I'm autistic too and I agree. I keep seeing other autistic people using that to justify their behavior and it really doesn't help the stigma that we already have to deal with.
The public understanding of people with autism is dropping like a stone as a bunch of narcissists who probably aren't even remotely autistic use it as another baseball card to add to their collection with trans, tourettes and DID
I am also autistic and this has gone well past a joke. I am not sure if the people who are coming up with all these mindless genders are serious or if they are mocking transgender people (because it really feels like it at this point). If someone asks for my pronouns I plan to tell them that they are "High Emperor" and "High Imperial Majesty" (people who don't actually care will have already shortened this to He/Him but those who do care need to use the full pronoun or they are disrespecting me)
I’m autistic too and it hurts me to see that these, for lack of a better word, loons, have taken autism and turned it into an aesthetic. It’s so stupid.
@@MickeyMousevD If nobody sees you commit crime, it doesn't affect you. But if you believe in God and that He can see you, you will hopefully always do the right thing. Morals only mean anything if you believe in God. If you take yourself as God or believe there is no God, you can effectively do what you like. I don't know what Nietzsche was saying exactly in the quote as I believe he was an atheist, but what I have said stands. Morals are connected to God: if you are an atheist, then you should not see the world in terms of right or wrong because an apple when cut is just a rearrangement of atoms to you.
I’m autistic and don’t have a tiktok. This neopronoun = nurodivergent people stuff is so painful for me. I finally get diagnosed after years of suspecting I had autism and being bullied in school for being weird. I finally am coming to terms with not being embarrassed about being autistic and after seeing these videos I’m embarrassed I have autism again and hate myself even more then normal.
I’ll bet you have much to give to the world. I was a very weird kid and now I’m a weird old lady. I learned how to celebrate my weirdness and seek out weird friends. We have a blast! You can too. As to mean people, you can choose to not care as much. We will always have them among us. You may find stoicism a helpful philosophy for detaching from negativity.
I’m autistic as well and agree so much with you. I’m tired of how people associate autism with this stuff it has nothing to do with it. It gives us who actually have autism a very bad look and makes us look like these fakers
That's just it though. Their whole ideology is them on a pedestal. And everyone else isn't as progressive and awake as they are. We're all closed minded. Even me a lesbian who won't date a trans man is hurting them with my sexual orientation. They are superior because of their acceptance of the others. And even more they are an other because they see the world in a way that is simple minded prejudice people can't. And we are all hurting them. They are extremely oppressed. And it's ever "cis" persons fault that's not an ally or an other. God idk if their parents never told them they were pretty and good job or if they said it was too much.
I suffer from bipolar disorder and that's literally what i would think in a manic episode. I guess nowadays it's becoming more accepting to the point that you don't even need to be manic to think you're god.
I’ve been ATTACKED on Twitter by SOOO MANY people istg because I said Neo/Xeno Pronouns don’t have anything to do with being Trans and don’t make sense. When I tell you…SOOOO MANY people told me I’m Transphobic and should off myself it’s so embarrassing 💀 also people saying I’m “autistic phobic” like what😭 My little brother is Autistic and like it affects him so much I’m so tired of people self diagnosing themselves and using Autism as an excuse because my little Brother doesn’t even understand Xeno or Neo Pronouns And one more thing, I don’t think Anime or Cartoons are the problem (especially Anime because they don’t rlly show much Queer stuff I mean I mostly watch Shonen) but rather the Fandoms where most people just kinda don’t have a life. Honestly guy’s just find like an actual hobby like sports.
When someone calls me "transphobic", I literally don't care at all. Stop giving them power over you. Wear their insults as badges of pride, proving your ability to discern truth even when it is unpopular.
Right when I saw "Originally coined by the tumblr user Baphomet" I couldn't stop fucking laughing, that shit is hilarious. Leave it to a tumblr user to make you feel oppressed for identifying as a fried chicken leg! Lmao
I used to shitpost about telling everyone I sexually identified as a stop sign. These people have surpassed me, I can no longer joke about this out of fear they might take it seriously.
As a person who uses xenos I can’t expect ppl to use them their not used to it and may have forgotten I don’t care if they use them or not I’m just happy their aware and fine :)
I remember when in 2006 they opened "Gender studies" at my faculty. It was presented as a subtype of psychology focused on interaction between man and woman. Sounded kinda cool, many people applied. 15 years later... "My gender is connected to diety", "Catself",... o_0
I always wondered what it came from and how it actually began. I figured it was a bastardised version of its origin, but the idea to start could've been legit interesting and maybe even good for people. We can't have nice things can we.
@@SombreroPharoah It's furthest origins comes from Gender Ideology in the 1950's, created by a man called Dr John Money, but i've gotta warn, it's dark. The origin of all these ideologies is Critical Theory, a marxist ideology.
@@SombreroPharoah I remember quite well. In the beginning GS produced legit, non-scientific degree psychologists (there was only bachelor level in GS, if you wanted master degree, you need to continue in either psychology or sociology) who could have license to do a specific eg. marriage/ pair therapies. In 2011, GS got upgraded to a master degree subject guaranteed by a prof. of department of psychology, and a weird, short headed girlboys started to appear as teachers. In my country, there is still no PhD. program in any university (thanks god), BUT in around 2012+ a lots of PhD. teachers migrated here from the west, especially Brittain (since they started with this earlier and therfore were "ahead"), and they had 2 qualities: 1) Unlike masters, PhDs could lead research and ask for research grants - money started flowing into GS 2) They were batshit fucking insane bunch of radical feminists This inevitably lead to 2015+, today´s Gender studies and gender in general. There is your evolution of gender studies in short :)
I’ve seen people try to apply these labels to fictional characters too, and I’ve seen “bigenderadd”, “bigenderchange”, “bigenderboth”, “bidemigenderscale”, “memegender”, “fictigender”, “stoned as a gender (or something like that)”, “zodiacgender”, “demix (demixenogender)”, “fictigender (and gamegender)”, “lesbiangender”, and some other stuff.
Through all these videos,I have finally found a perfect set of pronouns for myself: mentally/stable and non/delusional I think that they fit perfectly with the way I express my gender 💀
I’m a transwoman, funny to me that the main goal of being trans is to, NOT be asked my pronouns, and to live normally in society while being honest about my biology. Yet here we are, trivializing everything trans people worked for. Delegitimizing a SERIOUS medical condition (gender dysphoria). 😔
Nevermind just trivialising your incredibly difficult experience, they’re also discrediting LGBT and autistic people at the same time. I feel like it’s honestly at a point where I meet someone and, if I tell them I’m gay, I have to reassure them that I, and most other actual LGBT people, do not agree with the crazies on TikTok and just want as much of a normal life as we can get. It worries me to think of where we might end up, but I just have to hope that enough people will realise the difference between people like you and I, and these people who in the past would’ve just been the weird emo kids, but now have decided to latch onto a community they often don’t belong to and inadvertently start to ruin its reputation.
@@iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii7738 Omg yes, exactly. I’m always like “I’m trans, but I’m not easily offended, I’m normal I promise” Like we have to rationalize being normal bc of these “activists”
Ikr , whats worse is that many people in the trans community are afraid to speak and receive backlash , the same thing happened with the black movement and the feminist one .
as a bi girl who hasnt told anyone im bi, i agree so much it feels like the community is an actual clownfest because of the minority that is speaking out for no reason i do hope this does stop so nobody has to be scared of coming out and being labelled a clown bc of the bad side of the community
Whenever people use the excuse of: "They use Xeno pronouns because they're Autistic!" Makes me really annoyed. I have Autism myself and the fact that people use this ideology makes me upset because it feels incredibly downgrading/childish. Like I'm almost about to turn 20 pretty soon, and even I know that I don't identify as a dog...or an ice cream, or a void. If someone wanted me to "refer to their neo pronouns" there's no way I'm doing that because I'm not stupid, I'm literally going to call you what I'm going to call you, if you're a Man you're a Man, if you're a Woman you're a Woman. You're a human being, not a bug or a wolf or a toilet. These people NEED to grow up 😑
These guys are making others take autistic people less and less seriously. I'm glad you've got it together and keep fighting against this pronoun craze 👏🏻👏🏻
I am an adult who has been medically diagnosed as autistic and I can say that I hate the term neodivergent. I always thought that the term was just as stupid as neopronouns and xenopronouns. I do have a theory on why gender "diversity" appears more common in the autistic community. I believe, based on my own personal experience, that autistic people, especially young autistic people are social sponges. What I mean is that for most autistic people, trying to navigate social situations and trying to figure out how to act can be a real challenge. So where do autistic people get their information to learn how to act in social situations, by imitating what we see around us. The one thing that generation z has that millennials didn't have growing up was social media. Autistic people from the Gen z age group see how people with neo/xeno pronouns on social media "appear" to be happy and have their life together and believe that if they imitate that, then they will be "successful" at navigating social situations. I could go into much longer details about this, but I am afraid that I might have made this RUclips comment too long as it is and no one wants to read a comment that is the length of a novel, lol. I will just end this by saying that I thank God every day that I was born in 1987.
I HATE IT TO. I am diagnosed with autism, adhd, ocd, and a few other things. And I can't stand it. It's so infantilizing. I hate it. I hate it so much. Especially becuase I'm also transsexual and bisexual. I can't take it anymore 😪
I was diagnosed with Asperger’s, and I can relate to the social sponge thing. I’m very influenced by other people and can easily get swept up in things. Recently I’ve relearned how to step back and really question the things in front of me. I also hate the “neurodivergent community”, because there seems to be a lot of hate towards people who aren’t “neurodivergent”. All my life I’ve been trying to come across as normal. Being this way has caused me a lot of trouble, mentally and emotionally. It’s exhausting. Honestly, I don’t know why it’s celebrated. We definitely shouldn’t shame autistic people, or people with other disorders, but I don’t agree with making it seem like something better than what’s “normal”.
Another thing is that young Autistic people may be more easily caught in this because they feel different from others, and that makes them more susceptible to being manipulated into thinking the reason they feel different is because of their gender or whatever.
Very interesting take. I am an adult (27 F) diagnosed with Asperger's and I too have noticed this pattern with autistic/trans kids, especially girls. I think this issue also has to do with the fact that autistic people, especially girls, often do not relate to traditional gender stuff, so they can easily be tricked into thinking they're trans. I was a bit of a tomboy myself growing up so if I was born into today's generation, I'd probably identify as non-binary or something (even though today I am very feminine and happy the way I am). I also think there might be something up with our crappily autistic "theory of mind" and how we relate to ourselves and other people, but I'd need to do more research on that subject to give a clear explanation of my intuition.
@@ascendednightingale2456 that's how these activists, or the ideologgy creators wanted it to work. They take a group of people, deliberately make them an oppressed class and give them oppressors. Then they lie and subvert (intentionally change the truth) with political ideology and awful tactics, so that "community" are an activist group instead of just a bunch of people. These political groups do it with groups they want to take over basically, whether it's a video game fandom. anime, LGBT or mental health. The tactics are basically: 1: Infiltrate a group and decide that group's m,ain thing is an identity, and a victim. 2: bully the group into submission and declare themselves "the community" of that thing. 3: Anyone who dissents is a outgroup, racist, bigot etc. and they get treated with cancel culture mobs. 4: They spread the ideology in the group using Social media. 5: They claim to be "the community" and use that "community" to attack others as political activists, brainwash people and target young ones. 6: turn the community into a online social media or real life mob, or become a part of the whole thing, usually called 'woke' these days. These groups who are like this are marxists, or rather, to simplify it, they're socialists who have backing of corporations and governments. The ideology these particular communists believe in is based completely around making something an identity they can control,. you're gay? that's an identity to use, you're autistic, that's another one, and with autism, they brainwash young autistic kids into believing gender ideology. I started researching after they started deciding I had to be their idea of a disabled person, and they did not like I was against their ideology.
As a non native speaker I sometimes struggle with he/she/her/his/him, these people can’t be taken seriously at all, they have to stop their insanity and do something productive
I'm a old time Gen X'er and I can tell you that it's not your generation because every generation has it's crazies. The only difference now is thanks to everyone having internet access those crazies have a platform to be openly crazy and surrounded themselves with like minded people.
