I’ve got a sister who stays traumatized. No matter what is going on with you, she’s gone through worse. You broke a toe? She broke three. You went through a tornado? She went through a tsunami, floated to a different island, ate coconuts for five years to survive, and was finally taken to the US by a passing tanker who just happened to see her on the beach. Honestly, she’s exhausting.
@problematique9389 ugh, mine is too. [Mom's youngest sister] Love her to pieces, but her stories are interesting. My siblings and I give each other side eyes and then try not to burst out laughing.
As a chef of 25 years I can say with certainty that depending on how you get a steak cooked, a 30% reduction in weight after cooking is very reasonable. Plus it looks like a chain steak house like outback or Texas Road House, so it may even be frozen and cryovac sealed. Which means it would have given off a lot of liquid in the freezing thawing process, and likely weighed 7.5-8oz by the time it hit the grill, if it was 9oz when they cut and packaged it. I can also tell by looking that's a head cut of a tenderloin, so it's 2 separate muscles coming together, and there is a lot of connective tissue and fat between them that melts away.
It's still a ripoff, if someone orders a 9oz steak, they expect to be SERVED a 9oz steak, you can try this justifying it as being the pre cooked weight all you want but it don't fly cause that ain't what the customer ordered.
@myrixica4222 That is not how the food industry works. When you go to the grocery store and buy raw meat, chicken, or fish, you pay per pound. That cost includes non edible product (bone,cartilage) and water. Nobody gets mad when they pay for a 1 pound steak at home but only eat 10 oz of it. Restaurants mark up for profit and so do grocery stores. Don't eat out because anybody giving you 9 oz of edible yield is making you pay for the 12 to 14 oz as purchased product.
@@myrixica4222it’s not a ripoff it’s the way things are. If you are really mad about it I’d try considering that maybe you are showing your ignorance on the issue and instead of sounding foolish maybe do a little research into it. Not trying to be insulting, just trying to help you out.
One thing that I heard a couple years ago is not to ask someone “Are you single”?, but instead ask “Is there anyone that believes they are in a relationship with you”?
Well, there's a chance a cheater could then make their partner seem crazy even though they're not. The only people this helps are people with crazy exes
Hmm... I would bet you can see them thinking before they answer. The look on their face in that moment should be revealing. I hope you are looking directly at them in the eye when you ask that.
My sister was born 6 weeks early and is one of the most level headed, confident and stable people I know. As long as there are no other underlying issues the only time premature means something is in the first 4 or 5 years of life as it can cause a delay in the child's development (usually physical development) after that, they start catching up and you would never know.
I really relate to the second story because I was engaged once after being with the guy for about 6 years and we where planning a wedding and I had already bought the dress and everything. Well I ended up pregnant and my fiancé was getting deployed for most of my pregnancy in the middle of the ocean. I’m sending him letters and putting money on his phone card (my money btw) and I’m also planning a wedding all alone and dealing with motions and everything that comes with being pregnant. WELLL, I find out through a dm that he’s cheating and had been cheating on me for almost a year. So to me that meant he was cheating when I got pregnant and shortly after we got engaged. I was so heart broken but the worse part is not even that he broke my heart and I had to hear it from her. It wasn’t even the fact that he also gave her the address to ship to write him letter OR the fact that he was using MY money to call her. No no… the worst part was when I went to my OBGYN appointment and was told my babies heartbeat couldn’t be found and I needed surgery… it was a hard time and there is so much more to the story but I really feel for that woman that stayed… she’ll get tired one day. We all do.
@@cheesepizza4ever I appreciate that! It was a sad part of my life but I gotta say I am stronger than I was and happier too(: Life always gets better 🫶🏼
If they ever say, "Yeah we still live together but we're not together" you say "Oh, so it's cool if I meet her and we all hang out together?" If the answer is anything other than yes, walk away.
Yes, this! If they are in a relationship for visa reasons, for example, then the fake partner will be more than happy to meet you and disabuse you of any worries about their relationship.
Be careful with this too, you might just get an abused woman. The other day I stumbled on a fool wanting to move to my country with her passport bro husband for polygamous reasons. She didn't really like it but felt she had to to keep her hubby. It was a Reddit story and she was so delulu she kept yelling at women from my country advising her against polygamy for being greedy since her hubby's girl said she was okay with it and hubby said all women in my country love polygyny.
@@availanila Oh, true, you certainly need to ask questions and get the right answers as well as see the right "mood". Plus there could be a couple who scam. But if it's really for convenience then the mood should be light and the explanations simple and clear. Preferably the other party in the marriage would have somebody else too, even, or there be a strong indication that's how things are.
I advocate for telling the woman or man they are being cheated on. Humans are delusional but eventually the pile of shitty information they get eventually helps them to leave. And it shouldn’t matter how that person responds to you. You did your best in telling them and they will do what they do with that information. At least you were a good human and helped another person possibly get out of a disrespectful relationship.
I advocate for telling the person too. I’ve been the one that was cheated on (repeatedly) in the past and somehow being the last to know was one of the worst things about that experience. I had a real friend that gave me the heads up in one instance and I’m forever grateful to her.
She reminds me too much of a friend who has BPD (borderline personality disorder). My friend will get wound up like this and start babbling frenetically, and it usually ends with her punching someone in the face for no reason at all. We don't hang out any more.
“You’re a great storyteller” is one of the first disagreements I’ve had with charlotte in a while. Screaming and shaking the phone around, elongating every few words and fast forwarding the rest to the point that my ADHD ass got completely lost halfway through… it was HARD to sit through that. Plus, she just, doesn’t sound like the good person in this situation. So what if he stayed out all night with the boys? She checked his location and saw he was where he said he was. Maybe he just, decided to stay the night at his buddy’s bc he drank too much and didn’t wanna pay for an Uber late at night, and then out of respect he “snuck in” so he wouldn’t wake her up, out of respect? Idk, that clip was overwhelming. Edit: Someone in the comments brought to my attention that she *isnt* driving, but still, god, imagine being in the car with someone being that loud and over the top, flailing around. Yikes! Still feels like one hell of a distraction.
@larissaalcorn3406 okay, but even if she ISNT the driver, how easy would it be for you to focus on the road as the driver with someone being that loud and flailing around like that? That part wasn't really my main point to begin with, but it still feels like a bit of a hazard to me.
I'm glad I found this comment. I thought she was EXTREMELY annoying and trying way too hard to be funny. I didn't think about the driving aspect, just my poor eardrums 😅
I’m glad I’m not the only one. She is really annoying! I watch these videos endlessly during the day and I swear this is the one segment where I always and I literally mean always have to fast forward. Load, obnoxious and just too much
I had a best friend that I shared everything with. No matter what she was the victim even when she would take advantage of others. Yes, they feed off your empathy and suck your soul out. Thankfully, she gave me an opportunity to walk away and that’s exactly what I did.
I had an ex who used gaslighting like it was an everyday ordinary thing. And this was in the 90s, and the idiot legit had me convinced that I was unstable and hysterical. It took me years to get over it and now I abhor gaslighting, beyond measure. Such damaging emotional abuse.
You mean it's bad when guys constantly drag you and treat you like everything is wrong about every aspect of yourself? Yeah, it sucks. There are reasons that women don't want to date certain men, and it doesn't involve the 304 area code.
Girl I was married to a world class gaslighter for 27 years and I didn’t even know it until I kicked him out for doing coke in our house where our kids live.
@@nekk-ra7080Im just sitting here in my home in WV like.. did people ever think the 304 area code DID have something to do with it??... Wtf am I missing here
My ex was like this. He escalated to physical abuse and eventually I had to flee to another state because he was planning a murder/suicide that would have permanently removed him, me, and my 3 very young babies. He kept me in hysterics doing mental gymnastics for years and after I got good at avoiding his beatings he decided that wasnt working anymore and he had to do something more drastic to control me. 20 years on and I am still battling debilitating anxiety. I dont have any friends, i never leave my home. I have constant panic attacks and difficulty making friends. My current friend list fits on the fingers of one hand, and they are all on Discord. I didnt have the benefit of counseling and mental health support, so i wasnt even diagnosed until 15 years after I ran away from him. So now I have to live with the fallout of what he did to me and he has yet to face any consequences for breaking an entire human permanently. Even better, most of his family and our friend group from that town took his side. He was very good at winding me into hysterics by mentally torturing me, and then making sure other people only saw or heard me once he pushed me over the edge and I started yelling or crying or begging. He even managed to convince a cop to arrest me after he ambushed me in the dark and beat the crap out of me. I had my eyeball nearly hanging out, bruises all over my face and body, cigarette burns on my face and arms, and very obviously was not a physical match against him. He had one tiny scratch on his neck where i tried to fight him off me. He was a very convincing psycho. IN order to avoid going to jail I had to agree to leave my home and leave my children behind with him, and was told if they were ever called to our house again that I would be arrested for DV. It took me another 6 months after that to get my kids away from him, and he used my kids as a weapon against me every day. One incident he showed up to where I was staying and had my kids in the car screaming and crying and beating on the windows and he locked the doors and just parked there honking the hoorn for an hour. I begged him to let my kids out and tried to make deals with him to roll down the windows and let me comfort my kids. I couldnt hear what he was saying to them like that but seeing them ripped my heart out. I tried to call police but they never showed up. He wasnt technically breaking any laws and I was told to call back if he put hands on me. This sort of hell was repeated over and over and over until I was able to steal my kids back while he was at work. I did eventually get a call from CPS. They wanted to verify that I had the kids with me and wasnt planning to go back to him. I was so scared they wanted my kids. I still have serious trust problems.
One time I decided to try a dating app and found a guy from my high school on there that just got married. I sent his wife his profile and said she may want to look into it. Turns out, her and the guy both moderated his dating profile because they wanted to see what kind of women would go for him. Then they could mess with them. They saw it as a game and had no shame in telling me. People suck sometimes.
I wonder if it was more like the man pretending it was a game but low key actually wanting to see other people but had to keep his wife as Delulu as possible
As a woman who has been cheated on and people knew but decided NOT to tell me, I will always advocate for telling a woman if her partner is creeping around. I really wish I was informed so I didn’t waste my time. Unfortunately for me, the girl that was involved with my ex didn’t care that I existed and was a serial cheater herself 🤪 Babes that’s against girl code. And that is why I have trust issues 🤪
As a chef for the last 20 years, I can not stress enough too people that the oz's you see for food on menus is the "pre cooked weight". Food, especially steak and other meat looses weight (obviously), through the cooking process from fat and moisture loss. You are still getting a 9oz steak, it just weighs less after the cooking process.
I'm so glad Charlotte talked about people who use their mental health and/or trauma from their past as a way to get attention or sympathy and what not but then they act like they cant be bothered to also lend an ear or show support for someone else that legitimately needs to talk with someone because they are finally ready to talk about their abuse or their struggles with mentally health or whatnot and then they are told that they are the ones who are constantly trying to monopolize the conversation and make it about themselves and are constantly fishing for attention or sympathy.. that happened to me once when i finally felt ready to share and open up a bit in group therapy and afterwards I got sent a screenshot of this conversation between half of the group from this one woman who started tye like conversation saying how she couldn't believe I was making group all about myself again and she said the same thing about another woman who was only there for her second week and spoke up for the first time.. some people are just so oblivious
My brother tried to pick up a chick at the bar while his wife was pregnant with their 2nd baby. I told my sister in law, she told me to mind my own business 🤷♀️ I haven't talked to either one of them for like 8 years now.
Or, she won't learn and just stay with the cheater because he plays her bills. It's amazing how many women have this mentality. It's like 1950s never ended.
When I was waitressing, I started wearing a ring that looked like an engagement ring to work, thinking it would be easy to just flash the ring for unwanted advances.. boy was I wrong. The amount of guys who would say "So? He won't have to know." was shocking. I would always respond "But IIIII would know."
