I lost my son just a little over two years ago. I am looking for any words of encouragement and anything positive. I think that I am handling things pretty well and moving in the right direction, but it is nice to find inspirational videos on RUclips.
Here is a Christian point of view. You have lost your son who has return your love while he was alive. NKJV John 15:9 “As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love.” So keep abiding in that love you have in your son and GOD will never take that love from you.
I have never seen such a person like you in my entire life who talks about the truth in such a compassion way as you inspire me. I have no words to tell " how beautiful the lesson that u describe is" ? Who the young man you are. Thank you for always letting us to know a meaningful lesson to us. Attachment always have consequences . That's true my friend , Practising non-attachment really gives a pain in our heart ,but working on it definitely gives the more pleasure than anything in this world. You are just making our days not to be a typical one, but a day better than yesterday. My friend , your stories inspires us and thank you for motivating me like my big brother.We need this kind of you-tubers who embrace us with change and love our lives more and more
Thanks for sharing via RUclips. After living by myself after being married, I discovered how attached I was to people. Being alone allowed me to ask questions as to why I was attached. As time went on, I learned how to live and be alone while still being able to love. My attachment was more out of being fearful and addictive. Over time, the fears disappeared as well as the addictive thought processes. Learning to let go made me stronger, wiser and better. One of the most loving things to ever happen to and for me. I appreciate loving people and also loving myself for not being excessive.
Good lesson from buddha. Right the less we attached the more happy we can leave. I have a brother who became irresponsible drunken and harsin my mother. My mother not able to control him nor punish him. The things became out of control. I am taking care of financially for them. But I have no peace thinking of them . I am not able to control what's happening. I dont have father and I am happily married. But always there is some suffering I dont know why. Even when I am poor I lived happily. Now I am just thinking what to do how can the situation can be controlled. I just left to god. I decided I do my responsibility but I have to be strong and tough with them.
Attachment is the greatest pain and sufferings for human beings. We will much at peace when we attached to nothing. We feel calm and peace in our mind being unattached to emotion, people scenery and things..practice non attachment is foremost necessary in our lives. Thanks for your video and indeed so appreciated.
Very wonderful words of wisdoms for we human beings living in this samsara world which we bear with immense sufferings and pains. the Buddha teachings and lessons which taught us are the golden rules for humans to execute and learn in our daily lives. Thanks for your upload of this video's and deeply appreciated.
Worrying about children and grandchildren were experiences that allowed you to think of your loved ones. While the satanic kingdom meant it for evil, God has meant it for good. I am speaking from my own experiences of dwelling excessively over my children and grandchildren. I started asking deep questions being alone and discovered I needed to be more responsible of and for my thoughts and actions, Over time, worrying became a process of concerns and letting go, Attachment to people is another form of addiction.
It's feels good to hear but in reality it's difficult. If u have a family and ur living with them than there is always an attachment. It's only possible for those who juz abandon their family and seek spiritual help🙏
Wow! Impressive story. I learned a lesson from it. So true attachment can always make me suffer but detachment can give me happiness and peaceful life. Thank you for sharing this beautiful message. I really like it.
hence the importance of pausing along the journey in life to appreciate what you have, while you have it, to take note, and be thankful to the creator because eventually, it will end & when this happens, you'll look back and be grateful for the experience while you had it, without any regrets or guilt and be at peace with yourself.
ONE OF THE BUDDA'S WORDS OF WISDOM, "WE ALL ARE GOING TO BE A MEMORY. MAKE SURE TO MAKE A GOOD ONE." NOT EXACTLY LIKE THAT BUT IT'S CLOSE. MEANING WE ALL ARE GOING TO DIE. NO ONE LIVES FOREVER. FOR TOXIC PEOPLE THEY SHOULD CHANGE BEFORE THEIR JUDGEMENT COME.
@@flydove-zx2ij Please stop trying to proselytize people. No God is going to judge or punish anyone.......please stop trying to send fear into people in order to control them......and forget about heaven or hell business, would you? Only people can change themselves....the Deity is too busy for such nonsense.
Nothing is permanent and I've had many, many emotional sorrows in my lifetime. My only strength and guidance comes from my Creator of the Whole Universe.
It's a good story, but.. How would you call someone alive when he isn't emotionally involved with someone (with special love bond) or something (dream or aim or his purpose of being) How's that life of detachment will be considered as the life lived to the fullest? Will you be able to justify your own detachment to yourself on your deathbed, saying I "lived my life"? Does The Creator haven't given us free will and right to choose our path, without speaking of punishment (pain) ?
