"Economically unattractive"? If a woman has a successful career, that's "Economically unattractive "? I find women who are compulsive buyers snd big spenders "economically unattractive". If my wife has a good paying job, I'll pay ALL the bills with my wages and take half of her wages FOR ME. If she makes more than me, SHE can pay the bills and I'll give her half my wages FOR HER.
I used to be attracted to nurses but I had to break that attraction because most of them have huge students loans they expect you to help pay cuz now we a "couple"
@@neyenice I came across a lot of nurses in my single days. Just about all of them were doing well financially. I still got a thing for nurses so I married one 😄 🤣
@@Polytroutwhat’s yours is hers but what’s hers isn’t yours. Also women hold 2/3 of the nations college debt and most probably have a useless or low earning degree
He is teaching one of sciences they never intended for the slaves. The science of BUSINESS The science of WAR The science of MATING 👈 may have gotten him in trouble.
God rest his soul. 36 years I've been on this earth and up until 34 I had it all backwards. It's still mindblowing to me how I changed my mindset/attitude on certain things he talked about and my whole life literally changed. I owe my relationship of 2 amazing years and recent engagement to this man right here♥️🙏🏽
Oh, he definitely told them🧊 They just didn't listen! Hence, the rise of passport bros🧊 He was their last hope🧊 No one else as skilled, yet concerned is coming for them🧊 The are stuck with The Blizzard King and Ice Lords! Winter is here🥶🥶🥶 Keep it Icy
Met my wife while she was working at a factory. Men turn down women for being economically unattractive, but it’s for different reasons. Women look at a man’s future income potential. We look at her past financial decisions. Because for us, it’s not about the money coming in, it’s about the money going out.
@@cjsteward4250 i would suggest men never marry since y'all think it's a burden. BTW, most women work today and many with their own aspirations and careers..so she can pay her debt.
@SuperTruthful What are you talking about? There are doctors who are practicing their field who still haven't paid their college debt. If and when they get married most expect their husband to help or pay off that debt. Then after a certain amount of time for whatever reasons that same woman will file for divorce after being took care of by said husband.
My husband and I eloped the day before he left for basic training as a private in the Army. I did my 30 years raising my autistic sons while I supported my Army husband for all 30 years plus numerous deployments until he retired as a Lieutenant Colonel. Now I am 52 years old and getting my PhD in Criminology so that I can teach certain subjects like interrogation techniques, which I’ve been studying for the last seven years. (I’m currently receiving my Private Investigation license) My kids are grown. And they feel like they are ready to be independent. I’m not slowing down I’m gearing up!
He's not saying Marriage and College don't mix. He's saying, "Ladies, be SMART about your choice of college and major. Treat it like an INVESTMENT not a hobby. If you have/acquire skills you will be able to work and be a mom. If all you have is debt to show for your college education, you're losing."
That’s a good point. Or major in something that will help the hubby or family owned business. Like accounting. Or something that can bring in some money working part time as supplemental income like accounting. Or something that you can go back to if hubby loses job, like accounting.
@@deandrealmc a woman shouldn’t get offended when he presents a prenup before marriage or ask for a his partner for a paternity test at conception. Equal assurance 🎯
@@deandrealmc Where's the logic in going into a union that is meant to last a lifetime planning for it to not work? If marriage was treated the way it is supposed to, then there would be no need to have a plan b.
I'm 58 and have turned down several women in the last few years for serious relationships because of all the debt they have. Still carrying student loan and IRS debt looking for marriage. Naw, I'm debt free. Can't do it. Almost 50 buying expensive cars over the yrs but neglected student loan debt.
@@yaadythommo5548 any man that was born 1988 on ward has at least $20,000 or more student loan debt. Yall didn’t pay your way through school and neither did your parents… either that… or yall went on grant or didn’t qualify to get into college….. men didn’t decide to not go to college because they were more “financially savvy”….. they do it because they have no other choice
@@curlygirl9023no cap..Nearly every woman in my life(and this includes family.. friends.. acquaintance etc)have a shit load of debt . I know several men (friends and fam) that are debt free or close to it.
He's so right!! It's so expensive to go to college knowing you want to stay home. You can have similar experiences without going to college. You can learn almost anything online. Don't go into debt if you can help it ladies. ❤
Yes, just be dumb and uneducated so you are easily manipulated and controlled by these men whose egos will get hurt if you aren’t beneath them in every aspect of life. Got it.
Yo, my ex-wife did that and they TOOK MY (our) tax return because of student debt! I had to file as an injured spouse. I didn't have student loans. It hurts us...
Even in death he speaks the truth. There is only *the truth.* Not her truth, or my truth, or your truth. That is what ran-through's manifest in their broken ass minds.
I met a 27 year old black woman a while back and I was 31 at the time and she had it all. Beauty, loved to work out, all about God but her student debt alone was $120k. When KS said economically unattractive, that hit home. I found a wonderful woman who is debt free now and God is good!
Subway will always be hiring RIP KS. Take care is a generic term women use for forming masculine traits, earning high income to live the dream and roll around the world balling and ultimately becoming unattractive to men economically and for a relationship. You can take care of yourself with a roof over your head etc working a modest 9-5 while working to find and fit with a man who will look after you and children. You get taken care of by law as well as the children during marriage and also if it doesn’t work out, so the other excuse women make about being left high and dry is cap too.
Crazy how black men are encouraging black women to not pursue and education. Stay dumb ladies. They’d rather marry a beautiful fool it keeps their brittle egos in line.
Worked hard,went to Uni,degree,became a teacher, teaching high school Married, 4 kids..all grown up now, still teaching n helping in the income.... So ,if know our worth n values from our traditional parents... We can hv the best of both worlds.... Fulfillment in family and work... Am a vice principal now Of course had to sacrifice alot when the kids were growing n schooling Father retired 7 years now, but becoz im working, the family financial is secure From a small town in Malaysia Western black women.....pls grow out of ur mindset that U want everything... AM THANKFUL ...IM ASIAN..
Women are the original teachers and everything I have learned I intened to pass on to my children so they wont have to pay the prices I paid to gain that knowledge.
According to Kevin, Its because feminist misguided most women into believing that a career is what they truly need instead of a man or starting a family. But they dont dare give out the important details which is that most women dont actually want a career. Or that the best time for a woman to start a family is in their 20s nor that if they ever do get a career that is fulfilling, that by the time they reach the top of their career they will technically be too old to start a family.
You bought into the feminist lies. Feminism destoys everything. I hope you’re not a feminist anymore and don’t teach that shit to your kids. Especially if you have girls
@fjl05 Let's not put the blame at the feet of feminism. One never knows what the future holds. The man leaves, divorces, falls ill or disabled, or dies( God Forbid) she needs to be ready. That said, college is too expensive. It used to be doable.
@@jonbourjois4308 and that is because men have pretty much stagnated and are not pursuing college or a good career anymore. Women outnumber men when seeking higher education. Whose fault is that? It is not the women’s fault that men are falling behind in that aspect but I will get to where they ARE at fault in a minute. Men need to do better, especially if they are going to be leaders or providers or whatever. The only thing women are at fault of in this situation is that there are so many raising children alone, and boys need a strong male role model to teach them how to be men and how to control their emotions to think systematically and logically. These single mothers tend to teach their daughters to be independent and to not rely on men, either from actual teaching or from the girl’s observing this behavior. They then turn around and coddle their sons. They try to teach them kindness towards women and to not be reserved with their emotions. The teaching gets lost in translation because they hear her say things to her friends about “men ain’t 💩” and they do not see a permanent male figure in the house. These boys do not get to witness male leadership and they tend to think that there is no need for a lasting relationship. This gets us to where we are now…. These boys grow up with no leadership ability and a skewed and toxic view of what a relationship looks like. They consider a relationship as being solely transactional with the “what do you bring to the table” nonsense. Women don’t trust them to try to lead because these boys don’t seem to be capable of it.
