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  • Опубликовано: 31 авг 2022
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  • @KatAmarie
    @KatAmarie  Год назад +16

    This video is sponsored by BetterHelp. You can get 10% off following this link: www.betterhelp.com/katnapiorkowska

  • @hotchocolate4life.
    @hotchocolate4life. Год назад +13

    “if u get tired, learn to rest instead of quitting”

  • @KatAmarie
    @KatAmarie  Год назад +92

    This is a video for all of you gorgeous people that have struggled with moving forward, definitely a special dedication to all my lovely fellow artists and creators. Don’t give up. We’re in this together!

    • @-abhi-6096
      @-abhi-6096 Год назад +1

      ☺️Thank you!

    • @ayeshasamah9258
      @ayeshasamah9258 Год назад

      Hello sister. I would like to invite you to learn about Islam. A solution to literally all of your problems. Money, anxiety, all of it. Sending love x

    • @azad738
      @azad738 Год назад

      @@ayeshasamah9258 waste of time..

    • @nesliemurillo7404
      @nesliemurillo7404 Год назад

      Thank you so much!!! I am starting to call myself an artist! Thank You.. Your videos inspired me to create my paintings. Gracias Gracias Gracias!!!

    • @DDDiaries
      @DDDiaries Год назад

      I might talking non sense, but you are so wonderful. Your videos, ideas, voice are amazing. And you're beautiful. You look like Selena Gomez ❤

  • @maus4970
    @maus4970 Год назад +36

    Dear Kat, for me personally, since i saw one of your first videos 6 years ago, you already ARE a meaningful filmmaker in this ignorant world. Your art has inspired and helped me many times through my battle with generalized anxiety and depression. Please don’t give up. You are seen!
    Take all the time you need to rest, but don’t you dare giving up on your outstanding talent! Big hug from Germany

  • @AGL.001
    @AGL.001 Год назад +6

    The only way to release suffering is through detachment. Happy for you Kat.

  • @creatingasma
    @creatingasma Год назад +8

    This is exactly what I’m experiencing..I love creative photography, cinematography, filmmaking, story telling and product videos.. they all make me excited to create something and I don’t know which one to keep doing or to take seriously.. I take breaks as well and always come back to creating stuff.. I may never stick to one thing but who knows.. maybe I will

  • @hretz
    @hretz Год назад +18

    It's been few weeks since i came across your videos, i really found them very useful thank you so much! I've been trying to study but i'm not able to concentrate I get distracted very easily I've got my exams (JEE) in few months and i think i'm not at all capable of giving it. I literally wasted more than 1 year and i regret it alot, I feel like i'm worthless & everytime i study and i'm not able to concentrate well i feel alot demotivated and take a step back from studying and waste my whole day like that.

    • @mz6367
      @mz6367 Год назад +2

      same here it's my senior year at high school and it completely stresses me out, I've been struggling to focus and put up with it it's got even further when the doctor says that I need to sleep more and start to take care of my self after feeling that I had lost my mind

    • @Arunneyy
      @Arunneyy Год назад +2

      From India 💙

    • @hretz
      @hretz Год назад +1

      @@mz6367 It's going to be okay! don't worry

  • @julywind4712
    @julywind4712 Год назад +1

    Thank you for putting up such important topik Kat.

  • @blanquitaaa21
    @blanquitaaa21 Год назад +1

    I have been following you for so long, you have helped me a lot with crying (i struggle expressing my emotions).
    I just want to thank you for your videos and the effort you put in them, its Worth it.