I can explain the weeb stuff as a weeb. Unfortunately, these freaks have latched into our community and well, we can’t get rid of them. We’re trying, but it’s not easy when one side is trying to stop us from gatekeeping. It also gives them a deluded sense of aesthetic, as they can pretend to be a cute kawaii waifu rather than the disgusting weirdos they are. I dislike this infestation of my interests.
Definitely. Also has anyone seen the amount of insane people in the MHA fandom? It’s my favorite anime but I’m embarrassed when I say I like it just because of the fandom
I am genuinely confused as to how we got here as a society. Why do people feel like they need to identify themselves with non-existent characters? Is it insecurity? Trauma? Narcissism? Maybe it’s a bit of everything.
As I m thinking about what u said about that they identify themselves with non-existen charachters. Like fairys or gods or whatever. At first glance it seems that they got a similarity with us, fantasy fans, who love to be so encompassed by some fictional heroes (from books, movies or games) that we like to pretend that such heroes exist, for the sake of cosplay or for the sake of writing of fanfics or for the sake of debate about our fav heroes. We love to be very "in love" with particular charachters, we fans of them. Any kind of charachters - good or bad or anything between. But to think about this there is great difference between us and such people - they think that they are these fictional charachters while we tend to love to be in awe of those charachters :) We like to see those heroes as better than us to be able to have something like "role models" while they like to be seen as gods :)
@@yuhitsawree seems like we fantasy fandoms can not be deemed as the most delusional bunch around :D we are pretending to believe in our heroes to debate about them as if their stories were real history, but they do not pretend to believe, they realy believe in being invented charachters :)
I’m getting really tired of this narcissistic obsession with being the most “rare”, “dynamic”, “sophisticated”, “original”, “perfect” Mary Sue you can possibly be while pretending to have the most painful and draining mental illnesses and spectrums to achieve being the most “quirky”.
“Gender can be whatever the f*ck you want because we literally constructed it.” Race, time, money, countries.. Other examples of social constructs... I can't, however, go to my local supermarket, pick some things up, go to the checkout, hand them buttons and say “money is a social construct” 👀😂 Well, I could, but they'd then expect some actual money, or my card, to pay for the goods.
As someone who would by definition be neurodivergent, (ADHD) I think it’s absolutely ridiculous and so cringe that people use this diagnosis to justify their insanity. ADHD greatly affects my day to day life, but I do not use it as a crutch for excuses. I work with it, and deal with it.
Same, I have to deal with it in school and I have to make myself care about half the classes I take cause tbh I will fail every class if I don’t force myself to concentrate cause I couldn’t care less about art or other classes.
As someone who's autistic I don't claim them at all. You know what? The fact that they say "erm, you need to be autistic to understand us." Like buzz off, and screw your xenogenders and neopronouns, you just act like you don't need therapy when you do, and a lot of it due to your mental regression into a childish state
That’s the thing. Every neurodivergent person I’ve met doesn’t use it as an excuse, they want to be able to do whatever without being held back, so they just find a system that helps them, or work around it.
It's weird when these people also fight for feminism/equality, and say we should get rid of traditional gender roles, but then say that if you're not a "stereotypical" man or woman then you somehow trans.
"I'm special, ok? I'm just so unique! Can't you see? Please tell me you realize how special I am! Please!!! I'm the most special person on earth, right? R-Right??? WILL ANYONE ACKNOWLEDGE JUST HOW FRICKING SPECIAL AND UNIQUE I AM?????" - These people
Exactly. “I’m so much more important than everyone else. Everyone else is called he/she but I am they. I’m not a man/woman person I’m a non binary other species. I want to have special labels and special treatment for myself because I’m more unique than everyone else. I want to have special titles for my personality.”
I’m religious and I have very strange religious beliefs but I would definitely not do this crap, and I’m also autistic and I don’t think neo pronouns should be part of someone’s personality and live how you wanna live. Just don’t force other people into it. That’s my advice and I agree with you a lot❤
Misha uploading a video on my birthday talking about cringey Tumblrinas and their narcissistic fantasies?! What a treat! So happy I found your channel over a year ago! You were one of the first people I discovered who shared the exact same feelings as me. Never buckle to these people! It's a joy seeing others fight them back when so many are still afraid to speak up.
Just found your channel and I love your videos. I’m diagnosed autistic and I find all this so upsetting and stressful. It’s hard enough trying to fit into society without being constantly told you’re upsetting everyone around you because you don’t understand the pronoun bullshit. And then they claim to be autistic or have mental health issues on a whim is really damaging for people who are actually struggling. Since when is having a disability or mental health issue fun and #hashtag ✨Aesthetic✨ ffs… I think the mental health issue they’re probably are suffering with is NPD. I completely understand if people are trans/non binary etc and want to be called he/she/they etc no problem at all. But it’s just going too far and I feel like your own gender identity is your business not everyone else’s and not all over social media. I don’t ram down everyone’s throat my gender and sexual preferences etc at every turn, people just don’t need to know unless I’m in a relationship with them or friendship maybe. It’s got to a point where some kids in a school near me wouldn’t use the school toilets anymore and demanded that they get to use litter boxes instead because they identified as animals. The world just feels like it’s going insane and it’s really worrying. Thank you for your videos because they feel like a light in a dark tunnel atm. You actually talk sense ❤
I've heard one other teenager I've spoken with in person mention the litter boxes... so are they put in a cubicle for them? These people still wipe right? So surely the use a toilet to get rid of the toilet paper? Are janitors expected to scoop human feces now?! This is insane. 😅
I am on the spectrum and had a phase where I thought I was trans at about 13 when I hit puberty. I was very uncomfortable with my body during this time (as most preteens are) and I was also on tik tok a lot (musically at the time) the amount of trans stuff I saw and the friends I had in my circle had me believing that I was trans because I was uncomfortable with my body. I became kind of hyper fixated on becoming the opposite gender but it only added to the discomfort. I’m so happy that my parents put me into therapy instead of just affirming me and allow me to possibly be medicalized. I grew out of it!! I’m now almost 19 and so thankful that I feel comfortable as my biological sex. I do believe that some people are actually trans, but not as many as we’re seeing now. My hypothesis for the correlation between autism and trans identities could be the heightened discomfort that kids on the spectrum feel during puberty, as well with how impressionable those with autism can be. Then they become hyper fixated on being trans. Just a theory!
I really enjoy learning about this because it is something that affected me and still affects people I know! I would like to understand the psychology and science behind both people who are trans and those that are not actually trans but believe that they are (as a psych major this really interests me) I mean no hate to anyone! I just hope we can have more nuanced conversations and better research for this sort of thing in the near future!
I believe this theory to be exactly why far left ideologues and 'trans charities' specifically target adolescent and early teenage autistic kids, it's sinister. A autistic kid is easier to indoctrinate because they will not have the faculties to question it as much as others, unless parents have taught them well.
I think this is really important to note! I’m autistic and also had a trans phase, the friend circle I had influenced it greatly. Especially the art group we were in, which openly bashed people who were straight and had no special pronouns. I defo think it needs to be talked about more, and instead of blindly affirming these kids, we need to give them therapy and a long talk. Puberty is a difficult thing, and the autism only makes it harder. I’m so glad my mother got me help and always checked on how I was feeling, making sure to fight back when my psychiatrist tried to send a letter to a gender clinic (one that ended up being shut down!) for me. I’m glad you’re out of that mindset. Thank you for sharing your words here. ❤️
@@LilCrazette Thank you so much for sharing your story! That’s super scary to think about how you were so close to being potentially medicalized. I’m glad you had your mom to advocate for you! Thank you so much for the kind words, I’m glad you’re doing better now :)
My heart goes out to these young people!! How much trauma dose one have to go through to be this unhinged ?? Smh.. Thank you for calling this stuff out.
No trauma at all. They are not doing it because of trauma. They are doing it because it is trendy and they are moronic sheep who do it for positive attention on social media.
It’s not just trauma. It’s internet culture. Tumblr, Twitter, and DeviantArt specifically. If you look at the LGBTQ+ wiki of xenopronouns, you’ll notice that probably 85% of them come from Tumblr users. Kids imitate things they see in pop culture and in the behaviors of adults so they’re just doing what their brains are programmed to do and adults who never grew up and need outside validation for their narcissism are taking advantage of that. It’s become a cult mindset too. Look at how trans people are being deified in the popular culture. It’s actually terrifying. I have sane trans friends and even they’re creeped out and disgusted by the behavior happening right now.
@@sassyghost_8 Tumblr and Deviantart are the two majory origin points of how this ideology too over, yeah. It was a deliberate push for political reasons, enhanced by Social media, which are designed to push things and censor others. A lot of this came from Furries as well. It goes all the way back to the 1950's though.
@@sassyghost_8 Did you know that wiki has their own Discord server? I joined it as a joke and it was worse than you think. It was like a cult and all the people with odd behaviors you see in Misha's behaviors are in it. The owner and moderators are some of the nastiest, narcissistic people I've ever met. I got banned and labeled as a bigot for saying I'd rather be judged by my character than by my labels and don't think they make me bad or special. I just want to blend in like everyone else and keep them to myself. Imagine thinking wanting to fit in with society and only be punished or rewarded for things that matter like graduating college or committing murder is offensive! 🤣
On applications for my company i have an optional text box for pronouns and if anyone fills it out im unlikely to hire them unless they use normal pronouns i might call them in for an interview. Im not having someone sue my company and piss off all my employees and try to sue them. These people constantly destroy businesses.
Girl shows up for interview in a cat costume... few days later " I wonder why he never called back?" As funny as that sounds, sadly I can see it happening.
What really pisses me off is because I have mood swings, I'm clinically diagnosed as bipolar. NO I just have good and bad days like everyone else. When you are imagining being something else, someone else; you have real issues. These are the people that need help and if we don't "affirm" them were phobes. Stop. Just stop. Because people with REAL mental disorders will be misdiagnosed by these new aged woke Dr's. This is sick sad and pathetic.
Hey, I'm also bipolar and yeah these people are out of their minds...they make it seem like they have all these problems (the only problems is not getting called what they want to be) and then comes people with REAL issues, like depression, bipolar, MPD and so on
As an autistic woman, let me tell you right now the reason that they think that autistics are more likely to be within these spaces is because they’re much more likely to be groomed into this way of thinking. we are ostracized from society in ways that most people don’t even realize. Many autistics are socially, isolated, and the peer pressure of being the only one not identifying as some kind of non-binary is too much. Most of my friends who were regular? People have turned into this, and I’ve stepped away from them as a result. And most of them aren’t even autistic. They are just being convinced that they are because they’re socially awkward and have been online most of their adult social lives.
My cousin fakes DID, he’s also trans and goes by Neo/Xenopronouns. His parents are too fucking supportive of his behavior. He said to me one in a happy voice “I’m getting an autism diagnosis soon!”. I’m afraid for his well being. You wanna know how I found out he faked DID? I found him on a faking disorders tiktok compilation. He’s an attention seeker. I’m worried about him. His older brother is also trans and has a husband (or fiancé can’t remember), and while I love both of them, I’m very afraid for them. Their older sister is an actor too(not telling you who, you’re gonna have to believe me). I think it could all be attention seeking. The older sisters an actor, which gets her lots of attention. Then middle brother is trans, which gets even more attention. And then little brother is also trans and “has DID”. I covered for him once in front of my grandma who I have no idea what her view on trans people are, I think she tolerates it but I’m not sure. I called him Art, which is his chosen name and my grandma said “Art?” And my quick thinking ass said “It’s a nickname.”. I had 3 nosebleeds that day, and he proceeded to have a breakdown while I was busy bleeding. I knew it wasn’t a real breakdown because, it’s hard to explain, but I know what breakdowns look like. I nearly had to go to the ER but in the end, he had to make it all about him. Little tidbit: they aren’t actually my cousins exactly, they are my dads cousins kids, but I grew up with them so I consider them cousins.
DID is a very serious thing and tbh, seeing people fake that is the most attention seeking i've ever seen in my life. My old stepdad had a personality disorder, (BPD), and I know what that looks like. Faking DID or other personality disorders is absolutely disgusting and i'm so sorry you had to go through that. Personally, I wouldn't give them any attention on that.
