Weightless Wendy - buy activated charcoal capsules can be bought at health foods or even Walmart in the vitamins section. Open a capsule or two and pour on bristles of toothbrush or directly on teeth. Let sit on teeth for 2-5minutes then brush thoroughly you will see they whiten at least one to two shades instantly. repeat twice a week and you’ll have the whitest natural teeth around. Yes they now sell toothpaste with charcoal and jar of charcoal powder in toothpaste aisle but it’s $8-20 when you can buy a bottle of capsules for $6-8 and use it for a variety of things such as your teeth, add to your diet for detox, make a facial peel of mask especially for blackheads just bust open 3-4 capsules mix with elmers white school glue which is safe and non toxic avoid eye area obviously and works just as good if not better than the charcoal mask on market. (Been using activated charcoal capsules for over 10yrs before it became a thing/fad)
To TAS Confidential: We all should be on RUclips: Create an eyepopping rubric/title, develop a rocking niche, develop marketability to the hilts, accumulate views and subs -- then you wouldn't need to be teaching in schools! -- But, I do know what you mean, though. And I agree.
That and some females just don't care. My mom ( R.I.P) taught me and my sister both. She stressed more with my sister cause my mom was a little heavy and so is my sister. But no matter how much my mom was on her about it my sister just doesn't care about her hygiene. Me on the other hand I always stay on top of mines. And I have 2 daughters and I stay on top of them with they hygiene. My mom use to say "you are the first to smell yourself and if you smell it then others can smell you too good or bad"
Great video..my little girl is 12..she either says "I know mom!" or I get the eye roll. I stress the importance of hygiene all the time..I hope some of it sinks in.
I know everyone is different, but why the 2 showers-a-day thing? If you are clean, use clean washcloths & towels, wear clean undies & clothing, use so many specialized products for cleansing & deodorizing... why are so many showers necessary? I would think scrubbing off your normal feminine flora & moisture would cause more harm than help? (I'm not speaking of perspiration on the outer areas of labia, thighs & mons.) I'm talking about the inside where your normal feminine secretions that moisten the labia minora, clitoris, & inner vulvar skin are. That area can go 24 hours without disturbing. Of course, plain water probably won't hurt anything. The vagina is an amazing ecosystem that is naturally self-cleansing.
I am a 49 year old Woman and I just want to tell you that you did a fantastic job on this video. When I grew up, my mother did not talk to me about such things and neither did my big sister, so I learned by reading Cosmo or trial and error. Young ladies today have good information at their fingertips. So I just wanted to tell you, Good Job and Keep Shining!
Same here. I second everything you posted YonC BWL from the compliment to the age and history of trial and error. My mother was advanced in age but very busy with her career, so she never sat down and talked with me about a bathing or hygiene routine so I feel you on that. I wish platforms such as this was available to me back in the day. 😔
We got the ivory soap and wash “rag” with no instruction except not to play around in the tub bath too long-everyone needed to get in the bathroom! Dad said to take a Navy shower of 4 mins and out! I had to learn everything from friend’s Mothers. We just knew the hot water bottle hanging in the bathroom smelling all nasty and gross like vinegar was not the one we used for sore stomachs or pain of any type! 😂🤣😂 Knowledge was not shared in that house-just get out for the next person. I started using Shower to Shower as a young girl, and got ovarian cancer from using it to stay fresh. I’m glad u stressed “without talc” for your powder. What gave u the idea to make these videos to help young women? It’s really thoughtful of you! Thank you, even 57 year olds catch some helpful hints from your product reviews! Thanks again!!
My mom didn't teach me much either, but would get mad at me because I didn't really know what was going on. I remember when I started my period, I wasn't 100% sure..kinda was but wasn't and she whooped my ass. The older black generation needs help, ijs.
Thank you for using the correct terminology. I work in the medical field and most women call their entire genital area the vagina. Soooooo many grown women don't know what a labia is, or too embarrassed to say the word. Videos like yours help women know their bodies and normalize the language. Thank you!
I'm a big girl and a master's prepared public health nurse. I work in the STI department, and often educate women on what's normal in terms of vaginal odor and diacharge. I enjoyed the video. The dove soap is a little off (the formula has changed). I went to ivory when I'm not making my own soap. I find since I have changed to ivory I'm fresher longer. When using my own soap that I make my pH is more balanced, and the vaginal discharge is very minimal (normal). Normal is clear and in very small amounts. There should not be any fishy or musty odor. You may be a little musty after sweating from working out, but if you find that you are musty minutes to a few hours after a shower your pH is likely off. If your pH is off then you are more prone to bacteria vaginosis and yeast infections. I prefer not to use powder in my belly button or fat rolls because when sweat it cakes and cause skin irritation. A thin layer of coconut oil with a few drops of t tree oil has proven to be the best deoderizer throughout the day. I also sweat less under the fat rolls with this tip. This is because coconut is naturally an anti fungal. The t tree oil is anti fungal, anti bacterial, and antiviral. I've been using this combo for 1.5 years, and I am more confident.
Yes girly keep it simply change those panties wash up after using toilet and change pantry liner if need change panties twice a day and in between use fragrance free wipes dry completely areas and keep it moving.
@@veroniquecastel9582 of course do not put soaps in your vagina because as she stated it will throw off your pH balance however you should clean the skin around the vagina area with a mild unscented soap. I think that’s what @Nyny Cat meant
When I clicked on the video, I thought I was going to be trolling (just to myself, I don't believe in being nasty or ugly to anybody , but I can't always control my thoughts,) but I am actually very impressed and now believe that this should be something that I add watched by all young women. I have never heard anyone talk about these things and with the detailed descriptions explaining how to self care. As as Mom I realize how much I have never discussed with my daughters. I never thought of it before. Although it will be uncomfortable and awkward, I plan on watching this with my 12 year old daughter (she is not plus size, but I am,) and trying to start a conversation. Thank you. I truly appreciate your help and the help you are giving others.
I have never commented on any post. However, I honestly felt the need to thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video. It was so informative. You're an amazing lady!!!
It's so important as women to keep our bodies clean; especially if you are a larger woman. Everyone sweats, it happens... just keep yourself clean, dry properly. I, personally as a large woman, appreciate videos such as these... for younger females who may not know how to cleanse themselves
I’m So Glad I Found This Video ! My Mom Never Went Over This With Me So I Had So Many Questions Especially As A Bigger Woman! And My Older Sister Moved Out When I Was 7 So She Wasn’t Able To Help Me And She Also Didn’t Know Herself ! The Details You Gave Are So Helpful, Thank You !
I do the same thing in using separate (always white)wash cloths for my face and body, but for my vaginal area, my mother taught my sisters and I to use our soapy hand. With a wash cloth it is too easy to get soap up into places it DOES NOT belong and to miss places it DOES belong. The fingers are gentle and I can feel each crevice and I do it twice with fresh soap and a rinse both times. The final rinse should be very thorough, because any residual soap can cause problems. I do the same for the anal area. I wash that area completely separate from the vaginal area. I am particularly sensitive and washing by hand keeps me from feeling sore in the vaginal area. Afterwards I rinse my wash cloths very thoroughly and leave them in the side of the tub until dry, then put them into the laundry hamper.
