Soo I’m 25, usually have bright hair colours, dress more alternatively. People always talk to me randomly about being non binary, trans etc, but I don’t believe in it. I now realise I probably look the type to be into that but trust me, not all us alternative looking people believe this weird ideology!
@@charles___ can’t help liking a particular style that actually suits me, but it’s definitely put me off dressing like it in public, even last week, I wore a band top, someone said they liked it and went on to tell me she didn’t think she was female so she’s now a man 🙄
Don't change your style unless you want to. As a straight christian guy I've had my fair share of people thinking I was weird for liking to wear tie dye. They think I'm wearing it for gay pride lol but I just like the look of it.
just be you, and stick to it. let people who don't want to know you assume whatever. or wear a maga hat over the bright hair color and a lot of those random conversation people will probably just scream traitor and flip you the bird. i personally would find that hilarious.
When I was younger it was called being a tomboy and ppl didn't put pressure on tomboys like myself to adopt some label or conform to some standard. It's gotten so woke it's become mysogynistic.
When I was in high school, these people would just be emo. They have the exact same style, were reclusive, and just didn't think anyone understood them. They didn't go around spouting nonsense though.
@@wholesome122 It is actually interesting that you mention this. I agree with you. I find it funny that those hobbies are actually somewhat productive and geared subconsciously towards bettering yourself. They didn't fight the urge to be better than they were. The post-modern equivalent just wants to be pitied and babied.
As an emo back in the day, being emo was also about the music and rebelling against the ‘norms’ in society that were pointless from a healthy or practical standpoint or simply celebrating your voice and being different than the standard cookie cutter mold society has tried to force on you.
Glad you brought that up, because back in my time in high school when I was in my Emo phase, I didn't care about identity politics that's being thrown around today. Nobody in my school was making up pronouns, nobody in my school was going trans, all there was was gay and bisexual in the school, but those who were emo who were, gay/lesbian, or bisexual didn't go on and on obsessing over their sexuality, throwing in so much rainbows all over their clothes, cups and what not. They certainly didn't go around letting everybody know their sexuality and being loud about it, same with Goth folks which is what I'm now a part of today and have been since I was 17. I don't know what has happened to Goth, Punk and Emo, because they seem to obsess over their identity specifically over their sexuality or their made up pronouns or both, it's gotten so ridiculous. I made a long comment above about a week ago or two. I can't even look at someone with green hair, blue hair or pink hair especially women without thinking they are going to be these lunatics.
hmm, its almost as if LGBTQ+ minorities were less accepted in the past, and thus were far less likely to open up about their identity because they were either 1. scared of assholes like you or 2. not even aware of their identity because nobody has taught them anything of the sort!! think before you speak
I used to have a friend who went my neo-pronouns. It was entirely based on whatever “aesthetic” or piece of popular culture they were into at the time. For example, they went by “ender/enderself” during their Minecraft DSMP phase.
I had to bite my tongue when my coworker was telling me she took in a trans kid and asked for their (?) pronouns daily when they lived with her. She has a really big heart but it’s not realistic in day to day life. It’s too much.
No, you got everything but ALL women 🤣🤣🤣 I (a lesbian) dont think that Iam a "gay woman", because I never have heard of a gay guy calling himself a "lesbian man". 🤭😉😉
The body positivity movement is about not treating people who are overweight as lesser than and encouraging clothing companies to increase the available sizes so fat people can dress themselves nice too. Channels like this pretend the entire movement is about how you personally should be forced the fuck a fat chick. Because they are lying grifters who are pushing a narrative and want to keep you stupid.
Because it is the truth. You just for some reason have decided that medical issues that a vast minority of people struggle with is your political hill to die on. As you alienate more and more of the loved ones around you with your extremism. You are gonna die alone my dude.
I’ve been 'trans' for 50+ years. What we have here is a case of mass neurosis and hysteria. I decided to go trans, male to female, about 50 years ago.I am 70 now and I am transitioning back and although it’s been difficult I feel a sense of freedom from trying to become something that I could never be. And I know the two reasons why people want to 'trans'.
@@valentinaruseva7612 Bottom line in my 50+ years experience? Sex and envy. Both powerful emotions and difficult to give up. There is no cure for pleasure. Which is why this recent runaway issue is so difficult to deal with.
@@valentinaruseva7612 I know you didnt ask me, but i want to share my opinion and im open to discussion! I think the first reason is that (typically female to male) the women do it because of sexual assault, rape, or any kind of sexism, because they feel dirty in womans body, but ofc everybodys experience is diffrent and there are many reasons. Second reason is (that happened to me) that i was simply bullied to it, like not bullied physically, but the pressure from others. Everyone were calling me "cis woman= uncool, cant have an opinion" or the were calling me names, or trying to show me the "better way".
@@valentinaruseva7612 i agree with you. The kids thing, its really sad that its considered “cool” to be trans etc. Also, i think the reason of trying to be cool makes sense, but maybe there are more reasons behind it, like the pressure from the community, i went through it and the manipulation etc. Kids are easy to manipulate sadly. But otherwise i agree with you
That first TikTok is either filled with lies, or the guy is totally ignorant. Either way, he’s doing a lot of damage to a lot of vulnerable kids. I love this collab!!!
I cannot think of his name, he is on all the social sites and yes, everything out of his mouth is a lie. He is ALSO WAY TOO interested in trying to push kids in a certain direction.
@@harrydresden4661 I think you may need to do some research into what these young people go through with “gender affirming care,” where teen girls are get double mastectomies, boys are castrated, girls take hormones which permanently change their voices, etc. All that would be different if they were adults who could give consent to these measures. A teen can’t consent to a tattoo but they can get their bodies permanently and drastically altered. The bottom line in all this is $$$$ for the medical industry, with teen transitioners even more depressed than they were before. I’ve seen it again and again. While we’re at it, the person who started this gender theory, John Money, was a degenerate pedo who caused twin boys to commit suicide.
@@MarchionessDarby62 in 2021 a grand total of 201 top surgeries were preformed on teenagers. Contrast that to breast augmentation surgery, 3200 girls. But of course we never hear you people talk about that. Furthermore you need to be 15 in some states, 16 in others, to even qualifiy for top surgery. Do you think a 16 year old should not have bodily autonomy? Of course you don't. You're american, you weirdos cut off baby foreskin so 50 year old karens can smear it on their faces to reduce her crowsfeet. Every statistic show that trans people are vastly more happy after transition then pre transition. But ya know what is the biggest contributor to depression in trans folks? Parents not accepting their child for who they are. Hormones are reversable. Trans folks need speech therapy to be able to sound like their true self. As for your money claim. You are kidding right? There are plenty of more lucrative fields for surgeons to enter. A heart surgeon makes like 5 times more and are in great demand. But sure, thats very complex so maybe a plastic surgeon, they also make a boatload more money. Hell, a fuckin dentist makes more money. Finally, pre nazi germany already had lots of data on transgender care and how to transition. So that's nonsense.
A few days ago, in school these high schoolers (I'm in 8th grade) from the TNBA (trans non-binary allience) club gave a presentation to our class about trans/non-binary stuff and it was really stupid. They had a "genderbread person" (which was a gingerbread man, but it was supposed to teach you about gender?) on a slideshow, and then they talked about how gender, sex, sexuality, and gender expression were all a spectrum. It was really dumb, and people asked things like "how is sex a spectrum", to which they responded: "no two peoples hormone levels are the same". And then somebody asked "how do you know if you're a man" and then they didn't have an answer to that. They said it depended on the persons experience of how they view gender (?) it was really, really dumb. They also gave us a 4-page packet with definitions and one of the definitions said that just because a man is straight doesn't mean he can't have sex with men. so idrk what to think of that
If you are really in the 8th grade, you need to share this with your parents. What they are telling you is crossing the line! It's wrong and it's on the verge of "groomerish" behaviour. Please talk to your parents about this. ---signed, A Mom.
@@NoNO-tl8fg I don't really want to tell my parents because they're very, very anti-lgbt and if they found out they might take me out of this school, and I really don't want that to happen. It's the first time something like this has really happened at my school, though it's pretty pro-lgbt in general (but so are most schools in my state). If something like this happens again, I might tell them, but I really don't want to leave my school and they would probably take me out of it if they found out (though taking me out of it wouldn't do much because all schools in my area are like this, I live in new york city for reference).