I'm afraid they are still cousins. "Second cousins", though, so at least they're not first cousins. I think that means that in some places you could marry one of them if you had concussion.
i was dragged into the whole gender thing due to my mental illnesses. i thought it would solve my problems. years later, i’m now a woman with no breasts, thick body hair, a jacked up hairline, and a deeper voice. this ideology is preying on the weak. that said, i do believe in genuine gender dysphoria and actual trans individuals. but what’s happening nowadays is medical malpractice and indoctrination. therapy was never once required of me to get hormones or surgery.
People these days want to do nothing but feel special. Like not caring about their body but demanding for everybody to say you’re the most beautiful person. Not studying but demanding actual scientists to shut up because their studies are different from their ideologies. Not doing anything useful that make you stand out, but calling yourself not already even a different gender, but some weird combination of animal+nature+human - and the crazier your identity is the more special you are
Like it’s acceptable when my 4 year old niece starts to act like a kitten when she broke smth at home. I was also meowing sometimes when I was 4-5 to get attention. And now I see it’s actually annoying a bit, even with a 4 year old. Can’t imagine talking to a person like this at 20 years old and for this person to demand me to accept this. Well, unless I’m a dog self and in this case my irritation is just cause my gender of a dog pulls me to hate you. Lol
Every single day I work with people that are actually autistic and none of them came to me saying they want to be identified as a bunny or whatever, I think if I mentioned this to them they'd look at me like I went nuts. What an absolute mockery
Term for such things already exists and it's called PERSONALITY. I really want to know who's the person or group of people who popularized that gender is not based on what's between one's leg but based on how you feel or present yourself. Dude personality and gender are two different things
Ikr! 😭 I was born in the early 80’s, I collect dolls, love to craft & wear crazy pastel clothes. I’m also bi but I hate these “people” sm 😭 they give us all a bad name 😬🔫💀💀💀 the young generation is so confused & being corrupted by the mentally ill, it’s actually frightening & the cringiest thing that’s ever happened on planet earth 😒 how can we save our youth?? 😥😢😣
@@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts Y'know, a while back people would have thought you were weird. Now that *you, specifically* are not being discriminated against, it's fine?
@@sarahhuntington5530 I am weird tho, people have always thought so & they have that right. I’m not gonna freak out & force them to call me a princess & say I identify as one 🤣
@@sarahhuntington5530 I don’t find it weird, I like weird. I find it disgusting & disturbing that grown men with beards are using women’s washrooms taking pictures of minors in the washrooms & corrupting young impressionable minds to think they are trans at one of the most vulnerable stages in life
I identified as a toaster as a joke before I knew about all this stuff. Lots of people use to do this. I don't know how these people are taken seriously when it is a joke they made a reality.
@@Twinklethefox9022 I saw that movie when I was dosed up on painkillers for a bad back. I'm still not sure how much was in the movie and how much was in my chemically blissed out brain.
Yeah I have ADHD, I also dye my hair silly colours, and am a part of the LGBTQ community as I am bisexual, but this is insane. I hate to be associated with these people...
you dont have to be associated with them. if you dont like what the community has become then just dont associate with it anymore. these people will burn themselves out and one day realize how cringe they were. Its just another trend that will fade out once these people grow up and or get help. im bi but havent associated myself with the lgbt community since i was a teenager. its not that hard. just make friends with people because of who they are instead of worrying about associating with other gays. normal gay people are everywhere and i tend to find the only people who do associate with the community now are the crazy people who make it their entire identity, come up with these weird new pronouns, and have a massive victim and god complex at the same time and overall unpleasant people to be around in the first place. and overall i think most people living in the real world know there are just normal gay people who act like everyone else and that these people who give the community a bad name are all chronically online children and a few young adults.
In reference to the autism connection: I’m autistic, and I questioned my gender a lot in high school. I know I wouldn’t have if I didn’t have the internet. I probably would’ve just been depressed as I struggled to make friends. My confusion was due to the fact that I didn’t like any traditionally feminine things, never fit well with other women, and felt really distant from my body (and repulsed by my sex characteristics). I fixed my diet (started eating based on Weston Price's research) and within a year I no longer had any dysphoria, I felt feminine (still hated makeup and heels and whatnot, but my sex characteristics became more defined as my hormones regulated), and my mental illnesses went away such as depression, anxiety, and what I thought was BPD. My sensory problems also greatly reduced, and I now find it easier to understand social cues. There is a gut-brain connection to autism. A faulty gut can cause hormone imbalances, which can cause androgyny in either sex. That androgyny, paired with malnutrition (which causes mental problems), can lead to gender dysphoria. This may not be the case with everyone, but I know several other autistic people who started eating the Weston Price way and have had a significant reduction in symptoms.
Im diagnosed with autism and the neopronoun thing is so chronically online. When I was younger (back in 2020) I had unlimited access to the internet and saw everyone else using they/them and stuff like that so I gave myself labels like that to fit in. That's a common method of masking. I matured more and got off the internet like that and I can confidently say, neopronouns are chronically online
ik this is like a year old comment but by now people genuinely get upset at those jokes bruh, theyre not considered valid, making fun of pronouns is now just offensive to these losers even though theyre the entire circus themselves
Actually autistic person here (diagnosed) and want to say that it's common for us to feel uncomfortable in our bodies and even our own mind, may be due to masking autistic traits where we put up a front to cope in social life (masking is generally more common among females on the spectrum, but I am not saying males don't mask). I definitely see a correlation with autism and trans/non-binary especially when it's about myself. But I should add that I also struggle with body dysmorphia and bad anxiety (particularly social anxiety). Not to mention I also fell for things like manipulation easily. I do have to say that even though I identified as non-binary I never forced people to respect that, I didn't really care about being "misgendered" as I had things to do that was more important than focusing on gender haha. Another thing, I absolutely despise how young people on tiktok make autism out to be cute and quirky, when some days I wish I wasn't autistic. It's not fun, it can have its days when it's debilitating. I always wonder how I would be like if I wasn't autistic.
I'm in the process of getting the assessment because my parents didn't believe in psychologists, so I have to do it now as an adult. I'm hard core into 50s and 60s music. When I was a kid, throughout my teenage years, I wished I could time travel to the 50s and like live there because I thought I would be accepted. Thank God there was no Tiktok back then, or there's no telling what kind of weird rabbitholes I could have gone down. The good thing in my case is that there is no time travel, but now there is gender surgery, and there are unscrupulous doctors who will happily do this surgery on kids without bothering to find out whether the child actually has gender dysphoria or something else.
The using autism thing as a excuse is sooo annoying to me. I work with people with autism all over the spectrum and we do therapy and teach them things about life, we don't give in to everything our kiddos say. When my kid decided they can be outside in 100+ degrees with a jacket on, guess what? They have the choice of taking jacket off or going inside. People with autism can be held to standards as well. If anything is gross how society is treating them like they cant learn and adapt.
“VAMP/VAMPS literally go so hard” I think my “Vampire” wife would have an issue with people who aren’t vampires using “Vamp” as their “preferred pronoun” (Before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, my wife only considers herself a vampire as a joke because she’s actually from Transylvania).
I am so old I remember a time when most of these people would just be called what they are, mentally ill, and as a society we would try to treat and help them, not turn to them to help craft how a society should function with their deep "insights". Until we can once again call these people what they are, we can't help them and since as a society we (for some reason) have decided we can't call them what they truly are, we are trapped in a paradox loop of exponentially expanding insanity.
There are a great many sufferers of anxiety/depression disorders who never lose touch with reality. If anything, they experience reality more harshly than anyone else. One should be careful not to use the all-encompassing “mental illness” label too loosely.
The world has gotten so unbearable for so many people that reading a book or watching a movie is not enough of an escape. Not even immersive video games. People now need to ditch reality entirely and live in delusion land 24/7. Breaking that illusion is breaking their mind. Problem is people seem to be escaping onto a conveyer belt meat grinder and are dancing their way along the factory line mocking everyone telling them to get off and falling over the edge into the grinder over and over.
There is "strong like" that I am autistic, according to the AQ test, and I have two boys who are diagnosed autistic. It is common for autistic people to be socially awkward and to feel they don't fit in. This makes it very easy for them to adopt a different identity because it validates their feelings of being different and even non-human.
@@PlanetZaia Thanks, Autism is about 20% hereditary, so it could be but likely isn't hereditary. I get some support and have found more and more helpful people and organizations as I continue on this journey
As a person diagnosed with autism and savant disorder and a MENSA member, this stuff is really starting to piss me off. I worked my ass off to get where I am professionally. I never played the victim card because of the disorders I have been diagnosed with. I worked hard and I learned one main thing as a person suffering from autism related anxiety disorders and that is that there are no damn safe spaces in this world and if you have a anxiety disorder or disorders like me the only way to deal with it is to expose yourself to being uncomfortable and being in supposedly unsafe zones… it’s like exposure therapy. Went from having a hard time looking people in the face to giving presentations on Environmental Science in front of an auditorium that can fit up to 1500 people, without having any issues. I hate this bullshit so much it makes people with real disorders look like fools when the true fact is that when it comes to intelligence, I am used to being the only one on my level in the room besides the professors… The professors also know this and have been really awesome in supporting my academic ventures. They do this not because of pity but because they want to see what I can do with the things they have taught me. I look forward to making them proud when I finish my PhD program. Also, just because I am intelligent does not mean that I think I am better than everyone else… if anything it makes me realize ever more so how Insignificant I am and how hard I will have to keep on working to become somewhat recognized over the world. I just want my work to help people deal with the coming environmental changes, that is all. Cheers. P.S. My apologies for any spelling or grammatical errors. I hate texting and I did not have access to a keyboard when choosing to write this comment. I have huge hands and sausage fingers and no matter how big of a smart phone I purchase my wrists still start to hurt after texting for five to ten minutes. First comes the soreness then numbness and then it becomes almost impossible to hold the phone. So I will not be proofreading this. I hope that it is legible enough to get my point across. Cheers again!
@@sockadabrave savants' IQ is between 40 and 70, though they are extremely gifted/talented in one discipline. But because in every other aspect they are (severely) mentally challenged, they're not even able to function fully independently. Not to mention that being in Mensa requires having IQ that is higher than average, 70 is way below.
@@marlenamagda contrary to popular belief, meaning you did no do any research before making your comment. There are just as many people with savant syndrome that have mental retardation as there are people with the condition with above average IQs, and then there are the statistical outliers. Please do more reading or at least skim over some research on a person’s condition before you use anecdotal evidence from memory to back up your view point… I would call you a idiot but I do not think you are lacking intelligence,… you are just lacking knowledge which makes you just plain ignorant and also really damn rude. That’s ok though I have had to fight such viewpoints my whole damn life. For what it’s worth cheers!
You only need to respect it if it's made up, insane or non-traditional. Otherwise, you not only do not need to respect it... it's perfectly fine to malign, harass and attack it. 🤮
If gender is fluid as they say then gender cannot exist, and would therefore be no reason to be gay lesbian straight or “trans” speaking of if there’s no difference between men and women like trans people say then why are they taking hormone replacement if equal no input required right?
Watching these TikTok’s makes me literally feel like I’m losing my brain cells. I literally feel myself dumbing down as I watch these TikTok’s with you.
Joke time, I was clinically schizophrenic and I joked about myself being bobagender, but people clearly knew I was being sarcastic and I was conscious that I will never become a cup of bubble tea. 3 years later I recovered from schizophrenia and I don't make those jokes to confuse people anymore
This is insane. I cannot express enough just how important it is to KEEP YOUR KIDS OF SOCIAL MEDIA! I didn't and dont allow my kids on social media, so as they grow up ( my daughter is 18 now, my son is 15) they don't have a need or desire to have it. They look at kids who act like this and just shake their heads. Also, be involved in your kids lives as their parents, there will be plenty of time when they're older for you to be friends. I blame all of these people's parents, them too, but mostly their parents.
I'm old, like old old. Not the 30's something people who say old. When I was a kid I was a tomboy. I wanted to be a boy, even had a boy name. I'm so glad this nonsense didn't exist back then because i would definitely have fallen prey to it. I refused to wear skirts, climbed trees and carried frogs in my pocket. I only recently figured out that I wanted to be a boy because of the molestation i experienced by a close family 'friend' . Protect your children, people. Protect them from kindly 'uncles' and the internet.
You may have been shaped in the stupidity but I was born in it (god help us what has this come to?! I’m an atheist and the reason I don’t believe is because of the left)
I'm almost 60 & listening to a young person for 20 minutes of pure logic. Brilliant. (The contrast between her & most her age is shocking. This generation is deeply concerning).