@@jonbourjois4308 and that is why women are becoming the breadwinners more then ever because they invest in education, it went from only 5% of households (women r breadwinners) in the 70s to becoming 16% of households now
I adore Kevin, he is spot on all the time. I believe a good income man should have a stay home mother raising their kids. Never to excluded many ways to supplement an income by working from home.
My ex-wife would not effectively pursue her 6 figure income b/c she wanted to be a stay home Mom. So I'm supposed to continue to work 80 + hours a week and give up every minor and major luxury so you can sit on her ass and tell me all the things I NEEDED to do to make her happy. Well, I divorced her and now I'M HAPPY 😅
Dale my man you said a mouth full. Man I agree with you I need a women to help me and watch my back and to be happy with whatever we have. If I want to push then she can help push me. I need to trust her with everything if I feel as if I can come home and the bank account is cleaned out or the entire house is packed up and moved from under me I can’t be authentic so we can’t do it. I’m not sure these women exist anymore in the world we live in. For sure not in America.
Well no need to work 80 hours that’s to much just do with much less the stuff we buy is overrated anyway we don’t need most of it to be happy but I do get what you are saying my wife was stay at home and she still walked out on me and I’m in your position I only work one job and I take off a lot of time to rest my body and go places I also dress much better because all the money I have is my money not our money. But I was happy either way. Most women can’t think well. I’ve heard them say if I wanted to keep working then I would have gotten a roommate ok so then what you are saying to me is you don’t love me all I am is a free life for you. Ok well then I’m out get your ass back to work and get a roommate and the two of you use each other. Trust me my man I do understand you.
So well said. My 19 year old daughter is busting her but to get through college debt free (we are helping as we can- but she’s absolutely committed to no loans, no debt), she’s getting her real estate license, and working towards buying her first investment property. Her plan is to be educated and invested before she is married. Completely debt free at marriage and free to stay home with children when that time comes, while still building a real estate investment portfolio. There were a few areas of study she was interested in- but she wants to be wifed and at home with kids more than anything so it didn’t make sense to her to get an expensive education she didn’t really want a career in long term. If she still wants it after the kids are grown she’ll have another 20-30 years afterwards to build a different career if she wants, and let the real estate fund it.
Growing up I never expected to be a housewife or marry someone who'd take care of more than 50% of the bills. So I became a lawyer not just because I like the work but because with dual incomes, my husband and I can provide a better life for our future family. Not working was never even in my stratosphere of thought.
The better life I want for kids is the life where the kids are taken care of by their parents and not a daycare worker--I don't care how much it costs; mom & dad will always beat an Au pair. And dad is less stressed when his needs are being taken care of, too; not ignored because mom has a meeting or has to be in court or something. But good luck with that.
@@bli3366 Maybe so, but nothing in life is promised. If women outnumber men, then women do not have the luxury of assuming they will definitely marry a responsible man. The decision to further your education is made at 15-16 years old. So in many cases it's really the parents that made the decision for their daughters to obtain higher education. In fact, many fathers push their daughters towards higher education, especially if the daughters are academically inclined.
Honestly, because it was made clear to me growing up, whatever I wanted I needed to get. I didn’t win the genetic lottery in terms of attractiveness. I just got lucky someone accepted me despite my imperfection. Yes, we make comparable money, though his net worth is more. He is beyond high value, he is priceless. I just wasn’t going to get by being cute and struggling is not fun
My sister went to college, she got married and the first 5 years of marriage the mayor income came from her. Now she is at home with the baby and at home she works some hours and can get money for her knowledge.
Minister Farrakhan has a lecture series titled HOW TO GIVE BIRTH TO A GOD, That covers male/female relations. I like KS but he just scratch the surface.
@@SuperTruthfulMichael Jackson was an amazing performer and singer, however he def was violating kids. interesting how you hold that view and have that pfp
@@decadeyt5891 plz point out any info you have to prove MJ violated kids. your personal info, photos, court transcripts and videos. plz forward that info to me cuz i have read all the info i could from police reports, court transcripts. I'll wait.
That message is so so powerful, so powerful in fact that high power people who want women to work and not be in the house hold, would hate that message bad. He was so good for the people that he was too bad for the folks.
@shyne1308 that sounds very reckless. I don't want to assume where you are coming from. I don't agree with everything Kevin says but I definitely know he is wise
@penwrites6006 to be honest, I don't hear womaning in my life complaining. I been married 7 years that ain't my beef lol but I remember when I was in the streets, I never complained about women, I keep 2 or 3 to play with. You go always run across a good girl. You just have to be mature enough at the time to settle down. I never messed with women with kids, I'm sure they are the complaining women you talking about. I do notice that in places when im with my family. I see a lot men on this channel complain way more then women and he talking to women. It should just be entertaining for men, not time to bash women. Men just make sure you raise your daughter right.
Before a woman gets married, she needs to provide the basics: food, shelter, transportation, & healthcare. That’s what any adult is expected to do. After marriage, if the husband becomes disabled & can no longer work, her college degree will really come in handy since she can pick up where he left off because of his injuries. Her job will cover the health care insurance as well as the mortgage & family’s lifestyle.
Because the moment a woman denies herself the ability to support herself she becomes beholden to her provider. Imagine the guy gets bored of her or she finds herself in an abusive situation she should get out of. If she can't afford her kids because she has no financial backup plan, then she is completely SOL. This goes beyond gender roles. Adults need to ensure they can support themselves financially in order to survive.
Exactly. It’s no guarantee a woman will be married or have kids. This was a goofy ass question. I guess we are supposed to sit around and do nothing until we are “chosen” 😂
@@erinemm6No. You're expected to "rack up" a $hit-ton of STUDENT LOAN DEBT to make yourself more (economically) attractive to a marriage-minded man. Does THAT idea sound better to you than the idea of a woman NOT bringing a huge amount of DEBT into a marriage? Your comment shows a lack of understanding regarding the subject at hand. Try to stay on topic. You're welcome.
They’ll stay on there own then no kids no family. Guys are waking up and don’t want to take on a women’s massive debt because she was afraid to commit to one man or wants the option to leave when things get rough. Fine you want a backup plan you’ll be your own first second and third backup plan.
My friend was a nurse...but when she had her child her husband and her agreed to her staying home to raise the child...once the child was grown she went back to nursing allowing her and her husband a better life one where they were able to pay off their house and such.... a woman has the right to be a full person....is economicly unattractive the ability to pay their own bills? That is because they will never be 100% financially dependent on the man, and some men fear they can not control a woman who can say i dont need your money.
The main issue is someone has to watch and raise the kids. If both parents work who is going to watch the kids? After the kids are adults there is less need for stay at home mom and usually by then your in your 40/50s anyway. The moms have to do pregnancy and then breastfeed so biologically by default the man HAS to provide during the time when a woman CANNOT provide even if she wanted to. And with the child being the priority, it is best for the child to get the mothers full attention as a baby than for the mom to be going to work and leaving the baby especially in the first 3 years.
