Infidelity - Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating
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- Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
- It can be frightening and frustrating. You believe, or are completely convinced, that your spouse is cheating on you... yet, you don’t have enough proof to absolutely know.
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In this video, we’ll share a roadmap for you to assess whether or not it’s likely that your spouse is cheating. And, we’ll tell you what you can do moving forward.
We want to preface this by saying: be wise. Don’t immediately think an affair is happening if one of the things we mention is going on. Rather, make sure you read through and evaluate all of the options.
The key to the “Roadmap” (RDMAP) is this: something has CHANGED in your spouse in the following areas:
1. Responses- your spouse’s responses to you. They could be evading questions or accusing you. Remember, these responses do not necessarily mean infidelity has occurred. Your spouse could be hiding something ELSE.
2. Different treatment from your spouse’s family or friends. This could include discomfort, avoidance, or negative emotions.
3. Missing time, money, and/or affection.
4. Altered or new behaviors/appearance, beliefs and values, or family involvement.
5. Protected devices, places, or storage of things.
Remember to think BIG picture. If all of these are happening, it doesn’t necessarily mean infidelity or addiction, however, something may be going on that you may need to look into.
And, don’t snoop. You can lose your leverage to rectify the situation if you snoop.
So, what do you do next? Have a calm conversation. Do not attack or accusing, but explain how some changes have bothered you. Ask that your spouse respects you and tells the truth, but do not attack your spouse. It’s important that he/she feels SAFE to tell the truth.
But what can you do if your spouse does not open up? Continue to pay attention to signs. If evidence comes across, you can say you discovered it without snooping.
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0:00 Introduction
3:05 RESPONSES TO YOU a. Evades Questions
6:38 DIFFERENT TREATMENT
11:20 MISSING a. Time b. Money c. Affection
14:06 ALTERED OR NEW BEHAVIORS
25:08 CALL 1 (866) 903 - 0990
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Why would anyone want a cheater back at all? Let the affair partner have that psycho.
Why would you want them back ????
People act differently when they are cheating !
I agree
got to find out I was been cheated on for the past 8months of dating,cus I could spy on my girlfriends phone through the help of someone my buddy recommended *PRO_LINKS_TECH* on Instagram
You can see it in their eyes
period!
If your spouse doesn't mention you on their facebook page, they are cheating
How do you know she isn't just being private and grew up in a home where the women did the opposite of praising the father/husband?
Yes you can forgive that person but to continue with them it's painful
My thinking is: if they choose to pick someone else, they've already decided they no longer want me nor do they love me to have decided to break that trust. They've already made that decision to allow themselves, their heart and mind, to be turned away from me
If a man doesn't want to be kept, he will not be kept no matter what the spouse does
My narcissist never tells the truth
I look back now and see all the signs but never noticed them when it was happening. So glad she took off and let me have a great life without her.
Is it better? As im facing these kind of problem and i feel my life us over
@@istiaquefirdous I found out that my fiance who I loved and trusted was cheating on me when I was in hospital, and I feel like mine is over too. 😟
I dont want to go against these no contact theory and all but all i can say no contact gives them space to miss u right? There are guys lined up thanks to social medias ..so no having hope is the best thing everyone can do..i still have nightmares about her being with someone else snd i so want to wish one morning i wake up and find everything is well
ALWAYS trust your intuition!!!! Always!
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intuition mean nothing.
Facile comment, Jose.
Intuition is simply your cautious, risk averse side, For example you rarely find your intuition recommending you take a punt on some business venture that offers massive returns if successful
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when you think its happening it is
So glad I’ve found your channel. Your honesty and decency is refreshing! I’m exhausted by society’s lying, gossiping, selfishness, greed, and stupidity. It’s great to see that there are some good people in this world. Thanks for your integrity and common sense.
12 minutes in and this whole video describes my whole relationship
Sooner or later , people will reap what they sow. When karma comes knocking at their door, the payment due on the balance of life will be tenfold.
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If your spouse rejects you sexually, it is the same thing as cheating.
PROTECTED / GO OUT TO HER CAR TO GET SOMETHING OUT THE CAR AND THEY FOLLOW YOU TO THE CAR ASKING WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR
I feel like this was specifically was directed to me in a way it hurts but same time I don't feel so crazy anymore. Thank yall very much
Hope you are ok and doing well.
He can wake up from death when I touch his phone. He is so glue to his phone like his life depends on it
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Listen to your gut, that's God talking to you.
Yes your gut don’t lie God gave us that.
Eat a sandwich and forget about ittttt
Not always..
