UGH. Public proposals....I hate them. (Unless both parties want it!) The people screaming "say yes!" 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ Nobody should be GUILTED into marriage.
I wouldn't accept a proposal on my b-day. Birthdays are supposed to be about the birthday kid only, not about a future marriage. Why didn't he propose on HIS b-day, since he wants to marry her?
I have had friends who were proposed to on their birthdays and I was like “Congratulations! I’m really excited for you. What did he get you for your birthday?” I didn’t intend to be mean my brain just can’t accept they chose to propose on their birthdays; I t’s not fair to conflate the two and make the day about the couple instead of the birthday girl.
I don't feel sorry for him. Women say over and over that marriage isn't a prize and that it's not desirable anymore. Men prefer to still think that all women dream to get married. Their fault, maybe they should start listening to others.
12:22 this is a Prom-posal... not a marriage proposal. He's asking her to prom. Just because he made a big song and dance about it, doesn't mean she should accept. She probably didn't even know he liked her like that.
I respect the courage of a man to propose BUT if you’re going to do it publicly, please prepare for the possibility that the rejection will also be PUBLIC. Some women might be gracious and take you to the side to reject you but not all..
People really need to stop pressuring women into saying yes. If she wants to marry him she'll say yes. If she's not ready for marriage, or any other reason she might say no, why would you want her to say yes? If you do pressure her to say yes when she wasn't ready to all you're doing is setting up their marriage to fail.
I actually feel bad for the women tbh. It’s so embarrassing and imagine getting put on the spot in public. I wouldn’t think to say yes just to protect his feelings. What about mine? You have a whole crowd and that’s pressure. I wouldn’t just think to say yes if it was really something I didn’t want. Especially if I never agreed to that in the first place. Those men who propose are setting themselves up for failure. That’s like congratulating a woman on her pregnancy but she’s not. 😂😂😂😂 you had better do some research and be certain!
They propose in front of everyone to add pressure to the women to say yes. Always decline these proposals unless it is something you specifically want to happen that way as these conversations are usually discussed in a real heathy relationship.
I have rejected four out of five proposals: one when I was a kid, one when I was still 17, another at 24 and another at 27. Life is too short and I take God too seriously to say yes knowing that I didn't want these men
Looovvee these , make it a series 😂. 👏 The lady in the white dress is pretty & adorable 😍. You can look at her & KNOW that HER swag doesn't do the bottom of the barrel ish .😌💅
Turned it down 3xs. Make it clear, I don’t want it don’t want wifey duties. Idk why men think what they want goes 😂. Then ppl saying “just say yes?!” NOOOOO!! I been told them, they should have listened / no kids no marriage.
Hey ladies for those saying the first one was a skit....I honestly thought so but wasn't sure....but whether skit or not I believe these videos portray real life scenarios that we don't really get to see sometimes... I mean we have women who act like this in real life
The man who proposed at McDonald's... His woman felt pressured to accept his proposal, but she gave no f's about HIS *MANIPULATION* ?!? At *that* point?... EFF *HIS* FEELINGS!!! *FOREVER* !!!
My ex tried to ask me through text when he wasnt ewen in the same contry and he knew i love my contry and dont want to leave my family he just wanted to lock me down before other men saw what a diamond i am and when i said no he tried to bullie me in to saying yes i just wrote down al our problems in the relationship and told him we were allready broken up using no bad words and he blocked me i regret nothing when a man is selfish and think we should kiss the ground they walk on thats the type of man that will mess up his future kids.
😂 THE LADY AT 6:43 SAID; THIS IS NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND...WHEN PEOPLE WERE LIKE SAY YES, SAY YES...SHE SAID IT IN SUCH A WAY THO 🤣 LIKE THE GUY ANNOYS HER OR MAKES HER MISERABLE. WHYYYYY WOULD SHE WANT TO COMMIT HER LIFE TO HIM?! 🙅🏽♀️
It’s hard especially when you reject a person because of how they propose. I would ask a woman alone if I was a man! To see if she wants you to be married in the first place!
