0:00 Intro 0:51 An essence is different from a body type 1:54 Example: Amal Clooney 4:25 What things communicate essence? 10:04 What is the Romantic essence? 17:07 Romantic essence Icons: Marilyn Monroe 20:15 Romantic essence Icons: Beyoncé 21:33 Romantic essence celebrity examples 22:22 True essence vs Body Type essence 24:22 Sensuality ≠ Femininity 25:57 Outro
"this is a woman who is meant to shine" yep other peoples projections have had me bury this part of myself. But you cant hide who you truly are. Thanks for the vid. I learnt alot. 😊🎉❤
I think I have this essence based on how others treat me. What’s interesting and rarely mentioned is the disgust it can cause. Sometimes when you draw people in (especially if you don’t realise, which I didn’t for most of my life) once they’re close you can accidentally do/show something they don’t like - and then they recoil and the fact that they were so drawn to you suddenly disgusts them. It happens with other broken expectations too, for example people often assume I’m very agreeable, but actually I’m extremely stubborn when I choose to be. When people run into that unexpectedly it’s upsetting and it makes certain kinds of people super angry. I notice most other people don’t get that reaction for the same behaviour because it’s not as unexpected. Even the ability to draw people in on its own can disturb someone! Marilyn, as popular as she was, received so much controversy and criticism. She had everyone’s attention but a lot of it wasn’t actually good. Some people were disgusted and offended by her sensuality. My experience is that in a conservative community it makes you the scapegoat. I was blamed for “causing men to sin” (as if I control them) even though I didn’t do anything. I was completely unaware of their reactions to me and would’ve avoided them entirely if I’d known! And once I was told nothing I tried was ever enough to fix things, no matter how much I covered up, stayed quiet etc. etc. it was never enough... I’m so happy to be out of that situation!
When a body type has soft added to it.. it indicates that Romantic traits are present so it does make sense to me that Jennifer Lopez would have a Romantic Essence with a relaxed vibe to it. I am a flamboyant natural 5'8.5" and I have traits of dramatic, romantic and natural but my dominant essence is natural. Kitchener states that most people have three but there is always a dominant one. I think kibbe gives you a good idea of what the dominant one(s) are
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@18:38 "Notice the middle one where she is caressing..." This clip, though lovely, is AI generated, that bottle was released in 1999. There is plenty of footage of her delicate movement, though. Great video, very informative. How many essences can a person embody?
Well I feel silly....that makes complete sense, I just didn't really pause to think about it. But the hope is, the point came across. Thank you for the note. I don't believe there is a set answer to how many essences someone can have. I do believe that everyone can have multiple essences (and even that that is most often the case). This aligns more with the Kitchener system and he types people by percentages. So, in theory, you could have all 7 essences, just to varying degrees. Typically though, when I engage with someone I generally pick up on their dominant essences or 2 most dominant essences. Most people lead with a particular essence or essence blend and that's what I focus on. What do you think?
0:00 Intro
0:51 An essence is different from a body type
1:54 Example: Amal Clooney
4:25 What things communicate essence?
10:04 What is the Romantic essence?
17:07 Romantic essence Icons: Marilyn Monroe
20:15 Romantic essence Icons: Beyoncé
21:33 Romantic essence celebrity examples
22:22 True essence vs Body Type essence
24:22 Sensuality ≠ Femininity
25:57 Outro
"this is a woman who is meant to shine" yep other peoples projections have had me bury this part of myself. But you cant hide who you truly are. Thanks for the vid. I learnt alot. 😊🎉❤
I think I have this essence based on how others treat me. What’s interesting and rarely mentioned is the disgust it can cause. Sometimes when you draw people in (especially if you don’t realise, which I didn’t for most of my life) once they’re close you can accidentally do/show something they don’t like - and then they recoil and the fact that they were so drawn to you suddenly disgusts them. It happens with other broken expectations too, for example people often assume I’m very agreeable, but actually I’m extremely stubborn when I choose to be. When people run into that unexpectedly it’s upsetting and it makes certain kinds of people super angry. I notice most other people don’t get that reaction for the same behaviour because it’s not as unexpected.
Even the ability to draw people in on its own can disturb someone! Marilyn, as popular as she was, received so much controversy and criticism. She had everyone’s attention but a lot of it wasn’t actually good. Some people were disgusted and offended by her sensuality. My experience is that in a conservative community it makes you the scapegoat. I was blamed for “causing men to sin” (as if I control them) even though I didn’t do anything. I was completely unaware of their reactions to me and would’ve avoided them entirely if I’d known! And once I was told nothing I tried was ever enough to fix things, no matter how much I covered up, stayed quiet etc. etc. it was never enough... I’m so happy to be out of that situation!
That part of being perceived as agreeable I can relate! Is off when people treat me like a kid.
When a body type has soft added to it.. it indicates that Romantic traits are present so it does make sense to me that Jennifer Lopez would have a Romantic Essence with a relaxed vibe to it.
I am a flamboyant natural 5'8.5" and I have traits of dramatic, romantic and natural but my dominant essence is natural.
Kitchener states that most people have three but there is always a dominant one.
I think kibbe gives you a good idea of what the dominant one(s) are
This is more detailed, meaning showing the contrasts between the right makeup looks and hair especially. Thank you. Looking forward to more content.
Looking forward to seeing a romantic kibbe body style video too!
💛💛💛Thank you for your work!! Your contribution to the style systems space is of highest quality and understanding. This series is fabulous!! So many thanks, grateful to have discovered you today💛💛💛
@18:38 "Notice the middle one where she is caressing..." This clip, though lovely, is AI generated, that bottle was released in 1999. There is plenty of footage of her delicate movement, though. Great video, very informative. How many essences can a person embody?
Well I feel silly....that makes complete sense, I just didn't really pause to think about it. But the hope is, the point came across. Thank you for the note.
I don't believe there is a set answer to how many essences someone can have. I do believe that everyone can have multiple essences (and even that that is most often the case). This aligns more with the Kitchener system and he types people by percentages. So, in theory, you could have all 7 essences, just to varying degrees. Typically though, when I engage with someone I generally pick up on their dominant essences or 2 most dominant essences. Most people lead with a particular essence or essence blend and that's what I focus on.
What do you think?
I've always thought Beyonce carried a strong dramatic "energy" although I could see how her performance persona leans more towards the romantic side
Did you say marilyn is a soft dramatic kibbe body type? Interesting as I've always thought of Marilyn as a romantic body type
I think Beyonce also has an ethereal essence in addition to the romantic essence.
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I have romantic essence 🎉🎉
I wish youtubers can just stick to verfied celebrities only do your videos can be 100%, Amal cooloney looks text book 100% DC not pure D