Are You an Introvert or Extrovert?
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Of course there are more introverts in a psychology class lmao
Exactly😂
@@LWLProductions because as JP said, introverts are more likely to be more emotional/sensitive and will take a psych class to lowkey diagnose themselves
@@LWLProductions
Psychology requires intense introspection. Most people don’t delve that deeply into their own thoughts. Introverts do.
Introverts are generally more introspective and self aware =p
there are more people who consider themselves introverts than ever. my theory is its because of the internet, it became trendy on social media and also the fact that people get alienated from the real world
I'm in a situation where I'm forced to be around people much of the time and it is exhausting -
It's hard nowadays to interact with people for a variety of reasons...
I work full time as a tutor and I know exactly what you mean. Fingers crossed for you!
Man, attending classes is not even that easy for introverts 🥺
@@Emidretrauqe Isn't that the truth lol
Omg me too. I’m a teacher so I’m constantly dealing with people and I leave just drainnnnnned
I have no idea how people don’t get drained from other people 😭
I don't want to go out socialising but once I'm there I enjoy it. I love my own company.
I am everything it's all matter by time.
im in a friend group(4 of us, including myself), and i feel forced to interact with them sometimes, i smile so much that my cheeks start hurting at the end of the school. Basically, its exhausting.
I'm going on 3 weeks now with no social interactions with "my peeps" and only two short trips to the grocery store. No social media accounts, no calls, hardly a text message. I love the aloneness.
"...then you have to go home and be by yourself for like two weeks..." lol. Well, not two weeks, but I definitely have to recharge my batteries with some serious quiet time. It's opportunity to sort things out. Reorganize, regroup, reattain peaceful brainwaves. But I realize being around others, including groups, fuels the quiet time. We need both. Quiet time is healing time, but the mission is with others. And I realize the need for extroverts. They take on a whole lot of roles in life I could not do. So, we need each other.
Ambivert- I loooove being social and around people but a lot of that and I just want to retract into my shell. Once enough time alone happens I crave social interactions. Best of both worlds 💜
Both!
Introvert here 🙋♀️
Most extroverts don't know introverts exist. The notion is alien to them.
People would be shocked if I told them at heart I’m introverted because I’m so forward and open and talk. But I’m so tired once I’m done and then I’ll go days or weeks without planning another interaction.
you're not supposed to feel tired after social intereactions that is from your consent or has not been forced upon you. so either you're forcing yourself to intereact. or you're hiding your real self from these social situations which is still forcing yourself to do something you don't want to do.
pay attention to this. I'm talking from experience. in the end it's going to start having huge impact and side effects to your health and well being.
@@alexandraestre1731 hell no I can’t be myself all the time. Have you met me? Lol I am not an easy person. I’m loud, opinionated and I love a good debate 🤣 I’m also loyal kind hearted and really funny if you like my humor but I only show that to a very select few. My dad is the same way, he’s my twin in that regard. Ive struggle to understand people but as I’ve gotten older I’ve accepted the way of things and have now found my tribe of people. Yes it’s affected me for sure but I’ve also learned chaos and struggle bring new opportunities to grow change and start again. I see the beauty in it now but I still struggle with people and interactions. it’s not the end of the world, and I know that now. I don’t take life too serious since we all die in the end anyway lol I’m here to learn and grow and try to love others. Try. Lol!
@@alexandraestre1731 honestly, a valid point. But coming from an introvert, it's not always the case. Like there are social interactions that I truly enjoy participating in, but I get tired eventually and want to stay by myself for weeks afterward.
@@eljoseph4171 I can relate.
Me, too!
Im a hermit level introvert.
Same
Yep me too and it's freaking awesome
Hell is other people
I'm an hermit but trying to get out and date is a nightmare.
@@Billiard-cp1my Not a fan of that Sartre quote. I read No Exit and I think I get his point, but it struck me as incomplete.