These crack me up ...I love when women are brutal...imagine being proposed to in front of the garage😂😂😂no fancy restaurant...no cute deco ...or at least a expensive ring...no pampering...no shopping...yea I would say no too
Some of those are sketches tho 🤣. The 1st clip are all content creators. How many women actually have guts to say no to a marriage proposal? Some of you are so desperate for marriage, you would say yes to a frog
The first video is fake. There’s literally RUclipsrs in the video. And the homecoming video had nothing to do with marriage. Those are kids. Marriage and homecoming are two different things. Even with the little boy proposing. Those are literal kids 😂🤦🏽♀️ As for some of the other videos, it just shows that some men really do not listen or care to listen. Why are you proposing to your girlfriend who has stated she’s not ready to get married?🤦🏽♀️ if you’re ready to get married and she’s not maybe you both need to go your separate ways but to ignore what she says and she says no that’s on you. The woman who talked about the woman being proposed to in a McDonald’s, that man did whatever he wanted and ignored whatever his girlfriend liked or wanted. She should’ve left him if he can’t even listen to her about the things she likes. And she should’ve said no.
This is what happens when you choose looks, it’s not like you didn’t know this was who she is or even a possibility. You bought your parents out there, and you’re not prepared to be someone’s husband, she likes him, but she is not prepared to take care of him. See he wasn’t looking for a woman who he was equally yoked with, (he hasn’t matured enough yet) he was looking for looks, and she delivered, any other expectations, were a fantasy of his, does she sound like she is his emotional laborer, or do she sound like she’s there for why he wants her there, her looks, men need to choose wisely, that means if you want to keep your women, put in some effort, and later when your son acts out of character, you can tell him the story of how you chose his mother and how you keep his mother. And what ever your first impression of why you want to be with this particular woman, is the true reason you want her, don’t try to make her something she’s not for you, find the woman for you, who already posses the qualities you are looking for, so you won’t have fantasy expectations of her which you try to mold her into. That means get to know people, not by sight, but do the two of you have more than enough in common, to just date, let that be your beginning.
Um no...because your still going to get the same response. People would be more mad you said yes, and then took it back. The do this type of stuff in public to MAKE you say yes. Because alot of them know if they ask just them, most would say no. That's why everyone keeps screaming "Say Yes" at you..while he on his knee looking stupid.
@@RawrB3riiibut this thing can be a huge dilemma....but knowing myself I would say NO....than having to take it back later... considering they do this typa stuff to make you say yes
Idkkkkkk because to be fair he... I'm the same way I don't like people making scenes or like putting on a show for people but not properly communicating with me... But she kind of seemed like she has a snobby bad attitude from before she even walked up And she's very comfortable disrespecting him in front of his blood family...like his sister... Lol And it's easy to play it into a narrative as if I misogynist or I just don't want to be on a woman's side, but to me this girl is fitting into the stereotypical archetype of a biracial or mixed girl that people see like portrayed in media and in movies and all this things. The very first video only what I saw is someone who has always had external validation from her being pretty she has no couth she has no boundaries or manners she basically was going out of her way to be as disrespectful as possible, she could have done that better. But also I feel like it might just be a difference between me and other females, because my dad didn't like certain like passive aggressive stereotypically feminine things that were negative and bratty. I remember I had to beg for my life because he thought that I rolled my eyes at him but I didn't I looked somewhere real quick and looked back at him. But but I learned that's because my aunt is the type of woman that's passive aggressive and cunning and has ulterior motives and is tit for tat. The type of person that would purposely get someone in trouble and play innocent.He just didn't want me to be diabolical in that way as a kid
So your dad taught you that you couldn't be dissatisfied with a man. So you typed a long paragraph to tell us he made you afraid to say what you really think and feel. Did he have men running to the hills when they have attitudes with him? I'm real curious.
If I were proposed to in front of other people by a man I was seeing, it costs nothing to say yes in the moment. It's not a verbal contract and I couldn't handle humiliating him. Once all the excitement died down, I'd tell him the truth, that I have no interest in getting married.
Women are saying the same but being called bitter and old for that. The result is on the video: men don't believe when women say they don't want to get married and those men get humiliated in result. Well deserved. Men live longer in marriages so because of that men shouldn't get married, shorten your lifespan please.
