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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
  • This weekend I attended a family violence conference with over 150 men from around New Zealand. Phil Paikea, Vic Tamati and the safe man safe family team are an organisation that travels New Zealand spreading hope and awareness about family and sexual violence.
    SafeMan SafeFamily Fundamental
    #safemansafefamily SMSF is a lifestyle choice to
    UNCOVER (violence, abuse, trauma),
    DISCOVER (why it happened and how to heal), and
    RECOVER (through learning, practicing, failing, trying, achieving, reflecting, and resting). This is a self-led lifelong journey owned by and accountable first and foremost to oneself.
    Email: info@safemansafefamily.org.nz
    Theme music: The Plowman: Steady marching. • The Plowman - Steady M...
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  • @TFSpodcast_
    @TFSpodcast_  Год назад +13

    SafeMan SafeFamily Fundamental
    #safemansafefamily SMSF is a lifestyle choice to
    UNCOVER (violence, abuse, trauma),
    DISCOVER (why it happened and how to heal), and
    RECOVER (through learning, practicing, failing, trying, achieving, reflecting, and resting). This is a self-led lifelong journey owned by and accountable first and foremost to oneself.
    Email: info@safemansafefamily.org.nz

  • @tytutu9625
    @tytutu9625 Год назад +88

    Love this for my Māori brothers and sisters! As an Indigenous Australian Man (Aboriginal) we need a program like the SafeMan program in our communities… Wishing you’s all the best on your journeys of healing! ❤️‍🩹

  • @flej01
    @flej01 Год назад +39

    I grew up in a violent home. My dad was not a nice person. I was determined to have a real home for my children. I love him for teaching me what to not be as an adult. It is so good to see so many come together to break the chains from their past. Stay strong, spread love.
    Thanks King Dave, keep doing what you do, you bring hope.

  • @nojabjonny
    @nojabjonny Год назад +17

    Much respect to all of you participating in healing old wounds and putting a stop to the madness. It takes a strong spirit to do what you all have started to do and I urge you never to stop this journey and fall back into the darkness.. future generations depend on us.. spread the love.

  • @JasonRamm
    @JasonRamm Год назад +5

    My Brother Wayne Singh who is Half Maori half Fijian Indian and his Mum Elaine are from here. Amazing to see this brother from his Home town and the Kaupapa now which is CHANGE! God bless ❤

  • @maccart67
    @maccart67 Год назад +6

    Very much needed. Love and hugs ✌🏿🇦🇺

  • @slicktricks_takethat6901
    @slicktricks_takethat6901 11 месяцев назад +5

    Inspirational to see their courage in trying to turn their lives around from some of the darkest upbringings and not giving up, makes you appreciate life a bit more i reckon.

  • @mykingjesus477
    @mykingjesus477 Год назад +8

    I enjoyed watching this, I'm from Australia.What powerful testimonies from everyone. A blessing to have watched this, we are all brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus. God bless 🙏

  • @tarngrant9024
    @tarngrant9024 Год назад +5

    Beautiful so proud of these men and their organization. Their testimonials touch my heart ,maybe something to look into to be apart of

  • @MaihaAnderson
    @MaihaAnderson 11 месяцев назад +3

    Praise Jah ❤✝️🕊️Jesus in all his glory for the mahi set out for all the brothers journeys..proud a yous guys❤

  • @StuartMcmahon308
    @StuartMcmahon308 Год назад +5

    Personally hearing Whakatauaki of SafeMan SafeFamily once the core message value's and teaching's imprinted upon my mind think Whakatauaki was sumin like this
    SafeMan SafeFamily
    "When Man is safe The Family is safe, When the family is safe the Community becomes safe, When the Community is safe the Country becomes safe, When the Country is safe the World becomes safe". An Indigenous holistic outlook view and understanding of the Situation utilizing established government agencies and resources in partnership to address and recognize Enforced Colonial Intergenerational curse's and addiction's upon not only our Tipuna but also most of the poor oppressed uneducated pakeha ancestors

  • @payganjohns8161
    @payganjohns8161 Год назад +3

    HEARTYLUYAH to all our whanau makeing a change kp strong kiakaha AROHANUI TO ALL TRUTH SEEKERS KOTAHITANGA NATION WIDE...