@@juicebokz7743In addition to that, most women want 2 children, Two kids in day care full time can easily cost MORE money then the woman makes full time. It's better to be a stay at home mom and I have a side job that pays 10 -15k yearly. ( One that can be wrapped around having children.)
😂 these dudes are goofies. I paid for childcare and daycare. Im almost at 6 figures. When school over I will be. 10 to 15k a year?! Wth....yall definitely want a woman depending on yall. Man up! A woman with true empress aura knows how to be a mom and have a career. I breastfed both my kids. Helped with homework and went right on to work. Yall know women can do it but scared she has enough to leave when u not doing your part. A dad can stay home on off days and do house duties too. Tf. This aint just on women to do. A team does all that is needed in the home. That means papa change diapers...take kids to school, cook, clean, do laundry. Nobody excluded. We not in 1930s. We never will be. Better to find u a partner that loves you and cares to carry the burden on days it get tough for u. When u find a woman with morals and values...how can u be mad at her career? Her debt is hers to pay. Im getting a prenup myself. It is what it is. Dudes are out here asking for spousal support. Nah...if we part ways...lets part with what we came with and gained on our own. Always contribute to the fam while together. But after that...u on ya own and im on my own. It is a control thing...not wanting her to get a career. Wanting her to depend on u for EVERYTHING...a prenup so she may leave with zero. That is bogus. Women got that right too then. Most om here single cuz u want a traditional woman and dont know the first thing about even loving a woman. Gtfoh!
We need options. We can't be solely dependent on someone else to sustain us. If push comes to shove, I don't want to be in a position where I'm suffering. I need to be able to take care of myself on my own before I let someone else take care of me because anything can happen.
Lol options women modern women always need options how about you learn how to keep a good man you want need no options that’s big momma for you I seen my grandma great grandma in action dealing with my grandad it’s a beautiful site to see those women knew how to keep they man I’m glad I have a good ass woman that’s not like you modern ass women
I get it, but that doesn’t mean you have to go to college. Why not a trade school? Why don’t women realize you can still learn how to do for yourself and have a career without going to college and racking up debt? Especially considering 9 times outta 10 the bills and everything is being paid by the husband. So y’all just saving money just in case something goes wrong. It’s like y’all live in fear and honestly seems women want there cake and to eat it too
@@artfuldodger7747rade skills skew too far towards the manual labor side of things for most women's liking. It's been my experience that women say one thing and Implement another. Example they say they have that career as a back-up plan in case he leaves when really it's a back-up plan in case she gets bored or comes down with a bad case of fomo.
They have to to function as if they may never get married... because until you do-you're single! Also it is something to fall back on should something happen (something besides divorce)..God forbid.
Not all women. I don’t ask my man for anything and he owns his business and makes damn good money. I actually hand money to him because I know how well he manages money and it’s not spent on meaningless bs. Women tend to mess up money and I choose to invest mine in my man and our building process.
@ebonyjohnson3114 I agree not all women, however... you yourself give your $ to your man. You might not mess up the money but you allow him to manage it for you hence kinda proving the point
My ex-wife quit her job without telling me 3 months after we got married. I was not pleased. I eventually divorced her. She was a terrible person. I made awful decisions in my past.
I was dating a woman and we just so happened to bring up student loan debt. I had an athletic scholarship and had 5k total receiving my bachelors. She was PHD with 287k with a 50k job .. I was turned off immediately and she was drop dead gorgeous.
If only that was true. There's nothing else out there to read other than propaganda. And the average woman is not well equipped to shrug off that propaganda.
@@martincarr4204 Expensive or not, education can improve the life of the future generation. What he was afraid was that an educated woman will look for a educated man and that is in short supply. The market is very small. So the majority of men will be not taken in consideration. He was looking after that demographic.
@@yolandalogan955 No, Kevin meant that going to expensive college was simply a waste of money, if a woman wants marriage and children, I am not going to debate ivy league compared to State, County, City colleges or universities which are less expensive, since most men do not look for education from a women and usually women pursue useless degrees anyway...
@@martincarr4204 It was a time when women that wanted a high intellectual value men were going to University to get married, and never finish their degree. In some families higher education is expected from both boys and girls. The future queen of England went to St. Andrews University because the future king was there, although she could have been at Edinburgh University. A high value woman wants it all, high value man, marriage, and children. I had a math professor that told us at the end of a lecture "look around, this is the last time you will be surrounded by people equal to you in every way. In the workplace you will never have that". Kevin was talking with average women that had dreams of grandeur from reading fairy tales. He was bringing them to reality.
Although I didn't rack up debt, I went to college because nothing is promised in life. God forbid something happens to him. Like seriously ill, laid off and etc. I will need to step up and take care of our family. Roles can change. I have to be ready to represent for our family! When my husband comes along, he will know I can step up if needed. And I had a steady office job while going to college because I refused to have student debt.
Nothing wrong with being career focused early on, but if you want to settle down and have kids sacrifices are going to have to be made somewhere. It all depends what you want out of life
Kevin was speaking specifically to black women. White; Asian; etc. encourage higher education for their women regardless of marriage potential. Black men don't make as much as these other races so that's why black women need to curtail their debt/spending.
The degree is a contingency plan for a lot of these women. It looks good , youve made your parents proud, but your main plan is to marry someone that makes enough for you to stay home.
College, at a minimum, gives you more economic security than if you had not done it, especially in certain fields where it becomes mandatory to go further. It really depends on the goals and strengths of the person. Despite the loans, I'm glad I did it! It is an achievement that you can't lose. My daughter was young when I went and I believe it made me a good role model. I divorced her father because he was border line abusive. When I got my degree, I became a case worker for domestic violence and sexual assault! His thought was for me to do admin. part time, no thanks!🎉
If her man dies (heaven forbid). She has a career to fall back on to bring money in for that child. My father was always grateful my mother went to college to become an RN. He was a high school teacher. He told all his students that education is essential no matter what gender they are. Nothing is certain in this world and to pretend otherwise (like this gentleman is stating) is foolish.
You do not know what you're talking about. It's vary complicated and maybe affensive to some, but in order for us to comsume we must produce. Women don't really produce the way a man can, so we had to reorganize society to a vary big lie. Men are subsidizing women in this economy. My point is, in a just and right society, women are to help men, not help themselves. I've there's a death then there's insurance and remarriage but we are no longer gonna organize society to fit wo.ens delusion. Men are not slaves, want to serve society, you do that at home.
@@simemsayss4395 No, what we do is get educated. We're leaving men quite far behind in that aspect of society. Soon we will be leaving them behind in the workplace as well. That's the plan.
@@simemsayss4395, my father was no slave. My father taught high school for 35 years at the same school. My mother worked at the same hospital for 45 years. My mother took time off to have children. Then went back to part-time. My father fully supported my mother and my mother supported my father. Don’t tell me I don’t know what I am talking about. I saw it work just fine. I went to college and support myself with a degree. Thanks to the combined efforts of my father and mother. There was no slavery involved. No one demeaned anyone. It was two people coming together to raise a family. Just because my mother had a degree does not make her a bad person. My father always praised her to his students. Always! My mother was not subservient to my father and my father was not subservient to my mother. They were partners who got married, had children, and stayed married for 33 years. It makes me sad you can’t or won’t understand it.
@Sarah Robertson education means nothing, it's the physical stuff men do that is valuable, not a useless degree. Everything you and I want, is invented, built and delivered by men, everything. What are you gonna do with your degree that is worth the labor off men. Your useless degree is psychology is not gonna build society, sure maybe help some young kids that feminism screwed up, but seriously, what value do women have in an economy where we need things done?