This video is seriously the best, most informative. Because of health problems, my body has changed over the last couples years and when that happens, you gotta relearn pretty much everything about maintaining yourself. THIS. IS. A. LIFESAVER!
I was raised the same way with the different wash cloths when showering. I also grew up getting yeast infections often from dancing with school and sweating and not having learned how to clean down there often instead of sitting in my sweat for so long. I appreciate this video because as an adult I’m doing all of this now but when I was a teen I wish I knew all of this. I also used a different towel daily. I didn’t learn until. Illegal that people use the same towel all week. I don’t know if my mom was just bougie with us but yeah. Thanks for this amazing video hun!
Saw your reply and you are so correct. Your body does change as your age changes. So many things have changed along with new objects available on the shelf. Never too old to learn for me. Take care & be safe.
Hey Bless you. I’m 56 and partially blind. Your video is like a light coming on in my life. Please keep them coming. It’s made me so much more confident. Thank you xx
Good morning Wendy. I’m now tooled up with my new requisite personal hygiene kit. I went straight to amazon n got some of the items you are using yourself. Here in the UK, it’s sometimes difficult to get our hands on stuff that you guys use in the US. It’s not that I don’t wash. But I wasn’t always using the correct things. In my 20s I used to use a couple of drops of tea tree oil in my baths. It was recommended as a good way to intimately cleanse your feminine parts. In Jamaica, where my parents are from, women would wash intermit areas with lime in their personal hygiene routine. That was back in the 50s though. I’m going to pass on what I have learnt from you to other disabled women, curvy girls. As I know, being unsure of ourselves hygienically has held us back from forming intimate relationships. So glad I found your posts, n appreciate your openness, I shall deffo get my friends to check you out. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
As a plus size woman I greatly appreciate you doing this video. All of the information was very important and I loved the simple way you delivered it. I am so glad I found your channel. Thank you!
I am so.... happy for this video. My mother did not feel comfortable talking hygiene. She didn't tell me about the monthly period. I thought I was dying when it started, in the 5th grade. Thank you, thank you for being real about womanhood. I hope you continue with sharing. I like your beautiful personality and truth for all women. Blessings and stay safe. 😷😷👏👏😇🙏🏼
Most intelligent teaching video on feminine care, I've heard on you tube, and using the correct terminology, too. professionally done. You have beautiful skin. Kudos, Sis you get the Crown 👑 for a job well done.
Totally agree that this very educational video should be used in high school health ed (maybe not the “I like to do adult things “ LOL) as well as a middle school version...It’s very good and thank you for making this video!
Girl. My mama didn’t tell me to clean this well!!! Awesome. Dolly Parton said years ago when they bathed, that her mama had them to wash as far down as possible, Wash as far up as possible, and then wash possible. You took her simple words and told us what and how. Thanks for the tips and all the reasons.
Last comment: I laughed out loud when you talked about using the fan to help drying off. I do that also. I stand in front and allow the air to dry my nether regions too. I hate sweating after I’m freshly showered and I want to make sure those areas get dried.
I use nair. First exfoliate the day or 2 b4. Then I go in with my nair. Then I follow up 2 or 3 days later with exfoliate. I can't be bothered with shaving. N I use it in between n on my butt too. I remove all hair!!! I like everything bald😂
Been using a fan for years - a gynecologist recommend it, told me towel dry first then use a fan. I live in a state where it gets very humid most of the year.
I'm not gonna say how I got here, but this completely. When I get out of the shower I want to be 100% clean. Not 90% clean with a dirty mouth. I swear, getting out of the shower and still not being completely clean kind of defeats the purpose if I'm being honest.
In your last video you talked about scrubbing your feet with a back brush if you could not reach them. I started doing that I don't know why I hadn't thought of it before, and oh my gosh now I cannot get out of the shower without scrubbing my feet with that brush. The skin on my feet is so much healthier. Thanks for all of these good ideas.
They make a little scrubby thing that suctions to the tub that has plastic bristles and you can stick your foot in it and it and scrub feet. I can't remember where it came from. Very helpful.
Wendy thank you for this video. I can't tell you the number of young ladies that I have mentored that did not know how to take care of themselves and a video like this allows me to say watch this then no one has to feel awkward then they can come to me with any specific questions. You do an amazing job of explaining things and why and that's very important in this sort of thing so thank you again always enjoy your videos as I've told you in the past take care and will look forward to your next one. Stay safe and be blessed
I have never, NEVER seen a video like this before. You mentioned a few products I'm going to definitely try out. Thank you for putting this out there. Everyone can use a refresher on this topic as we get so busy and are rushing most of the time, we forget to "do it right". Thanks again for putting all of your knowledge and suggestions into this video.
I'm glad that you are making videos about hygiene for heavier women because I noticed that the heavier I get the faster I begin to feel unclean and sweaty so it's nice to see people explain what works good for all body types
Dear Wendy the last time you did a hygiene video I gave you props! And I am doing it again for this latest video!!! You are awesome my friend! Awesome!!!!! Many young women don't always know the proper way to keep themselves clean and are not even educated on their own bodies so this info is soooo important! As a nurse, retired now, for over 30+ years I always stressed and taught proper hygiene to both men and women...and being a man myself I wish that their were more videos out there like yours to teach young men about caring for their bodies the right way! With the right products! I do not know what your professional is Wendy but I can honestly tell you that you would make an excellent teacher or one kick ass nurse!! You explain things honestly and get right to the much needed point without making anyone feel embarrassed or inferior...you are a treasure girlfriend! Thank you oh so very much! Anyway I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed this video as well as many of your other videos! As a guy the info.doesn't always pertain to me but I know plenty of men and women who I can share the info you have given to us with...and they appreciate it as well...God bless my friend and thank you again , Rus from Bucks County Pennsylvania❤🌈
My lord! This kind of videos is so needed. My mom always showed me how to take care of myself. Especially!! when it was that time if the month. She was very stricked about being a clean girl. I had cousins that stunk like a skunk! Heavens!! I showed my daughter how important it is to be clean clean clean. Thank you. This is a great video.
Omg FINALLY someone who speaks plainly!! Mothers should teach their girls this really, maybe they can just link to this vid and they can learn this stuff 🖤 I'm a brown girl, I have had so many problems trying to find products for my skin and hair in the UK climate! I need to go back and check out your other vids :)
You have beautiful skin!! I keep a bucket with a little water and bleach to throw my white wash cloths in and dump the whole bucket in to wash with any other white towels etc. keeps them a little extra fresh. Great video!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I've always said some women really need to learn "how to clean" when bathing. I felt this video was very honest and educational. Thank you for making this video and sharing the TMI. Some of us really needed to know this.
Wow! Excellent information! As a Pacific Islander female, feminine hygiene had always been one of the first lessons I learned as a little girl. My mom was a great example for me. You have taken it to the next level. Well done!
It's amazing how much money and time we plus size girls spend to try to stay fresh. I love white wash cloths. They really tell you what you need to know. I have to use alot of bleach. As well as invest in replacements.
