Solid word. I just settled my divorce after 26 years of marriage. I was an Elder and Sunday School teacher. My pastor was silent. My church avoids the subject. It’s like a death. Much respect for this good man. 🙏
I understand your predicament of divorce. GOD himself trying to divorce me from my legal wife just because she is not a christian. from that day i viewed this GOD as a GOD of evil, a GOD of wickedness, an oppressive GOD.. I discover the truth behind that the evil angels are at work to force every Christians to preach the fucking gospel so that would be spared from evil.. How could GOD be mercy when GOD is behind the evil act of his own deed that GOD want to do harms to people via instrument of satan So instead of praying to Father, pray to Jesus Christ against the Father of evil.. May the evil gospel of the evil father of jesus christ of nazareth be paralysed and be destroyed in jesus christ name if the evil father allowed evil spirit to attack me at a time when my wife is sleeping. May the evil name of the evil father of jesus christ be cursed and be blaspheme by all mankind of 8 billions of soul of mankind for allowing the evil spirit to attack me while my wife is sleeping in jesus christ name amen. May the evil gospel that allow such an oppression be destroyed openly by mankind in jesus christ name May the evil name of God of Israel and the God of Christianity be cursed by all mankind The attack of the evil spirit caused pain so abruptly that I pray again the evil spirit and such sudden attack by evil spirit result in my wife having headache. And this evil is from the evil father of jesus christ of nazareth because evil father caused headache not to mention also surround me with potentially Covid-19 virus and the pariah India virus and also my suspected house mate that is diagnosing of Covid-19 that is now pushing into me. The evil of the evil father of jesus christ of nazareth is wicked and evil beyond comprehension
Wonderful teaching, has really blessed me. I've recently had an unwanted divorce finalized in July. It was so painful and heart wrenching. I couldn't believe the evil that was behind it all. I learned a lot about the Strange women spirit, this wasn't mentioned in this teaching but a deeper study of divorce will reveal this demonic spirit that is bold ,arrogant and ruthless. But my God is greater and he is getting me through this one day at a time. 23yrs of commitment. Be encouraged anyone that is reading this that the word of God is ur shield right now , put it on every day and wear it all day . Roman's 8:28 " And we know that all things work together for the good of them that love the Lord " If u love Jesus this is going to work for ur good. Nothing happens in our life that God can't use to bring Him Glory and to work for ur good. Keep telling urself " SOMETHING GOOD HAS GOT TO COME OUT OF THIS ". Be strong and courageous. Love u in Jesus name ❤.
Fell asleep listening to some other topic and woke up to your sermon. Fear was my first thought. What have I been listening to in my sleep. Then I watch this sermon about 5 times now. I was in a brink of divorce and now I have hope and reached out to my husband with hope. Praying for that miracle. Would love your prayer for healing In Jesus Christ name Amen.
Betsy Jennings I'm so very sorry you are going through this.😢That kind of rejection is one if not THE, worst feeling in the world. I've been there & it took over a year before I could even bring myself to put my life back together after my husband left me for another woman. I can only speak for myself when I say it gets easier. I have taken it as an opportunity to grow closer to God, which has changed me for the better in so many ways. I will keep you in my prayers, that you will find peace & strength to get through this heartbreak. Give it to God...He is in control, even when things seem out of control & He will always be there to help carry the burden, so you don't ever have to suffer through it alone. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
Jamie Barrington Thomas Thank you. I keep praying and standing ( Rejoice Marriage Ministries stand) for my marriage. I give it my best shot every day to leave my marriage and husband with Jesus. It is a real spiritual battle going on. We both contributed to the break down of our marriage. My relationship with Jesus has grown leaps and bounds and for that I am very thankful. Thank you for your prayers and praises to God for you that things have gotten better for you.
Betsy Jennings This happen to me, n I can say it’s the worst pain ever, especially because I thought , I had the perfect marriage; it came to melije a hurricane
Wife left me a year ago. Has talked about divorce. This is hands down the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through in life. I’m still trying to cope. It’s hard everyday. But since she left me I’ve come so much closer to God. And despite what everybody tells me I believe that Jesus Christ can save my marriage. :/ Even if it may seem impossible. But if not we’ll Gods will be done. To anybody going through a divorce or separation I’m sorry. I know how you feel. God bless you.