@Jamie Transtrum Yeah women and education go so well together. Women do not give a shit about anything but making money. When men make money we make families, when women get money, they want independence from men. Sorry feminism is done, we had it, enjoying your education and the nothing it can buy you cause men are existing the work force. Will women still work when it doesnt buy them anything?
I don’t recommend women today to be stay at home moms… that’s too much power being handed over to a person that may not even be here next week because he’s suddenly decided to screw his coworker
I Found KS IN 2020 saying “men get your money 💰 UP to $100k/year. 3 years later I made $160k this year running my own business, saved $50k in the last two years and now about to start another business. This is all because i say down and took heed to his teachings. At first, his teachings hurt and then I resolved to get out there and get to work. Money was always a problem in my dating life. One woman in particular left me when I lost my job and money prospects were low. Now, every woman I meet wants a relationship, but hell naw. I remain focused on my money game. I will forever be grateful to Godfather. And I’m sure many men have had similar experience.
@@SuperTruthful but provide does not mean just financially. There are other ways that you provide things for someone. Only a shallow individual thinks on the financial level. Just because someone can throw money at a problem does not mean that the problem will always be fixed by it.
We get the degrees because we are still human and desire to learn and grow.. As well as to fulfill our lives after children have been raised. We do not need to go back to the beginning but merely step into the roles in time, if desired. Options is the answer. My husband left for his mistress while i was at home with a 3 year old. Thank goodness for options.
Ikr, I don’t know why this people are acting like they don’t know why women get degrees just like they do and also the oblivious act like they don’t know that not every single person is going to be reliable. Do they just want women to sit around then be chosen ? Imagine you didn’t have a degree, you would have been left to suffer and you still would be blamed for your bad choice in a husband. Easy for them to speak from a place of security
facts You have to have your plans in order and map out your life, with the understanding of which your desires come with. You can achieve any and every goal you set, but make sure that's what you want to do. God bless.
happened to my nephew. He and his girlfriend both had masters degree. Married her, she became pregnant and now he responsible for her $100k student loan debt.
My great grandmother told me if you don't go to college at least get a trade. So if your husband dies earlier or gets injured than you can support the family. My great papa died and my grandma had to go to get her high school GED than went to college for nursing to support the family. My grandmother was always a stay home mom since 15. I've had women in the nursing home who are widowed now say at least have a trade in case your husband dies or he leaves you.
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"Economically unattractive" that's going into my lexicon. Love it.
Right!! I’m loving that !!
"Economically unattractive"? If a woman has a successful career, that's "Economically unattractive "? I find women who are compulsive buyers snd big spenders "economically unattractive".
If my wife has a good paying job, I'll pay ALL the bills with my wages and take half of her wages FOR ME. If she makes more than me, SHE can pay the bills and I'll give her half my wages FOR HER.
I used to be attracted to nurses but I had to break that attraction because most of them have huge students loans they expect you to help pay cuz now we a "couple"
@@neyenice I came across a lot of nurses in my single days. Just about all of them were doing well financially. I still got a thing for nurses so I married one 😄 🤣
@@Polytroutwhat’s yours is hers but what’s hers isn’t yours. Also women hold 2/3 of the nations college debt and most probably have a useless or low earning degree
His teachings will live on
Forever
He is teaching things that make it so the young men listening to him will never be fulfilled in a relationship.
@@TheHooverwho So So untrue
@@TheHooverwho please explain? 🤔
He is teaching one of sciences they never intended for the slaves.
The science of BUSINESS
The science of WAR
The science of MATING 👈 may have gotten him in trouble.
God rest his soul. 36 years I've been on this earth and up until 34 I had it all backwards. It's still mindblowing to me how I changed my mindset/attitude on certain things he talked about and my whole life literally changed. I owe my relationship of 2 amazing years and recent engagement to this man right here♥️🙏🏽
Honestly, I am happy for you! Enjoy sis, you deserve it
I am very happy for you.
Congratulations sis… change is the only thing that is constant..🎉
Bless you QUEEN
I am glad you admitted that. Unfortunately the majority of our sisters do not get it until LATE.
Spitting facts from the grave. RIP to the godfather.
We should make sure with absolutely certainty to keep his teachings and advice alive!
At least he loved sisters enough to try to tell them the truth. Key word, "tried". 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
naw, he wants uneducated dependent women that will be stuck needing a man's money
You can’t tell most of these women nothing these days. Plus they’ll never take accountability for anything
Exactly
Oh, he definitely told them🧊 They just didn't listen! Hence, the rise of passport bros🧊 He was their last hope🧊 No one else as skilled, yet concerned is coming for them🧊 The are stuck with The Blizzard King and Ice Lords! Winter is here🥶🥶🥶 Keep it Icy
He told them the truth but very few would listen
Met my wife while she was working at a factory.
Men turn down women for being economically unattractive, but it’s for different reasons. Women look at a man’s future income potential. We look at her past financial decisions. Because for us, it’s not about the money coming in, it’s about the money going out.
salaries are better than one and her debt is her debt and vice versa
@@SuperTruthful they expect men to pay for that debt… once married her debt becomes your debt
@@cjsteward4250 look that up you're wrong your only obligated for debt accrued during marriage not before marriage.
@@cjsteward4250 i would suggest men never marry since y'all think it's a burden. BTW, most women work today and many with their own aspirations and careers..so she can pay her debt.
@SuperTruthful What are you talking about? There are doctors who are practicing their field who still haven't paid their college debt. If and when they get married most expect their husband to help or pay off that debt. Then after a certain amount of time for whatever reasons that same woman will file for divorce after being took care of by said husband.
What knowledge. What wisdom. Gone but not forgotten. R.I.P.
A brilliant communicator.
I agree 💯
My husband and I eloped the day before he left for basic training as a private in the Army. I did my 30 years raising my autistic sons while I supported my Army husband for all 30 years plus numerous deployments until he retired as a Lieutenant Colonel. Now I am 52 years old and getting my PhD in Criminology so that I can teach certain subjects like interrogation techniques, which I’ve been studying for the last seven years. (I’m currently receiving my Private Investigation license) My kids are grown. And they feel like they are ready to be independent. I’m not slowing down I’m gearing up!
Good for you! 👏
🍻👏👏👏👏..Get it GIRL🕺
Inspiring
rare. women don't usually support a man past SIX MONTHS. Salute to you.
He gets more time with his son and you get to do something new and interesting. Good luck!
He's not saying Marriage and College don't mix. He's saying, "Ladies, be SMART about your choice of college and major. Treat it like an INVESTMENT not a hobby. If you have/acquire skills you will be able to work and be a mom. If all you have is debt to show for your college education, you're losing."
That’s a good point. Or major in something that will help the hubby or family owned business. Like accounting. Or something that can bring in some money working part time as supplemental income like accounting. Or something that you can go back to if hubby loses job, like accounting.
💯
Yeah but she'll be mediocre at best at both, or be a great employee but a crappy mom, or be a great mom and a crappy employee.
@@edwardjmayer87speak for you and yours brother
@@agricolaregshmm. i wonder if you think accounting is worth it 😭
Rip Kevin. You are so right, my sons are avoiding girls with big debt. Prenups will be signed.
😂they have to be signed
They gotta have money 1st & women had to want them
education debt will be paid off cuz the woman will have more income.
Girls with big jugs are Always more
attractive than girls with big debts.
