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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @ravon
    @ravon  Год назад +23548

    guys i change my mind i identify as a mole rat

    • @julietteg9665
      @julietteg9665 Год назад +26

      i identify as a nipple ❤️💋

    • @Saucepansnn
      @Saucepansnn Год назад +9

      If ravon identifys as a mole rat then I do too 💪🏼🥱

    • @ashbutcool
      @ashbutcool Год назад +1224

      we support you 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

    • @5kayx
      @5kayx Год назад +857

      You mean "Naked mole rat"?

    • @meow7667
      @meow7667 Год назад +557

      me too babe me too.

  • @no6448
    @no6448 Год назад +13860

    as a trans person, Ravon is doing gods work rn.
    a brave soul

  • @Freaky..
    @Freaky.. Год назад +15304

    “Everyone is judgemental”
    Ravon: “as they should be”
    I died💀

  • @embracx
    @embracx 7 месяцев назад +733

    THANKS FOR THIS VIDEO. someone HAD to said that. As a trans person I'm usually called transphobic for not using neopronouns and saying they're harmful for actual trans ppl (they're making us look stupid etc.) and actually at some point I started feeling guilty because of that and was questioning if transition is a good idea cause they gaslighted me into thinking that I'm not valid 💀🫡

    • @Bobbiejoinscore
      @Bobbiejoinscore 7 месяцев назад +9

      Cool dude? I use dude for any pronouns doesn’t matter if there a girl a boy or any pronouns I say dude to everyone, unless they don’t like it

    • @SgtSerpendo
      @SgtSerpendo 6 месяцев назад +47

      Don't feel guilty for these kind of people. You are apart of this community, they are not. Big difference

    • @VinnnEpifani
      @VinnnEpifani 5 месяцев назад

      PREACH, as a trans person from a homophobic country, who constantly have to ACTUALLY FIGHT for my rights. Neopronouns are a fucking joke

    • @obvi.angell
      @obvi.angell 4 месяца назад +20

      YOU ARE VALID BABE. Do not let others bring you down :( x

    • @offical_dumbass119
      @offical_dumbass119 4 месяца назад +1

      I feel that so heavily. I think it's just so sad that us trans and even the nonbinary people are getting hate. I sometimes just feel like letting people misgender me and think I'm not part cuz of the dumbasses 😐😒

  • @adr3nal1ne_rush
    @adr3nal1ne_rush Год назад +12102

    as someone who goes by any pronouns and doesn’t care how I’m perceived, that does NOT MEAN I WANT PEOPLE CALLING ME A RAT OR A BUG 😭

    • @sofijasofija9036
      @sofijasofija9036 Год назад +55

      okay

    • @dziwnyflet
      @dziwnyflet Год назад +258

      NO DEADASS SAME

    • @illogicae
      @illogicae Год назад +457

      LITERALLY ME. LIKE I USE ANY PRONOUNS BUT I DONT WANNA BE CALLED TOILETPAPER/TOILETPAPERSELF

    • @trickalexg
      @trickalexg Год назад +37

      Ok? It's someone's neopronouns, not yours ☠️🙏

    • @trickalexg
      @trickalexg Год назад +9

      @v01dbugzz but you don't even use those then, you won't be called them if you don't want to

  • @Finnstarrie
    @Finnstarrie Год назад +14946

    As someone who is trans, thank you so much for saying this. A lot of neopronouns are used to mock the trans community and I hate it. I know there are multiple people that have “valid” neopronouns, and that use them for real. But the rest is so annoying

    • @awcoolcrew8879
      @awcoolcrew8879 Год назад +108

      no theyre not??? only ppl who say that believe that, if everyone in the trans community respected it literally wouldnt be a problem

    • @Lucixfer.0
      @Lucixfer.0 Год назад +552

      @Awcool Crew let people have opinions for the love of god

    • @awcoolcrew8879
      @awcoolcrew8879 Год назад +17

      @@Lucixfer.0 no!

    • @Finnstarrie
      @Finnstarrie Год назад +532

      @@awcoolcrew8879 I'm sorry if the experiences I had may not match your experience, but I had tons of people who made fun of the trans community ( my community, idk if its yours too ) by using neopronouns, they only see us as "cringey neopronoun users that use rats pronouns" even though most of us dont. And im sorry if I might misspelled this, but I do support neopronouns, I really do, I just think that some cross the line, especially when it comes to internet. Im sorry but people are using literal emoji's.
      And I didnt mean it in a bad way with "somebody speaking about this" I know there are tons of other issues, but I meant it more as "thanks for informing people about all the stuff thats going on on tiktok ( especially ) because im tired of people using nouns on me and call me weird names, purely because of those people on the internet.
      Again my biggest excuses if any of this doesnt make sense

    • @Finnstarrie
      @Finnstarrie Год назад +60

      @@Lucixfer.0 thank you

  • @ravon
    @ravon  Год назад +11013

    I also just wanna clarify that I don’t think you gotta “look trans” to be trans (2:40) I was using the bathroom scenario as an example saying you can’t just go into a restroom and claim you’re that gender without any real indication or effort that would just be creepy asf…LIKE DUH. But i can see how it can be misconstrued in that way. anyway this was all fun and jokes at the end of the day, if you’re mad stay mad i can’t help roast you when you’re literally identifying as a bee babe it’s just natural instinct 💋

    • @Who.Is_Lore
      @Who.Is_Lore Год назад +488

      no one is still mad dw
      btw im a big fan

    • @Sans_loverr
      @Sans_loverr Год назад +163

      Facts

    • @parinigam8498
      @parinigam8498 Год назад +266

      "If you mad, stay mad we not alike. S A V A G E, keep it pretty pretty savage."
      I had to do it, sorry!

    • @bbycherub2420
      @bbycherub2420 Год назад +436

      You only stated facts, I had a traumatic experience when I was a kid in a women's restroom by a guy I didn't know, so I'd be terrified if what appears to be a man just comes in and says it's okay because they're trans. I can't belive people are mad about this...

    • @masonjar1405
      @masonjar1405 Год назад +423

      @@bbycherub2420 FR, im a trans guy, but im not gonna walk into a mens bathroom looking like the average woman

  • @NEWDARLING
    @NEWDARLING 4 месяца назад +456

    "My pronouns are 🌸/🌸self!"
    I am NOT calling you that💀

    • @黒幕厚意庫羅馬科皮亞
      @黒幕厚意庫羅馬科皮亞 3 месяца назад

      i called someone a “they” a while back and they said to me along the lines of:
      “Excuse me? That is very rude. My pronouns are GL1T3H👾/GL1T3Hself👾”
      like bitch you want me to call you what? ill just stick to they, i mean, im sorry-

    • @AKA_Eliy
      @AKA_Eliy 3 месяца назад +6

      How do you even say that?? 😭😭

    • @NEWDARLING
      @NEWDARLING 3 месяца назад +23

      @@AKA_Eliy NO LIKE FR HOW?? DO YOU JUST SAY "bro it's *flowerself's* cookie!!"

    • @Vsevolodbochkov
      @Vsevolodbochkov 3 месяца назад

      ​@@NEWDARLING PINK FLOWER EMOJI

    • @pancakes2528
      @pancakes2528 3 месяца назад

      @@NEWDARLINGits more of a text thing but yeah its odd im not using emojis

  • @jaimeekelly3416
    @jaimeekelly3416 Год назад +6448

    I feel like some people forget nicknames exist.

    • @ilylia
      @ilylia Год назад +140

      OMG FR

    • @BlueMoonRaccoon016
      @BlueMoonRaccoon016 Год назад +38

      Yes!

    • @vanessa9704
      @vanessa9704 Год назад +242

      That’s exactly what I was thinking if you want to be called bee just say that 😒

    • @liatrisflowers
      @liatrisflowers Год назад +181

      yea and they say its how neurodivergent kids express themselves.. but theyre not expressing themselves at all because theyre not an animal nor an object. instead of feeding into their delusions they should encourage them to express themselves better like, a trans man using he/him pronouns.

