No finance, No Romance; The reality of dating in the 21st century Ft Phyna | The Honest Bunch - S3E6

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  • Опубликовано: 12 фев 2023
  • The Honest Bunch an audio-visual podcast that focuses on discussing real millennial and Gen z issues with no holds barred.
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  • @revinaleonard2374
    @revinaleonard2374 Год назад +190

    Phyna is making so much sense, not every garl is dating for money. Some are genuine dating a guy and want to grow with them

    • @agwunchaagustine9435
      @agwunchaagustine9435 Год назад +5

      If I genuinely like and love u and I don't have shishi but I have a skill I am continuously working on for it to pay one day... Will u genuinely be in a relationship with me?

    • @ukachukwukevinnzube2384
      @ukachukwukevinnzube2384 Год назад +3

      @@blessingtakim5684 not every relationship ends with marriage
      They path ways not dump
      You’re obviously the one dumped

    • @damtech38
      @damtech38 Год назад

      A big lie, most girls are dating for money

    • @NmaRose357
      @NmaRose357 Год назад +1

      @@ukachukwukevinnzube2384 The truth is that Groovy dumped her. He got tired of all her lousy drama on the internet. But you her die hard fans don't like saying the simple truth. Groovy dumped her but she is not dead she's still managing her life. Don't get angry when you already know the truth. The Phyna we know, that fought & betrayed all her friends in BB house because of Groovy..that was flaunting him up and down as if he's her god will not just walk away from groovy. She already said she doesn't mind if he doesn't love her. And everyone knows the truth about that relationship and how it started..so let's stop all this pretence. We all know that groovy will eventually dump her & it happened. Case Closed. I just hoped she learnt something tangible from that experience.

    • @ukachukwukevinnzube2384
      @ukachukwukevinnzube2384 Год назад

      Shey ur previous boos dumped you
      Yes or No?

  • @igbologeeloho8427
    @igbologeeloho8427 Год назад +147

    Phyna is a full of vibes and she’s intelligent too. Love how she changed the narrative from all “women date for money” to “some women actually love working for their money”. Thank you Phyna for being a mouth piece for us who genuinely work for every dime we spend.

    • @favourisaac4575
      @favourisaac4575 Год назад

      Exactly. Phyna's really making so much sense. She's intelligent.
      Kisses girl.
      Thank you for speaking well of the honest ladies out there.

  • @KingSolo_of_ourtime
    @KingSolo_of_ourtime Год назад +74

    I never thought phyna is this sensible wow she got my respect today 🔥🔥🔥

    • @opeyemiolusegun3393
      @opeyemiolusegun3393 Год назад +1

      Aswear and pple won’t see d full video ooo dem go just Dey cap nonsense 😏everybody would be alright las las 😊

  • @emmanuelugodike2009
    @emmanuelugodike2009 Год назад +99

    Phyna should be a role model for the 21st Century ladies..I don't really know her, but she was very inspirational and has a good mindset.

    • @didamkazachat5117
      @didamkazachat5117 Год назад +6

      Nigerian men should also not forget to follow woman of their own class. You guys are doing amazing ❤️

    • @granitndexzy1556
      @granitndexzy1556 Год назад

      @@didamkazachat5117 But Nigerian woman should follow men of higher class right?

    • @didamkazachat5117
      @didamkazachat5117 Год назад +1

      @@granitndexzy1556 higher class is relative

    • @femistiflha7312
      @femistiflha7312 Год назад

      @@didamkazachat5117 lmao... Relative how please? I'm curious

  • @abelbukunmi8044
    @abelbukunmi8044 Год назад +42

    Ok, since it's Phyna I never expected anything less than honesty and vibes. Mama is just mama

  • @princesssaratu1314
    @princesssaratu1314 Год назад +44

    She is really fearless, bold, intelligent, beautiful, and also the hype priestess of Nigeria

  • @maryannfavour9359
    @maryannfavour9359 Год назад +43

    Phyna was just been honest in this podcast.... Like this is one of my best podcast so far. Love you Phyna 😍

  • @wisdomwayo784
    @wisdomwayo784 Год назад +4

    Phyna is THE true definition of a woman of CLASS. So intelligent, virtuous, principled, energetic, confident, and beautiful. She truly understands how the game should be played, both from a woman's perspective and that of men too. Her closing advice to women is top notch. I watched that part three times and had to download the episode because of it. See how she countered Ezinne's "two blind people cannot walk" narrative? Phyna much love..

