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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @georgrittel4243
    @georgrittel4243 2 года назад +1095

    Three cheers for Malinda, the Irish fairy! Be what you are and keep enjoying us all with your wonderful singing.

    • @damirbrtan1812
      @damirbrtan1812 2 года назад +8

      That's exactly what she is!!!!!! Bravo, Georg!!!! Irish fairy!!!!!! Exactly!!

    • @jamesbrice7835
      @jamesbrice7835 2 года назад +2

      HIPP HIPP HURRAY!!!

    • @volkerjahns2489
      @volkerjahns2489 2 года назад +5

      Absolutely. Who am i to justify. My Best Woman is bi also, and a good friend of mine is gay. So what? Malinda, you are such a positive person, and such a good musician with such a beautiful voice, who cares about your sexual taste? It's not my personal taste, but here in Germany we say: "Ein bisschen bi schadet nie!", being a little bi is never a mistake. Stay as you are. Volker

    • @cottoncandyswirl8289
      @cottoncandyswirl8289 Год назад +1

      The BIrish Fairy! ✨

    • @FrumiousBandersnatch42
      @FrumiousBandersnatch42 Год назад

      faerie?

  • @teethan3928
    @teethan3928 2 года назад +489

    oh my gods, malinda this gave me so much hope. i didn’t know generalized anxiety disorder could go away. i didn’t realize one could have a life after an eating disorder. i didn’t realize an introvert could find community and be an ambivert. i didn’t know that there were accessible traditional irish music groups in the us. i thought my life was over, im barely 15 and i thought that this was all there was and that it never would get any better. the fact the at you have a life and you thrive is so fucking powerful. thank you for sharing this. i have so so much hope now thanks to you.
    edit wait holy shit guys i’m 16 i forgot i’ve been 16 for like 2 months LMAO

    • @muustyx
      @muustyx 2 года назад +26

      Lol that edit is very funny & relatable. Also I won't have the same impact as that video, but I still wanna reaffirm that it absolutely does get better. This sentence used to piss me off but now I know everyone who told me this was right. It does. You can thrive too. If not now, then someday for sure. Hang in there. I'm proud of you.

    • @recinbersvoice8802
      @recinbersvoice8802 2 года назад +3


      I believe in you

    • @evie-rd8tc
      @evie-rd8tc 2 года назад +8

      I hope you will continue to find hope! I really relate to what you're writing, when I was 15 I was in some of my darkest times with eating disorder, emotional dysregulation and anxiety. I thought it would never get better and I would never have a life and never be happy. I'm now 22, I no longer have an eating disorder, I had a lot of therapy, I'm studying, I'm engaged, and I feel more confident than ever! I feel like I still have a way to go, there's still hard times and times I don't know if I'm going to make it. But when I look at how far I've come in the past years I know that by the time I am 28 I will feel way different again too! Hold on, it does get better!

    • @FIRING_BLIND
      @FIRING_BLIND 2 года назад +8

      Hey its OK.
      Generalized Anxiety Disorder doesn't go away for everyone. If I'm not mistaken, that's the case for most ppl. BUT it can become manageable. I should know. I have it, and yet im still living my life and am even studying to apply to law school. As you get older, and learn how to communicate your feelings better, and surround yourself with a support system, it'll get easier.
      Life is NEVER over. And certainly not at 15

    • @drskelebone
      @drskelebone 2 года назад +1

      I wish I could offer more than good vibes and good hopes, but let me tell you: I have had so many situations where someone asks me something like "what's your birthday?" or "how old are you?" or "what's your address?" or something, and I stutter through it like I'm the absolute worst undercover spy in the world. If they're a friend, just do a "you caught me in an oopsies" shrug, and if they're not, then you shouldn't really care about what they think, you'll never see them again.

  • @FunkiFungi42
    @FunkiFungi42 2 года назад +2020

    To discover that one of my favorite musicians represents me as a bisexual person is one of the best things that's happened in a long time. Thank you for that. 💜❤️💙

    • @britollefson2170
      @britollefson2170 2 года назад +21

      Exactly this ^

    • @apriannemanlangit
      @apriannemanlangit 2 года назад +6

      @@gruenerteufelDD It is when you like both natural genders.

    • @matissedelaplace2191
      @matissedelaplace2191 2 года назад +8

      Omg I feel exactly the same !!!!

    • @j.c.5528
      @j.c.5528 2 года назад

      @@apriannemanlangit All genders are natural. :)

    • @TrueRomancer04
      @TrueRomancer04 2 года назад +7

      Yaaaas! I didn't feel comfortable coming out until last year because I first had to find an accepting community, so it brings me all of the joy that Malinda had zero hesitation in coming out once she realized her orientation.

  • @bluepowder2008
    @bluepowder2008 Год назад +84

    How can you not fall in love with her voice alone ..heavenly awesome soul..

  • @aylahayden6100
    @aylahayden6100 2 года назад +81

    Actual chills when you said "how I fell apart and put myself back together again," 💖 I'm in the putting myself back together again phase, and I am so excited to hear one of my favorite singers narrate this feeling! I am so glad to hear that you are feeling more in touch with yourself than ever and look forward to hearing your journey through your music!

  • @shadowsorceress5958
    @shadowsorceress5958 2 года назад +631

    As a 19 year old bisexual Northern Irish gal, you're an absolute inspiration. And just as a human, you're an inspiration. Can't wait for the album!!!

    • @that_one_who_is8037
      @that_one_who_is8037 2 года назад +9

      Ayy I’m southern Irish! (Cork) (Not bi tho, nonbinary & lesbian)

    • @shadowsorceress5958
      @shadowsorceress5958 2 года назад +5

      Awesome! Malinda has fans from both the top of Ireland and the bottom. I've never been to Cork (would love to some day) but it looks beautiful!

    • @scyye-gaming
      @scyye-gaming 2 года назад +3

      what does the fact youre bi have to do with anything?

    • @shadowsorceress5958
      @shadowsorceress5958 2 года назад +10

      @@scyye-gaming Malinda just came out as bisexual, it's the most replayed part of the video. She started her career when she was 19, she has a connection to Ireland, and she's bisexual, all things I have in common with her. Those aren't necessarily reasons she's an inspiration, but it's cool to have stuff like that in common with a role model

    • @scyye-gaming
      @scyye-gaming 2 года назад +2

      @@shadowsorceress5958 wait it wasn’t obvious she was bi? There’s no shot that I’m the only one that knew that.