    • @M1naxxzz
      @M1naxxzz Год назад +5

      FR

  • @Gloria-oo4qu
    @Gloria-oo4qu 9 месяцев назад +2749

    “You can’t just change the English language and expect everyone to just agree with it”
    PREACH RAVON PREACHHHHHH

    • @Butt3r.on.pawzzz
      @Butt3r.on.pawzzz 5 месяцев назад +4

      830 likes but no comments??

    • @meowmrrrrow
      @meowmrrrrow 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Butt3r.on.pawzzzhow do you even reply to this comment-

    • @sproutz5014
      @sproutz5014 4 месяца назад +8

      this is literally how slang works. we already do this all the time

    • @obama6770
      @obama6770 4 месяца назад +23

      @@sproutz5014difference is no one is attacked for not knowing/understanding slang 🌚

    • @sproutz5014
      @sproutz5014 4 месяца назад

      @@obama6770 you do realize this is the /exact/ same defense transphobes use? no one is going to immediately attack you for misgendering them, and if they do thats because the person sucks, and has nothing to do with people who use those pronouns as a whole

  • @gabriellavaldezzz
    @gabriellavaldezzz Год назад +12507

    As a member as the LGBTQ+ I think the whole neopronouns and identifying as animals really made the whole community look like a giant joke, honestly I don’t really care who gets offended because it makes me feel embarrassed to be semi apart of it (we’re not talking about therians, that’s its own community… we’re aware of the difference….)

  • @SSIGMAA-i5l
    @SSIGMAA-i5l 3 месяца назад +143

    “Hii! What are your pronouns? :3”
    “Oh! Here’s the menu.”

    • @SophieHoang-b5u
      @SophieHoang-b5u 3 месяца назад +1

      THIS COMMENT IS SO UNDERATED HAHAHAHAH

    • @Wild_Child189
      @Wild_Child189 2 месяца назад

      I don’t get it

    • @TheKoiCatDragon
      @TheKoiCatDragon 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@Wild_Child189 Whenever I see people show their neopronouns it's usually a image of a long list so I think that's the joke

  • @samvestergaard3331
    @samvestergaard3331 Год назад +5784

    i love how he can be so open and roast somone at the same time and it feel respecktple

    • @anastasiajunitaaznar2768
      @anastasiajunitaaznar2768 Год назад +24

      Respectful*?

    • @Mkk_does_art
      @Mkk_does_art Год назад +175

      @@anastasiajunitaaznar2768 nah I think they spelled respecktple right

    • @krishi24012
      @krishi24012 Год назад +45

      @@Mkk_does_art nah I think u spelt respecktple right

    • @Luvrosu
      @Luvrosu Год назад +8

      @@anastasiajunitaaznar2768 respectable*

    • @naoithink
      @naoithink Год назад +22

      @@anastasiajunitaaznar2768 no, respecktple. they typed it right, what r u on

  • @violet.crown1036
    @violet.crown1036 Год назад +4229

    Xenogenders kind of make the LGBTQ+
    community seem more like a fandom than a
    collection of people who fight/have fought for
    their right to be ftm, mtf, gay, lesbian, bisexual,
    etc. They make gender and pronouns seem more
    like an accessory or something to collect instead
    of what they're really there for. They act like
    gender and pronouns are something you can
    choose when it isn't. It’s stuff like this that makes it easier for the transphobes to say that the LGBTQ+ community it dumb. Liking cats is fine, it’s a personality trait, but it’s not a gender, it’s a noun. Turning your personality into a gender isn’t just silly, but it’s disrespectful to actual transgender people who have fought to be happy.

    • @Mxtxloverr
      @Mxtxloverr Год назад +213

      Exactly! We literally risk our lives just being ourselves and fight for our rights still today, but stuff like that really diminishes everything we as a community has gone through.

    • @l1lly.mm2
      @l1lly.mm2 Год назад +49

      HONESTLY😬

    • @vs_miley
      @vs_miley Год назад +161

      fr like wtf is catgender...

    • @l1lly.mm2
      @l1lly.mm2 Год назад +36

      @@vs_miley FRR💀

    • @TinomudaJera
      @TinomudaJera Год назад +51

      The facts you spitting up in here👏👏👏

  • @harperisntcool8031
    @harperisntcool8031 Год назад +3578

    i use they/them pronouns myself, and i'm so glad that you spoke up about this. like, I'm not gonna call you rat 💀💀but I've been called transphobic for not using rat/rats pronouns for this kid at school, like i call them they, but like how is that transphobic 😭😭 i am literally not cis

    • @Cloudkirb
      @Cloudkirb Год назад +282

      Literally I get called transphobic for not understanding/disliking whatever pronouns these bozos got.

    • @brooklyn2764
      @brooklyn2764 Год назад +203

      I feel like im offending someone if I call them a rat like idk how to explain it but it just seems rude for me 😭

    • @SuperJGGaming
      @SuperJGGaming Год назад +126

      I feel like everyone should at least accept they/them because of how it’s neutral, I don’t know

    • @amoris5202
      @amoris5202 Год назад +93

      Im okay with neos and by that I mean it/its, Xe/Xem/, Ze/Zer, etc. BUT IF YOU CALL ME A RAT??? WTF???

    • @blaugranalvent
      @blaugranalvent Год назад +71

      i love people like you-who have a brain. i'm aroace and i won't be using sin/cos/tg/ctg for people no matter how much they want me to sorry💀he/she/they are normal,the rest is mental illness

  • @BloodyB0dy
    @BloodyB0dy 7 месяцев назад +37

    The way YOU ATE EVERY SINGLE PERSON UP.

  • @vincentkidwelljr7007
    @vincentkidwelljr7007 Год назад +31154

    i’m supportive but these have to be jokes

  • @AlwaysConfused.
    @AlwaysConfused. Год назад +4003

    As someone who is queer themself, when I found out about neopronouns I really tried to be supportive and learn how to use them. But the whole time in the back of my mind I was skeptical and thinking that this whole thing was crazy. If someone went by the pronouns she/her, he/him, they/them or any combination of the 3 I will respect that and call them by such. It’s like people who use neopronouns never had or heard of having a nickname. I believe that neopronouns are why people outside of the community will not take us seriously, I believe that this will and has hurt the lgbtq community.

    • @franchesca2418
      @franchesca2418 Год назад +175

      Thank you, thank you, thank you for this very comment. I have had the exact same experience when introduced to neopronouns and I can never wrap my head around it. Same thing with xenogender people. If you do not feel human, do not go out of your way finding a gender/pronoun that "fits you" and instead get help. (And I don't mean get help in a rude way, I mean it as in just get help because I'm pretty sure not feeling human is not normal.)

    • @axxelloxzi8418
      @axxelloxzi8418 Год назад +107

      This is exactly what I meant. Because i think other people forget that they/them pronouns is like the generic pronoun. I don't think it is misgendering when you don't use OVERLY specific neopronouns.

    • @sushilovermf
      @sushilovermf Год назад +73

      The same happened with me! I tried to be supportive and educate myself in it but after doing my research I just came to the conclusion that it is absolute nonsense

    • @lucky._starzz_
      @lucky._starzz_ Год назад +69

      Exactly! its just a glorified nickname used by kids who want to be special

    • @Toc1155
      @Toc1155 Год назад +15

      THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @alisa_edits4354
    @alisa_edits4354 Год назад +6128

    Ravon is always iconic. He never fails to make me laugh!

  • @anakarina7770
    @anakarina7770 8 месяцев назад +519

    their making the lgbtq looik like a fandom

  • @LvL1sa
    @LvL1sa Год назад +7069

    Once he said “ babe, I’m gonna eat you” to the cow, I can already hear the vegan teacher

    • @ravon
      @ravon  Год назад +1591

      i can hear her spawn like an enderman

    • @mynameisnotcarson3857
      @mynameisnotcarson3857 Год назад +79

      @@ravon ikr 😂

    • @teagan3315
      @teagan3315 Год назад +182

      @@ravon be for real you’ll hear her spawn like a skeleton. As she shakes them bones

    • @xxjceplayzrobloxxx3141
      @xxjceplayzrobloxxx3141 Год назад +58

      @@teagan3315 LMAO THIS WAS FUNNY NGL

    • @TJsO.O
      @TJsO.O Год назад +8

      omg ryujin in ur pfp taste

  • @Ccrouse93
    @Ccrouse93 Год назад +5514

    These neopronouns add so much fuel to the fire when it comes to ACTUAL conservative/homophobic/transphobic people laughing at the LGBTQIA+ community. They're never going to take anything seriously at this point.