  • @leticiaemefa2457
    @leticiaemefa2457 Год назад +39

    Phyna is a phenomenal woman👏👏👏👏👏👏I Stan, Re-Stan and Pakistan💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

  • @sylvialawrence4326
    @sylvialawrence4326 Год назад +42

    Just became a Phyna's fan..she spoke my mind

  • @yunuscoker6553
    @yunuscoker6553 Год назад +13

    Phyna literally changed the narrative. My wife dated me when I had nothing and the reason why she stayed was because I'm being sincere and caring in my own little way it definitely ended in marriage after wedding we started growing financially by sharing ideas together I don't hide anything from my wife. A gud partner is someone you can rub minds with and share ideas about how to grow not selfish interested of you must buy me this and that. I provide for her without asking coz I know her needs... feeling entitled and mandating unnecessary bills should be negated. However, both of you can grow together without jeopardizing with selfish interest

  • @eseosasereomokaro431
    @eseosasereomokaro431 Год назад +29

    Dem suppose name Phyna "WISDOM AND UNDERSTANDING"👏👏👏

  • @dorcasbawa3420
    @dorcasbawa3420 Год назад +32

    I love how Phyna can stand on her words till the end

  • @gracesunday4875
    @gracesunday4875 Год назад +17

    I love the way phyna made dem understand that other women work hard for their money

  • @liqwidstudios6156
    @liqwidstudios6156 Год назад +30

    Don't really follow Phyna but I just fell in love with her personality abeg. She dey real. Very smart and logical. She has my respect 100 percent

  • @moeshaj.6637
    @moeshaj.6637 Год назад +90

    This is why I like Phyna, she’s TOO REAL ❤

    • @abiolaraji1624
      @abiolaraji1624 Год назад +4

      Very well said....my cupcake phyna been making me proud all the time... Hard work pays o

  • @damilolaayobolanle4125
    @damilolaayobolanle4125 Год назад +65

    Ladies, your criteria should be financial responsibility….not wealth. I don’t care how much money a man has, as long as they make good decisions about how to use it. Like I said earlier, generosity has nothing to do with money, it's a personal trait💯

  • @cynthiaerhisere4198
    @cynthiaerhisere4198 Год назад +41

    Phyna I don’t know you but thank you for this input! Let people know there are honest women who just want to grow with their partners and support the family…Money is not romance and it’s crazy the narrative/mentality of the 21st century we dealing with today

  • @mirax_vibez
    @mirax_vibez Год назад +32

    Very interesting. Phyna is a gem. A Model African Woman. Highly principled and hardworking lady. Guys una well done.

  • @amakasuccess722
    @amakasuccess722 Год назад +45

    Oga thank u sir for introducing my Queen Phyna in that manner ❤️❤️

  • @duzzyspiritual1443
    @duzzyspiritual1443 Год назад +29

    This podcast came into my life as a therapy .. it came into my life when I needed it the most . December 2021 .. I remember I was depressed cos of my relationship then . But the entertainment it has brought to my life is priceless. Thank you 😩😩🤗🤗

  • @o.g_mekus5213
    @o.g_mekus5213 Год назад +9

    I’ve always said it that phyna is very underrated, criminally underrated infact!!
    She’s extremely intelligent and has a lot of life experiences that people can learn from.
    Amazing amazing addition to this episode!!

