Addressing Stereotypes about my Chinese Boyfriend

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  • Опубликовано: 21 янв 2025

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  • @piiatamare
    @piiatamare  День назад +16

    Alsoooo what are some stereotypes you've heard about Middle Eastern women? (Be brutally honest) We'll address them in the next video ❤️

    • @alainlac3476
      @alainlac3476 23 часа назад

      That they don’t do blowjob?😢

    • @alainlac3476
      @alainlac3476 22 часа назад

      They don’t do BJ?

    • @Itzhvlass
      @Itzhvlass 21 час назад +1

      Well I’m middle eastern myself and there’s the whole “submissive and weak” stereotype about us. I would like y’all to talk about it and whether it’s true or not lol.

    • @jaychen8809
      @jaychen8809 21 час назад

      I didn't know there was Christian Middle eastern women until recently. So I used to stay away from Middle eastern women as I think Muslim can only date Muslim.

    • @Luthaniel83
      @Luthaniel83 20 часов назад +2

      Stereotype - All Middle Eastern women are as gorgeous like Piia. LOL

  • @hiyadenamuuug2848
    @hiyadenamuuug2848 18 часов назад +61

    Love you guys! As an Asian American male whose faced my share of racism, allow me to add my perspective. If you don't know, in America it's NOT ok to make fun of Blacks, Jews, or LGBT but it's perfectly fine to make fun of Asians, especially Asian men (but this alone is a whole other topic that's actually pretty complex). And since most Americans lump all Asians together, any Asian stereotype can affect ANY Asian American.
    There's several reasons for the small p myth. The most obvious is that non Asian men LOVE to use it as an easy edge over a large portion of what they see as 'competition' in social settings. There's even fake websites that claim to have world-wide data on this but if you actually look into their sources you'll realize there's no legitimate science to it. Unfortunately it's been so perpetuated in popular culture by sellouts like Ken Jeong and Bobby Lee (the typical type of Asian man that Hollywood LOVES to show Americans) that most people will unquestioningly believe it. Hell, I've even heard some racists site Japanese prawn as a source. Of course they never think about the differences in culture and that what JAV producers look for in their male talent is completely different from western standards. Also, Imagine judging BILLIONS from a sample size of like 5 (if it's more you probably have a prawn addiction you need to take care of, stop thinking about Asian P...).
    More Asians in the west need to realize that the powerful minority groups in the west DID NOT gain their respect by being passive, ignoring bullies, "trying to be the better man" by staying silent, and all the other old-world ideas that their parents or grandparents brought over. You WILL NOT get far in western life by keeping your head down and just working hard! You need to have social skills and be able to fight for what YOU think is right, whether it's through words or action.

    • @darksword1
      @darksword1 18 часов назад +4

      nah, the east asian countries are winning and will continue to win. they don't have to do anything different. just ignore the b.s. and asian countries should continue to do what they are doing, and they will continue to succeed.

    • @blackpilledsynergy
      @blackpilledsynergy 16 часов назад

      L for asians, yall deserve it

    • @darksword1
      @darksword1 16 часов назад +4

      @blackpilledsynergy east asian countries are doing well. :)

    • @brucelee4357
      @brucelee4357 16 часов назад +1

      Cuck Asian Americans allowed the racism. Taking the high roads only hurts Asians. Why do Asians need to be held to a higher standard than everyone else.

    • @autodigitvlogs
      @autodigitvlogs 13 часов назад +1

      USA epic fail...most people dont think that outside US

  • @user-dp6qt8pk7m
    @user-dp6qt8pk7m 10 часов назад +14

    Edward is very introspective and well spoken, respectful, and open minded and a great listener!

  • @hassansong7630
    @hassansong7630 День назад +19

    *It's Hearthwarming seeing you guys ! As I'm Half Korean 🇰🇷 / Half Moroccan 🇲🇦 having these roots and watching you relationship makes me feel related to you , bless you both of you ❤*

    • @mspacey6230
      @mspacey6230 22 часа назад

      Amazing mix brother. So who's your father and who's your mother? Your surname is Song, so I'm assuming it's your father who's Korean?

