It is stated that when women say there is nothing wrong (with a bunch of extra body language and what not), it is the man that needs to work on observing and identifying the body language and so forth in order to better communicate. That is absurd. Whether it is the man or the woman doing this sort of behavior in the relationship, it is not the other persons responsibility to decipher lies. When a person asks someone if something is wrong and the other person says, "nothing" when there is actually something wrong, that person is lying and, thus, is not communicating well. To put this on the other party by saying that they should work on reading between the lines, by reading the body language, only enables that sort of lying and manipulative behavior. Dishonest communication is destructive communication, and let us not pretend otherwise. Maybe I'm missing something here, so please correct me if I am mistaken.
LOL i love the way you acted out the wife part haha. Also good advice ! It'll surely help me out. :)
Trying to improve communication is pointless if one refuses to listen
Wow ive never cheated but I think its happening to me and it hurts
It is stated that when women say there is nothing wrong (with a bunch of extra body language and what not), it is the man that needs to work on observing and identifying the body language and so forth in order to better communicate. That is absurd. Whether it is the man or the woman doing this sort of behavior in the relationship, it is not the other persons responsibility to decipher lies. When a person asks someone if something is wrong and the other person says, "nothing" when there is actually something wrong, that person is lying and, thus, is not communicating well. To put this on the other party by saying that they should work on reading between the lines, by reading the body language, only enables that sort of lying and manipulative behavior. Dishonest communication is destructive communication, and let us not pretend otherwise. Maybe I'm missing something here, so please correct me if I am mistaken.
When I say nothing I definitely don't mean nothing!
Better yet don't get married and you'll have nothing to worry about