    • @jaspinator5000
      @jaspinator5000 Год назад +299

      exactly what im saying!! im a trans guy myself and all of these neopronouns make it so much harder to get rights

    • @Ccrouse93
      @Ccrouse93 Год назад +73

      @jas!! I'm sorry for the added struggle this causes. Remember there's always more people with you than against you 🩷🤍🩵

    • @Cleanthefloors
      @Cleanthefloors Год назад +104

      Idk tbh I feel like the community is ripping each other apart and ruining themselves

    • @CakesWarden
      @CakesWarden Год назад +122

      It’s so frustrating and completely counterproductive to any goal around trans acceptance. It’s insane that the apache helicopter meme used to be a transphobic joke, but now people are unironically defending the principle behind it.

    • @CakesWarden
      @CakesWarden Год назад

      @@jaspinator5000 Godspeed to you brother. More trans people need to disavow the neopronoun/xenogender position. It’s a losing position and will (hopefully) pass like all fads eventually do.

  • @bettercallsaul6996
    @bettercallsaul6996 Год назад +7452

    Yall I think we have to agree that Ravons humor is the best thing ever fr

  • @pinklaceee
    @pinklaceee 7 месяцев назад +88

    nah the girl who said she indentifies as a bee/fairy lowkey looks like james charles girl bye 😭

  • @bananadino2476
    @bananadino2476 Год назад +1765

    I'm so glad someone is talking about this and not being hateful but pointing out that there is a line and it has been crossed

    • @alwayssarc
      @alwayssarc Год назад +28

      Facts

    • @deegutsy7574
      @deegutsy7574 Год назад +10

      Fr fr

    • @olaczyk
      @olaczyk Год назад +55

      Ong I thought I am just a hateful person for thinking that (but didn't care anyways lol) but I see i am not the only one

    • @Loves_Bands_And_Haikyu
      @Loves_Bands_And_Haikyu Год назад +1

      Facts

    • @snailienvt
      @snailienvt Год назад +11

      Nobody is hurting you with neopronouns. Grow up

  • @BugsRCool-ot5jz
    @BugsRCool-ot5jz Год назад +2705

    As a member of the LGBTQ+ I 100% agree with this. At this point it’s literally just mocking the trans community and it needs to stop 💀
    Edit: Alright guys, please stop replying. It was personally used to mock me when I was out of the closet and I've learned to accept it. Please stop replying I wish you a happy day!

    • @unixguyy
      @unixguyy Год назад +12

      LGBT*

    • @_.SunnySky
      @_.SunnySky Год назад +46

      @@unixguyy LGBTQ+*

    • @uweirdo238
      @uweirdo238 Год назад +63

      @@_.SunnySky You can say both lol

    • @unixguyy
      @unixguyy Год назад +10

      @@uweirdo238 no don't you get? it they have to include the whole alphabet next year they'll add the S for straight for "inclusion✨"

    • @uweirdo238
      @uweirdo238 Год назад +72

      @@unixguyy ? Wtf are you saying bro ? Doesn’t have to do anything with what I said + what do you mean about that 🤨

  • @NexxWalsh-bi2fw
    @NexxWalsh-bi2fw Год назад +1367

    As a nonbinary person, thank you. My exact point. These are not identities. Making up literally 100S OF PRONOUNS makes the real trans communuty look bad. Its unreal.

    • @sandygonsalves4646
      @sandygonsalves4646 Год назад

      Hate to break it to you but you're not the real trans community either.

    • @Bus7585
      @Bus7585 Год назад +9

      As a binary person, i can't relate.

    • @sillycaelo
      @sillycaelo Год назад

      @@Bus7585 01001000 01000101 01001100 01001100 01001111

    • @annaaudelia
      @annaaudelia 11 месяцев назад

      I literally laugh every time someone says this. Like, babe that s what ftm and mtf people think about YOU! AND WHAT GAY AND LESBIAN PEOPLE THINK ABOUT BISEXUALS AND TRANS PEOPLE AND AROACE. All it is, is people hating to fit in. It's what biracial people do around white people that hate black people, what gays do to lesbians. It's just hating on people to try to fit in better. At the end of the day, people already want you dead

    • @FredrickThePenguin
      @FredrickThePenguin 9 месяцев назад +4

      As a nonbinary person I totally agree with you.

  • @liviolultime
    @liviolultime 6 месяцев назад +52

    THE OOMPA/LOOMPA THING IS JUST SO FUNNY I'M CRYING

  • @Usernotavailable__
    @Usernotavailable__ Год назад +678

    “Beeself” all i think of is a fucking muscular bee 🤭🫠

  • @missylissy200
    @missylissy200 10 месяцев назад +3273

    I'm an ally, and I tried to understand these neopronoun people for a while, but I just can't. They really piss me off because they're making such a mockery of trans people. Lots of people will see these tiktoks and think that being trans is the same as claiming you're a rat or a demon.

    • @livshaunted13
      @livshaunted13 10 месяцев назад +44

      SAME

    • @ijustsentanairstriketoyourhome
      @ijustsentanairstriketoyourhome 9 месяцев назад +89

      Speaking as a transgender person, I would also agree that xenogenders and neopronouns do cause more stigma around the trans community BUT, it doesn’t mean you can hate/despise people for identifying and using them. Especially since most people that use xenogenders and neopronouns are neurodivergent or autistic and use them since they don’t know any other way to express or identify their gender. Also, identifying with xenogenders technically makes you trans, since it is considered a Non-Binary identity. I don’t really know how I could explain things properly since I’m bad at writing, so I guess if you have any questions about anything or want me to elaborate more on a subject just ask!!

    • @Rosette009
      @Rosette009 9 месяцев назад +66

      ​@@ijustsentanairstriketoyourhome I actually have a question, bc Ik not everyone has the same experience with being neurodivergent as me, but I've seen so many other neurodivergent people say they don't understand neopronouns bc they're complicated, plus I just don't understand how a noun can be a pronoun, and lastly why couldn't they just use they/them ? I'm still sorta new to the English language which also kinda makes this complicated but pls know what I mean

    • @M0ssyStars91
      @M0ssyStars91 9 месяцев назад +21

      I'm trans and I love and support people who use neopronouns and xenogenders. All of my trans friends support and love people with xenogenders and neopronouns. They're not hurting anyone, people are hurting them for being who they are.

    • @bluegir
      @bluegir 9 месяцев назад

      mayb listen to trans ppl.. ur not a ally

  • @itsmaddieeeee902
    @itsmaddieeeee902 Год назад +1710

    Ravon always makes my day 10x better ❤
    OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL THE LIKES ❤

    • @ravon
      @ravon  Год назад +236

      🥰

    • @Nari_TheClown
      @Nari_TheClown Год назад +13

    • @canyouseethroughmytears
      @canyouseethroughmytears Год назад +4

      Ravon always makes everyone’s day better.

    • @Lee-gh3hv
      @Lee-gh3hv Год назад +1

      I love ravons channel like I will watch all his videos 300 times

    • @trickalexg
      @trickalexg Год назад

      Damnnn.. yall love a man for being openly transphobic huh

  • @Crybaby652
    @Crybaby652 7 месяцев назад +61

    Raven is so funny is killing me 😭

  • @rudereactions8819
    @rudereactions8819 Год назад +3749

    Love that finally someone in the LGBT was brave enough to speak out

    • @SerfOfTheYear
      @SerfOfTheYear Год назад +336

      We need more people speaking up about these kids making a mockery of the community because if they try to represent the LGBT they’re gonna give people the wrong idea by misinforming them.