Emotions are also impermanent.i am sure sure there are times we are fed up with our family or love ones.everything is impermanent in our world,if we are attached to it,we will suffer when separation happens and it will happen sooner or later.even cosmologist says someday our earth will be gone.this is not our permanent home,do not cling to it as yours,even our bodies is not ours ultimately for we cannot stop it from dying.🙂
Ur ultimate truth is death. We are bound to die sooner or later. U will even be questioned once your body leaves soul as 1) who is ur creater ? 2) what have you did good things while you were alive.
Yo i just saw this and said why nit watch it its just some mins and i'll lesrn something good from it but the bad thing is i haven't subscribed to u yet my bad broo thanks for this videos im gonna subscribe rn have a good day and keep it going :)
I'v been in process healing too, ....for 4 years. She's happy in new marriage but I can't deal with it and move forward. My attachment was stronger than her. It is life:)
I am at a place where I am questioning things. When faced with a life without attachment, I feel depressed and destroyed and unfocused... They say attachments are a part of human health. Attachments that come and go... To let go is to become uninvolved with passion and have no drive - in my case. Where is the middle ground? To need people or not need people. To feel empty and peaceful... Or happy for those fleeting moments... I don't know... Life seems uncertain
To live a happy life then we will have to practice non attachment only then we shall be able to live a happy and peaceful life. We attach ourselves to people because we get lonely just like everybody else. And we show love to them to improve their lives as they improve ours. The loss of a person is just someone who can no longer share that love back to us. So instead of being lonely and sad, stay attached by continuing to love that person as that person would have loved you.
I guess this explains how he was able to live without the guilt of abandoning his son... I can't imagine how hard my son's life would have been had I chosen to abandon him the same way his mother did... It has always made it hard for me to accept what the Buddha has to say knowing he came to his enlightenment through abandoning his family.. no wonder he preaches non-attachment...
My adult daughter is upset with me because I moved to another state with my husband because of health reasons so she will not talk to me. I feel so much pain and heartache. I am having a hard time “letting go” but I can not make her continue our relationship. If it was so easily disturbed, maybe the reality is our relationship was not strong at all, it was my perception.🤔 Thank you for your Words of Wisdom
MEANING EVERYTHING WHAT WE ALL HAVE IN THIS WORLD, ESPECIALLY, OUR LIVES ARE JUST TEMPORARY. WE ALL CAME FROM THE DUST & WE ALL GO BACK TO DUST. NO ONE LIVE'S FOREVER. IT'S JUST A MATTER OF WHOSE TIME COME FIRST & WHERE ARE THEIR SOULS ARE HEADED. ALWAYS THINK OF GOD OUR CREATURE & HIS SON THE LORD JESUS CHRIST.
Story is good but not for humanlife only for saints.when there is no attachment in husband and wife there is chance of divorce.when there is no attachment between siblings there property family issues.when there no attachment to studies students fail to have interest in knoweledge.Attachment with acceptance to good aswellas bad in life will be much more inspirational than just leave attachment alone.Learning to ACCEPT what ever comes to by the universe is a better policy than living without attachment.Man is made as a social beings with emotions and attachments and sorrows and happiness.Live attach enjoy and accept the betrayal if it comes and move forward.Godbless.
But how do you love without being attached? Does this mean that you have to keep people at arm's length to keep from feeling the pain when they're gone? (Genuine questions)
Does this mean don’t get attached to family, friends, etc? This doesn’t make sense to me as being attached to family has always made sense so am now confused 😕
My mom is not feeling well and and my husband doesn't want them to stay with us . with this attachment am suffering a lot .my mom ask me you take care of me and don't no what to reply.
This is obvieous that attachment brings suffering when we lose somethink. The question is: how to be detached? If we in deeply love state, we involved so much, aur bond is so strong and it is impossible to be detached. When the person we love leave us we can't just say "ok, it happened" and live aur life happily" It is impossible. The fault is we make someone priority when we just an option for that person. Problem is not attachment but aur expectations
But if u don't get attach to your responsibility then how u will be going to complete it ? I simply means , how not to get attach with u r responsibility ?
Those practice deep Buddhism such as Monk cud achieve detachment as they never interact or having bondage with anyone such as family members. As a nornal person, we did hv own family, Friends, love one who we hv built emotional attachment. Therefore, it is not easy to practice Buddhism on Distachment unless we gave up worldly matters.
"THE LESS ATTACHED U ARE ,THE MORE PEACEFUL U WILL BE"💯
i agree with i paid a price and learned a lesson but it makes us sad at the end
I agree with u....
