Support Court- Child support and Backpay Credits

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @adhenyx
    @adhenyx 3 года назад +623

    This is why you give money orders or checks eveytime the child needs something so that it can be tracked.

    • @OJ-615
      @OJ-615 3 года назад +16

      You’re right. But its sad how some people have to live like that. Having to have proof just “ incase “ something like this happens. I guess its true when they say, always prepare for the worst. God bless

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      All he did was bring money orders of how he was under paying. Of course he thought it was sufficient. Typical man that wants to live better than his children.

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад +8

      @@OJ-615 Not impressed with this man bc he brought proof of what he was under paying. Of course he thought it was sufficient. The judge gave him credit for what he paid and gave him the balance he owed. The child should live as comfortable as the parent that makes more money. This man seems to be ok with his child having less. If this kid is spending his time with friends or girlfriends, that means it’s not time spent with him so at least there’s money so he can afford a more comfortable life.

    • @Shenduanr
      @Shenduanr 2 года назад +7

      Exactly that happened to my father with his first 2 kid's he gave money to the kid's every week and when the kids turned 17 their mother said he never paid anything and he owed back pay even though he gave money to the kid's every week.

    • @jaylakieth8734
      @jaylakieth8734 2 года назад +6

      Or keep and save all your receipts through your bank card/debit.

  • @r.massattack4052
    @r.massattack4052 Год назад +76

    My ex wife n i divorced we used our joint bank account for me to pay/deposit my weekly child support payments. We did not have the amount given to us from the courts but an agreed upon amount. 5 years later, never once missing a weekly deposit, I'm summoned to court where my ex claims I've never once paid a penny towards child support. The chaos that ensued was enormous. I labeled our account " child support only" I had to prove with bank statements for 5 years that I never withdrew money & only deposited money. When the judge asked what were all the weekly deposits for my ex answered, " I thought he was giving me money to not complain" I got lucky the judge seen right through the B.S. or I would have paid 5 years of back pay. I got lucky I got the judge on the right day. There's too many loop holes in the system

    • @briannatodd8823
      @briannatodd8823 7 месяцев назад +1

      Good judge and smart move.

    • @daltongarrett7117
      @daltongarrett7117 6 месяцев назад +2

      You didn't get the judge on the right day, you made the right move in making sure you were doing the payment in a way it could be tracked. Judge just wasn't a dunce.

    • @Palmchisimon
      @Palmchisimon 4 месяца назад

      Tm going thru this one now

    • @r.massattack4052
      @r.massattack4052 4 месяца назад

      ​@sythonsimonfoos document and track everything. Dates, times, etc. Get a lawyer to help. They know what to ask, what to say and can keep you from getting blindsided

    • @patrecesasser7648
      @patrecesasser7648 2 месяца назад

      H out w stupid can women be? I’m a woman and o cannot even believe some things that come out of their mouths!! Poor men.

  • @carrieanthony5883
    @carrieanthony5883 3 года назад +331

    I found this on Tik-Tok and I have been binge-watching this judge I absolutely love her

    • @lisachilelli3318
      @lisachilelli3318 2 года назад +4

      Same! Popped up on FB and now I’m down a rabbit hole and enjoying every moment of it

    • @carrieanthony5883
      @carrieanthony5883 2 года назад +2

      @@lisachilelli3318 me to🤣

    • @naomiemoore5725
      @naomiemoore5725 10 месяцев назад

      Me four! Love her. Wish she was on TV but this is better for now since I can watch when I can.
      I do not have any electronics to record. I have a "dumb" Home. 😂

    • @_Rayfieldsdaughter
      @_Rayfieldsdaughter 9 месяцев назад

      Yees, 😅

    • @carolrose3367
      @carolrose3367 12 дней назад

      BETTER FIND ANOTHER APP.

  • @islandgurl8087
    @islandgurl8087 2 года назад +126

    I admire this Judge she ain't about "beating around the bush!" Very upfront and calls people out on their BS especially when they go to court just to waste her time!!!!

  • @beedee5022
    @beedee5022 2 года назад +294

    The respondent was very efficient when it came to supplying his financial documents. The plaintiff looks like she is all the way bitter and thought that backpay was going to destroy him.

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад +15

      He’s organized but penny pinching on his son. He was efficient to himself, not his son. The children are supposed to live as comfortable as the parent that makes the most money. This clown thought 600 was “sufficient”? That’s why there’s s set formula, bc “efficient” men like this put themselves first. Pitiful!

    • @Megitsune69
      @Megitsune69 Год назад +4

      At least he was giving her money.

    • @MzJoA
      @MzJoA 11 месяцев назад +1

      She thought she was gonna get way more but he was giving her money and tbat counts

  • @bigboytoy29
    @bigboytoy29 3 года назад +175

    I worked for child support . And it's crazy to me how child support can be implemented when one of the parties involved is mad at the other. Because it really has nothing to do with the child or children. That needs to change.
    I've seen a girl put her child father on child support because he wouldn't but her concert tickets. And the father was taking care of his child, he just wasn't with her anymore. Blew my mind. She ended up mad because child support was less money than he was already giving her every month. Doesn't pay to be greedy.

    • @shinckson-gibson3793
      @shinckson-gibson3793 2 года назад +1

      So what about the fathers that are lent paying anything. Mines is a few hundred short of 10K and thinks working under the books for the rest of his life won’t catch up to him.