    • @astersucks
      @astersucks Год назад +48

      Boo ! i use neopronouns wtf you gonna do abt it

    • @theangrykittycat2256
      @theangrykittycat2256 Год назад +302

      @@astersucks Nothing 💀 lmao

    • @astersucks
      @astersucks Год назад

      @@theangrykittycat2256 then stop pissing your pants over people who use them

    • @theangrykittycat2256
      @theangrykittycat2256 Год назад +52

      @@astersucks Huh? Lmao

  • @ww.darling
    @ww.darling Год назад +2250

    RAV YOU SAVED ME FROM THE DEPRESSION OF STUDYING MATH 💔😭

    • @Lvckistvr
      @Lvckistvr Год назад +28

      You’ll make it out alive 😢

    • @PerfectlyUnhappy
      @PerfectlyUnhappy Год назад +5

      Fr fr

    • @user-wo2hr2oj9i
      @user-wo2hr2oj9i Год назад +13

      Me too but i was doing psychology. He's a lifesaver fr

    • @erhhhh27
      @erhhhh27 Год назад +2

      Me too, I’m in my final year of school and I’m suffering 🥹

    • @ashaylathomas9360
      @ashaylathomas9360 Год назад +6

      Babe do ur woorkkkk

  • @SxgeKM
    @SxgeKM Год назад +888

    As a transgender male (he/they) I’m so thank full someone spoke up about this because I feel like our community is being made fun of for things like this. These aren’t Neo pronouns btw there Xenopronouns two different things 💀

    • @SxgeKM
      @SxgeKM Год назад +74

      Neo pronouns are They/They,Xe/Xem,Xim/Xir where as Xeno pronouns are objects,things or animals

    • @SxgeKM
      @SxgeKM Год назад +33

      Neo pronouns are pronouns where Xeno pronouns is using objects and or creatures to identify yourself 👌🏽

    • @SxgeKM
      @SxgeKM Год назад +32

      It/It’s are also Neopronouns yk pronouns that make sense in the English language. I will respect everyone’s pronouns no matter what but do not use things that insult my community

    • @ghostsomni
      @ghostsomni 11 месяцев назад +24

      Transgender male too, literally spoke the truth man. It’s getting harder to say ‘I’m trans’ without being scared that they’re gonna assume that I use xenopronouns(???) if that makes sense 💀

    • @maric2771
      @maric2771 11 месяцев назад

      @@ghostsomnihonestly I feel bad for the decent trans people just trying to live life cause they’re being overshadowed by the “neo pronouns” that are so over the top they make everybody just look bad

  • @Bl4ckVeilPrinc3ss
    @Bl4ckVeilPrinc3ss 5 месяцев назад +128

    As a member of the LGBT community I find xeno "genders" extremely ridiculous and unnecessary, but unfortunately nowadays you can't have common sense or make rational criticism because someone so weak minded will send you d3ath threats or will falsely accuse you of being "-phobic", I dislike the largest part of online LGBT spaces

    • @Ke0h298
      @Ke0h298 3 месяца назад

      OH MY GOD FR i started to think other "gender identities" are just a load of bs.. like if you're non-binary, genderfluid, i support whole heartedly BUT IF YOU IDENTIFY AS NOTHING OR A FAIRY???? 💀

    • @Everrettime
      @Everrettime 2 месяца назад +2

      I don’t use a xenogender but they’re for people who can’t grasp the concept of gender.

    • @Jeckolenation
      @Jeckolenation 2 месяца назад +2

      Xenogenders are often used by autistic people (like myself) because we have a difficult time understanding the traditional concept of gender.

  • @dannhhh
    @dannhhh Год назад +424

    10:53 as a trans man i feel it does harm transgender people because it makes people feel like our community is some chronically online joke

    • @Frutigeraero06
      @Frutigeraero06 11 месяцев назад +17

      Same with non binary people

    • @nookiepookiedookieWHAT
      @nookiepookiedookieWHAT 9 месяцев назад +16

      It makes it seem like some weird fandom instead of an identity

    • @vampire_goth2007
      @vampire_goth2007 9 месяцев назад +6

      I found how a person defends himself... saying this:
      "neopronouns ruin the community and are transphobic"
      - my trans and non-binary friends using neopronouns
      I am Peruvian and here in Peru those pronouns are not common... but I have seen some on Twitter (minors) but it is not very common.
      I only find "ELLE/ELLES" pronouns here as neutral pronouns...
      On the other hand, on Twitter and on Tiktok there are minors who say that their pronouns are xe/xem or xi/xim or it/its (I don't know what their grammar is, sorry), but in English.
      At least in Latin America there is no such thing as rabbit/rabbit itself, etc... it would completely ruin the community and it would be seen as a fandom that is serious...

    • @ssnowstarr4985
      @ssnowstarr4985 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@Frutigeraero06 cope

    • @jchabon
      @jchabon 8 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@Frutigeraero06i definitely don't agree with that, being non binary is understandable

  • @megalodon5185
    @megalodon5185 Год назад +926

    I was banned permanently from r/lgbt (i'm gay) for terror-related activities. I posted a single thread commenting how I default to they/them pronouns if someone tells me that their pronouns are zir/zem or something similar. I understand that it's a sensitive issue atm, but IT IS NOT TERROR RELATED. Ravon, i've just discovered you, and it's awesome finding another member of the LGBT community who realises this is a bit much now.

    • @blindbandit9579
      @blindbandit9579 Год назад +1

      And now they think you're a terrorist 💀💀💀sorry that happened to you bro

    • @megalodon5185
      @megalodon5185 Год назад +16

      @@blindbandit9579 it's alr. Showed a lot about the community tbh

    • @pissapocalypse
      @pissapocalypse Год назад +120

      Yeah the lgbt community can be embarrassing as hell sometimes. Like homophobia sucks but tbh some of the hatred is the fault of the community itself for going overboard. It sucks for the rest of us who just wanna exist, but we're being lumped in with insane Twitter people who get all the attention.

    • @PDD555
      @PDD555 Год назад +25

      Ooof, that Reddit is another toxic can of worms. Believe me, most subreddits are full of entitled people

    • @jian6569
      @jian6569 Год назад +57

      I agree lol!!! I'm bisex and "genderless" since idc if people call me she/him/they but this beeself and shit wtf I'm scared of the younger gen of gays

  • @bri_briiii
    @bri_briiii Год назад +873

    if i ever meet someone who says "im Eddiesexual!" or "my pronouns are demon/demonself." im sprinting 💀
    its gone to far 💀

    • @snoopys.sweater
      @snoopys.sweater Год назад +35

      FR THO

    • @snoopys.sweater
      @snoopys.sweater Год назад +93

      like i’m all abt self expression BUT OMFG WHAT- 💀💀

    • @xanastar07
      @xanastar07 Год назад +13

      @@snoopys.sweater ON GOD

    • @nekomi_kiyxi
      @nekomi_kiyxi Год назад

      NAH i will LITERALLY ship myself out of earth to mars cause what the fuck is eddiesexual 💀

    • @_ishanaa_
      @_ishanaa_ Год назад +51

      same, i’m here for neopronouns that are not too bad (ex. ones i wouldnt use are demon/demonself), and self expression (i’m literally bi and trans), BUT IF YOU SAY YOURE EDDIESEXUAL IM OUT

  • @Layze_Fan_Slay
    @Layze_Fan_Slay 8 месяцев назад +331

    We went from
    " Oh yea i like girls"
    To:
    "Oh yeah i identify as a bee a wasp a beehive a fairy a mermaid"
    Edit: I don't wanna be that person but thank you for the likes I've never had this much ever :D

    • @AdamBláha-r3d
      @AdamBláha-r3d 8 месяцев назад +1

      lol

    • @rikimura_rishi
      @rikimura_rishi 7 месяцев назад +3

      All in a couple of years....