I'm fifty, but I find many young people to be wonderful. They're not all crazy. My parents were from the silent generation, and they thought the little baby boomer kids were awful, entitled, ungrateful hippies. Their parents had survived wars and economic depressions, and these boomer kids had the best childhoods in human history, but acted like spoiled brats. You can see interviews on YT with their parents and grandparents complaining of that new young spoiled generation. I've been watching clips of the young hippies, they were strung out on drugs and made no sense when they spoke. Like, it's great that they were anti "the man" but they were too loopy to act effectively. Turn on, tune in and drop out" was their motto, which meant turn on to drugs and drop out of society. But then they would eat leftovers from restaurants still benefitting from the capitalism they hated. (I have issues with capitalism too, but I digress)Just watch the disturbing creepy look in their eyes when they talk!!! Women's rights and civil rights were important, but they tripped too hard to be helpful. Today, gay and trans rights are important but these lost youth are falling victim to the same thing, maybe not drugs, but the drug of social media, to be of any help. I really see a lot of parallels. If I was fifty in the sixties, I would have thought that young people have gone off the rails and society is ruined. Now, we have those same boomers clutching their pearls and acting like today's youth is ruining society when most of them are fine.
Misha, your channel is amazing! I have a brother with autism, a close friend with autism, even a collegue - they're NOTHING like this. These people are faking being autism / ADHD for likes and olien clout.These pronouns needs to stop.
I’ve always thought this was connected to video games. These people want to create their own character, but in real life we are restrained by nature. You can change your hair color, but you can’t become some sort of plant-based character.
so basically these people think that being a human isn't enough. Tbh I kinda feel sorry for em rather than feeling hateful cuz I wonder what kind of trauma they have gone through. Thx to bring this stuff up
obviously trans gender was always about trans humanism. In the end they just want an utopia where they're not bound to the confines of their body. Ever wondered what all the chemicals and cheap meat Americans eat does to their hormone levels and mental health?
I’m autistic and I DO NOT CARE what you say, xenogenders are ableist and transphobic, because they are comparing gender dysphoria, a serious mental health topic to someone identifying themselves as a cat. They are also saying "it’s made by an autistic trans guy, it’s for neurodivergent ppl!" Just because someone is neurodivergent, that does not mean that everything they make is just for neurodivergent ppl. "It’s a form of self expression!" Just tell ppl ur interests and types and stuff! I saw someone on TikTok that said gender is an aesthetic, and no Sarah, you can't convert gender from male and female to a mere tool used for aesthetic.
if i meet someone who goes by god/godself i'm just gonna assume you have a god complex or aren't far from one edit: ok now i'm at the autism part and no, those tiktokers are spewing bs. i'm autistic (with an actual assessment) and yes, i do view the world differently, but i don't view myself as someone that different from neurotypical people. all thats different is how my brain processes stuff. i'm not piss, god or an ink cartridge, i'm just human. these people are just going to make it harder for autism to be taken seriously
Yep. I’m not autistic myself, but I have siblings on the spectrum and one is medium functioning (the only time she speaks is if she’s reading, parroting back your words, quoting something, or singing), and the other two are high functioning and very based. Unless you knew the signs or they told you outright, you wouldn’t know they were autistic. These internet people are the reasons why people don’t take autism seriously, or even say that it’s fake. Autism shouldn’t mean you’re automatically apart of this ideology. I get that it’s easier for people on the spectrum to get sucked into this stuff, but we should be helping them get away from it rather than shove them off the cliff.
I had to go and Google the difference between xeno and neopronouns. Essentially they're the same but xeno falls under neo. Also I'm so sick of people self diagnosing themselves and expecting special treatment. Go get professional help! Also I'll probably get blow back from this but I believe the rise in people self diagnosing themselves with ADHD and Autism is because the spectrum is pretty broad. So someone who hasn't been diagnosed by a professional will come along and identify with one thing in the spectrum and now they're telling everyone they're neurodivergent (which is not even a medical term).
As someone who has adhd (actually diagnosed by a doctor 25 years ago) these attention seekers disgust me, they're taking a serious condition and flouting it for attention, we should lock them up for assessment.
I mean she said spot on. I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was eight, and I even can't come up with something like that. Neo pronounce are as stupid as faking autism. The worst thing is that people will never feel the struggles of people who really have these conditions. I actually admire autistic people a lot because their mind works on another level. They are really smart and strong. I hope the world realizes some day its craziness and changes.
I use to joke with a gaming group of mine telling them I go by "broodmother" for pronouns thinking it was so outlandish that of course no one would take me seriously. Now I cant even joke light heartly cause some of these fr*aks might think I'm being serious lol
I am autistic. In the past I didnt really relate to other people and felt different (for reasons I now understand better because I got diagnosed). When I found the lgbt community I empathized with them for being different from the rest, and eventhough I am a normal woman and heterosexual, since I very rarely felt sexual attraction, I started identifying as asexual. After spending a bit of time in the community, I started to spot more and more absurd behavior that I didn't agree with. A bit after that I had my first boyfriend, and discovered that I wasn't really asexual, I just didn't experience sexual attraction towards people I wasn't in love with. Soon I started arguing with people online and realized my values also didnt really align with them. Autistic people are known for voicing their opinion and being abruptly honest in the end of the day... And many people in the community are not flexible with their opinions and even condemn others hiding under the victim role. I think many autistic people identify with the community during their teenage years, specially because there's more weird people, and we feel like our strange traits are accepted there. By the way, I've seen recently a lot of people saying to add autism and neurodivergency to the LGBT community. PLEASE DON'T. I can elaborate if anyone wants to know why I have that opinion.
I'm neurodivergent. Autism and ADHD inattentive type. Professionaly diagnosed by a PhD. I'm with you - but to play devil's advocate, there is some research that sex hormones may play a role in Autism. I think the major factor is feeling so different, and misinterpreting that as being the wrong gender because you don't feel like anyone else. Also, is not uncommon for males to feel like they don't fit in with other males and for females to feel like they don't fit in with other females (they will gravitate more towards hanging out with males). I think Autism should be considered more in these cases to help people who are seeking the wrong solutions.
I saw someone be like “I go by beeself!!” Istg you better put on a bee costume and come back to me when you learn how to make honey and learn how to pollinate. I also hate how people will also be like “they use xenopronouns bc they’re autistic/neurodivergent!” It makes neurodivergent people to seem small and a baby who can’t make decisions on their own, a teacher literally came up to me and went “do you want me to type for you 🥺” like girl do you want me to throw a desk at you
On Jeff - how the heck has obvious arrogance and self-obsession become so common and cheered on? Normally when someone seriously describes himself as “brilliant thinker” or “insanely attractive”, we roll our eyes and say “ew” because nobody wants to be around someone who’s obsessed with himself
As someone who is actually autistic, I feel like the label autism often gets abused and used as an cop-out for shitty behavior or narcissism.
I'm autistic too and I agree. I keep seeing other autistic people using that to justify their behavior and it really doesn't help the stigma that we already have to deal with.
Honestly, I feel like it’s been almost like, popularized, in a way. People are like, “Oh my gosh, this is my new hyper fixation XDD”
The public understanding of people with autism is dropping like a stone as a bunch of narcissists who probably aren't even remotely autistic use it as another baseball card to add to their collection with trans, tourettes and DID
I am also autistic and this has gone well past a joke. I am not sure if the people who are coming up with all these mindless genders are serious or if they are mocking transgender people (because it really feels like it at this point).
If someone asks for my pronouns I plan to tell them that they are "High Emperor" and "High Imperial Majesty" (people who don't actually care will have already shortened this to He/Him but those who do care need to use the full pronoun or they are disrespecting me)
I’m autistic too and it hurts me to see that these, for lack of a better word, loons, have taken autism and turned it into an aesthetic. It’s so stupid.
"Godself is valid"
No, that's called a god complex
Truth
God is dead. God remains dead. And we have killed him. How shall we comfort ourselves, the murderers of all murderers?
This was a quote by Friedrich Nietzsche on the concept of morals
@@RandomRothbardian please explain it, you just broke my brain
@@MickeyMousevD If nobody sees you commit crime, it doesn't affect you. But if you believe in God and that He can see you, you will hopefully always do the right thing. Morals only mean anything if you believe in God. If you take yourself as God or believe there is no God, you can effectively do what you like. I don't know what Nietzsche was saying exactly in the quote as I believe he was an atheist, but what I have said stands. Morals are connected to God: if you are an atheist, then you should not see the world in terms of right or wrong because an apple when cut is just a rearrangement of atoms to you.
I’m autistic and don’t have a tiktok. This neopronoun = nurodivergent people stuff is so painful for me. I finally get diagnosed after years of suspecting I had autism and being bullied in school for being weird. I finally am coming to terms with not being embarrassed about being autistic and after seeing these videos I’m embarrassed I have autism again and hate myself even more then normal.
100% Agree with you, I'm autistic too!
I’ll bet you have much to give to the world. I was a very weird kid and now I’m a weird old lady. I learned how to celebrate my weirdness and seek out weird friends. We have a blast! You can too. As to mean people, you can choose to not care as much. We will always have them among us. You may find stoicism a helpful philosophy for detaching from negativity.
I 100% Afro also as an autistic person.
Keep being you!!
I’m autistic as well and agree so much with you. I’m tired of how people associate autism with this stuff it has nothing to do with it. It gives us who actually have autism a very bad look and makes us look like these fakers
Identifying as a god. That used to be a form of narcissism. Thinking you are above everybody else.
That's just it though. Their whole ideology is them on a pedestal. And everyone else isn't as progressive and awake as they are. We're all closed minded. Even me a lesbian who won't date a trans man is hurting them with my sexual orientation. They are superior because of their acceptance of the others. And even more they are an other because they see the world in a way that is simple minded prejudice people can't. And we are all hurting them. They are extremely oppressed. And it's ever "cis" persons fault that's not an ally or an other. God idk if their parents never told them they were pretty and good job or if they said it was too much.
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It still very much is narracist
God is dead, and God remains dead, How will we comfort ourselves, we murderers of murderers?
I suffer from bipolar disorder and that's literally what i would think in a manic episode. I guess nowadays it's becoming more accepting to the point that you don't even need to be manic to think you're god.
It's a race to see what's more valid.
Yeah, it's like an actual cult. You even have grown adults like Jeffery trying to separate them from friends and family. Very worrying.
Can you call it a race when the end goal keeps changing? 🤔
@@Gigerfan so that's an endless marathon, they only will stop when dead
That's so valid
race to see who's more "oppressed"
I’ve been ATTACKED on Twitter by SOOO MANY people istg because I said Neo/Xeno Pronouns don’t have anything to do with being Trans and don’t make sense. When I tell you…SOOOO MANY people told me I’m Transphobic and should off myself it’s so embarrassing 💀 also people saying I’m “autistic phobic” like what😭 My little brother is Autistic and like it affects him so much I’m so tired of people self diagnosing themselves and using Autism as an excuse because my little Brother doesn’t even understand Xeno or Neo Pronouns
And one more thing, I don’t think Anime or Cartoons are the problem (especially Anime because they don’t rlly show much Queer stuff I mean I mostly watch Shonen) but rather the Fandoms where most people just kinda don’t have a life. Honestly guy’s just find like an actual hobby like sports.
Tbh I'm an anime fan and while I'm in some fandoms (mostly because I like the theories and the characters) I agree.
When someone calls me "transphobic", I literally don't care at all. Stop giving them power over you. Wear their insults as badges of pride, proving your ability to discern truth even when it is unpopular.
Yeah I hate how they flip out when people disagree with them. Hopefully they'll grow out of that.
imma be real... ive js accepted the label as transphobic like yeah i am womp womp 💀
neo is greek means new so basically new made up bs pronouns
“I got my gender off of Tumblr” says just about everything about these people. 🤦♀️
Right when I saw "Originally coined by the tumblr user Baphomet" I couldn't stop fucking laughing, that shit is hilarious. Leave it to a tumblr user to make you feel oppressed for identifying as a fried chicken leg! Lmao
As if it's like a product 💀💀
May as well get genders off cereal packets. Today I'm going to be Niacin and Riboflavinself.
I think they ordered it from Wish.
Casi todo es sacado de tumblr es como el no-binario, demiboy y demigirl todo es sacado de tumblr.
