Toxic things women do (toxic femininity) | The Unpopular Opinion UG

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2025

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  • @Cikanyoro
    @Cikanyoro 2 года назад +18

    I have one.... Many married women assuming all single women given a chance would want their hubby. Like some of us want nothing to do with married men

  • @maurakay3137
    @maurakay3137 2 года назад +5

    Prim looks dashing in that colour 🤌🥰😍🤗 Claire is also doing that green justice 🥰😍

  • @Jeremiah0809
    @Jeremiah0809 2 года назад +9

    That color really looks good on you, Prim.🔥🔥🔥
    I am not sure if you are the one complimenting the colour or it is the one complimenting your complexion.

    • @Jeremiah0809
      @Jeremiah0809 2 года назад

      While typing this, I realised how abanayuganda tweyogeza nnyo oluzungu!! Simanyi na ngeri ya kwogeramu byenjogedde mu Luganda.. 😂😅 worse still some some Baganda can't even read the Luganda I have written. 😔

  • @normynorms4584
    @normynorms4584 2 года назад +7

    Loved loved this. The balance in conversation. How everyone listened to the other and waited for them to finish talking, lovely. Great to see the growth in all of you ❤️

  • @esthermirembe3908
    @esthermirembe3908 2 года назад +7

    I love your relationship the three of you and how the conversations are conducted. Kindly take note of the low volume found difficulty listening in.

  • @vanessareed1172
    @vanessareed1172 2 года назад +16

    In my opinion, the topics of "would you date a broke man" have always been here. Culturally, the man was a provider and had to prove he could take on the role. Things are different now with us getting more or less the same opportunities but some people want to hold onto some expectations that don't serve everyone.

    • @Kats_ronnie
      @Kats_ronnie 2 года назад

      Thank you 🙏

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 2 года назад +6

      Well, I think the expectations will still have to change for everyone because guess what, the expectations of a woman in a home whether she works outside the home or not have not changed. 😂😂In my humble opinion (without hurting anyone loool) I suggest that in every home, the couple should work out the best dynamic for them and support each other. My fear though is that if we do not keep up this expectation for the male gender(provision), we shall be setting them up for failure because we are already seeing a problem of more women taking on both the financial role and the nurturing role etc. Remember the expectations on a woman are not reducing just increasing. So dear men, it is your role to provide. Atleast maintain that one! Come beat me 😝😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Jeremiah0809
      @Jeremiah0809 2 года назад +1

      @@anonnona6433 well said!!

    • @bumblebee4280
      @bumblebee4280 2 года назад +1

      @@anonnona6433
      You're absolutely right.

  • @evelynkabahuma7035
    @evelynkabahuma7035 2 года назад +3

    Loved this topic ladies! Claire, spot on about the hair for girls in school!

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 2 года назад +1

      Exactly. It's hard to manage. Blah blah blah.....teach them how to manage it. To love it. To nurture it! Ever wondered why many women find it easier to take care of wigs than their natural hair? It starts at an early age !

    • @augusta5014
      @augusta5014 2 года назад

      Thist culture of not training African girls to care for their hair while at school really needs to stop

  • @wendiemary9976
    @wendiemary9976 2 года назад +1

    I think feminism starts to feel 'divided' because sometimes we forget that we are all fighting for choice. For each woman to have freedom to pick whatever she wants. Something that hasn't been dictated for her by society. We can't all work and make money, for example and decided that's what being a feminist is about. Staying at home is also a very respectful thing, and selfless and loving. And it should be viewed with the same level of admiration. Basically, we women should have the freedom to do what we chose and have other women support us even when we do things they don't consider empowering to them.
    Looooove you guys

  • @nakawukievelynfaith4667
    @nakawukievelynfaith4667 2 года назад

    Thanks for the talk Claire! Please talk about how best one can respond to body shaming

  • @ritadrazu8225
    @ritadrazu8225 2 года назад +1

    The toxicity of women judging others on so many levels...... When will we start cheering each other on regardless!?

  • @janerosegikonyo5224
    @janerosegikonyo5224 2 года назад +3

    From +254,Am early today ,,you ladies are doing great am always waiting for that banange😆.