Thank you for your honesty. My wife left and found another man as a replacement to me. God can heal any situation, but both parties have to be willing. My wife after my many attempts is unwilling. Gods will be done that he has brought me closer to him as you have restored your relationship with God. May we both live in holiness and meet God in heaven as we strive to be righteous in the sight of God. Be encouraged dear brother. I hurt daily and cry to this day because, I am aware as a 46 year old single father of 2 healthy boys I hurt and need to be strong for my children. God bless you for reaching out.
@@tonyjenkins7378 So sorry my dear to hear that,same here hey,l was left shattered with 2 girls to raise because he replaced me with a younger lady,l came from a broken home,just because my family is poor,and he found someone with a better family,its been a year now since he left bt lm getting better and better each day with my girls,stay close to God,everything happens for a reason, of course someone better out there is waiting for you,all in good time
I am going through a divorce from an abusive aduterer. I know that with Christ all things are possible, but he has narcissistic personality disorder. There is no hope for change from this type as they are unable to change unless a mighty touch of God. This is a debilitating condition. I lived with heinous, insidious abuse and cheating, lying among other things. I suffered throughout and I am suffering now. The beautiful thing is that it makes you desperate for God!
Been there, people actually do not have a clue, unless they have experienced this. Some people don't make it out alive. I knew more than two women who where murdered. One, was a Minister's wife, We actually attended the same church, her husband beat her brains out with a hammer and stabbed her to death in front of 2 of their 3 children. Red Flags, never ignore Red Flags! Forget feelings! GOD never intended for a husband to cheat, lie, physically abuse his wife! A good pastor will suggest counseling and if there's no resolution, it's up to two parties involved. Praying for abused women, men and children and teens everywhere, in Jesus' name, Amen! 😭📖🙏🏾🛐♥️😢
I cry everyday , I feel quilt ! I divorced someone I loved very much . Was broken and could not see hope ! I was married thirty two years the first time , he died . I wasn’t prepared for all the pain. I wished that I had been stronger in the Lord had strength to have not given up ! I pray everyday and will Choose to be alone ! I had been a strong woman of faith .. I am still shocked at my emotions through all of this ! Now I want to just be a servant for Jesus . Heart broken
Thanks for sharing that personal part of your life with us. In Lamentations 3, we se that Gods Mercy is new each day! So with his strength, and his mercy, we can live a life that glorifies Him.
I was the Christian wife who endured his abuse and cruelty for 26 years, he said it was never his fault, refused counseling and hated me because I couldn't find a job at my age. he is now living in the house with a woman who he says is a godly woman who is younger than me and is a hard worker. I prayed over and over but it got to be unbearable. I still don't know what I did wrong besides get older.
LVNCSR Similar experience here. Some people are just evil monsters. There are a lot of us 'innocent spouses' our here who did the best we could, who just got used and dumped by a heartless human being (well, maybe they are human, who knows?). God be with you.
LVNCSR The worst thing is when the abuser projects the guilt of their own actions on us. They blame us for all the wrong stuff THEY are doing. They think we are 'bad' people who deserve to get punished and abused because of their own projected guilt on us. And since we are unsuspecting victims of these people, and since we don't understand the depraved mindset of these people, we often tend to trust them in good faith (because we cannot relate to the thought of a person who would intentionally use and manipulate us), and we even start to believe their lies about how 'bad' we are and how we deserve their abuse. Meanwhile, they skate away from any guilt or responsibility whatsoever. Just to leave us crying in the ashes of whatever is left. It is a horrible and disgusting mind game, by people who are sociopathic con-artists. When you take the mask off, that is what is there.
Well said. I'm trying, though, to forgive him because I need it for my healing. I will never understand his actions only to be other than the enemy took control over his mind and his actions.
Morning I'm going through a divorce that I do not want and my husband was told that this divorce is unbiblical and he said he doesn't care any advice for me and how should the godly men in our church be handling this with my husband I'm praying God will heal and reconcile restore our marriage
God bless you dear sister for reaching out like this. I am in the same circumstance you are in with my wife who had an affair during, after, and present of our divorce. My counselor said when putting hope in reconciliation with faith in God, we must observe that God wants us to put faith in God alone. I prayed faithfully on my knees crying and I still cry. I can't change my wife. She blames me and puts me down constantly. Please be encouraged to restore your relationship with God as you cry out your specific wants, desires, and pain. Be blessed by blessing someone else. I am Godly and my soon to be ex-wife and I attended church faithfully to build a Godly family. It happens to the best of us. Be encouraged, because I read through these comments and look for common experiences and healing. God bless you dear sister. I hurt as well from the pain of my divorce.