Wendy...this is my first watch of you and you are just lovely!...You are naturally open communicative person who speaks with care, sensitivity and respect. I appreciate you sincerely and honestly you would be a source of support and encouragement to young girls from 9 to 16. Your warmth and down to earth sensitivity would be a powerful experience for any young lady who NEEDS to fully understand and respect her personal and feminine hygiene care. This is an important subject matter that by its nature is SENSITIVE by nature. God Bless you for being a source of safe and healthy information that can be scary and daunting to any young girl learning about caring for her feminine body. You ROCK!... BY THE WAY: We need to take Wendy’s advice about no matter what your size or age: BE SENSITIVE and GENTLE with yourselves and your personal care. This is key ladies!...Also you will learn your own body and see what works well or what does not. We are all women but we are unique as well so some may work and some may not. However this is a GREAT starting point.....
I'm a plus size woman who likes to be extra clean too. Nothing better than feeling and smelling clean and fresh! I use vagisil odour control and dove clinical antiperspirant deodorant, not because I really need to, but because they just make me feel cleaner and fresher than normal products. I have much of the same habits and routines, as well as for my hair and scalp. My experience of bigger women has been that they either have a very strong, unpleasant, body odour smell, or they always smell extra lovely, and I like to be of the latter group. I've taught my 2 boys and 1 girl how to keep themselves clean and fresh properly as well.
This was, without doubt, the BEST hygiene video I have seen! It should be shown in health classes every where! You are a great instructor, sensitive information given in a no nonsense/no embarrassment way. Nobody would be uncomfortable watching it! I appreciate the product reviews! 👍🏻🌹
I agree with the previous comments she is a wonderful teacher. Everything is stated easy and with no “shame” speaking about female areas. She is great...keep on teaching.
All I can say is you are amazing and wonderful. I so enjoyed your very informative video. Being a full figure woman also, I appreciate the information you provide and I'm anxious to try some of these products and procedures that you have shared. You are a very special and beautiful young lady and I appreciate your very informative approach to such delicate subjects. It's comforting to find a person with common problems and interest who comes forward to present these delicate issues. You are a beautiful and precious young lady and I wish for you a happy and healthy life. Hugs to you!!
Just came across this one. I'm so glad younger females have people like you to explain this so well and in depth. My mother never talked to me about vaginal hygiene, periods etc...so I was self taught. Thank you for doing this for younger females and even possibly older females that just aren't 100% sure. ❤
This is a great video! Especially for those that are plus sized and no one ever told them what to look out for when they bathe! You are so kind, and to the point, about it! Thanks for posting! You are awesome to watch! 🥰
You are just a wealth of knowledge! This information is what is missing in female grooming...and not only the young. Thank you for taking the time, and being thorough.
I love when RUclips actually suggests videos that are useful! I want to say I think you are very brave for doing a video like this and you are very straightforward about things! Need more people like you out there. I am plus size, over 50, have had 3 children and find as I've gotten older my skin has gotten dried out. I use liquid soaps as I find bar soaps are messy and dry me out more. I've never liked powder, but it's become a best friend now...gotta put it under my belly flab and under the breasts as well. Thank you for your tips, the products you use and the great video!!!
Loved this video and I love how real you go through the steps as a retired Medical Assistant in Pediatrics having this talk with some of the young ladies is truly much needed.
Love it when you do these types of vlogs! When I was growing up, even tho I had sisters & my mom, I didn't learn much about feminine hygiene til I was older. Our house didn't have indoor plumbing til I was about 13! But my mom always made sure we were clean. Every night in a big old zinc tub, in the kitchen where the tall Warm Morning wood stove was, she bathed me & my sister (7 yrs older) would bathe. My oldest sister (17 yrs older) was married just a month after I was born. I also have a brother between my 2 sisters, so everyone is older than me & I'm 61! I love the products you show that you use. I use the Bronner's unscented baby wash on my body & scalp (No hair!). I really would like to see you do a hygiene vlog for older, disabled women like me who has difficulty getting into a tub to shower, unable to stand for very long at a time, etc. I'm unable to shower every day like I used to & I feel really uncomfortable sometimes even though I try to clean myself good with unscented baby wipes & use talc free powder. I still have problems with my legs along my pantyline sweating & if I don't clean that area right away with a wipe or try to shower, I tend to get a yeast growth there. I have to use Vagisil or some type cream on it for several days & it still comes & goes. My blood sugars have been running really high for a few months & sometimes I will get real clammy & sweaty, but I don't immediately change underclothes. Maybe I need to be more conscious of that. I'm on insulin shots & Jardiance now along with the metformin & glimepiride so my levels are improving. I'd just like to see what your thoughts are, or anyone else's who watches your channel, about how to keep really clean when not able to shower. You talk about things so well & are so good at describing areas of our bodies without being "silly" but you're explaining parts, etc, that some young girls might not know about is very good & forthright. Almost as if they're hearing it from a doctor! You do a great job, Wendy, & a great service to all us ladies, young & old! I'm also proud you're using sunscreen! As you know, part of the reason I'm bald is from having 2 LG basal cell carcinomas removed from my scalp & also have alopecia, as well as having areas "frozen" on my face & nose. Everyone needs to be aware of the dangers of skin cancer & use sunscreen. I never dreamed at my age I would have 2 "craters" on my head from cancer & surgery. I hope this vlog gets lots of views! Women need to know their bodies! Thanks for doing such a good, no nonsense approach to feminine hygiene! Hugs & blessings! 💜💜 Debbie Epperly (VA)
My mother has been disabled my whole life. Even when you are not able to shower cvs, walmart, or any other store like that. There are unscented bath wipes that become a life saver. Baby wipes are a bad idea, because of the chemicals coming out of your skin from the medicine. Will cause a film on your skin.
Talk to your MD about Jardiance is known in some people to GIVE you yeast infections. Change COTTON underwear often. Can you purchase a shower bench for your bath tub. You can sit and shower w/o risk of slippage. Dry off with a fan or blow dryer in your vaginal area. Use deodorant on your inner thighs and under butt cheeks to block moisture.
What about getting a hand held bidet? It's a water sprayer that you can spray off genital area while sitting on the toilet. Plus it's perfect during Covid 19 TP shortages.
This video is needed because when I was younger nobody taught me how to properly clean myself. This information could have prevented very embarrassing moment experienced! So, thank you for sharing this information.
Loved this video. It has made me realize I need to take time to properly care for myself. Yes we need to be using gentle products on our bodies. Once they become available in my store I want to try the Honey Pot products as they are vegan and healthier to use. I believe your video was great and very tasteful, it was not TMI, it was just right, done with tasteful wording . As we are all women it shouldn’t offend us. So many haven’t been taught proper feminine hygiene not only for our health but mental wellbeing. Thank you so much. As others have said this could be a great video for girls health class.
Nair has a sensitive skin formula for the bikini area and it can be used on the mound, and outer labia areas. I use it and it removes all hair and leave no razor bumps. Plus it doesn't itch when the hair starts growing back.
I have lavender, unscented and eucalyptus. They are all great but love the eucalyptus the best, I save my dial foaming hand pump bottle and a little Dr. Bronner’s with water a little carrier oil and it makes a wonderful hand soap.
I love this woman. Yes, she (hopefully) should be teaching young girls and ladies. And you don’t have to be a big size person to enjoy this. Video. Thank you!
