Here are the answers to the video! All of the traits that I read during the video were from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders for Narcissism. So, all the behaviors were technically those of a Narcissist. However, as you probably noticed it is hard to tell them apart. So, I guess there really are no wrong answers!
I answered all narcissist traits with occasional overlap with feminism. All women in my life have had narcissistic traits. Women are f’ng so complicated. You have to absolutely write a business plan on how to try to keep them happy while absorbing frequent abuse.
"It depends on how you define a feminist" as a modern woman would say. Feminism means different things to different people blah blah blah. How Feminism was allowed is baffling to me. If it was for equality why was it not called equality not no we got Feminism which is the promotion of female, no ifs no buts and this open sexism is legal and defended by society.
My sister is both a feminist, a narcissist, and a lawyer. Also, very gregarious, athletic, and good-looking. She never married as no man was good enough for her. Her idea of compromise was having her way.
My older sister is 64 and divorced three times. Because she absolutely refused to make any compromises in any of her marriages. Even my mom, who was a lifelong enabler for my sister, said "It's her way or the highway." I do know happily married couples, and they're not "happy wife, happy life". They both value one another and prioritize the marriage and family over individual needs. Unfortunately, most happily married couples I know are over fifty; the younger folks, especially the women, are afflicted by excessive individualism and narcissism. You can blame feminism or social media or something else, but there's no denying this is our new reality. Marriage is a dying institution in the West.
Reflecting on my mother, wife and daughters.... ticked every statement. There is a reason the ancients warned us about female behavior in all the writings they left to guide humanity. The female brain is fundamental flawed.We were supposed to be partners, not competitors.
My Ex-Wife was not a Narcissist or a Feminist, and despit being Catholic and very involved with the church, Man listening to John's descriptions of Feminist/Narcissist she was the opposite she spent like 3 years in Texas working with Somolian refugees and the job was an unpaid job, but despit these good qualities in her and there were many, it still didn't stop her from having a boyfriend and blowing our marriage apart!!!
I get what you are saying. My last GF was definitely a "good gal with values". So? Hypergamy won out in the end anyway, and she could discard what we had built so easily. In today's climate women can do what they want with no accountability. It's way more depressing a case like yours or mine than when it happens with more typical "modern" woman. They can do no wrong! Even when their inner circle disapproves of their actions, "toleration" runs supreme and there's no real pushback at all.
That's human, women are human and do really bad things, make mistakes etc. The big problem in our society is how the female worship protects and enables this behavior and does little to protect men. The laws, every institution is hyper feminized to discriminate against men
Saw a beautiful girl I used to work with post about the importance of DEI in hiring ( she is HR). then she recently posted that a sexist man said she only has her position because she is a woman. That's what happens when you abandoned meritocracy
Someone mentioned reverse parking in your last video, which was hilarious. So I'm keeping up the tradition 'Which one can't reverse park, narcissist or feminist?'
Agreed on all points (for my ex - she’s a narc, her mom’s a feminist). I would propose an addition: on the phone for hours and hours every day, for the continuous validation and approval.
60 years ago, the word, narcissistic and feminist did not exist in society. All your questions are related to both narcissistic and feminist tendencies.
John ❤ one of my favorites ! My ex wife was a yes to your comparison 99% of the time. My brother’s ex wife was 100% 😂. I’ve met women in the past that go out of the way to tell me they are the matriarch of their family. Entitlement and narcissism for sure. I wish I was born in the 1700s because then I wouldn’t have to deal with these feminist women.
The core of jealousy is the fear of losing what we have, the core of envy is the greed to have what someone else has. People often call envy jealousy, but you can't be jealous if you don't have something to lose from someone else.
Hi John, bn listening to your channel for a while & enjoy EVERY talk, spot on, thank you! This is first time have ever commented on a channel; here I wish to support your supporting us! Good on you. It's a crazy world.
According to professor Sam Vaknin, who is one of the leading authorities in Narcissism, there is a very very big overlap between Woke culture and Feminism. If you use a narcissistic scorecard it is as you said very difficult to distinguish the two.
I think people mix up psychopaths and narcissists. A narcissist has essentially an over inflated ego whereas a psychopath is a dangerous mental disorder.
Narcissism is also considered a mental disorder. Broadly speaking, if you have narcissistic tendencies you can become aware of them, but a disorder is when you aren't aware that you are in any way unusual, or that what you are doing is wrong.