I worked at Kohl's, and you would not believe how many women I saw buying fake wedding rings. They would tell me it was so that they could work out in peace without being hit on in the gym, or safety issues when out alone or running, etc. I'm sure it didn't help too much, unfortunately. 😢
My husband was in a band the first several years that we were married. He got hit on ALL the time. With his wedding ring in full view. He’d say he was married and the common response was “I don’t care.” To which he’d say, “Well, I do.” A few times, I was standing right there! 😂 One time the chick walked up, gave me a dirty look and told me that I had no chance with him, to F off, he was going home with her. He then said, “no. I’m going home to HER and our two children!” We both just cracked up at her face!
Charlotte is that Ride or Die friend that will tell it how it is and always looks for the positive in people. Thanks for the honesty and the laughs. Hope you and everyone watching you has a good Tuesday.
Very true Charlotte. Those kinds of people are very hard to be with. I met a friend online who constantly stayed depressed. I always listened and consoled because I felt bad for him too but he would constantly bring up s**cide in the conversation it was taking a toll on my mental health too. It was really unhealthy . How there are people who treats depression like a competition, about who is the most depressed.
The married guy story hit a little close to home. Literally was in a "relationship" with a man for a year and a half. He was a very private man and communicated well so I didn't have much doubts. A few things didn't make sense but I didn't look into em. Come to find out he was married with a whole ass baby and when I confronted him he tried to play stupid and tried to remain "friends like no thank you. Broke my damn heart and now I am not the same. I tried to tell the wife but he somehow knew about it even though he didn't have social media. Even went so far as to make a fake profile to tell her. Karma gonna get his ass. You don't mess with a great woman and don't suffer consequences. And when it does happen I'm gonna sit there with my now amazing boyfriend who treats me like the queen I am and we both gonna laugh as his life is in shambles lol
If someone wants trust issues... Once, I dated a guy who lived in another town. We were way too young, especially me so I couldn't go and visit him whenever I wanted (no driving licence, no car, no job or money). That's probably why he chose me. At some point he said that his ex had showed up with a baby, telling him it was his child. Later on he said that he had brain tumor. I mean, you could imagine how devasted I was at that point. One night after I got drunk at a party I decided to call him and a woman answered his phone. Apparently he was married and in a good health but he was simply preparing to leave me by faking his own death. 🤐🤐🤐
One word: sociopath. They do that. And yes, they are that crazy/weird, and do things like pretend to have cancer. One lady married a sociopath and her sociopath hubby told her he got a job in a new city. So she quit her job and they moved. Turns out there was no job, it was fake. They ended up having to live on savings/credit cards (in hotels) until they stayed with friends. She divorced him cause he crazy and later she also he also had a mistress and a baby. (Which she didn't even know about). Another sociopath lady worked at a clothing store (co worker is telling the story). The sociopath lady said she got a rich football bf and that's why she was getting all these nice clothes suddenly. Cause at work she would show up in very very high end clothes and luxury bags. Well, turns out she didn't have a bf and stole the money from work. She ended up getting caught, fired, and then arrested. (^Comments/stories I read on RUclips)
Just the other day, a guy on a flight kept making eye contact with me... so after we landed, I approached him and asked if he was single. He said "I'm married, but Im on vacation!" I gave a hand gesture of "after you..." and thanked him for his honesty. I feel really bad for that wife
This reminds me of my ex manager. He went to Ibiza with a friend and they both left their wives at home. The wives thought they were still in the country, for a business meeting when they were in fact, out of the country, cheating on them. Ugh
The part where that girl was talking about being born three weeks early, and finding it traumatic. I laughed. I was literally born 16 weeks premature and was given 3% chance to survive my birth. I don't have PTSD from the tragedy of my birth, as I don't remember it.
That chick has a screw loose! My earliest memory is of my 4th birthday. The only thing I remember about it was that my dad tried teaching me how to hold up 4 fingers, but my family laughed because I didn't know what to do with my thumb, so I fussed at my own thumb for being in the way. An uncle suggested amputation as the solution and I disagreed vehemently! I dated a guy who was 15 years older than me about 30 years ago. We got on the subject of the Kennedy assassination and he asked me what I remembered about that day, after he told me he was in high school biology class when he heard the news. I answered, "I was two". He looked confused and said, "You were in biology class, too?" "NO! I... WAS... TWO!!!"😂
While this is true, it could depend if her body remembers the trauma, which it does. For example, I have a little brother who was the rainbow baby of our family after my mom lost a baby before him. He had complications at his birth and stayed there in the hospital for a while. He was probed, stuck with needles, etc. He's currently 7 and to this day, has a horrible fear of needles and doctors. My mother says will he mentally may not remember that time because he was a new born, his body does and he does NOT like needles or doctors. Whenever we take him to clinics for check ups, if he says a nurse holding a long plastic bag or a long thing in general like a swab, he immediately thinks it's a needle and starts screaming and crying. And it's the same thing with swabs, ever since he started getting more tests for strep because he would have it often, he now no longer likes the swabs and the moment he sees one, he immediately cries his heart out and reaches to my arms, begging me to take him home. As for doctors, he asks a big shy around them and doesn't talk as much, unless he feels like he's not getting a shot or swabs, he will talk more. I could be wrong, as everyone goes through things differently, but me and my mom genuinely believe my brother's hardcore fear of needles isn't like the common spook kids get and then they grow out of it. He honest to God would rather get sick then have a needle or a swab near him. He will even beg us to tell the doctors his throat doesn't hurt to prevent swab testing
I had trust issues about intimacy and relationships for a long time. But finally I looked around at my really great uncles and male cousins and realized that there are really great men out there. Focus on finding someone with great values that are similar to your own. It doesn’t make your relationship immune to problems but it will mean that the other person isn’t trying to hurt you.
You two repliers are out of ur fing minds. If ur thinking "there is no such thing as good men" but u have great men in ur family that is proof that there are good men and you just have to look elsewhere. That's what they're saying. U think this person meant they were checking out the men in their family like sexually? Bruh what's wrong with u two!?
As an old lady, let me break it down. Talking with the boys all night=bar 9-12, strip club 1-3, Poker 3:30-6. All breaks in times are usually greasy diners or fast food. The are actually large amounts of guys who can go out literally for days and not cheat(My 4 brothers, my dad, brother in law, several friends husbands. BUT, there are guys who can "go out for pizza with the guys" for an hour and a half and be on a date. Know your guy. Actually become friends before you become lovers. Be trustworthy, dont play games to make him jealous, so he feels bad behavior is justified. Not all men are creeps, not all women are angels. It's doable.
@@BreakofDawn awww, that's so sweet! They both sound like good guys. Sometimes people jump to the wrong conclusions. My mom and her two sisters were very close and best friends as well as siblings. They were always laughing and clowning around. My dad was more serious, but had a dry sense of humor. When I was a teenager, we had all gone out to a nice restaurant. There was 10 of us; the 3 "Cackle Sisters" (my dad's name for them, because their maiden name was "Cagle") their husbands, and some offspring including me. The sisters sat at one table and the rest of us sat at the next table. The waiter came to take our orders but Mom and my nutty aunts were laughing so hard about something that they couldn't talk. The waiter was annoyed and said, "Have you ladies been DRINKING??" My aunt, the oldest and a pastor's wife who never drank, ever, didn't skip a beat and told the waiter, "No, we haven't been drinking but we sure have been popping the goofballs!"🤪 I can't remember what my dad said to the waiter but it something about them being sisters who were born with mental illness. That got the Cackle Sisters cackling even more. I'm surprised we weren't asked to leave. I miss them all so much🥲
Yeah, no problem if you trust your man. Though the strip club part is a no for me. WHY always the strip club?!?? I'm visual too, I sure don't need to go there! Plus, doesn't mean it's just looking, so..
For the record, I want to make this clear to everyone! You can be living with an ex and there be nothing there! I was stuck (manipulated) into still living in a house with my ex-fiance so he could continue using my money and live off me and his mom. He used our son to make me stay. I was too scared to move out because I have no family here. We were both single and looking for someone else. There was nothing between us anymore. Happy note, I finally was able to move out and with the most amazing guy now ❤️
If that's the case, the person is not ready for another relationship. I'm sorry. People should take care of their own life first to stand on their two feet and cure all the hurt and trauma. Theeeeeeen start thinking about meeting someone new, when they've matured. But generally, people just don't care, they just rebound and repeat the same behavior patterns smh
My ex, who is sadly no longer in this world, moved in with me early in our relationship. She had anxiety and depression and chose the wrong way to remedy her issues leading to developing a drug habit. I ended things with her but couldnt get her out of my house, she lived with me for another 18 months before getting into trouble and was hospitalized. Her mother drove 4 hours to pick her up from the hospital when she was finally released and my ex went to live with her mom. After her passing the scumbag that got her addicted asked the mom if they faked her death to keep him from trying to contact her anymore.
I was stuck living with my ex for a year as we went through selling the house (I had a mental breakdown). He started seeing someone when we still lived together. We were in no way together.
@@Ca_mi_laI completely agree with this. My stupid ex told me that he was seeing someone else. I told him to get out of my house. He says he can’t…he has nowhere to go as the woman he was seeing was still with HER man. I said, “The two of you deserve each other. And it’s still Not my problem. Get out.” He left. Get your crap together. If you are STILL in the house with someone, WAIT. Get on your own. Straighten up. Be a decent human being!
I was engaged and lived with my fiance when I was 19-20. Things ended on good terms because we realized we were best friends, not romantic partners. I kept living with him for around 6 months after we broke up (I had moved out of state for him and couldn't afford my own place). Let me tell you, none of the guys I went on dates with during that time cared that it sounded fishy. I would've had no issue letting them say hi to my ex if they asked, but no one asked. 😂🙄
I’m a waitress. The scale Karen makes me so mad! When they say “8 oz steak” or whatever, it’s the weight BEFORE COOKING!!!! It WILL shrink down! Seriously! The fact she brought a food scale is ridiculous! 😂😂😂😂😂
I came here to say this! How do people still not understand this?! Do you take your 1kg pack of chicken back after cooking because it's not 1kg anymore?! And anyway, in their crazy world, how are the cooks meant to guess the shrinkage? "Sorry, this one gone crazy on the shrinkage, we cant send this fully cooked piece of meat out because its too small 😬" 🤣
Steak weights are for raw steak. They lose liquid when cooked. The weight varies after cooking depending on many factors, particularly how the steak is cooked. But it’s always going to weigh less after it’s cooked.
I had a friend who always tried to one up traumatic situations that were real. It kind of made me feel as if my 16:33 things weren't worth anything. It devalues things that happen. If something bad happened like my dad dying, sister overdosing, mom having a stroke she lived with me didn't have a house, trauma all around in family lol (all true stories) she'd come over complaining about her wrist hurting or something. I always knew it was off because nothing was ever wrong with her. Like she had tests done for legs, nerves, periods, I don't know what kind of disorder makes people do that. I didn't even bring up my stuff to her directly or anything either. I sort of leave it up to my friends if their in a mental position to talk. ❤ I never want to hurt anyone. I see people who seriously do try and weaponize trauma. It's maddening for the rest of us. It does not represent those who have went through heavy trauma in childhood that want to heal. CPTSD is so real my dude. ❤ signed big fan who unfortunately has a past lol😅
You do realise this kind of behaviour is characteristic for disorders such as adhd / autism / audhd? people trying to relate and connect to others through similar experiences cause they don’t know how to navigate emotions, social clues …? Also, how bad a situation feels is purely subjective. That does not mean it’s not extremely bad for the person experiencing it. Even if it it’s just a minor inconvenience to others?