  • @nesliemurillo7404
    @nesliemurillo7404 Год назад

    Thank you SO MUCH for your art! Thank you too for your transparency and willingnes to share your pain. You transform your pain into a delicate poem about love and life. Gracias Gracias Gracias!!! Lots of blessings and love for you in your sunny and shady moments

  • @corsothehealer
    @corsothehealer Год назад +2

    I have artistic talents but I quit all of them and I did physical labour in a unrefined environment until I figured out what I want in life, which took 3 years. After that, I worked part-time and studied in university in UK, english being my second language and did that for another 3 years. People back in my country and my family were proud of me for my success, but I was absolutely broken not only during studies+work+living alone in a foreign country; but those first 3 years damaged my body, I earned chronic migraine and back pain. Headaches eventually became almost everyday. I couldn’t get help from the local health service, which is worth of another story, but I didn’t get migraine-specific painkillers and suffered through all of the attacks, as over the counter medicines can’t helo in migraines; it was debilitating. And I dropped out of the uni, despite all who knew said it is a stupid thing to do, and I went back to home country and now it has been 2 years of me tryng to rehabilitate, I do not work, but now it feels like I will never restore my health, even with antidepressants. But probably it will get better. To the surprise to all who know me, they don’t understand why am I not doing anything right now. I think I burned out because also the university in foreign language was still to hard for me, even though I loved the proffesion I studied; and lonely life abroad was traumatising, not what my family thought is a cool thing.

  • @reggietbh
    @reggietbh Год назад +1

    Thank you for everything you do here, you beautiful person.

  • @kasiawarszawska5893
    @kasiawarszawska5893 Год назад +1

    I hope that You will make it the way it should be, whatever it is. You are incredible person and I am thankful for everything, especially for videos about anxiety. Your work helps me feel less worthless and alone ❤

  • @weezerr2d283
    @weezerr2d283 Год назад +2

    Thanks for the video…I always enjoy watching your videos…stay safe and take care !!

  • @emoswift3095
    @emoswift3095 Год назад

    Gurlllll you know things 💜 I really appreciate this, I was pushing myself to find my way, to become someone, but I know now that I could take it easy, take my time, love your work

  • @AndreaNaomie
    @AndreaNaomie Год назад +1

    This is exactly how I feel right now! The pressure to be constantly posting and be everywhere is killing my creativity , thank you 😊

  • @kierlak
    @kierlak Год назад +4

    Burnout is a horrible place to be. Rest is so underrated nowadays. I've learnt it the hard way: it's better to prevent getting burt out rather than dealing with the aftermath.
    Got carried away earlier this year working too hard on myself: weekly therapy (IFS) which is very intense, lots of reading (trauma/PTSD/CPTSD, IFS, relationships and lately: forgiveness), watching podcasts, videos on trauma, spirituality plus some psychedelic trips (which gave me lots of insights but were extremely draining). Holiday helped, spending time with family, no reading, break from therapy too. Upon return I started running consistently, less reading, no caffeine in the afternoon (prioritising sleep), bit of journalling. Basically, don't want to be in the place where I was few months ago, a place you're so exhausted that you loose all hope, where you have no perspective.
    I would actually compare it to running and finding the right pace. Working on yourself (inner child/inner teenager work), your passion/career/business, health, relationships is not a sprint. You don't know what distance is ahead of you, you don't know where the finish line is. Sometimes you need to stop, take a rest.
    Work wise: after getting a business degree and trying working in a corporate environment for few years I ended up stressed out and took a step back. Been doing a basic work as a shop assistant for the last 5 years - and that's okay. First I need to deal with my past which is (and was) preventing me from moving forward. It's frustrating at times but you can't work on too many areas in your life at the same time. I learned to be more kind on myself, taking to an account my childhood I know that right now: I am doing my best...
    I feel for you Kat... I am also passionate about few things but I find it so difficult right now to even try. E.g. I love landscape photography (part of me saying: you will never make money out of it, market is too crowded, you don't have skills etc. etc.) or starting RUclips channel (part of me saying: don't think about it, you will never succeed, etc) or trying a career in business again (part of me saying: you tried already and you failed !), I could go on and on and on. It's like self-sabotage.
    We're both same age I think and we still have time. There are people who "found themselves" in their 40s or even 50s.
    I would recommend you find something to keep you going, something that gives you that breathing space. For me it's running. I read it somewhere recently I think from Brene Brown (not sure): about breathing: when we create and output work we breath out, then we need someting to get our air (e.g. excercise, reading a good book, something that excites us, something that helps us get into flow state) so we can GIVE again.

