Kalani always seemed so annoyed with him and now that we know he cheated multiple times and she was still mad about the first time for several years, I can see this was actually a resentment more than it was being annoyed at him. It makes sense.
yeah but its like after a while, you can't even feel bad for kalani, she jumped into this head first and got hurt? Like at first I felt bad thinking its the first time he ever cheated but now knowing its not, its like Kalani had every reason and opportunity to leave yet doesn't but also doesn't want to work it out (mind you, she was betrayed so its conflicting emotions there). I believe she may still want her children's father but will never be able to fully forgive him for that betrayal. Also my thing with Asuelu is why you mad Kalani slept with someone when you been messing around, like just bc you met her as a virgin doesn't mean shes yours without condition tf. They're both so darn toxic and just stay together. Even one on this show overstays their welcome in relationships. But I agree that now I can more easily understand why she is this angry, maybe if it was just once, she could say it was a mistake but its clearly a pattern of behavior.
She has her own body issues - is obese and afraid all she has to offer is her chest. I guess the money they make as reality stars is worth the showing off how f'd up their lives are!
she was always judging him, talking down to him. nothing ever made her happy with him. but to cheat makes you the weakest man. he only wanted to come to America.
@maryam9769 and still will after they divorce cuz her dad is incharged of a K1 Visa that is financially responsible for a decade. Ain't that sumthang. That sucks!
The way Asuelu has talked to Kalani at times has been disgusting to say the least. She’s a beautiful woman and she definitely needs to go her own way. She deserves better.
Her taste in man and lack of wisdom to handle her marriage. As helpless as she is, she kinda brought this whole mess into her life and implicated her family. She isn't a bad person, she just isn't wise to make any sound decision and her family have to help her. She didn't know her self worth, that's why she chose Asuelu. 😢imagine how her parents feel after knowing this. And her dad is the guarantor of Asuelu.
Liz talking about how it's true that she doesn't have Ed's back just because she calls him out and holds him accountable for his bs. Ed's manipulation game is strong. Could it really be that there's no saving Liz?😭 man.
she basically said Im in an abusive relationship. I tried to stand up for myself and confront ed with the truth but you Angela reminded me where I belong. Thanks to you I know that I should be abused and that I belong in abusive relationships because thats what I deserve. Thank you Angela :).
It’s so crazy, too, because he stated that he felt “less than a man”(or something along those lines) when Liz did stick up for him. Like make up your mind.
I feel Kalani walked into this knowing she’s done with him. She can’t forgive him from years ago and he keeps doing it, just move on babe. Which I mean she did and good for her!
Fuck aseulu ,there's no sympathy for that man ,he did this to himself, what does coming from a little island ha e to do with being a decent human being, he lack of off that quality
What also shocks me is that Yara had her mom’s nose, her damn same freaking nose, and her mom dare to say something negative about it, she was projecting her own insecurities on Yara
As a child of European immigrants, I can relate. While I was growing up, I didn't get the best grades, and my mother, in her frustration, kept asking me, "Why can't you be like X?" X would be one of my peers that was a 4.0 student and going to a nice college. Some parents, as well-meaning as they are, simply don't know how to cope with a child that isn't meeting their expectations. In turn, they turn to things like comparison, and that could be a huge problem for some people.
How do you forgive someone for something they keep doing? YOU DON'T. You break up with them permanently, you move on, and you NEVER forgive or forget. Replace the loser.
The fact alone he allowed her to go through so much should show he really showed signs of not caring for her in the way a husband should, Kalani just ignored all the red flags for him. I want the best for my girl but shes choosing to stay like ??
Oh gosh, Liz thanking and hugging her ABUSER screams victim of narcissistic abuse level 1000. Translation: thank you so much Angela for bullying me into gaslighting myself and finding fault in my own behavior so my partner doesn't have to take accountability and continues abusing me
The fact that you believe their relationship is even real is pathetic....It's all a game for fame and money she is not stupid like she makes herself out to be it's really just an acting role...have you not freaking noticed? God some of you women are pathetic.
I was looking for this comment 😣 its like business as usual, but ed brought his big sis to echo the same shit at her. I'm shocked and appalled how it's not being taken seriously
Seriously.. how they turned it on her. Ed was being called out for lying and then calling somebody out their name more than once. How should she defend him being the aggressor? Where was Ed's support when Angela was in Liz's face, even threatening her bodily harm right up to her hotel room, using the "I fight for the underdog" as an excuse to be nasty?! Lia was being attacked while Ed was doing the attacking. When she broke down, he sat his lumpy ass on the bed ordering breakfast, unbothered. Even Jovi went after Yara when she broke down. Ig Ed finally found his perfect victim
Why is Liz enabling Angela? Maybe she was trying to get Angela to apologize and Angela did not rise to the occasion. It’s so sad how she tolerates abuse. And Angel should have apologized. I was really disappointed in her as usual
i agree. i think liz was just telling angela what she wanted to hear so that she wouldn’t explode on her again if she had said anything slightly critical. angela is not rlly one to apologize for her actions, she’s like trailer park trash who lacks any emotional intelligence. i think liz just wanted to keep it friendly but i personally wouldn’t let that slide if someone spoke to me that way & got up in my face for no reason. liz has a bad habit of letting ppl disrespect her & treat her however they want to.