@@SuperTruthful the same women that were creaming when Biden started canceling some peoples student loan debt? Yea ok Shirley 🫡😭
They want the ability to run out if they fill the need 😅
where's the logic in not having a plan B?
@DeAndrea Daze' did say there wasn't, did I? With that said, why would a man previd plan A when you're already on plan B.
@@deandrealmc a woman shouldn’t get offended when he presents a prenup before marriage or ask for a his partner for a paternity test at conception. Equal assurance 🎯
The brutal truth is that women prepare for divorce far more than a lasting marriage. Is it any wonder why divorce is so high. Nope, go your own way
@@deandrealmc Where's the logic in going into a union that is meant to last a lifetime planning for it to not work? If marriage was treated the way it is supposed to, then there would be no need to have a plan b.
I'm 58 and have turned down several women in the last few years for serious relationships because of all the debt they have. Still carrying student loan and IRS debt looking for marriage. Naw, I'm debt free. Can't do it. Almost 50 buying expensive cars over the yrs but neglected student loan debt.
You are58….. the average 38 year old man carries the same if not more debt than a 38 year old woman
@@curlygirl9023 but not student loan debt.
@@yaadythommo5548 any man that was born 1988 on ward has at least $20,000 or more student loan debt. Yall didn’t pay your way through school and neither did your parents… either that… or yall went on grant or didn’t qualify to get into college….. men didn’t decide to not go to college because they were more “financially savvy”….. they do it because they have no other choice
@@curlygirl9023no cap..Nearly every woman in my life(and this includes family.. friends.. acquaintance etc)have a shit load of debt . I know several men (friends and fam) that are debt free or close to it.
@@curlygirl9023 btw im a 35 yo college drop out with no debt. I been completely debt free since maybe age 22/23
He's so right!! It's so expensive to go to college knowing you want to stay home. You can have similar experiences without going to college. You can learn almost anything online. Don't go into debt if you can help it ladies. ❤
Yes, just be dumb and uneducated so you are easily manipulated and controlled by these men whose egos will get hurt if you aren’t beneath them in every aspect of life. Got it.
Yo, my ex-wife did that and they TOOK MY (our) tax return because of student debt! I had to file as an injured spouse. I didn't have student loans. It hurts us...
GREAT POINT !!!!
Even in death he speaks the truth.
There is only *the truth.* Not her truth, or my truth, or your truth. That is what ran-through's manifest in their broken ass minds.
you should only date men
Talk yo stuff my guy. 👏🏽
RUclips is the way to make yourself immortal
Thank God hes dead!
@@SuperTruthful u shouldn't date at all
I met a 27 year old black woman a while back and I was 31 at the time and she had it all. Beauty, loved to work out, all about God but her student debt alone was $120k. When KS said economically unattractive, that hit home. I found a wonderful woman who is debt free now and God is good!
Worked for 40 yrs had 3 children, never gave up work, and looked after my kids just as good
College or not, a woman should be prepared to take care of herself.
Subway will always be hiring RIP KS. Take care is a generic term women use for forming masculine traits, earning high income to live the dream and roll around the world balling and ultimately becoming unattractive to men economically and for a relationship. You can take care of yourself with a roof over your head etc working a modest 9-5 while working to find and fit with a man who will look after you and children. You get taken care of by law as well as the children during marriage and also if it doesn’t work out, so the other excuse women make about being left high and dry is cap too.
then when she gets married then she should still pay off her on debt!!!😅
That's fine.
But I'm not taking on your massive debt. That's yours, not mine
Crazy how black men are encouraging black women to not pursue and education. Stay dumb ladies. They’d rather marry a beautiful fool it keeps their brittle egos in line.
Like what if he dies and we have no family business by then, how am I supposed to take care of the kids?
Worked hard,went to Uni,degree,became a teacher, teaching high school
Married, 4 kids..all grown up now, still teaching n helping in the income....
So ,if know our worth n values from our traditional parents...
We can hv the best of both worlds....
Fulfillment in family and work...
Am a vice principal now
Of course had to sacrifice alot when the kids were growing n schooling
Father retired 7 years now, but becoz im working, the family financial is secure
From a small town in Malaysia
Western black women.....pls grow out of ur mindset that U want everything...
AM THANKFUL ...IM ASIAN..
Women are the original teachers and everything I have learned I intened to pass on to my children so they wont have to pay the prices I paid to gain that knowledge.
This makes so much sense. I don’t know why I did it. I want to be a wife and raise our children But I’m creating debt for us 😞
According to Kevin, Its because feminist misguided most women into believing that a career is what they truly need instead of a man or starting a family. But they dont dare give out the important details which is that most women dont actually want a career. Or that the best time for a woman to start a family is in their 20s nor that if they ever do get a career that is fulfilling, that by the time they reach the top of their career they will technically be too old to start a family.
You bought into the feminist lies. Feminism destoys everything. I hope you’re not a feminist anymore and don’t teach that shit to your kids. Especially if you have girls
@fjl05 Let's not put the blame at the feet of feminism. One never knows what the future holds. The man leaves, divorces, falls ill or disabled, or dies( God Forbid) she needs to be ready. That said, college is too expensive. It used to be doable.
Its not “us” its you. Pay that shit yourself
Miss him so much for his honesty! It changed my way of thinking radically!
College is their insurance policy
Nah, marriage is the insurance policy. You can't get me though 🤷🏻♂️
@@mediatwinkleTV Most people don’t marry and most marriages end in divorce so it can’t be an insurance policy
@@dre22 moreover Americans now hold $1.7 trillion in student loan debt. Nearly two-thirds of that money - at least $929 billion - is owed by women
@@jonbourjois4308 and that is because men have pretty much stagnated and are not pursuing college or a good career anymore. Women outnumber men when seeking higher education. Whose fault is that? It is not the women’s fault that men are falling behind in that aspect but I will get to where they ARE at fault in a minute. Men need to do better, especially if they are going to be leaders or providers or whatever.
The only thing women are at fault of in this situation is that there are so many raising children alone, and boys need a strong male role model to teach them how to be men and how to control their emotions to think systematically and logically. These single mothers tend to teach their daughters to be independent and to not rely on men, either from actual teaching or from the girl’s observing this behavior. They then turn around and coddle their sons. They try to teach them kindness towards women and to not be reserved with their emotions. The teaching gets lost in translation because they hear her say things to her friends about “men ain’t 💩” and they do not see a permanent male figure in the house. These boys do not get to witness male leadership and they tend to think that there is no need for a lasting relationship. This gets us to where we are now….
These boys grow up with no leadership ability and a skewed and toxic view of what a relationship looks like. They consider a relationship as being solely transactional with the “what do you bring to the table” nonsense. Women don’t trust them to try to lead because these boys don’t seem to be capable of it.
@@jonbourjois4308 and that is why women are becoming the breadwinners more then ever because they invest in education, it went from only 5% of households (women r breadwinners) in the 70s to becoming 16% of households now
I adore Kevin, he is spot on all the time. I believe a good income man should have a stay home mother raising their kids. Never to excluded many ways to supplement an income by working from home.
My ex-wife would not effectively pursue her 6 figure income b/c she wanted to be a stay home Mom. So I'm supposed to continue to work 80 + hours a week and give up every minor and major luxury so you can sit on her ass and tell me all the things I NEEDED to do to make her happy. Well, I divorced her and now I'M HAPPY 😅
Dale my man you said a mouth full. Man I agree with you I need a women to help me and watch my back and to be happy with whatever we have. If I want to push then she can help push me. I need to trust her with everything if I feel as if I can come home and the bank account is cleaned out or the entire house is packed up and moved from under me I can’t be authentic so we can’t do it. I’m not sure these women exist anymore in the world we live in. For sure not in America.
if you can't handle her, it's your fault.
