I've experienced two typesof DA's. Both came in hot and pursued hard. One was more of a fling which I was fine with because there were no feelings between us. But he was definitely more of the "playing the fields" type. We remained friends and over the next 15 years he's still the same. I saw him fall in love once. The other is one is my best friend of many years. He's the biggest sweetheart. We tried dating a few times but I had to leave last year and heal my FA attachment. Even a year later he still won't date anyone and still gently pursues me. Over the years he has become so open and vulnerable with me and I love that I'm someone he can do that with. Bottom line is you have to heal your own attachment if a DA will be vulnerable with you. Any kind of anxious or funky energy will throw off the dynamic. You don't need to walk on eggshells. You just have to be calm and confident when you communicate. If you are not getting your needs met in any way you have to be willing to choose yourself and walk away. Regardless of the attachment style you're dating, you need to value yourself.
So my DA partner has told me he loves me… yet it’s now been 5 days since he’s reached out text or call. This isn’t an acceptable level of communication for me but I also realize he needs space (I’m ok with a couple of days) but not a week. How can I bring this up? When I tried to last time he said I was needy and clingy (which I don’t feel I am) I work full time, I have many hobbies, busy with family and friends, but it would be nice to get a text once day just a check in etc.
@SK-no2pp he may not have worked through his issues enough to be ready for a relationship. Regardless, don't get mad, treat him like a cat. He will come when he's ready. Or he won't and that's your sign to move on. People who want you will pursue you.
Their brain starts screaming "get out or die" person cannot think too clearly in that situation. Takes awareness of whats going on, why the subconscious is reacting like that, and healing. Avoidants want love and successful relationships like everyone else.
I agree with the commenter above...if they really like/love you. The other end is if they don't. They may at first and then realize that you aren't compatible and leave. That's why I do my best to take the first 3 to 6 months or so of dating as more casual as to not get too attached. Once the commitment talk starts is when I will generally let my full feelings in. Those first few months are testing the waters.
Happened to me. She finally introduced me to her best friend (who she constantly talked about with me) and the day after I planned introducing her to my friends she dumped me. This was a month ago and I'm still blocked for no reason or closure.
@SunshineAndSnowflakes Maybe the universe is trying to teach that not being tied down, freedom ,and having fun are more important than dedicating to one person?
@@SunshineAndSnowflakes It definitely sucks tremendously to end up loving someone so intensely only to have them tell you it's one sided then see them walk away completely.
My DA looked at me like I really wounded him the first time I told him I loved him. That was 8 months after we moved in together. I'm SA but feeling anxious these days.
Almost a year of no contact. Found out she was involved with someone else that ended up terribly for her a few months ago. I guess what goes around comes around. C’est la vie
Communicate clearly and directly it's not anyone's responsibility to read your mind... On the other hand, Study DA, interpret their actions, read their mind, their childhood was different. Kinda a double standard here.
Its been 6 months since this happened but my DA gf (I am AP) just told me she loved me twice today (not the normal "I love you too" when I tell her I love her) and that I should not be concerned that she does not tell me regularly and said some other really appreciative words. I am surprised and thought the world was coming to an end.
Actions speak louder than words, so, well thought out and courageous, is a good and sincere thing. Had someone once who told me ily and he was totally false, because his actions stated otherwise.
Last two times I was in-love, it was with DA’s. One long term, one short term, both ended same. DA’s fear escalated suddenly and they refused to talk about what was bothering them. Probably never would have got involved if I had been better at asking very directly and specifically for my exact needs.
Same is true with FA's. My FA ex loved being my " friend ". He wanted to keep me as a friend even after he monkey branched to another after four years with me. I had told him from the very beginning that I would never be just his " friend ". He tried to be in a relationship, but those fears were too much. I know he really did like me.
I think it’s important to note that if you’re already in the “dismissive stage”, and you communicate a need clearly, a DA will think it’s a sign that the relationship is “faulty”; and they’ll raise the dismissive wall even higher.