@@ava23832ey I would say that would be for the better my parents are also very anti lgbtq but yk I told them abt that my school talks abt gender and sexuality on my exams and I’m really concerned about the future of our kids. It’s so bad atp that the lgbt is forcing their ideology on everyone and even in Qatar to wear a band on their arm to represent the support the lgbtq community but don’t they understand that the mindset in Qatar is totally different they believe in Islam where gay men and women are extremely prohibited, and being gay IS A SIN… I’m pretty sure that the whole community wouldn’t like it if the Muslim community forced their ideology onto them although Islam is also an opressed group they wouldn’t like it and call it terrorism. Yk I live in Belgium and my mom can’t even work with her hijab so she stopped working and we legit experience racism every day I’m done with it
some people take things a bit too far sometimes but it sounds like their intention was right. Gendered language is phased out because when we talk about things we want to be inclusive. Imagine you are a part of a group of students who have to create a party at school. Its you and 9 others, all women and you do all the heavy lifting and a bunch of work. Every time the partry gets brought up everybody would say "Hey the girls did an amazing job putting on that party. Those girls are amazing!" After the party the principal even held a speech saying thanking the girls who put on the party. Wouldnt you feel left out? Nobody is thanking you eventho you did a lot of work. That is why we try to use non gendered language. Because you don't leave people out when you thank the students for the party. Are you sure you aren't confussing sex and gender here. Because gender is a spectrum. Sex i don't really know. But gender is. Some people feel hyper masculine or feminine and some people don't and thats okay. The people who do not feel like they are mr alphaman shouldn't feel like they are forced into that role. How do you know if you are a man? Do you feel like you are a man? If yes, you are one. If no, then you should read some books and figure out what label best belongs with you. Not feeling like a man or a woman is fine. It doesn't make you lesser or more than. It just makes you you. Finally the sex part. Before the abrahamic religions became dominant it was very common for people to have sex with people of the same gender. Nobody called it "gay" or a "sin" which its not, sins arent real. Its just sex. Just pleasure. No different from eating a lovely meal. It was the dogmatic zealouts of christinsanity who pushed those labels. But to answer your question: If you have romantic feelings for someone of the same gender you are gay/bi. If you don't and just wanna smash then you can be gay/bi or straight. Its just sex, its not that complicated.
I'm in the Goth subculture and I swear I cannot meet a Goth woman who does not go by they/them, zim/zir, fae/fare, it, etc and all that bull shit that isn't she/her or even two or three pronouns at the same time and It's quite aggravating to me. It's gotten very woke in the Goth subculture, so if you disagree with the pronoun stuff or bring up gender dysphoria or that they are confused, then you are instantly canceled and shunned from the Goth scene. Women do these pronouns waaaaayyyyyyyyy more than men do while very few men here and there in the scene go by these madeup pronouns as well. Then you also have straight Goth folks who don't go by these made up pronouns, but strongly support them and will instantly demonize you if don't affirm to their insane world. These people especially women go by these astrology zodiac signs obsessing over them making putting people in boxes when they find out when their birthday is and so they assume what they are instantly weather its a good sign or a bad sign and ironically these are the people that claim assuming is wrong and we shouldn't judge before we know them, but yet they are using zodiac signs as an excuse to assume what you are as a whole and thats not fair and in reality, it contradicts them on claiming to not be judgemental. They'll even support the BLM and if you disagree, they'll call you a racist white supremacist or a nazi for it and then they'll shun you despite plenty of black folks in the Goth community and outside of it being against it, but get called a self hating black Goth or uncle Tom or a race traitor or just defending white folks. They get called these things by the black folks who support BLM and woke self hating white folks who support the movement and sone of my friends who are in this movement also support antifa as well, they think they are heroic. These people in the Goth subculture high light their race, their sexuality, their madeup pronouns and their zodiac signs as the big major highlights and the most relevant parts of them as a character for thats all they eat, sleep and breathe is their political identities and it's really annoying. I don't care what your sexuality is, don't force it down my throat, I don't even know why there even has to be flags of your sexuality, why make a symbol of it, why obsess over it, why show your kinks to the public especially in schools as teachers, just be gay or bisexual and shut up about it, I don't brag about being straight or holding out straight flags or wearing straight badges and what not or take pride in that, I'm just living life. They say "How can you be a Goth and conservative at the same time?" Despite these people being the same people who say Goth is for free thinkers and its for any religious folks weather you are Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Buddhists, Hindu, Pagan, Satanic, Athiest, Agnostic etc, but as soon as you are revealed to be Christian or just simply conservative with a little bit of some liberal views for that matter, you are still shamed regardless. It's contradictory. Free thinking means Conservatives are also welcome in the Goth scene. Hell they even think it's their place to gate keep who can or cannot be in the scene based on who they voted for, so if you voted for Trump and you're a Goth, you're booted out, you must vote blue. I call B.S. on that because originally Goth was just a music based subculture that was originally A political and there for non political lyrics in our music. I'm not fully sure where it went wrong, but my guess was a few artists like Sean Brennon of London After Midnight and William Faith of Faith And The Muse and their loyal fans. It then led to some Goth RUclipsrs doing this and same goes for their loyal fans. It got way out of hand the day Trump was elected in, so I can't anymore with these people. I'm pretty much a lone wolf Goth now and it's pretty sad I can't enjoy the scene as I used to anymore, because of how woke they have gotten. There was very very few in the subculture who agreed with me, but the rest have fallen for the woke agenda and it's heart breaking. I don't have that many friends in the subculture anymore weather it be online or in person. It got to the point I was saying I am ashamed to be a Goth. It's why I now remain a lonewolf Goth just participating in the scene alone, not going to Goth clubs or any Goth events in general, but just keeping Goth to myself, it'spointless now, because of how woke the majority of the scene has become theres more liberal Goths out there than there are conservative Goths.
That's sad, I agree it should be for everyone. Not everything has to be about politics, and I say this as a conservative libertarian. "Goth" "punk" or any other alternative style should never be political. Have you heard crim3s by the way? Good stuff.
They're trying to do the same to gaming but thankfully no one's taking it and woke products just aren't selling except for a few really good or exceptional games that are worth playing despite the woke nonsense.
I started high school last millennium and graduated this millennium ;) This was before Emo was a thing(thank god ha). There were Stoners, Goth, Vatos, Jocks and Preps… non of which were political at all. I fit in with the Stoner and Goth cliques and you are right it was mainly a music scene and an anti establishment scene. But now all these so called Progressive kids are super Super establishment and it’s no longer about the outcast kids and the underground music scene. They have all become a bunch of political activists, it’s sad.
As a fellow goth, I feel your pain. I'm going through exactly the same on my local scene. Hell, a few years ago they were trying to cancel Nick Cave for saying that bad arguments should be fought with good arguments instead of censorship. Just look at r/goth. They literally have a hit list of "problematic" artists. The only gatekeeping this subculture ever needed was music-based. Do you listen to goth music? If yes, you're in. If not, come back when you listen to it.
Most therapists will recommend social or medical transition to trans people because it's proven to be a real thing and switching pronouns can be very beneficial to trans peoples mental health.
I tried to explain how Disney putting anything sexual into their family friendly movies is a way to indoctrinate them and their response was "so you don't think children will meet *insert community here* in real life" maybe but my point is you shouldn't expose them to this kind of stuff in movies! They are CHILDREN. The person clearly doesn't understand the agenda here and I'm like...geez
This is one of my top reasons for not wanting kids I will not bare a child into this evil world so some sicko can brainwash there innocent poor mind or a pedophile preying on them. This world is fucken sick I can’t believe we have humans in this world living this way now. This will never be considered acceptable or acceptance at all because this is horrible disgusting behaviour that has to be stopped once and for all.
You guys do have a point. They all act like children excited about telling their parents something. Though I'm sure these people treat their parents like garbage seeing how entitled and narcissistic they can be. God help us.
How about we give them all bracelets that say, "I'm a shameless attention-seeker. Please just do yourself a favor and cross to the other side of the street when you see me coming."
I got an advert halfway though this and i just had to share the laugh i had. It was in the middle of one of the tiktoks and the tiktoker said "are you a boy, no. Are you a girl? No" then the ad kicked in and shouted "ARE YOU STILL STUFFING YOUR KANGAROO POUCH POCKETS?" and i laughed way way more than i should've. Perfect comedic timing 😂😂😂
This is just so... bizarre. I personally don't give a damn, what anyone calls themselves (or clownselves? what?), but the fact that evidently lots of these people are teachers (and especially when they teach really young kids), that feels wrong.
And the thing is, I genuinely font care if the person teaching is gay or trans, that's just not something they should be making a big deal of in class. If a cis straight teacher spent half the lesson time explaining about how they were a woman or a man, what that meant about their bodies, and what their partners are like, I'd be just as upset. Kids are at school to learn about academics and arts, not about their teachers' life and family and political ideology. I wouldn't care if they had a few personal pictures on their desk, i mean it is their work space, they should get to personlise it a little, I had one Teacher who had a signed photo of Steve Backshall on his desk, but that does not mean decorate the entire classroom with rainbows and hearts. There are better things to go on classroom walls: the kids work, shapes and numbers, age appropriate books to encourage reading, vocabulary to use in their school work, science and history themed posters... and where are you gonna put that if everything is covered in rainbows.
Seeing you two together makes me laugh only for one reason, everyone calling you a transphobe, when you are sitting here talking and laughing with a trans man. People need to learn the real definition of transphobia
The views of some trans people are not only ridiculous or cringy, but their views are dangerous when they claim that puberty blockers and hormones are harmless and reversible. This is clearly the worst message. Excellent duel - I really like you, Misha and Marcus. He is my favorite youtuber. 😇 (BTW and also Ariella Scarcella, Blair White, Amala Ekpunobi and Patience Xina).
First they tell you it's reversible, then (when people realize it's not true and become detransitioners) they tell you that you are stupid for not knowing the consequences of hormonal intervention in your still developing body. Because obviously any person with still developing brains - which also happens to be the age when your body changes in the ways that you can't control and you experience mood swings and depression - is making this choice after several years of research and counselling, right? It's not like they will do everything in their powers to get those "magical pills" that somehow will help them with body insecurities and mental health problems according to these tiktok freaks! /jk
They are expressing themselves freely. Isn't that what conservatives are supposed to care about? Freedom to express themselves? I guess you only care about your own freedoms and not the freedoms of others...