Well no need to work 80 hours that’s to much just do with much less the stuff we buy is overrated anyway we don’t need most of it to be happy but I do get what you are saying my wife was stay at home and she still walked out on me and I’m in your position I only work one job and I take off a lot of time to rest my body and go places I also dress much better because all the money I have is my money not our money. But I was happy either way. Most women can’t think well. I’ve heard them say if I wanted to keep working then I would have gotten a roommate ok so then what you are saying to me is you don’t love me all I am is a free life for you. Ok well then I’m out get your ass back to work and get a roommate and the two of you use each other. Trust me my man I do understand you.
Good for you bro!
@@chuckiegravesfield3170 Read it again. He dumped her good-for-nothing ass.
See the Checking!!
So well said.
My 19 year old daughter is busting her but to get through college debt free (we are helping as we can- but she’s absolutely committed to no loans, no debt), she’s getting her real estate license, and working towards buying her first investment property.
Her plan is to be educated and invested before she is married. Completely debt free at marriage and free to stay home with children when that time comes, while still building a real estate investment portfolio.
There were a few areas of study she was interested in- but she wants to be wifed and at home with kids more than anything so it didn’t make sense to her to get an expensive education she didn’t really want a career in long term.
If she still wants it after the kids are grown she’ll have another 20-30 years afterwards to build a different career if she wants, and let the real estate fund it.
She sounds like she's trying to become the dude she wants to marry.
@@dr.pastrami5272 Read Proverbs 31.
Growing up I never expected to be a housewife or marry someone who'd take care of more than 50% of the bills. So I became a lawyer not just because I like the work but because with dual incomes, my husband and I can provide a better life for our future family. Not working was never even in my stratosphere of thought.
See that what I’m talking about. Building a great future. I wish more women would the mindset like you. Keep up the good work sista 💯
Good response. But for others.....
Do you want to work to pay significant bills after you are pregnant with your first child?
The better life I want for kids is the life where the kids are taken care of by their parents and not a daycare worker--I don't care how much it costs; mom & dad will always beat an Au pair. And dad is less stressed when his needs are being taken care of, too; not ignored because mom has a meeting or has to be in court or something.
But good luck with that.
@@bli3366 Maybe so, but nothing in life is promised. If women outnumber men, then women do not have the luxury of assuming they will definitely marry a responsible man.
The decision to further your education is made at 15-16 years old. So in many cases it's really the parents that made the decision for their daughters to obtain higher education. In fact, many fathers push their daughters towards higher education, especially if the daughters are academically inclined.
Honestly, because it was made clear to me growing up, whatever I wanted I needed to get. I didn’t win the genetic lottery in terms of attractiveness. I just got lucky someone accepted me despite my imperfection. Yes, we make comparable money, though his net worth is more. He is beyond high value, he is priceless. I just wasn’t going to get by being cute and struggling is not fun
True !!!!! if u want something get a job and buy it don't take something that is not your
My sister went to college, she got married and the first 5 years of marriage the mayor income came from her. Now she is at home with the baby and at home she works some hours and can get money for her knowledge.
Astounding exception, congrats to her.
How’s her debt? Is it repaid yet?
@@aidenpearce5137 she does not have debt.
This brother has always spoke so much facts I miss this man rip Godfather
FACTS!!!
Rest in Peace, thank you sooo much for gifting us your wisdom❤
0 FACTSSSS. Lmao Americans everyone thinks they're paying cuz they do😂
He definitively made sense with this part
Preaching from beyond the grave !
crazy isn't it, ftom all of black America only 1 man was doing it like KS. His style was gripping the whole world.
Minister Farrakhan has a lecture series titled HOW TO GIVE BIRTH TO A GOD, That covers male/female relations. I like KS but he just scratch the surface.
stop the cap it wasn't gripping the world
@@SuperTruthfulMichael Jackson was an amazing performer and singer, however he def was violating kids. interesting how you hold that view and have that pfp
@@decadeyt5891 plz point out any info you have to prove MJ violated kids. your personal info, photos, court transcripts and videos. plz forward that info to me cuz i have read all the info i could from police reports, court transcripts. I'll wait.
@@decadeyt5891 ks said, mother's shouldnt believe their kids if they alleged being molested.I have no respect for ks..at all.
That message is so so powerful, so powerful in fact that high power people who want women to work and not be in the house hold, would hate that message bad. He was so good for the people that he was too bad for the folks.
🎶"Get my daughter this college plan so she don't need no man." 🎶
_-Sky's The Limit_
-Biggie Smalls🎙️
I can hear that dog bark "arrf arrf" 😅
A great philosopher. He is sorely missed. His work and wisdom is living on.
Very wise man and his teachings will outlive the next 10 generations because his messages will always apply.
Only men who can't pull women listen to him
@shyne1308 that sounds very reckless. I don't want to assume where you are coming from.
I don't agree with everything Kevin says but I definitely know he is wise
@@penwrites6006 men who get women not on here complaining about women. They get who they want. The men without options complain
@@shynebayarea510 that's false. Let me ask you something.
Don't women who can get men still complain about men? Please be honest with a yes or no
@penwrites6006 to be honest, I don't hear womaning in my life complaining. I been married 7 years that ain't my beef lol but I remember when I was in the streets, I never complained about women, I keep 2 or 3 to play with. You go always run across a good girl. You just have to be mature enough at the time to settle down. I never messed with women with kids, I'm sure they are the complaining women you talking about. I do notice that in places when im with my family. I see a lot men on this channel complain way more then women and he talking to women. It should just be entertaining for men, not time to bash women. Men just make sure you raise your daughter right.
Before a woman gets married, she needs to provide the basics: food, shelter, transportation, & healthcare. That’s what any adult is expected to do. After marriage, if the husband becomes disabled & can no longer work, her college degree will really come in handy since she can pick up where he left off because of his injuries. Her job will cover the health care insurance as well as the mortgage & family’s lifestyle.
Because the moment a woman denies herself the ability to support herself she becomes beholden to her provider. Imagine the guy gets bored of her or she finds herself in an abusive situation she should get out of. If she can't afford her kids because she has no financial backup plan, then she is completely SOL. This goes beyond gender roles. Adults need to ensure they can support themselves financially in order to survive.
Exactly. It’s no guarantee a woman will be married or have kids. This was a goofy ass question. I guess we are supposed to sit around and do nothing until we are “chosen” 😂
@@erinemm6No. You're expected to "rack up" a $hit-ton of STUDENT LOAN DEBT to make yourself more (economically) attractive to a marriage-minded man.
Does THAT idea sound better to you than the idea of a woman NOT bringing a huge amount of DEBT into a marriage?
Your comment shows a lack of understanding regarding the subject at hand.
Try to stay on topic.
You're welcome.
Whatever do you mean!?!? Aren’t ALL men here to protect and take care of their wife and children??? Oh my goodness what world are you living in?? 😂
@@nickylopez3267lol no way. Your money is our money, my money is mine. Got it?
They’ll stay on there own then no kids no family. Guys are waking up and don’t want to take on a women’s massive debt because she was afraid to commit to one man or wants the option to leave when things get rough. Fine you want a backup plan you’ll be your own first second and third backup plan.