    • @bigboytoy29
      @bigboytoy29 2 года назад +1

      @@shinckson-gibson3793 the debit doesn't go anywhere until its paid. Even after death child support will try and find property and anything else they can find under his name , to sell to pay that child support. But as long as he working under the table leagally they cant demand something that not in the system.

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад +3

      I know parents use the cs as a weapon but it still needs to happen despite the reason behind it bc the child's life regardless will be more comfortable. It's bad enough he/she has to live without both parents together. At least the financial aspect is one less thing to deal with.

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      @@shinckson-gibson3793 These types of men use the law to their advantage. Yes bogbputpu29. Ya didn't mention these men.

    • @bigboytoy29
      @bigboytoy29 2 года назад

      @@irmaadams7780 I answered a question. But to be honest child support is not needed . You dont really want the authorities to be in your business. Because when you do you loose control and the state tells you what you can do with YOUR child. What really needed is the two adults the made the decision to sleep together and have a baby. Grow up and learn how to communicate and co-parent.
      If that's hard then both of the parents should have been think about whi this person is I'm sleeping with. Mist people on child support knew who the person they were sleeping with were before they did it.
      I tell people to go in your bathroom or any room where you have a mirror. Look in and fuss and cuss that person that's looking back at you. Because that's who you mad at

  • @matthewfenley5821
    @matthewfenley5821 Год назад +25

    Shes 100% salty
    Using kids as leverage is wrong on so many levels

    • @carlosclay5617
      @carlosclay5617 9 месяцев назад

      This is what women do

    • @sagbrady8414
      @sagbrady8414 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@carlosclay5617 not all women... my ex paid & I was happy with...never thought of taking him to court

    • @carlosclay5617
      @carlosclay5617 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@sagbrady8414 you are right not all women, I’m not talking about those women. These women you don’t need a judge to tell the parents what to do. These Parents keep the court out of their business, these Parents know what their responsibilities are. But those other women, they use the child for a PAY DAY, and use the court to help them….these are the women I’m talking about.

    • @sagbrady8414
      @sagbrady8414 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@carlosclay5617 ok...I agree...some women are just looking for the money..

  • @lzitachizl3119
    @lzitachizl3119 11 месяцев назад +7

    This was a great video! No barking and arguing just numbers and learning opportunities. this is what I like

  • @harrisongord2228
    @harrisongord2228 2 года назад +111

    The woman is 100% doing this out of spite.

    • @Hehekiki307
      @Hehekiki307 2 года назад +2

      Nope hhe is. He is a bum for shorting her makimg all that money

    • @harrisongord2228
      @harrisongord2228 2 года назад +1

      @@Hehekiki307 hahahaha ok

    • @rachaelsmith2249
      @rachaelsmith2249 Год назад +4

      Nah, he’s a cheapskate. $600 is next to nothing when supporting a child

    • @albertaowusu3536
      @albertaowusu3536 10 месяцев назад +1

      She probably thought they will get back together until he started going with her student. She just want want she is due.

    • @acebrandon3522
      @acebrandon3522 5 месяцев назад

      Say ?!? did anyone smell biscuits burning somewhere around Mrs. Allen???

  • @Bluesnow2964
    @Bluesnow2964 2 года назад +16

    If this show ain’t already on Hulu, it needs to be

  • @artriaorr2874
    @artriaorr2874 5 лет назад +101

    I wish I had you as a judge in the state of Georgia! My ex doubles my income and only makes 2 payments per year to me just enough to avoid getting his license suspended. It sucks to sacrifice everything to to take care of child while the other parent is going on vacations, buying a new house and Harley Davidson but will not make monthly payments to support his child!! Exactly why we need to be selective about whom we reproduce with.

    • @t193u
      @t193u 5 лет назад +14

      In other words, if he can do better for the child than you can, if he’s willing, give him the child. You want what’s best right?

    • @artriaorr2874
      @artriaorr2874 5 лет назад +9

      Aswin Prakash he still wants a relationship with me and therefore if I’m not willing to be submissive to his request even though he has a wife and he made it up in his mind that he will not provide for her unless I deal with him. Eventually he’ll get what’s coming to him. I’ll continue to provide for her by any means.

    • @artriaorr2874
      @artriaorr2874 5 лет назад +12

      t193u what mother gives her child away just because the other parent makes more money? That doesn’t make sense! I was just stating that it’s his responsibility to help provide for his child. Although he makes more money than me he chooses to support his needs and wants over his child! That’s a selfish individual whom doesn’t want the responsibility of being a parent

    • @Talk2Me7
      @Talk2Me7 5 лет назад +6

      LoveA Starr don’t worry about it yes I know it’s hard but his raggedy behind will end up with a huge impact payment in the end. My grown children father still owe and pay 600 a month until 60K is paid

    • @renskedj
      @renskedj 5 лет назад +2

      He shouldnt pay a cent if he can't have his kid half the time. I gave my ex no cent til he gave the kids back half the time. I bought stuff for my new boyfriend when he legally stole my kids.

  • @keshiapoole5667
    @keshiapoole5667 2 года назад +59

    This case was very professional and in order compared to the other cases

  • @loveyoutube2177
    @loveyoutube2177 3 года назад +105

    Absolutely love this show.