I got divorced 2 weeks ago after a period of 2 years on separation and 3 years of living together. The pain is unbearable, it's the most painful thing I have ever experienced. It's more painful because he left me for a friend and former workmate. I have been hurt deeply, its very piercing. My former in laws called me all sorts of names. I pray that one day the Lord heals me so that I live my life like nothing as awful as divorce had ever happened. Am extremely exhausted of this pain.
Thanks for the sermon, my wife decided to leave me after 1 year of marriage,,,,my inlaws dont like me and have stood with her decision to be on separation, my family feels her family spat in our faces and Insulted us therefore I shouldnt go back ,,,I am torn and the pain is unbearable, pain of rejection ! Fyi this is my second marriage failing , am on my way to be a twice divorcee before the age of 36,its painful but thanks I will embark on seeking God and work on myself , become godly because I need healing, thanks and God bless you
My wife wants to leave. We are a blended family of 5 kids. I’m an over the road truck driver, I can’t imagine my life without her and the kids. I can’t eat, sleep, focus, or do anything right now. I love her so much, she’s my everything. I don’t think I’m going to make it
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@@PedroSosa-t2j turns out she had been having an affair for 9 months. So once I found that out, I got a lot of clarity and it was easy to leave. Turned back to God and my life has flourished🙌🏼
I been divorced for 10 yrs going on 11 and it's the worst pain I have endure I thought suicide was the answer but God pulled me out of that mentality but took me a long time to put peices together
I left my ex almost 3yrs ago. Ive been holding on to the guilt from leaving cause I hurt him. But it is causing harm to my current relationship and preventing it from moving to the next step.
Brie Sims It doesn't matter how many years you've been divorced. If you don't go through the proper steps, you won't heal. There are no short cuts. Protect yourself and protect the other partie if you are not healed or else the new relationship will be worse than your previous.
Guilt comes from the enemy in Satin. However conviction from the Holy Spirit makes us realize holding on when we feel like giving up is what we should do in marriage. Pray for God's forgiveness and healing in your deliverance of divorce.
Wow I don't know how i ended up right here on this video but it really hit me. This September 5th it's going to be our 26-year anniversary. She was 14 and I was 16 when we started dating. Just 3 years ago almost 4 it was when we actually got married by law and church, it was when all our problems started happening, I moved out of my house like almost 2 months ago hoping she just needed time, but I guess we're going to end up in divorce. I would love to work things out but she has made her decision already.
Let me correct myself, from this day forward I'm going to be on my knees and praying for a miracle. Something I haven't done in years, I think I was like 9 or 10 years old when my grandma used to pray and I pray with her
Some people in hindsight can say that Allthough they divorced it was worth the good memories. Im sad to say that for me, it wasnt. I was never married. From the beginning it felt like a war. The cheating and the lies: they began from the verry first month. they broke me. Now in a divorce I can say; I feel like I’ve been in a war. Im defeated and so so tired. Defeated.
"I lost his relatives they blame me". Very true in my case. My ex-inlaws were convinced I was on drugs because I wanted to divorce. Even though THEIR son through pretty much our whole relationship talked to other females inappropriately online (and at one time before we married Im pretty sure cheated physically)...I was tired of fighting to keep our marriage together...so I gave up..and left. We went to councelling but by that time I was mentally and emotionally already done...yet I was the bad guy for leaving.
Never give up. At some point many wise people say, when you are Godly and righteous: when you at the end of your rope and want to give up, tie a knot at the end and hang on. Be encouraged dear sister. God loves you and your ex-husband.