    • @wilkesmcdermid7906
      @wilkesmcdermid7906 21 час назад

      ​@mspacey6230 I know a lot of half-North African/East Asian hapas a lot of them are products of single East Asian moms, their MENA dads was basically a sperm donor not a father. There is a youtuber couple Love withstanding, the father is of the wife is Muslim and he was abusive physically and mentally to the mom(Filipina) and he forced Islam down their throat, the Filipina mother apostatized from Islam when she got divorced the dad, the dad wanted another wife and she refused to be a second wife so he divorced her. The father also refused to attend the wedding of his daughter because the Husband is Korean. To be fair the Korean guys family was also not accepting of the bride but eventually accepted them when they had their first son(although third child). But they were accepting of the Korean guys sisters husband who is white.

    • @hassansong7630
      @hassansong7630 4 часа назад

      @mspacey6230 Yes 😌

    • @mspacey6230
      @mspacey6230 3 часа назад

      @@hassansong7630 Damn. Your father is a MAN. I am Asian Muslim and want to marry North African/Arab woman InshaAllah

  • @manchicheng23
    @manchicheng23 10 часов назад +13

    To my Asian brothers, just focus on being the best version of yourself and stay united. Fuck the haters, who cares what they think.

  • @derekchin6403
    @derekchin6403 3 часа назад +4

    What a handsome couple. Wishing them all the best.

  • @ebeyslough
    @ebeyslough 3 часа назад +8

    Are the haters mostly other Asian women who think Edward is like their brother?

    • @rickyayy
      @rickyayy 2 часа назад

      Yes self hate is terrible

  • @ukashk1071
    @ukashk1071 2 часа назад +1

    You're so honest and well spoken. You gained a subscriber!

  • @effu9375
    @effu9375 3 часа назад +5

    Majority of stereotypes come from USA.

  • @DadIsntMad
    @DadIsntMad 20 часов назад +64

    Y’all better get married or I’ll unsubscribe

    • @Rainsb123
      @Rainsb123 16 часов назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @arewealone9969
      @arewealone9969 15 часов назад +1

      😂

    • @Lpfoze07
      @Lpfoze07 14 часов назад +4

      Damn!!😂😂😂, that's a real threat

    • @Bitcoin_Gold
      @Bitcoin_Gold 7 часов назад +1

      Why get married if you are happy be together.

    • @zexalblazer3314
      @zexalblazer3314 3 часа назад

      ​@Bitcoin_Gold and if you have kids, it definitely won't matter after that

  • @RandomDude19868
    @RandomDude19868 День назад +15

    I hope you two tie the knot.

    • @blackpilledsynergy
      @blackpilledsynergy 17 часов назад

      yeah, with that skinny rice-eating chopsticks boy

  • @johntse8655
    @johntse8655 9 часов назад +8

    actually, the real reason why Chinese men is considered a bit feminine is because in Chinese culture, a true gentleman is really supposed to be gentle, educated, healthy and well mannered, any men that looks rough (rugged and masculine) are considered low class labor or farmer etc. make sense because a man working in hard and heavy labor will have lots of muscle and very likely also looked very rugged as well, while a well-educated gentlemen do not too much time to do exercises, maybe only enough to be healthy because lots of time needed to study, artistic, able to read and write poetry, Instead, True Chinese gentlemen are supposed to be good martial art expert with bare hands, swords etc. with good martial arts, no need to be a bull or oxen, so they will look more like a lean guy with quick reflex and thinking. also, a True Chinese gentlemen must always extrude harmony and peace, so they must not show any "weak" emotions, freak out or behave like a clown etc. many of such behavior and patterning can be found in the Confucius classics which is required reading even today, especially in Taiwan.