@@shatteredteeth Liz just showed the audience how much self-respect she actually has..........Ed has caused her so much stress and self hate, that she looks 20 years older with a lot of extra weight......truth
This is why it is famously said by Mya Angelou, “when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” Ansuelu cheated from the dating period. He showed that from the start that he didn’t value monogamy and/or he wasn’t ready as the reporter stated in the video. Grieving the end of a relationship, before kids are involved, is definitely less complex than dealing with an unfaithful spouse (who is also the father of your children). Once again, Kalani needs to learn when to just accept when Ansuelu shows his true colors and stop believing that he will consistently do better. She shouldn’t write it off as a momentary character flaw, because that moment has passed and has shown to be an ongoing struggle!
I feel really sorry for Kalani, she has been sacrificing her own needs for the sake of her kids and family, but she deserves to be happy too. If she is happy, her kids are going to feel that too and know they deserve to be happy and make those right choices. Asuelu needs to spend a lot of time alone and in therapy to outgrow that inner trauma and find out what caused that arrested development and hatred towards women (probably his relationship with his mum and sisters) before getting forgiveness just to repeat the cycle and do the same thing and hurt people again!
@@NT-lq3lq I don't really know if she "CHOSE" him, they had a one night stand which apparently was also her first time and she got pregnant. She probably didn't know what she was doing
@@lindseycohn6849 It's not about whether the new relationship will work or not, nobody can tell that, it's that she deserves to be happy and in relationship where she doesn't get cheated all the time. Nobody wants to be cheated on. I hope they both find eventually their happiness.
I really loved how these women from different backgrounds and cultures and different ages and body shapes bonded and supported each other it was so good to see ❤
I can testify for Molly's demeanor when it comes to her comforting, reassuring nature towards her customers. Took my slightly insecure, young teeny-bopper Daughter into LiviRae couple yrs ago for custom fitting. Molly was perky, naturally kind & generous with her attention, easy experience beginning to end.
Kalani is DONE, she is just there for the free vacation. If YARA feels insecure about what she looks like then I'm dirt hahah😅😂 I actually find her to be one of the prettiest that had joined the 90 DAYS soooo farrrr...soooo have confidence ghurllll
5:17 cheating doesn't depend on age. People cheat or not. Compassion is developed early in life. If a person don't care about hurting someone at 23, they won't care later in life. We aren't talking about failed marriage because spouses didn't equally share responsibilities because they've never run home before. We talk about cheating that we learn of early in life. There are different types of cheating and everybody was betrayed once in their by for example friends. Not cheating doesn't come with age but is a basic social construct that comes from compassion and respect. We really all learn about it very early in life. Btw, who in their right mind would have intimate relations with Ansuelu? He seemed to be a sensitive and lovely person but that was it. I can't imagine anybody seeing him and having a credible reason to get frisky with him. I understand Kalani, she didn't know him, he seemed but and innocent. Then she was pregnant and wanted to prove her father wrong, keeping the family together. I hope she entered the rehab just to cash the cheque and will leave him forever. He has no quality to him. It's dangerous, she can get sick. I still remember when he said that condoms were for slütty people.
Naww, she's from Utah. They all marry young. 23 is even old for Utah standards. These people marry in High School cuz they think they are in love or want to screw each other in a religious setting. That's why they have a high divorce rate.
Spoken like a person in their 20's. Once you become older you'll realise just how immature people are in their early 20's. And yes, there are some life experiences people have to gain, including mistakes, before they are capable of being in a mature, adult relationship.
@@xenondoro8573 it’s not a “mistake.” One is aware their SELFISH action will hurt the other individual. Being empathetic doesn’t go away in your 20’s nor you have to pretend to commit to anyone. Being intentionally deceitful and thinking that’s normal, says a lot about your morals which aren’t ethical. I understand it’s an evil world we live in, but it doesn’t mean to accept and expect that behavior. Have some self worth and take accountability, that’s an adult thing to do.
@@masa4279 You lost me when you started to speak about evilness. Again, very naive to think that people who hurt you are evil or narcissist (another term that gets thrown around very casually). People hurt each other because of their immaturity, insecurities, inconsideration etc. Very few people are actually evil or intentionally seek to hurt others.
Kalani even said she is only holding on to the marriage cause of the boys and because her dad co-signed the K1 visa. Her dad is on the line to financially support him for 10 years.
@@daixer3156he can work the moment he get his green card,but yeah when you arrived in the US the petitioner is responsible for everything for 10 years
Watching Kalani crying breaks my heart. I know she’s not perfect and she has her flaws but she’s dealt with Asuelu’s bullsh!t for years. I really hope she doesn’t take him back anytime soon 🙁
You know... you put up with so much and forgive and forgive and then suddenly you find the well has run dry. You can't dig any deeper and the smallest act just makes everything click and you KNOW you are just DONE. I feel her pain.