Reacting to cringe TikToks is an addiction and a mental illness in itself. Ya'll are so obsessed with libs like you couldn't live without them, it's cute 😂
Thank you for stating most goths are not like this lmao I’m really done with these people taking goth fashion and pretending it makes them goth while acting like children and not even listening to the music
the thing that makes me the most upset is these people who use neopronouns claim they are for people who are neurodivergent so they can help “describe themselves”. right now it’s some sort of trend to fake neurodivergent disorders and brag about them on tiktok like they are some sort of cool quirky personality trait. and then those same people who fake being nd go spreading this misinformation about “neopronouns” when as someone who actually has autism they make social interactions and communicating with others even harder and more confusing :(
Didn't even notice you got to 100K lol congratulations, also idk how you manage watching these tik toks, I feel like my IQ drops whenever I watch them.
I thought it was an attempt at pronouncing the unpronounceable Mx. Because they have this weird obsession with replacing stuff with the letter X. Latinx, for example, because they think they're too special to use Latino.
Instead of telling kids to use "Mx" instead of Mr or Mrs you could just let them call you by your first name or maybe just the surname. Some of our teachers were israeli and over there it is normal to use first names instead of mr/mrs surname. We called these teachers by their given name because they told us to do so and this is definitely something kids have no problem understanding.
I really hate when teachers do that!! "Oh hey, Little 5 year old Timmy who btw is not my own child... Let's talk about $exuality for a bit". LET KIDS BE KIDS!!!!!!! 🤬🤬🤮🤮...
I’m ace. I hate the whole “there is a scale to being ace. Or different levels” no there isn’t. You DONT have sexual/romantic attraction to people. Its not that hard to get wrong.
They want a label, so they make it up, based on the fact that they don't have a massive libido. Wich is normal. Normal people don't wanna fork every person they see. The only spectrum within asexuality I can think I'd is "I don't like sex, I don't wanna do it, I just don't feel sexual attraction, but it doesnt repulse me" to "the idea of something going in there, or inserting that into something actually repulses me and makes me feel uncomfortable" There is no "well, under very specific conditions I might feel secual attraction". That's not asexuality. That's just not wanting to have sex with people ghat fall under certain categories, such is not wanting to have sex with strangers, or not wanting to have sex with people you know. Which are both normal, and I can understand the rationale behind, but it is not asexuality if you feel sexual attraction. (And a side not some people don't seem to get, just wanna get it out there, just because I don't feel sexual or romantic attraction as I'm aromantic asexual, that doesn't mean I can't like how people look. I can like how a dress looks and not wanna date or fork it, the same applies to people.)
@@angloprincess from my perspective, I don't understand what romantic attraction is. I just can't get my head around meeting someone and wanting to dedicate so much of my time to them (which is what my mum described to me when I asked). In my head, I either love you like a friend, or u love you like family (different degrees of platonic love). I don't get what loving like a romantic partner is. I just can't comprehend it. And as for asexuality, in my experience, it's freaks me out to put something in there, just the idea feels nasty and gross. I can't even manage tampons or menstral cups. And the idea of putting those parts near or in my face is the same. For both the male and female parts.
@@angloprincess I can totally understand the confusion. It’s a normal human need people have. Some people have a physical aversion to it. Some people have a medical reason or mental health reason (sociopathy and a general lack of emotion) In my case I have a chemical imbalance in my brain that disrupts sexual desire and function. Unfortunately it’s not something that can be fixed. Im just stuck like this. I don’t feel like it’s a thing to be celebrated. It’s like having a special flag for like a missing limb or eye. Idk
@@angloprincess also, not every Ace is disgusted by sex. Some just don't feel the want fir it, but will participate for a person they love greatly, or with the end goal of children, even if they don't get enjoyment from it. Which some people would see as wrong, but to each their own I guess. And fir more elaboration on the no romantic attraction thing, I tend to go straight from "you're just my friend" to "you're like a sibling to me", and even if I did go on a date with someone I never met, it would just end with me either going "I don't like this person", "were acquaintances now I guess" or "They're really nice, I wanna be their friend." I never get "I wanna keep dating this person with the end goal of living together and getting married."
(fellow asexual here) i always thought that ace being a spectrum was between being disgusted by even the idea of sex to just casually not having feeling sexual attraction. it being a spectrum of attraction itself makes no sense 😭
It kind of makes me mad that the person who’s dressed in the goth clothes called it dressing like a clown!! That’s literally making fun of people who actually like to dress gothic or more punk rock emo/scene whatever you want to call it they all kind of fall under that catagory. I’m a huge metal head I don’t really dress as crazy as I did when I was younger cause I’m an adult and a mom I’ve grown up and started dressing like an adult to some extent I still have my colored hair😂😂 which also makes me mad story for another day😅😂. Honestly though that’s what people would call a poser back in the day she thinks that’s dressing like a clown when in reality that’s someone’s style. These people think they’re so nice but that’s actually pretty insulting 😂😂 they talk about appropriating well she just appropriating rock fashion and calling it dressing like a clown
Idk why they want to use sunny, sweet, sparkle their pronouns when they could just use them as…adjectives. Because that’s what these words are. Adjectives.
there'd be so much less people claiming certain identities if they weren't able to weaponize them, I truly believe there are people who identify with the term non-binary for example, but there are so many of them who just want to be oppressed, like can you live for yourself, not for others' pity?
what's the point in being like 'YOU MISGENDERED ME, I USE [insert pronouns here] PRONOUNS' like bro, you can mention your pronouns once and move on with your life if people purposefully misgender you
@eeeeee68ci ik this was a year ago but yeah, I'm a trans demiboy (I identify with the trans label but not fully as male if that makes sense) it's a nonbinary identity that means you are partially but not wholly (not sure if I spelled that right) male, I feel this way because I don't feel like a fully trans man but I feel gross identifying as female (I'm afab) I'm not trying to do attention like these folks are and due to my autism, I have a hard time identifying my feelings to where I know if I have gender dysphoria or not but given the info I provided I think I explained my case well enough, also, my hair dyed has nothing to do with my gender, I dyed it a metallic blue and it looks really cool and when it starts to fade it looks like it's silver due to it being a metallic blue, I mean, my mom likes to dye her hair temporarily blonde and sometimes with pink streaks so it's not really related to gender at all, it just looks cool
Proud of my ittle brother in law standing up to this. He's 16 and transitioning and going to an extremely liberal art school where this crap is EXPLODING. The other night he got into it with someone in their school in a group chat who was demanding respect for neopronouns and insiting that this gender dysphoria child on testosterone is a transphobe. My brother in law said that the neopronoun they wanted to be called didn't even read like a reL word, and given the kid is dyslexic as all hell, he said there was no way his mind would even let him read the pronoun properly and that it was messing with his head literally.. The response from the neopronoun brat? That my brother in law is an ableist who doesn't understand neopronouns have been used for over 200 years. These same kids at his school doing this are also destroying their family lives because the adults in these kids lives are obviously not playing along with the game
The older I get, the less I want to stand out. Our brains aren't fully formed until 25, and many need a few more years to ripen up their brain wrinkles. Great vid
Here is the problem. Anyone who says they transitioned to opposite sex KNOWs they weren't really the other sex. If that were true. You would never need the word transition. In other words you admit you were a boy or girl but tried to become the opposite. Think about what the actual word transition means. Your only trying to become what you "feel" I won't type out a long story here. But I do know what causes it all
I just don't get why they're all so enthusiastic to expose every single minute of their unwellness all time and all ways, plus teaching this to kids. Maybe it's always carnival or halloween for those people.
11:22 as a Christian this makes me sick because the whole point of "being made the way you are" is supposed to have the effect of; you're born with a purpose (even if you don't know it yet), one of those purposes is not to be glorified since that seat has been filled, by God.
What OT said almost at the end is true. Metalheads could not give less of a shit of what you think or any agenda you might have. We all just care about METAL!!!! If the community changes and everyone in it becomes enclosed in their ideas and start giving a shit about what you just exposed, at least I will still run by how metal is supposed to be🤘🤘🤘
Just recently found both of your channels so this is awesome !! 😻 I feel very good about my decision not to get tiktok but I salute your courage for going through this for us :)
Goth is closely related to punk, and alternative subcultures are all about expressing yourself and rejecting social norms lmao. How would being a conservative align with the fundamental culture of change and self expression?
Its actually annoying. Like I'm a teenager who has a kind of emo way of dress and I listen to that genre of music, but I have never referred to myself with bunches of confusing upon confusing labels. I'm a bisexual female, simple as that, thinks there are two genders, and I don't talk about it or boast about it because there's no benefit in saying it. On that note I do have a friend who puts bunches of labels. Non-binary, asexual, and lesbian. Which actually I don't think is true since she has said she swings both ways and I'm like so you're not a lesbian- but anyways people need to stop confusing themselves with all these labels. And him saying usually alternative peeps aren't woke I fit right into that category!
We need more trans men like Marcus who actually knows they’re biologically a woman and is just dressing up as a man. These people do deserve to be respected.
