I came here on 27th march ... trust me last one month was horrific .. on the first day, the officer was not in good mood and she gave e only 6 months of study permit as per that I am not eligible to work till I get a work permit, on the same day, when I entered federal hotel they charged me $1300 and only had that much cash. on the 7th day in my college quarantine, my phone turned off and didn't turn on all ways to connect with others. on the 8th day, at 4:20 am a random person knocked on my door and luckily I put the latch on the door. Otherwise, anything could have had with me. and when I called reception they said they are not liable to anything. on the very next day, somebody tried to unlock the door at 2:40am ..
Sorry, I disagree with this video. Firstly, instead the Title should be "Challenges you need to face before moving to Canada" The Dark side of Canada is a sort of demotivating. Just a thought! Secondly, "not getting job for monthssss 6 monthss..!!!!!" -- that's NOT TRUE. I got job within a week!! You need to have survival jobs. Simple If you are lazy, easily get homesick/lonely, don't want to leave comfort zone, don't want to do hard work -- Canada is not for you SIMPLE. As a NRI I can say the biggest benefit living in Canada is - there is a sense of safety and serenity that few other countries can match. I work here as a receptionist. I landed in CA and within a week I got job , also I'm not a skill person. I started applying for jobs when I was in India. 👍🏻 Some things to be understand here: ✔️ - if you coming to Ca, make this thing clear in your mind that you won't be getting that job or same position work -- that you have been doing in your home country. - If you don't have Canadian education or work experience..don't expect jobs get to u easily. - You can have survival jobs in CA for time being...like be a waiter, cashier, driver, cleaner, dishwasher, food delivery jobs ...!! Learn to say YES. Whatever job u get. Then after some savings, do some short term course. You will get your desired job. - Build contacts. - don't give up! 🎉 All the best to everyone & welcome to Canada. 👍🏻 People who are leaving this nation due to -- Lack of maturity, lack of interest and lack of self confidence made them to take this decision. It's totally up to u, you must know that everything takes time. You need to survive and go through with every single situation, then you can get success man. Hard work pays off!! Like most Western countries, it is expensive but at the end of the day, the CAD dollar has good buying power against Indian currency - You can fulfil your needs + meaning you can still help the family back home tremendously and in life changing ways for them whilst building a good, peaceful, safe and serene place for yourself and your immediate family.
Man this is more like Adult life explained more than the dark side of Canada!! But you explained it like a pro!! Everything you said is totally applicable to anywhere you move to, literally even if you move to another Indian state you experience the same things!! Always remember guys to get some work done you got to sacrifice something!!
Things he discussed about friends, household chores, mental health & few more I've been through this since my childhood but it became deep in my teenage so that's okay for me and makes me feel like allowing myself
Yes sir!! Punjab toh meri jaan hai❤️❤️ I also want to go to Canada after my high school 🏫 but Punjab is incomparable with any other province in Canada. Punjab tah mere dil vich vsda hai❤️❤️
Love how you have kept it simple and not triggering at all there are people who talk about mental health issues without knowing they are triggering many. I appreciate the tone of you voice and how you have spoken about each point precisely.
This content needs to be heard by all the international students who should know the reality before taking any wrong step🙃... And I request you to make videos lyk this which can aware and help struggling students❤️
I'm in class 12 and waiting for exams and my mother died in February and now I'm doing all household work and also studies.. I think I'm preparing myself for everything..
Good job. We lack quality content. This is high time we valued emotional intelligence! People in general and students in particular are under a lot of pressure from various quarters. They need to be very very careful about their physical as well as mental health. ਜੇ ਸਿਹਤ ਠੀਕ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਹਰ ਜਗ੍ਹਾ ਚੰਗੀ ਹੈ ਜੇ ਸਿਹਤ ਹੀ ਖਰਾਬ ਹੋ ਗਈ ਤਾਂ ਕਨੇਡਾ ਵੀ ਨਰਕ ਹੈ!
Reality of Canada. Each word said by you is very true. Strongly recommended to everyone one who are planning to come in Canada. Thanks Parul for such kind of informative video❤️❤️
Very well collated and a much needed conversation one needs to have!! Its the harsh realities of life which hit us hard and we break. Dont over expect things and go with the flow ... No regrets in life! Breakups and rejections are a part of life!!! Remember! you are all stronger than you think!!! Embrace life and keep smiling!!! Zindagi sab sikha deti hai🙏🙏🙏
The point about golden cage from 6:24 is absolutely true, and very few people comprehend this back in India. And that is applicable not only for people coming to Canada, but to any other foreign country.
Along with giving information you are also motivating others .You are getting them prepared .This will make them strong so that they can face those situations.
This video has my heart! ❤️ Although I am not in Canada right now but adulthood is very difficult. Each and everything in this video is on point. 100% truth! Really appreciate such videos!