I feel like she wants to make it work for the kids. She doesnt give the vibe that she wants to make it work because she actually wants to be with him and loves him. With the other guy in the mix... she is going to eventually divource him.
My first husband did the same thing to me as Kalani's husband has done to her. She just needs to leave him and be done move on. She will be so much happier and way more secure in loyal relationship.
Yara had the standard European mom experience . They call you fat and all that . Now jovi going to strip clubs all the time that would make me even more insecure smh
Kalani is a sweetheart! I know how hard it is to get out of a toxic relationship, specially sharing kids with this person. But once you get out there’s no looking back and he will regret it big time
Ok but I LOVE LOVE LOVE Yara! ❤ Shes so elegant and outspoken 🥰 Jovi going to the strip club doesnt make sense when you have someone beautiful like her at home ❤❤❤
My husband said he has way more than he can handle at home and still goes to strip clubs. Ummm, Jovi not every woman thinks you are desirable so you better take care of what's right in front of you.
its actually so insane for Javi to probably know about all Yaras insecurties and still play them off like they're nothing and head to the strip club to see OTHER women. Like how is that even okay ?
@@elsiem7295 it's not okay. he keeps her second guessing herself because of his own insecurity.He knows he looks like the bottom of a shoe but he's got that money so ...
And the fact that Jovi has an overbite and buck teeth from thumb sucking or bottle feeding…why has no one mentioned that he’s not even good looking! How can he have a good image of himself when Yara is so much more beautiful than him?! She deserves someone who appreciates her beauty and does not go out to strip clubs. I feel so sad for her, she is a beautiful person inside and out. She deserves a place in Europe and America to share her baby with Gwen the grandmother who truly cares about her grand daughter as well as her mom. Jovi can disappear as far as I’m concerned.
my thing is, she needs to learn to love herself. If he was cheating like that for SO LONG..she should of just left his ass right there, better to be a single mom than to be in a toxic relashionship, this is something I see a lot in bigger girls (me inclused) where they just..put up with bs
Kalani deserve the world! Its sad seeing her broke down in tears as she thought she’s strong enough to get all that happened passed by. Also love the moment where the girls support & seeing the good in each other ❤
Yara’s insecurities shows why she’s so against Her husband going to the strip club. I’m glad she opened up. If Jovi would look at her like her looks at the strippers then maybe she will feel differently. I hope they work that part out. She’s a beautiful girl and I’m sure Jovi thinks so too. I enjoyed that scene and I’m glad the ladies made her comfortable enough to share in a safe space, we all can use that.
Therapists really asks questions like "what do you think you should do?" Or "how do you think you're gonna deal or process it?". It's because the therapist is trying to gauge the client's thinking processes so they can dig deeper.
Kalani, why did you marry a guy who is not normal in his head. Do you really not see that?? Asuelu's brains are from a kid. So blame yourself also. Everyone is telling you that since day one. But maybe there is also something wrong with you..
Yeah and kelani is gonna continue with him doesnt matter , shes very articulate and honest and gives the impression shes done and gonna leave but doesnt
how can such a woman as Kalani be with an excuse of a man as Asuelu? He is not a provider, he is not very handsome (but that depends on a taste), he is not loyal, he is not smart, he is not respectful. There is not even 1 good quality about him. She was putting up with this BS for kids but it ain't worth it. It's actually bad for the kids to show him as an example. Kalani run you don't deserve all of this.
thats great advice, to do the opposite of what the critical voice in your head says. I love melicia so much shes always so comforting to me, like a big sister 😢
To be honest her weight is probably 50% of their problem. It would be healthier for her and her relationship if she started losing the weight. She would probably get the confidence to either forgive him or leave him too.
one time when I was about 16 years old, I overheard my mom telling my little sister (who was 11) "not to pull her pants up so high because it's making her lower belly protrude like her sister" (me). I was ENRAGED. NOT because of her referring to me, but because she was saying it to my little sister who was so impressionable. It was WWIII that day, I confronted her and told her she was WRONG and had NO business saying something like that to such a sensitive and VULNERABLE little girl like my sister. My dad came home mid-meltdown and despite never having witnessed him calling her narcissist ass out in her overly-critical ways, he DID that day. He told her she had no business saying anything like that to her, and especially at her age. He was pissed. My dad had always been complacent with and submissive to my mom...until that day. She was quiet and stood corrected, and I finally felt not only validated but it was clearly an important moment in my life that has stuck with me to this day (now 33). I now have a husband who makes not a single remark about my weight and always makes sure to compliment me and tell me he loves me the way that I am. I'm very grateful for having called her out like that, she stopped criticizing my sister as much as she used to, and my little sister's the most fit in my family now. BY CHOICE rather than out of insecurity.
both are evil in some way however that's the part of being human, only few people in this world are really good people because they had live in evil in the pasts and they know that no one should experience what they did experience@@katsetuis5ryan600
Kalani always seemed so annoyed with him and now that we know he cheated multiple times and she was still mad about the first time for several years, I can see this was actually a resentment more than it was being annoyed at him. It makes sense.