  • @Terry0590
    @Terry0590 2 года назад +76

    i think the parents receiving child support should every month give a proof of how they use the child support cause so many of them abuse of the system to get money

    • @HansRudel44
      @HansRudel44 2 года назад +5

      And that will never because modern women are never held accountable for ANYTHING.

    • @thatonegirljenny9939
      @thatonegirljenny9939 2 года назад +5

      This!! my baby daddy’s mother received child support until he turned 18 and she would use it for drugs. to buy methamphetamine!! and his shoes were messed up and needed clothes badly as well as needed new shoes but she never got them for him.

    • @deeannadorough7378
      @deeannadorough7378 Год назад +2

      I’ve always thought that

    • @randi_godspeed2063
      @randi_godspeed2063 11 месяцев назад

      Are you insane? You are talking about multiple millions of people. They can’t hire folks for CPS, where is the $ going to come from for this useless exercise?

    • @susanrodriquez1024
      @susanrodriquez1024 10 месяцев назад +4

      No way, child support, does that in your mind include utility receipts, rental receipts, grocery receipts, gas receipts for transporting the children or mileage on the car. Ridiculous!

  • @mwhitehall889
    @mwhitehall889 2 года назад +10

    Very composed, professional, presentable, handsome man who seems to be concerned about his son's well-being.

  • @irmaadams7780
    @irmaadams7780 4 года назад +212

    Clearly this woman is bitter but he was giving her less than he should have. And once the math was explained to him saying he believes the 600 was sufficient is shameless. Neither his nor her emotions count. There's a set formula exactly bc of this.

    • @deajae3030
      @deajae3030 3 года назад +18

      Yeah I agree. Didn’t like that she won when the only reason she went to court was for revenge. But he should still have been paying her more than $600

    • @MikeS-7
      @MikeS-7 3 года назад +16

      The table is nothing more than a wealth transfer and have nothing to do with the child. The table needs to be abolished.

    • @randomfemaleopinion3167
      @randomfemaleopinion3167 3 года назад +7

      How is it fair 🤔 They don't go by the child's average expenses (which would make sense and he pays healthcare) it only goes by the yearly income of the non custodial parent. A millionaire and a minimum wage worker would have 2 VERY different child support amounts. AND it technically should be his share and HER share of paying for the child. Not just his responsibility. You are ridiculous.

    • @joshynoshy
      @joshynoshy 3 года назад +1

      @@randomfemaleopinion3167 There is a cap on the amount of child support. Millionaires wouldn’t pay 9% of their income.

    • @brytonmacpherson2050
      @brytonmacpherson2050 3 года назад +12

      So she’s does not have her own place. Does not have a job. He pays for insurance, has his own place, makes good enough money to pay over a grand a month in child support, why doesn’t he have custody? Why should his child support go up instead of placing the child with the parent that can provide? It should not have went up at all.

  • @Free-pw1xg
    @Free-pw1xg 11 месяцев назад +3

    Completely fair and legal financial calculation. Now he can move on in his new life!! Good luck!!

  • @andrewvelonis5940
    @andrewvelonis5940 3 года назад +21

    In NY you only get back support to the date that you petitioned the court to get support.

  • @sierrasierra6841
    @sierrasierra6841 5 лет назад +82

    I always check the comments after I’ve chosen who I think should win

  • @ericdykes1307
    @ericdykes1307 2 года назад +6

    In the state of Texas if you're going through a divorce child support is implemented within the divorce so you shouldn't have to pay child support until after the divorce is over, but if you're separated for the man please pay something so that he could be credited to you when you do go to divorce court and they see that you been paying money orders send it through the mail certified so that she has to sign for it

  • @carloshaddock8315
    @carloshaddock8315 2 года назад +28

    ALWAYS 👏🏽 BRING 👏🏽 RECEIPTS 👏🏽 TO 👏🏽 COURT 👏🏽

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 2 года назад

      Bring receipts, a copy of the complaint, a copy of the response, and a notepad and working pen to take notes.
      If you have one, bring a recorder and ask the judge if you can use that (check local laws, but it's a trick I learned from Attorney Steve Lehto.)

  • @thehangmansdaughter1120
    @thehangmansdaughter1120 2 года назад +37

    I don't think it's a jealousy thing. I think she's saying that since he's seeing someone else there's no no chance of reconciliation, so the time has come to get things set up.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 2 года назад +6

      Nah, definitely done with vindictiveness. She never even fought reasons why her son needs the money, just that she wants it.

    • @JoolzThePirate
      @JoolzThePirate Год назад +1

      Your obviously a woman, this woman is being vindictive

    • @maryjanedavis9033
      @maryjanedavis9033 10 месяцев назад

      Even that is ridiculous

  • @peterdanior4538
    @peterdanior4538 2 года назад +16

    He shouldn’t have had a certain amount that he had to pay until they went to court. Therefor no backpay should be rewarded

  • @fayupshur2121
    @fayupshur2121 10 месяцев назад +5

    Love this judge am addicted 😊

  • @I__Love_Lamp
    @I__Love_Lamp 2 года назад +11

    People if you find yourself in this situation please make sure when you pay this money to the other parent that you put in the memo that it is for Child Support otherwise the other parent or a judge can consider it a gift!

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад +2

      This man keeps good records but isn’t doing the right thing. He was under paying.