Very true Parul , and its not just for international students , for other immigrants too , we came here as young family of 3 , and we too faced a lottt of stress and mental depressiveness, I seriously cried watching this one , as i could relive our past years through this, God bless
Thank you a million times! We just lost our beloved last year to suicide. He was so outgoing, intelligent and blessed with good looks and height. But he was suffering from schizophrenia. Flunked out of University in 3rd year. Lost his job and credit. He was suffering since high school but we never knew that he was really sick. We thought he is just depressed and will be fine one day..unfortunately we lost him at a very young age of 29 due to suicide.😫😢😭😭 last year.
I really appreciate you for talking about these things on a bigger platform. I'd also like to suggest you to talk about professional help related to mental health issues available for international students in Canada, because I feel that not everyone can go on with a lil help from family and friends. Sometimes people need professional help and there's nothing wrong in seeking a therapist or a counselor. Apart from this, Your way of explaining topics with clear and sensible words is praise worthy. I specially want to point out the "apnapan" in your style of elucidating important things for students. Keep up the great work! Best of luck.
Trust me I m the one who moved to Canada after being lived in France for 3 years. Trust me I feel Canada is heaven compared to other European countries. So be fortunate if you're in an English speaking country.
@Skapk • 22 years ago If you're an average student and planning to get a full time field job after studies, then I won't recommend UK. To be frank, out of 100 students in UK, only 10 get the proper field job and others have to struggle. So the success rate is as low as 10-15%. You should be exceptional to be in that bunch. I'm telling you all this considering 2 yr stay back in UK and previously it was more worse.
Bhai failures and stress toh india me bhi h . distract krne wale toh yha bhi bhot h aur ghr walo se battein toh bche yaha bhi kaha krte h they think that they are not friends they are only parents and they will not support us . and the main stress in india is jobless youth .so it is not about country it is mainly about the situation and your will power of facing the situation .❤️ btw very lovely video ❣️🤞
Request please 1. aise videos aur bhi ek banao please on reality of Canada's depression, anxiety, homesickness, *isolation* and how to deal with it please 2. Ek video on reality of the health care system and medical 3. More on reality of work-life balance, emotional, social life. Brother I could feel the pain in your voice and see it in your eyes when you spoke about how much you miss parents and home.
hey saurav, I been watching your videos from last one and a half years and, are you also planning for canada? I also want to study film making. can we discuss this topic in detail? thank you.
This is one of the fewest videos I can't stop myself from commenting. First of all, being a relegious student of Psychology, I am thankful of Mr. Parul for talking about it. I personally want to humbly request, start meditating. It is nothing complex, but just like sitting with oneself, talking with oneself like the way you would have talked to your best friend. Its good if you find someone else, but with my personal experience of 8 years of Solitude, i would say that do not depend on anyone else but yourself. There will be no relation as yours with yourself. And for the difficult times, always imagine the heroes you have always looked upto. This is the time YOU become hero in real life. When tired, try to think of your Mother who had worked without vacation. Even worked more on vacations. You are her child, beloved child, you will do it. And lastly, focus less on what you are going through, rather focus on what you are going to!! ✌
I think this is the most positive video 😉 because bro being fake optimistic is no way better than accepting the reality and squeezing the positivity out of it..... Thanks for your advices parul bhai
Every word held it's relevance. This video reminded my plight when i was working and living alone in Bangalore for 18 months before my family moved to the same town. I have already had a taste of this phase. Canada would just be another place to go through all that all over again.
You're saying truth. No-one sees and talks this in front of their dreams but I think these topics should be in mind then achieve desires. Hope everyone gets what they dreamt about. 🙏
Thank you so much Parul for this video, I recently came to Canada and I started to feel a little homesick and also felt a little weird. But you addressing this is a calmed me quite alot. Please continue to make videos in this subject as well. Thanks again.
Parul, this video was so informative and practical. I loved it. Prepping for the worst always helps. Thanks a lot for doing a video no one else would'hv done.