  • @StevenJQuinlan
    @StevenJQuinlan 2 года назад +134

    I'd be lying if I didn't have mixed emotions. It was the comedy channel that first brought me here, and I've loved every second of them. From the sublime to the ridiculous, translator fails of Google translates was an amazing stroke of genius, and by the sounds of it, you're too busy to do more of it. That makes me sad.
    On the other hand, holy hell, I'm absolutely thrilled to hear you're feeling better both physically and mentally, that you've had a chance to explore Irish music and that you're making an album.
    That's mind-blowing and it's amazing that you made this happen. You're an honest to betsy inspiration and if original work and Irish songs are where you're going, I'll certainly go there alongside you

  • @SparrowFall
    @SparrowFall 2 года назад +69

    "I have never felt happier, never felt more myself" - What lovely knowledge as a fan to know your in a good place. I hope the personal joy continues and flows into your music.

  • @owen9510
    @owen9510 2 года назад +69

    For what it’s worth as a stranger on the internet who is a big fan of yours, I am incredibly proud of you and all you are doing and being.

  • @IrishElf
    @IrishElf 2 года назад +70

    As a random blind person, who found you when I was eight, thank you. I’m so excited to see your album come out, and I’m really sad that I can’t support you on Patreon as I don’t have a lot of money. If I did, I pinky promise that it would be going to your Patreon. Also, congrats on being honest and who you are. You’re a legend.

  • @nathanisip
    @nathanisip 2 года назад +384

    So very proud of you Malinda, both for the album and the personal growth. It was absolutely amazing to see you develop as an artist and a person over the years, and those are just the bits you are kind enough to share with us. Thank you for being a continuing inspiration and a bright spark in the world!
    “I as a queer person was simply a fact, in my community and in myself, and I still am, and that it awesome, and I hope that maybe one day the world can get to be a place like that.” Yes, yes, yes! Here’s to that dream becoming a reality.

  • @nickwittednonpareil
    @nickwittednonpareil 2 года назад +120

    Your description of being a "quiet queer" hits hard. I'm also in a community that would almost certainly be accepting, but I keep my sexuality very private in everyday life. In online spaces, I'm much more comfortable saying I'm pan because of the illusion of anonymity that comes with being behind a screen. The past year or two I've felt more of a pull to intersect those two worlds. Your journey is inspiring and the pure happiness you radiate is totally infectious.

    • @thomassampson6835
      @thomassampson6835 10 месяцев назад +1

      What does being pan mean
      Cuz all I know is that it means bread in spainish❤

    • @nickwittednonpareil
      @nickwittednonpareil 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@thomassampson6835 Hi there! Pan (or Pansexual) basically means you don't really care what someone's gender is. You can be attracted to men, women, nonbinary people, or a gender you don't even know about yet! It basically doesn't matter to you. This is pretty similar to Bisexuals (who are attracted to their own gender and 1 or more others) but it's an even wider net.

    • @thomassampson6835
      @thomassampson6835 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@nickwittednonpareilO thanks so much! I have not figured out what I am yet cuz I'm 13 so thanks for telling me cuz I don't really have anyone to talk about that stuff so thank you❤

    • @nickwittednonpareil
      @nickwittednonpareil 10 месяцев назад

      @@thomassampson6835 Of course! Please be very careful exploring this stuff on the Internet as a young person! There are tons of great people and communities discussing these issues, but there are also lots of dangers to avoid. Please make sure you stick to large communities with protections for minors! Good luck!

    • @hi-yo1kq
      @hi-yo1kq 9 месяцев назад

      Are you me?

  • @SKAlice236
    @SKAlice236 2 года назад +376

    I'm not an emotional person and I seldom had such a visceral reaction to a video... I saw the title and the queer flag in the thumbnail and my eyes welled up. You said "I no longer fit the criteria for generalized anxiety disorder" and my arms shot up and I screamed "YES!" (while eating, mind): It fills me with so much joy to hear you're doing awesome, that it shows how happy you are and to hear that you are part of the alphabet mafia (didn't know that one, it's added to my joke-set now)!!! Lots of love from Germany ;)

    • @elideangeli5098
      @elideangeli5098 2 года назад +10

      Same, I'm lying alone in the dark in bed (not in a depressing way I'm just getting ready for bed) and I grinned which is pretty rare for me

    • @OldManSparkplug
      @OldManSparkplug 2 года назад +3

      As a guy with GAD, this was a surprisingly joyful thing to hear. There was a lot of Joy in the video, but That One specifically is muh favr'it :)

    • @mayab.8070
      @mayab.8070 2 года назад +3

      i agree with the entirety of u comment but id like to say you have reached an important rite of passage now that you know the term alphabet mafia and are using it 👍

  • @larry01902
    @larry01902 2 года назад +63

    Ace fan here. I'm glad to hear you are fully embracing your identity openly and have such supporting people around you. I wish we all had that.
    Welcome to the mafia.

  • @MandibleBones
    @MandibleBones 2 года назад +220

    Thrilled you're doing well, extremely thrilled for bi visibility, and just so freaking glad you've found an amazing, supportive community.
    The strange, healthy version of parasocial: "There's this awesome human on the internet who is doing well, and I am as happy for them as I would be for an IRL friend."

  • @OJ-69
    @OJ-69 Год назад +87

    When Malinda said "I am still the same person" I realized I was looking at her differently and I realized I just felt like I knew her a little more, and it made me so happy that an artist I already loved was in the same loving community as me!! I love you!!

  • @Possum_13
    @Possum_13 2 года назад +21

    Hear hear! Keep Singing and Loving and living your life! I’m almost 70 yrs old and I still don’t get people that would alienate thier children, friends ,family and neighbors because of something that makes them whole and happy! You have an incredible talent and your choice to share it with the world is so generous. ❤🎉

  • @DustyStarrs
    @DustyStarrs 2 года назад +38

    As a bi woman and as a person of Irish heritage (but Australian), WOW did I relate to what you said. I got so many chills. But also the first half your personal update. Over these last couple of years I have made leaps and bounds in terms of my social and general anxiety, so I have finally felt "brave" enough to explore the world and myself. I've made real, genuine connections with people for the first time (not just abiding by the teen urge to befriend the coolest people), finally admitted to myself I am bi, came out and tackled some physical and mental issues I was putting off to "just survive through life". Also, how to, as you said, "be a human"! Though this *has* come at the expense of other areas of my life, I honestly wouldn't have it any other way. I have failed so many times on a path to "be human" and no doubt I still will. But I am finally ready to confront it, all of it - and that's an amazing feeling to have. I hope to one day feel as on top of the world as you seem to - and I think I might soon. Thanks for all you do, Malinda. And from a person who has watched your stuff for six years, thank you for being you.

