.they expect girls to be an all rounder in all the works. And raise their sons like this.
One sincere suggestion to mani is pls support ur wife, it’s not India to behave how you have bought up. It’s Korea so please your wife take up the responsibility equally. God bless ur family 🤗
He’s always walking by his mom’s side carrying a bag; but the wife carries their child most of the time in this video. The baby seems heavy and size is almost half the mom’s height. There’s no love and caring in the air between the husband and wife! He is bringing his sister to Korea because his mom is lonely? How about his poor wife feeling uncomfortable or feeling out of place? Either the wife loves him to death or she’s naive! Get out of that relationship Nuna! He’s very immature! He is milking your kindness and naivety. You’ll grow older fast with him! You deserve a better man! Men! I am so upset with his modus operandi!
She seems more like his servant than wife..... God bless her😢
My dear mother in law
Its not women's duty to do household chores. U shldnot hav raised ua son saying that.
When a person goes out of his country His behaviour represents his country
Being an Indian I feel really bad watching this
Not even 3 minutes in and I'm already annoyed with the guy. Show some respect to your wife and daughter. I get the culture prefers sons over daughters, but be thankful for all you have.
I want to say that all the Indian that were in this episode were really.........
Just the travelling agent were genuine and good