    • @Medicinarioum
      @Medicinarioum 6 месяцев назад

      @@rikimura_rishi well, no

    • @rikimura_rishi
      @rikimura_rishi 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@Medicinarioum i just found out that ppl have been doing this since the 1400's so lemme rephrase this. peope have been embracing/being more open abt this all in a couple of years (like, 2020)

    • @summerpog3870
      @summerpog3870 4 месяца назад +4

      they really out here identifying as 2018 gacha life ocs

  • @aneedysleeper
    @aneedysleeper 11 месяцев назад +674

    1:46 "You look more like a Oompa Loompa" I CAN'T BREATHE

    • @LiaBlizz
      @LiaBlizz 7 месяцев назад +41

      “Oompa, loompa, doopity dee
      My pronouns are fairy and bee”
      I’m sorry I’ll see myself out 😭

    • @medeucaa
      @medeucaa 7 месяцев назад +10

      @@LiaBlizznah wait come back😂

    • @BibbleIsBetterThanYou
      @BibbleIsBetterThanYou 6 месяцев назад +8

      Ravon said that so casually 😭

    • @paradoxtatorstudios9681
      @paradoxtatorstudios9681 5 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@LiaBlizzthis made me wheeze 😂

    • @Ra_wr461
      @Ra_wr461 3 месяца назад

      @@LiaBlizzthat’s so good😭😭😭

  • @therando9090
    @therando9090 Год назад +1161

    i’m a trans guy, and i’m fine with neopronouns as long as they stay online and just for fun/as a coping mechanism. if someone goes out in public and expects to be called demon/demonself by everyone who meets them, they will be in for a very rude awakening.

    • @St9rz_
      @St9rz_ Год назад +27

      I agree honestly!

    • @Alogta
      @Alogta Год назад

      I agree too

    • @_exolite
      @_exolite Год назад +46

      Yeah no I only expect people to use my neopronouns online lmao

    • @Alogta
      @Alogta Год назад

      @@_exolite As a person who hates them
      I honestly think it's very valid using them only online and not in irl

    • @pixelgnarp
      @pixelgnarp Год назад +8

      THIS. TBHH

  • @11gasmarkanthonylhanzt.mel53
    @11gasmarkanthonylhanzt.mel53 Год назад +684

    Okay, I'm saying this from the perspective of a queer teenager who isn't from the west. I have been having mixed feelings about neopronouns since I've known abt them from TikTok. Like I understand that people don't always identify he/him or she/her that's why there is they/them. I have asked people to give me reasons why neopronouns are valid and the strongest argument so far is that "English is made up of made-up words" and a person told me before that most people who uses neopronouns are autistic.
    Personally, if I don't know you and I don't have the time to look at your bio I will use they/them, if I know your name then I will use that, if somehow I looked in your bio and the neopronouns you made for yourself makes sense then I will use it. I have observed that most people who use ridiculous pronouns such as (noun+self) bunself, beeself are white. I saw a tiktok once where a POC discusses how these white folks want to be opressed so bad they will make an issue then they will stretch it. From a perspective of a queer teenager outside of the US, videos like that give me the ick, it reeks of privilege. While I worry about me not having basic rights you worry about neopronouns. Instead of getting mad at people from the internet imma need you to TOUCH SOME GRASS

    • @emilysammy6082
      @emilysammy6082 Год назад

      what does color have to do with this? it's crazy people not the whole white community babe

    • @KuJayCools
      @KuJayCools Год назад +53

      i love ur prospective so much

    • @user-qh1bc2zc2m
      @user-qh1bc2zc2m Год назад +79

      Fr, I agree as a white teenager also outside of the US. There are people who actually are oppressed and need help to fight with oppression and then there's this group of neousers 😶

    • @Ari-bl4un
      @Ari-bl4un Год назад +9

      REAL.

    • @FreakyFrankie
      @FreakyFrankie Год назад +72

      I agree with you SO MUCH. as a person who lives in a country where it's LITERALLY ILLEGAL BY LAW TO BE GAY . It just makes me so mad to see these privileged lil kidz whining abt someone not calling them vampireself. And im worrying about not getting in jail for being a transgender man! The contrast is so present and they are too blinded by their own privilege that they are ungrateful for! >:(

  • @nikitties-alohairoha
    @nikitties-alohairoha 4 месяца назад +44

    As someone in the trans community and is autistic, the fact these people try to claim its for autistic trans folk is borderline offensive.

    • @dylric
      @dylric 4 месяца назад +15

      yes, im autistic and also a transboy. I find neopronouns so dumb. Its mostly the mfs who fake autism as well 😭

    • @CeriseRose
      @CeriseRose 3 месяца назад +1

      Fr😭 I’m tired of them bringing autistic/nd ppl into this garbage fire bc it makes us all look fucking stupid

    • @vid_save
      @vid_save 2 месяца назад

      @@dylricfr same

  • @Familliarsurroundings
    @Familliarsurroundings Год назад +2384

    I support they/them pronouns. Hell, I even support xe/xim and zer/zim pronouns. But as soon as someone comes up to me tryna tell me they go by “dog/dog self” I’m gonna cry real tears

    • @Little.Miss.Overthink
      @Little.Miss.Overthink 11 месяцев назад +87

      You’re so real for that 😭💀

    • @thine.
      @thine. 11 месяцев назад +168

      yeah, she/he/they/ze/xe(even tho idk how to pronounce it), like theyre fine, but i feel like using an animal or whatever word is just making fun of queer ppl.. like when kids wanna pretend to be a cat, but they take it seriously

    • @Admiral_Capyzaru
      @Admiral_Capyzaru 11 месяцев назад

      The fuck is a... the fuck is a Xe/Xim-

    • @LM.312
      @LM.312 11 месяцев назад +78

      Tf is xe/xim zer/zim

    • @taekooktrash9607
      @taekooktrash9607 10 месяцев назад +18

      ​@@LM.312 idek

  • @Nana-jy8pc
    @Nana-jy8pc Год назад +1403

    As a queer, If you have neopronouns (doesn't include they/them) I could'nt give less of a shit. You can do whatever you need to feel comfortable with yourself. I don't mind, I'm not bothered, but I'm not going out of my way to ask what your new pronouns are everyday (had someone actually do this) and then get screamed and yelled at when I'm not going to call you bun/bunself and then two days later you decide you're actually rat/ratself. You can't expect everyone around you to just be walking on eggshells over your pronouns. No one is required to do that, and as long as they aren't purposefully trying to hate crime you over your pronouns, who gives a fu ck if people don't wanna call you a bee? Why do you need every single person do validate you? That's narcissistic, you aren't the center of the universe babes, sorry.

    • @Cleanthefloors
      @Cleanthefloors Год назад +61

      YES.

    • @c0rpz3_xOO
      @c0rpz3_xOO Год назад +30

      Most of xenopronouns users use multiple pronouns

    • @Acetronomy
      @Acetronomy Год назад +27

      This sums up my thoughts and opinions perfectly

    • @KandaYuu_
      @KandaYuu_ Год назад +8

      I feel like you read my mind
      But fr

    • @strawberris4rue
      @strawberris4rue Год назад +46

      Yes! As a xenopronoun user (and also a pronoun collecter), I’m completely fine if people don’t want to use them as I also use they/she, yes, it is appreciated, but I find there is no need to have an unnecessary argument about what I’d like to be called. Yes, I might add a new xeno to my prnouns, but I’m not expecting anyone to use them if they don’t want to. ^-^

  • @strawbinnieluv
    @strawbinnieluv Год назад +202

    i told my online best friend my honest opinion on neo pronouns, she agreed with me, then a month later she blocked (for like 5 months) me because of it 😨 now im scared to say my opinions to her like mf gonna attack me for having a opinion on furry’s 😭😭

    • @Киднеюшка-э3п
      @Киднеюшка-э3п Год назад +13

      That sucks :C
      You definitely can make better best friends instead of being scared to tell an opinion that does not intent to hurt anyone!

    • @strawbinnieluv
      @strawbinnieluv Год назад +7

      @@Киднеюшка-э3п aaa youre so sweet ily

    • @รเเ-จ9ฒ
      @รเเ-จ9ฒ Год назад +1

      its okey to have opinions hunny, most of us think the same as u ;), atleast we are educated

    • @strawbinnieluv
      @strawbinnieluv Год назад +4

      @@รเเ-จ9ฒ i dropped them a month ago 😻 i’d love to b ur friend omg ??! ✊✊

    • @kyojuros_wife7
      @kyojuros_wife7 Год назад +2

      Gotta be careful because you'd be sliced for having an opinion 😅

  • @SkullpandaGirlie
    @SkullpandaGirlie 6 месяцев назад +140

    I identify as a lung
    My pronouns are hghhh/hghhhself

  • @Luochasbf
    @Luochasbf Год назад +914

    The fact that this man can slay anyone in just 2 seconds

  • @that_countryball
    @that_countryball Год назад +800

    My day is allways better when ravon uploads

  • @jemappelle.michelle
    @jemappelle.michelle 6 месяцев назад +23

    as some1 from the community, i actually wheezed so hard when i heard that people want to be referred to as kit/kitself or fae/faer/faers.