@@CharlotteDobre I feel like my day isn't complete if I haven't watched your video. I really feel like something is missing on the occasional day you take a much needed break, or I am just so busy I don't have any time to sit down and watch it that day. It like a little daily check in with a friend.
As a NICU mom whose son was born 8 weeks early and spent 40 days in the NICU the 4th story sent me. 3 weeks early is still 37 weeks…That’s not even premature
Birth at 37 or 38 completed weeks' gestation is associated with increased risks of stillbirth, infant mortality and neurological morbidity. Not premature, but still very high risk.
trauma that was developed from infantry is actually more difficult to overcome cos that is the oldest memory we develop. Most children that were separated from birth develop severe abandonment issues.
Isn't that more to do with the fact that they are abandoned, it doesn't happen and then is done with, they are forever abandoned. It's not very comparable tbh
@@alanarama Abandonment issues does not necessarily mean that the child was abandoned in a traditional sense. It just means that in infantry, their care giver didn't often address their needs, or was absent. Or they were taken from a familiar comfortable family system. Look into Gabor Mate's podcast, he explains it very well. Or theories of attachment styles.
Yep Gabor is amazing. The over share and trauma dump is hard to break. Also hard when you auto care and please. It's frustrating as those ppl i get, but they never reciprocate @tinmendez4121
My dearest Mom had a horrible experience delivering me and as a joke, every time I was cranky she would say, “oh my poor baby, it must be because of your difficult birth”. Then she’d give me “the Mom look” to change my attitude. ❤😂. I cannot image using it as a line for sympathy from others! 🤣 That girl was the definition of a crazy drama queen. LOL
I couldn't complain about ANYTHING to my mom! She was born in 1920, her dad died in 1925, and her mom died of TB in 1932. Mom and 3 out of her dozen or so siblings were "lucky" and were sent to an orphanage at the height of the Great Depression. That's where she got her first pair of shoes, at age eleven. The girls at the home were taught to sew and not only made their own clothes, they had to make their own period pads and belts to hold them. All the used pads went into a large hamper in their communal restroom, and it was only taken to the laundry once a week. Of course the girls had to wash them themselves... by hand! I'm sure that smell would have gagged a maggot! At age 18, they were adults and had to leave the orphanage even if they had no place to go. Mom was lucky and met and married a handsome young Army Sergeant. Then he was sent to the front lines in Europe to fight nazis. He survived the war but came back with severe PTSD and traumatic brain injury that caused his death about a year after he returned home. Mom was 4 months pregnant with my second oldest sister, so suddenly she was a young pregnant widow with a toddler, no job, but had a car she didn't know how to drive. She taught herself to drive that old Plymouth and after my sister was born she landed a good job as an executive secretary. She bought a house for her and her girls in 1952, back when a single woman couldn't get credit. She figured it all out somehow. Yep, I didn't dare complain to her that my life was hard! She would just laugh
We need a video dedicated to all of charlottes nightmare dating stories 😂 I feel like she went through a lot before meeting Mike. Our journey to finding our person is never an easy ride, I’m still on it myself, took a pit stop, not dating for at least another year 😂
I call it the “Damsel in Distress mentality” it’s those people who are so addicted to sympathy or being saved by someone because of the attention they get that they always talk about things, create connections to trauma or create scenarios to be saved from.
My ex sister in law would have “ anniversaries “ for bad things in her life. She was always depressed because it was the anniversary of her gerbil dying or the anniversary of nine million different breakups or bad news she got, etc. There was ALWAYS something.
@@Just-Nikki right!?! I know someone, smh, who creates situations like hooked up with a guy to make her ex jealous and when her ex found out she flipped it to he assaulted me please help. Or another time gave her hotel key to “new friends” she met the day before when she was living at a hotel with her kids and called her ex to come help her when they robbed her. She milks as much attention and sympathy she can get and creates the drama to get it.
8:10 I know plenty of woman who say they are single but have dozens of men in rotation. It's not just guys who do this. Be careful of everyone you meet
Y’all, the scream I screamt when Charlotte said “….to ‘measure’ meat…”!!! 😂😂😂 I’ve been happily married to my best friend for 9 years, and we were best friends for 8 years before that. I am so thankful for him and our relationship, more and more every day. I feel so sorry for single women trying to have good, honest relationships these days. Charlotte, you’re the daily staple I never knew I needed. Love you! 🩵🩷
@@Kayenne54 I know “screamt” isn’t a word, I was an English major, but it was literally the ONLY word that came to mind that made sense to me at the time, haha. 🤣
@@OfficialHawks_WCUE Whenever someone uses it, I just laugh. It's such a funny word, but so descriptive. My eldest daughter, when a toddler, would ask for "nice cream" (ice cream); and we were looking at jewellery in a jewellery store once (when she was older), she pointed at a diamond necklace and said "Oh look, ice". At one point, we'd drive home from grandma's after dark, and she'd point out the window and say "Matcha". Totally perplexed me until I realized she was looking at the television repeater towers, that had a red light for aerial safety on top; and was mixing up the words "match" and "tower". 😁😁
Thank God I'm not dating anymore but if a man ever told me he was living with his ex for some reason but not with her anymore, I'd need confirmation from HER first
@7:12... thank you Charlotte for saying something and defending good men out there, we do exist. I see some of the struggles women have to deal with because of shity men. There's no excuse for what they do and I'm glad that people are helping each other watch out for these lying cheaters.
I Always trust that Charlotte will makes us laugh. No matter the day i'm having, Charlotte always makes everything better. Someone needs to give her an award for her dedication to this Channel.♥️
Omg this reminded me of something, I was sitting in class and the teacher told us to work with the person next to us. I didn’t know this girl. But as we’re working (I’m doing most of the work because she’s talking) she just randomly is like, “Oh my gosh, I might have to call my mom.” And y’know, I was confused so I was like , “What’s wrong?” And this girl literally goes, “This project reminded me of how I was born 2 weeks early and I spent a while in the ICU. Because of that I had epilepsy when I was four.” I was so confused, like girlypop, you can’t recover from epilepsy. Yeah, there’s strategies to manage it but I don’t think you can’t recover from it. She was literally like, “It was just so awful to spend all that time in the hospital.” Girl, you were a baby. You cannot remember that. Also just for context: I was born three months early. I’ve had lung problems ever since and still struggle with asthma today. So when this girl starts complaining about how she was born two weeks early, I was so confused. I don’t tell people I was born three months early and only my friends and teachers know I have asthma. Also, I’m pretty sure this girl was lying because in our class she’s always using dead family members as an excuse for not doing her assignments. Ma’am that is 4 uncles, 3 aunts, 2 grandmas, and your mom. I don’t know if it actually happened like that, but considering I saw your mom pick you up from school it was probably a lie. So the exact next words that came out of my mouth were, “Oh, well I was born three months early. I spent over a month in ICU and my parents had to switch all the pastels in my room to shades of gray because my eyes weren’t developed. I still have asthma because of it and I almost had an asthma attack going up the stairs in our school. But I don’t remember what happened when I was born, so how do you?” And this girl just stared at me in shock. Then she started yelling at me, saying how I ‘stole her moment’ or something. It was literally so stupid. But because she was yelling at me the teacher came over and gave her detention. (Damn I wrote a lot. Sorry if this doesn’t make sense. Also, this girl still hates me, it’s been three years.)
Some children can grow out of epilepsy, even adult epilepsy can go into remission (if no seizures in 2 years in the uk while off meds you are allowed to drive again otherwise your license is permanently pulled 10:24 ). Only know this bc of family having seizures. My uncle and then his daughter. It depends on the type of seizure. So although she wasn’t right or kind in the way she treated you, she’s not wrong in the growing out of seizures part. Hope that helps!
@@softscribbles ohhh I didn’t know that, but also I forgot to mention but a few years after that it turned out she was lying and her mom was the one that told me. yeah, her “dead” mom
@@hana_wanaRuh roh 😅 yeah something’s not adding up. I try to see the best in people unless they give me a reason not to. But yeah that’s a clear reason not to.
In defense of the guy who was sneaking in at 7am, I have been to bonfires where we all hot drunk and pulled all-nighters literally just talking and hanging out. I would drive home tired af, and my bf, now Fiancé, would be like, "Hey, can you give me a ride to work?" It is 100% possible to be a loysl partner but also have all night drinking and talking sessions with besties.
My husband and I have a closed-phone policy. We have passwords on our phones that neither of us know and an expectation of privacy on our phones. It’s about trust, privacy, and a level of independence in our (almost 20 year long) relationship. We are both of the opinion that if you feel the need to snoop in your partner’s phone then it doesn’t matter if you find anything or not - it’s time to pack it in, you’re relationship is already f**ked.
Same. All these people going through phones, checking locations, etc is just exhausting to hear about. I and mine made an agreement that location only needs to be on if one needs to find the other (broke down car or whatever). Other than that, we don't have a need to go through each other's phones.
I ordered the “disease to please” from a past video because of you! Helps me put me first because I am a nurturer by nature and people take advantage every time. Gotta put ourselves first!❤
Good for you! I hope for the absolute best for you! You definitely deserve to make sure you are taken care of. Besides in the end, we're no help to anyone if we're not ok ourselves. Best wishes to you and yours! Make sure you're taking care of you first and foremost because you're worth it! 💖
If people take advantage it's not because you are a nurturer, it's because you don't have good boundaries. I'm happy you're putting yourself first ! Keep it up, respect and love yourself
My roommate at the time and I invited some work friends over one night. Just 2 girls we both knew. 1 of them, we can call her Tori decides to invite her "partner" and her infant son over without asking us. We don't make a big deal out of it and just roll with it. They proceed to make the entire night about them and would essentially feed off each other and kept telling us traumatic things they'd been through. It was as if one would finish their story and the other would start a new story. After a few hours we found a way to end the night, we couldn't take it anymore. The 3 of us had been giving awkward knowing glances all night back and forth as if to say "WTF is going on right now?!" Once the family had left we all felt drained and traumatized ourselves, the other girl we invited coined the nights event as " emotional waterboarding." We completely agreed. I think I hung out with her about 3 times total and I had to end that friendship, it kept going like that. Just weird and uncomfortable memories with Tori....
I love and appreciate how much effort charlotte and her team put into the videos 😊 also doesn't matter how bad my mental health is, your videos always make me laugh or smile ❤ thank you
14:03 - lol, I've been told I was in a life-threatening situation as a toddler, don't remember anything. Didn't know I could build my whole personality around it. Feel for the bro, awkward coversations are the worst.
To the story of the influencer remembering her birth, although memories can hypothetically be formed at infancy, it’s relatively impossible to retrieve (remember) your birth until language is developed. That’s why most people “boot-up” into consciousness and recall memories from 2-4years old, those are the years of learning how to talk. It’s virtually not possible to remember something before theres foundation of language, because you can’t contextualize what you’re experiencing.
I recall one event from before I was born. In other words, mother was pregnant with me, I wasn't born yet. Later on, in adulthood, I asked about certain things I "recalled" (watching the man who would be my father at his work); she was astonished and confirmed that yes, he had worked in such and such a place, but it was BEFORE I was born. I didn't "lead" my mother with my questions, just related my "vivid dream/memory" and was any of it based on fact? It was. So it's not impossible to recall things, it could be possible to be traumatized during birth events (cord around the neck can result in people hating ties or scarves or even turtle neck sweaters, and not know why, for example), but it certainly isn't commonplace to recall from when one was pre-verbal. And the fact that hypnotherapy can help people overcome issues, by going back into their past, indicates that at some level, all experiences are stored.
@@Kayenne54 Respectfully, no you don't. It's 100% a false memory. Even if you could remember the things from the womb, you wouldn't remember things from outside the your mother's body. You wouldn't SEE anything. Hear at most.