  • @marilyntape508
    @marilyntape508 Год назад +9

    We need this in Australia now 👍💯🇦🇺

  • @sallywilson1600
    @sallywilson1600 Год назад +4

    Awesome mahi whānau. It's not easy to accept, acknowledge, and face past hurts. We all have history. No one is perfect. I commend each of you for taking the time to come together to heal, to restore, to forgive, and to move forward in a positive and light. None of us can change the Past, it's happened. However, we can change our Future. Show our children our mokopuna that there is Hope, Faith and Positivity in our homes, our lives. Life is a challenge, and it may seem like an endless battle with temptation out there, peer pressure, and the cost of living. All these pressures and stresses amount up, and they're real! Having Safe Men, Safe Families is amazing. Thank you. Building strong Men, Dad's, Koro's to be an inspiration to their whānau, Hapū and Iwi. Through the love of Jesus Christ, there is always a better way forth. God Bless each and every one of you ❤

  • @aforjesus2413
    @aforjesus2413 Год назад +3

    beautiful work guys and blessing on you all trying make changes. God Bless.😇

  • @tewheke4186
    @tewheke4186 Год назад +5

    What an amazin day 2 start my day. Well done to all my Amazing Brothers and Sisters. I can relate so much and yours souls resonate very much with mine. So amazing to see the change in those eyes, the release of what has kept you bound by the system for so long. May Your Lives Going Forwards, Be Brought With Much Abundance, Healing and Light In All Areas Of Your Lives…..So Be It. Take Back Your Power, It’s Time. The Shift Is Manifesting Quickly Now, You Are Protected At All Times and Showered In White Light. Aroha, Light, Blessings and Peace 2 All. You Are Precious 2 This This Land and We Are All In This Together 🤧🌟👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾⭐️⚡️⭐️💜✨💥💫🙏🏾

  • @budgelayla4evzyouknowit292
    @budgelayla4evzyouknowit292 Год назад +9

    This is so nice to see I have had a horrible shield hood and teen years and this gives me hope for my children’s friends kids out there I wish they had this in Australia

  • @jackmanetoa3982
    @jackmanetoa3982 Год назад +3

    Nice work gents...sending love and Aroha to the men and woman and their whanau.

  • @stayreal120
    @stayreal120 11 месяцев назад +2

    Respect for all you guys God bless you all and your family's 🫶🙏✌️💙✨️

  • @6DRAMAQUEEN9
    @6DRAMAQUEEN9 Год назад +8

    Kia ora Cuz, This is fantastic!! Thank you for posting this video. It will make a huge difference for many whanau's. kia kaha to all the men on this journey!! I broke the cycle when my tamariki came into this world and its not easy to change old habits and what we have been brought up with, but its worth it in the long run. We all contribute massively to everyone we influence, most importantly our children, grandchildren and future generations. Keep up the great work and I hope to catch up some time :) Keep spreading the love cuz, Arohanui, Tiana (Alfs Daughter)

    • @TFSpodcast_
      @TFSpodcast_  Год назад +1

      Love you cuz been a long time yea hope to catch up some time soon God bless

  • @teevis3620
    @teevis3620 Год назад +4

    To all the brothers and sisters on this journey of change, God Bless you all in the name of Jesus Christ.
    Amen.

  • @seanjohnson7145
    @seanjohnson7145 11 месяцев назад +2

    Safe man, safe family, thank you for the video

  • @CaptainKuki
    @CaptainKuki Год назад +4

    Love this work sir. Thank you from all us Kiwis!

  • @Ngatikahu-aka-panbadass
    @Ngatikahu-aka-panbadass Год назад +3

    Much love and respect uncle Phil my condolences for the loss of your brother . lost my little brother this year aswell a couple months after my father passed ( Little Graham Latimer ) so proud of what your doing for our whanau mum sends her love .kia kaha Rangatira Preacher .

  • @taroitofilau3983
    @taroitofilau3983 Год назад +4

    Respect to everyone! Awesome!

  • @danielmartin1860
    @danielmartin1860 Год назад +3

    Amazing eyeopener mah breevas... kapai to mahi👌

  • @INFINITEDOSAGE
    @INFINITEDOSAGE Год назад +3

    ❤❤❤much love brothers and sisters blessings from the most high. Amen KOTAHITANGA

  • @aimeeshrimpton1602
    @aimeeshrimpton1602 2 месяца назад +1

    Fills my heart with hope to see this movement take off! Keep doing the good work.