  • @staylor5687
    @staylor5687 Год назад +5

    You made a comment briefly that she had accepted the $600 a month as child support. I immediately gravitated to that being like an oral agreement of acceptability. Why would further backpay be required if she had agreed to $600 a month previously? Seems like that should nullify backpay, like going back on a verbal agreement. She's mad now over his new love and isn't agreeable anymore. Seems like revenge money she is seeking.

  • @stuperhero9960
    @stuperhero9960 3 года назад +168

    I choose to stay single. I'm happy being alone.

    • @perjrgensen8280
      @perjrgensen8280 3 года назад +13

      Yes .. :) I have been married for 19 years, it was okay .. I am 58 years old and live alone, I do not have any children, but I have my horse. American QuaterHorse, 16 years old, gelding .. He is always happy and we are the world's best friends .. :) I am a happy man ..
      Greetings from Denmark.

    • @hallescarter19
      @hallescarter19 3 года назад +5

      Say it louder for the people in the back hun!

    • @illuminatiCorgi
      @illuminatiCorgi 3 года назад +1

      Same 😐👍

    • @nothumanff5900
      @nothumanff5900 3 года назад +1

      Me too crappie divorce eww

    • @daveclemens3134
      @daveclemens3134 3 года назад +1

      Amen

  • @TerriBeyondBlessed
    @TerriBeyondBlessed 5 лет назад +34

    It's Cheaper to Keep Her🤣🤣🤑🤑🤣🤣
    Bitter Becky got him where it hurt most, his wallet👛

    • @t193u
      @t193u 5 лет назад +7

      Ter Ri -cheaper not to marry or bear children in the first place😁

    •  4 года назад

      Rico Hall who cares because in the end of that younger woman gets pregnant he’s going to have to pay them Both 😂 men have to really think before they get screwed twice

  • @ambermorgan351
    @ambermorgan351 3 года назад +20

    You should do a court case example where the child lives with one parents but not the other, however the parent that the child lives with does not allow the child to stay with the other parent. But the parent that the child stays with requests child support. I hope that makes sense!

    • @ritadraille5488
      @ritadraille5488 2 года назад +1

      She has had cases like that and settle the child support but refer them to custody court

  • @undergrounddojokeyboardcag701
    @undergrounddojokeyboardcag701 3 года назад +2

    5:02
    Yo, this cat thought she said 9800/month... you could tell in his voice his head was about to literally explode.

  • @mrsgadisrael6850
    @mrsgadisrael6850 3 года назад +9

    How come the medical wasn’t credited towards the back pay but was calculated towards the total amount?

  • @Shwetank_Raj
    @Shwetank_Raj 2 года назад +3

    This guy's personality, voice and the fact that he had notes with him gave me the vibes of character Bill Tench from Mindhunters played by Holt McCallany

  • @joannheflin3792
    @joannheflin3792 5 лет назад +43

    Bitter ex wife!

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад +3

      She is bitter, yes, but he is also under paying. There is a formula for a reason. These type of men play dumb that their children should live as comfortable as them. They would be ok with them living the life spending money on either women or other luxuries while their children live on bare minimum. Just bc he brought receipts doesn’t mean he was not below his obligations.

  • @isaiahgrimsley6436
    @isaiahgrimsley6436 Год назад +2

    So she got more money because she was jealous? Not because she needed help? Sheesh I’m staying far away as possible from Texas..

  • @angelafrancis6183
    @angelafrancis6183 11 месяцев назад +1

    I didn't hear the credit given for the $109 for the child's health insurance. Did she give it to him?

  • @djleno214
    @djleno214 5 лет назад +15

    Vonda B., love the show!

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  5 лет назад +2

      Thank you!!

    • @Kipkemoi
      @Kipkemoi 3 года назад

      @@JudgeVondaB Please do edits for Tiktok.

  • @CorpsePrincezz
    @CorpsePrincezz Год назад

    For those not aware when the Non custodial parent doesn’t pay their child support they have a past due balance which has interest so every month that past due balance still exists it keeps going up due to the interest and whenever another payment is missed. So whenever the NP pays the passed due balance known as arrears the money goes to the balance owed first before the interest like with a credit card balance or a car note. If the past due balance is $130 and the interest is $50 and you pay $150 the $130 of the $150 goes to the arrears and then the $20 left over goes to the interest. Also if you are making payments directly to the CP be sure to get a form that you fill out to keep track of all the payments you made that the CP has to sign off on as proof that they received the money. Kinda like a time sheet. But most child support agencies enforce a income with holding order

  • @MikeS-7
    @MikeS-7 3 года назад +8

    Really? This was revenge support, not anything about the child. Along with 50/50 custody in every state, the table the judge refers to (similar in every state) which is base (I'm good with) child support PLUS the sliding scale (wealth transfer) based on income needs to be dealt with in each state's general assembly. The tables are EXTREMELY abusive and should be done away with completely. It should be base child support only and then 50/50 documented expenses after that with an allowance for income disparity.

  • @antdog8888
    @antdog8888 3 года назад +20

    Question. Say that you was giving her $1,500 bucks a month. Would he have to keep giving her that much? Would he get any of that money back?

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 года назад +9

      Great question. He would not have to keep giving the amount and no he would not receive any money back.

    • @stans4me
      @stans4me 3 года назад +2

      @@JudgeVondaB Would his payments be reduced until the overpayment was corrected?