  • @amakasuccess722
    @amakasuccess722 Год назад +47

    Pls why won't I be so proud of my Phyna? This girl is giving me bragging rights everyday. @unusualphyna I love ur smartness, you're a full package 💯✅

  • @Iphie2019
    @Iphie2019 Год назад +58

    Phyna thank you for speaking up for us that have genuinely been in the dating game looking for a compatible mate without looking at money. Some of us actually get offended when men flash money thinking that everyone is there for money. If I am honest, most men that do that feel like they can only be liked because of their money and nothing else.
    Most men make these money hungry assumptions about women due to their past experiences. Unfortunately, when they see genuine ladies, they by-pass them for more physically appealing ladies that may be there for only the money. Just for them to turn around and categorize all ladies as the same. I don’t see how as a physician I will be looking at money as the most important attribute for a potential mate/spouse. The group kept it real as always.

  • @yaaanimwah9896
    @yaaanimwah9896 Год назад +15

    My Phyna is always consistent with her ideals nd values! That's a strong and fearless woman right there!

  • @elisabeth6086
    @elisabeth6086 Год назад +128

    Nedu is definitely those type of guys that didn’t get girls until they made money, hence the mentality

  • @akinlagunadeleye6146
    @akinlagunadeleye6146 Год назад +29

    I now love phyna. One classic, outstanding girl

  • @ulomaapugo6370
    @ulomaapugo6370 Год назад +6

    Thank you Phyna for speaking up for lady like us, we don't date for money but just genuinely wants to date for a guy that cares about us, I will be the last person on earth to pick a yahoo guy over a 9 to 5 man.
    This show just shed soo many light and I'm happy I watched it because it has clarified some things for me

  • @StarbaeFestus
    @StarbaeFestus Год назад +21

    So proud of Phyna. Unusual beautiful and smart. Challenger of all Gender. She no dey see u she no go fear u. Love you Queen!!! ❤️

  • @dermiey.
    @dermiey. Год назад +51

    Phyna is so smart😍😍

  • @Kefmoles
    @Kefmoles Год назад +33

    I love listening to you guys. This episode made me realize phyna is very intelligent, didn't really know much about her.

  • @aishamichael5098
    @aishamichael5098 Год назад +20

    For the fact you keep saying the truth, you are forever in my heart, love you phyna

  • @tutuemeji7058
    @tutuemeji7058 Год назад +17

    Phyna spitting facts,my dear,follow person wey u go grow with oooo

  • @michaelgodswill6332
    @michaelgodswill6332 Год назад +18

    PHYNA dey always turn up 😂

  • @Josephevwierhom
    @Josephevwierhom Год назад +12

    already in love with Phyna. She's lowkey the one with BDE to me😂😂😂😂

  • @Thesweethannah
    @Thesweethannah Год назад +18

    Phyna the winner making a mindset shift..nice delivery Queen

    • @edehesther5338
      @edehesther5338 Год назад

      Aswear, physically is a clown 🤡 🤣 😂

  • @dashuwarabujadestiny1564
    @dashuwarabujadestiny1564 Год назад +12

    This toun na babe wey go give u heart ache low key.. I just dey observe am.. She appreas clam but omooooooo Phyna na the only babe wey high intellectual IQ for here

  • @skylove1390
    @skylove1390 Год назад +22

    Wow am more than impressed
    Phyna u are indeed so smart❤️❤️❤️

  • @anzchibaby8
    @anzchibaby8 Год назад +14

    I fully enjoyed this episode... Phynas energy is unmatched the girls showed up and showed out and I love etttt😌💯💪

  • @darababalola2158
    @darababalola2158 Год назад +20

    This is really educating and I 💯 go with phyna, most woman didn't even realise how powerful they're if we focus on ourselves, develop yourself not waiting around for anyone to give you not just man I mean anyone because everybody in our life have expiration date