  • @MaceFace69
    @MaceFace69 Год назад +1753

    I am so glad someone finally talked about this topic, it’s been an unspoken thing for FAR too long. I am in the LGBTQ community but every time I talk about this I have been called homophobic. Thank you for this video Ravon, it lowkey made me comfortable with my thoughts, thank you

    • @heyimmagenta7310
      @heyimmagenta7310 Год назад

      It's not even homophobic. Don't listen to them lmao.
      We're all obviously for equality, but some people are just way too delusional sometimes yknow? It's downright OFFENSIVE to anyone who isn't gender conforming...

    • @xozzZ__
      @xozzZ__ Год назад +214

      Not all neopronoun users are weird, I can promise yall

    • @MaceFace69
      @MaceFace69 Год назад +177

      Exactly, but I feel some take it too far

    • @sanana4088
      @sanana4088 Год назад +299

      i just don't understand them, i know some of them are normal but they be making things that AREN'T pronouns into pronouns like, windowself, what- thats not when neo pronouns meaannnn

    • @heyimmagenta7310
      @heyimmagenta7310 Год назад +82

      @@sanana4088 LMAO Probably most of them are memeing, but you can't really tell 😑

  • @TeaWithQueenie
    @TeaWithQueenie Год назад +181

    I'm a trans and diagnosed autistic person and xenopronouns just fucking hurt my head 😭😭 THERE SO CONFUSING ANDB ACTUALLY harmful to the community!! TY TY TY FOR TALKING ABT TGIA LOVW RAVON POOKIE

    • @girlboss2620
      @girlboss2620 Год назад +11

      Fr im also Autistic, and this so confusing to me also 😭

    • @aWERFRGT6545BGFG
      @aWERFRGT6545BGFG 11 месяцев назад +2

      im autistic and i get them and respect them but i personally dont go by neo pronouns

  • @kirvish520
    @kirvish520 Год назад +210

    as a trans guy these people make my blood boil. i cant even go outside without getting called a slur just because somebody just decides to call themself "kit/kitself"

    • @kirvish520
      @kirvish520 Год назад +2

      @Aram🇵🇭 ty!

    • @thealieninyourass5287
      @thealieninyourass5287 Год назад +2

      Nice pfp but that's my husband pls stop kidnapping him it's very offensive

    • @thealieninyourass5287
      @thealieninyourass5287 Год назад

      Hello sir I just want to remind you that the man in your pfp is legally married to me we have 6 children 15 monkeys 4 dogs and 96 cats please you are gonna make 6 children 15 monkeys 4 dogs and 96 cats fatherless because you are so selfish so please leave my Simon alone and bring him home if he doesn't get pegged by me every 5 hours he gets brain cancer because of no sex and he will fucking explode so please let me see my husband again and bring him home

    • @kirvish520
      @kirvish520 Год назад +3

      @@thealieninyourass5287 naur hes my husband

    • @thealieninyourass5287
      @thealieninyourass5287 Год назад +2

      @@kirvish520 BRING HIM HOME 😰😰😰😰😨😨😨😨😨😨!!!!!!! HE WILL DIE OF BRAIN CANCER PLSSSS

  • @michaelfinklea9295
    @michaelfinklea9295 7 месяцев назад +31

    "Demon pronouns" bro even the demons disagree with this!!!😂

    • @fwuffcat
      @fwuffcat 21 день назад +1

      too much of a menace even the demons can’t handle them 💀💀

  • @bread5163
    @bread5163 Год назад +287

    For some time I used neopronouns, but only did bcs of pressure from ppl I knew who used them as well, and as someone who was in close encounter w that community, I believe it’s fair to say it’s really toxic. After some time I realized using those so called “pronouns” didn’t make sense, many of those “friends” called me transphobic (I’m a trans man) and stopped talking to me. I’m glad this is finally being addressed. 🙏🏻🙏🏻😭

    • @UrFriendlyHoax
      @UrFriendlyHoax Год назад +10

      I’m so sorry for you :((

    • @levilombardi3162
      @levilombardi3162 Год назад +16

      Naur fr it's highkey a weird cult mentality with a lot of those kinds of ppl...from a fellow trans guy I'm sorry u had to deal with that. Ugh.

    • @ihatecharlie
      @ihatecharlie Год назад +1

      Not saying I agree or disagree, but you can be transphobic and be trans

    • @UrFriendlyHoax
      @UrFriendlyHoax Год назад

      Uhm... I'm not entirely onboard with that statement. You do you boo

    • @ihatecharlie
      @ihatecharlie Год назад

      @@UrFriendlyHoax like some trans ftm say that you HAVE to transition medically or your not a true guy

  • @xitlalicarbajal8840
    @xitlalicarbajal8840 Год назад +501

    there’s a kid at my school that identifies has rat/rats and it scares me he’s growled at me before 😭

  • @iivvrev
    @iivvrev Год назад +328

    I’m literally in the LGBTQ but these neopronouns are getting crazy.😭

    • @onbreak_orquitting
      @onbreak_orquitting Год назад +8

      Yup😭 some of them (in my opinion) are beginning to get kinda transphobic- as a trans biromantic myself these ppl scare me 😭 glad we agree!

    • @hyperfixtated.freakX3
      @hyperfixtated.freakX3 Год назад

      Neopronouns:
      3:33

    • @autocorrectly764
      @autocorrectly764 6 месяцев назад

      Yeah just use nicknames 😭

  • @Dollly-dq1sj
    @Dollly-dq1sj 8 месяцев назад +13

    Thank you ravon for making my day better! I just lost my dog today so I am feeling a little horrible so thank you ravon!!❤❤❤

  • @LobsterTown
    @LobsterTown Год назад +835

    Trans man here myself! Thank you for making this like bro, neopronouns don’t make any sense and I’m tired of pretending that I have to support it because I’m trans. Like I don’t care, I don’t mind, I’m not bothered by it, but I straight up have been called transphobic for not using them 💀

    • @bigmanpounder1229
      @bigmanpounder1229 Год назад +97

      literally!! i cross the line at anything after xe/xem and fae/faer. things like “bee” “meow” and “puppy” aren’t pronouns in my opinion. im sorry, but in the context they are used, you might as well ask me to use it as a nickname. (ex: if ur neopronoun is “rat”, just have it be your nickname. you’ll still be referred to as rat, of course??)

    • @LobsterTown
      @LobsterTown Год назад +44

      @@bigmanpounder1229 POV epic person fr, gimme a smooch. Like Rat is a wonderful nickname, I can’t do it as a neopronouns.
      Neopronouns aren’t objects, they are xe/xim, ze/xim, and etc

    • @WeePingWG
      @WeePingWG Год назад +26

      @@LobsterTown THIS!! THIS!! THANK YOU AMAZING PERSON 😭😭
      Seems like suddenly everyone has forgotten about nicknames, like, they are still a thing why people need to make it a pronoun? 😭 it’s so stupid fr

    • @Kamerouu
      @Kamerouu Год назад +6

      ONG, and plus some neopronouns are so hard to pronounce like im not gonna call you fae or bun

    • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960
      @oreochocolate_lavacake9960 Год назад +6

      ​@@bigmanpounder1229 for real their sound more like names which are proper nouns than actual pronouns like I understand xe/xem and fae/faes but it gets confusing with rat/fairy/bun it's like im calling someone by their nickname and not their pronoun at this point I'd rather just use their actual name

  • @Sahshka0
    @Sahshka0 11 месяцев назад +81

    THE MIKU ONE IM CRYINGGHGHH

  • @Annoyingannoymous
    @Annoyingannoymous Год назад +1023

    I can understand using neopronouns on an online space, however, it’s quite an unnatural way of speaking one on one

    • @eridanyuri
      @eridanyuri Год назад +124

      there almost entirly used online, so ya

    • @ZoeRebecca
      @ZoeRebecca Год назад +137

      i mean the kinds of people who use these pronouns are chronically online, so I don't think you have to worry

    • @demibourbonn8903
      @demibourbonn8903 Год назад +3

      Frr

    • @bennybugs4768
      @bennybugs4768 Год назад +27

      Bro yk that’s just a form of self expression ? And was made for and by neurodivergent people 😭😭

    • @demibourbonn8903
      @demibourbonn8903 Год назад +104

      @@bennybugs4768 so?? I’m gonna feel super odd in public if i am talking with a group of people and have to call someone “bunself” 💀💀

  • @KnickKnack505
    @KnickKnack505 8 месяцев назад +5

    "peace, love, chicken nuggets❤". new fav quote from ravon

  • @pe4rl__
    @pe4rl__ Год назад +115

    9:54 as a bullying victim, this made me laugh 😭😭

  • @pidge5193
    @pidge5193 Год назад +358

    it's always such a breath of fresh air when a fellow gay speaks out about this shit, I don't care what you do as long as you aren't forcing your weird neo and xeno pronouns on others and saying they're mandatory

    • @myeong-hee6041
      @myeong-hee6041 Год назад +9

      Exactly. I’m like omg another queer person that’s like me speaking out about this nonsense

    • @bluegir
      @bluegir 9 месяцев назад

      ya a transphobic gay..