    • @xxsniperkittykatxx
      @xxsniperkittykatxx 3 года назад +6

      @@stans4me no it's considered a gift because that's his child

  • @twofarg0ne763
    @twofarg0ne763 11 месяцев назад +1

    Had it been me I'd have told the judge I'd pay the back child support amount in full in one payment and kept the lower monthly payment. This what happens in a marriage when women start ignoring their husbands... my ex stop all intimacy in the bedroom after we'd been married for 6 years. I finally said "see ya" and moved out. She filed for divorce. Unfortunately for her, we had a good prenup and she left with half of our joint bank account; nothing more. Btw I'm still married (28 years later) to the women I met after her.

  • @miltonhemphill7046
    @miltonhemphill7046 2 года назад +3

    This guy was smart giving his wife money orders because if he would of given her cash she would of lied about him giving her money for the month. She's mad because he moved on to a younger girl and he's still handsome, welcome to our club.

  • @sammi8211
    @sammi8211 5 лет назад +9

    So I clicked straight away ! Where are you Miss B

  • @KeithTMerchant
    @KeithTMerchant 3 года назад +7

    Smh she know she wrong.

  • @carrieorsel1340
    @carrieorsel1340 2 года назад +2

    My ex had a min wage job when we separated. He was order to pay 100 per month, the lowest possible. He did so ONLY because he was legally obligated to. He WANTED to pay 20 (yes TWENTY) dollars per month.

  • @Diz29350
    @Diz29350 3 года назад +16

    Why do they never go over the women's income ...is this all full custody to women

    • @jamescampbell390
      @jamescampbell390 3 года назад +1

      You gotta watch the show it’s not always the lady who gets cash it’s about 50/50 mom dad who pays there are now episodes of gay couples who are getting child support to she is a very fair judge watch a few more episodes you’ll see

    • @beckyl9454
      @beckyl9454 3 года назад +1

      @@jamescampbell390 the point is, custodial parent's income isn't included in the calculation at all.

    • @TheRadiantPeachBudgets
      @TheRadiantPeachBudgets 2 года назад

      The courts do take both incomes into consideration 🙄 Do you really think that someone making 30k a year would pay more than someone making 60k?

  • @adventuking004daood3
    @adventuking004daood3 2 месяца назад

    What about backpay credit for the insurance? Shouldn't that have also been calculated in what his remainder for backpay?

  • @nashhariparsad3347
    @nashhariparsad3347 2 года назад +1

    lol guy definitely upgraded 🤣 😂 😆

  • @AndyFaeBaker0890
    @AndyFaeBaker0890 3 года назад +3

    Oooo Judge Vonda where were you when my fiance needed help. Lawd he had to pay 10,000 to get a judge for his modification and still had to pay 1000 a month. We in MO. They pitiful. I wish I could Private message you or email you for additional questions and info on how things went down. Love your videos!!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @tamiweir8041
    @tamiweir8041 2 года назад +12

    My husband took me to court to get his support lowered. We we divorced we agreed on $400 a month. He wanted it lowered to $200 each month. The Judge some how found out he was starting a new job soon and wanted it lowered before he started working. His starting pay at his new job was $6.000 a month lol. Well his support got increased to $700 a month. Jokes on him.

  • @kylerisawesome1234
    @kylerisawesome1234 Год назад +2

    Why do you never look at the money the other person is making

  • @meh4972
    @meh4972 3 года назад +27

    I like how you talk about their cases basically to their face afterwords.🤣🤣🤣

    • @desigarland8201
      @desigarland8201 3 года назад +1

      They are actors and these are scripts she isn't a real judge it tells you that at the end

    • @yacabe
      @yacabe Год назад

      @@desigarland8201 Are they reenacting real cases?

  • @beckyl9454
    @beckyl9454 3 года назад +11

    I find it interesting that some court shows give people credit for "child support" paid before there's an order, and other's don't. Please explain the discrepancy. The other thing I find interesting is another show, you made a father pay way more than his child support obligation because that was what he thought he should have been paying, and you told this guy he could have paid more and his backpay would have been less. Based on your other ruling, he could have also been stuck with paying more than his legal obligation. How are non-custodial parents supposed to balance the two scenarios? One guy gets stuck with paying way more than he should, and one guy gets stuck with automatic backpay which incurs interest. Both are ridiculous! How can the state even allow interest to be incurred on child support? I'm hoping Texas doesn't have a law like Florida and Michigan where back child support can get your license suspended.

    • @biancairma2279
      @biancairma2279 3 года назад +4

      Well she said in one episode that backpay can be ordered only when requested but under some circumstances she can order it if necessary but I always wonder the same thing cause it doesn’t seem to be following precedent

    • @rebelyell50
      @rebelyell50 3 года назад +1

      My oldest son father never paid anything I waited five yrs to get him a chance to spend time and split necessities for my child he never did so I went put him on child support and asked for back pay my son is now almost 10 yrs old he left state and I have never received any support and he has never to my knowledge been arrested either 🤷‍♀️ I never understood how some states will give some men yrs in jail over maybe a few months behind on support yet my son father has 10 yrs behind and hasn't given any support nor jail time

    • @I__Love_Lamp
      @I__Love_Lamp 2 года назад +1

      Texas does have a law like this and are pretty harsh on people who owe backpay! After a certain amount you could also lose your right to travel by revoking your passport and have you charged once you go 6 months without a payment and or amount reaches $5000.00 a warrant will most likely be served! This is a business that states took on where they make a profit off of collecting backpay for support! According to our constitution non payment of child support is not supposed to be an arrestable offense but instead a Civil Matter! The states made it a jailable offense! Think about that for a minute!

