1- Loss of concentration 2- Depression 3- Lack of romance 4- Lack of achievement 5- Low energy 6-Erectile dysfunction 7- Premature ejaculation 8- Unusual porn fetishes 9- No attraction to real life partners 10- Loss of ability to orgasm during sex
I had almost all of those symptoms, i also was getting angry at others very easily cause i felt bad about myself masturbating all the time and being unproductive. I felt tired, bored, without any motivation to do anything, not achieving anything, i had social anxiety, when i felt stressed i thought the only way to get over it is to masturbate but this was causing me more stress. I was trying to stop it but i was failing at it. Then i realized that focusing on no masturbation it triggers my mind more on focusing on masturbation and eventually i was acting on it. But now i started to finally focus elsewhere, i keep my no masturbation 30 day challenge and i put a note at the end of the day that i didn't masturbated but all day i focus on doing other things, on learning, on meditation instead of focusing on that and this results to not masturbate and not even think about it. I have achieved today 6 days for the first time of my life without masturbating and i feel better.
OMG i have almost every symptom you mentioned. My biggest trigger is being home alone. I need something else to do, but I keep having urges. Usually sunday is my rest day and this is usually the time I relapse. I tend to reason to myself that once a week is fine.
Totally get it, man. I used to do the same thing. As you know, there is a tendency to binge during a one day relapse. The good thing is that you have identified your trigger and your reasoning. What will you do next?
I agree. When my wife goes to work or to the gym or to a store, etc., the very first thing I do is masturbate to porn. I feel so pathetic. Many times, I will call in sick to work, leave work early, or go into work late if I can have porn time.
Man, it really is scary when I've not just experienced a few of these, but literally every single one. Also to anyone who hasn't experienced having ED with a girl before, it's easily one of the most emasculating and embarrassing experiences a man can possibly have. She's lying there with her legs open looking up at you, waiting for you to get it in, and you're kneeling there trying to do just that, but you just can't because you're not hard enough. That probably would've been one of the single worst experiences of my life, but luckily the girl was nice enough to where she didn't make me feel like shit for it. Really thankful that I found this channel today because nobody actually gives actual actionable advice and exercises to help recover. They just talk about their bullshit 30 day streak and shit. Excited to finally get rid of this problem that's been persisting for years
This is definitely a message that needs to get out to our youth, I mean is there any young man out there who hasn't dabbled with porn in the state of its current availability that shouldn't get this information? Thanks for this video.
Malirki Whan, you are so right. There are a lot of things that they don't teach us in school and these things are one of them. Do you have any interest in making a difference in this area?
Malirki Malachi I relate in a way... except for me, I'm a a female...I feel many people just don't try hard enough as much as they wanna think they do. I have no Lust. over time, my prayers were answered for that. the blessing of the Lord comes whenever you try your hardest no matter what for what you want. help yourself. I did it. and I'm barely 18, it IS possible!!!😇☝🙏
Porn addiction can also be a symptom of depression and not vice-versa. In depression it's so hard to get excited about anything that only the more outrageous stuff gets the blood flowing.
Thank you for talking about HOCD, the very thing that scared me out of watching porn. This is truly a horrifying attack on one's identity. On the bright side, it forced me to look at sexuality from different perspectives and I'm more accepting of gay people than I once was. On the other hand, I long for the days where I was strongly attracted to women and felt nothing much for guys, I like being that way. Now I wish to strive for the best of both worlds: acceptance of gay people and my authentic sexual orientation rather than constantly obsessing over every little homosexual trigger/arousal. I've stopped watching porn for 3/4 weeks or so, not really keeping count, which I think is the way to go. The less one thinks about abstaining from porn and how bad it is, the less attention they give it. Just wanted to share, hope everyone has a good life :)
Habit which I developed when I was addicted to porn No conversation with parents Angers towards people in the society on silly acts Anger towards parents No will to get out of house Sleeping at home at all times No planning on my day as mind is occupied with sexual thoughts Depression and overthinking on my life situations Not being confident while speaking as speech will not be clear No motivation to wake up early Complaining on my life problems Anxiety to speak while in interview Sleeping late at night Always depending on internet to start the morning or the new day.
Porn addicts see no harm in it. They view it as it's only themselves but wait until you are married or in a relationship and tell me that it doesn't effect your relationship
great video man appreciate the knowledge and advice, not too many people understand these things and the HOCD thing as well, it's a trip, hopefully stopping will really make everything way better since ive been unknowingly going through this since like 13 , im now 21 realizing how serious it has been
This is a great talk - thank you very much! After listening to a number of these internet talks and presentation, this one seems to be more scientifically accurate and more useful to me.
