Dealing With A FOMO Friend Who Has Princess Syndrome: NUSWhispers (Friendship) | ZULA Answers | EP 6

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
  • In this episode of ZULA Answers, we are discussing friendship dilemmas, from dealing with friends that have the princess syndrome to friends watching porn together?! Is there a limit to the boundaries that friends can cross? Watch to find out more!
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    Here are the timestamps of the topics covered during the episode:
    0:00 - Intro
    2:07 - Confession 1: That Questionable FOMO Friend
    6:52 - Confession 2: I Couldn’t Recognize Her Anymore
    11:26 - Confession 3: Friendship Or Career?
    15:20 - Bonus Confession: Bros For Life, They Said
    17:56 - Final Wrap-Up
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Комментарии • 118

  • @ZULAsg
    @ZULAsg  2 года назад +21

    What are some other friendship dilemmas you guys have faced? Share with us in the comments! And if you have any confession stories to share, feel free to send them here: bit.ly/ZULAAnswers

  • @ariel3725
    @ariel3725 2 года назад +243

    I love how they handled the last question. They got shooketh, but they gave their answers well. Good job guys.

  • @RobertHeslop
    @RobertHeslop 2 года назад +89

    I never realised how intelligent Bolin is until now. A lot of those thoughts were deep, but impressive.

  • @kentakicheeken4471
    @kentakicheeken4471 2 года назад +558

    The last question you guys didn’t really focus on the fact that they have GIRLFRIENDS. Do their girlfriends know what their boyfriends are doing? If no then it’s considered cheating! And obviously they are in denial of their sexual orientation.

    • @thomasyoong3525
      @thomasyoong3525 2 года назад +130

      honestly they might be bicurios but doing this while still having a relationship with a person is so wrong..... even I'm gay and feel bad for their gf ngl

    • @ilikeswedishmeatballs
      @ilikeswedishmeatballs 2 года назад +9

      @@thomasyoong3525 mad respect to u

    • @Nerdywr
      @Nerdywr 2 года назад +5

      Bruh nus confessions is a troll cesspool.. are you really that gullible to believe the post

    • @kentakicheeken4471
      @kentakicheeken4471 2 года назад +4

      @@Nerdywr Are you that gullible to the fact that there are people who do that? 😂

    • @kentakicheeken4471
      @kentakicheeken4471 2 года назад +3

      @@accountantthe3394 Imagine not thinking that it might be true for other people.

  • @mkmk-po3yh
    @mkmk-po3yh 2 года назад +66

    Bolin is so funny hahahah his expression. glad hes back on the show!

  • @flwr.claire
    @flwr.claire 2 года назад +90

    The first experience is literally so relatable to so many people haha

  • @hanstan1491
    @hanstan1491 2 года назад +24

    You dont know how long I’ve waited for new episodes of ZULA answers

  • @yukialinia8001
    @yukialinia8001 2 года назад +13

    I wish the ZULA confessions were longer, they're always so good and I love watching their reactions and advice 💕💕💕

  • @CJintheHouse
    @CJintheHouse 2 года назад +37

    Love how B&B discussed and handled such topics.

  • @bren_da_
    @bren_da_ 2 года назад +58

    Wah.. so long no see Bolin, his English is so powderful now and he seems so man and mature in this video lei..😁. He is behaving so differently with Brenda as compared to when he was with Sew, why ah😅😂🤣? Welcome back Bolin, always love seeing you💗🥰.

    • @gliliumho
      @gliliumho 2 года назад +6

      With Sew, both like close friends/bros. Can sohai together mah. Of course, not bro until jerk each other off but ya, I think they bros so sohai. With Brenda, just bringing different side of himself out.

  • @nicholasyong7051
    @nicholasyong7051 2 года назад +95

    As a representative of the queer community, I can sense the sussyness from the last confession and is too confused about how their relationship works. 👁️👄👁️💧

    • @ahmadsolehyn295
      @ahmadsolehyn295 2 года назад +13

      its Homiesexual

    • @niBBunn
      @niBBunn 2 года назад

      They're not gay because they don't like guys; They only like 1 guy

    • @catsballs9657
      @catsballs9657 2 года назад

      @@niBBunn that’s just pansexual

  • @najma5153
    @najma5153 2 года назад +15

    I really love this seriesss, please continueee thisss. Sending lots of loveee!