Hey, i want to share my story, maybe it will help somebody, maybe not, i also want to kinda get it off my chest. (sorry for my english, its not my first language) I experienced the pressure from others, they were calling me cis and uncool, calling me names etc. I wanted to be supported, not hated. This sounds so wrong when i think about this, but i was a kid, i didnt know what it means. It started when i cut my hair short, i wasnt happy, it didnt make me happy, it hurt me inside, like on the chest, deeply, i knew that it isnt me, im trying to be someone else, i knew that, but i was scared to admit it to myself, because i would loose the support from the community. Then i started to hide myself (i didnt like my body back then, this just made me even more insecure) I started to hide my chest etc. I wont go into details, cause i feel so embaressed to even think about it, this will haunt me for the rest of my life. Another reason that maybe little helped, i was groomed when i was 11, so that made me hate myself even more. So, back to the story, i had short hair, felt deeply ugly and uncomfortable with my face and hair, it just didnt suit me, i didnt feel good. My mom saw it and was trying to get me out of the "community" because i needed that. (my best friend went through this with me, so she supported me in this. But please dont judge her, im not mad at myself or her, we were kids) The feeling of insecurity, it was eating me inside, like really. Then i asked my best friend if she can use a diffrent name for me. And oh man, that was another level of uncomfortable. I was crying every night, because the pressure was just too much, i coudnt hold any longer, i knew it was wrong, i realized im not trans, i knew all of this, but i was so scared to say something. Then, i think it ate my whole patience and i just coudnt hold any longer, im letting my hair grow, i wear tops and dresses, everything like makeup etc. I love it. I miss my hair, they were healthy and i ruined them, i cut them off, it still makes me sad, when i look at my old pictures with long hair, i just tear up, it eats me inside, the blame and everything, im sad that i didnt say no, im sad that because of my fear, i ruined myself. But compared to other, who took medications, i understand how it hurts. I lost hair, but i can grow them and i can move on, they cant. This happened almost 2 years ago, i was 12-13 and right now in some months ill be 15. My hair are way longer, they are like to my shoulders with shorter in the front, honestly, i feel happy. I feel great in my skin and its getting better, i have hobbies and i will go to secondary school soon! (here we have 9 years of elementary school and then you go to the secondary school for 4 years)Also maybe another reason that helped me, im not from the us, where i think its way worse. Im greatful i have people like my mom, who gave me the truth i needed. And please to anyone, dont let the fear win over you, say no and set your boundaries, wish everyone the best!:)
Don't ever let those punks try to push you into that "trans" agenda. It will make you a lifelong patient, and I have seen the horrors of those surgeries. Talk to your Mom, tell the bullies to get lost. Your hair will grow, In fact. take Vit E it's great for Hair, skin and nails. Take care and stay strong. You will be OK.
@@NoNO-tl8fg Thank you, i appreciate this really! I have seen the horror too and im so greatful my mom said no, i cant imagine what could have happened to me. Im still learning to stand up for myself, but its way better. Again, thank you and you stay strong too!
The Neopronoun movement is giving “I wanna wear prescription glasses even though I have 20/20 vision” vibes. They just wanna be part of the cool LGBT club just like we all wanted to someone who wears glasses.
11:00 I’m a retired emo/death metal kid (now 35, still love emo/death metal) and I am definitely a right wing libertarian and so are a lot of my friends I grew up with, so you are correct Marcus!
Oh my goodness, ANY teacher who acts like the one around 8:37 * needs to just STOP. Your introduction to your class shouldn't be focused on trying to explain your gender and ridiculous name to them. You should just tell the class your name, introduce the subject that you're teaching along with your expectations for the class, and then maybe get to know the students. It's absolutely bizarre to me that these teachers spend SO much time trying to figure out how they're going to introduce their entire life story and feelings to their classes. Who cares 🤦♀️
Hey... don't bring stuffies and owls into this nonsense!!! My cockatoo's room is FULL of anything bird, stuffies, toys, owls, parrots... SHE is not a crazy LOONE she's a COCKATOO
When I was 10 I wanted people to call me Panda and my friend was Koala and we would correct people if they would say our 'name' wrong. This was in 1990. Nowadays I would have said I identified as a Panda. This lasted about a year.
Attention to one important thing ... follow-up studies, in fact, show that treatments with puberty blocking drugs are reversible, allow you to gain time to reflect consciously on the choice to change sex and are able to significantly reduce depression
These people are sooo misinformed and you can see even they are unsure of some of the points they are making but continue to spread harmful misinformation regardless…
Maybe a couple weeks ago I was on Tumblr and there was a post about how someone was annoyed people wouldn’t call them “It/it’s” and how it was disrespectful or whatever. Me and a couple others said how it is pretty offensive to call someone an “it” because it makes them sound not human. Then someone replied to my comment saying that was the point, how these people don’t feel human. How I may not understand it, but it’s not their fault! 😂 I didn’t bother responding, but I said to myself “actually it is your fault, because you’re literally the ones trying to force people to call you “it.” Without that, things would be fine.” Ugh these people.
Has anyone noticed that with these people it’s always only "me, me, me!" All they’re ever talking about is themselves and their weird new identity-definitons and it's exhausting😂
oh hey, two youtubers I recently discovered and was amazed that they both had 100k views because I never heard of them. If patience xina joined in, I'd probably hammer my phone thinking I was spied on
THATS WHAT IM SAYIN ‼️ I’m a straight female who really only feels attraction to biological males however Marcus got me giggling and kicking my feet a bit
I am very offended by the fact that Apple has not even took into consideration my gender identity and my pronouns that I would like to addressed as and especially a voice on the Siri platform. I am calling for a boycott of all Apple products until they have agreed to address this problem and quit holding up progress in society which we , they ,us ,it ,zen ,x etc. etc.and all that wishes to be.
im at the point where i just ignore these woke people. As a lesbian ofc i‘m happy to get represented and supported but at this point it‘s just annoying cause everyone feels so forced. But also the fact that most of these people act as if i can‘t be a woman as a lesbian?? like i don‘t understand it anymore???
Medical professionals are not giving puberty blockers to children who have not reached puberty!???? What are they blocking after puberty!!!!???? It's literally in the name 🤣🤣🤣
Soo I’m 25, usually have bright hair colours, dress more alternatively. People always talk to me randomly about being non binary, trans etc, but I don’t believe in it. I now realise I probably look the type to be into that but trust me, not all us alternative looking people believe this weird ideology!
You should differentiate yourself from these wierdos
@@charles___ can’t help liking a particular style that actually suits me, but it’s definitely put me off dressing like it in public, even last week, I wore a band top, someone said they liked it and went on to tell me she didn’t think she was female so she’s now a man 🙄
Don't change your style unless you want to. As a straight christian guy I've had my fair share of people thinking I was weird for liking to wear tie dye. They think I'm wearing it for gay pride lol but I just like the look of it.
just be you, and stick to it. let people who don't want to know you assume whatever.
or wear a maga hat over the bright hair color and a lot of those random conversation people will probably just scream traitor and flip you the bird. i personally would find that hilarious.
When I was younger it was called being a tomboy and ppl didn't put pressure on tomboys like myself to adopt some label or conform to some standard. It's gotten so woke it's become mysogynistic.
When I was in high school, these people would just be emo. They have the exact same style, were reclusive, and just didn't think anyone understood them. They didn't go around spouting nonsense though.
Yup. A lot of them has cool hobbies like playing in a band or skateboarding. They seem so balanced and sane now compared to their modern equivalents.
@@wholesome122 It is actually interesting that you mention this. I agree with you. I find it funny that those hobbies are actually somewhat productive and geared subconsciously towards bettering yourself. They didn't fight the urge to be better than they were. The post-modern equivalent just wants to be pitied and babied.
As an emo back in the day, being emo was also about the music and rebelling against the ‘norms’ in society that were pointless from a healthy or practical standpoint or simply celebrating your voice and being different than the standard cookie cutter mold society has tried to force on you.
Glad you brought that up, because back in my time in high school when I was in my Emo phase, I didn't care about identity politics that's being thrown around today. Nobody in my school was making up pronouns, nobody in my school was going trans, all there was was gay and bisexual in the school, but those who were emo who were, gay/lesbian, or bisexual didn't go on and on obsessing over their sexuality, throwing in so much rainbows all over their clothes, cups and what not. They certainly didn't go around letting everybody know their sexuality and being loud about it, same with Goth folks which is what I'm now a part of today and have been since I was 17. I don't know what has happened to Goth, Punk and Emo, because they seem to obsess over their identity specifically over their sexuality or their made up pronouns or both, it's gotten so ridiculous. I made a long comment above about a week ago or two. I can't even look at someone with green hair, blue hair or pink hair especially women without thinking they are going to be these lunatics.
hmm, its almost as if LGBTQ+ minorities were less accepted in the past, and thus were far less likely to open up about their identity because they were either 1. scared of assholes like you or 2. not even aware of their identity because nobody has taught them anything of the sort!! think before you speak
I used to have a friend who went my neo-pronouns. It was entirely based on whatever “aesthetic” or piece of popular culture they were into at the time. For example, they went by “ender/enderself” during their Minecraft DSMP phase.
No way bro
I had to bite my tongue when my coworker was telling me she took in a trans kid and asked for their (?) pronouns daily when they lived with her. She has a really big heart but it’s not realistic in day to day life. It’s too much.
"Guys gays and theys" ight so now we've got everything but straight women
No, you got everything but ALL women 🤣🤣🤣 I (a lesbian) dont think that Iam a "gay woman", because I never have heard of a gay guy calling himself a "lesbian man". 🤭😉😉
Didn't you get the memo?
The world is all men now.
You are either a man or want to be a man.
Anyone else is apparently a SCC
😂😂😂
Glorifying obesity is like glorifying a heart attack.
Well said!