They love to have there foot half way in. Backup plans incase they catch a feeling.
No backup up plan in case we catch a ninja cheating, shit! 😂 I can take care of myself.
I DO BELIEVE IN A BACK-UP PLAN.........IT WORK FOR ME........
Bringing it back to basics. Fighting the zeitgeist
That is such a hard truth. I couldn't have said this better. Rip The Godfather, aka Kevin Samuel..
He was so so on point and logical as usual!
This guy started a movement. Rest in peace, Mr. Samuels. You will be missed so wise and ahead of his time.
My friend was a nurse...but when she had her child her husband and her agreed to her staying home to raise the child...once the child was grown she went back to nursing allowing her and her husband a better life one where they were able to pay off their house and such.... a woman has the right to be a full person....is economicly unattractive the ability to pay their own bills? That is because they will never be 100% financially dependent on the man, and some men fear they can not control a woman who can say i dont need your money.
The main issue is someone has to watch and raise the kids. If both parents work who is going to watch the kids? After the kids are adults there is less need for stay at home mom and usually by then your in your 40/50s anyway. The moms have to do pregnancy and then breastfeed so biologically by default the man HAS to provide during the time when a woman CANNOT provide even if she wanted to. And with the child being the priority, it is best for the child to get the mothers full attention as a baby than for the mom to be going to work and leaving the baby especially in the first 3 years.
@@juicebokz7743In addition to that, most women want 2 children, Two kids in day care full time can easily cost MORE money then the woman makes full time. It's better to be a stay at home mom and I have a side job that pays 10 -15k yearly. ( One that can be wrapped around having children.)
😂 these dudes are goofies. I paid for childcare and daycare. Im almost at 6 figures. When school over I will be. 10 to 15k a year?! Wth....yall definitely want a woman depending on yall. Man up! A woman with true empress aura knows how to be a mom and have a career. I breastfed both my kids. Helped with homework and went right on to work. Yall know women can do it but scared she has enough to leave when u not doing your part. A dad can stay home on off days and do house duties too. Tf. This aint just on women to do. A team does all that is needed in the home. That means papa change diapers...take kids to school, cook, clean, do laundry. Nobody excluded. We not in 1930s. We never will be. Better to find u a partner that loves you and cares to carry the burden on days it get tough for u. When u find a woman with morals and values...how can u be mad at her career? Her debt is hers to pay. Im getting a prenup myself. It is what it is. Dudes are out here asking for spousal support. Nah...if we part ways...lets part with what we came with and gained on our own. Always contribute to the fam while together. But after that...u on ya own and im on my own. It is a control thing...not wanting her to get a career. Wanting her to depend on u for EVERYTHING...a prenup so she may leave with zero. That is bogus. Women got that right too then. Most om here single cuz u want a traditional woman and dont know the first thing about even loving a woman. Gtfoh!
They cry if they and cry if they don’t pay😂
You are naive.
We need options. We can't be solely dependent on someone else to sustain us. If push comes to shove, I don't want to be in a position where I'm suffering. I need to be able to take care of myself on my own before I let someone else take care of me because anything can happen.
Lol options women modern women always need options how about you learn how to keep a good man you want need no options that’s big momma for you I seen my grandma great grandma in action dealing with my grandad it’s a beautiful site to see those women knew how to keep they man I’m glad I have a good ass woman that’s not like you modern ass women
I hear you, what you say makes sense. Why pre-tell , are so many women going into crazy debt picking professions that have no future or practical use?
I get it, but that doesn’t mean you have to go to college. Why not a trade school? Why don’t women realize you can still learn how to do for yourself and have a career without going to college and racking up debt? Especially considering 9 times outta 10 the bills and everything is being paid by the husband. So y’all just saving money just in case something goes wrong. It’s like y’all live in fear and honestly seems women want there cake and to eat it too
@@artfuldodger7747rade skills skew too far towards the manual labor side of things for most women's liking. It's been my experience that women say one thing and Implement another. Example they say they have that career as a back-up plan in case he leaves when really it's a back-up plan in case she gets bored or comes down with a bad case of fomo.
@@artfuldodger7747it looks like school would benefit men too, especially if their grammar sucks…
They have to to function as if they may never get married... because until you do-you're single! Also it is something to fall back on should something happen (something besides divorce)..God forbid.
There's the issue. Backup plan became the main plan. 😮
@OFF TOP TV™️ blame society and generations before them..sadly... lots of re-programming to do!
KS will be missed but never forgotten!! Gone too soon 😢
Even in death, he's still teaching. Rest in power, Godfather!
He's still with us, his teachings are priceless
It happens to some middle east chicks too. The degree is a status symbol and they get one despite fully intending to be housewives.
Women are debt magnets its starts off slow with dates then gifts then vacations then houses then kid
Gotta get a real 1
Not all women. I don’t ask my man for anything and he owns his business and makes damn good money. I actually hand money to him because I know how well he manages money and it’s not spent on meaningless bs. Women tend to mess up money and I choose to invest mine in my man and our building process.
@@ebonyjohnson3114 Shame more girls don't think like you good luck lol
@ebonyjohnson3114 I agree not all women, however... you yourself give your $ to your man.
You might not mess up the money but you allow him to manage it for you hence kinda proving the point
Amen. Miss you GODFATHER
I MISS THIS MAN.... RIP..
No man wants to pay your student debt off or your credit cards. If that's what your after go be by yourselves.
Rip king
Who’s running his channel is the question??? Cause I know he ain’t posting videos from the beyond
We need you back professor 🙏💪
He will live forever
My ex-wife quit her job without telling me 3 months after we got married. I was not pleased. I eventually divorced her. She was a terrible person. I made awful decisions in my past.
I was dating a woman and we just so happened to bring up student loan debt. I had an athletic scholarship and had 5k total receiving my bachelors. She was PHD with 287k with a 50k job .. I was turned off immediately and she was drop dead gorgeous.
Was her name Jasmine? Lol
Why i love and him. I'm so so so happy bet honored him.
Wow. So articulate. Wish he was still alive , and speaking out.
An educated mother is better than an illiterate one.
If only that was true. There's nothing else out there to read other than propaganda. And the average woman is not well equipped to shrug off that propaganda.
Read between the lines, Kevin said an expensive colleges...... I guess that part was missed........
@@martincarr4204
Expensive or not, education can improve the life of the future generation. What he was afraid was that an educated woman will look for a educated man and that is in short supply. The market is very small. So the majority of men will be not taken in consideration. He was looking after that demographic.
@@yolandalogan955 No, Kevin meant that going to expensive college was simply a waste of money, if a woman wants marriage and children, I am not going to debate ivy league compared to State, County, City colleges or universities which are less expensive, since most men do not look for education from a women and usually women pursue useless degrees anyway...
@@martincarr4204 It was a time when women that wanted a high intellectual value men were going to University to get married, and never finish their degree. In some families higher education is expected from both boys and girls.
The future queen of England went to St. Andrews University because the future king was there, although she could have been at Edinburgh University. A high value woman wants it all, high value man, marriage, and children.
I had a math professor that told us at the end of a lecture "look around, this is the last time you will be surrounded by people equal to you in every way. In the workplace you will never have that".
Kevin was talking with average women that had dreams of grandeur from reading fairy tales. He was bringing them to reality.
Although I didn't rack up debt, I went to college because nothing is promised in life. God forbid something happens to him. Like seriously ill, laid off and etc. I will need to step up and take care of our family. Roles can change. I have to be ready to represent for our family!