  • @jesslyn333
    @jesslyn333 2 года назад +8

    Just came from other tsl episodes where bolin has his ah beng persona and can I just say I really like how he articulates his opinions here? So different I love it keep it up! am really impressed with these eps with Brenda (& the ones with Fauzi too!)

  • @usucktoo
    @usucktoo 2 года назад +145

    Last one is real. There are guys who do that. And I say f em! I hope they get their comeuponce.
    They want to be validated but the truth is they hurt their "girlfriends" and "wives" with their secret. It is cheating, it is infedility. Unless they are honest about it to the women they supposedly love and the women accept it wholeheartedly, IT IS NOT OK. Cheaters and liars.

    • @angieje
      @angieje 2 года назад +14

      Yes if they are monogamous that should be and is considered cheating. Them bi or not.

    • @charlielim6799
      @charlielim6799 2 года назад

      Brokeback mountain 🤣

  • @fionlim01
    @fionlim01 2 года назад +17

    I miss this pair! This should be a weekly vid thingy.

  • @spark-ly
    @spark-ly 2 года назад +10

    I love to see Brenda and Bolin in ZULA Answers ~

  • @damienlee927
    @damienlee927 2 года назад +37

    I would like to present an alternative for the first case of 'princess illness', from personal experience. It could be that the person may have some family commitment that he/she is unwilling to share and the simple 'bo jio' can be his/her cry for help. Like having to take care of someone full time, or even something like having a 'Tiger Mom' who demanded absolute control and making him/her stay at home. So lets not be too quick to judge such people, because they may well be someone who needs help the most

    • @xiaojuju9583
      @xiaojuju9583 2 года назад

      yes, did yall try to dm her when she doesn't reply, show some care before getting annoyed by her. princess herself (may be) feeling worse about it.

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 2 года назад +64

    Very unique friendship

    • @Oli-lk1gp
      @Oli-lk1gp 2 года назад +9

      Wow Ray mak everywhere lah 😂

    • @davidliu2243
      @davidliu2243 2 года назад

      Why the fuck are you here

    • @DionLYA
      @DionLYA 2 года назад

      wow you're here too

  • @raenaisamuel9163
    @raenaisamuel9163 Год назад +1

    Bolin, i love your reactions it is AWESOME. And your advises are so real. Brenda, you are so pretty! And i love you! I love watching interactions between you two. Keep up the videos!

  • @joylee007
    @joylee007 2 года назад +119

    Brenda & Bolin - Can imagine them calling each other B😂

    • @mackovo6
      @mackovo6 2 года назад +8

      Imagine Bolin just cannot tahan anymore and lunged forward to kiss Brenda. "The BB Reality squid show"

    • @catsballs9657
      @catsballs9657 2 года назад

      @@mackovo6 that’s super creepy

  • @jefferymiow
    @jefferymiow 2 года назад +4

    Human! I learnt this from a video. 朋友希望你过得好, 可是不希望你过得比他好. I personally have not encounter a friend truly wish you well and better.

  • @privatelife7583
    @privatelife7583 2 года назад +3

    This duo have some chemistry

  • @sylvainleseur1072
    @sylvainleseur1072 2 года назад

    Great, thanks to share

  • @Blinkonceifyougay
    @Blinkonceifyougay 2 года назад +53

    Bolin is so fun to watch sia. He speaks very eliquently.

    • @PokeTwilight
      @PokeTwilight 2 года назад

      Omg a Mina stan?

    • @Blinkonceifyougay
      @Blinkonceifyougay 2 года назад

      @@PokeTwilight Yessirrrrr

    • @zanegamingtv2252
      @zanegamingtv2252 2 года назад +1

      Do you happen to know what happened to his personal channel? I missed his travel vlogs

    • @wontonjon
      @wontonjon 2 года назад +1

      @@zanegamingtv2252 It seems like he deleted his personal channel.... :(

    • @zanegamingtv2252
      @zanegamingtv2252 2 года назад +1

      @@wontonjon yeah I want to see more of it. :((

  • @ItachiTsukuyomi1530
    @ItachiTsukuyomi1530 2 года назад +5

    Ahahaha this was a great episode

  • @alyasarahLIVE
    @alyasarahLIVE 2 года назад

    BOLIN IS BACK !!! :D

  • @cwxgamingchannel8661
    @cwxgamingchannel8661 Год назад

    Brenda reaction in the intro 😂 🤣

  • @killerillusion
    @killerillusion 2 года назад +4

    This video ends too soon :( Keep it up guys!