True
and diabetes
And death
The body positivity movement is about not treating people who are overweight as lesser than and encouraging clothing companies to increase the available sizes so fat people can dress themselves nice too. Channels like this pretend the entire movement is about how you personally should be forced the fuck a fat chick. Because they are lying grifters who are pushing a narrative and want to keep you stupid.
It's like the word "truth" became "lie", the word "lie" became the word "fact" and people are expected to accept facts as truth.
Opinions disguised as facts are rampant and you said it perfectly!!!
Omg yes
Underrated comment
Because it is the truth. You just for some reason have decided that medical issues that a vast minority of people struggle with is your political hill to die on. As you alienate more and more of the loved ones around you with your extremism. You are gonna die alone my dude.
“But if thought corrupts language, language can also corrupt thought” -1984
I’ve been 'trans' for 50+ years. What we have here is a case of mass neurosis and hysteria. I decided to go trans, male to female, about 50 years ago.I am 70 now and I am transitioning back and although it’s been difficult I feel a sense of freedom from trying to become something that I could never be. And I know the two reasons why people want to 'trans'.
This is either the best troll of all time, or a legit story, in which case it's also legendary. I have no idea which one it is.
@@valentinaruseva7612 Bottom line in my 50+ years experience? Sex and envy. Both powerful emotions and difficult to give up. There is no cure for pleasure. Which is why this recent runaway issue is so difficult to deal with.
@@valentinaruseva7612 I know you didnt ask me, but i want to share my opinion and im open to discussion! I think the first reason is that (typically female to male) the women do it because of sexual assault, rape, or any kind of sexism, because they feel dirty in womans body, but ofc everybodys experience is diffrent and there are many reasons. Second reason is (that happened to me) that i was simply bullied to it, like not bullied physically, but the pressure from others. Everyone were calling me "cis woman= uncool, cant have an opinion" or the were calling me names, or trying to show me the "better way".
@@theRPGmaster No, I am not a troll. Molly Cutpurse is my trade name. My real name is, Jean Winchester and I am not hard to find.
@@valentinaruseva7612 i agree with you. The kids thing, its really sad that its considered “cool” to be trans etc. Also, i think the reason of trying to be cool makes sense, but maybe there are more reasons behind it, like the pressure from the community, i went through it and the manipulation etc. Kids are easy to manipulate sadly. But otherwise i agree with you
That first TikTok is either filled with lies, or the guy is totally ignorant. Either way, he’s doing a lot of damage to a lot of vulnerable kids. I love this collab!!!
Just because he's ignorant does not stop what he's saying being lies.
I cannot think of his name, he is on all the social sites and yes, everything out of his mouth is a lie. He is ALSO WAY TOO interested in trying to push kids in a certain direction.
@@harrydresden4661 I think you may need to do some research into what these young people go through with “gender affirming care,” where teen girls are get double mastectomies, boys are castrated, girls take hormones which permanently change their voices, etc. All that would be different if they were adults who could give consent to these measures. A teen can’t consent to a tattoo but they can get their bodies permanently and drastically altered. The bottom line in all this is $$$$ for the medical industry, with teen transitioners even more depressed than they were before. I’ve seen it again and again.
While we’re at it, the person who started this gender theory, John Money, was a degenerate pedo who caused twin boys to commit suicide.
@@MarchionessDarby62 in 2021 a grand total of 201 top surgeries were preformed on teenagers. Contrast that to breast augmentation surgery, 3200 girls.
But of course we never hear you people talk about that.
Furthermore you need to be 15 in some states, 16 in others, to even qualifiy for top surgery. Do you think a 16 year old should not have bodily autonomy? Of course you don't. You're american, you weirdos cut off baby foreskin so 50 year old karens can smear it on their faces to reduce her crowsfeet.
Every statistic show that trans people are vastly more happy after transition then pre transition. But ya know what is the biggest contributor to depression in trans folks? Parents not accepting their child for who they are.
Hormones are reversable. Trans folks need speech therapy to be able to sound like their true self.
As for your money claim. You are kidding right? There are plenty of more lucrative fields for surgeons to enter. A heart surgeon makes like 5 times more and are in great demand. But sure, thats very complex so maybe a plastic surgeon, they also make a boatload more money. Hell, a fuckin dentist makes more money.
Finally, pre nazi germany already had lots of data on transgender care and how to transition. So that's nonsense.
A few days ago, in school these high schoolers (I'm in 8th grade) from the TNBA (trans non-binary allience) club gave a presentation to our class about trans/non-binary stuff and it was really stupid. They had a "genderbread person" (which was a gingerbread man, but it was supposed to teach you about gender?) on a slideshow, and then they talked about how gender, sex, sexuality, and gender expression were all a spectrum. It was really dumb, and people asked things like "how is sex a spectrum", to which they responded: "no two peoples hormone levels are the same". And then somebody asked "how do you know if you're a man" and then they didn't have an answer to that. They said it depended on the persons experience of how they view gender (?) it was really, really dumb. They also gave us a 4-page packet with definitions and one of the definitions said that just because a man is straight doesn't mean he can't have sex with men. so idrk what to think of that
If you are really in the 8th grade, you need to share this with your parents. What they are telling you is crossing the line! It's wrong and it's on the verge of "groomerish" behaviour. Please talk to your parents about this. ---signed, A Mom.
@@NoNO-tl8fg I don't really want to tell my parents because they're very, very anti-lgbt and if they found out they might take me out of this school, and I really don't want that to happen. It's the first time something like this has really happened at my school, though it's pretty pro-lgbt in general (but so are most schools in my state). If something like this happens again, I might tell them, but I really don't want to leave my school and they would probably take me out of it if they found out (though taking me out of it wouldn't do much because all schools in my area are like this, I live in new york city for reference).
@@ava23832ey I would say that would be for the better my parents are also very anti lgbtq but yk I told them abt that my school talks abt gender and sexuality on my exams and I’m really concerned about the future of our kids. It’s so bad atp that the lgbt is forcing their ideology on everyone and even in Qatar to wear a band on their arm to represent the support the lgbtq community but don’t they understand that the mindset in Qatar is totally different they believe in Islam where gay men and women are extremely prohibited, and being gay IS A SIN… I’m pretty sure that the whole community wouldn’t like it if the Muslim community forced their ideology onto them although Islam is also an opressed group they wouldn’t like it and call it terrorism. Yk I live in Belgium and my mom can’t even work with her hijab so she stopped working and we legit experience racism every day I’m done with it
Lol how embarrassing
some people take things a bit too far sometimes but it sounds like their intention was right.
Gendered language is phased out because when we talk about things we want to be inclusive. Imagine you are a part of a group of students who have to create a party at school. Its you and 9 others, all women and you do all the heavy lifting and a bunch of work. Every time the partry gets brought up everybody would say "Hey the girls did an amazing job putting on that party. Those girls are amazing!" After the party the principal even held a speech saying thanking the girls who put on the party. Wouldnt you feel left out? Nobody is thanking you eventho you did a lot of work. That is why we try to use non gendered language. Because you don't leave people out when you thank the students for the party.
Are you sure you aren't confussing sex and gender here. Because gender is a spectrum. Sex i don't really know. But gender is. Some people feel hyper masculine or feminine and some people don't and thats okay. The people who do not feel like they are mr alphaman shouldn't feel like they are forced into that role.
How do you know if you are a man? Do you feel like you are a man? If yes, you are one. If no, then you should read some books and figure out what label best belongs with you. Not feeling like a man or a woman is fine. It doesn't make you lesser or more than. It just makes you you.
Finally the sex part. Before the abrahamic religions became dominant it was very common for people to have sex with people of the same gender. Nobody called it "gay" or a "sin" which its not, sins arent real. Its just sex. Just pleasure. No different from eating a lovely meal. It was the dogmatic zealouts of christinsanity who pushed those labels. But to answer your question: If you have romantic feelings for someone of the same gender you are gay/bi. If you don't and just wanna smash then you can be gay/bi or straight. Its just sex, its not that complicated.