This is one of your best videos and these issues need to be discussed more, especially during this pandemic where folks are undergoing mental health issues and stress
Sorry, I disagree with this video. Firstly, instead the Title should be "Challenges you need to face before moving to Canada" The Dark side of Canada is a sort of demotivating. Just a thought! Secondly, "not getting job for monthssss 6 monthss..!!!!!" -- that's NOT TRUE. I got job within a week!! You need to have survival jobs. Simple If you are lazy, easily get homesick/lonely, don't want to leave comfort zone, don't want to do hard work -- Canada is not for you SIMPLE. As a NRI I can say the biggest benefit living in Canada is - there is a sense of safety and serenity that few other countries can match. I work here as a receptionist. I landed in CA and within a week I got job , also I'm not a skill person. I started applying for jobs when I was in India. 👍🏻 Some things to be understand here: ✔️ - if you coming to Ca, make this thing clear in your mind that you won't be getting that job or same position work -- that you have been doing in your home country. - If you don't have Canadian education or work experience..don't expect jobs get to u easily. - You can have survival jobs in CA for time being...like be a waiter, cashier, driver, cleaner, dishwasher, food delivery jobs ...!! Learn to say YES. Whatever job u get. Then after some savings, do some short term course. You will get your desired job. - Build contacts. - don't give up! 🎉 All the best to everyone & welcome to Canada. 👍🏻 People who are leaving this nation due to -- Lack of maturity, lack of interest and lack of self confidence made them to take this decision. It's totally up to u, you must know that everything takes time. You need to survive and go through with every single situation, then you can get success man. Hard work pays off!! Like most Western countries, it is expensive but at the end of the day, the CAD dollar has good buying power against Indian currency - You can fulfil your needs + meaning you can still help the family back home tremendously and in life changing ways for them whilst building a good, peaceful, safe and serene place for yourself and your immediate family.
@@harryweird8807 You need to read the TITLE and listen video carefully. The title is "Dark Side of CA" firstly & he is talking about depression in video. Canada is luxurious country. Yes, obviously u r away from ur family/friends ppl who aren't emotionally strong they will feel home sick/lonely. Or those ppl who don't save money or do hard work. Only in those cases not only Canada any part of world is hard for such ppl will be hard. My comment is absolutely right.
Do survival jobs first and then later after full time job, pay 50% taxes?..lol..the people who go there are struck up nd then there is self-image factor in family..so even though they want to return..they cant..
Very thoughtful video mate!Full of positive vibes noted each things and advise precisely the way you explained these things very much positivity!Thanks for the video🙏
Glad that still there are people who are showing the other perspective of living abroad. Be it Canada, Australia or any other foreign country, new immigrants gonna experience the same. So just stay positive and strong.
Thank you for this wonderful message!❤ I've lived in Mumbai during my Engineering days and have been in similar situations as an Undergraduate student. Although I lived in 2 hostels, but I used to cook my own dinner on weekends because both my hostels didn't provide me dinner and cleaned my room in the former hostel because of an inefficient worker, but now I realise that it made me prepared for challenges in life. :) I also chose to stay away from people who are dangerous and toxic for my well being and I developed that self control and the art of saying "NO" to things which put you down. Meanwhile, I networked extensively and always observed people and some of them are now really close confidants! Although it wasn't an easy journey and my partner inspired me to never give up, I always feel that I became stronger in that set up. I ain't braggin' about myself but I feel positive about my ability to adapt to circumstances now.
Every one should listen to his message and then listen again. What an honest and truthful analysis and advice. This is pure Gold . Absolutely a service to humanity. I love your style. Everything is right on point.Keep it up !!!!
Amazing video 👏🏻👏🏻 the content, the way you presented and the learnings from this are invaluable.. keep up the great work! ✨✨ keep making more such videos please!
Out of all the videos I've watched on Parul TV before coming to study there, this by far seems to be the most important one to me. Thanks a lot for sharing such things.
I've lived and worked in a different state for two years, all my colleagues aka friends weren't there for me, and I felt lonely and I was stressed out throughout the time I lived there. I was already a diagnosed depressed and anxious person but somehow I survived and reached home during covid in one whole piece. Now I'm wondering if all that was training for Canada. Maybe I'll survive because I've already been through all that?
Parul Bhai please keep talking on many such topics and concerns.. Its really helpful for students who are planning to come to Canada and for that matter anywhere abroad, leaving their friends and families behind.
Hi this had happen to me Coming to canada with a wrong course which was out of my field given by my agent. And I continue that course till 4 semester it was so stressful. I was totally drained and couldn’t change it as fees were already paid so I did this to myself until the college suspended me from the course because of not having a good academic standing and after spending 33000 dollars to my course I didn’t graduate and I have to come back to india....the thing which I regret the most is if I had talked with someone in my family or someone who could guide me then things could be different today...this incident has broke me inside out..even though I started a new life in India currently working a reputed company I feel like a failure. Also I lost all the respect in my family 😭 So please guys talk to someone and don’t take course just for a sake of coming to canada...please...
I am from Delhi. Every point you listed out in this video, I have lived through that when I moved to Mumbai for my college. I lived in Mumbai for 8 years and got my first job there, but I have had this feeling of being alone at one point, doing chores, Sunday's dedicated to sorting laundry. I think I am ready for Canada now.
It’s normal once you leave your mama’s lap. Indians don’t train their kids to live as an adult. Parents promise protection and over watch their kids until they die. Pretty bad ideology.