  • @ojiverdeconfleco
    @ojiverdeconfleco 2 года назад +203

    That feeling of "more myself than ever" totally translates through the camera. As a fellow bi woman, hi ❤️ I love your music!

    • @adamH.1
      @adamH.1 2 года назад +7

      "Translates."
      Nice one

    • @vaidehiiii
      @vaidehiiii 2 года назад

      @@adamH.1 😂😂

  • @davidpaul7623
    @davidpaul7623 2 года назад +42

    Thanks for being yourself. For being open about who are. For being a talented musician. For the joy you bring to so many. Simply put, you are awesome!

  • @mirazenker1203
    @mirazenker1203 2 года назад +54

    You and your music has been a part of me since I was 14. Now, I'm turning 20 tomorrow. It is crazy how far we have both come. I'm so proud of you. And I'm so proud of myself.
    Malinda, thank you SO MUCH. I know this is weird from a stranger on the Internet, but you have helped me a lot. Especially your song "Safely" holds a very special place in my heart. It helped me though my lowest and has cheered me on my highest. ❤️
    I can't wait for what life has in store for both of us.

  • @amedeacatpaw5987
    @amedeacatpaw5987 2 года назад +15

    You are positively glowing in this video! As a Scots/London Irish baby queer who is currently in the falling apart stage… thank you for sharing this, because you’ve truly shown me that I can put myself back together. ❤️

  • @LaurasLilLibrary
    @LaurasLilLibrary 2 года назад +208

    I cannot thank you enough for this video, i feel so heard! I am also a bi Irish American who has found a strong Irish music community in St Paul MN. It is incredible!!
    Also CONGRATS ON THE ALBUM I cannot wait!!! We are with you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Munchkin.Of.Pern09
    @Munchkin.Of.Pern09 2 года назад +15

    That overwhelming feeling of being told you “no longer fit the criteria for” a mental health issue is just… so much. I’m so happy for you.

  • @idk-bh8ys
    @idk-bh8ys 2 года назад +306

    As a music listener, I'm so excited to enter this next journey with you. Finding your Google Translate videos almost five years ago and choosing to stay was a decision I'm never going to regret. I'm gonna miss calling it MKR1 :)
    As a person who's struggled with mental health, seeing you shine like this so openly and unapologetically is so inspiring.
    As a queer person, WE GOT ANOTHER ONE MWAHAHAHA! Just kidding :) But seriously, finding out a person I've so deeply admired is like me in another way is such a magical feeling.
    And to answer your question, I 100% definitely absolutely feel your happiness through the camera. Right now I'm trying to learn how to live on purpose, seeing you like this reminds me it's possible. I'm not there yet, but I will be.
    :)

    • @the_rasenmaeher
      @the_rasenmaeher 2 года назад +16

      That's so beautiful. And I completely agree with you. I just need to change one thing:
      WELCOME TO LGBTQ+ GANG MWAHAHAHAH

    • @YourAverageTheatreKid
      @YourAverageTheatreKid 2 года назад +1

      This is amazing and so kind! I'm a fellow queer and absolutely agree with this!
      Just want to add one thing:
      WE GOT ANOTHER QUEER YALL! MWAHAHAHA

    • @bmmtstb
      @bmmtstb 2 года назад +2

      I'm not there yet, but I will be. Some day. One Baby-Step after the other.

  • @TarunoNafs
    @TarunoNafs Год назад +8

    Congrats on coming out, Malinda! I am part of the alphabet gang, namely the A part, and I too grow up feeling that coming out is not necessary, less because my community is accepting but more because they don't know about asexuality and frankly, it makes no physical difference to my life -- well, or maybe I am just not ready yet! Thanks for the empowering video, and I really enjoy my own reaction of seeing you as the exact same person through watching the video. A little lable doesn't change one, indeed.

  • @alyssa09485
    @alyssa09485 2 года назад +37

    "If you didn't know that already" I did know, the gaydar was going off 😂😂 I suspect it was going off for other people too when they added your songs to "queer faerie vibes" playlists HAHAHA
    Also, I totally get what you mean by "quiet queer," we don't make a big deal out of it, we just ARE ❤️

  • @kasperjoonatan6014
    @kasperjoonatan6014 2 года назад +16

    I am so happy that Malinda is so happy! She has given us so much. If laughter means longer life, then we all will live to 150 😊

  • @Teajay21
    @Teajay21 2 года назад +103

    Also as a queer lover of Irish music I love that you're brining your full self to the genre, we defintely need it!

    • @AdorkableArtist92
      @AdorkableArtist92 2 года назад +9

      Agreed! I'm bi, very proud of my Irish heritage, and a big fan of Irish music. Can't wait to hear Malinda's album!

  • @michaelowens944
    @michaelowens944 2 года назад +38

    Isn't it good to find that everyone loves you for what you are not what you thought they wanted you to be. We love you.

  • @nairbvel
    @nairbvel 2 года назад +584

    I'm just your typical boring cis straight male, but I am freakin' proud of you for being so open & honest about -- and proud of -- who you truly are and for being brave enough to share it in this potentially most judgemental of public forums. I subscribed for the silly Google Translate videos and stayed for the insanely great talent & fun personality, and it is for those reasons that you're going to have to try a heckuva lot harder to get rid of me. :-) So sorry I missed you when your tour was in my neck of the woods but am hoping for another shot at attending a live performance. If I wasn't so frakking broke I'd already be signed up for your Patreon and hope to be able to do that soon, too. More power to you, you gorgeous human being, you! :-)

    • @SirMattomaton
      @SirMattomaton 2 года назад +28

      I have no other issue with anything else you said except that you referred to yourself as a "boring cis straight male"... You do realize each and every single human exists on this planet because of 2 hetero people doing "hetero things" together. Same with the vast majority of life on this planet... I don't have a problem with other people's preferences just as long as they are consenting adults, functional members of society, and not creating problems for others.

