How To Stop Being A Nice Guy! Interview w/ Dr. Robert Glover

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  • Опубликовано: 29 июн 2024
  • Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and Dating Essentials for Men. Dr. Glover is an internationally recognized authority on the Nice Guy Syndrome.
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    As a result of his work, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of Nice Guys transform from being passive, resentful victims to empowered, integrated males. Along with these personal changes have come similar transformations in these men's professional careers and intimate relationships.
    Dr. Glover is the creator of Dating Essentials for Men and the director of TPI University, where he teaches virtual courses such as Nice Guys Don’t Finish Last, They Rot in Middle Management and The Ruminating Brain.
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  • @coltenkelso5764
    @coltenkelso5764 Год назад +27

    One of the biggest first steps to stopping the nice guy syndrome is shifting the blame. Stop blaming others for not getting your needs met and stop being resentful towards others. Realize that it is your fault for not getting your needs met. I recommend meditation to any nice guy. Start looking within to see what’s going on in your mind. I’m recovering myself.

  • @diadreamsinaction6182
    @diadreamsinaction6182 2 года назад +6

    Great interview. I enjoy Dr. Glover.

  • @1RPJacob
    @1RPJacob 8 месяцев назад +2

    _"Don’t hit on women you are not attracted to, because it won’t teach you anything"_ - Paul Janka NY

  • @jasond626
    @jasond626 Год назад +5

    Thanks for the video.. Dr Glover giving great advice. Great questions from your clients

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Год назад +2

      Thanks Jason

  • @flyer617
    @flyer617 9 месяцев назад +1

    Awesome interview.

  • @TheNiceGuyShow
    @TheNiceGuyShow 4 месяца назад +1

    Great interview

  • @angelramos-ortiz9696
    @angelramos-ortiz9696 5 месяцев назад +1

    Being me , putting boundaries , Saying Yes or No when it's necessary is EXACTLY what gets me in trouble with women , In a World of Half-Lies the person that call BS is the one who gets in trouble and other people turn away from me.

  • @JoeMahan
    @JoeMahan 2 года назад +2

    Great job. Very informative video.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 года назад +1

      Thanks Joe!

  • @guntertorfs6486
    @guntertorfs6486 2 года назад +1

    Great , discrete moderation , by the way.

  • @KMINES007
    @KMINES007 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for being so Open with love thank you so so so much .

  • @careydixon8189
    @careydixon8189 6 месяцев назад +1

    Excllent idea on social interaction...it opens you up & gains the feel for the nigtt(s)...

  • @johnmichaux616
    @johnmichaux616 Год назад +1

    What good sound sensible advice ! Well done.

  • @ivan_prokhorov
    @ivan_prokhorov 2 года назад +4

    Thank you! Great interview, very smart and beautiful anchor. ❤

  • @travisbartholomay
    @travisbartholomay 2 года назад +4

    I am teaching myself to be nice because I am good at being a asshole I had professional teachers.
    So thank you for the invite. But my goal is to be nice to change my mindset. Your awesome

    • @tracismetka5176
      @tracismetka5176 2 года назад

      Hello this really works for me. I know of a great man| who helped me bring my ex back, he can aIso heIp you, he does a perfect work I'm assuring you, you gonna testify.

    • @tracismetka5176
      @tracismetka5176 2 года назад

      Wh'atsap him for heIp.

    • @travisbartholomay
      @travisbartholomay 2 года назад

      Why do I want his help. If I wanted my ex back I could get her back.
      There is not much in this world that I can't have if I want it bad enough.
      And if it was out of my league I would just upgrade myself. Thank you. Have a good night

  • @guntertorfs6486
    @guntertorfs6486 2 года назад +2

    New to your channel , but i can already see why you like working with men : you're clear and to the point . Very little fluff. I'm sure guys love working with you. Your looks surely don't do harm either.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 года назад +1

      Thank you. 10 years and running ;)

  • @lendalpiaz4504
    @lendalpiaz4504 Год назад +1

    Damn!!!! I'm packing my shit and moving to Puerto Vallarta!!
    But great interview.

  • @Naturally-Stoked
    @Naturally-Stoked 2 года назад +6

    Do women go through half as much as us men in dating? I guess they go through a lot because of our nice guy issues that makes the pickings slim... Anyway, I am committed to fixing my dating issues.

  • @Dman425
    @Dman425 Год назад +8

    I am 50 now. I wish I took the advice that these guys give when I was younger. I will probably be single forever now

    • @adamwarlock5286
      @adamwarlock5286 6 месяцев назад

      You lucky lucky bastard 😂

    • @andrebaxter4023
      @andrebaxter4023 Месяц назад

      50 isn’t too late. Well, 51 now since this is a year later.

    • @Dman425
      @Dman425 Месяц назад

      @@adamwarlock5286 lucky?

    • @Dman425
      @Dman425 Месяц назад

      @andrebaxter4023 all the good women are taken at my age, at this point

  • @andrebaxter4023
    @andrebaxter4023 Месяц назад

    Robert Glover gets it.

  • @ezlistener
    @ezlistener 2 года назад +3

    Breaking the habit to superficial beauty...
    On it...