I'm in the middle so I can understand both sides lol I do feel tired after a social event but I feel energized during it lol
same 😂
Samee
Same, I enjoy both, but both can be too detrimental for me sometimes 😒
You are a introvert. Being introvert does not mean you dont like to be social.
NO CUS FR
It's exhausting. Even 15 minutes with the "wrong" person can zap all my energy.
Ya I started ignoring my depressed needy friend because it felt like I was babysitting him every day, and started resenting him.
Those people I know what you mean. You pick up the vomit bag on the airplane and read the instructions yet they still can’t figure it out that they talk too much.
😂😂 I’m telling you
I feel great around a very close circle of friends that I trust. That energizes me.
Going to a party and interacting with new people seems like a nightmare. I wouldn't even go to such a place.
For me similarly, but sometimes even a small group of friends is too much and I just need time for myself, but that doesn't mean I don't like them, in fact I really like them but I just often need time for myself and as you said going to a party with new people would be horrible, it would be so awkward and draining
Same like I can’t stand meeting new people, it really exhausts me
Being around people who are always lost on their cellphones is what sucks the life out of me so I just avoid them.
Now you should avoid them by the way. Those people are children and don't know how to be around other humans. Friendship with them will always seem one-sided.
@@BillyOnRUclips You're so right!
Yes I’d rather be alone then!
You need better friends
@championchap wrong analysis sherlock ,im just like him , and im super introvert , but when im with my close friends , nd theyre on their phones , its just , it sucks and i hate it , some people regard it as disrespect , and no wonder why , im here talking to you , HERE IN REAL LIFE WITH YOU , and you chose this virtual simulations ? , like wtf its so enraging
The more people I meet, the more I love my dog.
I don't have a dog and i totally understand this comment
Same, but with my cat.
Hahaha
Or cat.
The more people i meet the more i love your mom. Same thing i guess
I have an inherent love for people so even though I really value my alone time, I love watching people interact. I would interact with more people if I knew they wouldn't do something stupid, but that's another topic altogether.
That's so interesting. I'm an introvert and I can't stand people. They are so judgemental. I can only handle being around other people (outside my husband and kid) for a few hours. Its to the point that I just turn off at the in-laws house because I know I'm expected to be there for most of the day. I just zone out.
I've never heard someone say "I love people." So, your perspective is interesting to me.
@@yamairad1
People suck, but I definitely love them haha
Extrovert with social anxiety
treue
🤟😈Exactly
That's rough.
Me af i love spending time with people but i have no friends 🗿🗿
Then you would be an introvert..
I think this world has turned me into an introvert 😢
Not 100% but I’m definitely not the social butterfly I use to be.
Nothin' worng with that.
On that note, do you ever wonder whether your friends even really like you, or your family for that matter, or is that just me?
@@Billiard-cp1my I think family and friends have been divided so yes I do. I love them all but sometimes I just don’t understand how they think the way they think. The Bible talks about families turning on each other or against each other and I’m sure it’s the same with friends. People may look at it as political but if you think about the main issues it’s easy to see they are either worldly or Godly one believes God is truth and the other is sickened by Gods truth.
It’s sad and it does cause more isolation even between dialect.
@@ngrnmck 🌿Remember the fourth commandment
@@ngrnmckWhat you're talking about is when Jesus was talking about how He came to Earth to divide, not bring peace. It makes sense, the Truth is revolting to people living in sin and controlled by demonic spirits. If one or two in a family become saved and actually have a relationship with Jesus, it socially ostracizes them from the rest of the family. Happens everywhere. Jesus didn't come just to put everybody under a spell and make everybody live under peaceful slavery.
I'm glad the world is becoming more aware of introverts because everything has been tailored to extroverts for so long.
😮
I use to get too comfortable and became hyper around people and would start over sharing, then I feel the negative push back from inadvertently making people uncomfortable. So now I get anxious when I'm in groups because I fear I can't let myself be comfortable or else I'll quickly enter that state and again be shunned.
I've learned to opporate in those situations but I have to be so damn careful that it becomes overwhelming stressful with all the calculations I have to make about my behavior specialized to each individual.