    • @alalalala57
      @alalalala57 2 года назад +7

      @@SirMattomaton So? If we didn't exist, we couldn't complain cuz we didn't exist in the first place lol.

    • @chrysanth7421
      @chrysanth7421 2 года назад +8

      @@SirMattomaton bestie girlypop boo boo bear it is not that serious.

    • @Excelsior1937
      @Excelsior1937 2 года назад +19

      You are you. Don’t call yourself boring for being a cis straight guy. You can be happy for Malinda without punching down on yourself

    • @derekg5563
      @derekg5563 2 года назад

      ​@@alalalala57 Well, let's say that person x has done really nice things for you. Insofar as you want to thank person x, you should also thank the people that created person x, and those that created those who created person x, and so on, because in some sense, person x needed their help for their good deeds to exist at all. You do exist to thank all of those involved for that, at least. Of course these creators might have done many bad things too, but you are still lucky for them to exist to do it, if it means you can enjoy people like person x.

  • @connorjohnson8776
    @connorjohnson8776 2 года назад +70

    As a trans guy, defining my sexuality has been a rough little subject. I struggled with it for a long time, and as I have grown older and started to get into my dream career, I have found it to be a simple answer: queer fits. Learning of my family history and finding Scottish, Irish, and native American roots has become a deep dive into learning their history and finding comfort in the music. The sadness, joy, oppression, and expression of roots in every last word of these songs ring deep within my soul. I love finding someone who fits my favorite interests and you fit all of them. Especially with your lower vocal range being the higher part of mine, I have thoroughly enjoyed learning and listening to your siren-like singing, with the reverb of the music ringing throughout my house. Thank you for sharing your story, as you have shown others that they can be proud of theirs. Never forget: your words can change someone's life in the blink of an eye. And you are changing the world for the better with every last song.

  • @LuvWinchesterMen
    @LuvWinchesterMen 2 года назад +13

    "I have never felt more... on purpose." Gosh, I LOVE that! That is such an awesome way to say it, and I love it!

  • @eyrie08
    @eyrie08 Год назад +3

    Did you say “The Alphabet Mafia”? Love it. My own response, whenever someone told me they’re gay, has always been “That’s great. I’m left handed.” Not to minimize it, but only to say it doesn’t really matter. My son never had to come out, because he never had to hide it, never had to fear he would be rejected by me. People’s sexuality is just a non issue for me. You just love who you love.

  • @КсенияПавлова-к3и
    @КсенияПавлова-к3и 2 года назад +57

    as a russian person, i feel really sad that i can't even join the wonderful Patreon family or support my favorite creator ever :(
    you go sweetheart!!!!! im so thankful for everything that you're doing, for everything that you make me feel, and im really proud to have my sexuality represented by such an amazing human
    Malinda is the best human being. period.

    • @patricialyons491
      @patricialyons491 2 года назад +7

      I'm sorry that being Russian is preventing you from supporting Malinda's artistic endeaviors. This is most oppressive, WTF is this all about? I just don't get it, we don't really get it, here in the usa in the way you experience it. Please explain it to me, if you feel safe doing that. I'd like to feel like, like I used to about traveling to another country to experience & learn about another country, it's culture, & ways of life. Russia is now on a big, long Shit list for us here. It really is a shame, sad, & so divisive, Always take care. And remeber to fight for your own freedom for expression in any way you can. It's the way to save your own sanity & soul. Plus , there is power in small moments of learning from others who are so brave, courageous, & who demand respect, equal treatment & equality & better living standards. Hold Fast to your beliefs, Blessings.to you & yours. ✌️🗣

    • @КсенияПавлова-к3и
      @КсенияПавлова-к3и 2 года назад

      @@patricialyons491 everything actually started because of our stupid fucking president and his wishes to get "sum mo land ;)" :( it's basically pointless, unnecessary and stupid
      fucking putin kept thinking that some russian people that live in Kherson, Lugansk and Donetsk are being really oppressed and we need to "save" (get in a motherfucking war with Ukraine) them immediately >:(
      and there's actually a lot more going on in our country because of that. innocent men get dragged into a battlefield, the whole world banned us, we've got a lot taken away from us.....
      and now a lot of people hate russians just because they think we all stand with our president (which is completely not true). thanks putin)
      sorry for my english tho, it's not the best :(
      hope it clarified something for you! if not, im always open to explaining and discussions (:

    • @si-melamme7837
      @si-melamme7837 2 года назад +6

      @@patricialyons491 if I may, I'd try to explain how it feels for us here in the good ole' Mother Russia the Empire of Evil. It's like you are a kid and you have a horrible abusive parent. You didn't choose them, you are powerless, surrounded, outnumbered and very much in danger, even when you just try to live your life, no rebellion meant. Then the parent goes really gaga and starts breaking the law and, say, attacking random people with a knife, and what do neighbours do? They start punishing you. The take away your toys, they forbid you to leave your house, and tell you that they do it to help you deal with your monster of a parent. And no one really cares. And each time this parent of yours tells you that you are surrounded by enemies, it gradually starts to feel like at least partial truth? Cause friends sure don't treat friends this way. And this is just the top layer, disregarding the complex shit that goes on within the society.
      Sorry for this rant, it's just... well. It's very frustrating, to put it mildly.
      That being said, artists like Malinda help us to stay afloat mentally. God bless her and all the creative community.

    • @RowanWolf22
      @RowanWolf22 2 года назад +6

      @@si-melamme7837 We can promise you that so many of us do love you guys, but it’s the fact we too, are powerless because of the big boom that can happen. No one wants to try fight the Big Bad Parent because the big bad parent is worse than a Karen and can actually destroy the world. It’s utterly terrifying. But we FEEL for our Russian friends and generally do not blame you, but the Big Bad Parent.
      This is coming from a Pol who lives in the U.K.

  • @podcastbard
    @podcastbard 2 года назад +6

    My grandma was from Ireland but everyone who hears Irish music can connect to it because from a certain point of view we are all oppressed.
    When I hear Irish music, I get a homesickness kind of feeling, also a sadness for something I've forgotten long ago. When your album is out, I'll buy it because your music and your voice is so sweet. 🌈 💚🌙

  • @azzabynes5707
    @azzabynes5707 2 года назад +135

    Bi queen! We love you MALINDA. Thank you for being such a positive influence during hard spots in my life. 🇩🇰 Tak for min ånds mad.