  • @TheGloriousLord
    @TheGloriousLord 8 часов назад +3

    Both of you are good looking and so lucky to have each other

  • @crysflake
    @crysflake 3 часа назад +1

    Those two are so mature, it's so nice to see their relationship

  • @kean-leongang1167
    @kean-leongang1167 День назад +11

    Weight lifting communities all over the world will automatically show extra respect to East Asian weight lifters.

    • @alexdatcode674
      @alexdatcode674 8 часов назад

      why

    • @oculus8001
      @oculus8001 5 часов назад +2

      @@alexdatcode674 because of the likes of Lu Xiaojun, Shi Zhiyong. Majority of weightlifting world records are held by China and North Korea.

  • @sabbaticalcountdown
    @sabbaticalcountdown Час назад +1

    Y'all are a beautiful couple

  • @phatboy0621
    @phatboy0621 8 часов назад +8

    What’s with people’s infatuation with p size? If it satisfies their partner why does it matter if it’s big normal or small?

  • @Yoo-l6y
    @Yoo-l6y 19 часов назад +5

    To me masculinity is being able to endure the most difficult times both financially and in relationships. How to solve her problems even it’s more difficult for the man.

  • @fatmanslim4592
    @fatmanslim4592 21 час назад +6

    man...i'm gonna die single...i just can't settle. And when I see a girl thats like wow I want her, shes already taken. And dating is such an energy draining....so tired of it.

  • @ukashk1071
    @ukashk1071 3 часа назад +1

    You are such a beautiful couple! Good life❤

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 10 часов назад +2

    Love the hair and the video ❤😊

  • @ALIEN_857
    @ALIEN_857 11 часов назад +4

    Ask critics if Genghis Khan is he's masculine. Although Gengis is Mongol, he is closely related to their neighbor, the Chinese, by DNA.

  • @rocketmoonshine9205
    @rocketmoonshine9205 19 часов назад +7

    When are you guys gonna get married? Your children will look uniquely beautiful.

  • @georgeloh8257
    @georgeloh8257 11 часов назад +2

    For me, regardless of race, the most important thing is healthy in all aspects of life; this includes mental, emotions, physical, moral values, and financially stable.

  • @cuillereOTD
    @cuillereOTD 12 часов назад +1

    "he is touchy touch" maybe he's just practicing his grappling skills

  • @user-ek4nh8oq8f
    @user-ek4nh8oq8f 6 часов назад +2

    These stereotypes are generally more true for FOB's than ABC's.

    • @MoralEducationCamp
      @MoralEducationCamp 17 минут назад

      does it matter abv or fob? It doesn’t matter okay? Just be unit and fight back the stereotypes together. Stop discriminating ur own kind.

  • @leonardabrahams1760
    @leonardabrahams1760 2 часа назад +1

    Beautiful couple

  • @cyliemyrus
    @cyliemyrus День назад +10

    You don't need to address anything about you or him. Live your life, make whatever videos you want and be happy. All those talking shit are just jealous incels wishing they can get a girlfriend.

  • @johnathanking5767
    @johnathanking5767 8 часов назад +2

    OMG he's one of the Cantomando guys.

  • @Arohhii
    @Arohhii 7 часов назад +2

    Generally women love tall guys is height matter to you what is his height?

  • @chengt2236
    @chengt2236 10 часов назад

    Nice perspectives on marriage outside of own ethnicity. The world is changing so fast. We just have to be adaptive now.

  • @sara.cbc92
    @sara.cbc92 4 часа назад +1

    you look so beautiful. he looks handsome~😌👍✨

  • @allanpeter7700
    @allanpeter7700 4 часа назад +1

    I mean Edward seems very problem oriented which tracts with Asians and being emotionally distant

  • @rosenancy3382
    @rosenancy3382 День назад +2

    Hope there will b a video addressing stereotypes about Middle Eastern women: Middle Eastern women are ...

  • @TheFonzieCommunity
    @TheFonzieCommunity 3 часа назад

    Even though people are particular or insecure on what they got down there, I personally think partner you will be with should be able love what you got!! To me it shouldn’t be a problem, because you can’t change it; and similar to body shaming in women (does happen in men as well)… it shouldn’t be something men should be shamed in!!