BRYAN UwU u probably don’t have this account anymore but what u said is completely and totally wrong. that’s disrespect and a terrible thing to say to someone.
Man..this Really Hits Home to me...tired of being sick and Tired ALL the time and Just flat out feeling like a Failure...I used to be so productive...I see How I use others as Excuse for me to Run to open to feel better about myself...tired of feeling like a Worthless failure...time To GET UP..
I found this video because my girlfriend believed that I had a porn addiction. We watched it together and this really helped in defining the issue in our relationship. I really appreciate how well made this video is and how clearly you define the problem. Best of luck to you as you grow rapidly on your channel!
thank you, you have just confirmed me something that i pretty much knew... i'm in a vicious circle, i can't deal properly with it this because i'm depressed, and i keep being depressed, because i watch it. God, help me.
We have porn addiction, although that's not a shame, but it's a big problem, and it needs to be fixed. Good video, I need to watch this video everyday, let's get back on our feet, let's get the life we really deserve.
another symptom I've found is a miniscule attention span. even while watching this video i had to draw something to stave off the boredom. Thanks for the vid though. it really helps
I was addicted to anime porn And have fetish on anime porn I feel so ashamed I need help I want to vanish this forever from my life Because it's makes me lose my sanity😭
JK speaks the truth. We must be strong when we realise how damaging this addiction has been to us. Now is the time to show our inner strength and use this realisation to live a better life. An inability to concentrate, depression and lack of intimate relationships is due to our PMO use. For years, we achieved nothing or little in our work and other areas because this addiction drained us emotionally, physically and spiritually. Low energy is a given when living the PMO life. Because of our PMO use, if we did have the opportunity to be with a real woman, ED (because we're more stimulated through pixels over the real thing) would cause us to not be able to get it up. When we finally did, PE would leave us embarrassed. The escalation of the types of material we watched is disturbing and against our values. We chose PMO ever real women because it was easier to get and we didn't have to work for it. Some other symptoms we've experienced are: Anger, shame, regret, rage and embarrassment. Love and Peace from the UK!
Hey! This is a very good video, I like it a lot because it's so useful to understand what is porn addiction about. Now I'm a susbriber! Blessings and keep it up!
I didn't think I'm addicted, so I said to myself "let's try putting it off for a week" to see how it will go. I'm on day 2 and feel terrible, I have way bigger cravings than I have for my other addiction, junk food, and I had to take peeks at work constantly. This will be a hard week.
No purpose in life, no motivation, dont care about anything. Just want to survive. A little bit like when you give up at life. I hope its going to be better, but you dont belive it. It feels like you are lost
My boyfriend has gone so far as to blame me for his addiction. He says my depression has forced him into watching porn. I do not approve of him watching it because it hurts me. It makes me feel that he does not want me. We got in a fight about 2 weeks ago and he told me that he watches porn to escape reality and to get away from me. I told him that I get depressed because he watches porn and that it is a huge cycle but he refuses to see that. It makes me feel unwanted because I don't look like the women he prefers to watch. He can watch porn for 4 or more hours. He does it in front of me knowing that it hurts me. I don't think he wants to know that he is addicted to porn. He says he watches it because there is nothing else to do. He told me the other day that there is a kind of porn that he can watch without upsetting me....manga...animated porn...I have been trying to ignore it. If I show him that it bugs me he will continue to watch it. If I ignore it he will only watch it for 10 or so minutes then he goes does something else...
Sorry to hear about your issue, Deb. Please check out our other video on this that addresses the issue of boyfriends and porn: ruclips.net/video/udlhZi1htJI/видео.html
How can I get the love of my life to admit he has an addiction and stop the addiction? Porn is always showing up in his Facebook, RUclips, browser. When I ask him he gets immediately defensive and says he has no porn addiction and that I'm imagining what I see pop up 😭😭😭😭
Lost of both long term and short term memory. Inability to remember things I once were able to remember since my brain was able to realize its importance.
Huge respect. But You said you dealt with every symptom. Did you have black stress circles under your eyes after quitting? I've had them for years while recovering. It's a huge struggle looking like a heroin addict 24 7. And each time I relapsed made them worse.