  • @physic3524
    @physic3524 6 месяцев назад +1

    Bro, incredible journalism. These are tough men, maybe some of the toughest men in the world. Able to admit their wrongs after all they've been through, no matter their sins or transgressions I can only lower my head and bow.

  • @pamelalandrum82
    @pamelalandrum82 Год назад +4

    Awesome awesome love and saving grace of our Savior YAHUSHUA Christ..Lord bless you all🙏

  • @BOOYAANZ
    @BOOYAANZ 11 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful korero kaupapa !

  • @apm3002
    @apm3002 10 месяцев назад +1

    what a cool video. love to see our Māori men have a safe space to talk about their journeys , it really opens up a different perspective on this topic. love this channel

    • @TFSpodcast_
      @TFSpodcast_  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you 😊 much love

  • @allantaylor1758
    @allantaylor1758 Год назад +3

    Cheers Bro,Men need to wake up to this Violence that we don't need 😢

  • @JRTIGER07
    @JRTIGER07 Год назад +3

    Mean Brothers & Sisters, Heart felt Korero 🙏 God bless your Guys New Journey 🙏 "Dont look back in Anger or Forward in Fear but Around in Awareness" 🙏 Come Yeshua Ha-MaShiach 🙏
    *JOHN 3:16* Take the 1st Step of Faith with God 🙏

  • @marilyntape508
    @marilyntape508 Год назад +2

    Excellent work ❤✅🇦🇺

  • @KlatenaJemzSelectionz
    @KlatenaJemzSelectionz Год назад +8

    Can they come too Our town to let our people know it not Ok! Waitara Needs these influences nd need help fast!

    • @K1W1MAT
      @K1W1MAT 24 дня назад

      @@KlatenaJemzSelectionz damn is Waitara still like that? I grew up in Bell Block

  • @nzdoom827
    @nzdoom827 Год назад +2

    Awesome kaupapa, thank you for sharing this

  • @whoCares-3E
    @whoCares-3E Год назад +3

    Need this

  • @davidpoto2964
    @davidpoto2964 Год назад +3

    I wish I could get my Dad in this and of the drugs. 1 day at a time 🙏🏾

  • @geneva6468
    @geneva6468 2 месяца назад +1

    Wow bro that was beautiful 💛
    Gives me hope to know that things could change for the better in regards to safe man. As for my family,I do whatever it takes to make sure and keep my family safe

  • @maramanepia8556
    @maramanepia8556 4 месяца назад +1

    Yes nga mihi to the brothers and sister that shared in now a space for all to overcome nga mihi ano kia kaha whanau

  • @mikeherbert470
    @mikeherbert470 11 месяцев назад +3

    AROHANUI WHANAU AWESOME KAUPAPA ❤❤❤

  • @damonwharerau3137
    @damonwharerau3137 20 дней назад

    I worked with the bro john ropiha and one of his sons in one of the kiwifruut orchards in kerikeri. Very well spoken and grateful for his life and second chance hed been given 💛

  • @nenahanderson3461
    @nenahanderson3461 3 дня назад

    Love it. Great MENtors stepping up wth guidance..in helping restore masculinity &relationships for our future generations .

  • @sweetazbro-b9x
    @sweetazbro-b9x Год назад +2

    Mean brother, inspirational as...Thank you or sharing...

  • @hanasopoaga
    @hanasopoaga Год назад +3

  • @shystyloc367
    @shystyloc367 Год назад +2

    Love and respect brotha🫡💙

  • @Stui-tm3sg
    @Stui-tm3sg 4 месяца назад +1

    Much respect mate sorting out the issue's

  • @PhillipRudolph-g4e
    @PhillipRudolph-g4e 11 месяцев назад +1

    Be blessed stay blessed and God bless’ kind regard Phillip

  • @eretirobin3522
    @eretirobin3522 11 месяцев назад +1

    HOW BEAUTIFUL. SAFEMAN, SAFEFAMILY. MAURI ORA.

  • @jesssmith2064
    @jesssmith2064 Год назад +3

    Wow that was cool.