    • @thedanishcatgirl3205
      @thedanishcatgirl3205 2 года назад +1

      Hej!
      Altid sjovt at finde danskere på uventede kanaler 😄

    • @azzabynes5707
      @azzabynes5707 2 года назад +1

      @@thedanishcatgirl3205 Ja! Undskyld, jeg snakker ikke dansk flydende. Min mormor er en danskere, så jeg lærer dansk at forbinde med hende. Jeg er glad at møde dig 😁

    • @thedanishcatgirl3205
      @thedanishcatgirl3205 2 года назад +1

      @@azzabynes5707 helt okay men det ser da meget korrekt ud

    • @wolfgang7812
      @wolfgang7812 2 года назад

      I didn't know Melinda was Bi how did you find out!?!

    • @azzabynes5707
      @azzabynes5707 2 года назад

      @@wolfgang7812 This video

  • @fiveoakproductions
    @fiveoakproductions 2 года назад +26

    This summer I finally recognized that I am not entirely straight, and have been slowly coming out as bisexual. When you said you identify with "the B part" of the LGBTQ+ community, I gasped and wanted to cry happiness tears. I've loved the Twisted Translations channel since middle school (currently a sophomore in college lol) and have more recently been exploring your original music. To feel a personal connection to you is kind of a dream come true :) All the support from your RUclips community!

  • @Azlantheforestgremlin
    @Azlantheforestgremlin 2 года назад +11

    Seeing you GLOW with just happiness and confidence makes ME so happy

  • @ethevillagecryptid2293
    @ethevillagecryptid2293 2 года назад +117

    * reads title * * immediately thinks "oh is she gonna come out as bi?" * glad to see my gaydar is still on point!
    jokes aside though, I am so happy for you! you are positively glowing!! I've been following you since translation fails days and have loved watching the progression of you and your music. you've always exuded such joyful energy I didn't know how it could increase any more, but it did! can't wait for the album, I'm listening to wild one on repeat while I wait

    • @Catervarii
      @Catervarii 2 года назад +5

      The bi was radiating lol.. you can only have so many songs about being flirty with other women 🤭

    • @Loki_Is_The_Hottest
      @Loki_Is_The_Hottest 2 года назад

      SAME THO! THIS PROVES MY GAYDAR HAS NEVER BEEN WRONG! (I think I have someone I need to ask a question to...)🤣 And Malinda, isn't the power of Irish music just crazy?! Bc I'm an Irish dancer... and bisexual😜🏳️‍🌈

    • @ethevillagecryptid2293
      @ethevillagecryptid2293 2 года назад

      @@Loki_Is_The_Hottest I know this is probably just a joke, but just in case: Please don't ask a potentially closeted person about their gender or sexuality! If they are in fact queer, then they're closeted for a reason, and it can be really scary and possibly unsafe to be pushed out of that earlier than they intended to. Let people come out on their own time- to quote this lovely song, it's ok if they're not there yet :)

    • @SonsOfLorgar
      @SonsOfLorgar Год назад

      @@ethevillagecryptid2293 at the same time, if it's about asking someone they are interested in on a date, in private, then isn't it: "there's no time like the present"?

  • @ultravioletskye
    @ultravioletskye 2 года назад +73

    Congratulations on your album and your confidence in yourself! Proud of you for coming out and for how far you've come as well. 💕✨️

  • @travelswithblindcane
    @travelswithblindcane 2 года назад +5

    having lived in Ireland for a few years (third generation myself) I can definitely say that the queer culture in Ireland is very open and proud. first country in Europe to legalize gay marriage by popular vote! Happy you feel comfortable sharing this with us. it's always nice to just be who you are. Thanks for the music and the awesome personality, can't wait to buy your album!

  • @tiranoke
    @tiranoke 2 года назад +37

    Watching this video has brought so much joy and music to my soul! I’m also bisexual, and I am polyamorous. I love Irish folk music and have felt much of my life as oppressed and unable to be who I truly am. Here, over the last few years I’ve come to accept who I am and I have to agree with you, it’s the best feeling in the world! Your joy and happiness comes through in all you do. Thank you for sharing this part of your life. I love you and wish you nothing but the best!❤

    • @SeinIshamiado
      @SeinIshamiado 2 года назад +1

      Eyyy another poly wassuuupp #polyamorousgang

    • @SonsOfLorgar
      @SonsOfLorgar 2 года назад +1

      #ethicalpolyamourygang!

  • @richardfarrer5616
    @richardfarrer5616 2 года назад +41

    As a heterosexual, middle aged white male, all I can say about the news that you are bi is - so what? It makes no difference to me. I just enjoy you for your singing.
    On the other hand, as someone going through a middle aged slump and middle-age spread, thank you so much for the comments about just working out because you want to. That's exactly the sort of attitude I need to cultivate, and having people so enthusiastically talking about it encourages me to get out there and do something about it.

  • @Alkotra
    @Alkotra 2 года назад +6

    Cheers Malinda for being able to manage her ED much better and not meeting the criteria for GAD!! That's an incredible thing to reach and I'm glad she was able to get there.

  • @FVanth
    @FVanth 2 года назад +18

    Thank you for your bravery and courage in coming out. You are inspiring. I am a 'B' too, and was born with a disability. I wish I could support you, I really ENJOY your singing. Maybe I will find a way to support you even if just for a short time. I will for-sure find a way to purchase your album. Your voice is so beautiful and haunting (in a gorgeously good way) I love-love-love your singing. You're always one of the first music channels I immediately click on when I see your face in a thumbnail. Thank you. I've not always had the most supporting and loving of family and friends in my life, so I'm glad to see you get to enjoy one. Thank you for putting a song in my heart every time you post. I love you -- not like that -- and your music so much. Thank you.