Parul, you are gem of a person :) I believe since you have faced failure at a pretty young age, you realise the importance of relationships & success. Thank you for guiding all of us. Though I am 30 and planning to move to Canada for my MBA, your thoughts are relatable to me as well. Keep up the good work.
Very true!!! Thanks for creating this video bhaiya! Every aspirant needs to watch this video before making Canada or any country as their dream destination... A few moments in this video were very heart touching, like being away from family, talking to parents, etc... Once again, thanks for posting this video!
Parul bhai you are the reason why student's are motivated!! You are the one who practically depicts the typical difference between expectations and reality!! Hat's off to you!
The best video which I wanted to show my daughter who is planning for January intake only to make her mentally prepare. I want her to be strong and confident and this video is really going to help her a lot.Thank you so much Parul.God bless you beta ❤️
Thankyou bade bhaiya ki tarah se samja ne ke liye and muje iss bato se laga ki main kitna sidha and mature person hu at the age of 20 ki maine apki puri vedio dekhi and laga ki ha bhai hum itne to immature nahi hain ki 12 th ke bad aane bad bhi acche se duniya samaj pate hain aur muje 2 months huye hain canada aye aur aapki vedio bahut jyadha eyeopner lagi jo mere jese kai students jo immuture hain unke liye jisme main nahi aata main definitely keh sakta hu not in attitude but ya i am really mature what to do and what not to.. Thank you BIG BROTHER ❤️❤️ love from Gujarat.. ❤️
Thank u so much for sharing such sensitive subject n for your genuine style to present i m sending my daughter to canada for studies n now i have enough knowledge to make her comfortable with all this canada thing❤️👍
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Loved the video sir can you please make a video for BCA graduates please sir its a humble request. Scope for BCA graduates please sir
Outro plz😬
Why he didn't get work permit?
bai aurr videos bnao ess topic par pls.
Mental Health is no joke 👍. Well done parul bhai 👊
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I came here on 27th march ... trust me last one month was horrific .. on the first day, the officer was not in good mood and she gave e only 6 months of study permit as per that I am not eligible to work till I get a work permit, on the same day, when I entered federal hotel they charged me $1300 and only had that much cash. on the 7th day in my college quarantine, my phone turned off and didn't turn on all ways to connect with others. on the 8th day, at 4:20 am a random person knocked on my door and luckily I put the latch on the door. Otherwise, anything could have had with me. and when I called reception they said they are not liable to anything. on the very next day, somebody tried to unlock the door at 2:40am ..
I think everybody was able to connect with this video😇
Of course ! Parul bhai has a lot of audience of international student and a students those who want to come canada
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Sorry, I disagree with this video.
Firstly, instead the Title should be "Challenges you need to face before moving to Canada" The Dark side of Canada is a sort of demotivating. Just a thought!
Secondly, "not getting job for monthssss 6 monthss..!!!!!" -- that's NOT TRUE.
I got job within a week!! You need to have survival jobs. Simple
If you are lazy, easily get homesick/lonely, don't want to leave comfort zone, don't want to do hard work -- Canada is not for you SIMPLE.
As a NRI I can say the biggest benefit living in Canada is - there is a sense of safety and serenity that few other countries can match.
I work here as a receptionist. I landed in CA and within a week I got job , also I'm not a skill person.
I started applying for jobs when I was in India. 👍🏻
Some things to be understand here: ✔️
- if you coming to Ca, make this thing clear in your mind that you won't be getting that job or same position work -- that you have been doing in your home country.
- If you don't have Canadian education or work experience..don't expect jobs get to u easily.
- You can have survival jobs in CA for time being...like be a waiter, cashier, driver, cleaner, dishwasher, food delivery jobs ...!! Learn to say YES. Whatever job u get. Then after some savings, do some short term course. You will get your desired job.
- Build contacts.
- don't give up! 🎉 All the best to everyone & welcome to Canada. 👍🏻
People who are leaving this nation due to -- Lack of maturity, lack of interest and lack of self confidence made them to take this decision. It's totally up to u, you must know that everything takes time. You need to survive and go through with every single situation, then you can get success man. Hard work pays off!!
Like most Western countries, it is expensive but at the end of the day, the CAD dollar has good buying power against Indian currency - You can fulfil your needs + meaning you can still help the family back home tremendously and in life changing ways for them whilst building a good, peaceful, safe and serene place for yourself and your immediate family.
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Man this is more like Adult life explained more than the dark side of Canada!! But you explained it like a pro!! Everything you said is totally applicable to anywhere you move to, literally even if you move to another Indian state you experience the same things!!
Always remember guys to get some work done you got to sacrifice something!!