I agree with u....
And selfish and lonely. Suffering is a part of life and when you have the right companion and true god All is well.
Then the world shall feel a cold indifference upon its destruction by a former human who once held the world which was dearly to them.
I lost my son just a little over two years ago. I am looking for any words of encouragement and anything positive. I think that I am handling things pretty well and moving in the right direction, but it is nice to find inspirational videos on RUclips.
Here is a Christian point of view. You have lost your son who has return your love while he was alive. NKJV John 15:9 “As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love.” So keep abiding in that love you have in your son and GOD will never take that love from you.
❤
I have never seen such a person like you in my entire life who talks about the truth in such a compassion way as you inspire me. I have no words to tell " how beautiful the lesson that u describe is" ? Who the young man you are. Thank you for always letting us to know a meaningful lesson to us. Attachment always have consequences . That's true my friend , Practising non-attachment really gives a pain in our heart ,but working on it definitely gives the more pleasure than anything in this world. You are just making our days not to be a typical one, but a day better than yesterday. My friend , your stories inspires us and thank you for motivating me like my big brother.We need this kind of you-tubers who embrace us with change and love our lives more and more
It is nice to hear but very tough to practise. I lost my mother and brother in a gap of two months and it still pains. I can't forget that.
Of course it is very hard to overcome the untimely death of near and dear ones for any body .May God save all humanity from unbearable sorrow.
I'm sorry for your loss. One love.
Thanks for sharing via RUclips. After living by myself after being married, I discovered how attached I was to people. Being alone allowed me to ask questions as to why I was attached. As time went on, I learned how to live and be alone while still being able to love. My attachment was more out of being fearful and addictive. Over time, the fears disappeared as well as the addictive thought processes. Learning to let go made me stronger, wiser and better. One of the most loving things to ever happen to and for me. I appreciate loving people and also loving myself for not being excessive.
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍BUDDHA LESSONS, attachment is suffering.
Thank you for all the beautiful stories full of Buddha's wisdom! Thank you for spreading positive energy!
Good lesson from buddha. Right the less we attached the more happy we can leave. I have a brother who became irresponsible drunken and harsin my mother. My mother not able to control him nor punish him. The things became out of control. I am taking care of financially for them. But I have no peace thinking of them . I am not able to control what's happening. I dont have father and I am happily married. But always there is some suffering I dont know why. Even when I am poor I lived happily. Now I am just thinking what to do how can the situation can be controlled. I just left to god. I decided I do my responsibility but I have to be strong and tough with them.
Attachment is the greatest pain and sufferings for human beings. We will much at peace when we attached to nothing. We feel calm and peace in our mind being unattached to emotion, people scenery and things..practice non attachment is foremost necessary in our lives. Thanks for your video and indeed so appreciated.
So true. Attachment is the cause of all pains. But so difficult to digest. Thank you for the beautiful lesson.
Thank you for this wonderful teaching method 😇
Since I these videos found me my like is starting to change. I'm so grateful for all of these amazing stories thank you
Very wonderful words of wisdoms for we human beings living in this samsara world which we bear with immense sufferings and pains. the Buddha teachings and lessons which taught us are the golden rules for humans to execute and learn in our daily lives. Thanks for your upload of this video's and deeply appreciated.
Much needed for me❤️❤️
Exactly the right video at exactly the right time. Thanks of that.
🕊Buddha’s wisdom is intoxicating🕊
wonderfully said i wish i learned this 20 years back ,i would not have gone throw all these misery , worrying about children and grand children
Worrying about children and grandchildren were experiences that allowed you to think of your loved ones. While the satanic kingdom meant it for evil, God has meant it for good. I am speaking from my own experiences of dwelling excessively over my children and grandchildren. I started asking deep questions being alone and discovered I needed to be more responsible of and for my thoughts and actions, Over time, worrying became a process of concerns and letting go, Attachment to people is another form of addiction.
So true, now it gives me lots of relief, thank God I came across this video at the right time
Attachment is one of the cause of suffering,I try to practice non attachment 🙏💐
The catch-22... if you _want_ to get rid of the pain, you make it stronger... when you neither want it away nor want it to stay, it vanishes
Thank-you so much sir namo buddhaya❣️
Excellent.🙏🙏
Inspirational story 👍👍
God buddha 😊
Very Nice 👍, Thankyou.
These videos give me reasons to live
It's feels good to hear but in reality it's difficult. If u have a family and ur living with them than there is always an attachment. It's only possible for those who juz abandon their family and seek spiritual help🙏
Great!!!!!!!