  • @rosebudgremlin
    @rosebudgremlin 2 года назад +13

    As someone who has followed you for about 5+ years now, (and is also a part of the alphabet mafia) I just want to say how amazing it has been to watch you grow and evolve as you find yourself and your sound. You have always been such an inspiration for me and I look forward to seeing where you go next with this amazing album!
    If you ever tour the west coast, I absolutely would love to see you perform live❤️

  • @carmelr5504
    @carmelr5504 2 года назад +10

    Oh my gosh I nearly cried with happiness watching this, so happy for you finding yourself, so excited for your album, and so proud of all you do! Love from a fellow folk-ing bi from across the Atlantic - it seems weirdly fated that I subscribed to you back in like 2013 and was able to be here for all this beautiful journey (/folk revolution)! 💜🏳‍🌈

  • @josephk.8728
    @josephk.8728 2 года назад +6

    I am crying happy tears for you. So glad that you are able to begin recognizing what you want to do. And I can't wait for the album.

  • @rtk142
    @rtk142 2 года назад +2

    I'm the l and the t in the alphabet mafia and of Welsh decent, what I've heard so far is awesome, this just brings me joy. Keep up the amazing work

  • @Roxythehottie
    @Roxythehottie 2 года назад +49

    I recently came out as bisexual as well - but it took me far longer to realise it due to how I grew up and the environment I was in. I’m so glad you grew up in an accepting environment 💖💜💙 I’m also part Irish but only a sliver - you are so inspiring and amazing Malinda - never change ❤️‍🔥

  • @robgrossman8338
    @robgrossman8338 2 года назад +8

    So glad to hear that you're in a much better place mentally, emotionally, and physically. The pandemic negatively affected so many people and it's inspirational every time I hear another person who is elevating themself to the best they can be. Love your music and your stories, can't wait to see what's coming!!

  • @tiffanym1108
    @tiffanym1108 2 года назад +5

    My son is 17 and an aspiring musician and we have been fans of yours for years. I sent him this vid in hopes it will inspire him. Thank you for making us laugh. And cry.

  • @tygereyes
    @tygereyes Год назад +15

    Congratulations to the beautiful siren... such a major accomplishment - wishing you and your loved ones happiness, health, joy, and success in all of those things into which you put your hands, hearts, minds, and spirit this holiday season and the new years to come.

  • @57thorns
    @57thorns 2 года назад +4

    I heard introverts grow in the right company. Not that being introvert would be wrong, just that introverts are very particular (I think is the word) about whom they trust.
    I am just happy you have found you can (reasonably) trust so many people as a musician.

    • @57thorns
      @57thorns 2 года назад +1

      You reveal reminds me of a friend of mine that came out as gay back in the 1990s. People just shrugged, a few said "i suspected that", but in the end, he was still the same mad lad he always was. And who he loves is none of my business anyway.

  • @cheriebock3395
    @cheriebock3395 2 года назад +7

    I am usually (read “always”) the last person to the party, so I am so proud to be a patron for you, to support your work. I have an autographed tour poster hanging in my home office and it tickles me pink every time I look at it. I love your music, so to be the smallest part of uplifting and empowering your musical artistry gives not only to you, but to me as well! I think you are awesome and I am so proud to say I have been a tiny bit of your backing…because you are so wildly talented, the world needs your voice, your music, now more than ever. Finally, as the mother of a gay son, I am simply pleased beyond measure you are comfortable in your skin and surrounded by love and support. Love is love. Continue to go from strength to strength. You have all of us standing behind you.

  • @michellejean11
    @michellejean11 2 года назад +11

    Loved your voice and personality and being Bi should not change that. Anyone that loved your singing before should still love you and celebrate you being you! As the Trans it's a treasure to know you and get to listen to you.

  • @jesseshay4036
    @jesseshay4036 Год назад +1

    Thank you that's a 64 year old retired disabled veteran from our army it is glad or I am glad to hear that you have made me feel the same way you're feeling now finding myself I love you love your music love your ideas and be safe out there God bless you

  • @alyxleaf
    @alyxleaf 2 года назад +73

    Ahhhhh! I'm so glad you feel comfortable sharing this with us! As a young teen still trying to find my own identity (pansexual/demisexual???) in this strange fleeting lifetime this is really comforting to hear you share your own, very similar story. Slay my queen! 🏳‍🌈

    • @slyar
      @slyar 2 года назад +7

      Pansexual and demisexual are not exclusive from each other, FYI. You can be demipansexual

    • @charlibrown7745
      @charlibrown7745 2 года назад

      Your sexuality is not your identity. You are believing a lie.

    • @mister_mustache
      @mister_mustache 2 года назад +3

      you still have your entire life to figure it out 🥰 and it's okay if you change your mind throughout your life!!
      sexuality is fluid, hun.
      you don't need to figure it out immediately.

    • @patricialyons491
      @patricialyons491 2 года назад

      @@slyar what is the demi part, petite? I don't understand the pan,(All), part either really. Like, specifics, what does this label mean irl, please?I have a good reason for asking, b/c a family member is claiming the pansexual tag, so I kinda, need to understand & do not want to offend them in any way, so it would be so helpful to me. I suppose I could look ot up on google, but would so appreciate being able to diaglogue it over instead. Tia. Yeah!

    • @slyar
      @slyar 2 года назад +2

      @@patricialyons491 Demisexual means someone who does not experience sexual attraction until a strong enough emotional bond is made
      Pansexual means someone who can be sexually attracted to anyone, regardless of gender. Gender is completely unimportant to a pansexual's attraction

  • @elviejodelmar2795
    @elviejodelmar2795 Год назад +2

    How sad it is that 'coming out' is even a thing. There is only measure for a government, society, family or individual and that is whether they promote loving kindness and justice or hate and division.

  • @bee_bch
    @bee_bch 2 года назад +27

    Ah I’ve missed you too- so glad you’re doing well and I very much look forward to the album. Keep at it queen :)

  • @oldvinezin2086
    @oldvinezin2086 Год назад +1

    There are some individuals that have a mesmerizing beautiful light about them. Most people don't have it. But in the tiny sliver we get to see of you through your videos, I see an absolutely beautiful and brilliant light. Be you. We are all better for it.

  • @rgurwell
    @rgurwell 2 года назад +4

    I'm really proud of you. I've been through a lot in the last three years. Everything from a carjacking at gunpoint, to anxiety and depression to a stroke. I've also had a falling out with my entire family because I stood up for myself and told them I wasn't going to tolerate their toxic behavior anymore. It's a lot. A whole lot. I want to get to where you are. I'm trying every day. I'll keep trying because of you.