Kudos to your parents for raising a child with VALUES. ❤️
Really
Things he discussed about friends, household chores, mental health & few more I've been through this since my childhood but it became deep in my teenage so that's okay for me and makes me feel like allowing myself
After all, India is real home. Punjabis can't live without Punjabi culture and people etc. Excellent video.
Yes sir!! Punjab toh meri jaan hai❤️❤️ I also want to go to Canada after my high school 🏫 but Punjab is incomparable with any other province in Canada. Punjab tah mere dil vich vsda hai❤️❤️
Yeah dude but iam cming here
Yeah very stubborn people. Hard to change their lifestyle.
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Canada has Brampton mini Punjab of Canada.
Love how you have kept it simple and not triggering at all there are people who talk about mental health issues without knowing they are triggering many. I appreciate the tone of you voice and how you have spoken about each point precisely.
This content needs to be heard by all the international students who should know the reality before taking any wrong step🙃...
And I request you to make videos lyk this which can aware and help struggling students❤️
I'm in class 12 and waiting for exams and my mother died in February and now I'm doing all household work and also studies..
I think I'm preparing myself for everything..
Yes you are strong
Harman stay strong, god will bless you and stay safe please. I hope you have an euphoric and chauvinistic journey !
Thanks guys
Sorry to ask? Is she passed away by covid-19?
@@jagjit_7 no she had breast cancer
Good job. We lack quality content. This is high time we valued emotional intelligence! People in general and students in particular are under a lot of pressure from various quarters. They need to be very very careful about their physical as well as mental health. ਜੇ ਸਿਹਤ ਠੀਕ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਹਰ ਜਗ੍ਹਾ ਚੰਗੀ ਹੈ ਜੇ ਸਿਹਤ ਹੀ ਖਰਾਬ ਹੋ ਗਈ ਤਾਂ ਕਨੇਡਾ ਵੀ ਨਰਕ ਹੈ!
Felt like our own elder brother explaining us 🤗🥺❤
Reality of Canada. Each word said by you is very true. Strongly recommended to everyone one who are planning to come in Canada. Thanks Parul for such kind of informative video❤️❤️
Felt like a one on one conversation😌
Very well collated and a much needed conversation one needs to have!! Its the harsh realities of life which hit us hard and we break. Dont over expect things and go with the flow ... No regrets in life! Breakups and rejections are a part of life!!! Remember! you are all stronger than you think!!! Embrace life and keep smiling!!! Zindagi sab sikha deti hai🙏🙏🙏
The point about golden cage from 6:24 is absolutely true, and very few people comprehend this back in India. And that is applicable not only for people coming to Canada, but to any other foreign country.
Along with giving information you are also motivating others .You are getting them prepared .This will make them strong so that they can face those situations.
This video has my heart! ❤️ Although I am not in Canada right now but adulthood is very difficult. Each and everything in this video is on point. 100% truth!
Really appreciate such videos!
Very true Parul , and its not just for international students , for other immigrants too , we came here as young family of 3 , and we too faced a lottt of stress and mental depressiveness, I seriously cried watching this one , as i could relive our past years through this, God bless
Thank you a million times! We just lost our beloved last year to suicide. He was so outgoing, intelligent and blessed with good looks and height. But he was suffering from schizophrenia. Flunked out of University in 3rd year. Lost his job and credit. He was suffering since high school but we never knew that he was really sick. We thought he is just depressed and will be fine one day..unfortunately we lost him at a very young age of 29 due to suicide.😫😢😭😭 last year.
So sad for him.
I really appreciate you for talking about these things on a bigger platform. I'd also like to suggest you to talk about professional help related to mental health issues available for international students in Canada, because I feel that not everyone can go on with a lil help from family and friends. Sometimes people need professional help and there's nothing wrong in seeking a therapist or a counselor.
Apart from this, Your way of explaining topics with clear and sensible words is praise worthy. I specially want to point out the "apnapan" in your style of elucidating important things for students.
Keep up the great work! Best of luck.
A pure therapy session for a person who just came to Canada. Thanks man. By far the best video
Trust me I m the one who moved to Canada after being lived in France for 3 years. Trust me I feel Canada is heaven compared to other European countries. So be fortunate if you're in an English speaking country.
I trust you bro!
Can you please share experience in Germany?
European hell? What exactly did you meant 🙄
@@sauravsingh-mu9ib corrected, it might go offensive.
@Skapk • 22 years ago If you're an average student and planning to get a full time field job after studies, then I won't recommend UK. To be frank, out of 100 students in UK, only 10 get the proper field job and others have to struggle. So the success rate is as low as 10-15%. You should be exceptional to be in that bunch. I'm telling you all this considering 2 yr stay back in UK and previously it was more worse.