Well, I have to admit bro, I've experinced this smut for most of my life. I was first exposed when a little boy,being molested by my father. I spent a total of 7 years with this man,until he got caught trying to rape my 6 year old sister. Porn littered our apartment. I've spent most of my life,in and out of counseling. My experience with porn for many years,has made me numb to even looking at women,even with tight fitting clothing. I still to this day try and understand why on earth I crave it,more than sex with my wife. I hate porn,and I wish I was never exposed to this worthless smut!!!! Thanks for sharing this video.
Amazing .. u hit every obstacle I'm dealing with with my boyfriend porn habit. He says he's not going to these sites anymore tho I find them in his phone he create fake profiles to go check out certain sites. As a girlfriend of a lying porn addict how do I get by. I'm on the verge of leaving him Help please jus a little advise
From start you explain great of this addiction(thanks for that), I have all of this symptoms,and because all of this I am alone ,my only partner is my keyboard and computer; facist and religious country I live in cause all this.From being a suffering human, my advise quit this addiction before it's too late.Peace
Random Guy From your age this is normal thing,when I was your age this addiction is on the high level,but before gets worse you have to socialize, but your reaction is so serious,you must talk this thing anyone around you,it will help.
That was a real good video mate.I probably have most of these Symptoms and I hope I get rid of porn addiction,I recently stopped watching porn,I don't want these nasty pics on my brain any more..Thanks mate :)
One thing I noticed in porn addicts was that they seemed to lose their eye glitters. Their eyes seem so unfocused and seem to wander without any sort of direction.
@@dog8121 don't worry about it man. If you quit porn long enough and start filling your life with healthier things your dreams will change too. It will take about a month or so. Hang on.
Porn addiction destroyed my marriage. We are now divorcing. He is now addicted to happy ending massages. His behavior was very aggressive in bed, treating like those in porn, his attitude towards woman was horrible did others feel this way? Masturbation for him was maybe magazine to internet going through 3 pages at most to 50, 60 pages each time. Getting more and more extreme. Very irritable and plays victim. Monsters all day, cheating, spoke horrible to me. Was not emotional and angry and no remorse towards me. 15 years ending
Hey, I dirst want to thank you for making this video. I know now tha im not tha pnly guy experiencing these symptoms. my question is, how do you over come E D CAUSED BY PORN ADDICTION?
all my life I have been with men who have treated me with respect sexually . when I was younger I was very lucky that I was considered very attractive . I was offered jobs strait off the street to model jeans and sports wear and hair products etc. I never saw myself as very attractive however I did notice that I could manipulate men of all ages very easerlie. I has a long and violent relationship with a very jealous man but in bed he was always a gentleman. it took me years to get away from him and I covered in scars mentally but also physically and I never wanted another relationship , never ever but I always had the wolves at my door However been though I had developed P .T .S. D and agrophobia I meet a guy who persued me for a few years asking me go give him ago eventually I did but first I told him about my past and told him straight up whst he would be getti g himself I to if he wanted to go out with me and I didn't hold anything back in fact I may have exaggerated the issues. also I asked for the same disclosure from him but It became clear that he didn't do that. I have a very healthy sex drive and always wanted sex with him. I had watched porn in the past with my partner's accassionly but they ouild say why would I want or need go watch this when I have you. this guy however I started to realise was watching porn constantly. he would go out if his way to watch it on his own . even though I had said to him when I initially realised he was watching but had no idea the degree. I said hay if you want to watch porn the we can watch it together but it's not ok to do it behind my back and especially its not ok to wait till I'm not around so you can sank off to that instead of sex with me do I miss out . he couldn't stop and he actually crushed what was left of my spirit . He was such a great guy in do many ways that i gave him heaps of chances.but hoing from bring with guys who made me feel attractive to being with someone who made me feel the opposite , who actually preferred that to me was a cruel blow to my whole person. I am still with him but I have shut off from love for him. I stay cause its convenient but I feel like I'm betraying myself and the way he makes me feel has caused me to not take our relationship serious. and becsuse i feel so betrayed for a few reasons firstly because he Chased me and then when I gave him ago I bared my soul to him and wanted the honest truth from him aswel yet he betrayed the trust in his integrity and that one thing if I'd known before hand would of course would have been a deal barker. he would go on in the very beginning about how good he was in bed and how long he could stay up and pleasure me for buy really it was because without the porn it would take him so long to climax. he knows the pain it's caused me because in the beginning when I started spying on him and catching him out I almost had a break down and I told him many times the effect it was having on me he would stop for a day or so then back to his ph and his incredibly obvious traits and indicators that he was at it again . now ifvi met another guy or found someone else to sleep with I would and I wouldn't feel the slightest bit guilty because I feel he does this to me nearly every day
You very right all this you mentioned happened to me me before to God be the glory I'm on nofap and semen retention now since year hoping to found my life partner to marry
Porn is just a Fantasy,Yes i have some syntoms like memory lost,fatigue is always early approching.But i never turn to Rapist,Unlike some Guys that ive hered of.The Maniac thought is like a water fall and they can't stop,Like fighting if you gone berserk,And when they realized it's already to late
A man that tells his personal life without censorship to help other people struggling = RESPECT!