I experience a similar phenomenon, which (I belive) stems from my autism.
I've tried to explain it to others like so:
Most individuals read people subconsciously, I have to do so consciously.
It's very taxing, especially when combined with the conscious Restraint.
@@benjaminholcomb9478 I'm starting to think that what we call the consious mind is directly developed as a defense mechanism. What people call the subconscious is actually the main consciousness that we experience ourselves as when we are very young children but we form amnesiac barriers to disconnect us from the overwhelming nature of the vast amount of information and trauma that arises from experiencing the world so vividly.
The thing I remember most about my time in that state is just thinking "what is this".
Does that resonate with you?
Here’s some advise:
1. Find out what interests other people individually (especially introverts) and expand on their interesting ideas. Read the room of how they are feeling and don’t make light of their ideas with out of place sarcasm. Don’t drift the conversation towards your own interests or make the conversation about you all the time. Once you do speak, try and make it relatable to the person.
Measure how much you’re speaking to others. If you’re doing 70% to 90% of the talking, you might be messing up.
You can be the most interesting person in the room in groups by directing conversations. For example, play a socializing game where you all have to tell 2 truths about yourself with one being made up. The other people will have to guess which one isn’t true. After everyone guesses, your input is definitively advised so long as it’s not critical.
Try to ingratiate people and keep criticism down to virtually 0. If you have a hard time picking up on social cues, this might be very difficult. I don’t think extroverts do this as well as introverts. Just think, why an introvert would want to come out to an even only to be put down or criticized when they could be at home working on themselves peacefully lol.
You are describing me, and I'm autistic
does it feel like the world became introverted suddenly?
A good point
There's so many ways to communicate online now through various platforms. I suppose it's easier, but you lose that real face-to-face interaction (I understand the irony of me typing this reply on RUclips).
@@TomAndrews91 It's not an irony. Communication is simply a thing of necessity depending on circumstances. The problem comes when you to do a face-to-face but decide to do it online. Communication online shouldn't be a substitute for socialization best done person to person.
@@luckypatrick9413 Very true.
I think it has more to do with actually having the option to act out their introverted nature.
That and sudden representation in the public space through less demanding media, by which I mean text, comments, posts etc..
if you feel happy staying alone during covid, then yes, you are an introvert.
Good litmus test.
Introvert all the day and all night
It's according to what type of people you are around whether they're filled with darkness or if they're filled with the light.... makes the difference whether I want to be around someone or be by myself
Oh I'm an introvert. I was so shy growing up and up until my 40s I had anxiety attacks being around people. I had to do it though. But get to know me 1 on 1 and I'll never shut up kind of out of nervousness and being alone so much. I was taught through counselling years back to force myself to approach people & talk to them. Now despite my wanting to be alone, I'm friendly, and nice to everyone I meet in stores, on the street anywhere.
Why do I feel like it's in fashion to be introverted
The same reason it's in fashion to be depressed. Just to get attention on the Internet
It's annoyingly over romanticized. Humans inherently need some social interaction, just as it's beneficial to get some alone time. Intentionally shutting people off for extended periods of time amplifies bad mental health. I'm introverted too, but these people who make introversion the core of their personality almost seem to be proud of their bad mental health.
Problem is I’m introverted but I want to meet new people but they don’t want too
So we are alone nobody besides a few friends and family likes me. 😢 I tried to be more extroverted but it made 0 difference
I think I used to be more introverted and socially awkward, but managed to largely fix my social awkwardness and now I'm more comfortable around people so over the years I've kinda drifted over to the middle, which I perceive as a net positive change in my life and makes me a more capable person. But I think I still prefer to be alone than spending lots of time around people, so I still lean 'introverted.'
Ditto-ish.
So tired of these people trying to demonize minding your business. NO everyone isn’t going to be your friend.
I like to be alone 90% of the time, but 10% of it, I get lonely.