  • @goodguyaus
    @goodguyaus Час назад

    I call it The Chris Rock Hypocritical Disorder (if ya know, ya know...)

  • @Valueshooter
    @Valueshooter 8 часов назад +2

    dude is it me or he looks like asian, Joseph Gordon-Levitt????????????????????????? i had to do a double take.

  • @polgh4209
    @polgh4209 6 часов назад +1

    Take money lol 😂😂

  • @Yoga_Tv_buying
    @Yoga_Tv_buying 8 часов назад +1

    Haha love the video 🎉

  • @steverodriguez71
    @steverodriguez71 3 часа назад

    Where you grow up can also affect your height - I was born in the US and grew up to be 5' 10" (1.78m), much taller than both my parents and their siblings. As for the "small p" issue - growing up, I was teased often due to that stereotype, but my wife (I'm sorry and a bit mortified to say 🤦‍♂) would tell you that she wishes the stereotype was true and that "small" isn't the issue.

  • @TeamEmperor
    @TeamEmperor 16 часов назад +1

    He's got a baby face.

  • @piiatamare
    @piiatamare  День назад +10

    Guysss make sure you're subscribed so we can get this channel to more viewers and help it grow 🥹💕

  • @Lilooo198
    @Lilooo198 День назад +3

    الفديو جميل احبك بيا والله يحفظكم لبعض متابعتك من العراق 🇮🇶🫶🏻🩶
    11:16 فجرتها بيا هههههههه

  • @TheFonzieCommunity
    @TheFonzieCommunity 3 часа назад

    I think being muscular is fine, but strength is more than physical strength!! Sure I might not be as muscular, but i still have muscle!!we don’t need to be jacked or Hercules!! Also there are other ways to build muscle without being muscular!! Look at Asians in movies that aren’t that muscular or barely have muscles, but can still defend themselves despite their lack of muscular physical looking strength!! As an Asian, I’m proud he I is talking about this Chinese Asian ethnic background; while defusing the stereotypes!!!

  • @RedSquirreLx
    @RedSquirreLx День назад +3

    Chinese guys have super smooth skin and not hairy. So if you like that …

    • @immokie
      @immokie 22 часа назад +10

      Plus we don’t stink!! Rarely heard of any Asians guys buy deodorants!!

    • @weifan9533
      @weifan9533 22 часа назад +7

      Not always true though, I do have a beard and lots of body hair and I'm of South Chinese descent.

    • @jaychen8809
      @jaychen8809 21 час назад

      Na girl, most Chinese guys have bad skin. I think you are talking about Korean. I'm also hairy on my legs, belly, neck, armpits, face lol.

    • @jaychen8809
      @jaychen8809 13 часов назад +1

      @@immokie we do have weird smell from our scalp though if we dont shower for 1 day lol. My chinese mom told me this many times

    • @jleau89
      @jleau89 2 часа назад

      are you smooth and not hairy?

  • @mclovin6537
    @mclovin6537 11 часов назад +1

    2000 t shirt holy moly 😂😂😂 I don’t think Elon musk spends 2000 on a t shirt and he’s the wealthiest

  • @Sassarai916
    @Sassarai916 2 часа назад

    Is he the catonmando guy? Looks similar

  • @NhiVo-mk9xn
    @NhiVo-mk9xn 19 часов назад

    The financial frugal thing is kinda strange. It makes sense, but I'd rather spend more money on food to be honest, cause that's actually for your body's health which is the #1 most important thing.

  • @808Buddha
    @808Buddha 21 час назад +7

    the western definition of masculinity is skewed. it is overly fixated on gym culture and alpha male mentality "Andrew Tate" type masculine. Its feels to be more brute force strength than calculated strength. sometimes its good to have both. at the end of the day just be comfortable with who you are and be true to yourself vs following some a specific mold and all is gravy. masculine or effeminate in the eyes of others is irrelevant.