    • @MegaBigbootylover
      @MegaBigbootylover Год назад

      Thank you. I hope you are ok. Sending you good vibes. Take care.

  • @mz6367
    @mz6367 Год назад +2

    I'm in my senior year at high school and it completely stresses me out it's got further to a point where I went to the hospital because my head and arms couldn't stop sharking, I truly hope that everything's gonna be alright

  • @damiaaamira6500
    @damiaaamira6500 Год назад +1

    your videos gave me a lot of strength . I love the way you are talking , it makes me feel better . everytime . thankyouu :)

  • @paulzamora4864
    @paulzamora4864 Год назад

    I found your channel a couple of years ago and I love what you do. It’s all really sad but it helps it really does. My burnout has caused 2 year relationship fall apart and I really wanted to fix it but I couldn’t.

  • @gamefield6
    @gamefield6 Год назад

    kat , I want to thank you in the most sincere way possible. thank you

  • @agenttoffiehere9578
    @agenttoffiehere9578 Год назад +1

    I had been feeling like this for a week now and i didn't even realize that it is burnout. I hated myself and thought that i am dysfunctional. Thank you so much for this video and like u said... I was divinely guided to this video❤️

  • @kflecha1
    @kflecha1 Год назад +4

    Kat you are an Artist, an incredible Artist and you have impacted so many lives. It's ok to feel burn out, it's ok to step back, self-care is important but alway remember the incredible potential you have. Algorightms don't define who we are... I know that unfortunaly financial issues can be a real headache but please please, recharge and keep going girl. This pain is just temporary. One day at a time.

  • @rm6857
    @rm6857 Год назад +5

    Dont have to much expectations from life, live simple and dont care about life. Sounds difficult, but once you learn it, its easy

  • @mikoajzybaa8845
    @mikoajzybaa8845 Год назад +2

    This one really struck a note with me Kat.
    Although I do not consider myself an artists, I have been struggling with burn out for the past (big number) years. Back in 2021 I made a decision to change a direction slightly and pursue what I have thought for years to be my path. Than a friend convinced me to try again the old ways. ANd now, 1.5 years later, I'm at this point where the flame is pretty much gone.
    I just told this friend (who is my boss ATM) that the nest few months will be my last at this job.
    The relief I felt with this decision is something different...
    This decision also means I can go all in into pursuing this alternative avenue and hopefully succeed.
    And so, if you remember my comment under your (not) boring Q&A from Dec 1 2021, Im finally going to work on my own place :D
    Thank You so much for this and all other videos !

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад

      Yay, so happy for you!!! 🥰🥰

  • @rodimousa9503
    @rodimousa9503 Год назад +1

    I live watching your videos please keep it up 👍🏻 😊 it’s just calming 🥰

  • @cinematicstreet6868
    @cinematicstreet6868 Год назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @indiachan7134
    @indiachan7134 Год назад

    Kat, you are the one that makes me feel truly connected on the Internet and definitely one of most inspiring people that makes me truly listen. Your videos relieved me and calmed my nerves. I even saved your small film about society anxiety in my smartphone. Whenever something nags on my mind, I clicked on that video as a reminder to refresh myself and calm down. It's such a wonderful job that you did to help those struggling souls. I'mglad that you are willing to open yourself up and share your genuine feelings to us. I felt for you every time I listened. Thank you. Best regards. : )

  • @sana-gq2ur
    @sana-gq2ur Год назад +1

    this video came to me exactly when
    i needed it most 🥰

  • @saihambd6
    @saihambd6 11 месяцев назад

    "If you get tired, learn how to rest instead of quitting." I have been so focused on my passion in computer science that anything I do seem merely meaningful. Haven't got a proper work from following my passions since I came to London and feel like literally wasting my life into achieving something which wasn't meant for me in the first place. Still pushed through in attaining certifications,degrees etcs, to a point that I'm living on a meal a day and yet unemployed. I can sympathise with you about taking the fast-food route, which of course didn't work out quite nicely as expected. I don't want to regret my decision of following my passion. So, I took a step-back to reevaluate the situation that I'm currently in and taking up work outside of my field of interest where I can receive immediate rewards for the work I do (and of course to pay the bills) and be happy about it. and like you said, finding the missing piece from the experiences I gather from other things I do. Hopefully someday, instead of over-complicating things, I will be working towards my passion again. Thank you Kat for this video. You do you, you are amazing, and eventually you will find something good moving forward. Best of luck!