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 2 года назад +5

    By the way ladies, you could host Godfrey Kuteesa of Boy's mentorship program. It would be nice to tap from his wisdom 🤩

  • @dworld9442
    @dworld9442 2 года назад +6

    I really love your talks I agree with you almost about everything, I’m from Rwanda and i also wish to share my unpopular opinions to Rwandans😅 in future

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 года назад +1

      The world is your oyster. Start where you are !

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 2 года назад +5

    11:03 The school will make girls cut off their hair but if you are a mukyotala, they will allow you to keep the hair 🤔.

  • @cindyverna2700
    @cindyverna2700 2 года назад +5

    Check the sound. Two shows now with sound problems...
    Much love...Kenyan audience

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 года назад +1

      We apologize. We shot all these on the same day, and yes the sound wasn’t good. Better quality in the next episodes 😊

  • @augusta5014
    @augusta5014 2 года назад

    Claire, I really love that make up on you. You glowing

  • @hadijahnakaweesi5460
    @hadijahnakaweesi5460 2 года назад +1

    Sound today 😌. I thought my phone has a problem until I read comments from others.

  • @Kats_ronnie
    @Kats_ronnie 2 года назад +2

    One thing I realized most women have a commit of besties that makes decisions for them like the moment her friends bash you … my guy ur done .. she can be so nice until her friends influence it… she starts stupid demands never appreciative yet u do all to make her happy… and later when the relationship is over they start flirting with you … like 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 2 года назад

      I agree with you , I have seen the same thing with men too .

  • @chaniawillow
    @chaniawillow 2 года назад +1

    Thanks ladies, I love every one of your eps. ION..... Fionas' sound is quite low.

  • @zuzuliciouse.v.e9154
    @zuzuliciouse.v.e9154 2 года назад +1

    Just love you guys I'm always waiting for the notification ❤️ 💙 💜

  • @nalukengesonita5240
    @nalukengesonita5240 2 года назад +2

    Thanks 4 this episode, however the sound is low

  • @tusiimirejackie8167
    @tusiimirejackie8167 2 года назад

    Thank you ladies..❤
    Watching this the second time and the sound is better👌

  • @katjenniz6891
    @katjenniz6891 2 года назад +1

    What’s wrong with the mics? That’s aside love u ladies ❤

  • @nilahm
    @nilahm 2 года назад

    Hey ladies love you guys and the different opinions that y'all put across but can we please do something about the sound some bits can barely be heard without straining- this started a few episodes back. Thanks

  • @mackytricia4561
    @mackytricia4561 2 года назад +1

    The first to like and watch. I love you ladies

  • @Ms_wasabi
    @Ms_wasabi 2 года назад

    The woman... How she looks at the woman in floral is disconcerting. That side eye is too strong.
    Is that her character?
    Imagine she's a lot more fun in real life?

  • @rukundocynthia7895
    @rukundocynthia7895 2 года назад

    You are talking about schools making us cut hair. My work place they dectate how we should dress, what shoes we should wear, what hair we should plait 😭😭😭😭😭and it is so frustrating and exhausting 😩😩😩😩

  • @mercymukisa9297
    @mercymukisa9297 2 года назад

    Hello Beautiful ladies, the voice on the videos at times is really low, can you do something please🥲, i almost push the ear phone inside in ear to just listen to your amazing topics

  • @vikeliwendlovu
    @vikeliwendlovu 2 года назад

    You ladies are so gorgeous..I love the conversations

  • @sheilynananura9228
    @sheilynananura9228 2 года назад +1

    Love y'all to bits but today's sound has jam. Clare's mic was the only clear one. A redo perhaps because this is such a good topic to tackle.

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 года назад

      We will re do this topic with some guests some time 😊

  • @baineaneurin5723
    @baineaneurin5723 2 года назад +3

    Munaayee, even men are becoming weird!!! You find a man gossiping about a fellow man (even gossiping about a chick bcoz he failed to win her) just to break up a relationship or get favor on the job or feel good. Toxicity is being cultivated. Note for parents who gossip, kids are learning....both sexes. Thanks for the topic

  • @Perfectly_Abby
    @Perfectly_Abby 2 года назад +2

    Banange but why are you guys giving us such short short sessions??
    We want more

  • @christinenakazzi280
    @christinenakazzi280 2 года назад +1

    Always on point ladies 😍😍😍.