yeah but its like after a while, you can't even feel bad for kalani, she jumped into this head first and got hurt? Like at first I felt bad thinking its the first time he ever cheated but now knowing its not, its like Kalani had every reason and opportunity to leave yet doesn't but also doesn't want to work it out (mind you, she was betrayed so its conflicting emotions there). I believe she may still want her children's father but will never be able to fully forgive him for that betrayal. Also my thing with Asuelu is why you mad Kalani slept with someone when you been messing around, like just bc you met her as a virgin doesn't mean shes yours without condition tf. They're both so darn toxic and just stay together. Even one on this show overstays their welcome in relationships. But I agree that now I can more easily understand why she is this angry, maybe if it was just once, she could say it was a mistake but its clearly a pattern of behavior.
She didn't seem as annoyed with him as Liz with Ed 😅
She has her own body issues - is obese and afraid all she has to offer is her chest. I guess the money they make as reality stars is worth the showing off how f'd up their lives are!
she was always judging him, talking down to him. nothing ever made her happy with him. but to cheat makes you the weakest man. he only wanted to come to America.
@@elsiem7295 her dad needs to whoop his azz
Now I see why the sister never liked asuelu
She can't stand him. I get it now.
But I like her sister. Cute!
Kalanis family did so much for him it's horrible that he kept taking it for granted
@maryam9769 and still will after they divorce cuz her dad is incharged of a K1 Visa that is financially responsible for a decade. Ain't that sumthang. That sucks!
@@daixer3156 ikr that's horrible kalanis dad it for her even though he's skeptical of asuelu, she really has an amazing family
Asuelu is the human embodiment of "the lights are on but nobody's home." A totally brain dead NPC.
Nah its just a facade. Plus ebglish isnt his main language so he is able to act dumb
The way Asuelu has talked to Kalani at times has been disgusting to say the least. She’s a beautiful woman and she definitely needs to go her own way. She deserves better.
Her taste in man and lack of wisdom to handle her marriage. As helpless as she is, she kinda brought this whole mess into her life and implicated her family. She isn't a bad person, she just isn't wise to make any sound decision and her family have to help her. She didn't know her self worth, that's why she chose Asuelu. 😢imagine how her parents feel after knowing this. And her dad is the guarantor of Asuelu.
Kalani "beautiful??'" I cannot see her that way. Never have.
She knows she can't do better. Men don't wanna date a single mom of two especially if she's overweight.
@@blovedbrooklyn9067 Your response is absolutely RIDICULOUS!!!! Please don’t use my comment to body shame.
@@SharonWarfield I'm being realistic but go ahead and be delusional
Kalani had such a hard time with his parents it was unbelievable; I would have give up then 😕
Right
Me too!
Same here
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Liz talking about how it's true that she doesn't have Ed's back just because she calls him out and holds him accountable for his bs. Ed's manipulation game is strong. Could it really be that there's no saving Liz?😭 man.
😄 Perfect observation
Angela needed to apologize, nobody holds her to task. She is so gross to everyone!
she basically said Im in an abusive relationship. I tried to stand up for myself and confront ed with the truth but you Angela reminded me where I belong. Thanks to you I know that I should be abused and that I belong in abusive relationships because thats what I deserve. Thank you Angela :).
It’s so crazy, too, because he stated that he felt “less than a man”(or something along those lines) when Liz did stick up for him. Like make up your mind.
no saving Liz....................
I feel Kalani walked into this knowing she’s done with him. She can’t forgive him from years ago and he keeps doing it, just move on babe. Which I mean she did and good for her!
they broke up? :D
Kalani's gay fans are like the Beyhive!
@@ufreshbloodyes. Not on the show yet but I’m real life they have.
@@jackchop1576what are you talking about?
@@Noah_pitothank god!!!!!! Kalani has been going throughhhhhhh ittttttttttt
Kalani story breaks my heart. Also the lack of empathy from Asuelu is crazy.
Asuelu is 27 going on 5. Never grew up.
Fuck aseulu ,there's no sympathy for that man ,he did this to himself, what does coming from a little island ha e to do with being a decent human being, he lack of off that quality
kalani deserves the world. she genuinely seems like a good person. she is so worthy of being loved and i hope she sees that. she deserves her king
she does but she'll never find him if she stays in this toxic situation.
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nope
@@elsiem7295She definitely should have left way earlier
"kalani deserves the world"😂😂😂😂why??? how???
I feel for Kalani . The absolute disrespect. He doesn't care.
She went and slept with another guy too so
@@katsetuis5ryan600exactly 😂 boo hoo for kalani cry me a river 😂
@@katsetuis5ryan600she did that after Aseulu cheated bc he told her she could get a “free pass” though he thought she wouldn’t do it 😂
i would not care either. have you seen her????