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      @@rebelyell50 You should follow up on that with the right offices. Some men find ways. You should too. This is very unfair to you. These things take time but you should take the time and be patient but not give up!

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      @@I__Love_Lamp Other states should adopt this.

  • @123pb
    @123pb 6 месяцев назад

    I used to use a bank transfer and I clearly labeled the transfer child support payment and I put the account number of the docket

  • @johndounts
    @johndounts 2 года назад +5

    I don’t think he should do the back pay, she was okay with the 600 a month until he found a new women. He should just be responsible for the 1,098

  • @preciousplus2849
    @preciousplus2849 5 лет назад +16

    I wish I could email you judge for questions

  • @andrewgrudzinskas5778
    @andrewgrudzinskas5778 5 лет назад +84

    Once again the man gets the screwed

    • @David-zp4cw
      @David-zp4cw 3 года назад +9

      Not really, the guy was paying way too little in child support for his salary other than that he won since the woman didn’t get much else.

    • @BrewTownGamer
      @BrewTownGamer 3 года назад +8

      @@David-zp4cw your kidding right? How is he winning? He now has to pay more then twice as much as he was before and all because she's a jealous hateful bitch

    • @sdmcdaniel2255
      @sdmcdaniel2255 3 года назад +8

      @@BrewTownGamer no, he's paying more because, based on his income, he wasn't paying enough. And today? $600 does not do a lot toward raising a child.

    • @stelladevers5334
      @stelladevers5334 3 года назад +5

      @@BrewTownGamer Because that’s what he owes in accordance with the law doesn’t matter how bitched or pissed she is

    • @melissavance3200
      @melissavance3200 3 года назад +5

      Lol he really was not screwed. Men always think they can walk and decide how much money they want to pay. He is just lucky he isnt in NJ. Would have been way worse for him.

  • @ganeshkumarchiramshetti5587
    @ganeshkumarchiramshetti5587 3 года назад +4

    First rule for *HUMANITY*- wear a protection and discard by yourself

  • @LSBPete
    @LSBPete Год назад

    there is absolutely no reason he should have been put on child support. he clearly has been providing for the child!!! this is everything thats wrong with this system.. only way he should have been put on child support is if he didn't give her anything at all . this is absolutely horrible. this aint have nothing to do with the child. this case should have been thrown out the second you read the money orders , regardless of how much he makes he was giving her money every month and had proof..he did everything right and was till punished just because she was mad

  • @seyouma722
    @seyouma722 10 месяцев назад +1

    Why doesn’t the judge take into consideration the wife’s income?

    • @animutton
      @animutton 9 месяцев назад +1

      Because child support isn’t means tested. It’s calculated based on what each parents income should be contributing

  • @avinashshaheed9597
    @avinashshaheed9597 2 года назад

    wait what? America takes interest on child support?
    How does that work do you send the money to the tax office and they just send the monthly amount to the receiver or how does it work over in america?

  • @xlady7772
    @xlady7772 5 лет назад +3

    There has to be a balance for the kids but I must say 109 for insurance is a deal and I was a nurse .. Wow pray for the child adults can move on easier

  • @Mr.Rogers91
    @Mr.Rogers91 2 года назад

    What I don't get is of they agreed to 600 a month how is he responsible for back pay? I know the laws says but it seems dumb.

  • @cornezane
    @cornezane 11 месяцев назад

    In Texas that $600 would’ve been considered a gift. Meaning he would’ve had to pay that $1098 back pay for that 5 months.

  • @clarescott4130
    @clarescott4130 5 месяцев назад

    He has to pay the difference between what he was paying and the child support amount. Im curious though, had he been over paying, does he get that back? Or is it just considered a gift? Why does it only work one way

  • @leonpeart9447
    @leonpeart9447 3 года назад +12

    Can't the agreement amount stand and the new calculated child support follow?

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад +1

      Why would you push for that? He was under paying. There’s a formula for a reason. The parent that does all the work should be awarded some relief to cover expenses at least. Men act greedy trying to give the bare minimum. The children should live as comfortable as the parent. That’s why that formula is designed.

    • @cruisinwithcorey
      @cruisinwithcorey 2 года назад

      @@irmaadams7780 Greed exists on both sides, do not solely blame men.. particularly the good fathers who are the ones who get screwed most. If dad has child 40-49% of the time, he is still expected to do the same things as mom and provide a quality lifestyle. But he has only 70% of his income to do so, while mom may only have a 10% bigger burden but gets 100% of her income plus another 30% from dad. How is it fair when dad has half a glass of water and mom has a full one .. of course dad is left thirsty. So the courts tell him to go work more, which cuts into parenting time and hurts his and child’s quality of life
      Deadbeat/absent parents aside, child support is ridiculous overkill towards the actual cost of raising a kid. I have two kids with my wife and we spend less on them then I pay in CS for one to my ex. It’s just hidden alimony and a way for the state government to get more funding through title IV

  • @susandooley9630
    @susandooley9630 9 месяцев назад

    My son’s “sperm donor” didn’t have to pay all the back pay because it would’ve been 12 years worth!! They tried going after him when he was about a yr or so old, but because we weren’t married & he had lied to me saying he wasn’t, I was told we had to have a “WITNESS”!! He was a TriMet driver & whenever any of the other drivers would say something, he would always say, you look at her & then look at me, you think I’d touch anything that looked like that???