  • @JayTee_GR96
    @JayTee_GR96 2 года назад +33

    Brenda & Bolin combination is really good! Brenda looks kinda cute btww :)

    • @Ryuoinsomnia
      @Ryuoinsomnia 2 года назад

      She's from my secondary sch lol

  • @MsDarkEra100
    @MsDarkEra100 2 года назад +16

    16:10 that look of genuine worry in Bolin's eyes

  • @Dogcat677
    @Dogcat677 2 года назад +1

    Feel like the last qn a bit trolling hahaha

  • @getfitwithnicol
    @getfitwithnicol 2 года назад +1

    Bolin is actually so wise. Enjoyed hearing both their views outside of the “fun videos”

  • @keenangan6047
    @keenangan6047 2 года назад +1

    liking the pseudo fu manchu stache bolin rocking

  • @lzh4950
    @lzh4950 2 года назад +1

    5:50 Maybe can warn her something like: "Don't say we _bojio_ ah" &/or hint to her e.g. "Haven't seen you for quite long"

  • @oikaru
    @oikaru 2 года назад

    i like bolin's analysis! gained more respect for him

  • @agsh5
    @agsh5 2 года назад

    why does the form require an email add? i don't want to put mine in.

  • @sushiroe_
    @sushiroe_ 2 года назад

    my lord the thumnail caught me offguard hahahahhaa

  • @h3llmag3
    @h3llmag3 2 года назад

    Hi Zula, i am wondering if i can submit to the URL form as i just stumbled upon this videos

  • @bouncyjuraimi
    @bouncyjuraimi 2 года назад +8

    People don't realise how common that last situation is 👀

  • @yurifujimaki4185
    @yurifujimaki4185 2 года назад +1

    Man, I'd really like to join this show just to read out confessions and give advice as well.

  • @nineplustentwentyone26
    @nineplustentwentyone26 2 года назад

    16:30 I was drinking water and I almost either spat it out through my mouth or snorted it out of my nose. Thank God I made through this alive...

  • @NupplesRampage
    @NupplesRampage 2 года назад

    My Brain: Cue "I'm not okay" My Chem.

  • @justinzy5
    @justinzy5 2 года назад

    Yes ..something you ask your friends out in the chat group if never mentions their name they won’t reply. 😂😂

  • @hom3r
    @hom3r 2 года назад

    Wow bolin is really on point sia….. Hahahah

  • @pstrify
    @pstrify 2 года назад +1

    Enough is enough please set them up on a date asap

  • @jasontungjw
    @jasontungjw 2 года назад +2

    For the first qn I used to have someone who was like this always want meetups to be on Fridays and if it is ever on Saturdays this person will never reply and always complain why we never jio. Hmmmm

  • @Jejdjejbfjf
    @Jejdjejbfjf 2 года назад +11

    I'm actually a bit skeptical about some of these so-called "confessions". I hope people dont simply believe whatever they hear on the internet. I've personally seen similar "confessions" simply made up by people and sensationalised by editors for interesting content, thus making it seem more "common" than it really is. Social media can be dangerous in that way peeps, stay safe.

  • @kushalcurry4629
    @kushalcurry4629 2 года назад +1

    Bahahaha I can affirm that half of the time it's exaggerated or even fake 😂

  • @officialariffin7460
    @officialariffin7460 2 года назад

    I wan more relationships/dating advice😩 let me drown in my hopeless romance

  • @liawjiayong
    @liawjiayong 2 года назад

    i think when they say whatsappp status they meant the one that acts like an ig story, right?

  • @Whiteroca
    @Whiteroca 2 года назад +3

    13:10 how to tell a fake friend

  • @kroop
    @kroop 2 года назад +1

    Brenda ❤️

  • @AmadeaPranoto
    @AmadeaPranoto 2 года назад

    What happened to Bolin's eyes?

  • @niicoleyo6318
    @niicoleyo6318 Год назад

    Please make this segment into podcast on spotify so i can listen to it while working instead of opening the video

    • @ZULAsg
      @ZULAsg  Год назад +1

      Hello, we are on Spotify! open.spotify.com/show/7xhKczyclbj9T82Eaac5DZ?si=82e2d95c93224100

    • @niicoleyo6318
      @niicoleyo6318 Год назад

      THANKSS!! I didnt know u guys are on spotify.