I hate when people think "just say yes" is the only answer. To protect a mans ego eff that
Ugh I hate that.
Literally, absolutely not.
These ladies clearly had made up there mind. A wedding ring won't save a relationship neither will a baby.💯
Facts💯
UGH. Public proposals....I hate them. (Unless both parties want it!) The people screaming "say yes!" 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ Nobody should be GUILTED into marriage.
“jUsT sAy yeS” 😂 they want you to say not knowing what is going on in your relationship half the time the male doesn’t know what is going on
I wouldn't accept a proposal on my b-day. Birthdays are supposed to be about the birthday kid only, not about a future marriage. Why didn't he propose on HIS b-day, since he wants to marry her?
Cheap and trying to steal her shine!
@@JukuduBand make sure she never forgets it!
I have had friends who were proposed to on their birthdays and I was like “Congratulations! I’m really excited for you. What did he get you for your birthday?”
I didn’t intend to be mean my brain just can’t accept they chose to propose on their birthdays; I t’s not fair to conflate the two and make the day about the couple instead of the birthday girl.
The first one was a skit.. she said did you get the ring from Walmart, they said it was from Target.. no one will admit that if he did lol.
Came here to say this
💯
Thank goodness it was a skit.
Exactly
These women better be careful. These men can get extremely violent when rejected and these are very public very big rejections. Stay safe ladies.
Exactly my thoughts...most men don't handle rejection and especially public rejection well... they'll make you pay for it...
Then don't deal with men. You never know when one of them can ask you to be together and then you'll have to reject him.
@@VixxKong2 aye aye!
Honestly I feel like public proposals is just pressure to say "yes" it's so manipulative AF!!
I don't feel sorry for him. Women say over and over that marriage isn't a prize and that it's not desirable anymore. Men prefer to still think that all women dream to get married. Their fault, maybe they should start listening to others.
nah, maybe they should start listening to women.
This the era men really finding out how women feel.
Turned down 3.
12:22 this is a Prom-posal... not a marriage proposal. He's asking her to prom. Just because he made a big song and dance about it, doesn't mean she should accept. She probably didn't even know he liked her like that.
shit, knowing these men nowadays, he prolly didn't.
9:58 hes a STRANGER to her and they basically stole her car. I think she is scared and is trying to get out safely.
Yes, I can tell she didn't know him
I respect the courage of a man to propose BUT if you’re going to do it publicly, please prepare for the possibility that the rejection will also be PUBLIC. Some women might be gracious and take you to the side to reject you but not all..
People really need to stop pressuring women into saying yes. If she wants to marry him she'll say yes. If she's not ready for marriage, or any other reason she might say no, why would you want her to say yes? If you do pressure her to say yes when she wasn't ready to all you're doing is setting up their marriage to fail.
Exactly
Also making it all about themselves, that guy with the group dance was all about him.
2:05 this looks like a skit tbvh 😂
Yes, it was. I hate those type of skits just to go viral. 😒 The acting is horrible and you can tell it’s a skit. Smh
I actually feel bad for the women tbh. It’s so embarrassing and imagine getting put on the spot in public. I wouldn’t think to say yes just to protect his feelings. What about mine? You have a whole crowd and that’s pressure. I wouldn’t just think to say yes if it was really something I didn’t want. Especially if I never agreed to that in the first place. Those men who propose are setting themselves up for failure. That’s like congratulating a woman on her pregnancy but she’s not. 😂😂😂😂 you had better do some research and be certain!
They propose in front of everyone to add pressure to the women to say yes. Always decline these proposals unless it is something you specifically want to happen that way as these conversations are usually discussed in a real heathy relationship.
"He didn't get it from Walmart, he got it from Target" 😂😂😂. This is a skit.