  • @olamideawoyemi6510
    @olamideawoyemi6510 Год назад +36

    Aswear
    I like phyna so much, girl just spilled the fact ❤️✅

  • @lydiiamobi7715
    @lydiiamobi7715 Год назад +20

    Phyna I love you aswear,I didn't Stan rubbish

  • @bigbills_2683
    @bigbills_2683 Год назад +30

    Husband material is the funniest cast member 🤣🤣 he is low key funny.. I am enjoying Phyna's vibe by the way

  • @sphiwelndlovue8993
    @sphiwelndlovue8993 Год назад +13

    My fearless, intelligent queen Phyna spitting facts,my babe is too real ❤️so proud of her ❤️

  • @kazeemolabisi6116
    @kazeemolabisi6116 Год назад +15

    Phyna look so beautiful and she speak very well weldone babe❤

  • @chris_celebrity
    @chris_celebrity Год назад +21

    This phyna is the only sensible person here, others are saying trash

  • @gibszololo3937
    @gibszololo3937 Год назад +9

    Omg the first girl outta big brother that actually has sense. Thank you Ijeoma for speaking the truth. Girls keep hustling the 10% of nigerian men 🤣

  • @addyfam1454
    @addyfam1454 Год назад +6

    The way Nedu talks about women sha, it shows the kind of money-hungry women he relates with. Lol, as if no be this Naija we de. If Nedu thinks Nigerian ladies go for rich men, who are the Nigerian ladies marrying broke men then? Nedu needs to relate with responsible ladies and not these ashawos he de go for.

  • @olatoyekayode3940
    @olatoyekayode3940 Год назад +15

    I love the way husband material da do the introduction
    The guy is so smart ❤️

  • @cynthiachinonyelum7127
    @cynthiachinonyelum7127 Год назад +21

    Super proud of PYHNA the WINNER

  • @kutemitife8876
    @kutemitife8876 Год назад +10

    I love how Toun changed her points in this episode and later ended up saying the right thing. We all can see what she’s doing 😂. I like how everyone went off and came back to agree to everything. Keep it up guys

  • @sophisticated7405
    @sophisticated7405 Год назад +7

    Really didn't want the podcast to end.. phyna u made we d reasonable woman proud 🥰🥰 TAKE THE TITLE.. UR A QUEEN 👑

  • @princesssaratu1314
    @princesssaratu1314 Год назад +16

    The hype alone make me happy, phyna our winner

  • @ossaivictor4907
    @ossaivictor4907 Год назад +30

    Nedu your level thinking is experiencial..love u so much..
    Phyna na woman of strength and ability, love ur level of experience in life..love u so much..
    Husband I love ur show and your way of speaking..God bless your hustle AMEN

  • @Nnekaokpalefe
    @Nnekaokpalefe Год назад +7

    You see this Intro they should leave it for Husband Material🙌🏾🙌🏾 it is the highlight of my day❤love it

  • @bascondavid
    @bascondavid Год назад +5

    Phyna tha high priestess... Very nice having her on the show, her perspective was beautiful.

  • @georginachinagoromeze1454
    @georginachinagoromeze1454 Год назад +18

    Phyna is very intelligent. I am proud of you.

  • @giftudoh2999
    @giftudoh2999 Год назад +41

    Nedu you meet your mate in Phyna on this one 🤣🤣🤣

    • @IVEE17
      @IVEE17 Год назад +1

      I swear

    • @ifebuchecatherina9197
      @ifebuchecatherina9197 Год назад +1

      Alpha phyna for a reason 🤣

    • @Pharmsam
      @Pharmsam Год назад +1

      Wahalurrrrrrrrrrrr, elephant enter somewhere,e must shake

  • @peacerepublicans.4999
    @peacerepublicans.4999 Год назад +11

    First time listening to phyna though
    Loves HM's calmness and everything about him.... love's Nedu's honesty in all he says.
    Have never missed an episode of this podcast cox one way or the other you'll grab something meaningful and this podcast have away of curing depression. Thanks boss dem for all you do

  • @victornwosu7823
    @victornwosu7823 Год назад +17

    Shoutout to the gang for this episode, special respect to phyna 👐 #phynation

  • @toviaelefoh8316
    @toviaelefoh8316 Год назад +19

    It was vibes and lessons through out this episode,you no fit tire of phyna energy.Nice one guy.