Yara saying her own mother said those kind of things to her, as an impressionable young person much less, broke my heart 😢
unfortunately in europe its very common
What also shocks me is that Yara had her mom’s nose, her damn same freaking nose, and her mom dare to say something negative about it, she was projecting her own insecurities on Yara
As a child of European immigrants, I can relate. While I was growing up, I didn't get the best grades, and my mother, in her frustration, kept asking me, "Why can't you be like X?" X would be one of my peers that was a 4.0 student and going to a nice college. Some parents, as well-meaning as they are, simply don't know how to cope with a child that isn't meeting their expectations. In turn, they turn to things like comparison, and that could be a huge problem for some people.
Not me she thin f her
Especially when she was her mother's twin before plastic surgeries.
How do you forgive someone for something they keep doing?
YOU DON'T.
You break up with them permanently, you move on, and you NEVER forgive or forget. Replace the loser.
Yes!!
i agree he can do better . he can find another woman or man.
And his family had the nerve to be giving her the hardest time … WOW !!
The fact alone he allowed her to go through so much should show he really showed signs of not caring for her in the way a husband should, Kalani just ignored all the red flags for him. I want the best for my girl but shes choosing to stay like ??
@@elsiem7295 girl !!! I don’t even know what she finds attractive abt him… i woulda been left 😂😭
Oh gosh, Liz thanking and hugging her ABUSER screams victim of narcissistic abuse level 1000. Translation: thank you so much Angela for bullying me into gaslighting myself and finding fault in my own behavior so my partner doesn't have to take accountability and continues abusing me
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The fact that you believe their relationship is even real is pathetic....It's all a game for fame and money she is not stupid like she makes herself out to be it's really just an acting role...have you not freaking noticed? God some of you women are pathetic.
I was looking for this comment 😣 its like business as usual, but ed brought his big sis to echo the same shit at her. I'm shocked and appalled how it's not being taken seriously
@@sfr2107 it's appalling and so sad!!
Seriously.. how they turned it on her. Ed was being called out for lying and then calling somebody out their name more than once. How should she defend him being the aggressor? Where was Ed's support when Angela was in Liz's face, even threatening her bodily harm right up to her hotel room, using the "I fight for the underdog" as an excuse to be nasty?! Lia was being attacked while Ed was doing the attacking. When she broke down, he sat his lumpy ass on the bed ordering breakfast, unbothered. Even Jovi went after Yara when she broke down. Ig Ed finally found his perfect victim
If he's been cheating from the start, why did she choose to have two children with him?
Exactly
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He was the first man she's ever been with, I guess she just didn't know any better
The second one you can judge her for it but the first one you can't because that's the only reason they got together because she got pregnant
I guess u have never been young and naive with no experience 🤦🏻♀️❗️Give her a break this was her 1st relationship!
Why is Liz enabling Angela? Maybe she was trying to get Angela to apologize and Angela did not rise to the occasion. It’s so sad how she tolerates abuse. And Angel should have apologized. I was really disappointed in her as usual
i agree. i think liz was just telling angela what she wanted to hear so that she wouldn’t explode on her again if she had said anything slightly critical. angela is not rlly one to apologize for her actions, she’s like trailer park trash who lacks any emotional intelligence. i think liz just wanted to keep it friendly but i personally wouldn’t let that slide if someone spoke to me that way & got up in my face for no reason. liz has a bad habit of letting ppl disrespect her & treat her however they want to.
@@shatteredteeth Liz just showed the audience how much self-respect she actually has..........Ed has caused her so much stress and self hate, that she looks 20 years older with a lot of extra weight......truth
Liz is 100% a people pleaser and codependent. She apologized way too often for shit that isn't her fault. I hope she finds her voice and backbone!
@@MissManaged84Ed can't please anyone, so he needs a pleaser. 😂
@@jasg771 Ed need to be lobotomized.
I think some of the problem is Asuelu is dealing with this one time cheating, and Kalani is dealing with him doing this multiple times.
He just doesn't get it. Any of it.
@@csong9940 exactly. 💯💯
I don't think he has the mental capacity to understand how much he hurt her. He has two brain cells
@@beelow2023 lol. One of the other channels regularly says hes autistic. I could see maybe aspergerish. But I don’t really know
@@cathy_clarinet He definitely appears to be on the spectrum
This is why it is famously said by Mya Angelou, “when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” Ansuelu cheated from the dating period. He showed that from the start that he didn’t value monogamy and/or he wasn’t ready as the reporter stated in the video. Grieving the end of a relationship, before kids are involved, is definitely less complex than dealing with an unfaithful spouse (who is also the father of your children). Once again, Kalani needs to learn when to just accept when Ansuelu shows his true colors and stop believing that he will consistently do better. She shouldn’t write it off as a momentary character flaw, because that moment has passed and has shown to be an ongoing struggle!
I can’t believe they didn’t make Angela hold herself accountable for that outburst. It’s wild that the person with the best body there has body issues
Yara’s Mom was living through her. That’s why she pushed for perfection from her. I had a parent do the same to me.
I feel really sorry for Kalani, she has been sacrificing her own needs for the sake of her kids and family, but she deserves to be happy too. If she is happy, her kids are going to feel that too and know they deserve to be happy and make those right choices. Asuelu needs to spend a lot of time alone and in therapy to outgrow that inner trauma and find out what caused that arrested development and hatred towards women (probably his relationship with his mum and sisters) before getting forgiveness just to repeat the cycle and do the same thing and hurt people again!