Ephesians 5:25-29 King James Version 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: A lot of husband's DO NOT follow this. 💔😢😭🛐🙏🏾📖 The husband is the God given head of the household, he is supposed to provide, protect and lead his family in the way of Holiness. Daily praying and Bible study at home with his wife. Fasting together and actively attending Sunday school, church services and Bible studies together. This not only strengthens the marriage, it strengthens the family, if you have children, also have family Bible studies at home, teach them how to pray and how to pray for others. Teach them who Jesus is and bring them to age appropriate Sunday school, church and other Christian activities. Don't leave them at home! If you have custody of children or teens, or have grandchildren, neices or nephews, young cousins, bring them too! 🙌🏽📖🙏🏾🛐😆🥰♥️♥️♥️
Pray against the spirit of divorce..don't pray 'the reality of it". God hates divorce and so should we!! Wrong! Wrong! Wrong! You are so wrong!!! NO - it's not God's own concession - it's mans!!! God hates divorce. I would encourage you sir to read the Book of Malachi - 16 For [a]I hate [b]divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and [c]him who covers his garment with [d]wrong,” says the Lord of hosts. “So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” Malachi 2:16. Pray against it - don't encourage it. Marriages can be saved! God never came up with divorce!!!!!! He hates it!
Amen dear sister. I think this Pastor's passion of this message is to allow couples and divorcees to understand divorce is wrong. It is painful and hurtful. I am holding onto God, because I hurt in divorce. My wife wants this because she found someone who makes up for what I didn't do in our marriage. I hurt daily. I find refuge in sharing and reading others comments as I look for resources of healing. God bless you for wanting to take a stand on your passion for marriage and what God wants. Thank you for reiterating the Bible. Continue to pray and hold onto God and pray against the pain of divorce.
@@tonyjenkins7378 sorry to hear this sad news, Tony. Have you connected with Rejoice Marriage Ministries? Do you feel God is calling you to stand for your marriage? And thanks for your kind words.
I have been standing for my marriage for years now. I have a relationship with our Lord, and have learned so much about what marriage is and isn't. I pray non stop. It has become my full time job. God wants you to be fully dependent on Him. Some ministries I follow are 1. Pastor Jimmy Evan's XO marriage ministries, 2. Rejoice ministries with Charlyne Steinkamp and 3. Lovely wives of faith ministries with Lakeidra (all on RUclips). Hope this can help some of you. God bless!
It's interesting to get a condescending divorce message from someone who doesnt have a clue what he is talking about. I've held on to a devastating marriage for 26 years, despite humiliation, abuse, and pain beyond anything this guy will probably ever know. And yet this guy compares us to Rahab the prostitute and finds other ways to 'pity us' as 'lesser' people.
There is a huge difference between different segments of people that are divorced. It is not one big monolithic crowd of people. There are some who truly are scumbags, who destroyed their families and ruined people's lives. There are some who treat marriage with triviality, who really are not that bothered by divorce. And then there are some of us who are innocent victims of cheaters, monsters, and abusers, who did all we could to make the relationship work, but then had little choice in being divorced. To lump all of us in as a bunch of 'less than' people who deserve fake pity is simply clueless. The scumbag crowd needs confrontation, not to feel coddled in their choices, or given a pass so they dont have to feel any guilt or responsibility. The triviality makers of marriage need to be more sober. And the victims need healing and support, which apparently will never come from a guy like this who is apparently never had to deal with anything like this.
Divorce is painful dear sir. I too share the experience of being humiliated and put down. This pastor is really passionate about healing people who are divorced or thinking about it. Men in the Bible have married women who were prostitutes according to God's will. They were commanded to be faithful to their wife to endure God's blessing. I can't imagine the pain of marrying a prostitute and asking her to be faithful and pray for healing. God wants us to endure and be strong in marriage. This pastor really had good intentions. I can only hear the good in the message, although I am devastated an in pain of my divorce. God bless you brother.
Solid word. I just settled my divorce after 26 years of marriage. I was an Elder and Sunday School teacher. My pastor was silent. My church avoids the subject. It’s like a death. Much respect for this good man. 🙏
I understand your predicament of divorce. GOD himself trying to divorce me from my legal wife just because she is not a christian. from that day i viewed this GOD as a GOD of evil, a GOD of wickedness, an oppressive GOD..
I discover the truth behind that the evil angels are at work to force every Christians to preach the fucking gospel so that would be spared from evil..
How could GOD be mercy when GOD is behind the evil act of his own deed that GOD want to do harms to people via instrument of satan
So instead of praying to Father, pray to Jesus Christ against the Father of evil..
May the evil gospel of the evil father of jesus christ of nazareth be paralysed and be destroyed in jesus christ name if the evil father allowed evil spirit to attack me at a time when my wife is sleeping.
May the evil name of the evil father of jesus christ be cursed and be blaspheme by all mankind of 8 billions of soul of mankind for allowing the evil spirit to attack me while my wife is sleeping in jesus christ name amen.