As a sane anime fan with a job I just want to say, pls don't lump me in with these people
Same. I watch anime but I'm not one of them.
Seriously. Don't know why kpop or anime is lumped with these people now. As a fan of both it feels so falsifying.
I don't blame you. It's just insane how they poison everything with their insanity.
I am lesbian Kpop and anime fan since 2012. Time were better back then 😅
Oh and I have ADHD. Everything these insane peeps are trying to mock the same time
I personally use Xenopronouns
To identify who’s batshit crazy
I used to shitpost about telling everyone I sexually identified as a stop sign. These people have surpassed me, I can no longer joke about this out of fear they might take it seriously.
I identify as a yield sign we have to get together.
I identify as an interstate. 🔥
i identfiy as a speed limit sign, signgenders unite ✊
I identify as a fridge😔
@johnfreddy78you’re a genius
if gender is a construct, then WHY DO WE NEED TO MAKE UP NEW LABELS??
I made a friend in 2021 who recently blocked me on everything because i didnt call them "Lightbulbself"
Common sense isn't so common anymore
As a person who uses xenos I can’t expect ppl to use them their not used to it and may have forgotten I don’t care if they use them or not I’m just happy their aware and fine :)
Lmaoo I bet they have like 0 friends because of it
I remember when in 2006 they opened "Gender studies" at my faculty. It was presented as a subtype of psychology focused on interaction between man and woman. Sounded kinda cool, many people applied.
15 years later...
"My gender is connected to diety", "Catself",... o_0
I always wondered what it came from and how it actually began. I figured it was a bastardised version of its origin, but the idea to start could've been legit interesting and maybe even good for people. We can't have nice things can we.
@@SombreroPharoah It's furthest origins comes from Gender Ideology in the 1950's, created by a man called Dr John Money, but i've gotta warn, it's dark. The origin of all these ideologies is Critical Theory, a marxist ideology.
@@SombreroPharoah I remember quite well. In the beginning GS produced legit, non-scientific degree psychologists (there was only bachelor level in GS, if you wanted master degree, you need to continue in either psychology or sociology) who could have license to do a specific eg. marriage/ pair therapies.
In 2011, GS got upgraded to a master degree subject guaranteed by a prof. of department of psychology, and a weird, short headed girlboys started to appear as teachers.
In my country, there is still no PhD. program in any university (thanks god), BUT in around 2012+ a lots of PhD. teachers migrated here from the west, especially Brittain (since they started with this earlier and therfore were "ahead"), and they had 2 qualities:
1) Unlike masters, PhDs could lead research and ask for research grants - money started flowing into GS
2) They were batshit fucking insane bunch of radical feminists
This inevitably lead to 2015+, today´s Gender studies and gender in general.
There is your evolution of gender studies in short :)
I’ve seen people try to apply these labels to fictional characters too, and I’ve seen “bigenderadd”, “bigenderchange”, “bigenderboth”, “bidemigenderscale”, “memegender”, “fictigender”, “stoned as a gender (or something like that)”, “zodiacgender”, “demix (demixenogender)”, “fictigender (and gamegender)”, “lesbiangender”, and some other stuff.
@@Palkia8-Bit it's all a system of control, these kids are indoctrinated.
Through all these videos,I have finally found a perfect set of pronouns for myself:
mentally/stable and non/delusional
I think that they fit perfectly with the way I express my gender
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I identify as a raspberry bush so woke activists leaf me alone
@@ObeseusVsPhallacy ou my gosh that's so unique and progressive
you're so valid😍
@@humorhasleffthechat. i cant take these people seriously they're gonna look back in about 10+ years and have an aneurysm from the cringe
I finally figured out my pronouns
mentally/well and is/sane
I’m a transwoman, funny to me that the main goal of being trans is to, NOT be asked my pronouns, and to live normally in society while being honest about my biology.
Yet here we are, trivializing everything trans people worked for. Delegitimizing a SERIOUS medical condition (gender dysphoria).
😔
Nevermind just trivialising your incredibly difficult experience, they’re also discrediting LGBT and autistic people at the same time.
I feel like it’s honestly at a point where I meet someone and, if I tell them I’m gay, I have to reassure them that I, and most other actual LGBT people, do not agree with the crazies on TikTok and just want as much of a normal life as we can get.
It worries me to think of where we might end up, but I just have to hope that enough people will realise the difference between people like you and I, and these people who in the past would’ve just been the weird emo kids, but now have decided to latch onto a community they often don’t belong to and inadvertently start to ruin its reputation.
@@iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii7738 Omg yes, exactly. I’m always like “I’m trans, but I’m not easily offended, I’m normal I promise” Like we have to rationalize being normal bc of these “activists”
Ikr , whats worse is that many people in the trans community are afraid to speak and receive backlash , the same thing happened with the black movement and the feminist one .
as a bi girl who hasnt told anyone im bi, i agree so much
it feels like the community is an actual clownfest because of the minority that is speaking out for no reason
i do hope this does stop so nobody has to be scared of coming out and being labelled a clown bc of the bad side of the community
@@Lalevine preach 😮💨🙌
The glance she gave after Jeffrey implied that he's attractive just killed me!
Yeah haha she’s quietly savage. Love that about her.
Attractive to flies.
@@gilgameshofuruk4060😂😂
Whenever people use the excuse of: "They use Xeno pronouns because they're Autistic!" Makes me really annoyed.
I have Autism myself and the fact that people use this ideology makes me upset because it feels incredibly downgrading/childish. Like I'm almost about to turn 20 pretty soon, and even I know that I don't identify as a dog...or an ice cream, or a void.
If someone wanted me to "refer to their neo pronouns" there's no way I'm doing that because I'm not stupid, I'm literally going to call you what I'm going to call you, if you're a Man you're a Man, if you're a Woman you're a Woman. You're a human being, not a bug or a wolf or a toilet.
These people NEED to grow up 😑
Agreed
These guys are making others take autistic people less and less seriously. I'm glad you've got it together and keep fighting against this pronoun craze 👏🏻👏🏻
yes i agree
you got me with the toilet!!! 😂😂😂
well i would say "clown" is pretty accurate
Surely, at this point, they are trolling us?? Nobody can honestly think this is normal!!!
I am an adult who has been medically diagnosed as autistic and I can say that I hate the term neodivergent. I always thought that the term was just as stupid as neopronouns and xenopronouns. I do have a theory on why gender "diversity" appears more common in the autistic community. I believe, based on my own personal experience, that autistic people, especially young autistic people are social sponges. What I mean is that for most autistic people, trying to navigate social situations and trying to figure out how to act can be a real challenge. So where do autistic people get their information to learn how to act in social situations, by imitating what we see around us. The one thing that generation z has that millennials didn't have growing up was social media. Autistic people from the Gen z age group see how people with neo/xeno pronouns on social media "appear" to be happy and have their life together and believe that if they imitate that, then they will be "successful" at navigating social situations. I could go into much longer details about this, but I am afraid that I might have made this RUclips comment too long as it is and no one wants to read a comment that is the length of a novel, lol. I will just end this by saying that I thank God every day that I was born in 1987.
I HATE IT TO. I am diagnosed with autism, adhd, ocd, and a few other things. And I can't stand it. It's so infantilizing. I hate it. I hate it so much. Especially becuase I'm also transsexual and bisexual. I can't take it anymore 😪
I was diagnosed with Asperger’s, and I can relate to the social sponge thing. I’m very influenced by other people and can easily get swept up in things. Recently I’ve relearned how to step back and really question the things in front of me. I also hate the “neurodivergent community”, because there seems to be a lot of hate towards people who aren’t “neurodivergent”. All my life I’ve been trying to come across as normal. Being this way has caused me a lot of trouble, mentally and emotionally. It’s exhausting. Honestly, I don’t know why it’s celebrated. We definitely shouldn’t shame autistic people, or people with other disorders, but I don’t agree with making it seem like something better than what’s “normal”.
Another thing is that young Autistic people may be more easily caught in this because they feel different from others, and that makes them more susceptible to being manipulated into thinking the reason they feel different is because of their gender or whatever.
Very interesting take. I am an adult (27 F) diagnosed with Asperger's and I too have noticed this pattern with autistic/trans kids, especially girls.
I think this issue also has to do with the fact that autistic people, especially girls, often do not relate to traditional gender stuff, so they can easily be tricked into thinking they're trans. I was a bit of a tomboy myself growing up so if I was born into today's generation, I'd probably identify as non-binary or something (even though today I am very feminine and happy the way I am).
I also think there might be something up with our crappily autistic "theory of mind" and how we relate to ourselves and other people, but I'd need to do more research on that subject to give a clear explanation of my intuition.
@@ascendednightingale2456 that's how these activists, or the ideologgy creators wanted it to work. They take a group of people, deliberately make them an oppressed class and give them oppressors. Then they lie and subvert (intentionally change the truth) with political ideology and awful tactics, so that "community" are an activist group instead of just a bunch of people. These political groups do it with groups they want to take over basically, whether it's a video game fandom. anime, LGBT or mental health.
The tactics are basically:
1: Infiltrate a group and decide that group's m,ain thing is an identity, and a victim.
2: bully the group into submission and declare themselves "the community" of that thing.
3: Anyone who dissents is a outgroup, racist, bigot etc. and they get treated with cancel culture mobs.
4: They spread the ideology in the group using Social media.
5: They claim to be "the community" and use that "community" to attack others as political activists, brainwash people and target young ones.
6: turn the community into a online social media or real life mob, or become a part of the whole thing, usually called 'woke' these days.
These groups who are like this are marxists, or rather, to simplify it, they're socialists who have backing of corporations and governments. The ideology these particular communists believe in is based completely around making something an identity they can control,. you're gay? that's an identity to use, you're autistic, that's another one, and with autism, they brainwash young autistic kids into believing gender ideology. I started researching after they started deciding I had to be their idea of a disabled person, and they did not like I was against their ideology.
As a non native speaker I sometimes struggle with he/she/her/his/him, these people can’t be taken seriously at all, they have to stop their insanity and do something productive
Que quiten el internet mundialmente xd asi seria mejor la mentalidad humana ya todos dependemos del internet y esta comunidad peor 😐.
I'm a gen z kid, and I just wanna say- why was I born in this generation? 💀 I'm fr scared, what happened ..💀💀
Me too. Me too..
It's not a matter of generation, people are just stupid
I'm a old time Gen X'er and I can tell you that it's not your generation because every generation has it's crazies. The only difference now is thanks to everyone having internet access those crazies have a platform to be openly crazy and surrounded themselves with like minded people.
@@The_Real_DCTGen z parents allowed us to be raised by the internet instead of doing their jobs
@@justinw1219 because Gen z parent got mainly raised by TVs - and the brainwashing goes on and on...
I can explain the weeb stuff as a weeb.
Unfortunately, these freaks have latched into our community and well, we can’t get rid of them. We’re trying, but it’s not easy when one side is trying to stop us from gatekeeping.
It also gives them a deluded sense of aesthetic, as they can pretend to be a cute kawaii waifu rather than the disgusting weirdos they are.
I dislike this infestation of my interests.
Me to... couldn't agree more
All weebs are freaks.
Agreed.
Definitely. Also has anyone seen the amount of insane people in the MHA fandom? It’s my favorite anime but I’m embarrassed when I say I like it just because of the fandom
@@stevenedwards8353 They actually don’t like the stuff made for them, hilariously and ironically enough.
Every time Misha does one of these pronoun videos, the sarcasm gets more and more potent and palpable.
I’m on the spectrum, these people are crazy. Keep doing what you’re doing Misha.
I am genuinely confused as to how we got here as a society. Why do people feel like they need to identify themselves with non-existent characters? Is it insecurity? Trauma? Narcissism? Maybe it’s a bit of everything.
Ever wondered what all the chemicals and cheap meat Americans eat does to their hormone levels and mental health?