I needed this collab, and I finally got it. 😊❤
I'm in the Goth subculture and I swear I cannot meet a Goth woman who does not go by they/them, zim/zir, fae/fare, it, etc and all that bull shit that isn't she/her or even two or three pronouns at the same time and It's quite aggravating to me. It's gotten very woke in the Goth subculture, so if you disagree with the pronoun stuff or bring up gender dysphoria or that they are confused, then you are instantly canceled and shunned from the Goth scene. Women do these pronouns waaaaayyyyyyyyy more than men do while very few men here and there in the scene go by these madeup pronouns as well. Then you also have straight Goth folks who don't go by these made up pronouns, but strongly support them and will instantly demonize you if don't affirm to their insane world. These people especially women go by these astrology zodiac signs obsessing over them making putting people in boxes when they find out when their birthday is and so they assume what they are instantly weather its a good sign or a bad sign and ironically these are the people that claim assuming is wrong and we shouldn't judge before we know them, but yet they are using zodiac signs as an excuse to assume what you are as a whole and thats not fair and in reality, it contradicts them on claiming to not be judgemental. They'll even support the BLM and if you disagree, they'll call you a racist white supremacist or a nazi for it and then they'll shun you despite plenty of black folks in the Goth community and outside of it being against it, but get called a self hating black Goth or uncle Tom or a race traitor or just defending white folks. They get called these things by the black folks who support BLM and woke self hating white folks who support the movement and sone of my friends who are in this movement also support antifa as well, they think they are heroic. These people in the Goth subculture high light their race, their sexuality, their madeup pronouns and their zodiac signs as the big major highlights and the most relevant parts of them as a character for thats all they eat, sleep and breathe is their political identities and it's really annoying. I don't care what your sexuality is, don't force it down my throat, I don't even know why there even has to be flags of your sexuality, why make a symbol of it, why obsess over it, why show your kinks to the public especially in schools as teachers, just be gay or bisexual and shut up about it, I don't brag about being straight or holding out straight flags or wearing straight badges and what not or take pride in that, I'm just living life. They say "How can you be a Goth and conservative at the same time?" Despite these people being the same people who say Goth is for free thinkers and its for any religious folks weather you are Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Buddhists, Hindu, Pagan, Satanic, Athiest, Agnostic etc, but as soon as you are revealed to be Christian or just simply conservative with a little bit of some liberal views for that matter, you are still shamed regardless. It's contradictory. Free thinking means Conservatives are also welcome in the Goth scene. Hell they even think it's their place to gate keep who can or cannot be in the scene based on who they voted for, so if you voted for Trump and you're a Goth, you're booted out, you must vote blue. I call B.S. on that because originally Goth was just a music based subculture that was originally A political and there for non political lyrics in our music. I'm not fully sure where it went wrong, but my guess was a few artists like Sean Brennon of London After Midnight and William Faith of Faith And The Muse and their loyal fans. It then led to some Goth RUclipsrs doing this and same goes for their loyal fans. It got way out of hand the day Trump was elected in, so I can't anymore with these people. I'm pretty much a lone wolf Goth now and it's pretty sad I can't enjoy the scene as I used to anymore, because of how woke they have gotten. There was very very few in the subculture who agreed with me, but the rest have fallen for the woke agenda and it's heart breaking. I don't have that many friends in the subculture anymore weather it be online or in person. It got to the point I was saying I am ashamed to be a Goth. It's why I now remain a lonewolf Goth just participating in the scene alone, not going to Goth clubs or any Goth events in general, but just keeping Goth to myself, it'spointless now, because of how woke the majority of the scene has become theres more liberal Goths out there than there are conservative Goths.
That's sad, I agree it should be for everyone. Not everything has to be about politics, and I say this as a conservative libertarian. "Goth" "punk" or any other alternative style should never be political. Have you heard crim3s by the way? Good stuff.
You make the difference man.
They're trying to do the same to gaming but thankfully no one's taking it and woke products just aren't selling except for a few really good or exceptional games that are worth playing despite the woke nonsense.
I started high school last millennium and graduated this millennium ;) This was before Emo was a thing(thank god ha). There were Stoners, Goth, Vatos, Jocks and Preps… non of which were political at all. I fit in with the Stoner and Goth cliques and you are right it was mainly a music scene and an anti establishment scene. But now all these so called Progressive kids are super Super establishment and it’s no longer about the outcast kids and the underground music scene. They have all become a bunch of political activists, it’s sad.
As a fellow goth, I feel your pain. I'm going through exactly the same on my local scene. Hell, a few years ago they were trying to cancel Nick Cave for saying that bad arguments should be fought with good arguments instead of censorship. Just look at r/goth. They literally have a hit list of "problematic" artists.
The only gatekeeping this subculture ever needed was music-based. Do you listen to goth music? If yes, you're in. If not, come back when you listen to it.
Those people don't need pronouns they need therapy.
Most therapists will recommend social or medical transition to trans people because it's proven to be a real thing and switching pronouns can be very beneficial to trans peoples mental health.
Fr, therapy and maybe healthy amount of God also can help
They need help. Some squaring up with reality. This is true. Pronouns are the least of the worries.
It's quite shocking some of these people are even teaching kids, the whole LGBT and sex things shouldn't even be discussed with children at all
I tried to explain how Disney putting anything sexual into their family friendly movies is a way to indoctrinate them and their response was "so you don't think children will meet *insert community here* in real life" maybe but my point is you shouldn't expose them to this kind of stuff in movies! They are CHILDREN. The person clearly doesn't understand the agenda here and I'm like...geez
This is one of my top reasons for not wanting kids I will not bare a child into this evil world so some sicko can brainwash there innocent poor mind or a pedophile preying on them. This world is fucken sick I can’t believe we have humans in this world living this way now. This will never be considered acceptable or acceptance at all because this is horrible disgusting behaviour that has to be stopped once and for all.
@@GlitteranGold Please don't put us, the actual gays into this. With appreciation~
@@GlitteranGold it will spread and consume the world if we let it
@@GlitteranGold just homeschool if you can
You guys do have a point. They all act like children excited about telling their parents something. Though I'm sure these people treat their parents like garbage seeing how entitled and narcissistic they can be. God help us.
How about we give them all bracelets that say, "I'm a shameless attention-seeker. Please just do yourself a favor and cross to the other side of the street when you see me coming."
I got an advert halfway though this and i just had to share the laugh i had. It was in the middle of one of the tiktoks and the tiktoker said "are you a boy, no. Are you a girl? No" then the ad kicked in and shouted "ARE YOU STILL STUFFING YOUR KANGAROO POUCH POCKETS?" and i laughed way way more than i should've. Perfect comedic timing 😂😂😂
I loooove when the ads match up like that. And it’s always on videos like that.
😅😅😅
Anyone who thinks grooming doesn’t exist should see this video
Ummmm what you saying that I HAVE TO look and smell good for a man cuz that's the patriarchy I'm rebelling against!! LOL..... 🙄
Correct, these 2 "hosts" are grooming cuckservatives into fascists.
I’m goth and all my goth friends are anti woke, we prefer to be free of stupid labels instead of creating them.
This is just so... bizarre. I personally don't give a damn, what anyone calls themselves (or clownselves? what?), but the fact that evidently lots of these people are teachers (and especially when they teach really young kids), that feels wrong.
And the thing is, I genuinely font care if the person teaching is gay or trans, that's just not something they should be making a big deal of in class. If a cis straight teacher spent half the lesson time explaining about how they were a woman or a man, what that meant about their bodies, and what their partners are like, I'd be just as upset. Kids are at school to learn about academics and arts, not about their teachers' life and family and political ideology.
I wouldn't care if they had a few personal pictures on their desk, i mean it is their work space, they should get to personlise it a little, I had one Teacher who had a signed photo of Steve Backshall on his desk, but that does not mean decorate the entire classroom with rainbows and hearts. There are better things to go on classroom walls: the kids work, shapes and numbers, age appropriate books to encourage reading, vocabulary to use in their school work, science and history themed posters... and where are you gonna put that if everything is covered in rainbows.
Seeing you two together makes me laugh only for one reason, everyone calling you a transphobe, when you are sitting here talking and laughing with a trans man. People need to learn the real definition of transphobia
The views of some trans people are not only ridiculous or cringy, but their views are dangerous when they claim that puberty blockers and hormones are harmless and reversible. This is clearly the worst message. Excellent duel - I really like you, Misha and Marcus. He is my favorite youtuber. 😇
(BTW and also Ariella Scarcella, Blair White, Amala Ekpunobi and Patience Xina).
Amala ekpunobi is a pick me up girl so Parience xina
First they tell you it's reversible, then (when people realize it's not true and become detransitioners) they tell you that you are stupid for not knowing the consequences of hormonal intervention in your still developing body.
Because obviously any person with still developing brains - which also happens to be the age when your body changes in the ways that you can't control and you experience mood swings and depression - is making this choice after several years of research and counselling, right?
It's not like they will do everything in their powers to get those "magical pills" that somehow will help them with body insecurities and mental health problems according to these tiktok freaks! /jk
@@hatersrmotivators6477inthink you mean "pick me" girl and i dont see how amala is. She's still liberal i think she just changed her radical views.
The child like acting is to groom children to be like them.
Man these people are insane. What's wrong with them?
IKR
They are expressing themselves freely. Isn't that what conservatives are supposed to care about? Freedom to express themselves? I guess you only care about your own freedoms and not the freedoms of others...
@@HopeIsFleeting no man there also afacting our freedom like if we say their pronouns wrong where arested
What isn’t
They’ve got nothing fun to do anymore
Love watching your videos Misha! Especially when it comes to the LibToks!
Reacting to cringe TikToks is an addiction and a mental illness in itself. Ya'll are so obsessed with libs like you couldn't live without them, it's cute 😂
Thank you for stating most goths are not like this lmao I’m really done with these people taking goth fashion and pretending it makes them goth while acting like children and not even listening to the music
the thing that makes me the most upset is these people who use neopronouns claim they are for people who are neurodivergent so they can help “describe themselves”. right now it’s some sort of trend to fake neurodivergent disorders and brag about them on tiktok like they are some sort of cool quirky personality trait. and then those same people who fake being nd go spreading this misinformation about “neopronouns” when as someone who actually has autism they make social interactions and communicating with others even harder and more confusing :(
Didn't even notice you got to 100K lol congratulations, also idk how you manage watching these tik toks, I feel like my IQ drops whenever I watch them.
When these people start talking with "we'' and stop using the "I" , then I can accept them seriously.
" Mix " is apparently short for " Mixed Nuts ! "
I thought it was an attempt at pronouncing the unpronounceable Mx. Because they have this weird obsession with replacing stuff with the letter X. Latinx, for example, because they think they're too special to use Latino.