Bhai failures and stress toh india me bhi h . distract krne wale toh yha bhi bhot h aur ghr walo se battein toh bche yaha bhi kaha krte h they think that they are not friends they are only parents and they will not support us . and the main stress in india is jobless youth .so it is not about country it is mainly about the situation and your will power of facing the situation .❤️ btw very lovely video ❣️🤞
Same problems exist everywhere
Request please
1. aise videos aur bhi ek banao please on reality of Canada's depression, anxiety, homesickness, *isolation* and how to deal with it please
2. Ek video on reality of the health care system and medical
3. More on reality of work-life balance, emotional, social life.
Brother I could feel the pain in your voice and see it in your eyes when you spoke about how much you miss parents and home.
This problem is not related just to international students but a part of everyone's regular life.
Thank you for discussing this with the viewers❤️
Thanks for this video Parul. Bohot jarurat thi is video ki
thank you Saurav
hey saurav, I been watching your videos from last one and a half years and, are you also planning for canada? I also want to study film making. can we discuss this topic in detail? thank you.
This is one of the fewest videos I can't stop myself from commenting.
First of all, being a relegious student of Psychology, I am thankful of Mr. Parul for talking about it.
I personally want to humbly request, start meditating. It is nothing complex, but just like sitting with oneself, talking with oneself like the way you would have talked to your best friend.
Its good if you find someone else, but with my personal experience of 8 years of Solitude, i would say that do not depend on anyone else but yourself.
There will be no relation as yours with yourself.
And for the difficult times, always imagine the heroes you have always looked upto. This is the time YOU become hero in real life.
When tired, try to think of your Mother who had worked without vacation. Even worked more on vacations. You are her child, beloved child, you will do it.
And lastly, focus less on what you are going through, rather focus on what you are going to!!
✌
Super effective video... Need more such videos to mentally prepare myself.. Thank you so much Parul bhai...🤩🇨🇦
I think this is the most positive video 😉 because bro being fake optimistic is no way better than accepting the reality and squeezing the positivity out of it..... Thanks for your advices parul bhai
Every word held it's relevance. This video reminded my plight when i was working and living alone in Bangalore for 18 months before my family moved to the same town. I have already had a taste of this phase.
Canada would just be another place to go through all that all over again.
You're saying truth. No-one sees and talks this in front of their dreams but I think these topics should be in mind then achieve desires. Hope everyone gets what they dreamt about. 🙏
Please turn this into a series!!! Awesome content!!
I promise i'll try to make a joyful environment around me and influence others with my positivity as my Best friends always told me to do ✨
There you go!
Thank You Bhavya! Rise and Shine 💫
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Thank you so much Parul for this video, I recently came to Canada and I started to feel a little homesick and also felt a little weird. But you addressing this is a calmed me quite alot. Please continue to make videos in this subject as well. Thanks again.
Parul, this video was so informative and practical. I loved it. Prepping for the worst always helps. Thanks a lot for doing a video no one else would'hv done.
This is one of your best videos and these issues need to be discussed more, especially during this pandemic where folks are undergoing mental health issues and stress
Sorry, I disagree with this video.
Firstly, instead the Title should be "Challenges you need to face before moving to Canada" The Dark side of Canada is a sort of demotivating. Just a thought!
Secondly, "not getting job for monthssss 6 monthss..!!!!!" -- that's NOT TRUE.
I got job within a week!! You need to have survival jobs. Simple
If you are lazy, easily get homesick/lonely, don't want to leave comfort zone, don't want to do hard work -- Canada is not for you SIMPLE.
As a NRI I can say the biggest benefit living in Canada is - there is a sense of safety and serenity that few other countries can match.
I work here as a receptionist. I landed in CA and within a week I got job , also I'm not a skill person.
I started applying for jobs when I was in India. 👍🏻
Some things to be understand here: ✔️
- if you coming to Ca, make this thing clear in your mind that you won't be getting that job or same position work -- that you have been doing in your home country.
- If you don't have Canadian education or work experience..don't expect jobs get to u easily.
- You can have survival jobs in CA for time being...like be a waiter, cashier, driver, cleaner, dishwasher, food delivery jobs ...!! Learn to say YES. Whatever job u get. Then after some savings, do some short term course. You will get your desired job.
- Build contacts.
- don't give up! 🎉 All the best to everyone & welcome to Canada. 👍🏻
People who are leaving this nation due to -- Lack of maturity, lack of interest and lack of self confidence made them to take this decision. It's totally up to u, you must know that everything takes time. You need to survive and go through with every single situation, then you can get success man. Hard work pays off!!
Like most Western countries, it is expensive but at the end of the day, the CAD dollar has good buying power against Indian currency - You can fulfil your needs + meaning you can still help the family back home tremendously and in life changing ways for them whilst building a good, peaceful, safe and serene place for yourself and your immediate family.
❤️❤️❤️dear can you tell me that How did you find a accommodation there
I would better start a business in my home country than doing a survival job abroad, no matter how that country treats survival jobs.