Ha ! Good grief ! Again 100 percent dead on . I'm @ work with this video on two woman listening in are furious . To me this explains modern woman in USA . Thanks again !
The odd question I thought could be almost anyone but most are a 100% match between narcissistic character traits / extreme feminism. I think that you’re telling the truth and trying to create awareness.
I totally agree with you. I am coming from a narcissistic family and when I compare it with relationships is very the same 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 that is why I divorced and after some short relationships now just peaceful single
We can hang together or separately, we'd all be in good company together. My score was 10 for feminism and 7 for narcissism but could have gone either way on several of those. In this age of the big "ME" POS poisonaliities seem everywhere once you scratch the surface, especially modern social media women.
That was easy. I just look at the traits of Canada's self proclaimed feminist Prime Minister Trudeau and he fits in all the slots of being chief narcissist.
IMO Narcissism has gotten so prevalent because people are more and more stressed and in fight or flight mode because of so much uncertainty about the present and especially the future.
That is a decent point. I feel like half that stress is social narratives manufacturing a society of fear. It's my feeling that we became too much a protest and fault finding society. Glass half empty all the time. So, for someone to feel like they can be acceptable in society people may feel a need to project via virtue signal declaring how messed up everything else is.
If anyone gets upset with you in this episode, they would be a narcissist...they cannot handle the facts that narcissists actually have little ability to reasonably conclude an opposition view and associated analysis of the questionable behavior or thought process.
Fun vid and lots of truth! Would you say Insecurity is the same Narcissism? I'm thinking of when meeting someone, usually another man, and they can't go 3 words without bragging about their latest big deal, money made, etc...... Maybe envy? Once you see it, its fun to trigger 'em with a fish story lol!
John: It all has to be said and put out on the table. Maybe too late. Maybe too soon, but not too far. And you did source your story. It is so good Men, and some women are speaking out finally. We all need to encourage others to be more outwardly focused and considerate of other people. Take it from somebody that had to have their Wife committed. Happily, ecstatically happily Divorced over 30 years. 58, single and "Lifting weights until it hurts"! Laughing so hard (With you) I may not have to do Abs tonight Happy Holidays to you. Love what you are doing!
How does a professional make a small problem big that indeed requires attention, resources and work? They simply redefine it with negative connotations.
Good morning 🌄 it's raining here. Just sharing Hall of Famer Randy Moss stepping away from ESPN for an extended time to deal with health 😮 issue, Dec 2024. Stay healthy guys....... Off to the gym this morning in the rain
I think that extreme feminist behaviors would be associated with a class group depicting a wrong-doing of the class membership. ... Would think that a narcissist only looks at himself and compares his value to other individuals that are perceived as a threat to him.
Well, I felt like it was good hearted and fun. But I think if you are the next case after mine, your good. But if your case is before mine.... they will feel bad about your sentence and I will get double. 😂
Maybe you should warn the boys of "cuffing season" and the time around the holidays when women dress in their cutest outfits in need of a gump for pictures, family get togethers and all the above. Shout out to CGA
Here are the answers to the video! All of the traits that I read during the video were from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders for Narcissism. So, all the behaviors were technically those of a Narcissist. However, as you probably noticed it is hard to tell them apart. So, I guess there really are no wrong answers!
Yes, I guessed this as none of these are feminist tenants
Feminism is Collective Narcissism. Look up the latter term, Wikipedia has an excellent article on the phenomenon.
I answered all narcissist traits with occasional overlap with feminism. All women in my life have had narcissistic traits.
Women are f’ng so complicated. You have to absolutely write a business plan on how to try to keep them happy while absorbing frequent abuse.
"It depends on how you define a feminist" as a modern woman would say.
Feminism means different things to different people blah blah blah.
How Feminism was allowed is baffling to me. If it was for equality why was it not called equality not no we got Feminism which is the promotion of female, no ifs no buts and this open sexism is legal and defended by society.
@@johnnyjohn-johnson7738 hive mind
My sister is both a feminist, a narcissist, and a lawyer. Also, very gregarious, athletic, and good-looking. She never married as no man was good enough for her.
Her idea of compromise was having her way.
Does she still not understand that feminism played. All that anger, where did it get her. 😂😂
My older sister is 64 and divorced three times. Because she absolutely refused to make any compromises in any of her marriages. Even my mom, who was a lifelong enabler for my sister, said "It's her way or the highway."