@@realwayne86 allways😉! Trust your gut
Your gut is usually very cautious risk averse and pessimistic.
When I caught my spouse cheating I confronted her and I became the bad guy and she would only yell and scream when I asked something
When her best friend calls to let you know what they were talking about last weekend and what she witnessed.
My gut feeling matched up with the friend’s guilt.
People need to stop supporting cheaters and rat them out
Listen to your Gut. You will know the difference between a passing moment or if these thoughts are reoccurring. More often than not..they are.
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That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your spy jobs are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Brian hacks online*
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Thank you for a carefully and sensitively put-together video. You are two special people to do these videos. Always listen to your gut and intuition, remember the out-of-the-norm ordinary pointers occurring, and mentally keep notes. Been there and won from being vigilant, and given all the opportunities to rectify, but each person has a choice, and when help is refused by the offender, then there comes a point when you have to walk away from a marriage, even though it is so hard to do.
Dahm that was powerful. The part where her family might start acting unusual
My gf is always accusing me of flirting and cheating and stuff. Yet I find her talking to guys on social media planning to meet. I leave her and then she begs me back and things are fine and then she starts accusing me of cheating and crap again. It’s a vicious cycle and she gets mad if I “LOOK INTO IT.” Tells me I won’t leave things in the past... it’s been a CYCLE!
OMG.... you have a NARCISSISTIC on your hands. The girl is a psychopath. Better leave her alone.
Wax Doe Yep. Can’t keep a job. Wants new cars all the time. No income. Always losing jobs for whatever reasons!
@@Lowrentfilms Then why are you with her, if she have all those problems?
Sounds like you're with a Borderline. If that's the case, Get out now! She's not going to change, and she WILL cheat on you. She has Zero impulse control.
You guys sound bet professional. Not bias to either party. Thanks for the tips. God bless you.
I never thought of anything when the signs were right there. That’s how much I trusted him 😔💔
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Thank you for this video. My wife does most of this stuff to me. And now that i look back at our relationship/marriage, she's been like this since early on. I can't believe I over look all these signs.
Change in beliefs. THAT ONE HITS HOME. My husband always said that he would never forgive me being unfaithful. Three years ago this changed to I love you so much I would even forgive you for that. When I asked him about the change of heart. He said I've come to love you more deeply and I will forgive anything. Yes I have had the bad feelings. Just no proof. It so hard when you have a kids together. How can you destroy their bubble of happiness based off of your feelings?
My wife said the same exact thing and it had always been a deal breaker. Any update?
I find it very helpful the topic , so I subscribe so I can find out more information . So thank you .
What do you do when this is the past and you missed your window to address it
This was very helpful. Thanks!
Thanks a lot for this 😊
Thank you! I am not a jealous person but only want to guard my heart . It happened in my last marriage and I am now seeing signs with my other spouse. I have been seeing red flags for about a year. I am not mad at him nor seek revenge. I just want honesty. Tina from Southern California
Tina Tots, Thank you for your comment. The first thing we try to teach people is how to have healthy communication with their spouse to avoid making the situation any worse. One of the main tips is to stop PUSH Behaviors. This is anything you do (or don't do) that tends to push your spouse away from you. We teach you 4 other rules you need to follow to help with this situation in our free e-book! You can download it here if interested!
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Hi, can you tell me some of the signs, I'm asking because I'm going through same thing 😔 thank you, God bless
eye opener and what to do! love it
When a wife cheated, only one way to deal with that. Hi honey bye 👋 Ex is Ex
U can't hide if for longer no matter what
Hello!
the best part of your video was then you intellectually said that changed behaivior of your spous close friends or family members toward yourself is a clue!
fantastic!
Very helpful and informative video
Everything you said is Exactly what I experienced I mean everything to the letter and yes I found out ..I had know clue .So guess I did do a road map without knowing that I did a road map!!! Wow I thought I was all alone on this whole planet dealing with this ever so painful experience.....Thank God for conformation and ian so glad to know that I'm not crazy and it's been exposed!!
I trust my gut and when something is up, I know it's up, I just don't know exactly what until I do some investigation.
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Sad , I found my girlfriend of 4 years cheating on me with her ex.
I'm just watched this video to see the signs before I missed, and she did do 90% of what you said. I just wish I knew how long she has. Hardest thing for anyone to go through. Actually cracked my Heart forever,, the betrayal. Thanks for the video.