  • @Menpianomusic1
    @Menpianomusic1 6 месяцев назад

    Love your content!
    Mindblowing 🧡🧡
    I feel that and everything you said is literally on point❤
    Thanks for all your videos and the awareness about mental health❤❤
    Much love ❤

  • @MissJennyGuitar
    @MissJennyGuitar Год назад

    Kat, this is me, you spoke to my soul, strangely enough I'm the same age as you as well, and I also have a narcissistic parents which have been the main reason for my 'issues'. For me it's music, my relationship with it is exactly how you describe, whenever I have decided to stop, it eats at my mind and soul until I go back to it. I do take breaks, but I literally need to be away from my equipment so I don't get the urge, I already work a normal job anyway, its always there looking at me whenever I'm not at work or asleep.

  • @Franco8kun
    @Franco8kun Год назад +1

    to never stop dreaming is the way for me. we never are for sure certain of anything, so why belive in never being able to acomplish your dream? your videos have helped me to struggle through both anxiety and depression, and if you allow me to be somewhat selfish, I would like more people in serious need of help manage to find your messages and your videos. Thank you so much for everything and good luck on being as succesfull as you deserve to be

  • @celineboonex
    @celineboonex Год назад +13

    I don't know if this is true for you but I hear & feel your voice trembling, I hope you are doing ok, I wanna thank you for your videos cause it has been very important for me since u began. You are so unique, I feel so grateful to have you on youtube :)

    • @-abhi-6096
      @-abhi-6096 Год назад +1

      Ye I have noticed that too

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад +6

      Thanks. Yeah I’m going through some dark heavy stuff right now. Talking to a therapist and will be on meds soon. :)

    • @celineboonex
      @celineboonex Год назад +7

      @@KatAmarie I get that, We are here with you & we believe in you!

  • @K0GAi.
    @K0GAi. Год назад

    This can resonate so much with what one is going through; it’s one of those things that can be hard to listen but also true, a necessity conveyed gently. When I watch your videos, I feel I have A LOT of stuff going in my head that I wish I could exchange, and it can be a bit overwhelming so in the end I just let go, sit back and enjoy the video. ☺️
    I LOVE your voice, have you done any work outside your videos with it before?

  • @UNICORNSF3ProgameplayProRACER
    @UNICORNSF3ProgameplayProRACER Год назад +2

    Great video🥰

  • @paulsignac3901
    @paulsignac3901 Год назад

    Your videos are genius dont ever give up🥰

  • @valeriamanuilovich9522
    @valeriamanuilovich9522 Год назад

    I think I needed hearing it...

  • @jyothilakshmi369
    @jyothilakshmi369 Год назад

    I loveed this vedio 🥺 thanku take care ❤️

  • @fiev
    @fiev Год назад

    Love it

  • @Rayan-bm1xt
    @Rayan-bm1xt Год назад +1

    My friends think im not depressed, but i am. They always tell me to stop faking, this is why i dont tell people im depressed

  • @forevermia622
    @forevermia622 Год назад +1

    Yay a sponsorship! And what a perfect partner to work with

  • @jasminefremdehake2354
    @jasminefremdehake2354 Год назад

    Loved it Rest instead of quitting

  • @Dagmahra
    @Dagmahra Год назад

    That's very wise.

  • @ejpblue23
    @ejpblue23 Год назад

    I pray for great success & love for everyone in the world 🌎

  • @NycatLiz
    @NycatLiz Год назад

    Hey Kat! I would like to support your channel to see your exclusive content (I checked your playlists). How can I do it? :) thank you so much for your amazing work which is actually making a difference in the world!