May the evil gospel that allow such an oppression be destroyed openly by mankind in jesus christ name
May the evil name of God of Israel and the God of Christianity be cursed by all mankind
The attack of the evil spirit caused pain so abruptly that I pray again the evil spirit and such sudden attack by evil spirit result in my wife having headache. And this evil is from the evil father of jesus christ of nazareth because evil father caused headache not to mention also surround me with potentially Covid-19 virus and the pariah India virus and also my suspected house mate that is diagnosing of Covid-19 that is now pushing into me.
The evil of the evil father of jesus christ of nazareth is wicked and evil beyond comprehension
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Wonderful teaching, has really blessed me. I've recently had an unwanted divorce finalized in July. It was so painful and heart wrenching. I couldn't believe the evil that was behind it all. I learned a lot about the Strange women spirit, this wasn't mentioned in this teaching but a deeper study of divorce will reveal this demonic spirit that is bold ,arrogant and ruthless. But my God is greater and he is getting me through this one day at a time. 23yrs of commitment. Be encouraged anyone that is reading this that the word of God is ur shield right now , put it on every day and wear it all day . Roman's 8:28 " And we know that all things work together for the good of them that love the Lord " If u love Jesus this is going to work for ur good. Nothing happens in our life that God can't use to bring Him Glory and to work for ur good. Keep telling urself " SOMETHING GOOD HAS GOT TO COME OUT OF THIS ". Be strong and courageous. Love u in Jesus name ❤.
Thank you, I found this video, I am barely able to breath this hurts so bad. Your comment is bringing peace
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Fell asleep listening to some other topic and woke up to your sermon. Fear was my first thought. What have I been listening to in my sleep. Then I watch this sermon about 5 times now. I was in a brink of divorce and now I have hope and reached out to my husband with hope. Praying for that miracle. Would love your prayer for healing In Jesus Christ name Amen.
Divorcing after 12 years of marriage. My heart is broken. Searching for healing. Thanks for the message.
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The answer why GOD bring divorce lies in the answer - Why does Isaiah 45:7 say that God created evil?
I am facing an unwanted divorce now and can't begin to describe the pain of rejection
Betsy Jennings I'm so very sorry you are going through this.😢That kind of rejection is one if not THE, worst feeling in the world. I've been there & it took over a year before I could even bring myself to put my life back together after my husband left me for another woman. I can only speak for myself when I say it gets easier. I have taken it as an opportunity to grow closer to God, which has changed me for the better in so many ways. I will keep you in my prayers, that you will find peace & strength to get through this heartbreak. Give it to God...He is in control, even when things seem out of control & He will always be there to help carry the burden, so you don't ever have to suffer through it alone. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
Jamie Barrington Thomas Thank you. I keep praying and standing ( Rejoice Marriage Ministries stand) for my marriage. I give it my best shot every day to leave my marriage and husband with Jesus. It is a real spiritual battle going on. We both contributed to the break down of our marriage. My relationship with Jesus has grown leaps and bounds and for that I am very thankful. Thank you for your prayers and praises to God for you that things have gotten better for you.
Jamie Barrington thank you so much for sharing. I’m dealing with divorce now and your comment has ministered to me!!
Betsy Jennings This happen to me, n I can say it’s the worst pain ever, especially because I thought , I had the perfect marriage; it came to melije a hurricane
How did you get through it? i need to know.
I'm Muslim and I love how he speaks about God and divorce is painful
Wife left me a year ago. Has talked about divorce. This is hands down the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through in life. I’m still trying to cope. It’s hard everyday. But since she left me I’ve come so much closer to God. And despite what everybody tells me I believe that Jesus Christ can save my marriage. :/ Even if it may seem impossible. But if not we’ll Gods will be done. To anybody going through a divorce or separation I’m sorry. I know how you feel. God bless you.
gerardomtz92 I’m going through the same situation but I’ll pray god can restore both of our marriage 🙏🏾
Any good news yet?
Praying to God is a crap shoot.
Thank you for your honesty. My wife left and found another man as a replacement to me. God can heal any situation, but both parties have to be willing. My wife after my many attempts is unwilling. Gods will be done that he has brought me closer to him as you have restored your relationship with God. May we both live in holiness and meet God in heaven as we strive to be righteous in the sight of God. Be encouraged dear brother. I hurt daily and cry to this day because, I am aware as a 46 year old single father of 2 healthy boys I hurt and need to be strong for my children. God bless you for reaching out.