As I m thinking about what u said about that they identify themselves with non-existen charachters. Like fairys or gods or whatever. At first glance it seems that they got a similarity with us, fantasy fans, who love to be so encompassed by some fictional heroes (from books, movies or games) that we like to pretend that such heroes exist, for the sake of cosplay or for the sake of writing of fanfics or for the sake of debate about our fav heroes. We love to be very "in love" with particular charachters, we fans of them. Any kind of charachters - good or bad or anything between. But to think about this there is great difference between us and such people - they think that they are these fictional charachters while we tend to love to be in awe of those charachters :) We like to see those heroes as better than us to be able to have something like "role models" while they like to be seen as gods :)
@@TallisKeeton
Wow interesting…
@@yuhitsawree seems like we fantasy fandoms can not be deemed as the most delusional bunch around :D we are pretending to believe in our heroes to debate about them as if their stories were real history, but they do not pretend to believe, they realy believe in being invented charachters :)
I don't for a second believe "society" is here. The internet gives outliers a voice.
I’m getting really tired of this narcissistic obsession with being the most “rare”, “dynamic”, “sophisticated”, “original”, “perfect” Mary Sue you can possibly be while pretending to have the most painful and draining mental illnesses and spectrums to achieve being the most “quirky”.
Lots of pretence, for sure, but there’s clearly some genuine fantasy-prone mental illness at play also.
“Gender can be whatever the f*ck you want because we literally constructed it.”
Race, time, money, countries.. Other examples of social constructs... I can't, however, go to my local supermarket, pick some things up, go to the checkout, hand them buttons and say “money is a social construct” 👀😂 Well, I could, but they'd then expect some actual money, or my card, to pay for the goods.
As someone who would by definition be neurodivergent, (ADHD) I think it’s absolutely ridiculous and so cringe that people use this diagnosis to justify their insanity. ADHD greatly affects my day to day life, but I do not use it as a crutch for excuses. I work with it, and deal with it.
Same, I have to deal with it in school and I have to make myself care about half the classes I take cause tbh I will fail every class if I don’t force myself to concentrate cause I couldn’t care less about art or other classes.
sameee it's honestly
As someone who's autistic I don't claim them at all. You know what? The fact that they say "erm, you need to be autistic to understand us." Like buzz off, and screw your xenogenders and neopronouns, you just act like you don't need therapy when you do, and a lot of it due to your mental regression into a childish state
That’s the thing. Every neurodivergent person I’ve met doesn’t use it as an excuse, they want to be able to do whatever without being held back, so they just find a system that helps them, or work around it.
It's great binge watching Misha videos, as you can actually plot her grumpiness level rising. But she still delivers it with the sweetest smile.
Fax tho 😂
shes raging and just doing her best to hold it in like a social scientist.. just like the rest of us... poor lady, she seems really sweet
Wait, wait, WAIT! If I identify as a bigot, do they have to respect my pronouns and life decisions since it is gender we are talking about?
It's weird when these people also fight for feminism/equality, and say we should get rid of traditional gender roles, but then say that if you're not a "stereotypical" man or woman then you somehow trans.
"I'm special, ok? I'm just so unique! Can't you see? Please tell me you realize how special I am! Please!!! I'm the most special person on earth, right? R-Right??? WILL ANYONE ACKNOWLEDGE JUST HOW FRICKING SPECIAL AND UNIQUE I AM?????"
- These people
Exactly💯
Perfect example. That was the most magnificent example I've ever seen so far.
I saw someone who said they felt connected to the cosmos and then said "I think that makes me a very interesting and unique person"
@@Twinklethefox9022 It makes them a pretentious fart.
Exactly. “I’m so much more important than everyone else. Everyone else is called he/she but I am they. I’m not a man/woman person I’m a non binary other species. I want to have special labels and special treatment for myself because I’m more unique than everyone else. I want to have special titles for my personality.”
I’m religious and I have very strange religious beliefs but I would definitely not do this crap, and I’m also autistic and I don’t think neo pronouns should be part of someone’s personality and live how you wanna live. Just don’t force other people into it. That’s my advice and I agree with you a lot❤
Every time I hear these NOUNS and PHRASES being used as a pronoun...I feel like my brain cells shout in pain and anguish until they literally die
I'm lgbt and autistic, it makes me want to unalive.
@@ajax4042 same
@@pearlboyscasette especially cus I'm trans. With diagnosed dysphoria. I'm so done with it.
Misha uploading a video on my birthday talking about cringey Tumblrinas and their narcissistic fantasies?! What a treat! So happy I found your channel over a year ago! You were one of the first people I discovered who shared the exact same feelings as me. Never buckle to these people! It's a joy seeing others fight them back when so many are still afraid to speak up.
Thank u and happy birthday!!🎉🎉
@@realmishapetrov You're welcome and thank you so much! 😄
Just found your channel and I love your videos. I’m diagnosed autistic and I find all this so upsetting and stressful. It’s hard enough trying to fit into society without being constantly told you’re upsetting everyone around you because you don’t understand the pronoun bullshit. And then they claim to be autistic or have mental health issues on a whim is really damaging for people who are actually struggling. Since when is having a disability or mental health issue fun and #hashtag ✨Aesthetic✨ ffs… I think the mental health issue they’re probably are suffering with is NPD. I completely understand if people are trans/non binary etc and want to be called he/she/they etc no problem at all. But it’s just going too far and I feel like your own gender identity is your business not everyone else’s and not all over social media. I don’t ram down everyone’s throat my gender and sexual preferences etc at every turn, people just don’t need to know unless I’m in a relationship with them or friendship maybe. It’s got to a point where some kids in a school near me wouldn’t use the school toilets anymore and demanded that they get to use litter boxes instead because they identified as animals. The world just feels like it’s going insane and it’s really worrying. Thank you for your videos because they feel like a light in a dark tunnel atm. You actually talk sense ❤
I've heard one other teenager I've spoken with in person mention the litter boxes... so are they put in a cubicle for them? These people still wipe right? So surely the use a toilet to get rid of the toilet paper? Are janitors expected to scoop human feces now?! This is insane. 😅
I am on the spectrum and had a phase where I thought I was trans at about 13 when I hit puberty. I was very uncomfortable with my body during this time (as most preteens are) and I was also on tik tok a lot (musically at the time) the amount of trans stuff I saw and the friends I had in my circle had me believing that I was trans because I was uncomfortable with my body. I became kind of hyper fixated on becoming the opposite gender but it only added to the discomfort. I’m so happy that my parents put me into therapy instead of just affirming me and allow me to possibly be medicalized. I grew out of it!! I’m now almost 19 and so thankful that I feel comfortable as my biological sex. I do believe that some people are actually trans, but not as many as we’re seeing now. My hypothesis for the correlation between autism and trans identities could be the heightened discomfort that kids on the spectrum feel during puberty, as well with how impressionable those with autism can be. Then they become hyper fixated on being trans. Just a theory!
I agree.
I really enjoy learning about this because it is something that affected me and still affects people I know! I would like to understand the psychology and science behind both people who are trans and those that are not actually trans but believe that they are (as a psych major this really interests me) I mean no hate to anyone! I just hope we can have more nuanced conversations and better research for this sort of thing in the near future!
I believe this theory to be exactly why far left ideologues and 'trans charities' specifically target adolescent and early teenage autistic kids, it's sinister.
A autistic kid is easier to indoctrinate because they will not have the faculties to question it as much as others, unless parents have taught them well.
I think this is really important to note! I’m autistic and also had a trans phase, the friend circle I had influenced it greatly. Especially the art group we were in, which openly bashed people who were straight and had no special pronouns.
I defo think it needs to be talked about more, and instead of blindly affirming these kids, we need to give them therapy and a long talk. Puberty is a difficult thing, and the autism only makes it harder. I’m so glad my mother got me help and always checked on how I was feeling, making sure to fight back when my psychiatrist tried to send a letter to a gender clinic (one that ended up being shut down!) for me.
I’m glad you’re out of that mindset. Thank you for sharing your words here. ❤️
@@LilCrazette Thank you so much for sharing your story! That’s super scary to think about how you were so close to being potentially medicalized. I’m glad you had your mom to advocate for you! Thank you so much for the kind words, I’m glad you’re doing better now :)
My heart goes out to these young people!! How much trauma dose one have to go through to be this unhinged ?? Smh.. Thank you for calling this stuff out.
No trauma at all. They are not doing it because of trauma. They are doing it because it is trendy and they are moronic sheep who do it for positive attention on social media.
It’s not just trauma. It’s internet culture. Tumblr, Twitter, and DeviantArt specifically. If you look at the LGBTQ+ wiki of xenopronouns, you’ll notice that probably 85% of them come from Tumblr users. Kids imitate things they see in pop culture and in the behaviors of adults so they’re just doing what their brains are programmed to do and adults who never grew up and need outside validation for their narcissism are taking advantage of that. It’s become a cult mindset too. Look at how trans people are being deified in the popular culture. It’s actually terrifying. I have sane trans friends and even they’re creeped out and disgusted by the behavior happening right now.
@@sassyghost_8 Tumblr and Deviantart are the two majory origin points of how this ideology too over, yeah. It was a deliberate push for political reasons, enhanced by Social media, which are designed to push things and censor others. A lot of this came from Furries as well.
It goes all the way back to the 1950's though.
there is no trauma needed ... it's puberty or wanting attention/ beeing bored ...
@@sassyghost_8 Did you know that wiki has their own Discord server? I joined it as a joke and it was worse than you think. It was like a cult and all the people with odd behaviors you see in Misha's behaviors are in it. The owner and moderators are some of the nastiest, narcissistic people I've ever met. I got banned and labeled as a bigot for saying I'd rather be judged by my character than by my labels and don't think they make me bad or special. I just want to blend in like everyone else and keep them to myself. Imagine thinking wanting to fit in with society and only be punished or rewarded for things that matter like graduating college or committing murder is offensive! 🤣
10:51 NO, JUST NO
Not autistic, but im neurodivergent (ADHD) and not this sounds like BS to me.
Reminds me of a line from a comedian: my girlfriend and I had a religious dispute. She thought she was god and I disagreed.
I heard that one😂
Here, its literal rather than metaphorical
@@zainabtanweer2910 I didn't read the comedian part and thought this person actually got broken up with because of that lmfao
Sounds like Chris chan
@@Twinklethefox9022 Oh God not CWC
every time someone uses "they're neurodivergent" as an excuse to do this stuff, take a shot
I’d become an alcoholic
I'd have turned into my dad by the time i hit my 30's
As someone who plays genshin impact , i knew our toxic cringy community was filled with these people but i didnt know that there were THIS many💀💀💀
On applications for my company i have an optional text box for pronouns and if anyone fills it out im unlikely to hire them unless they use normal pronouns i might call them in for an interview. Im not having someone sue my company and piss off all my employees and try to sue them. These people constantly destroy businesses.
Based
Girl shows up for interview in a cat costume... few days later " I wonder why he never called back?"
As funny as that sounds, sadly I can see it happening.
Very logical.
epic
Lol good idea for recruiters tbh
What really pisses me off is because I have mood swings, I'm clinically diagnosed as bipolar. NO I just have good and bad days like everyone else.
When you are imagining being something else, someone else; you have real issues.
These are the people that need help and if we don't "affirm" them were phobes.
Stop. Just stop.
Because people with REAL mental disorders will be misdiagnosed by these new aged woke Dr's.
This is sick sad and pathetic.
Hey, I'm also bipolar and yeah these people are out of their minds...they make it seem like they have all these problems (the only problems is not getting called what they want to be) and then comes people with REAL issues, like depression, bipolar, MPD and so on
I'm bipolar, autistic and lgbt. It's so fucking stupid it makes me so fucking mad. Like omfg I can't take it anymore
THIS 🙌 💯
As an autistic woman, let me tell you right now the reason that they think that autistics are more likely to be within these spaces is because they’re much more likely to be groomed into this way of thinking. we are ostracized from society in ways that most people don’t even realize. Many autistics are socially, isolated, and the peer pressure of being the only one not identifying as some kind of non-binary is too much. Most of my friends who were regular? People have turned into this, and I’ve stepped away from them as a result. And most of them aren’t even autistic. They are just being convinced that they are because they’re socially awkward and have been online most of their adult social lives.