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for watching through the bad sound

  • @philipmuhire7197
    @philipmuhire7197 2 года назад +4

    Shall we have that 'What is a woman?' discussion?

    • @SA-vw4ny
      @SA-vw4ny 2 года назад +2

      There is already a great documentary by Matt Walsh on this topic. It's very interesting to watch in light of the times we are living in

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 2 года назад +3

    The sound is terrible. I had to keep decreasing when Clare spoke and increasing when Prim spoke. Up and down what's happening?

  • @wambuiw.4032
    @wambuiw.4032 2 года назад

    That point on cutting hair is so true. Teach girls to do their natural hair. That cutting is rooted in colonialism.

  • @kaihuramercy1673
    @kaihuramercy1673 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for this guys🥰

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 2 года назад

    The thing of men being ATMs. It's crazy. PS. I am big on men providing and spoiling their women but damn the trend of money being prime element is on a whole other roll lately.

  • @lorrainekerubo
    @lorrainekerubo 2 года назад

    Women are NOT the ones putting pressure on men to provide. Patriarchy is.

  • @alysonpraise3819
    @alysonpraise3819 2 года назад

    Nobody should go through anything mostly because of dress code like because I am bigger I can’t dress a certain way too bad that there is something such as beauty favor or appearance

  • @lucianakanyana1193
    @lucianakanyana1193 2 года назад +1

    Am watching this later and the sound is good. Interesting topic. I believe as women we shd be lifting each other up instead of bashing them.
    It doesn’t make us any better
    Love u ladies

  • @ladofrank3286
    @ladofrank3286 2 года назад +1

    only if women love themselves,stop comparing themselves with those of who have worked so heard to get where they are ,for it starts with loving yourself,believing in yourself and appreciating who u are ,no matter where life has placed u

  • @helenams4602
    @helenams4602 2 года назад

    Can I suggest for you ladies to say your catch phrase like ‘we are real, row …’!!!

  • @lorrecco
    @lorrecco 2 года назад

    The sound sounds like it has an echo

  • @acramdumba620
    @acramdumba620 2 года назад

    Sister primu you right on your submission

  • @eddahmugarra7912
    @eddahmugarra7912 2 года назад

    There is always an audio problem with the person who sits where prim is seated now. They always sound soo low. Not audible enough. Other than that great topic.

  • @asiimireshirley
    @asiimireshirley 2 года назад

    Sound ba swthrt😩😩😩

  • @wanderacrispus572
    @wanderacrispus572 2 года назад

    I think the other toxic trait is women sharing and helping out financially to run the family incase the man doesn't have at that moment. They want to be selfishly glued to wats there

  • @kabagyeniphionah448
    @kabagyeniphionah448 2 года назад +1

    The sound guys .... It wasn't clear today.

  • @serakim1513
    @serakim1513 2 года назад

    I love this topic women like gossiping about others for sure wen one gets something big they start expecting May b she has a rich guy as in can’t women also work n get their own achievements I really love this topic for sure we should be different as women thx Claire Prim n Fiona

  • @user-br1mq1ue9b
    @user-br1mq1ue9b 2 года назад

    Guys please work on your video sounds. I really struggle to hear i had to use subtitles. I tried listening on other devices like tv and laptop and even my friend's laptop and had same issue, audio is too low.
    I love the topics being discussed.

  • @prisicllakalenge9013
    @prisicllakalenge9013 2 года назад +2

    The sound

  • @mariesandoval1762
    @mariesandoval1762 2 года назад

    You could have a 🎙️ mic. A little closer. I like the topics . I'm just getting into the video and wish I could hear you more clearly.

    • @mariesandoval1762
      @mariesandoval1762 2 года назад

      I just can't watch the video with hearing that background noise and your voices are muffled and just found far. I'm sorry . I wish I could hear. There's probably so much insight I'm missing out on. If you happen to do a re-do please let me know. Thank you !