@@jenntegt Respectfully, when I was describing the "vision/dream" to my mother, I was FLOATING up near the ceiling, looking down, and I floated behind him like a balloon on a tether. I saw him hold his hands behind his back, stop and talk to workers on the factory floor. When I was older, I often saw him walk down the street like that. It was his signature walk, in fact. Respectfully, there are libraries full of researched stories on how people experienced events which fall outside the norms.
@@Kayenne54 Yeah and mediums help people grieve... doesn't mean they're actually speaking to our dead relatives. Especially early trauma shouldn't necessarily be taken literally, the brain gets creative sometimes. Doesn't mean the emotions aren't real, but it doesn't mean things happened exactly as we remember them either. I have memories that are in a 3rd person perspective, sometimes there were photos of the event that could have constructed them, sometimes no way there was ever a photo and I suspect I was dissociating as the memories are all stressful. But when you start talking about remembering things you weren't even present to see, you've lost me.
@@BlueHazyDreams I confirmed both that my father was employed where I'd "seen" him and that I was yet unborn; mother was pregnant with me. Also, when I pondered it as an adult, I realized my point of view was up near the ceiling, and then trailing behind him. I saw how he walked, and spoke, and acted; his current character was revealed. My mother left him not longer after my third birthday; and at no time did he include me in his work or take me there. He barely acknowledged my existence, actually; my older sister was the "Golden Child". Additionally, I had a meditation which morphed into a vision that involved him and myself in "other personas" or a different incarnation. It was relatively traumatic. Before his passing, I went and visited him especially to mention this "vision" and what had occurred in it. He was so disturbed he went from the room suddenly. After a little while, he came back and asked "How do you know all that?" because he had recalled it as well. I only mentioned it to him in the first place so that I could let him know how to pass safely through the lower astrals after dying.
I have a funny story. I live 125 miles from the cities, my husband goes down to see his best friend Geno. They went to the bar and sat at a table. Some woman walks up to my husband and used the line "where have you been all my life?" My husband, didn't miss a beat and said "125 miles away!" It took him a couple of minutes before he realizes she was hitting on him! 😂😂 been married for 35 years now
Yeah, I went out on a few dates with a guy. And at one point, he told me his parents were divorced when he was a kid and I said "me too". I didn't think it was a big deal. A lot of people's parents are divorced. But he would keep mentioning it. We went out with friends if mine, and they told me he mentioned it to them. It was just weird. We were in our 30s. My dad had just died just recently and he knew that, but I got the feeling, he thought his parents divorcing was worse. We had talked about the divorces(my father cheated and was an alcoholic), he didn't know why his divorced, but it was embarrassing for him at school. It was just weird.
Both my kids were born three weeks early. They were fine. Three weeks isn't premature- it's within normal limits. It CERTAINLY doesn't qualify for preemie/NICU status! 😂
Good night guys...just done watching Charlotte...Time for me to sleep...it nighttime here in the Philippines...love you fellow petty potato Princesses!!! Hail to the Potato Queen Charlotte!
Hope you sleep well fellow petty potato!😊 It's later in morning for me almost lunch time and still more to do than there are hours in the day haha. Wishing you and yours the best!❤
I have been binge watching you're videos for day's , you have put more smiles on my face then ever and reaffirm there still are real people around :) GO CANADA
@@stephenbanks5952 Thank's so much for pointing out my short comings :) English is NOT my first language and I have dyslexia. Also the reason I don't post on many videos to draw att to myself , So thank you very much for helping me remember that...... I hope you have a great day :)
As a cute guy I feel attacked, in my 20's I did usually have a few people in rotation, but I was always honest about that when I was hanging out with new people.
As an empath who has dealt with the FeedersTM firsthand, it is NOT fun- you do regret caring 😭 but show them that you don’t care anymore by loving yourself and proving their victim acts wrong
Either he was cheating or they were drinking and playing video games until 7 in the morning. All they had to do was text the girl and tell her what was going on.
The steak weight sent my chef husband into a very, very long explanation on the cooked and uncooked density of the meat. The difference between cows and all that jazz. 😄
15:06 those two black dots on the wall above his head i literally thought they were on my phone screen and tried to wipe it off 🤣🤣🤣 and seriously the more ppl i meet the more i stay home 🤣
Not to defend 7 am dude, but I've stayed up plenty times till 6 am having alcohol induced talks about life and the universe with the boys. Some of the best convos tbh
It happens. I feel like that chick needs to figure out that maybe treating him like he's untrustworthy won't gain the kind of results she's looking for at the end of the day. Or maybe he didn't want to be around random screams. That could be it too.
Some people are total drama all the time. They just have to bring up everything about life that they don’t like, or all the “bad” in the world that’s happened to them. Agree with Charlotte about “feeding off the drama”. I think they’re crazy. 😂
The scale could be because she or one of her kids is diabetic The mother of a diabetic friend always had a scale and a book to get her child’s blood-sugar to the right amount as my friend also was doing competitive sports and their mom had to plan around it
One of my best friends in high school was a foreign exchange student from Berlin and the host family the program assigned her to had the strongest living arrangement I think I’ve ever personally witnessed! On the outside it seemed normal with a husband and wife but in reality they were divorced and still living together but the kicker is that the “wife’s”lover lived there too! They were all really nice people but it was a strange situation
Ugh, I’m dealing with someone abusing my empathy right now. I’ve gone silent, I can’t do it anymore. She knows I have health issues but has spent most of this year taking pregnancy tests, and all of them are negative but she still went for scans - also negative - and then bought abortion pills off the internet. Now she actually has issues. I did send her a big message after she sent me pictures of her spotting in her underwear (you read that right) and she said she understood that she was overdoing it and I couldn’t bear her burden too. Within days she was back at it. I’ve stopped trying to be kind, stopped giving advice, stopped the tough cop role, none of it matters as much as the attention. So no attention is my way of coping with her.
@@wmason1961 we don’t live close to each other. She says she doesn’t want to be pregnant but didn’t believe the negative tests 🤦🏽♀️ but yeah, that would take a lot of searching for the men in her life and meddling online.
@bowbooks5659 you don't need to talk to the men or even know who they are. It is her that needs to know why. Otherwise, she will never have negative feedback to think about. Give her something about herself to think about. Or she will never improve.
For the influencer ICU story ask them, if the birth had and complications which is still affecting you. If they say no, reply with "I'm so happy for you, that is so great. You recovered........." Don't give them they empathy they don't deserve!!!! Give them congratulations, make it a happy thing.
I have a lot of problems and talk about them somewhat often but I never do so for the sympathy not empathy. It gets brought up, or it's similar to something someone else is going through so I tell people to explain or commissary. I'm pretty sure I'm not who you're talking about, but because I have SO MUCH bs, it's difficult to not talk about it. It's too the point that I've pulled away from so many of my friends and family members because I feel like I'm such a downer. It's a difficult line for someone who had 4 autoimmune diseases, all their teeth are falling out and are poor and unable to ever get out of their predicament unless their art sells for a ridiculous amount.
In response to the first story..I can say that my ex and I still lived in the same apartment together after we split. Neither of us could afford to move and get our own place. So yeah that part CAN happen and be true.
the fact that that woman told the wife what her husband did, but chose to stay boggles my mind, but at least she didn't blame the woman and turn on her
Honestly I don’t want to be mean but that’s pathetic behavior and every time I see it all I can think is “that’s someone who doesn’t know their self worth”
I’ve got a sister who stays traumatized. No matter what is going on with you, she’s gone through worse. You broke a toe? She broke three. You went through a tornado? She went through a tsunami, floated to a different island, ate coconuts for five years to survive, and was finally taken to the US by a passing tanker who just happened to see her on the beach. Honestly, she’s exhausting.
Oof. I have a relative like this. Love her to death but she's always got to be the center of attention. Nobody else is allowed to have problems.
My aunt is just like this.
I can’t stand people like that.
@@veronicasmith7309 They are the worst!
@problematique9389 ugh, mine is too. [Mom's youngest sister] Love her to pieces, but her stories are interesting.
My siblings and I give each other side eyes and then try not to burst out laughing.
As a chef of 25 years I can say with certainty that depending on how you get a steak cooked, a 30% reduction in weight after cooking is very reasonable. Plus it looks like a chain steak house like outback or Texas Road House, so it may even be frozen and cryovac sealed. Which means it would have given off a lot of liquid in the freezing thawing process, and likely weighed 7.5-8oz by the time it hit the grill, if it was 9oz when they cut and packaged it. I can also tell by looking that's a head cut of a tenderloin, so it's 2 separate muscles coming together, and there is a lot of connective tissue and fat between them that melts away.
All I could see were the grill marks that looked so fake
It's still a ripoff, if someone orders a 9oz steak, they expect to be SERVED a 9oz steak, you can try this justifying it as being the pre cooked weight all you want but it don't fly cause that ain't what the customer ordered.
@@myrixica4222If they want a 9oz steak then they will get a raw steak
@myrixica4222 That is not how the food industry works. When you go to the grocery store and buy raw meat, chicken, or fish, you pay per pound. That cost includes non edible product (bone,cartilage) and water. Nobody gets mad when they pay for a 1 pound steak at home but only eat 10 oz of it. Restaurants mark up for profit and so do grocery stores. Don't eat out because anybody giving you 9 oz of edible yield is making you pay for the 12 to 14 oz as purchased product.
@@myrixica4222it’s not a ripoff it’s the way things are. If you are really mad about it I’d try considering that maybe you are showing your ignorance on the issue and instead of sounding foolish maybe do a little research into it. Not trying to be insulting, just trying to help you out.
One thing that I heard a couple years ago is not to ask someone “Are you single”?, but instead ask “Is there anyone that believes they are in a relationship with you”?
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Well, there's a chance a cheater could then make their partner seem crazy even though they're not. The only people this helps are people with crazy exes
That's a brilliant, tactical line.😅
@@queerdeificeeli985 run away regardless, because even if that ex IS crazy, you don't want that extra baggage and risk!
Hmm... I would bet you can see them thinking before they answer. The look on their face in that moment should be revealing. I hope you are looking directly at them in the eye when you ask that.
My sister was born 6 weeks early and is one of the most level headed, confident and stable people I know. As long as there are no other underlying issues the only time premature means something is in the first 4 or 5 years of life as it can cause a delay in the child's development (usually physical development) after that, they start catching up and you would never know.
I really relate to the second story because I was engaged once after being with the guy for about 6 years and we where planning a wedding and I had already bought the dress and everything. Well I ended up pregnant and my fiancé was getting deployed for most of my pregnancy in the middle of the ocean. I’m sending him letters and putting money on his phone card (my money btw) and I’m also planning a wedding all alone and dealing with motions and everything that comes with being pregnant. WELLL, I find out through a dm that he’s cheating and had been cheating on me for almost a year. So to me that meant he was cheating when I got pregnant and shortly after we got engaged. I was so heart broken but the worse part is not even that he broke my heart and I had to hear it from her. It wasn’t even the fact that he also gave her the address to ship to write him letter OR the fact that he was using MY money to call her. No no… the worst part was when I went to my OBGYN appointment and was told my babies heartbeat couldn’t be found and I needed surgery… it was a hard time and there is so much more to the story but I really feel for that woman that stayed… she’ll get tired one day. We all do.
I'm so sorry for everything you wnet through. Really hope you are doing good! ❤
@@cheesepizza4ever I appreciate that! It was a sad part of my life but I gotta say I am stronger than I was and happier too(: Life always gets better 🫶🏼
I hope you ended the wedding
I’m sorry for all you went through. ❤
@@thecamillarose9806 I actually found myself in this whole ordeal and cut all contact. It was very refreshing (:
If they ever say, "Yeah we still live together but we're not together" you say "Oh, so it's cool if I meet her and we all hang out together?" If the answer is anything other than yes, walk away.
Yes, this! If they are in a relationship for visa reasons, for example, then the fake partner will be more than happy to meet you and disabuse you of any worries about their relationship.