Thank you for the kind words! It means a lot.
Same
I have also a lot of respect for you, thanks for the help!
Pornography normalises perversion. Addiction carries the weight of shame. Many men and women struggle with this.
11th symptom - loss of hearing in the right ear
Lol! I should've just thrown that in at the end, Good one! Apologies for the mic issue!
Why? And why right ear?
Underrated comment right here lmao
Sam A ...are you Joking or is there Truth to This??
Sam A fuck you 😁😁😁😁😁😁
1- Loss of concentration
2- Depression
3- Lack of romance
4- Lack of achievement
5- Low energy
6-Erectile dysfunction
7- Premature ejaculation
8- Unusual porn fetishes
9- No attraction to real life partners
10- Loss of ability to orgasm during sex
Thanks
Porn addictions make us lazy!
magnificent👌
Wait, depression and porn addiction are linked oh crap
I don't get it. When I'm depressed sex is the LAST thing on my mind.
Porn addiction destroys dopamine receptors and thus causes depression
AyushT that makes sense
depression, low or no concentrations, severe mood-swings, agitated ,
I Quit porn along with exercising and i feel like im in a whole new world.
Why did you quit exercising?
I just realized i phrased that statement shitty.I meant I quit porn and started exercising.
Great job!
@@John-gi4zi I wanted to say that, but apparently I'm 1 year too late
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I had almost all of those symptoms, i also was getting angry at others very easily cause i felt bad about myself masturbating all the time and being unproductive. I felt tired, bored, without any motivation to do anything, not achieving anything, i had social anxiety, when i felt stressed i thought the only way to get over it is to masturbate but this was causing me more stress. I was trying to stop it but i was failing at it. Then i realized that focusing on no masturbation it triggers my mind more on focusing on masturbation and eventually i was acting on it. But now i started to finally focus elsewhere, i keep my no masturbation 30 day challenge and i put a note at the end of the day that i didn't masturbated but all day i focus on doing other things, on learning, on meditation instead of focusing on that and this results to not masturbate and not even think about it. I have achieved today 6 days for the first time of my life without masturbating and i feel better.
Fanis93 bro i feel the same
Fanis93 do u still have anxiety after the challenge?
How do you feel bad for jacking off? That sounds like a you problem.
@@siresorb1419 watching porn is bad
OMG i have almost every symptom you mentioned. My biggest trigger is being home alone. I need something else to do, but I keep having urges. Usually sunday is my rest day and this is usually the time I relapse. I tend to reason to myself that once a week is fine.
Totally get it, man. I used to do the same thing. As you know, there is a tendency to binge during a one day relapse. The good thing is that you have identified your trigger and your reasoning. What will you do next?
exactly buddy , i am also facing this sunday issue as its weeklyoff for me
stay strong, man!
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I agree. When my wife goes to work or to the gym or to a store, etc., the very first thing I do is masturbate to porn. I feel so pathetic. Many times, I will call in sick to work, leave work early, or go into work late if I can have porn time.
Thats it, Im quitting porn.
its been 1 year. how you doing?
@@RikXtreme4 He still Fapping Im Olmost at day 26 No fap I think i kicked it off I Can not Relapse.
@@HonderdtachtigCC well done!, am at day 3 and it's pretty difficult
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great bro. we need this kind of man for our generation. God bless you.