@@rightlibertarian8355 Well said bro.
@@harryweird8807 You need to read the TITLE and listen video carefully. The title is "Dark Side of CA" firstly & he is talking about depression in video. Canada is luxurious country. Yes, obviously u r away from ur family/friends ppl who aren't emotionally strong they will feel home sick/lonely. Or those ppl who don't save money or do hard work. Only in those cases not only Canada any part of world is hard for such ppl will be hard.
My comment is absolutely right.
Do survival jobs first and then later after full time job, pay 50% taxes?..lol..the people who go there are struck up nd then there is self-image factor in family..so even though they want to return..they cant..
Very thoughtful video mate!Full of positive vibes noted each things and advise precisely the way you explained these things very much positivity!Thanks for the video🙏
Parul bhai..you should start a podcast. Your voice is magical. 🙏
You are doing a great work. You talk about issues anyone rarely talks about and I am thankful to you for that.
Keep continuing this, everyone should know the worst about this also....
Appreciation..
Indeed brother , these thoughts nearly take away you from yourself .
Glad that still there are people who are showing the other perspective of living abroad. Be it Canada, Australia or any other foreign country, new immigrants gonna experience the same. So just stay positive and strong.
yes banda sach bolta hai. dil se baat karta hai. honest man. love you brother!
Thank you for this wonderful message!❤
I've lived in Mumbai during my Engineering days and have been in similar situations as an Undergraduate student. Although I lived in 2 hostels, but I used to cook my own dinner on weekends because both my hostels didn't provide me dinner and cleaned my room in the former hostel because of an inefficient worker, but now I realise that it made me prepared for challenges in life. :)
I also chose to stay away from people who are dangerous and toxic for my well being and I developed that self control and the art of saying "NO" to things which put you down. Meanwhile, I networked extensively and always observed people and some of them are now really close confidants!
Although it wasn't an easy journey and my partner inspired me to never give up, I always feel that I became stronger in that set up.
I ain't braggin' about myself but I feel positive about my ability to adapt to circumstances now.
Can relate all points. Kudos for opening up 👍
we can expect u as our friend in every situation. You are really nice bro really to help students by making these kinds of videos
Every one should listen to his message and then listen again. What an honest and truthful analysis and advice. This is pure Gold . Absolutely a service to humanity. I love your style. Everything is right on point.Keep it up !!!!
Amazing video 👏🏻👏🏻 the content, the way you presented and the learnings from this are invaluable.. keep up the great work! ✨✨ keep making more such videos please!
great video. thanks u. Loneliness is the worst enemy
The best lesson i got from this video, "Always be prepared for the worst in life not for the best"💯💯
So True, I'm currently dealing with the same situation. 😊
Thanks for making this video. In short everyone has to be optimistic and avoid unnecessary expenses with the credit card initial phase of education.
Out of all the videos I've watched on Parul TV before coming to study there, this by far seems to be the most important one to me. Thanks a lot for sharing such things.
I've lived and worked in a different state for two years, all my colleagues aka friends weren't there for me, and I felt lonely and I was stressed out throughout the time I lived there. I was already a diagnosed depressed and anxious person but somehow I survived and reached home during covid in one whole piece. Now I'm wondering if all that was training for Canada. Maybe I'll survive because I've already been through all that?
Feels like a big brother giving valuable advice🙌🏻 Thanks for the video!
Totally relatable .. this is what I am experiencing these days. Thanks for this video ❤️
100% true. I underwent all this 17 years ago in Aus. It worked out well for me after studies.
Excellent excellent way to explain. GOD BLESS.
Would love to see the other parts as well. Thes hard truths would really shape prospective students.
Ur video’s are just amazing brdr❤️❤️❤️
I just wanna know dark side of India too 🙂…. It’s not just Canada which breaks heart … it’s India too 🙂
Bhai India m family ha . Canada m nhi ha 😇
@@ravidhull8724 jab india mai totally fail ho jaoge to faamily ki upar tum burden hi laagte ho :)
@@ravidhull8724 nah bruv i aint got fam in india, heck I wasn't even born or brought up there
India mein toh jyada Dil tootta hai mujhe b pharm Karke Canada mein masters Karna hai but my parents want me to become doctor in India
@@pratikchaudhari2142 vo इसलिए क्योंकि तेरा मन कनाडा m atka हुआ ha
The best video I’ve ever seen. Like a big brother’s advise!! So honest man ❤️
Amazing Video Parul, would be looking forward for such more sessions like these. Absolutely Amazing
Good genuine thoughts. If this prepares and saves even 1 child,it's worth it!!
Parul Bhai please keep talking on many such topics and concerns.. Its really helpful for students who are planning to come to Canada and for that matter anywhere abroad, leaving their friends and families behind.