But what happens when the new relationship fizzles or ends???? can she deal with that heartbreak????
She chose the man-child so her tears deserve 50% less compassion from us viewers
I don't
@@NT-lq3lq I don't really know if she "CHOSE" him, they had a one night stand which apparently was also her first time and she got pregnant. She probably didn't know what she was doing
@@lindseycohn6849 It's not about whether the new relationship will work or not, nobody can tell that, it's that she deserves to be happy and in relationship where she doesn't get cheated all the time. Nobody wants to be cheated on. I hope they both find eventually their happiness.
I really loved how these women from different backgrounds and cultures and different ages and body shapes bonded and supported each other it was so good to see ❤
I can testify for Molly's demeanor when it comes to her comforting, reassuring nature towards her customers. Took my slightly insecure, young teeny-bopper Daughter into LiviRae couple yrs ago for custom fitting. Molly was perky, naturally kind & generous with her attention, easy experience beginning to end.
Superstar she is❤
aw this is nice to read, can believe it too.
@@Emily-xl2cr Molly has such a sweet, welcoming, reassuring demeanor; I truly hope she finds what she's looking for in her personal life.
When talking to the therapist, both Molly and Kelly keep trying to be "the victim". Pathetic.
You can tell how much somebody loves themself by the partner they choose.
How do you get your heart broken and cheated on by a man with the brain of a 6 year old
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man!!!!
I think there’s something not ok with Kalani too deeper issues - he is retarded
Yara is just as she should be. She is beautiful inside and out ❤️
her insides aren't healthy though
I didn’t know there was such thing as a responsible cheater 😂
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Same here.... 😅
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My thoughts exactly 😂 the commentary on this is so “you don’t say!”
The moment she met his family, she should have walked away. The apple doesn’t fall to far from the tree.
Kalani is DONE, she is just there for the free vacation.
If YARA feels insecure about what she looks like then I'm dirt hahah😅😂 I actually find her to be one of the prettiest that had joined the 90 DAYS soooo farrrr...soooo have confidence ghurllll
I said the same, she's gorgeous!
She has had enough plastic surgery for a dozen people. She better look decent
Kalani is done done!
I was thinking the same thing like she’s so perfect
She had some works done
I find it REALLY hard to believe there's more than one woman that would even find the man-child Asuelu attractive enough to cheat with him, lol
and i find it hard to believe that a guy like him would "love" a whale like her. it is all a show dummy
Nah man, kids seeing parents who dont really want to be together is worse than kids having a single parent.
5:17 cheating doesn't depend on age. People cheat or not. Compassion is developed early in life. If a person don't care about hurting someone at 23, they won't care later in life. We aren't talking about failed marriage because spouses didn't equally share responsibilities because they've never run home before. We talk about cheating that we learn of early in life. There are different types of cheating and everybody was betrayed once in their by for example friends. Not cheating doesn't come with age but is a basic social construct that comes from compassion and respect. We really all learn about it very early in life. Btw, who in their right mind would have intimate relations with Ansuelu? He seemed to be a sensitive and lovely person but that was it. I can't imagine anybody seeing him and having a credible reason to get frisky with him. I understand Kalani, she didn't know him, he seemed but and innocent. Then she was pregnant and wanted to prove her father wrong, keeping the family together. I hope she entered the rehab just to cash the cheque and will leave him forever. He has no quality to him. It's dangerous, she can get sick. I still remember when he said that condoms were for slütty people.
Very very well said. People should not be normalizing or putting up with cheating. 👏👏
Naww, she's from Utah. They all marry young. 23 is even old for Utah standards. These people marry in High School cuz they think they are in love or want to screw each other in a religious setting. That's why they have a high divorce rate.
Spoken like a person in their 20's. Once you become older you'll realise just how immature people are in their early 20's. And yes, there are some life experiences people have to gain, including mistakes, before they are capable of being in a mature, adult relationship.
@@xenondoro8573 it’s not a “mistake.” One is aware their SELFISH action will hurt the other individual. Being empathetic doesn’t go away in your 20’s nor you have to pretend to commit to anyone. Being intentionally deceitful and thinking that’s normal, says a lot about your morals which aren’t ethical. I understand it’s an evil world we live in, but it doesn’t mean to accept and expect that behavior. Have some self worth and take accountability, that’s an adult thing to do.
@@masa4279 You lost me when you started to speak about evilness. Again, very naive to think that people who hurt you are evil or narcissist (another term that gets thrown around very casually). People hurt each other because of their immaturity, insecurities, inconsideration etc. Very few people are actually evil or intentionally seek to hurt others.
OMG Liz should NOT have her abuser's back 🙄
OMG! I am so sorry honey! Wow I really don't know why she stayed with him,that is a lot to hold on to. Many blessings dear one!❤
My heart bleeds for Kalani 😢 . She is so very hurt, to the core. She needs to let this boy leave , he isnt a real man
This right here!!!!
yeah i agree , he has a lot of better options out there. i wish him the best. not her though.
i agree , he needs to find someone that has dignity and will live beyond 60 or so.