    • @theyoftheravens
      @theyoftheravens 2 года назад

      Step follows step. Best of luck to you stranger! 💛

  • @rosebrown7673
    @rosebrown7673 2 года назад +8

    Thank you for feeling confident enough to share your sexuality with the *world*, essentially. I am so proud of you! You are an inspiration and you are amazing!!!

  • @theannechann642
    @theannechann642 2 года назад +26

    All of this is exiting to hear. I am so happy to hear that you are doing so well and feel so much like yourself. I’m also bi and adore folk music. It really inspires me in so many ways.

  • @aimeejarmain145
    @aimeejarmain145 2 года назад +3

    11:06 I feel that happiness blasting through the camera 💜 being a Malinda fan really just keeps getting better 😊

  • @drenyart
    @drenyart 2 года назад +10

    You are THE most fluidly-verbal person I've ever had the pleasure of watching/listening to! I can't imagine how you keep all that information sorted in your mind, then release it in such a perfectly organized, captivating flow! I could never do that, and I know this because I've tried (though not via RUclips and definitely not intended for such a massive audience).
    In my attempts, I’ve spent days writing and editing (LOTS of editing) what I want to say, speaking the whole thing aloud multiple times to make sure it’s “in my voice,” plonking a copy down within easy sight for reference and then beginning to spin the tale, only to have it dissolve into a puddle of mush, usually within the space of the first two sentences!
    You are incredible, Malinda! (And listening to you sing is pure pleasure, too!)

  • @joewaskiewicz892
    @joewaskiewicz892 2 года назад +4

    I only found this channel a year ago, and quickly you have risen as one of my favorite folk (Irish or otherwise) performers on the platform. You are a talented, gorgeous, and joyful young woman, and I look forward to you dazzling us with your future music, as well as your continued growth as a person on their own Odyssey.

  • @michaelkobylko2969
    @michaelkobylko2969 2 года назад +5

    Does this mean the end of Twisted Translations? I completely understand artists move on and move into different chapters in their careers. I just know there are still a lot of people who love that stuff and would be thrilled to get an update. It's been such a long time. Malinda's translate stuff brough me so much joy over the years. Those uploads were high points during tough times in my life. I actually remember my dad asking me why he'd heard me laughing so much one evening because I'd been in a really dark place and nobody had heard me laugh much for a while.That was the night I discovered "Malinda Kathleen Reese" as Twisted Translations was known at the time.

  • @alexandrasanderson6554
    @alexandrasanderson6554 Год назад +1

    As a second gen Irish-Australian Lesbian, I am right there with you on being shocked that there's not way more Queer Irish musicians, considering how Queer the music feels!
    Sadly we don't really have much of an Irish community over here to connect to, but I'm really glad you've found your people, and I can't wait to see where you go from here!

  • @emilysgrandadventures
    @emilysgrandadventures 2 года назад +212

    I do hope that the lgbtq+ community uas more positive acceptance, over the days. I'm bi, myself.

  • @jamescullen4869
    @jamescullen4869 Год назад +2

    Hi Malinda, I think you are amazing and very brave by announcing the personal news to the world. I have only just found your music recently and I feel like my life is now complete. Looking forward to when you grace the shores of the UK and Ireland for a Tour.

  • @miaherrera7964
    @miaherrera7964 2 года назад +33

    I am so excited to hear this piece of work! You have continued to amaze me with your tone and style, continuing to take it to the next level. I’m so excited and so proud of you! ❤️

  • @jasonmchaffie9954
    @jasonmchaffie9954 2 года назад +2

    You sing so beautifully. My wife and I can't wait to hear your album. Thank you for being your true authentic self.

  • @Cleo299
    @Cleo299 2 года назад +8

    I'm a lesbian and I write songs and I think I might somewhat finally be okay in terms of my mental health and I LOVE this video!! :)

  • @24tink72
    @24tink72 2 года назад +1

    I’m a 62 year old hippie, I accidentally came upon one of your video shorts. I subscribed to your channel because you have a beautiful voice, you are beautiful and honest, and you look amazingly like my granddaughter. You kinda act like her too. I’m not a homophobic, my grandson is gay. You being ( half- gay) as you put it, doesn’t bother me in the least. I love your voice, your personality, your music, I feel like you are my family. I’ve already adopted you. You are my bonus granddaughter . ❤

  • @Leo-wh1st
    @Leo-wh1st 2 года назад +5

    Been here since the very beginning and I'll be here until the very end. Congratulations on everything, it's been an incredible experience seeing you grow, you have such a presence.

  • @Amy-wg5dh
    @Amy-wg5dh 2 года назад +3

    Your music has been and will always be what I equate to calm, peaceful, God-like music. I’m glad you like who you are! I’m glad you like who you are so that that love can shine through your music and touch my soul in the ways I just described. I have mental disorders and need all the peace and God-like feelings I can get.

  • @meadowleaf5424
    @meadowleaf5424 2 года назад +41

    As an Ace/ Greyro, I am so happy to hear that one of my favorite musical artists is on the alphabet spectrum! I rarely see a musical artist that is queer. I know there are q few, but for me I have to go searching for them. Thank you for finding a way to express yourself and create more inclusion. I wish you only the best!

    • @Nehu_22
      @Nehu_22 2 года назад +1

      There are some drag queens with great music, I personally love most of Trixie Mattel and Jinkx Monsoon songs

    • @meadowleaf5424
      @meadowleaf5424 2 года назад +1

      @@Nehu_22 thanks!

    • @S-CB-SL-Animations
      @S-CB-SL-Animations 2 года назад +1

      @@Nehu_22 I LOVE Trixie Mattel! She's one of my favorite Drag Queens out there! 💖💖💖

  • @junandulte9819
    @junandulte9819 2 года назад +8

    Hello Malinda!!It takes a lot of caurage to accept who we are.
    As long as we don't hurt nobody..Life is short so enjoy your pricious time every minute around to the people you care about..Cheers..

  • @Anton_Jermakoŭ
    @Anton_Jermakoŭ 2 года назад +4

    I think that if someone decided to personify autumn it would be you :)
    Such a warm and cozy beauty 🥰

  • @thinkofwhy
    @thinkofwhy 2 года назад +1

    Like ocean tides, social tides change directions, too. Either way, we need to avoid getting pulled along by the hidden under currents, which can drag us so far away from where we were that we might end up in the middle of nowhere without any references with which to guide us toward any solid ground, ever again.