Be careful with this too, you might just get an abused woman. The other day I stumbled on a fool wanting to move to my country with her passport bro husband for polygamous reasons. She didn't really like it but felt she had to to keep her hubby. It was a Reddit story and she was so delulu she kept yelling at women from my country advising her against polygamy for being greedy since her hubby's girl said she was okay with it and hubby said all women in my country love polygyny.
@@availanila Oh, true, you certainly need to ask questions and get the right answers as well as see the right "mood". Plus there could be a couple who scam. But if it's really for convenience then the mood should be light and the explanations simple and clear. Preferably the other party in the marriage would have somebody else too, even, or there be a strong indication that's how things are.
Yeah, this is an automatic nope from me
Even if it's true, the potential for drama is clearly not worth it
Idk, if they're an ex I could understand meeting them, but there's NO REASON y'all need to hang out.
Sounds toxic af
I advocate for telling the woman or man they are being cheated on. Humans are delusional but eventually the pile of shitty information they get eventually helps them to leave. And it shouldn’t matter how that person responds to you. You did your best in telling them and they will do what they do with that information. At least you were a good human and helped another person possibly get out of a disrespectful relationship.
You are absolutely right
And when that shit stays secret, all of a sudden you end up with genital warts and gonorrhea
Yup. You don’t get to decide how someone responds to anything. You do get to decide if you will share information that can help them.
I advocate for telling the person too. I’ve been the one that was cheated on (repeatedly) in the past and somehow being the last to know was one of the worst things about that experience. I had a real friend that gave me the heads up in one instance and I’m forever grateful to her.
@@ladymorrigan5950same
“A delightful story teller”?! Ma’am, I got motion sickness and hearing loss from that story. 😂
Isn't that the truth.
She reminds me too much of a friend who has BPD (borderline personality disorder). My friend will get wound up like this and start babbling frenetically, and it usually ends with her punching someone in the face for no reason at all.
We don't hang out any more.
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Lmao I thought she was going to give herself whiplash. But at least she was animated enough to keep my adhd Ass intrigued. Lol!!
@@LazyIRanch Holly Shit balls. Lady is unhinged.
“You’re a great storyteller” is one of the first disagreements I’ve had with charlotte in a while. Screaming and shaking the phone around, elongating every few words and fast forwarding the rest to the point that my ADHD ass got completely lost halfway through… it was HARD to sit through that. Plus, she just, doesn’t sound like the good person in this situation. So what if he stayed out all night with the boys? She checked his location and saw he was where he said he was. Maybe he just, decided to stay the night at his buddy’s bc he drank too much and didn’t wanna pay for an Uber late at night, and then out of respect he “snuck in” so he wouldn’t wake her up, out of respect? Idk, that clip was overwhelming.
Edit: Someone in the comments brought to my attention that she *isnt* driving, but still, god, imagine being in the car with someone being that loud and over the top, flailing around. Yikes! Still feels like one hell of a distraction.
How dare my man not drink and drive! He’s MY man! /s
She's not driving. When the camera is switched it reverses the image.
@larissaalcorn3406 okay, but even if she ISNT the driver, how easy would it be for you to focus on the road as the driver with someone being that loud and flailing around like that? That part wasn't really my main point to begin with, but it still feels like a bit of a hazard to me.
I'm glad I found this comment. I thought she was EXTREMELY annoying and trying way too hard to be funny. I didn't think about the driving aspect, just my poor eardrums 😅
I’m glad I’m not the only one. She is really annoying! I watch these videos endlessly during the day and I swear this is the one segment where I always and I literally mean always have to fast forward. Load, obnoxious and just too much
I had a best friend that I shared everything with. No matter what she was the victim even when she would take advantage of others. Yes, they feed off your empathy and suck your soul out. Thankfully, she gave me an opportunity to walk away and that’s exactly what I did.
I had an ex who used gaslighting like it was an everyday ordinary thing. And this was in the 90s, and the idiot legit had me convinced that I was unstable and hysterical. It took me years to get over it and now I abhor gaslighting, beyond measure. Such damaging emotional abuse.
You mean it's bad when guys constantly drag you and treat you like everything is wrong about every aspect of yourself?
Yeah, it sucks. There are reasons that women don't want to date certain men, and it doesn't involve the 304 area code.
Girl I was married to a world class gaslighter for 27 years and I didn’t even know it until I kicked him out for doing coke in our house where our kids live.
@@nekk-ra7080Im just sitting here in my home in WV like.. did people ever think the 304 area code DID have something to do with it??... Wtf am I missing here
My ex was like this. He escalated to physical abuse and eventually I had to flee to another state because he was planning a murder/suicide that would have permanently removed him, me, and my 3 very young babies. He kept me in hysterics doing mental gymnastics for years and after I got good at avoiding his beatings he decided that wasnt working anymore and he had to do something more drastic to control me. 20 years on and I am still battling debilitating anxiety. I dont have any friends, i never leave my home. I have constant panic attacks and difficulty making friends. My current friend list fits on the fingers of one hand, and they are all on Discord. I didnt have the benefit of counseling and mental health support, so i wasnt even diagnosed until 15 years after I ran away from him. So now I have to live with the fallout of what he did to me and he has yet to face any consequences for breaking an entire human permanently. Even better, most of his family and our friend group from that town took his side. He was very good at winding me into hysterics by mentally torturing me, and then making sure other people only saw or heard me once he pushed me over the edge and I started yelling or crying or begging. He even managed to convince a cop to arrest me after he ambushed me in the dark and beat the crap out of me. I had my eyeball nearly hanging out, bruises all over my face and body, cigarette burns on my face and arms, and very obviously was not a physical match against him. He had one tiny scratch on his neck where i tried to fight him off me. He was a very convincing psycho. IN order to avoid going to jail I had to agree to leave my home and leave my children behind with him, and was told if they were ever called to our house again that I would be arrested for DV. It took me another 6 months after that to get my kids away from him, and he used my kids as a weapon against me every day. One incident he showed up to where I was staying and had my kids in the car screaming and crying and beating on the windows and he locked the doors and just parked there honking the hoorn for an hour. I begged him to let my kids out and tried to make deals with him to roll down the windows and let me comfort my kids. I couldnt hear what he was saying to them like that but seeing them ripped my heart out. I tried to call police but they never showed up. He wasnt technically breaking any laws and I was told to call back if he put hands on me. This sort of hell was repeated over and over and over until I was able to steal my kids back while he was at work. I did eventually get a call from CPS. They wanted to verify that I had the kids with me and wasnt planning to go back to him. I was so scared they wanted my kids. I still have serious trust problems.
Steak not only loses water it loses some fat (Some fat) as well.
One time I decided to try a dating app and found a guy from my high school on there that just got married. I sent his wife his profile and said she may want to look into it. Turns out, her and the guy both moderated his dating profile because they wanted to see what kind of women would go for him. Then they could mess with them. They saw it as a game and had no shame in telling me. People suck sometimes.
Wow, that's crazy
They sound like one of those serial killer couples.👀
That’s seriously weird. I wonder if they’re actually looking for something kinkier.
I wonder if it was more like the man pretending it was a game but low key actually wanting to see other people but had to keep his wife as Delulu as possible
@@meili2618 I was thinking the same thing
As a woman who has been cheated on and people knew but decided NOT to tell me, I will always advocate for telling a woman if her partner is creeping around. I really wish I was informed so I didn’t waste my time. Unfortunately for me, the girl that was involved with my ex didn’t care that I existed and was a serial cheater herself 🤪 Babes that’s against girl code. And that is why I have trust issues 🤪
Honestly, letting people get away with that crap doesn't do anyone any favors.
Same
I would say always tell them, but also be careful.
I found out a guy I dated was a cheater and told his gf... she stalked me for 5 years
im going to use the term serial cheater from now on to describe such people.
Girl, that's why I don't have friends! Man the amount of times I've tried to trust and have looked like a fkn 🤡 Im happy at peace, ALONE😂
As a chef for the last 20 years, I can not stress enough too people that the oz's you see for food on menus is the "pre cooked weight". Food, especially steak and other meat looses weight (obviously), through the cooking process from fat and moisture loss. You are still getting a 9oz steak, it just weighs less after the cooking process.
I'm so glad Charlotte talked about people who use their mental health and/or trauma from their past as a way to get attention or sympathy and what not but then they act like they cant be bothered to also lend an ear or show support for someone else that legitimately needs to talk with someone because they are finally ready to talk about their abuse or their struggles with mentally health or whatnot and then they are told that they are the ones who are constantly trying to monopolize the conversation and make it about themselves and are constantly fishing for attention or sympathy.. that happened to me once when i finally felt ready to share and open up a bit in group therapy and afterwards I got sent a screenshot of this conversation between half of the group from this one woman who started tye like conversation saying how she couldn't believe I was making group all about myself again and she said the same thing about another woman who was only there for her second week and spoke up for the first time.. some people are just so oblivious
Ugh, my ex! Learned my lesson in confusing vulnerability with what is actually centering one’s self in every situation.
My brother tried to pick up a chick at the bar while his wife was pregnant with their 2nd baby. I told my sister in law, she told me to mind my own business 🤷♀️ I haven't talked to either one of them for like 8 years now.
😂😂😂
I'm so sorry you did the right thing sooner or later she'll learn for herself
Or, she won't learn and just stay with the cheater because he plays her bills. It's amazing how many women have this mentality. It's like 1950s never ended.
Maybe there in an open relationship or some woman just don’t want to know the truth especially 😮PREGNANT
@@kenyabrunson4985 who tf said he was paying her bills? Why do men always think women can’t be self sufficient?
When I was waitressing, I started wearing a ring that looked like an engagement ring to work, thinking it would be easy to just flash the ring for unwanted advances.. boy was I wrong. The amount of guys who would say "So? He won't have to know." was shocking. I would always respond "But IIIII would know."
That happened to me when I worked at a gas station. He even made fun of my ring.
I worked at Kohl's, and you would not believe how many women I saw buying fake wedding rings. They would tell me it was so that they could work out in peace without being hit on in the gym, or safety issues when out alone or running, etc. I'm sure it didn't help too much, unfortunately. 😢
Omg babe same. Used it twice because it was effing worse!
My husband was in a band the first several years that we were married. He got hit on ALL the time. With his wedding ring in full view. He’d say he was married and the common response was “I don’t care.” To which he’d say, “Well, I do.” A few times, I was standing right there! 😂 One time the chick walked up, gave me a dirty look and told me that I had no chance with him, to F off, he was going home with her. He then said, “no. I’m going home to HER and our two children!” We both just cracked up at her face!
@@jworth7203 where do people get the audacity to do this stuff? Damn. I'm glad you have a good man though. 🙌
Charlotte is that Ride or Die friend that will tell it how it is and always looks for the positive in people. Thanks for the honesty and the laughs. Hope you and everyone watching you has a good Tuesday.
Yes, she is . Have a great day as well
Very true Charlotte. Those kinds of people are very hard to be with. I met a friend online who constantly stayed depressed. I always listened and consoled because I felt bad for him too but he would constantly bring up s**cide in the conversation it was taking a toll on my mental health too. It was really unhealthy . How there are people who treats depression like a competition, about who is the most depressed.