@@tonyjenkins7378 So sorry my dear to hear that,same here hey,l was left shattered with 2 girls to raise because he replaced me with a younger lady,l came from a broken home,just because my family is poor,and he found someone with a better family,its been a year now since he left bt lm getting better and better each day with my girls,stay close to God,everything happens for a reason, of course someone better out there is waiting for you,all in good time
I cried all the way through, I believe I needed to hear it God bless
So glad you found it
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I am going through a divorce from an abusive aduterer. I know that with Christ all things are possible, but he has narcissistic personality disorder. There is no hope for change from this type as they are unable to change unless a mighty touch of God. This is a debilitating condition. I lived with heinous, insidious abuse and cheating, lying among other things. I suffered throughout and I am suffering now. The beautiful thing is that it makes you desperate for God!
Been there, people actually do not have a clue, unless they have experienced this. Some people don't make it out alive. I knew more than two women who where murdered. One, was a Minister's wife, We actually attended the same church, her husband beat her brains out with a hammer and stabbed her to death in front of 2 of their 3 children.
Red Flags, never ignore Red Flags! Forget feelings!
GOD never intended for a husband to cheat, lie, physically abuse his wife! A good pastor will suggest counseling and if there's no resolution, it's up to two parties involved. Praying for abused women, men and children and teens everywhere, in Jesus' name, Amen! 😭📖🙏🏾🛐♥️😢
I cried thru this Thank you I needed to hear this..
This sermon ministered to me thank you 🙏
I cry everyday , I feel quilt ! I divorced someone I loved very much . Was broken and could not see hope ! I was married thirty two years the first time , he died . I wasn’t prepared for all the pain. I wished that I had been stronger in the Lord had strength to have not given up ! I pray everyday and will Choose to be alone ! I had been a strong woman of faith .. I am still shocked at my emotions through all of this ! Now I want to just be a servant for Jesus . Heart broken
Thanks for sharing that personal part of your life with us. In Lamentations 3, we se that Gods Mercy is new each day! So with his strength, and his mercy, we can live a life that glorifies Him.
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I was the Christian wife who endured his abuse and cruelty for 26 years, he said it was never his fault, refused counseling and hated me because I couldn't find a job at my age. he is now living in the house with a woman who he says is a godly woman who is younger than me and is a hard worker. I prayed over and over but it got to be unbearable. I still don't know what I did wrong besides get older.
LVNCSR Similar experience here. Some people are just evil monsters. There are a lot of us 'innocent spouses' our here who did the best we could, who just got used and dumped by a heartless human being (well, maybe they are human, who knows?). God be with you.
LVNCSR The worst thing is when the abuser projects the guilt of their own actions on us. They blame us for all the wrong stuff THEY are doing. They think we are 'bad' people who deserve to get punished and abused because of their own projected guilt on us. And since we are unsuspecting victims of these people, and since we don't understand the depraved mindset of these people, we often tend to trust them in good faith (because we cannot relate to the thought of a person who would intentionally use and manipulate us), and we even start to believe their lies about how 'bad' we are and how we deserve their abuse. Meanwhile, they skate away from any guilt or responsibility whatsoever. Just to leave us crying in the ashes of whatever is left. It is a horrible and disgusting mind game, by people who are sociopathic con-artists. When you take the mask off, that is what is there.
Well said. I'm trying, though, to forgive him because I need it for my healing. I will never understand his actions only to be other than the enemy took control over his mind and his actions.
Morning I'm going through a divorce that I do not want and my husband was told that this divorce is unbiblical and he said he doesn't care any advice for me and how should the godly men in our church be handling this with my husband I'm praying God will heal and reconcile restore our marriage
God bless you dear sister for reaching out like this. I am in the same circumstance you are in with my wife who had an affair during, after, and present of our divorce. My counselor said when putting hope in reconciliation with faith in God, we must observe that God wants us to put faith in God alone. I prayed faithfully on my knees crying and I still cry. I can't change my wife. She blames me and puts me down constantly. Please be encouraged to restore your relationship with God as you cry out your specific wants, desires, and pain. Be blessed by blessing someone else. I am Godly and my soon to be ex-wife and I attended church faithfully to build a Godly family. It happens to the best of us. Be encouraged, because I read through these comments and look for common experiences and healing. God bless you dear sister. I hurt as well from the pain of my divorce.