  • @obimary987
    @obimary987 Год назад +25

    This is interesting. Good to have phyna on this one❤️

  • @jennifervictor4274
    @jennifervictor4274 Год назад +25

    Nedu, HM , Toun and Phyna are all intelligent and super funny people. I laughed so hard 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ifeanyimatthew6855
      @ifeanyimatthew6855 5 месяцев назад

      Please what's the IG name of that lady on black?

  • @wuraluyi
    @wuraluyi Год назад +5

    Phyna is so right, not everyone dates cos of money. When I started dating my husband, he had no job

  • @tranquilitysongforthesoul4382
    @tranquilitysongforthesoul4382 Год назад +9

    Alpha queen phyna, I troway cap for you. You're beautiful with brain,I salute your judgement. If all 9ja girls has same mentality like you,guys wey dey Yankee no go marry white women. I wish to see you again on this show,I enjoyed your part my dear.

  • @techhub1059
    @techhub1059 Год назад +11

    Ijeoma, should be invited again 🤣🤣🤣

  • @johnsonseyianthony9862
    @johnsonseyianthony9862 Год назад +5

    I never really understood why people are bashing and trolling phyna for this masterpiece of a video
    People are just crazy men

  • @TemiTeeO
    @TemiTeeO Год назад +7

    Chai! I so much love Phyna’s POV. All Nigerian girls don’t date cos of money now💁🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️. I’ve always heard this stuff and we need to understand that everyone is NOT the same. Haba!!

  • @Ann.Beauty.
    @Ann.Beauty. Год назад +23

    Seriously i love phyna so much,she inspire me alot ,she is a perfect example of an Alpha woman

  • @IVEE17
    @IVEE17 Год назад +16

    Phyna is too funny 😂😂😂which is collobate 😂😂

  • @jumokeadetunji91jumoke8
    @jumokeadetunji91jumoke8 Год назад +9

    I’m in love with phyna already ❤️ and that you for speaking for us that genuinely love without money interest and we still get hurt but then we continue to work hard,make our own money and wait for that loving and responsible guy .my fav episode well done guys

  • @bluntgist3321
    @bluntgist3321 Год назад +6

    Is the introduction of Phyna for me 😂😂. I’m loving it.

  • @tijanimariam8081
    @tijanimariam8081 Год назад +25

    Proud of phyna 🥰

  • @giftewere8534
    @giftewere8534 Год назад +15

    Thank you all for this episode, phyna well done and more of God blessing

  • @Henric_jay
    @Henric_jay Год назад +8

    Really appreciate this podcast particularly, I will say there have to be more of this real talks,we Africans must appreciate something like this!!! We are in a world where everyone lie and everything is just for clout on social media, this podcast will be very enormous, keep it up 100% always love this a lot!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @oscaralasa8236
    @oscaralasa8236 Год назад +5

    This was a very amazing watch and very hilarious too. Husband material is lowkey a clown sha lol. Absolutely loved this episode.
    It's Phyna's rounding up statement for me 1:10:19 - 1:10:34. If women actually know what being just a "woman" in a workforce can get you in today's world, we won't be having some conversations at all. In most cases you are already the "favorite" without even saying a word, and if when you speak you are making sense, damn the sky is not even close to your limit.

  • @Darerah
    @Darerah Год назад +12

    Always sad that each episode has to end and then we’ll wait till a week’s time for another. Love you bunch!…you guys make my Mondays end well.