I believe my DA ex liked me, she even said she loved me. We had great chemistry and connection, however we were incompatible and that was because of her inconsistency along with her "self sabotage" which she admitted that she would do. She knew she had faults she needed to work on but didn't and so I finally realized that because of this, ultimately we wouldn't work
Thais I LOVE your content . It has helped me sooo much to understand my FA ex partner. I've been following you for a while now One BIG request. Can you leave the offers and BIG sell until the end . We get really into the content only to loose train of thought with the adverts Many thanks Martin
In the beginning i friendzoned my DA. And as i improved my own attachment style (between AP/FA) massively, she friendzoned me lol. Had an ego deat (or spiritual awakenign or whatever you want to call it) Her avoidant behavior doesn't even trigger me as much anymore. I am no longer really scared to lose her. I just leave her alone for a bit, when she becomes difficult to talk to. She pretents i'm not that important to her, but i got 6 out of 7 definitively. I guess she wants me to spare the usual situationship experience everyone else gets. And mostly because of that and becoming very very close to each other, that she is not intersted in a relationship (which i made kind of a big deal about, how much i im love i am with her and how much i improved psychologically). But i'll attempt to cross some barriers anyways, to see what happens if I attempt to (i havent really tried yet, just talked about), without pushing her to commit to anything.
No matter how many videos are made trying to make a DA look better, it's all wasted time. DA's will destroy your life. Ask yourself, do you want to have a healthy relationship with another person and share love? Or would you rather walk on eggshells daily, be made fun of if you show feelings, be cheated on, etc. Do you want to have to put in 3 times the work just to get the DA to "like" you? No.... It isn't your job to heal someone's trauma. Get out now, you CANNOT fix this.
I guess that could be the case. I want a DA person to love me back, yet I don't even know whether they like me. Is it worth it? Or should I just try to find someone else?
@@helluvafan112 regardless of attachment style, waiting for someone to love you back probably isn't good for you. If it's not obvious that you are liked/loved by someone then yes, it's likely best to move on. ❤
@@hurricaneaquatics the relationship I have with my DA is nothing like that. He's my best friend and has been for many years and we share a unique closeness that neither of us have ever experienced. Also, my DA friends have never cheated on their significant others. That's not their style. Some people are just jerks. Any attachment style can cheat including secure. I have a now ex friend who is AP/SA who cheated on her fiance and became pregnant with the guy. Some people are just shitty humans.
I was dumped by my fearful avoidant gf in February,( a week after her oldest friend sadly passed away) My gf told me the romantic "vibe" had gone,but 2 weeks before that we had the best day ever. Saying lovely tgings to each othee and planning for the future. We never argued in our time together...Just laughed. She told me not to contact her, (but i did. I didnt really talk about US, i was just asking how she was doing due to her friends passing) She blocked me end of March, but since then ive been doing my homework. Watching tons of videos on Avoidants and im feeling heaps better. I want to reach out to her but the only avenue i can is by post....As im blocked. If i can get her to tslk to me, id just take things ultra slow. Being friends again first for however long it takes. Id suggest counciling as well. I know she had strong feelings for me as i did her. Shoukd i reach out by post, or wait and hope she unblocks and contacts me?
I have gone through the same thing, but as a woman ( although I didn’t experience a death). If I was a man, such as you. I would send a bunch of flowers and a card to her. This shows you’re genuine and you take the lead. I can’t do this as I am á woman, and it would be weird
@@AnnaWhite-go6nz Thank you 🙏🏻 I will. The thought of flowers did cross my mind and a few people when I asked said, Don't do it! But I will now, as all the ones that said DONT, were blokes. Good luck to you.
That's funny because my ex convinced me I am a DA, but judging from alot of your content I am really more FA and she actually might be more DA, while it's a spectrum and I also showed traits of a DA, I think I am really a FA.. I didn't mind being vulnerable, I was very consistent, I wasn't the one apathetic in the break up.
I'm new here, And I really like her. She's a real human being. So please bear with me, I'll get it. Am I understanding that correctly... When it comes to doing the dishes.. For best results, Say to the dismissal avoidant - "I like spending time with you - Only AFTER you do the dishes. And if the dismissal avoident declines your request to do the dishes... Say th them- "I miss you." RIGHT? LMFAO 🎂 ✌️
I'm so confused. I live on the opposite side of the world and he wants to fly me over there to stay with him just for sex, so he says. I mean, he acts like he's not interested in a relationship, so I'm taking it at face value. Is this normal behaviour for a man?
@@Pptsonyt8553 I will read it, take space to consider what was said in the text & come back to respond. I essentially go through my mental checklist first. If I feel like it’s safe, I will engage. Otherwise I’ll ignore it.