I do know happily married couples, and they're not "happy wife, happy life". They both value one another and prioritize the marriage and family over individual needs.
Unfortunately, most happily married couples I know are over fifty; the younger folks, especially the women, are afflicted by excessive individualism and narcissism. You can blame feminism or social media or something else, but there's no denying this is our new reality. Marriage is a dying institution in the West.
Wow
damn, was arguing with a narcissitic feminist that was a lawyer on reddit a few days ago
What’s her number? 😂
You are a big relief in the world of fake psychologists and fake marriage counselors.
Therapy is nothing but absolution for horrible modern women; modern day indulgences for cash.
Pack narcissism and feminism together, and you got the "modern" woman.
Yep. In a nutshell.
@@mchard2810 and Canadian Prime Minister Trudeau
True
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This comment says it all......
Another trait of both: They ignore and destroy any boundaries others put forth, but demand others bow down to their own boundaries.
Exactly. Feminism and hubris go hand in hand.
All I know is that no women will ever love me as much as I want to love them.
❤
I am no psychiatrist but I was raised by a malignant narcissist and I have yet to meet a woman that would not be diagnosed with NPD.
Reflecting on my mother, wife and daughters.... ticked every statement. There is a reason the ancients warned us about female behavior in all the writings they left to guide humanity. The female brain is fundamental flawed.We were supposed to be partners, not competitors.
I have, but that was before 2000
Two wings of the same bird
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My Ex-Wife was not a Narcissist or a Feminist, and despit being Catholic and very involved with the church, Man listening to John's descriptions of Feminist/Narcissist she was the opposite she spent like 3 years in Texas working with Somolian refugees and the job was an unpaid job, but despit these good qualities in her and there were many, it still didn't stop her from having a boyfriend and blowing our marriage apart!!!
Narcissists are capable of wearing a mask for decades to hide their real personality.
I get what you are saying. My last GF was definitely a "good gal with values". So? Hypergamy won out in the end anyway, and she could discard what we had built so easily. In today's climate women can do what they want with no accountability. It's way more depressing a case like yours or mine than when it happens with more typical "modern" woman. They can do no wrong! Even when their inner circle disapproves of their actions, "toleration" runs supreme and there's no real pushback at all.
That's human, women are human and do really bad things, make mistakes etc. The big problem in our society is how the female worship protects and enables this behavior and does little to protect men. The laws, every institution is hyper feminized to discriminate against men
RJG volunteer work with refugees is a massive red flag as a narcissist/ feminist. I’m surprised you see that as a positive trait.
RJG volunteer work with refugees is a massive red flag as a narcissist/ feminist. I’m surprised you see that as a positive trait.
I answered "woman" to all of the questions.
Yep, I was thinking this isn't just feminists, this is just most women in general
Facts brother
Sigma
I'm thinking, all narcissists are not necessarily feminists, but all feminists are narcissists.
Dear women: astronomers have located the center of the Universe.
It's not you.
You darn dirty dangler! How dare you!?!?!
~Bernard Chapin
I love your mischievous laugh while filming this!
Me & friends been saying the same thing last 6 years especially. We are living in the age of narc it’s epidemic & it’s carnage out there.
Saw a beautiful girl I used to work with post about the importance of DEI in hiring ( she is HR).
then she recently posted that a sexist man said she only has her position because she is a woman.
That's what happens when you abandoned meritocracy
I'm also going to say that a feminist is a narcissist or vice versa
Good answer
Most of the pretty women know it too well in 2024 and have that annoying narcissist body attitude 🙄
The prettier she is, the higher the level of entitlement.
Hypergamy= Selfish
Hypogamy = Selfless
The selfish will always hate the sefless
Gentlemen I have summed it up for you .
That’s perfect. Thanks.
"These are the same picture."
Smart man
John!! Thanks for posting the vid brother!
At least when I'm on trial I'll know what my defence will be "John made me say it"
I’ll be the sacrificial lamb for the whole group
It's also the toxic Princess mind. The Earth revolves around the Princess.
Brilliant episode!!
Someone mentioned reverse parking in your last video, which was hilarious. So I'm keeping up the tradition 'Which one can't reverse park, narcissist or feminist?'
All fair observations. Thanks for putting the time into this and presenting it, had a few laughs and smiles along the way!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Winston Churchill once said you should learn to say NO .if you feel the relationship isn't working you notify your partner leave.