When my husband comes along, he will know I can step up if needed. And I had a steady office job while going to college because I refused to have student debt.
One in a million
This makes so much sense yet I've never heard it said before. The question becomes what DO women pursue?
A family!!!! What nature intended. Not a man to make you happy, a family to make you happy.
Nothing wrong with being career focused early on, but if you want to settle down and have kids sacrifices are going to have to be made somewhere. It all depends what you want out of life
Excellent point!
GENIUS LOGIC!!!!!!!
Kevin was speaking specifically to black women. White; Asian; etc. encourage higher education for their women regardless of marriage potential. Black men don't make as much as these other races so that's why black women need to curtail their debt/spending.
This is facts. That’s why black women are dating outside their race.
The degree is a contingency plan for a lot of these women. It looks good , youve made your parents proud, but your main plan is to marry someone that makes enough for you to stay home.
College, at a minimum, gives you more economic security than if you had not done it, especially in certain fields where it becomes mandatory to go further. It really depends on the goals and strengths of the person. Despite the loans, I'm glad I did it! It is an achievement that you can't lose. My daughter was young when I went and I believe it made me a good role model. I divorced her father because he was border line abusive. When I got my degree, I became a case worker for domestic violence and sexual assault! His thought was for me to do admin. part time, no thanks!🎉
You’re missing the point. And he wasn’t talking about you.
Man we lost a real one. 😢the Godfather. I am where I am because i listened to his advice. I’m in a way better place, and I owe it to him.
Kevin is 1000% right again..
Plus. Good point on racking up 100,000 in debt..
So they can eventually start a business with the money they take after the no fault divorce
That college shit cost to much for you not to make money
If her man dies (heaven forbid). She has a career to fall back on to bring money in for that child. My father was always grateful my mother went to college to become an RN. He was a high school teacher. He told all his students that education is essential no matter what gender they are. Nothing is certain in this world and to pretend otherwise (like this gentleman is stating) is foolish.
You do not know what you're talking about.
It's vary complicated and maybe affensive to some, but in order for us to comsume we must produce.
Women don't really produce the way a man can, so we had to reorganize society to a vary big lie.
Men are subsidizing women in this economy.
My point is, in a just and right society, women are to help men, not help themselves.
I've there's a death then there's insurance and remarriage but we are no longer gonna organize society to fit wo.ens delusion.
Men are not slaves, want to serve society, you do that at home.
@@simemsayss4395 No, what we do is get educated. We're leaving men quite far behind in that aspect of society. Soon we will be leaving them behind in the workplace as well. That's the plan.
@@simemsayss4395, my father was no slave. My father taught high school for 35 years at the same school. My mother worked at the same hospital for 45 years. My mother took time off to have children. Then went back to part-time. My father fully supported my mother and my mother supported my father. Don’t tell me I don’t know what I am talking about. I saw it work just fine. I went to college and support myself with a degree. Thanks to the combined efforts of my father and mother. There was no slavery involved. No one demeaned anyone. It was two people coming together to raise a family. Just because my mother had a degree does not make her a bad person. My father always praised her to his students. Always! My mother was not subservient to my father and my father was not subservient to my mother. They were partners who got married, had children, and stayed married for 33 years. It makes me sad you can’t or won’t understand it.
@Sarah Robertson education means nothing, it's the physical stuff men do that is valuable, not a useless degree.
Everything you and I want, is invented, built and delivered by men, everything.
What are you gonna do with your degree that is worth the labor off men.
Your useless degree is psychology is not gonna build society, sure maybe help some young kids that feminism screwed up, but seriously, what value do women have in an economy where we need things done?
@Jamie Transtrum Yeah women and education go so well together.
Women do not give a shit about anything but making money.
When men make money we make families, when women get money, they want independence from men.
Sorry feminism is done, we had it, enjoying your education and the nothing it can buy you cause men are existing the work force.
Will women still work when it doesnt buy them anything?
I love this man. Godfather forever.
The truth never dies like the biblical principles
Not every woman has the privilege to be a sahm. A single salary income supporting a family is NOT the norm in our current economy.
but the women he is talking about are looking for men who make $300k. that's his point.
So manhood is COMPROMISED.
I don’t recommend women today to be stay at home moms… that’s too much power being handed over to a person that may not even be here next week because he’s suddenly decided to screw his coworker
@@curlygirl9023 anxiety
@@harrymuhammad9835 ive heard and seen this case way too many times… the women are forced to divorce and struggle
It's a backup plan in case that dude turns out like you sir😂😂😂
They go to college expecting a man to pay off their debt
R.I.P. Godfather. To this day, your advice still helps us men.
The GOAT is what you are to me still , may u rest in peace my brother.
I Found KS IN 2020 saying “men get your money 💰 UP to $100k/year. 3 years later I made $160k this year running my own business, saved $50k in the last two years and now about to start another business. This is all because i say down and took heed to his teachings. At first, his teachings hurt and then I resolved to get out there and get to work. Money was always a problem in my dating life. One woman in particular left me when I lost my job and money prospects were low. Now, every woman I meet wants a relationship, but hell naw. I remain focused on my money game. I will forever be grateful to Godfather. And I’m sure many men have had similar experience.
No one likes the truth.
They want the status of being a PhD and not work and live off their husbands
i thought y'all was suppose to provide and protect. I gguess it sounds good until you have to actually man up and be man, huh.
@@SuperTruthful but provide does not mean just financially. There are other ways that you provide things for someone. Only a shallow individual thinks on the financial level. Just because someone can throw money at a problem does not mean that the problem will always be fixed by it.
@@Wakka144 THAT'S BS IF A MAN CAN'T PROVIDE FINANICALLY HE'S NOT WORTH MUCH. WHAT IS HE DOING LIVING OFF OF A WOMAN?
@@Wakka144 you black right?
@@Wakka144 only bm says this bullshyt.
Because they are foolish sir 😊
This man is always point with his knowledge.
This is the first time I've heard this man. To find out he's gone is a tragic loss to all Men😢
We get the degrees because we are still human and desire to learn and grow.. As well as to fulfill our lives after children have been raised. We do not need to go back to the beginning but merely step into the roles in time, if desired. Options is the answer. My husband left for his mistress while i was at home with a 3 year old. Thank goodness for options.
Ikr, I don’t know why this people are acting like they don’t know why women get degrees just like they do and also the oblivious act like they don’t know that not every single person is going to be reliable. Do they just want women to sit around then be chosen ? Imagine you didn’t have a degree, you would have been left to suffer and you still would be blamed for your bad choice in a husband. Easy for them to speak from a place of security
@@chibaby800 Perfectly said!
facts
You have to have your plans in order and map out your life, with the understanding of which your desires come with. You can achieve any and every goal you set, but make sure that's what you want to do. God bless.
I wish I listened to the Godfather in his prime. Rest well sir.
happened to my nephew. He and his girlfriend both had masters degree. Married her, she became pregnant and now he responsible for her $100k student loan debt.
Facts man he just spoke my thoughts so perfectly. I'm gonna use that now, "economically unattractive" is a big one
My great grandmother told me if you don't go to college at least get a trade. So if your husband dies earlier or gets injured than you can support the family.
My great papa died and my grandma had to go to get her high school GED than went to college for nursing to support the family.
My grandmother was always a stay home mom since 15.
I've had women in the nursing home who are widowed now say at least have a trade in case your husband dies or he leaves you.
He's got a point.