@@Pptsonyt8553 I will read it, take space to consider what was said in the text & come back to respond. I essentially go through my mental checklist first. If I feel like it’s safe, I will engage. Otherwise I’ll ignore it.
@@SK-no2pp Speaking for myself, I will respond in 1 -2 days if I really like you. I will read it, take space to consider what was said in the text & come back to respond. I essentially go through my mental checklist first. If I feel like it’s safe, I will engage. Otherwise I’ll ignore it.
I’ve understand both after watch so many videos. A da is just someone that’s spoiled and really all about themselves, the FA are the real killers. They’re the ones who’s severely damage inside: they will love you with all they have and then just stop the next minute. They won’t care. They’ll go be with whoever for months then come back as if it’s nothing . Worst part is they’re not even acting like it’s nothing . They actually believe that it’s ok. I love my ex but I’ve never been afraid of someone so much in my life.
If you think that DAs are spoiled, you understand nothing about them. FAs are not someone to be afraid of either. If you encountered spoiled, uncarring, or abusive people, there's much more than just their attachment at play.
@@anzelaivYup unfortunately people are clueless with this and indulge themselves in a mean words session. Sometimes I want to recommend them to get involved with a narc in order to get a bit of understanding and empathy for what some people have had to endure as kids.
@@anzelaivdo not dismiss that person's feelings. FAs are dangerous, therefore it is logical to fear them. They inflict serious damage upon unsuspecting people. They willingly enter into relationships then rip the hearts and souls out of people who did nothing but love them because they have trauma. It is wrong for an avoidant to allow their trauma to hurt another person. If an avoidants get scared once a relationship becomes full of love, they should go get therapy and stay out of the dating pool until they are healed.
@prolifik you can't state "they won't care" unless you've been in their shoes and qualified yourself in order to make such a judgement. You don't know. And if you don't know, it's because you don't know, and it's an assumption on your part, and therefore cannot state such things. Empathy.
As a recently self diagnosed FA, I would like to clarify somethings. My FA side has only surfaced very rarely,.and only in situations when I sensed something was wrong, and I was proven right in time. I felt like I was dying inside while trying to extricate myself from those situations, all the while also second guessing myself and wondering what the hell was wrong with me. In the end,I couldn't even go through with it, and ended up getting burned in the bargain.
I feel like the comment section’s bitterness with DA’s is rooted in misogyny. Not every DA is a male, but a lot of men can experience this and this is a great way to help them open up and be more comfortable with being intimate. But most of these comments explain why they have this avoidance in the first place.
I agree. If the way people show up in these comments are comparable to how they show up in the relationship than it makes perfect sense why the avoidant would want to move away from it. The comments can be volatile and chaotic which is the opposite of what an avoidant wants. It's definitely telling the way people show up after a break up. I remember being angry at my avoidant ex a few years ago and saying negative things yet when I spoke to our mutual friends, he had nothing but great things to say about me. That made me do a ton of self-reflecting and I decided to heal that part of myself.
Can I double-check you really meant "misogyny", as in an anti-FEMALE viewpoint? If anything, I feel like these comments sections turn into the man-hater club pretty quickly. Also a lot of people upset about narcissists and confusing those with DAs.
I am an AP with FA attachment. I am with my DA partner for one year and 3 months now and it's going strong. My partner express majority of the signs except for sign #6 and sign #7 (he is an introvert). He has a hard time communicating that he needs space so I am the one who initiates that we have a healthy space and reassuring him that I respect his needs. Got a big fight recently but cleared things out and assuring him that I am a safe space. Now he is the one who is the one who always message me out of nowhere.
I've experienced two typesof DA's. Both came in hot and pursued hard. One was more of a fling which I was fine with because there were no feelings between us. But he was definitely more of the "playing the fields" type. We remained friends and over the next 15 years he's still the same. I saw him fall in love once.
The other is one is my best friend of many years. He's the biggest sweetheart. We tried dating a few times but I had to leave last year and heal my FA attachment. Even a year later he still won't date anyone and still gently pursues me. Over the years he has become so open and vulnerable with me and I love that I'm someone he can do that with.
Bottom line is you have to heal your own attachment if a DA will be vulnerable with you. Any kind of anxious or funky energy will throw off the dynamic. You don't need to walk on eggshells. You just have to be calm and confident when you communicate. If you are not getting your needs met in any way you have to be willing to choose yourself and walk away. Regardless of the attachment style you're dating, you need to value yourself.