That is great advice!
90% of men in relationships should heed this advice because it's very likely they are with a narcissistic woman.
Agreed on all points (for my ex - she’s a narc, her mom’s a feminist). I would propose an addition: on the phone for hours and hours every day, for the continuous validation and approval.
Oh, and to be clear, these were not hours with me - after all, I was the accountability ogre!
60 years ago, the word, narcissistic and feminist did not exist in society. All your questions are related to both narcissistic and feminist tendencies.
Need part 2, next time will be prepared with cold beer and mead for a grand laughing time!
Another one, they think their pain and suffering is greater than that of others.
I assumed "both A and B" was the correct answer for all of them.
Every woman has three inner triplets: Faye Kerr, Taye Kerr and Brea Kerr.
John ❤ one of my favorites ! My ex wife was a yes to your comparison 99% of the time. My brother’s ex wife was 100% 😂. I’ve met women in the past that go out of the way to tell me they are the matriarch of their family. Entitlement and narcissism for sure. I wish I was born in the 1700s because then I wouldn’t have to deal with these feminist women.
You’re not alone.
The core of jealousy is the fear of losing what we have, the core of envy is the greed to have what someone else has. People often call envy jealousy, but you can't be jealous if you don't have something to lose from someone else.
Contact with such broads end in misery. James Caan experienced this brutally in the movie "Misery". It sends shivers down your spine to watch it...
Hi John, bn listening to your channel for a while & enjoy EVERY talk, spot on, thank you! This is first time have ever commented on a channel; here I wish to support your supporting us! Good on you. It's a crazy world.
I appreciate your support. Thanks
According to professor Sam Vaknin, who is one of the leading authorities in Narcissism, there is a very very big overlap between Woke culture and Feminism.
If you use a narcissistic scorecard it is as you said very difficult to distinguish the two.
This makes sense as "Wokism" is based on Critical Theory which was developed by F_minists, amongst others.
you don't need a genius to come to these conclusions.
Three questions into it I realize they’re both the same
Smart guy!
Feminism , Narcissism, Solipsism are synonyms in Western Culture. Why do we even listen to them anymore???
Truth is Truth.... can't hide it anymore
This is true!
I think people mix up psychopaths and narcissists. A narcissist has essentially an over inflated ego whereas a psychopath is a dangerous mental disorder.
Narcissism is also considered a mental disorder.
Broadly speaking, if you have narcissistic tendencies you can become aware of them, but a disorder is when you aren't aware that you are in any way unusual, or that what you are doing is wrong.
sounds like all the politicians we elect in our so-called "democracy"
That was good John. I like how you continue to come up with new content. Well thought out and presented.
Thanks!
The two groups clearly overlap.
Excellent video! Not mean at all, just facts! Make more of these 💯
I appreciate it, thanks!
Ha ! Good grief ! Again 100 percent dead on . I'm @ work with this video on two woman listening in are furious . To me this explains modern woman in USA . Thanks again !
You're welcome!
The odd question I thought could be almost anyone but most are a 100% match between narcissistic character traits / extreme feminism. I think that you’re telling the truth and trying to create awareness.
Your/men's life's experience is a good teacher 😅
I totally agree with you. I am coming from a narcissistic family and when I compare it with relationships is very the same 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 that is why I divorced and after some short relationships now just peaceful single
Well said!
This was a great moment in psychology😂❤
We can hang together or separately, we'd all be in good company together. My score was 10 for feminism and 7 for narcissism but could have gone either way on several of those. In this age of the big "ME" POS poisonaliities seem everywhere once you scratch the surface, especially modern social media women.
Joy and Whoopi want to have a chat with you. :P
😮😂🤣
Don’t do it. You will be attacked on equity and lectures on men bashing.
They gonna give him a Goldberg Spear 😂😂😂🙌😭😭
That was easy. I just look at the traits of Canada's self proclaimed feminist Prime Minister Trudeau and he fits in all the slots of being chief narcissist.
The only person on Earth who doesn't think he's a narcissist is Trudeau himself. The man's self-awareness is zero.
my ex wife went bald 5 years after we split. i had to laugh. is that narcissism ?
😂😂😂
I think that’s called karma
IMO Narcissism has gotten so prevalent because people are more and more stressed and in fight or flight mode because of so much uncertainty about the present and especially the future.
