DO you have some tips for the spouse that has to support the other after a death of a parent? My mom passed away 19 months ago & every monthversary I get sad & my hubbie just doesn´t know what to do with me, so he just walks away. I feel like I dont even have the right to cry about my mom around him 'cuz I make him uncomfortable. I always tell him that his hugs will do the trick, but he just leaves me alone... It's been hard for me losing my mom in a stage where we were finally great friends with her & I feel that i must just hide my grief & only talk about it with friends that lost their mom´s as well & I would love to feel free to show those emotions around my husband & really feel that he 's got my back. Any insight you may give us will be highly appreciated. Thanks!
Hey Dave, love your teachings! Can't the same be said about all human emotion?
DO you have some tips for the spouse that has to support the other after a death of a parent?
My mom passed away 19 months ago & every monthversary I get sad & my hubbie just doesn´t know what to do with me, so he just walks away. I feel like I dont even have the right to cry about my mom around him 'cuz I make him uncomfortable. I always tell him that his hugs will do the trick, but he just leaves me alone...
It's been hard for me losing my mom in a stage where we were finally great friends with her & I feel that i must just hide my grief & only talk about it with friends that lost their mom´s as well & I would love to feel free to show those emotions around my husband & really feel that he 's got my back.
Any insight you may give us will be highly appreciated. Thanks!