This is my first time here and it is so important to know about these routines, my mom never took the time to show me much, it was like taboo, I’m 60 and I learned a lot from my younger co-workers and was surprised of a lot of things. Now I feel I am more educated as Years passed by . Great product recommendations! Thanks for sharing ❤️
Thank you for this video. Young people please pay attention, personal hygiene is essential to your overall health. Take pride in yourself and be clean and healthy. We need more videos like this. They used to teach personal hygiene in school but not now and look at the problems the young people have today with their private parts. I would love to see a man do this for the young men.
Thank you thankyou, i was taught too wash properly., but so many women dont know proper hygiene and never learn. evan young girls dont know. keep the videos coming. God Bless your amazing.
I started using white wash towels and dry towels some years back after having a series of UTI’s. It was recommended by my gynecologist...best change I’ve made!!!
You are fantastic. Don’t usually watch beauty/self care videos on UTube. I will be now - yours! You’re are blessing and I agree - you could teach in schools. You have a grace and dignity I’ll be remembering.
Thank you. I appreciate this video. Im 24 and plus size. Wasnt really taught anything much growing up. And ive been dealing with a lot of itching and chafing in rolls recently and what ive found out is called strawberry legs which i didnt kno wasnt normal. i appreciate this so much. Its made me rethink my hygiene routine a bit and research some of this stuff to make sure its all good and ur on point with just about everything. Hopefully this will all help me feel better about myself and more in tune with my body. Cause ive always struggled with that. Thanks ❤️
at 28, I appreciate this video so much. :) Thank you for not assuming that this was not needed or TMI because I definitely didn't get this growing up. I learned some things by trial and error over the years but am learning so much more like how to effectively treat acne/acne scarring, sugar waxing, feminine care. I realized soap burned my vagina when I was younger so i just tried to use less because i thought well it needs to be cleaned. lol Anyway I would like to pass on what I know to the next young girl or woman.
I really appreciate all your knowledge and tips on plus size women on hygiene. I did not grow up with any teachings on how to take care of my hygiene in a purposeful way. You explained it with such care and compassionate. Thank you!!! I did share your video with my daughter. God Bless you.
This is wonderful. I wished there had been something even mildly as comprehensive as this. Our young women need to know this kind of information and all too often, it isn't taught in the home.
Yogurt & probiotics are good but the most important thing is to avoid sugar. Gut bacteria over grow & you grow the bad type of bacteria by eating simple sugars
I definitely appreciate your videos , especially being a plus size woman myself. you are doing a wonderful job with your videos, keep up the great work 😊
I started brushing my cheeks, gums, and roof of mouth! I read if yogurt is pasteurized it kills the probiotics. I use to use a peppermint foot lotion maybe after a long day and your feet hurt soak your feet using that peppermint soap. It was really refreshing. I understand completely about the using the showerhead I must never have been clean! If it doesn't have aluminum is it an antiperspirant and deodorant. You might want to try cornstarch under your breasts and on your thighs. I'm elastic sensitive and it keeps me from bleeding. I took a speech class and learned to use note cards or regular paper write really large what you want to say so you only have to glance at them to make sure you mention everything you want to. I don't know if I should mention this or not but it may help you and others so... I couldn't where tampons either because it was uncomfortable or painful. My husband ask if I knew how I was curved inside I said no. He told me to put my finger inside myself. I was embarrassed. I tried it and was finally able to use a tampon at age 25! I knew exactly what angle to push it in. I was able to take a water aerobics class finally. Hope this helps. Oh and make sure you push it in as far as plunger will go otherwise it's not in right place and will be very uncomfortable to sit.
This is an outstanding video meant for EVERYONE!! Please may I say sincerely that you are a very beautiful woman and have spoken so calmly about sensitive information and with no judgement but continued patience with all of your dedicated viewers. Hope I'm not to old at 70 but just subscribed to your channel. Thankyou again ! From: Debbie and her tiny rescued chihuahua companion out west in Southern California. 👩🐾😁👍
Love your video! You’re an absolute gem and thank you for using proper terminology. It’s important that we use the correct words for all of our body parts. Thank you for doing this and educating young women as well as older ones too. Proper hygiene is essential for everyone, not just beautiful plus sized women. Sending you much love 💗
Here is part 1 of this video from several months ago, feel free to check it out. ruclips.net/video/WrHhDcyV_QU/видео.html
Very informative.. Thank you 😊
Loveee your video. New subbie. Can I have your left over peppermint soap🤣 have you tried diluting it. Same suds without the burn.
Whitney Hayes I’m still trying to use it and yes I dilute it
@@WeightlessWendy ☺🌬
Weightless Wendy - buy activated charcoal capsules can be bought at health foods or even Walmart in the vitamins section. Open a capsule or two and pour on bristles of toothbrush or directly on teeth. Let sit on teeth for 2-5minutes then brush thoroughly you will see they whiten at least one to two shades instantly. repeat twice a week and you’ll have the whitest natural teeth around. Yes they now sell toothpaste with charcoal and jar of charcoal powder in toothpaste aisle but it’s $8-20 when you can buy a bottle of capsules for $6-8 and use it for a variety of things such as your teeth, add to your diet for detox, make a facial peel of mask especially for blackheads just bust open 3-4 capsules mix with elmers white school glue which is safe and non toxic avoid eye area obviously and works just as good if not better than the charcoal mask on market. (Been using activated charcoal capsules for over 10yrs before it became a thing/fad)
This woman shouldn’t be in RUclips.
She should be in schools, teaching students in a formal hygiene class.
She’s phenomenal!!!!!!!!!!!
TASconfidential indeed
Thank you
To TAS Confidential: We all should be on RUclips: Create an eyepopping rubric/title, develop a rocking niche, develop marketability to the hilts, accumulate views and subs -- then you wouldn't need to be teaching in schools! -- But, I do know what you mean, though. And I agree.
I highly agree!
Riiiiight
It's sad how many mothers don't teach their daughters about cleanliness . These videos that you post are so important !
Some mothers don't no there self nobody told them.
@@pinkbutterfly5708 that's true .
Not everyone has mothers or mother figures in their lives
That and some females just don't care. My mom ( R.I.P) taught me and my sister both. She stressed more with my sister cause my mom was a little heavy and so is my sister. But no matter how much my mom was on her about it my sister just doesn't care about her hygiene. Me on the other hand I always stay on top of mines. And I have 2 daughters and I stay on top of them with they hygiene. My mom use to say "you are the first to smell yourself and if you smell it then others can smell you too good or bad"
Great video..my little girl is 12..she either says "I know mom!" or I get the eye roll. I stress the importance of hygiene all the time..I hope some of it sinks in.
A white wash cloth will humble you. I felt that
That was the truth!
Luxury Hair House I felt that too.
Luxury Hair House word
A white wash cloth tells the truth!
@@pameladawson7748 🤗
“I like to be soft everywhere!”
“I’m an adult, and I do adult things!” Yaaaassss gurl! ❣️❣️❣️
The way you explained was so natural nothing offensive, you need to go into the school system and teach this to young girls!
Yes she do.
I know everyone is different, but why the 2 showers-a-day thing? If you are clean, use clean washcloths & towels, wear clean undies & clothing, use so many specialized products for cleansing & deodorizing... why are so many showers necessary?
I would think scrubbing off your normal feminine flora & moisture would cause more harm than help?
(I'm not speaking of perspiration on the outer areas of labia, thighs & mons.) I'm talking about the inside where your normal feminine secretions that moisten the labia minora, clitoris, & inner vulvar skin are. That area can go 24 hours without disturbing. Of course, plain water probably won't hurt anything. The vagina is an amazing ecosystem that is naturally self-cleansing.