Man, it really is scary when I've not just experienced a few of these, but literally every single one. Also to anyone who hasn't experienced having ED with a girl before, it's easily one of the most emasculating and embarrassing experiences a man can possibly have. She's lying there with her legs open looking up at you, waiting for you to get it in, and you're kneeling there trying to do just that, but you just can't because you're not hard enough. That probably would've been one of the single worst experiences of my life, but luckily the girl was nice enough to where she didn't make me feel like shit for it. Really thankful that I found this channel today because nobody actually gives actual actionable advice and exercises to help recover. They just talk about their bullshit 30 day streak and shit. Excited to finally get rid of this problem that's been persisting for years
This is definitely a message that needs to get out to our youth, I mean is there any young man out there who hasn't dabbled with porn in the state of its current availability that shouldn't get this information? Thanks for this video.
Malirki Whan, you are so right. There are a lot of things that they don't teach us in school and these things are one of them. Do you have any interest in making a difference in this area?
Malirki Malachi I relate in a way... except for me, I'm a a female...I feel many people just don't try hard enough as much as they wanna think they do. I have no Lust. over time, my prayers were answered for that. the blessing of the Lord comes whenever you try your hardest no matter what for what you want. help yourself. I did it. and I'm barely 18, it IS possible!!!😇☝🙏
Porn addiction can also be a symptom of depression and not vice-versa. In depression it's so hard to get excited about anything that only the more outrageous stuff gets the blood flowing.
Yes, Kimmo. You are right- in the case of a biological porn addiction, depression can certainly be the cause. Thank you for contributing!
The two reinforce each other. I had depression to start with, but quitting porn has made it so much easier to cope with! It's like another world.
Thank you for talking about HOCD, the very thing that scared me out of watching porn. This is truly a horrifying attack on one's identity. On the bright side, it forced me to look at sexuality from different perspectives and I'm more accepting of gay people than I once was. On the other hand, I long for the days where I was strongly attracted to women and felt nothing much for guys, I like being that way. Now I wish to strive for the best of both worlds: acceptance of gay people and my authentic sexual orientation rather than constantly obsessing over every little homosexual trigger/arousal. I've stopped watching porn for 3/4 weeks or so, not really keeping count, which I think is the way to go. The less one thinks about abstaining from porn and how bad it is, the less attention they give it. Just wanted to share, hope everyone has a good life :)
Habit which I developed when I was addicted to porn
No conversation with parents
Angers towards people in the society on silly acts
Anger towards parents
No will to get out of house
Sleeping at home at all times
No planning on my day as mind is occupied with sexual thoughts
Depression and overthinking on my life situations
Not being confident while speaking as speech will not be clear
No motivation to wake up early
Complaining on my life problems
Anxiety to speak while in interview
Sleeping late at night
Always depending on internet to start the morning or the new day.
Man this is the same thing i'm facing 😞😭😭😢😭
Porn addicts see no harm in it. They view it as it's only themselves but wait until you are married or in a relationship and tell me that it doesn't effect your relationship
True!
I was in a relationship but I kept watching porn, fuck I gotta quit
Love and marriage is bullshit (=¿=)
Even when it does they can't admit it's a problem
great video man appreciate the knowledge and advice, not too many people understand these things and the HOCD thing as well, it's a trip, hopefully stopping will really make everything way better since ive been unknowingly going through this since like 13 , im now 21 realizing how serious it has been
Thanks man,. I'm glad you realize it- stay strong and spread the word about the dangers of porn whenever you can.
Totally agree with you. This is a great video. Highly recommended
This is a great talk - thank you very much! After listening to a number of these internet talks and presentation, this one seems to be more scientifically accurate and more useful to me.
i lost my 3year marriage due to my husband being an addict
I'm sorry to hear that. We offer counseling for former and current partners of porn addicts at www.elevatedrecovery.org
kwanzi alpha your loss
BRYAN UwU u probably don’t have this account anymore but what u said is completely and totally wrong. that’s disrespect and a terrible thing to say to someone.
So he divorced you? Because you said you lost your 3 year marriage. Sorry if it sounds rude I am just curious
Thank you for sharing with us! I have also experienced very low self-confidence and low self esteem. have a blessed day!
JK, this video changed my life! THANK YOU man! You have done so much!
Finally came clean... day 2 without porn... Thank you for making this video 🙏🏻 it was a great help
Man..this Really Hits Home to me...tired of being sick and Tired ALL the time and Just flat out feeling like a Failure...I used to be so productive...I see How I use others as Excuse for me to Run to open to feel better about myself...tired of feeling like a Worthless failure...time To GET UP..
This is just amazing video! Takes incredible strength to put a video out. Role model for many (that are honest.) 10 out of 10!
Thank you, friend!
I found this video because my girlfriend believed that I had a porn addiction. We watched it together and this really helped in defining the issue in our relationship.