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад

      You can become a member, I think a button shows on my main channel page.

  • @jyothilakshmi369
    @jyothilakshmi369 Год назад

    Hey kat,
    I want you to look and to be happy as you are in your pfp always and always
    God bless you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @HHuzz
    @HHuzz Год назад

    ذكرتيني برسالة فانكوخ - الحياة تفقد الالوان بهجتها - سوف اراى الحياة الى اين تأدي لاكني افضل العيش بالكوميدية البسيطة

  • @jyothilakshmi369
    @jyothilakshmi369 Год назад

    😊🙏🙏🙏 thxxx

  • @tianahampton680
    @tianahampton680 Год назад

    this is the only vid I could comment on so I hope you can see this but Kat how do I get on your memberships only?! I’ve been watching your vids and your journey and it connects with me on spiritual level and I really wanna see what you’ve come up with!!! ❤️❤️❤️ all my best wishes to you

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад

      You have to go to my main page and click the join button.

  • @Sillvestro
    @Sillvestro Год назад +6

    Podziwiam że potrafisz złapać flow i mówić z taką płynnością, o rzeczach które nie są łatwe do opisania.

  • @mrdeep7377
    @mrdeep7377 Год назад

    You look so Gorgeous ❤

  • @user-jx3fw6jw4x
    @user-jx3fw6jw4x 6 месяцев назад

  • @killvmobster2208
    @killvmobster2208 Год назад

    💜

  • @HighlanderCounselling
    @HighlanderCounselling Год назад

    I'm commenting here as the other video is locked, I was wondering how the movie is going?

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад +1

      Waiting for the rest of the funding.

  • @gradjanizaposleni2774
    @gradjanizaposleni2774 Год назад

    💐

  • @ludzkie_mieso
    @ludzkie_mieso Год назад +1

    What happened under your last film? There was hate or something bad that push you to shut down comments? I'm just curious, simple yes or no is enough :)
    I like what you do

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад

      Oh no, I just turned them off straight away, just in case there would be some. I react very poorly to hate about money, especially since I put so much work into this channel and get barely anything back, so when someone complains, I get really triggered. 😂 thought I’d spare myself that by turning them off although I’m sure there wouldn’t be that many negative comments.

  • @torugamay518
    @torugamay518 Год назад

    💓💓💓

  • @vulcansonofzeus5479
    @vulcansonofzeus5479 Год назад

    Kat Twoje wideo jest szczerze "heartbreaking"... Nie chcę się rozpisywać ile razy sam byłem w podobnym stanie, "To się nie udało, tamto też, debilny film na TikToku ma milion wyświetleń, a niesamowity, utalentowany artysta kilkadziesiąt...". Nie mam też zamiaru Ci niczego doradzać, chcę tylko abyś widziała iż nie jesteś sama. Rozumiem że może to jeszcze nie jest moment w którym jesteś w stanie w to uwierzyć, ale każdy taki 'upadek' podniesie Cie mocniejszą... "Hold on". I pamiętaj "Never, Ever give up...".

  • @Rananh90
    @Rananh90 Год назад

    What we see it 30% of life, what we don't see it everyday 70% reality , like u don't need work on job your passion but a job good enough to make way to your moment happiness. There is no negative one u truly see life real of 70% that none movie or any influence content talk about , only your own eyes

  • @adamread2980
    @adamread2980 Год назад

    Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.

  • @Chronicle_MV
    @Chronicle_MV Год назад +1

    But I don't want to give up 😥

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад +3

      Don’t. Just rest. ;))

    • @shleegaming
      @shleegaming Год назад +7

      Don't give up. Right at the end she says, "If you get tired, learn how to rest instead of quitting for good." I think that's really great advice to hold on to.