I am a 49 year old Woman and I just want to tell you that you did a fantastic job on this video. When I grew up, my mother did not talk to me about such things and neither did my big sister, so I learned by reading Cosmo or trial and error. Young ladies today have good information at their fingertips. So I just wanted to tell you, Good Job and Keep Shining!
Same here. I second everything you posted YonC BWL from the compliment to the age and history of trial and error. My mother was advanced in age but very busy with her career, so she never sat down and talked with me about a bathing or hygiene routine so I feel you on that. I wish platforms such as this was available to me back in the day. 😔
We got the ivory soap and wash “rag” with no instruction except not to play around in the tub bath too long-everyone needed to get in the bathroom! Dad said to take a Navy shower of 4 mins and out! I had to learn everything from friend’s Mothers. We just knew the hot water bottle hanging in the bathroom smelling all nasty and gross like vinegar was not the one we used for sore stomachs or pain of any type! 😂🤣😂 Knowledge was not shared in that house-just get out for the next person. I started using Shower to Shower as a young girl, and got ovarian cancer from using it to stay fresh. I’m glad u stressed “without talc” for your powder. What gave u the idea to make these videos to help young women? It’s really thoughtful of you! Thank you, even 57 year olds catch some helpful hints from your product reviews! Thanks again!!
Awesome Job
With youtube and the net, we have education at our fingertips in the privacy of our own homes.
My mom didn't teach me much either, but would get mad at me because I didn't really know what was going on. I remember when I started my period, I wasn't 100% sure..kinda was but wasn't and she whooped my ass. The older black generation needs help, ijs.
Thank you for using the correct terminology. I work in the medical field and most women call their entire genital area the vagina. Soooooo many grown women don't know what a labia is, or too embarrassed to say the word. Videos like yours help women know their bodies and normalize the language. Thank you!
Deniese P it’s just a common thing I think most people just take their panties out of their ass 😂 VAGINA
The clitoris the most important part of the body!
You are such a darling to let women know what’s what...... without embarrassment.
I'm a big girl and a master's prepared public health nurse. I work in the STI department, and often educate women on what's normal in terms of vaginal odor and diacharge. I enjoyed the video. The dove soap is a little off (the formula has changed). I went to ivory when I'm not making my own soap. I find since I have changed to ivory I'm fresher longer. When using my own soap that I make my pH is more balanced, and the vaginal discharge is very minimal (normal). Normal is clear and in very small amounts. There should not be any fishy or musty odor. You may be a little musty after sweating from working out, but if you find that you are musty minutes to a few hours after a shower your pH is likely off. If your pH is off then you are more prone to bacteria vaginosis and yeast infections. I prefer not to use powder in my belly button or fat rolls because when sweat it cakes and cause skin irritation. A thin layer of coconut oil with a few drops of t tree oil has proven to be the best deoderizer throughout the day. I also sweat less under the fat rolls with this tip. This is because coconut is naturally an anti fungal. The t tree oil is anti fungal, anti bacterial, and antiviral. I've been using this combo for 1.5 years, and I am more confident.
But...tea tree oil smells absolutely vile! Powder it is! Any scent beats tea tree oil! Yuck!
Do you make your own vagina soap? If so, what do you use to make it?
Yes girly keep it simply change those panties wash up after using toilet and change pantry liner if need change panties twice a day and in between use fragrance free wipes dry completely areas and keep it moving.
@@nynycat5489 don’t put soaps in your vagina, it will ruin the ph. Water is enough. Vaginas take care of themselves.
@@veroniquecastel9582 of course do not put soaps in your vagina because as she stated it will throw off your pH balance however you should clean the skin around the vagina area with a mild unscented soap. I think that’s what @Nyny Cat meant
Shoutout to you for helping women learn about hygiene 🤪
Great job!🤗
Just looking at you....you look so beautifully clean and glowing.
Colleen Piechowski thank you
I bet she smells clean, too!
When I clicked on the video, I thought I was going to be trolling (just to myself, I don't believe in being nasty or ugly to anybody , but I can't always control my thoughts,) but I am actually very impressed and now believe that this should be something that I add watched by all young women. I have never heard anyone talk about these things and with the detailed descriptions explaining how to self care. As as Mom I realize how much I have never discussed with my daughters. I never thought of it before. Although it will be uncomfortable and awkward, I plan on watching this with my 12 year old daughter (she is not plus size, but I am,) and trying to start a conversation. Thank you. I truly appreciate your help and the help you are giving others.
I have never commented on any post. However, I honestly felt the need to thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video. It was so informative. You're an amazing lady!!!
As a nurse - I applauded you for using the proper terms for the body parts! Also, husband is a plumber and don’t flush those wipes.
I have to also agree about the wipes....DO NOT FLUSH THEM!! even one at a time, it doesn't matter, they cause real problems with the plumbing.......
Don't flush wipes or "flushable" tampons unless you want real plumbing problems!!
It's so important as women to keep our bodies clean; especially if you are a larger woman. Everyone sweats, it happens... just keep yourself clean, dry properly. I, personally as a large woman, appreciate videos such as these... for younger females who may not know how to cleanse themselves
I’m So Glad I Found This Video ! My Mom Never Went Over This With Me So I Had So Many Questions Especially As A Bigger Woman! And My Older Sister Moved Out When I Was 7 So She Wasn’t Able To Help Me And She Also Didn’t Know Herself ! The Details You Gave Are So Helpful, Thank You !
I use a separate wash cloth and a mild soap for vaginal and butt areas. And then a wash cloth for my body and another one for face. Works perfectly.
Deshawnda C so do I
Women always need to use 2 washcloth one for the face.the other for down below.
Me too. I use three washcloths . Face, body and vaginal area . Been doing that for years
Gloria Jackson i used to do that as well but at some point I felt okay with using the one for face and body
I do the same thing in using separate (always white)wash cloths for my face and body, but for my vaginal area, my mother taught my sisters and I to use our soapy hand. With a wash cloth it is too easy to get soap up into places it DOES NOT belong and to miss places it DOES belong. The fingers are gentle and I can feel each crevice and I do it twice with fresh soap and a rinse both times. The final rinse should be very thorough, because any residual soap can cause problems. I do the same for the anal area. I wash that area completely separate from the vaginal area. I am particularly sensitive and washing by hand keeps me from feeling sore in the vaginal area. Afterwards I rinse my wash cloths very thoroughly and leave them in the side of the tub until dry, then put them into the laundry hamper.
This video is seriously the best, most informative. Because of health problems, my body has changed over the last couples years and when that happens, you gotta relearn pretty much everything about maintaining yourself.
THIS. IS. A. LIFESAVER!
I was raised the same way with the different wash cloths when showering. I also grew up getting yeast infections often from dancing with school and sweating and not having learned how to clean down there often instead of sitting in my sweat for so long. I appreciate this video because as an adult I’m doing all of this now but when I was a teen I wish I knew all of this. I also used a different towel daily. I didn’t learn until. Illegal that people use the same towel all week. I don’t know if my mom was just bougie with us but yeah. Thanks for this amazing video hun!