  • @miriamkhlea5375
    @miriamkhlea5375 2 года назад

    The sound and volume today, too bad

  • @namutebilydia3749
    @namutebilydia3749 2 года назад

    Mics are tuned to alow tone badear some of us tubatetuwulira bulungi

  • @marthaguhirwa1720
    @marthaguhirwa1720 2 года назад

    Darlings the volume is somewhat not voluming but I enjoy the topics🤗

  • @wambuimuriithi707
    @wambuimuriithi707 2 года назад

    Sound is an issue

  • @lukwagosamalie6612
    @lukwagosamalie6612 2 года назад +1

    Low sound please

  • @nettyad
    @nettyad 2 года назад

    Very interested but struggling to hear...
    Kindly improve on the sound

  • @fykemogan8647
    @fykemogan8647 2 года назад +1

    Kka volume 🤔

  • @daphneampire9740
    @daphneampire9740 2 года назад

    sound is so not it woweee, couldn't sit through it

  • @Anita-Blessed
    @Anita-Blessed 2 года назад +4

    Today's sound is wanting

  • @stewartmuwangala2053
    @stewartmuwangala2053 2 года назад

    Background sound is too much. Need to do something about it.
    Otherwise great content.

  • @atuhairepatience8782
    @atuhairepatience8782 2 года назад

    What's wrong with the sound today ba dear

  • @namutebipatricia1731
    @namutebipatricia1731 2 года назад

    I rarely comment but ladies the volume is sooo low these days

  • @twesigyeprecious4633
    @twesigyeprecious4633 2 года назад

    Your volume too down!!

  • @nassalijamillah8288
    @nassalijamillah8288 2 года назад

    if you could please feature man talk ke and talk about toxic masculinity. love you xoxo😘

  • @NsanzeJimmy1
    @NsanzeJimmy1 2 года назад

    Hi Guys sorry for Coming in Late, but they say Better late than never 😂.
    Just Wanted to Say That I always thought that When people say Toxic Feminism they Are referring to Feminism as an Ideology. In this case which would mean a belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests.
    Like what Candice is always against ruclips.net/video/tFyIkIVQj7M/видео.html.
    I always thought that they are referring to the extremes of that advocacy as Toxic 😮😮 Completely off.😢
    Love you guys, I can never miss to watch each episode 😊

  • @wanji5851
    @wanji5851 2 года назад +1

    I can barely hear you guys

  • @mellontushemerirwe3663
    @mellontushemerirwe3663 2 года назад

    The sound is really bad

  • @osy777
    @osy777 2 года назад

    Claire you're toxic 🤣🤣🤣

  • @nyamburaadventures_ke
    @nyamburaadventures_ke 2 года назад +1

    Please work on the sound

  • @donikwizera8483
    @donikwizera8483 2 года назад

    Hi, I am single gentleman, I am looking for a future wife or best friend lady or lover girlfriend

  • @Kaka_Industry
    @Kaka_Industry 2 года назад

    But couples gossip more than women....i think gossip is becoming normal lol

  • @ronaldahirirwe1014
    @ronaldahirirwe1014 2 года назад

    Hey. I feel like you have taken a 'very high road' about gossip. As long as there are no lies involved, isn't talking or sharing about events and people just human? Don't the three of you, in your free time, talk? Methinks that 'economic activity' is a necessary human activity🏃‍♂🏃‍♂🏃‍♂

  • @twentytwo3840
    @twentytwo3840 2 года назад +4

    The sound is terrible

    • @Godknowsmyname8634
      @Godknowsmyname8634 2 года назад

      Try using headphones

    • @twentytwo3840
      @twentytwo3840 2 года назад +2

      I have listened via Bluetooth speaker and it was still low. It's the second time av watched a video on this channel with the same sound problem.

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 года назад

      Totally and we apologize

  • @africangirl189
    @africangirl189 2 года назад

    Not even feminine to begin with so why should I watch this? 😂😂

  • @godsfavoritechild3187
    @godsfavoritechild3187 2 года назад +1

    Awful sound.