  • @aellawolf2689
    @aellawolf2689 2 года назад +5

    I’m so happy to see you being so happy with yourself. Watching you grow and your music develop has always helped me through difficult times and I just want you to know how important you are to your audience and individuals around the world.❤

  • @junaiydqadir1923
    @junaiydqadir1923 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hello Beautiful Ms. Malinda---------You are amazing.... God bless you!!

  • @Haseo135
    @Haseo135 2 года назад +37

    Fellow bi person here, super happy to hear your mental and emotional state are great. Also super excited for the release of your album, I'm 100% certain it'll be played on loop for a good long while once it's available! Keep living your best life!

  • @brandonburress8995
    @brandonburress8995 2 года назад +2

    I discovered Malinda through tik tok about a year ago & immediately fell in love with her music. I am someone that had never really been interested in my roots until I saw her videos. Hearing her talk about reconnecting with her roots inspired me to do the same. As someone who is over 25% irish myself I am absorbing as much knowledge as I can about Ireland & its history through books, documentaries & any other information I can get my hands on. All of that learning & knowledge is thanks to Malinda and other artists I've discovered through her music. Malinda I dare say that you have gained a lifetime fan in me. Thank you for being an inspiration, a role model & just overall wonderful, joyful, overwhelmingly positive person/artist & also please know that coming out as bi only makes me prouder to be such a HUGE fan of yours. You're truly the best!

  • @doc3255
    @doc3255 2 года назад +71

    HECK YEAH THE ALPHABET MAFIA WE KEEP WINNING :D in all seriousness, I'm so happy and proud of you! It's so cool to see you being the happiest 💛

  • @kristianbjrnjensen5388
    @kristianbjrnjensen5388 2 года назад +1

    So many have told, that they are happy for you about your current life situation. I am so much that, too.. I sat and wanted to give you a happiness hug. I love irish folkmusic , too and am an eager dancer to it, so it cheers me up, that you have found some of the irish music and dancing places in New York and make use of them.------- There are two places for irish jam sessions in Copenhagen and I tend to forget attending them, though I am not all bad at playing on my whistles. I am just happy there is a dancing class close by, that I DO attend.. If it were not night right here now, I would certainly start living and doing some more. There is MUCH to make.

  • @tri3348
    @tri3348 2 года назад +5

    It is so beautiful to see how happy you are after watching your past videos and seeing how much you were struggling. I love how open and lovely your presence is to your audience. I hope you see this and find even more encouragement through the people that watch you from now on. You are a stunning beautiful woman, and following you on your journey to becoming who you are now has been an amazing gift. Keep shining, Malinda. You're amazing. ❤️

  • @kateofbuckingham
    @kateofbuckingham Год назад +2

    This whole time I thought you were an Irish girl ! Your voice is absolutely astonishing! The way you bring emotion into your songs is pure BEAUTY.

  • @Teajay21
    @Teajay21 2 года назад +5

    I've been following you for a couple of years & I'm so happy you seem to be thriving with your album, finding your people in NY, & coming out ✨️ 💕 🌈

  • @laurapotts98
    @laurapotts98 2 года назад +6

    So proud of you Malinda. You are an incredible human being and fellow queer. So excited for your album. Can't wait to see all the things you do 😘

  • @j.brugman927
    @j.brugman927 2 года назад +11

    Who would care what your preference would be, queer or not.. You're just you, and you seem like a wonderful, warm, caring and joyful person to me (at least that is what you show here). I love your voice, your arrangements and the joy you bring to us all, (who also like to listen and watch your compositions) Keep on the great work, never stop learning and growing, and be who you are!

    • @SonsOfLorgar
      @SonsOfLorgar 2 года назад

      People who are afraid to be themselves and show their feelings for one another in public for fear of beeing attacked as the people in that relationship doesn't comply with the religious bronze age romantic norms a frightening amount of people still adhere to and use as justification for trying to institute state terrorism as well as to justify their own personal acts of domestic terrorism.
      Any more questions?

  • @alyssakitty4426
    @alyssakitty4426 2 года назад +7

    I love you so much Malinda, I’m so proud of you for staying strong, persevering through the difficult project of creating an album and being brave enough to open up. I am now calling our community “the alphabet mafia,” I’ve never heard that and I love it. Welcome to the online LGBTQ community (officially)

  • @phahbiyah2426
    @phahbiyah2426 2 года назад +6

    AHH IM SO PROUD OF YOU AND HOW YOU'VE MANAGED YOUR ANXIETY AND YOUR EATING DISORDER!!!! THAT'S AMAZING NEWS, THIS IS INCREDIBLE!!!

  • @cyberdaikaiju
    @cyberdaikaiju Год назад +1

    I don't know why I am just now seeing this video, seeing as I watch your stuff all the time and have since very early on in the google translate days... thanks RUclips algorithm. Anyways, I am glad to hear you are doing so well!

  • @elsie6464
    @elsie6464 2 года назад +4

    I dont even know where to start with how this video made me feel. Youve been such a comfort figure for as long as i can remember and as a young queer person it makes me so so so happy that someone ive looked up to for so long is a member of the same community that ive been looked down upon for being in. I could ramble on for days about how much i love you and how incredibly safe and comforted you make me feel and honestly i started crying when you were talking about feeling your love through the camera because i never realised just how much i do. it makes me so happy that youre happier now and i truly wish you all the best with the album 💗

  • @jennya1782
    @jennya1782 Год назад +1

    Malinda, thank you so much for this video (even though I'm late to the party in terms of commenting lol). I watched it when you first posted it and I loved hearing your updates about everything! But all these weeks later, I find myself recalling it more and more.
    I've been struggling a lot lately with hopelessness/poor mental health, but to hear you talk about how you're so happy, proud, and purposeful has helped. I keep telling myself, "look, she can do it, so maybe you can too."
    This year, I feel like I've only been able to see and feel the broken parts of the world, but you and your words in this video are a light of hope to me. I'm really grateful.

  • @KEBJD
    @KEBJD 2 года назад +20

    i can't wait to hear this album!
    love letter was really good and your new irish folk style thing is just amazing
    i'm so excited omg

  • @randydempsey8554
    @randydempsey8554 2 года назад +3

    I just discovered Malinda and I love her voice. I've only scratched the surface of everything she does. Would love to have a CD copy of that album when it comes out.