I have rejected four out of five proposals: one when I was a kid, one when I was still 17, another at 24 and another at 27. Life is too short and I take God too seriously to say yes knowing that I didn't want these men
Looovvee these , make it a series 😂. 👏 The lady in the white dress is pretty & adorable 😍. You can look at her & KNOW that HER swag doesn't do the bottom of the barrel ish .😌💅
Some are so obviously skits
Especially that ring don't match my fly skit
Proposals like this are blackmail. He didnt know what ring she likes. He didnt know if she wanted an audiance. He did that to make himself look good.
Turned it down 3xs. Make it clear, I don’t want it don’t want wifey duties.
Idk why men think what they want goes 😂.
Then ppl saying “just say yes?!”
NOOOOO!!
I been told them, they should have listened / no kids no marriage.
I'm embarrassed for the men and I haven't even started the video. I'm pre-embarrassed😂😂
Looks like a skit but a man already knows the answer
Hey ladies for those saying the first one was a skit....I honestly thought so but wasn't sure....but whether skit or not I believe these videos portray real life scenarios that we don't really get to see sometimes... I mean we have women who act like this in real life
Them fellas said 🗣🗣🗣
HE CREASING THE FORCES 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm fkg dead
The man who proposed at McDonald's... His woman felt pressured to accept his proposal, but she gave no f's about HIS *MANIPULATION* ?!? At *that* point?... EFF *HIS* FEELINGS!!! *FOREVER* !!!
8:40 It didn’t look like she knew that man 💀
My ex tried to ask me through text when he wasnt ewen in the same contry and he knew i love my contry and dont want to leave my family he just wanted to lock me down before other men saw what a diamond i am and when i said no he tried to bullie me in to saying yes i just wrote down al our problems in the relationship and told him we were allready broken up using no bad words and he blocked me i regret nothing when a man is selfish and think we should kiss the ground they walk on thats the type of man that will mess up his future kids.
This is a
Skit
this gave me so much pleasure....times really have changed lol.
😂 THE LADY AT 6:43 SAID; THIS IS NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND...WHEN PEOPLE WERE LIKE SAY YES, SAY YES...SHE SAID IT IN SUCH A WAY THO 🤣 LIKE THE GUY ANNOYS HER OR MAKES HER MISERABLE. WHYYYYY WOULD SHE WANT TO COMMIT HER LIFE TO HIM?! 🙅🏽♀️
It’s hard especially when you reject a person because of how they propose. I would ask a woman alone if I was a man! To see if she wants you to be married in the first place!
Clearly a skit
The one where the guy was doing the goofy ass dance joining in with choreography, that woman said no out of self preservation😂😂😂😂😂🫡💯😭
If you’re not planning on marrying the person, why date them!?!?…makes no sense, to date ppl for years…smh…
First of all, this is a skit & he has the ring turned towards him 😒 1:21
These crack me up ...I love when women are brutal...imagine being proposed to in front of the garage😂😂😂no fancy restaurant...no cute deco ...or at least a expensive ring...no pampering...no shopping...yea I would say no too
Look at how all the men are dressed in the first video.
Lmao I can't. This ain't real.
Male Birds dance for a potential partner… the females birds deny them too
First one is clearly a skit are people this gullible. They can't even act
Some of those are sketches tho 🤣. The 1st clip are all content creators. How many women actually have guts to say no to a marriage proposal? Some of you are so desperate for marriage, you would say yes to a frog
Who’s desperate for marriage? This is not “back in the day” fool 🤡
Lol, yesss they definitely would. 😂😂
I like being alone too much to just say yes to anyone. Having someone in my space for the rest of my life 😮💨
The first one is a skit lol
The first video is fake. There’s literally RUclipsrs in the video. And the homecoming video had nothing to do with marriage. Those are kids. Marriage and homecoming are two different things. Even with the little boy proposing. Those are literal kids 😂🤦🏽♀️ As for some of the other videos, it just shows that some men really do not listen or care to listen. Why are you proposing to your girlfriend who has stated she’s not ready to get married?🤦🏽♀️ if you’re ready to get married and she’s not maybe you both need to go your separate ways but to ignore what she says and she says no that’s on you. The woman who talked about the woman being proposed to in a McDonald’s, that man did whatever he wanted and ignored whatever his girlfriend liked or wanted. She should’ve left him if he can’t even listen to her about the things she likes. And she should’ve said no.