I got divorced 2 weeks ago after a period of 2 years on separation and 3 years of living together.
The pain is unbearable, it's the most painful thing I have ever experienced. It's more painful because he left me for a friend and former workmate. I have been hurt deeply, its very piercing.
My former in laws called me all sorts of names.
I pray that one day the Lord heals me so that I live my life like nothing as awful as divorce had ever happened.
Am extremely exhausted of this pain.
Powerful message! Facing the elephant in the room head on. Good job Pastor.
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Thanks for the sermon, my wife decided to leave me after 1 year of marriage,,,,my inlaws dont like me and have stood with her decision to be on separation, my family feels her family spat in our faces and Insulted us therefore I shouldnt go back ,,,I am torn and the pain is unbearable, pain of rejection ! Fyi this is my second marriage failing , am on my way to be a twice divorcee before the age of 36,its painful but thanks I will embark on seeking God and work on myself , become godly because I need healing, thanks and God bless you
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Its well, i wish you all d love that you deserve
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My wife wants to leave. We are a blended family of 5 kids. I’m an over the road truck driver, I can’t imagine my life without her and the kids. I can’t eat, sleep, focus, or do anything right now. I love her so much, she’s my everything. I don’t think I’m going to make it
So sorry to hear that, we can differently pray for you and that situation! My name is Dave, I do most of our online ministry. I hope you would consider joining us Sundays when our services are live at either 8:45am, 10:30am, or 12:15pm. Also, we gather and pray over any and all prayer request that come in, so would love for you to submit one and we will prayer over it as church staff. God bless
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Victory Church of Moose Jaw thank you so much. I will try my best to watch if I’m not driving
@Hacman28 hey brother how did everything turn out
@@PedroSosa-t2j turns out she had been having an affair for 9 months. So once I found that out, I got a lot of clarity and it was easy to leave. Turned back to God and my life has flourished🙌🏼
I been divorced for 10 yrs going on 11 and it's the worst pain I have endure I thought suicide was the answer but God pulled me out of that mentality but took me a long time to put peices together
I left my ex almost 3yrs ago. Ive been holding on to the guilt from leaving cause I hurt him. But it is causing harm to my current relationship and preventing it from moving to the next step.
Brie Sims It doesn't matter how many years you've been divorced. If you don't go through the proper steps, you won't heal. There are no short cuts.
Protect yourself and protect the other partie if you are not healed or else the new relationship will be worse than your previous.
Guilt comes from the enemy in Satin. However conviction from the Holy Spirit makes us realize holding on when we feel like giving up is what we should do in marriage. Pray for God's forgiveness and healing in your deliverance of divorce.
Give him one more chance
I needed to hear this. Thnx. God bless
Great message!
Thank you.
Wow I don't know how i ended up right here on this video but it really hit me. This September 5th it's going to be our 26-year anniversary. She was 14 and I was 16 when we started dating. Just 3 years ago almost 4 it was when we actually got married by law and church, it was when all our problems started happening, I moved out of my house like almost 2 months ago hoping she just needed time, but I guess we're going to end up in divorce. I would love to work things out but she has made her decision already.
I'm hoping for one of those miracles
Let me correct myself, from this day forward I'm going to be on my knees and praying for a miracle. Something I haven't done in years, I think I was like 9 or 10 years old when my grandma used to pray and I pray with her
Some people in hindsight can say that Allthough they divorced it was worth the good memories. Im sad to say that for me, it wasnt. I was never married. From the beginning it felt like a war. The cheating and the lies: they began from the verry first month. they broke me. Now in a divorce I can say; I feel like I’ve been in a war. Im defeated and so so tired. Defeated.
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"I lost his relatives they blame me". Very true in my case. My ex-inlaws were convinced I was on drugs because I wanted to divorce. Even though THEIR son through pretty much our whole relationship talked to other females inappropriately online (and at one time before we married Im pretty sure cheated physically)...I was tired of fighting to keep our marriage together...so I gave up..and left. We went to councelling but by that time I was mentally and emotionally already done...yet I was the bad guy for leaving.
Never give up. At some point many wise people say, when you are Godly and righteous: when you at the end of your rope and want to give up, tie a knot at the end and hang on. Be encouraged dear sister. God loves you and your ex-husband.