    • @johntse8655
      @johntse8655 8 часов назад

      in eastern culture, a meathead historically usually meant that the guy is a hard labor worker or farmer, an uncouth man, for sure no husband material. that is why most men do not want to look like that, only men exposed to western culture got brainwashed, easy to tell, look at all the oriental movies east of India, you will notice that almost 99% of the main character looks almost feminine. in fact, westerners think they look good with lots of muscles, but actually most oriental females prefer men with some muscles but not meatheads

  • @eveyk.1204
    @eveyk.1204 22 часа назад +2

    Is he half Chinese?

  • @Justafew4U
    @Justafew4U День назад +10

    Asian myself. It's true. We are more reserved, and less confrontational. It works well in Asia but not here in the West, and the Asians who lives in the West need to adapt or we get picked on and unable to protect our love ones.

    • @alainlac3476
      @alainlac3476 23 часа назад +3

      Unable to protect our loved one? I disagree about this one

    • @immokie
      @immokie 22 часа назад +2

      That’s true!! For a Chinese Canadian myself who’s been living in Toronto for well over 30+ years, I’ve never been in a racist or any other type of confrontation ever since high school. I think it’s because of my height and my build, I’m 6’3” over 200lbs. I’m taller and bigger than majority of the population out there.

    • @weifan9533
      @weifan9533 22 часа назад +2

      Depends on what type of Asian. I think Chinese in general particularly North & Central Chinese can be quite confrontational, as do Koreans. The most non-confrontational ones are probably Far South Chinese and SE Asians.

    • @rogerfaint499
      @rogerfaint499 21 час назад

      Why western men in Asian societies like Thailand, Malaysia, Singapore are less confrontational? That's numbers . and not nuclear physics science. Let's say you, as a westerner in Bangkok, want to be confrontational with a potential of a dozen locals raining blows and kicks upon you? Think twice!!!!!!!!!!!!! I've seen most western men in Asian dominated societies meek as fuck or trying to be very nice.

    • @kaleeysmith8801
      @kaleeysmith8801 18 часов назад

      @@immokie if you are bigger than the crazies or the bully, most likely you won't get picked on by some random asshoLs, but for the avg short asian guys, 5'2 ft, i been in 2-3 fights each year for 20yrs, the last fight i had was in cuba, against some old whyte cdn guy who's 6'2, blaming me for some sh1t for his life's issues, the craziet part was i was handcuffed by cuban police for the fight, when obviously a smaller, short guy like me would not start fights, so i got double whammy, fcuking racist cuban cops. i am athletic and stocky though, i do look like a pitbull.

  • @hansel2001
    @hansel2001 23 минуты назад

    He doesn’t look like any Chinese i know.

  • @cub2307
    @cub2307 6 часов назад

    Because of the political/economical instability in China from the collapse of Qing dynasty to around the end of 20th century created a Chinese people's mindset of financial insecurity. This is why China has the highest saving rate in the world and people don't spend money on unnecessary purchasing. In general, Chinese express emotion with action, less on vocal expression. BTW, I can not deal with people who praise and compliment you about everything you do and say. I have no idea if they really like you or not.

  • @SILENT-hw3fo
    @SILENT-hw3fo 13 часов назад +1

    你们俩的面相来看,你们是天造地设的一对,珍惜这段缘分吧

  • @niroj324
    @niroj324 16 часов назад

    When do you get marriage?

  • @Billoybong2
    @Billoybong2 20 часов назад +1

    Is he full Chinese? If not, then he's not really Chinese is he? He's mixed

    • @Yoo-l6y
      @Yoo-l6y 19 часов назад +6

      He used to be full Chinese and now he’s half Arab.

    • @Billoybong2
      @Billoybong2 19 часов назад +1

      @Yoo-l6y He was genetically modified? Cool 😎

    • @Yoo-l6y
      @Yoo-l6y 18 часов назад

      @@Billoybong2 only Americans are GMO, not Chinese.