    • @Merouaneeee
      @Merouaneeee Год назад

      @@shleegaming don't rest until you die , no matter how hard are you working , there is someone working harder

  • @smokey-vv4xb
    @smokey-vv4xb Год назад

    SMASH 😎

  • @horizontal120
    @horizontal120 Год назад

    this .. people whit overwhelmingly hi goals are uselessly miserable because there is 0.001% chance that they will reach them ... and even if they do they are not satisfied ... and are always looking for more .. if you want to be happy be ok whit what you have ... once you reach that life is way easier ...

  • @suatmertbuyukfidan6026
    @suatmertbuyukfidan6026 Год назад +1

    Ofcourse i respect your given up, but i have to say this; i can't sepreate your content from very profesineal works. And also who are reading to this, we all know why we're here, i just wanna say to even if your worst day; there is always positive in it. Try to look careful, imagine how gigantic universe is. This mindset very helpful to me, i hope this would be same impact for you, as me
    With a lot of love
    -Suat Mert

  • @ally3691
    @ally3691 Год назад

    Jesteś polką ?

  • @user-dh1ee4mk5s
    @user-dh1ee4mk5s Год назад

    هل يمكنك أن تضعي ترجمة بالعربية ، هناك العديد من العرب يحبون متابعتك و لكن لا يفهمون الانجليزية 💔💔

  • @herbarium3573
    @herbarium3573 Год назад +1

    Sometimes things are out of you control and all you left to do - is donate to the army 🇺🇦 and hope the life would came back to normal and the horror would end soon

  • @hammadahmad1137
    @hammadahmad1137 Год назад

    I'm trying my best but it's not working. People around me are living happy life. While I'm locked up in my room crying. Years are going by but I'm unable to find a job. I'm shy and introvert. People scare me. Life was good but after my father passed away 4 years ago, life keeps going downhill. I have no goal in life. I often make my mother cry. I want to kill myself but I can't just because I will make my mom cry.

  • @gurdevsingh5301
    @gurdevsingh5301 Год назад

    please make video on adhd

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад

      I will one day if people help me crowdfund it. I will never make a big video out of my pocket ever again.

    • @gurdevsingh5301
      @gurdevsingh5301 Год назад

      @@KatAmarieokay you can make short video on that topic and also mentioned treatment.

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад

      Short videos take me 2-3 months to make. If I do not get financial support from viewers, the video will not be made. I don’t work for free. I am already in debt because of RUclips and me being naïve.

    • @gurdevsingh5301
      @gurdevsingh5301 Год назад

      you lying to me. you make huge amount of money from this.

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад +1

      😂

  • @clairem5223
    @clairem5223 Год назад

    thank u🤍

  • @paugarcialaita9225
    @paugarcialaita9225 Год назад

    We are all struggling with this. For years my films succeeded in Vimeo with several Staff Picks getting hundreds of followers doing what I love most. Flashforward to 2022 and I’m on instagram without an audience and everybody is doing silly reels, I just won’t even try. That’s a road to frustration and burnout.
    Btw you should get more views for your precious content and number of followers, I dont get the internet today.

  • @gabrielaturemka2260
    @gabrielaturemka2260 Год назад

    this is exactly what I needed to hear right now, thank you 🤍

  • @Nora-bv2el
    @Nora-bv2el Год назад

    I hope people keep giving donations so the men and mental health movie is made.
    Edit 2: The fundraiser is still open if you want to support.
    Edit 1: Oh just saw in instagram that the goal has been reached. Really happy to see that, waiting for the movie.

    • @KatAmarie
      @KatAmarie  Год назад

      👌

    • @spamspam9367
      @spamspam9367 Год назад

      ​@@KatAmarie I'm sorry to hijack this comment but I want to say I'm glad to see you're still around. You've made some beautiful videos and it's been a while since the last upload. I hope you're doing overall good in life

  • @Tahero_o
    @Tahero_o Год назад

    You making a great message ,you are awesome youtuber ,I hope you put arabic caption in your videos because there are a lot of arabic people need them 🤍

  • @FixItOnTheWay
    @FixItOnTheWay Год назад

    Thanks!

  • @nataliepokorna6100
    @nataliepokorna6100 Год назад

    💛