  • @wsant2872
    @wsant2872 2 года назад +1

    The guy looks like Irene Ang

  • @amalialee8253
    @amalialee8253 2 года назад

    is it possible for me to share screenshots in the submission form because idw to share the issue in my pov in a sense? bc i may get subjective>

  • @insanitystreaks
    @insanitystreaks 2 года назад +2

    The last one sounds like a troll 🤔

  • @maggiexi2708
    @maggiexi2708 2 года назад

    This happens a lot in china. My husband and his friends would do this a lot. It’s actually pretty common but many people just don’t talk about it lol because it sounds gay lol

  • @parrygoh8369
    @parrygoh8369 2 года назад +6

    Have to say this. Brenda look different from this video to other videos. Is it that she put on more makeup or what that make her look more Chio on this video 🤔🤔🤔

  • @imrowe1772
    @imrowe1772 2 года назад

    The last one is trolling ?

  • @nuraisyatulaiman8242
    @nuraisyatulaiman8242 2 года назад

    Bolin are getting cute 🤭😅

  • @davidliu2243
    @davidliu2243 2 года назад

    Sexuality is about attraction, not action ;)

  • @nurelinaxx4144
    @nurelinaxx4144 2 года назад +4

    Brenda have the dewy choo accent HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAH

    • @lolzspadechen811
      @lolzspadechen811 2 года назад

      Huh u tripping sia sis I think u just watch too much dewy and think every female sound like her Lol

    • @nurelinaxx4144
      @nurelinaxx4144 2 года назад

      @@lolzspadechen811 uh why r u hurt sis?

    • @lolzspadechen811
      @lolzspadechen811 2 года назад

      @@nurelinaxx4144 I am not hurt but Dewy is tho:’(

    • @nurelinaxx4144
      @nurelinaxx4144 2 года назад

      @@lolzspadechen811 thanks for the concern😋

  • @kaimengquek1952
    @kaimengquek1952 2 года назад +1

    But did they say #nohomo?

  • @daobajackson
    @daobajackson 2 года назад

    lol i dont celebrate any peoples success gg i have no friends liao. Even though I try to help them succeed, but I am not their true friend sadge

  • @glennemmanuel9868
    @glennemmanuel9868 2 года назад

    is it just me , or is no one else disturbed by bolin's facial hair ..

  • @quirklesshero7859
    @quirklesshero7859 Год назад +1

    That last one is more common than people think. A lot of “straight” people are actually bi or bi-curious (or have those tendencies), and most of the time they are just in denial cos it’s easier.

  • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
    @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS Год назад

    😧

  • @beara1139
    @beara1139 2 года назад +1

    bolin put on some weight after a break eh haha

  • @Spartan340
    @Spartan340 2 года назад

    That girl speaks to fast lmao I have to pause and read the subtitles

  • @bktan3992
    @bktan3992 2 года назад +4

    bolin i think you look better shaved

  • @sl0523
    @sl0523 2 года назад +1

    Aiya! Break up with your girlfriends first lah. It's not about if you guys are gay, straight or bi. It's about you guys engage in sexual conduct while having girlfriends. That's cheating!

  • @beamercrew
    @beamercrew 2 года назад

    Dude needs a shaver

  • @wifeabuser1201
    @wifeabuser1201 2 года назад +3

    guys chill they just homiesexual😎

  • @testor9
    @testor9 2 года назад

    cut here cut there dont even know what you all talking

  • @vc1741
    @vc1741 2 года назад +3

    Omg your reaction to the last and bonus confession is…. not very nice to some extend . Even though you are all straight I guess, the way you read the confession and your facial expression is very offensive to the LBGTQ+ community. I get it not everyone is interested in same sex behavior off course, but to show how disgusted you feel isn’t a good way to react in the public. I see why same sex behavior is still illegal in Singapore and there’s still no room for LGBTQ+ in the society. The conservative and discriminative attitude and mindset toward the gay community is still extremely deep rooted in SG peoples mind and that is just…. Not okay. Be more liberal and progressive man…. Aiyo…. So bad la

    • @aiyala1113
      @aiyala1113 2 года назад +5

      Maybe Because they both have girlfriends and they are performing sexual acts with each other ? Nothing about being homophobic but rather being downright unfaithful with their significant others

    • @ebonyloveivory
      @ebonyloveivory 2 года назад +4

      I don't think it is about being homophobic. What they did was completely cheating. It is morally wrong and absolutely disgusting from that aspect. Plus they did mention that they are both straight. It is wrong (straight or otherwise) You just don't do these things behind your partners back UNLESS y'all have open relationships and are fine having multiple sexual partners.

  • @weilun0099
    @weilun0099 2 года назад +13

    Last one is def a troll la XD