I really appreciate how well made this video is and how clearly you define the problem. Best of luck to you as you grow rapidly on your channel!
Much appreciated. Great job on watching our material with your partner. Feel free to reach out to us directly if you need further guidance.
I think that's awesome. I wish my parents had watched this
Very informative and presented in a non-judgmental, userfreindly fashoin. Thanks a lot man. Jamaca represent
Thank you
thank you, you have just confirmed me something that i pretty much knew... i'm in a vicious circle, i can't deal properly with it this because i'm depressed, and i keep being depressed, because i watch it. God, help me.
left ear is killin me
Holy shit this dudes right on the money!
We have porn addiction, although that's not a shame, but it's a big problem, and it needs to be fixed. Good video, I need to watch this video everyday, let's get back on our feet, let's get the life we really deserve.
my youth leader at church had a porn addiction but he’s fine now
Before I do study for like 5hours each day. But since my porn addiction is at its climax, I can't even open my books anymore.
another symptom I've found is a miniscule attention span. even while watching this video i had to draw something to stave off the boredom. Thanks for the vid though. it really helps
Decrease in testosterone, leading to anxiety.
I was addicted to anime porn
And have fetish on anime porn
I feel so ashamed
I need help
I want to vanish this forever from my life
Because it's makes me lose my sanity😭
JK speaks the truth.
We must be strong when we realise how damaging this addiction has been to us.
Now is the time to show our inner strength and use this realisation to live a better life.
An inability to concentrate, depression and lack of intimate relationships is due to our PMO use.
For years, we achieved nothing or little in our work and other areas because this addiction drained us emotionally, physically and spiritually.
Low energy is a given when living the PMO life.
Because of our PMO use, if we did have the opportunity to be with a real woman, ED (because we're more stimulated through pixels over the real thing) would cause us to not be able to get it up. When we finally did, PE would leave us embarrassed.
The escalation of the types of material we watched is disturbing and against our values.
We chose PMO ever real women because it was easier to get and we didn't have to work for it.
Some other symptoms we've experienced are: Anger, shame, regret, rage and embarrassment.
Love and Peace from the UK!
Hey! This is a very good video, I like it a lot because it's so useful to understand what is porn addiction about. Now I'm a susbriber! Blessings and keep it up!
Thank you. I'm glad it help you, brother.
All most of the symptoms seems all so close to me. I think I am an addict.
Don't wait any longer, brother. Sign up for free at PornReboot.com
Me too
I didn't think I'm addicted, so I said to myself "let's try putting it off for a week" to see how it will go. I'm on day 2 and feel terrible, I have way bigger cravings than I have for my other addiction, junk food, and I had to take peeks at work constantly. This will be a hard week.
That loads gonna be crazy😅
I was fired BC of this back in march 2014 I lost my cool and had a mood swing and went off on one of my managers worked there for 13 years!
Thank God for my harmless heroin addiction😁
No purpose in life, no motivation, dont care about anything. Just want to survive. A little bit like when you give up at life. I hope its going to be better, but you dont belive it. It feels like you are lost
You are the man who came on the Jubilee 'middle ground' video
1 more symptom - u ll be angry, worry, fearful, anxiety and Low confidence
Exactly what happened to me a two days ago. I actually caught a headache earlier because of it too 😒
My boyfriend has gone so far as to blame me for his addiction. He says my depression has forced him into watching porn. I do not approve of him watching it because it hurts me. It makes me feel that he does not want me. We got in a fight about 2 weeks ago and he told me that he watches porn to escape reality and to get away from me. I told him that I get depressed because he watches porn and that it is a huge cycle but he refuses to see that. It makes me feel unwanted because I don't look like the women he prefers to watch. He can watch porn for 4 or more hours. He does it in front of me knowing that it hurts me. I don't think he wants to know that he is addicted to porn. He says he watches it because there is nothing else to do. He told me the other day that there is a kind of porn that he can watch without upsetting me....manga...animated porn...I have been trying to ignore it. If I show him that it bugs me he will continue to watch it. If I ignore it he will only watch it for 10 or so minutes then he goes does something else...
Sorry to hear about your issue, Deb. Please check out our other video on this that addresses the issue of boyfriends and porn:
ruclips.net/video/udlhZi1htJI/видео.html
tell him to go find her !? you deserve better
He is a toxic boyfriend trust me. ! You need to find someone better !
Run!