  • @raquelfriday8241
    @raquelfriday8241 4 года назад +3

    in my state theres no credit if you paid for school clothes and are the payer. I couldnt get credit maybe just my case

  • @md9710
    @md9710 2 года назад

    In florida anything that is given without a support order is considered a gift. Whether is a check or money order doesn’t matter.

  • @r.massattack4052
    @r.massattack4052 Год назад

    Why would the ex have to pay back child support if it was not court appointed? Seems to me that it was an agreed upon amount before they received an official judgment.

  • @millicenthamilton-kakowski8275
    @millicenthamilton-kakowski8275 10 месяцев назад +1

    Children are always the chess piece! smh 🤔

  • @rexlonyo4569
    @rexlonyo4569 3 года назад +2

    Did I miss something, like why was her income not mentioned and calculated? I think based on my experience that 1000 dollars a month seems high. I think it should fall somewhere between 700 to 800 a month.

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад +4

      The judge follows the law. Doesn't matter if yo think $1,000 is a little high and if you think 700 to 800 is best. There's a formula. The child should live as comfortable as the parent that makes the most money does. Be happy for the child or suck it up.

    • @annamarielewis7078
      @annamarielewis7078 Год назад +1

      She has full custody.

  • @albaptist395
    @albaptist395 2 года назад

    Why is the state charging interest?

  • @tsuyuasui446
    @tsuyuasui446 2 года назад +1

    Gotta be one of my Fav shows rn

  • @jennifersturge
    @jennifersturge Год назад +2

    He is very handsome. She was dumb to ignore him and her son.

    • @ybhomes6003
      @ybhomes6003 9 месяцев назад +1

      Well, there's millions of women in the world, he lacks integrity choosing her friend/student. Looks doesn't excuse that.

    • @justinajordan7046
      @justinajordan7046 6 месяцев назад

      These are just actors reinacting the story. The real guy may not have been good looking. Still, regardless the real women should never neglect her family especially her child! x

  • @tt-wy1xr
    @tt-wy1xr 5 лет назад +6

    Here is a little help for people who is paying child support based on Texas laws. Move to a different state and change jurisdiction. Most states allow for travel cost to exercise custody to be deducted from child support payments. If you move far enough away all of the child support will go toward travel cost and she will not get a thing. There are ways to deal with a spiteful exe. Work under the table. Seek custody all the time and keep her in court defending custody. After she get to about 40000 to 100000 in legal fees she will have a more open mind about things. My kid mother went in debt close to 60000 dollars before she gave up. Them attorneys took all her money while I represented myself. Needless to say, I got custody of our daughter and now she has to pay me child support in addition to the debt she racked up to defend custody. Hate bring out the worst in people.

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  5 лет назад +4

      Just don’t move to California. Their child support rates are much higher.😩

    • @gamersedge4867
      @gamersedge4867 3 года назад

      You go! That's a huge win!

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      You’re a piece of nothing as a father and a human being. There is a formula based on income for a reason. This tells us your children have a deadbeat father. Are you spending time with your children? The greedy one here seems to be you. You’re the reason man child laws exist in child support.

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      Your little plan didn't show much regard for the child. Your mother must have been lazy that she didn't raise you right. The formula is set for a reason, basically meant for ppl like you.

    • @wnsjimbo2863
      @wnsjimbo2863 2 года назад

      so you are a parasite , cool

  • @I__Love_Lamp
    @I__Love_Lamp 2 года назад +1

    My question is what happens when support obligation ends and there is still a credit left? Does the Child Support Distribution cut a check to me or do I have to sue my ex for it? I'm hoping the state cuts me a check because they are the ones who garnished my funds! Does anyone have an answer to this question? Thanks in advance for anyone that replies!

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      Well, I imagine it will be handled the same way when the child support ibligation ends but there is still some money owed from back child support. What’s done is a very minimal extremely comfortable payment plan is given.

  • @smartcookie493
    @smartcookie493 3 года назад +1

    In NJ. My ex paid nothing nothing 2 years. I filed for support after getting nothing for 2 years for 2 kids. He makes 70000.00 a year. Ordered no back pay. Only form when I filed and he wound up paying 150.00 a week for 2 kids and covered insurance which was completely free from his employer. I was screwed. I had to work 2 jobs to cover all that our kids needed. And he saw then when he felt like it.

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      The back pay should be calculated on their ability to pay, not this 150. So wrong! Are you receiving child support now?

    • @pamelacallis9452
      @pamelacallis9452 2 года назад

      Did you ask for backpay?

  • @Ultraman2k51
    @Ultraman2k51 3 года назад +3

    Child support is ridiculously high in that state

  • @camillarodriguez341
    @camillarodriguez341 3 года назад +6

    I mean its only right if he left and left the child there for her to take care of...if they had a shared custody agreement it would be different

    • @pumpkineater5118
      @pumpkineater5118 3 года назад +1

      How is that fair? Wtf. He’s paying over 1000. That’s already a good amount. How much more do you want. My god. That’s anything but fair

    • @niktheplanet7662
      @niktheplanet7662 3 года назад +1

      @@pumpkineater5118 a lot of y’all are selfish omg. how much should your child get out of your check? that’s just sad

    • @radiantgoldensun6438
      @radiantgoldensun6438 3 года назад +3

      Why don’t fathers just take custody or do 50/50. Then selfish delusional men would see that children COST

    • @grimmgtow4744
      @grimmgtow4744 3 года назад

      @@radiantgoldensun6438 I am fighting to get 50/50 with my ex, and paying through the nose on support bc she refuses to get a job that will earn her what she could be making so that she can continue to screw me on support. And that's why she doesn't want me to get 50%, because then her support check would go down.