So true. I'm so more comfortable being alone. I pick and choose which group interactions. They are very exhausting. I have migraines and being with other people, more than not, I end up with one. I've always said that if Heaven is real, I'd rather be alone with two past pets. 🤔 Thank you.
I’m an introvert but I want to go do shit with people
The right people.
Walking through a crowd to me is the same as walking through the woods. People are just objects I have to navigate around. Every so often I meet one that's interesting and I enjoy thier company for a short time.
I have 4 neighbors that live within site of my house. Lived here 27 years. I met the 1 once and the others I haven't spoken to in at least 18 years. Lol we just wave. Perfect.
If i don't get to be around people for few days, i feel alone....but once I'm around people, i need breaks of few minutes every few hours, otherwise i can't breathe 🥴....and i don't understand what should i consider myself extrovert, introvert...or ambivert?
Ambivert
Probably still an introvert, the key is still exhaustion I imagine. Introverts can still feel lonely if they’re alone.
Humanvert?
Ambivert
as an introvert, and as someone who does a lot of self reflection, I have come to the realization that introverts dont actually want to be alone.
We dont want social interaction, but we dont want to be secluded or closed off to others. The best advice I can give to an extrovert wanting to befriend an introvert: Sit by us, but shut up. Not to be rude, but we like silence, and we like you at the same time. Dont make us choose.
I always considered myself to be extroverted but growing up I realised how my habits are very similar to introverts.I had no friends during my whole school life and I'm probably the only person who NEVER went out friends and in school I always thought about going home cuz I had many hobbies which I could only pursue when I'm alone like playing chess,cards and other sports alone with myself but I like being around people and want to have friends but never made that extra effort to be social and I'm also diagnosed with anxiety disorder so what am I actually? I still consider myself to be an extrovert but people always tell me I'm an introvert. Am I ambivert then?
Humans exhaust me! I can only handle so much and it’s less and less the more we decline in society. I crave connection so badly but what is available is so grim😵 I’m praying for something to change 🥺😫🙏
I hear you. I think the more bad experiences you have with people, the more you crave solitude.
@@Billiard-cp1my absolutely.. and the bad happens more than the good!
It's more peaceful being an introvert. I prefer to be around people I know, like immediate family or one person at a time. But since family has passed, I am usually alone. Someone once said that solitude is a luxury. It definitely is better than social anxiety.
It depends on the group.
Depends on the group. While talking to some people or interacting with certain people I feel extremely drained, like the life is being sucked out of me. These are the people who keep asking you question after question and being very invasive for their own gain. They always have to one up you or make everything about them or are passive agressive. I would rather be alone than around them. I however, find a lot of joy in light conversations or being around people who don't gossip. I like talking about ideas and solving problems. I can be around these people for hours and still feel great about myself and them. I would much rather be surrounded by them than be alone because it recharges me.
Well said...I feel exactly like that too❣
I'm Def an introvert, my husband too. Being with many people once in half a year is enough for me to feel social 😂
I'm really in the middle. I get low mood after one or two days without human interaction. But I have such interesting alone hobbies that I look forward to my daily alone time as well
A friend of mine thinks he's more introverted than me but when we go to a get together he's usually among the last to leave where I'm ready to go after an hour. I think it varies though even for me. Sometimes I want to be social and I might be the last to leave, most of the time though just the idea of going wears me out.
GROUPS of people?!
One person is too much, oftentimes 😂
I feel less like an introvert and more like a traumatized extrovert. I want to interact and socialize with strangers and friends alike, but the idea of things going wrong sucks the life out of that prospect.
Well...do it anyway.
@@stephj9378 You're right.
Introvert.. People annoy me.
Lol now I got it ! Thought u abuse them for being introv!
Your probably the type of person that they would generally avoid.
It really depends on my mood. Sometimes I need interaction. Sometimes I need alone time.
That means you are an ambivert
I have had moments where I was like damn, I haven't talked to a human in a bit.