@@bethanybrookes8479 You've put FAR too much thought into this ( I think you need a hobby ! )
@@josephwalsh7546 u do have a hobby, but i can't controll what my sleep deprived brain decides to think about when I'm lying awake in bed at 3am.
@@josephwalsh7546 u do have a hobby, but i can't controll what my sleep deprived brain decides to think about when I'm lying awake in bed at 3am.
Instead of telling kids to use "Mx" instead of Mr or Mrs you could just let them call you by your first name or maybe just the surname. Some of our teachers were israeli and over there it is normal to use first names instead of mr/mrs surname. We called these teachers by their given name because they told us to do so and this is definitely something kids have no problem understanding.
"Adding new pronouns to my collection" It's like Pokemon.
I really hate when teachers do that!!
"Oh hey, Little 5 year old Timmy
who btw is not my own child...
Let's talk about $exuality for a bit".
LET KIDS BE KIDS!!!!!!! 🤬🤬🤮🤮...
I’m ace. I hate the whole “there is a scale to being ace. Or different levels” no there isn’t. You DONT have sexual/romantic attraction to people. Its not that hard to get wrong.
They want a label, so they make it up, based on the fact that they don't have a massive libido. Wich is normal. Normal people don't wanna fork every person they see.
The only spectrum within asexuality I can think I'd is "I don't like sex, I don't wanna do it, I just don't feel sexual attraction, but it doesnt repulse me" to "the idea of something going in there, or inserting that into something actually repulses me and makes me feel uncomfortable"
There is no "well, under very specific conditions I might feel secual attraction". That's not asexuality. That's just not wanting to have sex with people ghat fall under certain categories, such is not wanting to have sex with strangers, or not wanting to have sex with people you know. Which are both normal, and I can understand the rationale behind, but it is not asexuality if you feel sexual attraction.
(And a side not some people don't seem to get, just wanna get it out there, just because I don't feel sexual or romantic attraction as I'm aromantic asexual, that doesn't mean I can't like how people look. I can like how a dress looks and not wanna date or fork it, the same applies to people.)
@@angloprincess from my perspective, I don't understand what romantic attraction is. I just can't get my head around meeting someone and wanting to dedicate so much of my time to them (which is what my mum described to me when I asked). In my head, I either love you like a friend, or u love you like family (different degrees of platonic love). I don't get what loving like a romantic partner is. I just can't comprehend it.
And as for asexuality, in my experience, it's freaks me out to put something in there, just the idea feels nasty and gross. I can't even manage tampons or menstral cups. And the idea of putting those parts near or in my face is the same. For both the male and female parts.
@@angloprincess I can totally understand the confusion. It’s a normal human need people have. Some people have a physical aversion to it. Some people have a medical reason or mental health reason (sociopathy and a general lack of emotion) In my case I have a chemical imbalance in my brain that disrupts sexual desire and function. Unfortunately it’s not something that can be fixed. Im just stuck like this. I don’t feel like it’s a thing to be celebrated. It’s like having a special flag for like a missing limb or eye. Idk
@@angloprincess also, not every Ace is disgusted by sex. Some just don't feel the want fir it, but will participate for a person they love greatly, or with the end goal of children, even if they don't get enjoyment from it. Which some people would see as wrong, but to each their own I guess.
And fir more elaboration on the no romantic attraction thing, I tend to go straight from "you're just my friend" to "you're like a sibling to me", and even if I did go on a date with someone I never met, it would just end with me either going "I don't like this person", "were acquaintances now I guess" or "They're really nice, I wanna be their friend." I never get "I wanna keep dating this person with the end goal of living together and getting married."
(fellow asexual here) i always thought that ace being a spectrum was between being disgusted by even the idea of sex to just casually not having feeling sexual attraction. it being a spectrum of attraction itself makes no sense 😭
It kind of makes me mad that the person who’s dressed in the goth clothes called it dressing like a clown!! That’s literally making fun of people who actually like to dress gothic or more punk rock emo/scene whatever you want to call it they all kind of fall under that catagory. I’m a huge metal head I don’t really dress as crazy as I did when I was younger cause I’m an adult and a mom I’ve grown up and started dressing like an adult to some extent I still have my colored hair😂😂 which also makes me mad story for another day😅😂. Honestly though that’s what people would call a poser back in the day she thinks that’s dressing like a clown when in reality that’s someone’s style. These people think they’re so nice but that’s actually pretty insulting 😂😂 they talk about appropriating well she just appropriating rock fashion and calling it dressing like a clown
Idk why they want to use sunny, sweet, sparkle their pronouns when they could just use them as…adjectives. Because that’s what these words are. Adjectives.
there'd be so much less people claiming certain identities if they weren't able to weaponize them, I truly believe there are people who identify with the term non-binary for example, but there are so many of them who just want to be oppressed, like can you live for yourself, not for others' pity?
what's the point in being like 'YOU MISGENDERED ME, I USE [insert pronouns here] PRONOUNS' like bro, you can mention your pronouns once and move on with your life if people purposefully misgender you
@eeeeee68ci ik this was a year ago but yeah, I'm a trans demiboy (I identify with the trans label but not fully as male if that makes sense) it's a nonbinary identity that means you are partially but not wholly (not sure if I spelled that right) male, I feel this way because I don't feel like a fully trans man but I feel gross identifying as female (I'm afab) I'm not trying to do attention like these folks are and due to my autism, I have a hard time identifying my feelings to where I know if I have gender dysphoria or not but given the info I provided I think I explained my case well enough, also, my hair dyed has nothing to do with my gender, I dyed it a metallic blue and it looks really cool and when it starts to fade it looks like it's silver due to it being a metallic blue, I mean, my mom likes to dye her hair temporarily blonde and sometimes with pink streaks so it's not really related to gender at all, it just looks cool
Proud of my ittle brother in law standing up to this. He's 16 and transitioning and going to an extremely liberal art school where this crap is EXPLODING. The other night he got into it with someone in their school in a group chat who was demanding respect for neopronouns and insiting that this gender dysphoria child on testosterone is a transphobe. My brother in law said that the neopronoun they wanted to be called didn't even read like a reL word, and given the kid is dyslexic as all hell, he said there was no way his mind would even let him read the pronoun properly and that it was messing with his head literally.. The response from the neopronoun brat? That my brother in law is an ableist who doesn't understand neopronouns have been used for over 200 years. These same kids at his school doing this are also destroying their family lives because the adults in these kids lives are obviously not playing along with the game
Have been watching Misha and Marcus on their seperate channels. So happy I got recommended a collab with these two, love them both!
When I was 6 yo, I wanted to be a girl, and to have long hair. I am so glad that puberty blockers and trans nonsense were not around back then.
I never checked Offensive Tranny’s channel, he seems intelligent too, I will take a look
She*
@@elaiws4834 there's really no need for that, if he wants to call him a "he" he can.
He literally looks like a guy
He's great. Eloquent and full of common sense.
The older I get, the less I want to stand out. Our brains aren't fully formed until 25, and many need a few more years to ripen up their brain wrinkles. Great vid
People: "Stop objectifying women/men"
Also people: "I wanna be reffered to as cake"
Here is the problem. Anyone who says they transitioned to opposite sex KNOWs they weren't really the other sex. If that were true. You would never need the word transition. In other words you admit you were a boy or girl but tried to become the opposite. Think about what the actual word transition means. Your only trying to become what you "feel"
I won't type out a long story here. But I do know what causes it all
Yes!!! This is the crossover I've always wanted!💕
You write from my heart. 🤩
I'm flattered❤
I just don't get why they're all so enthusiastic to expose every single minute of their unwellness all time and all ways, plus teaching this to kids. Maybe it's always carnival or halloween for those people.
11:22 as a Christian this makes me sick because the whole point of "being made the way you are" is supposed to have the effect of; you're born with a purpose (even if you don't know it yet), one of those purposes is not to be glorified since that seat has been filled, by God.
The fact that I’m colour blind and there are colour coded gender bracelets sent me ☠️🤣
they're clearly not inclusive enough, they exclude colourblind people with all those flags and bracelets, so inconsiderate and colourblindphobic
@@aleksandra4702 😂😅😂 should we start a march?
@@PBJ1989 sorry babe i'm not colourblind so i can't take your voice away by speaking up myself
@@aleksandra4702 I just need allies.. and their money and platforms.
@@aleksandra4702 right they should be cancelled
As a Southerner you are NOT gonna take that away from our culture 🙄
What OT said almost at the end is true. Metalheads could not give less of a shit of what you think or any agenda you might have. We all just care about METAL!!!!
If the community changes and everyone in it becomes enclosed in their ideas and start giving a shit about what you just exposed, at least I will still run by how metal is supposed to be🤘🤘🤘
I'm so glad you two got together! He is so awesome,and you are just amazing, perfect match up to dissect the craziness
Just recently found both of your channels so this is awesome !! 😻 I feel very good about my decision not to get tiktok but I salute your courage for going through this for us :)
Misha you should collab with Brett Cooper
definitely!
That would be awesome, even if it's them doing an online meeting. That would be enough for me.
Also, Blaire and Arielle
I got a vibe of Odin's Men needs to be brought in for the Collab with these two after this video 😂
And Blaire White
At this point it’s all about “look at me!!!!!”
It's kinda nice to be old at this point. No one expects me to be up on all the latest woke BS
Yes goth used to be based. Same with coloring your hair!
I loved seeing the collab videos! Hope more are coming! Maybe one with Arielle too!