Needed this thanks! :)
I need to watch this everyday! :)
Time to learn the truth about divorce Jesus Christ Himself gave us His word and promise saying He will not let man put our marriages asunder
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ephesians 5:25-29
King James Version
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
A lot of husband's DO NOT follow this. 💔😢😭🛐🙏🏾📖 The husband is the God given head of the household, he is supposed to provide, protect and lead his family in the way of Holiness. Daily praying and Bible study at home with his wife. Fasting together and actively attending Sunday school, church services and Bible studies together. This not only strengthens the marriage, it strengthens the family, if you have children, also have family Bible studies at home, teach them how to pray and how to pray for others. Teach them who Jesus is and bring them to age appropriate Sunday school, church and other Christian activities. Don't leave them at home!
If you have custody of children or teens, or have grandchildren, neices or nephews, young cousins, bring them too! 🙌🏽📖🙏🏾🛐😆🥰♥️♥️♥️
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I found the cure for divorce... Don't get married.
Pray against the spirit of divorce..don't pray 'the reality of it". God hates divorce and so should we!! Wrong! Wrong! Wrong! You are so wrong!!! NO - it's not God's own concession - it's mans!!! God hates divorce. I would encourage you sir to read the Book of Malachi - 16 For [a]I hate [b]divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and [c]him who covers his garment with [d]wrong,” says the Lord of hosts. “So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” Malachi 2:16. Pray against it - don't encourage it. Marriages can be saved! God never came up with divorce!!!!!! He hates it!
Amen dear sister. I think this Pastor's passion of this message is to allow couples and divorcees to understand divorce is wrong. It is painful and hurtful. I am holding onto God, because I hurt in divorce. My wife wants this because she found someone who makes up for what I didn't do in our marriage. I hurt daily. I find refuge in sharing and reading others comments as I look for resources of healing. God bless you for wanting to take a stand on your passion for marriage and what God wants. Thank you for reiterating the Bible. Continue to pray and hold onto God and pray against the pain of divorce.
@@tonyjenkins7378 sorry to hear this sad news, Tony. Have you connected with Rejoice Marriage Ministries? Do you feel God is calling you to stand for your marriage? And thanks for your kind words.
I have been standing for my marriage for years now. I have a relationship with our Lord, and have learned so much about what marriage is and isn't. I pray non stop. It has become my full time job. God wants you to be fully dependent on Him. Some ministries I follow are 1. Pastor Jimmy Evan's XO marriage ministries, 2. Rejoice ministries with Charlyne Steinkamp and 3. Lovely wives of faith ministries with Lakeidra (all on RUclips).
Hope this can help some of you. God bless!
U must earn your way out of marriage, with the help of Jesus God Almighty. 🙏🇦🇺
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The answer why GOD bring divorce lies in the answer - Why does Isaiah 45:7 say that God created evil?
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It's interesting to get a condescending divorce message from someone who doesnt have a clue what he is talking about. I've held on to a devastating marriage for 26 years, despite humiliation, abuse, and pain beyond anything this guy will probably ever know. And yet this guy compares us to Rahab the prostitute and finds other ways to 'pity us' as 'lesser' people.
There is a huge difference between different segments of people that are divorced. It is not one big monolithic crowd of people. There are some who truly are scumbags, who destroyed their families and ruined people's lives. There are some who treat marriage with triviality, who really are not that bothered by divorce. And then there are some of us who are innocent victims of cheaters, monsters, and abusers, who did all we could to make the relationship work, but then had little choice in being divorced. To lump all of us in as a bunch of 'less than' people who deserve fake pity is simply clueless. The scumbag crowd needs confrontation, not to feel coddled in their choices, or given a pass so they dont have to feel any guilt or responsibility. The triviality makers of marriage need to be more sober. And the victims need healing and support, which apparently will never come from a guy like this who is apparently never had to deal with anything like this.
Divorce is painful dear sir. I too share the experience of being humiliated and put down. This pastor is really passionate about healing people who are divorced or thinking about it. Men in the Bible have married women who were prostitutes according to God's will. They were commanded to be faithful to their wife to endure God's blessing. I can't imagine the pain of marrying a prostitute and asking her to be faithful and pray for healing. God wants us to endure and be strong in marriage. This pastor really had good intentions. I can only hear the good in the message, although I am devastated an in pain of my divorce. God bless you brother.
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it is an emotional message......but the message is.....hmmmm....