So my DA partner has told me he loves me… yet it’s now been 5 days since he’s reached out text or call. This isn’t an acceptable level of communication for me but I also realize he needs space (I’m ok with a couple of days) but not a week. How can I bring this up? When I tried to last time he said I was needy and clingy (which I don’t feel I am) I work full time, I have many hobbies, busy with family and friends, but it would be nice to get a text once day just a check in etc.
@SK-no2pp he may not have worked through his issues enough to be ready for a relationship. Regardless, don't get mad, treat him like a cat. He will come when he's ready. Or he won't and that's your sign to move on. People who want you will pursue you.
Why your ok with being an easy pass around ho is beyond me..
Then when they really like you they will discard you😢
Their brain starts screaming "get out or die" person cannot think too clearly in that situation. Takes awareness of whats going on, why the subconscious is reacting like that, and healing. Avoidants want love and successful relationships like everyone else.
I agree with the commenter above...if they really like/love you. The other end is if they don't. They may at first and then realize that you aren't compatible and leave. That's why I do my best to take the first 3 to 6 months or so of dating as more casual as to not get too attached. Once the commitment talk starts is when I will generally let my full feelings in. Those first few months are testing the waters.
Happened to me. She finally introduced me to her best friend (who she constantly talked about with me) and the day after I planned introducing her to my friends she dumped me. This was a month ago and I'm still blocked for no reason or closure.
@SunshineAndSnowflakes Maybe the universe is trying to teach that not being tied down, freedom ,and having fun are more important than dedicating to one person?
@@SunshineAndSnowflakes It definitely sucks tremendously to end up loving someone so intensely only to have them tell you it's one sided then see them walk away completely.
My DA looked at me like I really wounded him the first time I told him I loved him. That was 8 months after we moved in together. I'm SA but feeling anxious these days.
Almost a year of no contact. Found out she was involved with someone else that ended up terribly for her a few months ago. I guess what goes around comes around. C’est la vie
Communicate clearly and directly it's not anyone's responsibility to read your mind... On the other hand, Study DA, interpret their actions, read their mind, their childhood was different. Kinda a double standard here.
Its been 6 months since this happened but my DA gf (I am AP) just told me she loved me twice today (not the normal "I love you too" when I tell her I love her) and that I should not be concerned that she does not tell me regularly and said some other really appreciative words. I am surprised and thought the world was coming to an end.
Actions speak louder than words, so, well thought out and courageous, is a good and sincere thing. Had someone once who told me ily and he was totally false, because his actions stated otherwise.
Good video! Yes huge difference between an avoidant who is interested vs one who isn't
Last two times I was in-love, it was with DA’s. One long term, one short term, both ended same. DA’s fear escalated suddenly and they refused to talk about what was bothering them. Probably never would have got involved if I had been better at asking very directly and specifically for my exact needs.
They can not provide protection and security if you ask for it.
What do you mean by protection or security?
That’s not true at all, my ex made me feel incredibly safe when together and opened up about things nobody knows
I loved the example you shared about the" You never" statement! This was a great video!!
It's never the need that are a problem is HOW they go about getting them met.... or not.
Same is true with FA's. My FA ex loved being my " friend ". He wanted to keep me as a friend even after he monkey branched to another after four years with me. I had told him from the very beginning that I would never be just his " friend ". He tried to be in a relationship, but those fears were too much. I know he really did like me.
I think it’s important to note that if you’re already in the “dismissive stage”, and you communicate a need clearly, a DA will think it’s a sign that the relationship is “faulty”; and they’ll raise the dismissive wall even higher.
I believe my DA ex liked me, she even said she loved me. We had great chemistry and connection, however we were incompatible and that was because of her inconsistency along with her "self sabotage" which she admitted that she would do. She knew she had faults she needed to work on but didn't and so I finally realized that because of this, ultimately we wouldn't work
He never text back 😅and wants to meet max once a month, takes his space and keep his personal life for himself
Sounds like it’s all on his terms and this is not a relationship
Thais I LOVE your content . It has helped me sooo much to understand my FA ex partner.
I've been following you for a while now
One BIG request. Can you leave the offers and BIG sell until the end .