    • @miiiiiiiiiirinrin
      @miiiiiiiiiirinrin 9 месяцев назад +2

      So if someone said to you "Stop forcing everyone to be gay!" its completely and totally wrong, but saying "Stop forcing everyone to use your preferred pronouns!" is perfectly okay and isn't in the slightest bit hypocritical or transphobic?

    • @fayziez
      @fayziez 9 месяцев назад +5

      @@miiiiiiiiiirinrinim not calling someone a bee. And the fact people want someone to use their set of pronouns for only a specific group of people….?? Like?? Isn’t that just a bit a disrespectful💀💀 cmon now.

  • @coolkairos1041
    @coolkairos1041 Год назад +614

    As a transsexual thank you for speaking on this. I see a lot of people are calling you transphobic but you’re literally just speaking the truth.

    • @himikotoga2191
      @himikotoga2191 Год назад +38

      no trans person refers to themselves as a transsexual

    • @coolkairos1041
      @coolkairos1041 Год назад +1

      @@himikotoga2191 fuck u mean? There are plenty of trans people who prefer to call themselves transsexual. Including myself. The new term transgender makes it sound like ur changing ur gender but transsexual means ur changing ur sex to match ur gender. That’s why especially transmedicalists prefer the term transsexual

    • @coolkairos1041
      @coolkairos1041 Год назад +47

      @@iby_xu same as transgender but without the neopronoun bullshit

    • @iby_xu
      @iby_xu Год назад +1

      @@coolkairos1041 cool thanks

    • @sjsjsjcififdenenen9890
      @sjsjsjcififdenenen9890 Год назад +21

      @@himikotoga2191 trender decindin what actual trans people do or dont.

  • @ronaldcounterman5812
    @ronaldcounterman5812 4 месяца назад +14

    You're saying what I'm thinking. They aren't using pronouns, they're using NOUNS. Have these people ever taken an English class?

  • @julietadiazgranados9814
    @julietadiazgranados9814 Год назад +286

    i love how he gets the point across in a funny way without deeply offending someone, i love ravons humor

    • @elmhale5441
      @elmhale5441 Год назад +3

      @Elle Stuart FOR REAL like cmon now if ur offended ur chronically online...

  • @sofiachaparro1063
    @sofiachaparro1063 11 месяцев назад +103

    “You cant just change the English language and expect everyone to go along with it” REALLLL

    • @miiiiiiiiiirinrin
      @miiiiiiiiiirinrin 9 месяцев назад

      as if that doesn't happen every day in every language. I still don't full know if "ain't" has been considered a real word yet

    • @ROOB3N
      @ROOB3N 6 месяцев назад +7

      ​@miiiiiiiiiirinrin Dictionary
      Definitions from Oxford Languages · Learn more
      INFORMAL
      contraction
      am not; are not; is not.
      "if it ain't broke, don't fix it"
      has not; have not.
      "they ain't got nothing to say"
      Yes it might be an informal word but it still is one.

    • @ketaminepoptarts
      @ketaminepoptarts 6 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@miiiiiiiiiirinrin its not like a single person can just completely change the english language bc they felt like it, stuff like new words or spelling changes have to be widely accepted first to become official

    • @DonnaDiMantinea
      @DonnaDiMantinea 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@miiiiiiiiiirinrin change is a gradual phenomenon, if it's applied to a language the change has to be made by everyone spontaneously and naturally. Not by force

    • @Medicinarioum
      @Medicinarioum 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@miiiiiiiiiirinrin ain't is aave

  • @austinmcboom8503
    @austinmcboom8503 Год назад +100

    7:31 whose cigarette mom is this 💀

  • @anxia-tea5846
    @anxia-tea5846 6 месяцев назад +19

    i can tell that these kinds of “neopronouns” aren’t to make the person in question more comfortable with their gender but instead to feel more “cool,” “quirky,” or “aesthetic,” and i personally believe that it is actually pretty harmful to the community

    • @M4gg0t_X3
      @M4gg0t_X3 4 месяца назад +1

      Neo pronouns were invented to disrespect trans people and nonbinary people

  • @urmommmm4988
    @urmommmm4988 Год назад +1928

    ravon's new pronouns are now= ban/banana/bananas

  • @justtojest
    @justtojest Год назад +186

    I'm a trans guy who doesn't use neo pronouns and like yeah a lot of the newer ones are wack but I mean they aren't necessarily hurting anyone so I don't really care lmao

    • @Made_on_marzzz
      @Made_on_marzzz Год назад +62

      I agree, especially since the majority of neopronoun users are neurodivergent. As long as they’re not toxic about they’re pronouns and understand not everyone is gonna get it, idc.

    • @alwayssarc
      @alwayssarc Год назад +5

      @@Made_on_marzzz they are?

    • @Mandango
      @Mandango Год назад +3

      Exactly 🫵

    • @YazzyFairy
      @YazzyFairy Год назад +21

      I also agree, but if somebody asks me to call them bee, rat, or banana, I'm not even gonna try talking to them.

    • @ilyelysia
      @ilyelysia Год назад +15

      agreed, ppl can slander neos all they want but at the end of the day its not hurting anyone

  • @darkartsninja
    @darkartsninja Год назад +73

    6:43 - Top 10 rappers Eminem is too scared to diss

  • @yee-nj7bo
    @yee-nj7bo 2 месяца назад +2

    i love how real he is

  • @mariposalovesflores8948
    @mariposalovesflores8948 Год назад +1477

    I like how you gave a VERY brief intro, neopronouns are a sensitive topic. there are actual neopronouns then there's bs.

    • @Mandango
      @Mandango Год назад +165

      Yeah too many people make jokes about neopronouns and then people think it’s super weird and won’t even consider respecting them 💀

    • @Autumnnn_017
      @Autumnnn_017 Год назад +7

      right! like people forget that they/them are neopronouns too

    • @megashima
      @megashima Год назад +207

      @@Autumnnn_017 They/them are not neopronouns. They're pronouns directly meant to express beyond they/them.

    • @msilva2423
      @msilva2423 Год назад +136

      @@Autumnnn_017 They/them arent neopronouns, they’re simply pronouns. English is one of the few languages (if not the only one, im not sure) where they/them pronouns dont have a specific gender, and they can be used as a singular pronoun too

    • @Autumnnn_017
      @Autumnnn_017 Год назад +8

      @@msilva2423 it was my understanding that they/them are technically considered neopronouns, but maybe I'm wrong idk. I'm cis so I guess I wouldn't know lol

  • @melodypark8715
    @melodypark8715 Год назад +115

    First video of 2023!! Ravon will definitely make my year brighter and fun❤

  • @Short_insomniac_
    @Short_insomniac_ Год назад +71

    8:37 this made me laugh way too much😭😭 my family is probably concerned😭

  • @nikitalevin2000
    @nikitalevin2000 15 дней назад +5

    It better be a joke.. BUT IT'S NOT 😭😭😭😭 omfg I'm too old for this Gen alpha shii

  • @mariumbinterazibchowdhury4080
    @mariumbinterazibchowdhury4080 Год назад +99

    6:48
    i don't know why but i think my brain is so broken that this is the peak of comedy for me 💀

  • @acid8184
    @acid8184 Год назад +659

    The thumbnail was enough for me to sigh and say to myself "Ravon girlie, why do you put yourself through this?"
    Love ur videos though Ravon, you always make me smile. hugs xx
    Also, as a fellow Goth, WE DO NOT CLAIM THE DEMON PEOPLE

    • @makaylaspalding5480
      @makaylaspalding5480 Год назад +6

      can confirm

    • @blaire3694
      @blaire3694 Год назад +8

      oh yeah fellow goth

    • @acid8184
      @acid8184 Год назад +5

      @@blaire3694 you're goth too?