Kalani even said she is only holding on to the marriage cause of the boys and because her dad co-signed the K1 visa. Her dad is on the line to financially support him for 10 years.
That sucks. So Asuelu can't work during those 10 years either? No wonder she puts up with it.
@@daixer3156he can work the moment he get his green card,but yeah when you arrived in the US the petitioner is responsible for everything for 10 years
Watching Kalani crying breaks my heart. I know she’s not perfect and she has her flaws but she’s dealt with Asuelu’s bullsh!t for years. I really hope she doesn’t take him back anytime soon 🙁
You know... you put up with so much and forgive and forgive and then suddenly you find the well has run dry. You can't dig any deeper and the smallest act just makes everything click and you KNOW you are just DONE. I feel her pain.
I feel like she wants to make it work for the kids. She doesnt give the vibe that she wants to make it work because she actually wants to be with him and loves him. With the other guy in the mix... she is going to eventually divource him.
Okay, Yara is officially my favorite ❤️
Asuelu giving Kalani a hall pass was a huge mistake. Among desirable men, he is on the bottom rung of the food chain.
I loved the moment the ladies had together!!! 💖🥰 So uplifting!
5:55 that’s what Liz learned from the altercation with Angela?😮 no way
RIGHT?
That TLC paycheck must be good. 😂
TLC proly said "you need to hash things up with angela or leave" so she chose the paycheck
My first husband did the same thing to me as Kalani's husband has done to her. She just needs to leave him and be done move on. She will be so much happier and way more secure in loyal relationship.
I love melicias commentary
Yara had the standard European mom experience . They call you fat and all that . Now jovi going to strip clubs all the time that would make me even more insecure smh
Kalani is a sweetheart! I know how hard it is to get out of a toxic relationship, specially sharing kids with this person. But once you get out there’s no looking back and he will regret it big time
I NEVER listen to the explanation this reporter kept my attention!!! shes amazing!
is it possible that malicia is just the sweetest TV host ever?
Love love your curls Melicia, you look so beautiful 😍❤️😍❤️ thanks again for your on point entertaining analysis as always ❤❤
Love Melica! I just watch her for the 90 day recaps. 🥰
She should be the tell all host! She actually watches the show.
Ok but I LOVE LOVE LOVE Yara! ❤ Shes so elegant and outspoken 🥰 Jovi going to the strip club doesnt make sense when you have someone beautiful like her at home ❤❤❤
Her new face
My husband said he has way more than he can handle at home and still goes to strip clubs. Ummm, Jovi not every woman thinks you are desirable so you better take care of what's right in front of you.
its actually so insane for Javi to probably know about all Yaras insecurties and still play them off like they're nothing and head to the strip club to see OTHER women. Like how is that even okay ?
@@elsiem7295 it's not okay. he keeps her second guessing herself because of his own insecurity.He knows he looks like the bottom of a shoe but he's got that money so ...
And the fact that Jovi has an overbite and buck teeth from thumb sucking or bottle feeding…why has no one mentioned that he’s not even good looking! How can he have a good image of himself when Yara is so much more beautiful than him?! She deserves someone who appreciates her beauty and does not go out to strip clubs. I feel so sad for her, she is a beautiful person inside and out. She deserves a place in Europe and America to share her baby with Gwen the grandmother who truly cares about her grand daughter as well as her mom. Jovi can disappear as far as I’m concerned.
I love Yara's tough honesty. She's a beautiful soul, with a banging body!!!! ❤💪🏽🥰
my thing is, she needs to learn to love herself. If he was cheating like that for SO LONG..she should of just left his ass right there, better to be a single mom than to be in a toxic relashionship, this is something I see a lot in bigger girls (me inclused) where they just..put up with bs
Yara is beautiful. I feel for her. Her parents should not have done this to her. 😢😢😢
Tbh, Even before her nose job and cosmetic work done she was pretty IMO
HAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA
There's women that find him attractive..wtf
Why would she have her dad sign for him knowing he been cheating from the beginning... wow i know her dad pissed
‘That negative voice is a liar’… Love that!
Kalani deserve the world! Its sad seeing her broke down in tears as she thought she’s strong enough to get all that happened passed by.
Also love the moment where the girls support & seeing the good in each other ❤
this poor girl.. I Wana give her a hug... she didn't deserve all of this
Why still marry if he cheated during the courting period?
Melicia, I sent my hairstylist your pictures and have the same color. I love it!
I find it so hard to believe asuelo cheated😂😂😂 cause with WHO😂
He and his mom and sister totally deserve each other.
Yara’s insecurities shows why she’s so against Her husband going to the strip club. I’m glad she opened up. If Jovi would look at her like her looks at the strippers then maybe she will feel differently. I hope they work that part out. She’s a beautiful girl and I’m sure Jovi thinks so too.
I enjoyed that scene and I’m glad the ladies made her comfortable enough to share in a safe space, we all can use that.