The married guy story hit a little close to home. Literally was in a "relationship" with a man for a year and a half. He was a very private man and communicated well so I didn't have much doubts. A few things didn't make sense but I didn't look into em. Come to find out he was married with a whole ass baby and when I confronted him he tried to play stupid and tried to remain "friends like no thank you. Broke my damn heart and now I am not the same. I tried to tell the wife but he somehow knew about it even though he didn't have social media. Even went so far as to make a fake profile to tell her. Karma gonna get his ass. You don't mess with a great woman and don't suffer consequences. And when it does happen I'm gonna sit there with my now amazing boyfriend who treats me like the queen I am and we both gonna laugh as his life is in shambles lol
If someone wants trust issues... Once, I dated a guy who lived in another town. We were way too young, especially me so I couldn't go and visit him whenever I wanted (no driving licence, no car, no job or money). That's probably why he chose me. At some point he said that his ex had showed up with a baby, telling him it was his child. Later on he said that he had brain tumor. I mean, you could imagine how devasted I was at that point. One night after I got drunk at a party I decided to call him and a woman answered his phone. Apparently he was married and in a good health but he was simply preparing to leave me by faking his own death. 🤐🤐🤐
Jeez😢
One word: sociopath.
They do that.
And yes, they are that crazy/weird, and do things like pretend to have cancer.
One lady married a sociopath and her sociopath hubby told her he got a job in a new city. So she quit her job and they moved. Turns out there was no job, it was fake. They ended up having to live on savings/credit cards (in hotels) until they stayed with friends. She divorced him cause he crazy and later she also he also had a mistress and a baby. (Which she didn't even know about).
Another sociopath lady worked at a clothing store (co worker is telling the story).
The sociopath lady said she got a rich football bf and that's why she was getting all these nice clothes suddenly. Cause at work she would show up in very very high end clothes and luxury bags.
Well, turns out she didn't have a bf and stole the money from work. She ended up getting caught, fired, and then arrested.
(^Comments/stories I read on RUclips)
Just the other day, a guy on a flight kept making eye contact with me... so after we landed, I approached him and asked if he was single. He said "I'm married, but Im on vacation!"
I gave a hand gesture of "after you..." and thanked him for his honesty.
I feel really bad for that wife
yeah he went on vacation alone for a reason. to cheat on everyone he could
@thewillow3457 he was with another dude so I can guess alot of things there 🤣🤣
This reminds me of my ex manager. He went to Ibiza with a friend and they both left their wives at home. The wives thought they were still in the country, for a business meeting when they were in fact, out of the country, cheating on them. Ugh
Wait, were you going to Ibiza?? Cause what?
@@brianm4178Ooh....
Oh, this just made it juicier 😂
The part where that girl was talking about being born three weeks early, and finding it traumatic. I laughed. I was literally born 16 weeks premature and was given 3% chance to survive my birth. I don't have PTSD from the tragedy of my birth, as I don't remember it.
That chick has a screw loose!
My earliest memory is of my 4th birthday. The only thing I remember about it was that my dad tried teaching me how to hold up 4 fingers, but my family laughed because I didn't know what to do with my thumb, so I fussed at my own thumb for being in the way. An uncle suggested amputation as the solution and I disagreed vehemently!
I dated a guy who was 15 years older than me about 30 years ago. We got on the subject of the Kennedy assassination and he asked me what I remembered about that day, after he told me he was in high school biology class when he heard the news.
I answered, "I was two".
He looked confused and said, "You were in biology class, too?"
"NO! I... WAS... TWO!!!"😂
While this is true, it could depend if her body remembers the trauma, which it does. For example, I have a little brother who was the rainbow baby of our family after my mom lost a baby before him. He had complications at his birth and stayed there in the hospital for a while. He was probed, stuck with needles, etc. He's currently 7 and to this day, has a horrible fear of needles and doctors. My mother says will he mentally may not remember that time because he was a new born, his body does and he does NOT like needles or doctors. Whenever we take him to clinics for check ups, if he says a nurse holding a long plastic bag or a long thing in general like a swab, he immediately thinks it's a needle and starts screaming and crying. And it's the same thing with swabs, ever since he started getting more tests for strep because he would have it often, he now no longer likes the swabs and the moment he sees one, he immediately cries his heart out and reaches to my arms, begging me to take him home. As for doctors, he asks a big shy around them and doesn't talk as much, unless he feels like he's not getting a shot or swabs, he will talk more. I could be wrong, as everyone goes through things differently, but me and my mom genuinely believe my brother's hardcore fear of needles isn't like the common spook kids get and then they grow out of it. He honest to God would rather get sick then have a needle or a swab near him. He will even beg us to tell the doctors his throat doesn't hurt to prevent swab testing
@cindypicadomolina7814 , I'm not denying that. Heck, I have scars from a heart surgery and being fed via G-Tube on my body as a result of my birth.
I was born about 8 weeks premature and spent the first 6 months in an incubator. I do believe it was probably traumatizing...but I remember nothing 😆
for real. i was born early and dead. that shit doesn't give you ptsd. the beating, abuse, neglect, etc. does lmao
In the US, meat is sold by weight BEFORE COOKING. Almost every package and menu says this.
I had trust issues about intimacy and relationships for a long time. But finally I looked around at my really great uncles and male cousins and realized that there are really great men out there. Focus on finding someone with great values that are similar to your own. It doesn’t make your relationship immune to problems but it will mean that the other person isn’t trying to hurt you.
Thats insest
You looked to your UNCLES and COUSINS for verification of the presence of GOOD MEN?? Jesus Christ… get to therapy TODAY.
You two repliers are out of ur fing minds. If ur thinking "there is no such thing as good men" but u have great men in ur family that is proof that there are good men and you just have to look elsewhere. That's what they're saying.
U think this person meant they were checking out the men in their family like sexually? Bruh what's wrong with u two!?
As an old lady, let me break it down. Talking with the boys all night=bar 9-12, strip club 1-3, Poker 3:30-6. All breaks in times are usually greasy diners or fast food. The are actually large amounts of guys who can go out literally for days and not cheat(My 4 brothers, my dad, brother in law, several friends husbands. BUT, there are guys who can "go out for pizza with the guys" for an hour and a half and be on a date. Know your guy. Actually become friends before you become lovers. Be trustworthy, dont play games to make him jealous, so he feels bad behavior is justified. Not all men are creeps, not all women are angels. It's doable.
Well put thank you
@@BreakofDawn awww, that's so sweet! They both sound like good guys.
Sometimes people jump to the wrong conclusions. My mom and her two sisters were very close and best friends as well as siblings. They were always laughing and clowning around. My dad was more serious, but had a dry sense of humor.
When I was a teenager, we had all gone out to a nice restaurant. There was 10 of us; the 3 "Cackle Sisters" (my dad's name for them, because their maiden name was "Cagle") their husbands, and some offspring including me. The sisters sat at one table and the rest of us sat at the next table.
The waiter came to take our orders but Mom and my nutty aunts were laughing so hard about something that they couldn't talk. The waiter was annoyed and said, "Have you ladies been DRINKING??" My aunt, the oldest and a pastor's wife who never drank, ever, didn't skip a beat and told the waiter, "No, we haven't been drinking but we sure have been popping the goofballs!"🤪
I can't remember what my dad said to the waiter but it something about them being sisters who were born with mental illness. That got the Cackle Sisters cackling even more. I'm surprised we weren't asked to leave.
I miss them all so much🥲
This is smart.
Yeah, no problem if you trust your man. Though the strip club part is a no for me. WHY always the strip club?!?? I'm visual too, I sure don't need to go there! Plus, doesn't mean it's just looking, so..
No good man goes to a strip club when they're committed to someone specially if they have kids.
For the record, I want to make this clear to everyone! You can be living with an ex and there be nothing there! I was stuck (manipulated) into still living in a house with my ex-fiance so he could continue using my money and live off me and his mom. He used our son to make me stay. I was too scared to move out because I have no family here. We were both single and looking for someone else. There was nothing between us anymore.
Happy note, I finally was able to move out and with the most amazing guy now ❤️
If that's the case, the person is not ready for another relationship. I'm sorry. People should take care of their own life first to stand on their two feet and cure all the hurt and trauma. Theeeeeeen start thinking about meeting someone new, when they've matured. But generally, people just don't care, they just rebound and repeat the same behavior patterns smh
My ex, who is sadly no longer in this world, moved in with me early in our relationship. She had anxiety and depression and chose the wrong way to remedy her issues leading to developing a drug habit. I ended things with her but couldnt get her out of my house, she lived with me for another 18 months before getting into trouble and was hospitalized. Her mother drove 4 hours to pick her up from the hospital when she was finally released and my ex went to live with her mom. After her passing the scumbag that got her addicted asked the mom if they faked her death to keep him from trying to contact her anymore.
I was stuck living with my ex for a year as we went through selling the house (I had a mental breakdown). He started seeing someone when we still lived together. We were in no way together.
@@Ca_mi_laI completely agree with this. My stupid ex told me that he was seeing someone else. I told him to get out of my house. He says he can’t…he has nowhere to go as the woman he was seeing was still with HER man. I said, “The two of you deserve each other. And it’s still Not my problem. Get out.” He left. Get your crap together. If you are STILL in the house with someone, WAIT. Get on your own. Straighten up. Be a decent human being!
I was engaged and lived with my fiance when I was 19-20. Things ended on good terms because we realized we were best friends, not romantic partners. I kept living with him for around 6 months after we broke up (I had moved out of state for him and couldn't afford my own place). Let me tell you, none of the guys I went on dates with during that time cared that it sounded fishy. I would've had no issue letting them say hi to my ex if they asked, but no one asked. 😂🙄
I’m a waitress. The scale Karen makes me so mad! When they say “8 oz steak” or whatever, it’s the weight BEFORE COOKING!!!! It WILL shrink down! Seriously! The fact she brought a food scale is ridiculous! 😂😂😂😂😂
I came here to say this! How do people still not understand this?! Do you take your 1kg pack of chicken back after cooking because it's not 1kg anymore?!
And anyway, in their crazy world, how are the cooks meant to guess the shrinkage? "Sorry, this one gone crazy on the shrinkage, we cant send this fully cooked piece of meat out because its too small 😬" 🤣
I came here to say this too lol. Even fast food will say "weight before cooking". What an a-hole. They should have given her a raw steak
Nobody wants her as a return customer. She needs to stay home and learn to cook.
But listen.....whn you put that amount on your menu.....Should you not buy a bigger steak that shrinks down to the size you put on your menu???
Yeah but then grocery stores would have to figure that out when they sell it, and a well done steak would weigh less than a rare, where to start? Lol
Steak weights are for raw steak. They lose liquid when cooked. The weight varies after cooking depending on many factors, particularly how the steak is cooked. But it’s always going to weigh less after it’s cooked.
I had a friend who always tried to one up traumatic situations that were real. It kind of made me feel as if my 16:33 things weren't worth anything. It devalues things that happen. If something bad happened like my dad dying, sister overdosing, mom having a stroke she lived with me didn't have a house, trauma all around in family lol (all true stories) she'd come over complaining about her wrist hurting or something. I always knew it was off because nothing was ever wrong with her. Like she had tests done for legs, nerves, periods, I don't know what kind of disorder makes people do that. I didn't even bring up my stuff to her directly or anything either. I sort of leave it up to my friends if their in a mental position to talk. ❤ I never want to hurt anyone. I see people who seriously do try and weaponize trauma. It's maddening for the rest of us.
It does not represent those who have went through heavy trauma in childhood that want to heal. CPTSD is so real my dude. ❤ signed big fan who unfortunately has a past lol😅
You do realise this kind of behaviour is characteristic for disorders such as adhd / autism / audhd? people trying to relate and connect to others through similar experiences cause they don’t know how to navigate emotions, social clues …? Also, how bad a situation feels is purely subjective. That does not mean it’s not extremely bad for the person experiencing it. Even if it it’s just a minor inconvenience to others?
@@mindel13Like having been SA'd in childhood?🤔
Best part of my day is when Charlotte uploads, i can forget about all my troubles for a few minutes, or have her playing while i’m cleaning lol 🧼
Love that!
Me too
@@CharlotteDobre I feel like my day isn't complete if I haven't watched your video. I really feel like something is missing on the occasional day you take a much needed break, or I am just so busy I don't have any time to sit down and watch it that day. It like a little daily check in with a friend.