I know exactly what u feel..but we can't get back all things happened.. we need to be strong and look after our selves to those partner that abuse us..but sometimes it's OK not to be okey bcoz after that we gonna get some rewards from our sufferings.. don't losing hope God will find a Way..
yes and the hardest thing to do is you know it is so what happens well she lying to you and then you start lying to yourself so I.v been there done that ,, but I still tell what I think or what you should do I not walking in ur shoes
I like the way you said be calm if you want to save the marriage but if you dont yell, scream or get an attorney and get rid of them.. I went for divorce but stayed calm.
You feel that gaslighting is not a psychological term? I beg to differ. I can refer to multiple medical journals that certainly refer it to a genuine form of abuse.
I’ve been separated for a whole year and it’s only getting worse I feel this is been going on for our entire marriage -7 years . It’s been masked by control and him accusing me of the very thing he’s doing !You guys are amazing I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart you’re a godsent . I feel like the Lord has been leading me in this direction and you guys confirmed 100% This is the way of God and the only way to restoration and reconciliation. I’m saving up money so I can talk with one of your counselors. God bless you guys you help me so much!!
Amen!
They may not want to be there
I've been married twice and will never make that mistake again.
One lie and its over.
No second chances.
If you take them back they will not face consequences.
Mistakes happen but lies are choices. Hiding is a choice.
Im a devoted Christian no where does it say that you have to tolerate it.
with a nar, kindness is not working
yes that gut feeling usually is spot on ...the advice is awesome thank you so much
with everything we do when it comes to our relationships.. go back to the teachings on these matters of healing..... these guys are teaching us the fastest way to grow with you spouse....do it with LOVE .. PATIENCE & Kindness
guys guys GOD SAYS what is done in the dark he will bring it to the light now it's up to you to do with it
I wish my gut was wrong. 😟
@@candytiger644 well it hurts . don't try and just get over it talk with some one who's been down that road that wont just hurt you more
My wife deny deny deny, I have had more than enough proof, then she gets mad starts calling names and telling me I'm crazy
My spouse keep making excuse not to sleep with me and everytime I asked a question I get told it's my fault that they are acting like that or gaslight everything what that a sign of and how should I fix it I'm a veteran that used the VA marriage counseling but it was terrible
Blaming you is the worst thing a cheater can ever do. This is why it’s difficult to accept a cheater after they have cheated
Imagining convincing me that I’m cheating or going crazy 😪
got to find out I was been cheated on for the past 8months of dating,cus I could spy on my girlfriends phone through the help of someone my buddy recommended *PRO_LINKS_TECH* on Instagram
Yes. A spouse should be able to continually reject you sexually without any consequences....After all, that's their "right", eh?.....
I CAN TELL AND I WILL LEAVE A MAN JUST WITH THE DOUBT AND INTUITION
this is why you're single
It is hard when he is still a good father and still values family life, and children adore him and wait for him to come home every night that which he does in a timely manner.
I don't understand cheating I wish your spouse could just come to you and say hey I have feelings for somebody we need to do something before something happens
It’s not that simple…especially when children are involved
Yup every single one of those and I was vilified and calling controlling the whole time. Now she has taught our kids not to call her during the time she is with him
Dreadful
Sorry mate.
I’m so sorry.
So perfect. Well put. I see all this happening with me. Sadly. Looking forward to get out of this.
Why shouldn't we use the GPS on the car?
They give less affection or more affection. These two are all over the place.
It’s true. It can go either way
I guess Ill kinda delete that guys, dont wanna be a downer
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This is an accurate description of my relationship. However, this is almost how things have been since a few months before the marriage. I know he has addiction to porn, which he knows I have a problem with, as well as an on-and-off addiciton to alcohol, pills, weed, and maybe more. What do I do to know if he is cheating too? it is hard to decipher new signs when he has been pretty secretive and vague the whole time... the only change as of late is the worsening of the previous habits...:(
Hire someone to follow him or her around. Period.
Go pick their phone up and watch their eyes. Eyes always tell the truth. If they suddenly flash wide open then you have your answer
Gut don’t lie.
No it don't
My sister asked her husband patiently to leave everything and come back ,we will live happily with our children. But still he doesn't repent but he start scolding my sister that she is a mad. We r not able to get proof also.
Very informative. Already signed up for your online training or lessons. God help US restore and reset
I wonder, are these rules effective if you suspect your spouse or having a mood disorder?
Whe she trun on the airplane mode when you are out with your friends and she say it was accidentally
What about the excuse “like I have the time for a affair”. Hmmm. People find the time for things they like.
Or why would i answer the phone and he in the room with me? Cause you use he my coworker as the cover.