We get really into the content only to loose train of thought with the adverts
Many thanks Martin
How cares glad i finally got rid of mine
In the beginning i friendzoned my DA. And as i improved my own attachment style (between AP/FA) massively, she friendzoned me lol. Had an ego deat (or spiritual awakenign or whatever you want to call it)
Her avoidant behavior doesn't even trigger me as much anymore. I am no longer really scared to lose her. I just leave her alone for a bit, when she becomes difficult to talk to.
She pretents i'm not that important to her, but i got 6 out of 7 definitively. I guess she wants me to spare the usual situationship experience everyone else gets. And mostly because of that and becoming very very close to each other, that she is not intersted in a relationship (which i made kind of a big deal about, how much i im love i am with her and how much i improved psychologically). But i'll attempt to cross some barriers anyways, to see what happens if I attempt to (i havent really tried yet, just talked about), without pushing her to commit to anything.
Absolutely spot on.
No matter how many videos are made trying to make a DA look better, it's all wasted time. DA's will destroy your life. Ask yourself, do you want to have a healthy relationship with another person and share love? Or would you rather walk on eggshells daily, be made fun of if you show feelings, be cheated on, etc. Do you want to have to put in 3 times the work just to get the DA to "like" you? No.... It isn't your job to heal someone's trauma. Get out now, you CANNOT fix this.
I guess that could be the case. I want a DA person to love me back, yet I don't even know whether they like me. Is it worth it? Or should I just try to find someone else?
@@helluvafan112 Find someone else. The amount of heart break that a DA will cause you is soul crushing.
@@helluvafan112 regardless of attachment style, waiting for someone to love you back probably isn't good for you. If it's not obvious that you are liked/loved by someone then yes, it's likely best to move on. ❤
@@hurricaneaquatics the relationship I have with my DA is nothing like that. He's my best friend and has been for many years and we share a unique closeness that neither of us have ever experienced. Also, my DA friends have never cheated on their significant others. That's not their style. Some people are just jerks. Any attachment style can cheat including secure. I have a now ex friend who is AP/SA who cheated on her fiance and became pregnant with the guy. Some people are just shitty humans.
@@LeeChrissy Give it time. They'll ruin you. They always do.
I was dumped by my fearful avoidant gf in February,( a week after her oldest friend sadly passed away) My gf told me the romantic "vibe" had gone,but 2 weeks before that we had the best day ever. Saying lovely tgings to each othee and planning for the future. We never argued in our time together...Just laughed. She told me not to contact her, (but i did. I didnt really talk about US, i was just asking how she was doing due to her friends passing)
She blocked me end of March, but since then ive been doing my homework. Watching tons of videos on Avoidants and im feeling heaps better.
I want to reach out to her but the only avenue i can is by post....As im blocked.
If i can get her to tslk to me, id just take things ultra slow. Being friends again first for however long it takes. Id suggest counciling as well. I know she had strong feelings for me as i did her. Shoukd i reach out by post, or wait and hope she unblocks and contacts me?
I have gone through the same thing, but as a woman ( although I didn’t experience a death).
If I was a man, such as you. I would send a bunch of flowers and a card to her.
This shows you’re genuine and you take the lead. I can’t do this as I am á woman, and it would be weird
@@AnnaWhite-go6nz Thank you 🙏🏻 I will. The thought of flowers did cross my mind and a few people when I asked said, Don't do it! But I will now, as all the ones that said DONT, were blokes.
Good luck to you.
@@andybiddle9088 yes if you care for her, do it.
That's funny because my ex convinced me I am a DA, but judging from alot of your content I am really more FA and she actually might be more DA, while it's a spectrum and I also showed traits of a DA, I think I am really a FA.. I didn't mind being vulnerable, I was very consistent, I wasn't the one apathetic in the break up.
I'm new here,
And I really like her.
She's a real human being.
So please bear with me, I'll get it.
Am I understanding that correctly...
When it comes to doing the dishes..
For best results,
Say to the dismissal avoidant -
"I like spending time with you -
Only AFTER you do the dishes.
And if the dismissal avoident declines your request to do the dishes...
Say th them-
"I miss you."
RIGHT?
LMFAO
🎂 ✌️
😂
I'm so confused. I live on the opposite side of the world and he wants to fly me over there to stay with him just for sex, so he says. I mean, he acts like he's not interested in a relationship, so I'm taking it at face value. Is this normal behaviour for a man?