For anyone who’s watching/watched suits can we all agree that Charlotte is basically a real life Donna?😅
Yes omg yes
As a NICU mom whose son was born 8 weeks early and spent 40 days in the NICU the 4th story sent me. 3 weeks early is still 37 weeks…That’s not even premature
37 weeks is early term. 39 weeks is full term. There is a crucial growth period for the lungs brain and liver between 37 and 39 weeks.
My second was born at 37 weeks, we went home less than 72 hours later. Yeah, it’s usually no biggie.
@@d4ever649 It may be considered early term, but 37w is not premature.
@@mavy1557but barely makes the cutoff and what it means is some babies could still have serious issues.
Birth at 37 or 38 completed weeks' gestation is associated with increased risks of stillbirth, infant mortality and neurological morbidity. Not premature, but still very high risk.
trauma that was developed from infantry is actually more difficult to overcome cos that is the oldest memory we develop. Most children that were separated from birth develop severe abandonment issues.
Isn't that more to do with the fact that they are abandoned, it doesn't happen and then is done with, they are forever abandoned. It's not very comparable tbh
@@alanarama Abandonment issues does not necessarily mean that the child was abandoned in a traditional sense. It just means that in infantry, their care giver didn't often address their needs, or was absent. Or they were taken from a familiar comfortable family system. Look into Gabor Mate's podcast, he explains it very well. Or theories of attachment styles.
Yep Gabor is amazing. The over share and trauma dump is hard to break. Also hard when you auto care and please. It's frustrating as those ppl i get, but they never reciprocate @tinmendez4121
Charlotte your hair is sooooo prettyyy
My dearest Mom had a horrible experience delivering me and as a joke, every time I was cranky she would say, “oh my poor baby, it must be because of your difficult birth”. Then she’d give me “the Mom look” to change my attitude. ❤😂. I cannot image using it as a line for sympathy from others! 🤣 That girl was the definition of a crazy drama queen. LOL
I couldn't complain about ANYTHING to my mom!
She was born in 1920, her dad died in 1925, and her mom died of TB in 1932. Mom and 3 out of her dozen or so siblings were "lucky" and were sent to an orphanage at the height of the Great Depression. That's where she got her first pair of shoes, at age eleven.
The girls at the home were taught to sew and not only made their own clothes, they had to make their own period pads and belts to hold them. All the used pads went into a large hamper in their communal restroom, and it was only taken to the laundry once a week. Of course the girls had to wash them themselves... by hand! I'm sure that smell would have gagged a maggot!
At age 18, they were adults and had to leave the orphanage even if they had no place to go. Mom was lucky and met and married a handsome young Army Sergeant. Then he was sent to the front lines in Europe to fight nazis. He survived the war but came back with severe PTSD and traumatic brain injury that caused his death about a year after he returned home.
Mom was 4 months pregnant with my second oldest sister, so suddenly she was a young pregnant widow with a toddler, no job, but had a car she didn't know how to drive. She taught herself to drive that old Plymouth and after my sister was born she landed a good job as an executive secretary. She bought a house for her and her girls in 1952, back when a single woman couldn't get credit. She figured it all out somehow.
Yep, I didn't dare complain to her that my life was hard! She would just laugh
We need a video dedicated to all of charlottes nightmare dating stories 😂 I feel like she went through a lot before meeting Mike. Our journey to finding our person is never an easy ride, I’m still on it myself, took a pit stop, not dating for at least another year 😂
She made a whole tv show pilot based on that. It’s called “ The Swipe Life “
I call it the “Damsel in Distress mentality” it’s those people who are so addicted to sympathy or being saved by someone because of the attention they get that they always talk about things, create connections to trauma or create scenarios to be saved from.
It’s not just ‘damsels’ 😊
My ex sister in law would have “ anniversaries “ for bad things in her life. She was always depressed because it was the anniversary of her gerbil dying or the anniversary of nine million different breakups or bad news she got, etc. There was ALWAYS something.
@@user-blob no not always just girls… but regardless your gender or identification or pronouns… it’s still acting like a “damsel in distress”
@@Just-Nikki right!?! I know someone, smh, who creates situations like hooked up with a guy to make her ex jealous and when her ex found out she flipped it to he assaulted me please help. Or another time gave her hotel key to “new friends” she met the day before when she was living at a hotel with her kids and called her ex to come help her when they robbed her. She milks as much attention and sympathy she can get and creates the drama to get it.
@@amberedwards6821fair enough 😊
I've learned that when people dump all their sorrows on you from the moment they meet you, it's called flood lighting.
8:10 I know plenty of woman who say they are single but have dozens of men in rotation. It's not just guys who do this. Be careful of everyone you meet
Y’all, the scream I screamt when Charlotte said “….to ‘measure’ meat…”!!! 😂😂😂 I’ve been happily married to my best friend for 9 years, and we were best friends for 8 years before that. I am so thankful for him and our relationship, more and more every day. I feel so sorry for single women trying to have good, honest relationships these days. Charlotte, you’re the daily staple I never knew I needed. Love you! 🩵🩷
Me too girl. I was like “ weigh , you WEIGH meat! “ 😂
"screamt' isn't a word, actually, but it totally describes the sound lol.
@@Kayenne54 I know “screamt” isn’t a word, I was an English major, but it was literally the ONLY word that came to mind that made sense to me at the time, haha. 🤣
@@OfficialHawks_WCUE Whenever someone uses it, I just laugh. It's such a funny word, but so descriptive. My eldest daughter, when a toddler, would ask for "nice cream" (ice cream); and we were looking at jewellery in a jewellery store once (when she was older), she pointed at a diamond necklace and said "Oh look, ice". At one point, we'd drive home from grandma's after dark, and she'd point out the window and say "Matcha". Totally perplexed me until I realized she was looking at the television repeater towers, that had a red light for aerial safety on top; and was mixing up the words "match" and "tower". 😁😁
Thank God I'm not dating anymore but if a man ever told me he was living with his ex for some reason but not with her anymore, I'd need confirmation from HER first
I love the guy in 17:30 and his videos. I never know if his stories are his or just ones he reads and tells us. But he does it so well.
That third one is on POINT. Delulus out there blaming everyone BUT the one actually cheating on them.
Charlotte I thoroughly enjoy your commentary on all the videos and everything that you present it’s awesome I get a lot enjoyment out of it thank you
So aside being perpetually jealous of your hair, I love that shirt. Have a great day, Charlotte! ❤
I also like the shirt 😊
14:40 This man getting Trauma Dumped! GORL you’re supposed to save that for later in the friendship 😭
“Charlotte’s face on things” is so friggin genius 😂 It’s such a powerful antidepressant it could easily make the pharmaceutical form obsolete.
Ikr?! Kelly is the best editor.
They put her face on a body in a casket one time, it killed me!
🤩 Thank you for the Love!
@@lotstodo 😂😂 You nailed that one 😂😂
@@erikarussell1142 She sure is! Legit genius level at that
That influencer story is the craziest thing I’ve heard in soooo long 😆
@7:12... thank you Charlotte for saying something and defending good men out there, we do exist. I see some of the struggles women have to deal with because of shity men. There's no excuse for what they do and I'm glad that people are helping each other watch out for these lying cheaters.
nah girl you lighten my day each time , tnx for the effort
I Always trust that Charlotte will makes us laugh. No matter the day i'm having, Charlotte always makes everything better. Someone needs to give her an award for her dedication to this Channel.♥️
You're so sweet ❤
@@hind4339 thank you!♥️
Yes! Her videos always puts a smile on my face especially when I really need it. Love her 🙌🏾❤️
@@jenniferclumpoint190 🤗exactly, i feel the same!
Omg this reminded me of something,
I was sitting in class and the teacher told us to work with the person next to us. I didn’t know this girl. But as we’re working (I’m doing most of the work because she’s talking) she just randomly is like, “Oh my gosh, I might have to call my mom.” And y’know, I was confused so I was like , “What’s wrong?” And this girl literally goes, “This project reminded me of how I was born 2 weeks early and I spent a while in the ICU. Because of that I had epilepsy when I was four.”
I was so confused, like girlypop, you can’t recover from epilepsy. Yeah, there’s strategies to manage it but I don’t think you can’t recover from it. She was literally like, “It was just so awful to spend all that time in the hospital.” Girl, you were a baby. You cannot remember that.
Also just for context: I was born three months early. I’ve had lung problems ever since and still struggle with asthma today.
So when this girl starts complaining about how she was born two weeks early, I was so confused. I don’t tell people I was born three months early and only my friends and teachers know I have asthma. Also, I’m pretty sure this girl was lying because in our class she’s always using dead family members as an excuse for not doing her assignments. Ma’am that is 4 uncles, 3 aunts, 2 grandmas, and your mom. I don’t know if it actually happened like that, but considering I saw your mom pick you up from school it was probably a lie.
So the exact next words that came out of my mouth were, “Oh, well I was born three months early. I spent over a month in ICU and my parents had to switch all the pastels in my room to shades of gray because my eyes weren’t developed. I still have asthma because of it and I almost had an asthma attack going up the stairs in our school. But I don’t remember what happened when I was born, so how do you?” And this girl just stared at me in shock. Then she started yelling at me, saying how I ‘stole her moment’ or something. It was literally so stupid. But because she was yelling at me the teacher came over and gave her detention.
(Damn I wrote a lot. Sorry if this doesn’t make sense. Also, this girl still hates me, it’s been three years.)
Some children can grow out of epilepsy, even adult epilepsy can go into remission (if no seizures in 2 years in the uk while off meds you are allowed to drive again otherwise your license is permanently pulled 10:24 ). Only know this bc of family having seizures. My uncle and then his daughter. It depends on the type of seizure. So although she wasn’t right or kind in the way she treated you, she’s not wrong in the growing out of seizures part. Hope that helps!
@@softscribbles ohhh I didn’t know that, but also I forgot to mention but a few years after that it turned out she was lying and her mom was the one that told me. yeah, her “dead” mom
@@hana_wanaRuh roh 😅 yeah something’s not adding up. I try to see the best in people unless they give me a reason not to. But yeah that’s a clear reason not to.
In defense of the guy who was sneaking in at 7am, I have been to bonfires where we all hot drunk and pulled all-nighters literally just talking and hanging out. I would drive home tired af, and my bf, now Fiancé, would be like, "Hey, can you give me a ride to work?" It is 100% possible to be a loysl partner but also have all night drinking and talking sessions with besties.
My husband and I have a closed-phone policy. We have passwords on our phones that neither of us know and an expectation of privacy on our phones. It’s about trust, privacy, and a level of independence in our (almost 20 year long) relationship. We are both of the opinion that if you feel the need to snoop in your partner’s phone then it doesn’t matter if you find anything or not - it’s time to pack it in, you’re relationship is already f**ked.
Same. All these people going through phones, checking locations, etc is just exhausting to hear about. I and mine made an agreement that location only needs to be on if one needs to find the other (broke down car or whatever). Other than that, we don't have a need to go through each other's phones.
I ordered the “disease to please” from a past video because of you! Helps me put me first because I am a nurturer by nature and people take advantage every time. Gotta put ourselves first!❤
Good for you! I hope for the absolute best for you! You definitely deserve to make sure you are taken care of. Besides in the end, we're no help to anyone if we're not ok ourselves. Best wishes to you and yours! Make sure you're taking care of you first and foremost because you're worth it! 💖
Same!❤
If people take advantage it's not because you are a nurturer, it's because you don't have good boundaries. I'm happy you're putting yourself first ! Keep it up, respect and love yourself
Love the editing, music, effects. Put together with Charlotte is perfection. 💖
I had trust issues before this video. Thanks for the validation 😂
Luv to you, Charlotte - The Queen of Petty ❤
Men don’t “talk” all night. They hang until the beer is gone, then leave to get more, or go home.