Yes never listen to people who say your spouse doesn’t have time - oh yes they do
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Thank you
What if we just broke up. Could she be this way?
I’m interested in your services . I will be contacting you. Thank you
He’s cheated on me twice before and I’m seeing the signs again. It’s devastating that someone can treat you this way and think nothing of it 💔
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@@MarriageHelper thank you
Hold your head up I’m going through the same thing with my wife
thank you for sharring, I am now experience those things you are sharring.
Never worth saving a marriage with a cheater. They will do it again and again they just get better at it because you know
Omg so many boxes checked off here
I always thought it was suspicious how my fiance was acting, but I played it off at first. Then I realized, yea he's cheating. I noticed it first when he stopped being intimate with me, and would avoid the subject of sex. Then he would be super clutchy with his phone, like hiding it, turning off volumes, keeping it in his pocket. He texts at all hours of the night, he stays in bathroom or other rooms alone for long periods of time. He always"adjust" himself for longer than a few seconds, always has a hard-on when he has his phone. One time he accidentally called me another girl's name and when I confronted him he played it off like he did it on purpose. He looks at other women and gets flirty even when I'm there. He looks at thin, big boobs girls too, which makes me feel worthless, useless and useless, sexually neglected. 😟I am so depressed , stressed.
You are lucky!! He is yelling "I dont care about you". And you dont listen... Most of the cheating thing is when people manage to do it, unnoticed.. Your case is not really cheating, he is showing off to you about his other relationships..
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A spouse who does less touching could be uninterested because of the untouched spouse. Perhaps spouse (a) has a gambling or shopping addiction. Spouse (b) wants out of the marriage because spouse (b) does not want to die broke.
Good to listen to this it it's helping me understand why I have been feeling nervous around my husband
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But they may also act as a zealous followers of their religion in order to cover up what they are up to.
They walk out of the house with a mattress on their back before you wake up. Set up surveillance cameras.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Move them down the line to the next fool
Correction - "Gaslight" starring Ingrid Bergman. George Cukor not Alfred Hitchcock movie
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There were many changes and I missed it
This popped up on my phone. And after listening to this, it's very scary.
I hope not...
But what if my spouse finds out that I don't trust him and he see me looking at these types of videos online... n if he was never cheating on me in the first place, does he have the right to be mad???
Okay how do you do it???
But wouldn't he have sign up for via Instagram??? He's not into stuff like that
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Can you please tell me what to do if they're super protective of phones and passwords? They recently wanted to upload wats app as a "work contact was going overseas"
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The cellphone or computer is a dead give away I am going through this right now, every time my wife would be texting she would get this grin. All the sudden her phone is password protected and she guarded it with her live last week she typed in the password thinking I was asleep I saw it the next day got into the phone well it was a fact I haven't saw her in a week and got divorce papers today... These clues were all there!
Same that things happened to me and it's hurting the more we found out how they deal those fidelity..but we need to find way to protect us as well if u think u did ur best and u protecting all from ur partner and still didn't work.i think start to protect ur self as well..my world revolve to my partner and kids and put all my effort and best..but in the end still not content..there's nothing more I can give so I decide to continues life and make my self happy to a friend and to those same as my story to heal and to get ready in the future..life is so short we deserve to be happy and not stress but always do the right way..I hope u and ur wife have a chance to make it ..Good luck and God bless
I kept on asking why my husband keep on cheating he fun of cheating at me not 1 only
Girl u ain’t bout too have me thinking it’s me
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Gaslighting IS a psychological term. Also, you're confusing gaslighting with 'projecting'.
This woman would walk by my husband car at our grandson football games and smile at him. She would follow and talk to him at my grandsons basketball games my husband would talk to this ladies children and grandchildren. He also ran up the bleachers at the basketball game where she was sitting and hugged her grandson. I got upset and then he turned his anger towards me. I was wondering how he even knew her that well. That was only one woman I have even more.
This is exactly how. I feel about my husband
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My wife of 21 years showed every one of these signs,and included financial infedity as well,our whole marriage was a lie,I can’t think about two decades of memories now because it’s too painful in hind sight
She proceeded to take everything in the divorce and I was broke,in debt,and sleeping in my truck and she had everyone believing I was the bad guy
Now I just exist
He is so annoying doing things and saying things that are pushing me away from him and even sometimes I feel very deep that I don't love him anymore because I started seeing someone else and he got to know about it ? Since then he tried everything possible for me to understand him and come back with him but since he has been pushing me away and punishing me with everything that I do.
Gaslight is a great movie