You reminded me of old RUclips, when videos where informative and entertaining. Loved it. ❤
As a lady in her 50s I realize that my hygiene needs have changed . This was good to see.
Saw your reply and you are so correct. Your body does change as your age changes. So many things have changed along with new objects available on the shelf. Never too old to learn for me. Take care & be safe.
Yes!! I'm with you.
Hey Bless you. I’m 56 and partially blind. Your video is like a light coming on in my life. Please keep them coming. It’s made me so much more confident. Thank you xx
Good morning Wendy. I’m now tooled up with my new requisite personal hygiene kit. I went straight to amazon n got some of the items you are using yourself. Here in the UK, it’s sometimes difficult to get our hands on stuff that you guys use in the US. It’s not that I don’t wash. But I wasn’t always using the correct things. In my 20s I used to use a couple of drops of tea tree oil in my baths. It was recommended as a good way to intimately cleanse your feminine parts. In Jamaica, where my parents are from, women would wash intermit areas with lime in their personal hygiene routine. That was back in the 50s though. I’m going to pass on what I have learnt from you to other disabled women, curvy girls. As I know, being unsure of ourselves hygienically has held us back from forming intimate relationships. So glad I found your posts, n appreciate your openness, I shall deffo get my friends to check you out. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
As a plus size woman I greatly appreciate you doing this video. All of the information was very important and I loved the simple way you delivered it. I am so glad I found your channel. Thank you!
Yup I thought the same things something in the formula I recommend the dove irritation free
I am so.... happy for this video. My mother did not feel comfortable talking hygiene. She didn't tell me about the monthly period. I thought I was dying when it started, in the 5th grade. Thank you, thank you for being real about womanhood. I hope you continue with sharing. I like your beautiful personality and truth for all women. Blessings and stay safe. 😷😷👏👏😇🙏🏼
Most intelligent teaching video on feminine care, I've heard on you tube, and using the correct terminology, too. professionally done. You have beautiful skin. Kudos, Sis you get the Crown 👑 for a job well done.
Excellent job dear... all moms, maybe even the girls classes in school, should use a video this educational!
Totally agree that this very educational video should be used in high school health ed (maybe not the “I like to do adult things “ LOL) as well as a middle school version...It’s very good and thank you for making this video!
Girl. My mama didn’t tell me to clean this well!!! Awesome. Dolly Parton said years ago when they bathed, that her mama had them to wash as far down as possible, Wash as far up as possible, and then wash possible. You took her simple words and told us what and how. Thanks for the tips and all the reasons.
Last comment: I laughed out loud when you talked about using the fan to help drying off. I do that also. I stand in front and allow the air to dry my nether regions too. I hate sweating after I’m freshly showered and I want to make sure those areas get dried.
I use to use the fan and hair dryer. I kept getting a cold.
Authentic Food Creations hairdryer
I use a hair dryer
I use nair. First exfoliate the day or 2 b4. Then I go in with my nair. Then I follow up 2 or 3 days later with exfoliate. I can't be bothered with shaving. N I use it in between n on my butt too. I remove all hair!!! I like everything bald😂
Been using a fan for years - a gynecologist recommend it, told me towel dry first then use a fan. I live in a state where it gets very humid most of the year.
I love having clean teeth while I'm showering. If my teeth feel fuzzy, I can't relax in the shower, and my mind will only focus on my teeth!
I thought it was just Me !! Thank God 💋💄
My exact sentiments!
I'm not gonna say how I got here, but this completely.
When I get out of the shower I want to be 100% clean. Not 90% clean with a dirty mouth.
I swear, getting out of the shower and still not being completely clean kind of defeats the purpose if I'm being honest.
Right 😭
In your last video you talked about scrubbing your feet with a back brush if you could not reach them. I started doing that I don't know why I hadn't thought of it before, and oh my gosh now I cannot get out of the shower without scrubbing my feet with that brush. The skin on my feet is so much healthier. Thanks for all of these good ideas.
They make a little scrubby thing that suctions to the tub that has plastic bristles and you can stick your foot in it and it and scrub feet. I can't remember where it came from. Very helpful.
Wendy thank you for this video. I can't tell you the number of young ladies that I have mentored that did not know how to take care of themselves and a video like this allows me to say watch this then no one has to feel awkward then they can come to me with any specific questions. You do an amazing job of explaining things and why and that's very important in this sort of thing so thank you again always enjoy your videos as I've told you in the past take care and will look forward to your next one. Stay safe and be blessed
Agree
I have never, NEVER seen a video like this before. You mentioned a few products I'm going to definitely try out. Thank you for putting this out there. Everyone can use a refresher on this topic as we get so busy and are rushing most of the time, we forget to "do it right". Thanks again for putting all of your knowledge and suggestions into this video.
Absolutely a refresher!
You need to be a great teacher
I'm glad that you are making videos about hygiene for heavier women because I noticed that the heavier I get the faster I begin to feel unclean and sweaty so it's nice to see people explain what works good for all body types
For me a handheld shower head is a must!
Dear Wendy the last time you did a hygiene video I gave you props! And I am doing it again for this latest video!!! You are awesome my friend! Awesome!!!!! Many young women don't always know the proper way to keep themselves clean and are not even educated on their own bodies so this info is soooo important! As a nurse, retired now, for over 30+ years I always stressed and taught proper hygiene to both men and women...and being a man myself I wish that their were more videos out there like yours to teach young men about caring for their bodies the right way! With the right products! I do not know what your professional is Wendy but I can honestly tell you that you would make an excellent teacher or one kick ass nurse!! You explain things honestly and get right to the much needed point without making anyone feel embarrassed or inferior...you are a treasure girlfriend! Thank you oh so very much! Anyway I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed this video as well as many of your other videos! As a guy the info.doesn't always pertain to me but I know plenty of men and women who I can share the info you have given to us with...and they appreciate it as well...God bless my friend and thank you again , Rus from Bucks County Pennsylvania❤🌈
My lord! This kind of videos is so needed. My mom always showed me how to take care of myself. Especially!! when it was that time if the month. She was very stricked about being a clean girl. I had cousins that stunk like a skunk! Heavens!! I showed my daughter how important it is to be clean clean clean. Thank you. This is a great video.
Omg FINALLY someone who speaks plainly!! Mothers should teach their girls this really, maybe they can just link to this vid and they can learn this stuff 🖤 I'm a brown girl, I have had so many problems trying to find products for my skin and hair in the UK climate! I need to go back and check out your other vids :)
I love that she took time to explain things fully! A very caring spirit! Love it!
YOU GO GIRL!!! Women and young ladies need to know. Especially if they are afraid to ask.
Love ur honesty and openness. We need more people like u!
You have beautiful skin!! I keep a bucket with a little water and bleach to throw my white wash cloths in and dump the whole bucket in to wash with any other white towels etc. keeps them a little extra fresh. Great video!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I've always said some women really need to learn "how to clean" when bathing. I felt this video was very honest and educational. Thank you for making this video and sharing the TMI. Some of us really needed to know this.
Wow! Excellent information! As a Pacific Islander female, feminine hygiene had always been one of the first lessons I learned as a little girl. My mom was a great example for me. You have taken it to the next level. Well done!
It's amazing how much money and time we plus size girls spend to try to stay fresh. I love white wash cloths. They really tell you what you need to know. I have to use alot of bleach. As well as invest in replacements.