My roommate at the time and I invited some work friends over one night. Just 2 girls we both knew. 1 of them, we can call her Tori decides to invite her "partner" and her infant son over without asking us. We don't make a big deal out of it and just roll with it. They proceed to make the entire night about them and would essentially feed off each other and kept telling us traumatic things they'd been through. It was as if one would finish their story and the other would start a new story. After a few hours we found a way to end the night, we couldn't take it anymore. The 3 of us had been giving awkward knowing glances all night back and forth as if to say "WTF is going on right now?!" Once the family had left we all felt drained and traumatized ourselves, the other girl we invited coined the nights event as " emotional waterboarding." We completely agreed. I think I hung out with her about 3 times total and I had to end that friendship, it kept going like that. Just weird and uncomfortable memories with Tori....
I love and appreciate how much effort charlotte and her team put into the videos 😊 also doesn't matter how bad my mental health is, your videos always make me laugh or smile ❤ thank you
That makes me so happy!
this!! having a bad day today but her vids always manage to pick me up.
14:03 - lol, I've been told I was in a life-threatening situation as a toddler, don't remember anything. Didn't know I could build my whole personality around it. Feel for the bro, awkward coversations are the worst.
To the story of the influencer remembering her birth, although memories can hypothetically be formed at infancy, it’s relatively impossible to retrieve (remember) your birth until language is developed. That’s why most people “boot-up” into consciousness and recall memories from 2-4years old, those are the years of learning how to talk. It’s virtually not possible to remember something before theres foundation of language, because you can’t contextualize what you’re experiencing.
I recall one event from before I was born. In other words, mother was pregnant with me, I wasn't born yet. Later on, in adulthood, I asked about certain things I "recalled" (watching the man who would be my father at his work); she was astonished and confirmed that yes, he had worked in such and such a place, but it was BEFORE I was born. I didn't "lead" my mother with my questions, just related my "vivid dream/memory" and was any of it based on fact? It was. So it's not impossible to recall things, it could be possible to be traumatized during birth events (cord around the neck can result in people hating ties or scarves or even turtle neck sweaters, and not know why, for example), but it certainly isn't commonplace to recall from when one was pre-verbal. And the fact that hypnotherapy can help people overcome issues, by going back into their past, indicates that at some level, all experiences are stored.
@@Kayenne54 Respectfully, no you don't. It's 100% a false memory. Even if you could remember the things from the womb, you wouldn't remember things from outside the your mother's body. You wouldn't SEE anything. Hear at most.
@@jenntegt Respectfully, when I was describing the "vision/dream" to my mother, I was FLOATING up near the ceiling, looking down, and I floated behind him like a balloon on a tether. I saw him hold his hands behind his back, stop and talk to workers on the factory floor. When I was older, I often saw him walk down the street like that. It was his signature walk, in fact. Respectfully, there are libraries full of researched stories on how people experienced events which fall outside the norms.
@@Kayenne54 Yeah and mediums help people grieve... doesn't mean they're actually speaking to our dead relatives. Especially early trauma shouldn't necessarily be taken literally, the brain gets creative sometimes. Doesn't mean the emotions aren't real, but it doesn't mean things happened exactly as we remember them either. I have memories that are in a 3rd person perspective, sometimes there were photos of the event that could have constructed them, sometimes no way there was ever a photo and I suspect I was dissociating as the memories are all stressful. But when you start talking about remembering things you weren't even present to see, you've lost me.
@@BlueHazyDreams I confirmed both that my father was employed where I'd "seen" him and that I was yet unborn; mother was pregnant with me. Also, when I pondered it as an adult, I realized my point of view was up near the ceiling, and then trailing behind him. I saw how he walked, and spoke, and acted; his current character was revealed. My mother left him not longer after my third birthday; and at no time did he include me in his work or take me there. He barely acknowledged my existence, actually; my older sister was the "Golden Child". Additionally, I had a meditation which morphed into a vision that involved him and myself in "other personas" or a different incarnation. It was relatively traumatic. Before his passing, I went and visited him especially to mention this "vision" and what had occurred in it. He was so disturbed he went from the room suddenly. After a little while, he came back and asked "How do you know all that?" because he had recalled it as well. I only mentioned it to him in the first place so that I could let him know how to pass safely through the lower astrals after dying.
"i was born 3 weeks early" will now be my go to excuse
I have a funny story. I live 125 miles from the cities, my husband goes down to see his best friend Geno. They went to the bar and sat at a table. Some woman walks up to my husband and used the line "where have you been all my life?" My husband, didn't miss a beat and said "125 miles away!" It took him a couple of minutes before he realizes she was hitting on him! 😂😂 been married for 35 years now
My jaw literally dropped when she said “they still are together”.
Yeah, I went out on a few dates with a guy. And at one point, he told me his parents were divorced when he was a kid and I said "me too". I didn't think it was a big deal. A lot of people's parents are divorced. But he would keep mentioning it. We went out with friends if mine, and they told me he mentioned it to them. It was just weird. We were in our 30s. My dad had just died just recently and he knew that, but I got the feeling, he thought his parents divorcing was worse. We had talked about the divorces(my father cheated and was an alcoholic), he didn't know why his divorced, but it was embarrassing for him at school. It was just weird.
Both my kids were born three weeks early. They were fine.
Three weeks isn't premature- it's within normal limits.
It CERTAINLY doesn't qualify for preemie/NICU status! 😂
ALSO, she claimed she was in the ICU. It would be the NICU, not the ICU.
She made that whole "trauma" up! 🤣
I could EASILY stay up to 7am talking hahaha
Good night guys...just done watching Charlotte...Time for me to sleep...it nighttime here in the Philippines...love you fellow petty potato Princesses!!! Hail to the Potato Queen Charlotte!
Hope you sleep well fellow petty potato!😊 It's later in morning for me almost lunch time and still more to do than there are hours in the day haha. Wishing you and yours the best!❤
I have been binge watching you're videos for day's , you have put more smiles on my face then ever and reaffirm there still are real people around :) GO CANADA
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@@stephenbanks5952 Thank's so much for pointing out my short comings :) English is NOT my first language and I have dyslexia. Also the reason I don't post on many videos to draw att to myself , So thank you very much for helping me remember that...... I hope you have a great day :)
As a cute guy I feel attacked, in my 20's I did usually have a few people in rotation, but I was always honest about that when I was hanging out with new people.
First one. This goofy shit is the reason many restaurants have started putting “before cooked” disclaimers on the menus
As an empath who has dealt with the FeedersTM firsthand, it is NOT fun- you do regret caring 😭 but show them that you don’t care anymore by loving yourself and proving their victim acts wrong
Either he was cheating or they were drinking and playing video games until 7 in the morning. All they had to do was text the girl and tell her what was going on.
The steak weight sent my chef husband into a very, very long explanation on the cooked and uncooked density of the meat. The difference between cows and all that jazz. 😄
15:06 those two black dots on the wall above his head i literally thought they were on my phone screen and tried to wipe it off 🤣🤣🤣 and seriously the more ppl i meet the more i stay home 🤣
Not to defend 7 am dude, but I've stayed up plenty times till 6 am having alcohol induced talks about life and the universe with the boys. Some of the best convos tbh
It happens. I feel like that chick needs to figure out that maybe treating him like he's untrustworthy won't gain the kind of results she's looking for at the end of the day. Or maybe he didn't want to be around random screams. That could be it too.
"who talks till 7am"
To be fair, anyone in retail who does nice shift or over night shift does. Our sleep schedule is f'ed to all hell 🤣
That first video is proof that Miss Charlotte actually is good at math. 😉
15:53 And those people Charlotte are called failed narcissists. It's a real term
LMAO the snow at 1:01 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Such good storytellers ❤ seriously love these videos
I accidentally do the trauma dumping thing and then I end up feeling bad because I don’t even realize how bad it is until it come out 😂😅
Some people are total drama all the time. They just have to bring up everything about life that they don’t like, or all the “bad” in the world that’s happened to them. Agree with Charlotte about “feeding off the drama”. I think they’re crazy. 😂
“Found out he was married…”
Whoa, the audacity of some people, I swear.
The scale could be because she or one of her kids is diabetic
The mother of a diabetic friend always had a scale and a book to get her child’s blood-sugar to the right amount as my friend also was doing competitive sports and their mom had to plan around it
I have been married for 20 years now and we are both terrified of the dating stories we hear from friends. it is crazy out there.
One of my best friends in high school was a foreign exchange student from Berlin and the host family the program assigned her to had the strongest living arrangement I think I’ve ever personally witnessed! On the outside it seemed normal with a husband and wife but in reality they were divorced and still living together but the kicker is that the “wife’s”lover lived there too! They were all really nice people but it was a strange situation
Charlotte is like a friend at this point, that everyday tell us the news and the tea on social media. 😂♥️
Oh honey I was married to a "great guy " for 9 years. He cheated on me and he is still blaming me for that 😊 Not a coward at all 😂
Ugh, I’m dealing with someone abusing my empathy right now. I’ve gone silent, I can’t do it anymore. She knows I have health issues but has spent most of this year taking pregnancy tests, and all of them are negative but she still went for scans - also negative - and then bought abortion pills off the internet. Now she actually has issues. I did send her a big message after she sent me pictures of her spotting in her underwear (you read that right) and she said she understood that she was overdoing it and I couldn’t bear her burden too. Within days she was back at it. I’ve stopped trying to be kind, stopped giving advice, stopped the tough cop role, none of it matters as much as the attention. So no attention is my way of coping with her.
Don't ghost her. Help the men in her future by making sure she knows WHY you're done with her. Don't let her off he hook easy.
@@wmason1961 we don’t live close to each other. She says she doesn’t want to be pregnant but didn’t believe the negative tests 🤦🏽♀️ but yeah, that would take a lot of searching for the men in her life and meddling online.
@bowbooks5659 you don't need to talk to the men or even know who they are. It is her that needs to know why. Otherwise, she will never have negative feedback to think about. Give her something about herself to think about. Or she will never improve.
@@wmason1961 I did in a long message, which I mentioned the first time around, it didn’t stick
For the influencer ICU story ask them, if the birth had and complications which is still affecting you. If they say no, reply with "I'm so happy for you, that is so great. You recovered........." Don't give them they empathy they don't deserve!!!! Give them congratulations, make it a happy thing.
I have a lot of problems and talk about them somewhat often but I never do so for the sympathy not empathy. It gets brought up, or it's similar to something someone else is going through so I tell people to explain or commissary. I'm pretty sure I'm not who you're talking about, but because I have SO MUCH bs, it's difficult to not talk about it. It's too the point that I've pulled away from so many of my friends and family members because I feel like I'm such a downer. It's a difficult line for someone who had 4 autoimmune diseases, all their teeth are falling out and are poor and unable to ever get out of their predicament unless their art sells for a ridiculous amount.
Charlotte has the most eloquent facial expressions 😂
In response to the first story..I can say that my ex and I still lived in the same apartment together after we split. Neither of us could afford to move and get our own place. So yeah that part CAN happen and be true.
Thank you for taking my mind off of the war (temporarily) love from Israel 🇮🇱❤️
Stay safe, bestie! ❤❤
I hope for it to end asap. hate towards anyone for their beliefs or ethical background is wrong
אם ישראל חי. Stay safe
I love how many times Charlotte tells the story of the guy snatching the phone cause he was married😊😊😊 That left a scar. Love you Sis...❤❤❤❤
Ooh loving these long videos xxx❤
the fact that that woman told the wife what her husband did, but chose to stay boggles my mind, but at least she didn't blame the woman and turn on her
Honestly I don’t want to be mean but that’s pathetic behavior and every time I see it all I can think is “that’s someone who doesn’t know their self worth”