  • @damilolaayobolanle4125
    @damilolaayobolanle4125 Год назад +29

    I'm sure y'all know that there are a lot of rich stingy guys and a lot of poor generous guys.
    Generosity has nothing to do with money, it's a personal trait.
    Deductive reasoning if you know what I mean😊

  • @keechiO
    @keechiO Год назад +2

    They suppose spray husband material money for his introduction of guests bcos he sabi the work jor!! 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ebukajohnogar450
    @ebukajohnogar450 Год назад +1

    Wow..ijeoma AKA phyna AKA queen mama.. AKA who dey..!!!
    Omo girl you finish work..
    Well done and kudos to you 👏👍👍

  • @lasheun
    @lasheun Год назад +9

    Nice discussion all... Phyna I'm on you on this.. you be Odogwu👍

  • @ukemichael7099
    @ukemichael7099 Год назад +21

    This is a total bunch of honest opinion from y'all, great job guys.

  • @emmanuelsuulola6900
    @emmanuelsuulola6900 Год назад +3

    Omoo! Phyna>>>>. She's earned my respect, fr. This is very enlightening and so insightful.

  • @lebgafongotsama1667
    @lebgafongotsama1667 Год назад +13

    Thank you guys for this session today it has really helped me and also I have learned a lot from this episode and thumbs up to Phyna making me understand her point

  • @scarlowisetv
    @scarlowisetv Год назад +18

    Am super proud of you phy phy 💕💕💕💕

  • @giftudoh2999
    @giftudoh2999 Год назад +31

    Phyna well said, a guy that work hard can still make it tomorrow

  • @AliMohamed-ls9dt
    @AliMohamed-ls9dt Год назад +18

    Am a Cameroonian and I have friends that’s date Nigerian girls and they are doing well. I use to think Nigeria girls love money but it’s untrue. If a Nigeria girl love you genuinely, she will work with you and even to an extend of giving up her career to make sure his man succeeds.

  • @obaniyijohn8890
    @obaniyijohn8890 Год назад +2

    This is a very interesting episode!
    In the long run everyone still aligned on the same point, very eye opening.
    Welldone guys!!!
    Husband material, good work for the opening shots of every episode, I always enjoy it.

  • @officialsheddywills8061
    @officialsheddywills8061 Год назад +18

    Phyna A Queen And More 👑👑

  • @khairsadiq7448
    @khairsadiq7448 Год назад +19

    I love the intro as it should be ❤

  • @yaaanimwah9896
    @yaaanimwah9896 Год назад +15

    Proud of you Phyna, gradually you are helping to change the narrative!

  • @BukolaRY_TV
    @BukolaRY_TV Год назад +2

    I watched it from the beginning to the end.....biko! SHOUTOUT TO ME 💃💃💃💃

  • @naziraadams5053
    @naziraadams5053 Год назад +12

    Phyna u too much. Thanks for the advice

  • @mr_benaro6554
    @mr_benaro6554 Год назад +8

    Make Dem nor beat nedu for this show one day 🤣🤣🤣, still my favorite ooooo

  • @Elizabethhenry46
    @Elizabethhenry46 Год назад +8

    This was really interesting to watch,I laughed all through 😂.Phyna the winner u are doing well👏🏾👏🏾

  • @omotehinsebukky9946
    @omotehinsebukky9946 Год назад +10

    I actually loved it 😍 phyna and nedu have my heart

  • @superstarritway
    @superstarritway Год назад +3

    Phyna is so special, the other girls for there Omo, na wahala oh. Rare women like her are hard to find, God abeg give me a phyna in my life.

  • @Queen-yd2rl
    @Queen-yd2rl Год назад +22

    Soo proud of phyna

  • @sarjobarrow7209
    @sarjobarrow7209 Год назад +4

    I don't know if my message will be read but want to thank you all. I started watching your podcast early this year and I am impressed by y'all. I am a Gambian and proud of y'all are great. Keep it up

  • @korantemaaelizabeth3750
    @korantemaaelizabeth3750 Год назад +12

    I’m proud of you Phyna .Beauty with brain. I can’t love u less