If you stay with him then you deserve what you get!!!! Its not gonna get any better
Thanks so much man. Ive realized ive been addicted to porn for a year now. Hope ill have the strength to quit it.
I went flop so i had to stop
A sympthom i´ve got was overpreocupation for sex, sex just because, use of enhacement products, self critique of your own sexuality, it truly sucksw
You're such a good speaker.
How can I get the love of my life to admit he has an addiction and stop the addiction? Porn is always showing up in his Facebook, RUclips, browser. When I ask him he gets immediately defensive and says he has no porn addiction and that I'm imagining what I see pop up 😭😭😭😭
You Can Be Saved Just Follow God's Plan
Plz help me, want to be saved 🥺🥺💔
The longest I’ve gone is 5 weeks which is pretty good I’ll never stop until I can stop for good
Old video
But it's great guidance
All ten ... I hate this shit.... gotta stop... I was up to 47 days of no pmo and fucked it up
Lost of both long term and short term memory.
Inability to remember things I once were able to remember since my brain was able to realize its importance.
the video still has no sound. this video really helping me. please upload it again.thank you
What are you talking about? It has sound. Problems on your end.
@@ElevatedRecovery he mean it only works in left ear
Had other symptoms but im go 😴😴nite nite..GOD BLESS U BRO I NEEDED THIS I WANT TO HEAL SO BAD...I DON'T WANT IT ANY MORE
I don't have any of these symptoms, but I still feel like I am addicted. Anyone care to elaborate?
I lost my right hand. Is it a symptom
I'm too busy working a 12 hr job for an addiction. Casual viewing is sufficient.
Huge respect. But You said you dealt with every symptom. Did you have black stress circles under your eyes after quitting? I've had them for years while recovering. It's a huge struggle looking like a heroin addict 24 7. And each time I relapsed made them worse.
Well, I have to admit bro, I've experinced this smut for most of my life.
I was first exposed when a little boy,being molested by my father.
I spent a total of 7 years with this man,until he got caught trying to rape my 6 year old sister.
Porn littered our apartment.
I've spent most of my life,in and out of counseling.
My experience with porn for many years,has made me numb to even looking at women,even with tight fitting clothing.
I still to this day try and understand why on earth I crave it,more than sex with my wife.
I hate porn,and I wish I was never exposed to this worthless smut!!!!
Thanks for sharing this video.
CANDO CAMPER DUDE Stay strong and positive.
Amazing .. u hit every obstacle I'm dealing with with my boyfriend porn habit. He says he's not going to these sites anymore tho I find them in his phone he create fake profiles to go check out certain sites. As a girlfriend of a lying porn addict how do I get by. I'm on the verge of leaving him
Help please jus a little advise
I have every symptom I’m done
Did you follow through tho
Thank you so much, this is help me out of sin!
i have experienced some of these systems before porn but they have increased after porn this video helped a lot thank you sir
This channel is going to blow up..
From start you explain great of this addiction(thanks for that), I have all of this symptoms,and because all of this I am alone ,my only partner is my keyboard and computer; facist and religious country I live in cause all this.From being a suffering human, my advise quit this addiction before it's too late.Peace
Random Guy From your age this is normal thing,when I was your age this addiction is on the high level,but before gets worse you have to socialize, but your reaction is so serious,you must talk this thing anyone around you,it will help.
Very informative video.
You deserve 100000000 abonnees on RUclips! Thx for the right knowledge!
That was a real good video mate.I probably have most of these Symptoms and I hope I get rid of porn addiction,I recently stopped watching porn,I don't want these nasty pics on my brain any more..Thanks mate :)
All the best, brother! I release videos on my research and results from my clients weekly.Feel free to subscribe to the channel and stay updated.
I have this addiction and I just want it to stop now, it's horrible and does damage you in regards to negative thoughts ect... The list goes on sadly
Well said 👍
One thing I noticed in porn addicts was that they seemed to lose their eye glitters. Their eyes seem so unfocused and seem to wander without any sort of direction.
the first step is to be honest and admit that you need help..i need help
How do I stop wet dreams because every time I try to quit I relapse in my sleep and there is nothing I can do about it. I want to get better
Please someone help me
@@dog8121 don't worry about it man. If you quit porn long enough and start filling your life with healthier things your dreams will change too. It will take about a month or so. Hang on.
Thank you for sharing with us!
I will definitely consider that next time I get to know a new person I like.
What about fapping but not to anything. Just in your head? Is this still destructive?