As a DA the texting aspect is on point.
Curious, but how do you feel about it?
@@Pptsonyt8553 I will read it, take space to consider what was said in the text & come back to respond. I essentially go through my mental checklist first. If I feel like it’s safe, I will engage. Otherwise I’ll ignore it.
@@Pptsonyt8553 I will read it, take space to consider what was said in the text & come back to respond. I essentially go through my mental checklist first. If I feel like it’s safe, I will engage. Otherwise I’ll ignore it.
What does it mean when he hasn’t texted or called me for 5 days
@@SK-no2pp Speaking for myself, I will respond in 1 -2 days if I really like you. I will read it, take space to consider what was said in the text & come back to respond. I essentially go through my mental checklist first. If I feel like it’s safe, I will engage. Otherwise I’ll ignore it.
I’ve understand both after watch so many videos. A da is just someone that’s spoiled and really all about themselves, the FA are the real killers. They’re the ones who’s severely damage inside: they will love you with all they have and then just stop the next minute. They won’t care. They’ll go be with whoever for months then come back as if it’s nothing . Worst part is they’re not even acting like it’s nothing . They actually believe that it’s ok. I love my ex but I’ve never been afraid of someone so much in my life.
If you think that DAs are spoiled, you understand nothing about them. FAs are not someone to be afraid of either. If you encountered spoiled, uncarring, or abusive people, there's much more than just their attachment at play.
@@anzelaivYup unfortunately people are clueless with this and indulge themselves in a mean words session. Sometimes I want to recommend them to get involved with a narc in order to get a bit of understanding and empathy for what some people have had to endure as kids.
@@anzelaivdo not dismiss that person's feelings. FAs are dangerous, therefore it is logical to fear them. They inflict serious damage upon unsuspecting people. They willingly enter into relationships then rip the hearts and souls out of people who did nothing but love them because they have trauma. It is wrong for an avoidant to allow their trauma to hurt another person. If an avoidants get scared once a relationship becomes full of love, they should go get therapy and stay out of the dating pool until they are healed.
@prolifik you can't state "they won't care" unless you've been in their shoes and qualified yourself in order to make such a judgement. You don't know. And if you don't know, it's because you don't know, and it's an assumption on your part, and therefore cannot state such things. Empathy.
As a recently self diagnosed FA, I would like to clarify somethings. My FA side has only surfaced very rarely,.and only in situations when I sensed something was wrong, and I was proven right in time. I felt like I was dying inside while trying to extricate myself from those situations, all the while also second guessing myself and wondering what the hell was wrong with me. In the end,I couldn't even go through with it, and ended up getting burned in the bargain.
advertising x2 your courses in one short video is way too much.. unnecessary really, if are interested we will join and i did :)
I feel like the comment section’s bitterness with DA’s is rooted in misogyny. Not every DA is a male, but a lot of men can experience this and this is a great way to help them open up and be more comfortable with being intimate. But most of these comments explain why they have this avoidance in the first place.
Its not anyones fault but theirs why they are so toxic. Don't excuse their shitty behavior
I agree. If the way people show up in these comments are comparable to how they show up in the relationship than it makes perfect sense why the avoidant would want to move away from it. The comments can be volatile and chaotic which is the opposite of what an avoidant wants. It's definitely telling the way people show up after a break up. I remember being angry at my avoidant ex a few years ago and saying negative things yet when I spoke to our mutual friends, he had nothing but great things to say about me. That made me do a ton of self-reflecting and I decided to heal that part of myself.
Can I double-check you really meant "misogyny", as in an anti-FEMALE viewpoint?
If anything, I feel like these comments sections turn into the man-hater club pretty quickly. Also a lot of people upset about narcissists and confusing those with DAs.
I am an AP with FA attachment. I am with my DA partner for one year and 3 months now and it's going strong. My partner express majority of the signs except for sign #6 and sign #7 (he is an introvert). He has a hard time communicating that he needs space so I am the one who initiates that we have a healthy space and reassuring him that I respect his needs. Got a big fight recently but cleared things out and assuring him that I am a safe space. Now he is the one who is the one who always message me out of nowhere.
You sound pretty secure. ❤ DA's can be amazing partners with the right person.
@@LeeChrissy thanks! Maybe I'm getting there. Yes, they are, and not to mention that they are loyal too.
@@johnruelpotot6898 100%. ❤