😮wow😂
The first women is toxic AF! He dodged a bullet
This is what happens when you choose looks, it’s not like you didn’t know this was who she is or even a possibility. You bought your parents out there, and you’re not prepared to be someone’s husband, she likes him, but she is not prepared to take care of him. See he wasn’t looking for a woman who he was equally yoked with, (he hasn’t matured enough yet) he was looking for looks, and she delivered, any other expectations, were a fantasy of his, does she sound like she is his emotional laborer, or do she sound like she’s there for why he wants her there, her looks, men need to choose wisely, that means if you want to keep your women, put in some effort, and later when your son acts out of character, you can tell him the story of how you chose his mother and how you keep his mother. And what ever your first impression of why you want to be with this particular woman, is the true reason you want her, don’t try to make her something she’s not for you, find the woman for you, who already posses the qualities you are looking for, so you won’t have fantasy expectations of her which you try to mold her into. That means get to know people, not by sight, but do the two of you have more than enough in common, to just date, let that be your beginning.
Better off just saying yes to keep people out your business then telling him no later
I thought so too
Um no...because your still going to get the same response. People would be more mad you said yes, and then took it back.
The do this type of stuff in public to MAKE you say yes. Because alot of them know if they ask just them, most would say no.
That's why everyone keeps screaming "Say Yes" at you..while he on his knee looking stupid.
@@RawrB3riiibut this thing can be a huge dilemma....but knowing myself I would say NO....than having to take it back later... considering they do this typa stuff to make you say yes
Some of these seem fake af
I’m sorry was the first one a skit?
Seems like so
Shame😅💔
This is skit is so bad😂😂😂
This fake yah bored lmao
Smh. Men y’all gotta do better …..
Idkkkkkk because to be fair he... I'm the same way I don't like people making scenes or like putting on a show for people but not properly communicating with me... But she kind of seemed like she has a snobby bad attitude from before she even walked up
And she's very comfortable disrespecting him in front of his blood family...like his sister... Lol
And it's easy to play it into a narrative as if I misogynist or I just don't want to be on a woman's side, but to me this girl is fitting into the stereotypical archetype of a biracial or mixed girl that people see like portrayed in media and in movies and all this things. The very first video only what I saw is someone who has always had external validation from her being pretty she has no couth she has no boundaries or manners she basically was going out of her way to be as disrespectful as possible, she could have done that better.
But also I feel like it might just be a difference between me and other females, because my dad didn't like certain like passive aggressive stereotypically feminine things that were negative and bratty. I remember I had to beg for my life because he thought that I rolled my eyes at him but I didn't I looked somewhere real quick and looked back at him. But but I learned that's because my aunt is the type of woman that's passive aggressive and cunning and has ulterior motives and is tit for tat. The type of person that would purposely get someone in trouble and play innocent.He just didn't want me to be diabolical in that way as a kid
So your dad taught you that you couldn't be dissatisfied with a man.
So you typed a long paragraph to tell us he made you afraid to say what you really think and feel. Did he have men running to the hills when they have attitudes with him? I'm real curious.
I'm not completely sure if the first video is real, but if it is I hope he was smart enough to end it with her that day.
If I were proposed to in front of other people by a man I was seeing, it costs nothing to say yes in the moment. It's not a verbal contract and I couldn't handle humiliating him. Once all the excitement died down, I'd tell him the truth, that I have no interest in getting married.
Skit
I'll rather spend my time working and making money than proposing to a woman . Marriage is a scam .
Do it don't talk
Women are saying the same but being called bitter and old for that. The result is on the video: men don't believe when women say they don't want to get married and those men get humiliated in result. Well deserved.
Men live longer in marriages so because of that men shouldn't get married, shorten your lifespan please.
Same. Marriage with a male is torture 😂
Marriage is indeed a scam for women, there’s no benefit for us
The first ring is NOT what matters. Wow! So so rude. Ungrateful woman. That’s just the first step ma
Silver is a romantic gesture symbolizing new love
Not if he knows she doesn't like silver.
New love shouldn't be proposing marriage.