I dunno I had a younger cousin and he watched porn because he was curious but I'm not sure how I feel about a 10 yr old doing that
I'm only experiencing 2 of the symptoms. But I'm still considering myself an addict.
Porn addiction destroyed my marriage. We are now divorcing. He is now addicted to happy ending massages. His behavior was very aggressive in bed, treating like those in porn, his attitude towards woman was horrible did others feel this way? Masturbation for him was maybe magazine to internet going through 3 pages at most to 50, 60 pages each time. Getting more and more extreme. Very irritable and plays victim. Monsters all day, cheating, spoke horrible to me. Was not emotional and angry and no remorse towards me. 15 years ending
I have almost all of the sinthoms you discribed but one thing you didn't describe is irritability and being angry and upset without any reason
Any ways to block search engines / sites?
w01fdragon12 _jt- Safe Search on Google and other search engines is the only free one I find for phones.
Hey, I dirst want to thank you for making this video. I know now tha im not tha pnly guy experiencing these symptoms. my question is, how do you over come E D CAUSED BY PORN ADDICTION?
I'll have a video out on that topic soon!
great video
Perfect vid ❤
I did good for months then I felt like I needed to reward myself 😭😭
all my life I have been with men who have treated me with respect sexually . when I was younger I was very lucky that I was considered very attractive . I was offered jobs strait off the street to model jeans and sports wear and hair products etc. I never saw myself as very attractive however I did notice that I could manipulate men of all ages very easerlie. I has a long and violent relationship with a very jealous man but in bed he was always a gentleman. it took me years to get away from him and I covered in scars mentally but also physically and I never wanted another relationship , never ever but I always had the wolves at my door However been though I had developed P .T .S. D and agrophobia I meet a guy who persued me for a few years asking me go give him ago eventually I did but first I told him about my past and told him straight up whst he would be getti g himself I to if he wanted to go out with me and I didn't hold anything back in fact I may have exaggerated the issues. also I asked for the same disclosure from him but It became clear that he didn't do that. I have a very healthy sex drive and always wanted sex with him. I had watched porn in the past with my partner's accassionly but they ouild say why would I want or need go watch this when I have you. this guy however I started to realise was watching porn constantly. he would go out if his way to watch it on his own . even though I had said to him when I initially realised he was watching but had no idea the degree. I said hay if you want to watch porn the we can watch it together but it's not ok to do it behind my back and especially its not ok to wait till I'm not around so you can sank off to that instead of sex with me do I miss out . he couldn't stop and he actually crushed what was left of my spirit . He was such a great guy in do many ways that i gave him heaps of chances.but hoing from bring with guys who made me feel attractive to being with someone who made me feel the opposite , who actually preferred that to me was a cruel blow to my whole person. I am still with him but I have shut off from love for him. I stay cause its convenient but I feel like I'm betraying myself and the way he makes me feel has caused me to not take our relationship serious. and becsuse i feel so betrayed for a few reasons firstly because he Chased me and then when I gave him ago I bared my soul to him and wanted the honest truth from him aswel yet he betrayed the trust in his integrity and that one thing if I'd known before hand would of course would have been a deal barker. he would go on in the very beginning about how good he was in bed and how long he could stay up and pleasure me for buy really it was because without the porn it would take him so long to climax. he knows the pain it's caused me because in the beginning when I started spying on him and catching him out I almost had a break down and I told him many times the effect it was having on me he would stop for a day or so then back to his ph and his incredibly obvious traits and indicators that he was at it again . now ifvi met another guy or found someone else to sleep with I would and I wouldn't feel the slightest bit guilty because I feel he does this to me nearly every day
kim tolley it does feel like porn is cheating. I wish it didn't. Really wish it didn't.
You very right all this you mentioned happened to me me before to God be the glory I'm on nofap and semen retention now since year hoping to found my life partner to marry
What's the big deal of being an addict to porn?
watch the complete video, brother
Does it cause social anxiety?, and will it go away after I quit?
good video man #Nofap
thank you sir- #Nofap
Every word of this is true.
Porn is just a Fantasy,Yes i have some syntoms like memory lost,fatigue is always early approching.But i never turn to Rapist,Unlike some Guys that ive hered of.The Maniac thought is like a water fall and they can't stop,Like fighting if you gone berserk,And when they realized it's already to late
This is an amazing remedy and detterant
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Thank you.
How to quit porn? Just occupy your time with something.
Book a vacation.....something!