    • @chiefgully9353
      @chiefgully9353 3 года назад

      @@radiantgoldensun6438 most times if a custody battle is entered the man has to prove the mother completely un fit, as in a danger to the child. If all things are equal (neither on drugs in a violent life etc. Etc.) The defualt will go to the woman.
      As custody cases can drag out for a long time and become expensive, with little chance of winning, it is not usually in the interest of the man to fight for full custody.
      In partial custody, i.e. the 50 50 you spoke of the man also gets hit with childsuport.
      I'm not so much against the payment. But parental rights in america are far from an unbiased practice.
      Hope this helps.

  • @ruthpruitt1265
    @ruthpruitt1265 3 года назад +1

    Why didn't the dad get credit for health insurance for the past 5 months?

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      Bc the child received the services of the health insurance while he was alive. Duh!

  • @Myresha100
    @Myresha100 3 года назад

    Okay, is the state collecting interest?

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 года назад +1

      Yes ma’am.

    • @Myresha100
      @Myresha100 3 года назад

      @@JudgeVondaB thanks for responding!

  • @Ah1My-Spinach-Puffs1
    @Ah1My-Spinach-Puffs1 3 года назад +2

    It’s funny watching the other videos I keep thinking can these people get along. And now they are civil in court I just keep thinking someone throw something, yell, call each other names. Anything! I need drama 🎭

  • @standmccray1037
    @standmccray1037 2 года назад

    I didn't hear the judge calculate the woman income

  • @aleanyamcmahan7506
    @aleanyamcmahan7506 3 года назад

    Omg enough about the instructor.. 😂

  • @xobsidianonyxx5898
    @xobsidianonyxx5898 3 года назад +1

    Yassss doing your homework!!!!!!

  • @standinguphigh1
    @standinguphigh1 5 месяцев назад

    The system is so wrong. They agreed on that amount the 600 a month. Didn’t say anything for 5 months and now cause he is seeing someone else she wants more money like come on now. 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @dazzahoward7104
    @dazzahoward7104 3 года назад

    Why wasn't the health insurance factored in?

  • @rosekollie3484
    @rosekollie3484 5 лет назад +4

    I love this judge

  • @realcowboy7524
    @realcowboy7524 10 месяцев назад

    This episode happened 4 years ago on this show so what was the end result? Was this older gentleman the father or not?

  • @josenunezgarcia762
    @josenunezgarcia762 3 года назад +4

    Hey but respects for him since he didn’t had to go to court to pay 600 a month when some have to be obligated to pay 400

  • @janettefluent9290
    @janettefluent9290 Год назад +1

    The personal relationships of the other person shouldn’t matter one bit and shouldn’t be discussed…. The amount of money you make, the amount of money you’re paying and have paid and the amount of time you’re spending with the child should be the only thing that matters…. All this extra chatter should be stopped because it’s irrelevant to the care and expenses to care for the child.

  • @sdsteel2
    @sdsteel2 3 года назад +1

    Why do they use gross and not net.

  • @anthonyburke5656
    @anthonyburke5656 Месяц назад

    None of the “personal” detail has anything to do with Child Support, it boils down to their respective income BUT query, is she living in the matrimonial home? If so, half the economic rent should be credited to the Father.

  • @goatbut29
    @goatbut29 2 года назад

    What a cold and frigid woman. Bitter. Broken.

  • @coonhound29406
    @coonhound29406 Год назад

    The state gotta get their cut of child support. Sounds about right.

  • @SonnyClair
    @SonnyClair Год назад

    I love looking at the audiences faces😂😂😂

  • @rigger314
    @rigger314 5 месяцев назад

    This is a good bloody reason as to not have kids, fullstop. everything is fine until you break up then the nightmare begins. As a result and even though I have done nothing wrong. I haven't seen my kids since 5pm January 10th, 1999. I tried many times in the court but nothing ever changed except the fact that you had to pay child support. There has to be a rule of no access no child support. My opinion only.

  • @Quintonbang
    @Quintonbang 5 лет назад +1

    The state laws sucks and don't give a man a chance!! It's not right mine was 37,777.00 for 2 yrs and I was working on the road and missed the court and that's what they give me. What a bunch of bull. Judge was never fair to me@!!! Same thing happen to me bitter azz woman, but the courts the see that and that judge saw and should've dismissed the case period. Her reason for being there had nothing to do with the child!!!

  • @bettyhardy2817
    @bettyhardy2817 Год назад +1

    She just upset that he left and seeing someone else
    Get on with your life
    For the gentleman make sure you pay the support with a check or money order
    No cash

  • @MrTrueshoe
    @MrTrueshoe 3 года назад

    Should have been more question on who paid for the house / house bills ext... but interesting verdict ...

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 2 года назад

      They factor that in the formula. But no amount of money covers the daily rearing of a child. Half the men don't want to do that and want to live carefree like they have no children and penny pinch too. Disgusting.