    • @RedPanda450
      @RedPanda450 16 часов назад +2

      Yes, he’s full Chinese.

    • @Emyrtemoc
      @Emyrtemoc 14 часов назад

      What is considered Chinese since there are like 56 ethnicities in China? Are you referring to the Han?

  • @thesmshow8868
    @thesmshow8868 3 часа назад

    take money OMG haha ooops

  • @charlesritchet9949
    @charlesritchet9949 14 часов назад +1

    Not married?

  • @Bitcoin_Gold
    @Bitcoin_Gold 6 часов назад

    P size all started from stupid media. It's all rumors every Asian men are different. There also white men and yes blk men with small P. Again every men are different.

    • @NestyAngel
      @NestyAngel 6 часов назад

      The fact that they're making this a topic feels forced, especially since they're already in a relationship. It is a dumb topic and very western media generated to bring down Asian men

  • @bojack3827
    @bojack3827 3 часа назад

    He doesn't look very Chinese. In fact, you both look kind of similar.

    • @weifan9533
      @weifan9533 3 часа назад

      I have many friends and acquaintances from the region where Edward comes from (Far South China aka Guangdong and Guangxi), and I can tell you that his appearance is quite common there. This is because the people in Far South China are only Chinese culturally but if we go by bloodline then they’re actually closely related to Austronesians and Tai-Kradai.

  • @tonyhoang7243
    @tonyhoang7243 Час назад

    I will un-follow if you two aren't together anymore 😉

  • @vktravellog1242
    @vktravellog1242 7 часов назад

    I would say most of the stereotypes are true in general but of course you cant lump everyone into the same bucket

  • @Pokingthebear999
    @Pokingthebear999 8 часов назад

    Women preferred men that are tall and muscular. This goes back to the evolutionary perspective, protection and survival.
    I can confirmed this statement is true, based on my observation.
    I often think about do over again, living my life over by not living here usa. Edward is a lucky man!

  • @edwardlaw797
    @edwardlaw797 19 часов назад

    He is mixed, did he inherit ABCc11 gene? Make a big difference later in life😊

    • @lIlIlIlIlIIIlIllIIllIII
      @lIlIlIlIlIIIlIllIIllIII 17 часов назад

      what does that gene affect

    • @chibbyylol
      @chibbyylol 3 часа назад +1

      @@lIlIlIlIlIIIlIllIIllIII ear wax / no body odor

    • @lIlIlIlIlIIIlIllIIllIII
      @lIlIlIlIlIIIlIllIIllIII 2 часа назад

      @ I thought this guy was fully Asian

    • @chibbyylol
      @chibbyylol Час назад

      @@lIlIlIlIlIIIlIllIIllIII I believe in another video he was like largely chinese, some part vietnamese. Chinese and Vietnamese are both 'Asian' so he is fully Asian, just not fully chinese

  • @jkdm27
    @jkdm27 3 часа назад

    WHY are you even trying to explain yourself ??? I'm Chinese-American with a PhD in engineering, several houses/rental properties, kids who are doctors, and a 7th degree black belt. I don't give a d)(*&() about what others think about me.

  • @James-sn5mg
    @James-sn5mg 18 часов назад +1

    Hes not full chinese. His faical feature has Caucasian traits

    • @brucelee4357
      @brucelee4357 16 часов назад +3

      He’s full Asian dumbass dude doesnt even look Caucasian

    • @pisablavatsky-cb3dd
      @pisablavatsky-cb3dd 12 часов назад +2

      Nope. He completely looks chinese

  • @Iamnickoh
    @Iamnickoh 21 час назад

    "chinese" boyfriend

  • @DhanaLama-of4bz
    @DhanaLama-of4bz День назад +1

    You r nice cupal no 1

  • @kevinkevinkevin1909
    @kevinkevinkevin1909 4 часа назад

    You got the girl, winner!

  • @MikeAriano-gt3yz
    @MikeAriano-gt3yz 48 минут назад +1

    Very small weiners