Wendy...this is my first watch of you and you are just lovely!...You are naturally open communicative person who speaks with care, sensitivity and respect. I appreciate you sincerely and honestly you would be a source of support and encouragement to young girls from 9 to 16. Your warmth and down to earth sensitivity would be a powerful experience for any young lady who NEEDS to fully understand and respect her personal and feminine hygiene care. This is an important subject matter that by its nature is SENSITIVE by nature.
God Bless you for being a source of safe and healthy information that can be scary and daunting to any young girl learning about caring for her feminine body. You ROCK!...
BY THE WAY: We need to take Wendy’s advice about no matter what your size or age: BE SENSITIVE and GENTLE with yourselves and your personal care. This is key ladies!...Also you will learn your own body and see what works well or what does not. We are all women but we are unique as well so some may work and some may not. However this is a GREAT starting point.....
This is my first time too and I enjoyed it!
I'm a plus size woman who likes to be extra clean too. Nothing better than feeling and smelling clean and fresh! I use vagisil odour control and dove clinical antiperspirant deodorant, not because I really need to, but because they just make me feel cleaner and fresher than normal products. I have much of the same habits and routines, as well as for my hair and scalp. My experience of bigger women has been that they either have a very strong, unpleasant, body odour smell, or they always smell extra lovely, and I like to be of the latter group. I've taught my 2 boys and 1 girl how to keep themselves clean and fresh properly as well.
I use the Dr Bronner's unscented baby Castile soap for my yoni area. It works well and is very gentle.
I like using the peppermint soap in the summer time. It gives a cool refreshing feeling.
Nothing like it on hot, humid days! Such a relief and it stays on your skin for quite a while.
Same here. It works well in the summer.
It's really nice as a foot soak after you've been on your dogs all day long, especially in hot weather.
This was, without doubt, the BEST hygiene video I have seen! It should be shown in health classes every where! You are a great instructor, sensitive information given in a no nonsense/no embarrassment way. Nobody would be uncomfortable watching it! I appreciate the product reviews! 👍🏻🌹
Excellent info. White wash cloth. New cloth daily. Regular showers will keep you fresh. Two showers as needed.
I agree with the previous comments she is a wonderful teacher. Everything is stated easy and with no “shame” speaking about female areas. She is great...keep on teaching.
All I can say is you are amazing and wonderful.
I so enjoyed your very informative video. Being a full figure woman also, I appreciate the information you provide and I'm anxious to try some of these products and procedures that you have shared.
You are a very special and beautiful young lady and I appreciate your very informative approach to such delicate subjects. It's comforting to find a person with common problems and interest who comes forward to present these delicate issues.
You are a beautiful and precious young lady and I wish for you a happy and healthy life.
Hugs to you!!
Just came across this one. I'm so glad younger females have people like you to explain this so well and in depth. My mother never talked to me about vaginal hygiene, periods etc...so I was self taught. Thank you for doing this for younger females and even possibly older females that just aren't 100% sure. ❤
This is one of the most thorough hygiene videos I've watched. Thanks so much for sharing.
Girl you bettta come through with the info👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾you did an awesome & thorough job
This is a great video! Especially for those that are plus sized and no one ever told them what to look out for when they bathe! You are so kind, and to the point, about it! Thanks for posting! You are awesome to watch! 🥰
*also I am plus sized lol so I’m not calling anybody out
You are an amazing young lady who is doing a great service for women of every size! Thank you 😊
You are just a wealth of knowledge! This information is what is missing in female grooming...and not only the young. Thank you for taking the time, and being thorough.
I love when RUclips actually suggests videos that are useful! I want to say I think you are very brave for doing a video like this and you are very straightforward about things! Need more people like you out there.
I am plus size, over 50, have had 3 children and find as I've gotten older my skin has gotten dried out. I use liquid soaps as I find bar soaps are messy and dry me out more. I've never liked powder, but it's become a best friend now...gotta put it under my belly flab and under the breasts as well. Thank you for your tips, the products you use and the great video!!!
I love this video. A lot of girls need this talk. Some grown folks need this talk. Its nice to hear people with a similar routine as me.
Subscribed right away! Super informative and I love your use of proper terminology and your non judgemental demeanour. I'm a fan!
Loved this video and I love how real you go through the steps as a retired Medical Assistant in Pediatrics having this talk with some of the young ladies is truly much needed.
I think the fact you’re teaching these young girls is awesome
Love it when you do these types of vlogs! When I was growing up, even tho I had sisters & my mom, I didn't learn much about feminine hygiene til I was older. Our house didn't have indoor plumbing til I was about 13! But my mom always made sure we were clean. Every night in a big old zinc tub, in the kitchen where the tall Warm Morning wood stove was, she bathed me & my sister (7 yrs older) would bathe. My oldest sister (17 yrs older) was married just a month after I was born. I also have a brother between my 2 sisters, so everyone is older than me & I'm 61! I love the products you show that you use. I use the Bronner's unscented baby wash on my body & scalp (No hair!). I really would like to see you do a hygiene vlog for older, disabled women like me who has difficulty getting into a tub to shower, unable to stand for very long at a time, etc. I'm unable to shower every day like I used to & I feel really uncomfortable sometimes even though I try to clean myself good with unscented baby wipes & use talc free powder. I still have problems with my legs along my pantyline sweating & if I don't clean that area right away with a wipe or try to shower, I tend to get a yeast growth there. I have to use Vagisil or some type cream on it for several days & it still comes & goes. My blood sugars have been running really high for a few months & sometimes I will get real clammy & sweaty, but I don't immediately change underclothes. Maybe I need to be more conscious of that. I'm on insulin shots & Jardiance now along with the metformin & glimepiride so my levels are improving. I'd just like to see what your thoughts are, or anyone else's who watches your channel, about how to keep really clean when not able to shower. You talk about things so well & are so good at describing areas of our bodies without being "silly" but you're explaining parts, etc, that some young girls might not know about is very good & forthright. Almost as if they're hearing it from a doctor! You do a great job, Wendy, & a great service to all us ladies, young & old! I'm also proud you're using sunscreen! As you know, part of the reason I'm bald is from having 2 LG basal cell carcinomas removed from my scalp & also have alopecia, as well as having areas "frozen" on my face & nose. Everyone needs to be aware of the dangers of skin cancer & use sunscreen. I never dreamed at my age I would have 2 "craters" on my head from cancer & surgery. I hope this vlog gets lots of views! Women need to know their bodies! Thanks for doing such a good, no nonsense approach to feminine hygiene! Hugs & blessings! 💜💜
Debbie Epperly (VA)
Debbie Epperly thanks for the video idea! My mom is disabled so I may be able to do a video for those that are.
My mother has been disabled my whole life. Even when you are not able to shower cvs, walmart, or any other store like that. There are unscented bath wipes that become a life saver. Baby wipes are a bad idea, because of the chemicals coming out of your skin from the medicine. Will cause a film on your skin.
Can you fit a shower stool into your shower. It was a game changer after 4 joint replacements.
Talk to your MD about Jardiance is known in some people to GIVE you yeast infections. Change COTTON underwear often. Can you purchase a shower bench for your bath tub. You can sit and shower w/o risk of slippage. Dry off with a fan or blow dryer in your vaginal area. Use deodorant on your inner thighs and under butt cheeks to block moisture.