That is a decent point. I feel like half that stress is social narratives manufacturing a society of fear. It's my feeling that we became too much a protest and fault finding society. Glass half empty all the time. So, for someone to feel like they can be acceptable in society people may feel a need to project via virtue signal declaring how messed up everything else is.
No, it's because of being pampered by society
John, the two are all one in the same!
Bingo!!!
same , same
The answer to every question in the video is.....BOTH. :)
Exactly 👍
All is narcissistic behaviors.
A little sugar and a little spice and all of it not nice.
Anotherwords, my x wife taught me all of this.
😂
Lobbin’ some serious cannon balls there brother John! 😆👊😆
Felt like I was in high school again, totally lost and just guessing, N or F?
All the test questions are trick questions! There are no wrong answers
Agree about narcissism being the mental problem du jour. I hear the word narcissism every other day watching RUclips videos.
If anyone gets upset with you in this episode, they would be a narcissist...they cannot handle the facts that narcissists actually have little ability to reasonably conclude an opposition view and associated analysis of the questionable behavior or thought process.
I love your intro… 😂😂😂😂
Thanks
Both men and women be careful. VALUES and MORALS count. If they have not worked as hard as you be VERY careful.
Thank you for telling the truth 😂
1000% CORRECT, John. I've also made this association for some time now.
Thank you for watching.
I love the way you put this together
Thanks
I only went trough a few and had to wave the white flag.
Keep them coming brother 💪🏽👍🏽
Will do!!
Fun vid and lots of truth!
Would you say Insecurity is the same Narcissism?
I'm thinking of when meeting someone, usually another man, and they can't go 3 words without bragging about their latest big deal, money made, etc......
Maybe envy?
Once you see it, its fun to trigger 'em with a fish story lol!
I think you’ve got a point there
Excellent points of view.
Thanks!
Great video
Thanks!
Spotty reputation? Lol 😂 that's a good sign my friend that's a victory! Be proud
Thanks!
Jon , this video cracked me up!
Thanks
John this is a very intelligent analysis you did on this channel. I agree 💯they both are the same thing.
Haha. Quack Quack.
John:
It all has to be said and put out on the table.
Maybe too late. Maybe too soon, but not too far. And you did source your story. It is so good Men, and some women are speaking out finally. We all need to encourage others to be more outwardly focused and considerate of other people. Take it from somebody that had to have their Wife committed.
Happily, ecstatically happily Divorced over 30 years. 58, single and "Lifting weights until it hurts"!
Laughing so hard (With you) I may not have to do Abs tonight
Happy Holidays to you. Love what you are doing!
I’m really glad you liked it. Thanks.
I answered both to most, that a hilariously sad!
One of your better videos, John! All but 2 I felt were characteristics of a narcissist.
Spot on ,100% right💪🤠👍
Thank you kindly
How does a professional make a small problem big that indeed requires attention, resources and work? They simply redefine it with negative connotations.
You nailed it Mr John 👍
Thanks
Sooo funny, love it!!
Good morning 🌄 it's raining here. Just sharing Hall of Famer Randy Moss stepping away from ESPN for an extended time to deal with health 😮 issue, Dec 2024. Stay healthy guys....... Off to the gym this morning in the rain
I love your videos sir! Can you please make some more about nutrition?
Yes I will
I think that extreme feminist behaviors would be associated with a class group depicting a wrong-doing of the class membership. ... Would think that a narcissist only looks at himself and compares his value to other individuals that are perceived as a threat to him.
Well, I felt like it was good hearted and fun. But I think if you are the next case after mine, your good. But if your case is before mine.... they will feel bad about your sentence and I will get double. 😂
Sorry about that
Tough fun-quiz. I’m not the smartest cookie, but I couldn’t distinguish between the two choices. I’d choose both fem and narc for all the answers.
Translation: he's talking about the vast majority of women
My wife scored 100%...feminist. Six on one hand, half a dozen on the other.
Maybe you should warn the boys of "cuffing season" and the time around the holidays when women dress in their cutest outfits in need of a gump for pictures, family get togethers and all the above. Shout out to CGA
The loneliness epidemic will continue and expand. 🗿
It’s only going to come back and haunt you from half the population.
Two sides of a coin.
🙂 Yep!
Narcissism and feminism are the same thing
Nah your good John ! Any man that can stand strong on nose jokes is good !
My answer is Kate....
This video pretty much describes my ex-wife. 😂