Two people are enough to exhaust me
How to succeed in making those who tell you "You should go out more often! This way you meet people" understand that this is why I stay at home
(phrase found by chance on the net)
I love to interact with people, but I’m a little weird, so I have to find the select few who mutually enjoy my company as much as I like theirs.
I used to be an introvert and now that's balancing out it's only through interacting that I have the opportunity to practice the stoic mindset of Courage, Temperance, Justice, and Wisdom.
I am happy to spend time alone so I can marinate all information I gather/ get when being around a lot of people. I am a nurse. I've learned so much about life by working with humans in many different situations in life.
I don't know what that makes me. Feels like introverted extrovert.
I didn't realise how much of an introvert I am, but I do find myself in the bathroom taking a breather at larger gatherings like pubs etc.
According to the free online Myers Briggs personality test, I am 100% introverted. I still like to spend time with my really close friends, but that's about it. I know some of my cousins, but I usually don't want to interact with them.
Tomorrow I have a wedding to go to, and I'm miserable just thinking about it.
Usually when I get home from a wedding or something I free an extreme sense of freedom and I get my energy back.
Do you think all the devices are causing more introverted people in general?
Hard core extrovert here. 😂 I love talking to people, learning about them. Strangers are the most fun. Getting to know them, their thoughts, ideas, where they have been. I have heard so many interesting stories in my life. It helps me to understand others, judge them less, have more compassion and empathy. I make friends everywhere I go. I love people! I find them fascinating. And better yet, I love to help them, especially with things they would like to do but think they can’t. It’s why I became a coach and teacher. People who believe, achieve! So I make them believe they can, and then they do. ✌️😊
Being around people absolutely drains me mentally, and then physically. I use my job as a tool for/to exercise my social skills, and cope with my social anxiety of being in public and around people. I am so much more absorbed into my solitude, that I am and have lost interest in friendships and relationships. Any moment I have of being lonely, is extremely fleeting. As soon as I weigh the options of solitude vs company, I will choose solitude 9/10 odds. I'm not sure if this is healthy or not, but my life is far more peaceful having no one to create disturbances
I felt extrovert, But I found a Narcisistic friends. They make me Introvert 😈🤟
Humans are social creature...but, in the begining, that social spere was tribal, NOT hyper complex clusters of cityscapes where you run into thousands of strangers everyday.
So it's less being tired of other people, and more being overexposed.
There are exceptions of course and that's where we get influencers, but it's key to note, most influencers are far far from "normal".
You'd have to be a lil crazy to want to be on stage, basically.
Exhausting lol however I still go do extroverted things. I just really need recoup again. My daughter...completely extroverted.
Gaining energy from socializing? Is there some dopamine differences in the brain?
I must be nuts cause I'm both. I look forward to large parties and seeing friends etc. Some days i use kiosk or machines to do everything because I don't want to hear or speak with any humans.
Being an Introvert and being shy, bad at communication skills, Hesitated is the Different things.. DO NOT BLEND THEM!
An introvert can be Introvert+shy+hesitated+bad at communication skills.
An Extrovert Can be+shy+hesitated+bad at communication skills too..
And (both of them can be just the opposite of it!)
SO DO NOT SEPARATE PEOPLE BY THEIR PERSONALITY, IT WILL CREAT A FALSE STATEMENT ABOUT THEMSELVES IN THEIR MIND AND THEY WILL NEVER WORK ON THERE WEAK PONTS..
HENCE EVERYONE IS THE SAME AND THEY CAN FIX THEIR PROBLEM BY WORKING ON THEIR WEAK POINTS!
Being an ambivert is hell honestly. People just tag me as an extrovert, and when I show my introverted side, I keep being asked ‘what’s wrong?” or if I’m in a bad mood. I’m fine, I just get tired too😭
I think I toe the line on this one.
I prefer to be with people whom I hold close and dear and get energized by them. It’s a very small group of people at any given time. Maybe 5 at most. And yes I will need to recharge or not be in a group for at least the next weekend.
But even my family whom I love I still prefer at least an hour or two alone each day to recharge.