Trying to find a goth conservative Christian girl is tough lol
Goth is closely related to punk, and alternative subcultures are all about expressing yourself and rejecting social norms lmao. How would being a conservative align with the fundamental culture of change and self expression?
Its actually annoying. Like I'm a teenager who has a kind of emo way of dress and I listen to that genre of music, but I have never referred to myself with bunches of confusing upon confusing labels. I'm a bisexual female, simple as that, thinks there are two genders, and I don't talk about it or boast about it because there's no benefit in saying it. On that note I do have a friend who puts bunches of labels. Non-binary, asexual, and lesbian. Which actually I don't think is true since she has said she swings both ways and I'm like so you're not a lesbian- but anyways people need to stop confusing themselves with all these labels. And him saying usually alternative peeps aren't woke I fit right into that category!
We need more trans men like Marcus who actually knows they’re biologically a woman and is just dressing up as a man. These people do deserve to be respected.
Fact:everything they said is beyond stupidity
Im childish too but I don't act like any of these people
Hey, i want to share my story, maybe it will help somebody, maybe not, i also want to kinda get it off my chest. (sorry for my english, its not my first language)
I experienced the pressure from others, they were calling me cis and uncool, calling me names etc. I wanted to be supported, not hated. This sounds so wrong when i think about this, but i was a kid, i didnt know what it means. It started when i cut my hair short, i wasnt happy, it didnt make me happy, it hurt me inside, like on the chest, deeply, i knew that it isnt me, im trying to be someone else, i knew that, but i was scared to admit it to myself, because i would loose the support from the community. Then i started to hide myself (i didnt like my body back then, this just made me even more insecure) I started to hide my chest etc. I wont go into details, cause i feel so embaressed to even think about it, this will haunt me for the rest of my life. Another reason that maybe little helped, i was groomed when i was 11, so that made me hate myself even more. So, back to the story, i had short hair, felt deeply ugly and uncomfortable with my face and hair, it just didnt suit me, i didnt feel good. My mom saw it and was trying to get me out of the "community" because i needed that. (my best friend went through this with me, so she supported me in this. But please dont judge her, im not mad at myself or her, we were kids) The feeling of insecurity, it was eating me inside, like really. Then i asked my best friend if she can use a diffrent name for me. And oh man, that was another level of uncomfortable. I was crying every night, because the pressure was just too much, i coudnt hold any longer, i knew it was wrong, i realized im not trans, i knew all of this, but i was so scared to say something. Then, i think it ate my whole patience and i just coudnt hold any longer, im letting my hair grow, i wear tops and dresses, everything like makeup etc. I love it. I miss my hair, they were healthy and i ruined them, i cut them off, it still makes me sad, when i look at my old pictures with long hair, i just tear up, it eats me inside, the blame and everything, im sad that i didnt say no, im sad that because of my fear, i ruined myself. But compared to other, who took medications, i understand how it hurts. I lost hair, but i can grow them and i can move on, they cant. This happened almost 2 years ago, i was 12-13 and right now in some months ill be 15. My hair are way longer, they are like to my shoulders with shorter in the front, honestly, i feel happy. I feel great in my skin and its getting better, i have hobbies and i will go to secondary school soon! (here we have 9 years of elementary school and then you go to the secondary school for 4 years)Also maybe another reason that helped me, im not from the us, where i think its way worse. Im greatful i have people like my mom, who gave me the truth i needed. And please to anyone, dont let the fear win over you, say no and set your boundaries, wish everyone the best!:)
Don't ever let those punks try to push you into that "trans" agenda. It will make you a lifelong patient, and I have seen the horrors of those surgeries. Talk to your Mom, tell the bullies to get lost. Your hair will grow, In fact. take Vit E it's great for Hair, skin and nails. Take care and stay strong. You will be OK.
@@NoNO-tl8fg Thank you, i appreciate this really! I have seen the horror too and im so greatful my mom said no, i cant imagine what could have happened to me. Im still learning to stand up for myself, but its way better. Again, thank you and you stay strong too!
thank you guys so much for what you're doing! wish i had the guts to speak the truth more like this. Keep up the good work, love ya~
The Neopronoun movement is giving “I wanna wear prescription glasses even though I have 20/20 vision” vibes. They just wanna be part of the cool LGBT club just like we all wanted to someone who wears glasses.
11:00 I’m a retired emo/death metal kid (now 35, still love emo/death metal) and I am definitely a right wing libertarian and so are a lot of my friends I grew up with, so you are correct Marcus!
0:14 maybe the real problem is the Media and PR departments of companies looking at what teenagers think. Just ignore them.
As a former teenager, I agree.
That one Tik Toker near the end talking about "gender euphoria" or whatever looks like the goth girl from South Park LOL
I can't believe you 2 collaborated 😍😍
Oh my goodness, ANY teacher who acts like the one around 8:37 * needs to just STOP.
Your introduction to your class shouldn't be focused on trying to explain your gender and ridiculous name to them. You should just tell the class your name, introduce the subject that you're teaching along with your expectations for the class, and then maybe get to know the students.
It's absolutely bizarre to me that these teachers spend SO much time trying to figure out how they're going to introduce their entire life story and feelings to their classes. Who cares 🤦♀️
We going through all this nonsense then BRING back DUDE.. I want to live my teen years over and call EVERYONE DUDE.
Hey... don't bring stuffies and owls into this nonsense!!! My cockatoo's room is FULL of anything bird, stuffies, toys, owls, parrots... SHE is not a crazy LOONE she's a COCKATOO
Marcus is great. Love his videos, his no nonsense approach to all the woke nonsense. Been a subscriber of his for a long time now.
Its hard to believe these people are in their 20's they have the emotional level of a 6-year-old.
When I was 10 I wanted people to call me Panda and my friend was Koala and we would correct people if they would say our 'name' wrong. This was in 1990. Nowadays I would have said I identified as a Panda.
This lasted about a year.
the heavy metal comment is so real. WE DONT WE REALLY DONT CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK LMAOOOOO
Attention to one important thing ... follow-up studies, in fact, show that treatments with puberty blocking drugs are reversible, allow you to gain time to reflect consciously on the choice to change sex and are able to significantly reduce depression
Oh, cool! I wasn't expecting you two to collab! Awesome! :D
Nice, I really like both of ur guys’ content
These people are sooo misinformed and you can see even they are unsure of some of the points they are making but continue to spread harmful misinformation regardless…
These people confuse gender stereotypes with gender itself and sex. It’s horrible
The way these wannabe teachers imagine themselves teaching about gender instead of how to spell...
i love this collab !!
What we are living to date would have been an awesome movie on the 90s.
Maybe a couple weeks ago I was on Tumblr and there was a post about how someone was annoyed people wouldn’t call them “It/it’s” and how it was disrespectful or whatever. Me and a couple others said how it is pretty offensive to call someone an “it” because it makes them sound not human. Then someone replied to my comment saying that was the point, how these people don’t feel human. How I may not understand it, but it’s not their fault! 😂 I didn’t bother responding, but I said to myself “actually it is your fault, because you’re literally the ones trying to force people to call you “it.” Without that, things would be fine.” Ugh these people.
I swear Marcus is like one of the realest people on RUclips! Love you both!
Brooo that second person is a danganronpa cosplayer, that speaks for itself😂😂
You guys are my favorite youtubers atm! Thank you for being so real and talking about how this is all bs because noone else is ❤
All I could think of when "boyflux" appeared was the Manaflux item from Hypixel Skyblock
Wow you've grown so fast and well deserved!
Has anyone noticed that with these people it’s always only "me, me, me!"
All they’re ever talking about is themselves and their weird new identity-definitons and it's exhausting😂
oh hey, two youtubers I recently discovered and was amazed that they both had 100k views because I never heard of them. If patience xina joined in, I'd probably hammer my phone thinking I was spied on
im straight but marcus is so damn attractive
THATS WHAT IM SAYIN ‼️ I’m a straight female who really only feels attraction to biological males however Marcus got me giggling and kicking my feet a bit
I am very offended by the fact that Apple has not even took into consideration my gender identity and my pronouns that I would like to addressed as and especially a voice on the Siri platform. I am calling for a boycott of all Apple products until they have agreed to address this problem and quit holding up progress in society which we , they ,us ,it ,zen ,x etc. etc.and all that wishes to be.
are u being serious and its satire?
@@abirmakesdumbvideos One thing is for certain and that is you can never take me cereal 🤣😂🤣😂
10:04 is that the female version of Edward scissor hands?
im at the point where i just ignore these woke people. As a lesbian ofc i‘m happy to get represented and supported but at this point it‘s just annoying cause everyone feels so forced. But also the fact that most of these people act as if i can‘t be a woman as a lesbian?? like i don‘t understand it anymore???
How weird I just randomly discover The Offensive Tranny yesterday through Dany Mulveyny and Ulta controversy and here you're collaborating with him..
Medical professionals are not giving puberty blockers to children who have not reached puberty!????
What are they blocking after puberty!!!!???? It's literally in the name 🤣🤣🤣
Well, it's only monday and this over-flowed my cringe cup for the rest of the week..
If a teacher can't even spell 'Kindergarten' correctly . . .
It's truly depressing to see what this society has become. I miss the times when everything was normal 😔 I still have some hope though
Marcus is from Denmark?! I had no idea. So his 1st language isn’t english? Would’ve never guessed he is a nordic as well
Thanks Misha! Excellent video!