Wow! We all need this thank you Parul, keep focus on these type of videos we need more as I’m also new international student here.
Hi this had happen to me
Coming to canada with a wrong course which was out of my field given by my agent. And I continue that course till 4 semester it was so stressful. I was totally drained and couldn’t change it as fees were already paid so I did this to myself until the college suspended me from the course because of not having a good academic standing and after spending 33000 dollars to my course I didn’t graduate and I have to come back to india....the thing which I regret the most is if I had talked with someone in my family or someone who could guide me then things could be different today...this incident has broke me inside out..even though I started a new life in India currently working a reputed company I feel like a failure. Also I lost all the respect in my family 😭
So please guys talk to someone and don’t take course just for a sake of coming to canada...please...
Mera course khtm hogya h ... Or mujhe pta tak nhi h ki krwaya kya h .. na hi mujhe future dikh rha h apna ...🙈
Amazing video ! Truly insightful
I am from Delhi. Every point you listed out in this video, I have lived through that when I moved to Mumbai for my college. I lived in Mumbai for 8 years and got my first job there, but I have had this feeling of being alone at one point, doing chores, Sunday's dedicated to sorting laundry.
I think I am ready for Canada now.
It’s normal once you leave your mama’s lap. Indians don’t train their kids to live as an adult. Parents promise protection and over watch their kids until they die. Pretty bad ideology.
Parul bro back with something informative!!
I'm gonna save it in my playlist and gonna watch it whenever I will feel demotivated in Canada. Love you paaji ❤️
Parul, you are gem of a person :) I believe since you have faced failure at a pretty young age, you realise the importance of relationships & success. Thank you for guiding all of us. Though I am 30 and planning to move to Canada for my MBA, your thoughts are relatable to me as well. Keep up the good work.
Very true!!!
Thanks for creating this video bhaiya!
Every aspirant needs to watch this video before making Canada or any country as their dream destination...
A few moments in this video were very heart touching, like being away from family, talking to parents, etc...
Once again, thanks for posting this video!
Parul , you are like the elder brother i never had
Parul bhai you are the reason why student's are motivated!! You are the one who practically depicts the typical difference between expectations and reality!! Hat's off to you!
Thats amazing content which I am seeing on the net.
Its the time to discuss about mental health !
The best video which I wanted to show my daughter who is planning for January intake only to make her mentally prepare. I want her to be strong and confident and this video is really going to help her a lot.Thank you so much Parul.God bless you beta ❤️
Yeah straight to the point.
The best video of reality check I have ever seen in my life. I really appreciate your courage brother.
Thankyou bade bhaiya ki tarah se samja ne ke liye and muje iss bato se laga ki main kitna sidha and mature person hu at the age of 20 ki maine apki puri vedio dekhi and laga ki ha bhai hum itne to immature nahi hain ki 12 th ke bad aane bad bhi acche se duniya samaj pate hain aur muje 2 months huye hain canada aye aur aapki vedio bahut jyadha eyeopner lagi jo mere jese kai students jo immuture hain unke liye jisme main nahi aata main definitely keh sakta hu not in attitude but ya i am really mature what to do and what not to.. Thank you BIG BROTHER ❤️❤️ love from Gujarat.. ❤️
Bhai you present harsh truth about Canada. I Literally felt that when I came to Canada. This is the reality of Canada. Thanks, Bhai.
Thanks for making this video. This issue was really needed to be talked upon.
👍👍💯 useful information thanks for sharing bro😁
Great work Parul!
Two things what I felt to discuss more is on Rejection is all around! Deal with it!
Amazing vdo man really appreciable work this is really gonna help to prepare mindset for coming out there💯 god bless us all 😇💫
Amazing content hats off!❤
Good topic 👍
Students should prepare themselves for the worst
Done a great work 👍. Spoken through the heart❤️
Thanks bro ..ur videos are really helpful for me as i'll come to Canada in fall 2021
Thank you for making this video
Thank u so much for sharing such sensitive subject n for your genuine style to present i m sending my daughter to canada for studies n now i have enough knowledge to make her comfortable with all this canada thing❤️👍
All the best
What a well made video, thanks for the raw facts.
Thx a lot.....I will come soon....everyone told me abt positive aspects but no one told me about these things....Thx for infornation.
Paaji, I can relate to everything you spoke about. Informative video for newcomers. It's actually good that you spoke of this dark side.
You’re the best RUclipsr I’ve ever seen
Very well explained !! 👏🏻
7:15 aap kamre me akele bethe hoge or sochoge m kya kru.. paagal ho jaaoge.... experienced that a lot🥺 .... thanks for the video Parul❤️
That frustration ahhhhh 😤
You rock👍❤️ Genuine and most appropriate ☺️