  • @jimmytuipulotu191
    @jimmytuipulotu191 Год назад +2

    Keep up the good work bro, ofas and Jah bless 💯❤️💚💚.

  • @harleyfox3771
    @harleyfox3771 Год назад +3

    Awesome bro

  • @jacksparrow7245
    @jacksparrow7245 Год назад +3

    Awesome

  • @adambamf9365
    @adambamf9365 Год назад +2

    Powerfull video

  • @wezdom_nz
    @wezdom_nz 10 месяцев назад +1

    POWERFUL! 💯

  • @samael9445
    @samael9445 Год назад +3

    Honestly: this is sade, for our people please God, 🙏 please come, & heal, all of these Now!! Lord... 🙏🙏🙏🙏 through your son jesus Christ....Amen.

  • @njordan6640
    @njordan6640 11 месяцев назад +1

    I was brought into this world with a mother that was in a coma with me in your stomach from my biological dad iv meet twice and I’m actually glad this is the case because it made me a better person. Two years later my mother met a very toxic narcissistic person who was in my life for years to come who didn’t know how to love us and showed in blood and tears, this documentary made me go back to that time and one of them was when I would have been around 7 years old and got put out in the dog kennel to sleep the night and the only way to keep warm was to cuddle them ( Staffordshire terrier) I’m seating he trying to think what I must have done wrong 🤷🏻 wtf. I am a very strong independent person to date. 40 years old with a lot going for me. Not here for gratitude. I feel for people who have been in my situation. I really felt for the lady with short hair you are so beautiful and powerful I can’t even imagine how hard it must have been for you
    Much love

  • @treoryiz1156
    @treoryiz1156 Год назад +2

    Good work David super

  • @victoriarihari4934
    @victoriarihari4934 Год назад +1

    I lift to heavenly father and 🙏pray for all men and women and teenagers of young age for spiritual strength and courage to be set free from the chains that bounds each one.
    I lift this message to our HOLINESS JESUS CHRIST.
    John 14:6
    I AMTHE WAY,
    TRUTH AND THE
    LIFE
    NO ONE COMES TO THE FATHER EXCEPT THROUGH ME.....
    AMENE❤.

    • @JRTIGER07
      @JRTIGER07 11 месяцев назад

      🙏 *A M E N* 🙏

  • @angelinaandzue1068
    @angelinaandzue1068 Год назад +1

    Love this..awsum.. waima forever ✌️

  • @taniatigerashby5452
    @taniatigerashby5452 26 дней назад

    I would be amazing to come home to nz finally knowing that the men at home were walking the path of Jesus and truly safe men.....im scared to come home permanently i been running from home since 98 because of all the trauma ..... I miss home 🏠 i miss my beautiful nz and whanau

  • @gorillaj131
    @gorillaj131 Год назад +2

    Good works brother keep it up

  • @tinanz985
    @tinanz985 7 месяцев назад

    Love this!!! Here for it ❤❤

  • @ainzstainton9766
    @ainzstainton9766 5 месяцев назад

    awesome stories my bro. this is the dark part of our country that gets brushed underneath the carpet. yea its beautiful all this and that, but under the surface its more sinister. so sad 😢

  • @Julie-dy3ly
    @Julie-dy3ly 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love wat U men have created Mean Moari Mean 💯♥️

  • @franklinnanai2745
    @franklinnanai2745 8 месяцев назад +1

    Safe man, safe family 👍

  • @casper4966
    @casper4966 5 месяцев назад +1

    I was a 60's child in NZ born into a violent /drinking family my dad beat us kids daily wait until your father gets home type my mum always said ----- i to tried to get away from things running away living in the plantations ---i was a drunk
    / druggie do to others what my so called father did to me ended up inside a few times etc but i broke the cycle i was in but i still have that chip on my shoulders those memories will not go away what i remember my brother and sisters remember is always with us

  • @erenarau5320
    @erenarau5320 Год назад +2

    Solid brothets hell yea!!!

  • @kiwikiwi8023
    @kiwikiwi8023 Год назад +2

    Take care kiwis all love ❤️

  • @Raynman755
    @Raynman755 Год назад +1

    Powerful brother🙏

  • @franklinnanai2745
    @franklinnanai2745 8 месяцев назад +1

    Kia kaha to all the people on their journey.