Thank You So much Hare Krishna
I am greatful to you
Thanks for inspiring us
Tnks for ur nice voice & story. 🙏👍👏
@@vasanthijayakumar811 not at all
Brilliant!! Thanks for the animation and share Shailender!
God Bless!
Sir please🙏🙏🙏 make a video on non - attachment practice
Thanks for the video. Upload more videos.
Thanks for sharing 🙏☺️
Absolutely right sir i wl do my duty n no love no attachment now better
Thanks Again For Another Profound Video, I value these so highly.
Super ... thanks for reminding
Food for thought. Soon beautifully explained. TAKE CARE. N Thanks GOD BLESS YOU. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wow! Impressive story. I learned a lesson from it. So true attachment can always make me suffer but detachment can give me happiness and peaceful life. Thank you for sharing this beautiful message. I really like it.
But how do I detachment ? How
Thank u sir, my gratitude to u , means a lot
hence the importance of pausing along the journey in life to appreciate what you have, while you have it, to take note, and be thankful to the creator because eventually, it will end & when this happens, you'll look back and be grateful for the experience while you had it, without any regrets or guilt and be at peace with yourself.
Buddhism is deep rooted in logic and reason----so much so that everything is so impersonal and detached----down to barebone science and physics....
I lost my mother 2 months back - not able to come out of it
ONE OF THE BUDDA'S WORDS OF WISDOM,
"WE ALL ARE GOING TO BE A MEMORY. MAKE SURE TO MAKE A GOOD ONE."
NOT EXACTLY LIKE THAT BUT IT'S CLOSE.
MEANING WE ALL ARE GOING TO DIE. NO ONE LIVES FOREVER.
FOR TOXIC PEOPLE THEY SHOULD CHANGE BEFORE THEIR JUDGEMENT COME.
@@flydove-zx2ij Please stop trying to proselytize people. No God is going to judge or punish anyone.......please stop trying to send fear into people in order to control them......and forget about heaven or hell business, would you? Only people can change themselves....the Deity is too busy for such nonsense.
@@trankt54155
THE CHOICE IS URS.
@@flydove-zx2ij Of course the choice is mine TODAY. You are stating the obvious BUT that was never the case though, was it?
Eternal truth...
Nothing is permanent and I've had many, many emotional sorrows in my lifetime. My only strength and guidance comes from my Creator of the Whole Universe.
I understood very well
Great 👍
It's a good story, but..
How would you call someone alive when he isn't emotionally involved with someone (with special love bond) or something (dream or aim or his purpose of being)
How's that life of detachment will be considered as the life lived to the fullest?
Will you be able to justify your own detachment to yourself on your deathbed, saying I "lived my life"?
Does The Creator haven't given us free will and right to choose our path, without speaking of punishment (pain) ?
Emotions are also impermanent.i am sure sure there are times we are fed up with our family or love ones.everything is impermanent in our world,if we are attached to it,we will suffer when separation happens and it will happen sooner or later.even cosmologist says someday our earth will be gone.this is not our permanent home,do not cling to it as yours,even our bodies is not ours ultimately for we cannot stop it from dying.🙂
Ur ultimate truth is death. We are bound to die sooner or later. U will even be questioned once your body leaves soul as 1) who is ur creater ?
2) what have you did good things while you were alive.
Thank You ❤
Thanks,❤️🙏🌷🌼🌺🌺
Thank you for this story. It helps me a lot.
Very nice
Excellent story,💯 percent 🙏🙏🙏
Good message...👍👍
When you become too attached you lose your personal power,always retain your independence
You get sorrow from those,you consider yours...
Thank you...
Thank you.
Yo i just saw this and said why nit watch it its just some mins and i'll lesrn something good from it but the bad thing is i haven't subscribed to u yet my bad broo thanks for this videos im gonna subscribe rn have a good day and keep it going :)
Too good👏👏👏👏 amazing
A simple and practical solution not to get attached with people and things.
Thank you. But it is not as easy as words to be practiced
Don't be serious then less pain.i learn something.i won't be so serious anymore then won't hurt.
Im in process healing now , thx for sharing this video
I'v been in process healing too, ....for 4 years. She's happy in new marriage but I can't deal with it and move forward. My attachment was stronger than her. It is life:)
Namo buddhay
I don't want any attachment in life bcoz i have already got the result of being very attached 😪
I am at a place where I am questioning things. When faced with a life without attachment, I feel depressed and destroyed and unfocused... They say attachments are a part of human health. Attachments that come and go... To let go is to become uninvolved with passion and have no drive - in my case.