My cousin fakes DID, he’s also trans and goes by Neo/Xenopronouns. His parents are too fucking supportive of his behavior. He said to me one in a happy voice “I’m getting an autism diagnosis soon!”. I’m afraid for his well being. You wanna know how I found out he faked DID? I found him on a faking disorders tiktok compilation. He’s an attention seeker. I’m worried about him. His older brother is also trans and has a husband (or fiancé can’t remember), and while I love both of them, I’m very afraid for them. Their older sister is an actor too(not telling you who, you’re gonna have to believe me). I think it could all be attention seeking. The older sisters an actor, which gets her lots of attention. Then middle brother is trans, which gets even more attention. And then little brother is also trans and “has DID”. I covered for him once in front of my grandma who I have no idea what her view on trans people are, I think she tolerates it but I’m not sure. I called him Art, which is his chosen name and my grandma said “Art?” And my quick thinking ass said “It’s a nickname.”. I had 3 nosebleeds that day, and he proceeded to have a breakdown while I was busy bleeding. I knew it wasn’t a real breakdown because, it’s hard to explain, but I know what breakdowns look like. I nearly had to go to the ER but in the end, he had to make it all about him.
Little tidbit: they aren’t actually my cousins exactly, they are my dads cousins kids, but I grew up with them so I consider them cousins.
DID does have its perks. However, it's not something I'd wish on anyone. There are very strong reasons for splitting, and none of them are fun.
I really hope and wish that your sanity remains intact while dealing with those cousins. Good luck my guy
DID is a very serious thing and tbh, seeing people fake that is the most attention seeking i've ever seen in my life. My old stepdad had a personality disorder, (BPD), and I know what that looks like. Faking DID or other personality disorders is absolutely disgusting and i'm so sorry you had to go through that. Personally, I wouldn't give them any attention on that.
I'm afraid they are still cousins. "Second cousins", though, so at least they're not first cousins. I think that means that in some places you could marry one of them if you had concussion.
@@erindeerhart5538 mhm, while on the outside, yeah it’s pretty cool, but what causes it is terrible
i was dragged into the whole gender thing due to my mental illnesses. i thought it would solve my problems. years later, i’m now a woman with no breasts, thick body hair, a jacked up hairline, and a deeper voice. this ideology is preying on the weak. that said, i do believe in genuine gender dysphoria and actual trans individuals. but what’s happening nowadays is medical malpractice and indoctrination. therapy was never once required of me to get hormones or surgery.
I’m so so so so sorry, please read the Quran. I hope you find peace in it sweetheart.
@@Ayesha______ girl stop omfg
People these days want to do nothing but feel special. Like not caring about their body but demanding for everybody to say you’re the most beautiful person. Not studying but demanding actual scientists to shut up because their studies are different from their ideologies. Not doing anything useful that make you stand out, but calling yourself not already even a different gender, but some weird combination of animal+nature+human - and the crazier your identity is the more special you are
Like it’s acceptable when my 4 year old niece starts to act like a kitten when she broke smth at home. I was also meowing sometimes when I was 4-5 to get attention. And now I see it’s actually annoying a bit, even with a 4 year old. Can’t imagine talking to a person like this at 20 years old and for this person to demand me to accept this. Well, unless I’m a dog self and in this case my irritation is just cause my gender of a dog pulls me to hate you. Lol
Every single day I work with people that are actually autistic and none of them came to me saying they want to be identified as a bunny or whatever, I think if I mentioned this to them they'd look at me like I went nuts. What an absolute mockery
Every day I tell myself it can't get worse. I'm just lying to myself at this point
Stop it! You're tempting fate.
Term for such things already exists and it's called PERSONALITY. I really want to know who's the person or group of people who popularized that gender is not based on what's between one's leg but based on how you feel or present yourself. Dude personality and gender are two different things
As a 34 year old Christian anime geek, it’s those kind of people that make us look bad. They don’t speak or truly represent us.
Ikr! 😭 I was born in the early 80’s, I collect dolls, love to craft & wear crazy pastel clothes. I’m also bi but I hate these “people” sm 😭 they give us all a bad name 😬🔫💀💀💀 the young generation is so confused & being corrupted by the mentally ill, it’s actually frightening & the cringiest thing that’s ever happened on planet earth 😒 how can we save our youth?? 😥😢😣
@@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts Y'know, a while back people would have thought you were weird. Now that *you, specifically* are not being discriminated against, it's fine?
@@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts Your only basis for your argument is that you, personally, find it weird, no?
@@sarahhuntington5530 I am weird tho, people have always thought so & they have that right. I’m not gonna freak out & force them to call me a princess & say I identify as one 🤣
@@sarahhuntington5530 I don’t find it weird, I like weird. I find it disgusting & disturbing that grown men with beards are using women’s washrooms taking pictures of minors in the washrooms & corrupting young impressionable minds to think they are trans at one of the most vulnerable stages in life
I identified as a toaster as a joke before I knew about all this stuff. Lots of people use to do this.
I don't know how these people are taken seriously when it is a joke they made a reality.
So you're saying there's someone out there who feels connected to the brave little toaster?
@@Twinklethefox9022 yep, that's me 😉
@@Twinklethefox9022 I saw that movie when I was dosed up on painkillers for a bad back. I'm still not sure how much was in the movie and how much was in my chemically blissed out brain.
9:19 I feel you Misha, it felt like my soul left my body (like it literally felt how I'd imagine a soul leaving my body).
Yeah I have ADHD, I also dye my hair silly colours, and am a part of the LGBTQ community as I am bisexual, but this is insane. I hate to be associated with these people...
Same I’m bisexual and this is ridiculous we gotta bring back lgbt with no + and no more letters!
It's crazy how I last few years "traditional" lesbians, gays and bisexuals bacame not "queer" enough to be consider progressive😁
you dont have to be associated with them. if you dont like what the community has become then just dont associate with it anymore. these people will burn themselves out and one day realize how cringe they were. Its just another trend that will fade out once these people grow up and or get help. im bi but havent associated myself with the lgbt community since i was a teenager. its not that hard. just make friends with people because of who they are instead of worrying about associating with other gays. normal gay people are everywhere and i tend to find the only people who do associate with the community now are the crazy people who make it their entire identity, come up with these weird new pronouns, and have a massive victim and god complex at the same time and overall unpleasant people to be around in the first place. and overall i think most people living in the real world know there are just normal gay people who act like everyone else and that these people who give the community a bad name are all chronically online children and a few young adults.
In reference to the autism connection:
I’m autistic, and I questioned my gender a lot in high school. I know I wouldn’t have if I didn’t have the internet. I probably would’ve just been depressed as I struggled to make friends. My confusion was due to the fact that I didn’t like any traditionally feminine things, never fit well with other women, and felt really distant from my body (and repulsed by my sex characteristics).
I fixed my diet (started eating based on Weston Price's research) and within a year I no longer had any dysphoria, I felt feminine (still hated makeup and heels and whatnot, but my sex characteristics became more defined as my hormones regulated), and my mental illnesses went away such as depression, anxiety, and what I thought was BPD. My sensory problems also greatly reduced, and I now find it easier to understand social cues.
There is a gut-brain connection to autism. A faulty gut can cause hormone imbalances, which can cause androgyny in either sex. That androgyny, paired with malnutrition (which causes mental problems), can lead to gender dysphoria.
This may not be the case with everyone, but I know several other autistic people who started eating the Weston Price way and have had a significant reduction in symptoms.
Im diagnosed with autism and the neopronoun thing is so chronically online. When I was younger (back in 2020) I had unlimited access to the internet and saw everyone else using they/them and stuff like that so I gave myself labels like that to fit in. That's a common method of masking. I matured more and got off the internet like that and I can confidently say, neopronouns are chronically online
Remember when we'd mock them by saying "I identify as an attack helicopter" well I guess that's valid now?
NOOOO THIS IS MAKING ME LAUGH AND CRYYY
ik this is like a year old comment but by now people genuinely get upset at those jokes bruh, theyre not considered valid, making fun of pronouns is now just offensive to these losers even though theyre the entire circus themselves
Actually autistic person here (diagnosed) and want to say that it's common for us to feel uncomfortable in our bodies and even our own mind, may be due to masking autistic traits where we put up a front to cope in social life (masking is generally more common among females on the spectrum, but I am not saying males don't mask). I definitely see a correlation with autism and trans/non-binary especially when it's about myself. But I should add that I also struggle with body dysmorphia and bad anxiety (particularly social anxiety). Not to mention I also fell for things like manipulation easily. I do have to say that even though I identified as non-binary I never forced people to respect that, I didn't really care about being "misgendered" as I had things to do that was more important than focusing on gender haha.
Another thing, I absolutely despise how young people on tiktok make autism out to be cute and quirky, when some days I wish I wasn't autistic. It's not fun, it can have its days when it's debilitating. I always wonder how I would be like if I wasn't autistic.
I'm in the process of getting the assessment because my parents didn't believe in psychologists, so I have to do it now as an adult. I'm hard core into 50s and 60s music. When I was a kid, throughout my teenage years, I wished I could time travel to the 50s and like live there because I thought I would be accepted. Thank God there was no Tiktok back then, or there's no telling what kind of weird rabbitholes I could have gone down. The good thing in my case is that there is no time travel, but now there is gender surgery, and there are unscrupulous doctors who will happily do this surgery on kids without bothering to find out whether the child actually has gender dysphoria or something else.
The using autism thing as a excuse is sooo annoying to me. I work with people with autism all over the spectrum and we do therapy and teach them things about life, we don't give in to everything our kiddos say. When my kid decided they can be outside in 100+ degrees with a jacket on, guess what? They have the choice of taking jacket off or going inside. People with autism can be held to standards as well. If anything is gross how society is treating them like they cant learn and adapt.
Tik tok is like tumblr on crack. I’ve never seen such a place where so many insane ideas proliferate
we need more people like You to expose these lunatics.
“VAMP/VAMPS literally go so hard”
I think my “Vampire” wife would have an issue with people who aren’t vampires using “Vamp” as their “preferred pronoun”
(Before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, my wife only considers herself a vampire as a joke because she’s actually from Transylvania).
I am so old I remember a time when most of these people would just be called what they are, mentally ill, and as a society we would try to treat and help them, not turn to them to help craft how a society should function with their deep "insights". Until we can once again call these people what they are, we can't help them and since as a society we (for some reason) have decided we can't call them what they truly are, we are trapped in a paradox loop of exponentially expanding insanity.
There are a great many sufferers of anxiety/depression disorders who never lose touch with reality. If anything, they experience reality more harshly than anyone else. One should be careful not to use the all-encompassing “mental illness” label too loosely.
I remember when we could just lock them up and make them get treatment. The very threat could cause miraculous recoveries.
7:20 "I see shadows in my room" got a whole different meaning. Apparently we were seeing Shadow's dubious little liquids in our room.
The world has gotten so unbearable for so many people that reading a book or watching a movie is not enough of an escape. Not even immersive video games. People now need to ditch reality entirely and live in delusion land 24/7. Breaking that illusion is breaking their mind. Problem is people seem to be escaping onto a conveyer belt meat grinder and are dancing their way along the factory line mocking everyone telling them to get off and falling over the edge into the grinder over and over.
There is "strong like" that I am autistic, according to the AQ test, and I have two boys who are diagnosed autistic. It is common for autistic people to be socially awkward and to feel they don't fit in. This makes it very easy for them to adopt a different identity because it validates their feelings of being different and even non-human.
Keep Them Away From The Internet Until 13 So They Don’t Use Piss/Pissself 💀
And that’s understandable the problem arises when someone refuses to grow or admit when they have done wrong because they have a mental illness
Autism is also genetic, meaning it’s likely you should check in with a doctor to get support (since your two children are autistic).
@@PlanetZaia Thanks, Autism is about 20% hereditary, so it could be but likely isn't hereditary. I get some support and have found more and more helpful people and organizations as I continue on this journey
As a person diagnosed with autism and savant disorder and a MENSA member, this stuff is really starting to piss me off. I worked my ass off to get where I am professionally. I never played the victim card because of the disorders I have been diagnosed with. I worked hard and I learned one main thing as a person suffering from autism related anxiety disorders and that is that there are no damn safe spaces in this world and if you have a anxiety disorder or disorders like me the only way to deal with it is to expose yourself to being uncomfortable and being in supposedly unsafe zones… it’s like exposure therapy. Went from having a hard time looking people in the face to giving presentations on Environmental Science in front of an auditorium that can fit up to 1500 people, without having any issues. I hate this bullshit so much it makes people with real disorders look like fools when the true fact is that when it comes to intelligence, I am used to being the only one on my level in the room besides the professors… The professors also know this and have been really awesome in supporting my academic ventures. They do this not because of pity but because they want to see what I can do with the things they have taught me. I look forward to making them proud when I finish my PhD program. Also, just because I am intelligent does not mean that I think I am better than everyone else… if anything it makes me realize ever more so how Insignificant I am and how hard I will have to keep on working to become somewhat recognized over the world. I just want my work to help people deal with the coming environmental changes, that is all. Cheers.