What about getting a hand held bidet? It's a water sprayer that you can spray off genital area while sitting on the toilet. Plus it's perfect during Covid 19 TP shortages.
Dear Wendy,
You are a beautiful, intelligent, humble, generous woman.
Many mahalos.
God bless you.
KT
Thank you so much
This video is needed because when I was younger nobody taught me how to properly clean myself. This information could have prevented very embarrassing moment experienced! So, thank you for sharing this information.
Great presentation! Your skin is beautiful and glowing.
Loved this video. It has made me realize I need to take time to properly care for myself. Yes we need to be using gentle products on our bodies. Once they become available in my store I want to try the Honey Pot products as they are vegan and healthier to use. I believe your video was great and very tasteful, it was not TMI, it was just right, done with tasteful wording . As we are all women it shouldn’t offend us. So many haven’t been taught proper feminine hygiene not only for our health but mental wellbeing. Thank you so much. As others have said this could be a great video for girls health class.
Nair has a sensitive skin formula for the bikini area and it can be used on the mound, and outer labia areas. I use it and it removes all hair and leave no razor bumps. Plus it doesn't itch when the hair starts growing back.
I've waited 42 years for this video ❤
Weightless Wendy is a treasure. The main lesson here is be thorough when cleaning. I like Dr. Bonner's products too.
I have lavender, unscented and eucalyptus. They are all great but love the eucalyptus the best, I save my dial foaming hand pump bottle and a little Dr. Bronner’s with water a little carrier oil and it makes a wonderful hand soap.
I love this woman. Yes, she (hopefully) should be teaching young girls and ladies. And you don’t have to be a big size person to enjoy this. Video. Thank you!
Yesss for the proper names for body parts!!! I literally use most of the products you shared here. Brands and fragrances. ✊🏾
This is my first time here and it is so important to know about these routines, my mom never took the time to show me much, it was like taboo, I’m 60 and I learned a lot from my younger co-workers and was surprised of a lot of things. Now I feel I am more educated as Years passed by . Great product recommendations! Thanks for sharing ❤️
If you don’t have a fan, use a hairdryer on a cold setting
Thank you for this video. Young people please pay attention, personal hygiene is essential to your overall health. Take pride in yourself and be clean and healthy. We need more videos like this. They used to teach personal hygiene in school but not now and look at the problems the young people have today with their private parts. I would love to see a man do this for the young men.
Great video!!! Women period need to watch this video. So thorough and you are easy to listen to. Your skin and hair are gorgeous.
Thank you thankyou, i was taught too wash properly., but so many women dont know proper hygiene and never learn. evan young girls dont know. keep the videos coming. God Bless your amazing.
You should be like a teacher for parents of daughters. This video was educational and amazing.
I cannot stress enough about using white washcloths and towels. I use them to clean from head to toe and I feel much cleaner by doing so...
Same 💯💯 I still have a few colored towels but I have been slowly moving into all white towels. Already using all white wash cloths.
Yes I am going out with all the color towels. Already into the white washcloths. We need to see and know what's going on. God bless.
I started using white wash towels and dry towels some years back after having a series of UTI’s. It was recommended by my gynecologist...best change I’ve made!!!
Im quarantining and watching this
You are fantastic. Don’t usually watch beauty/self care videos on UTube. I will be now - yours! You’re are blessing and I agree - you could teach in schools. You have a grace and dignity I’ll be remembering.
Great tips! I am a germaphobe and obsessive compulsive person so hearing a different point of view gave me lots of insight!
Girl this video was excellent! Setting small goals is so important. Thank you so much for the reminder. Wow.😍😍
Thank you. I appreciate this video. Im 24 and plus size. Wasnt really taught anything much growing up. And ive been dealing with a lot of itching and chafing in rolls recently and what ive found out is called strawberry legs which i didnt kno wasnt normal. i appreciate this so much. Its made me rethink my hygiene routine a bit and research some of this stuff to make sure its all good and ur on point with just about everything. Hopefully this will all help me feel better about myself and more in tune with my body. Cause ive always struggled with that. Thanks ❤️
“Nothing will humble you more than a white washcloth.” That took me clean out... you not wrong, though.
at 28, I appreciate this video so much. :) Thank you for not assuming that this was not needed or TMI because I definitely didn't get this growing up. I learned some things by trial and error over the years but am learning so much more like how to effectively treat acne/acne scarring, sugar waxing, feminine care. I realized soap burned my vagina when I was younger so i just tried to use less because i thought well it needs to be cleaned. lol Anyway I would like to pass on what I know to the next young girl or woman.
I really appreciate all your knowledge and tips on plus size women on hygiene. I did not grow up with any teachings on how to take care of my hygiene in a purposeful way. You explained it with such care and compassionate. Thank you!!! I did share your video with my daughter. God Bless you.
This is wonderful. I wished there had been something even mildly as comprehensive as this. Our young women need to know this kind of information and all too often, it isn't taught in the home.
Love this video. I’m not a plus size but I thought I could learn some stuff. I did. I love it. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yogurt & probiotics are good but the most important thing is to avoid sugar. Gut bacteria over grow & you grow the bad type of bacteria by eating simple sugars
Thank you. I used to think I was weird for showering twice a day but I feel better.
I definitely appreciate your videos , especially being a plus size woman myself.
you are doing a wonderful job with your videos, keep up the great work 😊
I started brushing my cheeks, gums, and roof of mouth! I read if yogurt is pasteurized it kills the probiotics. I use to use a peppermint foot lotion maybe after a long day and your feet hurt soak your feet using that peppermint soap. It was really refreshing. I understand completely about the using the showerhead I must never have been clean! If it doesn't have aluminum is it an antiperspirant and deodorant. You might want to try cornstarch under your breasts and on your thighs. I'm elastic sensitive and it keeps me from bleeding. I took a speech class and learned to use note cards or regular paper write really large what you want to say so you only have to glance at them to make sure you mention everything you want to. I don't know if I should mention this or not but it may help you and others so... I couldn't where tampons either because it was uncomfortable or painful. My husband ask if I knew how I was curved inside I said no. He told me to put my finger inside myself. I was embarrassed. I tried it and was finally able to use a tampon at age 25! I knew exactly what angle to push it in. I was able to take a water aerobics class finally. Hope this helps. Oh and make sure you push it in as far as plunger will go otherwise it's not in right place and will be very uncomfortable to sit.
There is nothing better than a clean lady- you are doing an amazing job, God bless you🌸
AMEN
This is an outstanding video meant for EVERYONE!! Please may I say sincerely that you are a very beautiful woman and have spoken so calmly about sensitive information and with no judgement but continued patience with all of your dedicated viewers. Hope I'm not to old at 70 but just subscribed to your channel. Thankyou again ! From: Debbie and her tiny rescued chihuahua companion out west in Southern California. 👩🐾😁👍
Love your video! You’re an absolute gem and thank you for using proper terminology. It’s important that we use the correct words for all of our body parts. Thank you for doing this and educating young women as well as older ones too. Proper hygiene is essential for everyone, not just beautiful plus sized women. Sending you much love 💗
This was phenomenal! Very informative, honest and to the point! Thank you.
m not really plus size but these tips are amazing thank you