Where is the middle ground? To need people or not need people. To feel empty and peaceful... Or happy for those fleeting moments... I don't know... Life seems uncertain
To live a happy life then we will have to practice non attachment only then we shall be able to live a happy and peaceful life. We attach ourselves to people because we get lonely just like everybody else. And we show love to them to improve their lives as they improve ours. The loss of a person is just someone who can no longer share that love back to us. So instead of being lonely and sad, stay attached by continuing to love that person as that person would have loved you.
Thanq sir.
I guess this explains how he was able to live without the guilt of abandoning his son... I can't imagine how hard my son's life would have been had I chosen to abandon him the same way his mother did... It has always made it hard for me to accept what the Buddha has to say knowing he came to his enlightenment through abandoning his family.. no wonder he preaches non-attachment...
Absolutely true
My adult daughter is upset with me because I moved to another state with my husband because of health reasons so she will not talk to me. I feel so much pain and heartache. I am having a hard time “letting go” but I can not make her continue our relationship. If it was so easily disturbed, maybe the reality is our relationship was not strong at all, it was my perception.🤔 Thank you for your Words of Wisdom
Great quotes and back ground budda photo. Please keep
sages nature and great men back ground photo
Thank you
nice one !!!
Wow, This was a great lovely inspirational story !!! It's message is absolutely right , loved that ! 💖THANK YOU for the wisdom !!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Love it ❤️
Thanks
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MEANING
EVERYTHING WHAT WE ALL HAVE IN THIS WORLD, ESPECIALLY, OUR LIVES ARE JUST TEMPORARY.
WE ALL CAME FROM THE DUST
& WE ALL GO BACK TO DUST.
NO ONE LIVE'S FOREVER.
IT'S JUST A MATTER OF WHOSE TIME COME FIRST
&
WHERE ARE THEIR SOULS ARE HEADED.
ALWAYS THINK OF GOD
OUR CREATURE & HIS SON THE LORD JESUS CHRIST.
Here we go.......the Savior....
And the next thing you would say is, NO other religion or person BUT Christ will save you for your sins, etc. Right?
@@trankt54155
THE CHOICE IS URS.
Story is good but not for humanlife only for saints.when there is no attachment in husband and wife there is chance of divorce.when there is no attachment between siblings there property family issues.when there no attachment to studies students fail to have interest in knoweledge.Attachment with acceptance to good aswellas bad in life will be much more inspirational than just leave attachment alone.Learning to ACCEPT what ever comes to by the universe is a better policy than living without attachment.Man is made as a social beings with emotions and attachments and sorrows and happiness.Live attach enjoy and accept the betrayal if it comes and move forward.Godbless.
How to practice non attachment?
🙏🙏🙏
jai buddha
❤ 🙏
But how do you love without being attached? Does this mean that you have to keep people at arm's length to keep from feeling the pain when they're gone?
(Genuine questions)
Ryt ²
Ur stories are good for hearing but implementing in life only we get the benefit so hereafter add this content of how to practice it or achieve it.
pls tell background song
Does this mean don’t get attached to family, friends, etc? This doesn’t make sense to me as being attached to family has always made sense so am now confused 😕
♥️
The less you will attatch the more you will happy...
"Attachment is like a poison,it likes a sweet in start but it will end up us in danger"
-Buddha
My mom is not feeling well and and my husband doesn't want them to stay with us . with this attachment am suffering a lot .my mom ask me you take care of me and don't no what to reply.
Relationship based on attachments... without that it is lifeless.... One should be sanyasi living in jungle...
Who u love
This is obvieous that attachment brings suffering when we lose somethink. The question is: how to be detached? If we in deeply love state, we involved so much, aur bond is so strong and it is impossible to be detached. When the person we love leave us we can't just say "ok, it happened" and live aur life happily" It is impossible. The fault is we make someone priority when we just an option for that person. Problem is not attachment but aur expectations
But if u don't get attach to your responsibility then how u will be going to complete it ?
I simply means , how not to get attach with u r responsibility ?
👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💖
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Those practice deep Buddhism such as Monk cud achieve detachment as they never interact or having bondage with anyone such as family members. As a nornal person, we did hv own family, Friends, love one who we hv built emotional attachment. Therefore, it is not easy to practice Buddhism on Distachment unless we gave up worldly matters.
Great lesson 👍💞💞
The less you attached the more peaceful you'll be ✨