P.S. My apologies for any spelling or grammatical errors. I hate texting and I did not have access to a keyboard when choosing to write this comment. I have huge hands and sausage fingers and no matter how big of a smart phone I purchase my wrists still start to hurt after texting for five to ten minutes. First comes the soreness then numbness and then it becomes almost impossible to hold the phone. So I will not be proofreading this. I hope that it is legible enough to get my point across. Cheers again!
Savant? And mensa? I'm sorry but from what I've learned and read about asd and savants, something doesn't add up here.
Amen!!
@@marlenamagda wdym
@@sockadabrave savants' IQ is between 40 and 70, though they are extremely gifted/talented in one discipline. But because in every other aspect they are (severely) mentally challenged, they're not even able to function fully independently. Not to mention that being in Mensa requires having IQ that is higher than average, 70 is way below.
@@marlenamagda contrary to popular belief, meaning you did no do any research before making your comment. There are just as many people with savant syndrome that have mental retardation as there are people with the condition with above average IQs, and then there are the statistical outliers. Please do more reading or at least skim over some research on a person’s condition before you use anecdotal evidence from memory to back up your view point… I would call you a idiot but I do not think you are lacking intelligence,… you are just lacking knowledge which makes you just plain ignorant and also really damn rude. That’s ok though I have had to fight such viewpoints my whole damn life. For what it’s worth cheers!
4:56 the something is that they’re all teenage girls who don’t understand what a personality is. Teenage girls love their aesthetics.
You only need to respect it if it's made up, insane or non-traditional. Otherwise, you not only do not need to respect it... it's perfectly fine to malign, harass and attack it. 🤮
I don't respect stupidity lol
If gender is fluid as they say then gender cannot exist, and would therefore be no reason to be gay lesbian straight or “trans” speaking of if there’s no difference between men and women like trans people say then why are they taking hormone replacement
if equal no input required right?
I almost worked with 2 people that have neo pronouns but luckily they both dropped out of the project because they didn't work for 3 weeks.
Watching these TikTok’s makes me literally feel like I’m losing my brain cells. I literally feel myself dumbing down as I watch these TikTok’s with you.
Honestly if I met someone with one of these weird ass pronouns in public I would avoid them after that. 😅
Joke time, I was clinically schizophrenic and I joked about myself being bobagender, but people clearly knew I was being sarcastic and I was conscious that I will never become a cup of bubble tea. 3 years later I recovered from schizophrenia and I don't make those jokes to confuse people anymore
I thought you meant Boba as in Boba Fett. If you're going to identify as someone, identify as someone with a jet pack.
0:08 chaeyoung in the background is a crime, someone save her 😞
This is insane. I cannot express enough just how important it is to KEEP YOUR KIDS OF SOCIAL MEDIA! I didn't and dont allow my kids on social media, so as they grow up ( my daughter is 18 now, my son is 15) they don't have a need or desire to have it. They look at kids who act like this and just shake their heads. Also, be involved in your kids lives as their parents, there will be plenty of time when they're older for you to be friends. I blame all of these people's parents, them too, but mostly their parents.
Agreed
I'm old, like old old. Not the 30's something people who say old. When I was a kid I was a tomboy. I wanted to be a boy, even had a boy name. I'm so glad this nonsense didn't exist back then because i would definitely have fallen prey to it. I refused to wear skirts, climbed trees and carried frogs in my pocket. I only recently figured out that I wanted to be a boy because of the molestation i experienced by a close family 'friend' . Protect your children, people. Protect them from kindly 'uncles' and the internet.
3:08 hey, hey, don't include me with those people
4:06 I would say Jeffery is full of himself
Glad you are so normal.
It means there is still hope for the world.
2:02 this is stttrrraight up demonic. like, literally.
I’m strongly convinced we are in the twilight zone! I mean this world doesn’t seem reality anymore 🙃
I’ve been saying this for a few years now. I suspect I’m in a coma and the morphine is turned up too high.
You may have been shaped in the stupidity but I was born in it (god help us what has this come to?! I’m an atheist and the reason I don’t believe is because of the left)
We are in the matrix and want out
@@bradpanter6559 Bro, it all feels like those early AI images, trippy as Hell, but still kinda recognisable
@@asmr_coffeelover Yeah I feel the same at times! Things don’t seem normal anymore! After covid it’s like things got bad!
I'm almost 60 & listening to a young person for 20 minutes of pure logic. Brilliant. (The contrast between her & most her age is shocking. This generation is deeply concerning).
I'm fifty, but I find many young people to be wonderful. They're not all crazy. My parents were from the silent generation, and they thought the little baby boomer kids were awful, entitled, ungrateful hippies. Their parents had survived wars and economic depressions, and these boomer kids had the best childhoods in human history, but acted like spoiled brats. You can see interviews on YT with their parents and grandparents complaining of that new young spoiled generation. I've been watching clips of the young hippies, they were strung out on drugs and made no sense when they spoke. Like, it's great that they were anti "the man" but they were too loopy to act effectively. Turn on, tune in and drop out" was their motto, which meant turn on to drugs and drop out of society. But then they would eat leftovers from restaurants still benefitting from the capitalism they hated. (I have issues with capitalism too, but I digress)Just watch the disturbing creepy look in their eyes when they talk!!! Women's rights and civil rights were important, but they tripped too hard to be helpful. Today, gay and trans rights are important but these lost youth are falling victim to the same thing, maybe not drugs, but the drug of social media, to be of any help. I really see a lot of parallels. If I was fifty in the sixties, I would have thought that young people have gone off the rails and society is ruined. Now, we have those same boomers clutching their pearls and acting like today's youth is ruining society when most of them are fine.
Misha, your channel is amazing! I have a brother with autism, a close friend with autism, even a collegue - they're NOTHING like this. These people are faking being autism / ADHD for likes and olien clout.These pronouns needs to stop.
I’ve always thought this was connected to video games. These people want to create their own character, but in real life we are restrained by nature. You can change your hair color, but you can’t become some sort of plant-based character.
These people are so useless they dont even know how to play games
That’s interesting. It’s also like the aesthetics trend. Where people want to become like video game characters.
so basically these people think that being a human isn't enough. Tbh I kinda feel sorry for em rather than feeling hateful cuz I wonder what kind of trauma they have gone through. Thx to bring this stuff up
obviously trans gender was always about trans humanism. In the end they just want an utopia where they're not bound to the confines of their body. Ever wondered what all the chemicals and cheap meat Americans eat does to their hormone levels and mental health?
I’m autistic and I DO NOT CARE what you say, xenogenders are ableist and transphobic, because they are comparing gender dysphoria, a serious mental health topic to someone identifying themselves as a cat. They are also saying "it’s made by an autistic trans guy, it’s for neurodivergent ppl!" Just because someone is neurodivergent, that does not mean that everything they make is just for neurodivergent ppl. "It’s a form of self expression!" Just tell ppl ur interests and types and stuff! I saw someone on TikTok that said gender is an aesthetic, and no Sarah, you can't convert gender from male and female to a mere tool used for aesthetic.
same im not wk either centre right ieven as iyyylud i was a centrist
if i meet someone who goes by god/godself i'm just gonna assume you have a god complex or aren't far from one
edit: ok now i'm at the autism part and no, those tiktokers are spewing bs. i'm autistic (with an actual assessment) and yes, i do view the world differently, but i don't view myself as someone that different from neurotypical people. all thats different is how my brain processes stuff. i'm not piss, god or an ink cartridge, i'm just human. these people are just going to make it harder for autism to be taken seriously
Yep. I’m not autistic myself, but I have siblings on the spectrum and one is medium functioning (the only time she speaks is if she’s reading, parroting back your words, quoting something, or singing), and the other two are high functioning and very based. Unless you knew the signs or they told you outright, you wouldn’t know they were autistic. These internet people are the reasons why people don’t take autism seriously, or even say that it’s fake. Autism shouldn’t mean you’re automatically apart of this ideology. I get that it’s easier for people on the spectrum to get sucked into this stuff, but we should be helping them get away from it rather than shove them off the cliff.
I had to go and Google the difference between xeno and neopronouns. Essentially they're the same but xeno falls under neo.
Also I'm so sick of people self diagnosing themselves and expecting special treatment. Go get professional help! Also I'll probably get blow back from this but I believe the rise in people self diagnosing themselves with ADHD and Autism is because the spectrum is pretty broad. So someone who hasn't been diagnosed by a professional will come along and identify with one thing in the spectrum and now they're telling everyone they're neurodivergent (which is not even a medical term).
As someone who has adhd (actually diagnosed by a doctor 25 years ago) these attention seekers disgust me, they're taking a serious condition and flouting it for attention, we should lock them up for assessment.
I mean she said spot on. I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was eight, and I even can't come up with something like that. Neo pronounce are as stupid as faking autism. The worst thing is that people will never feel the struggles of people who really have these conditions. I actually admire autistic people a lot because their mind works on another level. They are really smart and strong. I hope the world realizes some day its craziness and changes.
I use to joke with a gaming group of mine telling them I go by "broodmother" for pronouns thinking it was so outlandish that of course no one would take me seriously. Now I cant even joke light heartly cause some of these fr*aks might think I'm being serious lol
I am autistic. In the past I didnt really relate to other people and felt different (for reasons I now understand better because I got diagnosed). When I found the lgbt community I empathized with them for being different from the rest, and eventhough I am a normal woman and heterosexual, since I very rarely felt sexual attraction, I started identifying as asexual. After spending a bit of time in the community, I started to spot more and more absurd behavior that I didn't agree with.
A bit after that I had my first boyfriend, and discovered that I wasn't really asexual, I just didn't experience sexual attraction towards people I wasn't in love with.
Soon I started arguing with people online and realized my values also didnt really align with them. Autistic people are known for voicing their opinion and being abruptly honest in the end of the day... And many people in the community are not flexible with their opinions and even condemn others hiding under the victim role.
I think many autistic people identify with the community during their teenage years, specially because there's more weird people, and we feel like our strange traits are accepted there.
By the way, I've seen recently a lot of people saying to add autism and neurodivergency to the LGBT community. PLEASE DON'T. I can elaborate if anyone wants to know why I have that opinion.
I'm neurodivergent. Autism and ADHD inattentive type. Professionaly diagnosed by a PhD. I'm with you - but to play devil's advocate, there is some research that sex hormones may play a role in Autism. I think the major factor is feeling so different, and misinterpreting that as being the wrong gender because you don't feel like anyone else. Also, is not uncommon for males to feel like they don't fit in with other males and for females to feel like they don't fit in with other females (they will gravitate more towards hanging out with males). I think Autism should be considered more in these cases to help people who are seeking the wrong solutions.
If I ever see that Jeffrey in person, let's just say he won't see light of another day.
He needs to stop with his grooming. I'm really worried about my future children, I'm thinking of only giving them phones one day when their like 18
@@MickeyMousevD That's really the best thing you should do and have them home schooled or sent to a private school.
@@davevampireknight9778 I don't even think private schools will be save...I want kids so badly but I'm so worried
@@MickeyMousevDraise them in the middle east lolol, just by holding the lgbt+ flag could get u arrested
7:30 ancient people also participated in human sacrifices, but that doesn’t make human sacrifice okay 💀😭
I got an ad for therapy before this video.
These people definitely need it and I’m probably going to need it too after watching their insanity.
I saw someone be like “I go by beeself!!” Istg you better put on a bee costume and come back to me when you learn how to make honey and learn how to pollinate. I also hate how people will also be like “they use xenopronouns bc they’re autistic/neurodivergent!” It makes neurodivergent people to seem small and a baby who can’t make decisions on their own, a teacher literally came up to me and went “do you want me to type for you 🥺” like girl do you want me to throw a desk at you
ArchiStratig, your battle is excellence as usual.
On Jeff - how the heck has obvious arrogance and self-obsession become so common and cheered on? Normally when someone seriously describes himself as “brilliant thinker” or “insanely attractive”, we roll our eyes and say “ew” because nobody wants to be around someone who’s obsessed with himself
Donald Trump does the same thing.