    • @vampyre-punx
      @vampyre-punx Год назад +4

      omg hello fellow goth

    • @acid8184
      @acid8184 Год назад +2

      @ᴄᴏᴏᴋɪɪ ,, !! ɴʏᴀɴ!! thank you, thats very sweet of you to say

  • @adoreamelia3472
    @adoreamelia3472 Год назад +78

    7:21 has me dead 💀

  • @salmayousefi5180
    @salmayousefi5180 Месяц назад +1

    ngl i loved every second of this

  • @An3moLexi
    @An3moLexi Год назад +142

    i love people in the lgbtq community who are ACTUALLY SANE istg

  • @moodswings4642
    @moodswings4642 Год назад +80

    I have a friend who uses neopronouns and I respect them but there’s to many people using different pronoun’s for me to keep up with since so many people want me to call them by a different pronoun so I accidentally called them a she just once. They completely had a break down and started yelling in the cafeteria, and it was beginning to be to stressful for me just to remember someone’s pronouns which is why I asked myself, how did I get to this point and how do I solve it. Eventually I just decided to avoid people who use different pronouns, not because I hate them but, I NEVER want to be in such stressful situations again.
    Edit: had to fix an auto correct

  • @Alexis-co7nt
    @Alexis-co7nt Год назад +60

    9:48 got me DYING 😂😂

  • @tgiacin435
    @tgiacin435 3 месяца назад +6

    “You mean like Ratatouille?”
    “No, Ratatoing”

  • @chrysanthemums1912
    @chrysanthemums1912 Год назад +60

    Ravon, I love that you are one of the few influencers who actually have the decency to come out and address the issue as is.

  • @PLQNETVENUS
    @PLQNETVENUS Год назад +358

    Ravon, this is so iconic.
    As a queer person, I don't want to call anyone rat, bee, ant, bun, spark etc. I honestly couldn't give a shit enough to take the time out of my day to hate on these people but as long as they don't force me, I don't care at all;
    Story time!!
    One day I was with my best friend, and I've known that she had bun/bun self-neopronouns, but I'd never call her that, one day when I called her a "her" or "they", she got mad at me and started screaming at me in front of the whole school. It was so embarrassing, and it was over stupid pronouns. She had also said she wanted to turn into a bunny, and she was a therian, I just don't get it.

    • @CindyMartinez1one
      @CindyMartinez1one Год назад +26

      that's concerning... has she seeked out help?? You know cause I think she needs to go to a therapist

    • @PLQNETVENUS
      @PLQNETVENUS Год назад +21

      @@CindyMartinez1one ikr.. it is concerning, she’s actually doing kind of better in therapy rn.

    • @itsneonoir3801
      @itsneonoir3801 Год назад +8

      Oh, holy heck, this is bonkers. Okay Therians are a fictional group of shapeshifter in a gay mm romance novel series. I'm a huge fan of those boos and its a cool concept, very sci fi.
      And very, very not real. Also Therians only tun into predators, not bunnies so she's even got the lore wrong. Now this is a comment I never thought I would type out the world is cray.

    • @St9rz_
      @St9rz_ Год назад +13

      She’s using the term therian wrong, therians are just people who believe they were an animal in their past life, it does not mean to IDENTIFY as an animal😟

    • @PLQNETVENUS
      @PLQNETVENUS Год назад +6

      @@St9rz_I dont think therians are real, i dont even believe in past lifes and she was christian so she shouldn't believe in past lives 😭 tyy

  • @donutsforu
    @donutsforu Год назад +50

    8:56 YOUR WORSE NIGHTMARE

  • @4mB3risssilly
    @4mB3risssilly 7 месяцев назад +32

    1:21 oh? Is that miku? IN THE BACKGROUND?? YEA UM HELLO FELLOW MEMBER OF BOTH THE VOCALOID AND PJSK FANDOM YEA WE DON'T CLAIM THEM😋

  • @sakuu2724
    @sakuu2724 Год назад +77

    3:48 miss bee really said fee fi fo fum 💀

  • @Fatherthesnow
    @Fatherthesnow Год назад +360

    That's honestly ashaming. Times became so easy for young people they needed to create more issues for themselves. As a trans person, thanks for talking about this Ravon. People need somebody who has enough balls to talk about those gaslighting wannabees (lol).

    • @xoxoxii
      @xoxoxii Год назад +25

      neopronouns are for the trans autistic community. please understand that we autsitic people have a hard time finalizing our identity and we often cope with using neopronouns. it's juswt an easier way to express ourselves! :3

    • @Streetsifer
      @Streetsifer Год назад +63

      @@xoxoxii what

    • @pissenvania
      @pissenvania Год назад

      @@Streetsifer are you dumb? they said what they said, neopronouns are for some trans and autistic ppl 💀

    • @Streetsifer
      @Streetsifer Год назад +2

      @@pissenvania ok

    • @fizuthejapanesebobtail2336
      @fizuthejapanesebobtail2336 Год назад +21

      @@xoxoxii what she said^^^ they dont IDENTIFY as the object but they like the feeling the object gives them and they prefer to identify as the feeling

  • @LeonStar155
    @LeonStar155 Год назад +73

    8:24 I cant breath- im laughing so hard

  • @kalsp4989
    @kalsp4989 23 дня назад +4

    3:58 "faer" probably the kinda person to call u out for assuming ur cat's sexuality 💀

  • @NoNameNumberNine
    @NoNameNumberNine Год назад +33

    THANK YOU for covering this! I’ve wanted to see your reaction for ages now lol

  • @pikachusie
    @pikachusie Год назад +76

    This video gave me the freshest breath of air I've had.
    Thank you for being honest and calling out this stuff. We need more people like you ❤
    Subbed.

  • @trasheditzz
    @trasheditzz Год назад +46

    ravon you make everyones day better

  • @Sle3pyStudios_.
    @Sle3pyStudios_. 4 месяца назад +10

    I'm a trans guy, I have trans friends, and my younger sibling is non-binary, and people that use neopronouns have talked to us about how we aren't actually trans(or non-binary in my sibling's case) because we don't use neopronouns and it's c r a z y

  • @clientsidedcalamity
    @clientsidedcalamity Год назад +71

    yeah, i've also been really confused/concerned about specific neopronouns as well, but i've always seen people who speak up about it recieve visceral amounts of hate, like people calling them transphobic for no valid reason, glad you're speaking up about this.

    • @alwayssarc
      @alwayssarc Год назад +19

      Exactly. Like I’m all for pronouns that are referring to someone by their right gender and not misgendering people but I won’t say these noun neopronouns because they just straight up aren’t genders. They’re nicknames that people want to be called. They have nothing to do with gender

    • @failure2thrivebaby
      @failure2thrivebaby Год назад +1

      @@alwayssarc well pronouns don't always equal gender, I identify as a demigirl but my pronouns are she/her, he/him *and* they/them, it's just what I feel comfortable with and I feel comfortable with any pronouns so it's really up to the person what they wanna use

    • @alwayssarc
      @alwayssarc Год назад

      @@failure2thrivebaby a demigirl?

    • @failure2thrivebaby
      @failure2thrivebaby Год назад +1

      @@alwayssarc yep! Being a demigirl is normally described as like not really fully feeling like a girl? Like being a half-girl
      For me I don't mind being seen as something else like a boy but I still know I'm a girl, if that makes sense

    • @alwayssarc
      @alwayssarc Год назад

      @@failure2thrivebaby how is that different from being a Tom boy?