Okay, but that's not the only way you can contact thrush. I mean that's probably how he got it but that's not the only way
Yeah I've had it twice - I was born with it and I got it when I was 13 just randomly
I know this feeling all too well - I'm Eastern European, Russian to be exact, and their beauty standards are so harsh. I feel for Yara.
And she still had kids with him
I’m saying!
Have you been to the "hood"?
Everyday occurrence.
EXACTLY MY POINT!!!!
Like Ma'am, at some point 🗣 WALK👏🏽 A👏🏽WAY👏🏽!!!!
@@Bay510Area I’m from Boston 💯 but what that have to do with THEM?!
Yara needs to get that under control. I understand it’s probably very difficult, but she does not want to pass that thinking onto her daughter.
No wonder Kalani’s sister always seemed to hate Asuleu. The sisters know alllllll
Kalani please just cut the ties n move forward… this man deserves none of your tears … she definitely deserves a peace of mind n in her heart ❤️
Oh Kehlani 😭😭 i feel bad for her
Asuelu’s family is being real quiet now…
Therapists really asks questions like "what do you think you should do?" Or "how do you think you're gonna deal or process it?". It's because the therapist is trying to gauge the client's thinking processes so they can dig deeper.
Haha the background has the two rings - for a few minutes I thought they were handcuffs -
It's nice to see the ladies enjoying each other
Kalani, why did you marry a guy who is not normal in his head. Do you really not see that?? Asuelu's brains are from a kid. So blame yourself also. Everyone is telling you that since day one. But maybe there is also something wrong with you..
Yeah and kelani is gonna continue with him doesnt matter , shes very articulate and honest and gives the impression shes done and gonna leave but doesnt
Kekani has herself to blame! He comes off as a child.
Kehlani is too good for him, she’s beautiful inside and out. Sending you positive vibes gal!
kehlani is a musical artist lol
this is kalani
Yara and Kelani are both literally stunning
WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND Would want Asuelu!
Why can't Kalani just tell her dad, special episode, I'd watch that!!!!
how can such a woman as Kalani be with an excuse of a man as Asuelu? He is not a provider, he is not very handsome (but that depends on a taste), he is not loyal, he is not smart, he is not respectful. There is not even 1 good quality about him. She was putting up with this BS for kids but it ain't worth it. It's actually bad for the kids to show him as an example. Kalani run you don't deserve all of this.
thats great advice, to do the opposite of what the critical voice in your head says. I love melicia so much shes always so comforting to me, like a big sister 😢
I like they’re supporting each other’s ❤❤ the girls
I wish they had a translator for Aswelu. I think part of their issues is he can't fully express himself or understand.
To be honest her weight is probably 50% of their problem. It would be healthier for her and her relationship if she started losing the weight. She would probably get the confidence to either forgive him or leave him too.
So true.
Oh God noooooooooooo!!!!!
I dont want to see Big Ed at a Kama sutra class🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
😂😂😂😂
These 5 lady’s they need to open there own show
"well gee mom, considering I got my nose and features from uh YOU, who's really at fault here??"
one time when I was about 16 years old, I overheard my mom telling my little sister (who was 11) "not to pull her pants up so high because it's making her lower belly protrude like her sister" (me). I was ENRAGED. NOT because of her referring to me, but because she was saying it to my little sister who was so impressionable. It was WWIII that day, I confronted her and told her she was WRONG and had NO business saying something like that to such a sensitive and VULNERABLE little girl like my sister. My dad came home mid-meltdown and despite never having witnessed him calling her narcissist ass out in her overly-critical ways, he DID that day. He told her she had no business saying anything like that to her, and especially at her age. He was pissed. My dad had always been complacent with and submissive to my mom...until that day. She was quiet and stood corrected, and I finally felt not only validated but it was clearly an important moment in my life that has stuck with me to this day (now 33). I now have a husband who makes not a single remark about my weight and always makes sure to compliment me and tell me he loves me the way that I am. I'm very grateful for having called her out like that, she stopped criticizing my sister as much as she used to, and my little sister's the most fit in my family now. BY CHOICE rather than out of insecurity.
My heart not built for pain like this. 🥺🤧 Kelani, my heart breaks everyone I remember this part of the episode 😭😭😭 ugly crying
Poor Kalani I just... that is SO fu**ed up, getting pregnant and with the wrongest person, that's a nightmare
Kalani is so beautiful she deserves better than Asuelu. Hope she finds peace and happiness for herself ❤
She already cheated on him and is with another guy
both are evil in some way however that's the part of being human, only few people in this world are really good people because they had live in evil in the pasts and they know that no one should experience what they did experience@@katsetuis5ryan600
Tbh age shouldn’t justify cheating. It’s about morals.
I don’t feel bad for Kalani. She had the power to not bring him over and avoid all this pain. He showed you who he is and you pushed through.
Kalani looks uncomfortable n she checked out of their relationship long time ago. Girl just co parent for your kid's.
Poor Liz she always blames herself for Everything even when others are obviously in the wrong
Ohhhhh, *that's* why Yara doesn't want to have another baby