  • @roadtoredemption15
    @roadtoredemption15 Год назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥 ❤ powerful kaupapa

  • @tribalwar9971
    @tribalwar9971 Год назад +1

    Mana.
    One love.

  • @TinekaJasonPalmer
    @TinekaJasonPalmer 11 месяцев назад

    Keep up the awesome work

  • @kerridavis2630
    @kerridavis2630 11 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @eleanorthompson4076
    @eleanorthompson4076 11 месяцев назад

    Wow…amazing ❤

  • @nathansmith-h6h
    @nathansmith-h6h Год назад +1

    Wish i could if come along to share the journey

  • @HEKLZ1312
    @HEKLZ1312 10 месяцев назад +1

    Make a change 💪 💯

  • @stephenkereopa7495
    @stephenkereopa7495 7 месяцев назад +1

    This is so important. The biggest and best thing to do is the right thing.😊 Get rid of your hate.😢

  • @RobJ351
    @RobJ351 7 месяцев назад

    Great work Dave cherry bro

  • @peterricktenahu324
    @peterricktenahu324 Год назад +3

    Jesus is Lord🙌 pour out you Spirit on our Prisons Lord. May every person in those cells come to know your Love and your peace. JOHN 10:10 JOHN 3:16

    • @JRTIGER07
      @JRTIGER07 11 месяцев назад

      🙏 *A M E N* 🙏 *JOEL **2:28**-32* 🙏 *ACTS 2:16-21* 🙏

  • @teezyizeazy6261
    @teezyizeazy6261 11 месяцев назад

    This is dope!!!!

  • @robertjacksonnuages
    @robertjacksonnuages 11 месяцев назад

    excellent......

  • @irifikkk8489
    @irifikkk8489 Год назад +1

    Mean video dave mi.bro

  • @spartan685_
    @spartan685_ 10 месяцев назад

    Much alofas brothas 👊

  • @jonnyjensen399
    @jonnyjensen399 11 месяцев назад

    ❤❤ on brother

  • @samael9445
    @samael9445 Год назад +1

    The Damage has been done, so who's gonna, pay 🤛👊🤜 sad, but true..though,

  • @angelinaandzue1068
    @angelinaandzue1068 Год назад +2

    I see my cuzin tricia ❤

  • @trrhyn
    @trrhyn 11 месяцев назад

    bless xx

  • @zanetonge9890
    @zanetonge9890 Год назад +1

    H13RTY az brutha🤙

  • @SusanWillan
    @SusanWillan Год назад +3

    Stop the sexual assaults violence and addiction replace it with health happiness and love and joy it's not that hard make better choices

    • @emzRotorua123
      @emzRotorua123 11 месяцев назад +2

      🤠We’ll get that sorted for you right away ma’am!
      🤨Anything else We can do for you?

  • @Wargasm99
    @Wargasm99 Год назад +1

    6:14 Coey East 💪

  • @D-Rizzle653
    @D-Rizzle653 10 месяцев назад

    07 there’s Koey the Rogue yeah he’s awsome Koey,

  • @jahnnesjanusjahn007
    @jahnnesjanusjahn007 11 месяцев назад +1

    Kia kaha whanau

  • @haydengoulter3676
    @haydengoulter3676 11 месяцев назад +1

    gota be maori for this ?

  • @KINGCOGMX
    @KINGCOGMX 6 месяцев назад

    follow jesus doesn't mean your religious as he only asks that u love and walk with him, wear as Catholics n stuff no offence its wrong because they don't go straight to Jesus they need something to worship for for example like a cross with him on it but it doesnt say to do that in the bible so its Fulse being a Christan doesn't mean your religious just means you follow the lord the most high god yah

  • @JohnRambo-ku2cw
    @JohnRambo-ku2cw Год назад +1

    This needs to seriously stop

  • @KINGCOGMX
    @KINGCOGMX 6 месяцев назад

    that fella who said 3 generations that's the soul ties in the spirt world getting passed down in the kid it all ties into the bible that's why before u have kids make sure to beat the generational demons god bless

  • @KINGCOGMX
    @KINGCOGMX 6 месяцев назад

    its spirtural warfare ghoing on dont get madd at the person get madd at the spirt in them some people have demons and they just dont know anyways god bless people for the kingdom of heaven.