I will say I don’t get lonely easily. I can be alone for long periods of time and I am okay with that.
But I don’t do new years or holiday office parties like other people. I go I say hi. Have a drink then usually leave before anyone is even done their dinner. That is stressful for me being in a social setting with large numbers of people who I would say are barely acquainted with me drains the crap out of me.
I like being alone but I get lonely. If I have someone with me that doesn't talk much that is perfect. I like watching people. They are very funny sometimes.
forget all that shit, why not just be exhausted when alone AND when around people? how bout that? eh I'm tired this comment is getting too long anyway.
I think I am both introvert and extrovert. Is that weird? I've felt times where I'm comfortable with people around but for short periods of time and then want to leave and have no problem canceling any social activities. In other occasions I fee the opposite so idk .
I get energetic by social interaction and feeling connected to others. However i have always had a shy personality so while i feel happy and energetic by interacting with others and working with and feeling connected to others, i feel exhausted by being outgoing and being the one to approach people.
Hey! Introverts
Who are introverts like the comment
Let's check how many introvertsare there like me❤
Introverts are more likely to be intelligent so no wonder there are so many introverts in that classroom 😂
Everyone wants to be an introvert because they think it makes them smarter. LoL
I can't imagine how one can be energised by being in a group of people
Hermit level introvert i wonder if their was alternative version of me who is extrovert
It is exhausting to talk to family or friends where most of the time you have to argument your point of view and most of the time people are un conscious about real life!!
Like it depends on if the interactions are pleasant or not.
I'm an extrovert but always anxious if that makes sense, I don't feel drained from talking to others but I'm tense for no reason.
Yeah, the positive emotion and negative emotion circuits are separate circuits in our brain. So you can absolutely be both very extraverted and very socially anxious
Team introvert all the way baby 🥳🥳
The older I get the less that I want to interact with people.
fun fact: i like the lockdown too much
Am both lol I like crowds and people, but LOVE being alone so weird 😂
That's because we are AMBIVERTS
In my fifties now . I love being alone !!
real introverts will never raise their hand
I'm pretty far on the extrovert side of things, so I'm always trying to be conscious of the fact that the social energy that I love saps the life out of the introverts in my life. I always feel a little bad when I get really energetic and excited for something then realize I've completely drained my friend
Sir introvert people don't go to party
Patrick Bateman= introvert
It’s exhausting lol
Why do we forget Ambiverts 😭. It’s me-the inbetween, the one who needs a *balance* of the two to feel content & satisfied spiritually, socially, mentally, & emotionally.
I love being around the right people. People who are uplifting, like minded, encourage me, and are goal oriented. We don’t have to agree on everything either but have healthy discord & voice are unique perspectives in a peaceful manner.
But I also come alive alone. I come back refreshed from both time with people and alone time rejuvenated. Each caters to a necessary aspect of me.
If you’re an ambivert say hi or something, so other ambiverts can find their way. For the longest I thought I was an extrovert but knew something was missing, until I found information about ambiverts.
We all have our own Introverted and Extroverted sides, there's no such things like a human with 100% Introvert and 100% Extrovert personality.
The issue is if the group is healthy or I am forced into interactions I hate. It I enjoy it, I am energized. If I am forced, I am drained.
AN INTROVERT 😂. YEA!!! 🤓
Introvert ❤❤❤
Depends on the group
I Am An Introvert.
I am in the middle
Dumb way to look at introversion vs extroversion. The subject vs object relationship is the determining factor. The introvert primarily takes the object and submits it to his view and understanding. The extrovert acts in response to the object.
More Jung less MBTI and Big 5
And I'm just don't like hanging out people just to be superficial frivolous I like dedication and lively purpose.
Why can't we be both? I love being around people, but I consider myself a shy extrovert. And I enjoy time alone and getting things done.
As an introvert i would love to stay in my room with my 🐈 reading📖 and researching than to go to parties😄 I don’t like to be with groups of people, I feel drained. I have two friends and that’s enough for me😻