  • @DeepScubaDiver
    @DeepScubaDiver Год назад +6

    Everything was sounding groovy until the part about the "stop ejaculating". Disagree there, I'm 56 and I do that 3 times a week at least. There are health benefits and you even said that in another vid about sex. Stress reliever, healthy heart, happiness, etc. I guess if you ejac all the time then it is bad since that sounds like an addiction(a dick tion 😂 no pun intended)

  • @timmypaxton5376
    @timmypaxton5376 Год назад +2

    Gotmilk emlovz for my chocolate chip cookies

  • @mationinfo
    @mationinfo 11 месяцев назад

    Wow. At age 55 I do love myself a lot. I don't get out as I would like to and that is ok. laugh out loud. My ejaculation did slow down a lot however, I still love women. Even though she’s not here in the physical realm, I go about my business as though she is in my life thank you universe for this loveable gal. There is so much love to share. No fear.

  • @rvrebel1929
    @rvrebel1929 Год назад +2

    Hi. Very interesting video from both of you . What is your point of view of much older guy getting, chatting up going out with much younger girls, And they are hitting up on me

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Год назад +1

      10 year age gap is proven by studies to be your guide when dating younger women.

  • @Yousoundconfused
    @Yousoundconfused Год назад +5

    Be kind to her, NOT nice, be flirtatious, then be aloof. Wait a few days to respond to any text, then reply " hey sorry for the late response, been really busy." Let's get together Friday for an hour at 8 for a drink and chat. Be kind and flirtatious on the 1 or 1 1/2hr date, no longer, and say we should get together again next Saturday to get it scheduled. Be kind and flirtatious, then aloof, kind then aloof Classic pull/push. Drives em nuts. Oh, and never EVER tell them your feelings or emotions no matter what bs they tell you. Well, unless you want to get rid of her. Lol. That will do it everytime!!! Good luck!!

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 3 месяца назад

      Haha yeah if you take a step back and analyze the dating and relationship process it is truly absurd! So much work and effort for something that may not even give much of a reward

  • @andrewcklink
    @andrewcklink 2 года назад +2

    Not sure how I landed on this video. Some good points being made in here tho.

    • @lisagreene804
      @lisagreene804 2 года назад

      I am seeking for my forever now,my husband died some years ago and it feels lonely being single.

  • @mikel7417
    @mikel7417 Год назад +1

    Cool interview. Not knowing anything about him, I thought he would be kinda stiff. But he was funny and had more personality that i was expecting. On a side note: This nice guy thing is really shitty! I can honestly say i DO show my personality, rough edges and all. And i DO get positive reactions from it. So good for me. But at the end of the day, the nice guy gene just dosent want to die. Hahaha.

  • @l7o6s5c4
    @l7o6s5c4 Год назад +2

    Ya lost me there on that last one lol 😂. But 99% of the rest of his encouragement is correct and super helpful

  • @chxwv
    @chxwv Год назад +2

    He is not aware of the risk of increase in prostate cancer with less than twice a week ejaculation.

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 8 месяцев назад +1

    Pretty is fine but I go by heart and mind !!! And Rejection can be just part of the process !!!

    • @Dman425
      @Dman425 6 месяцев назад +1

      Really? You go after women you aren’t attracted to? Liar!

  • @DGC2004
    @DGC2004 Год назад

    57:09 I don't care if it's in air quotes he said it lmao 😂

  • @DAClub-uf3br
    @DAClub-uf3br 7 месяцев назад

    Being nice is my only positive quality.

  • @jimmac2419
    @jimmac2419 11 месяцев назад +1

    Really good interview! The one odd thing I don't understand is how he has sex with his wife apparently often, but only ejaculates about once a month. Does\he have sex with his wife without ejaculating?

  • @jarpipparah
    @jarpipparah Год назад

    How does an out cast meet woman
    When I say out cast I mean out cast
    I have no friends

  • @AgeofCraccadilliaassent
    @AgeofCraccadilliaassent Год назад +1

    If I'm tall with nice jaw I can be nice.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Год назад +2

      Hmmmmm

    • @nocapnobs7845
      @nocapnobs7845 Год назад +1

      @@emlovz Being nice in the west="you're trying to manipulate me" so i brought out the rude bwoy mentality and my life went x10. READ THE ROOM fellas. Different cultures operate differently.

    • @mwloos1
      @mwloos1 10 месяцев назад

      @@nocapnobs7845my dumbass went on Amazon looking for a book called The Room 😂😂

  • @benergy100k2
    @benergy100k2 2 года назад +3

    *I guarantee you 100% that first caller/guy isn't going to stop watching porn or socialize more. You can tell he's stuck in his world of thought and fear of approaching.*

  • @jessep9330
    @jessep9330 10 месяцев назад

    Had me until the once a month thingy…

  • @contracthit9839
    @contracthit9839 3 месяца назад

    Get a passport not s dating coach foreign women are of far high er quality..

  • @lillyflower7501
    @lillyflower7501 Год назад +2

    "Some black guy" ????

    • @modalsoul6511
      @modalsoul6511 Год назад

      I assume he was a black guy ..I’m Assuming……stop being sensitive over nothing .🙄

    • @lillyflower7501
      @lillyflower7501 Год назад

      Who is really the sensitive one now. I assume it is you. I'm just assuming. 🙄

    • @modalsoul6511
      @modalsoul6511 Год назад

      @@lillyflower7501 🤫

    • @lillyflower7501
      @lillyflower7501 Год назад

      @@modalsoul6511 LOL yes I agree. Put your finger over your mouth and carry on.

  • @Maximus4Real
    @Maximus4Real 4 месяца назад

    You fkn showered me with adds like wtf